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This makes so much sense! I have experienced men going from being so interested to becoming lazy because they got it too easy and didn't have a healthy challenge. This is so spot on!
Yes!!!! 🤍🤍
No. You just make them work a little harder for it and yes they like the challenge but as soon as you give it to them they are still going to ghost you if you if they are not ready to settle down and/or you are not wifey material.
You ladies are just clueless to understand what is going on in the market.
I agree with everything but the problem is that the confident masculine man is such a rare find nowadays! A lot of men are very insecure and spoiled by masculine women who chase them, ask them out themselves, etc. so they expect that from women. That’s why I’m single 😢 I’m not attracted to these feminine men
Yes… I get it …. It’s true
I’m in the same situation! 😅 I’m a very feminine woman and protect my feminine energy at all cost. Seeing all this feminine men who have not the self esteem to ask a woman out makes my blood boil. But I will never ever chase a man.
Manifest it.
And also the guys who would otherwise be willing get confused about what women want.
Interesting comment. Most men are invisible to most women, yet you're saying that men are spoiled by women chasing them? Sure, the top of the top men in any given area. Most men are truly ghosts to most women, especially since most men still expect men to initiate romance, despite us living in the era of "equality."
Women hold the sex card and men the relationship card. Women need to understand a man attracted is coming for sex. If you want more than sex then don’t give your body away too quickly. If he’s not genuine in getting to know you he’ll disappear and good riddance. Weed them out. Don’t invest your heart with the wrong men. Invest in yourself first self love. Trust the right men will stay ❤ It’s true what they say though. Women go looking for love find sex and men go look for sex find love
What about the “let’s start a family” card who do you think holds it and who’s trying to get it? I think men play harder to get than women on being a parent (not just getting pregnant but actually raising a family). What triggers that parents card in men towards a woman? Rapid Fire Answers… go…! 🔥 😊
@@singwingsa woman he don’t mind seeing in his seeds
The card thing makes sense
Yes ladies CHOOSE wisely!! Don’t lower your standards! Plenty of fish in sea! And the fish who are genuine in getting to know you are the ones to fish for 😂❤
Just dont play games girls...the amout of women who miss out on the men they really want because of this is ridiculous and a tragedy...
How is it a game if a woman is fulfilled in her own life and so busy living it that she hasn’t got time to sit there texting men who feel lonely at 10pm? Men love texting late. When they feel alone. But a healthy woman in feminine will see this as disrespectful and ignore him. Plus she must get her beauty sleep 😂
@@Lisa_M_V lol not what I was talking about at all....
When you meet the right man things will just workout people. If you did things wrong things will someway workout.
I had a beautiful woman chase me, and I wasn't turned off by it. But I didn’t feel the same. To protect her, I had to lean back and discourage it.
Subconsciously you were prob turned off by her being in masculine
@Lisa_M_V She was very feminine. A Latina style of being soft and making time with me. That drew me to her.
Unlike women, men are drawn to niceness and kindness. It makes her wife material. She was very nice and very kind.
We weren't compatible in our life goals and priorities.
@@kman190 can you like explain what being kind and nice for you mean ?
@Lulu0301 She would say hello and start conversation. She would invite me to hang out. She would smile during our conversation, which is a great add to men. Men can be more attracted to a woman when she smiles. Whatever is typical to being a good person and friendly she had in spades.
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This is so true.. It's starting to click after watching LOTS of videos haha 🤭🙈. I guess the BEST we can do for the man, is to be our confident, happy and healthy selves!
Simple, and also hard. But we can do it 😊
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I loveeeee hearing this!!! And yes! You got it!
Very helpful thank you
Girl I loved this
So helpful❤
I’m so glad!
This is a great video Fareen!
I’m so happy you like it!
Thank you! I am from Taiwan and this is so helpful
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I was just about to share my feelings with this guy wheew close one
If he hasn’t shared his feelings for you yet, don’t share yours … 🙏🙏🙏
You’re the prize 🤍
He has but I feel he has pulled away and may not feel the same anymore
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Fareen, I love your insights. Would you be able to make a video about how to be hard to get in a healthy, not gaming way 😊 in a way that gives the woman a healthy distance to assess and see if the man is a good partner. Thank you! ❤
One day while swimming, I once looked at a man, and it was beyond my thought that he would notice me. But he did. Months later, when I saw him again, he was trying to get himself noticed by standing on my sight, observing my attitude from afar discreetely yet carefully. Getting physically closer and finally seeking eyecontact... He didn't try to talk to break the ice, though 😂. Was he shy? Or was it because i was ignoring him ? In fact, I was way impressed, and I thought that I wasn't ready ( physically) to be with that kind of high calibre man... I felt lower than his level of beauty.
