Some pple are natural criers. They cry when excited, they cry in grief, they cry in laughter, they cry in rage, they literally cry at any slight emotional experience or state. This is how their bodies process experiences in real time. And that’s okay.
I realize I lost a good man and I thought I was trying but it wasn’t enough. But I still have hope that we could get it together if we both really work on it and communicate effectively. Sometimes when you are fairly new to relationships you don’t know how to be in one until you have experiences and you learn from your mistakes and try again! My ex still seems like he wants to get to know me and I don’t look at him like my ex but someone that I really adore and admire. ❤
I wish he gave me one more chance...i am fairly new to relationships as well so unknowingly a lot of childhood trauma, past triggers came to surface...he broke up... It's been 3 weeks....i wish he gives me another chance
When my husband broke up he said at the same time „but you are one of the most important people in my life and I want to stay friends“. Told him that I cannot do it and that I need space to let him go. Now he is giving me space and will probably wait for me to tell him when I am ready for friendship…. I am not, I love him! 😢 But think he will respect my wishes and not reach out. It hurts!
I as well told her that I’ve have something’s I need to fix within myself and some growing to do. I told her that I’ve prayed and hope one day she will give me another chance to get it right with our relationship. I miss her. I also told her that I know it’s a high possibility I could lose her forever and that I shouldn’t have played with her heart like that. I let my emotions best me. It’s been over a week and a half since the break up and last time I heard from her. I messed up , I feel shame. I know I can’t beat myself up too much and feel self pity. I’m just doing the little things each day to better myself and grow as a person and yet even a better man. Idk what the future hold, idk if I will ever hear from her again or if I will get another chance. I’ve accepted that she most likely will not give me another chance or even be in a relationship. Either way this is a humbling learning experience that each day passes by. I wish I had worked it out thru a phone call or conversation in person
I posted a pic of me after being on ghost mode for a while. That was the day I got the biggest insults from my ex🙇🏼♂️ she called me the most terrible names. Then the next day she apologised saying, she just felt jealous seeing that it’s like I’m happy 🙃
Alex, my wife of 22 years moved from NJ to Florida after our divorce. We’re still in contact and I told her after 2 months of her being down there that I made a huge mistake and I wanted her back. She says she doesn’t want to live in Jersey and she knows I would t be happy down there. I’ve ignored her last 2 phone calls because I had to try something different than begging. Now I don’t know what to do next. 😩
Alex, when my ex made the decision to break it off he said, “I’m confused.” He said, “I didn’t want to have this conversation.” He knew it was going to hurt me deeply. I have maintained no contact from that moment on. I had actually started listening to videos about NC. I knew it was coming because he was pulling away and becoming less available. It has been 6 weeks. I think he may have been seeing someone before the breakup. I love him with all my heart. I’m getting stronger. We didn’t have big arguments, he just started texting less, being less responsive to mine, less available, etc. Whenever we were together, it was wonderful. The relationship lasted for 5 months. If there was an overlap of time with another woman, I understand that their limerence will have an impact but may work to my advantage. Will he miss me while he’s seeing her or not until their lusting phase wears off?
It hurts that none of these signs are existing in the relationship with my ex right now, he does not text or talk to me at all, he is pretty sure that we are very bad for each other(we had a lot of fights because of many external factors and immaturity that does not exist in our lives right now), he is not angry , very calm and composed that his decision to leave me is right. he does want to be my friend and said he would never get in a relationship with me if that is clear then only he would be friends with me. I'm not sure if he looks at my social media. I have a lot of love and we had a lot of love and my immaturity and possessiveness has changed but i dont think he will give another chance to me.
If he’s yours (divinely chosen by the creator for you) he can run to the ends of the earth and he will eventually come back provided you do the inner work and grow and learn to love yourself first.
now i do not want that person in my life anymore bro, i know that i really missed the good moments and time we spent together and because of that i was really hurt when things ended, like really really hurt you can miss a person and never go back to them i know my worth now and i am very happy to say BYEEEEEEEEEEEE! i am not going to lie i so much miss the relationship but another side of me dont want to settle for that again if that makes sense🙂
Hey Alex thank you for this video! I would love to possibly get back with my wife or ex someday, not really sure what to call her anymore lol. But we are going through a divorce and have been ever since the new year, while still living together, & we will be living here until the 31st of May. We have a son together who is about to be 18 months old & we have court on July 19th. Idk there’s been a lot of arguments earlier this year and unnecessary drama, and I feel like it’s because she hurt me so much & betrayed my trust, but it’s still weird how I still feel like I love her and would like to work on us in the future.. I mean we have been communicating better recently for our son of course & I mean maybe she just doesn’t want to go to court, because I have a lawyer and she don’t.. but it seems like she wants to be friends & is more friendlier to me. What do you think? I’m open to any and all advice thank you and God bless everyone 🙏🏼
Forgive her… she is your wife, and yall have a child. If the behavior becomes repetitive, either see a marriage counselor or tell her the marriage can’t go on like this. Praying for you!
Hey I’m similar.. my ex wife and I live together and I still love her we tried reconciling but she was pursuing a guy in another country so I fussed about it we’re not talking much but still living together.. I asked her to move out so I can find me a woman to love and build with and she refused.. the thing is I want her but I want to be exclusive… I’m tired of the games. Like I said we have 3 children together.. and I know my children depend heavily on me.. I need some advice
Leave that person alone point blank. Emotional maturity is the key to any long lasting relationship. If your partner would rather be petty and not communicate or acknowledge you they are telling you they aren’t the one. Wish I learned that sooner but I def learned it
#1 He is very confused. He asks me things in a subtle way #2 very angry #3 he wants to see me and got angry when I told him no. He hides behind the excuse "friends" #4 yes, he starting following me again on TikTok again but not on Instagram stories #4
My ex and I had a beautiful Sunday at Disneyland after a period of not talking much to each other for about a month. On again off again for over a year. She starts fights on our weekends then we don’t talk for weeks. On the way back from Disney land she started another fight when I made a call I needed to get done. In the car. On my headphone. She started saying: oh, did 10:40 ”she” get all the info she needed? Are you going to get “her” the paperwork? Etc. it was a business call. I got angry and dialed the number back, she tried to stop me making the call, i moved the phone out of her reach, out it on speaker so she could hear the guy on the line and repeated the conversation. It was awkward from there. The next day she broke up with me by phone. Said she hoped I remembered her with good memories. Blocked me. A week later I posted a pic of me out with friends at a Bar. Within five minutes I had two missed calls from her. Now crickets. I don’t know what to do anymore. I love her. But all this insecurity, jealousy, and now broke up with me. I really don’t know if I’ll ever hear from her again. I’m in NC out of self preservation. Any ideas? I’m going crazy with missing her and want things to work but just…don’t…know…what to do anymore:( add in that i know there’s a third party, she has self professed mental issues, and we live two hours apart. I don’t want to lose her but am out of answers.
Hate to say it my friend but my ex wife was this way. Even when you prove you’re right they still punish you. It’s best to leave. Unless you are willing to accept this treatment. If you accept it then you’re not allowed to complain about it.
Well like you say she’s insecure most likely projecting her stuff from childhood on to you, needs therapy - loving someone doesn’t mean you’ll be good partners , it takes 2 emotionally mature aware individuals to work through the power struggle stage Otherwise your stuck there in a ongoing pattern I’d walk away - Best of luck
@@changedman7627don’t let her go. I can understand where u coming from but she must b fearing of loosing u and that’s y she reacts. This at times happens due to childhood traumas. Kids who r ignored by their parents n kids who r felt left out r most insecure adults. Coz they crave that attention from their partner. Tell her she has u and she dsnt have to feel that way. Sit n talk to her what makes her behave that way. But don’t lv her she need you the most.
