Didn't realize that i needed to hear this. I shoud stop beating myself for making mistakes. Sometimes im really harsh and critical to me. I just really have to accept fact that im not perfect and that i am ignorant like rest. I even didn't realize that i had big hidden ego. Sometimes i repeat mistakes like idiot. Well at least i am learning...to not repeat next time...
I always have a mistake on my exam several times and motivate myself that it is a learning process but I kept making everytime no matter how hard I work, I nearly lost motivation, I'm really tired of myself. We have 5 subject exam and making and repeating the same mistake, I hate being me, being very Fool
is that a sign of perfectionism in a person? to be perfect all the time? i cannot let go of a mistake i repeated twice and i’m still feeling guilty and regretting it
@@Artificialtalk-y9x like I don't know why I thinking but... mistake is about relationship...that why I feard ..I want to stay single until my marriage...I literally not interested in any guy...but my past hunt me...si bad ...I feel guilty so much regret...what if my family know that my neighbour...what are they gonna think about ..when my marriage happen if my husband know this so much thinking and depressed 😔
There’s a few things I regret but one in particular I just can’t let go. My regret comes from hurting someone I loved. They trusted me. It was a long time ago but I wish I could go back and do things differently.
I created an account with the secret phrase and everything then I added all my FUCKING funds about £23,000 from my other Wallets LATER THAT FUCKING day I was Logged out Right SO I singed in and BooM fucking JUST WOW all my Currency GONE right In Front of my Very Own Eyes I tried everything to get I back BUT just this phrase "SORRY CURRENCY NOT FOUND" I requested a immediate check to where my money had gone but Nothing.
i really regret having dated this one person and its been haunting me... i just wish that relationship had never happened. i hope i can stop feeling intense disgust with myself and that person whenever i remember
hi same here but my case abit different almost got into a one night stand with a stranger i met online. i was depressed that time was at my lowest. glad it wast too bad but still bad
Yes, I did mistakes in my past that are disturbing me right now. Yes could have taken more calculated decisions.Yes, I am responsible for the wrong decisions I have taken in the past. Yes, I have hurt myself and my family because of my past decisions.but that was the best i could do at that moment, I had to take a one decision at that But unfortunately that decision didn't go according to my expectations. But I have to move on from here , still a lot of life that remaining and I can not stick to that one decision.
The regret I have from my work is so bad that I need to move. And my motivations for the future have severely depleted. The wantings for myself are near zero.
@@gojosatoru3345...!! Wow, same here. It has devastated me mentally and physically. I am at such a loss.. I don't have a future, as I've only thought and known.
I'm too like that , I have this thing that I don't mistake I'm very kind , as the video said we are not amazing , everybody make mistakes , everybody . Just try to let go , it's hard but time heals .speaking of regrets it's just degree , sometimes small and big . Hope ur doing fine
I got suspended in 5 grade because some girl accuse me of proposing her. I didnt even do it and i dont know why i still blame myself for that@@m.Process
Thank you. This was what I needed to hear. I recently said something to my classmates that i regret and now I can't stop thinking about it. Cant even concentrate.
This is me.I have tortured myself so much that I look down on myself and don’t believe myself anymore. My esteem is so low and I can’t seem to move on and can’t even see how I am doing well at currently cos I have my eyes fixed on the past and feel I am being look down upon bcos of the mistakes I made in the past
It's not that I regret doing something, it's that I regret *not* doing something, and missed my chance. Its not even the first time I've made this mistake
Yep. Could have had a few beautiful girlfriends but was too shy, didn't know what to do, not in a good mental disposition. And now no more occasions. So much pain.
