3 Thoughts A Man Has When You STOP Showing Interest! 🙃🫣

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  • @JaxnVideos
    @JaxnVideos  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

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    • @GreeneChakra
      @GreeneChakra 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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    • @SherriMusick
      @SherriMusick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I need to do this TONIGHT! I’m done

    • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
      @user-mq6zn9pc8o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Two wrong never make a right just saying

    • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
      @user-mq6zn9pc8o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sound Touching 🙏

  • @normaespinoza1228
    @normaespinoza1228 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +647

    A woman is done way before she ever leaves.

    • @sandrab1189
      @sandrab1189 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Truth

    • @tiffany4951
      @tiffany4951 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      So true...Im in this situation right now

    • @latyneyez1
      @latyneyez1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😚

    • @glee8133
      @glee8133 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Exactly.

    • @angelacarraway1811
      @angelacarraway1811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      So true i was that woman and never looked back since the best decision I ever made I give the most high God thanks for that...

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +718

    He's not thinking anything, he really didn't like me anyway since he pulled away so easily.

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      HIs actions show everything. I told him I don't do casual relationships. I told him to move on. He said he needed to move on. We will see if he will contact me again...I doubt it.

    • @ceecee811
      @ceecee811 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      DERRICK THIS IS TRUE, BUT DON'T CARE WHAT HE'D THINK. I JUST KEEP IT MOVING ESPECIALLY WHEN I'VE GIVEN YOU A CHANCE & YOU BLOW IT. I'M JUST NOT FOR DRAMA & DON'T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED! "BY FELECIA".

    • @prettypearls26
      @prettypearls26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      ⁠@@susanhampton9671….it’s not something your health will want to wait to see. If that’s guys response. Even if y’all get back it’s Gina be dead. The feeling you have right now won’t completely go away.

    • @dmysterious61
      @dmysterious61 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      EXACTLY!!!...It's really that simple

    • @Marian_Perry
      @Marian_Perry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@ceecee811”DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED!” 👈🏽 That part!!! I hear that!!! 💯👏🏽

  • @annsumrall2593
    @annsumrall2593 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +465

    He always said i deserve better. Come to find out I DO

    • @macm2373
      @macm2373 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      🙌

    • @sandrakasina4203
      @sandrakasina4203 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Most insecure men say that....gal u deserve better

    • @unrawcutunityincommunity
      @unrawcutunityincommunity 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same here which I been knew it already..

    • @allhailthequeen906
      @allhailthequeen906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Just PERIODT ‼️

    • @MamaSherbear69
      @MamaSherbear69 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Same! I told him you're right, I do!

  • @wanderingaudi4138
    @wanderingaudi4138 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Love yourself enough to be able to walk away, and walk away.

  • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
    @user-iu6bv8vu8o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    If he went cold out the blue- he went back to his ex or got with the next- either way let the trash take itself out… 🗑️

    • @TBirdBabe88
      @TBirdBabe88 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Couldnt have said that any better myself.?? 😊

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +526

    My husband went cold on me bc he was messing with a jezebel from his pass, now that I have filed for divorce he doesn't want it but I'm done with his mind games and manipulation. I went to court today to get my default signature judge rewarded it

    • @riasb
      @riasb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Ou sis, God is about to bless you. Be ready 🌹

    • @haitiqueen0119
      @haitiqueen0119 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Cheers to you Carla, now shift your focus more on yourself. Implement self care as much possible. These people out here will never learn; sometimes the grass is only greener bc its fertilized with bullcrap! Totally his loss Carla✅

    • @musicjunkieaddict6600
      @musicjunkieaddict6600 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Good for you. His loss. When you truely love someone you don’t risk loosing them. Best of luck!!!

    • @sharonhorton31
      @sharonhorton31 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Yesss sister, stand your ground.

    • @user-wu7oj2oj4b
      @user-wu7oj2oj4b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It’s always a blame game
      Take accountability in your part too

  • @alitamodeste7256
    @alitamodeste7256 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +361

    If they don't really care about you, its nothing to them if you've walked away

    • @girlinthesouth850
      @girlinthesouth850 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yep! If he wanted to, he would!

    • @janetroth782
      @janetroth782 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Very true then you didn't mean a lot for them and they didn't invest much emotions on you.

