I was an OG hater of yours lmao. I found troublesome the slight male gaze embedded in you previous videos, I still dislike when elegance is approached from the "nail a husband" point of view. But I stayed around for the general recommendations and realized you were not the stuck up b1tch that I thought at first. You are down to earth, transparent and open about your journey and THAT earned you this follower's respect. I agree with the rest, you have warmed up and despite you saying you might not be as charismatic, that genuineness does draw people towards you. I've learned valuable lessons from you and for that I'm grateful. I may still be broke lol but I see how I've levelled up in mental health, self esteem, confidence, relationships/bonds, work, dresscode, manners and networking from MY own personality as an introvert (tip for others: you don't have to change your introversion, autenticity will make better things for you regarding to networking). So thank you, Anna, and best wishes. 💚✨
@@justinewhite2418 you are drawing conclusions from the lack of reading comprehension skills. I said I realized she is not absolutely like that and she agrees, she pined my comment. 🤷🏻♀️ That is something I share with her, we are both direct. Maybe learn to appreciate that, I don't owe you any disclaimers or explanations.
@@kuramacabre I didn’t ask for an explanation though, the comment to me just sounded nice nasty. If you disagree no problem, we can all have our own opinions
Rather, this type of content is generally no longer interesting. Plus, there are only some many things you can discuss. Similar to how Beauty Gurus went on to lifestyle content.
Anna, I have been following you from the "Jet set babe" days. What has happened to you is maturity. Once we obtain relationships, home, wardrobe etc. we enjoy and serve us, we recognize that the little things are the big things. Consumerism is a trap that causes financial insecurity and unhappiness. Intentional living based on a deeper life purpose is uplifting. I am now 56 and have a successful marriage, business, fitness routine, intentional wardrobe etc. and what makes me most happy is helping others through the social impact initiative I started using a percentage of my business profits. We provide coaching, training to support not for profits that focus on health disparity, education and career advancement in underserved communities. Happiness is an inward not an outward journey.
I couldn't agree more! I was just about to post a comment about maturity and you nailed it! 🎯💯 I believe that one changes, evolves, grows, matures every 5-10 years (not everyone unfortunately) 😒 That's life...as Rod Stewart sang "I wish, that, I knew what I know now, when I was younger". Sometimes I believe it's unfair but it is what it is.
This. Every word of this. And these people commenting just haven’t had that experience and thus aren’t accustomed to it. How someone said that she isn’t fascinated by the glamorous life anymore. And I dont think people realize that you can’t be fascinated by something that is your normal. Your normal isn’t fascinating at all lol. Anna has simply…matured
@@squishysirenita Totally! My current evolution is successful aging which is less about achievement and more about acceptance and navigating change and loss.
Your goals are redundant for you because you fulfilled your goals. You married a wealthy man and are living a comfortable life of means both with his and your incomes which is exactly what you set out to do. Totally normal that you would establish new goals now that original goals have been met.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book Women's Magic Truths. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
Like her or hate her, it's impossible to deny that Anna has HUSTLED and worked hard to achieve her social media and personal goals. The constancy and stability and ambition required for this takes a lot of courage, and given her roots, those motivations were completely understandable. I applaud any woman with ambition and brains, and Anna has both. Cheers, friend! May you continue to hit every goal and serve the world at your highest level.
Yes, this is life. As we mature, our goals in life will change too. Its good that she made lots of money when she was younger so now when she found things more meaningful, she can pursue those. This is true wealth and luxury, having options and being able to make choices.
Dr. Gabor Mate mentioned that people’s unhappiness, depression and emotional suppression comes from living for other people and not being truly authentic to yourself. He said if you live unhappy and not authentically yourself, you will get sick and internally be unhappy. It’s great that you are realizing this is not for you and focusing on your body, your environment and your happiness.
As someone who has also had a very middle class life-style with a corporate career, AND who has had a luxury lifestyle with a home in an affluent neighborhood with house-keepers, maintenance, and assistants I can honestly say this: I would rather have inner peace and be debt-free than drive a lulxury car. I do still like quality clothing and cosmetics, but they are for ME - not for showing off to others. I still love you and support your public transformation. Some times we just have to change our priorities. No matter what neighborhood I live in, or where I shop, what is most important to me about the people I spend my time with, is that they are genuine, compassionate, and have integrity - no matter what their job is... no matter what kind of house they live in or what they drive... no matter what their hobbies are. Keep living your best life Anna, whatever that means to you. One more thing I 100% agree that
well , i'm happy she is not divorced😊😊😊😊 but the way the title is worded , it is somewhat , misleading . if it were worded different , people would not have assumed it to be so🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨.......
Actually I have to say, it's not clickbait. On Instagram people send her questions through her stories and as you can see in the display picture there is a question that was asked by someone which was not really a question in my eyes. Ana's video title has to do with the way that person worded their "question." Love you Ana.❤
As someone who has watched every video you made and been along for the ride, I always understood I had to choose the the parts of your content that applied to me. For example, I was already married, so there was a lot of things that didn’t apply to me. High Society doesn’t interest me. I’m quite a homebody that enjoys being with her animals. However, thanks to your content and free classes. I was able to level up my home, my wardrobe, my persons, as well as my business, I can honestly say following you and doing the work has changed my life🥂 thank you, Anna❤️
I agree it is an "age thing" at least for some of us. You get to a point where you literally do just wake up one morning and ask yourself... What am I doing? What IS really important to me? Important in my relationships?Important in the world? And then slowly you realize the things and people that really aren't serving you anymore, and you find yourself in this wonderful journey of actually coming to peace with yourself and life. I love seeing your quiet/still life and you being able to connect with yourself and this shift in your mindset. Embrace it fully. ❤
She didn’t get divorced, she said “I have two horses that I see 3, 4 times a week, I have a dog, I have my husband” the headline was just to attract views lol
Ooh girl! This video title made me nervous 😬. It’s beautiful that you are continuing to evolve. People who never change are sad. We should always be in new life seasons and learning different things. Once you get to certain milestones in your life, you focus more on experiences and protecting your peace. Cheers 🥂
Guys she didn't get a divorce, she's still wearing her ring and she just addressed an assumption regarding her undergoing a major change due to something big like being broke or getting a divorce Edit: guys even if it was clickbait, that's ok, it's TH-cam and it just works like this 😅 hate the game not the player
@@minervag6777 That's the golden rule of the internet, a shock value title :) mind me I am not attacking her or anything, she knows the game and how to play it, and she's a smart business woman :) i would do the same :)
I’ve been watching you for years and I can see your evolution. I think it’s elegant and self aware to continue to mature through life. Sometimes being an example is the best influence. Thank you for your openness! ❤
I personally feel like you have gotten very warm and down to earth lately. I noticed a while ago that you seemed more genuine and empathetic in your videos. Had no idea about the divorce. Wish you all the best, and thank you for the videos you’ve provided during these years, you taught me so much. Started watching you as a 15 year old girl. Tack Anna 🩷
Me too.. i used to watch her a while ago and as much as i enjoyed her tips she had this thing about her that didnt feel authentic. Lately though she seems different, warmer as you say and more genuine
@@blazenkatkalcevic6374 I replayed the video and didn’t hear anything about a divorce, thought that was the whole theme of the video between the lines. When I heard her say husband I just assumed she got remarried 😂
I appreciate this shift so much. I’ve also shifted my focus and have found much more joy in the process. I am focusing more on my health, character, and vision for my children and it has felt much more in line with my values than having handbag goals.
