You Gotta Be Flexible
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In a world where young men are truly surrounded by all the crap, dopamine traps, and lack of purpose and direction, you truly are a light and an influence for anyone that listens to your advice and what you have to share. Thanks Dewayne.
💯💪
Mazdaspeed is dope, is that your build?
Discipline and the lack of care about another's opinions are definitely a fortress of safety and freedom.
Amen. So very true.
Hit the nail on the head with that one.
Dewayne needs a voice acting roll in Red Dead Redemption 3.
He’d be perfect
No, this man deserves a full on cameo.
Just stop playing videogames and wasting your money on globalist products.
Bro reminds me of aurthor when you let his hair grow out
Hi Dwayne, I’m depressed, hopeless, and losing my will to live and your videos are food for my empty soul. God bless you.
I hope you watched his recent video about topic: you are not alone. It was a good listen.
Your mission and purpose in life is to get out of your hole.
@andrewyoussef8500, I sending to you a hug, God bless you
brother last year I was fkkkkd now I'm living the dream don't lose hope
you are not alone
This channel has been an absolute gem to find. My dad grew up as basically a street kid in the Soviet Union after my grandparents divorced and my grandmother "took custody". The only thing that kept him from becoming a drug addict or dying like many of his buddies did in their teens was the books he read. Jack London, O. Henry, Mark Twain ... those books showed him a different kind of people. Strong, honest, responsible and kind men pushing the frontier of civilization. It's what allowed him to leave that God-forsaken place and move to the West.
When we found Dewayne's videos, my dad went "So these are the people that London wrote about, they do exist after all"
Best comment i've ever seen
Wow. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing your dad’s story 🙏🏼🫶🏼
@o-henry This is one of the most honoring, humbling and complimentary comments I have ever received. I thank you for this post, all the best to you and your dad
@@DryCreekWranglerSchool keep up the good fight, Dewayne. A little light fends off a great darkness 🙏 Thanks and best wishes from Switzerland
Perfect timing. I may be losing my job soon, which significantly throws off my plans, and it helps to be reminded that the path to our goals are not always guaranteed.
I like listening to older folks. Its hard for me to talk to people my age at school. Thank you for your perspectives.
Well, how can you be flexible at school? Think about it.
Don’t be a pushover, don’t let people play with you. But be flexible and understanding.
I'm 53 now but I still remember watching Ma and Pa kettle. I still enjoy watching them.😁
I loved that show. I’m the same age as you. The show was aired here in Australia too. Lots of good messages in that show. Just like Dwayne’s.
Noticed a jump in quality of the videos, Wayne. Nice camera! I’m a 25 yr old male and your channel has been a blessing of wisdom and life lessons. I think I speak for a lot of us when I say that your efforts are very much appreciated
This reminds me of my fathers words - "you never cross the same river waters twice.. and sometimes, the map is wrong. Adapt and overcome."
Also reminds me of your video on meeting people/horses where they are at, and being flexible- and spoke of RA that day "she was a good horse for *her that day" but, your expectations were rigid.
Side note; When visiting my father in Washington, I stopped at a store near the Bridge of the Gods - got a plaque with a "yoga frog" that says
"Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape" 😊
i really appreciate you sir, i’m 15 and you’re someone to look up too
Wish I’d had this guy when I was your age - I was in a dark place with depression and had no one to look up to. Good on you for recognising wisdom when you see it.
Believe me, I am 32 years old and wish I had someone like him giving me advice when I was your age.
@@scar.tissue3122 I’m almost 32 and wholeheartedly agree.
You're in the right place, kid. Take this from a now 26 year old man, guys like these are the ones you should take advice from, not the Andrew Tate's and Justin Waller's of the world.
If youre fifteen and listening to Dewayne, I would say youre likely headed in a good direction
Thank you Dewayne.... Help is tough to find, and harder to heed.
0:00 Good mornin’ December 14
0:10 Vegas is somethin’ else
0:36 _Ma and Pa Kettle come down from the hills_ 🎥
0:52 Lotta nice folks came up and said some very nice things. It’s encouraging to know your efforts are accomplishing something.
1:12 A podcast for Brad Lee. Had a good time.
1:42 Setting up with Rands Hatters.
2:36 Vegas isn’t a cowboy place, but Dewayne felt he and momma should go.
3:21 Dianna has a liking for Tall Country Fellas with a deep voice.
4:18 Podcast fellas
*Flexibility*
4:43 Learning to Go with The Flow. “It’s like moose hunting in Alaska.” 🏹🫎 🔫
5:48 A patch of Alders blocks your path “oh I can’t go that way.”
