No Contact And Marriage Separation To Get A Husband Or Wife Back. Does It Work?
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Does the No Contact Rule work for marriages that are separated and headed toward divorce? Can no contact get your husband or wife back if they have left you or want a separation or divorce? If your spouse has left you stating they want a divorce you might be wondering if you should contact them or simply leave them alone to have the best chance of reuniting with them and re-attracting a husband or wife.
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Coach Lee explains a modified form of the No Contact Rule that works for marriage and also goes over details of behavior and expectations for interacting with your spouse (or separated spouse).
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No contact definitely works in a marriage. Several years ago I tried everything to fix the marriage when she wanted the divorce. Only when I went no contact, did things turn around and she came back to work on the marriage. A few years later I caught her in a affair. I went no contact again just so I could heal and move on. Sure enough she made effort to creep back in. But at that point I couldn’t take her back
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Good job. Be strong. Good luck. In my case it took me two years after the separation to find out that she was involved possibly months before the break up. She was very good at posting zero clues in social media. I was faking being with a girl on social media. She was doing the real deal and posting zero about the guy...
@@uoibiy3136 no thanks, there are better women out there. No man should have to put up with infidelity
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Wow man I’m so sorry. Today’s wives are.... well.... it defeats the purpose
3 months of no contact and she is calling me 20 times per night, i dont want her back anymore
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After a month I don't want her back either. She didn't value me and thought the grass was greener now let her live with it. Made her bed now lye in it.
Thank you so much for this video. It's great to know that the majority of us (men) do the same mistakes during the moment our wives say they don't love us anymore and want to separate. In my experience, I just felt a void in my stomach and reacted in a selfish manner, only thinking how that made me feel.
I will be listening your videos. Thank you so much again.
Thank you Coach Lee, you are the best relationship coach! Your details are uncanny, and your deliverance is superior to the rest. : ).
Great video. I love the approach and vision. You are doing a lot of good in this tough emotional space. I’m giving a tip and you deserve it.
6/7 months after an ugly (and I mean ugly) separation and we can laugh and Joke about things, inside jokes, past references. We went for a meal with our son on Sunday and we are back to be normal and friends again. But you can only get there by giving them space at the start, limiting contact, staying emotionally stable, not talking about the relationship, not asking for them back etc. Your spouse needs to want to come back on their own.
Great points and direction.
Very encouraging. Thanks for sharing.
I’m trying- it’s really hard because he’s become close with another woman. They say they’re “friends “ & no sex involved- this was last week. I’m leaving him alone.
I can’t believe he’s turned to another woman.
@@littlemisstwiggy4529 yes that's bs. They're definitely having or working on having sex.
@@littlemisstwiggy4529 I was there! They are having sex. Period. Don’t let them have the power & u stay on NO contact! Ok 👍 peace & good luck 🍀
My wife and I just separated last week. She has told me over the years that I need to change. I would try to fix what she said was wrong,but it was a repeating cycle and I couldn’t figure out what was the reason. Talking to a fellow veteran,they clued in when I told them my wife said that when I come home,I’m there,but not there. My friend explained I had PTSD. Depression,anxiety,hyper vigilance,insomnia. It made sense why I kept regressing. I had no idea this was ruining my marriage. I found a note she wrote pouring her heart out on why I want to fix things 9 years into our marriage. I’ve been watching your videos and am doing limited contact bc we have kids. I’m going to the VA now for help,but I’m not sure she will notice or want me back. I love her dearly and wish I knew I had these issues years ago. I would’ve addressed them way back then. I can’t fix what I don’t know is broken. Thanks for all your encouragement
I have the same thing, PTSD, anxiety, depression, and anger issues. I'm a vet as well. I was married for 26 years and I'm on week 3 of separation. My wife and I were toxic for each other. We've both been unhappy for a few years. I was planning on telling her I wanted a divorce but she beat me to it. And even though I know we don't need to be together but it still felt like being run over by a train! I knew this was coming but and I already prepared myself for it. Yet it still hurts like hell! And she acts like she got over it a long time ago. The only thing that's got me stuck is after 26 years, only memories of the past I have is with her. And it's hard not to think of the past. And even though I know we shouldn't be together, the thought of her finding someone else is excruciating! I still have to have some contact because we have 3 kids and 3 grandkids. So I guess I'm in a big smelly pile of s**t! Nut it's good to know I'm not the only one going through this. Good luck!
