Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by: 1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing. 2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways 3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions. Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
I won’t get a little heart, but this video is a secular view. Much of what he says of course is quite true, but instead of moving on, pray for reconciliation. Statistics prove you have a much greater chance of making your marriage work the second time around, then starting a brand new relationship with a stranger.
I am going to give you a ltiile heart because you are a child of God :) and because I like what you say...BUT! ... If you don't learn about marriage and yourselves, even just you, alone, all you will do is jump back into the grinder. The answer is to go all in and learn how to be married, this time. Then, if your ex is still in love with you re-marrying is definitely the way to go.
@@TheMarriageFoundation - if God provides a chance at reconciliation, you can bet I have learned a lot and yes I will go 110% in. I continue to pray for Gods will, even if it means I live alone and dedicate the rest of my life to Jesus Christ. IF we reconcile, we will honor God with a marriage as He designed. Thank you for the valuable information.
I agree there is always a chance of reconciliation after divorce nobody wants a family broken including god so I pray for all marriages as god forgives as long as we accept it don't let shame and guilt stop you from praying and doing everything you can in love to reconcile and let God fix what has been broken.
I hope you are right, Brother. We both know what heartbreak feels like. So many men are stoic about relationship break ups. I'm not one of them. I hope the future brings good things for both of us.
Fully agree, as HARD as it is in the moment, one day at a time. radically accept this is how your life is TODAY. Finding happiness in that day. Focus on your feet in front of you. The past cant be changed the future is unknonwn all you have is today. Its sooo hard but stay in the moment of grief and enjoy 1 thing for that day. avoid jumping into a new relationship as a bandaid, more hurt will come of this. Ignore what your former spouse is doing you can change them, they are hurting too.
Her lawyer wrecked our marriage and so we divorced. I also thought she had a boyfriend/new husband lined up, but I was wrong. We agreed to sell the marital home, but I changed my mind. She also does not want to sell it. She was my soulmate. I want her back. I also want to move back into the home, albeit, I will live in the basement. That works out because it is cold and I work out constantly so my body is always hot. I need the cool basement. How much time do you think it will take to reconcile?
@@TheMarriageFoundation What do you think? I have converted to Catholicism. I am also taking a job as a mental health technician to help people. I also do data processing at night for extra income. I am very fit: 6'1", 165 lbs, 10% body fat, deadlift 275 lbs for 20 reps. I am very, very literate. I wish I could win her back. I have been praying to god every moment of every day.
Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
I won’t get a little heart, but this video is a secular view. Much of what he says of course is quite true, but instead of moving on, pray for reconciliation. Statistics prove you have a much greater chance of making your marriage work the second time around, then starting a brand new relationship with a stranger.
lol. Shucks, you went and proved me wrong! lol
I am going to give you a ltiile heart because you are a child of God :) and because I like what you say...BUT! ... If you don't learn about marriage and yourselves, even just you, alone, all you will do is jump back into the grinder. The answer is to go all in and learn how to be married, this time. Then, if your ex is still in love with you re-marrying is definitely the way to go.
@@TheMarriageFoundation - if God provides a chance at reconciliation, you can bet I have learned a lot and yes I will go 110% in. I continue to pray for Gods will, even if it means I live alone and dedicate the rest of my life to Jesus Christ. IF we reconcile, we will honor God with a marriage as He designed. Thank you for the valuable information.
I agree there is always a chance of reconciliation after divorce nobody wants a family broken including god so I pray for all marriages as god forgives as long as we accept it don't let shame and guilt stop you from praying and doing everything you can in love to reconcile and let God fix what has been broken.
I hope you are right, Brother. We both know what heartbreak feels like. So many men are stoic about relationship break ups. I'm not one of them. I hope the future brings good things for both of us.
Fully agree, as HARD as it is in the moment, one day at a time. radically accept this is how your life is TODAY. Finding happiness in that day. Focus on your feet in front of you. The past cant be changed the future is unknonwn all you have is today. Its sooo hard but stay in the moment of grief and enjoy 1 thing for that day. avoid jumping into a new relationship as a bandaid, more hurt will come of this. Ignore what your former spouse is doing you can change them, they are hurting too.
I hate divorce and the ignorance that leads to it. One must learn how to live their marriage correctly so they enjoy the gifts of happiness and love
I have all my life in front of me I am moving on! Bless you for answering my question ive grappled with.......
There is such a thing as realistic idealism
A short but THE best advice that you have given ❤
Any advice that will get you working on your marriage instead of giving up is the best, thankyou themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Nice 👍 ThanQ sir
I needed that sr
Thank you for this!
Needed this
Her lawyer wrecked our marriage and so we divorced.
I also thought she had a boyfriend/new husband lined up, but I was wrong.
We agreed to sell the marital home, but I changed my mind. She also does not want to sell it.
She was my soulmate. I want her back. I also want to move back into the home, albeit, I will live in the basement. That works out because it is cold and I work out constantly so my body is always hot. I need the cool basement.
How much time do you think it will take to reconcile?
Are you sure she wants you back?
@@TheMarriageFoundation
No.
I no longer care.
I want to go back into my home, though.
@@TheMarriageFoundation
What do you think?
I have converted to Catholicism.
I am also taking a job as a mental health technician to help people.
I also do data processing at night for extra income.
I am very fit: 6'1", 165 lbs, 10% body fat, deadlift 275 lbs for 20 reps.
I am very, very literate.
I wish I could win her back.
I have been praying to god every moment of every day.
Excellent thank u
Well said
You are a very pretty, Christian (?) woman who will have no problem finding a good God fearing man.