Escalation in night game is fast to escalate and it's just as fast for it to go the other direction. You're right in that Game is exactly like chess and each move you make or neglect to make leads to either advantageous or disadvantageous positions.
In all cases they have to find you physically attractive lol game just makes it were if she thinks you’re cute but not all that you can increase your chances of making her think okay who is this?now I wanna know.
He is right, I was at the club the other day grabbing my jacket from a booth and this young blonde stops me says you’re cute”, I said I gotta go”, she said take my insta”, lol
Todd I want to thank u from bottom of.my heart. If u are not there, depression would have sucked me and i would have ended up in a really bad place. Thanks for givimg me hope.
The best way to "go out" IS WITH FRIENDS and/or a girlfriend. Then you're already set and you can add value to anyone/any set. Tod: Open non verbally in a loud environment, transition into dancing. Being willing to project your voice. Conversing with the dj out front first on his smoke break. Talk to every one. Don't just target women. Speak nasal.
Damn that statement about the social contract really hit home with me. I struggle with approaching or even thinking about women in a sexual way because I genuinely feel it's a creepy behavior to have if you are at the grocery store, gym, school, wherever. There are purposes to be in those places but who goes to a bar expecting to just drink by themselves? It's more expensive and everyone knows it. They go for the social interaction. Or at the very least like you said they expect that they will be talked to.
Todd's Advice is the best no BS practical advice you'll find. His videos may be studied as a primer hundreds of years from now if the internet and humans still exists.
One time at a packed bar. I went to pull a lit cig out of my mouth, and my fingers slipped down the cig and knocked off the cherry and ash and tobacco embers got all over me and the bar and no one even noticed or cared lol
French dude here. I've been to clubs since 2017 (I'm 28 now) and I think nightgame gets harder and harder as the years pass when comparing 2017 to 2021. It seems to me that most girls go out to have a great time and to get male attention. I often do well if I can at some point handle the group (isolation, validation). The handling of the group has always been my stucking point. If she's into me and we get some private time, my autopilot mode will kick in. When in the club, I often check if people are making out and it's quite easy to tell if some dude just KC'd a chick or if they were a couple going out together. It's overwhelmingly the latter case. I really feel like it's getting harder because of the attention they get from Tinder and Instagram. My last nightgame pull was from 2019 and it wasn't even a French girl. Just a German girl visiting who wanted to have fun. Now, I get most of my lays from dating apps (damn Covid) but now that clubs have reopened in France, I wish I could get past this nightgame plateau. It may be a limiting belief but I'm always working on it!
Dating apps IMO are the reason relationships and marriages don’t last anymore. There is no incentive for people to stick through it when they can just go online and find someone else just like that. Dating apps btw are like buffets for women. They cater to them an half the time charge little to nothing to the woman yet stiff the man.
Engage the group more. Make sure to get the group is on your side in order to have their blessing to go after the friend. You can try a more traditional RSD approach by being more high energy and present in the moment. Hopefully that will help with your group issue. Make sure to address everyone in the group.
Bro any girl that’s tipsy will appreciate a confident good lookin guy approach and will give in easy you just gotta put yourself out there and risk getting a few rejections before scoring, and it’s easy af to do when you got liquor in your system
@@justinfernandez9876 I'm pretty fit and lean thanks to watching closely my diet so I usually avoid drinking alcohol when I go out. My issue is most of the time the group, like the friend typically pulling the girl away from me. I will try in the future to engage the group more as a whole which can be a little bit harder for a sober introvert like me, even more when I go out solo which I was much more used to doing before covid but I ain't quitting nor resorting to drinking alcohol to achieve my goal
Not all girls at clubs are actively on Tinder and Instagram. Even then, the attention they get from Instagram is just fake validation that means little to them. It’s not like they’re walking in the club thinking they’re the hottest just because of their like count. If she has attitude, then you just gotta match her energy without tripping over her insecurities.
Todd I’ve loved your style of explaining things and details since early rsd days. I have gotten a lot out of your teaching. I feel real bad about what Tyler did to you that sucks. Stay strong keep the flame lit
In my considerable experience, the vast majority of men are counter-productive as 'wingmen.' They either do not provide good company to your preferred girl's friend, do things that erode away at your chances, or actively compete with you. Choose wingman carefully, and even then, I find it very useful to engage in a briefing session with the guy prior to engaging girls to gauge whether the guy will become a problem.
*14:45** I though one ought to be indirect in nightgame?* 25:10 LMAO what morons would count that? 26:26 *OMG THAT IS BRILLIANT! If you are on the way to the club, and meet a girl, it would be kind of like daygame, but you have the option to ask here about her favorite clubs etc. and go there immediately!* *37:20** This whole section, having a friend be with you is so key! Not just in Game, a community of like-minded people gives you such a boost to confidence and motivation!*
Once you've opened the group, identify which one you're most interested in. Once you've done that, focus on giving the other girls that you're not interested in attention, being friendly etc. This will help you develop social proof with the group. Then for the one you actually want, focus on gaming her whether it's teasing, qualifying, push-pull, don't give her too much attention etc. That should help get her jealous and want you to chase her.
