10 SIGNS That Show YOU are a CLASSY LADY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.พ. 2023
- Hello my Elegant ladies!
My penultimate video discussed 10 indicators of classless behaviour. In this video, I talk about 10 signs that show you are a classy woman of elegance.
Please stay with me as I point out some very important issues that will spear you in the trajectory of elegance. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
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I found your channel in 2021 and completely reformed myself. My Nana sent me one of your videos about three months ago, completely unaware that I found your channel, and now we have a commonality 😂 She really adores you and your brand. She was so pleased with me the last time she saw me and saw my new found femininity and elegance through my new wardrobe and mannerisms. I took a lot of inspiration from you and went and bought cashmere‘s, wool, and silks. Now, every time I leave my house I’m dressed to perfection and I get so many compliments and respect. I don’t even wear trousers anymore, only skirts and dresses, and I even started wearing modest head coverings. The attention I get is overwhelmingly positive from women as well as men (yes they do still give compliments and open doors for women of elegance) and I feel so confident now dressing in a manner that is appropriate for business, casual, church, or brunch at all times. I now have a positive self image by looking presentable and elegant and feel even prettier 💁🏽♀️💜 Thank you 🙏🏽
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing my Elegant lady! I wish you the very best life has to offer❤
Well done !
Thank you really appreciate your video
"The rains in Spain are mainly in the plains..." Audrey Hepburn as Eliza Doolittle in My Fair Lady
It is true that if you dress & behave in the way you want to be treated, it will make a noticeable difference.
"You are addressed the way you dress." - definitely a quote to remember ❤️
Yes. however, we should not address someone poorly just because they are not properly dressed. Elegant ladies respect everyone no matter the attire.
Let’s just remember people who don’t dress properly for an occasion is lacking knowledge. We should address that with empathy or as an opportunity to educate with purest intentions and not as if the person is less deserving of human respect.
That quote stood out to me as well
@@alungakabuasa Beautifully said!!
So true
@@alungakabuasa you’re right
I am 76 years old. in a correct way, I wish I was 19 years old now. Your videos are eminently educational not just for the woman who wishes to have class and elegance but also for any real gentleman who wishes to be in the company of her grace. Thank you for the time and attention you share with so many who care about and respect your service.
Beautiful! Thank you lovely lady! I agree with everything you say! I have tried to live my life in a lady like manner as my dear mother instructed me. I am sorry to say that some women are not as fortunate, or didn't have anyone to show them or don't care nowadays. However you my dear are beautiful and refreshing and a joy to listen to. Many Thanks!
V True
Thanks for sharing this information .I would share this with my daughter too.
I am 19 years old,and your comment made me appreciate my passion to learn and be educated at a young age.
Thank you for creating such an interesting channel. Ever since I was in grade school I remember checking out almost every book dealing with etiquette. These books explained in great detail everything from the proper way to walk downstairs to how to set a dining table.
Finding your channel was like finding a dear friend with whom I lost contact.
I'm looking forward to enjoying future videos and I've already subscribed and hit the like and notification bell.
With warm regards.
I came from a poor family, yet my mother love to sew and made me the most beautiful clothes as a child and teenager, with very little money she took me to the ballet, to learn to ballroom dance, to go to art galleries and so on. My favourite thing she said to me is “first impressions count you can dress with style without much money and look well put together, have manners and kindness” everyone used to think we lived in a beautiful home, little did they know we were poor. I have continued to care about my grooming and presentation all my life, I also learned about etiquette which helped me refine myself. My mum had wise words. It’s easy to look good on a budget, so there are no excuses. Being a kind person with manners is free too
Thank you for such a great video, it reminded me of my wonderful wise mother.
Yes all you said is true. I remember I was homeless at one point, couch to couch; some nights in my car and people thought I was just living my best life because the way I presented myself but nope majority of those days I was sad and hungry lol.
@@erikathomas5801 that is amazing resilience to be able to be able to hold your head high and be your true elegant self whilst going through these times. We need to have that inner self respect to stay positive when deep down we are doing the best to thrive during tough times. I can relate to what you have been through. Thanks for sharing.