Why ask someone to change ?
Then that's not the person you fell in love with..
I never understood that ...
@@ChrisBarnette-zk8iy My PTSD didn’t surface until almost a year after we married and I didn’t realize it….my wife said I had changed after going to military training for several months,but I didn’t see it until after we separated…a fellow vet I was talking said some things to me regarding PTSD that made me realize what happened and I was able to start from there and did EMDR therapy which really helped…working out and starting BJJ/Judo helped also….wife and I got back together 5 months later and just celebrated out 10 year anniversary yesterday….
Keep your head up high!!!
I, too, have PTSD. I'm a firefighter/ paramedic for 20 years. She just left 2 weeks ago. I have been making strides in changes that her whole family has noticed. She keeps talking about divorce. I'm 2 weeks into no contact. Giving it 30 days and hoped she snapped out of her anger. We had a very loving marriage. Her Facebook shows her crazy for me. I am struggling.
Thank you Coach Lee.
Hi Coach Lee. Would love to see a video (if there isn't one already) on best ways to act or what to expect if you work with an ex or run into an ex randomly during no contact. I work with my ex in a company of 200 people and ran into her today for the first time in about 17 days of no contact. I played it cool, said hi and was polite. She was also pleasant, but said something like "Hey stranger, how are you? I haven't heard from you in awhile." I thought it was strange since she dumped me that she seems to think I should have been trying to get in touch like normal or maybe she just said the first thing that popped in her head. I'm remaining no contact unless she reaches out directly but would love to get some insights on what an ex might be thinking or how they might act if you randomly run into them during no contact and how we should respond. Thanks! Also, I really like all your content and the breakup kit. Helps me get through the moments when I'm weak and want to reach out.
Update?
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YES! I used no contact on my husband and he came back six months later. Was easier since we didn’t have kids.
Can u tell me what u did ?
My husband is currently ignoring me and even not messaging me . At moment I'm in another country to give back my rental house so I can fully move to him and now he even canceled the ticket back that he bought and told me I bui it myself and be back in semptembr when I suppose be back like next month. He start acting like this in this month, after a fight small one and I think he misunderstood things but he said there was other stuff also I did and he didn't address it to me at the time so he like exploded.
@@xoxocutiepiexoxo5122 for him to be “ignoring” you, it sounds like you are attempting to communicate with him. Without being mean, start cutting your ties with him, don’t call or text unless you absolutely have to (business only). I’d watch more of these videos for it to really sink in.
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Hi Coach Lee, thank you for all your videos, they are very smart and wise! I have watched them all, even the ones that don't apply to my case. Now to my question : my ex, with whom I have kids and have been together for 8 years, dumped me in the end of last year. I can't leave him, coz I am studying and am financially unable to support myself and the kids at this point, so we agreed to go on living under the same roof until my studies are done (this time next year). I can't really do NC.... He is talking to a woman, I don't know whether she is a rebound or not, but for sure is long distnce, so can't meet. At the same time, he is very bad at talking about his feelings and the relationship, so whenever we had fights, when he wanted to fix things, instead of taalking he would kiss me and/or hug me. Now. Here come the 2 questions : 1) shall I put an effort on leaving him asap to start a real nc or wait till my studies are over? 2) of he decides he wants to come back to me and initiates physical contact or sex, what shall I do? If I reject him - probably bad, but if I don't, it turns out that he can dump me, do whatever he wants, but as soon as he wants sex, I am right there!??
And, by the way, all these "helpful" people, pointing at some "shaman" who could help with a +2...number, get a grip, noone has begged you to write here!
and if I have nowhere to go to apply non contact, because the house belongs to the bank and we both pay installments .... I have no friends I can stay in such situations ... how could I apply no contact, please a advice I am destroyed .... with esteem and consideration !!!
Great channel, solid guy with good advice.
Wife kicked me out a year ago. Very little contact other than coordinating pickup and drop off of our child. She informed me she had filed for divorce and I’ll be served this week. Is it too late for the emergency marriage kit
My husband divorced me 5 weeks ago. He was calling coming over and texting for 4 weeks. Almost 2 weeks ago absolutely nothing. He went back and forth back and forth and even called off the divorce in July. The divorce was over in 2 1/2 weeks over the phone. Can no contact still work at this point.