@@PUA-Dude keep it simple just friendzone them After they said something even if it's not funny, you can just smile and say : "fuck yeah you guys are amazing, I think we'd had been best friends in other life" Do 3 more of these things and you'd have established friend to friend premise successfully Obviously bear in mind that at the same time you're friendzoning the fatties, you must be showing intent or push pulling the hottie, so they all get the message what's the one you're interested in, then as soon as the opportunity of isolating your objective arises, go for it, so you get rid of the obstacles. Edit: if the friends of the girl you want get jealous of the fact you're interested in her, those are some very shitty asz friends, so that's not the type of girl you'd want to have a relationship with, because her friends are most probably going to deceive and sabotage your girl to think you're cheating or your girl herself may be like that too, we are the result of the 5 people we expend most of our time with, so you know be careful
8:00 positive self-talk, baby, be patient with urself, e,specially if u r coming back to game after a hiatus don't put pressure to have good interactions like u might've had bfre. Jus focus on approaching and taking action, imperfect action is better than no action! If you're harsh to urself then u will not wanna go again or if u do then it won't be a pleasant experience bcuz ur judging urself so hard
I have an Issue with emotional investment/hooking - can't seem to interact with a girl for more than 5-10 minutes without them walking off - what's the issue? Vibe/energy I think
That might not be a bad thing, but you want to know the ending of this lifestyle? Revelation 21:8 8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Oh what a party, huh? Let me give you a better way. You might think I'm crazy at first, but please take the time. You may be fairly good with "game," and some of this can be helpful but please let me share this with you, it would mean the world to me. You can call me crazy, this is completely countercultural, but hear me out this extremely important. Matthew 16:26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? Hebrews 11:25 “Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;” Seriously think about that. What's worth going to hell for? 2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 1 Corinthians 7 1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 1 Thessalonians Chapter 4 3 For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: 4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; 5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: 1 Thess 5 21Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 22Abstain from all appearance of evil. James 1:15 - Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: andSIN, when it is finished, bringeth forth DEATH. Revelation 21 7He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son. 8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. The pleasures of this world seem so great and there is nothing that God has to offer that would be better. Is fornication or anything of the sort worth it if you ultimately end up in the lake of fire? Let me ask you, do you have guilt over your wrong doings? How do you deal with that guilt? Most people think they are a good person, but one sin is enough to bring eternal hell fire. And you cannot compare yourself to one another, but only to the One who is holy holy holy. There's only One you can save you with his own blood. Here's what you can do. I really want to help you. Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Romans 6 23For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Acts 3:19 - Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord; Here is the gospel straight and simple: 1. Admit you are a sinner that can only be saved by the blood of Jesus Christ 2. Believe that Jesus died for and covered all of your sins and rose again. 3. Confess to Jesus Christ that he is your saviour. Please let me know. I am praying for you.
4:08 this is exactly why I want nothing to do with bars and clubs in the sense of finding girls. I’ve been to bars (in restaurants, for food (😂)) but I might have to try going to a bar and or club just to see how ridiculous it is as you suggested.
Yo how do you get over the mental aspect of goin out solo if you do at all?? I like the freedom of being out solo when I’m in the venue but it’s clearly a different level of social proof when I’m with a friend
Daygame is always harder than any type of game, thats where you get to experience what it is you call ''you''. Its not about the girl, it is about you.
I heard one particular gal say, the mistakes guys make is that they pedestalize women and don't see them as another human being: people. I would imagine that mean she's just another person.
Todd I respect your game. You know your stuff inside and out. Learned a lot from your videos. Would you rather have one solid LTR thats fits your ideal vision or randomly sleep and short term relationship many girls? Like does it ever get boring for you and if so how do you deal/copy with it.
Wish I could follow you and do this Todd. Sadly at 51, clubbing is too late for me. Never got it right when I was younger. It's sad. Can't ever make up for this.
@@bencrosbie I've gotten some advice, going to be trying to find places that that's good non-alcoholic drinks, mocktails etc, going to do some field work and can report back.
I do game without drinking, as I am always driving. Sobriety is the best state to build a skill, because you need to deal with all your insecurities. It is the best learning experience.
You think so, Freddy. You want to know the ending of this lifestyle? Revelation 21:8 8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Oh what a party, huh? Let me give you a better way. You might think I'm crazy at first, but please take the time. You may be fairly good with "game," and some of this can be helpful but please let me share this with you, it would mean the world to me. You can call me crazy, this is completely countercultural, but hear me out this extremely important. Matthew 16:26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? Hebrews 11:25 “Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;” Seriously think about that. What's worth going to hell for? 2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 1 Corinthians 7 1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 1 Thessalonians Chapter 4 3 For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: 4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; 5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: 1 Thess 5 21Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 22Abstain from all appearance of evil. James 1:15 - Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: andSIN, when it is finished, bringeth forth DEATH. Revelation 21 7He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son. 8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. The pleasures of this world seem so great and there is nothing that God has to offer that would be better. Is fornication or anything of the sort worth it if you ultimately end up in the lake of fire? Let me ask you, do you have guilt over your wrong doings? How do you deal with that guilt? Most people think they are a good person, but one sin is enough to bring eternal hell fire. And you cannot compare yourself to one another, but only to the One who is holy holy holy. There's only One you can save you with his own blood. Here's what you can do. I really want to help you. Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Romans 6 23For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Acts 3:19 - Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord; Here is the gospel straight and simple: 1. Admit you are a sinner that can only be saved by the blood of Jesus Christ 2. Believe that Jesus died for and covered all of your sins and rose again. 3. Confess to Jesus Christ that he is your saviour. Please let me know. I am praying for you.
