Key insights of this video: 1. Mental health care should be seen as an investment in yourself, and is now more important than ever. 2. Therapy has moved away from traditional models (e.g. sitting on the couch with no eye contact) to a person-centered approach. 3. Creative expression can be used to express the unexpressed, often associated with feelings of shame. 4. A Therapist's role is to actively listen and build a rapport with the client. 5. Learning to set boundaries and take responsibility for oneself is essential for good mental health. 6. Courage is needed to dig deep and explore difficult topics. 7. The work done in therapy should ultimately lead to the client being able to "fly solo" without needing to rely on the therapist's help. 8. Social media can lead us to look for external gurus to help us, when in fact, nobody knows us better than ourselves. 9. It is important to think about yourself and prioritize yourself on your list. 10. Opting into a therapeutic relationship can be life-changing and beneficial to both the individual and those around them.
most people that I know that need therapy must first admit they have a problem but they will never admit that because that would mean that they have been wrong for most of their life.
Most people don't go to therapy bzcayse their mental health condition means that they don't know that therapy might help. Because remember that therapy for many has no benefit and for a significant minority actually makes things worse.
Why some of viewers crtisising , whats wrong, it is v. Good those who suffering, anxiety, depressions r not created. It is just like other diseases. Treatment, therapy is the only option. Ted is not fake. It is a v. Good channel. 🙏🏻. This talk is v. Beneficial Bravo. 🙏🏻👌💐
*Therapist:* Don't say "yes" every time someone asks you for a favor; learn to say "no." Will you do that for me? *Me:* Umm ... no? Yes? I'm so confused 😵
If anyone has any input on this, I'm all ears. I started therapy to do just that: invest in myself and make sure I am supported, mostly regarding my job (teaching). I do it to maintain my mental health. But according to many talks I've heard, therapy should lead to the client being able to "fly solo", which is something I'm absolutely capable of. I use therapy to discuss minor problems in my life, or to bounce perspectives off with someone on certain situations. So now I am kind of confused. Should I stop therapy because I don't have a specific goal with it?
I was looking for this lol And does your therapist suggest you should stop? What's the minimal amount of time you need in order for you stop therapy? 3, 6, or 12 months?
Really great question. As a therapist myself, and a person who has been to personal therapy I can confirm that therapy is for everyone, at all levels of mental wellbeing, including as a way to sustain your mental health and not only if you have specific goals or if you are unable to manage by yourself. Good for you! Examples of therapy in talks you are referring to probably are using more extreme cases as evidence to make a clearer point. The decision to end therapy entirely up to you and your therapist to discuss and agree on, however you can choose to leave early , if you have brought specific goals you want to meet and have met them, or if you feel like you and your therapist aren't quite suited, or stay longer because it's helping you. It is very normal, and considered healthy to be in and out of therapy to support you throughout your life.
@@bishbash24 In my experience, 6 sessions is the minimum amount it takes for you to build a trusting and secure enough relationship with your therapist, to then have the courage to start delving deeper and achieving positive healing and development. 12 sessions in the UK seems to be the most recommended for therapy although I have been in therapy myself for 2 years and always had something that I needed to bring or think about. Some sessions were about celebrating positive changes and my growth! So basically, it can be as long as you need depending on what you want to achieve. If you just need a non-judgemental space to talk or process things happening in your life with someone, then you could access therapy for that during your whole lifetime if it helps you.
How or what if then the patient hv "Special Feeling" to his/her Therapist? Is it "Health" for the patient? If it is Not health, Then, is it better for the patient looking for another Therapist? Although perhaps that patient already feel "Matching" with that his/her Therapist, mean that patient must begin to adaptating again when must changing with another Therapist?
