My first time ever dating a *Guy*
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ค. 2023
- Hey, guys! In today's video, I'm going to tell you the story of the first guy I dated.
prior to this, I had only ever dated women. However, I also always had feelings and attraction towards guys, so I finally decided to just go for it and give dating men a try.
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F I N D M E H E R E !
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Finding a boyfriend on grindr is like finding a full closed bag of chips in the trash
How am i supposed to do then, am i condamned to die alone ?
I'm lucky than because I've had two successful relationships off Grindr..didn't work long term now I'm single but each relationship got longer and longer... I switched my approach though
lmao literally
Whoever gets you as their partner is going to be a very lucky guy! Your sense of humor is so adorable.
Do not tell me you are crushing on the boy 😂❤
Humor is in every Persian dude lol.
@@chitchat2047agree with you both 😂
For the fact you knew you were not up for "friends with benefits" at that age shows you knew your worth.
Oh man, I get it. I made some crazy decisions in my late teens as a Baby Gay. Early 20's were cringey at times too but hey we're young and don't know any better at that time. Thank you for sharing your story!
Oh defiantly cringy, you got that right😂 and I agree when you’re young you know nothing better🤷🏻♂️ thanks for watching❤️
Omg the term Baby Gay is so perfect lol.
The editing is divine 😂😂😂
Literally put my soul into it😂😂 glad you liked it❤️
This actually reminded me of the concept of "Queer Time Theory" which states that queer people do not experience time in a linear way as straight people do. In other words, the life events that are supposed to happen to people at a certain age do not happen to us. An example would be dating someone of the same sex as we after coming out or not being able to talk about crushes as straight people would normally do earlier in life.
There's a great video called Queer by the channel Philosophy Tube that explains all this way better than me.
Anyway, loved the story and your takeaways are on point. I'm sure most of us have experienced something like this and lived to tell the tale hahaha.
that's really interesting but i also think it's hilarious that the theory says we don't experience time linearly, basically saying time doesn't move STRAIGHT for queer people and it's literally the greatest pun to exist
The edits where so cute and you come off so sweet and I like the message here! We were all naive at one point and now with the advances in the internet it's good to let younger singles know what's up! I definitely did some crazy risky stuff and should have listened to my intuition to avoid negative interactions! Amazing work.:)
Omg sad to hear you went through similar risky bad situations, but you know what? At least we learnt from it and know better now.❤️
Hope younger singles watching the video, read your comment as well to know that this is really common and be more careful out there!
Thank you🫶🏻
We've all experienced all of this. These people are sad. Being innocent and open-hearted is not dumb. The right guy will value who you are. It happened to me across 5000 miles. Now we're married. And I'm grateful every day for him. And, BTW, we met on Scruff. I wish he had a BFF like himself. I'd introduce you. But, stay positive, be yourself, don't settle, and eventually you'll meet the one. In the meantime, welcome what the universe brings you in life to grow, and enjoy living in the moment.
a story that we have all experienced many times, I also went to meet people in lonely places and waited for the guy, but there was only a pensioner around 80 years old.
you are a good storyteller
You are wise beyond you years, thanks for sharing that story with you first date. I’m also glad that you’re in a safe place where you can be yourself❤👍
You are one funny guy.. love your videos and admire your courage to live your authentic life. Keep on going!!
ADORABLE on every level! Brought back memories and funny!! I’m a fan.
omg this is so relatable though ! Your so funny when telling the story, literally in stitches but also crying 🙃
Lol thank you❤️ I’m really glad you liked it🥹
Dont be so harsh on yourself, we all been there, inexperience and did stupid stuff. There is no need to feel ashamed you had a long jorney and let it be your strengh. Its your story and u learned from it, you got out stronger and smarter and those kind of people on our path are there so we can learn and evolve and leave them behind. Im glad you are more confident and doing well now :). Be proud of yourself :)
You brought back my memories of the Park-e-Daneshjoo, way before the internet and dating apps in Tehran. Khosh bash da
I will never get tired listening to you 🖤 love you so much
Thank God you are free now to live as you choose. Hope you have a great and fun life!!!
Love your videos eyyy
It gives the feeling of talking with an old friend about stuff.
Keep up the good job✨️❤
I’m happy to hear that, thank you so much for your support, I’m really glad you said that cause when I sit down and film these I do it as if I’m talking to an old friend😂❤️
Your sense of humor just kills me every time! Dem memes baybeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣
you are so open about yourself, and your charming sponanteity is a deligth. I guess I am allowed to enjoy ?!?
