Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
Brother, you hit the nail on the head. I woke up one morning and it was like I had been in a nightmare. God woke me up, and the memories and feelings were numbed. I feel so free 🎉
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
Yep you are exactly right about the empath and I haven’t even heard what you had to say yet especially when you just said about the heart being broken as soon as you said that I was still typing
My brother… Definitely spot on! Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!! I’m an empath!!!
Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away
Yesh once i moved with him he started puting rules down says i look better with no make up or my hiar curly not straight when it looks reqly good straight .
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak! 4-year failed relationship. I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
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Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.
Factz 💯 😊💗
It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢
Me
Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!
Yes!
Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌
Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫
IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!
💯👌🏿
You're right about that
Treat him like a stranger ❤
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Message ty
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing
Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort
Barz
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Love it!
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
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Ha love it glad I'm not alone .you got this
"Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!"
Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤
Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.
Bravo! 👍
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast
Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record
Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate.
I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast
Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
Me too 👍
Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌
Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids
Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone.
Some confuse the empath for a doormat.
That's not the case.
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Proud of u
Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago
Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
💯💯🎯
I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.
Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏
I got smeared still silent
Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.
That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋
Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪
Character is actions.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.
You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now
You are on fire with these short videos !!
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
Yes Lord. Amen
@@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄
That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!
Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨
My pledge: 🙋🏿♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”
Unwill always be an empathcic elieve. Ur jst an empatth wirh boundaries noww
Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.
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You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤
Brother, you hit the nail on the head. I woke up one morning and it was like I had been in a nightmare. God woke me up, and the memories and feelings were numbed. I feel so free 🎉
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊
Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful
That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉
He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his TH-cam 😵💫 here's two that stood out:
"Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden
"What Could've Been" - Gone West
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌
To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media
Listening to you has been very enlightening.
AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!
Yep you are exactly right about the empath and I haven’t even heard what you had to say yet especially when you just said about the heart being broken as soon as you said that I was still typing
I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏
Nailed it !!! The hook. Christ be careful 🙏
My brother…
Definitely spot on!
Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!!
I’m an empath!!!
Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!
I have been there. You are speaking directly to me
Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯
This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.
So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹
You are speaking the truth. "I"
Going thru it now plus co parenting!
Yesssss!!! Show him who's really in control Brah!!!
Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.
Interesting topic
This was extremely helpful. Thank you, if you have a daughter she is very fortunate to have a father as knowledgeable as you are. New subscriber ❤
This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤
Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.
Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!
Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!
Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away
Yesh once i moved with him he started puting rules down says i look better with no make up or my hiar curly not straight when it looks reqly good straight .
This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me
You definitely help
You always do x
So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️
You are talking to me Mr. Jackson I am going through this right now
Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽
Gray rock switch up
You are def helping me
Yes .I've had more than one marked demons sadly all the same actions you are Soo right on
You’re definitely HELPING me
U are so right
Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!
You are always helping us with your videos, D! 💯 Thank you! ❤️
Word for word D
I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word
He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊
Thank you so much for giving us women all this information
Tell them Zaddy
I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.
So true sadly...but liberating. Thank you sir
I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.
What do you mean by going after the children?
@@stephnie8custody
Appreciate your thoughts and time shared!
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
Very helpful!!!!!!!!❤
@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak!
4-year failed relationship.
I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.
BRILLIANT
Thank you for understanding
He done that
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....
I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤
I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom
This is good. I appreciate you.
Goood,, thank you from DK. Europa ❤
You helping me thank you so much grateful for your channel
Thank you so much because this describes my sons father perfectly
I'm so Amazed look at you now, it's amazing , Ur always in my 💜 ,
I miss singing with U
April
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🙏🙏🙏🙏 A💎
Facts 🎉
I have been there. And am going thru this now!
Excellent, thank You👍
Thank you. 🙏🏾✨️
Very helpful message ❤