You have come a long way. I am 65 and have tuned into your work off and on over the years. You are still beautiful but more so from the inner work and depth you have created within yourself. Personal development was my work before retirement and I love to see your growth and development of your persona. ❤
How is this clickbait? The picture on the thumbnail looks like a question she received. She didn't say she is divorced. Comprehension is key! Anna i totally agree with you. This life is all about balance. Merging duality and turning it into unity. I love the new mindset you're on ❤️
People should learn how to watch videos. She is still very happy and VERY MARRIED… I’m happy you made this video, it’s ok to switch up the niche and put the more shallow things aside! 🌸💫
Communication is the basis of your job and English is your second language, yet, you communicate magnificently - and your evolution is palpable. It is my impression that you reached your former goals and you have set new ones for yourself. The maturation process in life (and inner-work) help us to question ourselves and make the right choices. Your evolution is not surprising and it is commendable. I look forward to more of your channel and your journal. I am a horsewoman as well; when I spend time at the farm where my mare boards - the rest of the world slips away. I think this is the blessing of embracing what interests us - it brings us another dimension of joy and learning - and horses are such great teachers. Ride on!
I used to do interior design in Beverly Hills. Now, I moved back to Virginia and still do interior design, but my hope is to find a spouse and design a nice comfy home for us and children. Desires change, I get it. God is all I really want, and I am very thankful He opened my eyes to so much more.
This doesn’t seem like a “transformation”. It just seems like a more in-depth viewpoint from an intelligent woman who has many talents, interests, and a beautiful inside as well as outside. She is more than just one-dimensional, and that’s a very good thing. Life is about balance. 💗😊
I just turned 38 three days ago, and I will say there has been a dramatic shift in my perspective, goals, and personal feelings very recently. If you are not making changes throughout your life, you are remaining stagnant and cannot grow as a person. It gives "leveling up" a whole new meaning.
I have been following Anna since jet set babe and enjoy her journey. I too went through a luxury phase. Now at 56 I feel happiest with less stuff and more living and enjoying simple things like a great cup of coffee with a good friend, achieving a milestone in yoga class or expanding my business model to more heavily focus on social impact. These things bring me far more JOY than my designer bags, many of which I sold. One of the bags I sold paid my way on a European cruise with my sisters a few years ago. I reflect on that experience and feel happy. I never think about the bag. The message I would say to young women is to expand the definition of luxury. Get the bag if it’s right for your style and budget, not because you think it will make you happy. It won’t! In fact the cost might actually cause anxiety and stress. Be grateful to have the privilege to choose how you live!
No problem...Those of us who were only here for the elegant style tips 😄 (not into designer bags or an elite lifestyle) are happy to hear if these changes. 🥂🎉 Wish I could’ve seen the de clutter videos.
I think Anna, that you achieved your goal. You are still the same inspiration you’ve always been to me and it’s sort of like you’ve climbed this mountain and are onto the next 🎉
Yes. Levelling Up can also be a spiritual journey. It can be a journey inwards and develope an intimate relationship with ourselves. Or even how to improve and deepen our relationships with others. 😊
I have a queen size bed. I got king bed size pillows and a king size quilt filled with duck feathers and down. It did not cost the earth (around $200 for pillows and quilt), and every time I climb into bed, I feel like a princess being pampered. That feeling of being pampered while it doesn't cost the earth is my kind of luxury.
Having manners, carrying yourself with confidence and poise, and being able to discern quality is important. I really do appreciate the quiet luxury approach. I see this strategy as the most effective when buying really anything- not just the more superficial items in life. So my point being, there is value in what you are saying which is just as I mentioned earlier, learn quality, manners, and how to present yourself ❤
Speaking from experience. I noticed a shift in myself around this age where I started to slow down and minimize the noise and clutter in my life. I was never someone who bought into the hype of social media or fashion trends so I didn’t require a massive change. I’ve always had great self control throughout my life so making little changes over time has taken a huge weight off my mind and allowed me to focus on things that are truly important to me. We can’t take our things with us but we can think about how we want to be remembered or the impact we had on others.
I appreciate that you spoke about how you reached your current viewpoint of life precisely because you reached your goal of living a high class/high society life. I think that sometimes you need to actually reach your goal (get to the top of the mountain, so to speak) in order to understand that there is another angle, or more, to life. Once you are the top of the mountain, you have a bird's eye view that you didn't have before and can see things you couldn't have possibly understood before. We all evolve. It's a part of life. I've been following your for most of your journey and I love seeing how you change.
Anna, this is a GREAT Q&A. Your energy is looking good. Your development since 2018 is lovely. You're COURAGEOUS for continuing on social media, is rough it here!!! I REALLY appreciated your level-up society info, as I was working on that at an earlier time. I hit the same "wall" you did. When you can buy anything in the mall, or go to the fancy parties, you suddenly see the DREAMING & STRIVING was the most energizing part! All is a sudden it's a building full of JUST STUFF, mostly passing fulfillment.
It takes courage to question publicly the core of what you do. Thank you for your integrity Anna ❤️❤️ I can still find your old videos insightful because they center around the big picture of leveling up and be a better version of yourself
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I never pursued luxury life nor want to, I am just a regular worker and do regular things and love my simple life and don't wish to change my material means, and have always been like this. That being said, something about your channel has always resonated with me, about self care and self respect and that message drew me in. I love that you share your personal journey with us and I think you are a fantastic person! Thank you
Hi Ana, watch out for hormonal changes. Doctors for some reason don't tell you, when you go to them with strange feelings. Progesterone tends to drop out around age 35-38, Estrogen drops out by 51-55, and testosterone can drop at any time, it's unpredictable. Don't let the loss of these hormones deprive you of your business. You can feel the same as you used to if you go to a good clinic and get replacements. Lots of women actually lose their job when this happens to them. It can cause drastic personality changes, you need your estrogen to be social and gregarious. You can head this off at the pass by getting replacements. I'm talking openly about this so all women can benefit and not lose the work they've put in for decades on businesses like this one.
