What to expect when you discard the narcissist

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  • @aishanalu5369
    @aishanalu5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Narcissists don't change! They only change the victims 🙌🏿

    • @staceybarnett1801
      @staceybarnett1801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soooooo true

    • @angelaelizabeth1754
      @angelaelizabeth1754 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh they change alright! For the worst!

    • @jafhio2284
      @jafhio2284 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @r2023rr
      @r2023rr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And find new ways to lie and cover up stuff

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    When I found my narc, I was very lonely. When he started calling, I thought it was a miracle. Nope; it was a nightmare.

  • @hopemartinez3607
    @hopemartinez3607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    They want to come back and finish the job and that will never happen! Access denied

    • @Sunshine-vq9nf
      @Sunshine-vq9nf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same here narc free

    • @cookiecake3089
      @cookiecake3089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am being STALK my BLM and people alike. Please do not ignore me. I need help. Me and my young daughter are being gang stalked and have been for a super long time. Before President Trump, before the pandemic, so now my troubles have tripled. Please help.
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    • @Sunshine-vq9nf
      @Sunshine-vq9nf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope Martinez
      That’s right

    • @officialbusiness215
      @officialbusiness215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s what they want!!!

    • @lindalee5871
      @lindalee5871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Keep them blocked...they want to finish you for good....

  • @hopemartinez3607
    @hopemartinez3607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    They are predators!!

  • @barbaraellzey3586
    @barbaraellzey3586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Narcs move in cycles they like to keep you in rotation. No Contact!

    • @sjendopful
      @sjendopful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes and they don't go away ! They feel when u have moved on. I just got a call from the narc and I know he secretly contacted me so I offered to tell his new supply

    • @m.c.8877
      @m.c.8877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We are not an option for free anything whether you are a man or woman. Keep our bodies, homes ,finances to ourselves. They are not entitled to anyone or anything ever.

    • @michaeldulsky8492
      @michaeldulsky8492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Speakin' of the 😈evil, I'm in hoover city right now after she dumped me. Thank God I made it out of that hell hole. P.S. She didn't believe in God... Big red flag! Don't 🚶 walk 🏃 run and don't ever look back. 🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @gracejones3611
      @gracejones3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True that 💯 👍

    • @IzThis4ReaL
      @IzThis4ReaL 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FACTS ❤

  • @love4mom468
    @love4mom468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    No weapon formed against me shall prosper!

  • @joeynelson1311
    @joeynelson1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Failed assassins , always loathe themselves when they can’t finish the job correctly.

  • @Pgmaster-i1q
    @Pgmaster-i1q ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was played to the max. Cheated on, disrespected, deceived, lied to and more.

    • @Dale-ei4sm
      @Dale-ei4sm 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @karmageddon9856
    @karmageddon9856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    Empath vs. Narcissist
    = Angels vs. Demons
    = Adam vs. Apple
    = Cain vs. Abel
    = Good vs. Evil.
    Us TRUE Empaths are the ANGELS in this eternal, spiritual WAR in this earth realm. We MUST flank ourselves with SPIRITUAL armor, fill our quivers with arrows of TRUTH, and set nothing aflame but our hearts & souls with pure devotion & love for God.
    🌕🌗🌑🌓🌕

    • @braveheart2657
      @braveheart2657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      This battle has been playing out all through Bible history since the very beginning, but has been ramping up in epic proportions in these times. Empaths are soldiers and warriors. We are waking up and are being called to duty. Most of us have been in training unknowingly our entire life. Being raised in a war zone called family... Where one or both parents and possibly one or more siblings are narcissists. This dynamic is all we know subconsciously and has been perpetuated throughout our entire life through relationships, friendships and even in the work place. We must heal our childhood and relationship wounds to break the cycle of abuse and become whole. We are coming into the knowledge of truth and how this has played out. For most empaths the roots of narcissism runs deep within their family tree... Generational curses. Empaths are being called to take their place on the front lines of battle. We are in the end times... This war is between God's army (Empaths) and Satan's army (Narcissists). This is a spiritual war. Empaths are to shine their light on the truth that will help lead many people out of darkness.

    • @MsMiseducation
      @MsMiseducation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Jezebel spirit uses lust to control you

    • @marymary-vg2ts
      @marymary-vg2ts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nobody cares about virtue. I’m a warrior standing by to catch the discards. There’s still virtue. God is real amen.

    • @kolrot3343
      @kolrot3343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      actually cain is the bad one, abel is the good one, but yes, get your point

    • @marcsmith5017
      @marcsmith5017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MsMiseducation yes That's a powerful spirit. Believe me i know

  • @riseabove7233
    @riseabove7233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    The narcissist can’t handle rejection in any for. They will attack your character and spread lies about you. They become addicted to sabotaging your life.

    • @gracejones3611
      @gracejones3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True that 💯 👍

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They will try

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And they do that very well

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The smear campaign is brutal my own daughter he turned her against me pure evil but I feel so good and my peace im doing so much better in 13 days after I caught him with the married neighbor with my own eyes

    • @crystalclimenhage9980
      @crystalclimenhage9980 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex is doing that now. I discarxed him a few years ago. I would love to know if he believes his revision of history

  • @richardhairston997
    @richardhairston997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    They will argue with you . During the argument they say the exact thing that proves your point. Basically the same thing you're saying. And will still argue you down

    • @von-rg9pw
      @von-rg9pw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Exactly they do that shit on purpose

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Every time

    • @qarreeayantumekonnen1205
      @qarreeayantumekonnen1205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow so accurate.