Hi Alex, so I was recently dating someone that I was deeply connected to. He told me he fell for me but has trust issues due to a really bad past relationship. Everything was going well until he found I had a male best friend. After that he said it was a deal breaker for him. Even though he said it's hard to turn his feeling off for me he has to stand strong on what he believes. I recently saw that he liked (hearted) one of my posts on my FB. He hasn't blocked me or anything like that. He also said he had to think about the decision which was hard for him. Just not sure where to go from here. It wasn't anything I did. But it's confusing.
my ex changed all her profile photo to a sea shell I gave her with "love you" written on the back of the shell. It had only been 3 weeks when she changed (1st of january).
He is sure that we are not compatible because “ I don’t listen to him” active listening problem for me -he wants to keep friends and still offer to help me everything in my life. -he cuddles me when we met last time but still said “ I can’t change “ - I beg him to come back and asked if possible to come back in the future , he said No - I am now in No contact for 2 days - I found that he is looking for new lady in dating site I still love him so much . I want him back but now I don’t know what to do
My ex is attracted to me, he began flirting and being all over me when we see each other (we work together) and we're teasing each other again. So I teasingly invited him out. He declined by saying meeting me would be dangerous, and anyway he didn't have the time that day and didn't offer another day. He's moving on. Yes, I watch his social media and he's clearly showing off to someone, saying where he's at, where he'll be, how funny he is...
My love left me a another wealthy person and suddenly told me every thing is over nothing is between us he is doing all this because she is in control of that person what sould i do?
I loved this man so completely, truly, deeply. But, he does not want marriage and that is a deal breaker for me. So, I severed the relationship. But, he unfriended me on his socials so there's no way for me to tell if he's looking at my content. And, as deep as the connection was, I'm thinking he was just in it to play and have fun, even though we both said our "I love you's". As much as it hurts, I feel I might be better served by trying again with someone new. I created this amazing relationship that was so satisfying it felt like home. So, I know I can create it again, maybe even better.
He thinks ive moved on and keeps saying "you're an amazing person, you deserve the best, i wish you all the best" i just keep quiet. Not sure whether i should let him know the truth or leave him to think what he thinks
My ex asked me twice to meet him after few months of our break up. I told him I was busy both times. He recently wished me happy birthday. I have always been polite in my responses to him. Should I meet him if he asks me again?
She is lost and confused and has no idea what she wants. She wants space but yet wants to talk to me here n there, she looks at all my stories and I made a snapchat private story and she joined it. She has videos of us on TikTok, photos of us on facebook as well as instagram stories and tags. She told me she wants to self heal and focus on herself. She is not talking to anyone. I am in counciling to get my shit together and make changes that needed to be done. But she has no idea what she wants for her future and for herself. We were dating for almost 1.6 years and she ended it. She says she loves me and misses me and thinks about me all the time but at this moment the love isnt the same.
Alex. My husband left 5 mnths ago. He went to another women. That is ended. He and I have talked about getting back together. He says he is stupid to lose me. But he says he can’t get the other woman or what he did out his head. I see he is trying entertain himself with talking to other woman. Yet he tells me how good I look tells me he loves me everytime we talk. He will call morning and night.sometimes then he will not. We both reach out to each other. I handle all his money to keep the bills being of at my home. He has stayed the weekend twice. 1st he sleep in a different room. 2nd time he slept in our bed. Both times nothing happened because I respect myself to much. We both wanted to but we reframed. It wld hurt us both so bad to do that and then depart. We were together for 15 yrs. He has asked if he come back what would happen if our love life was not the same? I told him that if we were to I wouldn’t want things the same, I wld want our relationship better then before. I can tell when he pulls away. What is your advice? Ex. Yesterday it was about us getting back together. Today is when we divorce? A lot of mixed signals
Hey, Alex! There's this girl I was dating. All was good. Suddenly, she asked for space to solve her professional and family issues. Wr have been in absolute no contact for the past 1 month, now. Just a few days back, I found out she has gone onto a online dating app. I was wondering what is happening. Could you please guide me?
My ex says he feels emotional disconnected with me. He's been angry only now he's coming around after almost 2 months. He broke up with me. He is still flirting and kisses my forehead. And hugs me. We are communicating. Told him I'm working on some things in my life. He likes that I am although he says we just friends
Be very carful, my ex broke up with me before Christmas. Wanted to stay friends. Text me constantly everyday, came round three times a week, we’d take the dogs out together. After three months I felt the friendship just wasn’t enough for me. She was upset that I didn’t want to be friends. Then I found out she was with a guy from work. Total head fuck! Best to forget about them as hard as it is. If they really want you they’ll put the work in
Alex, I basically broke up with my girlfriend and it is my fault I would admit, she had started ghosting me and the most painful thing is right after the breakup she went straight to pursuing other men. I am really in love with this girl and I know she's hurt I have made huge mistakes but I have learned and was willing to never walk down that path anymore. I was hoping to see if it could be possible to mend back this relationship but her starting to ghost me I do not know. Do you think it is worth fighting for or how fast she ran back to find other people isn't worth it? The same week of the breakup she was confused, she was willing to give me a chance, and all of a sudden she changed her mind to move on. I know she is getting influence from family and friends as well because I know if it were her decision she would have given me a chance. I am in so much pain and depression and what is so painful is her already trying to be with other people and that I do not know whether to move on or what to do now.
It doesnt really matter if she started dating already. The day after my bf broke up with me i went straight to a new date. Doesnt mean i didnt still want him or love him. I want him to come back to me but if he broke up with me and isnt going to reach out, then im just gonna keep living my life and move on. So reach out to her and try to start over. It doesnt matter if she already went on a date. You were the one who ended it
Hi, thank you so much for this video. Please respond as I still need help. My ex broke up with me around 7 weeks ago while were in long distance ( we had done long distance before, so it wasn't the first time.) We were together for 2 years and were living together the whole time apart from the summer breaks. I begged and pleaded for 2 days after the breakup and went no contact. The day I got back in town which was 2 weeks ago, my ex randomly called me up to meet. We met, and she asked me how I was and if I was dating anyone else or hooking up. I said no, I am just focusing on myself and not looking for a rebound. She then told me that she started seeing some guy from work ( she broke up with me after a few days of getting this new job where she made new friends and likely got influenced) 2 weeks after the breakup, so its likely a rebound. I also think that she was trying to make me jealous but I didn't read too much into it and acted casual. She also told me that they were facing problems because they are now in long distance. She has also started smoking and drinking a lot. She said that she wanted to meet to make sure that we are cool and we can hangout as we have the same friend group. After the meet she asked me to come hangout with her and some mutual friends, I said that I was busy. She hasn't reached out since. She is also stealing our mututal friends away and we live in the same building so we cross paths at times, at first I used to wave and smile, now I just dont look at her and walk past. She seems very happy and unbothered, although she could just be pretending. What should I do?
Hi Alex, my ex walked out on me when I was away at my grandson‘s graduation he moved out. He keeps coming back tells me he wants to be with me. He loves me, but he wants to sell our home and buy another home close to his family, but he wants to stay close to me as a friend. I am hurt I’m confused I’m scared and I’m not sure what or how to react when he calls I haven’t picked up his calls lately. What do you suggest?