Excellent points. Here in the US many ob/gyns won't talk about HRT due to the flawed Women's Health study from 20 years ago. These docs rather prescribe antidepressants and tell women to accept aging instead of helping women and prescribing HRT as was very common before the WH study. Since Anna is in Europe hopefully the doctors there are more supportive of giving proper care to women in All seasons of life.
@@thebootjournal6037 She might not realize what is going on and ask for the help. So many women get taken unaware by the symptoms and then suffer with them for years before someone figures it out. It should be common knowledge what the symptoms are and how to stop them immediately.
Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable with us. It's not just personal things; with Pluto entering Aquarius, the next 20 years will be about power to the people. Boastful displays of wealth, being out of touch with today's climate is a surefire way to struggle. I'm seeing lots of personal development creators switch towards a more approachable philosophy, and I think the mental level up is the absolute foundation that CANNOT be bypassed with a classy way of dress.
Anna, whatever and however you post I will follow you. You are articulate, have a desire to share and have a sense of humor. And you always have good advice on fashion, makeup and inner attitudes. Change and evolution are part of life. Thank you for sharing all of your views and inner work that reflects in the ease you display in your videos.
Anna, I prayed a prayer back in 2022 for God to show me how to dress and what materials to buy etc. Suddenly you popped up on my TH-cam feed randomly and I haven't been the same since. I changed my entire wardrobe with your advice and today I'm proud of the way I look and dress and now I'm teaching my own little daughters how to dress elegantly. You are an answer to my prayers and I'm so grateful to you!
Ana as your followers in TH-cam since 2018-present I love your level up journey over the time and I see you as a good friend that start change my well being, Thank you so much and I will continue to support you and your TH-cam channel for many years to come
I think luxury is an inner as well as outer way of being. True and authentic. Comfortable in your own skin and environment. Consistently growing and improving upon being genuine, empathetic, caring, giving, encouraging, having boundaries, setting goals. Our outter reflects our inner and let’s not forget this includes our words! Always have liked you Ana! Your heart of the matter was always apparent to me❤
I've been following you for a while. Loved the vids but never followed your high society makeovers. I believe you are simply moving on to the next step and I admire you for putting it out there in a video. You are simply maturing into another phase of the wonderful part of being human and a woman. Love your content, keep it going! Keep growing Anna. Blessings to you.
It’s that age old thing of you get the materialistic things and you still end up looking for more in life! You’ve matured, you’ve reached your material goals which is amazing and now you want to experience the deeper layers of life, I love that for you. I’ve been watching you for a while and I love this evolution for you.
Actually, it’s called peri-menopause, and the realization that her fertility window is closing. That stimulates much rethinking about life purpose in thoughtful, childless women.
I've been watching you forever. I love the way you've evolved. No one can change for the better "too much" ! You've said SO many valuable things to me as a much older woman. The idea of elegance has no age restriction. And that to me was so uplifting. Your realizations are beautiful. You're so inclusive, so encouraging and so brave to state how you've changed.
Anna I like your admitting that you’ve changed your perspective. It makes you real & genuine, and it's very humbling. I’m your fan although I’m not a fashionista. I’m an academic lecturer who is more interested in collecting knowledge, information & wisdom for my job. That gives me satisfaction. This year I’m spending most of my free time in my garden, planting & tending flowers, herbs & veggies. It's great when you find an activity that humbles you & brings you joy. All the best Anna, I’ll continue to watch this space ❤❤❤
I fully support you. If people don’t like or accept your changes, then they can go find someone else to follow. You’ll continue to draw the audience that aligns with you. So don’t worry about them! May God bless you so much 🙏🏼💙🥰
You look so much happier. I’m happy for you, your animals and husband. Not many people have a change for the better in life but you did. Congratulations! Love this content.
I still see the School of Affluence or the Anna Bey in you that I have seen and heard before in previous videos. This is exactly what you taught us before, everything in this video that you have talked about I feel I’ve heard it before just in different words maybe, wether you live simple or high class. What you teach us to elevate ourselves still stands today for whatever direction you want to go in. I’ve watched you for a couple of years now when I was straight out of high school. I’m so happy to hear from you in different aspects in your life full of change or difference. You are blooming in it.
One great example of how personal development is an evolving, independent journey. This is a valuable message. It includes everyone wherever they are ❤ I do think, hope, most substitute other areas with materialism if that's not them. To still benefit from the messages.
I appreciate your bluntness. Even when I disagree with your stance on a topic, your delivery tends to be humorous and endearing. With that being said, your current videos are better. They’re filled with substance. It also seems like you are telling every woman they can level up in their own life- in their own way. Which is more empowering to work with what you have and then strive for more day by day.
You are simply growing, maturing and changing as you go through your experiences, having learned from them. This is normal in life as we age, what we liked or were interested in changes.
I e been a follower for about two years. I think you're wonderful. You are always growing and evolving, as does your advice. That's the right way. If you (anyone) never changed your mind, your focus, your perspective, you turn stagnant. No need to always stay the same & say the same things. It's human and healthy to grow. I love you Anna. You've helped me have faith and hope in myself, and that was HUGE! You've helped me improve and change my life. I wish you all blessings.❤❤❤❤ You've been a blessing to me.
We can all live with less stuff. I like good stuff, but I try to use what I have. From my perspective at age 65, you are indeed entering a new chapter in your life. What I have always liked about you is that you learn from others, and you are a thinker! You will grow and mature as long as you stay open to learning, and think for yourself about things that matter to you. Bon voyage, Anna!
I feel completely at peace with your departure from the high society aspiration. Life and circumstances once took me into those circles and some of my most unkind and most unpleasant social interactions happened then and there. Elegance and personal development and aspiration can be peacefully separated from the toxicity high society quite often brings into your life.
That's great, I'm so happy for you! It's not easy to change or improve yourself, but I knew you were smart and true to yourself from the start. You were always showing pictures from your past life and talking about how you made some mistakes and changed. It takes a big person to notice these things and try to improve. Keep going forward. I've learned a lot from you, and I really appreciate you ❤️
I have so much respect for your balanced point of view on these subjects. I think you show up and have a lot of class and appreciate you sharing good advice.
I admire your consistency in the path to living like an affluent, first externally and now inwardly. Your courage to allow your wisdom to redefine "affluence" is inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey!