Todd, I like your videos and your tutorials. They are really helpful and instructional. However, have you ever thought of settling and starting a family one day?
Imo, nightclub lets u get physical as u have to get a hold on the girl and speak into her ear. Besides, girls there are quite approachable. In fact, they're waiting for it.
I was at a bar a while back and approached a girl and her friend. We started talking and it was going great, I was teasing her, bringing her friend into the conversation, soon they were both laughing and smiling. I went to walk away and they stopped me and asked what my name was. I told them, then said I was gonna go back to my friends but I'd see them later. I saw her several times throughout the night, each time we talked, made lots of eye contact and had a good vibe between us. The 4th time I saw her she had her back turned and was with her friends. I walked by and tapped her on the back, she turned and I smiled at her. Right after that one of her friends came up to me and told me to leave her alone, and that she didn't want me touching her because it made her feel uncomfortable. That's the usual outcome I get, no matter how good the interaction is, any escalation at all, even a very minor one, gets met with her, her friends, or security telling me to back off.
You should have asked her contact at the end of the first time or during the second time you talked to her, and then left her alone the rest of the evening. She probably saw you as a creepy stalker glued to her. You already know how to initiate contact and talk to women. You just messed up because you dragged out the interaction for too long.
@@omarel-begawy7397 That's very possible, I was more focused on just enjoying myself and having fun instead of talking with her, so each time I saw her I just naturally started talking with her again. But yeah, I'll try that next time. Either talk with her and stick it out or get her contact and move on. Thanks man!
What would you guys do if you engage the girl's group in the club but you're flat broke and they're going crazy with the bill, even though you're just drinking water? Would you pay just for what you drank (and how would you frame it?) or share the bill with the rest?
Great video Tod, once again :) I have a question regarding situation that happened to me. I approached this one girl in the club, hit it off really nicely, spent like 10 minutes talking and teasing her, but nothing happened as "she had a boyfriend". Several minutes after that, I approached another girl, who saw me approach the girl above, and I got a feeling that she wasn't interested because I approached the first girl, and looked like I will approach any girl in the club. Is my reading right - do girls dislike being "the second choice"? Should I not approach girls that already saw me flirting with someone else? Thanks for the answer!
The first girl shit tested you with the classic line. Next time just pass it and then continue demonstrating your high value to her. As for the second girl, I think you may have let that first rejection get to your head. Having the mentality of "it's their loss, anyways" really does wonders.
My guess is it's your approach. maybe it looks like an approach instead of an organic conversation. Start by removing your expectations in advance. That helps me go from person to person in a friendly social manner without looking like approach because I'm not going into with any type of expectation (other than to have fun). Chemistry will dictate how far convo goes anyway. Pay attention to interest level. I won't try to power thru & hit on someone who isn't interested. Women will give signals. What I'm saying is in the model I'm talking about it should look like a conversation ended, not a rejection.
Masterclass. Im very good with dating because i can speak about Many subject and listen weel and girls Think im beautiful but im suck in nigth mode so its a big help to me. Im so shy on party 😅🤣
Ive heard this somewhere "higher body count can age u faster" idont see the purpose of over dating, to find what actually? ahem fun?? even MBting feels exhausting after a certain age/point and im saying this as a 26y old.
Hi, I hope somebody can put some input in this: I went out today to a club, had an amazing time, I always let loose and dance alone or with whomever I'm with, but this time I decided to be more social outside the bubble and I talked to the bartender ( a girl), a guy bartender, some dude at the restroom, another random dude etc but when I decided to approach an attractive girl, I made a comment about her tattoo and she didn't even say anything but I could tell from her face she was like "why the fuck are u talking to me" anyway, I moved on and act as if nothing happened, I didn't let it get to me much. My question is idk how to talk aloud in this kidn of environments where you either fuck your vocal chords for a week or the girl doesn't even hear what you told her. Are loud clubs really an option to meet girls when you can't even hear your own voice speaking? I think that's why I prefer daygame
I don't do nightgame, I just show up to the club with multiple girls already lol, takes away most of the things that cause this "stress" from being in environments of being in nightclubs
I can get into a conversation with just about anyone.. but If I like a woman.. I'll talk myself into a circle.. and then get nervous and check out ... and excuse myself
@@britox.6216 from what I understood it was held back because Todd's Mentorship Program preceded it, well now that this program is live, VGA should follow up next and release within the next 1-2 months at the most hopefully (Todd responded that it's coming out "soon" in a previous video so, it shouldn't take longer than that)
As someone else said in the comments it's coming soon/next. This was already in the works when the time was right for that launch, so this order made sense. They're both going to be epic, and quite different products.
