I always had problems with sex with her because something felt off unless she was drinking. Then it was almost like the alcohol blocked off something. Idk it was weird. and i’m not talking she’s stumbling around drunk though she did that often sadly. And also there were times she would wake up in the middle of the night and would cuddle me and her energy was different and often she claimed to not remember that. and this was when she wasn’t drinking. oh man so many stories.
@@uncas1214 I can relate. I'm gonna be honest here. I'm 29 and I've only had two partners. But I was fine with that, it didn't matter about how many people I could sleep with in x amount of time or anything, that was never me. I just walked my own path and I was happy to be alone. But on this subject, my ex (who I now know is definitely a narc.) was always like... how are you so cool after sex? She said that while she was pretty much ecstatic from the experience! I just say, I enjoyed it, I guess people just show it differently... but realistically, I didn't enjoy it. I felt empty and unfulfilled. I did wonder why I didn't get a good feeling from sex, the way people rave over it and seem to really enjoy it! It also makes me think my only partners must have been narcissists because sex has never felt good for me!
@@DanielRD-91 well i’m 43 and have only had 3 different sex partners one being my ex wife the last one my “i’m pretty sure she’s a covert narc” ex gf. anyway i can def say i’ve had plenty of times the sex was just unbelievable. What i mean is it was an intense spiritual experience where I just felt connected to the person. Most of the time with my ex narc gf it was ok but missing something but when that something was not missing it was extremely good and intense. I really think the times when it was awesome was when possibly her mask was down for whatever reason. sucks because today started wonderful but is ending fairly sad and missing her pretty bad.
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
I totally agree with that, I love that it’s so so true. I held on hoping that he’d give up his emotional affair, for the second time with the same disgusting woman. He left when I tried to establish boundaries, I had been in a state of emotional distress for months. After 22years together, he can’t even be bothered to make an effort with our children. They definitely are evil 😔
Are you still 100% Narc free and enjoying the peace? This vid is a year old. I would not have been Narc free back then but I 🙏 prayed for “Courage “ and THEN God gave me strength and I discarded Charles. I did it with God
Just had to disconnect my self from him whole he was with didn't know who or what the name was but these videos have help me so much I thank God for it I don't care what happen to him not even going to pray for him at all pray for him to get lost
They’ll let you know when they’re begging to get you back then act like they forgot once you let your guard down. Once you’re done with them let them die. Never go back 🤌🏾
I use to think so highly of my child father ... So many people told me “ Why are you with him ? You are too sweet of a girl to be with a bad guy like that .” And my naive self use to say “ well he’s nice to me 😊” . MAN !!!! 😂 I was so dumb lol . I believed EVERY word he told me . But I thank God I woke up from that and started believing what people show me. NEVER absorb others energy, only observe !
It’s mind boggling that they lie,cheat, manipulate and when u call them out and catch them red handed somehow they turn into the victim and u end up apologizing for their shitty behavior and actions.
Do not call the narcissist We do not want his Ecgo to grow.. By calling him shows weakness... I blocked mine I removed him from contacts and I threw his clothes in the garbage and I kept the new once for my next boyfriend lol. To be honest gonna be a while before I'd get involved with anybody... I have too much baggage it's not fair to Date anyone now I pray for each and everyone that's going through this Horrible pain May God-bless u all. l
It’s always about them in everything they say and do. Never reciprocate . When you discard them for you....they become totally unglued and you have to be so careful 🙏🏽
@@sharondalewis1620 Truly I have been there🙏🏽He entered my home as soon as the protection order expired. The alarm was going off and I kept telling him from a locked bathroom that the police were on their way....he ended up being charged. That was almost 10 years ago and he still attempts contact to see if he can Hoover.......no not today Satan 🙏🏽Keep yourself safe because nothing is beneath them when you say NO MORE....ENOUGH 🙏🏽♥️
My ex fiancé narc told me on my last day with him “I’m miserable,I’ll die alone. I don’t wanna drag you. I wanna be miserable alone” probably the only time he told something real. Lol
" The narcissist needs you to feel sorry for them...if you don't feel sorry for them, they cannot control you..." I will post your quotes in my bathroom mirror, so I can see it everyday. Please make some mugs and sell them. Just a great reminder when we are drinking our tea or coffee. 👏👏👏👏💝💝💕🌺🌹🌹💐🌸🌸
Yes they want you to real miserable but am sorry I got a hold to God two friends and we moved with prayers then these videos are awesome thank you Jesus for deliverance
You are so right,, don't feel sorry for them. They cannot control us. He tried to control me but failed badly because I knew what behavior was unacceptable.
This video really spoke to me. In the beginning of the relationship, I would get this eerie feeling about the narc. My spirit was telling me that he was dangerous but I ignored that feeling and tried to see the good in him. After 2 years of complete chaos and foolishness, I got that eerie feeling again one night. He was very drunk and he came to my house, of course uninvited. He kept saying “I’m sorry, I’m sorry” and I was asking for what? He said, “you’re right. I’m angry at the whole world and I don’t know why.” He told me that he was dealing with depression and having feelings of hurting himself. That eerie feeling came over me so strong at that point that I honestly got scared. It’s like I could see how troubled and tormented he was on the inside clearly and for the first time, I clearly saw his dark spirit. I cut him off the next day and went no contact ever since. When you finally see these people for who they really are, they will be repulsive to you. You’ll feel unsafe and uneasy around them. Listen to your intuition the first time it tells you that there is just something not right with them.
So true I always felt a dark vibe from this particular person this narc also used to claim that he was evil and had no heart. I thought I could change him we been friends for so many years but I see I was just a toy that he used over and over again .
They disrespect everytime they can hoover you back. He thought I was jealous, yes his behavior toward other women in front of me and need for attendition, admiration. Lied to my face when I confronted him, laughed and he was caught, done deed. The next woman will get the same too. Healing and strength to all of us. Single enjoying my peace harmony family friends staying open to the new. Thank you Spirit for your grace.
I seen my ex narc a few weeks ago.. We both are driving opposite directions! Discarded her hoover the dirty look she gave me was priceless. Narcs hate when you are happy and have moved on..
I gave up my apartment and moved into his house.When ever I refuse to do something he wants he would always threaten to throw me out which he did twice.The second time he discarded me my son had just passed away.These demons are so heartless
You are dead on. I didn't know about narcissim until a few years ago. While I'm no therapist I realized that I grew up experiencing narc abuse and later attracted toxic and narc friends and boyfriends. I'm fully aware now
My narc ex was terrified about me discarding him in the beginning. So i gave him another chance and talked our issues through with him. Then, he discarded me in the end and claimed he never had a spark with me in the first place. I should have listened to my gut and broke it off early on.
