I cried so much hearing Ben shared his side of the story. I can't wait for my husband and I to have a baby too. We've been married for 2 years and been praying since then. You're blessed Jen and Ben for having Aria ❤️
serenity beauty it took us 2 years to get pregnant and then I had an early miscarriage.. it can be a rough journey, lots of heartbreak and doubt. I wish you all the best. I have a 1 year old now, she's such a happy baby, definitely worth the wait. She brings me pure joy. But I do remember the time that I would get upset every time I noticed a baby or pregnant woman.. wondering if it would ever happen for me.
Hey guys thank you SO much for watching the video and being there for us as a family. If you'd like to check out Ben's instagram (his daily stories Aria are sooooo cute) you can follow him at instagram.com/ben.ja.mins/ 👨👩👧
Love both your stories. My babies are all grown now but I get such a kick out of watching Aria grow! The noises she makes when she loves her food...❤️precious family💕
@Nellie, while you comment is absolutely true, it is irrelevant in this comment thread. I don't think anyone here is suggesting that men are the only problem, but truth is, A LOT of men (and a lot of women who have never given birth, too!) truly don't understand how severe of an affect postpartum can have on a woman, not just physically, but even more so mentally. (And don't say suck it up, buttercup. These are true chemical / hormonal changes that aren't something you can just "get over it.") Of course it takes both sides to make a marriage work and women can be the issue just as much as men, but we are strictly talking about pregnancy/child birth/postpartum/etc. here. And also, feminism isn't what you think it means... If other feminists in your life gave you that impression, those are the wrong kinds.
As a father of two, it is nice to hear stories of dads and their struggles as they learn how to best love and care for their children because it is necessary for us dads to appreciate the journey of being dads. Fathers are just as important in raising a child as moms. It means so much to the wife as it does for the child for a father to be nurturing, encouraging and engaging. Thanks for sharing your story Ben.
I’m not one to comment on your videos often (I watch them all though!). I just really want to appreciate Ben’s honestly and openness to emotional support. There’s so much stigma around men’s mental health and it’s great you’re showing that it’s okay and normal to feel emotional distress. I’m so happy your family has gone through this process in such an intelligent, emotional and sensible way and to see that family mental health is so important for everyone (Mum’s and dad’s and kids)!
Yes, ABSOLUTELY it's so very important to be aware and compassionate to new fathers and mothers' mental state. Post Partum Depression can hit people in very different ways and just like I had a difficult time speaking about my recovery (for literally months which is why it took so long for me to film that video) it's been incredibly hard for Ben to talk about those early months as well. Truthfully he was doing SUCH a huge portion of the baby care, diapers, rocking to sleep, cooking, cleaning, etc while I was healing that first month because I was unable to get out of bed. It's so shocking emotionally and physically and we both didn't expect things would be that way but I know next time we will be so much stronger and better mentally prepared!
Lena Kree yesss I agree, Lena! I want to show this to my fiancé once we get married and start thinking about babies ☺️ Thank you Jen and Ben for sharing your story with us!
What a wonderful husband you have. You can tell how much love and respect you both have for each other. I wish more men were like Ben, the world would benefit.
Teared up at so many points 😭 currently have a 9month old and it is so amazing. Parenthood is the hardest thing yet the most rewarding and most beautiful thing ever my husband and I've gone through together.
I agree, most Post Partum stories are heard from moms. However, it's also helpful to have an idea of what new dads are experiencing. Thank you, Jen and Ben for inspiring people. God bless your beautiful family more!
You two are husband and wife goals. The definition of soul mates. I loved hearing Ben's take on fatherhood, because it's the side we don't usually focus on. I teared up when he talked about holding her for the first time. Your love for each other and Aria is so beautiful. May you continue to be blessed in love ❤️❤️
Your husband gave you a lot of compassion and support during your pregnancy and after, it was very refreshing to hear his side. Congratulations on your beautiful baby.
