Hello Aluxers! This is the most controversial series we've done so far. Get ready for the people with the pitch forks. If you haven't watched our LOW VALUE WOMAN video: th-cam.com/video/JTDismMBKdQ/w-d-xo.html
Theres nothing controversial about it, It's just silly! Most people know value is subjective not objective. What is deemed as 'of value' to one person, could be a huge liability to another.
@@dillydallydollo saying that value is subjective is absurd. Value comes from UTILITY, SCARCITY, DEMAND and the extent other will got to in order to acquire it. Once again, you are conflicting your personal experience with statements that are statistically true at scale.
Just found out my mother has all these qualities.... she'as been with my dad since last 23 years, and they're in a happy marriage....she keeps the whole family intact, she's inspiring, caring and oh God the list is endless..... She's definitely a high value woman!!
While i agree these are all high value traits, it is very difficult to go 15/15. A high value woman, is the best version of herself that works to better herself and her loved ones.
You forgot low body count as well. It also lowers your value person if you have a high body count. It means she don’t respect herself and get tossed like a ragdoll….It apply to men as well.
1. You are an asset to your partner and to those in your circle 2. Natural beauty and fitness 3. Ability to raise strong children and flourishing family 4. Comforting character and guiding light 5. Youth 6. She is desired by many high value men for marriage 7. Irreproachable reputation 8. Visibility and fame 9. Exuberant and inspiring 10. Self aware, discerning and she knows she is enough 11. Surrounded by high value women 12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career 13. Can both lead and support 14. In control of her mind and emotions 15. Loyal and focused on the long term goals
Kevin Samuels laid this out 2yrs ago. Alux literally stole every last one from him. Bc he's dead 3 months now, it's free game to repackage it for primary white audience as a "new concept"
#16 Bonus: Who’s valuing you? I remembered the example with the violinist at the metro station who wasn’t given any attention by the passers by. In the evening he played for million dollars audience. It’s also about where you are positioned. When you’re down everyone thinks you’re worth less then them … 😉
One of the saddest things I see all the time is the rejected “first wife” who no longer fits her husband’s vision of his lifestyle now working at a menial job. They find themselves selling cosmetics, hostessing, or working in reception. Jobs that normally are entry level for someone half their age. They all have the same haunted look like they just don’t understand why they can’t have the life they planned anymore. My dad saw many of these in the workforce. He made us promise that we would have our own career and ability to make money. Not because we need the money but because we need to know we can do it ourselves.
shit imma dude and that's my biggest fear, mf 42 this November and god its either thr front of a bus or success because I refuse to be under $30k at 50
@@danielland3767 damn man that's rough. Is that average where you live? Even entry level where I am on a bachelor degree us usually near 30k, at the very least. Where are you looking for success, what region?
@@danielland3767 So true. It used to be just women but men are seeing it happen too. That’s why you need multiple streams of income and passive income. Even if you get that great job, the industry can change and suddenly you are out with no skills anybody wants. That happened where I live. Oil and gas used to be the top career path for wealth. Then the government got obsessed with climate change and decided fossil fuels are evil. Suddenly, petroleum engineers, geologists, and others are serving coffee at Starbucks. Until the Starbucks closes.
A guy's wife crashed her car last month and now he has to leave work early to pick up the kids from school - they live in a suburb 30 mins out of town. She is a housewife and he works. Can she not get a Uber to the school pick up the kids and then Uber back home with them? Yes some men are evil but some women end up in those jobs because they get too complacent in marriage. A lot of the hard working men I know with young families are stretched too thin by either incompetent, lazy or complacent women. What do you think those men will do once the kids turn 18 and leave the house?
@@josetheman239 I agree. But you also need to know how this happened. In 1963, Nelson Rockefeller gave a speech to a large group of business leaders. He said that they had a plan to substantially increase the tax base. They would create discontent in the American married women. Then the middle class women would go to work increasing the money to be taxed. They would higher lower class women to raise their kids and clean their houses. These women would also pay tax. In ten years, they would increase the tax base by nearly 50%. The new middle class women wouldn’t have to be paid as much as a family man entering the workforce. In ten years, they would accomplish this goal. But as the system moves to a two earner base, inflation would erode the buying power of the new money coming into the house. But the taxes would continue to rise. It worked. It was never about equality but about more taxes for the government.
Low value woman, alone and my time has passed. I've never been loved or cherished by anyone. At least I love and cherish myself. Wish there had been content like this when I was young. Unresolved trauma but at least I can work on that. That will be my focus going forward and a gift to myself with the years I have left. This has been an eye opener.
Oh Gosh Stop That!!! This vid is sh*t. Go out get some nice food, a good laugh and a Zumba class to lift chemicals in your brain! You’re as much worth as the Best Of Us!! 💪🏽🪩 💃🏼
A girl may be perceived to have many men wanting her, but most won't commit to her (or marry her) or see her past the bedroom. this is what most women misunderstood and over-evaluate themselves.
A high value woman is a woman who understands herself and who does not feel as though she is more worthy than others. It's a woman who shares her light and who is purely aware of her purpose. She is a woman who understands the essence of a woman, which is being a nurturer but also who comprehends that there are times of vulnerability and with being vulnerable it doesn't reveal a lack of strength. She is a woman who enjoys life and understands that there will be some bad days in between and that is perfectly okay.
WRONG.. High value Woman means, she knows the price of her VAGINA AND the PRICE OF EVERY HOUR OF SEX. YES, VALUE MEANS MONEY. and you asked me as a Woman, I knew the price of my OWN VAGINA. not because of WHO THE MEN WHO TASTED IT which is, it also counts. VIRGINITY HAS A PRICE TOO. WIDOWS HAS A PRICE TOO. SINGLE MOM'S PUSSY, AND HER CHILD HAS A PRICE TOO. RAPED WOMEN HAS A PRICE AS COLLTERAL DAMAGED. LIVED-IN/ SEPARATED HAS A PRICE TOO; COMMON LAW MARRIAGE means money. marriage women vs annulment fees and including paying the HUSBAND/S to signed the paper has a price. sex prostitutes has a PRICE. COLLEGE STUDENTS HAS A PRICE COLEGE DEGREE HAS A PRICE AS YOU AS A MAN: HOW MUCH IS YOU?
Overall good comment, but the fact is not every woman is stereotypical, and I'm not just referring to gender variant or lesbian women. I don't consider myself the nurturing type, and that shouldn't be a requirement to being considered "high value." We all have gifts and should be generous with them, but we shouldn't be expected to be nurturing if that is not our nature (yes, I'm child-free by choice).
I already have a high value woman. She supports me every day. We laugh together, we sweat together, we plan and work together. She is an incredible force multiplier. 11 years going strong.
I was a 36 year old single mom of 1 and couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong and where all the men were.. i came across videos like this and apparently I was the problem.. now I have worked on myself and still working on myself battling this ‘independent woman don’t need no man’ mentality… it will take time but so far I met my husband this year and got married.. it is possible don’t give up❤️🙏 My advice , watch videos and get more in touch with your femininity and it will let go of that masculine energy, also drop the F boys and stop entertaining them, tell men what you REALLY want and stick with it, don’t change your mind if something doesn’t work, that’s how I met my husband I was straight up told him I wanted marriage and he did too and we were friends for a year first then dated and married this year, it is possible! ❤️🙏
i admire your honesty and humility in sharing this comment about yourself. wish more women were like this; the world would be a better place for it. Thank you.
Well, I flunked this high-value woman list. No elite family, social skills are okay, and no longer youthful. Yet I know I have the grace and maturity to understand problems; I listened with intent to others' issues, and know when to cut it short. I speak well, no slang. I am not wealthy, but I know my financial parameters. Where do I fit?
You are enough and highly valuable productive member of society. The video is for “billionaires” which is shallow in itself as it places more value on money and status and divide people by economic class.
("YOU ARE ENOUGH!") I have a degree in humanities. People come from Various backgrounds so whether you are high value women or low value women . "YOU ARE ENOUGH!"
This looks like a list written by a 20 years old guy in Malesia looking for a wife material to be birthing his kids... Don't forget that there are a lot of women in high society (Europe, USA) who are successful, gorgeous, live lives on their own terms, and choose not to be reduced to birthing and milking themselves but nurture their dreams and their potential. Also, most of them don't have these attributes but do have many other ones that are more valued in that class/group.
Know your faults inside and out so you can work on them or keep them under control. Know your strengths inside and out so you can keep them strong and know when and where to use them.
I met a girl I used to know long ago, she didn't look as pretty as she used to be but when she mentioned she goes to a prison to read to the illiterate... Made me think she's really something.
1) you are an asset to your partner and society . 2) Natural beauty and fitness. 3)The ability to raise strong childern. 4)comforting character and guiding light. 5)youth. 6)She is desired by many high value men for marriage. 7)Reputation matters to her. 8) Visibility and fame 9) Exuberant and inspiring 10)Self aware deserevant she knows she is enough. 11)Surrounded by high quality woman. 12)She comes from an elite family or has attained an elite status 13)Can both lead and support. But not at same time . 14)In control of her mind and emotions. 15)loyal and focused on long term goals. *(The ability to hold high value over time)*
Compare themselves to others. 2. They never put others down. 3. Things for the wrong reasons. 4. Never give up on their dreams. 5. Let others control them. 6. Because they are beautiful and rich. 7. Never stop improving themselves. 8. They never forget their accomplishments. 9. Never forget their values and morals. 10. Never give up on themselves. 11. Never ignore their intuition. 12. They take care of people They love 13. Never lose themselves in relationships. 14. Never let money define them. 15. Are their own best friends.
I got arrested while attending Auburn University for public intoxication, after my (also) drunk date drove me to his place, after I repeatedly told him to take me home, and I refused to go inside. He left me out in the cold, without my purse or things, temps dropping, and I got arrested trying to just get inside an unlocked car. The next day, my huge younger brother drove FIVE HOURS to Auburn, just to kick his azz. LMAO. I LOVE him for that. (I didn't let him, lol. When the guy brought my stuff to me, I made my brother stay in my room until he was gone. That dude wasn't worth the murder charge. 🤣)
What if she is innocent of the crimes she is accused or convicted? I work in the justice system of my country and I knew people that were serving years in prison when the truth came out, they were released and the state paid them damages. However, I doubt the money they receieved wiped out the trauma and the relationships they lost. No system is perfect and these cases are rare, but not rare enough. Also, gossip by jealous men and women may damage someone's reputation if people believe everything they hear without checking the stories- one doesn't need those gullible people!
