The Female High Value Code - 3 Rules Women Should Never Break
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Understanding these rules will allow you to get to know people for who they really are and not their appearance, to see reality rather seeing just a projection, and to learn how to create and maintain a connection with a guy.
1. The first rule is to not judge things based on their appearance. Never trust what you see with your eye. And always focus on people's actions rather than their words. Why? Because when you learn to do this you will start judging people based on their behavior. Naturally human doesn't change their view of the character of one's person to suppress their fear. So what you have to do is don't look at people's public acts or the words they said, you wanna focus on their negative acts because this says more about the person.
Also, don't let people's innocence full you into letting your guard down. Looking innocent and harmless doesn't always mean that they are. So always follow through because people are not always the person they show you.
Another way you can know people on a deeper level is by showing weaknesses and seeing how they react. Or maybe don't call him out on the things he does the first time and see if he does it again. You can also show eagerness to see him and see how he reacts to your eagerness, does he pull away? These are the ways you can reveal the aggressive part of his personality because weakness brings out aggression in people. How people deal with your weakness says a lot about them. When you showed them weakness and they use it against you it says a lot about his true character.
Naturally, we humans judge by appearances and what you wanna do is use it to your advantage. Learn to hide certain parts of your personality, weaknesses, or even positive traits and reveal that part over time. Revealing everything too quick says insecurity but revealing parts over time gives you more depth as a person and it is actually more attractive.
2. Next thing you wanna do is not let your emotions control how you see a person. Emotions guide us through our decision making, not our intellect. That is why people don't know how they achieved something because it was an emotional compulsion and not a rational thing. Each emotion causes us to be ready to act based on the general gist of the situation.
As humans, our encounters socially are not shaped by our rational thought of them but more by our emotional circuitry. So the way we respond to people is more about what we have experienced in life and based on what our ancestors have passed to us. So if your mind is consistently reacting to what is in front of you and it didn't have the time to step back and realize that you are making quick judgments based on your insecurities and past then your strategies will be out of tune with the problems you're targeting. Because you are not seeing reality but you are looking at them through projections.
So when you meet somebody and you judge them by your insecurities and they end up not being the person who you think they are it will be a setback that will destroy you from within. When setbacks happen you should learn to improvise based on your resources and long-term goals. You should not allow setbacks to stop you and understand that you're gonna make mistakes but you can't allow those setbacks to deter you. And every time this happens you're gonna analyze your mistakes and prepare for the next person that you meet.
3. The last thing you have to understand is the pain and pleasure principle. So how can you apply this principle? Some way you can do this is always make your partner feel superior even though they're inferior to you. Make them feel like they're smarter or funnier than you because it's a pleasurable thing for them. Making them feel superior even though they do not give you more control. Remember that the way a person reacts to your vulnerability is a big sign of how they feel about you.
Pain and pleasure are not just doing bad things it also means consistently making them feel validated and superior and breaking that pattern. Then showing your real strength, intelligence, and how independent you really are. And that causes them pain because it breaks their expectations.
You can also inflict them by being always consistent and suddenly acting inconsistent with that person. By creating absence and presence when you're always there then suddenly you're always busy. You give comfort through your consistency and then you break it. That creates a spark of attraction. This also creates respect because you respect what you can't predict.
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How to see his true colors:
1. Play dumb (beginning)
2. Be vulnerable (later on): Does he show empathy/wants to help? or use it against you?
3. Say No/rejection or disagree on something, create an argument to see how he argues
4. If you late, is he vengeful? If he does something wrong and you don't call it out, does he repeat it?
5. Break patterns (break consistency)
6. Focus on actions (not words) don't let your guard down too soon
7. Does he talk bad about ex? Has no friends?
8. Don't reveal everything about you too quickly (+or-)it shows insecurity
9. Is he too perfect? Reminds you on someone from your past?
Thank you for writing it out
I should have paid attention to no. 7. Now I know better. This applies to vetting friends too 🤗
I do number 2 while I never used to do it. Just to see how he reacts whether he despise me or he comforts and protects me. huge revealer
Thank you so much
@@Sofiakagendo but some people have had very dangerous evil partners that they had to run for their lifes, let’s not forget that!
Thanks for reminding me over and over that people are not as good as they project, testing them is essential... people please don't trust people who you don't know !!
Truth.
Lol, you just realize that now? You are so naive
Yeah Eula I just came from another planet and start meeting this humans who I didn't understand, I literally did believe that everybody is an angel as myself...
You look much clever, good for you!
Love this
take your time n allow them to show thier true selves
ask their exes about them is a bit much , sorry but i would never approach or message their exes how this person treated them . I’d rather just walk away if it’s not serving me .