I commented this before I had finished the video, and now that I have finished it I just want to add that I'm literally crying a little lol. God bless you guys
Thank for this post listening to Ben I realized how supportive my husband was during my pregnancy and all and how i never bother to thanks him for that .
I had a very easy recovery after the birth body wise, but I had PPD and with the changes going on when my baby was born..I hated her newborn phase. I enjoyed her, I love her dearly, caring for her was wonderful, but at the same time I was depressed and I hated my life at times. So many things changed and it traumatized me. My furbabies are gone and I became THAT parent who had to rehome them for their benefit. My husband and I vented to each other, and we got closer, but we also fought. My two month maternity leave was hell, and she came six weeks early so I was not fully prepared. I can't imagine life without her, and she is now almost 11 months, but I am so traumatized I blocked out those few months. It's not all rainbows when a baby comes into the world, so thank you for being honest with these videos to show people the truth.
Ben is such a sweet considerate husband😭😍 Its so true! you always hear the moms side of the story but truthfully its hard for both side. Im currently pregnant with my 2nd child and this time around i could feel how heavy my husband's shoulders are trying to take of the family in every aspects. Big thumbs up to dads out there too! They got alot of responsibility too! I also heard dads can grt post-partum depression too. love your mommyhood videos!! ♥️
Every single time we see Aria, she just looks so happy! It must be because she knows she has the most loving, positive parents ever! What a beautiful family! Seriously Aria is the CUTEST HAPPIEST baby I've ever seen!
Brought back so many memories of when my kids were born! There truly is nothing like being a dad! I had a tshirt that said, " Fatherhood, the toughest job you'll ever love" so true!
Did not expect to cry this much watching this video, but it is really awesome to also hearing the father's side of everything, which is definitely not talked about as much. Thank you for doing this. This makes me look forward to having a family in the future.
Awwwwwww. Ben is a sweetheart and so respectful and loving, you are both meant for each other. Such a beautiful video. Thanks for sharing this us. Just beautiful.
Thank you both for sharing your journeys, for being so raw and real. You guys are amazing role models for the world today. The empathy, love, gentleness, passion, determination both of you show triumphs all. I don’t have a kid yet, nor married, (nor in a relationship) but you guys make me excited for what’s to come! Your love is beautiful. God bless!
I gave birth about 8 months ago and watching this made me reminisce my entire pregnancy and I couldn't help but cry. Ben was so understanding and considerate about everything. It was nice to hear the fathers side of the story.
Hi Jen, you and Ben mention that you're almost always doing everything together. Sometimes I feel "guilty" for seeming to be so "clingy" or being seen together too often. Would LOVE to hear / see more often about your relationship with Ben, how you two built such relationship, and also was there any initial challenges that you two met, given that you're in a relationship with someone from a different race. Love, Linda
"Moms, you guys are ridiculous" -Ben 😩 it's one of the Best Compliments any mom could ever get. Thank you Ben for recognizing how "ridiculously" hard being a mom is. God bless your beautiful family!Aria is one blessed baby to have you two and soooo cute & adorable
Seriously, I am nearly 17 weeks pregnant with my first now and can barely get through this video. I am so emotional about it! It's been a journey for me to get here and I have also been with my husband a long time, nearly 12 years now. This was a wonderful video showing the pure bliss and struggle of trying to become a parent and finally being one.
You made so many great points about how new dads can struggle too. I don't have kids but if my husband and I ever do I will be sure to remember this video and thank him for all the sacrifices he is making. Thank you Jen and Ben for sharing such a personal story with all of us. You guys are incredibly brave and inspiring.
Thank you for being so honest ,because a lot of women are a shame to say what really happens and one one person is honest then a makes way for other women to feel okay to be honest 😊
Can echo what you guys mentioned. I had a hard pregnancy myself, but because it was so hard, I loved my baby and my husband so much more. Thanks so much for sharing! It's so important for the husband to also express his emotions and all too!!!