Watched the low value video to keep myself in check, this is to keep myself on track & what I should continue to strive for ❤️❤️ May all the ladies watching take this and use it!!!
Don't let a video dictate your value or worth. Most of the ladies she mention got cheated on and left behind. So all that high value crap still didn't work.
So you basically took every major talking point from Kevin Samuels and The Crimson Cure, as well as many others in the manosphere, and particularly the black manosphere, and compiled it into a single video. Congrats.
🤣🤣 Basically. But these things are pretty standard across the board for men and women. Basically, traditional cultures breed men and women like this. This is how my family raised all of us to be, and they aren’t from America. All my American friends from good backgrounds had the same upbringing, regardless of race. If you attend prep school, for example, your educators help mold you to pursue and fit these standards at as young an age as possible. Many girls I went to school with were doctors, attorneys, educators, etc before 30. I have guy friends who were in position or close enough to being able to afford SAHWs around or a little after 30. KS was sharing things with viewers who don’t come from families or circles who teach these things. I wasn’t a fan, but I give him that credit. The stuff he mentioned was stuff you’re supposed to be taught by your parents, because only your family will be that candid and honest with you.
I would just add these few soft social skills 1.fear of God/moral compass, 2. has integrity, 3. treats others with respect irregardless to their position in society (golden rule).
The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extent) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
Men have a biological clock too. Sperm morphology. Two heads, no tails etc. That also starts at 30 for a lot of men. A lot of men Also start to deal with erectile dysfunction around that time as well.
Well men don’t en masse. For women their is a definitive clock that starts opposite of 35 yo. In general the clock for men starts later and does not have a definitive drop off until mid to late 40s.
"Many of the great leaders in the future for humanity will have to be women. It is their destiny. It is what they must do. If this is denied, then humanity will not progress. It will remain captive to history, to tradition, to conflict and war. Being providers and maintainers, women are more given to establishing peace and cooperation. In a traditional sense, they have to make families work, they have to hold families together, they have to take care of people directly, intimately. Do you see the advantages here?" A quote from _- The Age of Women -_ a teaching received by Marshall Vian Summers.
Thanks for this. I have come to appreciate that all the citizens of the world must be encouraged to reach their full potential, for if they do not, all humanity is the poorer for it.
I so love this. Thank you. It totally validates all my views and ambitions. One of the pitfalls of being a HVW is when you’re around people who do not understand your standards or rules for yourself. I’ve been told I can appear bitchy when in a pizza shop at 2am that caters to the after bar crowd…in those moments I’m doing my best to be poised and patient but my patience runs low in a situation like that. I’m always glad to hear the truth in these videos. Last week I was a little nervous about the low value video because I’m an only child from a middle class family who appreciates vision boards. Ha! Thankfully I have no similarities to any of the other 14 on that list. I’m all HVW, thankfully, and where I fall a bit short I’m actively working on it. I’m always looking to improve. This channel is great for that, thank you! ❤️☺️🙏🏻
That sounds like a juicy rationalization - poised in a 2am pizza parlor annoyed by drunks, then relieved that you're not LVW because "you" checked 14 boxes. Sounds like you're on the right track but breathe, and accept no one is perfect....continue to be better every day. Good luck.....you're well on your way!
I equate a HVW with someone who can show compassion, love and kindness towards others. I think most people are evolving and must seek validation from self over others. That self validation is the true power to change yourself into a HVW. Good luck to all.
Fitness falls under good health. I’d rather know someone practices a healthy lifestyle instead of focusing on their looks. Many model-esque women can’t run half a mile. Even more smoke to stay skinny!
Caterina Sforza, Catherine the Great, Simone de Beauvoir, Lissa Fonssagrieve, Gloria Swanson, Katherine Hepburn, Marlene Dietrich, Princess Margaret of England, Katherine Graham, Lady Diana Spencer, Kate Duchess of Cambridge,Tina Brown, Meryl Streep, Anna Wintour and many more- whom i consider to be women of HIGH VALUE, of substance and of grace.
HVW and loved by a HVM. I feel very fortunate, sometimes feeling undeserving of my status, but realized it's our values that elevates us to our full potential.
I am a HVW. It feels really good to know I am not alone and there are women out there who share the same philosophies as described in the video. Would love to connect with atleast a woman who is like me. Loved the video Alux ❤️
I'm not implying you're not hv although that's usually decided by people around you. Similarly men who are Alpha & Masculine don't assume they are, they are just themselves. Have a wonderful day.
Hi, I am a mature HVW. I have been married for 29 yrs, my adult children have very fulfilled lives and I enjoy spending time with them. My husband and I enjoy each other, have accomplished a lot, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. My children and friends have suggested we write a book on parenting and relationships. I would love to connect with other high value women too. ⭐️
@@anipopescu Thanks I know there were so many screaming about the video yesterday about lvw. There are good women and men everywhere they find each other. By simply being themselves. I've dated women that could easily be models. Coming from a quality family definitely has its benefits. Few people can mould themselves into high quality MASCULINE men and Feminine (not feminist) women. Have a good day ma'am.
@@anipopescu You may like this as well. A woman that is really in love with you doesn't want to go on a "girls trip". If she really loves you she wants nothing more than to be trapped by you freedom and space only comes from the mouths of women with a foot out the fucking door so if you want to go to Vegas and go do girls night and all this other stuff that's absolutely fine do it. I think the man should say that's fine I thought you took us more seriously and if you want to go on a girl's trip so be it I will not get mad I will not cry or get angry with you because I will never show you emotion but I do not date women that I take this seriously that want to go on girls trips you can go if you want to I'll let you go but I cannot take you seriously any longer this is a serious relationship. Any woman that loves a man has actually no problem with that in fact she will put you in front of her friends and her family so when they come after you they they will flat out take up for you and then they'll come back you and be like I can't believe my friend Sarah wants to go to girls trip obviously she doesn't really love her man. All you need to do is be loyal, beautiful and love me that's it I'm going to work and pay every single Bill and be the emotional Rock you and my children need you have nothing else to do my job is to make your life much better and easier and to make sure that you have no regrets or remorse and nothing in this world to be concerned about I am the hero of your life and you will have no problem telling the world to kick rocks. Quote from Justin Waller
17. She cooks very delicious. 18. Monthly income expenses budget. 19. Well organizer of home interior. 20. High empath to all family members. 21. She knows first aid. 22. She is a good listener. 23. She is aware of her rights and duties. 24. She keeps herself clean and hygiene. 25. She has a smiling face maximum times. 26. She has a good sense of dressing skill. 27. She knows various kitchen hacks. 28. She is so brave enough that she can jump into a fighting to protect herself and the family. 29. She encourages other family members to strives for a good life. Thanks for reading.
#3. Ability to raise strong children and a flourishing family 👨👩👧👦 “My mother TRIED to be the best she could to provide for me and my siblings. It was SO DAMN HARD because my father was out on the road as a OTR Trucker and A LOT was placed on my shoulders to help my moth with my siblings. As things progressed into High School and we all we’re graduating and growing up it was easier yeah to be self-sufficient and we all started having our FIRST jobs and making our own personal money. And learning how to manage money and paying regular bills while still living with our parents. I definitely wasn’t ready to leave the nest of my parents yet because I was in my partying stage of my life. 19- 22 and it didn’t last long till I became a father at 24 and my partying phase was DONE 😣😖 I had to buy diapers and clothes and baby formula instead of things I needed for myself. I’ve had to pawn my personal belongings to pay for more diapers because at times I was UNEMPLOYED and shit was VERY BAD, VERY HARD and it was just TOO MUCH to live with. That was in 2015 .. it’s 2022 and these last few years it’s been REBUILDING and RESTRUCTURING my life by getting HELP and not being afraid to ask for it. My mother and father FAILED ME to be who I should have been destined to become BUT I just started my NEW CHAPTER in 2020 by starting a NEW START company and getting into Government Contracts to become a Professional Government corporation contractor in the small business private business sector. I know where MY LIFE is FINANCIALLY going and my children are growing up FAST now and their seeing it and I can tell that “I’m Their Hero”
Wow you're on it. Great inspiration for those that need to hear that finding new ways to activate positive change. Love your honesty and courage to get where you are today. Best wishes for your future🌼
Amal Clooney, Grace Kelly and Monica Bellucci. A high value woman is cultured without being pretentious, takes care of her health and is beautiful in a sophisticated way. She is feminine with excellent manners, can hold a compelling conversation and is a committed spouse and mother. She is at home anywhere in the world and can move seamlessly in a wide range of social circles. She is a complimentary presence to the gentleman of her choosing. She commands respect, but does not Inspire fear and is never overbearing.
While the video about low value women was constructive in nature.... This list somehow feels more opinionated than factual. A high value woman is high value based on what she brings to the table. While motherhood and beauty can be of value to one person, ambition, maturity (age wise) can be an attribute for another.
I love alux content but this video is an absolute fail. I remember they have done smh similiar to this before.. think 'signs of lady',Gentleman etc. But this one is disappointing
@@maryfiero8122 yeah beacause video doesn't show feminist version empowered women .... And every women should not belong tothat version ... This are major facts ...not how you want it to be
@@TriStarIII Agreed, those are just some signs/traits. However, this video seems to be propagating a template for women. I won't be surprised if Alux comes up with a new product called 10 day's course on "How to be an HVI - High value Individual" (Of course after the male version of this series is out) This is similar to what they did for crypto currency last year. Just seems like some ground work for the product. Would love to be wrong though.
What I do not like about many content creators is stealing ideas and talking points from originators and repackaging them off as your own. Makes videos without giving credit to the source or where you got them from.
*A high-value woman really knows her worth and sets clear boundaries. Her confidence and independence aren’t about being distant - they're about knowing what she deserves and bringing that energy into all areas of her life!*
I think there are so many things wrong with this video. The things said in this video contribute to an additional imposition of gender roles on women - a men's idea of a 'perfect lady'.