Hi I want to be a part of the program but in my country (France) you can't go take a drink without the Vaxxine or a special Pass. Idk if it makes sense to go out, approach girls get some numbers & dates if at the end we can't take a drink... What do you guys think ? Also, I'm a beginner in this kind of game (with strangers) but I have pretty good success with girls from my social circle
Seems like there are bigger problems to focus on when you've got so little self control and/or the ability to handle alcohol that you're consistently behaving in ways that gets you banned.
@@Zuesmericai Your style of filming and stalking girls in your videos is disturbingly creepy. You don't seem to have realized from the people repeatedly throwing you out of their businesses and the girls angrily shouting at you to get away from them, but you have WAY bigger issues to deal with than trying to figure out how to learn pick up.
Beware of sour grapes and comfortable excuses. Sour grapes is when you want to do something, but present to the world that you don't want to do it, so it doesn't make you look pathetic for failing in your attempts to do it. Comfortable excuses is also about posturing but instead you rationalize how forces beyond your control prevent you doing it. Doing these things might seem like it makes you feel better but it destroys you in the long run.
I hope you enjoy this primer on nightgame that gets results. Much more is available at toddvmentoring.com
Escalation in night game is fast to escalate and it's just as fast for it to go the other direction. You're right in that Game is exactly like chess and each move you make or neglect to make leads to either advantageous or disadvantageous positions.
My wife's boyfriend has banned me from watching pick-up but luckily they're out at the moment so I can get a quick video in, thanks Todd 👍
Lol, What??
Dude that’s not a healthy relationship
@@SuperSymbiote1 - reckon it's a joke, hopefully....
We found the mayor of Simp City
hahahahaha hes got to be kidding
A lot of night game has to do with if the girl finds you physically attractive and if your vibe is good.
In all cases they have to find you physically attractive lol game just makes it were if she thinks you’re cute but not all that you can increase your chances of making her think okay who is this?now I wanna know.
@Andrew yeah if she’s shit faced but most girls don’t get to drunk in the clubs so that’s why you still need game to pull
He is right, I was at the club the other day grabbing my jacket from a booth and this young blonde stops me says you’re cute”, I said I gotta go”, she said take my insta”, lol
respect on the title, Todd V going all out for the algorithm haha, lets see what comes of it.
He forgot to say also I got 100 different types of std
@@gabakusa heard of condoms?
@@Ateszika lmao
@@gabakusa There's actually an old video where Todd addresses fears of getting STDs and how they are often blown out of proportion haha
@Anonymous Apple yes
Todd can’t say how much we appreciate the gems🙏🏾
Todd I want to thank u from bottom of.my heart. If u are not there, depression would have sucked me and i would have ended up in a really bad place. Thanks for givimg me hope.
The best way to "go out" IS WITH FRIENDS and/or a girlfriend. Then you're already set and you can add value to anyone/any set. Tod: Open non verbally in a loud environment, transition into dancing. Being willing to project your voice. Conversing with the dj out front first on his smoke break. Talk to every one. Don't just target women. Speak nasal.
No the real best way to go out is by yourself
By yourself is when you test your luck
Damn that statement about the social contract really hit home with me. I struggle with approaching or even thinking about women in a sexual way because I genuinely feel it's a creepy behavior to have if you are at the grocery store, gym, school, wherever. There are purposes to be in those places but who goes to a bar expecting to just drink by themselves? It's more expensive and everyone knows it. They go for the social interaction. Or at the very least like you said they expect that they will be talked to.
Kudos to your marketing guy Todd, he knows how to use the latest algorithm to your favor!
How did he do that?
Todd's Advice is the best no BS practical advice you'll find.
His videos may be studied as a primer hundreds of years from now if the internet and humans still exists.
this is one of the best videos on youtube, my game will improve for sure, thanks bro... my favorite part, early-night game
You bring so much value in your content. Thank you
One time at a packed bar. I went to pull a lit cig out of my mouth, and my fingers slipped down the cig and knocked off the cherry and ash and tobacco embers got all over me and the bar and no one even noticed or cared lol
Night game sounds harder, but much more rewarding than day game.
I’ve mostly done night game, I am scared of day game lol
Lol I always wanted to be the first one to like a video and I finally made it😂😂😂
Lol, massive achievement 👏
winning
I like your long videos like this in which you drop some real damn knowledge . Thanks man
French dude here.
I've been to clubs since 2017 (I'm 28 now) and I think nightgame gets harder and harder as the years pass when comparing 2017 to 2021. It seems to me that most girls go out to have a great time and to get male attention. I often do well if I can at some point handle the group (isolation, validation). The handling of the group has always been my stucking point. If she's into me and we get some private time, my autopilot mode will kick in.
When in the club, I often check if people are making out and it's quite easy to tell if some dude just KC'd a chick or if they were a couple going out together. It's overwhelmingly the latter case.