7:49 The Goal doesn’t change, but sometimes you need to take a different route.
8:22 Lets Talk Business.
You know where you want to get
- you run into an obstacle
+ you’ve got to be flexible
8:57 In the journey, you will discover things about yourself.
9:43 “I never realized…”
• Same goal
• different route
• Choice
10:26 “You don’t have to…” depending on your path.
10:45
Thought 💭 about what would happen
Vs
Reality of what happened.
11:26 Brad Lee’s Podcast
+ The Flexibility
+ Not giving up on our destination.
+ you have to do that with your horse , ex. Tank, one of Dewayne’s Horse.
12:53
Abused Horse 🐴
Spoiled Horse 🐎
“I need to take a different path.”
14:04 Flexibility and Inflexible people
Why can people be flexible
- Pride
- unable to admit mistakes
- unwilling to backtrack
- Fear
15:11 Have Flexibility 💕
15:48 Raisin’ Children.
Love Children
They don’t like their children.
• It’s not the child’s fault
17:20 Dewayne caught a stomach bug/got sick. Ain’t no point in gettin twisted about it.
What’s working?
What’s not working.
Make changes
Without losing our original destination.
17:45 2 Boxes of Cuban Cigars
19:37
+ Be logical
+ Be reasonable
+ Be safe
+ Have Fun
+ And we’ll see you guys, next time.
is that AI generated ?
This man doesn’t need a time line. Just sit back the whole way through and enjoy a moments rest and listen.
I alwasy listen to DCWS, but you just saved me 20 minutes! THANKS! I can get a few more things done outside when the sun comes up before work! )i can't work in the dark here- i live facing the FL Bay in the Everglades..EVERYTHING outside in the dark hates you.....
God bless you sir.
Can't tell if AI generated, but if I had to guess, AI generated then edited.
Appreciate the words as always sir. For myself it's proving hard to know when to be flexible and when to be rigid. Spose it's like a strong tree. The good ones know when to stand firm, yet when the storm comes they also know when to bend.
Well said 👍
When the storm pulls at the tree, he digs his roots deeper, stronger. The storm can't touch it next time.
Dwayne Great words of knowledge always from you. I lost my battle with my son that I always show him your videos and he loves them. He ended up taking his life August 12, 2023 it’s been so hard for me the wife and my two daughters. Your videos always keep me going and you’re doing a great job and a great man thank you!
Thank you!
Thank you so to acknowledge the feedback that means a lot!❤️
It’s refreshing to see the number of young men commenting and showing gratitude for this wisdom. Not all is lost.
The point where you talk about a horse "being spoiled". I came upon that this Tuesday with my daughter. She slipped on her grades in her Advanced Math class as a freshman in High School. When I talked to her and she explained where she was coming from, in my mind I realized "okay, I failed a bit as a father". I wasn't checking in like I should have. I was being considerate, but sometimes that means you can fail as a leader.
I had to accept that "this is on me as a father". And I need to be more in tune with her and lead her to success. Sometimes we have to accept that the results are a product of our leadership and correct it. But the challenge is correcting it with emotional intelligence. Thank you for your wisdom.
Yes, be flexible, go with the flow, forgive others, thank God for everything.
There is nothing more keen to me than the whistling of the wind through the cracks in my windows always reminding me of how little I am
Welcome back, Cowboy 🤠 Glad you made it to Vegas and back safely.
Best advice I was given was "in life you'll come upon trees across the road you're on, just decide whether trying to shift it will be quicker than the diversion round it. But don't let it stop you."
I got thanked by a coworker today for being flexible ! As well as finding out I got the employee of the year at my work yesterday !!!
I was addicted to drugs most my life. Slowing down and listening to the right people changed everything. Left the only job i thought was for me. It changed everything. Dont be afraid to transform that was the first step along with listening to David Goggins to make me really look at my life. Walking everywhere sleeping at bus stops. Gets Tiring. That being said changed everything by staying away from what infind comfortable had to learn to live a different way. Fast foward now been a manager , ran a company and im only getting started at 29 . 18-25 life was a mess but never gave up. Theres hope just keep it pushing.
God bless you keep showing up for yourself and sending you lots of pats on your back. 🙏💗😅😅
It is always the most unlikely places where you find people who have words of encouragement
Dewayne, I don’t know if anyone has ever coined this phrase, but I’ve been saying it for many years now, and it is this- flexibility is essential because change is inevitable. We get stuck or things stop working, new things, new ways come along, etc. We need to keep an open mind and be flexible. Thank you for another inspiring video!