  • @Truckhergirl
    @Truckhergirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +424

    Some men won’t respect any woman and it doesn’t matter what you do! He doesn’t define your worth because if you know you are a good woman then it’s his loss. Period

    • @shaylanewlife
      @shaylanewlife 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      EXACTLY 💯

    • @elizabethsanchez145
      @elizabethsanchez145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I kicked my ex to curb as soon as he started showing red flags. I only give 3 strikes and then ur out.

    • @shannonsnowwhite2301
      @shannonsnowwhite2301 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Really well said here. Thank you.

    • @Kaylab5371
      @Kaylab5371 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Speak on that truth thanks it was my life

    • @monir3275
      @monir3275 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men long for Respect...Women desires to be Acknowledged

  • @judywheeler2549
    @judywheeler2549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    I'm not gonna invest my emotions into someone that's not emotionally available

  • @terrigriffey4846
    @terrigriffey4846 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +364

    It actually hurts like hell but you always see the true colors of someone sooner or later. 🙏🏼💛 you just have to pray 🤲 for them and always give it to the lord. I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️ about other woman but I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing when I know what I’m really worth. ❤️💛✨✨🤲🙏🏼

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Right, you are worth it! That’s why using Emotional Intelligence (E.I.) is important in “seeing” the true colors of an individual before you invest in any relationship. Like another commenter stated on this thread “DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED” …. avoid that possibility. 🙏🏽

    • @user-dk1im2le9p
      @user-dk1im2le9p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Unfortunately most of us don't know our worth

    • @user-dk1im2le9p
      @user-dk1im2le9p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@BrendaBaBoom l love the fact you just mentioned E.I it's only something l have recently looked at and def gonna work on for the future!

    • @Ame-vo4pc
      @Ame-vo4pc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👍🙏✝️

    • @marcelinaun3304
      @marcelinaun3304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are complete in him

  • @lindagiles9883
    @lindagiles9883 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +242

    Games equal “goodbye”

    • @Blancamdiaz-rx4ei
      @Blancamdiaz-rx4ei 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      U KNO‼️💯❤️‍🔥⚖️

    • @ladyk7317
      @ladyk7317 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly 💪🏾💋

  • @annatischner3500
    @annatischner3500 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    If hes interest is low, or non-existant, he will stop communication.
    Better that way so hes not wasting your time!

  • @shivangii102
    @shivangii102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Nothing goes in a man's mind. They just don't care.

  • @user-pk4qb2we5w
    @user-pk4qb2we5w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    A woman gets tired of not being chased

    • @annetterobinson6439
      @annetterobinson6439 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ABSOLUTELY TRUE. YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR NOT INTERESTED...

    • @suem7500
      @suem7500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Not chased... Pursued.

  • @dr.judymurray1900
    @dr.judymurray1900 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    A strong woman will understand how to create strong boundaries

  • @lashondalambrecht4566
    @lashondalambrecht4566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +189

    Ain't no fun when the Rabbit has the gun!

  • @positivevibe7684
    @positivevibe7684 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    I mentally detached because my feelings are being ignored. When i bring up something that is bothering me in the relationship, they make it about them in some way.😢 If nothing changes, I'm planning my exit.

    • @lorettaknox154
      @lorettaknox154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      EXIT !!!

    • @user-wl2so8wf5e
      @user-wl2so8wf5e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That's emotional blackmail don't allow him to make you doubt your sanity

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @user-wl2so8wf5e Thank you...I won't. Not to make no excuses for him. However, in working on my inner self, I understand he is emotionally hurt by childhood and adult baggage. He's not emotionally available to help heal my hurt. Which some of it, he caused. Therefore, I'm choosing to heal myself through different channels. Counseling is one of them. I'm sure he may have hurt that I caused. How can I help heal the unknown. ❤️❤️

    • @christine1962ful
      @christine1962ful หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@positivevibe7684sounds like you are making excuses for him. You already answered your own query. You just need to take the steps in putting yourself 1st ! If you are in counselling, you should be on your own for a while and focus on yourself and get into a position that you are ready to take on a relationship.

    • @empressniki11
      @empressniki11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      exit ...

