How to make him feel he can lose me?

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  • @pineneedles1946
    @pineneedles1946 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    At the end of my marriage, he said to me: " I thought you were too nice to ever leave me!" (Taken for granted)

  • @barbarabuonincontro1990
    @barbarabuonincontro1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Yes I tell my daughter that all the time don't do sooo much for your boyfriend he takes you for granted. She s always there for her boyfriend.

    • @whosyourdaddy4579
      @whosyourdaddy4579 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well, he'll feel it when she decides she's had enough of his attitude and leaves him!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She's probably giving him 'wife' benefits too. I encourage my adult children. A boy and a girl..not to have sex until they're committed. Casual sex is destroying people emotionally & spiritually .

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I don't want him no more.

  • @Dorothy35
    @Dorothy35 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Make him fight for you. Make him be afraid of losing you. Make him feel he is not good enough and he needs to prove himself. Make him feel he doesn’t own you.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank for your comment! I'm happy to hear your insight on this.

  • @pradeepdheer6225
    @pradeepdheer6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Alex everytime I listen to you, I can feel how you genuinely want us ladies to value and respect ourselves. You are a great mentor😊Much love 🥰💯

    • @coolcatsandthe70schick71
      @coolcatsandthe70schick71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He doesn't care. It's just about making money from desperate people

    • @yadira943
      @yadira943 ปีที่แล้ว

      i feel the same. real af advice and you can tell he really cares for us.

  • @katarina1122331
    @katarina1122331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Thank you for this video Alex. My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. Everything what you said it's true. My ex had a lot of problems and I always tried to do my best to make him happy. But I forgot about myself, I felt I'm not important in this relationship, I had no relation with others, because all my friends are married with children, so had nobody for going out. He has a lot of friends and a lot of weekends I spent alone, waiting for him. He dumped me and pointed my mistakes you mentioned in your video. After the breakup I have changed: lost my weight, so I'm way more attractive now, have training of martial art, meet new people, go out for concerts... And my ex reaches out to me regularly and knows I'm doing great... Girls, never do mistakes I did. Love yourself first, don't sacrifice for guys. By respecting yourself, your guys will respect you back.

  • @Deew.5634
    @Deew.5634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This only has a chance of working if the man cares slightly about you in the first place. If he does not have the courage to tell you he’s not interested, your backing away, seeming to move on with life, etc. will only satisfy him. It will make his exit that much easier with no guilt. If he doesn’t care, he won’t care about you distancing him. You’ve just made his job easier. That said, it is important to let go of someone who does not appreciate you and what you have to offer. If you’re too much, let him go find less.

  • @MrN6747493
    @MrN6747493 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm watching from Papua New Guinea.

  • @barbarabuonincontro1990
    @barbarabuonincontro1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Yes that's true. You see how fast he moves and changes when he see that you work go out go to the gym and have friends he respects you more and does more for you. Thank you so much.

  • @888RELK
    @888RELK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I will make him feel to lose me . I will make him fight for me and that I deserve much better. ❤️mercii

  • @linsleygethrudeesley636
    @linsleygethrudeesley636 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Alex.... I will really make him feel that he is loosing me for good. 👍👍💯💯

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video helps you!

    • @linsleygethrudeesley636
      @linsleygethrudeesley636 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Yes Alex it's really helping me. I feel that I'm the boss and he's scared of loosing me but I'm playing the push and pull game so it's going on well... Very much appreciate all your coaching👍👍💯🙏🙏

  • @SeaViewCLEANERSMartiena-wf3im
    @SeaViewCLEANERSMartiena-wf3im 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are the "new guy" in my life. Goings to follow your advice, through thick and thin !!!! I HAVE TO . I am 61 and busy losing a nice man because I was too hard-up. I'm so glad I found you 🎉

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you and thank you so much for the support ❤️

  • @candydelauney6230
    @candydelauney6230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Q:Yes he thinks he can take me for granted and uses me for his benefit only, not investing in the bond

  • @totorialnotaurjrjrj9613
    @totorialnotaurjrjrj9613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If it's so bloody annoying to like someone n so much hassle to b close to someone, forget it. Satisfy the masses. They r going thru more emotions than I do.

  • @toscadonna
    @toscadonna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Alex, you are so sweet to help women like you do. You’re also helping children, too, so that their fathers will love their mothers, and they won’t have broken homes.

  • @Aila289
    @Aila289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When ever I feel low I watch your video

  • @MelissaKellyHerStunts
    @MelissaKellyHerStunts ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I work in film so it was hilarious to hear you say we are not living in Hollywood

  • @christinemumbua656
    @christinemumbua656 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've listened to you for just one week and I see results. You have helped shed light on how I see issues and I have seen positive results.