I really feel like it's getting harder because of the attention they get from Tinder and Instagram. My last nightgame pull was from 2019 and it wasn't even a French girl. Just a German girl visiting who wanted to have fun.
Now, I get most of my lays from dating apps (damn Covid) but now that clubs have reopened in France, I wish I could get past this nightgame plateau. It may be a limiting belief but I'm always working on it!
Dating apps IMO are the reason relationships and marriages don’t last anymore. There is no incentive for people to stick through it when they can just go online and find someone else just like that. Dating apps btw are like buffets for women. They cater to them an half the time charge little to nothing to the woman yet stiff the man.
Engage the group more. Make sure to get the group is on your side in order to have their blessing to go after the friend. You can try a more traditional RSD approach by being more high energy and present in the moment. Hopefully that will help with your group issue. Make sure to address everyone in the group.
Bro any girl that’s tipsy will appreciate a confident good lookin guy approach and will give in easy you just gotta put yourself out there and risk getting a few rejections before scoring, and it’s easy af to do when you got liquor in your system
@@justinfernandez9876 I'm pretty fit and lean thanks to watching closely my diet so I usually avoid drinking alcohol when I go out. My issue is most of the time the group, like the friend typically pulling the girl away from me. I will try in the future to engage the group more as a whole which can be a little bit harder for a sober introvert like me, even more when I go out solo which I was much more used to doing before covid but I ain't quitting nor resorting to drinking alcohol to achieve my goal
Not all girls at clubs are actively on Tinder and Instagram. Even then, the attention they get from Instagram is just fake validation that means little to them. It’s not like they’re walking in the club thinking they’re the hottest just because of their like count. If she has attitude, then you just gotta match her energy without tripping over her insecurities.
Todd I’ve loved your style of explaining things and details since early rsd days. I have gotten a lot out of your teaching. I feel real bad about what Tyler did to you that sucks. Stay strong keep the flame lit
In my considerable experience, the vast majority of men are counter-productive as 'wingmen.' They either do not provide good company to your preferred girl's friend, do things that erode away at your chances, or actively compete with you. Choose wingman carefully, and even then, I find it very useful to engage in a briefing session with the guy prior to engaging girls to gauge whether the guy will become a problem.
Good wingmen are invaluable, it's just not easy to find good ones.
😂 that's true
*14:45** I though one ought to be indirect in nightgame?*
25:10 LMAO what morons would count that?
26:26 *OMG THAT IS BRILLIANT! If you are on the way to the club, and meet a girl, it would be kind of like daygame, but you have the option to ask here about her favorite clubs etc. and go there immediately!*
*37:20** This whole section, having a friend be with you is so key! Not just in Game, a community of like-minded people gives you such a boost to confidence and motivation!*
Golden! I get something to learn from your every single video.
Todd coming back w the gems!
Man I could have used this 4 nights ago just got back from vacation 🤦🏻
Where did you go for vacation? Did you go with a friend?
@Arid Sohan 4 nights of straight clubbing until they close down specially at a beach resort doesn’t seem like bad odds
@@healthfitnessentials7446 ocean city with 4 female friends and one of their boyfriend. Others were single
First of all in group sets, how do you deal with other woman's jealousy to actually get the one that you want?
Once you've opened the group, identify which one you're most interested in. Once you've done that, focus on giving the other girls that you're not interested in attention, being friendly etc. This will help you develop social proof with the group. Then for the one you actually want, focus on gaming her whether it's teasing, qualifying, push-pull, don't give her too much attention etc. That should help get her jealous and want you to chase her.
Maybe you have to be so fun that the jealous ladies forget about it
@@PUA-Dude keep it simple just friendzone them
After they said something even if it's not funny, you can just smile and say : "fuck yeah you guys are amazing, I think we'd had been best friends in other life"
Do 3 more of these things and you'd have established friend to friend premise successfully
Obviously bear in mind that at the same time you're friendzoning the fatties, you must be showing intent or push pulling the hottie, so they all get the message what's the one you're interested in, then as soon as the opportunity of isolating your objective arises, go for it, so you get rid of the obstacles.
Edit: if the friends of the girl you want get jealous of the fact you're interested in her, those are some very shitty asz friends, so that's not the type of girl you'd want to have a relationship with, because her friends are most probably going to deceive and sabotage your girl to think you're cheating or your girl herself may be like that too, we are the result of the 5 people we expend most of our time with, so you know be careful
I miss going to bars, gotta go again
Same
Clubs are just a spot to hook up which is not a good thing. Getting as many women as possible should not be the goal.
in Australia, the nightclub owner says he will throw out any guy who stares at a girl.
lmao, hows he gonna make money?
Todd said- "Honest signals"🤣.
30:49
I like the concept of the 'Night Arc' shown here. But at most US clubs, by around 1AM-2AM it's generally a sausage fest.
I find it easier to find more women after the club closes and everyone is out on the streets trying to hitch a Uber ride
@@FaisalAdvising feel like that’s picking from the leftovers… 😭😂
1000%. They’ve moved on to after parties or some guys place by then. Clubs are actually almost pregame.