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
@@randomerjourney5861 he did because you timed yourself out-- after 3 years he got accustomed to being away from you- by then you not being around was meh- they don’t even notice because we never meant anything of value to them. You have to learn to think like they do.. you’d never ask that question if you understood narcissism
So so true. I can’t believe this. My obedience 😞 I stopped giving the Narcs my obedience. From my parents to men. No more. I have so much value. My leverage is just ignore the heck out of them and move on. Thank you for the reminder. 💯🙏
You'll come out greater, being obedient your to yourself. They hate being ignored. Keep it moving SISTER... I take out running as if I'm in a Scary Movie Lol. I'm proud of you, getting rid of the NARCS are the one of the best things you could've ever done for your life. May God continue to bless you Abundantly and Exceedingly!!!
PREACH👏🏾👏🏾Ex Narcissist told me that I was my worst enemy when I wouldn't agree to his stupid stuff. NEVER could please him no matter what I did always giving 💯 and was bread crumbed. NO CONTACT three months.
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
Discarded the narc and now they can’t even look at me when I see them in town. Big difference to when they were threatening to beat the shit out of me.
Amen Hario... This happened with me also, my spirit did not allow me to stay with him the way he was... Good and Evil do not mix... 'Excellent Video'...
You are TELLING the truth....you can try to play along to get along all you want buy if you have any connection to ur inner spirit you can't.....I always said....my spirit wont let me rest and I thank GOD for my spirit still being alive
You are so right about this. My spirit just wouldn’t let me be comfortable and feel secure in that relationship, no matter what. Thank God for His deliverance. And you are a blessing. Thank you for your enlightenment.
The narc hate it if I question anything .The narcissist is so hypocritical and full of hate .Cannot even get in a decent conversation with the narcissist . Yeah they always say that only doing this cause they love me but really they hate me .
My ex said everything you mentioned point blank to me over the phone even after threatening me that’s when I discard and went no contact. Walking devils. Watch those crime shows of husbands and wives killing their spouse it really shows the depth of a narcissistic mindset. Be safe out there.
Sounds like my wife when I ask her " are you crazy"? And she replies " you make me crazy " and my come back is " no one can make you crazy if you weren't already crazy " . They will call to make you come back to them just to abuse you. She lucked put because now I know that I am the super empath and she is the narcissist. I should of listened to her little sister who said to me when she was 13 years when she said " George my sister doesn't love you but I do".
I dumped my Narc last December, this year has been horrendous, we have finally sold our home & in 4 weeks my new life starts. His crazy behaviour has taken its toll, he moved in with new supply 2 months ago, she dumped him so he is back in our home, he used the lockdown as an excuse!! He tried to be my friend, almost like the last year hasn’t happened, the abuse of me & our son, the police being called, child services being involved, I made it clear to him how insignificant he is to me. He is now trying to get back with the other supply, crazy behaviour which almost drove me to the loony bin. No more, I will be gone & he can rot in hell!!
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
HE'S NOT GOING TO GET MY HELP .. DESTROYING ME! I WIN! HE CAN DESTROY HIMSELF! I REFUSE TO FEEL SORRY .. FOR A GUY .. WHO .. KEPT ON ABUSING ME! OVER & OVER AGAIN .. IN MANY DIFT. WAYS! HE'S HISTORY!
I discarded my narc ex a year ago, changed my number, and moved out of state. He now stalks me on social media. I have no idea what's going on in his crazy mind. I tried warning the old/new supply, but she didn't believe me. He hasn't changed at all. He still has multiple women.
Now that you mention living in craziness, I am a bit afraid bcuz he’s blaming me for everything and is trying to hard to convince me that he’s something he’s not! He hates that I see him for who he is and he truly cannot handle it!
You will be surprised at who they really are and what they are capable of doing. They will do anything with anybody to get their thrills...I worry about children that are around them!!!
Even after that final discard where he isolated me and what I survived was a horror film. He traumatized me forever. Yet he wants to pull me back in. What I've seen, no matter what, it's you who does final discard. I just did it. I will never sleep with him again. If I go visit, I know what he is gonna do. He owns me and my body in his eyes, til day I die. I can't ever speak to him again. That's how they get back in, bait you back, abuses you however they wish. Whatever they desire. And shelf you again and watch. He spent alot of energy into me, I know too much, he abused me so badly, I was supposed to always get pulled back in whenever. It's sick. Yeah, I can't ever speak to him again.
You're so right Hario I thought I could just let them do what they wanted even when I didn't care about saving the relationship. But I just couldn't stand to have someone try to run game on me
I'm quietly waiting to leave as soon as I get on my feet. I just had a baby, I've dumped him countless times, asked him to leave, and called him out telling him that he's a narc but he just won't go or leave me alone. I've cried more than I ever have in my entire life being with him. I'm just shattered as a person. I drink more, and take pills to sleep just to cope. I've figured out, that I was just the supply he used after the one that got away dumped him. That realization hurt my soul! Now I have 2 children with him, and I feel like trash. I'm just begging God to lift me up because lately, my thoughts have been dark. I found out about this dirty ways after I had the children unfortunately. If only this was known to me sooner, there is no way that I'd be in this situation.
They stalk for a few reasons. 1. To see how much damage they've caused. They're miserable and want to make sure you are too. 2. To see if there is a possible opening for them to return. 3. To gather more info to assist them in their smear campaign. 4. To find anything negative to boost their ego. 5. It's the only sense of control once you leave. They stalk and spy because they no longer have access.
Straight to the point my brother!!! Thank you so much!!! Been no. Contact with ex narc for almost 6 months! Dude pop up at my door this past Monday night .i did not let him into my home. I slightly open my door stand frim what I needed to say and closed and lock my door quickly!! The look he had given me was like dang are you really serious? Yall that look seem so sincere!! Ive never seen it before from him....i had to hurry Asap say what i needed to say quickly!! I did not yell nor fuss.I made it clear to him and stuck with it.!! I peep out my door peep hole and he was just standing there looking at the ground. And walk away so slowly... Y'all no lie. I wanted to open that door so bad so I could hear him out...because my feelings are still fresh for him but also I'm still angry and hurt...I had to fight it bad..because that's how he trick me back here 6 months ago. Im still in recovery..and I realize I cannot take this matter lightly..
Lol I love that song...yeah they're insane. I'm going through this now. I broke up w him and he started stalking me and refuses to disappear from my life. I just want to move on..he can have his strippers who I guarantee are the same as they are. :)
I released him years ago. Very toxic cycle. He played the victim the entire time. I literally had to move to another city far away and cut him off. Best move i have ever made for myself. No looking back
Very true. I was with a narc for 28 yrs. They get worse with time in fact his current supply is enjoying life in hell. He looks quite bad physically. Anyway I don't care. I moved on. Happy glowing with my children. Initially it was tough but with God I'm better and happy. 1 year 3 months no contact. Thanks Bro. You are of great help on these tough journey back to finding us again.
