1 - Emotionally available too soon 2 - Let guy speed things up 3 - Too Forgiving 4- 5- Trying to find happiness in a relationship Fill in the blank lol
Alex you give me my toxic side. Chloe and Shera give me my feminine side. Tony Gaskins and Coach Rod give me my Christian side. I combine all elements together 🥰😍💖
Relationships which are really not meant to be are just messed up and a lot of work. Having sex too soon shouldn't have to prove a woman's weakness when a man is equally part of the act. It means we are both weak if that's the case. When a guy likes you, it doesn't matter what happens and when he doesn't no amount of waiting will change the way he feels. Just be the best version of yourself and good people will see that and get on board.
"Just be the best versions of yourself and blah blah blah" If that's all it took there wouldn't be so many "good" people who are single, especially women. It obviously takes more than that (and, no, blaming men is not the answer). Even people in long-term good marriages will tell you it's not easy and takes work.
And having sex too soon SHOULDN'T be a strike against a woman but it usually is. Double standards are everywhere. Just like most women don't want a bye male but most men don't care if their woman is bye. It's a double standard against bye males but I'm here for it because I don't want a man who straddles the fence and most men don't want a woman they think is easy.
I won't meet up with a man until he is vetted and we have a lot of great convos and texts...I know we have chemistry, and I would be disappointed if the first date did not end in sex. Period. I have been both delighted and disappointed and my way is spot on. Walk in knowing what you are getting based on lots of info and time
As much as I think you are an interesting character Alex and I do not agree with your dark arts and advice most of the time , but this post is gold. The advice is excellent for women who are missing red flags.
I think 85% of his content is gold and the rest, manipulation. Dalexis is trying to be pragmatic and teach us the game. His heart is in the right place. He cares! I believe that once he decides to consecrate his life to the Lord, there will be a shift in his content & it will be beautiful.
Courting is a game... "courting", if the game is not exciting there is no magic. Attraction needs it... so you are absolutely right on the money. You are empowering women to learn to have high self esteem... and what you're giving is tools for building it :)
I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship,and I have to say that I wish I had found this channel back then. because you really hit the nail on the head with everything you said in this video. Thank you 😊
Being emotional doesn't mean you are weak. Being emotional meaning you are innocent and you think everyone is good as you are and you trust everyone because you think everyone is good as you 😢
@@MarcusMap-xt5rlYou described being "naive" and "gullible". Cuz being emotional is acting without thinking about the consequences of your acts, it's acting without having control over your emotions (all kind of emotions like anger, fear, anxiety....etc not only emotions related to love and affection). Being emotional doesn't mean at all that u are a "good" person and it has nothing to do with innocent. NO ADULT IS INNOCENT. Only babies, animals and some kids are innocent.
Finding your purpose is necessary!! …I just came out of an abusive relationship so I really connected with that 1 point esp!! …if you don’t know your purpose, and dating, you will be thrown all over the place and whoever you’re dating will either take advantage of that…and/or NOT appreciate what you bring to the table. Find your purpose ladies 😘💜🦋
I’m a woman and I can only say this go both ways. A guy you says to fast he likes/loves/want you...and is doing all the things you say in the video ...it gets scary ...I met so many men who even on second time in bed talk about making a baby...it freaks me out...
*I listen to quite a few TH-camrs and I must say your advice is the most realistic. It is NECESSARY to have sweet and sour in order to navigate this world. You must have STRATEGY to be successful out here. Thank you!*
The topic about lacking purpose and superimposing it on our object of desire (the guy in this case) is enlightening. It succinctly explains how and why the lack of happiness and purpose in life leads us to idealize a guy (or even our career, money, status, youth etc). Please do create a more detailed video on the topic because it will benefit your audience.
The crack example was DEAD ON, it's sooo nice to see u Tyrone 🤣💀💀💀You got me HOLLERING laughing bc it's so damn true I swear I needed this & the wand is a sweet touch...
I LOVE LOVE this type of deep profound video, i need to learn them. Thank you so much father alex!! Pleease keep them coming. Kiss and hugss to Tyroneeee
This is pure gold Alex! One of the best video I have watched. How you explained everything made a light bulb go on! I love how what you teach is actually overall self-development. You are a gem!