@@sherrifranklin7349 that’s fantastic. Unfortunately we have a daughter so no contact is almost impossible. And we have been living separate for over a year :(
@@lildrummerboy80 is there an update on your situation? I’m in a similar situation and we have 2 kids together.
@@blkrbbn1535 prayers for you. Unfortunately other than officially being divorced. Nothing has changed. Barely any communication.
Today I broke my nc after 5 months lol, I went to the cafe (best In the town) that she always there, I found her with her friends (two guys) and I went straight to the counter to buy coffee (take away) and then off the place, completely I ignored her existence there. 😅😅
@@gingin7629 thanks, but nah I am no longer interested to get her back
I wish you could do a video where a mid life crisis might fit into this. If it does at all.
Right
It almost always does
How soon after the separation should I start reaching out on some casual texts? So then I could move onto phone calls?
I think he is using no contact on me. I do believe he was waiting in a couple of phone calls waiting for me to tell him to come home. But i heled him get clean and sober once. And can't go threw that again. But worry everyday because I know how far he goes with the drinking and smoking. Now its been 2 weeks since any contact grom him. But I also do know some times he doesn't respond just to make me be concerned. So what do I do now?
I made the mistake of getting into it with my husband when he expressed his anger. I feel like i held back quite a bit but i did debate even though i listened and understood his point of view. Feel like i took a few steps back. He is still at home until his apt is available. And i am trying to maintain smart contact while under the same roof. And i felt like progress was being made.
Updates??
@@at7824 we are in reconciliation and things have been awesome. Not perfect but we are working through it together
How do you do smart contact when you live in the same house ?
@Olivia what I did was just keep it business. We slept in separate areas but any interaction was just business. Bills...kids. nothing personal.
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I hurry up and clicked on it 😊
My husband sent a pic of place he went to in a group chat with my kids. I responded to him that thank you for sharing the pic and have a great day.
Thanks!
Greetings Coach Lee. Everything sounds solid. However, can this work in a polygamist position. Next question are you taking coach calls. I've purchased your kit. Just wanted to make sure if this still can apply to my situation.
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My ex is unable to feel anything and is not husband or boyfriend material
I had to break no contact bc he contacted a lawyer & will file a petition tomorrow
After 18 months of me going NC after he had an EA, MLC, and he bailed on me and our son (who he has also had NC with) after a 20 year marriage, I filed. Bye.
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Makes no sense. That's like a friendship and how can she miss you if you give her contact? I just bought my son a phone she can call his phone .
During no contact my husband moved to another flat, leave job and preparing to close everything and moved back to his country. Possibly now he has another wife and family. I am on your channel so its mean its still painful and I can't forget him.
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@@avalumunsaviour4228 I don't need. He is my ex husband now. His lost my winnery.
I'm divorced over a year now, and share 2 kids, I don't know if there's any hope, I have been doing intelligent contact since the divorce was final. I think she has moved on.
A lot of the videos talk about what not to do, and I am taking that info in now and applying it. But, what if I had already been doing all of those things? (Ex. begging, crying, not giving space, etc.) Is it irreparable now? Or do I still have a chance to fix it if I follow your advice moving forward? My wife moved out 3 weeks ago. She is also now having an affair. Any advice for that?
Same situation with my husband:( I hope u were reconciled
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How about you have no children nor anything that connects you both to contact?
What if your living together with NC, but you think they are going out to date or be with other people? Especially with kids, are you going to babysit, while he or she is out being romantic? That’s not going to work for me and a bunch of other people watching this...what to you do?
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IF my spouse doesn't want to come back... should i aggree to that ? or not agree and give her space ?
Please help me understand. My ex ended it and then reached out a few times to meet and talk, we kissed and hugged then she asked for this week for space to think. The next day she got tinder and I seen her in the gym yesterday and she didn’t even look at me. I’m so confused. I stuck to no contact. But by the end of the week time frame she’s given, what if she doesn’t reach out to me, as she said she’ll have a decision by then. Do I reach out to her???
Trust the process and say the Rosary every day for the restoration of your marriage.
This is great! What about a video specifically on the no contact rule in marriage if your partner is in an affair with someone else... I really need guidance if I can save this marriage when there is such a strong pull by someone else. I have less hope every day. I do by best to not initiate contact unless business related (we have no shared children) and it may be days to a week without anything. If he contacts or calls I will respond - not always right away. I really need more guidance and a pep talk in how to navigate this path in hopes to reconcile my marriage.