Lo que deve hablar esta señora deve ser tan interesante que no lo traducen siempre lo hacen para que los que no savemos ingles no aprendamos te agradeceria si existe una posiblilidas de poner subtitulo en español seria genial gracias
You have rights: you are the THE CLIENT of your psychologist/psychotherapist. And they can't disclosure whats going on inside unless you consent. However you have to be direct with them to reach an arrangement: they have to say something to your mom. I'm a psychologist and i NEVER disclosure any information that my Client gives, but i always ask: what can i tell... That said, when moms take their children to therapy, they should also go through therapy actually!! Because life is hard on everyone. Oh, one more thing: you have to have empathy with your therapist, or it will be a difficult and hard ride, and like the speaker of this video said: it can be very disruptive. But if you two click: magic can happen ;) He/she can help you with your boundaries, with your mental resources, etc. etc. Hope that this helps.
Maybe I'm not inquisitive but I've got no interest and or desire to learn about myself. I seen numerous therapists and not once has a therapeutic relationship developed and I mean not once,because for that to happen I'd have to trust them and I don't.
Or more likely, the speaker prepared. TED talks have to be vetted before and after they are filmed, speakers aren't just shooting from the hip - you realise this right?
What to expect? 1. To have to bank account emptied. 2. To be asked over and over about your childhood and 3. To be asked over and over again, 'How do you feel about that?'. Pseudo science that often does far more harm than good. If I want to invest in myself I will head off into the bush for a couple of weeks and just relax. Therapy is simply a big con.
Have you ever been to therapy? It's great that heading off into the bush works for you, but other people with other problems can really benefit from therapy. Different problems need different solutions.
@@annab3818 I suppose it is a bit like religion, if you believe in it then you will accept that it has some value... Unfortunately, like religion, it is still a con.
You describe a bad therapist not therapy. Science is not something you can reject as a whole but you can choose not to use it. I hope you have a different way to take care of your mental health in your life...
Oh, baby, how wrong you are. Anxiety is one of the ways your body communicates with your brain. In fact, it's how your gut microbiome send signals to your brain via vagus nerve. That's why good nutrition solves many psychological problems. Listen to your anxiety, it's telling you something.
مرحبا لا يستحق أن تعبد مخلوق ضعيف يموت لم يخلقك فقط خالقك يستحق أن تعبده وحده لا شريك له من فضلك تعرف على الاسلام الحياة قصيرة تنتهي في أي وقت ونعود لربنا ليحاسبنا اني ناصح لك أمين وشكرا
“What to expect from therapy” 1. Validation of your worst impulses 2. Seeking help for depression and being pressured into “coming out” as an lgbt identity that you don’t align with 3. Being told that capitalism is the cause of your issues
@@jacksonfitzsimmons4253 or you just had a bad experience. To mock an entire profession, that helps millions annually, wouldn’t seem to be the highest form of wit. Therapy is powerful & it works, I’ve seen it and experienced it.
Wait so we have to watch a video on what to expect from therapy versus going to a therapy session and directly experiencing it? HAVE YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE.
It's been posted 14 hours ago, do you think everyone waits around for new videos? And not everyone is interested in psychology either. Ted Talk publishes on hundreds different topic, only a few will be of interest to many subscribers. Do you Millennials have to be told everything? 🤔
Key insights of this video:
1. Mental health care should be seen as an investment in yourself, and is now more important than ever.
2. Therapy has moved away from traditional models (e.g. sitting on the couch with no eye contact) to a person-centered approach.
3. Creative expression can be used to express the unexpressed, often associated with feelings of shame.
4. A Therapist's role is to actively listen and build a rapport with the client.
5. Learning to set boundaries and take responsibility for oneself is essential for good mental health.
6. Courage is needed to dig deep and explore difficult topics.
7. The work done in therapy should ultimately lead to the client being able to "fly solo" without needing to rely on the therapist's help.
8. Social media can lead us to look for external gurus to help us, when in fact, nobody knows us better than ourselves.
9. It is important to think about yourself and prioritize yourself on your list.
10. Opting into a therapeutic relationship can be life-changing and beneficial to both the individual and those around them.
most people that I know that need therapy must first admit they have a problem but they will never admit that because that would mean that they have been wrong for most of their life.
This is a truth and a half.
Most people don't go to therapy bzcayse their mental health condition means that they don't know that therapy might help. Because remember that therapy for many has no benefit and for a significant minority actually makes things worse.