You hit the mark on this one. I needed to hear this and I did. Im living the regret of harsh words spoken and I get it...why he's not responding... Your Alaskan girl~CC
@17:48 "It kinda creates an illusion and makes people look a lot more attractive than they really are!"😱😱 Yiiiiikes!!!! Thank you soooo much for this I ❤ this part! This part is golden! 😍
Wow, I only heared the first 2 minutes of the video, and I stoped it because I have to say what an excellent speach!! One of your best intros Alex, your getting better and better 👏👏👏
Wow, those remarks about the effects of feeling a surge of emotion are so true. Edit: the rest of the video as well. Great, great precious insight and I appreciate your integrity in mentioning those works and authors as well.
The toxic dating coach talking about exposed weaknesses while there's leftover coke on your coffee table from the night before lol...I love how real life you are lol
I gain a lot of wisdom from you. PS. You are a preacher - I get running from religion- I'm a PK and same. But you will never get away from that call. Glad you are using your gift to help us. Xo
I would not call this dark or toxic. Some woman naturally do this, like me, cos I've seen this in my mum, who's happily married to my dad. She uses all the ,,tactics,, without even knowing they are ,,dark,, she's just confident, happy and have education in psychology :D to people that live their lives, do their thing, go to therapy and appreciate themselves this just comes naturally. But it's great you teach it to woman. I also like to follow women teaching men how to improve their relationships.... It's good that both sexes have access to this.
Thank you for making me feel safe to get what I want. Before finding you I thought what I want is old school. That I'll be alone until I'm old if I'm not going with the flow. (My old school heart WANTS a man to take the lead!) You let me relax into me! Now I feel like "hey, where there's a will; there is a way" I'll wait for the right one to lean in.
This information is so true.. Thank you for creating such a visual.. I have made some of these mistakes and have learned to strengthen my emotional leverage by just backing off.. Thanks again ..
I'm in that situation I forgive every single time even after the worst insults that'll shatter me to pieces.. See why I need this man right here. You're my saviour right now dude and you don't even know it.
I have found men open up emotionally wayyyy to fast. I never give much away early on but men always tell me their whole life story on the first and second date and tell me about all their trauma, it is a major turn off! Why do they do this!!??
They want pitty and get you vulnerable to let your guard down. There red flags. A real man takes responsibility and understands when life fails he gets back up reflects what happens and learns from it. It takes emotional maturity
Ladies you attract your similarity. That's what I've learned over time watching these TH-camrs. Not everyone is the same. I treat women well and I absolutely hate mean women. I actually like sweethearts. Good attracts good and bad attracts bad.
You’re toxic af. Not everyone has the same experience as you, ever though of that? Nice women are being taken advantage of all the time. Mansplaining clown. You’re not as nice as you think.
Wow, rude much? He’s right, like attracts like. You literally attract what you are, I was very emotionally unavailable for years and I attracted men but only the toxic ones. Now I’m much healthier and yes I don’t attract as MANY guys, but I attract better and healthier ones and I am much much happier now and I have an incredible relationship. Healthy and unhealthy people do not attract each other ….
Right how to hid... why you won't ever find your soul mate. Listen... be yourself. That will never fail. But understand not everyone is made for you so be yourself and know that their are people who will try to use you.
@18:15 "If you're single and unhappy and the source of unhappiness is cause you're single, it's Actually cause you're lacking great purpose! Ooooouch that hit a lot of people!🤕
"psycho look" moment always makes me giggle lol. That's so funny 😭
Never expose too much too soon! The rose bud doesn’t bloom all at once. Protect your essence and you’ll attract a man who values you.
1 - Emotionally available too soon
2 - Let guy speed things up
3 - Too Forgiving
4-
5- Trying to find happiness in a relationship
Fill in the blank lol
The blank one is saying "yes" when normally you'd say "no"
@JazzyQ Say no more often to guy you like
Acting desperate
Agreed
4. Find a purpose in life
" Don't care how golden you think that 🍆, they are somethings you cannot forgive from a man" *Word*
Alex you give me my toxic side. Chloe and Shera give me my feminine side. Tony Gaskins and Coach Rod give me my Christian side. I combine all elements together 🥰😍💖
Ha! Right there with you. Check out Mina Irfan from Universe Guru.
A power cocktail 🍹. All 6 elements
Same, but with different TH-camrs
Kev hick
Nd Stephen speaks !
Can we all appreciate how well researched and comprehensive this video was ? 🥂👏👏👏 Great efforts Alex !!
Father Alex 🤩
Read other book 📖 lady Jane ☺️ 48laws it's history
"Stop exposing weakness to males!"