Coach lee has a rebound video and all of his videos have advices that can be apply to your situation, I suggest to watch them, cry, find a hobbie, workout, try getting dopamine from watching series (which I dont advise, you can get addict to it) but It was some of the ways that I could go through the pain but definitely watch the videos so you can understand more of your ex behaviour.
I hatw when people advise us get a hobby and do something for yourself. Of course we are doing that but also we are no made from stone and we have obviously more feelings than a man.
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I'm having the same issue with my spouse. We have 2 kids. It's heartbreaking.
Any advice on what to do on St Valentines’s day? It doesn’t make sense to buy flowers and heart shaped candy just like you are together, but totally skipping it just like it is a regular day doesn’t seem appropriate either?
Do not
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I love these videos but im putting my faith in God
I think about the Prodigal Son. The Father let him go, didn't chase him down or beg and the son came to the end of himself and came back.
Coach Lee, does no contact works after divorced? My ex filed the divorced and have a girlfriend now
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Thanks coach !
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Just get lost please.
Hey coach! My ex and her rebound recently split. What do I do now?
She knowing the grass is not greener in that side
Let him to comeback to you. If you want him back in your life. But if He asks to comeback i would go to therapy with him but think of yourself first. Good luck!!
Nothing! Stay in no contact! They’ll come crawling back to you soon.
Hey coach Lee. I wanted to sign up for coach calls with you today. Your website states you are no longer doing them. True?
I’m not doing individual coaching at the moment but the lead coach on my staff DOES. He is Coach Ken and you can book a call with him at dotheyloveme.com. He is OUTSTANDING at helping people get an ex back. He and I got our coaching certifications together about 18 years ago and he works directly for me. -Coach Lee
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Omg it’s really suit our situation thanks god
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@RealCoachlee what if my husband is the type who doesn't chase and never has been the type? We've been separated for 2 months and I'm gonna try NC to preserve my heart because he's a jerk every time i see or talk to him.
Update?
Hi Coach, I'm not married but just finished almost 2 months of NC. I reached out and we texted a bit, I asked him for coffee. He said hes busy the next two weekends and he hasnt been responding. Should I go back in NC or should I try again for coffee? I might have over pursued a bit honestly...sent him 3 texts without any reply in the span of 6 days, basically sent one per day every three days. Nothing. He did say he has been really busy with work and I'm trying to be patient. I'd really appreciate a reply!
Wait and let him come to you as best you can.
@@RealCoachLee thanks, I'll do that! It's been really hard but I am learning patience through this.
Know your self worth, Holy. Knowing your self worth is the path to the life you deserve. Know your self worth and happiness will follow you. That is the secret. Best of luck ♥️
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I bought the marriage breakup kit but received the wrong one.
I have a question if my husband has moved out and is saying divorce and then has created a whole new social media profile where I'm no where on there do I change my social media and take him off? Would that be consistent with giving him the "break up"?
I also want to know since I have a stepson do I reach out to him to see if he's ok? He's 14. I don't want his father to think its about him.
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I wish you were still doing one to one calls
Hope everyone is doing well.
My husband and I been separated for a year and a half. He’s the one who doesn’t want to work on saving our marriage but does not make a move. “He’s not dating”or filing for a divorce. What game is he playing? 🤷♀️
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That is a tough one. Let me think about it. Some guys just do not want to commit to a relationship. I wouldn’t take it personally. Just focus on yourself and heal
How can you navigate through something like “smart no contact” and stay out of the friend zone after your spouse proposed staying friends? She started dating causally and I told her i wasn’t interested in being just friends. It’s been 3 months since the breakup.
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Coach Lee this video has tears pouring from my eyes my husband left me after 8 yrs & 4 kids the day we went into lock down he filed for divorce and divorced & because of Covid I had no idea. I did all the wrong things and begged & begged. I think if we weren’t in lock down we would have been able to work it out. 19 months later and I finally did the no contact but 2 years too late 😢this is the worst thing of my life I still love him and miss him so much.
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NC for 7 months with my husband I don’t think it’s working but I’ll keep updated. I’ve blocked him on everything even moved out by the 4 month I unblocked him but he has me blocked.
