12 Genuine Signs of Intelligence You Can't Fake
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- Smart people are more likely to believe they aren't particularly smart, whereas less intelligent people tend to overestimate their competence. That said, there are some genuine signs of intelligence people can't fake - even if they try to fool you! Also, there's more to intelligence than just high IQ. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is just as important, especially when it comes to empathy.
Essentially, there are many aspects to human intelligence. However, certain traits and behavioral patterns can be recognized in those who possess a high intellect.
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Every single person that watches this is thinking “ya that’s me”
LOL
Thanks for representing us on that thought. But I'm smart enough to disagree with that comment.
Some of these I do identify with, but not all. Some of these traits I see in others, but not all. However jaded you may be, you might have some of them.
Of course ! Im intelligence enough to stay single rather than be stuck in toxic relationship just out of fear of loneliness.
But not you.
Ernest Hemingway once said, "Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know." Being around fools is very painful.
Welcome to the current state of America.
Ernest was an egomaniac though :/ so he wasn't as "Intelligent" as people think. Listen to yourself, not others.
I can truly relate to this. This is why I have fewer friends because I don’t enjoy spending precious time with petty people who don’t share the same interests as I have. Most of the people I’ve encountered so far are more into gossip than substantial conversation.
I don't buy that.. he was a deeply depressed individual who had a huge ego and need to appear macho. He may have been a great writer, but his interests were quite limited and shallow.
The really highly intelligent people I know are insatiably curious and excited about whatever new thing they're learning about.
They get excited like little kids over all kinds of subjects and never get bored.
They don't seem to put themselves above others, though small talk is not their favorite thing at all.
Many of them are outgoing enough when around those they're comfortable with, and can be quite sociable, though they do need time to themselves.
Thinking you're better than others is rare among the truly highly intelligent because they know how much they don't know.
Yet their interests are so broad that they can find something to talk about or relate to in pretty much anyone.
In fact, they look for common ground. Remember that empathy is one sign of Intelligence- because they can IMAGINE what it's like to be that other persom.
If you want to know how to be happy study gratitude vs resentment.
“It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.” - Brother Steindl-Rast
You’ve just described my late husband to a tee. He was quiet and super-smart, but when I would compliment his wonderful attributes and his personality, his invariable response was, “I’m just a guy.” He was inspiring and kind and wise in so many ways, and he loved to make us laugh with his brilliant quick wit. The world would be a profoundly more wonderful place if there were more people like him, and I miss him every minute of every day.
He sounds like a great guy, if you don't mind me asking. When did he pass?
You were blessed to have each other.
I know that feeling when a very dearest Loved one has passed on, they are forever with you till you are reunited once again by the Grace of the Divine Lord , Amen.
Well done to you for meeting and marrying such a lovely person.
Omg I wish you found happiness and peace after you lost him may he rest in peace ❤
F###, this hurt to read. Im sorry about your loss, truly.
Intelligence is like wealth. Those that have it don’t brag about it.
👍
So that means since Trump brags he's a stable genius and very, very wealthy that 1. He's not stable
2. He's not sane
3. He's not very, very
wealthy.
I totally agree. He's not smart, sane or very, very wealthy. He lost in 2020 and cannot accept defeat. His over inflated ego simply won't allow it. Not good characteristics in someone leafing the country.
I'm not so sure about wealth...
I have seen wealthy people brag 🤧
@@glittezz2799 Usually it appears well off individuals with a 6 figured income are more likely to brag about wealth. Not as much multi millionaires
“Don’t judge a person on what they know…
Judge them on the kinds of questions they ask”.
the thumbnail proves narcasism
Be objective. Be BROADMINDED. IS HEALTHY.
Knowledge held is 100% environmental accident.
Example: I don't speak Mandarin, but millions of small children do. Does my ignorance mark me stupid? Well, given the importance of the language, maybe it does.
The super intelligent do something about their environment.
@@friendlyone2706 stupid is an accidental word. super intelligent isnt absolution. its esteemed.
Genius is asking the best questions. Everything in the present is a derivative of what preceded it. Knowing where you came from and how you got to where you are helps one plot a better course going forward. Constant course corrections are necessary if we intend to achieve our goals. Questions are like the sensors that provide awareness of our environment.
Number 13: Understanding the difference between knowledge and intelligence. Knowledge is the acquisition of facts. Intelligence is the effective processing and application of those facts. Any fool with a good memory can recite endless facts, but it takes intelligence to create novel ideas from them.
The term you are describing is "awareness"... being aware of what you actually know and understand it... (i.e. many people know about politics, buy don't really understand what it is all about)... this past election is a clear indication that half the US is unaware... they regurgitate what they hear on CNN as if were a fact...
novel ideas .
like a man can be a woman ?
ever heard the saying , a wolf in sheep clothing ? , ... yeah , ... its a wolf ,
in sheep's clothing .
it can pretend to be a sheep , ... and you might be fooled , ... thinking its a sheep .
but in FACT , ... its a wolf . and no matter what you dress it in , ... IT IS A WOLF .
AND ANY FOOL THAT THINK ITS A SHEEP , DESERVES TO GET BIT !
EVEN A CAVE MAN KNEW THIS !
AND IF YOU TRY TO EXPLAIN IT AWAY , ... A CAVE MAN IS SMARTER THAN YOU !
Yes This is true to a degree you must be patient with those who are not fast as you or quick-witted there are many people who try Very hard to learn and it’s difficult for them because they look fine on the outside but inside have been damaged by an illness or accident That is why I pray a lot for not only those people who are in Great shape but it’s to remind them of those who are not in such good condition and want to be treated like a regular person!🙏😉🥰
@@toinimoore3463
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU THERE .
like Biden , ... poor fella tried to win the presidency three times .
it wasn't until dumb people were born , that he won .
and how did he win , ... surly people didn't vote for him because he was smart . biden has always been looked opon as a dim candle .
young liberils don't know this .
most were born 25 years ago .
they don't have any idea how dumb he is , and has been foe 40 or more years .