I'm not a mother and will probably not give birth to a child, but I totally love this series. Thanks for being open and honest about your experiences. Your story is thoughtful and inspiring. I wish you and your family all the best.
Ben, thank you so much for sharing your perspective as a husband and new father. I am really touched and gain a new understanding that fathers do experience a lot during pregnancy too.
Its nice to hear the father's side, you don't get to hear it often. For those of us who were first time moms and had to learn alone about newborn babies and Google was your only back up lol well I understand you but believe when I tell you that you'll appreciate your baby so much more because you were both getting to know each other. I can only say from personal experience, in those times of frustration and tiredness I held on to God and he helped me through it all. Now my baby is almost 4 months and I'm so excited to see what the future has instore for us. The key to being a good mother and a good partner is patience and wisdom and above all be open to suggestions from people who have been through it.
Can't put into words how emotional I got during your video 😭. Never felt that much love in a couple, you and your husband are definitely family goals and marriage goals, love u Jen 😘 ps: Aria is so grown up and cuuuteee 😍
What an absolutely beautiful video Jen! I thought it was an interesting video hearing everything from your husband's point of view. I smiled the whole time! You both are an inspiration. So so happy for the both of you 😘😘♥️♥️
That was such a great video! So interesting to hear the dad side of the story. You always hear the moms but rarely get an insight of what the dads go through. Thanks Jen!
Thank you for making this video. Bringing another human being is wonderful,but it also brings a lot of challenges. This video made me really emotional.Beautiful family!
I can't get over how much Aria has grown. Like, time just seems to fly and every time she's featured in a video. I'm just blown away. Thank you for these type of videos btw....tbh I have tokophobia so pregnancy and the prospects of getting pregnant scare the living daylights out of me but I recognize that in itself, it's quite beautiful and it's such a joy to see the child after the birth and watching it grow. My 3 year old cousins has basically been living with my family since her birth and I'm in awe of how she's growing. Much like Ben said, it's so fun to take a kid somewhere and see them seeing something for the first time. Also, tbh.. I've got a little anxiety when it comes to relationships too ...When it comes to the men in my life, I haven't really had a good example as what it means to be a good husband but Ben gives me hope. It's very easy for me to forget that there are guys out there who are such decent fellows. So, thank you for that as well.
Thank you so, so much for making this precious video! My son is about to turn 8 months, and your video helped bring back a lot of memories along with a big reminder to remember and appreciate my husband's struggle as well. Thanks again!!
I've always loved seeing Ben on his Snapchat stories while he was playing with little Aria! Also how incredibly she resembles him :) I've loved momtember. It's a pleasure seeing your videos!
Love this video, so great to hear the father's side of the journey. This video just reminds me of so much that my husband and I have gone through recently and it is definitely so hard to be new parents. But like Jen said just remember that all the hardship will pass and you will come out as a stronger couple and family ❤.
I have to say, I rarely leave comments on TH-cam videos (been watching this channel for forever though) but, I've loved this series so much. Both your experiences have mirrored so much of what my husband and I have experienced as new parents (our LO is almost 8 months now). It's so validating and comforting to hear you both speak so candidly about your journey. Thank you for sharing and for the unexpected support :).
OH my goodness this is such an amazing video!! Thank you for posting the mans side of things. That’s is so thoughtful and true! Of course the moms go through something very life changing but the dads as well and I appreciate you posting this
Awww, you guys are really a cute couple and you can really tell how much you guys love each other. Blessed to be married to your best friend and someone so understanding! 💛
This was so so emotional to watch Ive never even had a baby but it made me feel so many emotions. This was super insightful and beautiful to listen to!
U have such a beautiful baby! shes the perfect mix of both u and ur husband! I love this series. watching the videos made me relive my own pregnancy, labour AND recovery and it was so emotionally charged! thank you
This is such a great video. Thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable about an intense time in your lives. It is so greatly appreciated. You two are fantastic parents!
