The Female High Value Code - 3 Rules Women Should Never Break
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Understanding these rules will allow you to get to know people for who they really are and not their appearance, to see reality rather seeing just a projection, and to learn how to create and maintain a connection with a guy.
1. The first rule is to not judge things based on their appearance. Never trust what you see with your eye. And always focus on people's actions rather than their words. Why? Because when you learn to do this you will start judging people based on their behavior. Naturally human doesn't change their view of the character of one's person to suppress their fear. So what you have to do is don't look at people's public acts or the words they said, you wanna focus on their negative acts because this says more about the person.
Also, don't let people's innocence full you into letting your guard down. Looking innocent and harmless doesn't always mean that they are. So always follow through because people are not always the person they show you.
Another way you can know people on a deeper level is by showing weaknesses and seeing how they react. Or maybe don't call him out on the things he does the first time and see if he does it again. You can also show eagerness to see him and see how he reacts to your eagerness, does he pull away? These are the ways you can reveal the aggressive part of his personality because weakness brings out aggression in people. How people deal with your weakness says a lot about them. When you showed them weakness and they use it against you it says a lot about his true character.
Naturally, we humans judge by appearances and what you wanna do is use it to your advantage. Learn to hide certain parts of your personality, weaknesses, or even positive traits and reveal that part over time. Revealing everything too quick says insecurity but revealing parts over time gives you more depth as a person and it is actually more attractive.
2. Next thing you wanna do is not let your emotions control how you see a person. Emotions guide us through our decision making, not our intellect. That is why people don't know how they achieved something because it was an emotional compulsion and not a rational thing. Each emotion causes us to be ready to act based on the general gist of the situation.
As humans, our encounters socially are not shaped by our rational thought of them but more by our emotional circuitry. So the way we respond to people is more about what we have experienced in life and based on what our ancestors have passed to us. So if your mind is consistently reacting to what is in front of you and it didn't have the time to step back and realize that you are making quick judgments based on your insecurities and past then your strategies will be out of tune with the problems you're targeting. Because you are not seeing reality but you are looking at them through projections.
So when you meet somebody and you judge them by your insecurities and they end up not being the person who you think they are it will be a setback that will destroy you from within. When setbacks happen you should learn to improvise based on your resources and long-term goals. You should not allow setbacks to stop you and understand that you're gonna make mistakes but you can't allow those setbacks to deter you. And every time this happens you're gonna analyze your mistakes and prepare for the next person that you meet.
3. The last thing you have to understand is the pain and pleasure principle. So how can you apply this principle? Some way you can do this is always make your partner feel superior even though they're inferior to you. Make them feel like they're smarter or funnier than you because it's a pleasurable thing for them. Making them feel superior even though they do not give you more control. Remember that the way a person reacts to your vulnerability is a big sign of how they feel about you.
Pain and pleasure are not just doing bad things it also means consistently making them feel validated and superior and breaking that pattern. Then showing your real strength, intelligence, and how independent you really are. And that causes them pain because it breaks their expectations.
You can also inflict them by being always consistent and suddenly acting inconsistent with that person. By creating absence and presence when you're always there then suddenly you're always busy. You give comfort through your consistency and then you break it. That creates a spark of attraction. This also creates respect because you respect what you can't predict.
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How to see his true colors:
1. Play dumb (beginning)
2. Be vulnerable (later on): Does he show empathy/wants to help? or use it against you?
3. Say No/rejection or disagree on something, create an argument to see how he argues
4. If you late, is he vengeful? If he does something wrong and you don't call it out, does he repeat it?
5. Break patterns (break consistency)
6. Focus on actions (not words) don't let your guard down too soon
7. Does he talk bad about ex? Has no friends?
8. Don't reveal everything about you too quickly (+or-)it shows insecurity
9. Is he too perfect? Reminds you on someone from your past?
Thank you for writing it out
I should have paid attention to no. 7. Now I know better. This applies to vetting friends too 🤗
I do number 2 while I never used to do it. Just to see how he reacts whether he despise me or he comforts and protects me. huge revealer
Thank you so much
@@s.kagendo but some people have had very dangerous evil partners that they had to run for their lifes, let’s not forget that!
Thanks for reminding me over and over that people are not as good as they project, testing them is essential... people please don't trust people who you don't know !!
Truth.
Lol, you just realize that now? You are so naive
Yeah Eula I just came from another planet and start meeting this humans who I didn't understand, I literally did believe that everybody is an angel as myself...
You look much clever, good for you!