NOW he's in decline . ... he's losing it !
the thing is , the young liberals get their marching orders from the media .
librals belive every word , ... and then they hang around these people who all agree in the media c, if the media says it , ... they belive it !
A great benefit of being intelligent is that you re never bored. There is always something to think about, to discover, to figure out how and why things are they way they are.
True,
Yes!!!
@@monicaames6096 true,
You can be intelligent and unmotivated.
Serial killers are often very highly intelligent.
Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.
i would put regardless
@@TeruNoir no doubt…
“Intelligent people do not tie their self worth to their ego.” -
everyone in the chat: explaining how smart they actually are😁
the dumbest person in the room is normally the first to say he's not. Watch, listen, and learn. Real G's move in silence.
Well I'm actually too smart to be placed in either of those catagories. I'm like a rare animal that has yet to be studied. 😀
Fr, not me tho, I’m rick sanchez irl🤓
Literally tho lol, like I’m majoring in physics and I think I’m dumb as shit; and yet jordan, the 13 year old fortnite player that doesnt know algebra 2, think’s he’s einstein jr. Trust me, everyone thinks they are special and stuff until they go to university and meet a bunch of ppl that are far more special than them😂
I was looking for this comment😁😁😄
About 40 years ago in college I took a structural anthropology course. One of the books in the course described over 112 different kinds of 'intelligence' that had been identified up to that time. So I'd have to conclude that recognizing signs of 'intelligence' requires one to possess a very broad spectrum of these 'intelligences' in order to perceive them. Just because you don't 'see' a sign doesn't mean there isn't some type of intelligence there -- just that you may not be tuned into that particular type.
Interesting.
@@antrygrevok6440 I took that course in 1973, and I do not have the particular type of intelligence necessary to recall its name! :)
However, I do remember that many of those intelligences were in the arts -- music, sculpture, painting, dance, etc. Also different types of emotional intelligences.
One of the points the professor in the course made was that things like IQ tests only test a person's ability to take IQ tests -- not how they can/will contribute to the betterment of the world -- people like Al Capone and Leopold/Loeb had extremely high IQs, and were not to be lauded for it....
In July 2020 ( forgot day ) at around 4:30 am I was standing outside, Weather condition Clear, From the SW came 7 Circles flying at low attitude going NE all in a single file like a train, Their speed I would say about 5 to 10 times faster than you would see a jet go by, You would not have time to get a video from cell phone if you had it in your hand, After that morning, I realized WE Humans dont know crap !!
@@twobeagles1365 And that (to paraphrase Socrates) is the beginning of wisdom....
That is interesting. Do you remember the book?
I am surprised that the most obvious indicator of intelligence wasn't mentioned. While it is implied it was not directly cited. It is pattern recognition. Spotting trends, patterns, basically being able to connect or see patterns out of what is seemingly chaos. Noticing commonality when there doesn't appear to be any.
"Harmony in Unity is Personal". I think this is a good way to appreciate and try being open minded no matter what background your coming from. Great video!
"Intelligent people have the WONDERFUL gift of self awareness." It's only wonderful for other people, it sucks being self aware because you're always thinking about what you're doing wrong.
I get stuck here sometimes lol
"It sucks to be self aware because you are always thinking about what you are doing wrong"? Do you really believe that? Are not the luckiest among us those who know themselves and can work on our self perceived flaws to improve? Don't "Think About" what you are doing wrong rather "Work On" making yourself better. It is a gift but only when you understand your own ability to overcome, improvise and adapt. Yes that is from the Marine Corp. Everywhere bits of diamonds can be found. Yesterday is only a caution sign, today is the moment where you should live.
True
You will always be harder on yourself than anyone will or can ever be.
Yet remember, there are always moor people on your side than there those whom are against you.
Yup, but it helps to improve yourself.
When you add mental illness to the equation you definitely can have a very intelligent person that doesn't jibe with some of these points. I've known people who were incredibly intelligent yet had tons of struggles with things like self control, emotional instability, self acceptance, complete loss of desire to engage their curiosity or creativity anymore, etc. because they battled with their mental health.
Jibe, not jive 😁
I’m really glad you said this because you’re absolutely right! Add on to that struggling with mental illness can cause us to doubt our abilities and self worth even more. 99% of the most brilliant and intelligent people I know have a mental illness.
Mental health I think would be a different issue just as physical health would also.
It’s incredibly difficult to have side projects when you’re suffering from depression and just barely holding steady…it wears on your body.
@@christinebee9781 Thanks.
My niece who was 8 at the time was able to teach me sign language in the space of an hour , NOW that's intelligence HER intelligence,what I retained wasn't great but I was amazed at her teaching ability children are great educators there is something very fluid and refreshing about what they impart to you
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I thought I knew something about a topic when I was (politely) interrupted by a 9 year old. She wasn't particularly "smart" but she was right about what she was saying. I corrected myself and complimented her. Since then, I have tried to have a child-like curiosity about life in general and it has made me more open to ideas. Great video! Thanks.
the narration in this video is idiotic
Well said
Very well put.
Lol I am the opposite of all these things
the event you are describing is so believable, that I gained 2 IQ points reading it
I found this all nearly super accurate, please make more videos like this! :)
I really enjoyed this video !!!! Thanks. Perfect sense to me
"I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious." ... Einstein ✌😊
Obvious posturing and objectively untrue.