I agree 👍.. who wants to deal with an ex * most of the time you could not trust them anyway 👍
1. Never trust appearances. Focus Actions rather Words. See people for who they are.
2. Pain and Pleasure Principle.
3. Not letting Emotions control how you see the person.
I used to date a lot of toxic guys and hold onto bad relationships forever until I got fed up and dumped them. Since watching Mindful Attraction my life has changed! Now they dump me and run lmao. Little boys cannot handle a woman who isn’t insecure and coping. So be *mindful* this doesn’t mean you’re going to find the right man. It means you gotta be strong enough to not chase the wrong one. Distance = more distance.
I’m sorry, what Mindufull Attraction is? I really want to watch it too! 🙏🏻
Dump you and run? Let me guess…you don’t see a problem with that statement.
“What you can’t predict, you respect. What you predict you lose respect for”. WOW. But why???? This is crazy but true. I’ve had it happen to me before- many times! I’m too consistent 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️You are brilliant 💟💟💟
Omg, of course being predictable is boring you don’t need to be in a relationship to know this.. 🤷♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
I’ve just started dating again 3 years after leaving an abusive narcissist. I’ve already been doing some of these things to reveal mens true character. Need to go deeper and weed out unsuitable men early on for self protection. Intriguing video and I will implement more of this on my quest ✌🏻
Looking at your face you look like a victim
Same
Must vet their words and character. Check references!
Find out why they keep getting fired? Geezz.. That's a huge red flag in itself !
Been following you for years, Dalexis. I must say your elocution has improved exponentially! Great job!
Was that a backhanded compliment?
No, it’s absolutely sincere. Interesting you think it’s backhanded
That’s narcissism, though. Making them accustomed to your time, and then taking it away.
This is exactly what narcissists do to hurt others.
You’re incredibly wise. I can tell you put a lot of time into learning psychological behavior
I don't think most men like independent women. They act like they do, but I don't think they really do.
No they're not. You're right.
They don't like them too independent
They think they like independent women but they actually don't lol but hey, it's better to be and independent woman and act as if your needy around them than being actually needy and don't know how to react when he starts acting funny
Men have an innate need to feel like they are conquerors and that's a challenge for them with independent women. I think that's part of the attraction - the desire to conquer and also part of the reason why they can't handle it, because it's a threat.
This is giving me old videos vibes and I’m loving it. Type of video you can have in the background learning while cleaning lol Thanks man !
I thought love was supposed to be easy, it’s starting to seem like a game
Watch Kevin samuels
Love is easy. GOD is love. People are complicated because of the fall. People are flawed and that's why Christ came to be our Savior.
I've seen your videos for years and you're getting better and better with all your teachings! Shows you've been doing all the work and I really appreciate all your knowledge and you sharing it with us! Graciaaass 💜✨
Thank you! You give the older brother advice I need ….protective with a splash toxicity.
Well said! Yes I look forward to implementing the 'let it appear that you are weak'. In retrospect, I have been doing this - but not from a place of strength but a place of projection and neediness and giving people chance after chance when they showed their true colors. Now that I am healing, I will just walk away when their true character appears.
I literally just told someone thank you for all the learned lessons I had to learn from you for my next chapter!
You are the fcking shyt! I have been obsessed with your videos for 2 days. Your level of intelligence, knowledge and depth is beyond impressive 💯💯💯💯
I'm somewhat of a nice girl but hate inconsistency .It makes me detach a lot more real fast ..
I've had to learn this the hard way, that most things don't work out. It's been painfully life changing...it's put me through so many negative emotions. Im just trying not to make my bad experiences turn me into a bitter, cynical person🤦
Watch SheRa seven’s channel and the universe guru.
Hook up culture is bad for most women. It can be very damaging.
Men are not looking for love, especially men under 45. They are strategically looking for easy sex.
Women need to be more strategic about getting what we want.
I wish you were my friend 31 years ago and told me these truths, like a well meaning cousin. Thanks for all the help, I appreciate
Sometimes people just need to learn lessons over and over. Bottom line though just be yourself until someone appreciates you being you. Do what feels good to you, answer that text when you feel like it, cancel that date or go on it because ‘you’ feel like it, that’s your intuition guiding you. You really can’t go wrong if you feel good about something in that moment even if it ends up teaching you a lesson. Don’t avoid what is meant for you. But otherwise really good material, Thankyou 😌
THIS!
It wasn’t long! I love listening to your thoughts and wisdom cause that means you took the time to analyze things from a bigger perspective. Thank you as always for being your authentic self. Xo ♥️
Today I am fasting for 25 hours and your videos are helping me understand things from a different pov
Stay blessed
You dropped some real gems in this episode. Thanks!
Good advices that are appliable in general. Low expectations no disappointment. Better even think bad about people so they have to prove you are wrong.