8:00 positive self-talk, baby, be patient with urself, e,specially if u r coming back to game after a hiatus don't put pressure to have good interactions like u might've had bfre. Jus focus on approaching and taking action, imperfect action is better than no action! If you're harsh to urself then u will not wanna go again or if u do then it won't be a pleasant experience bcuz ur judging urself so hard
Great Stuff Todd.
I have an Issue with emotional investment/hooking - can't seem to interact with a girl for more than 5-10 minutes without them walking off - what's the issue? Vibe/energy I think
I suggest you reading "mate"
Hello, Todd. Awesome video. Are you planning to do similar video for daygame?
There is one inside the mentorship course... as well as the full version of this one. toddvmentoring.com/
Clubs make me nervous.
That might not be a bad thing, but you want to know the ending of this lifestyle?
Revelation 21:8
8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Oh what a party, huh?
Let me give you a better way.
You might think I'm crazy at first, but please take the time.
You may be fairly good with "game," and some of this can be helpful but please let me share this with you, it would mean the world to me. You can call me crazy, this is completely countercultural, but hear me out this extremely important.
Matthew 16:26
For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
Hebrews 11:25
“Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;”
Seriously think about that. What's worth going to hell for?
2 Timothy 2:22
Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 7
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
1 Thessalonians Chapter 4
3 For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; 5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
1 Thess 5
21Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 22Abstain from all appearance of evil.
James 1:15 - Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: andSIN, when it is finished, bringeth forth DEATH.
Revelation 21
7He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son.
8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
The pleasures of this world seem so great and there is nothing that God has to offer that would be better. Is fornication or anything of the sort worth it if you ultimately end up in the lake of fire?
Let me ask you, do you have guilt over your wrong doings? How do you deal with that guilt? Most people think they are a good person, but one sin is enough to bring eternal hell fire. And you cannot compare yourself to one another, but only to the One who is holy holy holy. There's only One you can save you with his own blood. Here's what you can do. I really want to help you.
Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Romans 6
23For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Acts 3:19 - Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord;
Here is the gospel straight and simple:
1. Admit you are a sinner that can only be saved by the blood of Jesus Christ
2. Believe that Jesus died for and covered all of your sins and rose again.
3. Confess to Jesus Christ that he is your saviour.
Please let me know. I am praying for you.
As the world burns...Samson Option.
Night game leading to car fun is my preferred routine at this point. It's almost disappointing to JUST meet Women and get their info. Lol
I have to say recently online game has gone past my night game. Day game is still something I don't do a lot.
why not? daygame is the best.
4:08 this is exactly why I want nothing to do with bars and clubs in the sense of finding girls. I’ve been to bars (in restaurants, for food (😂)) but I might have to try going to a bar and or club just to see how ridiculous it is as you suggested.
As someone who’s done night game for 5+ years and getting exponentially better. This is great advice for someone who is starting out.
Yo how do you get over the mental aspect of goin out solo if you do at all?? I like the freedom of being out solo when I’m in the venue but it’s clearly a different level of social proof when I’m with a friend
the video edition is savage
11:23- "Nah see, gonna go for ride, see, nahhhhhh."
Some guys hey their kicks from day game and some from night game. I personally think day games requires a higher level of skill.
Daygame is always harder than any type of game, thats where you get to experience what it is you call ''you''.
Its not about the girl, it is about you.
I heard one particular gal say, the mistakes guys make is that they pedestalize women and don't see them as another human being: people. I would imagine that mean she's just another person.
Todd I respect your game. You know your stuff inside and out. Learned a lot from your videos. Would you rather have one solid LTR thats fits your ideal vision or randomly sleep and short term relationship many girls? Like does it ever get boring for you and if so how do you deal/copy with it.
Both
love your content. could you make a video that how to get a girl even if u have ruined your image in front of everyone around her?
Just talk to another girl. You dont glue a glass together when its broken, you just get another glas.
Gg
Hey Todd, is the podcast gonna have more episodes in the future ? I was really enjoying it
Changing the title as testing I see I see
Wish I could follow you and do this Todd. Sadly at 51, clubbing is too late for me. Never got it right when I was younger. It's sad. Can't ever make up for this.
Hang in there buddy never say never. Game has no age limit
So what do you do to work on night game if you don't drink or do drugs? Being clean/sober seems a big challenge when trying to build these skills.
I have the same problem
@@bencrosbie I've gotten some advice, going to be trying to find places that that's good non-alcoholic drinks, mocktails etc, going to do some field work and can report back.
@@krazykaz1983OG Ah yes good one may look into that
I do game without drinking, as I am always driving.
Sobriety is the best state to build a skill, because you need to deal with all your insecurities. It is the best learning experience.
Doing it sober is definitely the best way to game, doing it with substances doesn’t build your natural personality/confidence
Amazing content !
You think so, Freddy. You want to know the ending of this lifestyle?
Revelation 21:8
8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Oh what a party, huh?
Let me give you a better way.
You might think I'm crazy at first, but please take the time.
You may be fairly good with "game," and some of this can be helpful but please let me share this with you, it would mean the world to me. You can call me crazy, this is completely countercultural, but hear me out this extremely important.