Your mother is a wonderful woman
@@professordumbledore369 thank you to all the wonderful mothers out there xxxxx
Your mom was a wonderful mother. My mom passed when I was seven. I had to teach myself everything I know. As you said the impressions matter a lot. I learned to look good with little money or nothing that I have. I taught myself to dress very well using cheap clothes. My classmates in boarding school used to think I was a selfish girl who didn’t want to share with them. They used to think I come from a rich family based on my appearance.
1. Dress well
2. Speak articulately, kindly and gracefully to others. No room for negativity
3. She is independent( Does not financially rely on your man, you deliberately have to take care of your bills)
4. You know when to talk and when to stay silent
5. You are kind and considerate of others' feeling
6.Don't idle away from your time(Make productive use of your time and follow through your goals)
7. High self-esteem ( You know your worth, you don't let your past, other people's view or opinion change you). Stay humble while being confident. Strive to be better each day.
8. She possess a self control
9. Your knowledge of current affairs (She follows global and local affairs around her)
10. You avoid emotional outbursts both online and offline
Thanks
Does not class have to be within oneself?
Tx you for taking time to post this. Greatly appreciated
Thannk YoUu & May God Richly Bless YoUu & your entire family!
I post lists from these posts as well!!!
I appreciate this so very much!.. cutting to-the-chase♥️♥️♥️💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@bonitabonita3431 🙏🙏 Amen, I receive it. May God abundant blessings be on you as well as your family too🙏
Hello, I am 72 years old but still want to improve myself. And you are just what I need to hear and see!
So Am I
This is just so inspiring! I feel like practicing my Christian values is what an elegant woman is!
Thank you 😊 💓 ☺️
I feel the same. It’s stunning how God’s way of suggested living shows up in women as elegance. We win on both sides.
I agree 😊
This is so true
Yes, it is. God’s standards should always be the first level of standards. However, some aspects of elegance don’t necessarily come as mandatory requirements for being a Christian, for example, table manners. So, see elegance as an extra level of standard.
I agree. I've seen elegant women in church. Some have their own careers, some are retired, and some are home taking care of their household. All of these women have wisdom and elegance. They're also humble.
I think also another one is to be discreet, not tell everyone your personal business or about your life. Just my thoughts.
Thank you for your videos!!!
@@reneeparsons Good idea!! Journal!
Great advice, only wish I'd heard it growing up!
You are truly a woman of elegance and class. I just found this video today at the age of 70! As a retired educator, I can only imagine what a beautiful world we would have if your videos were a full on course that could be taught to girls in schools all over the word. Kids today need to feel their self worth, and to enforce it with good manners and concern form others. Thank you for providing these lessons. You exude poise and grace.
This video is almost 17 min but better than hours of the most lectures. Thank you ❤
Agree!! I enjoy watching it too.
Absolutely!
I love this! I wish that etiquette and manners could be taught in schools as a requirement (not for a one day or week) along with real life skills such as personal hygiene, financial skills, gardening, taking care of small animals, volunteering in the community, simple cooking skills, and safety in various situations. Yes people may say these are things the parents or caregivers should instill in children, yeah but many don’t. I believe these are the most important skills to build strength and character in becoming a young adult and will carry a young person farther than what is currently taught in schools curriculum.
So true, and sometimes parents do not instill because they do not have such knowledge to impart.
YES. School curriculums need to be updated for the dealing with the real, modern world. A lot of parents aren't teaching their kids how to.
Still ready to learn but from where ?
I agree with you 100%. So many important and needed knowledge that can be prioritised in teaching little children at school than teaching them about sex and other vulgarities.
I agree with you 100%!! These things seem to be currently lacking in society for whatever reason. They are essential skills and character attributes that would greatly improve people’s lives and society as a whole if they were taught in school, as unfortunately they are not always taught at home.
INSPIRED! I had a successful 20+ years in tech sales & management. My grandson was born unhealthy, and his mother passed away. I’ve spent over 4 years @ home caring for children. In the next twelve months I will return to career mode. I am 50 feeling as though I’ve lost many social skills as an adult. Thank you for your inspiration and reminders in being a lady. I’m gearing up!
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Vivian! Persevere in this work! Actually - publish these notes! As a black man I cannot contain my delight in hearing such refreshing teaching and example. Every blessing!!! Shine on!!!😊
I love being feminine. I keep things together...for myself as well as for my husband. Thank you for your helpful videos.
