He didn't regret. I found the 3 pages motion he filled during the first divorce. He wrote lies. Later come back. Left again and this is how I found it. I confronted him and I told him to get the hell out of my apartment. Just evil!
Shannon, Your Crazy Girl I Love the way you think. You are Correct we are good looking and my Ex knows that on top of knowing I was very good to her. And Healed $$$. Go be with your New Supply she will never find me in Him. Good Post. Stay Well.
@@angellenamay I don’t know but you’ve never noticed? So many times it happens. Maybe they aren’t “ugly” but the one being cheated on always looks better. Remember Halle Berry being cheated on? They never “trade up.’ 😂
Yep. KK W PAT. MY NARC BEFORE HE DIED. He and his narc family All had their part. My Marc was at the bottom of it al. Esp his kids. TRYED TO DESTROY ME ROB FROM ME ect. AND this narc even MAN HANDELed ME EVEN WHEN I WAS ASLEEP. The drs helped me. They believed me. ITS HARD FOR ME TO BELIVE THIS ~~~~~~~~~ THAT “ I am free. I am free. I am free indeed !!!! free to be me. Free to come and go. Free to have fun ect.
Honestly, I don't believe that these types of people EVER regret what they do to ppl! How can they when they NEVER take accountability for THEIR actions?!
If they regret anything in my opinion it would be for selfish reasons. Like I regret I screwed that person over because they did xy and z for me and now they won't do it for me anymore.
@@mlmarsico I didn't even think that far down the line, but yes for sure. She painted this picture of me of how much of a screw up I was. Now that she has been out of the picture for 3 years, everything is better!!! When I say everything I mean everything. I have the same job make the same amount of money roughly and Financially I am way better off even though I am paying the same mortgage we were paying together but now paying alone, on top of the mortgage and normal bills I am paying her $1,000 a month for child support for 2 kids. Just life in general is way way better! I don't have to deal with any of the daily drama or the arguments they start about the dumbest thing. All the things I love doing. I am an outdoorsman. The beginning of the relationship that was the coolest thing ever. Towards the end it if I wanted to go fishing that I hated her and my kids ect... or wanted to go golfing for 5 hours it was the same thing I hate my family and put golfing twice a month was putting golf above my family ect.... crazy then I remember during the discard she asked if we couldn't just be friends? Like Hello you were clearly never a friend of mine. So great point!!! Sorry for the rant! Your point made my brain go there lol! Merry Christmas!!!
When you get to an place you don't want anything to do with the Narc and start working on yourself they come back!! Trust me the wicked will not prosper Proverbs 11:22! Trust and lean on God's unchanging hand🙌🙏🛐🔥
Narcs get off on hurting people. Then they cheated and paraded their backburner supply in front of you, seeing that it hurts you, was done on purpose. Now that the narc *"misses"* you, its not the way a normal person misses someone. They only miss the benefits of being with you. They miss the supply you gave, the energy you exude. The narc is a parasite, an energy vampire, that only misses that life blood you gave. Dont willingly go back, please. Let them suffer in their own perpetual hell alone...
@@marysarianides8150 So keep note that a narc will do it a million times more to you. Everyone is an enemy to the narc. When it hurts you and they see it, its narc fuel for them. Keep your distance and keep no contact. Under no circumstances answer to the narcissist.
I will. That douchebag called me several times and I look at the phone and messages like hell naw. 😳. Loathe him. Won't suck the life outta me ever again.
Exactly! Narcs are "always right!' No regrets, right? Until they get left behind or are not chased after like they hoped after discarding me. Yet like you say, they have "no regrets." But they have to deal with the consequences of another friendship or romantic relationship DESTROYED BY THEM on their own watch
Yes! It's not actually about love. They just regret messing up another person as cool as you. They no longer have a gullible but awesome fool to control! They are upset they can't behave normally sometimes. Either way, its all coming to and end. They usually regret it when they can not get new supply as quickly or at all.