My little one is just 4 months old so the 4th trimester is still very fresh, and I couldn't help but get a little emotional. Thank you for talking about the emotional aspect of after your baby comes home. Although I didn't have as difficult of a physical recovery, the lack of sleep, breastfeeding issues and having a toddler at home as well, seemed impossible at times. I've also been lucky to have a supportive husband but you guys are right, it does get better! Even though this baby is my 2nd, the first couple of months is still the hardest.
Amazing video!!! Also new parents here and can totally relate to what you guys talked about. Thank you for sharing the husband/dad's side of this journey.
You guys are so inspiring! Your love and respect and understanding for eachother is so natural and evident! Thankyou for sharing :) Was so blessed by this.
Jen!!!! This video is gold. Having my daughter and how stressful and painful it was for me and my husband during the first year. I could relate in so many levels to everything you discussed. Thanks Ben for sharing your side too! :)
That was so sweet and amazing to watch! I'm due with my first in November and it was just very refreshing to know that the hard parts will pass and it is so worth it ❤️
Beautiful family :D Nice to see a video where the husband is not dissed by the wife. Men mostly struggle but say nothing while women complain publicly about their husbands. Have lots of respect for you Jen
He is so soft- spoken. You guys look so happy
I cried so much hearing Ben shared his side of the story. I can't wait for my husband and I to have a baby too. We've been married for 2 years and been praying since then. You're blessed Jen and Ben for having Aria ❤️
serenity beauty it took us 2 years to get pregnant and then I had an early miscarriage.. it can be a rough journey, lots of heartbreak and doubt. I wish you all the best. I have a 1 year old now, she's such a happy baby, definitely worth the wait. She brings me pure joy. But I do remember the time that I would get upset every time I noticed a baby or pregnant woman.. wondering if it would ever happen for me.
Lily201186 Sorry to hear what you've been through. At least God blessed you with a precious angel now. Thank you for the advice 😍😊😘
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Hey guys thank you SO much for watching the video and being there for us as a family. If you'd like to check out Ben's instagram (his daily stories Aria are sooooo cute) you can follow him at instagram.com/ben.ja.mins/ 👨👩👧
Love both your stories. My babies are all grown now but I get such a kick out of watching Aria grow! The noises she makes when she loves her food...❤️precious family💕
Hey can you talk about your experience with cloth diapering, I am so nervous about it.
Ben is a keeper! Such a great supportive husband and father. You two are amazing parents!
When you can totally see the married couple is besties :) I always see Ben's face from Aria ^^ Oreo in the back heeheehee
Ben sounds so "soft", almost soothing haha you guys are totally made for each other :)
I literally wish my husband was this understanding....
Calm Heavens same 😕
Calm Heavens me too.....
Calm Heavens Me too. I was so filled with envy knowing how sweet, sensitive and understanding Ben is towards Jen. Lucky gal!
it's even sadder because how he is should be how EVERY husband/father should be, but it unfortunately is not the reality for a lot of women.
@Nellie, while you comment is absolutely true, it is irrelevant in this comment thread. I don't think anyone here is suggesting that men are the only problem, but truth is, A LOT of men (and a lot of women who have never given birth, too!) truly don't understand how severe of an affect postpartum can have on a woman, not just physically, but even more so mentally. (And don't say suck it up, buttercup. These are true chemical / hormonal changes that aren't something you can just "get over it.") Of course it takes both sides to make a marriage work and women can be the issue just as much as men, but we are strictly talking about pregnancy/child birth/postpartum/etc. here. And also, feminism isn't what you think it means... If other feminists in your life gave you that impression, those are the wrong kinds.
This is so rare to hear the father's side of the story! He's so understanding and very patient!
Ben is such a great Dad. I follow him on Instagram and he shows so much love when he plays with Aria.
The famous Ben! You both are so beautiful together!