@@he.5865 Yes. If the quote is real. It doesn't sound like him to me.
and the fact is his wife helped him the most. His wife was smarter than him
@@bruhmp3 A genuine sign of stupidity is being motivated more by narratives than empiricism - where is your evidence? I've looked into this, and this just seems like wishful thinking by partisan hacks that are not interested in the truth. Unless you're under like probably 16 there is a good chance you're stupid.
@@bruhmp3 Other than having no evidence it is important to analyse one of your implicit claims that many of the inventions and discoveries said to be made by men are actually made by women and woman are just passive and don't speak up or whatever. If you look at today where empircally women are preferred unfairly in stem fields (this is a fact look up any resume study for stem fields their preferred up to 2:1 for the same qualifications) still around 70% of patents are all male teams and all female teams make up around 0.5%, this second figure has been fairly stagnant for the past 100 years. Do you really think that this is because women are disadvantaged? It's not.
“Dumb people think they are smart. Smart people know they are dumb.”
Intelligent people might not hate people, but if they don’t get time alone to recharge then they will begin to.
Like being Messi on a pre teen woman's soccer team...
Smart people do not think of themselves as dumb, rather they understand the concept of 'uncertainty'. While considering one variable, a smart person realizes that there are several known, and possibly some unknown variables that have an auxiliary effect which is completely ignored via the scientific method, which only has a myopic vision on one variable at a time.
This applies, I think, to governments in particular, who set their sights on achieving one effect, while not properly considering the ramifications of a policy. This is why communism always flunks out.
I wish my husband understood this. Long story.
@@dumbarsejockhun6378 Intelligence and knowledge are two different things. They are like an encyklopedia and a computer.
@@dumbarsejockhun6378 I believe you.
Idk but I feel like it’s worth mentioning that for the silent type it might be that conversations can extend down so many different routes of ideas, way more than would be worth saying out loud because conversation moves much faster than what would be needed for big concepts. Sometimes better to just think about it on your own
Great video! Thought-provoking, even for unintellegent people (don't ask me how i know). It''s just that the light bulb in #8 has left-hand threads and this will be bothersome for the rest of the day.
Some people think a formal education makes them more intelligent than those with common sense. You can do without education but you really need common sense.
You can also have both, or neither.
If only common sense would actually apply on a global scale, unfortunately, common sense variate from environment to environment, in one area it's common sense for women to stay at home, in a different area, it's common sense for the man to stay at home (yes, such a place exist I believe), few places have the same common sense, I suppose places in war might have somewhat similar ones, but you really don't want those counted as global common sense stuff.
Common sense is not too common
Common sense doesn't exist.
@@henrys3138 Not in the way most people use the term. There is a minimum level of knowledge and wisdom that is expected at various ages, in various occupations, etc. This is barring any disabilities, etc.
Empathy. Time alone. Observing others in a group before speaking. Insatiable appetite for learning. Lifelong learner. These are some of the most active qualities that I use consistently.
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I agree.These are traits i use more now than i used to. And i really respect that time. I have acknowledged and appreciated more about myself and my time alone than what i could have learnt in the company of others. ( i am very sociable and quick witted in my job that involves social contact with lots of people every day) but i still am on my own.
You just described me lol 😍
Your comment is so ironic lmao
Actually empathy or cheap empathy?
You have encouraged me, you’re a good communicator. You don’t waste words, you get right to the point. I have often thought those characteristics were my obsession or even sometimes a curse in life. I have every one of them.
Thanks for another powerful lesson ❤
The most important qualities are tenacity and humility. It takes humility to be open-minded and recognize that you're not as smart as you think you are.
@comment sense It's actually "emotional intelligence" which contributes to overall intelligence.
BS. I don''t have a problem to acknowledge that there are MILLIONS smarter than me. It is so. But. That would be YOUR reason for humility. So. Saying (and also doing) that you do something good, is only a prerogaive of OTHERS? Hm... I will decide, thank you. As in my art. So. If I follow your logic. You make art for OTHERS and not for yourself. Very strong.......
True!
@comment sense well.. don't shout he can hear you.
I know nothing, socrates.people who think they know it all are not as clever as they think.Having an open mind and being humble are the traits I see in the likes of Alan watts,Einstien, and osho and Jim morrison,Ayerton senna mooji ,Elkhart tolll are a few of the people I admire for their wisdom and many more they all had a spiritual aspect to their nature and had realized they were part of something much bigger than their physical existence.💞💞💞💞
Empathy, love being alone to reflect, deep spiritual connection ❤️
Keep to myself and concentrate on my artwork and air dry clay riding my journal and gardening being curious helps to learn new things
definitely needed this for confidence boost
It’s important to differentiate IQ (intelligence quotient), EQ (emotional quotient), and WQ (will quotient). Multiply these together and you have AQ(adversity quotient) which is ones ability to overcome hardship.
There should also be a creativity quotient and an athleticism quotient as well.
See I like this more, as it is more wholistic. I. The U.S. they have done tests on college entrance exams and isolated that the knowledge contained therein was biased towards a white audience of a certain class. There is an inevitable bias in any education system because it is operated by people, who will always have a bias no matter how hard they try.
Yeah it's important to differentiate them, and thus realize that only IQ is an actually solid indicator of something. And this thing is intelligence, as its name indicates. EQ, WQ etc they just measure OTHER things than intelligence, and theyre extremly debated and not very solid anyway.
No evidence that EQ exists
where can I take this test?
this is so comforting. i dont think im a genius but im quiet very socially awkward and i love looking up weird topics on anything and everything. others think im strange but i like it that way because it keeps less intelligent people away.