  • @brendadean9291
    @brendadean9291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    I did gift my husband with my absence. I divorced him.

    • @shannonsnowwhite2301
      @shannonsnowwhite2301 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I did the same too! 🎉

    • @nic3715
      @nic3715 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very good bx it hurts

  • @jeanqmarykay
    @jeanqmarykay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    He always detach and becomes cold and indifferent when he has a woman he’s distracted by. Then he comes back realizing what he’s leaving behind.

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Don't be his safety net. Eventually, he'll find the one he wants, and you will be history and left broken. Don't take him back, let go, heal, and grow.

    • @missy4915
      @missy4915 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      He comes back because he knows that even though he may cheat/entertain another woman you are not going anywhere. How many women does he have to be 'distracted' by before he realizes 'what he's leaving behind?' He sounds like a master manipulator...

    • @Sandra.B
      @Sandra.B 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      He comes back because he hasnt been able to replace you yet...

    • @cumanobles4166
      @cumanobles4166 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes too little too late

  • @christineribone9351
    @christineribone9351 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    He warned that he wouldnt be in it as much, so I went cold on him.

  • @ebland64
    @ebland64 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    I’m doing that now. I’m the one falling back.

    • @empressniki11
      @empressniki11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CONGRATULATIONS 👑🌹🙏🏾...you deserve as good as you give...never settle!!!

  • @ricquelricks5639
    @ricquelricks5639 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I rather be alone then be someones after thought ....

  • @tobh007
    @tobh007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    Tricks are for kids... time will show and prove! 😊

  • @esmeraldayachting
    @esmeraldayachting 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Unconditional love doesn't exist, men evolve throughout conditions👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @sharonhorton31
    @sharonhorton31 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    He has to be Consistent in all areas in my presence. If he's not responsible for his actions. Let him out free yourself, sisters.

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      @JaxnVideos  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
      @nicolemartin-pz1wl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen Sharon 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯❤️

  • @lindafuentes5152
    @lindafuentes5152 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Yes , real love is unconditional but relationships aren’t unconditional they are all about reciprocity! You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Love and relationship are two separate entities!!!

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    NEVER GOING BACK!!!!!!!!
    TRUSTING IN GOD IAM WORKING ON SELF CARE AND PEACE 💗💗💗💗💗

  • @robertaford2127
    @robertaford2127 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Some people are so broken, hurt & traumatized. Of past, or present brokenness
    Soul Ties Tumble weed spirits, strong holds.
    That have left them
    So gaurded stand offish.
    Yet wants the freedom to come in & out at his leasure.
    Kenship to a Narsasitic mindset.
    Only to pick you up
    When he / she
    Chooses. Very condiscending
    Manipulation...
    Only to pick you up
    at a later convenience.
    But this seamingly
    Narsasitic person...
    Needs to be in Control.
    Only because somewhere in his life
    He's become detatched, broken
    Insecure, underneath
    his drama that he presents a facad to you.

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      @JaxnVideos  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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    • @DM-sv2ei
      @DM-sv2ei 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Narcissistic mindset.
      Yes!

  • @saleenastone
    @saleenastone 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    As an empath, my love doesn't hold anyone hostage to the expectation of love returned. I give love freely. My Creator fills my love tank. The only One who can dictate my value, which I find in my Creator. When you love someone so deeply, so truly, it is not that they have loved you back, it is that they have learned to love themselves more. Expectations and assumptions do not serve anyone. When you feel opposed, and you react in the negative in return, it merely speaks to where you are in your relationship with the I Am. So align yourself, remember who you are, where you came from and where you are going and that we do not get what we want, rather what we are. If we want love, we must become it. It is so lovely to hear another speak such words of wisdom. I am thankful this came into my algorithm. Appreciate your wisdom and time brother and may you be blessed overwhelmingly, abundant in all things, Amen 🙏 Ephesians 3:20-21, 2 Corinthians 9:8

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      @JaxnVideos  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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    • @marcelinaun3304
      @marcelinaun3304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ty❤

    • @live.life.secure.coaching
      @live.life.secure.coaching 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Incredible response ❤❤❤

    • @danastewart3494
      @danastewart3494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes - Amen .. totally resonate with what you’re saying .. very ‘Course in Miracles’ … 🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗

    • @angelicalee6
      @angelicalee6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @angelarussell3948
    @angelarussell3948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I withdrew because he kept hurting my feelings

  • @gretchenguichard1623
    @gretchenguichard1623 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Facts!!! Thanks for being so real and raw.... You helping both sides. I have boundaries, I'm trusting GOD and not falling for the same old BS!!!!! I don't have time to throw away.