I’m going through a hard time right now with a lot of things and i didn’t even realize how much I was going through relied on my past mistakes. I really needed to head this, thank you so much.
i realized you have to accept the fact you make mistakes that’s the only reason who and what you are today. That’s what makes you higher you don’t learn from being perfect YOU LEARN FROM MISTAKES❤
I punished myself for my past mistakes which was not really my mistakes. I just trusted wrong people in my life but i have been blaming myself for doing so. Now I'm slowly learning that everyone makes mistakes in life and that we have to forgive ourselves and never repeat the mistake again
Maybe try to fix it somehow, talk to her or him when the emotions will not be such intense. This guy from video probably mean not to dwell on regret too much, but in my opinion it doesn't have to mean, not trying to fix, saying sorry, or whatevs which still can be done to certain situation
Same I hate myself for what I did it’s not about her forgiveness it’s about mine. Not hating myself so much to the point where I wish death upon myself
I Already Accepted Every Mistake But Today I Remember MY Past Mistakes And It's Normal. Mistakes Will Always Come On Mind. Finally I Realised Everything But Whenever Past Mistakes Will Come Into My Mind "I WILL BLAME MYSELF" It Feels Good To Blame MYSELF:) I Don't Know Why Mistakes Don't Make Me Feel Bad Anymore I'm Finally Free :) Sadness Is Beautiful :)
My biggest regret is how I mishandled a worker who almost _DlED._ I’m a high-ranking chef at a university and I was told by a student employee that her coworker (let's call him Dan) had been touching crew members too much. Not _that_ type of touch, just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. He was always very outgoing and tactile at work. Still, I took him to my colleague’s office for a chat and told him he shouldn't touch anyone without consent. Just handshakes. I said we needed the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, that he pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. How he shouldn't tell his stories because they may be inappropriate to some degree to the other workers; funny to him only. I think he’s about 25, give or take. He seemed pretty quiet and uncomfortable during my speech. Answered a question or two with a nod and headshake. The only question he had for me was if anyone reported his touching; I said, "It doesn't matter." I guess that sounded a bit tough. After work, I saw some woman wound his legs with a knife and push him into the rocky lake below them. I felt for sure that was the end of Dan. I was so horrified, I passed out in shock. When I awoke from my faint, I actually thought Dan was dead. It was the worst feeling in the world, especially given my last moment with him. It made me realize I was kind of a jerk to him. Thankfully, I learned that he didn't die. The sharp rocks from the water only got his arms and legs, but not his neck, back, stomach, or chest; he got _SO_ lucky. In his backpack, the paramedics found a letter addressed to me. He wrote that he was so sorry for making his coworkers uncomfortable and that he never meant to. That he wouldn't have if he had known. That he wanted to make things right and redeem himself. He also explained that he had ASD and sometimes acted socially flawed, inappropriately jocular, and unfiltered, to his regret. Turns out he always chose to be quiet around people who seemed to not like him. He also wanted the person he discomforted to know he was sorry. According to the news, the woman tried to kiII him because she hated his personality and jokes. She even told him, as she stabbed him and went to push him off, that people would be better off without him. That no one would miss him. She was arrested and Dan was rescued from the lake, given CPR, and taken to the hospital. He barely made it. I realized that I was wrong about a few things. Yeah, I was right about how his filter and touches were a little out of bounds, but come on; just because someone makes a mistake, doesn't mean you gotta reprimand them, especially when they're truly conscientious. I should _not_ have spoken to him the way I did. I should _not_ have said to his boss (who was in the room with us too), “is there anything you want to add?” That was insensitive. I should _not_ have restricted him to handshakes and work/school conversations only. All or nothing isn't fair. I should _not_ have taken him to the office for a formal lecture. He didn't deserve that. He only meant to have fun with his coworkers, not make them his “trophies.” I should’ve been more patient and sensitive and only given him a very brief and gentle talk in the hall---just me. Besides, it's perfectly natural to causally touch or tap people *without* it being creepy; maybe Dan deserved a right like that, within reason and limits so he didn't go over them and discomfort anyone. If he felt awful enough about his mistake and our talk, it must felt SO MUCH worse after listening to that disgusting BlTCH, who I hope gets life. I gotta tell Dan how sorry I am for the way I treated him. He is not a bad guy or a creep.
Okay, but this what have happened is not your fault at all. I understand that being harsh for somebody who was soon after attacked made you feel like being part of the miserables around him, but it wasn't connected or correlating events.