  • @theobservantexcursionist9428
    @theobservantexcursionist9428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will make him feel he can lose me!

  • @SaystheTruth3
    @SaystheTruth3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hi Alex! Ty !
    I just told him that I expect more of him. He needs to carve out time for me otherwise I will find someone else that will give the world to me in which I deserve 👍

  • @camehdinhobangura3396
    @camehdinhobangura3396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Alex I'll make him fear to lose me

  • @jenniferma
    @jenniferma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will make him feel that he is losing and that he's good enough for me.

  • @deloresmcray602
    @deloresmcray602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex, I will make him feel he's losing me!

  • @mariesaint-franc3350
    @mariesaint-franc3350 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Each other respect one another love not rude, love is not bullied, love is not fight, love is a respect

  • @marywestlake6273
    @marywestlake6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Alex. Yes, I am in that situation. I will make him fear losing me.

  • @dimaawad7725
    @dimaawad7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alex I will make him feel he is not good enough!
    I will make him feel he can loose me!!

  • @MIDNIGHTMONKE7
    @MIDNIGHTMONKE7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t find the 25 minute video. I clicked on it and it brings me to something else.

  • @maggiewanjiru2807
    @maggiewanjiru2807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yea Alex. How ever, when he feels like that, you can't make him feel any other way cos he doesn't want to.

  • @cindicook3409
    @cindicook3409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You give great advice Alex!! Fantastique!!

  • @michellemcnary4415
    @michellemcnary4415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is spot on. Thanks Alex. This is all about bringing the best in our men.

  • @enoguoghojoy1340
    @enoguoghojoy1340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like the way you DELIVERED this topic I pulled away and now he is worried.

  • @LeocardiaMbulaf
    @LeocardiaMbulaf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Alex. I did and he has loosed me. It will take alot for him to get me back for sure

  • @daughterofzion2229
    @daughterofzion2229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much l will make him feel he can lose me.

  • @ReginaKeleu-jj9cl
    @ReginaKeleu-jj9cl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex am from Papua New Guinea, you such a good adviser

  • @naomibandy6707
    @naomibandy6707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex i promise I will make him feel it

  • @annamariaseammen8265
    @annamariaseammen8265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex I'll make him think he will loose me thank you

  • @bilkisubmusa3220
    @bilkisubmusa3220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm Bilkisu from Nigeria. I sincerely appreciate your help and always enjoy listening to your teachings. You are doing great, God bless you for helping.

  • @nakanjakoshakirah2324
    @nakanjakoshakirah2324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sure I will make him fear to lose me. Thanks Alex you a great

  • @daisytimothy8031
    @daisytimothy8031 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this

  • @dimaawad7725
    @dimaawad7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We love advises because they are PRACTICALLLL and its the REALITY!!!
    Thank you so much

  • @deloresmcray602
    @deloresmcray602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Alex for helping ladies be strong and independent in dealing with men. You have taught me so much!! I appreciate you ❤

  • @ProJadaBeverly12
    @ProJadaBeverly12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not anymore....Im not expecting this behavior from him anymore, I'm done. He messed up on this, the whole four months we built, gone. I deserve so much better.

  • @KristinaWSvik
    @KristinaWSvik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grazie mille😘Kristina,Revello,Piemonte

  • @Sunshineandrainbows234
    @Sunshineandrainbows234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like you bc what you are saying is 100% true
    Girls get into your feminine goddess energy ❤you cannot lose… be happy, be beautiful, enjoy every day to the fullest
    That is the hottest thing on the planet

  • @eunicemicere7163
    @eunicemicere7163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You've really shaped my love life Alex.
    May God bless you with more knowledge and wisdom 🙏

  • @annlaughren9060
    @annlaughren9060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's same for husband to miss his wife,
    He love learning on computer about health, he science minded.
    I agree

  • @suparnasingha3534
    @suparnasingha3534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex , your way of talking makes me confident 💛

  • @Micallef27
    @Micallef27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Alex, this video was shaky.All my previous experiences ended up in the same way for not being what you just taught me today. Thank you. I can't wait to apply one in one all your teachings. 🤗

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm always happy to help!

    • @coolcatsandthe70schick71
      @coolcatsandthe70schick71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert you don't really help. You just say common sense stuff that all normal women are already doing. What do you charge for? You get Ex back course was a waste of money. Maybe it will get a French guy interested but not a native English speaker. No way! That long boring letter you suggest to write at the end of your course was embarrassing actually. No guy would come back after reading that and no self-respecting woman would write that haha. Also when you say 'Smash the Likes button' and 'destroy it' sounds nasty and disgusting. It has sexual connotations and it's not good. You need lessons in English to know what NOT to use. Seriously

    • @sedakuday610
      @sedakuday610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coolcatsandthe70schick71 such a disrespectful comment.I shall report it under cyber harassment act. @alex: FYI.