Hi Alex, I have been dating with him for a year, with a 4months breakup on it he just ghosted me, and five months of silence,we got back together ,in just 10days i mistakenly posted my pic on his Facebook story, and he was so mad at me saying he's not my husband neither my boyfriend, I should stop being desperate, out of anger I told him him that I can't be desperate cause he adds no value to my life, after few minutes I apologized, but he doesn't want us to continue dating, after beging him for a second chance,he said he needs time to think about it, but he ignores me, like am no body, I really love him, I want us to be there for each other
Hey hey Alex . blind circle or ghosting i am exhausted. 3 weeks i did not reach out.after we spent time together and he did not check on me.after this 3 week then he contacted me why I did not contact him ,if i have a new boyfriend. now us this a good sign? or is he just cheking where he got me at? i have no clue how to set up the boundaries back and yes i am scared :(
Mr Alex please respond. My ex is giving mixed signals. I did him wrong and he broke up with me, said he wants nothing to do with me blocked me and all. But now he unblocked me, when I ask for a meet up he says he's not sure... He does take my calls nowadays but he doesn't want to communicate everyday like we dating. I told him I'll wait for him to come back and he said okay I should wait but he said we not taking a break we broke up so I shouldn't treat it as if we taking a break... It's like I do have signs but there are also things that contradict those signs.
I'm seeing all four of those signs! The only thing that is different is that there's a third-party involved on her end. But I'm aware of him and he's not aware of me.
my husband has some mental health issues and a month or so ago he stopped taking his medication and suddenly just decided he wanted to see other people and moved in with what he said was broken. He’s been living with his parents for the last year in another state, after a mental break down that I was ill-equipped to help him with, and was unable to move out of the state that I was in because I was the sole provider. Turns out the friend who is living with it his new boyfriend. I’ve been devastated, but I’m currently driving to Arkansas right now with our fur children Like we have been talking about it for the last two years. I don’t really know what else to do with my life since this happened and I’m moving into a house somewhere nearby. I don’t know what to expect and I’m trying to respect boundaries but I’m really broken right now and I really just want my husband back.
Hello Alex..i pass by ur video..and u wanted some advice if my partner will still come back to me? Bcos suddenly he msg me that he didn't love me anymore...and be just friends for our son...i was shock bcos we don't fight when he leaves ..by the way he is a seaman...he said he will not going back to us and will just get his things here in our house...he leaves me in shock..bcos what i know from the start that he loveme ..us gis son...he's doing everything for us we had 11 yrs of good memories..we buy house ..and 2 more years to go andito will pe paid..so sad i had this depression..pls help me.
Hey Alex - thank you for this video - so she says she wants to be best friends and that she can’t lose me - when I pulled away slightly she panicked because she didn’t want to lose me - now she wants to see me - I’m seeing her tomorrow and she said I can see her twice a week - she feels stuck with her other ex who she was trying to get rid of but she said right now it’s impossible as she has to reply on his wages as she has nothing but then still wants me in her life etc. what do I do? What does this mean?
Hey Alex sir, I just have a doubt. My ex tried to approached me yesterday but today he was confused , what he have to do next and he wanted some time to take decision, and he is not sure about it so what should i do next..
I got off all social media and severed ALL ties to him. No reason for him to contact me maybe for mail (BS Diploma) or the dog we used to share. But there is no reason for him to reach out he broke up with me. He followed new women on IG and I stopped checking start praying and putting faith in the Lord. The Lord saved me from the pain. It’s been 10 days no contact. Lost some weight, and working on myself. Joined a volleyball league. That is all, I have the job, car and education I want and I never stopped loving myself thru the relationship. Yes, I made mistakes but I was always 100% devoted to him and myself. We lived together for 5 years knew eachother for 6. I don’t know the actually end to this story yet? Or maybe it is already done with the last thing him saying to me “you’re so stupid, and slammed the door.”
He Alex I had a break up very recently coz I lied to her about some stuff but told her upfrontly later but took a lot time she was hurt and decided to leave me and I was begging for her to come back and then she is friend with me but I want her badly in my life can you help me how to go ahead coz she has some of my stuff that she won’t return is there any sign in it she still talks to me things which she can’t share with any of her friends she ignores me mostly but if she seeks help I am the one she approaches if anything I can do to bring her again in my life can you plzzz suggest
Alex please assist me I am facing a situation whereby dispenser code a boyfriend we are having long distance relationship when is in Africa it talks to me when is back to his country he never calls me but whatsapp's me everyday what's the meaning of the word or what should I do what steps to take
Hi , my gf did breakup with me and she always says don't force me to do relation with you. I don't want you anymore .she reply my msg BT not much. Very less . BT if it is after one day also she gv msg . Wt is my condition canu tell me?
Does this apply to the dumper? I want my ex back I messed up. Made a rash impulsive decision breaking up with her over something petty. Ive apologized to her and why I am truly sorry. I told her I’m wrong and that I hope I can get another chance to work things out in our relationship, and make it right. I haven’t heard back from her which I expected nothing less. I messaged her one last time telling her I regret it and it was a mistake. Im currently just working on changing myself and fixing the issues that I have within myself personally.
I broke up with my lady this past May 2. By July she was with another guy. She drives to his place out of town to be with him. I guess he still works (her and I are retired), I have mad every little contact during May on. She is not making any signs of wanting to get back. Her friends don't even like me. We are both 70 years old. We been together off and on for 2 years. I'm also thinking she is a good bit Narcissist. Lots of traits. I went to the winery where she works part time at, sat and drank some wine with my friends there. She only question me what have I been up to, just being friendly since she works there. Nothing more was said. Haven't seen the guy. I was told she is going away with him the 2 full weekends middle of August, not sure where.
I’m hoping I can get an answer because Im confused. So we broke up and she told me she wanna stay as friends but after a month or so of no contact she blocked me on social media one by one?
My ex comes and stays in my house for 3 days but avoid me all the time. I go and stay in his house even a week but we don’t really talk much and he can’t even look at me in the eye. I wonder what this even means. The problem is I have kids can this be the reason? We have known each other 15 years
Hi coach Alex, my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago. Last contact was about a month ago when he told me he us dating his coworker. I'm crushed. Haven't reached out but want him back. He has no social media. He is depressed and only left because he's chasing a child wish which is why he is already dating. He is 45 and has no time to lose. I know he'll be not able to be a father and the "rebound"? Relationship will not last. I'm certain. But I'm heartbroken and love him so very much. What can I do?
Kinda hard to make contact when they know you can't anyway. Protective order over harmless phone calls and messages. Nothing threatening, just a lot of them.
Alex My ex been calling off and on for a few weeks,we been together for 5 years ..I broke my no contact yesterday but she picked up on the second ring, I felt so stupid afterwards and went right back in to no contact all the signs are there but it's just hard not to hear her voice smh
My ex tag certain people on my social media know when I’m going to see it stating that she’s in a relationship with someone else after three weeks of us breaking up
Hello sir my ex is also watching my stories. And not immediately but after a day. He is putting stories. With dog sometime sad and sometime happy . What does it mean?
Pls reply. My ex came bck. Said he misses me want yo talk n meet up. But i again acted all clingy n despo. N he blocked ne again. Nw i m trying to work on myself. 2 n more months of no contact. Will he come bck??
Hey Alex, my ex said she lost feelings for me for 6 month ago, and have not talk much with, invitet her for coffee on a coffebar once, it went okay like friends, tryed now again to invite her out for food, she didnt know if she wanted to go with me, so after two days, I called her to hear, if we should cancel, but talked with her, and she surgested a day we could go out, even she said, she dont have feelings for me, will she just be friends with me.??