Coach Lee do you still do 1 on 1 coaching?
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Coach is it possible to book a private session with you?
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My husband left a month ago, but he's constantly reaching out, and giving me mixed signals. It seems like he "doesn't want me, but doesn't want to lose all of me" like he wants to be friends. I told him i can't do friends. I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to push him away if we have a chance, but he's not giving me a chance to heal and the mixed signals are literally making me crazy.
I feel you. In same situation
So did ya’ll split or stay together? Your story is really similar to me
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Same here. 😢 Would be interesting to hear how it turned out for you guys.
My wife and I live together but separate rooms. She plans to leave after the holidays! She wants to separate! This started in August. I was acting needy and clingy! Is it to late for me to do the 30 minimum contact??
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Please make a video about living together after breakup but ex is seeing someone new.
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I’m in the same boat. But he’s always away with the rebound. When he here we talk a bit and also flirt. But then he leaves for a few days.. I’m a bit worried he’ll start a new job away from the rebound more often and he’ll be home more. Idk if it’ll bring us closer. Idk if I should stay in my room when he’s around or what..
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Actually, coach Lee, 3 weeks ago, my Spouse (who is in a rebound relationship) went out of her way to convince me that we didn't need to really get divorced, that staying separated was good enough, and that it'd be nice if we kept celebrating our anniversaries even though we aren't together anymore.
Last week she even said wished we had just moved far away somewhere years ago. Of course, that would mean that she wouldn't be with her rebound and would still be with me...Oh, and she always kisses me full on the lips every face to face meet up, sometimes twice.
Your advice seems to be working wonders, except if I try to take initiative in any way such as text or phone call or inviting her someplace, I get nowhere, and so I have to keep it one-sided and just let her come to me, which you do suggest in some of your videos anyway.
So it feels like i'm going though mini cycles of no contact with her.
I hear what you describe a lot. Stay strong. After a while a little initiation from you is a good thing. But only after it’s been all her for a good amount of time.
Why is she kissing you on the lips and in a relationship, rebound or not. She’s still married to you, so who is she cheating on when she’s kissing you.
@@JaqoBlaque she cheated on him with a "rebound" and now she's cheating on the "rebound" but he wants that living thing back...🤦♂️🤦♂️
She won't missed you that way, she doesn't want the divorce because she is not sure and when she ask you are there and the more time she spends with the rebound and if it's good quality time you might be done, don't be to available for her. Make a live show her you are busy not just waiting for here, flirt but in away that you can get her or any girl. Make her crave for you. That's my advice and what I've have learnt from diferent videos and experience I had, but watch the expert videos, all combine will make you take the right desicion cause there is like piece on every video you can apply for your situation and how your ex is reacting.
@@kiasca3489 Yes, I understand she won't miss me if I keep seeing her, but i'm not suppose to ignore her or turn away her offers for face--to-face time. It's a catch 22.
Luckily, for the past few weeks, she's been depressed and crying a lot about how she feels like a failure and how no one wants to hire her. She only initiated contact with me a couple times, and I only saw her once when she dropped our son off with me the other week. It's usually her mother who drops our kiddo off with me, by the way.
No kiss that time oddly, but she did keep hugging me. About 4 hugs, if I recall.
And for the past few months, almost every time I've spoken with her (i do let her initiate, as I'm suppose to) she asks if I'm seeing or dating anyone. She's super curious about that, so I guess she's currently in the Curiosity Stage.
How does the no contact work if married, live in separate parts of the house. And divorce has already been filed?
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Dated him 12 years on and off, he is has had a cycle of ghosting. Now we are 1 year married, after a fight he left and we did t even celebrate 1 yr anniversary. I didn’t think this would happen being married. I thought we made a commitment. So what do I do?
What if I am the one who left and applying NC until she understand her mistakes and truly change for good? Does NC work? I applied NC several times before, she called me and I forgave her and we moved on together but she never "actually" changed her behaviours, so I ended up leaving her for real this time.
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What's up? Bro. Any update of your situation?
@@juanr5853 Well, she is not gonna change. That's obvious. She tries to contact me from time to time without any sign of regret. Only to attack me about money or matters related to our kids. I now can see her true colors. Divorcing her real soon.
Hi coach! My ex felt neglected and she asked for space. Should I give her space because I'm scared that if I give her space and do no contact she would feel I actually didn't care about her. Would love your advice on this!
