How To Bring A Man Closer Using Your Feminine Energy | Helena Hart, Dating & Relationship Expert
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.พ. 2018
- Learn how to bring a man closer with your feminine energy in this video with Helena Hart, a dating and relationship coach for women.
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When I had my first boyfriend at the age of 14 I was quiet and receptive and he would chase me like crazy. The key is to not respond so quickly. Be mysterious don’t tell him everything. And have your own thing going on.
Exactly I naturally just leaned back he chased and chased
I agree, and it feels sooo much better on a deep level. I ♥ leaning back.
I tried this the other day. I was sitting at a bar with a guy & feeling as though I had to talk about myself to impress him. Then I remembered this technique. I stopped talking, took a couple of breaths and realized I was tense in my shoulders. As I let that go, one of the spaghetti straps of my dress slipped down my shoulder. I let it go. He stopped talking about his work, actually leaned toward me & told me that he thought I was beautiful, that he loved spending time with me and asked me to go with him on a long weekend trip.
Amazing!! Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💕
Did you go on the trip?
I'm gonna be honest, this made no sense...
ENZOxDV9 😂😂😂
ENZOxDV1 🤣🤣💀
Vulnerability doesn't mean weakness, or being less strong...when you're vulnerable, he'll be drawn towards you, and reveal more of himself, without him even knowing that he's giving you, what you want from him.
I agree, Renola! 💕
Leilababy89 - This video is a good place to start: th-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/w-d-xo.html
Very true. Women's POWER is in her "weakness".
A fukin men
Wow
Are u single?......
& I've been spanked b4 & deserve it😘😁
Hehe
Find your feelings
Find a body sensation
Focus taken off the man and on YOU
Yes, you got it! 💖
I've always struggled with this. Expressing my feminine energy. Wish I found it earlier. There are times when I've wanted to say "I have feelings for you" But I've ended up saying "Get the hell out of my life". I would love to try it. This is beautiful
Thank you! I’d love to hear how this goes for you. 💗
I cried watching this! As women, our bodies are such an amazing garden and life source. The more I watch and study about femininity, the more tender and vulnerable I feel🥰🥺🙈
That’s so beautiful, thanks for sharing! 💗
I always get in touch with my feminine side. It’s very important to me.
I'm a Tarot reader and I think you describe just perfectly what the High Priestess is all about as a symbol of the feminine principle. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us! 🤗
You’re welcome! ❤️
Exactly.
Some countries this is part of their culture. You shouldn't chase the man. He must do all that.
I am not beautiful at all but I never chase man even text or call they do I never call or text...very rare that i call or text first.
I actually did this recently. I told someone I work with how I was feeling weird about a client, he asked me if he was making me uncomfortable, I told him no and I think I should be fine. I noticed when I told him this he got closer. Really great tip!
Thanks for sharing your experience here!
Don't know How I ended up here...but im glad i did.
I need to learn how to connect with my feelings.
Hi Yesenia, this video might help: th-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/w-d-xo.html
You're lovely. A woman in touch with her emotions is so attractive.
Its about time there was a video like this. Men and women need to be more together now that the world is a mess
It’s SOOOO TRUEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! Once I stopped inviting and making plans, he started calling me and making plans wow
Yes, that’s exactly how it works! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💕
Is that not playing hard to get? 😐
It really works....i was feeling in a funk and my insecurities were kicking my butt for weeks cus of fella. . I tapped into my femininity and let go of all those feelings...i called upon the universe and sent those negativities away.. and just visualize bright light shinning cleaning me from the inside n out...next day he txt me..he misses me. 🤷♀️
I’m happy to hear that this worked for you! 💕
This so true! Feminine energy is about being receptive and a guy who wants a woman with feminine energy and is in tune with his masculine side, then this will definitely works!
But I made the experience if he is more in tune with his feminine side it won't really work cuz they are in the receptive mode and you have to step in your masculine side and have to chase...but its only my opinion
Thanks for your advice ❤️
You’re welcome, Nadine! 💕
Leo is doing a great job 💕
Hill D i thought i was the only one who noticed him lol he’s so cute
I did this unknowingly and things changed in the dynamic instantly. I was wondering what i did or if he just realized i was worth it finally. But i stopped the whole chasing thing. Driving out to him, giving him things or paying. I focused on my life, family and friends. And i actually told him i deserved to be with someone who valued me and wasn't going to waste my time. Then when he came to me I didn't try and chop off his balls, i just said i enjoyed the time we spent and he asked me on another date instead of his usual ghosting me and pulling away. He said he really enjoyed spending time with me. I stopped saying passive aggressive things to jab at him. Or trying to make the conversation go towards "what are we?" Type talk. It does work and it's funny that i didn't even know I was doing it. It's cool to see a video on it because now i can connect the dots and prevent going back to old habits. It made him fall into his masculine role instead of the scared boyish energy he used to have. Like mommy was going to scold him. I just acted from a place of pain in the past but this time i came with confidence and put out the vibe that i wasn't desperate or waiting, i can just go snag another guy lol.