    • @myvideos4utube
      @myvideos4utube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      So true... you stand there spinning your wheels like "WHAT"???🤪🤔

    • @jazzylove7721
      @jazzylove7721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes they love to argue and claims it's just a conversation also very Petty and do tic for tac

  • @1010QUEEN7
    @1010QUEEN7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    God saw everything those dirty demons did

  • @sharonphelps3271
    @sharonphelps3271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I am so glad I discarded him, instead of the other way around. He immediately tried to make me lose my job and get me arrested through his lies and manipulation. The SWEET thing is, HE soon got arrested and lost his job due to the charges he was facing. 👍🏾The karma bus came quickly that time. The hole he thought he had dug for me was actually for him.

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sharon Gordon 😂😂😂😂

    • @abundance3696
      @abundance3696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😝👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @primsandwhims7533
      @primsandwhims7533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep. Since I broke up with him he's so full of rage and wants me to go to jail. Anything he can do to hurt me.

    • @cathyweaver6931
      @cathyweaver6931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow same thing happened to me he tried to have me arrested and he was he tried to get me kicked out my place omg he lost his job and his car I gave up my place my job and move back to LA and then I found out he moved back I'm done I'm a good person big heart I deserve better.

    • @sharonphelps3271
      @sharonphelps3271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cathyweaver6931 Yes, you absolutely deserve better. It seems they follow the same script. There must be a narc handbook. Stay blessed, my dear.

  • @hopemartinez3607
    @hopemartinez3607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    That's right they get worst with age they can't keep that mask on any longer

    • @marymary-vg2ts
      @marymary-vg2ts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Truth USB that they can’t take care of themselves anymore

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope Martinez the narc I knew is 70 years old

    • @livinglifetothefullest4386
      @livinglifetothefullest4386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Falls off quickly😳😂😂

    • @ajl2232
      @ajl2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They dedicate their lives to unnecessary and senseless smear campaign.

    • @WellnesspodcastTV
      @WellnesspodcastTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ajl2232 And all their evil backfires.

  • @inspirationalofpurpose4179
    @inspirationalofpurpose4179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    Through prayers God can get rid of them as long as you believe n trust n God.

    • @Josee2030
      @Josee2030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen🙏🏼

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @em-emmyers9804
      @em-emmyers9804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen on this........

    • @barbaraellzey3586
      @barbaraellzey3586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @inspirationalofpurpose4179
      @inspirationalofpurpose4179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      To everyone that's concerned about wat to do wen discarded da narc is to stay strong and know God is 4eva wit u, so don't dwell on da pain dat was done fa God sees n knows all.

  • @higuoy
    @higuoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Soooo many secrets.

    • @daishanewsomednp6956
      @daishanewsomednp6956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yesss

    • @md-mx5zb
      @md-mx5zb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All day long 24 7 secrets and pathological lying sociopaths

    • @strange_aeons5636
      @strange_aeons5636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      RIGHT.

    • @rachelhopkins3855
      @rachelhopkins3855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They are living a totally different life behind your back. Total frauds

  • @positivevibesuniversity
    @positivevibesuniversity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    "You said you would never leave me" is incredibly familiar. Run and don't accept them back. They want you to accept the "mess" and stay with them. Don't do it!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He really wants me to be okay with his mess

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh I was given everything but he’s a serial cheater , Pathological liar ! I was that Grade A supply . I dumped him and went No contact ! Oh he couldn’t believe it 😂

  • @MsTea-nx1br
    @MsTea-nx1br 4 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    They play on the depressed....weak and low self-esteem....the new supply is LOWER than what you think.... they're not like you who speaks volumes and call the narc out this is why they get along so well....FEEL SORRY FOR THEM THERE EACH OTHER'S KARMA

    • @SassyDiva53
      @SassyDiva53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      The new supply has to be lower.....any one that has healthy self esteem would spot something like that a mile away.....

    • @marymary-vg2ts
      @marymary-vg2ts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She has a pretty face but is low as anyone can be.

    • @Nancy-pv7wk
      @Nancy-pv7wk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      mary mary exactly spot on! It’s all about the looks too for these narcs..

    • @Nancy-pv7wk
      @Nancy-pv7wk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      His perception of me was off thinking I was vulnerable.. yes I was in a bad place but he thought he could manipulate and take advantage of that.. he was dead wrong! His ex left too and now this new one just keeps taking him back after every discard.. it’s sad to see someone’s lack of self worth like that, ..and once, long ago, I was that person.. thinking it will get better or if only I can help him.. they do t and cannot change.. it will take some inner work to do that and they don’t have the will, the awareness or the desire to change how they treat others and ultimately it is them who will be miserable for the rest of their lives..

    • @sandrarthornton
      @sandrarthornton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Jess that’s how mine got me! I was in a very very bad place with my health and finances! Otherwise I would never have given him the time of day! And I mean that.
      Everything you said is spot on!
      They cannot change! They are sick demons !💯💪🏼

  • @JJones-sz2gd
    @JJones-sz2gd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I discarded my narc after a year in a relationship. He gaslighted me every chance he got when I came to him trying to express my feelings about what he’s done. He would even start arguing with me to deflect so we’re not talking about him anymore. I felt sorry for him at first, and I got stuck. Now that I’m out it feels like I can breathe and that I can accomplish anything. He hates himself, and he tried to make me hate myself and did NOT succeed

  • @gonzalez6073
    @gonzalez6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    They will ONLY hoover you if they see that you’ve moved on!!