Matthew 16:26
For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
Hebrews 11:25
“Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;”
Seriously think about that. What's worth going to hell for?
2 Timothy 2:22
Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 7
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
1 Thessalonians Chapter 4
3 For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; 5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
1 Thess 5
21Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 22Abstain from all appearance of evil.
James 1:15 - Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: andSIN, when it is finished, bringeth forth DEATH.
Revelation 21
7He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son.
8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
The pleasures of this world seem so great and there is nothing that God has to offer that would be better. Is fornication or anything of the sort worth it if you ultimately end up in the lake of fire?
Let me ask you, do you have guilt over your wrong doings? How do you deal with that guilt? Most people think they are a good person, but one sin is enough to bring eternal hell fire. And you cannot compare yourself to one another, but only to the One who is holy holy holy. There's only One you can save you with his own blood. Here's what you can do. I really want to help you.
Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Romans 6
23For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Acts 3:19 - Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord;
Here is the gospel straight and simple:
1. Admit you are a sinner that can only be saved by the blood of Jesus Christ
2. Believe that Jesus died for and covered all of your sins and rose again.
3. Confess to Jesus Christ that he is your saviour.
Please let me know. I am praying for you.
Todd keep it up
Good covid refresher / 101-course ;)
TEAM TODD
Todd, I like your videos and your tutorials. They are really helpful and instructional. However, have you ever thought of settling and starting a family one day?
Why would he?
With the divorce trend these days, it's a nah.
Imo, nightclub lets u get physical as u have to get a hold on the girl and speak into her ear. Besides, girls there are quite approachable. In fact, they're waiting for it.
It's spelt hundreds. You didn't sleep with _one hundreds_ of girls.
Any news about verbal game?
I was at a bar a while back and approached a girl and her friend. We started talking and it was going great, I was teasing her, bringing her friend into the conversation, soon they were both laughing and smiling. I went to walk away and they stopped me and asked what my name was. I told them, then said I was gonna go back to my friends but I'd see them later.
I saw her several times throughout the night, each time we talked, made lots of eye contact and had a good vibe between us.
The 4th time I saw her she had her back turned and was with her friends. I walked by and tapped her on the back, she turned and I smiled at her.
Right after that one of her friends came up to me and told me to leave her alone, and that she didn't want me touching her because it made her feel uncomfortable.
That's the usual outcome I get, no matter how good the interaction is, any escalation at all, even a very minor one, gets met with her, her friends, or security telling me to back off.
You should have asked her contact at the end of the first time or during the second time you talked to her, and then left her alone the rest of the evening. She probably saw you as a creepy stalker glued to her.
You already know how to initiate contact and talk to women. You just messed up because you dragged out the interaction for too long.
@@omarel-begawy7397 That's very possible, I was more focused on just enjoying myself and having fun instead of talking with her, so each time I saw her I just naturally started talking with her again.
But yeah, I'll try that next time. Either talk with her and stick it out or get her contact and move on. Thanks man!
I miss you Todd
What if you don’t drink and have no friends as you recently separated and have no social circle?
I have never seen a more raw expression of seduction than at 11:25
Cheeoww!!
What would you guys do if you engage the girl's group in the club but you're flat broke and they're going crazy with the bill, even though you're just drinking water? Would you pay just for what you drank (and how would you frame it?) or share the bill with the rest?
don’t be afraid to let them pay for themselves. Your not their bank.
If you're broke stay out of clubs dude.
Do you have to buy them drinks? I only buy my friends drinks.
Great video Tod, once again :) I have a question regarding situation that happened to me.
I approached this one girl in the club, hit it off really nicely, spent like 10 minutes talking and teasing her, but nothing happened as "she had a boyfriend".
Several minutes after that, I approached another girl, who saw me approach the girl above, and I got a feeling that she wasn't interested because I approached the first girl, and looked like I will approach any girl in the club.
Is my reading right - do girls dislike being "the second choice"? Should I not approach girls that already saw me flirting with someone else?
Thanks for the answer!
Dude, you already answered your own ? You already know the answer🍑
Tune into your true sex drive
The first girl shit tested you with the classic line. Next time just pass it and then continue demonstrating your high value to her. As for the second girl, I think you may have let that first rejection get to your head. Having the mentality of "it's their loss, anyways" really does wonders.
My guess is it's your approach. maybe it looks like an approach instead of an organic conversation. Start by removing your expectations in advance. That helps me go from person to person in a friendly social manner without looking like approach because I'm not going into with any type of expectation (other than to have fun). Chemistry will dictate how far convo goes anyway. Pay attention to interest level. I won't try to power thru & hit on someone who isn't interested. Women will give signals. What I'm saying is in the model I'm talking about it should look like a conversation ended, not a rejection.
Earplugs. Other people still have to yell for you to hear them, but there is no pain in the ears afterwards :)
2 things: Thanks Todd
Masterclass. Im very good with dating because i can speak about Many subject and listen weel and girls Think im beautiful but im suck in nigth mode so its a big help to me. Im so shy on party 😅🤣
Ive heard this somewhere "higher body count can age u faster" idont see the purpose of over dating, to find what actually? ahem fun?? even MBting feels exhausting after a certain age/point and im saying this as a 26y old.