Yes, that’s exactly how it works! Thanks for sharing your experience here, looking forward to hearing how things continue to go for you! 💕
@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you! Your videos have been extremely helpful! Instead of being anxious about just one guy and feeling like I'm waiting, I'm going to start circular dating and have more fun in life!
You're welcome, I'm so happy to hear that! Keep me posted on how everything goes!
That's awesome !!
That's awesome !!
I like this advice. Focusing on body sensations.
Thanks, I'm glad it was helpful!
Wow! What a wonderful description! I feel like I experienced just this recently. Being in my head first with this man I adore so much. I’ve found that as I have moved into my heart and my feelings and have connected with him, feeling my intuition so strongly and almost feeling like we have a telepathic connection. But maybe it’s just because our hearts are connecting ♥️🥰💕💗 thank you for this wonderful insight!
You’re welcome, Lisa! 💜 Thanks for sharing your experience here! These videos might also be helpful: th-cam.com/video/DiCRJhUVon8/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/B9uUdpNRkYA/w-d-xo.html.
I wish i knew this before 2 of my exes push away and dumped me. But now I don’t care about them at all , I’m dating now with my former crush and I’m happy. I did this tactic and finally it really works ❤️
I’m glad this worked for you Charry, thanks for sharing! 💕
Helena, I’m so grateful for you and this beautiful information. I know when I start getting in my head all with a man that all I need to do is watch one of your videos to get back on the right track. Thank you so much!
You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! These videos should also be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: th-cam.com/video/qA6BgG246bU/w-d-xo.html, th-cam.com/video/7r_ba4kReaQ/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/_VRQpgSdmbo/w-d-xo.html.
Its so important to be careful with body language as you do this.
Good info, that sure takes away the stress of having to act or speak in a certain way. I avoid dating for not being put on the spot so much as I find it too stressful. My best conversation is when I am at ease. I love that you pointed such a fairly simple thing out. I am usually slower to a lot of things and I think I have dodged some big bullets that way.💗
Thank you Jerrene, I’m glad you enjoyed this!
thank you so much for explaining feminine energy so well. i just could never understand this concept and it was getting so frustrating but you explained it so well. I want to cry because it is so simple and i never understood. Anyway thank you for this video, you are doing great.
You're very welcome, I'm so glad this was helpful for you!
Expressing your feelings without hold a man a accountable for them !!!! Can’t wait for that vid
These two would be a good place to start: th-cam.com/video/F1wIp-OgOsc/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/dZgnCb7xZ1g/w-d-xo.html.
Helena Hart Thank you!!! These are very helpful!!! In the first video you literally describe me, in the woman who can easy get the guy but the relationship don’t go past our first real argument because I shut down and don’t express my self. ...... how did you know this would help me 💕💕💕 you’re awesome 💕💕💕
You’re welcome, I’m so glad they helped! I’d love to hear how this goes for you. 💜
Hi Helana, since my last comment on another brilliant video which you posted, I have been practicing getting back in touch with my Feminine energy.
Being in my Feminine energy feels so much more natural and secure as compared with trying to guess his moves and being in my head with my masculine energy. When pursuing a man i would feel scared, anxious and usually very uncomfortable because i was doing what was UNNATURAL to my heart and soul. A very yucky feeling indeed especially when I should be enjoying the journey!
Now i see that doing what i, as a woman, is designed to do, i feel wonderful, in control and safe with myself and my situations. Its so beautifully empowering!!! 💖😍
Thank you for sharing your amazing insights and advice!!!
Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’d love to hear how this continues to go for you. 💕
I will definitely keep you updated!
Much luv and gratitude 💞💗😊
Thank you for these tools Helena ! Your videos are so informative, warm and encouraging :)
You're welcome, I'm glad they've been helpful!