As a father of two, it is nice to hear stories of dads and their struggles as they learn how to best love and care for their children because it is necessary for us dads to appreciate the journey of being dads. Fathers are just as important in raising a child as moms. It means so much to the wife as it does for the child for a father to be nurturing, encouraging and engaging. Thanks for sharing your story Ben.
I’m not one to comment on your videos often (I watch them all though!). I just really want to appreciate Ben’s honestly and openness to emotional support. There’s so much stigma around men’s mental health and it’s great you’re showing that it’s okay and normal to feel emotional distress. I’m so happy your family has gone through this process in such an intelligent, emotional and sensible way and to see that family mental health is so important for everyone (Mum’s and dad’s and kids)!
Yes, ABSOLUTELY it's so very important to be aware and compassionate to new fathers and mothers' mental state. Post Partum Depression can hit people in very different ways and just like I had a difficult time speaking about my recovery (for literally months which is why it took so long for me to film that video) it's been incredibly hard for Ben to talk about those early months as well. Truthfully he was doing SUCH a huge portion of the baby care, diapers, rocking to sleep, cooking, cleaning, etc while I was healing that first month because I was unable to get out of bed. It's so shocking emotionally and physically and we both didn't expect things would be that way but I know next time we will be so much stronger and better mentally prepared!
Lena Kree yesss I agree, Lena! I want to show this to my fiancé once we get married and start thinking about babies ☺️ Thank you Jen and Ben for sharing your story with us!
What a wonderful husband you have. You can tell how much love and respect you both have for each other. I wish more men were like Ben, the world would benefit.
she’s the cutest baby ever omg
The amount of love in this ❤️❤️❤️ your mindset and level of maturity and understanding for each other is so admirable
You have no idea how blessed you are. Men these days are so insensitive and selfish. I wish you both health and happiness. God bless!!!
yiselba21 Insensitive and selfish? That is not biased at all...
Not just these days. Back in the old days too. Haha
You have probably been hanging out with the wrong crowd, for sure. Not everything is black and white.
yiselba21 we get what we deserve and jen is a great person so she also attracts a great guy too
I'm sure they've had their rough moments as well. They just only chose to show us the best parts of their relationship.
This is the best! You never hear the guys side, such a great idea! Thanks for sharing and would love to hear Ben share a guys perspective more often!!
Ben is such a wonderful father, so understanding, mature and respectful. Can't say so for mine.
Teared up at so many points 😭 currently have a 9month old and it is so amazing. Parenthood is the hardest thing yet the most rewarding and most beautiful thing ever my husband and I've gone through together.
I agree, most Post Partum stories are heard from moms. However, it's also helpful to have an idea of what new dads are experiencing. Thank you, Jen and Ben for inspiring people. God bless your beautiful family more!
You two are husband and wife goals. The definition of soul mates.
I loved hearing Ben's take on fatherhood, because it's the side we don't usually focus on. I teared up when he talked about holding her for the first time.
Your love for each other and Aria is so beautiful. May you continue to be blessed in love ❤️❤️
Your husband gave you a lot of compassion and support during your pregnancy and after, it was very refreshing to hear his side. Congratulations on your beautiful baby.
This is so sweet and heartwarming! I'm so emotional lol. Ben is so well spoken and nice btw! All the love to you and your little family ❤️
I commented this before I had finished the video, and now that I have finished it I just want to add that I'm literally crying a little lol. God bless you guys
I can't take my eyes off from tiptoe as soon as she shows up in the video hahah I'm not even seeing Jen and Ben..
elle0324 same!! Her eyes are so big and her cheeks are so squishy!!
elle0324 me too !
Also, can you two please counsel my husband and I? 😂 you two are amazing and so sweet to each other.
Thank for this post listening to Ben I realized how supportive my husband was during my pregnancy and all and how i never bother to thanks him for that .