  • @LOESlook
    @LOESlook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Thank you! My narc ex reached out yesterday after seeing I was on vacation and getting on with my life. Basically saying ‘I need you, I feel stuck without you’ I’m standing firm with no reply.

    • @lindalee5871
      @lindalee5871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      stay strong dont go back to be pulverised as I did...Im still in recovery....

    • @anabelhernandez7322
      @anabelhernandez7322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Stay Strong

    • @nadiayofav8
      @nadiayofav8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As u should

    • @shelleydawnblagg1673
      @shelleydawnblagg1673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mine did the self same thing, they do it so that they can dump you. It's a tit for tat thing.

    • @juliemiller4461
      @juliemiller4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Block that demon from all access to you on social media. Shut down that devil for life

  • @theservinggirl
    @theservinggirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Yes this situation is making me toxic and I literally can’t take it, its causing me a lot of stress and anxiety. Thank you for your videos!!

  • @gonzalez6073
    @gonzalez6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    When Hario said “You got to watch your back” my heart dropped because I know my monstrous narcissist will do whatever it takes to see me destroyed.

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's true, but God got you ok Pray and keep Praying 🙏

  • @empress7queen259
    @empress7queen259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Narc worst nightmare is another narcissist😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thats super toxic more toxic then them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @deemoreland2909
    @deemoreland2909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Moving forward makes a Narc enraged.
    Stop giving them supply .

  • @summerkim2513
    @summerkim2513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Narc started to put lock on his phone, while I left mine unlocked. The Things on their phone will scare the living daylights out of you if you are not strong enough to handle it.

    • @lovelove-qs8zt
      @lovelove-qs8zt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nicolemitchell2821
      @nicolemitchell2821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ain't that the truth!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You ain't never lied about that

    • @nicolecannon3599
      @nicolecannon3599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      He wrestled me down when I went to look in his phone 😆

    • @jordangrimmett2808
      @jordangrimmett2808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What you mean by that?

  • @User-uw7uw
    @User-uw7uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    DISCARD THEM BEFORE THEY DISCARD YOU. You need to be very energetically and intellectually familiar with narcs to do this. My narc boyfriend hasn't discarded me yet, but he is starting to withdraw attention and affection after love bombing me for 4.5 months and i know the signs. I'm an empath and I was raised by a narc parent and I can smell a narc from a mile away. I knew he was a narc within a week but i was bored and needed the gratification (my own healing i need to do). I enjoyed the love bombing free trial but its time to ghost :D

    • @gailmellem9751
      @gailmellem9751 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What are you waiting on ?? Discard !!

    • @angelalee6044
      @angelalee6044 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get out of it and don't go back it's going to get worster they don't love no one let them go they are not go for your health facts they are not good people

    • @lizp5449
      @lizp5449 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why are you playing with these people ,when you know?

    • @divinedachosenone348
      @divinedachosenone348 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was raised by a narcissist as well. Nothing I'd want to hang on to. My ex narcissist stalks me because I discarded him after 2 was of silent treatment. Now he mad I've got my life back together, though he has tried to use others to try and get me fired but I work with great ppl who see my true character. 👍🏽

    • @Brattynsassy
      @Brattynsassy ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯

  • @richardhairston997
    @richardhairston997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I figured out that this narc is capable of ANYTHING a few yrs back. I know they are total scum!!!!

    • @jobond4314
      @jobond4314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes my Ex used to talk lies about his Ex it was all lies about her, definitely, you're on point because it hepen to me, he want my flat keys , horrible, experience. 😭

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jo Bond Every thing they were saying about the Ex was all lies! They were really talking about themselves! I know because now I’m getting talked about just like the Ex!

  • @Justadudeman22
    @Justadudeman22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "They just want your energy "
    So good to know !

    • @ByronRainer-AMG
      @ByronRainer-AMG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Energy, shine, essence, children, money, and name.

  • @DukeMustang
    @DukeMustang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Narc told me one time he loved me because I was full of light and had a kind and beautiful spirit. Little did I know that was the very reason he hated me. 2 decades of friendship turned to shit once I had his baby. He turned into a devil and finally discarded me and our child. It's cool, we're good. I went no contact, changed my number and moved the hell on. New supply is praising him, posting subs at me, posting pics of him, like he's the best thing, how he saved her, she deserves the best part of him whatever. No, the best part of him is in my child, the narc is a demon and yes, she deserves all of him and will soon see how much of a shit bag he is. Hope the fact that he tells 5 or 6 other women he loves them, has 5 or 6 other women waiting for his calls, texts, emails or visits. Hope she's ready for his mood swings and verbal abuse when she finally gets a backbone and stands up to him. Hope she feels stupid for throwing shit in my face when she finally sees she's dealing with a demon that blamed me for things going wrong when it was really him. Yup, Good fucking luck.

    • @mariebacon6350
      @mariebacon6350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes...well said.

    • @Michelle-fd4nk
      @Michelle-fd4nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen....she'll get what she deserves..TOO!!!😂

    • @allykat8501
      @allykat8501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m going through the same exact situation. It sucks but it’ll get better

    • @cassandragray2081
      @cassandragray2081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I was this ‘new woman’ he treated me like a queen I swear unlike anyone else. He was so inlove with me acted .. lol by the end of it he treated me 150% than her an actually started beating me. I was the girl who made these posts about him.. trust me .. he will show his true colours.. an leopard always shows its spots

    • @MultiSassydee
      @MultiSassydee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She thought she won a prize 😅😅😅

  • @demigaines5644
    @demigaines5644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    You Have To Be Very Careful
    After Discarding A NarcissistsThey Will Try A Hoover Attempt To Get You Back For Discarding Them Everything About Them Is Power..In Return They Will Discard Of You If You Give.IN To There Hovering There Cat And Mouse Game Never Stops...