Hi! I was selfish and my ex was traumatized by it. She didn't want to see me anymore. I sent her a love letter with a sincere apology and expressed that I want to hug her and never let her go, in short. She replied that she forgives me but at this moment, she wants to go her own way. She mentioned maybe a friendship for the future. I responded that I respect everything and want to stay in touch. After 1-2 messages the next day, she said she wants distance and also not to write to each other. My response was respectful and I told her, however, if she won't be able to give me a chance, unfortunately, she will never see my change. Since then, she hasn't responded and we haven't had any contact. It's been 5 weeks now. What does it mean when she says she wants distance? Is it over or should I write to her again after 2-3months? Or nothing and i think if she realy wants me, she will contact me..I need advice please. Thank you very much for your time and answers!
It sounds like she needs some time and space to process everything that has happened. It's important to respect her wishes and give her the distance she's asking for. Focus on personal growth and allow things to unfold naturally.
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thank you very much for your advice. That's what I want to do, to give her of course space and no contact, without to think what will happen in the future, and to focus on myself and overcome my love to her. But in such a situation, where she says space and not to write her, she must be the one to come back, right? I think I must not text her ever again. She must see if she can't without me and come back. Right?
Sir I have no misunderstanding with my guy, I just discovered that he doesn't pick my calls nor text since the 1st of April till now,he texted me on Easter wishing me a happy Easter, since that day he has not texted me, please help me out. I'm confused because I had no problems with him
Hello sir ,pls advice me ,,my bf have asked me to give him ,to think and decide, when I asked him for how long he said , I should not push him I just have to wait and ,nowadays hes making me jealous for another woman posting that she owns his heart ,and she does the same ,what should I do me ,and him we still talking and meeting sometimes, im confused 😕 😢
What can I do if I went through all the steps and even took me out to eat and talked normal told me he wasn’t seeing anyone… then he went to Germany for 2 weeks to see his son an when he came back didn’t call me so I call him he is a bit dry 3 days later says he meet someone at bar n was having dinner I was confused n upset n since that day he is dry n won’t talk to me it’s been a month what should I do?
Me and ex were together for 2 and half years and it was good till he started to accuse me of cheating. And he started to do substance as well and it effect his mental state. We kept breaking up and getting back together but now we don't have a apartment together. I'm at my moms and I'm not sure where's he's staying. But I want to fix things make.. things better..but it was him who did this. I couldn't stand it so I left....but it's been almost two weeks we have been texting off and on. Not always good I don't know what to do please help us.
If someone is blaming you on cheating they are either or cheated by them exes or they are cheating by themselves. I would consider this as a red flag if you ask me.
Me and my ex went no contact I tried to reach out after I started going to the gym and gained 30lbs got a new job and started training Muay Thai I followed her on Instagram after trying to call her phone number and getting no answer but when I requested her she blocked my second account and not my main then she disabled her main account I haven’t tried to reach out since but I really do miss her what should I do and yes I initiated the break up after she refused to answer my calls when I got back from a trip to Florida but and I also missed her birthday should I try harder or just fall back
What if we hve been in a relationship and then the guy starts giving u excuses nt to see him after u catch him with another lady and his response says I give him a break his mind is nt straight ounce is settled he will let me knw what advice a u giving me
I have crises with ny friend and she wants to move on. She has vuewd my status before,I want to change. We have not been communicating well .. and I was able to talk to her today. But I begged .O gosh..! I want to her back ..controlling my emotions need to do that ..She has said alot to me and even cursed me. Prayed abt this too..i need advice.
I and my boyfriend had long distance relationship. It's been 7 yrs. We had lack of communication, anger.etc.at the end, he broke up with me. But he is guilty, at the same time he did a strong decision. He can be friends, but he don't love me as lover. I tried everything. But he didnt change. Then i decided to friend with him.. Can i get him back? Is there any chance he will regret his decision.
He wanted to stay friends but still keep the previlages that he had when he was my boyfriend, so I needed to heal as my emotions were all over the place, but he still looks at my social.we had a nome of waiking each other for work , I stopped doing that but he still does . I am not what he wants honestly
my girl is still with me but she says she dont feel anymore or she doesn't love me anymore but she is still with and talks very few with no attention no care what should i do
I'm in a difficult spot in my life but I'm trying to figure out how to get my ex to forget about me and completely move forward. I have moved forward, but she has false hope. Yes, I'm ignoring her, but still.
i have no idea what i did so bad, i really don't, i own my part of normal day to day. He says he hates me, we were on and off then just hooking up then out of the blue he took that away, things were moving along, now its no contact.. n i don't know why iasked him, why why do you hate me so much, what did i do so horrible i will fix it i get you know hwat you did... Im so devastated, i love this man, hes all i want. Its so bad, i dont think hes coming back, i really dont im blocked on everything i call and text nothing i mean nothing, . i give up i want to be with him but i am not going to embarrass myself any more then i already have.... Im so so so so broken. I thought he was the one, i mean we love the same stuff, movies, food, and sense of humor, its baffeling, to me, no matter what i do its not good enough.. swimming upstream is the only way ican describe it.
After alcohol I got black out and did wrong things to her even I dont know what I have did...but it was worse I think....not only one time it was four five times with alcohol...she blocked me on whatsapp insta and on every social media...she broke up with me...and I dont believe that....what should I do....but she rang to me yesterday and for my atm to give me back??
She ghosted me for 5months, didnt say goodbye, no explanations, didnt bring me my stuff back, but shes always the first person to check my social media stories and she just wished me the biggest birthday wish message than anyone else, and now she continues the ghosting. Am confused…
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Some pple are natural criers. They cry when excited, they cry in grief, they cry in laughter, they cry in rage, they literally cry at any slight emotional experience or state. This is how their bodies process experiences in real time. And that’s okay.
I realize I lost a good man and I thought I was trying but it wasn’t enough. But I still have hope that we could get it together if we both really work on it and communicate effectively. Sometimes when you are fairly new to relationships you don’t know how to be in one until you have experiences and you learn from your mistakes and try again! My ex still seems like he wants to get to know me and I don’t look at him like my ex but someone that I really adore and admire. ❤
Then reach out to him and stop moaning. :)))
I have made mistake but m always consoling her😢
Update?
Communication is one of the biggest key in relationships. Alot of relationships fail cuz they don't know how to Communicate right.
I wish he gave me one more chance...i am fairly new to relationships as well so unknowingly a lot of childhood trauma, past triggers came to surface...he broke up... It's been 3 weeks....i wish he gives me another chance
Only if he still wants you, otherwise he ain’t coming back “sis”
I don't want my ex back because i realized my worth after he left..but thanks for the info 🎉
When my husband broke up he said at the same time „but you are one of the most important people in my life and I want to stay friends“. Told him that I cannot do it and that I need space to let him go. Now he is giving me space and will probably wait for me to tell him when I am ready for friendship…. I am not, I love him! 😢 But think he will respect my wishes and not reach out. It hurts!
I pray that my ex will come back to me once I fix what I lack since we are on an LDR setup.