I just got discarded like trash after a 14 month relationship, but I walked with dignity, and blocked all communication. Of course my heart hurts and I’m still in shock as my life has been completely rerouted, but what I won’t do is abandon myself and ever take this type of devaluation and disrespect. We got this- and it’s nice to know I’m not alone. 💜🙏🏾
I'm 1 yr 4 months narc Free 🥂🎉🤸🏾♀️🦸🏿♀️💃🏾After 20 yrs with them cold turkey no contact blocked on everything and the blessings keep coming & coming.. SHOUT OUT TO EVERYBODY ON HERE FREE& LOVING THE NEW FOUND YOU!!! YOUR STRENGTH IS GODSENT!
My ex denies he ever physically abused me! I was with him for 14 years and be gone away from him for 9 years now. He still won’t give me an apology to this day🤷🏿♀️!!!
They are not in love with the new supply, it’s all about feeding their fragile sense of self, once you see them for who they are you can’t Un see them,they destroy your hopes your dreams and everything else that was good in your life. Their Karma definitely comes from the moment we walk away and go no contact for good. Thank you for the videos Hario 🙏
Narcissists don't regret what they do. They regret you either found out or you set up boundaries. They don't think they do anything wrong anyway. Its always deflected or projected.
This/their abuse is evil inhuman as they are the lowest humanity sees. To intentionally , continually taktically and wantingly destroy a good loving person - is evil. I am still healing, every day , every minute 🙏
It’s a blessing he’s gone! 🎉 My life has been filled with peace. It’s a joy to watch his calls go to voicemail & to just read his texts w/o responding 😊😊Oh he done messed up now… it’s a done deal on my end. 🗑
@@shannonthetherapist exactly, I changed both my phone numbers and moved. I have no desire to even see his texts or emails. You will never truly heal if they are still on your mind.
Hario speaking facts, don’t wait for the narc to come back, because they are waiting for you to ask them back because they miss the things you did for them, and if you ask them back, then they know they don’t have to apologize for all the wrongs they did to you.
I was the new supply and I remember how bad he talked about his ex she was the problem he said she cheated on him all the time and he was completely innocent! I believed him until his mask fell on me and he’s with a new supply now I was apart of his movie for 10 long years! I was loyal and good to him and got treated worst than the ex he claimed was so horrible
Just remember... they may be regretting leaving you, they may want to be back with you....but it WILL NOT be for the right reasons. There is no happy ending with people like that so keep moving forward. Don't look back.
Loving these fresh takes! I know he misses me. I was good to him. Despite all the things he said to make me second guess myself, I know I’m capable of being a wonderful partner and any man who meets me is blessed to even speak to me. I’m so happy I’m free of that!
@@gayricardo6463 because it’s not about us!! That’s what I had to realize. He beat me up so bad that I continued to do it to myself. No more! I wasn’t the problem!
She did they to come back after a week saying she wanted to be friends I block her delete her number and change mind..now she Hoover me on Facebook..crazy.
Just had my ex Narc talking of his regret yesterday, 2 years after I left him, I gave him 18 years and he caused me so much pain. He said that Christmas was family time so we should meet together with our son, he made every Christmas miserable for everyone so why would we ever want to entertain him on that day particularly, he’s deluded!!
Don’t go back. It may go well for a lil bit but it’s going to go right back to how it used to be they don’t change it’s hard to accept but I just can’t see a narc being good
Omg that is exaktly like my ex. He always destroid birthdays and christmas. And He wants to do it this year again. He is deluded Who thinks i would put me and my son thru that again.
I was asleep with my narcissistic woman and I fasted for a few days , in my deep sleep eyes closed I saw a green light go through my body and soul out of my back and inside her chest and her left arm raised up and held me and she woke up super charged, I woke up feeling peaceful, she was stealing my energy and love bomb me in the morning I was confused all day , I’m ok now I’m far away from her and blocked her i feel free and peaceful thank you Brother
The best victory was leaving after 15 years of torturing! The hope for the situation would change didn't exist! His love, caring, and protecting me DIDN'T EXIST! It's been 5 months and I am enjoying every peaceful time, joy, having the bed all to myself, get up and leave and work late make that money any time I want. Thank you the most high for delivering me from from hell fire DEVIL. I love youR video. THANKS!