    • @telesamorrison2238
      @telesamorrison2238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      But they dont got no power against my Jesus

    • @MsRocks-tc3uc
      @MsRocks-tc3uc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Ive been lucky. I dumped the narc in Jan. Havent heard from him since.

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Demi Gaines I got sucked back in and discarded the next day, he blocked so I overblocked
      NC more than 3 years.
      If they discard they won’t bother you

    • @carlettagreenbey8294
      @carlettagreenbey8294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Boyyyy you ain’t never lied the cat and mouse game always remains! They lie all big lies! All bets off from the start 😂 with a NARCISSIT! They never go away!

    • @demigaines5644
      @demigaines5644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carletta Green Bey
      Ok So InCredibly True.

  • @SummerBaby731
    @SummerBaby731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I was telling him for years “you live your life through your phone” kept it locked, always on vibrate or silent, always on his hip, in his hand. Never wanted me to see anything he was doing. Yet I caught him sleeping so many times with the phone open and exposed all his cheating, text messages, naked photos. It was awful.

    • @Lida0504
      @Lida0504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just went through the same thing!

    • @sui1934
      @sui1934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So fucking true...i experience the same

    • @dawnhandelman308
      @dawnhandelman308 ปีที่แล้ว

      😢💔😔

    • @FotoAgency
      @FotoAgency ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yes, this is what they do. Hide their dirty little secrets in the phone. When the Narc guards their phone, you know exactly what’s up. Put on your running shoes, head out the door & NEVER LOOK BACK.

  • @ettagathersharris
    @ettagathersharris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    YES.... They will do the unthinkable and they will stalk you FOREVER...

  • @palao9997
    @palao9997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My x husband told me to my face “I’m going to destroy your life”. I didn’t believe him. I thought he was just really down on himself. Little did I realize that this was an actual plan. He definitely meant it and worked diligently on living up to his words. Listen not with your ears but listen with your gut. See not with your eyes but see with your first eye your knowing. Never second guess what anybody says to you. If they tell you they are a snake BELIEVE IT !!!

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Palao 999 yes!!!

    • @ngekiny1246
      @ngekiny1246 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matthew 12:34-40
      Out of the abbundance of the heart the mouth speaks
      A third finalist gorgeous miss named Gessica Notaro's ex told her jokingly that he will throw acid on her face ..
      She didn't believe for a while,then started listening to her gut,she put on a full face helmet for a while then after sometime she stopped..
      The ex threw acid on her face 1 year after the break-up and both were already in a new relationship.

  • @Sandra-cj3es
    @Sandra-cj3es 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “You should not survived what I put you through “
    I went through that

  • @ladiuneeq9789
    @ladiuneeq9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I remember a narc tried his craziness on me. Needless to say, by the time I was done with him, he was begging me to stop hurting him. Haven't seen him in almost 8 years. He didn't realize I was a professional narc slayer. But now he knows!

    • @Naturalebbo
      @Naturalebbo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love it sis! I just cut mine off but I'm ready if he comes back....I need some tips on what you did!!

    • @darnikajasmine4758
      @darnikajasmine4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Naturalebbo right! Lol

    • @aquarius4life
      @aquarius4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Narc Slayer😅

    • @ladiuneeq9789
      @ladiuneeq9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow! TH-cam is very strange in how it does notifications. @Naturalebbo, the things I did were ungodly. I couldn't tell you to do the same things with a good conscience. Let's just say I saw he was an amateur narc in the very beginning and I warned him I was not to be messed with. He thought I was weak. I broke that boy down to the point he was screaming for me to stop hurting him. I'm certain he's a better man today because of it though. What's sad is I knew he was no match and I should have laughed and kept it moving. But no, I tortured him because I knew his fears and weaknesses. Unfortunately, God dealt with me after I did all of that, so I'm just going to tell you to walk away and keep walking. No man is worth the trouble even if you feel he deserves to be treated how he treated you. God bless!

    • @daniellestaley9432
      @daniellestaley9432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, I am a narc slayer too! That is what they never understand about the super empath is that we will mirror them and narc back out on their asses #funarcass

  • @gonzalez6073
    @gonzalez6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Narcissists are surprised when you move on because they can’t move on with how they feel. So when they project their true self on to you they think “I can’t get out of this so neither can them” but we do and they just can’t handle it.

  • @jilross4892
    @jilross4892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I am happy for the Narcs other supply so I have peace.

    • @barbaraellzey3586
      @barbaraellzey3586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wooohooo enjoy girl!

    • @synetriajackson9576
      @synetriajackson9576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't wish that on no one just glad I'm free and hope the next woman don't fall for it

    • @jilross4892
      @jilross4892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@synetriajackson9576 thats true also

  • @cherylmcleod6088
    @cherylmcleod6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Hello everybody...listen to the song..".I WILL SURVIVE" I think believe the artist name is Gloria Gaynor

    • @paulinejohn2542
      @paulinejohn2542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everything video said true because we all had our experince with them so we all could relate thank you

    • @mariacastellon2946
      @mariacastellon2946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also watch on neflix. Dirty John is a good fim on narcissistic traits

    • @clarissalpeterson2830
      @clarissalpeterson2830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ALSO LISTEN TO IM A SURVIVOR BY DESTINY CHILD

  • @aliciasquaire9001
    @aliciasquaire9001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You really have to detox, after a discard of a Narricist there like a bad drug .