@@gragram711So what? That's like saying "this person is suffering worse than you, so your pain doesn't count." If I feel the lecture and his horrible moment are related in any way, that's fair enough and has some truth to it. That's how I learned that I was a little too hard on him, considering what could've happened to him and the office being our _last_ moment. I don't think that's weird or wrong
@@johnrainsman6650So nothing. I am just saying you did nothing wrong in this story and from logical point of view you shouldn't feel guilty or regret. You took claims of your students seriously and reacted correctly. Unfortunately this person would have been attacked anyway. Obviously you can feel regret, it's psychologically very well justified, just saying that in this situation you did nothing wrong. If he hadn't been attacked, there's big possibility you wouldn't even notice his problem with boundaries
@@johnrainsman6650 just opposite, I am trying to show the point of view when he shouldn't feel so bad about all what happened since it would have happened anyway, not his guilt at all or bad choices
True. This is a true feeling. Actually never fear your life. Surround yourself with like minded positive people. If you can't get one, just be one to you. You are your aura.
The fear is actually like, "I have made one already. What if I make one again?" That's how it actually is. Murderers don't always commit murder, one seeing everyone. It's all about situation. But you can always work on it. See every situation as new possibility of your way of dealing. I have recently had a big loss of confronting a narcissist, but it ended up having a job loss for me, because she fabricated it as if I am beating her up. It was a great loss for me leaving from a dream job of mine, from a dream place. My family says I was not good enough in working there. It devastated me. I was bullied and expelled. 😢 But don't know why I am living. 😅 Still thinking about it. I am upset, lost mind, but still living. 🤷🏻
I regret to compromise my values my ethics just to be like the World😶..And This regret kills me evryday that How Can i Did this mistake..Till now I Havent be so irresponsible for myself..That was act of carelessness..Also I have guilt that..Ive lost my trueself somewhere..Can I never be the same I was??
how can I not regret i shouldn't have done that i shouted on my father and God knows what I said . it's the first time I even raised my voice on him and it's been along time i did that but that constant regret comes to me every night why you did that he spend his all life to give you better life i know he sacrificed everything just to see a smile on my face he always loved me more than my siblings and what I did what just soo much bad how mean i am . same day he came back to me at night and tried talking and he understood why I was angry and he just forgive me that easy i didn't deserve this . he deserves a better daughter 🥺
I’ve done some bad things in my past and a lot of it I wish I could go back and fix. I’ve even hurt someone close to me and everyday I regret that the most. If there is redemption for the things I’ve done then maybe I can find peace
Same here...... there is no way to make ammends, . Nor learn from, .... my life was so altered in a way,.. I couldn't/cannot handle. You couldn't believe the circumstances of my mistakes
This is something I needed to hear because I’ve been carrying guilt on my back from an hour ago because I accidentally broke my Chromebook because with all the stress that everything has been pulling on me everything just swelled up at once and I threw something trying to aim for the wall but with my terrible am I missed and hit my Chromebook and ruined it and I started to feel girls, and I got heavier and heavier by the spontaneous minutes passing by and it just felt endless. It’s still does a little bit but seeing that just makes me feel better because I kept saying to myself. Why did I do that? Why did I have to do that but knowing this can help me get past it. Thank you for making this video is truly helps everybody on the Internet. Have a great day.
When ever I feel down and my mind gets stuckup and can't think anything in the brain and low of past mistakes....affecting in the present......I am struggling to move ....I hear this vedio repeatedly it gives me strength to move forward....I will
Thank you. I’m trying to be a better person, because I have said things in my past that might have offended people. I have said the n word multiple times around my sibs. I feel horrible about it everyday. I was doing it because my step sis was doing it and I didn’t want to ruin the vibe. But it was horrible and I should not have said those disgusting words. I’m going to try to be better.
Perhaps, if you knew then what you know now you would have done it differently. You are a different person today. Forgive yourself, & move on. You are doing great and heading in the right direction! Let go of yesterday.. because yesterday has already let go of you.
