dealing with loneliness, & learning to be independent | what moving out taught me…

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  • @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA
    @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA  ปีที่แล้ว +58

    sorry for the late upload - currently in los angeles in a hotel room and wifi wasn’t the best! 🦋🎀 hope you enjoy todays episode :) i had lots of fun filming it! make sure to go give it a rate on apple & spotify 🎀🎀

    • @elianamolina4339
      @elianamolina4339 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love your podcast fern! 💌🌱🎀
      Don’t worry about the later upload, hope u r having fun and enjoyed Coachella 🏝☀️

    • @azharyaseen4194
      @azharyaseen4194 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

    • @nissanuralfiazizah600
      @nissanuralfiazizah600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elianamolina4339 l

    • @sofiablooming111
      @sofiablooming111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      P​@@azharyaseen4194

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Love how she is taking this podcast so seriously by pre filming for us so that we don't miss a week . Love you girl💕

  • @popipants3735
    @popipants3735 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    26:50 i relate cuz im also an extrovert but if you surround yourself with toxic people it will only drain you. I feel like i attract/ attracted toxic people because i was used to it as a kid and had to start healing myself. which one way is better knowing yourself, which also means being alone with myself from time to time. you just need to balance your alone time and with your friends & gatherings time.

  • @volson333
    @volson333 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    you have actually inspired me so much. like every day im trying to have the mindset of fernada ramirrez and now after watching you, its easier for me to believe that i can acheive my goals❤️

  • @mar_dma
    @mar_dma ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Everything you said is REAL. I moved out recently, I’m very far away from my family and wow I never thought it’d be this hard to make new friends, specially for people like myself that work from home but have a schedule and a boss. I’m not allowed to work outside my own home because it’s in my contract… like, I don’t even have time for myself. Now I understand why people are always eager to find a partner, at least you have someone to do nothing with, just their company is enough. I have a couple of friends, but they have their own lives, yk? And I don’t want to be a bother. I only have 1 friend that moved out of her home, but lives with her boyfriend, I don’t need to say more lmao Loneliness is all I’m feeling right now.

  • @risaaasshi
    @risaaasshi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    whenever I have been listening your videos or podcast I have a strong feeling that I am with such a great friend. Really love your content and after every episode I feel like “thank you very much I am not alone who is experiencing loneliness and lost the most of her friends after finishing school”
    It helps me a lot and I fell more chill and relaxed❤️

  • @BarbiKvisz
    @BarbiKvisz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I resonate with so much you said, because I have been living on my own for the last year, and I feel the exact same. I catch myself scrolling on my phone a lot because it is so easy when you’re alone, so finding those hobbies is key. Also I feel the same I’m working from home for myself so Being home a lot I notice after 2-3 days I need human interaction, or else I start to feel very low energy

  • @lenaleapsalot
    @lenaleapsalot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl if you come move to la you’re gonna really be unstoppable … like you won’t even be able to stop yourself. The challenges plus the inspiration 🔥

  • @loganleesears
    @loganleesears ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanted to be on track so bad with all the updates that I started rewatching these podcast videos from the beginning 😂❤.

  • @elianamolina4339
    @elianamolina4339 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your podcast is amazing fernanda! I love how your so real and I can’t believe you have been living alone for a year! Also so excited for your Coachella vlog! 🏝 I love how in your podcast you cover everything in a episode. Love uuu fernanda

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    awww yes i love it fern!!! thanks for another amazing episode of the pod! you always make my day 🙌🙌🙌

  • @Nsndndbdbd
    @Nsndndbdbd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AHHHH ILYSM I CANT WAIT TO LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST 💕💗

  • @pluto5987
    @pluto5987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have been listening to your podcasts a lot these days ! whenever im doing some chores, i will put on this podcast and it brightens my day

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how far you have come girl 🤍✨

  • @JanaElAsmar-gf3mz
    @JanaElAsmar-gf3mz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this podcast so so much, but I would love to see some videos about teenage life🥺💕