Something is wrong with you for sure. Men has a "perfect lady" in their mind and Women has a "perfect man" in their mind. When both of them find each other, thats how a new generation is born. PS: Thats how you also is born and now commenting in this video
That’s literally who the list represents, would it make sense when doing a documentary on a dairy farm that they ask about the horses? It is men that establish what is valuable in a heterosexual woman. It’s foolish to think otherwise.
Hilarious! This should be titled "Hunting for unicorns". I discovered at a young age that looking for a "high-value woman" is a pipe dream. I'm not disrespecting women. Our society has set an impossibly high bar for both sexes. Instead of working myself into an early grave trying to get over that hurdle, I chose to interact with many women with a variety of backgrounds, experiences, styles and appearances. Enjoy the best that each has to offer! I realize that pendulum swings both ways, however, and when the woman finally realizes I'm not going to reach the potential she initially (and mistakenly) anticipated, she starts looking for a way to move on. Instead of a bad breakup I bring it up in a private moment and simply ask if she is ready to move on. Sadly, some feel that a bad relationship is better than no relationship and hold on a bit too long but most see the wisdom in the moment and agree that going our separate ways is best. Almost all of my "breakups" ended amicably and I am still on friendly terms with many of my former girlfriends.
I'm low value and that's ok. My inner circle is my husband and my plants. Reputation: Trash, Cuteness: a 5, Body: a 9, I'm mid-level sociable. I like hanging out in my bed 🙂.
If you love your life then great ...but if you love your comfort zone then not really ... This ppl r just making you feel good ..thats like saying you are obese and you will die in your 30s 40s ...but thats okay love your body as the way it is
That sounds more like normal not low, remember 80% are normal valued, the low 10 are low values. So don’t be so harsh on yourself, acknowledging these things ads value by self awareness. just stating you are high value like the other girls in this comments is like putting a blindfold on and ignoring reality and areas of improvement. These are usually the people that always victimize themselves because people do not tell them they are perfect as they want to believe. So congrats for improving yourself!
High value women is the one who have Self respect Emotional intelligence Analytical mind Stay away from drama and toxic people Take good care of herself Clean, organised and presentable Respect people and their time Curious Take responsibility for their mistakes Educating themselves Keep in touch with positive people Etc
A high-value woman maintains her standards, doesn't settle for less, has MASSIVE self-respect and self-dignity, AND does not allow random people, especially males, to walk all over her.
I don't value spending much time with people who don't value depth and wisdom from life experience, but focus on outer beauty or fake personality projection. It's also important to put your best foot forward, but most spiritually perceptive people find it to be a waste of their valuable time to spend time with people whose values are mainly material focussed. It is extremely disturbing to see the world go through this unawareness of the deeper self, but it also makes me realise the reality for the majority in the world is that they cannot see into another's spirit like I am naturally gifted to; and therefore they see only with their eyes. I had to realise that there is a way the majority thinks and values, because of their disconnect from source. So from that point of view I understand the shallow behaviour of people and i have had to learn to have patience with the viewpoint of the majority of beings who do not respect the journey of the soul. I absolutely love being older now and feel so much better about myself and pleased with how i have grown; and treasure all the experiences I have been through, both positive and negative, as it has helped me develop my understanding and compassion. I wouldn't want to be my 25 year old self. Even if it meant that others thought better of me, or I was more attractive and desired. There's a whole other world inside of me that is more valuable to me than ever, and maybe if someone else with similar values could see it, there would be an appreciative connection, but for those whose eyes are closed to the spirit, I do not consider their influence in my world very valuable and I carry on being selective of quality rather than quantity of numbers in my connection with people and my impact on the world around me. If a person has the ability to first understand what value is, and can appreciate another being for their uniqueness, then only you can even begin to love. I never got married because I felt overwhelmed by the amount of craze about me and the emphasis people placed on outer beauty so much that it freaked me out and made me feel awful. It just made me imagine how horrible it would be if I grow older and then these same people would throw me away. That happened too. So I'm careful, grateful and keep my eyes open to what real value is for me in my life. To me, a smaller world with people who add value to your life, by appreciating you, and being loving, caring and supportive, is the most beautiful world I could create, appreciate and find meaning in
#14 shows how much you don't know about trauma and how it influences you. There are low value men who will intentionally devalue (sexually assault or slander) a high value woman out of their insecurity because they know that they don't stand a chance with her. And even the highest valued women have a limit to how much of that they can take.
A high value woman for herself or a high value woman for a nuclear family. These two are usually very very far apart 😒 A big apology to Alux. I’ve been watching for many years and this one time I made a comment without ever watching the video. I’m sorry, as your video was very balanced and informative. Again, sorry. 🙇🏾
No. They arent. Bc a woman without a family, is not high value. A woman that no man wants, is low value. Same with a man. If no woman wants him, he is low value.
These are the characterstics of *perfect* woman and perfect doesn't exist for man and woman either. You don't have to be perfect for someone else, be who you like to be not the one which others want. You'll get the perfect fit for yourself only when you appreciate that you're imperfect in others vision but perfect in your eyes. BE YOURSELF GIRLS AND IGNORE WHAT OTHERS WANT 😉
My situation is probably a bit unusual in that I don't want children. Mostly because I think life is cruel and disappointing and filled with suffering and I don't want to make someone I love have to be here. So I don't base my value on my biological clock or attracting a mate. I gauge my value by my contributions.
HVW Maybe you mentioned this in a certain way(s) HVW are adaptogenic. Calming, inspiring, healing. Also HVW don't generally attract low vibrational "situations" They tend to be balanced individuals that demonstrate perseverance, modesty and most of all compassion❣ Thank you
This list is from society’s point of view and how she will be adding value to others & I feel it was accurate in that. Although there were few of them, it would have been good to see more points that makes her valuable beyond the conventional roles of motherhood and a partner. But I also believe all of these things are would make any person high value. I would personally add good management skills in all areas of life (time, finance, career & relationships etc), knowing how to take care of herself (emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually) and always evolving herself with time #hvm
Pleasant surprise to see that I am scoring 15/15. With jaw-dropping looks too. Though I had an arranged marriage, to a man who turned out to be abusive and low-value, still I stuck through and helped him become a millionare (with sound financial advice). And now I wish to 'retire', having lost almost all love and respect for him and also coz these years of abuse and hardship have taken a toll on my health and looks. But now he is just not ready to leave me and marry somebody younger and more beautiful, because he says I can still add value to his life. No wonder, some guys I turned down for marriage, years ago, still remain unmarried. Though I'd have liked them to be happily married, but came to know that they did not marry because I was their ideal.
1, she can cook 2, she can clean 3. she can provide children 4. she's meek 5. she's loyal 6. she's loving 7.she can make your house a home 8.she looks after you 9.she supports your dream 10. she is modest
So basically from your last 2 videos what we need to understand is that a women’s value is her marriageability. So all her her worth is based on marriage. Glad that got cleared. In that case, yes you are right….youth, beauty, reputation, connections, elite ie rich family…
@@omnipotentwiz5101 when someone stresses a word so many times, they have lost sense of reality. Thanks for showing everyone who is the actual Karen. Bye and God bless you
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So.... a divorced woman is low value because she deserted the ship when times got rough? Does it make her unloyal? I'm a divorced woman. I've stayed with my ex husband while we were separated and hid the separation because his mother got sick and we decided together it's better if the family doesn't know. His sister and I took turns doing his mother's nails while she was in the hospital. After every chemotherapy she only agreed to eat certain things I cooked especially for her. By the way, I was the one who started therapy, and the therapist told me we need couple counseling, so me going to therapy alone won't solve the problems that weren't mine: they were ours as a couple. I might be a divorced woman but I'm a lot more loyal to my family than women who turn their husband against their mother or women who constantly fight their in-laws. I also know my value as a divorced woman is a lot higher than women my age who never even lived with anybody. I've noticed how most people my age are usually very immature romantically if they've never even lived with anybody. That's why I prefer to date divorced men who are in a good relationship with their exes and their family, and not men my age who never even lived with anybody.
This reminds me of the list of accomplished women in Pride and Prejudice. And I will use the same words Elizabeth Bennet said: "I am no longer surprised at your knowing only six accomplished women. I rather wonder at your knowing any.”
I loved Pride& Prejudice. By the way, although Elizabeth and especially her angelic sister Jane were good, honest, caring, loving women, their market value was low because their dowries were not big and were nearly ruined when their little sister ran off with a guy. They were considered low value women despite being blameless ! Ah, and who judged them? A guy who was handsome, young& rich, Mr.Darcy, but too prideful and snobish (at least Mr Bingley was nice& kind but weak), who had an awful aunt and a sister that nearly ran away with the same guy Elisabeth 's sister did... a guy who behaved unpolitely at gatherings but turned his nose at others who made etiquette mistakes unintentionally, while he made them with intent... ughh !!🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@@CS-bu7lo I mentioned it because just like the list of Miss Bingley and Darcy had a ridiculous list of characteristics for an accomplished woman, so does the list in this video. No woman has every quality mentioned in this list. I don't think that even the late queen Elisabeth, who will stay the epitome of class, had all this
@@msinvincible2000 I knew a few women who fit the list, but they all ended up abused, taken for granted and/or left for newer sexy women. All they had done for their families, for years, meant nothing when their husbands became infatuated with newer sexy women, sadly...
This is all about being high value to men. There are many high value women in the eyes of the world that doesn't require beauty or youth: think Pulitzer and Nobel prize winners and female leaders of nations.
@@curlyqween34 well the topic was women. If the trend holds they'll be doing one on HVM. They already more than a few videos focused on men. As for Kevin Samuels he spent the first few years of his effort focused on men standards and outcomes.
I agree with at least 14 of these traits - but if you are dating when you are over 40, there’s a very good chance that both you and the potential partner will have children and a “past”. Try telling my 48 year old CEO cousin, divorced with 2 teenagers after her C-level executive husband (yes, they were a power couple) ran off with an intern, that she is not “high value” because she has kids. She’s now in a very happy relationship with an investment banker 8 years her junior. She knows her value and has nothing to prove.