You say you’re not so good at communicating Anna, however may I say I find you to be so naturally articulate and well expressed. Even your speaking voice is a joy to listen to. I really enjoyed this video and you’ve encouraged me to reflect on my own values and reassess what is truly important to me, and that will always appear different for everyone. Best wishes from Melbourne Australia xx 💖
I am very proud of you. Thank you for your transparency. We all change, it’s part of life. We don’t know what the future holds. Cheers to change and becoming wiser and more self assured🥂
PS - THANK YOU for all of your style content, and classes. Over the last few years, you have REALLY helped me clarify and simplify what my style is, and how to create a "casual elegance" look that is Me. YOU have been my #1 teacher on this! I still see things and think "Nope" because I channel my inner Anna... 😘
I'm right there with you Anna! That lifestyle showed me how superficial people were and judgemental. Not my vibe anymore at all. I want to look nice but I don't need to be around those types of people. I like genuine people who really care about each other and not what they have. Kudos to you
I like how you are changing Madam. You are maturing enough to appreciate and have gratitude on simple things. And I can see that you are handling it well. Each of us have our own time and space on this particular phase, let's enjoy the ride of tides. 😊❤
Definitely don't leave all things elegance behind, Anna. Elegance goes very well with manners, kindness, responsibility, work ethic...all things integrity and levelling up. These topics are for everyone at all income levels & stages of life. Until we see a huge cultural shift where everyone behaves better, dresses respectibely, takes care of themselves, others, their surroundings better....KEEP reaching out! Women need your message.🇨🇦♥️
I understand completely. You're maturing emotionally & mentally. You are starting to feel fulfilled. I've changed a lot in the past 12 month, considering cxling my social accts because I'm just not interested anymore.
I really admire you Anna, I have been a follower for a long time and you helped teach me elegant, eloquence and femininity. Even if you cringe, I don't because your past videos were where you were at, and many of us needed it at the time. I have been able to become a better version of myself and level up thanks to you. and I, like you, have pivoted my needs. I don't buy luxury anymore, I have leveled up how I look, and I have/am working on my inner being. I only want to buy what I really will be using. I rather now spend my money on experiences and planning for my family (soon to be married yay and hopefully a mum soon!). Its natural to evolve like you said.
You are growing and maturing spiritually. Some people never do, and I think that is very sad. I hope that we all gather more than just wrinkles with the passage of time, I hope that we become a little wiser, a little more centered and balanced. You seem to be doing exactly that. Congratulations! Those are the things you are going to be taking with you at the end of the trip. PS: Having horses (I have 3) teach me so much about myself. They are very spiritual beings that reflect what is inside you. I'm constantly learning from them.
This is such a great video! I am 39 and my life turned upside down 3 years ago and lots of changes happened. People labelled me selfish for speaking what I want instead of keeping pleasing others as I did all my life. I left my partner after 11 years and everyone assumed that it is for a new man ha ha Little did they know that he chose to string me along for a long time lying he has the same future goals and I was too naïve at that time. People kept seeing me changing and they naturally fell off my life. I slowly rebuilt a better life for myself. You just outgrew the life you had before which is absolutely normal as we change so much when maturing. I didn`t really liked your older videos but you do look a very genuine person, all the best to you! x
Your new content is going to be so perfect for me! Once you get to a point where you have what the old you wanted, you get a chance to look around and see the holes, to see what needs attention NOW. Anyone who is still building to that point wouldn’t be able to understand and will probably keep thinking the change has to do with money, but it really is just the natural order of things ❤
One thing I have noticed is that us as humans, are so afraid of changes that whenever we see someone make a big shift we relate it to something negative rather than something that can be extremely positive. From the way you dress, your views, your hobbies everything can change because we also change as we grow, we have to consider that the things we liked when we were 18 will not be the same in our mid 20s or late 30s, we will find new hobbies, new things that interest us, our style will change as well.
I came across your channel 2021, especially the how to dress as an elegant lady, how to speak, how to level up and many others. That was a turning point in my life in a positive way, today I live a calm simple life and when I buy clothes I buy them because it’s functional for me not because of trend. Thank you @Anna Bey
Excellent video and transparent. One thing that stood out to me was you speaking on getting to where you wanted to be and maybe becoming "bored" if you will...But the great part of this, we need to become "bored" to move to OUR next level of life. No way around it. It's like saying, Ok I'm here, now what ? I found you some years ago and every now and again you pop in my head (via email ) to see what you are up to or teaching. Glad I opened this email to remind me you are a human being like us all. Much Love :)
I was an OG hater of yours lmao. I found troublesome the slight male gaze embedded in you previous videos, I still dislike when elegance is approached from the "nail a husband" point of view. But I stayed around for the general recommendations and realized you were not the stuck up b1tch that I thought at first. You are down to earth, transparent and open about your journey and THAT earned you this follower's respect. I agree with the rest, you have warmed up and despite you saying you might not be as charismatic, that genuineness does draw people towards you. I've learned valuable lessons from you and for that I'm grateful. I may still be broke lol but I see how I've levelled up in mental health, self esteem, confidence, relationships/bonds, work, dresscode, manners and networking from MY own personality as an introvert (tip for others: you don't have to change your introversion, autenticity will make better things for you regarding to networking). So thank you, Anna, and best wishes. 💚✨
Seems like that hate is still lingering cause you could have easily omitted the “b1tch” and we would have still gotten the idea
@@justinewhite2418 I agree.
@@justinewhite2418 you are drawing conclusions from the lack of reading comprehension skills. I said I realized she is not absolutely like that and she agrees, she pined my comment. 🤷🏻♀️ That is something I share with her, we are both direct. Maybe learn to appreciate that, I don't owe you any disclaimers or explanations.
@@manifest2203 ídem my reply to them. ✌🏼
@@kuramacabre I didn’t ask for an explanation though, the comment to me just sounded nice nasty. If you disagree no problem, we can all have our own opinions
She changed because she has accomplished all her goals and now is on a journey to create and accomplish new goals. It's how someone grows. 💗
Yup
People grow . As simple as that . 🤷
Anna has a net worth of $82 million dollars. She’s done with luxury because she has all the shiny stuff.
@@faustinreeder1075 may I pls know how do you know this ?
You matured. Simple as that. You left the materialistic and acquisitive season of your life and are more interested in deeper things.
But she is still living the affluent lifestyle. People are acting as if she’s changed her life. No, she’s just grown tired of and accustomed to it.
Well because it's over
Like it was at the very beginning of the 90s
& she's hardly the first
My thoughts exactly: it’s called maturity.
Rather, this type of content is generally no longer interesting. Plus, there are only some many things you can discuss. Similar to how Beauty Gurus went on to lifestyle content.
It is rather that she has now achieved everything she was set out to affluent wise, and now she can focus on other things.
Anna, I have been following you from the "Jet set babe" days. What has happened to you is maturity. Once we obtain relationships, home, wardrobe etc. we enjoy and serve us, we recognize that the little things are the big things. Consumerism is a trap that causes financial insecurity and unhappiness. Intentional living based on a deeper life purpose is uplifting. I am now 56 and have a successful marriage, business, fitness routine, intentional wardrobe etc. and what makes me most happy is helping others through the social impact initiative I started using a percentage of my business profits. We provide coaching, training to support not for profits that focus on health disparity, education and career advancement in underserved communities. Happiness is an inward not an outward journey.