Pretty rough to hear. I have diagnosed NPD, regret and beating myself has been the majority of my life no matter what I accomplish. I would love to understand this in a way that I can apply to my life.
. stop regretting that it happened rather seek genuinely the path of enlightened realization the journey of joy is like river-rafting the thrill is as much in the waves as much as in calmness of flowing ! #meditation .
Didn't realize that i needed to hear this. I shoud stop beating myself for making mistakes. Sometimes im really harsh and critical to me. I just really have to accept fact that im not perfect and that i am ignorant like rest. I even didn't realize that i had big hidden ego. Sometimes i repeat mistakes like idiot. Well at least i am learning...to not repeat next time...
I'm in same stage of my life...
Same. Didnt occur to me thatI had a really big ego
same here, but is it different between male and female tho? a lot respect for man REALLY, u guys are awesome when u handle this particular thing❤
I always have a mistake on my exam several times and motivate myself that it is a learning process but I kept making everytime no matter how hard I work, I nearly lost motivation, I'm really tired of myself. We have 5 subject exam and making and repeating the same mistake, I hate being me, being very Fool
@@SlayBaseOne hang on there man, u should keep going, exam is like a tiny dust compare to the real job problems, god bless u! and don't give up!
#3 about the ego is 💯. We are often easier on others but harsh on ourselves in these matters.
Really? I'm harsh on myself and everyone else.
is that a sign of perfectionism in a person? to be perfect all the time? i cannot let go of a mistake i repeated twice and i’m still feeling guilty and regretting it
@@h4rshita-r I feel the same way like you described
You're right.
If i talked to my friends the way i talk to myself, id be alone. Be nice to yourself, you deserve empathy too
no one will ever know how much I needed this today 💔 thank you so much ❤😢
Same😭
Even when I stop thinking about my regrets during the day, they come back to haunt me in my dreams at night. 😢
Esa kya hua ya kiya aapne
If you will share with me than you will feel light,
I'm asking to you because I also want to share something
I really want to
@@Artificialtalk-y9xhi .. I also punished myself so long i can't share my thoughts with anyone I really feel depressed
@@Arpitaajhh
Yes please 😊
@@Artificialtalk-y9x like I don't know why I thinking but... mistake is about relationship...that why I feard ..I want to stay single until my marriage...I literally not interested in any guy...but my past hunt me...si bad ...I feel guilty so much regret...what if my family know that my neighbour...what are they gonna think about ..when my marriage happen if my husband know this so much thinking and depressed 😔
There’s a few things I regret but one in particular I just can’t let go. My regret comes from hurting someone I loved. They trusted me. It was a long time ago but I wish I could go back and do things differently.
I'm in the same situation 🤦 I always wish I could go back and change things ! But I really need to let it go! It's jus difficult
that means there's growth, if we didn't have that feeling we would not recognize it and be able to grow from it
I created an account with the secret phrase and everything then I added all my FUCKING funds about £23,000 from my other Wallets LATER THAT FUCKING day I was Logged out Right SO I singed in and BooM fucking JUST WOW all my Currency GONE right In Front of my Very Own Eyes I tried everything to get I back BUT just this phrase "SORRY CURRENCY NOT FOUND" I requested a immediate check to where my money had gone but Nothing.
Sammme with me and I can't Stop crying and thinking about it and just destroying my life and my exams
I feel this deeply and nothing bad has even come from it yet!
Ego is the right thing to say.. We all make mistakes..
"you're ignorant and flawed just like others" that was so funny and good to hear 😂😂😂
Yea right
Much needed, I laughed like "you got me there" 😂😂❤
😅
I love the last point. So true it is excessive ego. ‘How can I do this’.. we’re all flawed
The best 30 secs someone needs to hear when they can't get over their past.