Bro, you're a blessing. When I tell you I was in here listening to you like I was in church! I'm listening to you for the second time. You spoke EVERY single word of what I'm going through right now. I just kicked my narc husband out last week. I had enough. My life was progressing and I was focusing on myself, and he became so hateful and showed his evil ass. I got a new job and he was acting like he was supportive, then he turned on me and started stealing my joy in a happy time in my life. It's like he was offended that God blessed me with something great. Same with everything. Anything I like he hates, he talks crap about me and makes me out to be the devil to his parents and his family and friends, and he played so many mind games it started impacting my mental health. He prioritized everything and anything over me. It took me down so many times and I went into really deep depressions and had extreme anxiety. But thank the Lord I have strong faith, a super, super amazing support system, a loving family, and a dad who taught me I was special and capable my whole life. He took every issue I had, everything I loved, any slight weakness I exhibited and he used it against me. Even when I had a little health issue, I hid it from him because I was afraid he would use it as ammunition against me. That's not love or marriage. It's freaking evil and destructive. I'm getting over the sadness and feeling like he just threw me away. Trash can't throw you away; you throw it away. And he is straight gutter trash for the horrible things he's said to me, for the satisfaction he got out of hurting me, and how he tried to bring me down to make me as miserable as him. I started detaching myself emotionally for over a year now. It's still hard emotionally, but your video is healing for my soul. It's like you were living in my house watching what's been going on this whole time. This was SOOOO on time. Thank you and please keep making videos. I'm going to start going to counseling to stop myself from getting in relationships like this. I can't do this again. God bless you!
Oh my God this is so true! They will try to make everyone think you are the bad one. Always trying to turn people against you to make themselves look good.
My spirit led me to you and I’m glad about it! It’s only been 5 1/2 months with the narc and today is Day 1 of NC. You have confirmed everything for me! I have been binge watching your videos since yesterday when I found you. I feel like you are talking directly to me. Thank you soo much! #NC4EVA
Do they care if they already had a primary source before, during, and after you?..... my situation was a complicated, manipulative, lying, mess.... I loved him with every fiber of my being ..... and when I finally figured out the real truth.... I exposed him, left him, and went no contact...... it’s been 2 months , he called a couple times but I didn’t answer.....and even though the verbal/emotional abuse was absolutely insane..... I still miss him so much.....and I still love him so deeply.... I am Dying....... and he seems like he is and will be perfectly happy and fine with her or whoever ..... I am so lost...... I can’t cope....all I can do is ruminate and cry....it’s literally hell
Try to get someone to help you and watch these kind of videos learn and see they are not worthy. Grow close to the lord if you are a believer. It takes time and baby steps but you have to love yourself I know it’s tough. That’s what I did and a year and a few months I’m back I’m healing I have learned. Now it’s time for my life
@@michellem9797 How am i giving him what he wants?....I don’t even engage with or speak to him..... And with all due respect, just telling me to pray and get close to god really isn’t helpful.... I pray everyday and night and the pain and intrusive thoughts have not stopped .... I need real insight to navigate and understand this ....
Praying for you. I know that hurt but trust me love, it gets better. Keep learning about this mental illness, keep praying to God for healing, and keep finding ways to improve you, because you are important, not this person. It's like trying to drive a car without an engine. Narcs don't have hearts and no matter how much you try to "fix it," this car won't move. They are normally messed up and abused themselves. The abused sometimes becomes the abusers. His mental manipulation of you is still impacting you and you need to cut the cord and let that devil go. I know it's easier said than done. Cry if you need to, talk to a good friend, get counseling, pray, talk to God, what ever you need to do, but do everything you can to remind yourself how valuable you are and what trash he is. You deserve to be happy.
I went through this too. But believe me, it does get easier. I have good and bad days - but I listen to a lot of these videos. Trust me, they never change. My ex narc had a history of abuse. Lost his kids and home because of it. I won’t be the last - this is who they are. Please take it day by day. I cried, lost weight, struggles at my job and it’s getting better. It’s been 2 months now no contact. 3 months since I’ve seen him. I don’t care if he is with another, because I was slowly dying. Bu could feel the ill health within me. It was either me or him and I had to choose me! Stay strong, it will ease. You are going through withdrawal. It’s an addiction. Remember, they do not care - they can’t care or truly love as we do them. 🙏🏽
I discarded mine I planned it two weeks ahead of time that day came for that final argument I packed & left never looked backed Ive been hovered &so I grey rocked, hes dead to me ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
This is one of the most spot on and educational video I have seen! I’m drowning my brain in videos since going no contact. I’m so naive, I did not know anything about this! As you said, my spirit was becoming louder and louder. ❤🙏🏻
As Super Empaths, we’re doing the narcs a BIG favor by allowing them to be in our presence. But like always, they f*ck it up. The thing we should understand about narcs is this: THEY WANT YOU TO LOVE THEM MORE THAN THEY LOVE YOU!
You saved me today. I was crying speaking to my husband, I had to eliminate the closet things to me to save our marriage, I couldn't say yes to that, it was my spirit that blocked me.
I discarded my narcissist and filed for divorce. At first he thought it was cute, he was laughing about it. But when I cut him off after informing him that I was exiting the marriage He started panicking. Even attempted to force himself on me, because he uses sex as a form of manipulation to soften your heart and get what he wants.
I've been going 3 yrs away from narc and he is still causing trouble for me. I don't give him the time of day. Now he is telling everyone that I am the mother of his children which isn't true. And he is talking rude about me. Making fun of my age and how old my body is which plays on my mind. I'm Trying to love myself and bring out the beauty in my life. I haven't got much and went without to achieve what I think is miraculous on my part. It's made me a better person all this shit he's laid on me and how people have found out that I have achieved everything I have done because I'm a stayer and a battler. Who after this can survive anything
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Therefore, NARCISSISTS DO NOT HAVE AN OUNCE OF LOVE IN THEIR WHOLE BODY! They are DEMONS.
Exactly. I discarded the narcissist and never looked back. Nothing he could say or do would change my mind. I deserve better. Would never allow myself to be subject to his horrible treatment. A wolf in sheep's clothing. Fraud. Fake.
When I got ready to discard mine I knew everything I allowed his Ghosting to give me the opportunity to do my homework and set up things for my Quiet escape came Home all my shit gone, house clean out, and NC Started immediately after he called like he was ok with it, but I knew he was upset, kept saying you didn't have to leave you can stay here as long as you want he wasn't finished love Bombing yet his other Supply.
I discarded my narc ex four years ago. I said: "the way you hurt me will haunt you till the end of your days. You will never find anyone who loved you with such a pure, selfless love that it will destroy you a little bit each day. It didn't start with me, and it won't end with me. You're the problem, and I'm done."