Obviously it's Not to say that males don't have weaknesses, but females must keep their weaknesses hidden.
Relationships which are really not meant to be are just messed up and a lot of work. Having sex too soon shouldn't have to prove a woman's weakness when a man is equally part of the act. It means we are both weak if that's the case. When a guy likes you, it doesn't matter what happens and when he doesn't no amount of waiting will change the way he feels. Just be the best version of yourself and good people will see that and get on board.
But with your logic you’ll end up sleeping with a lot of people if you don’t have some way of waiting to know if the guy even actually likes you.
"Just be the best versions of yourself and blah blah blah"
If that's all it took there wouldn't be so many "good" people who are single, especially women. It obviously takes more than that (and, no, blaming men is not the answer). Even people in long-term good marriages will tell you it's not easy and takes work.
And having sex too soon SHOULDN'T be a strike against a woman but it usually is. Double standards are everywhere. Just like most women don't want a bye male but most men don't care if their woman is bye. It's a double standard against bye males but I'm here for it because I don't want a man who straddles the fence and most men don't want a woman they think is easy.
I know, is this the 1800s? We have to pretend we don’t want sex? And if we do, we’re a whore?
I won't meet up with a man until he is vetted and we have a lot of great convos and texts...I know we have chemistry, and I would be disappointed if the first date did not end in sex. Period. I have been both delighted and disappointed and my way is spot on. Walk in knowing what you are getting based on lots of info and time
As much as I think you are an interesting character Alex and I do not agree with your dark arts and advice most of the time , but this post is gold. The advice is excellent for women who are missing red flags.
you don't agree cause you're naive. it's all tried and true
It's actually called reality not dark arts. If you're not aware of what's happening around you then you're choosing to be a victim.
You're naive 🤣
I think 85% of his content is gold and the rest, manipulation. Dalexis is trying to be pragmatic and teach us the game. His heart is in the right place. He cares! I believe that once he decides to consecrate his life to the Lord, there will be a shift in his content & it will be beautiful.
@@marcb.4401 not every single strategy.
Courting is a game... "courting", if the game is not exciting there is no magic. Attraction needs it... so you are absolutely right on the money. You are empowering women to learn to have high self esteem... and what you're giving is tools for building it :)
Your channel has helped me realise that I'm better than toxic relationships
I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship,and I have to say that I wish I had found this channel back then. because you really hit the nail on the head with everything you said in this video. Thank you 😊
Being emotional doesn't mean you are weak. Being emotional meaning you are innocent and you think everyone is good as you are and you trust everyone because you think everyone is good as you 😢
If you lead with emotions you'll get hurt
@@alicia.t
It's Okay
@@alicia.ttrue
@@MarcusMap-xt5rlYou described being "naive" and "gullible". Cuz being emotional is acting without thinking about the consequences of your acts, it's acting without having control over your emotions (all kind of emotions like anger, fear, anxiety....etc not only emotions related to love and affection). Being emotional doesn't mean at all that u are a "good" person and it has nothing to do with innocent. NO ADULT IS INNOCENT. Only babies, animals and some kids are innocent.
Finding your purpose is necessary!! …I just came out of an abusive relationship so I really connected with that 1 point esp!! …if you don’t know your purpose, and dating, you will be thrown all over the place and whoever you’re dating will either take advantage of that…and/or NOT appreciate what you bring to the table. Find your purpose ladies 😘💜🦋
Hi, I'm fine with my dating situation but still miss a sense of purpose.
Did you get the recommendation by any chance?
I’m a woman and I can only say this go both ways. A guy you says to fast he likes/loves/want you...and is doing all the things you say in the video ...it gets scary ...I met so many men who even on second time in bed talk about making a baby...it freaks me out...
*I listen to quite a few TH-camrs and I must say your advice is the most realistic. It is NECESSARY to have sweet and sour in order to navigate this world. You must have STRATEGY to be successful out here. Thank you!*
You're not toxic at all but being LOGICAL! Thank you for your videos. From one of your freeloaders! 😉🙏🏽💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
He has no business being this fine AND intelligent.
Please stop simping...this isnt a hookup site...dang how sad this makes me for females.
The psycho girlfriend look 😆😆😆
The music had me dying 😭
The crazy eyes and Michael Myers music 😂😂😂
The topic about lacking purpose and superimposing it on our object of desire (the guy in this case) is enlightening. It succinctly explains how and why the lack of happiness and purpose in life leads us to idealize a guy (or even our career, money, status, youth etc). Please do create a more detailed video on the topic because it will benefit your audience.