Another good dose of sage advice. Being rigid about life sometimes sets you up for real disappointment.
Yes Dwayne, flexibility doesn’t ever mix with ego/pride/selfishness.
See it ALOT within this “entitlement” society--
Thank you for being a voice in the wilderness!
Keep bringing us virtuous living 🥰
Hi Dwayne ,
Spot on ….again 👍🏻
I could not let be laughing about the remark “ they love their children, but they don’t like their children !” 😅 ain’t that the truth , and we don’t like them either 😅😅
Are you preaching to your self Mr. Dewayne? Keep speaking what your feeling. From one wise man to the other.. 😊
Thanks Dewane , good life lesson to be flexible ....in the right way in the right time❤
Keep up the good work. Always words of wisdom and the truth.
Awesome pic of momma in the background. We sure need more men like you! Thank you for what you do!!!
Another classic Dewayne video, love it!
Thanks chief, you’re tips always come at the right time. Any advice on learning to trust again?
If its the same person you distrusted.
Dont trust them again.
That would be a series, not a video (!!).
Its okay to forgive, but never forget
trust no one 😂
@@ETHANR26 I trust my wife of 51 years and love her ❤
Fabulous insights!! And the part about the kids, spot on!! Flexibility is required for this life!!!👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿
This is life and what Dewayne is saying is right on point sometimes we have to take a side road to get there. It is almost never easy. I have done this many times in my life and I am still doing it .I have a goal in site and its taking me different roads to achieve it. Sometimes God will put us on a path to achieve another goal first.
When Im down your wisdom always restores my soul!!! You keep me going!! You're a hell of a hand boss!! God bless you and your's and Happy Holidays!!!🙏🙏🙏
Awesome video Dwayne. Thanks for sharing.
Learned this idea of being Semper Gumby (always flexible) in the Marines. Tied to the concepts of Commander’s Intent and the mantra: Adapt, Improvise, and Overcome
Dewayne,
I am a man humbled by your work and journey. I’ve followed this channel for some time and I’ll be honest you. I moved from the Illinois landscape in search of southern hospitality, style, and livelihood. I want to start from scratch. Currently I work a good advertising job with Walmart, and I want to join the ranks of cowpoke as much as I can and or learn.
As I’ve grown older I’ve learned there’s much to learn and much I should have and much I might have never. I see you as the man that taught me to smoke the cigars to ask those questions.
I’d like to supply the work you’ve given me that’s supplied the brains to ask the questions to have and the ones I have not yet.
Can be where and when asked.
Dwayne I hope I can meet you someday. You've been the voice of reason in my life.
You are spot- on, as always. I call it 'switching gears'. Good parents recognize this, and reactive horses will call you out on it. Both need, and want, a strong leader without a big ego. Think that describes you!
Dewayne I am a young man from a small town in ireland I love your videos watch all the time. just wanted to say thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice please keep posting videos and I'm a lover of a good cuban cigar recommend ramon allones small club Corona god bless you dewayne.
Two boxes of Cubans. That's a heck of a nice gift! I originally came to watch you some time ago for the cigar talks but stayed for the life lessons that you are passing along. I've enjoyed both immensely.
Thanks for sharing, timely wisdom for sure. 🙏
We live in Vegas. Glad you came to see it. It’s grown tremendously. It’s causing a lot of us to think about getting out.
Those that aren’t flexible cause themselves and those around them a lot of unnecessary strife !!! Somehow life has a way of challenging those who are stubborn!
Blessings
Truthfully, I haven't watched your videos in about 6 months... Purely because we just moved back to Australia from living in Canada (lived there for 2.5 yrs). We worked on Canada's largest cattle Ranch and then moved to Alberta. We loved it but it was time to move back to farm life in Australia. I miss the scenery, Western life, my f350 king ranch truck (4 x more expensive to buy in Australia) etc.... So seeing your videos made me a little touchy missing Canada and the true western life. Glad to say, I'm pass this now and am re-watching again! Time to get the cigars and whiskey out again and appreciate the life I have on the farm in Aus! 🥃 I also share my life on YT too! Have a great day!
Life comes back around sometimes too. I used to spend hours practicing piano in my 20's to try and find something I could latch onto and it never happened. 20 years later (and after 10 years of my focus on writing) I'm back to practicing piano again and I think I've found a style that should keep me interested for a while. Oh yeah, I'm into cooking now too. I love experimenting with different chiles from all over the world. Wouldn't have imagined that 20 years ago.
Another winner Dwayne! You keep reminding me to be humble and flexible. They are both paramount as I sell a business I felt I mastered and build another. Not an easy ride as you said so well! I don't want it to be or expect it to be!