I have held in so much confusion over the years due to trying to understand the damage the narc has done to me and why. THIS VIDEO HAS REALLY HELPED ME TO RELEASE THAT CONFUSION AND CONTINUE ON A MUCH CLEARER PATH IN LIFE🙏🏻 thank you sir, I’m now free mentally 🙌
I’ve listened to numerous Narc experts and you have to be one of the most accurate individuals thus far. You’ve literally almost verbatim described my experience. Thanks for all you do! ❤️
So true! I was fighting my spirit to the point that I was sick.... always at the doctor looking for answers...and bam....the day I made him leave, I have zero symptoms
But for the Grace of God, & TH-cam Channels like yours, I left during her love-bombing phase. I couldn't ignore the red flags yet was caught up in the trauma-bond. I was in love with an illusion but it hurt nonetheless. I put up boundaries & off came the mask & in came the smear campaign. She rewrote the narrative but it was visibly evident that she was affected in a dramatic way-she couldn't hide it. To this day, God continues to do for me what I cannot do for myself. I still hurt, even years later- but I am slowly growing. The process is not always as slow for others but it's ok. I struggle with acceptance but have many days of peace and joy. I'm getting better. These things are so poisonous to my soul that just a chance encounter & early escape nearly left me devastated. God Bless all of the victims that have the strength & courage to recover after endless cycles of abuse. You guys are my inspiration & hope. You guys accept me- as weak & feeble as I am. Thank you for letting me be a part of your lives. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope. One 1/2 cycle nearly killed me. ✝ 🛡 ❤
@@Surfsup448 Thank you. You brought up a really important question I haven't considered: What do I want? Well, I know what I want now because I just answered my Self. Now that I've replied to my Self, I know what I need to do to get it. As goofy as this reply may sound to you, I thank you. So simple & I complicate the hell out of things. I don't correspond with many survivors so your words & direction planted a seed. Now I've got to water it. Thank you.
I’ve officially ended it today. I went no contact for 12hrs and decided to reply his texts. I told him we need time and space apart and now he wants to return the groceries I bought for him 2days ago! Talk about ego tripping!
The fact that they feed on your pain makes me wonder if it’s spiritual warfare.
"The narcissist needs you to help them to destroy you." Whoa.
They can’t do it without you!
That's crazy!!
It may sound crazy but it is the truth
Yes. And HOW DARE YOU to not help them do it
@@bryanovalasiti4461 hahaha..... right
They know it’s the start you becoming your best self once you discard them🙌🏾🙌🏾
That's my plan lolol
You speaking facts
I feel better now that dead weight is on some one else
As long as it isn't on me
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@@monimendoza5583 pmmopppm
Facts
My spirit wouldn't sit right with him !
I always felt like something was off with him.
I always had problems with sex with her because something felt off unless she was drinking. Then it was almost like the alcohol blocked off something. Idk it was weird. and i’m not talking she’s stumbling around drunk though she did that often sadly. And also there were times she would wake up in the middle of the night and would cuddle me and her energy was different and often she claimed to not remember that. and this was when she wasn’t drinking. oh man so many stories.
@@uncas1214 I can relate. I'm gonna be honest here. I'm 29 and I've only had two partners. But I was fine with that, it didn't matter about how many people I could sleep with in x amount of time or anything, that was never me. I just walked my own path and I was happy to be alone. But on this subject, my ex (who I now know is definitely a narc.) was always like... how are you so cool after sex? She said that while she was pretty much ecstatic from the experience! I just say, I enjoyed it, I guess people just show it differently... but realistically, I didn't enjoy it. I felt empty and unfulfilled. I did wonder why I didn't get a good feeling from sex, the way people rave over it and seem to really enjoy it! It also makes me think my only partners must have been narcissists because sex has never felt good for me!
@@DanielRD-91 well i’m 43 and have only had 3 different sex partners one being my ex wife the last one my “i’m pretty sure she’s a covert narc” ex gf. anyway i can def say i’ve had plenty of times the sex was just unbelievable. What i mean is it was an intense spiritual experience where I just felt connected to the person. Most of the time with my ex narc gf it was ok but missing something but when that something was not missing it was extremely good and intense. I really think the times when it was awesome was when possibly her mask was down for whatever reason.
sucks because today started wonderful but is ending fairly sad and missing her pretty bad.
You are blessed
That is one of the worst form of evil to manipulate and torture someone then come back as nothing happened then do the same thing again.
That is the type of mental sickness in a person that's unto death.. Sad stuff
Send shiver down my spine!
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@@Jaylaqp its tragic they never change
The narc is the devil worse weapon that I have ever seen pure evil from the belly of hell
A narc needs the supply more than the supply need the narc
You know well..💅🏾
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Very creative way of putting it!!!!!
Truth!
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
It’s all a show. Stop buying tickets!
Amen to that
Then get out!
Lol. Love this 💝
Yep!
The devil clown show!
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nice
You can never satisfy a narc. They just move onto the next fix of supply
Very true
How pitiful
I pray he gets out of my life completely
Your spirit will not allow you to stay with a Narc👏🏾👏🏾🌷💝 That is accurate!
Indeed
TRUTH
Facts!!!
True that 💯 👍
It’s true I lost myself I’m a super empath and was dying on the inside I had to leave ! Thank you 🙏 Lord!!! God and his angels helped me off there!
I finally discarded him last night. “God will continue to make the wrong person hurt you until you have no choice but to let go”.
I totally agree with that, I love that it’s so so true. I held on hoping that he’d give up his emotional affair, for the second time with the same disgusting woman. He left when I tried to establish boundaries, I had been in a state of emotional distress for months. After 22years together, he can’t even be bothered to make an effort with our children. They definitely are evil 😔
Are you still 100% Narc free and enjoying the peace? This vid is a year old. I would not have been Narc free back then but I 🙏 prayed for “Courage “ and THEN God gave me strength and I discarded Charles. I did it with God
I left too I couldn't deal with the craziness. I left day after Mother's day.
@@darlenesutton7248 my narcissistic grandmother reached out to me from a new number a few days before mother's day...she wanted gifts and money.
Sooo true
Yes you are so right.. no matter how much I love him my spirit just won’t accept that demonic energy... preach brotha
Deadass bro
AMEN
Just had to disconnect my self from him whole he was with didn't know who or what the name was but these videos have help me so much I thank God for it I don't care what happen to him not even going to pray for him at all pray for him to get lost
I thought I was bugging out when I felt that way, the spirit and energy never die💯🧬🦋
When a bad dog gets loose the first place they go is to the trash.
Or to smell another dogs poop and pee 🤣🤣
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I hadn't loose him and he went for pure trash
A panic pick is always low grade supply!
They’ll let you know when they’re begging to get you back then act like they forgot once you let your guard down. Once you’re done with them let them die. Never go back 🤌🏾
I use to think so highly of my child father ... So many people told me “ Why are you with him ? You are too sweet of a girl to be with a bad guy like that .” And my naive self use to say “ well he’s nice to me 😊” . MAN !!!! 😂 I was so dumb lol . I believed EVERY word he told me . But I thank God I woke up from that and started believing what people show me. NEVER absorb others energy, only observe !
I can relate . I was told the same thing by friends n the it family
Me too they don't deserve us
He probably wasnt even nice to u fr..his words over powered ur common sense
@@5ofakind623 he was nice in the beginning. But his mask came off when I got pregnant. He thought he owned me .