I as well told her that I’ve have something’s I need to fix within myself and some growing to do. I told her that I’ve prayed and hope one day she will give me another chance to get it right with our relationship. I miss her. I also told her that I know it’s a high possibility I could lose her forever and that I shouldn’t have played with her heart like that. I let my emotions best me. It’s been over a week and a half since the break up and last time I heard from her. I messed up , I feel shame. I know I can’t beat myself up too much and feel self pity. I’m just doing the little things each day to better myself and grow as a person and yet even a better man. Idk what the future hold, idk if I will ever hear from her again or if I will get another chance. I’ve accepted that she most likely will not give me another chance or even be in a relationship. Either way this is a humbling learning experience that each day passes by. I wish I had worked it out thru a phone call or conversation in person
I posted a pic of me after being on ghost mode for a while.
That was the day I got the biggest insults from my ex🙇🏼♂️ she called me the most terrible names. Then the next day she apologised saying, she just felt jealous seeing that it’s like I’m happy 🙃
She likes you and you have a big big chance
Apologies and say you don't know what I am feeling on the inside
She sounds like a borderline bro. Hopefully she’s not, but if she is, runnnnnnnnnnnn.
From a woman: RUN. She's a psycho!
Alex, my wife of 22 years moved from NJ to Florida after our divorce. We’re still in contact and I told her after 2 months of her being down there that I made a huge mistake and I wanted her back. She says she doesn’t want to live in Jersey and she knows I would t be happy down there. I’ve ignored her last 2 phone calls because I had to try something different than begging. Now I don’t know what to do next. 😩
Alex, when my ex made the decision to break it off he said, “I’m confused.” He said, “I didn’t want to have this conversation.” He knew it was going to hurt me deeply. I have maintained no contact from that moment on. I had actually started listening to videos about NC. I knew it was coming because he was pulling away and becoming less available. It has been 6 weeks. I think he may have been seeing someone before the breakup. I love him with all my heart. I’m getting stronger. We didn’t have big arguments, he just started texting less, being less responsive to mine, less available, etc. Whenever we were together, it was wonderful. The relationship lasted for 5 months. If there was an overlap of time with another woman, I understand that their limerence will have an impact but may work to my advantage. Will he miss me while he’s seeing her or not until their lusting phase wears off?
If he was seeing someone, why would you want him back?
Please move on
He has blocked me every where but I still love him so much hope he will return back to me 😢
Same here it’s been two months that day he saw me on 20 September he asked how am I doing ? Is it a positive sign ??
My ex did the same thing to me😢
It hurts that none of these signs are existing in the relationship with my ex right now, he does not text or talk to me at all, he is pretty sure that we are very bad for each other(we had a lot of fights because of many external factors and immaturity that does not exist in our lives right now), he is not angry , very calm and composed that his decision to leave me is right. he does want to be my friend and said he would never get in a relationship with me if that is clear then only he would be friends with me. I'm not sure if he looks at my social media. I have a lot of love and we had a lot of love and my immaturity and possessiveness has changed but i dont think he will give another chance to me.
Same case with me.
If he’s yours (divinely chosen by the creator for you) he can run to the ends of the earth and he will eventually come back provided you do the inner work and grow and learn to love yourself first.
Same here
Same here😢
Same here
now i do not want that person in my life anymore bro, i know that i really missed the good moments and time we spent together and because of that i was really hurt when things ended, like really really hurt you can miss a person and never go back to them i know my worth now and i am very happy to say BYEEEEEEEEEEEE! i am not going to lie i so much miss the relationship but another side of me dont want to settle for that again if that makes sense🙂
Hey Alex thank you for this video! I would love to possibly get back with my wife or ex someday, not really sure what to call her anymore lol. But we are going through a divorce and have been ever since the new year, while still living together, & we will be living here until the 31st of May. We have a son together who is about to be 18 months old & we have court on July 19th. Idk there’s been a lot of arguments earlier this year and unnecessary drama, and I feel like it’s because she hurt me so much & betrayed my trust, but it’s still weird how I still feel like I love her and would like to work on us in the future.. I mean we have been communicating better recently for our son of course & I mean maybe she just doesn’t want to go to court, because I have a lawyer and she don’t.. but it seems like she wants to be friends & is more friendlier to me. What do you think? I’m open to any and all advice thank you and God bless everyone 🙏🏼
Forgive her… she is your wife, and yall have a child. If the behavior becomes repetitive, either see a marriage counselor or tell her the marriage can’t go on like this. Praying for you!
any news?
Hey I’m similar.. my ex wife and I live together and I still love her we tried reconciling but she was pursuing a guy in another country so I fussed about it we’re not talking much but still living together.. I asked her to move out so I can find me a woman to love and build with and she refused.. the thing is I want her but I want to be exclusive… I’m tired of the games. Like I said we have 3 children together.. and I know my children depend heavily on me.. I need some advice
How do you get a partner to commit and communicate with you when they are ignoring you and acting like you’re just a roommate not a partner
You don’t. Kick him to the curb like you don’t know him.
Distance yourself take no contact rule as oportunity for the next chapter in life not as getting your ex back
Block them and thank me later
Leave that person alone point blank. Emotional maturity is the key to any long lasting relationship. If your partner would rather be petty and not communicate or acknowledge you they are telling you they aren’t the one. Wish I learned that sooner but I def learned it
#1 He is very confused. He asks me things in a subtle way
#2 very angry
#3 he wants to see me and got angry when I told him no. He hides behind the excuse "friends"
#4 yes, he starting following me again on TikTok again but not on Instagram stories
#4
New subscriber sir Alex. Thanks you for your advice
Thanks for the support!
My ex and I had a beautiful Sunday at Disneyland after a period of not talking much to each other for about a month. On again off again for over a year. She starts fights on our weekends then we don’t talk for weeks. On the way back from Disney land she started another fight when I made a call I needed to get done. In the car. On my headphone. She started saying: oh, did 10:40 ”she” get all the info she needed? Are you going to get “her” the paperwork? Etc. it was a business call. I got angry and dialed the number back, she tried to stop me making the call, i moved the phone out of her reach, out it on speaker so she could hear the guy on the line and repeated the conversation. It was awkward from there. The next day she broke up with me by phone. Said she hoped I remembered her with good memories. Blocked me. A week later I posted a pic of me out with friends at a Bar. Within five minutes I had two missed calls from her. Now crickets. I don’t know what to do anymore. I love her. But all this insecurity, jealousy, and now broke up with me. I really don’t know if I’ll ever hear from her again. I’m in NC out of self preservation. Any ideas? I’m going crazy with missing her and want things to work but just…don’t…know…what to do anymore:( add in that i know there’s a third party, she has self professed mental issues, and we live two hours apart. I don’t want to lose her but am out of answers.
She comes from a dysfunctional home. This will NEVER stop and will get more terrible as time goes by. Get rid of her now or you will ruin your life.
Hate to say it my friend but my ex wife was this way. Even when you prove you’re right they still punish you. It’s best to leave. Unless you are willing to accept this treatment. If you accept it then you’re not allowed to complain about it.
Well like you say she’s insecure most likely projecting her stuff from childhood on to you, needs therapy - loving someone doesn’t mean you’ll be good partners , it takes 2 emotionally mature aware individuals to work through the power struggle stage Otherwise your stuck there in a ongoing pattern I’d walk away - Best of luck
@@changedman7627don’t let her go. I can understand where u coming from but she must b fearing of loosing u and that’s y she reacts. This at times happens due to childhood traumas. Kids who r ignored by their parents n kids who r felt left out r most insecure adults. Coz they crave that attention from their partner. Tell her she has u and she dsnt have to feel that way. Sit n talk to her what makes her behave that way. But don’t lv her she need you the most.