I had a very easy recovery after the birth body wise, but I had PPD and with the changes going on when my baby was born..I hated her newborn phase. I enjoyed her, I love her dearly, caring for her was wonderful, but at the same time I was depressed and I hated my life at times. So many things changed and it traumatized me. My furbabies are gone and I became THAT parent who had to rehome them for their benefit. My husband and I vented to each other, and we got closer, but we also fought. My two month maternity leave was hell, and she came six weeks early so I was not fully prepared. I can't imagine life without her, and she is now almost 11 months, but I am so traumatized I blocked out those few months. It's not all rainbows when a baby comes into the world, so thank you for being honest with these videos to show people the truth.
You guys are such an inspirational couple!♡♡
I hope you stay beautiful and happy forever and ever!!😃😃
Ben is such a sweet considerate husband😭😍 Its so true! you always hear the moms side of the story but truthfully its hard for both side. Im currently pregnant with my 2nd child and this time around i could feel how heavy my husband's shoulders are trying to take of the family in every aspects. Big thumbs up to dads out there too! They got alot of responsibility too! I also heard dads can grt post-partum depression too. love your mommyhood videos!! ♥️
I loved hearing his perspective. You are such an adorable couple!
Every single time we see Aria, she just looks so happy! It must be because she knows she has the most loving, positive parents ever! What a beautiful family! Seriously Aria is the CUTEST HAPPIEST baby I've ever seen!
Brought back so many memories of when my kids were born! There truly is nothing like being a dad! I had a tshirt that said, " Fatherhood, the toughest job you'll ever love" so true!
I'm. In. Tears. The moment he said "this is who I was singing to."
Did not expect to cry this much watching this video, but it is really awesome to also hearing the father's side of everything, which is definitely not talked about as much. Thank you for doing this. This makes me look forward to having a family in the future.
Awwwwwww. Ben is a sweetheart and so respectful and loving, you are both meant for each other. Such a beautiful video. Thanks for sharing this us. Just beautiful.
He's so strong and brave to admit that he cried. You have such an awesome husband! You are so blessed!
He seems like one of the rare guys. Not lot of guys can sit down and talk about their feelings. I love that and you guys are perfect for each other!
Can a family be anymore PERFECT? love you guys so much! ❤️👨👩👧
Thank you both for sharing your journeys, for being so raw and real. You guys are amazing role models for the world today. The empathy, love, gentleness, passion, determination both of you show triumphs all. I don’t have a kid yet, nor married, (nor in a relationship) but you guys make me excited for what’s to come! Your love is beautiful. God bless!
I gave birth about 8 months ago and watching this made me reminisce my entire pregnancy and I couldn't help but cry. Ben was so understanding and considerate about everything. It was nice to hear the fathers side of the story.
Oh my goodness I loved this video! I have such a fear of pregnancy but the way you two talk about it makes it seem worth it to me. Thank you!
Hi Jen, you and Ben mention that you're almost always doing everything together. Sometimes I feel "guilty" for seeming to be so "clingy" or being seen together too often. Would LOVE to hear / see more often about your relationship with Ben, how you two built such relationship, and also was there any initial challenges that you two met, given that you're in a relationship with someone from a different race.
Love, Linda
Seriously relationship goals
"Moms, you guys are ridiculous" -Ben 😩 it's one of the Best Compliments any mom could ever get. Thank you Ben for recognizing how "ridiculously" hard being a mom is. God bless your beautiful family!Aria is one blessed baby to have you two and soooo cute & adorable
Seriously, I am nearly 17 weeks pregnant with my first now and can barely get through this video. I am so emotional about it! It's been a journey for me to get here and I have also been with my husband a long time, nearly 12 years now. This was a wonderful video showing the pure bliss and struggle of trying to become a parent and finally being one.
I'm currently thinking and praying about starting a family and this was so, so helpful. Thank you for being vulnerable, you guys!
You made so many great points about how new dads can struggle too. I don't have kids but if my husband and I ever do I will be sure to remember this video and thank him for all the sacrifices he is making. Thank you Jen and Ben for sharing such a personal story with all of us. You guys are incredibly brave and inspiring.