"Don't confuse education with intelligence, you can have a degree and still be an idiot".......Elon Musk
For most degrees, but, for example, you cant have a PhD in math and not be smart lol, like knowledge alone wont allow you to pass a graduate level math course. Also, elon musk has a bachelors in physics, just saying.
@@jacksonh2083 I agree a PHD in math requires you to be smart....in math. But that person can still be deficient when it comes to overall intelligence. I like to think of intelligence as common sense.
True that
@@jacksonh2083 smartness and intelligence and logic are different things. Cannot learn logic. Can learn math, but you might need logic for it. Intelligence uses smartness to achieve its goals, dreams…
@@adow7382 On point, common sense is an essential ,
Great video, from the comments, I would say most people watcing have above average inteligence. This gives me great joy. Then there is that one guy that radiated his intelligence like the moon (dim light and no heat) his negitivity in the comments gave many people all the ammunition they needed to address him.
God Bless.
Very impressive video. I've all the listed charaters.
Thanks for letting me know
I exhibit 11 of the 12 traits and never really thought I was exceptionally intelligent. An interesting story (to me), brought the subject of this video to the forefront. In my 40's, I owned a one man computer business serving many businesses and professional people. One of my clients was a CPA. He was constantly bragging about how smart he was. I smiled and did my job. He told me he took the Mensa test and ranked in the top 2% of intelligent people. Eventually, he challenged me on a regular basis to take the test in an effort to show his superiority. After many months of his goading, I finally agreed to take the test. I went with my mid-teen son and we were both tested. My CPA was giddy to find out the results, until I informed him that my son and I both scored in the top 1%. Needless to say, the subject was never brought up again.
What a great story! Kinda. More or less. Not really. Why didn't you just come out and tell him to shove his attitude right straight up his ass to begin with. People who brag are usually not that way. Perhaps the most dishonest person I ever knew wore it on his sleeve how honest he is.
Ah the satisfaction in this is real 🙂
Thanks for sharing this great Story
@@HMMELD That's true, but to be honest, it wasn't worth the effort and I still kept taking his money for services he couldn't get elsewhere. My rate at the time, 20 years ago, was $150 per hour. So,who was more intelligent? BTW, after joining Mensa, I went to one get-together sponsored by them. What a snooze fest. Basically a bunch of one-faceted individuals. Not my type of people. I never went again, nor did I renew membership.😁
@@ronhansen7717 Since he was a customer, that makes it a bit more complicated. You really had no choice but to just suck it up and hear him out.
@@HMMELD It has been said that diplomacy is the better part of valor. I gave him what he wanted to his chagrin. At the risk of using too many adages, "Be careful what you ask for because you might get it."
Whether you are intelligent on a high or low level doesn't really matter in the long run. What matters is what you do with what you have been given. I know people who have exceeded expectations because they had to push themselves in school and then kept doing so afterward and therefore surpassed what you thought they would end up being. I know others who didn't have to work as hard to do well, they just seemed to put things together and make connections easily and never had to work for it. They maintained that trend after college and never pushed themselves to do much more than middle management because there are things that matter more in this world than intelligence. The desire to succeed, to overcome, to provide, to make the world a better place, to break a cycle of poverty, or just to make a place for yourself that is safe. Again, it's what you do with what you have, not what you have, that determines success.
This. SO MUCH
I agree with much of what you say, but I also think it is necessary to allow for a wider interpretation of what the video was trying to convey. The will to achieve (high self-control) is a form of intelligence in and of itself. An unschooled master-craftsman can still be highly intelligent within his field. Whether or not his intelligence is broadcast to the world by public recognition is not a prerequisite.
There is intelligence and there is wisdom.
"You want to know how I did it? This is how I did it, Anton: I never saved anything for the swim back."
- Vincent Freeman (Gattaca)
(For those who haven't watched this movie... Watch the movie.)
Intelligence isn't fixed. It can grow and expand if you are willing to put in the work. In theory, almost everyone can be a genius in some form or another.
Thank you brainydose! Now I can use these to seem smarter than I actually am because of my crippling self confidence!
This is very interesting how the mind works. Thank you very much.
Five separate things: 1) enlightenment, 2) wisdom, 3) intelligence, 4) street smarts, 5) cunning, clever, manipulative. I've known people very strong in one of the five and useless in the other four. Then there's robustness, resilience, strong will, emotional control, perseverance, discipline, insightful, intuitive, instinctive, ability to get along, ability to be assertive, ability to say no, ability to see many perspectives, ability to see options, creative, tolerance for ambiguity, risk tolerance, strong nerves, strategic, tactics, good judge of character, stand up to bullies, stand up to group pressure, see through underhanded manipulations, see through propaganda, get their way without making the other lose face, become enraged, seek revenge, etc., etc., etc. A well rounded whole. But the most important is COMMON SENSE.
Great post. You seem very perceptive and aware to me. I would substitute 'intelligence' with 'acquired knowledge.' Your whole comment is literally all the facets than can make up intelligence. Again, great post!
Wow, you just described me 😂 I told my sin he doesn’t have to be embarrassed, I’m certified 😂
@@kineticpen8920 Agree intelligence is a make up of many things but most people have their own area they excel in.
People with all those skills are extremely rare. They are natural diplomats and peacemakers. We need more of them.
Why do we persist in call it ‘common sense’ when it isn’t at all common?
I have to disagree. Not all intelligent people have "strong-self control". When it comes to emotions, it may depend on the situation they are in and whom they are having the conflict with. For example, a family member has the ability to get under an intelligent person's skin more than just another stranger or friend because they know the individual well. So strong self control is something most intellectual people strive to achieve. Show me an intelligent individual who's spouse doesn't get on their nerves and I'll show you a relationship that may be in turmoil, intelligence aside.
A lot of geniuses struggle with self control. One big one is substance abuse.