Hi Alex, so I was recently dating someone that I was deeply connected to. He told me he fell for me but has trust issues due to a really bad past relationship. Everything was going well until he found I had a male best friend. After that he said it was a deal breaker for him. Even though he said it's hard to turn his feeling off for me he has to stand strong on what he believes. I recently saw that he liked (hearted) one of my posts on my FB. He hasn't blocked me or anything like that. He also said he had to think about the decision which was hard for him. Just not sure where to go from here. It wasn't anything I did. But it's confusing.
Going through the same thing!!
my ex changed all her profile photo to a sea shell I gave her with "love you" written on the back of the shell. It had only been 3 weeks when she changed (1st of january).
Thank you
You're welcome!
There is no way to know they are looking at your social media.
He is sure that we are not compatible because “ I don’t listen to him” active listening problem for me
-he wants to keep friends and still offer to help me everything in my life.
-he cuddles me when we met last time but still said “ I can’t change “
- I beg him to come back and asked if possible to come back in the future , he said No
- I am now in No contact for 2 days
- I found that he is looking for new lady in dating site
I still love him so much . I want him back but now I don’t know what to do
My ex is attracted to me, he began flirting and being all over me when we see each other (we work together) and we're teasing each other again. So I teasingly invited him out. He declined by saying meeting me would be dangerous, and anyway he didn't have the time that day and didn't offer another day. He's moving on. Yes, I watch his social media and he's clearly showing off to someone, saying where he's at, where he'll be, how funny he is...
My love left me a another wealthy person and suddenly told me every thing is over nothing is between us he is doing all this because she is in control of that person what sould i do?
Nice opinion bro
An ex is an ex for an example of not doing it again why anyone would want their ex back I will never know.
I loved this man so completely, truly, deeply. But, he does not want marriage and that is a deal breaker for me. So, I severed the relationship. But, he unfriended me on his socials so there's no way for me to tell if he's looking at my content. And, as deep as the connection was, I'm thinking he was just in it to play and have fun, even though we both said our "I love you's". As much as it hurts, I feel I might be better served by trying again with someone new. I created this amazing relationship that was so satisfying it felt like home. So, I know I can create it again, maybe even better.
Alex thanks very much for that advice
He thinks ive moved on and keeps saying "you're an amazing person, you deserve the best, i wish you all the best" i just keep quiet. Not sure whether i should let him know the truth or leave him to think what he thinks
What do you mean by letting him know the truth? It might be helpful to let him know
My ex asked me twice to meet him after few months of our break up. I told him I was busy both times. He recently wished me happy birthday. I have always been polite in my responses to him. Should I meet him if he asks me again?
If you want to get back with him you should accept
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I will see what he says. Thank you.
She is lost and confused and has no idea what she wants. She wants space but yet wants to talk to me here n there, she looks at all my stories and I made a snapchat private story and she joined it. She has videos of us on TikTok, photos of us on facebook as well as instagram stories and tags. She told me she wants to self heal and focus on herself. She is not talking to anyone. I am in counciling to get my shit together and make changes that needed to be done. But she has no idea what she wants for her future and for herself. We were dating for almost 1.6 years and she ended it. She says she loves me and misses me and thinks about me all the time but at this moment the love isnt the same.
Thanks so much just reallly want my ex back 😢
Alex. My husband left 5 mnths ago. He went to another women. That is ended. He and I have talked about getting back together. He says he is stupid to lose me. But he says he can’t get the other woman or what he did out his head. I see he is trying entertain himself with talking to other woman. Yet he tells me how good I look tells me he loves me everytime we talk. He will call morning and night.sometimes then he will not. We both reach out to each other. I handle all his money to keep the bills being of at my home. He has stayed the weekend twice. 1st he sleep in a different room. 2nd time he slept in our bed. Both times nothing happened because I respect myself to much. We both wanted to but we reframed. It wld hurt us both so bad to do that and then depart. We were together for 15 yrs. He has asked if he come back what would happen if our love life was not the same? I told him that if we were to I wouldn’t want things the same, I wld want our relationship better then before. I can tell when he pulls away. What is your advice? Ex. Yesterday it was about us getting back together. Today is when we divorce? A lot of mixed signals
My ex responds to my snap stories daily and we message daily but I make sure she’s the one initiating it.
Hey, Alex! There's this girl I was dating. All was good. Suddenly, she asked for space to solve her professional and family issues. Wr have been in absolute no contact for the past 1 month, now. Just a few days back, I found out she has gone onto a online dating app. I was wondering what is happening. Could you please guide me?
My ex says he feels emotional disconnected with me. He's been angry only now he's coming around after almost 2 months. He broke up with me. He is still flirting and kisses my forehead. And hugs me. We are communicating. Told him I'm working on some things in my life. He likes that I am although he says we just friends
Be very carful, my ex broke up with me before Christmas.
Wanted to stay friends.
Text me constantly everyday, came round three times a week, we’d take the dogs out together.
After three months I felt the friendship just wasn’t enough for me. She was upset that I didn’t want to be friends.
Then I found out she was with a guy from work.
Total head fuck!
Best to forget about them as hard as it is.
If they really want you they’ll put the work in
@@nw7654 ohh really. Well I've put some thought into it and I don't care anymore wat he does. I'm moving forward
Alex, I basically broke up with my girlfriend and it is my fault I would admit, she had started ghosting me and the most painful thing is right after the breakup she went straight to pursuing other men. I am really in love with this girl and I know she's hurt I have made huge mistakes but I have learned and was willing to never walk down that path anymore. I was hoping to see if it could be possible to mend back this relationship but her starting to ghost me I do not know. Do you think it is worth fighting for or how fast she ran back to find other people isn't worth it? The same week of the breakup she was confused, she was willing to give me a chance, and all of a sudden she changed her mind to move on. I know she is getting influence from family and friends as well because I know if it were her decision she would have given me a chance. I am in so much pain and depression and what is so painful is her already trying to be with other people and that I do not know whether to move on or what to do now.
It doesnt really matter if she started dating already. The day after my bf broke up with me i went straight to a new date. Doesnt mean i didnt still want him or love him. I want him to come back to me but if he broke up with me and isnt going to reach out, then im just gonna keep living my life and move on. So reach out to her and try to start over. It doesnt matter if she already went on a date. You were the one who ended it
Hi, thank you so much for this video. Please respond as I still need help. My ex broke up with me around 7 weeks ago while were in long distance ( we had done long distance before, so it wasn't the first time.) We were together for 2 years and were living together the whole time apart from the summer breaks. I begged and pleaded for 2 days after the breakup and went no contact. The day I got back in town which was 2 weeks ago, my ex randomly called me up to meet. We met, and she asked me how I was and if I was dating anyone else or hooking up. I said no, I am just focusing on myself and not looking for a rebound. She then told me that she started seeing some guy from work ( she broke up with me after a few days of getting this new job where she made new friends and likely got influenced) 2 weeks after the breakup, so its likely a rebound. I also think that she was trying to make me jealous but I didn't read too much into it and acted casual. She also told me that they were facing problems because they are now in long distance. She has also started smoking and drinking a lot. She said that she wanted to meet to make sure that we are cool and we can hangout as we have the same friend group. After the meet she asked me to come hangout with her and some mutual friends, I said that I was busy. She hasn't reached out since. She is also stealing our mututal friends away and we live in the same building so we cross paths at times, at first I used to wave and smile, now I just dont look at her and walk past. She seems very happy and unbothered, although she could just be pretending. What should I do?
my ex blocked me from everything and now his taking those dating app. knowing my ex his ego will not come back
This video is absolutely brilliant!