@@lovelyti8920 right so he really wasnt nice for real. Nice ppl are always nice.
It’s mind boggling that they lie,cheat, manipulate and when u call them out and catch them red handed somehow they turn into the victim and u end up apologizing for their shitty behavior and actions.
Exactly. ❤
Do not call the narcissist We do not want his Ecgo to grow.. By calling him shows weakness... I blocked mine I removed him from contacts and I threw his clothes in the garbage and I kept the new once for my next boyfriend lol. To be honest gonna be a while before I'd get involved with anybody... I have too much baggage it's not fair to Date anyone now I pray for each and everyone that's going through this Horrible pain May God-bless u all.
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You cannot negotiate with your own spirit. Your spirit I stronger than you. #deep
It’s always about them in everything they say and do.
Never reciprocate . When you discard them for you....they become totally unglued and you have to be so careful 🙏🏽
True. You will be punished every time you don’t do what they want. Evil punishment
@@Surfsup448 that is why life is so much better once you have pushed that Devil off your doorstep 🙏🏽♥️
Going thru that right now, not feeling as safe either now
@@wandabt6754 you’re beautiful and who cares about them.
@@sharondalewis1620 Truly I have been there🙏🏽He entered my home as soon as the protection order expired. The alarm was going off and I kept telling him from a locked bathroom that the police were on their way....he ended up being charged.
That was almost 10 years ago and he still attempts contact to see if he can Hoover.......no not today Satan 🙏🏽Keep yourself safe because nothing is beneath them when you say NO MORE....ENOUGH 🙏🏽♥️
It’s that endless cycle of pushing you away and then pulling you back in that makes these relationships so hard to break away from
Exactly. And they act as if nothing happened.
Living well is the best revenge
My ex fiancé narc told me on my last day with him “I’m miserable,I’ll die alone. I don’t wanna drag you. I wanna be miserable alone” probably the only time he told something real. Lol
Mine too. Maybe the only honest thing she said to me: "You deserve better." I didn't listen. 🤦🏻♂️🙄
" The narcissist needs you to feel sorry for them...if you don't feel sorry for them, they cannot control you..." I will post your quotes in my bathroom mirror, so I can see it everyday.
Please make some mugs and sell them.
Just a great reminder when we are drinking our tea or coffee.
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Yes they want you to real miserable but am sorry I got a hold to God two friends and we moved with prayers then these videos are awesome thank you Jesus for deliverance
You are so right,, don't feel sorry for them. They cannot control us. He tried to control me but failed badly because I knew what behavior was unacceptable.
End best quote "they are miserable and misery wants company"
You are going hard on them narcs. I salute you. They deserve it.
This video really spoke to me. In the beginning of the relationship, I would get this eerie feeling about the narc. My spirit was telling me that he was dangerous but I ignored that feeling and tried to see the good in him. After 2 years of complete chaos and foolishness, I got that eerie feeling again one night. He was very drunk and he came to my house, of course uninvited. He kept saying “I’m sorry, I’m sorry” and I was asking for what? He said, “you’re right. I’m angry at the whole world and I don’t know why.” He told me that he was dealing with depression and having feelings of hurting himself. That eerie feeling came over me so strong at that point that I honestly got scared. It’s like I could see how troubled and tormented he was on the inside clearly and for the first time, I clearly saw his dark spirit. I cut him off the next day and went no contact ever since. When you finally see these people for who they really are, they will be repulsive to you. You’ll feel unsafe and uneasy around them. Listen to your intuition the first time it tells you that there is just something not right with them.
Same here. I knew something was off I just felt it!
Preach. God always tells u first. Before U even really know what’s going on
So true I always felt a dark vibe from this particular person this narc also used to claim that he was evil and had no heart. I thought I could change him we been friends for so many years but I see I was just a toy that he used over and over again .
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Wow… that eerie scared feeling was in the beginning of my relationship, I caught a panic attack when he contacted me months after the break up
They disrespect everytime they can hoover you back. He thought I was jealous, yes his behavior toward other women in front of me and need for attendition, admiration. Lied to my face when I confronted him, laughed and he was caught, done deed. The next woman will get the same too. Healing and strength to all of us. Single enjoying my peace harmony family friends staying open to the new. Thank you Spirit for your grace.
Tonirae Atchley,You are beautiful,you don't need a narcissist in your life....
I had the exact same situation! I’m in process of divorce.
I seen my ex narc a few weeks ago.. We both are driving opposite directions! Discarded her hoover the dirty look she gave me was priceless. Narcs hate when you are happy and have moved on..
YOUR SPIRIT WILL NOT ALLOW ......those words right there is enough for me!!! Very powerful when you think about it,!!
Absolutely, that was it!!!!
"Your spirit been fighting you the whole time" Truer words have never been spoken.
I gave up my apartment and moved into his house.When ever I refuse to do something he wants he would always threaten to throw me out which he did twice.The second time he discarded me my son had just passed away.These demons are so heartless
You are dead on. I didn't know about narcissim until a few years ago. While I'm no therapist I realized that I grew up experiencing narc abuse and later attracted toxic and narc friends and boyfriends. I'm fully aware now
Same. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it and you realize that they’re all around you.
When he said you can't fight your spirit. That hit me. I fought it too long. And that spirit was my inner warrior so I won🤷🏻♀️
My narc ex was terrified about me discarding him in the beginning. So i gave him another chance and talked our issues through with him. Then, he discarded me in the end and claimed he never had a spark with me in the first place. I should have listened to my gut and broke it off early on.
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
I discarded mines but he begged for a chance
@@randomerjourney5861 he did because you timed yourself out-- after 3 years he got accustomed to being away from you- by then you not being around was meh- they don’t even notice because we never meant anything of value to them. You have to learn to think like they do.. you’d never ask that question if you understood narcissism
@@randomerjourney5861 You won in the end. Because he is a piece of Sh**!!!
He came back for revenge like my ex husband did should've never looked back 😭
They take over people’s conversations too it’s all about them them them
Oh my God! You spoke like you new the Narc I married and stayed with him for 17yrs!! I feel like crying!!
Ditto
They have a take over spirit
@@floralyimo7907 at least your free now🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@1010QUEEN7 yes they do
"The narcissist needs you to help them destroy you"...wow! Just gold!
I love you more for this wonderful quote.
Thank you💕🌺🌺🌺🌺🌹🌷🌷💐💐🌸🌸💝💝👏👏👏🙏🙏
So so true. I can’t believe this. My obedience 😞 I stopped giving the Narcs my obedience. From my parents to men. No more. I have so much value. My leverage is just ignore the heck out of them and move on. Thank you for the reminder. 💯🙏
Awesome way of thinking
You'll come out greater, being obedient your to yourself. They hate being ignored. Keep it moving SISTER... I take out running as if I'm in a Scary Movie Lol. I'm proud of you, getting rid of the NARCS are the one of the best things you could've ever done for your life. May God continue to bless you Abundantly and Exceedingly!!!
