1.-Listen 2.-Breath 3.-Say "I" 4.-Avoid judgment, blame or denial of responsibility 5.-Separate facts from opinions 6.-Be aware of emotions 7.-Be aware of needs and values 8.-Ask for what you want 9.-Be aware of body language 10.-Be aware of individual and cultural differences
I find this absolutely amazing. Personally, I don't consider myself too terrible with communication, but when it comes to talking to plants, I'm absolutely awful. Can't seem to get a word in edgewise.
difficult to say without talking with you in more depth. What's for sure is that we all have challenges and some great people in history have had lisps. I wish you well, and well done on your degree.
Thanks, that is true...and a bit comforting too. I need to focus on getting the basics down pat before I worry too much about how I look or sounds I think. Great video though!
@abdullahcc1 hi, lots of people rush, it's just a habit you can change with time and attention and usually not related to looks but just the habit of rushing. Practice consciously going slower and do things which reinforce this such as meditating, unplugging for some time each day, reducing caffeine intake etc. Good luck with it
Excuse me, I couldn't hear the word you said at 3:39 properly. The beautiful thing about needs????????????????????? they are completely universal....... Kindly reply.
At the age of 59 I am realising that my efficiency skills are not what they might be. One of these skills is obviously clear communication and the ability to listen. I found your video to be very clear and concise. I was very interested as to how you finished the video-talking to the plant. As you put your points across in a way that while appealing the listener did not detract from the points you were making I am sure there was a message in the way you ended your tutorial-what was that point?
I have had trouble communicating for these two reasons, my teeth are really crooked and my eyes were too, but I recently had surgery on my eyes. I am graduating with a bachelors soon, in HCA, and I had to watch your video for school, I am wondering, how can I overlook the fact my teeth embarrass me make some of my words sound like lisps, LOL, yet, use my brain and get ahead? What do you think Integration Trainer? LOL
How Am i supposed to change myself? Im a loner.. dont feel like talking.. even im with my parents or just i couldnt bring any topic... my mind always goes off to somewhere else...
Hi..i need your help. I'm a university student. Studying engineering. I have been through a number of times where i take a charge to be a leader among my mates. As you know, to be a leader you need to have a good communication skills..Actually, my english is very good. I have a problem that when i speak, i go so fast and jump on ideas which lower others attention to what i try to say, even if my ideas were creative & great. i'm not that good looking. Is that the reason? please help me..thx :)
Number one and two are the most difficult for me. I have this skewed belief that if I don't respond quickly, I will appear to be unknowledgeable about the subject. I need to remember that God made us with two ears and one mouth for a reason.
This is out of context, but sort of "in" you could say as well. By the second third of the video, I, while listening, caught myself looking at you with this funny, weird look on my face, and I usually just put myself down for doing that, but for some reason, I decided to try and think of WHY I was looking at you that way, kind of spacey or a direct stare without emotion, and I realized, He's Hot.....HAHAHA I really never do that and I am not trying to flatter you at all. Thanks, I guess im human
1.-Listen
2.-Breath
3.-Say "I"
4.-Avoid judgment, blame or denial of responsibility
5.-Separate facts from opinions
6.-Be aware of emotions
7.-Be aware of needs and values
8.-Ask for what you want
9.-Be aware of body language
10.-Be aware of individual and cultural differences
I find this absolutely amazing. Personally, I don't consider myself too terrible with communication, but when it comes to talking to plants, I'm absolutely awful. Can't seem to get a word in edgewise.
Great tips. All great communicators know how to listen and once you get listening down, you're going to be much, much better at conversing for hours.
difficult to say without talking with you in more depth. What's for sure is that we all have challenges and some great people in history have had lisps. I wish you well, and well done on your degree.
Hes charming as heck, really body language makes a huge difference !
this video is helpful for me as i still need to improve my communication skills,many thanks for uploading this useful video!
Awesome man. Thanks for your tips. It really can help! :)
I love how you had a conversation with your plant. That communication went well, eh?
Thank you for replying. You are so wise when it comes to communication. I wish you well and congrats on all you have accomplished as well! :)
Thanks, that is true...and a bit comforting too. I need to focus on getting the basics down pat before I worry too much about how I look or sounds I think. Great video though!
thanks Mike - the ending was about not taking things too seriously - like "bloopers" on some videos
thanks Mikki, this one has done pretty well, share it around
thank you, where are you Paul?