"The horse ain't abused, it's just spoiled." That is one of the best one liners I've heard in a long time! Such a great video and much needed wisdom for this day and age
Appreciate the advice sir, i will never forget all of your advice, thank you
Thank you so much Dewayne. You’ve helped me so much with so many different things just by talking to a camera and uploading it. Thank you
Thanks so much for the advice, more wisdom❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Me- wtf is going on in this crazy life?
Dwayne- sit down son. Lights cigar.
I've had to backtrack quite a bit right now because I wasn't really paying attention to where I've been going.
Some kind people, like this man, are helping me with directions so I'm not running out of gas in the middle of nowhere.
It might take me a little longer to get where I'm going, but I'll get there. We all will.
I don't have the knack for metaphors like this man does 😂
To me, the journey of faith is like what you are explaining. There’s no short cuts to the destination. It’s like God says, this is “The Way” I have for you to go and recognising the path as we go. It does not involve Fear but Trust.
To quote Charles Stanley, when he was facing an uncertain moment, "Lord, you're in charge!"
This talk really resonates with me. I've met the enemy and it's myself 😂, but also I've discovered strengths that I didn't know I had and never thought about pursuing.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge again.
I thank God for You and Your Wife!!! Alaska was My childhood stomping grounds and I lived in Salmon, Idaho too!! You two are priceless in these times. God is using You and may He continue to bless and keep You.
Glad to be apart of the opportunity to absorb your wisdom.
Who else is super grateful for Dwayne making these videos?
This world needs more good people speaking out.
Thank you for all your hard work. 💜
Thank you for helping me on learning how to be a good person
Hoyo de Monterrey is a well-respected brand that predates the Cuban Revolution.
Something to know about Cubans...if they start tasting bad and have an ammonia smell, they go through a "sick period" about 12-18 months after the rolling date on the bottom of the box. In Cuba it's not an issue because they smoke cigars "fresh"...if they go "sick", just park them in the humidor for about a year, or until the ammonia smell goes away. Aged Cubans are a truly magnificent experience.
You’re the man Dewayne. Love the stories brother. Lost my dad in ‘08 and it’s nice to have another role model to look up too besides the other respectable men I know personally.
once again with impeccable timing. im up for a job interview next week and im only going to take it if i can afford too financially but im fully prepared to redirect myself if i come to the conclusion that its not what i need. reassurance and reminders is one hell of a thing... keep on keeping on you guys. happy holidays and all that jazz
This world needs more people like you sir ! Love the way you explain life’s challenges and throw the out doors in it . God bless u and ur family 🙏🏻
This is a God send in the season I find myself in. Thank you and thank the Lord for always providing guidance and answers.
You’re an amazing man. Thank you for what you do. Blessings,Carlos ✝️🙏❤️😊🇺🇸
Great videos, Sir! I am headed to Vegas for the first time in the new year. Small town guy in the big city. I appreciate the advice on flexible journeys.
You are a good man
God bless you and your family❤
I would have loved to see you in Vegas. Someday I’d be happy to meet you and thank you for sharing your piece of mind. 🤝
You are one of the most wise people I have ever heard speak. It would be an honor to meet you in person one day.
Oh buddy your videos always come at the best moments and align with current events. I can’t be the only one who experiences this phenomenon??
Thank you for your wisdom
Hey Dwayne, I am a 19 year old guy trying to understand why I feel this way. Recently life has been nothing but worries. My question is, does it ever get better. Will I ever stop hating how I feel about myself and how I feel about others. I’ve always been a happy person so to say. But for the past few days I’ve been thinking suicidal thoughts. I never really had a father around growing up. It’s so hard to become a man when everyone tells you what you’re suppose to be. I hope you keep creating this kind of content because you are a genuine man.
Please read the Holy Bible. Those thoughts of lack and suicide come straight from Satan. GOD created you and has plans for you! HE will not fail you. There will always be failures and downfalls in our lives-that’s life. We learn and grow through it. Always look for the lesson in everything, no matter how big or small bad or good. Always think and say what you’re grateful for - waking up, breath, etc. praying for you. Please read Bible and pray - talk to our Father God. 🤲
@@trinac2463 I have been praying more recently, I was a religious child I’d say but never to the extent I’d pray every night and when I feel I need to talk to him. It truly has made me feel more in touch with myself and god.
I live in southern Utah. You went through our city on your way to Vegas. I thought about you guys, and wondered how it went. My husband took a friend from Montana to Las Vegas and he said he felt like a captured coyote pup. Every time we are out of our element we talk about that. We live in a tiny town of about 110 people, so we are often out of our element.