@ jessica..well said my friend!!! Im so happy for you!!
Much love and prayers to you three... 💯💕🙏
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2 years free BUT not one day goes by without a thought of him.....only a minute or so but that is my scar tissue I guess.
Each day, it gets better. I promise.
13 years free believe me it gets better.
PREACH👏🏾👏🏾Ex Narcissist told me that I was my worst enemy when I wouldn't agree to his stupid stuff. NEVER could please him no matter what I did always giving 💯 and was bread crumbed. NO CONTACT three months.
Yip dont even worry babe i went through the same thing once i put my foot down he lost his shit
Yes
I went through the same shit with my ex I couldn't plz this man to save my life
Im done with his ass & tbh im happy 😊
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
Spot on as usual. I was so fooled. So in love. And so used and abused. Seing the truth is the only way to heal I think. You are great. 🙏🏼
Maya_Stockholm,You are beautiful,you don't need a narcissist in your life.....
Discarded the narc and now they can’t even look at me when I see them in town. Big difference to when they were threatening to beat the shit out of me.
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Amen Hario... This happened with me also, my spirit did not allow me to stay with him the way he was... Good and Evil do not mix... 'Excellent Video'...
You are TELLING the truth....you can try to play along to get along all you want buy if you have any connection to ur inner spirit you can't.....I always said....my spirit wont let me rest and I thank GOD for my spirit still being alive
No wonder he never returned 🤣
He discarded me then I discarded back in the worse way possible.
Me too
You are so right about this. My spirit just wouldn’t let me be comfortable and feel secure in that relationship, no matter what. Thank God for His deliverance. And you are a blessing. Thank you for your enlightenment.
The narc hate it if I question anything .The narcissist is so hypocritical and full of hate .Cannot even get in a decent conversation with the narcissist . Yeah they always say that only doing this cause they love me but really they hate me .
Feel free to contact me to cry or talk!! Everyone I’m here for you. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I do not cry to these people I laugh at them I’m very strong and I take down All of them
@Redirected Love Sometimes people just need to talk . It’s an olive branch at no cost.
Hi
I need that
@@imaniamoure9782 You still need someone to talk to? I’m here anytime. Sorry for the delay. Didn’t see this until now
These Narcs are a piece of work
Ever wonder why people are so dependent on a man or woman to make them happy or sad? You should be good without validation.
Validate yourself!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
My ex said everything you mentioned point blank to me over the phone even after threatening me that’s when I discard and went no contact. Walking devils. Watch those crime shows of husbands and wives killing their spouse it really shows the depth of a narcissistic mindset. Be safe out there.
Sounds like my wife when I ask her " are you crazy"? And she replies " you make me crazy " and my come back is " no one can make you crazy if you weren't already crazy " . They will call to make you come back to them just to abuse you. She lucked put because now I know that I am the super empath and she is the narcissist. I should of listened to her little sister who said to me when she was 13 years when she said " George my sister doesn't love you but I do".
Precisely
Lmbooooo!!! George its how you said it my friend!! I can only imagine your expression when you said what u said to her.!
True, I've experienced this first hand💯
@@sylviadelong9694 your welcome. I think 🤔🤣🙏
@@aprilsunshine7565 yes indeed. That face turned into a sour grape.
I dumped my Narc last December, this year has been horrendous, we have finally sold our home & in 4 weeks my new life starts. His crazy behaviour has taken its toll, he moved in with new supply 2 months ago, she dumped him so he is back in our home, he used the lockdown as an excuse!! He tried to be my friend, almost like the last year hasn’t happened, the abuse of me & our son, the police being called, child services being involved, I made it clear to him how insignificant he is to me. He is now trying to get back with the other supply, crazy behaviour which almost drove me to the loony bin. No more, I will be gone & he can rot in hell!!
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
@@randomerjourney5861 you
HE'S NOT GOING TO GET MY HELP .. DESTROYING ME! I WIN! HE CAN DESTROY HIMSELF! I REFUSE TO FEEL SORRY .. FOR A GUY .. WHO .. KEPT ON ABUSING ME! OVER & OVER AGAIN .. IN MANY DIFT. WAYS! HE'S HISTORY!
I discarded my narc ex a year ago, changed my number, and moved out of state. He now stalks me on social media. I have no idea what's going on in his crazy mind. I tried warning the old/new supply, but she didn't believe me. He hasn't changed at all. He still has multiple women.
nathalia504 GOD is good . I’m happy you made the choice to leave
nathalia504 they will never change . I’m glad you moved on life is sweet I bet
Let the new supply be stupid 🤷🏾♀️
We are all Spiritual beings.
We live in a physical body/ Flesh.
& we possess a Soul
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NOW YOU SAID IT RIGHT, ABSOLUTELY!!!!
Truth Lord
AMEN AND AMEN
Thank you so much for spreading awareness. When you said "the narcissist needs you to help them destroy you" I felt elevated.
" They don't know them the way you know them. " 💯
Now that you mention living in craziness, I am a bit afraid bcuz he’s blaming me for everything and is trying to hard to convince me that he’s something he’s not! He hates that I see him for who he is and he truly cannot handle it!
Keep no contact! Don’t fall for it!
You will be surprised at who they really are and what they are capable of doing. They will do anything with anybody to get their thrills...I worry about children that are around them!!!
@@ladylaura93 wow!! This is so true!
@@ladylaura93 😐😐😒😒😒my children in their care
Don't be afraid,and don't care about him blaming you.Just go on and live your best life. Love you 💯 everyday.
Even after that final discard where he isolated me and what I survived was a horror film. He traumatized me forever. Yet he wants to pull me back in. What I've seen, no matter what, it's you who does final discard. I just did it. I will never sleep with him again. If I go visit, I know what he is gonna do. He owns me and my body in his eyes, til day I die. I can't ever speak to him again. That's how they get back in, bait you back, abuses you however they wish. Whatever they desire. And shelf you again and watch. He spent alot of energy into me, I know too much, he abused me so badly, I was supposed to always get pulled back in whenever. It's sick. Yeah, I can't ever speak to him again.
Even when u conform they will still find ways to make it worse
You're so right Hario I thought I could just let them do what they wanted even when I didn't care about saving the relationship. But I just couldn't stand to have someone try to run game on me
I'm quietly waiting to leave as soon as I get on my feet. I just had a baby, I've dumped him countless times, asked him to leave, and called him out telling him that he's a narc but he just won't go or leave me alone.
I've cried more than I ever have in my entire life being with him. I'm just shattered as a person.
I drink more, and take pills to sleep just to cope. I've figured out, that I was just the supply he used after the one that got away dumped him. That realization hurt my soul!
Now I have 2 children with him, and I feel like trash. I'm just begging God to lift me up because lately, my thoughts have been dark.