    • @MJ-qb5ph
      @MJ-qb5ph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My therapist believes the narc detox can be more intense than heroin or sex addiction. It took me seven years to narcisstically detox

  • @PhuccinAyee
    @PhuccinAyee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    U AIN'T NEVER LIED!!! Frfr 💯
    My ex used to ask me for my phone ALL the time. I'd give it to her. BUT as soon as I started asking for hers she always blew up on me & made it a problem. 🤣 Told her to kick rocks & got custody of our son. She blocked me on social media after making a new account & hit rock bottom, hoovered a few times & been thru guy after guy all in 1 year. I kicked her attorneys A$$ in court to all by myself too. She tried the smear campaign & it blew up in her face too she ended up in jail & all that. I just shake my head & tell her every chance I get how she messed up. & she knows it. It's truly sad bcuz we could've had such a good life too.

  • @PD-fe7dz
    @PD-fe7dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    People will meet their maker! What did you do with the time God gave you? When you knew you were wrong, did you heal and change!

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PD Exactly 🔥🔥🔥

    • @tiffanywilliams1470
      @tiffanywilliams1470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      See. People keep 4gettin' dat ONE DAY you ARE gonna have 2 face The Creator. Da shit ain't a joke. And everyday that passes is a day closer of you having to face The Messiah. He DOES exist. And Karma is real AND a bitch. You WILL reap what you have sewn. God is TRUTH. And when you've not bin true to Him cuz you bin 2 about YASELF & ya own promiscuous desires...you're DOOMED.

  • @theonlyjonathanwarren
    @theonlyjonathanwarren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The phone tells all.. The narc's problem is that they think everyone thinks like them. They are so shitty that they try to dodge karma cause they know it's coming but not how.. That's the daily stress the narc lives with. If they only would give into being a normal person by accepting they are not perfect and there is no such thing, they'd be healed..

  • @rayescott8219
    @rayescott8219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I can’t believe this happened to me. I’ve never lived a life like this. I’ve never been toxic. Why at 43 I did this?? Thank you for every word!!

    • @margomazzeo1680
      @margomazzeo1680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was 63..

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's OK now you know. You will heal and be a help to others. God got you he has his arms around you. Protection. Stay no contact its the only recovery to these things,monsters.

    • @cherylbarban1707
      @cherylbarban1707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your not to blame,Karma proved this,they will always make you the problem 🙏 I know it happened to me 🤗

    • @graceartis739
      @graceartis739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was 70

    • @oscarpacheco2891
      @oscarpacheco2891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here.

  • @lovelypeaches4133
    @lovelypeaches4133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    We WIN‼️

  • @Maki-00
    @Maki-00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I so needed to hear this today! Going through the discard right now! 🙏🏾

    • @feminazislayer
      @feminazislayer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good luck. God bless

    • @Maki-00
      @Maki-00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Feminazi Slayer Thank you!

    • @AR-rm6wl
      @AR-rm6wl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stay 💪 I know the process can be a roller-coaster 🎢

    • @gabbyrizo6415
      @gabbyrizo6415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Us too... It gets better day by day Trust me ♥️

    • @deeevansnola8178
      @deeevansnola8178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sis just remember you not losing anything but problems, heartache and pain. Now it is your time to thrive!!

  • @jeanpaulfelix4095
    @jeanpaulfelix4095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I discarded the narc for the last time 2 weeks ago. Damn I feel good and just figured out why. They are not draining me
    any more! Great insight brother!

  • @queenofeastafrica7853
    @queenofeastafrica7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He degraded me and emotionally abuse me, I blocked him now.

  • @francenabryan9131
    @francenabryan9131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I liberated myself today. I stopped paying his ezpass, insurance on two vehicles and payment on his work van. I walked away from 11 years of heartache and loneliness. Hallelujah praise God. I have finally seen the light. I am no longer powerless. Thank you for your encouragement.

  • @Rachel-k-8
    @Rachel-k-8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    100% True.There getting worser the older they get.I speak from my own lifeexperience

  • @JG-pg5vo
    @JG-pg5vo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A narc injury occurs, Hoover, stalking, a replacement appears to become the new victim, and smear campaign.

  • @richardhairston997
    @richardhairston997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    God blessed me with wisdom and knowledge he kept me

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen HALLELUJAH God will do it

  • @jamilaakhtar2553
    @jamilaakhtar2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I discarded the narc and I experienced all the Hoover attempts! Hoover 1 he gets his mum to contact me saying his unwell..2 he contacts my sister to tell her he cant live without me.. 3 he sends me flowers and chocolates..4 his feeling suicidal if I don't contact him..5 he wants to go down on one knee and propose the list goes on! Glad I'm out I had to run for my life! He was a psychopathic narc!

    • @aybaybay5432
      @aybaybay5432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m going through this right now. It’s really hard!!
      I left on Friday and I guess he thought I was joking. Everything is gone from out place together.
      Now I’m getting so many messages and I am so confused now. I also withdrew 20k from out joint account soooo.... I’m waiting for an explosion.

    • @empress9857
      @empress9857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Continue to stand firm

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    They dont get pedicures and there feet are gross

  • @longislandny696
    @longislandny696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Getting back with a narcissist is like giving them a bullet to finish the job because they missed the first time.Once you return,it NEVER gets better it just gets worse ALWAYS .So people,take your power back & run for your life.