@@Me-mn4nw Divorce is easy to obtain in the civilized world, so a marriage is not a guarantee he/she won't leave you. She was married with 2 kids with her well-off husband and he still left her for a young intern. I know many widowed or divorced single moms and dads and they want a good relationship, not necessarily marriage ( unless they are religious) with a good man/woman, even if they plan on having more children ( most places don't put a stygma on kids out of wedlock anymore).
@@Me-mn4nw Studies can be ordered by groups with a certain interest. I can make one right now if I want to. I grew up in a traditional family in the 80's, in a religious patriarchal society, in southeastern Europe. It looked good to the outside, but was full of abuse on the inside. The kids at my prestigious school had the same families, as divorce was rare back then. We were told as kids that "arguing and fighting parents and/or a beating once in a while is better than divorced parents". And yet, we saw with our own eyes, how much happier and carefree the kids of divorced parents were, after the divorce. Their single-parent households were quiet, without 2 parents yelling, fighting or abuse and were poorer only if the spouse didn't pay the kid alimony ( only the kids get alimony in my country). The only bad single parent household I knew were the ones where the parent/s continued to be abusive toward the kids, like they did before the divorce- domestic violence and childhood abuse laws were lacking in those days. Millenials in my country are not snowflakes because they were spoiled, they are so because of childhood and teen traumas inflicted by traditional parents that encouraged corporal punishments and made Millenials be good liers and actors to escape punishments. Ah, back in that day, contraception and abortions were illegal, so most of my generation was unwanted and thus treated badly. Unwilling parents will keep the Baby if society demands, but will not love him/her and will at best neglect that baby. I've seen it happen many times. I was wanted, but the traditional education was harsh and abusive. Parents can be good mother and father figures if they are divorced, but if they are bad people, they will not be good mothers and fathers even if married.
Hey, we all can’t be born into the Rothschild family. If me being raised in foster care makes me low value, it is what it is. I still made something of myself: 3 college degrees and a 6 figure tech sales job.
High value women 1. You are an asset 2. Natural beauty and fitness . Strong regiment and discipline 3. Ability to raise children and flourishing family 4. Comforting character and guiding light . Has the capacity where attention should go 5. Youth : mature in their youth 6. Desired by many high value men for marriage. They rank high in social skills 7. Irreproachable reputation. Near perfect reputation. 8. Visibility and fame . They shine. 9. Exuberant and inspiring. They inspire to become a better version for yourself 10. Self-aware, discerning and knows she is enough. The only way to move up is being objectively true. 11. Surrounded by high quality women. 12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career. 13. Can both lead and support . Knows how to be which versions leader or follower according in situations 14. Emotionally intelligent. Move beyond your emotional past. 15. Loyal and focused on the long-term goal. Stand by your partner through thick and thin 16. Ability to hold high value over time . Like Salma Hayek etc.
Not necessarily. The ultimate high value woman is one who will kick an enemy's ass, to carve out breathing room to cultivate the other high value traits.
If they are already on the path there is no use in changing now. “You are who you surround yourself with” so you are lowering your own value by associating with them.
Oh they gave us "low value women" therefore they saw it necessary to give us high value women as well. Thank you Alux. Guys get ready Alux is gonna definitely move to the guys pretty soon
Agree, power to you Alux for the willingness to talk about this. I would think Men mostly alr know what the traits are, conscious or unconsciously. I would also predict there’ll be less hateful comments than when talking about women. 😂
15 indeed! : 1- Young Age 2- pretty face 3- slim body 4- medium height 5- narrow shoulders 6- C cup 7- innie V no hangers 8- no deep voice 9- no adam's apple 10- no man hands 11- no facial hair (some girls do) 12- no female balding pattern. 13- beautiful long hair 14- healthy teeth 15- fertiie And that's not me saying~that's Nature 😵
I can admit I’m in between being High and Low Value (I guess that means I would be considered Low Value, by society standards). Some things on this list describe Me well. Others, I admittedly don’t fit in. I’m very self aware. Thing is, I’m also someone who doesn’t place much emphasis in the views and opinions of those around Me. I’m well aware I have My good and bad attributes. For the things that would otherwise deem Me as Low Value… if that’s the opinion others have, I let that be their view, to which they are so entitled, but it doesn’t change how I feel about Myself. To Me, the extent to which the standards in this list hold weight, also depends on the outlook of the person in question. Regardless of how much the standards on this list do or don’t apply to you, when you love, value, and respect yourself, and choose to be yourself and be happy with whatever you naturally come with, you won’t overly concern yourself with what society thinks… but, that confidence and self-assuredness will radiate to those around you, and that will have its own unique way of making you High Value, simply because you’re powerful enough to not let anything or anyone around you define you BUT YOU, regardless of your financial circumstances, your standing in any social circle, or anything else which may otherwise be technically superficial. I will say, overall, this list makes for a great conversation piece. Nice work.
Stop judging yourself, you're not a machine, you adapt to your circumstances and your environment. If need be, you'll go out of character, it's called survival mode. Who do you become high value woman for, it depends, if you're not abused, you flourish. Let's be kind to ourselves. Your relationship with God is more important than being a high value woman, be what God created you to be.. I've seen many so called high value women trampled upon. Jesus is the answer
HVW who kept a copy of the LVW to make sure I never creep over the line because that video was intense. When a friend or organization enters my circle they become part of a collective that stretches beyond the norm. They become family. No, I'm not a mafia. However, family is forever.
Hello Aluxers! This is the most controversial series we've done so far. Get ready for the people with the pitch forks.
If you haven't watched our LOW VALUE WOMAN video: th-cam.com/video/JTDismMBKdQ/w-d-xo.html
I don't need to know about a low value woman they are not worth my time
This topic is hitting awfully close to home, which indicates it's an important topic...
Theres nothing controversial about it, It's just silly! Most people know value is subjective not objective. What is deemed as 'of value' to one person, could be a huge liability to another.
@@dillydallydollo saying that value is subjective is absurd. Value comes from UTILITY, SCARCITY, DEMAND and the extent other will got to in order to acquire it.
Once again, you are conflicting your personal experience with statements that are statistically true at scale.
@@OnMyOwnJourney1111 You don't know that
Just found out my mother has all these qualities.... she'as been with my dad since last 23 years, and they're in a happy marriage....she keeps the whole family intact, she's inspiring, caring and oh God the list is endless..... She's definitely a high value woman!!
Huh, I could never admire my mom like that.
While i agree these are all high value traits, it is very difficult to go 15/15. A high value woman, is the best version of herself that works to better herself and her loved ones.
Very well said👍
Amen! 👍
Exactly
You forgot low body count as well. It also lowers your value person if you have a high body count. It means she don’t respect herself and get tossed like a ragdoll….It apply to men as well.
Well and not a 304 obviously but I’m not sure you are capturing that.
1. You are an asset to your partner and to those in your circle
2. Natural beauty and fitness
3. Ability to raise strong children and flourishing family
4. Comforting character and guiding light
5. Youth
6. She is desired by many high value men for marriage
7. Irreproachable reputation
8. Visibility and fame
9. Exuberant and inspiring
10. Self aware, discerning and she knows she is enough
11. Surrounded by high value women
12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career
13. Can both lead and support
14. In control of her mind and emotions
15. Loyal and focused on the long term goals
Thank you 😊
Thanks
Thanks 🙏🏻
Kevin Samuels laid this out 2yrs ago. Alux literally stole every last one from him. Bc he's dead 3 months now, it's free game to repackage it for primary white audience as a "new concept"
Thank you!
#16 Bonus: Who’s valuing you? I remembered the example with the violinist at the metro station who wasn’t given any attention by the passers by. In the evening he played for million dollars audience. It’s also about where you are positioned. When you’re down everyone thinks you’re worth less then them … 😉
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I love this time line
@Lauren Michelle Lynley And Beyoncé??? Give me a break.
One of the saddest things I see all the time is the rejected “first wife” who no longer fits her husband’s vision of his lifestyle now working at a menial job. They find themselves selling cosmetics, hostessing, or working in reception. Jobs that normally are entry level for someone half their age. They all have the same haunted look like they just don’t understand why they can’t have the life they planned anymore. My dad saw many of these in the workforce. He made us promise that we would have our own career and ability to make money. Not because we need the money but because we need to know we can do it ourselves.
shit imma dude and that's my biggest fear, mf 42 this November and god its either thr front of a bus or success because I refuse to be under $30k at 50
@@danielland3767 damn man that's rough. Is that average where you live? Even entry level where I am on a bachelor degree us usually near 30k, at the very least.
Where are you looking for success, what region?
@@danielland3767 So true. It used to be just women but men are seeing it happen too. That’s why you need multiple streams of income and passive income. Even if you get that great job, the industry can change and suddenly you are out with no skills anybody wants. That happened where I live. Oil and gas used to be the top career path for wealth. Then the government got obsessed with climate change and decided fossil fuels are evil. Suddenly, petroleum engineers, geologists, and others are serving coffee at Starbucks. Until the Starbucks closes.
A guy's wife crashed her car last month and now he has to leave work early to pick up the kids from school - they live in a suburb 30 mins out of town. She is a housewife and he works. Can she not get a Uber to the school pick up the kids and then Uber back home with them?
Yes some men are evil but some women end up in those jobs because they get too complacent in marriage. A lot of the hard working men I know with young families are stretched too thin by either incompetent, lazy or complacent women. What do you think those men will do once the kids turn 18 and leave the house?
@@josetheman239 I agree. But you also need to know how this happened. In 1963, Nelson Rockefeller gave a speech to a large group of business leaders. He said that they had a plan to substantially increase the tax base. They would create discontent in the American married women. Then the middle class women would go to work increasing the money to be taxed. They would higher lower class women to raise their kids and clean their houses. These women would also pay tax. In ten years, they would increase the tax base by nearly 50%. The new middle class women wouldn’t have to be paid as much as a family man entering the workforce. In ten years, they would accomplish this goal. But as the system moves to a two earner base, inflation would erode the buying power of the new money coming into the house. But the taxes would continue to rise. It worked. It was never about equality but about more taxes for the government.