I'll download this and set it as a sleep reminder tone and wake up alarm😂
I really needed it, thanks❤
This was so helpful. Thanks a lot
i really regret having dated this one person and its been haunting me... i just wish that relationship had never happened. i hope i can stop feeling intense disgust with myself and that person whenever i remember
hi same here but my case abit different almost got into a one night stand with a stranger i met online. i was depressed that time was at my lowest. glad it wast too bad but still bad
Yes, I did mistakes in my past that are disturbing me right now. Yes could have taken more calculated decisions.Yes, I am responsible for the wrong decisions I have taken in the past. Yes, I have hurt myself and my family because of my past decisions.but that was the best i could do at that moment, I had to take a one decision at that But unfortunately that decision didn't go according to my expectations.
But I have to move on from here , still a lot of life that remaining and I can not stick to that one decision.
The regret I have from my work is so bad that I need to move. And my motivations for the future have severely depleted. The wantings for myself are near zero.
Brother we are in the same situation...Oh wow..
@@gojosatoru3345...!! Wow, same here. It has devastated me mentally and physically. I am at such a loss.. I don't have a future, as I've only thought and known.
My biggest regret is lying to safe my ass. Other people deserve to hear the truth, even if I get in a little trouble.
same
I’m obsessed with regret HELP
You've got intense ego according to research 😮
I'm too like that , I have this thing that I don't mistake I'm very kind , as the video said we are not amazing , everybody make mistakes , everybody . Just try to let go , it's hard but time heals .speaking of regrets it's just degree , sometimes small and big . Hope ur doing fine
There are these two regrets I have and I think about them 24/7 like it's impossible to not think about them
May god always be with you. I hope something better in you for next. Good luck mate!
@@Pew23t69 tysm it really means alot :)
@@kkmjpkjb yes bro. I have a lot of sins to, that's how human being and that's how we learn and grow up. I hope you Will move on. See you 🤍
@@kkmjpkjbhow are you now brother same
@@user-dm2vt4mo7y I'm still the same just a lil better
I made a rlly stupid mistake a while ago and that pain has jus stuck by me and most nights I stay up and wonder y I did that, I needed this
Can I ask what it was
I got suspended in 5 grade because some girl accuse me of proposing her. I didnt even do it and i dont know why i still blame myself for that@@m.Process
@@m.Processme too.. Actually this is not to disturb.. But to know the extend of mistake.. How hurtful it could be. Whilst having ours in hand..😮
Same here. I try to forget it but I can’t stop thinking about it. It was very silly and and I made a fool out of myself in front of a hundred people.
@@anu14215 what did u do? May i know
Point #3 hit me straight...I needed to hear this. Thank you bro!!!🎉
That last one was so convicting 😂
Thank you. This was what I needed to hear. I recently said something to my classmates that i regret and now I can't stop thinking about it. Cant even concentrate.
Bro my regret is too high 😭
This made me feel so much better. Thank you for sharing.
This is me.I have tortured myself so much that I look down on myself and don’t believe myself anymore. My esteem is so low and I can’t seem to move on and can’t even see how I am doing well at currently cos I have my eyes fixed on the past and feel I am being look down upon bcos of the mistakes I made in the past
Thank you! I really needed to hear this today.
It's not that I regret doing something, it's that I regret *not* doing something, and missed my chance. Its not even the first time I've made this mistake
Same here. Apparently all the time lately :| imho not taking a chance of doing smth is much worse than regretting after
Yep. Could have had a few beautiful girlfriends but was too shy, didn't know what to do, not in a good mental disposition. And now no more occasions. So much pain.
This is just what I needed to hear. Thanks ❤
Someone please pray for me that i can release myself from this bondage and guilt that comes with it
All thats makes a lot of sense.
Though it doesnt bring a loved one back when you left them for "ignorant reasons" 😢😢😢😢
True :)
Yes it's correct.
Just think and behave according to situation. Be logical rather emotional.
Yeah. And we all have done some emotional mistakes. Would like to forgive me, if I get a chance.