Him, seeing that there were no open door, he then got out the water and left with an haughty demeanor ( like "pff drop it, who are you ?!") in a way that I would noticed this. Which I did. I guess this was his frustration to the situation...
Anyway, this was so good for my ego, felt so high..... 😂😅 Ahaha!
It speeded up my personal healing journey tremendously ❤. I can't wait to feel more comfortable in my skin and take full advantage of my love life. And.... who knows... maybe seeing him again 🤭😃
How would you meeting him again happen? Any chance?
@adday. well I haven't been back to the swimming pool because I want my body to be in shape to go back there. So, Chances are minimal and by the time I may have found another man. He probably have a woman he loves with kids ( i don't know).
But even if the latter, Id be glad that our sights will cross again, soi can relive the feeling, the energy, the what our "eyes can't see"...😘💕
@@samantha6670 If the fantasy can help you get into shape, then he was an angel you met, whether you meet him again or not.
@@samantha6670 By the way, I'm in a commited relationship now with my own angel, who indirectly helped ME get back into shape, fix my one tooth that broke, remove my mole that was on my nose tip, all those things was done after just spending a few hours with him. When I saw him 1 year later, I had done all that work on myself, and I was also calm and ready. I knocked his socks off 😊 Wishing you luck too.
@@adday. That is beautiful.
The last line was amazing ❤🎉
So just stay single forever lol
Most women are single because they don’t follow this advice! I only take advice from those who have proven the work in their own lives. If you want wealth you don’t get advice from someone who doesn’t have it! Or if you want a good figure don’t get advice from someone who never exercises or eats unhealthy
Grate and usefully ❤ HI from Italy
Hi! I’m happy you find it helpful 🤍
I'm not entirely healthy masculine but I love your message I'm not at all triggered I think it's great to be healthy masculine but just say a note for the ladies don't play too hard to get
I loveeee the awareness you have! We are all a work in progress and all strive to be balanced 🤍. And yes, playing hard to get doesn’t mean being cold and impossible 😝.
This is true..
Is there a way to turn it around when you were clingy, but you worked on yourself and you want another chance with a guy that you over emotional with?
It can always be turned around yes! Email me your situation or book a call 🤍
The links are in bio.
Emailing is much faster and you’ll have my response in a voice note to hear over and over again. Call can take a bit longer to schedule 🙏
@@fareenashofficial ok, thanks!!
Just give him plenty of space, go get busy living your best life and keep your looks up.
@@MissTiffany01 Believe me, I have. Wayyyy more than was required. I am actually open to dating other people, hanging out with friends, my kids and about to go back to school. I would like another chance with him, but do believe if there isn't another chance, then something better will come along.
@@htc2817 dating other ppl in this timeframe is key. He can not know you’re waiting for him. Move on or at least look like it lol
When a women dose this I lose all feeling I never talk to them again
Do you mean women pursuing you or high value women?
Any women at this point they are playing a game. There are several reason why a women pulls back some of them are not in your favor either way she’s playing. Just fall back if they want you they will follow back to you if not it’s over. Somtime women pull back beacuse they are testing you. And if u fail she’s gone or she has other men she’s talking to that means u failed. Now we have women telling other females to pull back to have power. men who care about there time won’t play this shit. Watch this shit will back fire on most women.
But it doesn’t. Most women I know who are married did this. Not playing games but just being a normal feminine women. Women today are very insecure and chase and most men masculine men just run fast!
@@superhuman5857I backed off because a man wasn’t as passionate as I was about the union as I was, but I didn’t know we were so compatible back then , & it was risky LDR, he also said he was big player back then, but today let’s try something different… we clicked or so I thought . I don’t know what I did wrong but he backed off when I expressed my feelings to him, but I know he felt something for me. I know he did. (Taurus female/Cancer man)and I got into a car accident and he not once checked on me. I was instantly hurt and wanted out of whatever I felt for him bc I just know he thinks I was playing a game when I really was too invested and realized I needed to back off and not smother him. When I did that damn near all communication ceased. He may text me once daily. I knew then it was not looking good, then the car accident happened and it took a toll. He knew and asked if I wanted to talk later. To even have to ask knowing what he meant to me. I just gave up. It was too intense and I love myself too much to let a man be absent minded about me or dismissive of my existence
What if u weren’t hard to get at first can you flip that and start being hard to get or is it’s too late
If a man is not planning out real dates and asking me to pick times, restaurants, etc (1st or 2nd date), I’m not sure if I should tell him I want him to plan the date or take that as a sign he is not in his healthy masculine and move on. It doesn’t feel good to me to have to plan it, but it feels really petty to not get to know him over this one thing. What do you think? Thanks!