Why some of viewers crtisising , whats wrong, it is v. Good those who suffering, anxiety, depressions r not created. It is just like other diseases.
Treatment, therapy is the only option.
Ted is not fake. It is a v. Good channel.
🙏🏻. This talk is v. Beneficial
Bravo. 🙏🏻👌💐
*Therapist:* Don't say "yes" every time someone asks you for a favor; learn to say "no." Will you do that for me?
*Me:* Umm ... no? Yes? I'm so confused 😵
This exchange will be part of your diagnosis.
Big fan of TedX Talks, brilliant and informative
If anyone has any input on this, I'm all ears.
I started therapy to do just that: invest in myself and make sure I am supported, mostly regarding my job (teaching). I do it to maintain my mental health. But according to many talks I've heard, therapy should lead to the client being able to "fly solo", which is something I'm absolutely capable of. I use therapy to discuss minor problems in my life, or to bounce perspectives off with someone on certain situations. So now I am kind of confused. Should I stop therapy because I don't have a specific goal with it?
I was looking for this lol
And does your therapist suggest you should stop? What's the minimal amount of time you need in order for you stop therapy? 3, 6, or 12 months?
Really great question. As a therapist myself, and a person who has been to personal therapy I can confirm that therapy is for everyone, at all levels of mental wellbeing, including as a way to sustain your mental health and not only if you have specific goals or if you are unable to manage by yourself. Good for you! Examples of therapy in talks you are referring to probably are using more extreme cases as evidence to make a clearer point. The decision to end therapy entirely up to you and your therapist to discuss and agree on, however you can choose to leave early , if you have brought specific goals you want to meet and have met them, or if you feel like you and your therapist aren't quite suited, or stay longer because it's helping you. It is very normal, and considered healthy to be in and out of therapy to support you throughout your life.
@@bishbash24 In my experience, 6 sessions is the minimum amount it takes for you to build a trusting and secure enough relationship with your therapist, to then have the courage to start delving deeper and achieving positive healing and development. 12 sessions in the UK seems to be the most recommended for therapy although I have been in therapy myself for 2 years and always had something that I needed to bring or think about. Some sessions were about celebrating positive changes and my growth! So basically, it can be as long as you need depending on what you want to achieve. If you just need a non-judgemental space to talk or process things happening in your life with someone, then you could access therapy for that during your whole lifetime if it helps you.
Therapy is a space for healing, understanding, and growth. Each session is a step forward in your journey. 🌱💫
Mental health care is a good thing
The one thing I learnt from therapy was that I have to sort it out myself. That’s why they’re called MY PROBLEMS.
Thank you for TEDx talk and to be💔👨🦼🕴🌞 successful for therapy💕😍🌏🖐
How or what if then the patient hv "Special Feeling" to his/her Therapist?
Is it "Health" for the patient?
If it is Not health,
Then, is it better for the patient looking for another Therapist? Although perhaps that patient already feel "Matching" with that his/her Therapist, mean that patient must begin to adaptating again when must changing with another Therapist?
Lo que deve hablar esta señora deve ser tan interesante que no lo traducen siempre lo hacen para que los que no savemos ingles no aprendamos te agradeceria si existe una posiblilidas de poner subtitulo en español seria genial gracias
Podés activar la auto traducción, que funciona muy bien.
@@ErnestoRoca gracias
Right when my mom convinced me to take therapy lol
You have rights: you are the THE CLIENT of your psychologist/psychotherapist. And they can't disclosure whats going on inside unless you consent. However you have to be direct with them to reach an arrangement: they have to say something to your mom. I'm a psychologist and i NEVER disclosure any information that my Client gives, but i always ask: what can i tell... That said, when moms take their children to therapy, they should also go through therapy actually!! Because life is hard on everyone. Oh, one more thing: you have to have empathy with your therapist, or it will be a difficult and hard ride, and like the speaker of this video said: it can be very disruptive. But if you two click: magic can happen ;) He/she can help you with your boundaries, with your mental resources, etc. etc. Hope that this helps.
Wow super mam
Maybe I'm not inquisitive but I've got no interest and or desire to learn about myself. I seen numerous therapists and not once has a therapeutic relationship developed and I mean not once,because for that to happen I'd have to trust them and I don't.