I’m going through a hard time right now with a lot of things and i didn’t even realize how much I was going through relied on my past mistakes. I really needed to head this, thank you so much.
i realized you have to accept the fact you make mistakes that’s the only reason who and what you are today. That’s what makes you higher you don’t learn from being perfect YOU LEARN FROM MISTAKES❤
Thank you so much for this knowledge,I needed it as I've been feeling depressed over the past.
Yes we all make mistakes... Accept learn never to repeat again.. Thank you for sharing this !!
Didn't realise I needed this today. Thank you!
"Your'e not that Amazing"😅 Love it
Thankyou so muchh. I'll be better. I'm realising my mistakes and I'll grow slowly but surely.
I punished myself for my past mistakes which was not really my mistakes. I just trusted wrong people in my life but i have been blaming myself for doing so. Now I'm slowly learning that everyone makes mistakes in life and that we have to forgive ourselves and never repeat the mistake again
Same
The problem with this regret is that I CAN'T BE BETTER NEXT TIME I JUST HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT 😭
Wow 🙏🏽 Thanks a ton 🙏🏽 This was so very required.
Never use WHY HOW in your mind. Just live happily.
Just ruined my best friend's life. ):
He was my everything and now he doesn't even wanna see my face. How can I even stop this regret?
Maybe try to fix it somehow, talk to her or him when the emotions will not be such intense. This guy from video probably mean not to dwell on regret too much, but in my opinion it doesn't have to mean, not trying to fix, saying sorry, or whatevs which still can be done to certain situation
The best thing you can do is let it go. He will forgive you .
Same I hate myself for what I did it’s not about her forgiveness it’s about mine. Not hating myself so much to the point where I wish death upon myself
I Already Accepted Every Mistake But Today I Remember MY Past Mistakes And It's Normal. Mistakes Will Always Come On Mind.
Finally I Realised Everything But Whenever Past Mistakes Will Come Into My Mind "I WILL BLAME MYSELF" It Feels Good To Blame MYSELF:)
I Don't Know Why Mistakes Don't Make Me Feel Bad Anymore I'm Finally Free :)
Sadness Is Beautiful :)
I needed this. Thank you so much!
i needed this. 🙏
Thank you. This is what i need!
This helped a lot thank you 🙂
Seriously your words touch my heart and help me to stop thinking too much❤
My biggest regret is how I mishandled a worker who almost _DlED._ I’m a high-ranking chef at a university and I was told by a student employee that her coworker (let's call him Dan) had been touching crew members too much. Not _that_ type of touch, just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. He was always very outgoing and tactile at work. Still, I took him to my colleague’s office for a chat and told him he shouldn't touch anyone without consent. Just handshakes. I said we needed the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, that he pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. How he shouldn't tell his stories because they may be inappropriate to some degree to the other workers; funny to him only. I think he’s about 25, give or take. He seemed pretty quiet and uncomfortable during my speech. Answered a question or two with a nod and headshake. The only question he had for me was if anyone reported his touching; I said, "It doesn't matter." I guess that sounded a bit tough.
After work, I saw some woman wound his legs with a knife and push him into the rocky lake below them. I felt for sure that was the end of Dan. I was so horrified, I passed out in shock. When I awoke from my faint, I actually thought Dan was dead. It was the worst feeling in the world, especially given my last moment with him. It made me realize I was kind of a jerk to him. Thankfully, I learned that he didn't die. The sharp rocks from the water only got his arms and legs, but not his neck, back, stomach, or chest; he got _SO_ lucky. In his backpack, the paramedics found a letter addressed to me. He wrote that he was so sorry for making his coworkers uncomfortable and that he never meant to. That he wouldn't have if he had known. That he wanted to make things right and redeem himself. He also explained that he had ASD and sometimes acted socially flawed, inappropriately jocular, and unfiltered, to his regret. Turns out he always chose to be quiet around people who seemed to not like him. He also wanted the person he discomforted to know he was sorry. According to the news, the woman tried to kiII him because she hated his personality and jokes. She even told him, as she stabbed him and went to push him off, that people would be better off without him. That no one would miss him. She was arrested and Dan was rescued from the lake, given CPR, and taken to the hospital. He barely made it.
