A Man's BIGGEST Fear

Men are in their masculine energy the majority of the time because of a combination of nature and nurture.
The fact is that many have a tendency to keep their emotions inside and deal with problems on their own (as opposed to most women).
If you've read the ebook Major Mistakes That 99% of Women Make With Men then you know that one of the biggest fears that men have is being blamed, criticized, and judged.
So when a man shows you a glimpse of his inner world, shares something raw and emotional - know how difficult it probably is for him.
If you're able to respond calmly, without judgment, without making him feel BAD in some way then you'll have him "wrapped around your finger" and he will feel a thousand times more connected to you 🫠
Have you seen a difference in how men respond to you when YOU react a certain way? 👇
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It's not worth the risk. Women say they want something, but they don't really understand what they are asking for. What they really want is for you to handle their emotions better. It has to be something they benefit off of, otherwise, they don't really want it.
So if it's something only you are really benefiting from, they rather you didn't spend the time, or money on it. If it's for them, that's fine, not for them, not fine.
Don't trust your life, to her words, it's not worth the risk.
Men usually take their problems to their friends, or male family members, because they'll understand, and can give advice.
Women live in fantasyland, and don't like seeing reality. So if you get too real with them, they want to be anywhere else but there. Sure, there are exceptions, but the % is pretty low, and you have zero idea if she is one of them or not, and she can really believe she is one of them, till you open that door, and she finds out herself, that she shouldn't have opened that door, because now there is no closing it ever again. smh
You can't get a honest answer out of them for what they want to eat, and you're going to trust them on this???
Women today, feel they can easily replace the man they are with, so most never really invest deeply into the man they are with. So when she becomes a bit unhappy with you, she'll just jump to the next guy, and many will try to destroy you in the process.
If you really love someone like you should, it's very hard to ever hurt them, but so many women have no trouble at all doing the most evilest things to men. It's like, you know to much, you aren't allow to live with that knowledge.....
Now, if the man realizes, that you never really loved him, that you played him like a sucker, that's when love fades, and options open.
Many guys aren't allowing themselves to be in legal situations, where women have all the leverage. Men today, can too easily lose everything they worked for, just because she isn't happy with you, and replace you in a flash, while walking off with as much as she can grab. So why risk opening that door, for a small possibility that she'll really be supportive, and understanding, with no real benefit for doing it. Why even marry for that matter. Marriage really isn't marriage, is just short to long term relationships, that usually end badly for the man. It just makes no sense today.
Is there really any advantage for men to marry today. Nothing really requires it. Way too many negatives, with almost no positives. There are so many married men being "Friendzoned" in their own marriages. At that point, the relationship is done, but you're stuck in losing contract, while she's still getting everything she wants. Then you have to deal with the question, is it cheaper to keep her.
The fact that this is a risk for men at all, should really open your eyes to how unfair women treat men, while attacking, and belittling them for not opening up.
It's all about the woman's wants, and the man's wants, be shamed, or dismissed. If it doesn't benefit her, she's not really interested.
Men are simple, and usually doesn't take much to make them content with life. While women are never content with anything, and will keep picking at it, till it all blows apart, then blame him, and take no responsibility.
Sure, some guys are real pieces of work, but I would say that's more the exception, and not the rule. While it's the other way around when it comes to women. The chance of finding a woman that will really stick with you for life, is practically zero today. Why value something that you feel you can so easily replace. smh