You both are so articulate and well spoken about your experience. I am just in awe of your relationship ❤️
Thank you for being so honest ,because a lot of women are a shame to say what really happens and one one person is honest then a makes way for other women to feel okay to be honest 😊
Can echo what you guys mentioned. I had a hard pregnancy myself, but because it was so hard, I loved my baby and my husband so much more. Thanks so much for sharing! It's so important for the husband to also express his emotions and all too!!!
I'm not a mother and will probably not give birth to a child, but I totally love this series. Thanks for being open and honest about your experiences. Your story is thoughtful and inspiring. I wish you and your family all the best.
정말정말 이해심 많은 남편을 두셨어요~!! 저는 10월20일이 예정일이라, 요새 맘템버 비디오 너무 잘 보고있어요^0^ 고마워요~
Ben, thank you so much for sharing your perspective as a husband and new father. I am really touched and gain a new understanding that fathers do experience a lot during pregnancy too.
I see Aria in both of you❤️ love you guys for opening up to us.
I'm sure Ben is making his mamma proud! What a good man!
Thank you for posting the Dad's side of the story. It was really insightful and beautiful. Aria is so adorable!
Im so happy for all the love y'all have for each other. Aria is so blessed. Beautiful video 🤗
Its nice to hear the father's side, you don't get to hear it often. For those of us who were first time moms and had to learn alone about newborn babies and Google was your only back up lol well I understand you but believe when I tell you that you'll appreciate your baby so much more because you were both getting to know each other. I can only say from personal experience, in those times of frustration and tiredness I held on to God and he helped me through it all. Now my baby is almost 4 months and I'm so excited to see what the future has instore for us. The key to being a good mother and a good partner is patience and wisdom and above all be open to suggestions from people who have been through it.
Good story, I cried watching this. And for sure shared your story with my husband. It’s like reliving the life when we were pregnant with my son.
Can't put into words how emotional I got during your video 😭. Never felt that much love in a couple, you and your husband are definitely family goals and marriage goals, love u Jen 😘
ps: Aria is so grown up and cuuuteee 😍
It is so cute that Aria seems to give response to Jen & Ben's conversion! She seems to understand what you two meant !
Aria's noises at the end made me smile so much. She's so sweet!
What an absolutely beautiful video Jen! I thought it was an interesting video hearing everything from your husband's point of view. I smiled the whole time! You both are an inspiration. So so happy for the both of you 😘😘♥️♥️
What a beautiful family! Thank you to Ben for sharing his side of the story :')
That was such a great video! So interesting to hear the dad side of the story. You always hear the moms but rarely get an insight of what the dads go through. Thanks Jen!
I don't often say this but... you two are totally couple goals! What a beautiful relationship. And Aria is so cute!
such an emotional video. I think we all cried :')
it's so cute that Aria already knows how to always smile to the camera in this video
You are a beautifully loving family. How lucky you are to have each other and how blessed your little one is to have such devoted parents.
Thank you for making this video. Bringing another human being is wonderful,but it also brings a lot of challenges. This video made me really emotional.Beautiful family!
I can't get over how much Aria has grown. Like, time just seems to fly and every time she's featured in a video. I'm just blown away.
Thank you for these type of videos btw....tbh I have tokophobia so pregnancy and the prospects of getting pregnant scare the living daylights out of me but I recognize that in itself, it's quite beautiful and it's such a joy to see the child after the birth and watching it grow. My 3 year old cousins has basically been living with my family since her birth and I'm in awe of how she's growing. Much like Ben said, it's so fun to take a kid somewhere and see them seeing something for the first time.
Also, tbh.. I've got a little anxiety when it comes to relationships too ...When it comes to the men in my life, I haven't really had a good example as what it means to be a good husband but Ben gives me hope. It's very easy for me to forget that there are guys out there who are such decent fellows. So, thank you for that as well.