  • @Morgan720-l4y
    @Morgan720-l4y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear, every time you post one of these, it has something to do with what I'm struggling with

  • @shreya.21
    @shreya.21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is my favourite episode that you have made so far😍

  • @meeezy
    @meeezy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you just blessed with a new video mama needed this thank you

  • @isabel.maredi
    @isabel.maredi ปีที่แล้ว

    I always go to gym and there's people there... the only thing I need is getting a perfect routine❤

  • @QoInsano
    @QoInsano ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U Are Amazing Fernanda I So Proud Of U, You're Very Special ❤❤❤🎉

  • @sofiensumundo9233
    @sofiensumundo9233 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just what I needed, I love Fernanda's videos 💕

  • @miriamjaneth5794
    @miriamjaneth5794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can never ever ever miss your podcast 💗I love to start my mornings listening to youu ! I get my motivation in get sm things done feelin like IM THT GIRL 😎SM knowledge takin in as well !

  • @MariahTwoPointOh
    @MariahTwoPointOh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    glad i found this podcast :) thanks fernanda!

  • @loredanafetescu
    @loredanafetescu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your content you are amazing, such an inspiration. Thank you.🫶❤️

  • @Angelikaslife
    @Angelikaslife ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE YOUR IDEAS! IVE BEEN WANTING TO LIVE ALONE AND THIS VIDEO IS SO USEFUL OMGGG TY

  • @yani1255
    @yani1255 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nothing better than being an early viewer

  • @KaitlynGraceASMR
    @KaitlynGraceASMR ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your podcast! I can’t wait for new episodes! ❤

  • @barbara20214
    @barbara20214 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some parts of this resonated so so much! I’d love to hear more about how to lower screen time! Sometimes I feel like i’m in an endless scroll loll

  • @dianabarbosa5028
    @dianabarbosa5028 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally understand what you mean about the low points in the beginning of living alone. I moved out and moved countries at the same time. Talk about drastic change and loniless from not having anyone around. It was really hard to get myself out of a slump if I was frequently alone and lonely. Now I can be alone without being lonely. Of course sometimes you still go there, but you learn how to be really comfortable with urself for the most part.

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I needed a podcast on this topic from you❤️

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 ปีที่แล้ว

    So excited for Coachella content!!

  • @youranita
    @youranita ปีที่แล้ว

    omg, I didn't even know earlier how much I need this type of content from Fernanda. and I kinda feel lack of this videos... so, guys, can you send me some youtubers whose content is similar to that?

  • @brundhaaa
    @brundhaaa ปีที่แล้ว

    Alright, time to take notes ✏️ 🗒️

  • @Letsbepinkcats
    @Letsbepinkcats ปีที่แล้ว +1

    always listen while i go on a walk ‎♡‧₊˚ so good to hear someone speak so open about their own perspective. definitely relate with you.

  • @margarida_vvv
    @margarida_vvv ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello! I’m 23 and I started living alone last year. I felt like it was one of the best years of my life because I was still studying at university so I got to choose how and when I wanted to study, and I had a routine that included the chores and cleaning time, gym time, selfcare time, journal and creativity time etc. This year I started working as a teacher and my life is a mess. My chores and cleaning moments are random and make me feel stressed and I haven’t been able to make time for gym and creativity, and my selfcare moments happen less often. This is definitely being a tough year for me but this video made me rethink my life and made me want to make changes, improve myself and Lear how to make time for everything, and not letting work be my entire life. As a teacher I feel like it’s really easy to bring work home… But I’ll definitely try and make some changes that benefit me, and I’ll improve my lifestyle. Thank you once again for your podcast Fernanda! It’s really helping me think and reflect on my life and myself. As you mentioned, sometimes when you live alone you forget to do that, and you just start to let life take you in it’s waves lake the ocean. But I need to be in control of my life again, and I’ll be. Thank you again 🫶🏻💗

  • @pingparichat6030
    @pingparichat6030 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u and can’t wait for watching your other clips❤❤❤

  • @mathildacrompton4873
    @mathildacrompton4873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ahhh so excited for youu xx