Nice little talk. Thank you for sharing.
I love listen your wisdom, thanks for sharing ❤ God bless your life
My definition of success is just land and a home for my wife to be self sustaining and be out of the city. And I’m not feeling very flexible because that goal feels impossible. So every day is frustrating and anger, and it doesn’t feel like there’s a path that can change that. I’m 30 and still feel like my quality of living was when I was 20.
These topics you are covering are even more relevant for the younger crowd. The way we teach our kids to wrap up high school determines the whole life thereafter.
C
Thanks for all the videos & advice etc. I've been in the machine shop "world" since I was 18(now 26) and like you've said & what my dad taught me. Being flexible makes a big difference for you & the company. There's times I've just ran a mill or a lathe. Other days it's sawing or unloading trucks.
Haha that’s funny how out of place you felt at Vegas. I’m headed there this weekend for the Marine Corps Ball. I’ve only been once and also felt a bit out of place there considering I don’t drink or go clubbing and that kinda thing. Appreciate the video!
Very grateful for straight up, down to Earth, and reality based advice. There is so much garbage out there. It’s time to get back to basics in this country. God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I call that rolling with the punches sir! 🤠
Yes. Keep it simple
Adapt. Move on! 😎
You're talks are so calming and packed with wisdom. Truly inspiring!
No idea how I discovered your channel but I’m going through the lowest part of my life right now and everything has been so hard. I’ve only watched a couple of your videos but I feel like I’ve gained years of wisdom from you. Thank you so much I hope to meet you someday
not just pride&humility because flexibility is not only "wrong" because sometimes things get so bad you gotta do the wrong thing until things eventually go right but some people cant get out their own way(flexible enough for themselves even) and ego to be flexible nor are they willing to go through humility of being flexible for another person or towards another direction.
I discovered your channel two days ago and I love it! It's great to hear your reassuring and inspiring words, and you have great style! I wish you all the best, may God bless you! Greetings from Lisbon (Portugal).
Damn this really popped up on my page at the right time much love chief
Those cigars from Cuba are gems.
Haven't watched a video in a bit, but today's camera angle/lighting set makes for a better composition than usual. Just enough extra effort without seeming like it is over-processed in the typical TH-camr fashion. Well done.
Every night I watch one of your videos. A dose of soothing wisdom for my soul before bed. I respect and appreciate you sir. God bless
I haven't been in watching for a while now but when I do your videos are always insightful, calming and a pleasure to watch. Thank you from Queensland, Brisbane, Australia, Adam
Sometimes, the voice that gives you the best advice on your journey through life is your inner child. The person you were when you came to realize your individuality was immediately afraid but brave, and forged ahead to reach out at whatever would come along. With that part of yourself to guide you on instinct versus acting based on fears of consequences from past experience, you will greatly improve your ability to achieve better contentment in your decisions.
My dad did allot. But you did more than him sad too say. I just want to thank you. You like a Modern day Mister Rogers! You need your own show. For the children. Hope y’all doing well and thank you.
Great update sir, thank you! 🌅
Dwayne, that Vegas trip turned gold from unexpected! Your "Ma and Pa Kettle" moment led to fascinating connections and a podcast with Brad Leaf you wouldn't have had in a booth. This reminds us all of life's twists and the power of embracing flexibility.
Moose hunting analogy? Perfect! Whether it's business, relationships, or horses, sometimes the path changes. The key is keeping your goals while adjusting the route. Don't let pride or fear trap you when flexibility unlocks new opportunities.
Like your child rearing example, we often need to course-correct. Humility and adaptation are crucial. Remember, doing the same thing expecting different results is insanity!
Thanks for sharing this insightful experience, Dwayne. Your stories and wisdom are always a valuable ride, even when the destination changes. Keep them coming!
P.S. P.S. That Cuban cigar story had me laughing! Can't wait to hear your verdict on those Cohibas.
❤Your wisdom helps me so much❤God bless you and your family❤❤❤❤ From Canada
Tried to find you during Cowboy Christmas. I really just wanted to shake your hand to say thank you for all you’ve done. I had a list of thank yous I wanted to share. Thank you for the God’s Round Pen talk. Thank you for the “Cost me my calm” phrase…I use it often. Thank you for your list of books video. Man…so much to say. I’m frustrated that I didn’t find you on Instagram to get the update. I contacted you through Patreon but that appears to have been the wrong source. ARGH!!! Hopefully you’ll consider coming back. 😉