He said this is based on scientific studies of intelligence. So, I'm not sure that your example trumps the foundation he has established for this list. Sorry, just had to bring that to your attention.
@@tyronedawson8553 I think defining intelligence is rather impossible, at least; it was when I studied it. How does one know that one thing is intelligent and the other is not? Is it an IQ score? Who made the IQ tests? Why are those different if they are accurate? Is there anyone with zero intelligence? Do animals have intelligence? Howard Gardner had some ideas about it, but I doubt any amount of research could do it justice due to the fact that intelligence is arguably the most abstract idea known to mankind. Perhaps intelligence is simply in the eye of the beholder, like beauty. Or… maybe I’ve just had too much wine… Sigh… so much for self control.
@@karlihill4161 true, I could see some “smart” people losing their shit like everyone else and because it’s “science studies” it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re dumb for not carrying these traits
@@tyronedawson8553 I have ADHD. I also have an IQ of 142. So if we're judging intelligence based on that specific quotient I'm a fairly good example of someone who is both "intelligent" and struggles with impulse control. I don't know if I would personally count IQ as a reliable measurement for overall intelligence, but the issue with measuring other forms of intelligence is that most current methods rely heavily on self-reporting - which is especially an issue when it comes to measuring emotional and social intelligence. So unless the mentioned "scientific studies of intelligence" base their results on IQ or potentially brain scans, I wouldn't give them too much credit. Which makes me think there's a reason why the above video doesn't provide any sources for the mentioned studies.
6:18 Yes. I wondered about this. My family has a high level of empathy towards any situation that arises and can be quite sympathetic and the good mediator. I wondered for a long time if it this was a mark of intelligence.
Entertaining and informational. Well done. On some these, it seems I'm pretty intelligent. On others I have work to do.
I’ve been married for 35 years to a person who has ‘gaslighted’ me for years. I have now developed the courage to assert myself and regain my confidence. Now seeing your video, I see that he was wrong. Thanks for this, much appreciated!
I agree so I must be intelligent lol
all narcissist are wrong. Learn more by watching HG Tudor
Please be careful.
This is a very dangerous behavior. There is more behind this.
I pray you are not sick.
If you are such as stomach pain, sudden high rises in blood pressure. Strange sickness. Dr after Dr?
Please find a toxicology lab and get tested for pesticides , poisons such as rat. Maximum home defense spray. They carry a lot of heavy metal. Hurts the brain .
I was being slowly poisoned for 8 yrs.
There are monsters out there and life insurance is big now.😜 Plus it's hard to prove that the one near you was the Hand in all your sicknesses.
Prayers for you 🙏🙏
@@patriciamontoya9049
Gaslighting has nothing to do with being poisoned. 🤣🤣 It's a manipulation tatic. The national news gaslights the unsuspecting public daily.
@@EClark-dj7gh
I know thank you.
Just concerned about all this and whom knows the post just might help someone.
Happy Holidays
When my brother was about 13 he told me I should read nonfiction (science, nature, history, etc.) rather than fiction so I would learn by reading. My answer was that with fiction I cast the characters, scenes, and all. 2 days later he came to me and said my argument was valid. He hits all of these marks!
Seems like you hit the marks as well. 🙂
yes
@@ZaChYmO I know, right?? :)
@@satiricalphoenix1367 🙂
Except historical fiction. Some things should not go together.
Dedicating oneself to lifelong learning is so important for growth. The more educated I become, the more ignorant I recognize that I am.
Great video, very informative.
I identify with empathy. I'll never forget when a current boyfriends mother said she knew I had the ability to feel other people's pain. Several women told me I'm an empath before I realized it. It's both a blessing and a curse.
You're right about that. I also am a empath.
That is one of the most desirable traits in a life partner.
It’s a curse
@@MJ-qb5ph only if you think of it like that. I think it's a beauty that you're lucky to have, presuming you put yourself around other fellow empaths regarding peer groups.
I don't really like to think of small talk as "useless". I do consider myself very much an introvert, and I have been told a few times that I am the very quiet type, but I also see a lot of value in small talk - the actual topic of discussion isn't important, it is _the social connection_ that you create with the help of that discussion that matters.
I'm very intelligent and I mostly hate small talk, it highly depends on who i talk to. If it's a nice girl, I enjoy talking to her about anything really (as long as she's single and doesn't talk about other guys). In other words .. if topic is something I like, then it's ok, but if it's about something I don't care for, then i find it boring and rather frustrating.
the connection is so much greater talking about more important topics, though. small talk is just .. small.
Small talk after looking closer is smaller then I thought,( they seem to be topics that you only really bring up when you first meet someone and don't know them) I mostly hear about different drama between different groups and think of how to problem solve and sometimes give suggestions.
@@SethiozProject I think it depends on the type of that person that I want to listen to
What wonderful open mindedness here. ;)
oh my god, this video is spot on!!
I value the intelligence I have. I value my wisdom even more.
I like the list. Intelligence being the ability of a person to make everyone laugh is an interesting one. Being alone to recharge? Makes sense.
My parents always believed that the only interest I had was horses. Yes, I was one of those horse crazy kids. After I had moved out, my parents came to visit. My mother noticed my overloaded bookcase and pointed it out to my father. They were not in the least surprised by the number of books on horses and training (close to 200), but stunned by the number of books that weren't (not including novels). Everything from Ancient Egypt, Architecture, Interior Design, Woodworking, Sewing, Physics, World History, House Construction, Economics, Business (various), Astrophysics, Gardening, Dog Training, and so much more. I'm a bit more limited in the novels I read. Primarily mysteries and science fiction. I like to design things and take them right through to the building phase. I also enjoy painting, and wanted to take up musical instruments when I was younger. Still might. Variety is the spice of life. The more you know, the more you know you don't know.