  • @rosechapa5629
    @rosechapa5629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Alex!!! ♥️🙏
    I will make him feel to lose me And make him feel not good enough (ha) love this!

  • @ambercockcroft9801
    @ambercockcroft9801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve started doing a course, so I’ve not got much time for him at the moment. I’m now concentrating on me, no more doing his house work, no more cooking for him, no more chasing him. He knows where I am if he wants me.

    • @iamvyvaciousxvyvaciousx9779
      @iamvyvaciousxvyvaciousx9779 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re not his maid and not his cook. You’re the Prize. If he doesn’t treat you like the Goddess you are ignore his calls/texts… don’t be available. If he cares for you he’ll start to worry that you are seeing someone else and someone with more money than him. Have some mystery about yourself. Don’t tell a man everything about yourself when the relationship is new. My boyfriend told me I’m too busy for him and asks if I’m seeing someone. 😊 Don’t text or call him constantly or too much you will look thirsty and needy. Always look gorgeous every time you leave your house. Your Nails are done, you have a pedicure
      your makeup and hair is beautiful. Change up your looks frequently… the same hair is boring… experiment with different looks by wearing pretty wigs. Most importantly always look and be feminine wearing pastel monochromatic colored outfits (not abstract patterns) wear high heels or sandals in summer/spring and knee high boots in the fall but not sneakers unless you’re working out. Be classy feminine (not trashy) and seductive, flirt with him (eye contact) remember ladies our femininity is our power! My Ex messed up and is stalking and begging me for another chance today (never again he’s done).
      Don’t be a yes woman all the time… make him earn your love. You’re the Prize not him. Alex is spot on. Listen to Alex ladies.
      Alex thank you, you’re amazing! Love,
      Peace and happiness to you!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some Women Are True Empowered In Their Character By Born...
    They've A True Flame🔥 In Their Soul To Delight A Man's Heart-Mind-Soul & His Life Lyk A Lightened Lamp Does To A Hut..
    Or They Can Easily Show A Man "How To Burn A Rotten Ass" (Always Choice Is There Wht Kind Of Relationship & How They Want A Woman In Their Life.. Coz, "HELL & HEAVEN CHOICE IS THERE" 🤷‍♀️😊
    No Matter What The Tms/Relationship Stage/Aged Of Those Women They Can Show A "MAN'S PLACE" Wht They Deserve...😎
    I ❤ This Vid So Much...Thanks For Empowering The Weakest Women 🙏🏻

  • @thereseanderson2512
    @thereseanderson2512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u soooo much! Yes it is a scary thing to admit he possibly losing me and i losing him, but that is reality. We only have one life. There are so many ways for that to happen. Him finding someone; i finding someone; taking up something that takes us somewhere far away; death; accidentally losing communication. Everyday he isn't in my life is a day he will miss forever. I hear relationship requires work in order to succeed. If he isn't willing to try hard enough, it isn't gonna happen no matter what he says he feels.

  • @eftipsa
    @eftipsa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly like that!he is never good enough...

  • @lorettawilson9160
    @lorettawilson9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really love your videos alex I watch all of them I have learned so much from you thanks again you the best 😘

  • @truthwithsandy
    @truthwithsandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My perception changed today... Thank you so much❤

  • @arathinath6334
    @arathinath6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you, Alex, I really needed to hear this right now!!❤️
    Love from NYC!

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'n always happy to help!

    • @Bksachpay4031
      @Bksachpay4031 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would love to befriend u. I am an Indian girl. Really interested to hv an American (female) friend. ♥️

  • @cheapcrossiant898
    @cheapcrossiant898 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found out i am pregnant and he is taking me for granted.

  • @Tricywana8899
    @Tricywana8899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks 🙏 for your help! Men are just jokers sometimes. Greetings 🖖 from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @VeronicaMurray-ki9ec
    @VeronicaMurray-ki9ec ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, this information is priceless. I really to hear this. No more Walt Disney

  • @juliaazoulay2619
    @juliaazoulay2619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im in the same situation.
    Im from israel,i am listening.
    Thank you

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your support!

    • @juliaazoulay2619
      @juliaazoulay2619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can ask a question?
      My boyfriend send me messages, i dont know how to unswer him.
      Should i tell him that i dont want him ,not the he is now .
      8 years together.