I'm impressed at how you've educated yourself so well on psychology!😊
i am kinda addicted to watchin your videos man, good content
EXCELLENT‼️‼️‼️OMG, this & the rest of your videos have helped me immensely‼️‼️‼️
One of your best videos - the details you have gone into just blows my mind away - thank you
Your videos are getting better and better. Thank you for your honesty and advice.
Again a brilliant video Alex! Please consider making more videos on how to recognise those coward snakes hiding in the grass. Help us spot the sometimes very subtle red flags than warn women that they are dealing with a man belonging to the dark triad. Big hug Alex, you are bringing light to this world.
Thank you Alex! Once again knowledge I didn't know I needed
100%
You are AMAZING AND I LEARN SO MUCH EVERY TIME I WATCH YOUR VIDEOS...I NEED THE 1 ON 1 COACHING, will be contacting you soon..lol I don't want to be a FREELOADER ANYMORE! 🤣 I must be doing something wrong, thank you for being you!!!
Alex thank you so much for your wisdom 💞💞 you are truly wise beyond your years. May God continue to bless you.💘
Love you💚💚You have helped me for years! Blessings King
I NEEDED this video! I'm guilty of most of those mistakes.
I appreciate your positivity. It help me with elevation.
Thank you, this video was brilliant. Watching from the UK.
100% wisdom
Loved this information!
I'm really feeling this talk
Your artwork behind you getting a lot more finer just like a photograph
I was looking at that too. 💞 Who's the guy on the top left it looks like Andrew McCarthy who is just delicious 🤤
Damnnn this is so DEEP I love it amazing advice
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Dropping that bomb knowledge from A to Z ugh Thank you! Lol😝😁
Probably your best video right here.
HOWDY BOSS , just wanted to give props , your intelligence really got through to me
Thank you father Alex for another enlightening video 💎✨😂
This is 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for sharing sir. 🙏✨
Your channel is so good
I suppose hon telling me that he’s going for a drive and he’s still online speaks volumes 😬😂😳
It's very important to be realistic and have lower expectations. Living in a fairy tale can prevent meeting someone ❤ Look at the big picture of a possible relationship.
You’re very good- thanks!
Very helpful!
In this short life, I don't know how people get the time for all these games. Just obseving the earthlings, a strange breed indeed.
I love your content and long time fan here! Also, your hair is amazing- very handsome!
Pure gold ✨️ thank you 💛
Wuddup bro, aka ladies GUARD YA HEARTS! AKA protect ya neck. Tahaaa
This will be my bible. Thank you !
I like that Sinatra leads your mugshot line up.
Great video. Keep making them as they are sooooo good thank you
Perfect. Thank you
I still can't believe you don't charge me for our therapy sessions 😉 🙏
Ask their enemies about them?
as if their enemy is going to tell the truth
Even their best friends and family don’t tell the truth 😅
Enemies or jealous people will always try to make you look bad lol so we shouldn't take their opinion at face value. Discernment is key I guess
Dalexis!!! The hair is giving!!! 😍😍
I love your hair here
Daddy Alex sounds seductive lol
Have you heard of the law of attraction and the work of Neville Goddard . Everyone is you pushed out..
How would that fit into this?
Thank you so much for the video ☀️🙂
Appearance means everything, and nothing at the same time.
Great video!
Youre so smart thank u for sharing on TH-cam ❤️
Golden nugget trust isnt given freely it tis earned.... ya shmell me
The wisdom.
He's right on point
Thank you!!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Good stuff bro
Thanks Alex. 🙏 Your videos are really inspirational. I really appreciate the knowledge you share. 😘
Thanks!
thank you.
Your the best thank you
Don't judge a book by its cover is old as time.
useful insightful
Could you pls also do some videos about friendchips,would help me tremendously
I think we can use the same principle with friendships too...any relationship.
That is very true...
Very good video
Great advices. Congrats you re-changed the name of the chanel as toxic is not a name to asociate my info from
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Hi Alex :)
Have you read Art of War by Sun Tzu?
I Love You Alex ❤️
You tha Best 😘❤️🔥🥰
I like your content
Can you make a video on when a guy blocks you out of nowhere? What could be the reasons? Is he afraid or?
Reason is he most likely blocked you cause he's in a relationship now.
This is great
Is this course available for people outside US???!
Ehhh , looking in to someone's past isn't ok ppl are easily conditioned so when they hear something about someone they already perceive that person that isn't fair I let ppl see eventually see what I saw then let them come to me and tell me yo you ain't cray , so I don't believe too much in to that ...if you want to know how they "think" then yea thats up to you to continue or just know 😏
I don’t get your point ?
What’s your zodiac sign? I feel Scorpio/ Pisces/ Cancer vibes because your Very intuitive and emotionally intelligent
You are awesome 👏
Thankyou