I realized that I was wrong about a few things. Yeah, I was right about how his filter and touches were a little out of bounds, but come on; just because someone makes a mistake, doesn't mean you gotta reprimand them, especially when they're truly conscientious. I should _not_ have spoken to him the way I did. I should _not_ have said to his boss (who was in the room with us too), “is there anything you want to add?” That was insensitive. I should _not_ have restricted him to handshakes and work/school conversations only. All or nothing isn't fair. I should _not_ have taken him to the office for a formal lecture. He didn't deserve that. He only meant to have fun with his coworkers, not make them his “trophies.” I should’ve been more patient and sensitive and only given him a very brief and gentle talk in the hall---just me. Besides, it's perfectly natural to causally touch or tap people *without* it being creepy; maybe Dan deserved a right like that, within reason and limits so he didn't go over them and discomfort anyone. If he felt awful enough about his mistake and our talk, it must felt SO MUCH worse after listening to that disgusting BlTCH, who I hope gets life. I gotta tell Dan how sorry I am for the way I treated him. He is not a bad guy or a creep.
Okay, but this what have happened is not your fault at all. I understand that being harsh for somebody who was soon after attacked made you feel like being part of the miserables around him, but it wasn't connected or correlating events.
@@gragram711So what? That's like saying "this person is suffering worse than you, so your pain doesn't count." If I feel the lecture and his horrible moment are related in any way, that's fair enough and has some truth to it. That's how I learned that I was a little too hard on him, considering what could've happened to him and the office being our _last_ moment. I don't think that's weird or wrong
@@johnrainsman6650So nothing. I am just saying you did nothing wrong in this story and from logical point of view you shouldn't feel guilty or regret. You took claims of your students seriously and reacted correctly. Unfortunately this person would have been attacked anyway. Obviously you can feel regret, it's psychologically very well justified, just saying that in this situation you did nothing wrong. If he hadn't been attacked, there's big possibility you wouldn't even notice his problem with boundaries
@@gragram711 well let me ask you this: do you not have sympathy for his remorse? Do you think he deserves all the guilt he feels?
@@johnrainsman6650 just opposite, I am trying to show the point of view when he shouldn't feel so bad about all what happened since it would have happened anyway, not his guilt at all or bad choices
Thank you so much 🥰 loved your words ❤❤❤
Thankyou so much i needed this kind of words!!!
Thank you I definitely needed to hear this
The last one is on point...
But i don't think i have this big ego...the problem is I'm so scared of mistakes because they makes life far harder...
True. This is a true feeling. Actually never fear your life. Surround yourself with like minded positive people. If you can't get one, just be one to you. You are your aura.
The fear is actually like, "I have made one already. What if I make one again?" That's how it actually is.
Murderers don't always commit murder, one seeing everyone. It's all about situation. But you can always work on it. See every situation as new possibility of your way of dealing. I have recently had a big loss of confronting a narcissist, but it ended up having a job loss for me, because she fabricated it as if I am beating her up. It was a great loss for me leaving from a dream job of mine, from a dream place. My family says I was not good enough in working there. It devastated me. I was bullied and expelled. 😢
But don't know why I am living. 😅
Still thinking about it. I am upset, lost mind, but still living. 🤷🏻
Im blown away at this. Amazing way to move forward heal be humble and learn
I regret to compromise my values my ethics just to be like the World😶..And This regret kills me evryday that How Can i Did this mistake..Till now I Havent be so irresponsible for myself..That was act of carelessness..Also I have guilt that..Ive lost my trueself somewhere..Can I never be the same I was??
Love this, thank you.
This video has changed my life thank you ❤️
how can I not regret i shouldn't have done that i shouted on my father and God knows what I said . it's the first time I even raised my voice on him and it's been along time i did that but that constant regret comes to me every night why you did that he spend his all life to give you better life i know he sacrificed everything just to see a smile on my face he always loved me more than my siblings and what I did what just soo much bad how mean i am . same day he came back to me at night and tried talking and he understood why I was angry and he just forgive me that easy i didn't deserve this . he deserves a better daughter 🥺
😭😭😭😭same i felt , he deserves a better son, similar to my situation
I need to hear this. Thank you!