So based on this I have none from her, so goodbye for me.
Hi,Alex. What if one deletes their profile picture.
Hi Alex, my ex walked out on me when I was away at my grandson‘s graduation he moved out. He keeps coming back tells me he wants to be with me. He loves me, but he wants to sell our home and buy another home close to his family, but he wants to stay close to me as a friend. I am hurt I’m confused I’m scared and I’m not sure what or how to react when he calls I haven’t picked up his calls lately. What do you suggest?
Hi Alex, I have been dating with him for a year, with a 4months breakup on it he just ghosted me, and five months of silence,we got back together ,in just 10days i mistakenly posted my pic on his Facebook story, and he was so mad at me saying he's not my husband neither my boyfriend, I should stop being desperate, out of anger I told him him that I can't be desperate cause he adds no value to my life, after few minutes I apologized, but he doesn't want us to continue dating, after beging him for a second chance,he said he needs time to think about it, but he ignores me, like am no body, I really love him, I want us to be there for each other
I feel you. Trust God to make things happen cos sometimes people poison his mind. Stay strong.
Hey hey Alex . blind circle or ghosting i am exhausted. 3 weeks i did not reach out.after we spent time together and he did not check on me.after this 3 week then he contacted me why I did not contact him ,if i have a new boyfriend. now us this a good sign? or is he just cheking where he got me at? i have no clue how to set up the boundaries back and yes i am scared :(
Mr Alex please respond.
My ex is giving mixed signals. I did him wrong and he broke up with me, said he wants nothing to do with me blocked me and all. But now he unblocked me, when I ask for a meet up he says he's not sure... He does take my calls nowadays but he doesn't want to communicate everyday like we dating. I told him I'll wait for him to come back and he said okay I should wait but he said we not taking a break we broke up so I shouldn't treat it as if we taking a break... It's like I do have signs but there are also things that contradict those signs.
What if we hav no contact on everywhere. Is is still possible to him come back??He said he lost interest in everything.
I'm seeing all four of those signs! The only thing that is different is that there's a third-party involved on her end. But I'm aware of him and he's not aware of me.
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Thank you for the love advice..Mr.Alex💓
My pleasure!
my husband has some mental health issues and a month or so ago he stopped taking his medication and suddenly just decided he wanted to see other people and moved in with what he said was broken. He’s been living with his parents for the last year in another state, after a mental break down that I was ill-equipped to help him with, and was unable to move out of the state that I was in because I was the sole provider. Turns out the friend who is living with it his new boyfriend. I’ve been devastated, but I’m currently driving to Arkansas right now with our fur children Like we have been talking about it for the last two years. I don’t really know what else to do with my life since this happened and I’m moving into a house somewhere nearby. I don’t know what to expect and I’m trying to respect boundaries but I’m really broken right now and I really just want my husband back.
He doesn't deserve you. You can find a better man
Hello Alex..i pass by ur video..and u wanted some advice if my partner will still come back to me? Bcos suddenly he msg me that he didn't love me anymore...and be just friends for our son...i was shock bcos we don't fight when he leaves ..by the way he is a seaman...he said he will not going back to us and will just get his things here in our house...he leaves me in shock..bcos what i know from the start that he loveme ..us gis son...he's doing everything for us we had 11 yrs of good memories..we buy house ..and 2 more years to go andito will pe paid..so sad i had this depression..pls help me.
Hey Alex - thank you for this video - so she says she wants to be best friends and that she can’t lose me - when I pulled away slightly she panicked because she didn’t want to lose me - now she wants to see me - I’m seeing her tomorrow and she said I can see her twice a week - she feels stuck with her other ex who she was trying to get rid of but she said right now it’s impossible as she has to reply on his wages as she has nothing but then still wants me in her life etc. what do I do? What does this mean?
Hey Alex sir, I just have a doubt. My ex tried to approached me yesterday but today he was confused , what he have to do next and he wanted some time to take decision, and he is not sure about it so what should i do next..
I want my ex back, though he is confused
Yep, zero signs, never heard from her again. Dismissive avoidants just leave you traumatised
Hi Alex
I got off all social media and severed ALL ties to him. No reason for him to contact me maybe for mail (BS Diploma) or the dog we used to share. But there is no reason for him to reach out he broke up with me. He followed new women on IG and I stopped checking start praying and putting faith in the Lord. The Lord saved me from the pain. It’s been 10 days no contact. Lost some weight, and working on myself. Joined a volleyball league. That is all, I have the job, car and education I want and I never stopped loving myself thru the relationship. Yes, I made mistakes but I was always 100% devoted to him and myself. We lived together for 5 years knew eachother for 6. I don’t know the actually end to this story yet? Or maybe it is already done with the last thing him saying to me “you’re so stupid, and slammed the door.”
He Alex I had a break up very recently coz I lied to her about some stuff but told her upfrontly later but took a lot time she was hurt and decided to leave me and I was begging for her to come back and then she is friend with me but I want her badly in my life can you help me how to go ahead coz she has some of my stuff that she won’t return is there any sign in it she still talks to me things which she can’t share with any of her friends she ignores me mostly but if she seeks help I am the one she approaches if anything I can do to bring her again in my life can you plzzz suggest
What if they block you on every social but not phone?
Alex please assist me I am facing a situation whereby dispenser code a boyfriend we are having long distance relationship when is in Africa it talks to me when is back to his country he never calls me but whatsapp's me everyday what's the meaning of the word or what should I do what steps to take
Hi , my gf did breakup with me and she always says don't force me to do relation with you. I don't want you anymore .she reply my msg BT not much. Very less . BT if it is after one day also she gv msg . Wt is my condition canu tell me?
Does this apply to the dumper? I want my ex back I messed up. Made a rash impulsive decision breaking up with her over something petty. Ive apologized to her and why I am truly sorry. I told her I’m wrong and that I hope I can get another chance to work things out in our relationship, and make it right. I haven’t heard back from her which I expected nothing less. I messaged her one last time telling her I regret it and it was a mistake. Im currently just working on changing myself and fixing the issues that I have within myself personally.
I broke up with my lady this past May 2. By July she was with another guy. She drives to his place out of town to be with him. I guess he still works (her and I are retired), I have mad every little contact during May on. She is not making any signs of wanting to get back. Her friends don't even like me. We are both 70 years old. We been together off and on for 2 years. I'm also thinking she is a good bit Narcissist. Lots of traits. I went to the winery where she works part time at, sat and drank some wine with my friends there. She only question me what have I been up to, just being friendly since she works there. Nothing more was said. Haven't seen the guy. I was told she is going away with him the 2 full weekends middle of August, not sure where.
I’m hoping I can get an answer because Im confused. So we broke up and she told me she wanna stay as friends but after a month or so of no contact she blocked me on social media one by one?
What if he blocks you from everywhere!
My ex comes and stays in my house for 3 days but avoid me all the time. I go and stay in his house even a week but we don’t really talk much and he can’t even look at me in the eye. I wonder what this even means. The problem is I have kids can this be the reason? We have known each other 15 years
Thank you Alex
Hi coach Alex, my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago. Last contact was about a month ago when he told me he us dating his coworker. I'm crushed. Haven't reached out but want him back. He has no social media. He is depressed and only left because he's chasing a child wish which is why he is already dating. He is 45 and has no time to lose. I know he'll be not able to be a father and the "rebound"? Relationship will not last. I'm certain. But I'm heartbroken and love him so very much. What can I do?
