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I had broke up with my girlfriend late last year. We continued to see each other and have sex. Two and a half months ago she finally had a new boyfriend and a month after that they moved in down the street. This isn't quite monkey branching, what would this be considered? I was only mad at the way she handled it in the end but hey I made the call myself, what is there for me to be mad about? I am realize I didn't grieve the loss of our relationship because we were seeing each other but have been working on it now.

Timely video, thank you.

Lol... coach you're the man. Greatly appreciative of your knowledge... 😅

Hoping everything will be alright 😢

I have a question for you my ex left and went back to her ex-boyfriend. It’s over a year and she still contacting me. I told her I don’t stay friends with my exes, but she wants to be friends. What should I do?

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I love you Paz!! Monkey branching is the worst!!

This is so true My ex monkey branch with his friend from work And now - he quit the work 😅 because he will work with his new girlfriend - he was lifeguard, now he will teaches how to swim with her He is in no conntact with his father, he did not see with his mother from that time when they Heard about it He cutted all his friends He is almost 40, leaving with his 26 new gf and her child (funny thing - she did the same with her housband) I do my best to level up - he looks śoo bad, but still talking that he is so happy now 😅

היי פז תוכל בבקשה להעלות את מדע הבריאות מוקלט? או המצויינות? פליזז

Thanks coach. I was lucky didn’t get jealous shook the blokes hand thanked him said she was never mine was just my time with her good luck. Never wanted to get revenge it will all end in a mess. Did get a bit angry because oh her lies the money she took and blaming me it was my fault she did what she did I mad her do it. Plus was angry she put our 2 year old in a very compromised and toxic position. But it will all end up being a mess for her in so lucky. I should have left when I wanted to when she started treating me like crap 3 times I wanted to but with a newborn she even abandoned us both when he was just born but came home had lost natal depression so it was hard and I wanted him to have a family thinking it could be fixed. Dr even sent her to counseling she went once and that was that. I’m so lucky and you explaine I so well without this help I would be stuck. But I’m healing and leveling up big time. Thanks coach

My girlfriend hit me 5 box's in head and ripped my shirt off and I stayed another 2 years before she monkey branched 😂

Can someone be psychotic enough to be able to completely erase you from their memory through sheer will-power? My ex monkey branched from me in an unhealthy way involving her mother and mother’s friend then blocked me on everything entirely. A lot of external influence in her decision, and picked up the first guy who showed interest - her mother’s friend’s son.

My ex monkey branched, and now he takes her to the same restaurants. He told me I deserve someone better and I’ll find someone else. He also said they were soulmates. After 10 years, he monkey branched and created distance from me. He even got a tattoo by her and introduce them to his parents, and doing common law together so she can stay in the country

Hello i am sorry to bothered you i have noticed problems on one of high school musical foil balloon it red brown circle one of high school musical first movie of high school musical to 2006 one. Here what I have noticed 3 little problems on it 1 Vanessa as Gabriella head is not next to zac head and her legs not to zac legs but under circle. 2 vanessa as Gabriella hand is covering sharpay photo a bit and where it coving a bit their is blank space on it 3 their is blank space on it I really understand that manufacturer can't re make them but i what need to know why did they make problems on it when they should know they are real people and that make me think and feel they didnt care about high school musical balloons . Here what they should have better done. 1 they should make name little smaller then vanessa photo would be near to Zac . 2 move sharpay photo little by chad photo then put Vanessa photo near to Zac photo and her legs next to zac legs not under circle. 3 so their no blank space on it. I hope you understand that my feelings and thoughts on it. Make it into 36 inch size. Ps i have austim i am so stress by it. Ps if their way of speck or giving my open opinions on it to manufacturer who makes them call M&D industries please. What is your thoughts on it

I went through this just 2 weeks back on my birthday of all the days she could pick, after being together for 2 years she left me for someone else, "left me" is an understatement, she discarded me with not remorse, she told me she was pregnant by the new guy and that she was never really in it with me, you would swear I did her wrong but all I've ever did was love and be there for her, whats worse is she tried to guilty trip me as though i was the one at fault, im hurt but ima take my time to heal.

Her whole strategy was to replace you...best just to congratulate her on job well done!

My ex and I had sex one last time about 2 and 1/2 months ago. She had a new man 4 days later and then they moved in 5 blocks down the road just a month and a half after that. This will not end well for them LOL

rebound = free sex just using them until time pases until the can figure out there life, rebounds are not monkey branches, people meet to many people fast theese days threw apps

it is my imagination that will always prevent the ex from coming back

My boyfriend of 11 years told me, it was time to move on and he met someone, the telephone conversation took only 5 minutes. I was not able to spend every weekend during the 5 semesters of my studies with him and from September, for two years I will be in a full program, so, "I would not have time for him" as he was saying in his messages before he fully discarded me. I was extremely supportive during his studies, financially, emotionally, and phisically doing his assignments for one year. My heart is broken terribly, I know the main reason is I and my unavailability. The saddest thing is that the only idea that seems comforting is to have him back. I am also doubting that he may be a vulnerable narcissist. Help please

the ex aint shit, their rebound aint shit dont take them back dont do it to the next person me ex's rebound relationship is self destructing after ....3+ months eat your shit pie lady!