  • @abcdefg407
    @abcdefg407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I am ruined mentally and emotionally for right now, but I am a PIECEFULL person within and I'm glad I am spiritually guided with manifestation of His Grace and Glory. Thank you Bra.

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jesus, Amen 🙏🙌

    • @lovemywife698
      @lovemywife698 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No you're not. Here's wtf you do: Just call your Soul back, reattach it BACK to YOU. Its lost with that mf🤦🏼‍♂️. Held captive by their demons🤨. Them mfs are ruthless, on GOD, they are! 🤣
      Call it BACK!!! Good Luck.

    • @sistahamina
      @sistahamina 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      what’s amazing is if their resume is so long and extensive, how is it that most of them haven’t gotten far in life and are bums???after prostituting themselves for all of these years 😐

  • @medusahellsos2346
    @medusahellsos2346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    My ex narc makes fake profiles to follow me, how do I know it’s him? I’ve went on to his phone and clicked on other accounts that link and seen the ones he uses to stalk me. And many other woman as well. Even his ex’s from 10 years ago. These ppl are truly sick

    • @asgharakram
      @asgharakram 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine knew all about his exs he was married and trying to buddy up to ex. Btw he dumped her after 5yr went on vacation and arranged marriage a girl 10yr. Younger

    • @MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK
      @MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow smfh

    • @lenahbrighton5472
      @lenahbrighton5472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are vile chaotic creatures.

  • @Pumpkinseeds1753
    @Pumpkinseeds1753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wheww! Yes and preach! I just broke up with my narc… I didn’t want to believe he was but the issue with phone became worse and worse… he would sleep on the phone…walk around the house with it! It was ridiculous…… he just turned out to be a big ass liar… he was thinking of getting rid of me a few months b4 I kicked him out but he wasn’t sure about the NEW supply……. I made him choose by kicking him out…… he moved in with her and she knows about me… she thinks she’s getting a dream man….. good luck sis and welcome to your nightmare! He will do the same to you it’s coming! I am free of the phone, secrets and lies!!!!

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Rotten teeth and all

    • @nikkyluv2244
      @nikkyluv2244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣nobody can see it unless they open their mouths wide

    • @mslnie
      @mslnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow! It's truuuue!!!! Should have known other narcs had rotten teeth and mouths. It has to be from all the wretched filth which comes out of it!! Lies, hatred, betrayal.... Evil

    • @JL-th1nb
      @JL-th1nb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mslnie mofos too cheap to go to the dentist trying to do everything their damn self with that missing tooth on the side 😂😂😂

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂💯

    • @mslnie
      @mslnie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JL-th1nb 😆 😆 yep! For sure!

  • @queenliloxox
    @queenliloxox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Anyone toxic is an enemy , and enemies are always trying to kill,steal, and destroy . dont ignore the red flags they give you or think they're "not that bad" because everyone of them is THAT BAD some are just better at hiding it than others or are more smart about how they do things . but they are always going to attack when ever they think they can and it only gets worse overtime . some of them are even bold enough to Boldly show their hand upon meeting them please stay out of denial

  • @frankG335
    @frankG335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So spot on. My friend's husband destroyed our friendship decades after she left him. He continued to weasel his way into her life, still fooling her into thinking he has "changed"... and then went back to destroying any supportive friendship he could.
    I can't believe she's allowed him back into her sphere after finding a good situation for herself. She is so confused that she's starting to treat people like he treated her.
    Narcissists are the best profilers. They profile who they're going onto a relationship with before they ever go into a relationship. They see some vulnerability in you from the beginning, so even if it's subconscious, it's planned.
    They don't target people who don't have a vulnerability in the first place, such as empathy.
    They'll use lawsuits, if they have the means, to destroy lives.

  • @sabrinasims660
    @sabrinasims660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When the narcissist MEET Karma!🤔 So be it!🙏🏽 This message is truly healing for me, thanks for sharing!💕✨🙌🏾

  • @kmydesire12
    @kmydesire12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I always need your videos to keep strong. I’m so mad at myself for thinking he could change.

  • @Royaltyrock
    @Royaltyrock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My narc ex has not hoovered me. It’s been 2 months now and I feel great! I Finally got myself and my energy back. His mother reached out to me saying that she loves me and misses me.

    • @trvde3805
      @trvde3805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That was the Hoover..

    • @d315-g3f
      @d315-g3f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s a trap/setup. Be wise and go no contact with her too.

    • @empress9857
      @empress9857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust me they will reach out 6mnths and less usually sooner however for me it never reach 6 mnths

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Hes right it's a hyper sexual world we living it'd nothing for them to move on with my new supply

  • @TomRipley7350
    @TomRipley7350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hario, you have saved me from an emotional vampire. You're on point in every way.

    • @beautifulqueen3887
      @beautifulqueen3887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was told by a guy i was a energy vampire, i was confused i didn't do anything but care for him. then when i ask him to leave he made feel bad.....

  • @amandadavis5246
    @amandadavis5246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Set yourself free!!!

    • @joeynelson1311
      @joeynelson1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen , the only way to handle things with them. 😂

  • @tenikaleigh7152
    @tenikaleigh7152 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These people are so sick. I can't believe I was in that mess for 26 years

  • @ashleyburns9268
    @ashleyburns9268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True!!! It's simply just draining and I REFUSE to ever go through anything like this again!!

