Hola Paz , oh you're just the best coach out there!!, absolutely text book explanation .This is exactly what is happening to me right now with my dumper ex. Today she reached out after a month of no contact after a traumatic break up. You are the true power of the Phoenix, and I would like to Thank you for passing it on to me by means of your program. For all the expert guidance you are offering, no BS , just the truth !! I truly thank you for who you are and from the ❤️, you've given me so much strength and resiliance. Sending you the biggest hug ever 🤗
They come back; mine did. They sent me a letter and returned some meaningless things of mine. The letter read he was sorry. And that we should make a clean break from each other. By this time, I had already been in NC for two months. Now it's been seven months I realize I dont want him back. I stopped obsessively thinking about him.
I'm in radio silence going on 6 weeks. I am do the work again to move forward and be optimistic about finding a better human with the emotional maturity to have a conversation than dumb text me after 8 weeks of building an intense connection. I took myself off the dating apps and now I am working on my energy to hopefully attract better. I already have an amazing life I created. I just get pushed back down every time I give a guy a chance. Very tired of wasting my time with these insecure men out here. Total losers.
Avoidants will make risk assessment. The indirect direct result is them testing your interest so they can be sure whether they will be rejected or not.
Yes, exactly. When someone has a fear of being rejected, rejecting others becomes the ultimate defense mechanism for them, and I’ll give you a brief explanation as to why. When someone is familiar with rejection and knows how bad rejection feels like, they will AVOID it at all costs. Also by rejecting someone else they are “protected” and cannot be rejected… Hope it makes sense! Oh yeah, it was really good. Really well done I love the quality of the video and the layout and everything really well done thank you.
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Hola Paz , oh you're just the best coach out there!!, absolutely text book explanation .This is exactly what is happening to me right now with my dumper ex. Today she reached out after a month of no contact after a traumatic break up. You are the true power of the Phoenix, and I would like to Thank you for passing it on to me by means of your program.
For all the expert guidance you are offering, no BS , just the truth !! I truly thank you for who you are and from the ❤️, you've given me so much strength and resiliance. Sending you the biggest hug ever 🤗
They come back; mine did. They sent me a letter and returned some meaningless things of mine. The letter read he was sorry. And that we should make a clean break from each other. By this time, I had already been in NC for two months. Now it's been seven months I realize I dont want him back. I stopped obsessively thinking about him.
I'm in radio silence going on 6 weeks. I am do the work again to move forward and be optimistic about finding a better human with the emotional maturity to have a conversation than dumb text me after 8 weeks of building an intense connection. I took myself off the dating apps and now I am working on my energy to hopefully attract better. I already have an amazing life I created. I just get pushed back down every time I give a guy a chance. Very tired of wasting my time with these insecure men out here. Total losers.
Avoidants will make risk assessment. The indirect direct result is them testing your interest so they can be sure whether they will be rejected or not.
Yes! That’s exactly right!
@@PazGoldmanOfficial I know. I’m avoidant myself lol
Lolllll 😂😂😂
So you are afraid to be rejected but you reject others ? Make it make sense.
Yes, exactly.
When someone has a fear of being rejected, rejecting others becomes the ultimate defense mechanism for them, and I’ll give you a brief explanation as to why.
When someone is familiar with rejection and knows how bad rejection feels like, they will AVOID it at all costs. Also by rejecting someone else they are “protected” and cannot be rejected…
Hope it makes sense! Oh yeah, it was really good. Really well done I love the quality of the video and the layout and everything really well done thank you.