As usual, spitting the truth! Great content paz, thank you!

Loved calling them F for fuck them!

Yes my ex girlfriend was monckey branching me for almost a year 2 months ago she left our 8 years of relationship, because she lost feelings for me ,no kidding her feelings it's with her new man who try to buy her off with gifts and money. Yes, it hurt me to see her with another dude .

Facts Coach Paz 100%

So it be. Amen

When i never look for my old car back it' has all the same problem s just with more mile good luck 😂

Just signed up! Let’s do this!!!! 💪🏻

Using Jesus to justify cheating, that's some mental gymnastics 😧

Am i the only one who doesn't know if she monkey branched or rebounded?? She tried to sell me the story that she met him 2 weeks after the breakup...

I’m so ready to work with you. Let’s do this!!!

Lets be real here, if they are already emotionally immature as an adult, if they have not, on their own, started intense therapy, they will NEVER become emotionally mature. EVER. YOU cant make them mature, nobody can. Only they can. But they wont. Do yourself the respect of going through the greiving and healing process, and not only moving forward with your life, but YOU becoming even more emotionally mature. Let them lead their very unhappy life.

Coach Paz, DT here can't wait for part two with you and Joe

I have joined your facebook group paz 2 month after my wife cheated Still hurt every 2 or 3 days I dream about her It's ruin my day life

My ex whom monkey branched is trying to swing back to me now and says she misses talking to me each day and doesn’t understand how I am healed from the trauma and a better person but she hasn’t healed one bit and I have for our son offered financial help for her to get proper counselling to deal with child hood trauma. No coming back from monkey branching my boundaries are super strong thanks coach. You are spot on have a heightened sense of awareness and the red flags are easy to pick

I’ve come to terms with the fact that most people are simply unintelligent. Realizing this, it’s hard to take anything personally. You can realize this when you start cold approaching and discover that there are attractive people that are attracted to you, and some that aren’t. There are ugly people attracted to you, and some that aren’t. This shows you that the hierarchy, especially in regard to women judging men, is incredibly subjective (much more than men assessing women). You can’t make a rock fall in love with you. Therefore someone loving you isn’t an objective assessment of your value.

My ex just came back, it was either a rebound or monkey branch, I might never know but whatever. All I can say is do what the coaches say, go quiet, ignore the socials, go to the gym and improve yourself. Her social media looks amazing, looks like the most amazing relationship... she has now crawled back saying she regrets ever meeting him and they argue every day😂 oh well

Really nice content,answered a lot of questions .

I have to disagree, everyone is not good at their core. These people know they lie and chest, whatever justification they use doesn't matter they know what they're doing hurts you.

What about if you walked away from the relationship while they were in the process of monkey branching?

My avoidant ex dumped me for the third time... Needless to say I'm DONE. A few months later I'd been pursued by someone I work with. I went with it and they offered me an immense amount of emotional and sexual healing that I couldn't do on my own and that all my ex's had inflicted upon me. We had a mutual agreement that it was meaningful friendship sex and I tell you it was the puzzle piece to my healing journey I'd been missing. So I wouldn't rule out dating sooner, even if you don't feel ready (I wasn't 100%) but I'm so glad I took the risk! It paid off. Just ensure you're being intentional with your actions.

I busted him with a txt from old ex girlfriend that he had intimacy years ago and stayed in touch behind my back the three years we lived together. I found out he was talking to a tik tok woman , and other women 🤦🏻‍♀️ I remained in the house for five more months, got a storage unit and moved everything little by little. The day I left I left the remote controls and keys and left without a trace. I went no contact and blocked him. It’s been six months since I left. he was narcissistic and has been a serial cheater all his life because I made friends with his two ex-wives and they told me so. Red flags did not go up. I am glad I am out of that toxic relationship and I just got my own apartment finally and I moved in soon. I am healing because of your great advice and guidance. Glowing up each day.

Thank you for the wonderful guidance that you have brought into my life since my break up.

she cheated on me 3 moths ago . We had 7 years relationship. And we were planning to move next step and i caught her . And she directly left me and block me everywhere like i did something wrong 😂 but i feel much better right now . I realize life is much better without her cause she was the one who likes manipulation 😅 i moved and im not planning to look back again even if she back i dont care anymore

Many coaches say " you have to do the work" but cannot elaborate on what that is. I believe "The Work" is a process, which involves therapy, body chemicals/ hormones...feel good hormones, understanding, self awareness and self esteem among other things. To do it properly it can't be rushed, it takes time and everyone has a different timeline. Don't do drugs, alcohol or jump into a rebound, they are all sugar hits, certainly don't listen to people who say "just get over it". The one key emotion you must go through is grief, it can't be skipped. If you try to skip grieving you're doing exactly what your ex did and you won't heal properly. Let them bask with their sugar hit because grief will catch up with them eventually. When it does, they'll most likely try monkey branching back to you. They cannot be alone and they don't want to grieve. Rant over...

The ones who don’t reach out at all, and you don’t hear from at all only come back once you’ve gotten over them (healed). It’s like clockwork. I’ve heard it referred to as a disturbance in the “force”. I’m thinking it is just a coincidence of the time to heal and the honey moon phase of the monkey branch starting to wear off being about same timing.

This is a great video, coach paz ✌️👊