I started watching videos like yours, so I hope to improve my communication skills. ^^
thanks, good to get specific feedback like that
you're welcome, please like and share it around :-)
common in many people and possible to work on, good luck to you
I like your presentation, very good, I would like to get more training in communication
This was really helpful :) It makes me want to talk to people lol
@abdullahcc1 hi, lots of people rush, it's just a habit you can change with time and attention and usually not related to looks but just the habit of rushing. Practice consciously going slower and do things which reinforce this such as meditating, unplugging for some time each day, reducing caffeine intake etc. Good luck with it
great! let me know how it goes - where are you in the world?
would love to train there if you have any connections?
Excuse me, I couldn't hear the word you said at 3:39 properly.
The beautiful thing about needs????????????????????? they are completely universal.......
Kindly reply.
At the age of 59 I am realising that my efficiency skills are not what they might be. One of these skills is obviously clear communication and the ability to listen. I found your video to be very clear and concise. I was very interested as to how you finished the video-talking to the plant. As you put your points across in a way that while appealing the listener did not detract from the points you were making I am sure there was a message in the way you ended your tutorial-what was that point?
Thank you and I think it is very helpful
thanks for the info. keep on posting
Thank you for advised. I will try do like that.
you are fantastic!!
I have had trouble communicating for these two reasons, my teeth are really crooked and my eyes were too, but I recently had surgery on my eyes. I am graduating with a bachelors soon, in HCA, and I had to watch your video for school, I am wondering, how can I overlook the fact my teeth embarrass me make some of my words sound like lisps, LOL, yet, use my brain and get ahead? What do you think Integration Trainer? LOL
thank you - where are you from out of interest?
Thank you! I needed this
thanks, from M & S :-)
Very good
thank you
Very nice 👍
What other countries have you worked in and under what capacity?
About 50. Teaching embodiment and trauma mostly
start small and easy, build up.
lovely and awsome. keep it up
is that we all have them
I was not expecting the end lol
sorry to hear that
How Am i supposed to change myself? Im a loner.. dont feel like talking.. even im with my parents or just i couldnt bring any topic... my mind always goes off to somewhere else...
Hi..i need your help. I'm a university student. Studying engineering. I have been through a number of times where i take a charge to be a leader among my mates. As you know, to be a leader you need to have a good communication skills..Actually, my english is very good. I have a problem that when i speak, i go so fast and jump on ideas which lower others attention to what i try to say, even if my ideas were creative & great. i'm not that good looking. Is that the reason? please help me..thx :)
Thank You, it's really helpful.
great vid
@IdaFarida99 thank you, glad it was helpful
Martin Luther King? - Leadership. Great man.
Caleb?
excellent!
I don't understand?
Number one and two are the most difficult for me. I have this skewed belief that if I don't respond quickly, I will appear to be unknowledgeable about the subject. I need to remember that God made us with two ears and one mouth for a reason.
humour is often a good tool :-)
sorry, what does, communication? If so I agree!
My communication skills is very bad.. For chatting, it is a different story. I do communicate well. But in person.. I suck at it.
Nice plant :-)
thanks :-) we're all human :-)
@redwall2008 you're welcome, anything in particular you liked? Always good to get feedback. Feel free to like, favourite and share with friends :-)
that's the key one eh!
Totally depends on mood for me :D
I like that saying :-)
it didn't argue back :-)
I hope you got something useful from it?
@abdullahcc1 thanks :-)
This is out of context, but sort of "in" you could say as well. By the second third of the video, I, while listening, caught myself looking at you with this funny, weird look on my face, and I usually just put myself down for doing that, but for some reason, I decided to try and think of WHY I was looking at you that way, kind of spacey or a direct stare without emotion, and I realized, He's Hot.....HAHAHA I really never do that and I am not trying to flatter you at all. Thanks, I guess im human
black man... he is martin luthar.. u dont know him?
What are your tips? Comments very welcome.
geart
spam communication more like!
:-)
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Voice monotonours, could not get the prounounciation.. waste of watching
Caleb is gay to
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