    • @denisegassama6016
      @denisegassama6016 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
      @user-ji1cs5ee8e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      AMEN

    • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
      @user-ji1cs5ee8e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Waiting on the Lord Jesus Christ not wasting my time no more

  • @TheGreyArea_LuLaKye
    @TheGreyArea_LuLaKye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I checked out. Anything blocking me mentally. Is a No Go. At some point ain't No more buttons left to push or conversion. Great messages

  • @robbieharper1705
    @robbieharper1705 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The door was closed, because he wasn't invested in me.

  • @iamtaliba.divine.love1322
    @iamtaliba.divine.love1322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I’m just done with all the nonsensical games…PERIOD!!!💯💯💯

  • @janelljenkins5190
    @janelljenkins5190 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    It’s important to know when it’s done.

  • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
    @user-mq6zn9pc8o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Manipulation is really ugly

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I got tired of the Disrespect

  • @April-dt8pp
    @April-dt8pp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I already KNOW love is for other people but not for me...I DO love hard, but haven't been able to find anyone who loves me back the same. Thought I had finally found that at 51, but taking a closer look only reveals to me that he still has feelings for someone else, and even though he cares about me as a person, I'm not all that special to him....😢

    • @anitammims9384
      @anitammims9384 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Know that feeling well 😢😢

  • @elizebethgoldman2156
    @elizebethgoldman2156 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    When we emotional pull away and no longer interested that is most definitely because we feel it's a waste of our time and our self-respect it's not getting anywhere and Turned off at this point

  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Yup!!! Been there two many times brother! I was a "placeholder " until he thought he could do so much better!

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n
    @user-zq5sz4km8n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANYTHING OR TRIED TO USE HIM....I ALWAYS TOLD HIM TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND BE HIMSELF. I NEVER JUDGED HIM WHEN HE CHANGED AND COULDN'T KEEP UP THINGS HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT TRIPPING!

  • @shariharris6698
    @shariharris6698 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I’m 62 years young and can relate entirely to this segment. It amazes me how age might or might not make a difference when it comes to dating and new relationships. Thanks for clearing things up . I really appreciate you Big Brother !

  • @imspecial2286
    @imspecial2286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I'm an Old G, and everything he said is absolutely 💯 straight-up fa fa facts. It makes sense to me.
    Again, thank you, Internet Brother.

  • @michelehernandez4217
    @michelehernandez4217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Players, Narcs, Hustlers, Gigalos, Grifters, etc...the men just go mean with you, to spend time with his other supplies, trying to use you for supporting the other women he prefers. SICK 🤢.

  • @dianaboyd3629
    @dianaboyd3629 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    It’s called an emotional discard but not physically

  • @janinenoreiga6749
    @janinenoreiga6749 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    He went cold on me after I talked about to him about his lack of communication and so I did the same thing I stopped communicating

    • @ceecee8924
      @ceecee8924 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Ooop that's on him. There's no excuse to not communicate. My ex worked 10 hr shifts at Amazon and still texted me through the day

  • @temirarountree4553
    @temirarountree4553 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Why so many damn rules? It makes you not want to date/marry. The dating pool is full of games and manipulation.

    • @esh2616
      @esh2616 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s right tho

    • @nomalangamkwananzi803
      @nomalangamkwananzi803 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything has rules, school, God, work, trying to find a job....are you gonna give up just because you have to pull your weight somehow. That's how the world works, nothing comes easy

    • @karenbrooks3134
      @karenbrooks3134 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      O​@@esh2616

    • @karenbrooks3134
      @karenbrooks3134 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just sick of the games .

  • @rjames9266
    @rjames9266 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    He out here saving lives and teaching the masses! My God! Thank you for the free knowledge

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @rjames9266 Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1

  • @TinaHarris-vh4uu
    @TinaHarris-vh4uu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I just let him leave. I stand my ground.

