Hello darling. Hold strong and show lots of love to yourself. Get a great support system of others who love and care for you. DO NOT LET HIM COME BACK IN YOUR LIFE. When he is bored with the mundane of his new life with her, he’ll try to be your friend and want access. You deny his access!
Yup been there and then 6 mos later the psycho started chasing me down and STILL trying 9 years later. Ended it with me & ran back to his past woman that i found out he was still dealing with. Smdh
It start by loving yourself more than anyone or anything else . Take that love you had for someone who took you for less than ... and pour it into yourself. When I want to forget someone and move on, I just remember how bad he or she treated me and ask myself will I reward such a person with the most precious thing I have which is my love? The answer is N O and that helps. You got this Sis 👍 just do it 🙌
He had already work on this relationship with his Baby Moma he moved back in with her. I was so hurt and still however I'm working with a therapist. I see clear now it was never a priority He just wanted what I could do for him.
So fun to be ignored in marriage…some form of discard. I have given everything, and I have put up with so much crap in this marriage, and its only been 3 years 🙄. I really know how to pick ‘em. Who’s gonna leave first I wonder?
Calling other women a 'distraction' doesn't make it ok ... its damaging. Simple. It is not ok to be on the receiving end of that ... especially after years in a relationship.
I and then I Told him today and forgave him after a 8 year marriage but he still leaving me and acting like my words do t matter he’s leaving still I had his only child he acts like I’m not even worth it or like he hurts the way I do but I feel like he really don’t
When he crossed my boundary line. Only one in particular it was done then. But the second one was no resurrection. The second one sealed the deal of no return
What if he started slowly distancing himself and i initiated breakup then it turned out he lost feelings and apologised for that lom the relationship was really good to me actually, and he was happy too
I just got discarded recently by my husband AGAIN and I found out I'm pregnant since he's been gone and I told him she he's been trying to throw me off onto my mother and sister because he left my homeless out here on n the streets getting my evicted too
He was on a date with some woman, my family saw them and they told me. I don't know how long he was see others while making me think I was the only one.
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He was already securing another relationship behind her back
Coward!!!
Or he already had somebody else
Yep
Sadly
BOOM!!! EXACTLY!! 💯 💯 💯
This was my situation, Hurt people Hurt others. I've learned a lot.
And then won’t stop trying to spin the block. ACCESS DENIED‼️
@@RosesAreRedVoiletsAreBlue1 is his name alex?
For real one man's fumble is another's touchdown. 💯
That's funny
Amen
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He had no emotions. Cold, dead.
I saw the signs he did not consider me the one, so i left him before he left me.
Exactly what im about do
Facts!
I was an option...I showed him how many I have! 😊
Yep facts god has finally gave me closure
He got married and had a child. Broke me to pieces
Same😢
SAME
he lied about his situation of already having this before meeting me 💀
Hello darling. Hold strong and show lots of love to yourself. Get a great support system of others who love and care for you. DO NOT LET HIM COME BACK IN YOUR LIFE. When he is bored with the mundane of his new life with her, he’ll try to be your friend and want access. You deny his access!
Dang, me too 😭
This occurred back in 2018/2019, and I'm JUST NOW getting to the place where it doesn't trigger me 😅🥴😞
@@xmswayzemx oh no. I hope it doesn't take that long for me
I GAVE MY ALL TO MY GUY...I REALIZED HE WASN'T AS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP AS I WAS...I WAS JUST SOMETHING TO DO WHILE WAITING ON WHO HE REALLY WANTED!
Yup been there and then 6 mos later the psycho started chasing me down and STILL trying 9 years later. Ended it with me & ran back to his past woman that i found out he was still dealing with. Smdh
Spot on, so discarded. Having a hard time bouncing back.
It start by loving yourself more than anyone or anything else . Take that love you had for someone who took you for less than ... and pour it into yourself.
When I want to forget someone and move on, I just remember how bad he or she treated me and ask myself will I reward such a person with the most precious thing I have which is my love? The answer is N O and that helps.
You got this Sis 👍 just do it 🙌
Same 💔
It happens to a lot people .
I am there now. He acted like he truly loves me. The pain hurts and I am struggling with the pain 😢😢😢❤
Same babe
Sometimes it is the person that has the problem and needs to grow up
People pleasers will even let ex's or just any other girl control the relationship
enough to piss you off it is
He had already work on this relationship with his Baby Moma he moved back in with her. I was so hurt and still however I'm working with a therapist. I see clear now it was never a priority He just wanted what I could do for him.