It depends on the messages etc.. have you read “what men want.?” That would be helpful. Or you can email me and send me more details and the texts. There’s a lot to this question, a lot will be understood in my e-book… and yes I agree … I don’t think he seems unhealthy but I would need to see the messages. Comments are a great place for specific questions because there’s a lot to unpack 🤍
Not yet but I’m looking forward to getting it and reading it. I’ve done a lot of healing and am ready to put it into practice. I just found your channel & loving it! Thanks for all you share. ❤
@jennywho604 ok ! Get “what men want” first! That will help you with the dating process! And then if you need anything more specific, reach out to me and I’ll speak to you privately! Happy you’re here 🤍🤍
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Yes it’s a lot of work! Email me :)
I really appreciate this 🙏
@@fareenashofficial thanks, i have emailed you. wish you lot of success.
How do you switch it up. If you’ve been chasing a man and he’s been used to it. How do you switch the roles.
It depends on the specific situation… you can purchase an email session or call and I can get into it with you more there 🤍
The books will help too.
Do you have a video on how to reverse this? I have been sooo needy and overly loving since we dated and he is very lazy now, where I am always pursuing and taking us on dates.
it’s hard but not impossible! just control your emotions and dont cotact first. not be available every time he approach you and never be sorry for not Being available. be cheerful and happy when you are available. you are in a great possition. He is used to your energy now, your healthy distance and absence will give him a lots of reasons to miss you. just be careful not to rude and lead a happy life.. ❤
best of luck..🎉
Is it fine to text sometimes first at initial dating stage? Lets say in a ratio 1:3-1:4 to him
I wouldn’t … read “what men want”
I noticed that you said "playboy" type men that sleep with a bunch of women find that they become unsatisfied with that lifestyle because their ego is activated and not their heart. In the same video you mention the friends character "Joey" who is masculine energy and he also gets alot of women and is able to sleep with them. What is the difference between the feminine energy man who sleeps with many women and the masculine energy man who sleeps with many women? Why would a woman desire one over the other if they both have a lifestyle that shows a lack of commitment?
Could it be that it is possible for a masculine man to lead from his ego as well? Or are all men who lead with their ego automatically feminine? If so, that means Joey is actually in his feminine energy
This is a long question and one that I get into in my books and other videos and yes you’re absolutely correct that men, both masculine and feminine can be leading with their ego. There is a lot to unpack here but once you go through more videos and my books you’ll gain more of an understanding. These concepts are big ones and cannot be summed up in a 15 minute video 🤍
Hmm I think there’s some duality to this. I understand what you’re saying but it’s contextual.
I’d love your take on this : I show a lot of interest but if women tend to be restrictive with their time/energy, I tend to forget about her. If I sense anything like her playing “hard to get”, I’m out - we’re either doing this thing together or not. I’ve been called a player for this kind of behaviour because I actively engage in the beginning (planning dates etc) but when I sense any kind of bs like playing hard to get, especially when I know how you spend your time, its a sad scene. It’s just such a turn off for me and I become so distant that it’s hard for me to take her seriously again.
Maybe I’m being cold, or maybe I’ve got a different perspective but I tend to move my attention to women who are genuinely interested and willing to make time for me.
Definitely don’t advocate playing games.
You are not wrong, man. Women think that when they play hard to get we will pursue them the more. What makes me disinterested anymore is how mentally immature some of the women are (being everywhere on social media without posting anything sensible but childish things, showing your body all the time, cussing, etc).
Trust me because this is really from my heart: if you respect yourself as a woman and excessively show love to me, I will never be bored with you; I will not pull away. It makes me think "wow, how lucky am I? Look at this honorable lady and she loves no one but me! I will do anything to keep her because I can't imagine how many men would want her"
And ladies, trust me, men love a woman who respects herself. Virtue is more than tricks, games, and make-up.
@@richardasante3897What are your intentions with a women? Women must pace themselves.
You seem the type tha just wants the intimacy without knowing the soul.