Thank you!
If she asked for space, you have to give her space. In this case, it’s actually showing her that you do care. Plus, if you don’t give it when you asked for it, how could you possibly do anything but annoy her? Relationship dynamics and breakup dynamics are different. So give her the space she asked for.
Giving space shows you care. It’s not about No Contact, that’s for personal growth.
Thank you so much Coach Lee. You are an amazing person!
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Coach lee, my ex-bf And I broke up for 5 month now . We went to our friend bd and I give him a ride home . We talk and he ask if I can wait for him 1 year and if he doesn’t find anyone like me and that he be back with me . I told him , sorry I will not do that and I will not wait for you . It’s just unfair because you’re living your 1 year life and go mess around and want me to wait . Is that a right thing to say to him ? Thank you very much for your valuable time and much appreciated it . Thanks
Would you recommend still wearing your wedding rings around them?
I would need to know more details but often that is the case. You’re welcome to book a session with me to speak about it at www.marriageradio.com/marriage-coaching/
Will this work even if my wife wants a divorce & we don’t have kids?
My spouse left 2 months ago. We’ve been together for 9 years & married for 3. I’ve been in a modified contact with them for about 3-4 weeks. My spouse knows that I don’t want to divorce & want to work on fixing our marriage.
I have decided to retain a lawyer bc my spouse keeps asking me to decide what I want (cars, house, etc..) do you think getting a lawyer will help buy more time in my situation? I really don’t want to lose my spouse, I’m willing to put in the work, but my spouse says they don’t want to work on it! Needing reassurance
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Hi Debi, you have an update?
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Agreed
Yep it does... i asked and applied for a divorce and he refused to cooperate
Did you all end up working things out or did he allow the divorce to go smoothly?
What if he’s not talking at all and ignoring all my messages . Even when I send once a month or so? ( been 5 months now ) he’s still very angry .
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The hardest part of the NC is that I can’t overcome the feeling that the more NC the more of a chance she will forget me and not respond to the NC..how do you overcome that?
You just have to have faith in the process.
@@Hobbyman1234 hope your right thank you for the response I need all the encouragement I can get
@@MarcJacob-do4dhI wish I was your wife 😢my husband has been away for three months and I am devastated, I miss my sweet husband so much.
Do you have any luck with NC?
Coach Lee please tell me what to do if he calls me everyday he said he doesn't want to be in a relationship with he sai he fell out of live with a long time ago he said he will always be there for me I'm trying the no contact but he keeps calling me to talk to me as a friend also we had a trip to south Carolina plan for late October we have a room reservation alredy made what do I do please help me I love him so much
same issue too... need some advice from Coach Lee
he blocked me on caller but he reaches me on whatsapp.... what shd I do?
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Hi. No contact rule doesn't work for me. In August 2020 my wife told me she doesn't love me. 3 weeks later filed for a divorce. November 2021 after 3rd session got divorce. Over that time I kept no contact rule but even that she never reached me out. We have no kids but we have house with mortgage which is rented. All duties I'm paying on my own and our financial stuff are not sorted out. She got divorce as she wanted but even that she is no reaching out to sort out with divission of assest and repayment of bank installments. I have no idea what to do for time being I'm keeping well with no contact. Thanks
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My wife wants a divorce asks me to leave the house every day. She decided to visit her parents in a different state. As soon as she left I stop talking to her aka the no contact rule. She has sent me a message the next day and then 14 days after that. I have yet to respond. Should I or Should I not?
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What if you aren't married but have been together 10 years and he is having an affair but he still wants you to stay at the home
Get away from that. Zero contact.
Thank u. How does no contact work, if you are still living together?
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Coach Lee, I really hope you answer this. Me and my wife are currently separated. I found her on a dating site with a fake account. Should I give up and just go on with the divorce? I still love her and want her back.
Thanks,
Hey man, I would say definitely right now go into no contact! I know it's tough I'm doing it right now. But it is 100% necessary. Every part of your being will want you to contact her. Trust me, nothing you say will work. She will hear and feel your silence. I'm here for you
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Metal Gear Richard Let her go mate, the pain will subside. I am going through it atm. It sucks, I still love her very much, but she did not satisfy me and I have to stick to my ambition to be happy. What has worked for me is doing things that I enjoyed before I met her, it works.