Father Alex, this is a really good video!
Alex, I have been following you for years. Your content is definitely appreciated and has been applied. THANK YOU!
You made me laugh, the psycho look…😂😂😂 I like everything you said. Thank you!🥰
The crack example was DEAD ON, it's sooo nice to see u Tyrone 🤣💀💀💀You got me HOLLERING laughing bc it's so damn true I swear I needed this & the wand is a sweet touch...
I LOVE LOVE this type of deep profound video, i need to learn them.
Thank you so much father alex!! Pleease keep them coming. Kiss and hugss to Tyroneeee
Wow this video was DEEP you called me out but I needed it! Thank you Father Alex ☕️
This is pure gold Alex! One of the best video I have watched. How you explained everything made a light bulb go on! I love how what you teach is actually overall self-development. You are a gem!
I love your background mural. The colors and shapes and palms and distressed look. Beautiful! 💋
“Is that C” 😂😂 Everything you do and say is so funny.
You hit the mark on this one. I needed to hear this and I did. Im living the regret of harsh words spoken and I get it...why he's not responding...
Your Alaskan girl~CC
His voice when he acts like a girl is just😅😅😅
@17:48 "It kinda creates an illusion and makes people look a lot more attractive than they really are!"😱😱
Yiiiiikes!!!!
Thank you soooo much for this I ❤ this part! This part is golden! 😍
Wow. The concept of lack of purpose? Made so much sense. Thank you👌
This is so fun to watch, here for psychology purpose only...your manipulation tactic is only a push and a nudge in the right direction Alex haha
Wow, I only heared the first 2 minutes of the video, and I stoped it because I have to say what an excellent speach!! One of your best intros Alex, your getting better and better 👏👏👏
My life is so hard at times these videos are the highlight of my day.
This is personally your best recording- so much insight
Wow, those remarks about the effects of feeling a surge of emotion are so true. Edit: the rest of the video as well. Great, great precious insight and I appreciate your integrity in mentioning those works and authors as well.
The toxic dating coach talking about exposed weaknesses while there's leftover coke on your coffee table from the night before lol...I love how real life you are lol
I hollered because Sir😒🤣 My good Sir😭🤧😒
As I was listening I felt the urge to hit the like button, then I saw I've already liked it😂
I gain a lot of wisdom from you. PS. You are a preacher - I get running from religion- I'm a PK and same. But you will never get away from that call. Glad you are using your gift to help us. Xo
Yeah he needs to come back to Christ
Lmao I'm dying to your comparison when you said it's like being the only one on crack 🤣🤣🤣
I would not call this dark or toxic. Some woman naturally do this, like me, cos I've seen this in my mum, who's happily married to my dad. She uses all the ,,tactics,, without even knowing they are ,,dark,, she's just confident, happy and have education in psychology :D to people that live their lives, do their thing, go to therapy and appreciate themselves this just comes naturally. But it's great you teach it to woman. I also like to follow women teaching men how to improve their relationships.... It's good that both sexes have access to this.
My mother is sleeping next to me and it was really hard to hold my laugh when I saw Tyron ROFL
Thank you for making me feel safe to get what I want. Before finding you I thought what I want is old school. That I'll be alone until I'm old if I'm not going with the flow. (My old school heart WANTS a man to take the lead!) You let me relax into me! Now I feel like "hey, where there's a will; there is a way" I'll wait for the right one to lean in.
I didn't realize that about having a purpose in life... it makes sense. Thank you
It's either cocaine, or powdered coffee creamer....LOL
Thanks for your advice Alex !!!
This information is so true.. Thank you for creating such a visual.. I have made some of these mistakes and have learned to strengthen my emotional leverage by just backing off.. Thanks again ..
😂😂 This man already had me cracking up at 0:25. I replayed it 3x 😂😂
Father Alex, in a few days you have become my SHIELD against cheap tactics
I said NO so many times,
he started giving up.
It tore me up to say NO the last time,
I wanted to say YES so badly it hurt 💔 😭
Your impression of a girl with that voice is just next level hahahaha also with that music ❤😂
Yeah dopamine would kick in if you're tired but if I'm sleep deprived I'm still saying no lol
I'm in that situation I forgive every single time even after the worst insults that'll shatter me to pieces.. See why I need this man right here. You're my saviour right now dude and you don't even know it.
Girl, you're gorgeous.
Good morning from Ponce. Thank you so much.