Love this
take your time n allow them to show thier true selves
1. Never trust appearances. Focus Actions rather Words. See people for who they are.
2. Pain and Pleasure Principle.
3. Not letting Emotions control how you see the person.
I used to date a lot of toxic guys and hold onto bad relationships forever until I got fed up and dumped them. Since watching Mindful Attraction my life has changed! Now they dump me and run lmao. Little boys cannot handle a woman who isn’t insecure and coping. So be *mindful* this doesn’t mean you’re going to find the right man. It means you gotta be strong enough to not chase the wrong one. Distance = more distance.
I’m sorry, what Mindufull Attraction is? I really want to watch it too! 🙏🏻
Dump you and run? Let me guess…you don’t see a problem with that statement.
“What you can’t predict, you respect. What you predict you lose respect for”. WOW. But why???? This is crazy but true. I’ve had it happen to me before- many times! I’m too consistent 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️You are brilliant 💟💟💟
Omg, of course being predictable is boring you don’t need to be in a relationship to know this.. 🤷♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
ask their exes about them is a bit much , sorry but i would never approach or message their exes how this person treated them . I’d rather just walk away if it’s not serving me .
I agree 👍.. who wants to deal with an ex * most of the time you could not trust them anyway 👍
Exactly. Because you aren’t that person. So the experience & situations aren’t gonna be exactly the same. And their reaction with you will not necessarily similar. I’ve definitely said do you know so & so? And I observe their initial reaction. And just file it away. Asking 2/3 people and you see the same disgruntled reaction is just more information to keep in the back of your mind. But don’t assume they’re guilty before proven innocent.
I’ve just started dating again 3 years after leaving an abusive narcissist. I’ve already been doing some of these things to reveal mens true character. Need to go deeper and weed out unsuitable men early on for self protection. Intriguing video and I will implement more of this on my quest ✌🏻
Looking at your face you look like a victim
Same
Must vet their words and character. Check references!
This is giving me old videos vibes and I’m loving it. Type of video you can have in the background learning while cleaning lol Thanks man !
I've seen your videos for years and you're getting better and better with all your teachings! Shows you've been doing all the work and I really appreciate all your knowledge and you sharing it with us! Graciaaass 💜✨
Today I am fasting for 25 hours and your videos are helping me understand things from a different pov
Stay blessed
I literally just told someone thank you for all the learned lessons I had to learn from you for my next chapter!
You’re incredibly wise. I can tell you put a lot of time into learning psychological behavior
Been following you for years, Dalexis. I must say your elocution has improved exponentially! Great job!
Was that a backhanded compliment?
No, it’s absolutely sincere. Interesting you think it’s backhanded
Find out why they keep getting fired? Geezz.. That's a huge red flag in itself !
Very helpful!
It wasn’t long! I love listening to your thoughts and wisdom cause that means you took the time to analyze things from a bigger perspective. Thank you as always for being your authentic self. Xo ♥️
I've had to learn this the hard way, that most things don't work out. It's been painfully life changing...it's put me through so many negative emotions. Im just trying not to make my bad experiences turn me into a bitter, cynical person🤦
Watch SheRa seven’s channel and the universe guru.
Hook up culture is bad for most women. It can be very damaging.
Men are not looking for love, especially men under 45. They are strategically looking for easy sex.
Women need to be more strategic about getting what we want.
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EXCELLENT‼️‼️‼️OMG, this & the rest of your videos have helped me immensely‼️‼️‼️
Sometimes people just need to learn lessons over and over. Bottom line though just be yourself until someone appreciates you being you. Do what feels good to you, answer that text when you feel like it, cancel that date or go on it because ‘you’ feel like it, that’s your intuition guiding you. You really can’t go wrong if you feel good about something in that moment even if it ends up teaching you a lesson. Don’t avoid what is meant for you. But otherwise really good material, Thankyou 😌
THIS!
Thanks!
Thank you! You give the older brother advice I need ….protective with a splash toxicity.
Well said! Yes I look forward to implementing the 'let it appear that you are weak'. In retrospect, I have been doing this - but not from a place of strength but a place of projection and neediness and giving people chance after chance when they showed their true colors. Now that I am healing, I will just walk away when their true character appears.
One of your best videos - the details you have gone into just blows my mind away - thank you
You dropped some real gems in this episode. Thanks!
I'm impressed at how you've educated yourself so well on psychology!😊
Good advices that are appliable in general. Low expectations no disappointment. Better even think bad about people so they have to prove you are wrong.
i am kinda addicted to watchin your videos man, good content
That’s narcissism, though. Making them accustomed to your time, and then taking it away.
This is exactly what narcissists do to hurt others.
I'm somewhat of a nice girl but hate inconsistency .It makes me detach a lot more real fast ..
Your videos are getting better and better. Thank you for your honesty and advice.
I don't think most men like independent women. They act like they do, but I don't think they really do.
No they're not. You're right.