I had my first love at the age of 13, back then I did not have much self esteem and was very receptive of things, the good and the bad. I did not reject anything and I remember so many boys in my grade were chasing me. Trying to flirt with me, and trying to get my attention. My first love especially, I was always in a receptive mode with him even though I had no idea what I was doing and he would chase me like theres no tomorrow. I felt almost undeserving because I wasnt really doing anything and had this idea in my head that i had to give him something in order for him to want me. Going into high school I became quite stuck in my head and was no longer in this receptive mode as this receptive mode attracted a lot of negative energy people who would bully me.I became more masculine and just like that, even though I had improved in many other areas, less and less guys were attracted to me and would approach me. Now in university, I am trying to get back my femininity because I feel like I live my life on emotional auto pilot and It really hurts me in the long run with my inner well being and my relationships with friends, family etc...
Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! I have a lot of videos on feminine energy that should be helpful for you to get back in touch with that part of yourself: th-cam.com/play/PLfrD0nnKRylSrGjt0EopOLiv6OhC8UuZE.html
Great video and very clear..this is the best definition of feminity that I have see on TH-cam.
Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💕
Thanks from the heart!! I am looking forward for the video about how to express our feelings
You’re welcome! Here it is: th-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/w-d-xo.html
Love it! New favorite channel. This is the most useful video ive seen in a long time
Thank you, I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
Thanks for sharing this video Helena.. it's worth watching. My lover took me to a nice romantic date and we had a great quality time spent together, we watched movie then he took me for coffee and we packed our dinner and headed to our room. And to my surprise he has decorated the room and proposed me there in a very romantic way.. it was awesome.. thanks to you dear.. I love you
Congratulations, I’m so happy to hear that!! Thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching it's all because of you sweetie.. keep sharing such videos.. thanks again.. God bless.. take care .. be happy 😍😊
You’re very welcome, I’d love to hear how things continue to go for you! 💕
Some videos on TH-cam doesn't explain feminine energy quite well. But you explained it so well and I love your advice with focusing on body sensations. Thank you.
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
Hi Helena,
I love your videos!! You explain everything so clearly, thank you for that. I am now on a relationship. He is such a good guy, really hot and a good healthy quality guy. I would really like to see a video about how can you be his queen. Like what are the qualities that men adore to make you his queen. Lots of love from Holland.
Thank you so much! I’ll put this on my list of videos to do. In the meantime, here’s an article I wrote that should be helpful (it’s all about increasing your value in a man’s eyes by putting your OWN heart first): helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-inspire-a-man-to-step-up-and-pursue-you/
suchh beautifully explained thanks
You’re welcome!
Thank you so much..I will try your method
You’re welcome! 💕
This is so great, I wish more women understood this!
Thank you!
I have experience this, wow you are so awesome! Thank you for these great reminder.😉
You’re welcome Rhonda, I’m glad this resonated with you! 💕
Love it, Helena, thank you!
You’re welcome! 💕
Love this
I will definitely try this! I feel like I do it unknowingly 🤔 but now I really want to master this 🙏🏾
I’d love to hear how this goes for you! This video should also be helpful: th-cam.com/video/4Q-x4gKrhII/w-d-xo.html
Very good video, thanks. I enjoy this topic
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Express our feelings and see what he does... I feel like the right man would want to be involved and do things to let me know my comfort and well being is important to him. I do believe in being patient with the process because I don’t / wouldn’t want to force him ... I do expect him want to though, and have interest in us in that way 🌹 thoughts?
@sassymatazzy lol
your vedios are amazing ! wish i came across 2 yrs back.
Thank you! I’m glad they’ve been helpful for you. 💕
This really works for me! And thank for teaching this Helena. The thing with me is that I've recently met a guy from internet ..and he is so sweet, but I don't feel attracted to him physically neither about his personality
He wants everything with me but I feel resistance and bored. What can i do?
This is so amazing. You really explain things clearly. Thanks so much.
You’re welcome! ❤️
Oh my goodness Leo 🤩 I love him! What a great buddy!
He’s a sweetheart! ❤️
Oohh i love this!! Thanks much.
You’re welcome! ❤️
Amazing! Thank you.
You’re welcome!
Awesome vedio ever about feminine energy..bravo Helena Hart 😍😘
Thank you!
@@HelenaHartCoaching lots of love from India..Helena
Kitty!!! I love you Leo!
Thank you for your videos!!!
♡♡♡♡
You're welcome!
I love your video well i pulled a man to me last time but seemed he wasn’t really happy with me I’m so afraid that next time he will push me away because I pulled him too close last time
Thank you Helena 💎💜
You’re welcome, Monica! 💕
Thank you so much for this video, Dear Helena! It is very informative and I truly appreciate you sharing your knowledge with us. And, you are so very beautiful! God Bless You and Your Loved Ones Always
Thank you, I'm so glad this was helpful for you!