You’re videos are so funny 😂! And really thanks for sharing, I have always been asking what was it to be gay in the Middle East.
Hey, just discovered your channel, thank you for sharing it was super cool to watch
SCREAMING bc the story gets better & better omggg 😂😂😂
the short clips are everything>>>>>
Glaaad you appreciate them🥹, thanks for watching❤️
I wish i had watched it before. Great video, I can't wait to see you on new videos. You are amazing!
Thank you, you’re amazing as well, and I really appreciate your support!🥹❤️ also I’m glad you enjoyed the video, I’ll keep posting new ones regularly🫶🏻
@@matraeisi be my boyfriend. You are so cute!
Hey Matin, I really enjoy and appreciate your videos. Your story telling is amusing and it feels like you're talking to a friend. Keep sharing, you have a lot of insight. Take care!
Yep... I was catch fished on my first meet up too. The audacity of some people to think you're not going to noticed the difference when you see them in person.
Gay dating! I remember when it technically did not exist until after you were already a couple. Great story and l love your moral wrap up and perspectives
Awesome, so funny, enjoyed your story
LOL I love your editing
the memes are so on point 'cause is always whats going through my mind
Bro these Edits are K!ll!ng me!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love your Vibe!!
The editing >>
Thankss, I’m glad you liked it🥰
The meme clips in between really made it fun 🤣
So realtable 😮💨😫 back thn in my 19s I was so dumb ... though still I m 🐷... being a emotionally week I was always ended up being emotionally frustrated and I was so dumb back thn tht I also did all this things 😅. I just love your energy and innocent smiles ❤ . I also heard about people who got robbed, raped here also in India who met through Grindr. But thank God that I have been with people who are nice and caring a lot . M 23 now and I think all these apps are both good and bad but it's good to have some experience cause this is how we grow up .......I love watching your videos ❤ love u 💕😻
I totally relate to the extremely optimistic prince charming idealization going on at first 🤡🤡
i kinda feel sorry for us but not really, i'm happy we're so pure😄
You are amazing and I wish you all the luck in the world.
Mat, I love your way of delivering a great part of your past and it sounds like being gay in Iran is no different, except that you could end up arrested or worse!
You are so funny. Please keep on posting
The short clips are hilarious😭😭😂😂😂
your story became funnier with the short videos 😂😂 greetings from istanbul,turkiye ❤
Thank you, I’m glad you liked them😂❤️
Great man.. i never date never been in relationship... but i would love too.. so many crushes attraction proposals too.. but never get vibes though they r full almost near perfect.. hoping the best.. anyways thanks to share experiences.. u r adorable.. I like u..😘
He’s good looking!.!.
You are sweet, charming, and trusting....i was that way too...life is a string of learning constantly changing..always trust your got...and sometimes take a chance. You never know!! I am a young 70 yrs and i find you very sweet and charming..live your best life always trust your guts. Stay well
You're so insanely cute. Thanks for sharing your experiences 😍
...notice : you have the most beautiful hands, greetings! Your story is very classic, but the way you tell it, is 😂😂😂 all the best❤!
You are so funny, but your story reminds me of how many times we make up stories that never happen and most of the times negative instead of positive. We think that something terrible is going to happen and we are afraid, but it never happens and this is so so typical in peoples lives. It would have been nice and funny to have a date with you 😘🤗
the way you edit the videos is so 😭😭😭😭😭
Video was really entertaining😁😁😁
You could really be a stand up comedian! Your stories are great, well-spoken, and everybody can relate. I always dated women but, believe me, I could write a book about the crazy people I met. It’s funny now, but I didn’t think it was so funny back then.
You’re so beautiful! Your current boyfriend is lucky!
I love listening your stories. Love it from India ❤❤
you are funny AF and handsome af !
That peach scene from that movie is ridiculous haha 😂
Your so adorable and laugh and shy nature is the most adorable
This happened to me before idk why it’s hard leaving a catfish in that moment
One time my friend set me up on a blind date telling me that the guy looked like Ricky Martin, but when he showed he didn't look anything like that I could have killed her. We still had dinner, but I told him right away that I was not interested in him romantically and it was all good. Better to be honest than lie to the person. I'm sure you have no problem getting dates these stories are very relatable.
This is Gonna b so Good🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Thursday😀….