  • @Meyouletsgo
    @Meyouletsgo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree distance doesn’t help much !

  • @eagle7396
    @eagle7396 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will make him feel he isn’t good enough for me. He will fight for me

  • @lyubomirafashion
    @lyubomirafashion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God bless you, you are really my Best friend 🤗🙏🕊️👊💪

  • @hinashah9256
    @hinashah9256 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I will make him fear losing me!

  • @marialorenarevilla5509
    @marialorenarevilla5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi sir Alex,thanks for all this tips..i realized now that he don't want to lose me😁. Thank u so much sir, always grateful to watch all your videos. Watching from Qatar

  • @effatsharmin8389
    @effatsharmin8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I successfully made it into a new job, posted activities on social media

  • @bayot3561
    @bayot3561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a crush on you Mr. French Man. Love all your Love/Relationship advices. I need to hear this and will apply this to my bf hehe.. im from Philippines 🇵🇭 currently in India 🇮🇳 ..

  • @chie77865
    @chie77865 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just lost somene, Omg i fell in love with you couch Alex made me big smile

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I couldn't take it no more.!

  • @Calida2308
    @Calida2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are in a lockdown nearly 2 years.. I can't even go to gym. I don't enjoy every single moment.

  • @mariesaint-franc3350
    @mariesaint-franc3350 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You speak English good Alex i am very enderstand you so much take care

  • @VanessaWJ007
    @VanessaWJ007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Alex

  • @wendyali1744
    @wendyali1744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou you are right Wendy from Scotland x

  • @monicawylie3985
    @monicawylie3985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much for this. This is what I needed to hear

  • @LisaBurke-g2p
    @LisaBurke-g2p ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex I am a widow this is all new to me

  • @shazminalasbin2428
    @shazminalasbin2428 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love from INDIA

  • @albertinachikonde2802
    @albertinachikonde2802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for the word of encouragement.... 💪💪💪💪Your English is okay Alex . Merci 🙌🏻

  • @hildatizeba5741
    @hildatizeba5741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is GOLD!!!

  • @herstory1012
    @herstory1012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From London. Great tips....thanks!

  • @btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892
    @btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every person is different. What might work on one peraon may backfire on another

  • @Aila289
    @Aila289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you alex you give us courage

  • @nadiaafrinmeherin2075
    @nadiaafrinmeherin2075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love it alex.. U r the best❤️

  • @mariesaint-franc3350
    @mariesaint-franc3350 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Alex for advice God bless you

  • @kendalljennerfp4520
    @kendalljennerfp4520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are the best at explaining! I will be here everyday. Can you tell us how 2nd chances work? And how to handle it. Please im dying of pain. I want to forgive this person but i hate what he did.

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People show that they are in love ^ sex & family etc. Just living holding each other mutual requirements. Not more not better that that. MIND is not clean for most of us. We dont keep our mind clean. Like, one is eating in a dirty place but same food in a clean place never has same satisfaction & benefits.

  • @shirleyzimmer3236
    @shirleyzimmer3236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi from Hawaiian islands. Your videos became a part of my daily routine. Thank you for sharing. You are the best! I love your accent.

  • @munahamza3336
    @munahamza3336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex u ar best coach I've never seen thank u

  • @shwetakaur7610
    @shwetakaur7610 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am from India ❤

  • @sumintraramkissoon3701
    @sumintraramkissoon3701 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @summersky7824
    @summersky7824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for all your amazing advice Alex! I appreciate you! Warm Regards, from Cape Town, South Africa🌍🇿🇦🤗

  • @AgnesAquelia
    @AgnesAquelia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Alex I am agnes aquelia from the Philippines. I love your advice. I always watch your video

  • @margaretklidas4085
    @margaretklidas4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Kno You Speak the Truth❣ 💙💛💙

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone have bad mind, bad motive against someone has suffering in mind, which keep difficulties is feeling Love @ & sexual gratifucation

  • @marqueaimorris7333
    @marqueaimorris7333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your words are very helpful.....❤️❤️

  • @dorothystewart5138
    @dorothystewart5138 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much

  • @rosewanda2
    @rosewanda2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need to hear this… ❤️

  • @pat2398
    @pat2398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another great video…!!!🤩

  • @jeanettesoto8802
    @jeanettesoto8802 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm from Brooklyn, New York

  • @milliycheby4372
    @milliycheby4372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thqnk you Alex for good advice 👏be blessed 🙌🙏❤I love it

  • @oliveusher696
    @oliveusher696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex Thank you l will let him feel as bad when he goust me for three months now he called and I am not going to respond to him my feeling is so hurt he took me for granted