Handy Therapy.
As-salamuyalaikum
Hello, Everyone
Good expecting❕
Wa-alaikum salamuya
Therapy is very important and every needs it
Hi hello 👋👋
🖐️
this sounded like someone reading someone else's Ted talk.
Or more likely, the speaker prepared. TED talks have to be vetted before and after they are filmed, speakers aren't just shooting from the hip - you realise this right?
What to expect? 1. To have to bank account emptied. 2. To be asked over and over about your childhood and 3. To be asked over and over again, 'How do you feel about that?'. Pseudo science that often does far more harm than good. If I want to invest in myself I will head off into the bush for a couple of weeks and just relax. Therapy is simply a big con.
Have you ever been to therapy? It's great that heading off into the bush works for you, but other people with other problems can really benefit from therapy. Different problems need different solutions.
@@annab3818 I suppose it is a bit like religion, if you believe in it then you will accept that it has some value... Unfortunately, like religion, it is still a con.
@@WesternAustraliaNowAndThen so the answer is no then.
You describe a bad therapist not therapy. Science is not something you can reject as a whole but you can choose not to use it. I hope you have a different way to take care of your mental health in your life...
@@elenipapadima3385 Proper psychiatry is science, therapy is nothing but a bunch of cobbled together theories and is pseuo science at best.
Arabian people
I am ready to translate this Tedex videos into Arabic if you would like that l am hear to help
Nobody is born with anxiety. It's given to you. Face it, you've been indoctrinated.
Oh, baby, how wrong you are. Anxiety is one of the ways your body communicates with your brain. In fact, it's how your gut microbiome send signals to your brain via vagus nerve. That's why good nutrition solves many psychological problems.
Listen to your anxiety, it's telling you something.
@Hoiiiii8 how much do you weigh?
Having parents exhibiting anxiety results in children's anxiety being exhasberbates, true, but there are also genetic components.
@@phoenixnight9237 people give anxiety to each other.
Jesus can change your life ❤️
Lol
Who?
Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world.
I can only do this myself not a fairly tale book what tells me how the world is going to end
Juste speak to God then :) @@rach5942
I found her tight jeans therapeutic
Really!
مرحبا لا يستحق أن تعبد مخلوق ضعيف يموت لم يخلقك فقط خالقك يستحق أن تعبده وحده لا شريك له من فضلك تعرف على الاسلام الحياة قصيرة تنتهي في أي وقت ونعود لربنا ليحاسبنا اني ناصح لك أمين وشكرا
“What to expect from therapy”
1. Validation of your worst impulses
2. Seeking help for depression and being pressured into “coming out” as an lgbt identity that you don’t align with
3. Being told that capitalism is the cause of your issues
Is that supposed to be humour?
@@vitalucas9452 No actually it’s supposed to be an insulting mockery of therapists
@@jacksonfitzsimmons4253 My oh my. Sorry.
@@jacksonfitzsimmons4253 or you just had a bad experience. To mock an entire profession, that helps millions annually, wouldn’t seem to be the highest form of wit. Therapy is powerful & it works, I’ve seen it and experienced it.
4. Made to feel like your problems are inherent.
Wait so we have to watch a video on what to expect from therapy versus going to a therapy session and directly experiencing it? HAVE YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE.
That’s not the point - the presentation guides as to what you should expect of a therapist and the relationship - it shouldn’t be a passive one.
You, don't have to anything...
It really is puzzling how far Ted Talks have fallen... However , that is why they have the unsubscribe button. ✌️
Dude, this channel has almost 40 millions subs and 17k views? How is this channel not fake? Dam I will never trust Tedtalk again. They're fake af.
It's been posted 14 hours ago, do you think everyone waits around for new videos? And not everyone is interested in psychology either. Ted Talk publishes on hundreds different topic, only a few will be of interest to many subscribers.
Do you Millennials have to be told everything? 🤔
@@silverlinings3946 rofl look at their other videos. Also I've seen channels with 10k subs get more views in an hour. lame fake channel.