I found out about this dirty ways after I had the children unfortunately. If only this was known to me sooner, there is no way that I'd be in this situation.
Why do narc's turn into STALKERS when the discard cuts off ALL means of communication?
Yes they sure do! Im like damn leave me alone.
They stalk for a few reasons.
1. To see how much damage they've caused. They're miserable and want to make sure you are too.
2. To see if there is a possible opening for them to return.
3. To gather more info to assist them in their smear campaign.
4. To find anything negative to boost their ego.
5. It's the only sense of control once you leave. They stalk and spy because they no longer have access.
Check out "Knowing the Narcissists" TH-cam, it's off the chain!
HG Todor Knowing the Narcissists
@@longtea1 Okayyy... Like, get lost !
Straight to the point my brother!!! Thank you so much!!! Been no. Contact with ex narc for almost 6 months! Dude pop up at my door this past Monday night .i did not let him into my home. I slightly open my door stand frim what I needed to say and closed and lock my door quickly!! The look he had given me was like dang are you really serious? Yall that look seem so sincere!! Ive never seen it before from him....i had to hurry Asap say what i needed to say quickly!! I did not yell nor fuss.I made it clear to him and stuck with it.!! I peep out my door peep hole and he was just standing there looking at the ground. And walk away so slowly... Y'all no lie. I wanted to open that door so bad so I could hear him out...because my feelings are still fresh for him but also I'm still angry and hurt...I had to fight it bad..because that's how he trick me back here 6 months ago. Im still in recovery..and I realize I cannot take this matter lightly..
Congratulations! So proud of you.
@@livamoore5566 and still staying free my friend!!:)
Cypress Hill song Insane in the membrane was dedicated to people with narcissistic traits for sure.
Exactly, I thought about it yesterday
Yesssssssss...say no more!!!
Haha
I actually love that song 😂 but very true
Lol I love that song...yeah they're insane. I'm going through this now. I broke up w him and he started stalking me and refuses to disappear from my life. I just want to move on..he can have his strippers who I guarantee are the same as they are. :)
THANK YOU. One year and eight months no contact. He awakened a beast.
Discarding a narsy is their worse nightmare, yet they cause it to happen.
I released him years ago. Very toxic cycle. He played the victim the entire time. I literally had to move to another city far away and cut him off. Best move i have ever made for myself. No looking back
Leverage power by cutting them out of your life!! Forever! Him or me? I choose me!!
Very true. I was with a narc for 28 yrs. They get worse with time in fact his current supply is enjoying life in hell. He looks quite bad physically. Anyway I don't care. I moved on. Happy glowing with my children. Initially it was tough but with God I'm better and happy. 1 year 3 months no contact. Thanks Bro. You are of great help on these tough journey back to finding us again.
Bro, you're a blessing. When I tell you I was in here listening to you like I was in church! I'm listening to you for the second time. You spoke EVERY single word of what I'm going through right now. I just kicked my narc husband out last week. I had enough. My life was progressing and I was focusing on myself, and he became so hateful and showed his evil ass. I got a new job and he was acting like he was supportive, then he turned on me and started stealing my joy in a happy time in my life. It's like he was offended that God blessed me with something great. Same with everything. Anything I like he hates, he talks crap about me and makes me out to be the devil to his parents and his family and friends, and he played so many mind games it started impacting my mental health. He prioritized everything and anything over me. It took me down so many times and I went into really deep depressions and had extreme anxiety. But thank the Lord I have strong faith, a super, super amazing support system, a loving family, and a dad who taught me I was special and capable my whole life. He took every issue I had, everything I loved, any slight weakness I exhibited and he used it against me. Even when I had a little health issue, I hid it from him because I was afraid he would use it as ammunition against me. That's not love or marriage. It's freaking evil and destructive. I'm getting over the sadness and feeling like he just threw me away. Trash can't throw you away; you throw it away. And he is straight gutter trash for the horrible things he's said to me, for the satisfaction he got out of hurting me, and how he tried to bring me down to make me as miserable as him. I started detaching myself emotionally for over a year now. It's still hard emotionally, but your video is healing for my soul. It's like you were living in my house watching what's been going on this whole time. This was SOOOO on time. Thank you and please keep making videos. I'm going to start going to counseling to stop myself from getting in relationships like this. I can't do this again. God bless you!
Oh my God this is so true! They will try to make everyone think you are the bad one. Always trying to turn people against you to make themselves look good.
They mistakenly think that they set the tone.
...when they have no tone. No personality. No style. No merits.
You are speaking gold, my brother 🌺🌷🌹💐🤗
Yep!!!
Gold
Your videos are so on point, they make me mad all over again thinking about the bullshit I've put up with! Smdh
My spirit led me to you and I’m glad about it! It’s only been 5 1/2 months with the narc and today is Day 1 of NC. You have confirmed everything for me! I have been binge watching your videos since yesterday when I found you. I feel like you are talking directly to me. Thank you soo much! #NC4EVA
How are you doing now?
They are really cray cray I been delivered.
Do they care if they already had a primary source before, during, and after you?..... my situation was a complicated, manipulative, lying, mess....
I loved him with every fiber of my being ..... and when I finally figured out the real truth.... I exposed him, left him, and went no contact......
it’s been 2 months , he called a couple times but I didn’t answer.....and even though the verbal/emotional abuse was absolutely insane..... I still miss him so much.....and I still love him so deeply....
I am Dying....... and he seems like he is and will be perfectly happy and fine with her or whoever .....
I am so lost...... I can’t cope....all I can do is ruminate and cry....it’s literally hell
Try to get someone to help you and watch these kind of videos learn and see they are not worthy. Grow close to the lord if you are a believer. It takes time and baby steps but you have to love yourself I know it’s tough.
That’s what I did and a year and a few months I’m back I’m healing I have learned. Now it’s time for my life
My Sister you giving him. Just. What. He wants. Try to have a relationship with. God 🙏 speak out. Loud to him to for recovery.
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How am i giving him what he wants?....I don’t even engage with or speak to him.....
And with all due respect, just telling me to pray and get close to god really isn’t helpful.... I pray everyday and night and the pain and intrusive thoughts have not stopped ....
I need real insight to navigate and understand this ....
Praying for you. I know that hurt but trust me love, it gets better. Keep learning about this mental illness, keep praying to God for healing, and keep finding ways to improve you, because you are important, not this person. It's like trying to drive a car without an engine. Narcs don't have hearts and no matter how much you try to "fix it," this car won't move. They are normally messed up and abused themselves. The abused sometimes becomes the abusers. His mental manipulation of you is still impacting you and you need to cut the cord and let that devil go. I know it's easier said than done. Cry if you need to, talk to a good friend, get counseling, pray, talk to God, what ever you need to do, but do everything you can to remind yourself how valuable you are and what trash he is. You deserve to be happy.
I went through this too. But believe me, it does get easier. I have good and bad days - but I listen to a lot of these videos. Trust me, they never change. My ex narc had a history of abuse. Lost his kids and home because of it. I won’t be the last - this is who they are.