These are the golden rules I wanted my mother to teach me. This video was such an unexpected surprise! Made my evening. Thank you
This is emotional intelligence at its finest. Gentlemen, we must secure and protect such ladies at all costs. When she speaks, we cannot tell the color of her skin from the majestic vowels within her wit. She is a phenomenal woman. The priceless kind I predict
Well done thats class for you.
You sir are an absolute king❤
@@samanthaemm3854 It takes royalty to perceive royalty, princess.
Mmmmmm I know many elegant women who are provided for by men.elegant is a personality translated into physical appearance.
Bravo dear Lady. I entirely agree with you.
I am 76 years old and I simply love you and what you say.
Thank you with all my heart.
I love this message and I truly Agreed to everything you said! I am a 62 year old woman and I have always value my self as a Classy Lady!
But let's not be rude happy father's day ❤
I am becoming more elegant, mysterious, and learning every day.
SOOOO refreshing to see a woman of the WORLD who is able to connect with the world. Such important, global advice. Thank you!!!!! You highlight it is not about a brand label, cultural background etc., it is about presentation, speaking language correctly (whatever language!) - wherever and whenever you are. Dignity. Truly international, and from my experience intercultural - wherever you are or where you came from.
Also you speak with humility and confidence
I just came across your channel. As a man I am so blessed and impressed with your very excellent teaching on a subject that is almost completely lost in this generation. So very, very blessed to hear!!!
If I may say this you reflect perfectly the subject and it is obvious you practice what you preach!!!
TC
Hey darling! Much love.Being Elegant is not only by dressing but by manners also.
Good morning
This was stated in the video 3:15 she was specific. Happy vibes 💕💕💕🌴🇺🇸
But she include everything
She said it over and over how to speak and all that listen again
Manners - exactly what she's promoting
All good points. I strive daily to be a woman of elegance. I am financially dependent on my husband though, it brings him great joy to make the living. I keep our home spotless and do many little things for him that he enjoys. It's old fashioned and we love it.
Oh well, no elegance for you then! 😂😂😂😂
I m exactly the same. A house wife and a full time mom😂
I'm a teacher and my husband is a physician. I am proud to be a kept wife! My husband loves it as do I.
@@monica1047 that’s wonderful.
@@cherkhawa I love it. I live in a small town in Manitoba and there are lots of stay at home moms here.
I am also from the uk and am listening and nodding. I was blessed to be raised to use good manners and am saddened by how these manners seem to be disappearing in general.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and wisdom.
I agree. It seems people don’t care much about good manners and that’s why it’s important we are bold enough to keep talking about it.
My mother taught me "Good manners and etiquette never go out of style."
It would be nice if you could do an episode for the gentlemen. Chivalry and etiquette on part of the well mannered male are also appreciated. I.e opening doors for the lady, and standing up when a lady enters a room. May be old fashioned, but just my preference.
Thank you! Woman Of Elegance. I agree with " You Have No Room For Negativity". " You Don't Entertain Negativity". I appreciate this video. I love how you explain how a woman of Elegance should act accordingly and how she treats herself and others. I am learning so much from this video. I consider myself a work in progress. Everything you are saying in this video is 100% correct. I will subscribe to this your channel so I can learn more to become a woman of Elegance and a woman of God also. Thank you. Blessings sis!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊
I would love to hear this every morning after I woke up as a reminder
Control yourself and obviously your appetite 💯
I was about 40 years old when a dear friend said to me" never forget you are a lady her words were more precious to me than gold".
I needed to hear these points of a classy Lady again because sometimes we forget who we are...Thank you ☺️
I'm with you sis❤. Thumbs up. Can't be stated otherwise.
Our sisters need to know a woman does not need to go almost naked next to a well dressed up male to be elegant. Stop selling yourself cheap to gain attention.
I am glad I found you because I am an elegant woman with class and very independent.
Watching you on a daily basis is so soul edifying.It is becoming a special kind of therapy for me enjoying my level up journey.Thankz Vivi💐💐💐
The concept of inner and outer elegance dovetails beautifully with the path to mindful and minimal living. You articulate so well how elegance does not have to equate to vanity. It’s a teaching tool, a reflection of higher values. Thank you for your message 💕
Very informative .THANKS.
I'm so happy to see you shoot this video with natural hair. There is a misconception that weaves and wigs are what makes us classy. Thank you Vivian..