I couldn't agree more! I was just about to post a comment about maturity and you nailed it! 🎯💯
I believe that one changes, evolves, grows, matures every
5-10 years (not everyone unfortunately) 😒 That's life...as Rod Stewart sang "I wish, that, I knew what I know now, when I was younger". Sometimes I believe it's unfair but it is what it is.
I admire you! ❤
This. Every word of this. And these people commenting just haven’t had that experience and thus aren’t accustomed to it. How someone said that she isn’t fascinated by the glamorous life anymore. And I dont think people realize that you can’t be fascinated by something that is your normal. Your normal isn’t fascinating at all lol. Anna has simply…matured
Anna you are Always so smart and honesta and I just want to thank you for share with us you're experience, we level up together with you🤩💐
@@squishysirenita Totally! My current evolution is successful aging which is less about achievement and more about acceptance and navigating change and loss.
Your goals are redundant for you because you fulfilled your goals. You married a wealthy man and are living a comfortable life of means both with his and your incomes which is exactly what you set out to do. Totally normal that you would establish new goals now that original goals have been met.
Um, define wealthy? I didn't think mid level banker is wealthy. Is $100k salary wealthy?
@@iss8504 It is enough money to live well on with no children, and no doubt Anna is successful in her own right.
@@iss8504$100,000 yearly is wealthy. How much do you make? $20,000? That’s right. Understand dollars before opening your Italian mouth
@iss8504 You sound so bitter and jealous. For all I care, Anna has a better life than you.
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This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book Women's Magic Truths. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
Anna, you’ve arrived!
Affluence isn’t fascinated with affluence.
I think that the new Anna is more organic. Always loved her authenticity. Whatever she does, she nails it.
I agree. She rocks.
Like her or hate her, it's impossible to deny that Anna has HUSTLED and worked hard to achieve her social media and personal goals. The constancy and stability and ambition required for this takes a lot of courage, and given her roots, those motivations were completely understandable. I applaud any woman with ambition and brains, and Anna has both. Cheers, friend! May you continue to hit every goal and serve the world at your highest level.
The thing is: You've achieved your goals and now wants something new. Congratularions Anna 🎉
Yes, this is life. As we mature, our goals in life will change too. Its good that she made lots of money when she was younger so now when she found things more meaningful, she can pursue those. This is true wealth and luxury, having options and being able to make choices.
Dr. Gabor Mate mentioned that people’s unhappiness, depression and emotional suppression comes from living for other people and not being truly authentic to yourself. He said if you live unhappy and not authentically yourself, you will get sick and internally be unhappy. It’s great that you are realizing this is not for you and focusing on your body, your environment and your happiness.
As someone who has also had a very middle class life-style with a corporate career, AND who has had a luxury lifestyle with a home in an affluent neighborhood with house-keepers, maintenance, and assistants I can honestly say this: I would rather have inner peace and be debt-free than drive a lulxury car. I do still like quality clothing and cosmetics, but they are for ME - not for showing off to others. I still love you and support your public transformation. Some times we just have to change our priorities. No matter what neighborhood I live in, or where I shop, what is most important to me about the people I spend my time with, is that they are genuine, compassionate, and have integrity - no matter what their job is... no matter what kind of house they live in or what they drive... no matter what their hobbies are. Keep living your best life Anna, whatever that means to you. One more thing I 100% agree that
Good grief you guys she’s not divorced. I think people assumed she got divorced. She’s just in a new life season. Watch the whole video.
Yeah that is what i think too.I didn't hear anything about divorce.
well , i'm happy she is not divorced😊😊😊😊 but the way the title is worded , it is somewhat , misleading . if it were worded different , people would not have assumed it to be so🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨.......
Maybe folks assume because, you know, the video title? Guess it's just click bait... Again...
Actually I have to say, it's not clickbait. On Instagram people send her questions through her stories and as you can see in the display picture there is a question that was asked by someone which was not really a question in my eyes. Ana's video title has to do with the way that person worded their "question."
Love you Ana.❤
Minimalism and quality over quantity can be extremely elegant!!
As someone who has watched every video you made and been along for the ride, I always understood I had to choose the the parts of your content that applied to me. For example, I was already married, so there was a lot of things that didn’t apply to me. High Society doesn’t interest me. I’m quite a homebody that enjoys being with her animals. However, thanks to your content and free classes. I was able to level up my home, my wardrobe, my persons, as well as my business, I can honestly say following you and doing the work has changed my life🥂 thank you, Anna❤️
Same for me. I’ve always found useful things in her content even when I was not necessarily her target audience.
I agree it is an "age thing" at least for some of us. You get to a point where you literally do just wake up one morning and ask yourself... What am I doing? What IS really important to me? Important in my relationships?Important in the world?
And then slowly you realize the things and people that really aren't serving you anymore, and you find yourself in this wonderful journey of actually coming to peace with yourself and life.
I love seeing your quiet/still life and you being able to connect with yourself and this shift in your mindset. Embrace it fully. ❤
This is what's happened with me. Im in my 30's, my husband, kids, animals extended family are so much more important to me than material things are.
I guess the bible is right then to preach simplicity
She didn’t get divorced, she said “I have two horses that I see 3, 4 times a week, I have a dog, I have my husband” the headline was just to attract views lol
That is certainly a strange choice of listing though😁
I thought she must have remarried 😂
It worked 😂
Thanks- won’t waste more than the minute it’s been playing then
Very desperate click bate, I like Anna but this is very distasteful
Ooh girl! This video title made me nervous 😬. It’s beautiful that you are continuing to evolve. People who never change are sad. We should always be in new life seasons and learning different things. Once you get to certain milestones in your life, you focus more on experiences and protecting your peace. Cheers 🥂
Wouldn't she make a great mother?! Her children would be so well rounded and brave in this world.
Guys she didn't get a divorce, she's still wearing her ring and she just addressed an assumption regarding her undergoing a major change due to something big like being broke or getting a divorce
Edit: guys even if it was clickbait, that's ok, it's TH-cam and it just works like this 😅 hate the game not the player
But why would she add it in the title like that? :/
I was confused when i saw the ring.. this makes sense
It's a clickbait, used to make people click on it and watch the video to find out if the title is true or not. @@minervag6777
@@minervag6777 That's the golden rule of the internet, a shock value title :) mind me I am not attacking her or anything, she knows the game and how to play it, and she's a smart business woman :) i would do the same :)
Maybe click bait 😂
I’ve been watching you for years and I can see your evolution.
I think it’s elegant and self aware to continue to mature through life.
Sometimes being an example is the best influence.