They don't like them too independent
They think they like independent women but they actually don't lol but hey, it's better to be and independent woman and act as if your needy around them than being actually needy and don't know how to react when he starts acting funny
Men have an innate need to feel like they are conquerors and that's a challenge for them with independent women. I think that's part of the attraction - the desire to conquer and also part of the reason why they can't handle it, because it's a threat.
I wish you were my friend 31 years ago and told me these truths, like a well meaning cousin. Thanks for all the help, I appreciate
Thank you, this video was brilliant. Watching from the UK.
Wuddup bro, aka ladies GUARD YA HEARTS! AKA protect ya neck. Tahaaa
Thank you for your invaluable Tips.
I thought love was supposed to be easy, it’s starting to seem like a game
Watch Kevin samuels
Love is easy. GOD is love. People are complicated because of the fall. People are flawed and that's why Christ came to be our Savior.
I NEEDED this video! I'm guilty of most of those mistakes.
You are AMAZING AND I LEARN SO MUCH EVERY TIME I WATCH YOUR VIDEOS...I NEED THE 1 ON 1 COACHING, will be contacting you soon..lol I don't want to be a FREELOADER ANYMORE! 🤣 I must be doing something wrong, thank you for being you!!!
Love you💚💚You have helped me for years! Blessings King
This is the best video ever.
Probably your best video right here.
Again a brilliant video Alex! Please consider making more videos on how to recognise those coward snakes hiding in the grass. Help us spot the sometimes very subtle red flags than warn women that they are dealing with a man belonging to the dark triad. Big hug Alex, you are bringing light to this world.
Pure gold ✨️ thank you 💛
Thank you Alex! Once again knowledge I didn't know I needed
100%
Alex thank you so much for your wisdom 💞💞 you are truly wise beyond your years. May God continue to bless you.💘
HOWDY BOSS , just wanted to give props , your intelligence really got through to me
Damnnn this is so DEEP I love it amazing advice
I suppose hon telling me that he’s going for a drive and he’s still online speaks volumes 😬😂😳
Oh helll yeah… str8 facts 🙏🏾
Dropping that bomb knowledge from A to Z ugh Thank you! Lol😝😁
Golden nugget trust isnt given freely it tis earned.... ya shmell me
I'm really feeling this talk
I love your content and long time fan here! Also, your hair is amazing- very handsome!
Perfect. Thank you
You’re very good- thanks!
I appreciate your positivity. It help me with elevation.
Your channel is so good
Thank you father Alex for another enlightening video 💎✨😂
It's very important to be realistic and have lower expectations. Living in a fairy tale can prevent meeting someone ❤ Look at the big picture of a possible relationship.
Thank you!!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
100% wisdom
Dalexis!!! The hair is giving!!! 😍😍
In this short life, I don't know how people get the time for all these games. Just obseving the earthlings, a strange breed indeed.
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I like that Sinatra leads your mugshot line up.
Great advice!!
Youre so smart thank u for sharing on TH-cam ❤️
Great video!
Your artwork behind you getting a lot more finer just like a photograph
I was looking at that too. 💞 Who's the guy on the top left it looks like Andrew McCarthy who is just delicious 🤤
Have you heard of the law of attraction and the work of Neville Goddard . Everyone is you pushed out..
How would that fit into this?
Thank you so much for the video ☀️🙂
Very good video
I still can't believe you don't charge me for our therapy sessions 😉 🙏
Good stuff bro
thank you.
This will be my bible. Thank you !
Bruh I trust NOBODY (including me, why I rely on the Most higher power:)
I Love You Alex ❤️
You tha Best 😘❤️🔥🥰
Ask their enemies about them?
as if their enemy is going to tell the truth
Even their best friends and family don’t tell the truth 😅
Enemies or jealous people will always try to make you look bad lol so we shouldn't take their opinion at face value. Discernment is key I guess
useful insightful
Your the best thank you
He's right on point
Appearance means everything, and nothing at the same time.
Great video. Keep making them as they are sooooo good thank you
Thanks Alex. 🙏 Your videos are really inspirational. I really appreciate the knowledge you share. 😘
Could you pls also do some videos about friendchips,would help me tremendously
I think we can use the same principle with friendships too...any relationship.
Great advices. Congrats you re-changed the name of the chanel as toxic is not a name to asociate my info from
What are the 3 rules?
I like your content
Is this course available for people outside US???!
That is very true...
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Have you read Art of War by Sun Tzu?
¿Quién es el disparo que está sobre tu hombro derecho?
The wisdom.
Hi Alex :)
Can you make a video on when a guy blocks you out of nowhere? What could be the reasons? Is he afraid or?
Reason is he most likely blocked you cause he's in a relationship now.
This is great
Fantastic❣️
You are awesome 👏