You’re a great communicator and give valuable advice- very helpful as I navigate my break up 3 months ago with an ex I can’t let go of...and neither can he.
Thanks Stacey! I’m glad it’s been helpful for you. ❤️
Stacey Swope I understand what you were going through as I have the same resistance. It’s hard because you know intellectually you don’t belong together but yet there’s a very powerful force, which I think it’s fear-based, that keeps you from breaking. It’s a dysfunctional situation but not sure how to let go peacefully
Some woman think that Feminine energy just a weakness and so much wasting time with vulnerability, calmness, steady, receptive etc. So they tend to gain their masculinity and build a huge wall to guard their feelings and shut down their feminine aura. Life can be so tough, harsh and rude, that's why feminity didn't help at all to struggle with it. And I'm still struggling until now. Since months ago still trying to discover how to be feminine and how to get it back. Thanks. This video is helpful
You're welcome, I'm glad it was helpful!
I always think of LEO from, "Twin Peaks"
Hey there - I've been enjoying your videos and finding great value in them. Do you have your own channel now?? PS. Hi Leo.
Thank you, I’m glad the videos have been helpful for you! I mostly upload videos here so I can embed them on my website, you can find a lot more videos and articles there: helenahartcoaching.com
Amazing advice
Thank you! 💕
Thank you
You’re welcome! 💞
Love herrrr
❤️❤️❤️
I love how you curl your hair
Thank you!
Gonna give this a try.
I’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💗
Yess women receive men give so allow that dynamic it’s not giving up control its balancing energies
Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞
thinking! So adorable 😊
I love love love Leo he really adds to your videos.
Aww... thank you! 💕
Helena Hart
You are more than welcome, I so appreciate your words. Truly what I have been searching for.
Do you have any information on narcissism?
I can do a video on that!
I agree with you on everything
I'm glad this resonated with you!
I'm in a long distance relationship,we been chatting like for seven months,no calls,I have a child I don't know how to tell him because he never ask me, he don't have a child yet, what your advise?
Going through the step back stage right now. another woman got his time when i moved to a different state. When I came back we made it official but it didnt last long. When he stopped speaking to the other woman she hit him up with life changing words. We deffinately still have a connection but I feel like she should be me and she shouldnt even be a factor. 💔
Hi I am having trouble getting to your website by clicking the button that pops up . it took me to a advertsement wanting me to pay. Tried several times.
Good evening Helena💜,I have a question about the space I mean the period of the time I should stay far from him,I don't want to make the idea that Iam not into him any more in his mind.Thank you so much
Super! :)
Omg i love youre advice😍genius.and i relly like youre energy😇🤗
Thank you so much! 💖
Helena I love your advice however the problem I have is when I do Express a feeling or how I'm feeling or I might feel anxious or insecure about something I find that the man wants to jump in there and fix it for me and then I have to gently say we'll know I don't expect you to solve that I'm just explaining how I feel at the time and so many times I think that when we show ourselves vulnerable that incites a man to reach out and be helpful he wants to take care of us especially if you likes us I think it's a fine line that we walk LOL
How can he feel your energy from afar, Helena?
I deleted this guys number last week because I was fed up with waiting for him.
He contacted me later that day. I gave him a warm, feminine reply but I didn't get a response.
It's almost a week now.
Thank you xxx
Gosh now I get it...duh!
Hi Helena,
I am just starting to see a new fella (British) , he is younger than myself by 8 yrs. I have only seen him 6 times and he has mentioned ~~senior, old ladies wear long sox's .
I asked him if he has a problem with my age, he said" no" , but has mentioned that he is in awe about me, and feels we have a lot in common~~ I said I like you as well, until you relate to me ~~as an old lady~~he said I just say that because I like you ~~? this seems confusing to me, what are your thoughts?
Haze
Go Leo
This is a fab video is there more to it than this though?
Thanks Dominique! I have lots of different videos that go into the specifics of what I share here, if there are any key areas you're curious about let me know and I can post links to those videos.
What if the feelings you find are anger, or sadness... How do you relate this? I tend to get really nervous and shut down rather than express something that may be negative.
Great question! Here's a video that should be helpful for you, it's about expressing some of those things in a way that makes a man feel safe to come close: th-cam.com/video/F1wIp-OgOsc/w-d-xo.html
What is the best way of expressing difficult emotions that the man's behaviour trigger in us e.g. he's being sarcastic with us probably without realising it (feels like his defence mechanism)? How to set boundaries without escalating the conflict?
This video should be helpful for you: th-cam.com/video/ggTZAJZn1NI/w-d-xo.html
The problem is with this feminin energy expression that most of the men hate when women talk about feelings.