Just wondering why your parents took many years to visit you. You don't get hundreds of books quickly.
@@user-bd3bq7is2d They didn't realize just how many I was accumulating before I ever left home. By the time I moved out, I already had numerous books. Most of my books were kept in my bedroom in my first apartment, not in the living room. By the time I moved out of that apartment, I had over 150 books just on horses, training and riding, et cetera. My daughter takes after me. She's addicted to books, as well. Yes, we both actually read them!
A lot of people learn what they learn at school, and never improve or add to it ..
But you have a few individuals who keep learning and learning
Surround yourself with people who will lift you higher. For anyone seeing this, I believe you can achieve your goals, all you have to do is to NEVER GIVE UP. Have a great day.
Napoleon said about never giving up: "Persistence Wins Wars"
My dad told me that, he was right.
@@PengoLengo Very true. Persistence always wins the war
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I absolutely love your channel. Informative, enlightening, & I'm usually enthusiastic as I see the world & all in it as a child would be for the first time!!!! I am in a constant state of observation to obsorb & learn. So, thank you for all of the time, care, & content that you provide!!!
Dear Brainy, Thank you for the insightful video. I appreciate that you have thought about such a video and presented very interesting visuals relevant to every point. Congratulations. You have indirectly referred to one very important sign of intellegence i.e. " Asking oneself questions on everything " . An intelligent person try to find out anwers and reach a state of realisation at a point in his life. Another important sign of high emotional intellegence is happiness. Emotionally intelligent people are happy even in very difficult situations. They will not fear death but would see it as a normal event connected with birth and will face death very cool..
Although I only saw this video tonight, I'm absolutely delighted to have my uniqueness confirmed. Better late than never.
My motto: Maintain a dialogue with your heart but meet things with your mind. In the chaotic world in which we live, the challenge is to be who we really are and function in our society the way we think is best for ourselves. Thanks for this video...it confirms that we need to "stay the course" toward being truly authentic humans with our own unique perspectives.
good take. I would say however, chaos brings out good form even in those who did not have it previously. the real challenge is maintaining your own stance intelligently when there is no change about you. Often conflict is the sole indicator of some necessary change, whereas in a stagnant society, rarely are people much more than what they see. The goal for any cause is to be self certain, unrelated to situation; so within that chaos or balance, you are consistent.
signs of intelligence = not taking the shot
My mottos are: "Knowledge is something you can never have too much of, but never should have too little of" and "There will always be people much smarter than me". I'm under no illusion whatsoever that I know everything or is the smartest person in the room.
Fantastic words, thanks for sharing.
Interesting generalized personality traits although not too sure they mean much in the scheme of things though. Video got over a million views wonder how many were from supposedly intelligent people? As to "faking" who you really are, which for many people is rather funny since they have no clue who they really are themselves, we all "fake" sometimes if not to just "fit in" which only takes us to the essentials of "courage" and "faith/trust" in Father inside you. Admittedly, I digress:)
I think there are many different types of intelligence. It's pointless to judge others as intelligent or not when we all have strengths and weaknesses in vastly different areas.
In my opinion, while it may not be correct possibly and is definitely not the only opinion on the topic, I think the most important ones are curiosity and willingness to look at different perspectives
There is only 1-3 intelligences, but many talents. There is how quickly you can memorize, how well you can extrapolate, and how well you notice details.
@@amygormaly68 raw brain power still plays a part.
Wow, and you think you are the first one to realize this? maybe check out the IQ history
@@aigarsvavere5859 I never said or thought I was the first. Have a nice day.
often you'll find that certain qualities will help you improve other qualities but openmindedness is the one quality that improves all qualities without fail
The degree to which a person can think in the abstract also plays a part in this. Thank you for the video.
100% agree
I answered yes to most of these, but what stood out to me was the fact that I do like to improve on things more than I think. Apart from games I play, I enjoy improving on the drums, learning Spanish on Duolingo, and working out. All these things in addition to working a 50 hour work week here and there. That and adaptability. I do my best to make difficult adjustments when needed; especially at my job lol
The qualities that I related to most out the 12 are: insatiable curiosity, a knack for wit, high creativity, and sensitivity to other people's feelings.
Yip being spiteful to others and always contradicting what they say to come out on top is a big sign you're not that smart.
@@bunnychowmuncher It's not a sign they're dumb, it's a sign they're insecure
And same here, Theresa, minus the insatiable curiousity... looking stuff up just takes too much effoooooort X)
Most all of them thank you for this understanding
The qualities I relate to most are: insatiable curiosity, ability to acknowledge faults, knack for wit ☺️, high creativity, strong self identity, variety of interests, solitude, and sensitivity to other ppls emotions! Didn’t realize there would be so many! I have many gifted and intelligent ppl in my extended family and I see these traits in them and the partners they chose as well! Great vid, so interesting!!! ❤️
signs of intelligence = not taking the shot mark of the beast
i particularly agree with David Wechsler"s definition of intelligence as a "the global capacity of the person to act purposefully, think rationally and deal effectively with his environment.".
Yeah I definitely think at work the employees who I consider smart are the ones who I can give a task to and they will get it done and subsequent problems. They often arent the brainy looking guy. That guy is usually an idiot and cant think for himself, doesnt seek answers through thought or talking to others. I find classic "dumb" people will get advice, read blogs, do everything they can to arrive at the best answer the smart type just does the first thing they think of and fuck it up.
Well...I'm an idiot then.
Wow that sums it up perfect to me excellent reply have a great weekend peace Keith in New York
I agree; and we certainly need more of this in the world right now.
its a balance...