What a legend, thx bro
Thank you so much for this I needed to hear this
Man I just can't get over the fact that I committed such shitty thing.. the regret is getting heavier and heavier.. I'm literally dying with guilt 😭😭
I needed this so much!
Yes I accept this fact that i am an ignorant and flawed just like others😌
THANK YOU I REALLY NEEDED THIS I ALWAYS FEEL GUILTY BUT AFTER WATCHING THIS I FEEL RELAXED.😊
Wow! Thank you. ❤❤❤
I’ve done some bad things in my past and a lot of it I wish I could go back and fix. I’ve even hurt someone close to me and everyday I regret that the most. If there is redemption for the things I’ve done then maybe I can find peace
Same here...... there is no way to make ammends,
. Nor learn from, .... my life was so altered in a way,.. I couldn't/cannot handle. You couldn't believe the circumstances of my mistakes
Life saver thanks man!!!!!!🙏🙏
That Ego part is so good
Thankuu so muchhh🥺🥺I needed this so much
Thanks this helped relax my mind
🎉 Thank you ❤️💖😊
Really needed this thanks man
This is something I needed to hear because I’ve been carrying guilt on my back from an hour ago because I accidentally broke my Chromebook because with all the stress that everything has been pulling on me everything just swelled up at once and I threw something trying to aim for the wall but with my terrible am I missed and hit my Chromebook and ruined it and I started to feel girls, and I got heavier and heavier by the spontaneous minutes passing by and it just felt endless. It’s still does a little bit but seeing that just makes me feel better because I kept saying to myself. Why did I do that? Why did I have to do that but knowing this can help me get past it. Thank you for making this video is truly helps everybody on the Internet. Have a great day.
When ever I feel down and my mind gets stuckup and can't think anything in the brain and low of past mistakes....affecting in the present......I am struggling to move ....I hear this vedio repeatedly it gives me strength to move forward....I will
This is the only video that has helped me . I’ve been ruminating since last night
VERY INSIGHTFUL, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you. I’m trying to be a better person, because I have said things in my past that might have offended people. I have said the n word multiple times around my sibs. I feel horrible about it everyday. I was doing it because my step sis was doing it and I didn’t want to ruin the vibe. But it was horrible and I should not have said those disgusting words. I’m going to try to be better.
this is the best video that ive seen on past regrets.
I needed this so much brother
Thank you for coming in my feed you teach me life lessons
Perhaps, if you knew then what you know now you would have done it differently. You are a different person today. Forgive yourself, & move on. You are doing great and heading in the right direction!
Let go of yesterday.. because yesterday has already let go of you.
Pretty rough to hear. I have diagnosed NPD, regret and beating myself has been the majority of my life no matter what I accomplish. I would love to understand this in a way that I can apply to my life.
❤ someone who can comfort me
Thank you for making this
Thanks this is helpful i have this bad friend telling stuff around and i can't even have a good weekend cause of her and im just crying
Thank you, No one is Perfect Except Good
Great advice that I need to start implementing.
Helped at a crucial point.
No matter what you try stop thinking your parents or relatives will.poke you on the same hurt 😢
I needed this today
Thank you so much this really helped ❤
A lot of thanks, u just saved me
I CANT WATCH ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!
THIS GETS TO ME.
Accept yourself for who you are
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stop regretting
that it happened
rather seek genuinely
the path of enlightened realization
the journey of joy
is like river-rafting
the thrill is as much
in the waves
as much as in
calmness of flowing !
#meditation
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i love your content a lot... keep it up 👍
I did that.thank you for your advice
I’ll tell you, you’re not that amazing 😂LOL. Thank you, sir for your loving honesty ❤
I don’t know why no one every touches the fact that regret and shame are more triggered by the way people taunt you
This is true life facts