This made me tear up a little. I appreciate your honesty telling your story 💓
Thank you so, so much for making this precious video! My son is about to turn 8 months, and your video helped bring back a lot of memories along with a big reminder to remember and appreciate my husband's struggle as well. Thanks again!!
I've always loved seeing Ben on his Snapchat stories while he was playing with little Aria! Also how incredibly she resembles him :)
I've loved momtember. It's a pleasure seeing your videos!
so much warmth and love shown in this video....i love it...
Ben is such an amazing husband, you really were blessed with him, Jenn! God bless y'all!! :)
Love this video, so great to hear the father's side of the journey. This video just reminds me of so much that my husband and I have gone through recently and it is definitely so hard to be new parents. But like Jen said just remember that all the hardship will pass and you will come out as a stronger couple and family ❤.
loved seeing your family together! :) so encouraging to hear that your marriage got stronger as well. praise the Lord
I have to say, I rarely leave comments on TH-cam videos (been watching this channel for forever though) but, I've loved this series so much. Both your experiences have mirrored so much of what my husband and I have experienced as new parents (our LO is almost 8 months now). It's so validating and comforting to hear you both speak so candidly about your journey. Thank you for sharing and for the unexpected support :).
Aria is literally one of the most beautiful babies I've ever seen! She is so cute!!!
omg relationship goals to the max!!!!
Finally a video of Ben! He seems like patien,kind, good hearted person!
Lack of words...just lack of words...i love you guys and wish you nothing but happiness and a long healthy life
OH my goodness this is such an amazing video!! Thank you for posting the mans side of things. That’s is so thoughtful and true! Of course the moms go through something very life changing but the dads as well and I appreciate you posting this
Awww, you guys are really a cute couple and you can really tell how much you guys love each other. Blessed to be married to your best friend and someone so understanding! 💛
Awe! I cried watching both of you guys worked together and comfort each other. I also can't wait for the future. 😊
That was the cutest thing I've seen all day !
Ben is a good husband 👍🏻👍🏻
This was so so emotional to watch Ive never even had a baby but it made me feel so many emotions. This was super insightful and beautiful to listen to!
U have such a beautiful baby! shes the perfect mix of both u and ur husband! I love this series. watching the videos made me relive my own pregnancy, labour AND recovery and it was so emotionally charged! thank you
Thank you Ben for sharing your side and your experience!
Family goals ❤ You all were made for each other. Really interesting to hear the father's perspective.
What an adorable family! Thank you Ben and Jen for sharing your story. Aria is so precious!!!
Cute Couple
This is such a great video. Thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable about an intense time in your lives. It is so greatly appreciated. You two are fantastic parents!
My little one is just 4 months old so the 4th trimester is still very fresh, and I couldn't help but get a little emotional. Thank you for talking about the emotional aspect of after your baby comes home. Although I didn't have as difficult of a physical recovery, the lack of sleep, breastfeeding issues and having a toddler at home as well, seemed impossible at times. I've also been lucky to have a supportive husband but you guys are right, it does get better! Even though this baby is my 2nd, the first couple of months is still the hardest.
Awwwwwww this made me so happy for y’all. So glad you have each other! Such a beautiful family :)
Amazing video!!! Also new parents here and can totally relate to what you guys talked about. Thank you for sharing the husband/dad's side of this journey.
You guys are so inspiring! Your love and respect and understanding for eachother is so natural and evident! Thankyou for sharing :) Was so blessed by this.
Jen!!!! This video is gold. Having my daughter and how stressful and painful it was for me and my husband during the first year. I could relate in so many levels to everything you discussed. Thanks Ben for sharing your side too! :)
That was so sweet and amazing to watch! I'm due with my first in November and it was just very refreshing to know that the hard parts will pass and it is so worth it ❤️
Beautiful family :D
Nice to see a video where the husband is not dissed by the wife. Men mostly struggle but say nothing while women complain publicly about their husbands. Have lots of respect for you Jen