Hello that’s a no go you won’t be waiting for them with open doors however we all know they actually gonna spend the block lol 😝 we just can’t fall back into the bs actually it’s better when they tryna get back in.. mine always got blocked then new numbers calling and texting xyz then I get sauced first I hold off going to their house or coming to mine then surely it start… and they you know the rest this time he’ll no
Anyone who wants a Narc to come back or looking for the Narc to come back,,,They haven’t suffered enough Abuse Yet. THEY HAVE TO LEARN For Themselves.I had no clue of why my daughter was like this untill i watched And Learned about Narcissis ,,EVEN WENT THROUGH THE FORGIVING STAGES TAKING HER BACK JUST, so many different stages after another,,BUT NOW IM AT ENOUGH & I Don’t want it back in my life, I CHOOSED TO LOVE HER FROM A DISTANCE,& IM HEALED AND WALKING IN WHOLENESS , STRESS FREE,, I GOT MY LIFE BACK & IM ON THE TOP OF MY GAME & IM GROWING DAY BY DAY BY KEEPING UP WITH YOUR VIDEOS & MESSAGES ,,THERES ALWAYS MORE TO LEARN ABOUT THEM.THE MORE WE LEARN THE STRONGER WE GET .WHEN I LAY MY HEAD AT NIGHT I SLEEP IN PEACE AND ITS A BEAUTIFUL THING !!!! THANK YOU 😊
If they regret mistreating their former love one, that should have made the proper changes. At any rate its irrelevant because I'm not interested in getting back into that folly.
Jesus I never thought I would get over someone who left me for another woman like really left me ghosted me I went through so much. You know you’re over someone when you don’t even want them to have karma you just pray that they live a good life 💕
I agree 1,000%! They do regret and look back! People have to realize that they are still human beings with a conscience that they completely trained their minds to ignore because they've done some things in their lives that they wish they could forget but deep down they feel and they hurt. They lack a spiritual connection in which they take on demonic spirits through creating soul ties with multiple sex partners. Trust they do have feelings to love and regret they just avoid those feelings by entertaining others in hopes to forget!
You spoke the gospel on this subject. Demons have control over them. It is like deviation deviate. Kinda like a thief that crosses through the window. He don't feel good until that demon helps him thru the window. Then he becomes very excited feels good big rush. That devil inside of him helps him. He needs that rush. That is the only reason he does it. To feel good overjoyed. So I do understand. Until these kind of people excepts Jesus Christ as their lord and savior. Their is no help for them. I would say run with all your life like a big tiger is after you. God has your blessing. Ty
Narcissists don't regret a thing. That would be an emotion and they're not capable of that. It's all apart of the narc facade. But I bet they do miss the specific way we treated them. Much like everything else decent & good, the narc will forever chase it with new supply but will never be able to catch it ever again.
Hario you are on it today. I know hes regretting what he did to me without a doubt. 2 unknown numbers today. I know it’s him. He never thought I would go no contact. He wanted to be just friends after an intimate relationship so he can do what he want. Thinking I would hang around. We use to have a blast. I took care of him like I was his wife. Even my friends said you treat him like y’all married. Ain’t nobody going to do for him like I did. Even after he did me wrong I took him back . He thought I was gone for good then. So he tried it again. No no not this time. NO CONTACT so yup he is regretting it. I don’t know who he thought he was messing with. I am a nice person but please don’t make Me look like a fool. I got something for that NO CONTACT!! Boy bye. Silence is golden., living drama and Narc free
The narc that I have been in a relationship with off and on for just over a year has damn near destroyed my soul until this very day. I pray for anyone going through the same. Be strong and wake up to their bullshit, they're very dangerous beings. Thank you brother for your kind words of wisdom and God bless you and everyone who has and is going through it.
You were so spot on! My ex did exactly what you JUST described. I was so extremely heartbroken, humiliated, betrayed and disappointed in his behavior because he presented himself to be a totally different person in the beginning of our relationship. He pulled my mother and son into his lies. I found out he is a serial cheater and when I caught him redhanded with the other woman, he denied being in a relationship with me in front of her proceeded to hit me after I slapped him for lying. I could not believe he actually put his hands on me. It’s hard to forgive him
Narcisssist regret nothing. They don’t have the emotional bandwidth to have regrets because that would mean self reflection and growth. They do not self reflect and they do not grow.