Traits which described me:
Insatiable Curiosity (It's how I found the view)
Open-Mindedness
The Silent Type until I meet someone with a common interest, not much for small talk.
Adaptability
Ability to Acknowledge Faults (I only added this because I still don't believe I'm intelligent, I have much to learn)
A Knack for Wit (People around me say I am extremely funny, I don't think I am.)
Highly Creative (Girlfriend is making me put this one in the comment)
Strong Self-Identity
Preference for Solitude
U left out modesty
I believe I've informed myself about signs of intelligence so much that I've begun applying them to real life.
And now I don't know if I'm an impostor or intelligent.
Yes, Smart does not equal intelligent and Vice versa. I appreciate this videos list, it is both intelligent and smart (: It provides an insight for what some people need to genuinely discover, and for others to genuinely describe/explain True Intelligence.
Thanks for this video.
I know many people, myself included, who have some of these and to different degrees. I also know a few people who are desperate and obvious fakers. It's nice to have an organized set of signposts to help sort them out, though it's usually pretty obvious who the smart ones are. I am sending this video to my girlfriend, who has had people running down her self-esteem on this issue for most of her life. She shows all of these qualities to one degree or another.
A message for your gf buddy,
This comes from a complete stranger who has read your boyfriends comment, I know this comes from a sincere and deep place, so
Coming from a guy who’s had hardships thrown his way in the form of heartache and a tragic accident that nearly killed me, I say this, NEVER, let anyone interfere with your integrity, you are smarter and better than you will ever know, people are mean and horrible, a lot of them out of spite and jealousy from your spontaneous intellect which makes them feel inferior, but that’s a them problem, not you
You have a gem of a guy! And he has likewise, as he is publicly stating and bolstering your amazing talents.
have an amazing Christmas !!!
11 out of 12. I'm just now able to regulate my emotions better. Had a rough go at it as a child and my parents weren't great. Nurture working against my nature in this case. Grateful for the awareness necessary to identify and correct these flaws.
The one that struck me was curiosity.
I know MANY people who can outsell me in intellect and know so much more than I do.
It often makes me feel dumb, but then I’ll remember how fast I can take in knowledge, and I feel better.
Although, I have to train my brain a bit more. I’m not really the studious type, as I tend to procrastinate. I feel if I read more books, studied, and sleep well, I might find my brain doing much better.
This was spot on for me and others I know. What hit home the most was the realization that truly smart people are smart enough to know they are ignorant, rather than vice versa.
Its called Dunning Kruger effect.
Or conversely, as Mark Twain said, “How comes those who know the least know it the loudest?”.
@@Mottleydude1 love that response. Like those the have the least to say have the loudest mouth and speaker the longest.
@@annaamalia7189 Twain got that one right. Didn’t he?
True dat Alan. The older I get the less certain I am that I know anything at all. It makes me wish I could go back to being a teenager when I knew everything,
I will not shrink to make others comfortable!. I paid attention in class. Once upon a time I read a book a day. I don't waste time on soap operas, but documentaries n programs of information. I refuse to be ignorant. So glad you recognized and slyly complimented me. Expressing myself verbally or written comes with ease..Invest in intelligence!
He forgot #13. Truly intelligent people never feel the need to publicize their own intelligence. This is because, as he already mentioned, they do not operate from the ego.
Wow! You read a book a day??? I am impressed! I am constantly reading but a really slow reader
@@helenaville5939 roasted
@@helenaville5939 I don’t think they picked up enough ointment since they don’t feel the burn from that time delay napalm you just leveled.
same here. havent watched tv in 8yrs now
I've noticed that I enjoy to like, comment & share
This is such a good video
I spoke with a person several years ago who thought every normal human was a genius in their own range of interest. Probing for explanation it was explained that a person who has a devotion to gardening will show their genius because of their love and devotion to the art of gardening and so forth and so on. After living quite a while on this small rock I tend to agree with him.
I believe that the most intelligent people are those that know their own strengths and weaknesses and operate within their strengths, while seeking help from people who have the skills/knowledge that they lack!
I tend to agree with this. There are not very many truly DULL people. Just people that haven't found their proper environment and circumstances to thrive where others have. Society that we live in favors certain kinds of intelligence and eschews other kinds. Modern world causes problems for many but benefits others. It's very interesting to think about.
We must distinguish between exceptional skill, and broad genius. Not putting anyone down in any way, simply clarifying a point. As for genius, well, genius is knowing, and publicly admitting, you know NOTHING ! ! ! . . . out of over a thousand known species of ants ALONE, I can maybe identify three . . . if that's not "ignorance", I don't know what is. LOL
It's an honor to share this rock with y'all.
@@benjaminroe311ify While I do agree with you for the most part, I believe there are many DULL people out there, resulting from a variety of causes and or circumstances out of their control, and as such, they are more victim than anything else.
What irks me though, are those who are DULL BY CHOICE . . . because a large majority of those individuals who choose to remain DULL, UNINFORMED, DELUDED . . . carry forearms, including assault riffles LEGALLY.
That's an issue for me.
I learned a long time ago how I loved to read everything. If I couldn't find an answer to even common questions like "How does that work?" I wouldn't give up until I found out, and kept going for even more. While in the navy on 12 hour shifts. I read the Entire Dictionary on one six month deployment. At 75...I will only stop learning when I take my last breath.
Lol!! 75 incorrect.I expect 101 as life expectancy
Well :) thank u for putting me in my place
High intelligence unlocks all the doors. You still have to have the courage to open them and walk through them. I've known several very intelligent people that were crippled by fear.
I keep telling my husband how smart he is even though he doesn't think he is. These are all his qualities. Especially the comedic side of him. I have been tested. Won't tell, don't ask please but I honestly believe my husband holds a higher IQ than I do. I wish he had as much confidence in himself as I do.