Yep!!! I was only one showing love
Let me take tha time and say THANK YOU 🎉🎉🎉🎉 THANK YOU 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Oh my that’s exactly what happened to me and I never understood what happened but now you just let me know. Thank you so much.
Yup I gave everything and it broke me and he discarded me like I was nothing
Spot on ....left me and is back w this ex .....I'm ok thou
It is what it is! My life will go on!
Yes discarded..
Yes....yes....yes....all you said
SMH. 😢 the discard was soul cushing
Thank you Derrick, this information is extremely helpful!
Going through that rn..
Ncoooh! "Don't trip Sis."❤ Thanx so much for taking care of us. But Wow u r good in this.
It hurt when the heart want what it wants...its so hard to eatch them walk away but its about loving ourselves and putting our foot down
I realised that I was a foundation for my husband for 18yrs.
I expressed my love to him, saw him after that about 3 times and then he disappeared…no explanation…I was ghosted, I didn’t even get a call.
I am there now with my husband of 10 years. He has done it to me twice. Last Thursday and 13 years ago.
Yes, years ago. Healed now though.
What about the one who juggles other relationship that he pays for in addition to those that gives him any attention??
Yes all true an thought was being Slick an getting away with. I even help him pack to move.
Well mine was a cruel abusive type and had a boyfriend too so . ......
Mine was very cruel, abusive, controlling ,addiction issues . Found him masturbating all drugged up and he wasn't playing with his 🍆 .
Thank you. I understand more.
So fun to be ignored in marriage…some form of discard. I have given everything, and I have put up with so much crap in this marriage, and its only been 3 years 🙄. I really know how to pick ‘em. Who’s gonna leave first I wonder?
All he ever wanted to do was inflict pain
Can you make a full video about men who move on to a serious relationship immediately? Monkey branching can’t be alone?
Not only discarded me, but our 3yo.
Have been discarded
Amen an happen to me. Yet I had been paying attention an lil Investigating an found everything. What you saying
I have been discarded recently
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So true
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Yep everything you’re saying he did and it hurts
I / Facts / lead control disrespect no empathy Red flags/ I moved on / I gave some of my time dinner and lunch / I'm Super Educated Empath
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I moved out on tha 1st in tha morning tha other girl moved in that evening on tha 1st too wow 😮
Her problem now
Cos he was never invested
😢 yes, I'm going through this now. I left bc I wasn't getting back what I was pouring into more.
Calling other women a 'distraction' doesn't make it ok ... its damaging. Simple. It is not ok to be on the receiving end of that ... especially after years in a relationship.
I and then I Told him today and forgave him after a 8 year marriage but he still leaving me and acting like my words do t matter he’s leaving still I had his only child he acts like I’m not even worth it or like he hurts the way I do but I feel like he really don’t
So true ❤
Yes that’s happening to right now
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Healing from an anxious/ avoidant cycle
When he crossed my boundary line. Only one in particular it was done then. But the second one was no resurrection. The second one sealed the deal of no return
Been there
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Yep. Discard. But 6yrs. Damn
I…….i recently just went thru this
I. I
What if he started slowly distancing himself and i initiated breakup then it turned out he lost feelings and apologised for that lom the relationship was really good to me actually, and he was happy too
TRUE FACTS KING ☺🙏❤💙
I just got discarded recently by my husband AGAIN and I found out I'm pregnant since he's been gone and I told him she he's been trying to throw me off onto my mother and sister because he left my homeless out here on n the streets getting my evicted too
Try to look for work. There is Instacart. There is dog or cat sitting to make easy cash until you get work if you’re not working.
He was on a date with some woman, my family saw them and they told me. I don't know how long he was see others while making me think I was the only one.
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Agree 💯
Thanks ❤️ great video
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Nothing but problems from the jump with this person. I was definitely asleep. Glad I just woke up.
Me too...thank u Jesus!
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I think a lit people has been done wrong in relationships but it gets better
I DINE....MY 7 YEAR MARRAGE , AND HE GOT MARRIED AGAIN, WITHIN A 2 YEAR PERIOD 😢
Thank you, Derrick
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please talk more abt men jumping into relationships/rebounds after breakups.
How long does it take for him to realized he messed up
great message ❤
Right now
Sounds like my husband who is now deceased
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For real I'm not afraid to say he messed me up !
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I done
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Yes
It just happened to me
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