Low value woman, alone and my time has passed. I've never been loved or cherished by anyone. At least I love and cherish myself. Wish there had been content like this when I was young. Unresolved trauma but at least I can work on that. That will be my focus going forward and a gift to myself with the years I have left. This has been an eye opener.
Oh Gosh Stop That!!! This vid is sh*t. Go out get some nice food, a good laugh and a Zumba class to lift chemicals in your brain! You’re as much worth as the Best Of Us!! 💪🏽🪩 💃🏼
Thanks for your openness
You're a HVW for sure..
Good luck for your life.. 😊
Acknowledging is where the healing and development begins. Wishing you all the best.
No. Do not let the society decide if you are low or high value!
Just impove youself to be the best version of you and open your heart for love! ♡♡♡
A girl may be perceived to have many men wanting her, but most won't commit to her (or marry her) or see her past the bedroom. this is what most women misunderstood and over-evaluate themselves.
A high value woman is a woman who understands herself and who does not feel as though she is more worthy than others. It's a woman who shares her light and who is purely aware of her purpose. She is a woman who understands the essence of a woman, which is being a nurturer but also who comprehends that there are times of vulnerability and with being vulnerable it doesn't reveal a lack of strength. She is a woman who enjoys life and understands that there will be some bad days in between and that is perfectly okay.
WRONG..
High value Woman means, she knows the price of her VAGINA AND the PRICE OF EVERY HOUR OF SEX.
YES, VALUE MEANS MONEY. and you asked me as a Woman, I knew the price of my OWN VAGINA. not because of WHO THE MEN WHO TASTED IT which is, it also counts.
VIRGINITY HAS A PRICE TOO.
WIDOWS HAS A PRICE TOO.
SINGLE MOM'S PUSSY, AND HER CHILD HAS A PRICE TOO.
RAPED WOMEN HAS A PRICE AS COLLTERAL DAMAGED.
LIVED-IN/ SEPARATED HAS A PRICE TOO; COMMON LAW MARRIAGE means money.
marriage women vs annulment fees and including paying the HUSBAND/S to signed the paper has a price.
sex prostitutes has a PRICE.
COLLEGE STUDENTS HAS A PRICE
COLEGE DEGREE HAS A PRICE
AS YOU AS A MAN: HOW MUCH IS YOU?
Nonsense
Overall good comment, but the fact is not every woman is stereotypical, and I'm not just referring to gender variant or lesbian women. I don't consider myself the nurturing type, and that shouldn't be a requirement to being considered "high value." We all have gifts and should be generous with them, but we shouldn't be expected to be nurturing if that is not our nature (yes, I'm child-free by choice).
I already have a high value woman. She supports me every day. We laugh together, we sweat together, we plan and work together. She is an incredible force multiplier. 11 years going strong.
Good for you
cherish her, pray she keeps cherishing you
I was a 36 year old single mom of 1 and couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong and where all the men were.. i came across videos like this and apparently I was the problem.. now I have worked on myself and still working on myself battling this ‘independent woman don’t need no man’ mentality… it will take time but so far I met my husband this year and got married.. it is possible don’t give up❤️🙏
My advice , watch videos and get more in touch with your femininity and it will let go of that masculine energy, also drop the F boys and stop entertaining them, tell men what you REALLY want and stick with it, don’t change your mind if something doesn’t work, that’s how I met my husband I was straight up told him I wanted marriage and he did too and we were friends for a year first then dated and married this year, it is possible! ❤️🙏
i admire your honesty and humility in sharing this comment about yourself. wish more women were like this; the world would be a better place for it. Thank you.
That's awesome! Congratulations on standing your ground & to your marriage! Many happy years to come!
Wow this is incredible
Way to go ! Very proud of you
No! Being an independent woman is so important, because they don't stay in shitty relationships.
Well, I flunked this high-value woman list. No elite family, social skills are okay, and no longer youthful. Yet I know I have the grace and maturity to understand problems; I listened with intent to others' issues, and know when to cut it short. I speak well, no slang. I am not wealthy, but I know my financial parameters. Where do I fit?
Right in!
You are enough and highly valuable productive member of society. The video is for “billionaires” which is shallow in itself as it places more value on money and status and divide people by economic class.
HVM is rare, not being that is no knock against you. Be true to yourself and you will find where you fit in.
You don’t have to fit in societal criteria. Are you happy where you are in life? If so, you have made it.
("YOU ARE ENOUGH!")
I have a degree in humanities. People come from Various backgrounds so whether you are high value women or low value women .
"YOU ARE ENOUGH!"
This looks like a list written by a 20 years old guy in Malesia looking for a wife material to be birthing his kids...
Don't forget that there are a lot of women in high society (Europe, USA) who are successful, gorgeous, live lives on their own terms, and choose not to be reduced to birthing and milking themselves but nurture their dreams and their potential. Also, most of them don't have these attributes but do have many other ones that are more valued in that class/group.
One good Comment with proper arguments! Thank God
Oh, Thanks! At least someone is living in the 21st century. #3,5,6, an 12 are unbelievable. Is anybody editing these videos?
Then they need to stop crying/bitching about not finding a good man and feeling lonely, which most of them do.
Their value isn’t based upon what job they have, though.
@@Thrill_Hou Good one
Know your faults inside and out so you can work on them or keep them under control. Know your strengths inside and out so you can keep them strong and know when and where to use them.
Love this. Thanks!
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I met a girl I used to know long ago, she didn't look as pretty as she used to be but when she mentioned she goes to a prison to read to the illiterate... Made me think she's really something.
1) you are an asset to your partner and society .
2) Natural beauty and fitness.
3)The ability to raise strong childern.
4)comforting character and guiding light.
5)youth.
6)She is desired by many high value men for marriage.
7)Reputation matters to her.
8) Visibility and fame
9) Exuberant and inspiring
10)Self aware deserevant she knows she is enough.
11)Surrounded by high quality woman.
12)She comes from an elite family or has attained an elite status
13)Can both lead and support. But not at same time .
14)In control of her mind and emotions.
15)loyal and focused on long term goals.
*(The ability to hold high value over time)*
Kevin Samuels has been saying this for years, now all of a sudden it's popular. Even TDJakes is riding the bandwagon.
#facts May he rest in peace.
Compare themselves to others.
2. They never put others down.
3. Things for the wrong reasons.
4. Never give up on their dreams.
5. Let others control them.
6. Because they are beautiful and rich.
7. Never stop improving themselves.
8. They never forget their accomplishments.
9. Never forget their values and morals.
10. Never give up on themselves.
11. Never ignore their intuition.
12. They take care of people They love
13. Never lose themselves in relationships.
14. Never let money define them.
15. Are their own best friends.
Mamma Mia 🤩 You shud make a video on all the points with nice positive developments 👌🏻
You're absolutely right about your comment above.. 😃
Women becomes jealous. They are not naturally that way. Will set out to destroy everything you build when they are in power!
And this includes every age
8:30 "She was never accused or convicted for a crime. She's not a serial cheater." Nice!
I got arrested while attending Auburn University for public intoxication, after my (also) drunk date drove me to his place, after I repeatedly told him to take me home, and I refused to go inside.
He left me out in the cold, without my purse or things, temps dropping, and I got arrested trying to just get inside an unlocked car.
The next day, my huge younger brother drove FIVE HOURS to Auburn, just to kick his azz. LMAO. I LOVE him for that. (I didn't let him, lol. When the guy brought my stuff to me, I made my brother stay in my room until he was gone. That dude wasn't worth the murder charge. 🤣)
What if she is innocent of the crimes she is accused or convicted? I work in the justice system of my country and I knew people that were serving years in prison when the truth came out, they were released and the state paid them damages. However, I doubt the money they receieved wiped out the trauma and the relationships they lost. No system is perfect and these cases are rare, but not rare enough. Also, gossip by jealous men and women may damage someone's reputation if people believe everything they hear without checking the stories- one doesn't need those gullible people!
age 20 and still working on myself to be the best version of myself oneday I will find a high value woman to live life with 💫 thanks for the video
Look for a HVW, don't compromise.life is good with HVW.
@@lakkarajushankar how did you get a HVW looking like that?
Watched the low value video to keep myself in check, this is to keep myself on track & what I should continue to strive for ❤️❤️ May all the ladies watching take this and use it!!!
For real
I watched both vids, too. Ladies like you give hope to our declining society. 👍🏻
You make music
Good for e@MK. It shows you are teachable and willing to do the necessary work.
Don't let a video dictate your value or worth. Most of the ladies she mention got cheated on and left behind. So all that high value crap still didn't work.
So you basically took every major talking point from Kevin Samuels and The Crimson Cure, as well as many others in the manosphere, and particularly the black manosphere, and compiled it into a single video. Congrats.
THEY LOVE TO JACK THE SWAG!
These concepts predate the black manosphere
🤣🤣 Basically. But these things are pretty standard across the board for men and women.
Basically, traditional cultures breed men and women like this. This is how my family raised all of us to be, and they aren’t from America. All my American friends from good backgrounds had the same upbringing, regardless of race.
If you attend prep school, for example, your educators help mold you to pursue and fit these standards at as young an age as possible. Many girls I went to school with were doctors, attorneys, educators, etc before 30. I have guy friends who were in position or close enough to being able to afford SAHWs around or a little after 30.
KS was sharing things with viewers who don’t come from families or circles who teach these things. I wasn’t a fan, but I give him that credit. The stuff he mentioned was stuff you’re supposed to be taught by your parents, because only your family will be that candid and honest with you.
But yes, the “visibility and fame” was a dead giveaway that they literally stole the list. Lol Fame isn’t a factor for 99.9% of people 😩
Imagine everybody tried to be famous before they felt valuable. What a sad world it would be. Be ok with yourself
I would just add these few soft social skills 1.fear of God/moral compass, 2. has integrity, 3. treats others with respect irregardless to their position in society (golden rule).
The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extent) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
That's 100% right.
So true
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RIP KEVIN SAMUELS. He made this shit popular, now everyone on the band wagon.
Men have a biological clock too. Sperm morphology. Two heads, no tails etc. That also starts at 30 for a lot of men. A lot of men Also start to deal with erectile dysfunction around that time as well.