Key phrase: “Someone WORTH TALKING TO”. Yes! 100% correct! 😂
And an open minded person would say, each individual is unique and would find some value, even if it only a grain of sand to make talking to anyone a worthy endeavor.
Pretty good list. I have insatiable curiosity and some of my friends have zero intellectual curiosity. This drives me crazy!
all been discuss in this videos is really on me especially my personality traits since im still a child of being genuine introvert, sigma male or INFJ ...........
I certainly think that emotional intelligence is important (and also a very commonly undeveloped skill).
Thank you for the video.
It has been determined that generally speaking the most successful people (at least professionally wise) are emotionally intelligent because this type of intelligence helps you navigate through a variety of situations.
@@perthfanny3017 It certainly helps for collaborating with people!
My lack of emotional experience has held me back my whole life! Had to hide it... cos people and friends couldn't equate the strong positive capable woman with the total emotional mess that I was! Not now. Age and wisdom change it all!!
I check all of these boxes except being the silent type. I spend a huge portion of my time alone, but enjoy being with groups of people joking around, talking, and bullshitting in general. Being around other people really does make life more interesting
Bullshitting is a sign of intelligence. You are a comedian!
I’m 48, now I believe all you just said, right in front of *. Also now I know Virgos don’t go well with Capricorns (better than calling them *narcissist) I can’t deny their traits anymore. I live in the tent rather than here at “home”. Oh cloud being “caught up” is my most strong desire! So ready! Will feel so overdue but as we all know timing is perfection.
Even though I dropped out of high school, I consider myself a life-long learner, and am always learning new things.
Synced with nearly all of these, but listening through "the silent type" was very comforting.
So recently I started getting interested in a girl who's in our friend group, but around her I'm just a little nervous and don't really know how to initiate conversation with her. Now, one of my friends who's been hitting and missing with her for about 3 years (dated for 3 days in 7, she broke up but stayed friends and also declined when he asked again in year 9) was the opposite, he could initiate random small talk on demand, it's like anything that crossed his mind he could use as an excuse to talk to her. After observing this for a while I really started questioning my self worth, almost annoyed that I can't be as good at talking as him. I eventually justified in my own mind that he's just full of random fluff, whereas I like to talk about more substantial things, and seeing this put a smile on my face.
I think she's getting tired of his nagging honestly, and it's painfully cringe the way he got kinda primitively defensive when I started making moves.
This video has the 12 traits of my dad, I rarely related to him so I didn't spend much time with him, now that I am wiser I miss him more than ever.
RIP Dad.
I have everything except accepting my flaws and being quiet. I have been trying to work on my emotional intelligence more overall which is more important most times than book knowledge and being school smart.
Thank You 💕
It's a good list. However, one can be highly intelligent and have anxiety issues that can cause blow ups.
To be intelligent is to be deep- interested in science 🧪
Highly intelligent individuals would be able to more successfully monitor or control their anxieties. With such tools as the required down time , or a lesser need for pointless socializing.
@@theamericanpassion4833 High intelligence is not bound to only science, but is boundless, encompassing and expanding all knowledge.
@@duane4972 Agree 👍
I asked a good friend what is intelligence once and he replied, ‘patience’.
An endless list of comments from people (like me) brought here by our need to think ourselves smart. Insatiable curiosity, open-mindedness, creativity, recharge time hit for me; not as much everything else. Ive always been told Im smart but Im just a quick thinker; lots of people I know have a more complete intelligence. Good list.
One of my most best traits is empathy..i have it...i own it and i make use of it...!!!😘
Very interesting. I'm glad to have run in to this analysis. I've always been very quietly and never thought I've new it all. I have a bachelor's degree from a prestige university and I have been around some very bright people. After graduation, I found a job not related to my major at all. I studied arts, but pursued a career in science. I remained curious about other things and I did not stop researching. Later in life I learned how to rebuild the house my father had left for me. I think there are people very intelligent in the world, but I don't thing I have their gift.
I’m grateful to watch this🙏🏻 I have 10 out of 12 traits, even though my poor dysfunctional Mother told me I was not smart in high school. Thank you for sharing this💟🌈🦋🤗☮️
Nice.
The one you're clearly missing is being the silent type. 🃏
The last IQ test I took was when I was in Drug Rehab. I was withdrawing from Dilaudid and Morphine sulfate after getting addicted by a botched oral surgery cutting out my wisdom teeth. It's impossible to explain what it's like withdrawing from strong opiates but taking an IQ test is the last thing you think about with the ache and pains. The next day they said I scored in the normal range. So scoring a normal range in those conditions I figure I must have 180 IQ. lol That was just a joke I know I'm no genius. I've been clean since 1993 though.
Congrats bro. Keep going. You are brilliant just by understanding WHO you are.
Good for you. I disagree though, true intelligence is less about "book learning" and more about being savvy to how the world works. And it sounds to me like you have quite a bit of that. That's valuable. Don't underestimate yourself.
@@kateschwartz1965 you are born with high IQ. You can increase it but it's mostly genetics.
It has to be a joke bc all 20 rehabs I was in never gave an IQ test withdrawing from methadone and Xanax clean 11 years keep up the good work 👍
@@michellequaranta3183 The V A gave IQ test in 80s. Don't ask me why I have no idea. Did you ever go to the Veterans hospital rehab they are much different. If you want drug assisted rehab you have to detox in the Psychiatric Ward. The V A does things much different. I went to 13 I think but I lost count. Those Xanax are real tough to kick and Methadone and Suboxone are 2 of the toughest opioids so congratulations.
Please don’t stop making these videos ❤😊