@@chilloftenyep easy sex! A woman of high value won’t give her body away to any man who doesn’t bother to get to know her
@@chilloftenplenty of insecure women do though! The ones who think a man will fall in love with them after sex! Never happens. And women bond after sex so she must say no and if his intentions are not to get to know her and just get her body he’ll vanish! Good riddance!
can I reverse this ? What would I have to do to reverse this and get him to want to peruse me ? Or have i ruined it and should I let it go ?
I’ve lost most interest and I’m turned off now by the guy that doesn’t Peruse me but I just want to know if there would still be a chance to turn things around after I’ve made it easy for him
My man and i are now in a relationship. He is not really initiating texting lately. I dont want to initiate. Should i just wait for him to?
I’m not sure… email me your specific situation or book a call with me 🤍
I hear everyone saying that you have to do the inner work but I don't really hear anyone saying exactly what the inner work is.
It’s shadow work. Looking at all of your pain, trauma, fear, grief, regret and learning to be really grateful for it all. It’s integrating all the pain and turning it into love. It’s not for the faint of heart, which is why most people don’t do it.
@@lisathomure7107I agree. It’s scary for people to look at themselves even to sit still in meditation
Focus on you. Do things for you. Lots of rest. Exercise. Dance. Have fun. Cook healthy meals. See friends family or don’t. It’s just about feeling happy and secure with yourself yoir own company especially
Hi where I can get a physical book?
Just e-books for now
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Do you think you can find masculine men on dating sites or are those weak men?
Men are a match to who we are! They can be found anywhere 🤍
Have you read my book “What Men Want: The Ultimate Guide to a Masculine Man’s Heart?
I met my fiancé on an app. I get into it more in there 🤍
Once I committed to really being in my feminine and changed my profiles to reflect that, masculine men started showing up, more than I can talk to! There are still plenty of non masculine men but I stay in my feminine and they fall away :).
Is the inner work found in your book?
I go into inner work in “secrets of the feminine woman” and in my course
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@Maelu-op9gf hi love yes! I’m in the process of moving to a new email provider. My website ppl are doing that now as well as putting the course up on the website. Everything should be done by next week hopefully
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So tired of this “hard to get” approach. Men gawk at me all day but don’t approach. You speak as if women get approached every minute and should have 100s of options and the man should feel that. In what reality does that happen. Men don’t even have the confidence to express interest outright anymore.
@@jamesharris6368 ah allow fear to rule your life, good strategy
I never show interest in a man LOL thats my vibe lol
Love it
Sounds like a great way to attract a stalker 👍
Just keep things halal and naturally it will work out!! 😝
its the same for girls bro.
Yes 🤍
Terrible advice. High value men don’t chase because they know their worth.
This is terrible advice. Women are already too difficult as it is. Use this advice and you will make it even worse.
@@EllaBella-76 - My advice is become what men actually want and stop playing games. Start with the 3 F's. Be Fit, Feminine and Friendly. If you are playing games, it might interest the man as it is natural for men to love a challenge and the chase but once he has you and he learns what you really are if you are not what he really wants, he will dump you and go to the next one. Why waste his time and yours?
The ideal, is to be a debt-free virgin with no tattoos but if you are beyond that, stay and/or get as close to that as you can be. If you don't already have them, learn domestic skills; how to keep a clean house and cook but even more important than that, learn how to be submissive and cooperative. There can be only one leader in any organization and in marriage (or a LTR), that is the man. You can be a team, as long as you recognize that he is the team leader.
There are other things as well. Get realistic expectations about what a good man is. Forget all of those stupid Disney Princess and fairytale movies. Grow up, those are not real life. Understand that you will not always be happy. Learn that it is not your man's job to make you happy.
Every women should watch every video this woman has made. www.youtube.com/@thehappywifeschool
Learn how to control (and not be ruled over) by your emotions and learn that it's not all about you in life. Learn to be loyal. Learn what wedding vows are and how to keep them BEFORE you get married. If you cannot keep them, don't get married. Learn that once you are married, you need to keep your mans house clean, his stomach full and his balls empty. Not necessarily in that order. If you want a happy relationship, those are absolute necessities.
Oh and me? Married for almost 35 years, father, grandfather and a very astute student of life.
To difficult to get into bed!
The men I’ve loved and was attracted to and high interest left me.
The ones I blow off still calling, or stalking my moves.
It’s crazy.
It is hard af for me to pace myself with a man I’m attracted to but I must. Cause I see how the men I’m not attracted to act. It’s sad because it’s opposite my feelings.
@@chilloften - Simple. Your expectations are too high and the market bears that out. It is a common problem among women these days. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men. The math just does not work. Lower your expectations and raise your value (if possible).
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