Haha! Good one. Struggling w donor IVF atm so yes, surprisingly no one wants to believe men need to rush too
Well men don’t en masse. For women their is a definitive clock that starts opposite of 35 yo. In general the clock for men starts later and does not have a definitive drop off until mid to late 40s.
@@Truth-wonder Yup! Now we all feel bad about age (hint sarcasm)
Viagra exists, and plenty of men have healthy children at 60; can't say the same for women.
@@anipopescu
Women actually do, this is why they feel ashamed to tell their age.
Be you. Always. The best version of yourself. Do it for you. Not for partner. Parents. Career. Dont be fake.
Thanks!
"Many of the great leaders in the future for humanity will have to be women. It is their destiny. It is what they must do. If this is denied, then humanity will not progress. It will remain captive to history, to tradition, to conflict and war. Being providers and maintainers, women are more given to establishing peace and cooperation. In a traditional sense, they have to make families work, they have to hold families together, they have to take care of people directly, intimately. Do you see the advantages here?"
A quote from _- The Age of Women -_ a teaching received by Marshall Vian Summers.
Nope for 1st sentence
Roof my house first.
What a load of BS.
Thanks a lot!
Thanks for this. I have come to appreciate that all the citizens of the world must be encouraged to reach their full potential, for if they do not, all humanity is the poorer for it.
I so love this. Thank you. It totally validates all my views and ambitions. One of the pitfalls of being a HVW is when you’re around people who do not understand your standards or rules for yourself. I’ve been told I can appear bitchy when in a pizza shop at 2am that caters to the after bar crowd…in those moments I’m doing my best to be poised and patient but my patience runs low in a situation like that. I’m always glad to hear the truth in these videos. Last week I was a little nervous about the low value video because I’m an only child from a middle class family who appreciates vision boards. Ha! Thankfully I have no similarities to any of the other 14 on that list. I’m all HVW, thankfully, and where I fall a bit short I’m actively working on it. I’m always looking to improve. This channel is great for that, thank you! ❤️☺️🙏🏻
Oh, brother. I'm so glad to hear you made it out of that pizza joint at 2 a.m. with your HVW superiority still intact. That was a close one, huh?
@Sunny Lynn I know, right?! Don't they return to housekeepers and pumpkins after the stroke of midnight?? I could be wrong, but.... 🤣
That sounds like a juicy rationalization - poised in a 2am pizza parlor annoyed by drunks, then relieved that you're not LVW because "you" checked 14 boxes. Sounds like you're on the right track but breathe, and accept no one is perfect....continue to be better every day. Good luck.....you're well on your way!
@@lloydreid3936
#16 on the HVW List: Humbleness
@@annehedonia156 😂😂😂😂
I equate a HVW with someone who can show compassion, love and kindness towards others. I think most people are evolving and must seek validation from self over others. That self validation is the true power to change yourself into a HVW. Good luck to all.
I agree 👍 to that the other stuff is just prosthetics
Fitness falls under good health. I’d rather know someone practices a healthy lifestyle instead of focusing on their looks. Many model-esque women can’t run half a mile. Even more smoke to stay skinny!
Beautiful, discerning, socially skillful, self-accepting, quiet. High value women I knew have all these qualities.
Caterina Sforza, Catherine the Great, Simone de Beauvoir, Lissa Fonssagrieve, Gloria Swanson, Katherine Hepburn, Marlene Dietrich, Princess Margaret of England, Katherine Graham, Lady Diana Spencer, Kate Duchess of Cambridge,Tina Brown, Meryl Streep, Anna Wintour and many more- whom i consider to be women of HIGH VALUE, of substance and of grace.
HVW and loved by a HVM. I feel very fortunate, sometimes feeling undeserving of my status, but realized it's our values that elevates us to our full potential.
I am a HVW. It feels really good to know I am not alone and there are women out there who share the same philosophies as described in the video. Would love to connect with atleast a woman who is like me. Loved the video Alux ❤️
I'm not implying you're not hv although that's usually decided by people around you. Similarly men who are Alpha & Masculine don't assume they are, they are just themselves. Have a wonderful day.
Hi, I am a mature HVW. I have been married for 29 yrs, my adult children have very fulfilled lives and I enjoy spending time with them. My husband and I enjoy each other, have accomplished a lot, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. My children and friends have suggested we write a book on parenting and relationships. I would love to connect with other high value women too. ⭐️
@@digitaldew lol you’re so right… the video is bad and comment’s OmG Disgusting
@@anipopescu Thanks I know there were so many screaming about the video yesterday about lvw. There are good women and men everywhere they find each other. By simply being themselves. I've dated women that could easily be models. Coming from a quality family definitely has its benefits. Few people can mould themselves into high quality MASCULINE men and Feminine (not feminist) women. Have a good day ma'am.
@@anipopescu You may like this as well.
A woman that is really in love with you doesn't want to go on a "girls trip". If she really loves you she wants nothing more than to be trapped by you freedom and space only comes from the mouths of women with a foot out the fucking door so if you want to go to Vegas and go do girls night and all this other stuff that's absolutely fine do it. I think the man should say that's fine I thought you took us more seriously and if you want to go on a girl's trip so be it I will not get mad I will not cry or get angry with you because I will never show you emotion but I do not date women that I take this seriously that want to go on girls trips you can go if you want to I'll let you go but I cannot take you seriously any longer this is a serious relationship. Any woman that loves a man has actually no problem with that in fact she will put you in front of her friends and her family so when they come after you they they will flat out take up for you and then they'll come back you and be like I can't believe my friend Sarah wants to go to girls trip obviously she doesn't really love her man. All you need to do is be loyal, beautiful and love me that's it I'm going to work and pay every single Bill and be the emotional Rock you and my children need you have nothing else to do my job is to make your life much better and easier and to make sure that you have no regrets or remorse and nothing in this world to be concerned about I am the hero of your life and you will have no problem telling the world to kick rocks.
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17. She cooks very delicious.
18. Monthly income expenses budget.
19. Well organizer of home interior.
20. High empath to all family members.
21. She knows first aid.
22. She is a good listener.
23. She is aware of her rights and duties.
24. She keeps herself clean and hygiene.
25. She has a smiling face maximum times.
26. She has a good sense of dressing skill.
27. She knows various kitchen hacks.
28. She is so brave enough that she can jump into a fighting to protect herself and the family.
29. She encourages other family members to strives for a good life.
Thanks for reading.
A 1960s mom
#3. Ability to raise strong children and a flourishing family 👨👩👧👦 “My mother TRIED to be the best she could to provide for me and my siblings. It was SO DAMN HARD because my father was out on the road as a OTR Trucker and A LOT was placed on my shoulders to help my moth with my siblings. As things progressed into High School and we all we’re graduating and growing up it was easier yeah to be self-sufficient and we all started having our FIRST jobs and making our own personal money. And learning how to manage money and paying regular bills while still living with our parents. I definitely wasn’t ready to leave the nest of my parents yet because I was in my partying stage of my life. 19- 22 and it didn’t last long till I became a father at 24 and my partying phase was DONE 😣😖 I had to buy diapers and clothes and baby formula instead of things I needed for myself. I’ve had to pawn my personal belongings to pay for more diapers because at times I was UNEMPLOYED and shit was VERY BAD, VERY HARD and it was just TOO MUCH to live with. That was in 2015 .. it’s 2022 and these last few years it’s been REBUILDING and RESTRUCTURING my life by getting HELP and not being afraid to ask for it. My mother and father FAILED ME to be who I should have been destined to become BUT I just started my NEW CHAPTER in 2020 by starting a NEW START company and getting into Government Contracts to become a Professional Government corporation contractor in the small business private business sector. I know where MY LIFE is FINANCIALLY going and my children are growing up FAST now and their seeing it and I can tell that “I’m Their Hero”
Wow you're on it. Great inspiration for those that need to hear that finding new ways to activate positive change. Love your honesty and courage to get where you are today. Best wishes for your future🌼
@@2blackcatz426 thank you for your response and feedback
May God bless you 🤝
@@sibitasoinda7908 I hope he will and you as well 🙏🏽
Children? How many did you have?
I not only want to be married to a high value woman, but I want my daughter to become one as well.
"Nobody cares about your side hustle" is a violent statement😂😂🙆🏿♂️
I thought it was nobody KNOWS about your side hustle
@@lorettaknoelk3475 still worse😂
Amal Clooney, Grace Kelly and Monica Bellucci. A high value woman is cultured without being pretentious, takes care of her health and is beautiful in a sophisticated way. She is feminine with excellent manners, can hold a compelling conversation and is a committed spouse and mother. She is at home anywhere in the world and can move seamlessly in a wide range of social circles. She is a complimentary presence to the gentleman of her choosing. She commands respect, but does not Inspire fear and is never overbearing.
While the video about low value women was constructive in nature.... This list somehow feels more opinionated than factual.
A high value woman is high value based on what she brings to the table. While motherhood and beauty can be of value to one person, ambition, maturity (age wise) can be an attribute for another.
This Facts are based on majority
You need to read the title, it says SIGNS, and natural beauty and being a good mother are definitely signs thats just a fact
I love alux content but this video is an absolute fail. I remember they have done smh similiar to this before.. think 'signs of lady',Gentleman etc. But this one is disappointing
@@maryfiero8122 yeah beacause video doesn't show feminist version empowered women .... And every women should not belong tothat version ... This are major facts ...not how you want it to be
@@TriStarIII Agreed, those are just some signs/traits. However, this video seems to be propagating a template for women. I won't be surprised if Alux comes up with a new product called 10 day's course on "How to be an HVI - High value Individual" (Of course after the male version of this series is out)
This is similar to what they did for crypto currency last year. Just seems like some ground work for the product. Would love to be wrong though.
A high value woman speaks her mind by backing up her thoughts with well researched facts and voicing it unapologetically.
What I do not like about many content creators is stealing ideas and talking points from originators and repackaging them off as your own. Makes videos without giving credit to the source or where you got them from.