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Coach lee its been a yr yesterday and still nothing maybe its what your message is but only who knows i been doing everything you said for a yr just strictly our little 2 kids
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When should one get a lawyer? We are on day 3 of trial separation. Have not had contact in 3 days. We are not fighting at the moment, just giving each other space, but we are looking to sell our house. We have not started talking about divorce yet.
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Since we split over 2 yrs ago theres been nothing, no contact at all...
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One time it took me 3 years crazy.
What if is the other way around? I am super mad and disappointed and I haven’t talk to him for a few but I want him to be the one to fix everything to talk to reach out cus am tired of always being the one doing it
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How do I handle that my spouse is dating someone already and we only filed for divorce in August and it is not finalized yet.
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@coach Lee I’m trying to save my marriage. I love my wife more than anything. Will no contact help us? I tried it once, she can’t back around for a week and then blocked me again. Seemingly for no reason. Please help
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I'm really confused. I've watched a video saying to stay around the family as much as possible then another one saying stay in strategic contact. I don't which to do at the moment.
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@@RealCoachLeeI listened to it so many time but I'm just confused as it seems to go against strategic contact.
Ive been on No contact for a little over 2 weeks now. Herd she was filling divorce but rn she hasn't. I miss her in ways i dont understand. She is currently with another man but has told me shes not happy and does miss me but then ghosts me. What does that mean. I cant wait to purchase your kit And get your advice your in incredible coach help get through so many rough days when shes all i think about.
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Does no contact work for engagement?
How do you do no contact or smart contact if you live together still and have children?
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I just can't be funny and casual around him, he betrayed me and is still in relationship with someone else, he left me for that person >
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Exactly. How you can be casual when we know he already have someone else. I can't stand some of this advises seems like the bad person can get away with everything that they want. Even playing with your feelings.
Nana M maybe its time to move on. Geez
Why are you even around them though?
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because he is the child's father
I have a big problem. My husband send me divorce l have been serve by the police. I gat a lower and paper was send to my spause, gat very. upsed, send me a message , laid to me by telling the that the lowyer told him that he do no supouse to contact me until the day of hearing. I'm only have 4 weeks and the divorce will be final. I'm Veri worried that will going through. I fells that l don't have no more chance. My family is very upset that l expended many knowing that this situation is over, l,m fells very bad. Please. help. I'm trying to get a session with coach Lee. and haven't be able.
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Coach lee. How do I contact you for a session,?
N9 Contract for me is not to save the marriage it’s to get rid of the cheating witch.
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Any update?
@@juanr5853 tbh man she divorced me and now im just stuck between what my next move is
@@paradiseliving271 Hope you find your way, my bro. Ask God to guide you... I'm about to divorce too, unemployed because of quarantine and my mom is sick... Last year my life was perfect. But I know I'll be better. God bless you.
Does this also works on ex spouse? We have no kids
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What if you've already been divorced?
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I went no contact he put ad on matrimony for new marriage
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@@enduranceendy6559 he blocking every thing when i try to contact
He said he put the profile for showing me
He done it bcz i contact him and he can shout me again and again then block
I think he want me to chase him
And hurting me with words
He like that..
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Is it okay for me to file legal separations just to protect myself?
Yes, you should take care of yourself legally while making sure that you are seeking things that are fair.
Thank you coach Lee
Can I send Valentine's Day message to my husband?
He has left? What would you say?
@@RealCoachLee if my husband sent Valentine's Day message, do I need to respond to his message or ignore it!?
@@RealCoachLee yes, he moved to Thailand
Please please please do more videos like this!!! It’s 2021 and my wife and I have been separated a month and a half and I’m on day 15 of no/limited contact and I’m confused by some of her actions and really wish I knew what was going through her head. Thanks coach lee!
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Its a challenge with kids. Because she is going to call you about everything now. If you don't answer then she'll call from the kids phone and just play it off..
And trust and believe she knows what she is doing.
@@mohammedusman2149 you have no boundaries or never heard of deal breakers.
U just have to talk about "business only", such as the kids, the house whatever but nothing related to the relationship ever.
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It is not COVID but because Trump is not get re-elected. He still believes that Trump is in the office. I can’t even talk to him since then. We are in the different room. I don’t know what to do?
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Always works, but after nearly 1 month NC , he text me: I thought you were dead