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Hi Alex thanks for your advice I'm seriously very concerned about my relationship at the moment please assist or help in this regard. Thanks Veronica
Kinda hard to make contact when they know you can't anyway. Protective order over harmless phone calls and messages. Nothing threatening, just a lot of them.
Lol ok
Alex My ex been calling off and on for a few weeks,we been together for 5 years ..I broke my no contact yesterday but she picked up on the second ring, I felt so stupid afterwards and went right back in to no contact all the signs are there but it's just hard not to hear her voice smh
My ex tag certain people on my social media know when I’m going to see it stating that she’s in a relationship with someone else after three weeks of us breaking up
Hello sir my ex is also watching my stories. And not immediately but after a day. He is putting stories. With dog sometime sad and sometime happy
. What does it mean?
Pls reply. My ex came bck. Said he misses me want yo talk n meet up. But i again acted all clingy n despo. N he blocked ne again. Nw i m trying to work on myself. 2 n more months of no contact. Will he come bck??
Hey Alex, my ex said she lost feelings for me for 6 month ago, and have not talk much with, invitet her for coffee on a coffebar once, it went okay like friends, tryed now again to invite her out for food, she didnt know if she wanted to go with me, so after two days, I called her to hear, if we should cancel, but talked with her, and she surgested a day we could go out, even she said, she dont have feelings for me, will she just be friends with me.??
Hi! I was selfish and my ex was traumatized by it. She didn't want to see me anymore. I sent her a love letter with a sincere apology and expressed that I want to hug her and never let her go, in short. She replied that she forgives me but at this moment, she wants to go her own way. She mentioned maybe a friendship for the future. I responded that I respect everything and want to stay in touch. After 1-2 messages the next day, she said she wants distance and also not to write to each other. My response was respectful and I told her, however, if she won't be able to give me a chance, unfortunately, she will never see my change. Since then, she hasn't responded and we haven't had any contact. It's been 5 weeks now. What does it mean when she says she wants distance? Is it over or should I write to her again after 2-3months? Or nothing and i think if she realy wants me, she will contact me..I need advice please. Thank you very much for your time and answers!
It sounds like she needs some time and space to process everything that has happened. It's important to respect her wishes and give her the distance she's asking for. Focus on personal growth and allow things to unfold naturally.
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thank you very much for your advice. That's what I want to do, to give her of course space and no contact, without to think what will happen in the future, and to focus on myself and overcome my love to her. But in such a situation, where she says space and not to write her, she must be the one to come back, right? I think I must not text her ever again. She must see if she can't without me and come back. Right?
I need advice Alex. How can I reach you?
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Sir I have no misunderstanding with my guy, I just discovered that he doesn't pick my calls nor text since the 1st of April till now,he texted me on Easter wishing me a happy Easter, since that day he has not texted me, please help me out. I'm confused because I had no problems with him
Hello sir ,pls advice me ,,my bf have asked me to give him ,to think and decide, when I asked him for how long he said , I should not push him I just have to wait and ,nowadays hes making me jealous for another woman posting that she owns his heart ,and she does the same ,what should I do me ,and him we still talking and meeting sometimes, im confused 😕 😢
What can I do if I went through all the steps and even took me out to eat and talked normal told me he wasn’t seeing anyone… then he went to Germany for 2 weeks to see his son an when he came back didn’t call me so I call him he is a bit dry 3 days later says he meet someone at bar n was having dinner I was confused n upset n since that day he is dry n won’t talk to me it’s been a month what should I do?
My ex still views my status on Whatsapp
Sailing in that boat.She is really confused
Me and ex were together for 2 and half years and it was good till he started to accuse me of cheating. And he started to do substance as well and it effect his mental state. We kept breaking up and getting back together but now we don't have a apartment together. I'm at my moms and I'm not sure where's he's staying. But I want to fix things make.. things better..but it was him who did this. I couldn't stand it so I left....but it's been almost two weeks we have been texting off and on. Not always good I don't know what to do please help us.
If someone is blaming you on cheating they are either or cheated by them exes or they are cheating by themselves. I would consider this as a red flag if you ask me.
Me and my ex went no contact I tried to reach out after I started going to the gym and gained 30lbs got a new job and started training Muay Thai I followed her on Instagram after trying to call her phone number and getting no answer but when I requested her she blocked my second account and not my main then she disabled her main account I haven’t tried to reach out since but I really do miss her what should I do and yes I initiated the break up after she refused to answer my calls when I got back from a trip to Florida but and I also missed her birthday should I try harder or just fall back
What if we hve been in a relationship and then the guy starts giving u excuses nt to see him after u catch him with another lady and his response says I give him a break his mind is nt straight ounce is settled he will let me knw what advice a u giving me
I have crises with ny friend and she wants to move on. She has vuewd my status before,I want to change. We have not been communicating well .. and I was able to talk to her today. But I begged .O gosh..! I want to her back ..controlling my emotions need to do that ..She has said alot to me and even cursed me. Prayed abt this too..i need advice.
Hey Alex we just break up with my ex and she wants us to be friends is there hope of us coming back together
alex my ex doesn't talk to me but go through my status ifeel like blocking him pls advice its now 3month not having communication
Why would you block him?
I and my boyfriend had long distance relationship. It's been 7 yrs. We had lack of communication, anger.etc.at the end, he broke up with me. But he is guilty, at the same time he did a strong decision. He can be friends, but he don't love me as lover.
I tried everything. But he didnt change. Then i decided to friend with him..
Can i get him back? Is there any chance he will regret his decision.
My boyfriend said to me can we Be friends Because it’s A lot going on
He wanted to stay friends but still keep the previlages that he had when he was my boyfriend, so I needed to heal as my emotions were all over the place, but he still looks at my social.we had a nome of waiking each other for work , I stopped doing that but he still does . I am not what he wants honestly
Hey alex.. After 3weaks during no contact she called me and ask when is my wedding and request to invite her..😢 whats a meaning of that
my girl is still with me but she says she dont feel anymore or she doesn't love me anymore but she is still with and talks very few with no attention no care what should i do
I'm in a difficult spot in my life but I'm trying to figure out how to get my ex to forget about me and completely move forward. I have moved forward, but she has false hope. Yes, I'm ignoring her, but still.
i have no idea what i did so bad, i really don't, i own my part of normal day to day. He says he hates me, we were on and off then just hooking up then out of the blue he took that away, things were moving along, now its no contact.. n i don't know why iasked him, why why do you hate me so much, what did i do so horrible i will fix it i get you know hwat you did... Im so devastated, i love this man, hes all i want. Its so bad, i dont think hes coming back, i really dont im blocked on everything i call and text nothing i mean nothing, . i give up i want to be with him but i am not going to embarrass myself any more then i already have.... Im so so so so broken. I thought he was the one, i mean we love the same stuff, movies, food, and sense of humor, its baffeling, to me, no matter what i do its not good enough.. swimming upstream is the only way ican describe it.
What if it was a marriage? What if he wants to hang for a weekend to try it out when it was the marital home. I feel it should be all or nothing.
After alcohol I got black out and did wrong things to her even I dont know what I have did...but it was worse I think....not only one time it was four five times with alcohol...she blocked me on whatsapp insta and on every social media...she broke up with me...and I dont believe that....what should I do....but she rang to me yesterday and for my atm to give me back??
Why you should want your ex back?
She ghosted me for 5months, didnt say goodbye, no explanations, didnt bring me my stuff back, but shes always the first person to check my social media stories and she just wished me the biggest birthday wish message than anyone else, and now she continues the ghosting. Am confused…
What eventually happened if I may ask😢