Thank you for your openness! ❤
I personally feel like you have gotten very warm and down to earth lately. I noticed a while ago that you seemed more genuine and empathetic in your videos. Had no idea about the divorce. Wish you all the best, and thank you for the videos you’ve provided during these years, you taught me so much. Started watching you as a 15 year old girl. Tack Anna 🩷
Me too.. i used to watch her a while ago and as much as i enjoyed her tips she had this thing about her that didnt feel authentic. Lately though she seems different, warmer as you say and more genuine
@@buyi249 Very true! Not until recently I felt that she was resonant for the first time
She is not divorced, it's why you had no idea about it :)
She is not going to divorce! Listen better!
@@blazenkatkalcevic6374 I replayed the video and didn’t hear anything about a divorce, thought that was the whole theme of the video between the lines. When I heard her say husband I just assumed she got remarried 😂
I appreciate this shift so much. I’ve also shifted my focus and have found much more joy in the process. I am focusing more on my health, character, and vision for my children and it has felt much more in line with my values than having handbag goals.
You have come a long way. I am 65 and have tuned into your work off and on over the years. You are still beautiful but more so from the inner work and depth you have created within yourself. Personal development was my work before retirement and I love to see your growth and development of your persona. ❤
Guys, she did not get divorced. Someone just asked if she did 😅 Watch the video before you leave your "best wishes/condolences" in the comments.
How is this clickbait? The picture on the thumbnail looks like a question she received. She didn't say she is divorced. Comprehension is key!
Anna i totally agree with you. This life is all about balance. Merging duality and turning it into unity. I love the new mindset you're on ❤️
I had a friend who couldn't accept my personal growth. I think she didn't want to let go of the past, or felt left behind.
That happened to me, too.
People should learn how to watch videos. She is still very happy and VERY MARRIED… I’m happy you made this video, it’s ok to switch up the niche and put the more shallow things aside! 🌸💫
Communication is the basis of your job and English is your second language, yet, you communicate magnificently - and your evolution is palpable. It is my impression that you reached your former goals and you have set new ones for yourself. The maturation process in life (and inner-work) help us to question ourselves and make the right choices. Your evolution is not surprising and it is commendable. I look forward to more of your channel and your journal. I am a horsewoman as well; when I spend time at the farm where my mare boards - the rest of the world slips away. I think this is the blessing of embracing what interests us - it brings us another dimension of joy and learning - and horses are such great teachers. Ride on!
Beautifully said ✨️
I used to do interior design in Beverly Hills. Now, I moved back to Virginia and still do interior design, but my hope is to find a spouse and design a nice comfy home for us and children. Desires change, I get it. God is all I really want, and I am very thankful He opened my eyes to so much more.
This doesn’t seem like a “transformation”. It just seems like a more in-depth viewpoint from an intelligent woman who has many talents, interests, and a beautiful inside as well as outside. She is more than just one-dimensional, and that’s a very good thing. Life is about balance. 💗😊
Ooooh, girl, grade A clickbait title! Mad salute and hats off to you, the masses deserve it.
I haven’t clicked on a video in a while but one this got me. 😅
I knew it couldn’t be true
What title did u see ? It seems it may have changed?
I just turned 38 three days ago, and I will say there has been a dramatic shift in my perspective, goals, and personal feelings very recently. If you are not making changes throughout your life, you are remaining stagnant and cannot grow as a person. It gives "leveling up" a whole new meaning.
I have been following Anna since jet set babe and enjoy her journey. I too went through a luxury phase. Now at 56 I feel happiest with less stuff and more living and enjoying simple things like a great cup of coffee with a good friend, achieving a milestone in yoga class or expanding my business model to more heavily focus on social impact. These things bring me far more JOY than my designer bags, many of which I sold. One of the bags I sold paid my way on a European cruise with my sisters a few years ago. I reflect on that experience and feel happy. I never think about the bag. The message I would say to young women is to expand the definition of luxury. Get the bag if it’s right for your style and budget, not because you think it will make you happy. It won’t! In fact the cost might actually cause anxiety and stress. Be grateful to have the privilege to choose how you live!
No problem...Those of us who were only here for the elegant style tips 😄 (not into designer bags or an elite lifestyle) are happy to hear if these changes. 🥂🎉 Wish I could’ve seen the de clutter videos.
I think Anna, that you achieved your goal. You are still the same inspiration you’ve always been to me and it’s sort of like you’ve climbed this mountain and are onto the next 🎉
I appreciate your honesty, perception, adaptability, Anna. You have a true voice to help women. Praying here for you
Yes. Levelling Up can also be a spiritual journey. It can be a journey inwards and develope an intimate relationship with ourselves. Or even how to improve and deepen our relationships with others. 😊
I have a queen size bed. I got king bed size pillows and a king size quilt filled with duck feathers and down. It did not cost the earth (around $200 for pillows and quilt), and every time I climb into bed, I feel like a princess being pampered. That feeling of being pampered while it doesn't cost the earth is my kind of luxury.
Having manners, carrying yourself with confidence and poise, and being able to discern quality is important. I really do appreciate the quiet luxury approach. I see this strategy as the most effective when buying really anything- not just the more superficial items in life. So my point being, there is value in what you are saying which is just as I mentioned earlier, learn quality, manners, and how to present yourself ❤
Speaking from experience. I noticed a shift in myself around this age where I started to slow down and minimize the noise and clutter in my life. I was never someone who bought into the hype of social media or fashion trends so I didn’t require a massive change. I’ve always had great self control throughout my life so making little changes over time has taken a huge weight off my mind and allowed me to focus on things that are truly important to me. We can’t take our things with us but we can think about how we want to be remembered or the impact we had on others.
It takes courage to stand up for yourself. ❤
I appreciate that you spoke about how you reached your current viewpoint of life precisely because you reached your goal of living a high class/high society life. I think that sometimes you need to actually reach your goal (get to the top of the mountain, so to speak) in order to understand that there is another angle, or more, to life. Once you are the top of the mountain, you have a bird's eye view that you didn't have before and can see things you couldn't have possibly understood before. We all evolve. It's a part of life. I've been following your for most of your journey and I love seeing how you change.
Anna, this is a GREAT Q&A. Your energy is looking good. Your development since 2018 is lovely. You're COURAGEOUS for continuing on social media, is rough it here!!!
I REALLY appreciated your level-up society info, as I was working on that at an earlier time. I hit the same "wall" you did. When you can buy anything in the mall, or go to the fancy parties, you suddenly see the DREAMING & STRIVING was the most energizing part! All is a sudden it's a building full of JUST STUFF, mostly passing fulfillment.