It's been a little over a year since I left the narc. Everytime a relationship dosen't work out she reaches out to me. No contact from me. I don't think she will ever change. She has a whole cheer squad that encourages her. Right on down to her parents. Smh. It was a mistake to ever give a female like that a chance.
Same thing happened to me! Married the person that begged me to stay. Future faked me bad, her mom was so jealous of me! I’m a nurse and mom wOrks at a Amazon call center! Family completely helped destroy the marriage … I provided, protected and honored a person who had no idea what true … they all encourage her to abandon her marriage and my kid who is really heartbroken by this! She told me she wanted to me a role model for my kids.. I was asking her to grow up and level up… she called me crazy, disrespected me and let family snd friends mentally and physically abuse me …. I’m so with good bc I started to lose everything when I was with her! My career my money and all’ like I was with the end of my ropes! Losing weight amd my usual appearance was off! It was the most hurtful thing I ever bern thru! Discarded me like o was trash 3 times and left me with no money, no job or any …. I’m glad I moved away snd it hurts …. I’m gonna divorce soon bc no man will put his bad intentions on me and my love was pure! I know she wanted my money, the life I provided! Promised me she would get a career, she wanted to take care of me…,all lies … when my money got funny and I asked her to level. Up … she stated to hate me
WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE . 😉 I KNOW IWAS GOOD TO HIM ,AND I KNOW I DID HIM RIGHT. AND I KNOW HE THINKS OF ME ALL THE TIME , AND REMEMBERS ALL OF THAT !!! FACTS 🎯💯💯
MINE TOO. IM STILL TRYING TO GUAGE IF HE IS FULL NARC OR HIGH TENDENCY BECAUSE HE HAS APOLOGIZED B4, WENT TO COUNSELING ON HIS OWN, AND DONE A LOT OF SELF REFLECTION. HE STILL IS PETTY AND HOT HEADED ARIES BUT HE PROB IS A COMBO...SMH
Those narcissists think they are SO SMART. I've been no contact for 1 year. Last year I figured out her pattern. Love bomb in the winter cause it's her birthday time, and then the discard comes a few months later. I made the final discard last November. She had no choice but to say to me, Wow you never talked to me like that. Lol. Told her I'm greater now that we don't speak and that I'm glad to know we won't speak again in the future. Surprised her bird brain ass. To all the survivors out there, take control of your life and your mind. The narc will definitely regret losing your supply. Hario is right saying their karma is losing you. Thanks Hario for saying the truth. I know my ex narc still wants to call, but her pride won't let her. Lol. I'm too strong for the delusion. Make the final discard yourself. And don't worry about looking back.
No contact! ....( Get Out and Stay Out)...Trust And Believe Me!.... It will only get worst staying or going back to a NARCISSISTIC partner. GOING BACK ONCE YOU HAVE GOTTEN OUT....Will ONLY PUT U AS A GLORIFIED SIDE Piece! LET THEM REGRET LOSING YOU! Thank you for this message my brother! Be Blessed!
I was breakfast lunch dinner a nurse with a purse and he still was empty inside I’m so glad he’s gone you don’t have to clean me out no more God is good all the time
I hollered Yes !! All the way home from work! He is going to miss my touch, smile, smell, team player, love, support! But, when he see I will have peace and love in my next relationship, it will be priceless! Will God do it! Yes he will!!
This video is golden. May the narc enjoy their new supply and never darken my doorstep ever again. Keep they fake future planning for the next idiot...
Oh trust and believe it! Karma is very real. My ex narc got exactly what he had coming and paid the ultimate payback! He passed away just a few short months after I broke it off with him! During the time leading up to his death he tried to get me to take him back on a few different occasions. I told him I can't do it anymore.