  • @DebraSmith2014
    @DebraSmith2014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Revenge at it's best. BLOCKING him was my Best Defense. Ignoring him and healing, grinding on my business adventures praying to my father
    DIVINE!
    IM GOOD!

  • @blackjerms
    @blackjerms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Promise you'll never leave me" that hit hard because at that point I had no idea who she was and I couldn't imagine why I would ever leave her

  • @babyno70
    @babyno70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They ask you to never leave them. But they're quick to leave you for no reason at all. Then they want you to chase them so they can discard you again!!!

  • @holliecannelos7774
    @holliecannelos7774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He wont give up. It's crazy.

    • @teesahurt2074
      @teesahurt2074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hollie Cannelos MOVE AND GO NO CONTACT PEROID..

    • @christophercox7406
      @christophercox7406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dont worry about him just stay no contact and you will be fine.

  • @KE650
    @KE650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They definitely want to keep you on the bench

  • @patricejackson6981
    @patricejackson6981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Man I really needed to see this video tonight. Just ended a 3 year relationship with a narc. Its been almost 3 weeks and I haven't heard a peep from him as if I never existed. I've been beating myself up about this relationship but so thankful for this video

    • @empress9857
      @empress9857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust me he will don’t fall for it

  • @drayanicole
    @drayanicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m in the silent treatment stage and I accidentally gave in and asked him the wrong question … he flipped out!!!! Got in the car and left smh I didn’t even do anything . Now sitting here alone like wtheck!

  • @sundipowellrn8258
    @sundipowellrn8258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I AGREE!!! THEY CHANGE OVERNIGHT

  • @wandadunlap3550
    @wandadunlap3550 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are on point!!! He discarded me so many times, and when I finally realized who he is and who I am, I discarded him. Asked him not to contact me. He suddenly started texting me to get some reaction. I have nothing for him except silence. Eternal silince...

  • @barbeegirl7196
    @barbeegirl7196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    There needs to be some kind of law against this because this 😈 devil has done nothing but torture me for 7 long miserable verbally and mentally and physically abused.And We gotta get together and try and get a Law passed..This is abuse at it's highest levels.They don't change because they don't think they have a problem.According to them you are the one with the problem.Just Sick and sad...

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Robin Barbee I totally agree! I promise you I was thinking about a law against them

  • @lorenamackey218
    @lorenamackey218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Discarded him an blocked on everything an never goin back… don’t care an so glad I’m long distance

  • @phylliskelley908
    @phylliskelley908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Prayers helped and serving God and asking God for protection! It works. In order to remove the Narc out of your life you must get rid of all toxic people!

  • @gusbasch1141
    @gusbasch1141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That I am here is for obvious reasons. Albeit I am usually as in this case 3 years behind, I, truly thank you.

  • @chasin8888
    @chasin8888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Looking back now, now that I have been educated including Maria the Narc, he was telling me the whole time. Wow. My own awareness has grown tremendously thru this experience. I have stopped looking at why he? and start looking at Me. Difficult work but fkg I am Worth it! I will never be in that energy again ..no repeating lesson. I will not forget! Much love and blessings to you All! Do the inner work and be Free 🌀💜🌀 Don't be afraid to Succeed.

    • @starr6850
      @starr6850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yesss and i think the is one of the biggest fear, and that is fear of moving forward, fear of the unknown

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Knowledge is power education is the key to happiness etc
      .... Stay from narcs....Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe....take care of yourself ....

    • @yvonnehill4854
      @yvonnehill4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you, hold on to God's hands

    • @sharonhorton31
      @sharonhorton31 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      THANK YOU FOR CONFIRMING, I CALL THEM OUT, AND NEVER FELT BETTER. AND ALL THE LIES HIT HIM IN THE FOREHEAD. HE HAS TO WEAR HIS OWN LIES, NOT MY PROBLEM ANY MORE OR IN MY PATH... I NEVER ACCEPTED LIES and DISRESPECTFUL BEHAVIOR ETC. . Done, Done,Done. You are sooo right they can't face you Period. That a Coward all day and night. Stay Strong and Protect your Truths and ENGERY...Keep moving On your bless life Journey. NARCISSIST DON'T HAVE A LIFEJOURNEY AFTER YOU DISMISS THEM. THEY BECOME LIFELESS and Very lost...There own medicine kills there Spirit. They don't have your ENGERY anymore.

  • @YolandaStewart-x5v
    @YolandaStewart-x5v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I found this earlier but I’m glad I left my narc and these kinda videos helped me so much

  • @cherylmcleod6088
    @cherylmcleod6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Yes my mom is 96 and still Narking...that's how I was introduced to the Narc world... attracted them bc it was normalized as a child teenager..but when I became an adult something just didn't sit right from then on...

    • @mandy9775
      @mandy9775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you hope you dont have that 96yr old in your life now. Keeping an arms length and waiting to deal with funeral arrangements is far better. Mine will be 64 soon and I'm starting to think I should block my whole fam til she kicks the bucket 🙃

    • @cherylmcleod6088
      @cherylmcleod6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mandy9775 I keep her at arm's length and interact with her at my discretion...

    • @amaresmom4249
      @amaresmom4249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol @96 And still narking🤣🤣🤣

    • @cherylmcleod6088
      @cherylmcleod6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@amaresmom4249 yes she is... some ppl never think they're gonna die and be judged...it's sad!!

    • @Angela-ph1ik
      @Angela-ph1ik ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@amaresmom4249😂

  • @veda1306
    @veda1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am my narcs worst nightmare he thought i was the easiest to munipulate I was the grade A that brought him down.