I love to see you “change” like a flower 🩷 the elegance, you being open in your platform, amazing to see ✨ wish you all the best Anna
It takes courage to question publicly the core of what you do. Thank you for your integrity Anna ❤️❤️ I can still find your old videos insightful because they center around the big picture of leveling up and be a better version of yourself
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
you can look his name up online and you will find all you need.
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
I never pursued luxury life nor want to, I am just a regular worker and do regular things and love my simple life and don't wish to change my material means, and have always been like this. That being said, something about your channel has always resonated with me, about self care and self respect and that message drew me in. I love that you share your personal journey with us and I think you are a fantastic person! Thank you
I love this evolved you. You're more relatable. Change is necessary for growth.
Hi Ana, watch out for hormonal changes. Doctors for some reason don't tell you, when you go to them with strange feelings. Progesterone tends to drop out around age 35-38, Estrogen drops out by 51-55, and testosterone can drop at any time, it's unpredictable. Don't let the loss of these hormones deprive you of your business. You can feel the same as you used to if you go to a good clinic and get replacements. Lots of women actually lose their job when this happens to them. It can cause drastic personality changes, you need your estrogen to be social and gregarious. You can head this off at the pass by getting replacements. I'm talking openly about this so all women can benefit and not lose the work they've put in for decades on businesses like this one.
Excellent points. Here in the US many ob/gyns won't talk about HRT due to the flawed Women's Health study from 20 years ago. These docs rather prescribe antidepressants and tell women to accept aging instead of helping women and prescribing HRT as was very common before the WH study. Since Anna is in Europe hopefully the doctors there are more supportive of giving proper care to women in All seasons of life.
@@thebootjournal6037 She might not realize what is going on and ask for the help. So many women get taken unaware by the symptoms and then suffer with them for years before someone figures it out. It should be common knowledge what the symptoms are and how to stop them immediately.
Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable with us. It's not just personal things; with Pluto entering Aquarius, the next 20 years will be about power to the people. Boastful displays of wealth, being out of touch with today's climate is a surefire way to struggle. I'm seeing lots of personal development creators switch towards a more approachable philosophy, and I think the mental level up is the absolute foundation that CANNOT be bypassed with a classy way of dress.
We love character development! Leveling up is all about redefining goals! Love you Anna!
Its called growth.
Anna, whatever and however you post I will follow you. You are articulate, have a desire to share and have a sense of humor. And you always have good advice on fashion, makeup and inner attitudes. Change and evolution are part of life. Thank you for sharing all of your views and inner work that reflects in the ease you display in your videos.
Anna, I prayed a prayer back in 2022 for God to show me how to dress and what materials to buy etc. Suddenly you popped up on my TH-cam feed randomly and I haven't been the same since. I changed my entire wardrobe with your advice and today I'm proud of the way I look and dress and now I'm teaching my own little daughters how to dress elegantly. You are an answer to my prayers and I'm so grateful to you!
She's not divorced!! 😂 She responded to what someone said, watch the whole video!
Omg thank God. I was starting to get sad, I'm still listening
@@SuzannaDiebes she actually matured.
Ana as your followers in TH-cam since 2018-present
I love your level up journey over the time and I see you as a good friend that start change my well being, Thank you so much
and I will continue to support you and your TH-cam channel for many years to come
I think you’ve never been more beautiful. 😊 Your inner beauty is being reflected on your face and it’s absolutely lovely.
I think luxury is an inner as well as outer way of being. True and authentic. Comfortable in your own skin and environment. Consistently growing and improving upon being genuine, empathetic, caring, giving, encouraging, having boundaries, setting goals.
Our outter reflects our inner and let’s not forget this includes our words!
Always have liked you Ana! Your heart of the matter was always apparent to me❤
I've been following you for a while. Loved the vids but never followed your high society makeovers. I believe you are simply moving on to the next step and I admire you for putting it out there in a video. You are simply maturing into another phase of the wonderful part of being human and a woman. Love your content, keep it going! Keep growing Anna. Blessings to you.
It’s that age old thing of you get the materialistic things and you still end up looking for more in life! You’ve matured, you’ve reached your material goals which is amazing and now you want to experience the deeper layers of life, I love that for you. I’ve been watching you for a while and I love this evolution for you.
I love this! It’s called “growth”! Good for you Anna!
Actually, it’s called peri-menopause, and the realization that her fertility window is closing. That stimulates much rethinking about life purpose in thoughtful, childless women.
@@suzanneemerson2625 Stop being a miserable troll.
Your the ‘best’ Anna. Keep ‘leveling up’ It’s life at its best.
I've been watching you forever. I love the way you've evolved. No one can change for the better "too much" ! You've said SO many valuable things to me as a much older woman. The idea of elegance has no age restriction. And that to me was so uplifting. Your realizations are beautiful. You're so inclusive, so encouraging and so brave to state how you've changed.
Dear Anna, I enjoy your channel now even more. You emanate class from the inside out. Something that I aspire to do.
Anna I like your admitting that you’ve changed your perspective. It makes you real & genuine, and it's very humbling. I’m your fan although I’m not a fashionista. I’m an academic lecturer who is more interested in collecting knowledge, information & wisdom for my job. That gives me satisfaction. This year I’m spending most of my free time in my garden, planting & tending flowers, herbs & veggies. It's great when you find an activity that humbles you & brings you joy. All the best Anna, I’ll continue to watch this space ❤❤❤
I fully support you. If people don’t like or accept your changes, then they can go find someone else to follow. You’ll continue to draw the audience that aligns with you. So don’t worry about them! May God bless you so much 🙏🏼💙🥰
People evolve and I’m happy for you, and I’m thankful for followiong you. You’re a breath of fresh air in this world of consumerism.
You look so much happier. I’m happy for you, your animals and husband. Not many people have a change for the better in life but you did. Congratulations! Love this content.
I still see the School of Affluence or the Anna Bey in you that I have seen and heard before in previous videos. This is exactly what you taught us before, everything in this video that you have talked about I feel I’ve heard it before just in different words maybe, wether you live simple or high class. What you teach us to elevate ourselves still stands today for whatever direction you want to go in. I’ve watched you for a couple of years now when I was straight out of high school. I’m so happy to hear from you in different aspects in your life full of change or difference. You are blooming in it.
Elegance is about how one presents themselves and how we treat one another
What? When did this happen?
One great example of how personal development is an evolving, independent journey. This is a valuable message. It includes everyone wherever they are ❤ I do think, hope, most substitute other areas with materialism if that's not them. To still benefit from the messages.
One of your most authentic videos. Please continue to be you and continue to be your best version.
I appreciate your bluntness. Even when I disagree with your stance on a topic, your delivery tends to be humorous and endearing.
With that being said, your current videos are better. They’re filled with substance. It also seems like you are telling every woman they can level up in their own life- in their own way. Which is more empowering to work with what you have and then strive for more day by day.