"The laws of human nature chapter 13: finding your purpose." Or 1st chapter in mastery? Is that in the same book?
@@until_you_do_right_by_me1111 oh thank you!
I have found men open up emotionally wayyyy to fast. I never give much away early on but men always tell me their whole life story on the first and second date and tell me about all their trauma, it is a major turn off! Why do they do this!!??
They want pitty and get you vulnerable to let your guard down. There red flags. A real man takes responsibility and understands when life fails he gets back up reflects what happens and learns from it. It takes emotional maturity
😂 😂 😂 your videos are funny but informative !!!
You grow and grow Alex , great JOB!!
Your special effects are hilarious 🤣
And your delivery on this info is awesome.
Father Alex: "Next topic: Forgiveness...Lord have mercy" 😅👍👍
This is so good. Basically been doing everything wrong haha 😄
Same
Omg Alex, I love you so much! Your advice has transformed my dating life over the last 2 years
When he played the PSYCHO theme music 🎶.. talking bout “Heeeey”😜…LOL 🤣😭🤣😭😭😭
Ladies you attract your similarity. That's what I've learned over time watching these TH-camrs. Not everyone is the same. I treat women well and I absolutely hate mean women. I actually like sweethearts. Good attracts good and bad attracts bad.
You’re toxic af. Not everyone has the same experience as you, ever though of that? Nice women are being taken advantage of all the time. Mansplaining clown. You’re not as nice as you think.
Wow, rude much? He’s right, like attracts like. You literally attract what you are, I was very emotionally unavailable for years and I attracted men but only the toxic ones. Now I’m much healthier and yes I don’t attract as MANY guys, but I attract better and healthier ones and I am much much happier now and I have an incredible relationship. Healthy and unhealthy people do not attract each other ….
This video is very well delivered.
You made me 🤣🤣🤣 so bad with the phsyco girlfriend look!!! Thank you Alex for you videos!
Get a wet towel and clean up the floor
One time I was called a narc for not rushing things. Talk about projection.
You are such a wise wise man!!! Thank you so much Alex!! This makes total sense!
I wish I knew this advice years ago!!!
Bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🪸✨♥️
Right how to hid... why you won't ever find your soul mate. Listen... be yourself. That will never fail. But understand not everyone is made for you so be yourself and know that their are people who will try to use you.
You have great info. It’d be easier to receive if we didn’t get off topic
I am agree whit you about around the bad side is close in the world...and you are right we must do know how to survive in this world...
Alex u literally make me laugh. I actually forgot what I came here for lolzzzz.. Thanks buddy
"Like you're the only one who's on Crack" lmao
Thank you so much for this video. Can't wait for Nice Girl course!
BammmmBoozled! I have to admit Alex. I have been bamboozled myself.
Thank you for your words of wisdom...not clean that shit off your table!!
You are adorably informative!!! You are definitely helping us!!!! I wish I would've found you before. God bless you.
@18:15 "If you're single and unhappy and the source of unhappiness is cause you're single, it's Actually cause you're lacking great purpose!
Ooooouch that hit a lot of people!🤕
He just sneezed on it when he sayed he's an evil coach 🤣🤣 in my culture it's like saying "amen you're right" to that xD ❤
We love u u lit changed our lives from years
You just made my day 😊😊..Thanks couch !
It's soooo nice to see you! Heyyyyy lol love you Father Alex!!!
Jeez 6 minutes and I can't stop laughing 😂 So true!!! 💙💙💙
I love your videos. They are helpful to me. Keep up the excellent work. I appreciate the knowledge
Lmaooo you make my day with your videos. You’re hella hilarious
Lol I miss the sock on the mic 🎤
So you know I've been rocking with you. (;
Dr father Alex is always on point !
"You're the only one in the house who's on crack." Priceless! Can I borrow it? The accuracy...
Omg Alex you are so funny but it's true how we women forget everything when we become so emotional.
We love You and your honest, straightforward talks
bro you made my day!!! this video had me laughing so hard but it was something real i needed to hear! thanks! & keep going!
The truth hurts.
Your sense of humor is priceless😅😅😅
He’s definitely talking to me in this video 🤦🏽♀️
Oh damn... I feel stupid . 🤦♀️ So many guys tell me that. But damn I am needy 😩
Father alex 😟 we're lost without you 🙌
I just started watching you, however I’ve learned so much in just days
I laughed so hard my neighbors probably think I’m on drugs😂😂