Hi Barbara, I've found that there's a way to share your feelings that will actually connect with a man's heart and bring him closer. I talk more about that in these videos: th-cam.com/video/dZgnCb7xZ1g/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/w-d-xo.html.
How do you use the feminine energy in a long distance relationship where its mostly texting or calls...?
Hi Nadia, this video might be helpful for your situation: th-cam.com/video/P0SqofbyFK8/w-d-xo.html
great
Thank you, Luisa! ❤️
Helena maam Should i refuge frist date he want to travel across the couttry and meet .i do not know what to do .?😁please sugest me
I’m in the music scene and it’s always been a weird balance between love and business. I realize the two do not mix and now I’ve been pursuing my dreams on my own while still in the relationship but that means I have to activate a certain amount of masculine energy to accomplish things on my own which still seems to have a negative effect on my relationship energetically. How do I find balance? 🙏
Great question! I'll keep this in mind for future video topics, and in the meantime this article I wrote might be helpful: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-heal-your-maculine-and-feminine-energies-so-you-can-finally-have-the-love-you-want/
As a woman in an eastern society where a man feels responsible to solve problems for women it's hard to find a way to feel free and express my feelings to him without giving him the feeling that "Oh I'm expected to solve the negative feeling here"; its rather impossible for a woman to make a man step out of this position of willing to solve things, feelings etc. Is there a tip for that ?
But Helena if he coming back might take days or howuch time u suggest should wait dear
This video should give you some clarity on that: th-cam.com/video/qw7LcmSjK4w/w-d-xo.html
Hi, I liked the content, good job. But right now i'm so confused.. really. I feel like if i'm going to use my feminine energy, i will be passive (neither active nor proactive). I'm spontaneous and dynamic person full with energy.. hearing your advices made me think a loooot.
I got plenty of questions:
1) when should I use my feminine energy? whenever he is around me or every time when i'm by myself thinking of him? If he's next to me, leaning back and trying to tune in my body, will this shut down the connection (as I will get with my own thoughts trying to get in touch with my feeling and neglecting what he's trying to say or to offer)?
2) How can I get to my body sensation? what does it mean? Feeling my breath?? Talking to my self?? What is exactly?
I really appreciate helping me to figure out this.
My cat's name is Leo!💖
Im 26. Say hello. We're yours. We need more Demi-Ashton action.
You are such a beautiful woman.
Thank you Ilona, that’s so sweet of you to say! 💖
Hi Leo!! Lol 🐱
How could I do that? omg!! I am a strong independent career woman. Now, I understand why men always get intimidated to me. My latest ex bf once told me this.. "I know even I am out of your life you can be victorious, you don't need me as your inspiration". 😢😢😢
I swear I'l try to improve.
I'm trying to learn this too. I'm so independent and driven and ugh... I think I scare them away haha
Attract great guys is a good channel for strong independent women
God bless you
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I can express my feelings but I expect him to react, and it frustrates me when he doesn't. Is it normal if I say I'm happy, horny, sad, etc and he's just being dismissive or doesn't take action in any way? Is it possible that he doesn't react because he knows I expect a reaction out of him? What can I do?
When you have an expectation attached to it like that, you’re actually coming from your masculine energy because you’re trying to make something happen. A man can FEEL it when we have an agenda like that, and it actually pushes him away on a deep level. That’s why it’s important to learn how to express your feelings without attaching an expectation to it. I explain this concept a little more in this video: th-cam.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/w-d-xo.html
Helena Hart Thanks for answering. I can see how having an agenta is masculine. However, I feel hurt when he doesn't do anything , because I read it as indifference, not caring about my feelings. How can I not feel rejected by his lack of reaction?
I would try things this new way and watch what happens, and see every moment as a NEW opportunity to deepen the connection and intimacy between the two of you. That being said, if you express your feelings without an agenda and he still dismisses them, that may be something to take a look at.
Helena Hart I’m in the same boat I have this sag guy who was hot and heavy about me and he is a big flirt and is dating multiple women and quite a bit and I care about him lots and have told him but he keeps telling me he doesn’t want to lead me on and is not ready for a serious relationship and keeps saying that
Hi Bella, if he's flat-out telling you that he's not ready for a serious relationship, I would BELIEVE him and move on.
Congratulations Helena for your own channel dear love you beautiful coconut girl
Thank you! 💕
should you express those feelings in a text, if you're not with him physically?
This is usually more effective in person or over the phone - but if you have to do it over text, it's much more powerful as a RESPONSE to a question or something he initiated first.