You are simply growing, maturing and changing as you go through your experiences, having learned from them. This is normal in life as we age, what we liked or were interested in changes.
I e been a follower for about two years. I think you're wonderful. You are always growing and evolving, as does your advice. That's the right way. If you (anyone) never changed your mind, your focus, your perspective, you turn stagnant. No need to always stay the same & say the same things. It's human and healthy to grow. I love you Anna. You've helped me have faith and hope in myself, and that was HUGE! You've helped me improve and change my life. I wish you all blessings.❤❤❤❤ You've been a blessing to me.
We can all live with less stuff. I like good stuff, but I try to use what I have. From my perspective at age 65, you are indeed entering a new chapter in your life. What I have always liked about you is that you learn from others, and you are a thinker! You will grow and mature as long as you stay open to learning, and think for yourself about things that matter to you. Bon voyage, Anna!
I feel completely at peace with your departure from the high society aspiration. Life and circumstances once took me into those circles and some of my most unkind and most unpleasant social interactions happened then and there. Elegance and personal development and aspiration can be peacefully separated from the toxicity high society quite often brings into your life.
each decade brings its own shift, for good or for bad depends on you. you're just getting started. have fun!
That's great, I'm so happy for you! It's not easy to change or improve yourself, but I knew you were smart and true to yourself from the start. You were always showing pictures from your past life and talking about how you made some mistakes and changed. It takes a big person to notice these things and try to improve.
Keep going forward. I've learned a lot from you, and I really appreciate you ❤️
Life is not boring unless you are lifeless. Now you want to live your life and not just through other’s notions. This is wonderful! Good for you.❤
I’m very happy to see that you’ve shared this change with us. I did the same thing myself years ago. I’m enjoying the simplicity and authenticity.
I have so much respect for your balanced point of view on these subjects. I think you show up and have a lot of class and appreciate you sharing good advice.
I admire your consistency in the path to living like an affluent, first externally and now inwardly. Your courage to allow your wisdom to redefine "affluence" is inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey!
You say you’re not so good at communicating Anna, however may I say I find you to be so naturally articulate and well expressed. Even your speaking voice is a joy to listen to. I really enjoyed this video and you’ve encouraged me to reflect on my own values and reassess what is truly important to me, and that will always appear different for everyone. Best wishes from Melbourne Australia xx 💖
I am very proud of you. Thank you for your transparency. We all change, it’s part of life. We don’t know what the future holds. Cheers to change and becoming wiser and more self assured🥂
PS - THANK YOU for all of your style content, and classes. Over the last few years, you have REALLY helped me clarify and simplify what my style is, and how to create a "casual elegance" look that is Me. YOU have been my #1 teacher on this! I still see things and think "Nope" because I channel my inner Anna... 😘
I'm right there with you Anna! That lifestyle showed me how superficial people were and judgemental. Not my vibe anymore at all. I want to look nice but I don't need to be around those types of people. I like genuine people who really care about each other and not what they have. Kudos to you
I like how you are changing Madam. You are maturing enough to appreciate and have gratitude on simple things. And I can see that you are handling it well. Each of us have our own time and space on this particular phase, let's enjoy the ride of tides. 😊❤
We love you Anna Bey! I feel the same way! I was also in your elegance school 🥹 sending you love and light.
Definitely don't leave all things elegance behind, Anna. Elegance goes very well with manners, kindness, responsibility, work ethic...all things integrity and levelling up. These topics are for everyone at all income levels & stages of life. Until we see a huge cultural shift where everyone behaves better, dresses respectibely, takes care of themselves, others, their surroundings better....KEEP reaching out! Women need your message.🇨🇦♥️
I understand completely. You're maturing emotionally & mentally. You are starting to feel fulfilled. I've changed a lot in the past 12 month, considering cxling my social accts because I'm just not interested anymore.
I really admire you Anna, I have been a follower for a long time and you helped teach me elegant, eloquence and femininity. Even if you cringe, I don't because your past videos were where you were at, and many of us needed it at the time. I have been able to become a better version of myself and level up thanks to you. and I, like you, have pivoted my needs. I don't buy luxury anymore, I have leveled up how I look, and I have/am working on my inner being. I only want to buy what I really will be using. I rather now spend my money on experiences and planning for my family (soon to be married yay and hopefully a mum soon!). Its natural to evolve like you said.
You are growing and maturing spiritually. Some people never do, and I think that is very sad. I hope that we all gather more than just wrinkles with the passage of time, I hope that we become a little wiser, a little more centered and balanced. You seem to be doing exactly that. Congratulations! Those are the things you are going to be taking with you at the end of the trip. PS: Having horses (I have 3) teach me so much about myself. They are very spiritual beings that reflect what is inside you. I'm constantly learning from them.
This is such a great video! I am 39 and my life turned upside down 3 years ago and lots of changes happened. People labelled me selfish for speaking what I want instead of keeping pleasing others as I did all my life. I left my partner after 11 years and everyone assumed that it is for a new man ha ha Little did they know that he chose to string me along for a long time lying he has the same future goals and I was too naïve at that time. People kept seeing me changing and they naturally fell off my life. I slowly rebuilt a better life for myself. You just outgrew the life you had before which is absolutely normal as we change so much when maturing. I didn`t really liked your older videos but you do look a very genuine person, all the best to you! x
Your new content is going to be so perfect for me! Once you get to a point where you have what the old you wanted, you get a chance to look around and see the holes, to see what needs attention NOW. Anyone who is still building to that point wouldn’t be able to understand and will probably keep thinking the change has to do with money, but it really is just the natural order of things ❤
One thing I have noticed is that us as humans, are so afraid of changes that whenever we see someone make a big shift we relate it to something negative rather than something that can be extremely positive. From the way you dress, your views, your hobbies everything can change because we also change as we grow, we have to consider that the things we liked when we were 18 will not be the same in our mid 20s or late 30s, we will find new hobbies, new things that interest us, our style will change as well.
I came across your channel 2021, especially the how to dress as an elegant lady, how to speak, how to level up and many others. That was a turning point in my life in a positive way, today I live a calm simple life and when I buy clothes I buy them because it’s functional for me not because of trend. Thank you @Anna Bey
Excellent video and transparent. One thing that stood out to me was you speaking on getting to where you wanted to be and maybe becoming "bored" if you will...But the great part of this, we need to become "bored" to move to OUR next level of life. No way around it. It's like saying, Ok I'm here, now what ? I found you some years ago and every now and again you pop in my head (via email ) to see what you are up to or teaching. Glad I opened this email to remind me you are a human being like us all. Much Love :)
Change is part of life.
If you don't change over time, you're doing it wrong.
Anna! You changed focus simply because you got what you wanted for so long. You've reached your goal! Congratulations 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 that's the process.