Please take it day by day.
I cried, lost weight, struggles at my job and it’s getting better. It’s been 2 months now no contact. 3 months since I’ve seen him.
I don’t care if he is with another, because I was slowly dying. Bu could feel the ill health within me. It was either me or him and I had to choose me!
Stay strong, it will ease. You are going through withdrawal. It’s an addiction.
Remember, they do not care - they can’t care or truly love as we do them.
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I discarded mine I planned it two weeks ahead of time that day came for that final argument I packed & left never looked backed Ive been hovered &so I grey rocked, hes dead to me ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
@Brittany Alonge 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
hey i wanted to ask if my ex narc ended the relationship first but then we kept talking for another 3 years on a friedly basis but then i was the one to go no contact and told him i didnt want to be friends who won ?
That’s how you do it 🤷🏾♀️
That supply NEVER is in reality !!! It’s low grade they have many others on the side of that supply too 😂
So true: they don't win, and to some extent, they make a hell of their own lives.
This is one of the most spot on and educational video I have seen!
I’m drowning my brain in videos since going no contact. I’m so naive, I did not know anything about this!
As you said, my spirit was becoming louder and louder.
❤🙏🏻
As Super Empaths, we’re doing the narcs a BIG favor by allowing them to be in our presence. But like always, they f*ck it up. The thing we should understand about narcs is this: THEY WANT YOU TO LOVE THEM MORE THAN THEY LOVE YOU!
You're right about the spirit, it will not allow the narcissist/toxic person to take you down certain roads (mistreat you).
You saved me today. I was crying speaking to my husband, I had to eliminate the closet things to me to save our marriage, I couldn't say yes to that, it was my spirit that blocked me.
I discarded my narcissist and filed for divorce. At first he thought it was cute, he was laughing about it. But when I cut him off after informing him that I was exiting the marriage He started panicking. Even attempted to force himself on me, because he uses sex as a form of manipulation to soften your heart and get what he wants.
I've been going 3 yrs away from narc and he is still causing trouble for me. I don't give him the time of day. Now he is telling everyone that I am the mother of his children which isn't true. And he is talking rude about me. Making fun of my age and how old my body is which plays on my mind. I'm Trying to love myself and bring out the beauty in my life. I haven't got much and went without to achieve what I think is miraculous on my part. It's made me a better person all this shit he's laid on me and how people have found out that I have achieved everything I have done because I'm a stayer and a battler. Who after this can survive anything
ann rangiahua close, you deserve better
my spirit told me from day 1 smh never again
True con artists, so glad I got away get out and stay out people!
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Therefore, NARCISSISTS DO NOT HAVE AN OUNCE OF LOVE IN THEIR WHOLE BODY! They are DEMONS.
I disregarded my Narcissist and I never looked back 😘
Me too after 36 years
@@elliemay7569 Amen wish all the happiness U deserve it 😁
@@judahlove2975 Exactly we deserve it
@@laughoncomedy2923 Amen
Exactly. I discarded the narcissist and never looked back. Nothing he could say or do would change my mind. I deserve better. Would never allow myself to be subject to his horrible treatment. A wolf in sheep's clothing. Fraud. Fake.
Narcissist path will end in destruction evil doers have their day coming God will repay them.
When I got ready to discard mine I knew everything I allowed his Ghosting to give me the opportunity to do my homework and set up things for my Quiet escape came Home all my shit gone, house clean out, and NC Started immediately after he called like he was ok with it, but I knew he was upset, kept saying you didn't have to leave you can stay here as long as you want he wasn't finished love Bombing yet his other Supply.
I discarded my narc ex four years ago. I said: "the way you hurt me will haunt you till the end of your days. You will never find anyone who loved you with such a pure, selfless love that it will destroy you a little bit each day. It didn't start with me, and it won't end with me. You're the problem, and I'm done."
I have held in so much confusion over the years due to trying to understand the damage the narc has done to me and why. THIS VIDEO HAS REALLY HELPED ME TO RELEASE THAT CONFUSION AND CONTINUE ON A MUCH CLEARER PATH IN LIFE🙏🏻 thank you sir, I’m now free mentally 🙌
I’ve listened to numerous Narc experts and you have to be one of the most accurate individuals thus far. You’ve literally almost verbatim described my experience. Thanks for all you do! ❤️
Valerie Johnson,You are beautiful,hope you are not with a narcissist.....
So true! I was fighting my spirit to the point that I was sick.... always at the doctor looking for answers...and bam....the day I made him leave, I have zero symptoms
You're sooo right about what our spirit simply will NOT ALLOW 💯 PROTECT YOUR ENERGY or deserve only what you allow...
But for the Grace of God, & TH-cam Channels like yours, I left during her love-bombing phase. I couldn't ignore the red flags yet was caught up in the trauma-bond. I was in love with an illusion but it hurt nonetheless. I put up boundaries & off came the mask & in came the smear campaign. She rewrote the narrative but it was visibly evident that she was affected in a dramatic way-she couldn't hide it. To this day, God continues to do for me what I cannot do for myself. I still hurt, even years later- but I am slowly growing. The process is not always as slow for others but it's ok. I struggle with acceptance but have many days of peace and joy. I'm getting better. These things are so poisonous to my soul that just a chance encounter & early escape nearly left me devastated. God Bless all of the victims that have the strength & courage to recover after endless cycles of abuse. You guys are my inspiration & hope. You guys accept me- as weak & feeble as I am. Thank you for letting me be a part of your lives. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope. One 1/2 cycle nearly killed me. ✝ 🛡 ❤
This is your last day to feel sad . Stop 🛑 it today . Rejoice and go do whatever you want.
@@Surfsup448 Thank you. You brought up a really important question I haven't considered: What do I want? Well, I know what I want now because I just answered my Self. Now that I've replied to my Self, I know what I need to do to get it. As goofy as this reply may sound to you, I thank you. So simple & I complicate the hell out of things. I don't correspond with many survivors so your words & direction planted a seed. Now I've got to water it. Thank you.
@@joeroberto5367 Small things add up. Ignore your feelings and do it anyways. Don’t underestimate a 2 minute walk . “For example” You got this.
@@Surfsup448Thank you for the encouragement. You've got my perspective in the right track- for real.
@@joeroberto5367 Welcome. Keep us updated on your peaceful life
You are 💯 correct. They get worst when they get older
I’ve officially ended it today. I went no contact for 12hrs and decided to reply his texts. I told him we need time and space apart and now he wants to return the groceries I bought for him 2days ago! Talk about ego tripping!
Yes. Narcs always need someone to buy their groceries. My ex narc is a grown middle aged man on food stamps.
Girlllllll😂
They manipulate and lie about you to other people so others can dislike ypu.
Its like you were a fly on my wall. I went thru all of this. Everything you ever said in all of your videos described my ex husband.
That's right they love that you depend on them!!!