What is that bangin intro song?
Todd you are such a helpful resource full in knowledge that works thank you everytime.
Hi, I hope somebody can put some input in this:
I went out today to a club, had an amazing time, I always let loose and dance alone or with whomever I'm with, but this time I decided to be more social outside the bubble and I talked to the bartender ( a girl), a guy bartender, some dude at the restroom, another random dude etc but when I decided to approach an attractive girl, I made a comment about her tattoo and she didn't even say anything but I could tell from her face she was like "why the fuck are u talking to me" anyway, I moved on and act as if nothing happened, I didn't let it get to me much. My question is idk how to talk aloud in this kidn of environments where you either fuck your vocal chords for a week or the girl doesn't even hear what you told her. Are loud clubs really an option to meet girls when you can't even hear your own voice speaking? I think that's why I prefer daygame
hows it going
Other dudes watch me out of jealousy
What if I live 30 miles away from downtown?
11:23 Todd are you imitating Tyler?
This man is the Jordan Petersom of "The Game"
Respect my dude, wish I found your channel before
I’m starting tonight at a club let’s see if I’m successful.
Your first title was better!
Night is cold, girls need to heat up
I don't do nightgame, I just show up to the club with multiple girls already lol, takes away most of the things that cause this "stress" from being in environments of being in nightclubs
So you are the one that's paying everything 😄
I'm a rookie and I need to put in work.
Todd you look like you partied a little harder than usual in this vid 😂
"You don't want to be fully nasal" - what percentage ratio nasal to diaphragm is optimal? 70/30%? 80/20%? 75/25%? 👃
What about menages with group of two?
🔥🔥🔥
Night gaming = sexual vibes
does going out doing game change as you get older? like to people percieve you to be weird if you are like 35+ and gaming chicks in their 20's?
No way. Im 32 and date women down to 20. they like mature women. Just keep youreself fit and fresh looking
I can get into a conversation with just about anyone.. but If I like a woman.. I'll talk myself into a circle.. and then get nervous and check out ... and excuse myself
is the system still available?
I hate clubs, they're too loud.
Verbal game academy?
Good question, why nightgame? I want VGA!
@SoliDeoGloria 07 verbal game academy
@@britox.6216 from what I understood it was held back because Todd's Mentorship Program preceded it, well now that this program is live, VGA should follow up next and release within the next 1-2 months at the most hopefully
(Todd responded that it's coming out "soon" in a previous video so, it shouldn't take longer than that)
@@marimoerostraw 🙏🏽🤞🏽
@@britox.6216 I'm anticipating for VGA the same as you, we just need a little more patience brother 💪😎
As someone else said in the comments it's coming soon/next. This was already in the works when the time was right for that launch, so this order made sense. They're both going to be epic, and quite different products.
Won’t find a quality girlfriend
off night clubs
Just for fun
Not true, all Kind of girls Go there
27:18 - Can someone explain why being under 21 is so different for bar nightgame?
In the US you need to be at least 21 to enter a club/ drink
I've slept with 0 in the last 13 years...
😂 😂 😂
You lying bro
Hi I want to be a part of the program but in my country (France) you can't go take a drink without the Vaxxine or a special Pass. Idk if it makes sense to go out, approach girls get some numbers & dates if at the end we can't take a drink... What do you guys think ?
Also, I'm a beginner in this kind of game (with strangers) but I have pretty good success with girls from my social circle
Invite her for wine at your place
Just get vaccinated then
@@qwertzqwertz7618 ahahah what a crazy idea
@@deyanbabic3234 But a good one
@@qwertzqwertz7618 cucky attitude. day game
Todd. I have a campus that I go to bars at but half of them kicked me out soo how can I make the approach not even being able to go into the bars?
Seems like there are bigger problems to focus on when you've got so little self control and/or the ability to handle alcohol that you're consistently behaving in ways that gets you banned.
@@johnmatthew8710 nooo bro
@@Zuesmericai Your style of filming and stalking girls in your videos is disturbingly creepy. You don't seem to have realized from the people repeatedly throwing you out of their businesses and the girls angrily shouting at you to get away from them, but you have WAY bigger issues to deal with than trying to figure out how to learn pick up.
😂😂😂😂😂
I'm so tired
so what ?
Don't waste your time. This is the future according to Bill Gates and Jerome Powell. Wait until you are 87 years old.
Beware of sour grapes and comfortable excuses. Sour grapes is when you want to do something, but present to the world that you don't want to do it, so it doesn't make you look pathetic for failing in your attempts to do it. Comfortable excuses is also about posturing but instead you rationalize how forces beyond your control prevent you doing it. Doing these things might seem like it makes you feel better but it destroys you in the long run.
Bro I’ve never seen it put like that but I definitely engage with the comfortable excuses nonsense. I’m screenshotting this it’s gold
11:25 my face when she says she’s a non binary gender.
L