The reidolization of the narcissist and why they become obsessed with old supply

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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    You’ve had some time away, so they’re assuming that you’ve recharged and gotten your life back together. They understand that when people are around them, their lives and their health begins to fall apart.

  • @dollyscott-payne7488
    @dollyscott-payne7488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    *When it was said that once you stop giving all of your attention to the Narc, or people in general, they become "interested" in you again, I just shook my head!*
    *I'm so sick of all the d@mn games so-called adults be playing these days 🤨👎!*

  • @patrinamuldrow3363
    @patrinamuldrow3363 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    They're abusive and controlling, those selfish Narcissist.

  • @pallasathena1369
    @pallasathena1369 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    From what I have experienced, it is all self pity. New supply offends them in some way so they re idealise the old supply as they tell themselves the old supply didn't do that to me..
    It is all about self pity with these idiots.

  • @rainy2284
    @rainy2284 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Thanks for this observation of the narcissist. Yes, i agree. Was married to one for 24 years. I left him. Now he is interested in me. Finds me intriguing. I won’t fall for his selfish love and interest again. I remain cordial for the sake of my son but have no interest in him. Left him and his falsehood behind.

  • @feminazislayer
    @feminazislayer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Quinn, I just wanna say thank you for uploads seemingly daily. I know you have a life, and get tierd, sick, work ect. But it takes a high level of dedication to do what your doing. I appreciate you. And many others do too.

  • @silverlakegirl9078
    @silverlakegirl9078 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Too cool for school..... Quinn, you saved me 6 years ago. But I'm in need of a refresh and you're killing it. Much respect and a boat load of respect.

  • @hauntedsalmon7931
    @hauntedsalmon7931 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He only tried to come back because my father died. He knew I was alone and he wanted to spend whatever inheritance he thought I got.

  • @cwilliams27
    @cwilliams27 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    What a sick train of thought!

  • @virginiawilson6750
    @virginiawilson6750 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Quinn this message was definitely needed. My ex narc was stalking me so bad that it got on my last nerve. I can't believe the audacity of these sick minded individuals. And what is so mind boggling is that they come back around after doing all their dirty deeds and face you as if they did nothing wrong! People just run and don't even try to make sense of this foolishness. Quinn, I can't say thank you enough!

  • @beemonroe4330
    @beemonroe4330 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have to get a court order to get my ex to remove me from his health insurance, not even married anymore. A crazy person. Calling ADT trying to change my alarm code, changed the bank statement that was originally my account to his new address unbeknownst to me then tried to play crazy. A mental patient.

  • @Cat-sx6ep
    @Cat-sx6ep 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The narc moved on and tried to call however I explained that po po would be called and it stopped and I am in control with block. My life has improved tremendously.

  • @raresh22577
    @raresh22577 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Quinn understanding this disorder through and through. A joy listening to someone who is a master at his craft. Thank you Sir.

  • @myblessings1000
    @myblessings1000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank You Professor Quinn. Your Messages are Always A Breathe of Fresh Air. 😇👏🏽🙏🏽

  • @michaelmich00
    @michaelmich00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    they came back with christmas (AS USUAL) and lovebombing 2 days, then cold and distant, and ghosted. wtf is wrong with ppl

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yup. You’ve got yourself back and all that but trust and believe they got the same sh!t show.

  • @annt8573
    @annt8573 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Quinn, you popped up on my feed and I listened out of curiosity. You’re spot on with what I’ve watched so far. Thank you for sharing. You’ve got yourself another subscriber!

  • @ppe8488
    @ppe8488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dear Quinn, best blessings to you for the new year ❤xx

  • @tarasteward3271
    @tarasteward3271 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Narc re-idolized the old supply ,married her legally ,now they have a business together.this person was devalued 100 times.they don't care
    As long as they have money amd the facade it's ok for them

  • @TawnaTV
    @TawnaTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    We’ll they succeeded in one thing .. and that’s completely killing my love for them. This goes for my mom, my sister and my ex of 19 years. Love = weakness. Congratulations guys! Like you all have so many good and unconditionally loving people around you. The point I’ve finally reached is this.. while I won’t be seeking revenge, I will be sitting by the river watching the bodies of my enemies float by.

  • @danasmith8390
    @danasmith8390 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think thus can also happen in relationships where there's no narcissist if you treat them like a fan they'll treat you like a groupie. Keep focusing in yourself in any relationship

  • @lizhicks7562
    @lizhicks7562 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't believe that. HE better stay away from me!!!!

  • @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES
    @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy New Year Quinn! We appreciate you!🎉🎊🎈🎈🎈🎊🎉❤💕

  • @danasmith8390
    @danasmith8390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've listened to this several times

  • @MissHotTopic69
    @MissHotTopic69 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ummmm I love this Quinn! You hit home wit dis one

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Peace Quinn, You right, once we learned what this is and do the work we look interesting to them again.The difference is we don't go back. Peace Bro 💯👊🏿

  • @samhines5084
    @samhines5084 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I've moved on had a baby bought my own house since being with the narcissist will they try and come back after all that even when I'm happy with someone else?

    • @samhines5084
      @samhines5084 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've even got a new career as a trade person earning 10x more than I was when I was with her

  • @RandallGlatt
    @RandallGlatt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The bigger the challenge(risk), the bigger reward. Narky knows about this if you are a challenge it goes right to your VALUE...

  • @pattyplaylottery
    @pattyplaylottery 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ty Quinn

  • @brendadean9291
    @brendadean9291 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is someone so desperate that they would want a narc ex back. I just don't understand it.
    They will come back and leave again. Why not move on with your life and find someone new if you have to.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy new year 🥳🎇Assc and survivors the narc devil sends mail to my address I refuse to deal with the devils advocate ever he doesn't even deserve to hear my voice at all after my divorce is final I'm planning to move that will be a shock to that demonic misreble creature.

  • @shirleycoleman7181
    @shirleycoleman7181 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    EVEN WHEN THE OLD SUPPLY IS MARRIED LETS TALK ABOUT THAT. PLEASE.

  • @angelpnki9766
    @angelpnki9766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    funny when they realize you're not nothing.

  • @ursulanicholson5166
    @ursulanicholson5166 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤦🏽‍♀️