*A high-value woman really knows her worth and sets clear boundaries. Her confidence and independence aren’t about being distant - they're about knowing what she deserves and bringing that energy into all areas of her life!*
I think there are so many things wrong with this video. The things said in this video contribute to an additional imposition of gender roles on women - a men's idea of a 'perfect lady'.
ye but thats what we want though. this is facts
Yup… this is so much more is wrong in this vid uhhh
It’s understandable that low value women will be triggered by the truth, it’s not pleasant to hear.
Something is wrong with you for sure.
Men has a "perfect lady" in their mind and Women has a "perfect man" in their mind. When both of them find each other, thats how a new generation is born.
PS: Thats how you also is born and now commenting in this video
That’s literally who the list represents, would it make sense when doing a documentary on a dairy farm that they ask about the horses? It is men that establish what is valuable in a heterosexual woman. It’s foolish to think otherwise.
Hilarious! This should be titled "Hunting for unicorns". I discovered at a young age that looking for a "high-value woman" is a pipe dream. I'm not disrespecting women. Our society has set an impossibly high bar for both sexes. Instead of working myself into an early grave trying to get over that hurdle, I chose to interact with many women with a variety of backgrounds, experiences, styles and appearances. Enjoy the best that each has to offer! I realize that pendulum swings both ways, however, and when the woman finally realizes I'm not going to reach the potential she initially (and mistakenly) anticipated, she starts looking for a way to move on. Instead of a bad breakup I bring it up in a private moment and simply ask if she is ready to move on. Sadly, some feel that a bad relationship is better than no relationship and hold on a bit too long but most see the wisdom in the moment and agree that going our separate ways is best. Almost all of my "breakups" ended amicably and I am still on friendly terms with many of my former girlfriends.
A high value woman is educated and knows how to express herself…in more than one language❤️
My life changed for the better after learning the difference between beauty and good looks
I'm low value and that's ok. My inner circle is my husband and my plants. Reputation: Trash, Cuteness: a 5, Body: a 9, I'm mid-level sociable. I like hanging out in my bed 🙂.
If you love your life then great ...but if you love your comfort zone then not really ... This ppl r just making you feel good ..thats like saying you are obese and you will die in your 30s 40s ...but thats okay love your body as the way it is
You’re my Hero HVW Yayy!
That sounds more like normal not low, remember 80% are normal valued, the low 10 are low values. So don’t be so harsh on yourself, acknowledging these things ads value by self awareness.
just stating you are high value like the other girls in this comments is like putting a blindfold on and ignoring reality and areas of improvement. These are usually the people that always victimize themselves because people do not tell them they are perfect as they want to believe. So congrats for improving yourself!
Viagra exists, and plenty of men have healthy children at 60; can't say the same for women.
@@John_Q wrong thread 🤪 try not getting sclerotic lmfao… no Viagra will help w that 🤩
Oh man. Talking facts to women. I hope you don't get flagged. I love the channel. This channel helped change my life
High value women is the one who have
Self respect
Emotional intelligence
Analytical mind
Stay away from drama and toxic people
Take good care of herself
Clean, organised and presentable
Respect people and their time
Curious
Take responsibility for their mistakes
Educating themselves
Keep in touch with positive people
Etc
A high-value woman maintains her standards, doesn't settle for less, has MASSIVE self-respect and self-dignity, AND does not allow random people, especially males, to walk all over her.
High value women don't need a man to make them feel high value 🙌🏿
Until they turn 50.
@@omnipotentwiz5101 Nope, not true. ☹️
Untill 40
I wouldn’t say, “Nobody’s body is perfect” but I couldn’t agree more with the overall sentiment of the video. Another home run from Alux.
I don't value spending much time with people who don't value depth and wisdom from life experience, but focus on outer beauty or fake personality projection. It's also important to put your best foot forward, but most spiritually perceptive people find it to be a waste of their valuable time to spend time with people whose values are mainly material focussed. It is extremely disturbing to see the world go through this unawareness of the deeper self, but it also makes me realise the reality for the majority in the world is that they cannot see into another's spirit like I am naturally gifted to; and therefore they see only with their eyes. I had to realise that there is a way the majority thinks and values, because of their disconnect from source. So from that point of view I understand the shallow behaviour of people and i have had to learn to have patience with the viewpoint of the majority of beings who do not respect the journey of the soul. I absolutely love being older now and feel so much better about myself and pleased with how i have grown; and treasure all the experiences I have been through, both positive and negative, as it has helped me develop my understanding and compassion. I wouldn't want to be my 25 year old self. Even if it meant that others thought better of me, or I was more attractive and desired. There's a whole other world inside of me that is more valuable to me than ever, and maybe if someone else with similar values could see it, there would be an appreciative connection, but for those whose eyes are closed to the spirit, I do not consider their influence in my world very valuable and I carry on being selective of quality rather than quantity of numbers in my connection with people and my impact on the world around me. If a person has the ability to first understand what value is, and can appreciate another being for their uniqueness, then only you can even begin to love. I never got married because I felt overwhelmed by the amount of craze about me and the emphasis people placed on outer beauty so much that it freaked me out and made me feel awful. It just made me imagine how horrible it would be if I grow older and then these same people would throw me away. That happened too. So I'm careful, grateful and keep my eyes open to what real value is for me in my life. To me, a smaller world with people who add value to your life, by appreciating you, and being loving, caring and supportive, is the most beautiful world I could create, appreciate and find meaning in
#14 shows how much you don't know about trauma and how it influences you. There are low value men who will intentionally devalue (sexually assault or slander) a high value woman out of their insecurity because they know that they don't stand a chance with her. And even the highest valued women have a limit to how much of that they can take.
Just because someone is above average in height doesn't mean that it is a sign of good genes, it just means that your parents or parent were tall.
A high value woman for herself or a high value woman for a nuclear family. These two are usually very very far apart 😒
A big apology to Alux. I’ve been watching for many years and this one time I made a comment without ever watching the video. I’m sorry, as your video was very balanced and informative. Again, sorry. 🙇🏾
No. They arent. Bc a woman without a family, is not high value. A woman that no man wants, is low value. Same with a man. If no woman wants him, he is low value.
@@vaderwilcox7398 haha. Say that to modern day women🥱. They are all about “SELF”
These are the characterstics of *perfect* woman and perfect doesn't exist for man and woman either. You don't have to be perfect for someone else, be who you like to be not the one which others want. You'll get the perfect fit for yourself only when you appreciate that you're imperfect in others vision but perfect in your eyes.
BE YOURSELF GIRLS AND IGNORE WHAT OTHERS WANT 😉
Lies. This will make a jezebelized low value woman.
You can be yourself but you’ll also be alone
EXCELLENT comment! 👏👏👏
@@smokenojoke8182 Not necessarily.
@@marciawade9101 nope. Lies made to make low value women feel better.
My situation is probably a bit unusual in that I don't want children. Mostly because I think life is cruel and disappointing and filled with suffering and I don't want to make someone I love have to be here. So I don't base my value on my biological clock or attracting a mate. I gauge my value by my contributions.
💯👏 You are incredible! And unfortunately a big rarity.
Are you willing to adopt?
It's not how to be a HVW but make yourself a HVW indeed.. 😊
Thank you Alux for the positivity and motivation that you're always share..
Eagerly waiting for the male version of this!
Low value men…eating burgers 🍔
High value men…eating water
HVW
Maybe you mentioned this in a certain way(s)
HVW are adaptogenic.
Calming, inspiring, healing.
Also HVW don't generally attract low vibrational "situations"
They tend to be balanced individuals that demonstrate perseverance, modesty and most of all compassion❣
Thank you
Highest value is Love 💕💕💕 self love and love 💞 for humanity 💜💜💜
A high value woman has the attributes of respectful ,trustworthy and loyal.
Make a video on low value men and high value
We should should judge ourselves before judging somebody else 😉
Coming next Sunday
You must be one of the feminist that does not like a video evaluating a woman. FO
This list is from society’s point of view and how she will be adding value to others & I feel it was accurate in that. Although there were few of them, it would have been good to see more points that makes her valuable beyond the conventional roles of motherhood and a partner. But I also believe all of these things are would make any person high value. I would personally add good management skills in all areas of life (time, finance, career & relationships etc), knowing how to take care of herself (emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually) and always evolving herself with time #hvm
Are you going to do a video on high value men and hold them to the same exacting standard?
Of course! Next Sunday!
I was once a low value women, I became high value when I became a better human, by being sincere, loving caring, and truly a hard working women.
A high value woman is confident and responsible.
Pleasant surprise to see that I am scoring 15/15. With jaw-dropping looks too. Though I had an arranged marriage, to a man who turned out to be abusive and low-value, still I stuck through and helped him become a millionare (with sound financial advice). And now I wish to 'retire', having lost almost all love and respect for him and also coz these years of abuse and hardship have taken a toll on my health and looks.
But now he is just not ready to leave me and marry somebody younger and more beautiful, because he says I can still add value to his life.
No wonder, some guys I turned down for marriage, years ago, still remain unmarried. Though I'd have liked them to be happily married, but came to know that they did not marry because I was their ideal.
Beauty is currency, so true. Beauty for a woman is like money for a man. Beauty will open doors for you.
8/15. "Unfortunately" I'm 40, and youth doesn't improve in time.
But I still have time to become elite 🤣
I honestly don't care what society thinks of me. I am who I am. That should be enough.
1, she can cook
2, she can clean
3. she can provide children
4. she's meek
5. she's loyal
6. she's loving
7.she can make your house a home
8.she looks after you
9.she supports your dream
10. she is modest
So basically from your last 2 videos what we need to understand is that a women’s value is her marriageability. So all her her worth is based on marriage. Glad that got cleared. In that case, yes you are right….youth, beauty, reputation, connections, elite ie rich family…
Yes, Karen, it’s her marriageability. Do you have a problem with that, Karen?
@@omnipotentwiz5101 whose marriage ability??..oh got it…someone thought I was talking about them in particular….oops sorry didn’t mean to
@@omnipotentwiz5101 when someone stresses a word so many times, they have lost sense of reality. Thanks for showing everyone who is the actual Karen. Bye and God bless you
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So.... a divorced woman is low value because she deserted the ship when times got rough? Does it make her unloyal?