  • @shelleymilford757
    @shelleymilford757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Low self-worth people attracts other low self-worth people.

  • @sweetie932
    @sweetie932 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Healing is not a bad thing instead of bringing down the good people left in this world. # yes loss of safety.👍🏾

  • @heatheranndemar
    @heatheranndemar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    36 minutes of straight facts 🔥🙌

  • @godisamazingcandilove7270
    @godisamazingcandilove7270 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I Been through so much !!!! I closed my Emotions off and ghosted the ex and narcissistic mother !!!! Aways remember silent treatment!!!!!

  • @candyp.8220
    @candyp.8220 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I found all of this out on my own through the experience and yes I am an empath. I am so happy to hear and see that there is a growing awareness of this dynamic.

  • @kiarisby2471
    @kiarisby2471 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is literally what happened in my last connection. His closed off energy made me feel like I should be guarded and closed off.

  • @carmosin
    @carmosin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I withdrew because cyclically stonewalled me, especially if I in any way was showing feelings outside of his control.

  • @janicemohamed2754
    @janicemohamed2754 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why do some people think that you've pulled back because someone else is getting what they ain't getting, when in actuality they could be tired of the BS....

  • @deborahsmith-xg5ts
    @deborahsmith-xg5ts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    10:35 pm. My ex husband actually became indignant, when he understood that I was dating again.

  • @vettethomas5625
    @vettethomas5625 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Interest Holds Interest!!!!!

  • @allapples
    @allapples 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Just happened to me recently. Bet it won’t happen again.

  • @hawwasalahuddin9463
    @hawwasalahuddin9463 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Most men don’t understand that when a woman is emotionally invested, She doesn’t see you any lesser than you were when you did have the cash flow… if he remains ambitious

  • @user-qn6fq4ur4d
    @user-qn6fq4ur4d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    This is really good. Straight FACTS 💯 Thankyou BIG BROTHER for always looking out for us.

  • @FoluFam
    @FoluFam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Happening to me right now and I'm done. Life's too short to be flogging a dead horse

  • @kimsanders8262
    @kimsanders8262 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    My friend and I kissed and then he called me and said I forced him and stopped speaking to me. He just wants to be a servant of the Lord, but we both kissed each other. When I think about it I just laugh.

    • @trudy-annsmall9600
      @trudy-annsmall9600 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      He sounds like a christian player.....those are danger to a good woman heart

    • @ariraquel4567
      @ariraquel4567 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      😅 narcissistic smh

    • @chanteynk7324
      @chanteynk7324 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      If he can't take accountability now that you are not married, he will later blame you for marrying him, raping him to get pregnant and trap him with children. He will never take accountability until he repents of his sins.

    • @rosemariecampbell7205
      @rosemariecampbell7205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Like Adam blamed mama Eve😢

    • @dr.hannah1155
      @dr.hannah1155 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He's afraid of what he felt from that kiss! Scared he's gonna lose his religion & backslide! 😅

  • @Blessed591
    @Blessed591 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    When I left him I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NEVER EVER going back . He knew I meant it and has never tried to reconcile . . . I get messages from strange numbers which I block immediately. . . He knows. I am totally done . Totally !!

  • @cynthiathurman6991
    @cynthiathurman6991 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am a woman and I’m asking you to please make more content like this!

  • @ricquelricks5639
    @ricquelricks5639 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    It was made clear he has a lot going on and I am not a priority ... I respectful turn toward my other responsibilities and I no longer feel safe emotionally and neither does he. I understand it and I am ok. I am no longer interested in being on the roller coaster.... I have to much to get done..

  • @ShellySmithkpministry
    @ShellySmithkpministry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Yes, you are correct. Especially a woman who knows her worth and who she is, she won't waste time.❤

  • @ladybrandi1
    @ladybrandi1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    FACTS FACTS!!!!! Imma fall back I know my value

    • @dr.hannah1155
      @dr.hannah1155 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ... falling back now! Actually I'm running 🏃🏽‍♀️! I found the exit portal!

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    His loss heavily

  • @linetteluckett3795
    @linetteluckett3795 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm done with relationships..after this 💯

  • @kimcash2362
    @kimcash2362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am going through this now. Have already done the cute off. Haven’t heard a peep.