I’m seeing this on Friday now, hope your Thursday was great and happy Friday 😘❤️
Are you single today? And what's your perspective on finding love? Are you still having hope finding someone?
You're so funny and adorable. 😂😂😂 Love u
You’re very smart Matin.
Sounds like a nightmare!
I Agree #PhilipSteeves
Omg Matin. I took am Iranian gay male living in Chicago! This actually happened to me this past weekend I was catfish. I was so upset.
But figured I would make the best of night.
1:31 gurl you were so innocent, love that. 😂❤
You... Are gorgeous. All the best luck to you.
hmmm...you all so lucky able to find first date quickly, im 32 and never dated anyone in my life. Now im curious how love feels like
At least, you're already grown up now and all ended up good.The first time I got catfished I got linched and all my family was aware of the thing and my whole life literally passed through my head...the cursed me and my family told me I would go to hell being from a Catholic Christians family...and things got very strange...
😂😂😂😂😂Loved the story, its so fun hearing these weird stories we experience in iran as queer people😂💕
True, we have it so hard💀 I even have crazier stories from dating in Iran, this one was mild🤣😂😂 thanks for watching❤️
Gets a request for phone number: immediately thinks he's getting married. LOL. Yep, that was me in my early 20's in the 1980s. I just didn't know how to date. I didn't understand that the purpose of dating is "information gathering" (also called, "getting to know someone"). Also, that dates should be fun and not too serious. I would have enjoyed my 20s much more if I'd known this.
beard looks so good in you
Hahahaha ur inserts are funny af 😂😂😂
It very nice to br able to talk about your experience from where I come from it is illegal and can be sentences for 5 years
🤣🤣omg bestie why would you do that ?😂😂anyway when are you going on a camping trip with me ?😛
I’m dumb that’s why😂 if you also live in Vancouver we can do it anytime, just let me know!
that pics so cute
Asking if someone is "flamboyant" or choosing not to date such a person, is not homophobic, its simply a preference. Like i don't mind my friends being fem but i definitely do not want my bf or date to be fem, because i'm just not attracted sexually or mentally to effeminate men. Its like saying gays who do not go for bears, daddy, otter or whatever is a homophobe, its ridiculous!
You're so real for that one. It's just personal preference.
Bro you're the best story teller I've seen so far :))))
I think grindr in Iran is very different than they are in the US
We 👏🏼need 👏🏼more 👏🏼vlogs 👏🏼and 👏🏼story time 💗
Hello thank you so much for your videos you tell your stories in a very funny way I love your camp expressions too. My god you were brave very brave and dum. Just like me😂😂😂 keep posting I like you thanks again 🇬🇧🙏🙏🌈
I love this...🙏🙏😊🌈❤️
Dude your so stinking cute lol. Good luck and be safe out there 😊
Man be oon pesare hasoodim shod matin🐥fekr konam bayad biam oon vare aab bedozdamet😸
Bia bedozd agha, shanse man kasiam nemidozdatam😂 ❤️
You used to wear glasses…please make a video on how to got rid of them
coming from south east asia i was wondering were there lots of “money boy” in the middle east?
Hmmm I don’t know what money boy means, but if you mean suger babies, yes they do exist
The clips you add to the video are freaking hilarious. xD
Love you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're beautiful ❤️
Cutie pie ❤. Love u
The most adorable guy on youtube
Thank you🥰❤️
@@matraeisi💯
When I travelled to Egypt for holiday, I was a bit scared to even open Grinder, let alone using it for dating. You did both in a country where you can get a death sentence if you're caught with another guy. I don't know what to say other than the whole thing you've been put through was pretty f*ed up lol. Turkey was a different story, though - I held hands with a dude when we walked in the most crowded parts of Istanbul - something I could not even do in my own country back then. It'd be interesting the hear how cultural, religious and legal environment in Iran affects how gay men behave when they date, I mean what the safeguards are, how it distorts normal human thoughts and behaviors, do you even think about potential consequences, and so on.
You look so good ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💜💜💜💜💜💜
I feel in love with you now…
When will your story about your first boyfriend will come out. its been 3 month already 😆
That pillow behind there makes me uncomfortable 😣
OMG!! You were toooo nice to go out with him after he catfished you!! But it was very nice of you to go out with him, but that would've been the first and last date with him.
You are handsome
❤
Im curious about your accent, you sound like somebody who was living in usa forever :))
hiiiii
I died at 7:38 😂
Lol im so happy we have the same humour❤️😂 took me 20 minutes just to edit that🤣