I'm a divorced woman. I've stayed with my ex husband while we were separated and hid the separation because his mother got sick and we decided together it's better if the family doesn't know. His sister and I took turns doing his mother's nails while she was in the hospital. After every chemotherapy she only agreed to eat certain things I cooked especially for her. By the way, I was the one who started therapy, and the therapist told me we need couple counseling, so me going to therapy alone won't solve the problems that weren't mine: they were ours as a couple.
I might be a divorced woman but I'm a lot more loyal to my family than women who turn their husband against their mother or women who constantly fight their in-laws. I also know my value as a divorced woman is a lot higher than women my age who never even lived with anybody. I've noticed how most people my age are usually very immature romantically if they've never even lived with anybody. That's why I prefer to date divorced men who are in a good relationship with their exes and their family, and not men my age who never even lived with anybody.
You are a high value woman because you didn't let the experience of divorce define you. You are a high value woman. Well done HVW
That makes sense divorcee date divorcee that has good health relationship experience.
This reminds me of the list of accomplished women in Pride and Prejudice. And I will use the same words Elizabeth Bennet said: "I am no longer surprised at your knowing only six accomplished women. I rather wonder at your knowing any.”
I loved Pride& Prejudice. By the way, although Elizabeth and especially her angelic sister Jane were good, honest, caring, loving women, their market value was low because their dowries were not big and were nearly ruined when their little sister ran off with a guy. They were considered low value women despite being blameless ! Ah, and who judged them? A guy who was handsome, young& rich, Mr.Darcy, but too prideful and snobish (at least Mr Bingley was nice& kind but weak), who had an awful aunt and a sister that nearly ran away with the same guy Elisabeth 's sister did... a guy who behaved unpolitely at gatherings but turned his nose at others who made etiquette mistakes unintentionally, while he made them with intent... ughh !!🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@@CS-bu7lo I mentioned it because just like the list of Miss Bingley and Darcy had a ridiculous list of characteristics for an accomplished woman, so does the list in this video. No woman has every quality mentioned in this list. I don't think that even the late queen Elisabeth, who will stay the epitome of class, had all this
@@msinvincible2000 I knew a few women who fit the list, but they all ended up abused, taken for granted and/or left for newer sexy women. All they had done for their families, for years, meant nothing when their husbands became infatuated with newer sexy women, sadly...
This is all about being high value to men. There are many high value women in the eyes of the world that doesn't require beauty or youth: think Pulitzer and Nobel prize winners and female leaders of nations.
Thank you The Crimson Cure and Kevin Samuels (RIP 🙏❤) for bringing these terms into the psyche of so many spaces .
Facts..
Straight facts. KS is where this all started and CC continues to push it FWD.
@@tororuben9664 and they never mention how males should improve
@@curlyqween34 well the topic was women. If the trend holds they'll be doing one on HVM. They already more than a few videos focused on men. As for Kevin Samuels he spent the first few years of his effort focused on men standards and outcomes.
@@tororuben9664 no he didn’t really abs when he did it was very soft and not as hardcore
I agree with at least 14 of these traits - but if you are dating when you are over 40, there’s a very good chance that both you and the potential partner will have children and a “past”. Try telling my 48 year old CEO cousin, divorced with 2 teenagers after her C-level executive husband (yes, they were a power couple) ran off with an intern, that she is not “high value” because she has kids. She’s now in a very happy relationship with an investment banker 8 years her junior. She knows her value and has nothing to prove.
Exactly. A TH-cam video cannot define peoples worth. That story is very inspiring :)
Married or a piece for now until something better comes along?
@@Me-mn4nw Divorce is easy to obtain in the civilized world, so a marriage is not a guarantee he/she won't leave you. She was married with 2 kids with her well-off husband and he still left her for a young intern. I know many widowed or divorced single moms and dads and they want a good relationship, not necessarily marriage ( unless they are religious) with a good man/woman, even if they plan on having more children ( most places don't put a stygma on kids out of wedlock anymore).
@CS More and more people are putting stigmas on only parent households because studies are proving how dysfunctional those homes really are.
@@Me-mn4nw Studies can be ordered by groups with a certain interest. I can make one right now if I want to.
I grew up in a traditional family in the 80's, in a religious patriarchal society, in southeastern Europe. It looked good to the outside, but was full of abuse on the inside. The kids at my prestigious school had the same families, as divorce was rare back then. We were told as kids that "arguing and fighting parents and/or a beating once in a while is better than divorced parents". And yet, we saw with our own eyes, how much happier and carefree the kids of divorced parents were, after the divorce. Their single-parent households were quiet, without 2 parents yelling, fighting or abuse and were poorer only if the spouse didn't pay the kid alimony ( only the kids get alimony in my country). The only bad single parent household I knew were the ones where the parent/s continued to be abusive toward the kids, like they did before the divorce- domestic violence and childhood abuse laws were lacking in those days. Millenials in my country are not snowflakes because they were spoiled, they are so because of childhood and teen traumas inflicted by traditional parents that encouraged corporal punishments and made Millenials be good liers and actors to escape punishments. Ah, back in that day, contraception and abortions were illegal, so most of my generation was unwanted and thus treated badly. Unwilling parents will keep the Baby if society demands, but will not love him/her and will at best neglect that baby. I've seen it happen many times. I was wanted, but the traditional education was harsh and abusive. Parents can be good mother and father figures if they are divorced, but if they are bad people, they will not be good mothers and fathers even if married.
From #6, High value women rank high in social skills. Yes that makes sense, makes communication easy
U guys are awesome love the honest positive & realest negative vids.
if she's amazing she won't be easy
if she's easy, she won't be amazing
This video will trigger a lot of low value women, it’s a good thing for their awareness.
Hey, we all can’t be born into the Rothschild family. If me being raised in foster care makes me low value, it is what it is. I still made something of myself: 3 college degrees and a 6 figure tech sales job.
High value women
1. You are an asset
2. Natural beauty and fitness . Strong regiment and discipline
3. Ability to raise children and flourishing family
4. Comforting character and guiding light . Has the capacity where attention should go
5. Youth : mature in their youth
6. Desired by many high value men for marriage. They rank high in social skills
7. Irreproachable reputation. Near perfect reputation.
8. Visibility and fame . They shine.
9. Exuberant and inspiring. They inspire to become a better version for yourself
10. Self-aware, discerning and knows she is enough. The only way to move up is being objectively true.
11. Surrounded by high quality women.
12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career.
13. Can both lead and support . Knows how to be which versions leader or follower according in situations
14. Emotionally intelligent. Move beyond your emotional past.
15. Loyal and focused on the long-term goal. Stand by your partner through thick and thin
16. Ability to hold high value over time . Like Salma Hayek etc.
Protect this young lady!!💪🏾
A high value woman is one of empathy and respect.
Not necessarily. The ultimate high value woman is one who will kick an enemy's ass, to carve out breathing room to cultivate the other high value traits.
She will also have empathy and respect for the battle she enters to know the rules of engagement.
@@marcjohnson6487 Not necessarily. She can just play it by ear and flail at the enemy any old wild way til a lucky break turns up.
Can't wait till next week!
This has given me the what I need to talk to my girls off of the bimbo path. This is how community works, it is good when people share knowledge
If they are already on the path there is no use in changing now. “You are who you surround yourself with” so you are lowering your own value by associating with them.
This video makes sense to me. It has nothing to do with money. The way you present yourself in the world gets you into some beautiful places!
Everyday, I work on becoming a high value woman. 🌹
Absolutely correct Great job hitting the nail on the head multiple times🙌🏾🙌🏾
Oh they gave us "low value women" therefore they saw it necessary to give us high value women as well. Thank you Alux.
Guys get ready Alux is gonna definitely move to the guys pretty soon
next Sunday
Agree, power to you Alux for the willingness to talk about this. I would think Men mostly alr know what the traits are, conscious or unconsciously.
I would also predict there’ll be less hateful comments than when talking about women. 😂
15 indeed! :
1- Young Age
2- pretty face
3- slim body
4- medium height
5- narrow shoulders
6- C cup
7- innie V no hangers
8- no deep voice
9- no adam's apple
10- no man hands
11- no facial hair (some girls do)
12- no female balding pattern.
13- beautiful long hair
14- healthy teeth
15- fertiie
And that's not me saying~that's Nature 😵
Loving these definitions of a high-value woman compared to a low-value woman. Bravo!
I can admit I’m in between being High and Low Value (I guess that means I would be considered Low Value, by society standards). Some things on this list describe Me well. Others, I admittedly don’t fit in. I’m very self aware. Thing is, I’m also someone who doesn’t place much emphasis in the views and opinions of those around Me. I’m well aware I have My good and bad attributes. For the things that would otherwise deem Me as Low Value… if that’s the opinion others have, I let that be their view, to which they are so entitled, but it doesn’t change how I feel about Myself. To Me, the extent to which the standards in this list hold weight, also depends on the outlook of the person in question. Regardless of how much the standards on this list do or don’t apply to you, when you love, value, and respect yourself, and choose to be yourself and be happy with whatever you naturally come with, you won’t overly concern yourself with what society thinks… but, that confidence and self-assuredness will radiate to those around you, and that will have its own unique way of making you High Value, simply because you’re powerful enough to not let anything or anyone around you define you BUT YOU, regardless of your financial circumstances, your standing in any social circle, or anything else which may otherwise be technically superficial. I will say, overall, this list makes for a great conversation piece. Nice work.
Stop judging yourself, you're not a machine, you adapt to your circumstances and your environment. If need be, you'll go out of character, it's called survival mode. Who do you become high value woman for, it depends, if you're not abused, you flourish. Let's be kind to ourselves. Your relationship with God is more important than being a high value woman, be what God created you to be.. I've seen many so called high value women trampled upon. Jesus is the answer
"YOU ARE ENOUGH"!
I agree with all that.
Now on what planet do you find these ?
LOL
HVW who kept a copy of the LVW to make sure I never creep over the line because that video was intense. When a friend or organization enters my circle they become part of a collective that stretches beyond the norm. They become family. No, I'm not a mafia. However, family is forever.
I’m not a woman but this was a good video topic to go over.
This is the top 20% conversation piece. She is a reflection of you, choose wisely.