I appreciate that you encourage women to treat others with respect! Thank you!
The way people act around 'free' food is amazing. I work as a catering server and we often do promotional type events where there are free nibbles. The behaviour can be unbelievable.
You should see my coworker when there is leftover food from a catered lunch or extra donuts from a breakfast meeting. She’s gross.
UNLESS YOU ARE LYING, BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT CRAZY TO WRITE SOMETHING LIKE THAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA. IF I WERE YOU, I WOULD THINK TWICE BEFORE I MADE SUCH DECISION. (JUST AN ADVICE)
I totally agree with you on point number 10. Rather focusing improving ourselves than focus on online dramas. Your video is really an inspiration. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much for all your advice and reminders. I recommend your channel since I've gotten such wisdom and knowledge. Keep up the good work!
I'm certainly uplifted, motivated and rebooted to update some areas in my life. Eligence is how I live; however, there is room for improvements. You have helped me to do that. Thank you
I'm glad I've found your channel. Such a good reminders for us ladies/woman to act rightfully towards our mannerism and daily catch up in life. You embodied a positive manner which is supposed to be a standard of a woman for being confident in a pros and cons situation in this cruel world. I definitely agreed with all the classy talks on this topic. I will follow it and keep it reminded as 6 of the qualities I believe are already on my system. So furthermore to expand and generate the other 4 remaining so that i can consider myself a classy woman of my own. Thanks to you and God bless❤
First and foremost, LOVE the hair. Thanks again for such a powerful message!!!
Thank you so much for this opening video to your work. Great inspiration for improvements I can manifest. Best blessings to you and all here, what a wonderful world of elegant ladies and gentlemen!
I love how informative and encouraging you are.
I will definitely work on my discipline and am glad to say I already exhibit some of the traits you describe.
Thank you for your advice.
Thank you so much Viviane for this!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
"You cannot buy style...." true, best expression I heard from someone
Yes! This is an evidence that I am indeed a classy woman. I am proud to say a 10/10 classy lady! Wow! I am an amazing classy woman
Modest also?
Thankyou dear Vivian! God Bless you!
Hello Vivian! Thank you so much for the wonderful and powerful Tips, keep up the good work! love your hairstyle.
What a wonderful video! I greatly appreciate your 10 points and I am sharing your video with my network. The world would be a much better place with the principles taught here. With a tear of happiness, I thank you so very much.
Thanks for teaching us to be kind and more loving toward ourselves!! Let's be all a classy lady
Absolutely correct!! Thank you for reminding me of the elegant woman I am , sometimes life is challenging but I am me!
I can’t believe how many points you mention that were 100% , thank you for sharing.🙏🙏❤
Thank you so much for all your teachings, I'm glad I found your channel.
I'm so grateful I found your channel ☺️.
I have gotten immense value from the content in your videos.
Your videos have been very helpful in making me become a better and more elegant person🥰.
Thank you very much and well done😊.
I am so glad to see you again, Vivian!
Watching you say all of these makes me believe I'm on the right track. Thanks ma Vivienne for this detailed video.
Excellent video Vivienne. Thank You. ❤
What a wonderful video! You are truly providing much needed sets of values and skills. Good on you! Keep strong and carry on!
Thank you Miss V
This is truly amazing! Notes that are useful for everyday life, every woman must watch this.
You are beautiful and brilliant. This is a 21st Century version of being the markers of a CLASSY LADY. You communication style is clear, succinct and authentic! You are simply wonderful!
I'm so grateful that I came across your video. I will not only subscribe to your channel, but I will immediately start to apply all of the tips/suggestions/advice to my daily life. Thank you, classy elegant woman. 💖
Your presence and eloquence are a testament to your elegance. I enjoy your content. It’s both self-elevating and altruistic.
This is one of the things I regret is no longer a basic requirement for ourselves and from other people beginning with our politicians and people on our TV and media. The shouting and arguing is mighty near a brawl sometimes and cuts out respect for our decision makers and influencers. Those were the good old days when reasoned behaviour was pretty much the norm. Thank you for so charmingly advising us to remember these golden points to help us present ourselves and deal with others. Maybe it will be catching and become fashionable again.
Sad truth there
I am glad to have you back Lady Vivian ❤
I love this video! Everything she said exudes my personality and characteristics. So inspirational for women who are classy such as myself.