  • @hp_vnsq
    @hp_vnsq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you ❤

  • @emmaisaswiftie
    @emmaisaswiftie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her playing with the lipgloss while talking was so relatable lol 😂

  • @رنوشرنوش-ف8ل
    @رنوشرنوش-ف8ل 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u for your content everything u do is amazing im using your videos to learn English and to take some tips in the same time u are amazing ❤❤ i wish u well ❤️

  • @amzy03
    @amzy03 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always look forward to your podcasts and videos! I really want to travel alone I’m just worried about my safety, did you do anything in particular to keep safe? ❤

  • @lifewithaishaaa
    @lifewithaishaaa ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me tell you that the last episode was amazing and i hope you make more of life, habits and routines changing 🙏 ❤️

  • @mariarangel9265
    @mariarangel9265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of you fernanda making a podcast is the best thing you could do bc you give such good advice! I really admire and look up to you💗🎀 btw your sweatshirt is so pretty where did you get it from?

  • @helenmorales46
    @helenmorales46 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video showing us you podcast setup :) and showing us your equipment.

  • @Elisa396X
    @Elisa396X ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk about receiving money and its relationship to healing the energy of divine femininity❤

  • @nivekaperera
    @nivekaperera ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes me want to move out so much but nobody does that in my country till getting married and it's impossibly expensive 😢

  • @evoxzxc6678
    @evoxzxc6678 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your advice is much appreciated

  • @gxldenky
    @gxldenky ปีที่แล้ว

    can you make a video on how to overcome social anxiety
    🥺🩷

  • @madelain2000
    @madelain2000 ปีที่แล้ว

    i loved your video's😭❤️

  • @farahali1718
    @farahali1718 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Queen 🤍

  • @sizerinaa
    @sizerinaa ปีที่แล้ว

    GIRL LUV UUUUU

  • @hollybabyyy
    @hollybabyyy ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t imagine how expensive that big apt is in vancouver

  • @Rena_Rasil
    @Rena_Rasil ปีที่แล้ว

    It's really helpful thx 🫶🏻

  • @Horrorzeit
    @Horrorzeit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you should really think about doing a workation in LA. Lease your Canada flat for a month to someone on AirBnb , if you don't need this extra cash it's even easier. Just rent an AirBnb in LA for a month and see how you like it and you can still work. Use your privilege as a content creator.

  • @jezzbisa
    @jezzbisa ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fernanda I’ve always wanted to do my own podcast I had started my own called space outs, only posted one video but I wanna get back to it! Could you possibly give me some advice on how to star !? Also where do you get your music?

    • @loredanafetescu
      @loredanafetescu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations that’s amazing!

    • @jezzbisa
      @jezzbisa ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loredanafetescu thank you:)))

  • @pujaahuja8456
    @pujaahuja8456 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi fern, could you do an episode/series on manifestation

  • @brenda1
    @brenda1 ปีที่แล้ว

    new listener hear this podcast has been my new fave to unwind before bed🩵🫶

  • @sandperera5192
    @sandperera5192 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u do a podcast on self love... a fulll guide plz

  • @ilikechunkycats
    @ilikechunkycats ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ⭐️⭐️

  • @itsjaleanegiee4477
    @itsjaleanegiee4477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im turning 22 soon, im tryin to move out but SD apartments are so expensive ngl

    • @sharonqui
      @sharonqui 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you girl !

  • @Jwana-dc5fh
    @Jwana-dc5fh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alessiacampagnolo9622
    @alessiacampagnolo9622 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @sashaellis9032
    @sashaellis9032 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First comment😀

  • @niceness8399
    @niceness8399 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your podcast however it is a bit difficult for me to listen because the voice audio is a bit low

  • @Cindy-gb3ms
    @Cindy-gb3ms ปีที่แล้ว

    25:30

  • @Khalidize
    @Khalidize ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was way too confusing tbh my thoughts are scattered everywhere

  • @Saidahoney
    @Saidahoney ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you please share where you purchased the Yayoi Kusama poster from? Thank you!