  • @caribbeandeelovinglifesjou2974
    @caribbeandeelovinglifesjou2974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yes they are walking poison it’s been 1 yr and 9 months since I left him and all the time he’s been smearing me. You are right. They always have supplies Thank God I’m out of that situation but I’m still dealing with his hate. I no longer have any friends and most relatives are also on my no contact list too. Life will get better soon

    • @mslnie
      @mslnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your people will find you! Don't need that from friends or family either.

    • @teesahurt2074
      @teesahurt2074 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Caribbean Dee Loving life’s journey TRUST IN GOD TIL YOU DIE.. MOVE TO A NEW STATE. DISAPPEAR. Seek therapy and heal yourself. And live a GREAT LIFE.

    • @mandy9775
      @mandy9775 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes let them go and anyone who gives them the benefit of the doubt. Living in my car in the winter was far better than a warm roof with fam. Take care

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember when I finally got a car, after being on foot for four years. I was so happy and excited, that I called the narc to tell him. Instead of rejoicing with me, he hung up on me!

  • @richardhairston997
    @richardhairston997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I really would love to tell my total story to someone

    • @sunshineessex4435
      @sunshineessex4435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Would love to hear your story in exchange for mine👍

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sunshineessex4435 I was just about to say that,We all need to get together and share stories on some type of platform, I only wish I would've known about narcissist before I could've saved myself alot of heartache,but maybe it was just apart of my journey in life.Either way I'm Free!!I feel a need to share my story to save another person from going through what I did.I had no clue what a narcissist was,but God revealed it to me.I am just so grateful and thankful for God revealing these videos to me.They saved my life!!

    • @sunshineessex4435
      @sunshineessex4435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@barbeegirl7196 I knew something wasn't right about my ex. It was ss if there was no such person. Like what kind of person does these things and why?

    • @janiebutterfly5251
      @janiebutterfly5251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would love to hear your story I'm here for you if you need support 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🌈🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @sonya6991
      @sonya6991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd love to hear it, I've got a story to tell also 😉

  • @gabbyrizo6415
    @gabbyrizo6415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are soo right! I delt with an 80 yr. old and he just gets Worse and Worse! The older they get the meaner they get... RUN PEOPLE , RUN! 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

  • @fiercefeminine
    @fiercefeminine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The look on your face when you said "oh you got your life back together " 😂😂😂so true I remember those statements till this day.

  • @stacyoates1316
    @stacyoates1316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay away people it just gets worse

  • @starr6850
    @starr6850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I actually thank GOD for everything that he put me through.
    what Satan meant for my bad, GOD meant it for my good. its times like this that helps me become a stronger individual IN JESUS NAME.
    psalm 37;
    don't worry about the wicked or envy, those who do wrong for, like the grass they will soon fade away.

    • @natalielino7078
      @natalielino7078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will be reading this scripture. Thank you be blessed

    • @starr6850
      @starr6850 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@natalielino7078 ur welcome

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @Dajahgraves
      @Dajahgraves 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I made him read that. He said, this is boring. Wow

  • @oisinroche4290
    @oisinroche4290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is brilliant, as i move away from my time with a narcissist i see how dishonest they were , god knows what they were doing behind my back , it makes me tremble.

  • @amab1853
    @amab1853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What you said about them having a double life in their cell phone is so true. Recently, I found out that the narc I was involved with actually had one of the most "popular profiles" on a dating app. It just showed me he was never honest with me, and was entertaining other women the whole time. And he was manipulative.

  • @brittanyhunter3331
    @brittanyhunter3331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They try to drag you back to where you used to be or where they are, and try to downplay and make you feel guilty for succeeding! The beat of them come with their hand out, expecting to ride tour coattails or acting like you owe them something!

  • @yevonnevanhorn8533
    @yevonnevanhorn8533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    ABSOLUTELY 💯! My ex narc once said I know you trying to leave me but your going to be with me forever. I thought that was weird. Still No Contact

    • @Variant1on1
      @Variant1on1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He told me I’ll never be without him. Now he wants to destroy me.

    • @mslnie
      @mslnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine told me I am nothing without him.
      I laughed in his face and he did not know what to do. Lol

    • @mslnie
      @mslnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great job on no contact!!!

    • @livinglifetothefullest4386
      @livinglifetothefullest4386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's how they think. When me and my ex Narc would get into it. He would always say she's not going anywhere and I'm not going anywhere. I guess I proved him wrong🤔😁

  • @tinacarter934
    @tinacarter934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They would hand over the cell phone, cos they have others..100%

  • @vivian7220
    @vivian7220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My ex narc was pursuing other women the WHOLE time of our relationship. He said they were work friends and I was naive enough to believe it. I always wondered why he needed backup girlfriends if he claimed we will have a future life together. Now I know - he was future faking with me the whole time. It is mind blowing. He knew the whole time he would be cheating and eventually moving on.

  • @rudysingletary
    @rudysingletary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had a narc that was heady in mind control and living around funeral homes and grave yards.
    She also was Chinese. She used witchcraft on me , yet I prayed and went to my Mosque , in 2 weeks I got stronger however she took a lot of my strength from me which took me 3 months to get back at 70%. after two years her Karma hit her. She lost her job, lost her apartment, she needed a place to live. She had COVID-19. I left her during this time. Now I am driving a new 2017 car. I am planning on getting a business on-line. next year buying a new house. She is still doing the same thing sleeping around with a lot of men. This is very sad at 23 years old she will be poor all of her live.
    Karma is real!!
    Rudy Jr.