Eloquently articulated ! Very much needed to impart on women! Thank you for your efforts to help women!
Peace within you is world ☮️ is in progress.- 🌸Dee Sticco
Excellent post!!! We need so much more of this in the modern day world!! Please keep up your valuable work!! God bless you! 💕
You are my virtual mentor, Vivienne. 🌹✨ Wonderful as always.
I'm so glad I bumped into your channel. Wisdom lives here for sure.
So agree with all you said. When I grew up all young ladies were taught these social graces. It was a more elegant yet simpler time. It didn’t necessarily
Require a lot of money just more elegant manner in which to live. I so enjoyed your video and will continue to follow you. You are the epitome of an elegant lady.
Beautifully said. I love your choice of words and how you present them. You are indeed an elegant woman
Thank you so much, served as reminder, loved this video 😊💕
Thank you very inspiring to me, I had a stroke 3 yrs ago, it seems I've lost most of my elegance. You have helped me greatly I appreciate you and your obedience to yourself to carry out this mandate.
I love how we are able to speak on the different aspects of elegance and our thoughts still align. Whenever I listen to you, I get reassured that I’m thinking in the right direction and putting out the right information🙂. I also come here to remind myself of the truth.❤
I had to start this again. Love what you said so much! Pointe number two. Especially vulgarity. Love cherish people and stay clear of those toxic , negative people that bring you down.
This is my second time seeing you and you have great words of wisdom.
Me too number 2 I like
So beautifully stated. Thank you so much.
You look beautiful! Thank you for the video and encouragement.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. The video is really helpful.
I found your channel by a random suggestion, and I’m so glad I did! What a refreshing video, God bless you, as you encourage women to step it up❤ and exude loveliness instead of “hotness”
Thanks Vivian for these videos. Have watched and listened in to many and am learning and relearning. Be blessed and keep going.
I really appreciate you and your message thank you for the info 🙏🏼❤️
Your hair style looks very nice. Thank you for all your videos
Thank you for such a lovely message in this era to understand femininity and elegance as a confident and positive trait!
Very well stated! Thank you so much for sharing!
Hey V
Thanks for the information its worth it
Thank you Viviane, your natural hair is beautiful
I just found this channel. This is the second session that I've listened to and I Love it...thank God for you and your ministry. The young ladies of today need a lighthouse of Elegance! That is you!
Such a thoughtful and helpful video! Thank you for posting!
I love your channel! You have definitely increased my path to elegance to a different level!
Love love love your content! It's not easy being different and a classy lady when classlessness gets praise and attention. I have always had a problem with watching trash TV and shows that are completely mindless. We can all be entertained, but once we start talking about people on TV like we know them and want to analyze their silly behavior, it goes too far. These should be the basics for all women, but sadly not all of us were taught these things (I was, by my mother and grandfather). I need to find classy ladies in my area to spend time with. We are a rare breed indeed!
This is so true. The important thing is to always stay try to yourself and the standards you live by. It’s a blessing to be able to identify that there’s a problem with being on the other side.
Vivian so very beautiful lady .blessed with wisdom
Thank you for this insightful data.
Good advice to all.
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Dear Vivian, Thank you for your lovely teaching. These matters should be taught in the school. Blessings
This is an invaluable message and excellent advice! I agree that this is the way for women to act and present themselves. In this day and age I’ve been so disappointed to see the ways that women behave and present themselves to the world. Media is setting a horrible example and young girls especially are being influenced in sinful and dangerous ways. Thank you for this amazing video, it’s very inspiring and wonderful. 🙏🏻💕🌸💐🥰 Always stay classy!
It's been a while so good to see you again , welcome back with great tips as always
Thank you kindly for this post. Very well thought out and easy to follow advice.
Thank you,...refreshing and updating and checkng the boxes!
I love your advice on kindness, responsibility and discipline!! I’m in the process of making a lot of changes in becoming more disciplined myself.😊❤️
Great guidance. Being disciplined and mindful of what you deliver from the mind, words and actions will always take you to great heights. ❤💐❤
This is one of the best videos with advice. You are an excellent elegant guru. Thank you. God bless you.
I stumbled over this video at a time I am almost losing it all to being a lousy, abusive, carless .......
This got to me timely.
Thank you so much.