  • @gloriacastro3939
    @gloriacastro3939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I wish I can say something but I can't but I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart God bless you I just wanted to say this person confusing me I just pray God to give me the discernment to do right decision, thank you so much.

  • @Irina77888
    @Irina77888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I actually did & they always come back running..😎 The only thing that varies is how fast they do.

  • @qianagray9399
    @qianagray9399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You were 1000 percent correct on this!! Thanks for sharing!❤

  • @angelamoore8161
    @angelamoore8161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was taking care of my mom and sister both transitioned …he said I did t have time for him… showed me he was selfish and had no compassion despite me being there for him for surgeries illnesses etc oh and I had asked him for flowers 🌺 and he said that was too much so I had checked out … he broke up with me on Christmas Eve… I did not and have not shed a tear 😢 since … 😅I know I dodged a bullet

  • @missymckinnney
    @missymckinnney 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It feels absolutely horrible. Hurts😊

  • @kittylew5895
    @kittylew5895 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I pulled away and initially he asked how to fix it but in the same breath he was defensive and pointed out all the things he felt he did right and implied that I didn’t reciprocate. You hit the nail on the head for me, I didn’t feel safe emotionally so I checked out.

  • @babydii3487
    @babydii3487 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pulling back is the best thing

  • @HaileysGiftShop
    @HaileysGiftShop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Brother Derrick, I have seen one of your pieces of work previously and this one was just as good. I see that you consistently bring excellence to the stage. Keep up the good work!!!

  • @lindaclark3993
    @lindaclark3993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG your every word
    I could cry...
    You know everything that is happening in my life.
    You can see in men and women's minds.
    Everything you say is so true x

  • @kathywalker7778
    @kathywalker7778 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the "You're not nurturing the garden, you don't get the fruits". Truth! Don't test me! My fruit will be preserved and then go to a different "market".

  • @jessyon6274
    @jessyon6274 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yeah Narcs don’t discard. They Hoover! Fudge that!

  • @alaina8874
    @alaina8874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You snapped with this message!!!

  • @bregettewashington
    @bregettewashington 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You started seeing the red flags and have to not ignore it 😅

  • @libralady1780
    @libralady1780 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is Gospel.....Thank you for reminding me that we should recognize the 'behavior' ~ more than the words.

  • @Butterfly-444
    @Butterfly-444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the fact that you GET TO THE POINT! Thank you… no one has time for an hour intro! 🙏❤️🙏

  • @barbierozita
    @barbierozita หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You right! Speak on it!

  • @jennydavy2027
    @jennydavy2027 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What I do not like is the constant shutting down so I don’t talk to him too

  • @Unfold818
    @Unfold818 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You nailed it. Thanks for revealing the nuances that many omit 🙏

  • @ArteGrata
    @ArteGrata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It is so good to hear you! It feels to me like you're my big brother, energetically reminding me of what I deserve. Thanks for that ❤ Best regards from Brazil 🇧🇷

  • @lindasims3877
    @lindasims3877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My brother…
    You are definitely spot on with this topic! Dealt with this, but the tables turned on him!!! Karma is dangerous!❤

  • @angelaclark808
    @angelaclark808 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    At first they said all gone with your life and then called two days later and said oh yeah, you answered so you care, so I guess they was testing the water stand

  • @cutie9481
    @cutie9481 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I just ended things with someone I really love because I wasn't his priority and blocked him. I did a lot for him and went above and beyond and I am sure he didn't see it coming but I am done.

  • @viscelmoore1726
    @viscelmoore1726 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are so on point with everything that you are saying here!

  • @BBsweetiepie
    @BBsweetiepie หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When you try to push a good woman away, it will work because she will be gone and she will not be coming back. 💯🎯👍🏽
    Meh!

  • @sonyagray4261
    @sonyagray4261 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so 🔥. Truth is just that. It's a vibe. These video's have been so real. God bless this channel.

  • @pauletterodgers2936
    @pauletterodgers2936 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Absolutely 💯 truth! Thank you big brother!

  • @tamaralandreneau8005
    @tamaralandreneau8005 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're really good at what you do ! You're hitting me proverbial nail on the head.