NC for 3-6 Months! Thank You God, for Delivering Me, from that Narc! He hoovered from Different Numbers, so I Changed my Number, quite a few Times! He tried 2 Apologize! Nope, There is No Excuse, for Treating me bad; When I only Cooked, Cleaned, & Had Great intentions towards him! Unjust Won't Prosper! He Shouldve treated me properly the 1st time Around! #Karma, is No Joke!!! I Gave him at Least 3 Chances, Now I'm Not trying to Hear, I'm Sorry!
Know your value. It's taken time but I know now the magnitude of goodness I can shower on someone I care for. And that pure light isn't found just anywhere. No sir, everyone after us will be a significant downgrade. And it isn't coming from a place of being conceited it's just knowing the nature of my heart. Keep healing fam!!
This made me cry. Im a disabled vet three tours in Iraq 2003 I gave my life to her and she destroyed me. I thought war was bad. I though loosing my friends was hard. She attacked my son Semper. She said I don’t love him. She made me feel worthless. I gave her all my money and let her live with me. I cooked I loved her all day everyday. I’m so sad I let her ruin me. Thank you sir for helping all of us. Semper fi!
Yeah mine downgraded big time. The supply he tried to triangulate me with is a 50+ year old woman who can’t keep her own place for long periods. He slipped and said, she don’t have no where to go basically a pity pick and now he stuck 😂. He been trying to Hoover for the last 3months, Nah I’m good! My life has elevated in so many ways since! He know now, he done fucked up.💁🏽♀️ he can keep that bird but if she had any sense, she’d hurry and get her shit together cuz when he get real tired of her, that discard is gonna cut deep ass hell! I have a feeling she a Narc just like him.
Honestly I don’t wish them any bad karma at all. All I can do Is move on and pray for everyone. Even the people that hurt me. Getting caught up in this mentality is also bad. Just let go and forget. Move on and learn to love again. Just this time around look at the 🚩’s. ✌🏽❤️
Thank you!! What a wonderful video and such a truthful honest message!! ❤️🥳🎉 to my fellow empaths!! Moving on is such a breath of fresh air! No matter what part of the journey your on, it is better then being with a narc! 🥰
We were in a near decade long relationship with a family then he's suddenly seen in town with a new girl young enough to be our daughter.. when I go to town cafe owners, shop keepers, friends - even strangers - all run out to tell me they can't believe how he treated me, they want to wish me well.. they can't believe the low hanging fruit he's with, she's not well liked in our small town. No his life is not the same. We had a beautiful life filled with fun, beauty, friendship and love. And now, he has no job, no friends and he stays at home day and night. He's seen in town an hour once a week. He looks dirty, paranoid and unhappy.
Yes it's true my ex narcissist does not have the ability to call me anymore after he broke my heart he's full of shame full of regret and full of guilt. But because of his big eagle he sacrificed his happiness for his pride now he has to live with it for the rest of his life I just hope that his ego won't kill him like he killed our relationship we used to have. 🦋
My ex was the same so prideful and egotistical and heartless and cruel. Mean with words. I just kept coming back with love. But she would provoke me to the point I would snap and black out and say mean things back to her then she would flip it on me saying “oh you called me the B word. She would play victim after provoking me to get out character then use it against me later on…I’m like wow really? And even if she did say I hurt her. I would immediately apologize and say sorry I didn’t mean it…I wanted her to stop screaming at me. But I messed up by stopping down to her level. That’s what she wanted. I would cuss and get angry JUST like her because she wouldn’t stop yelling at me and cussing at me. But even BEFOFE it would get to that point, I’ll try to say calm the situation down and comfort and communicate effectively and have a better approach…I would say “am I cussing and screaming at you?” Am I being rude and nasty towards and saying hurtful things?” And then she would flip it on me saying “stop playing victim” she would literally project herself and Accuse me of things I wasn’t doing. She would believe other people over me. I would have proof that I was innocent and it still wasn’t enough. She flipped everything on me. She was hot and cold. One minute she loved me so Much. Then the next she hated me so bad! She would spread lies to her family and friends…about me that wasn’t true. She was harsh with her words. Very hurtful and made me feel like shit. I use to have great sense of humor but I couldnt joke cause she’ll take things the wrong way. I felt like I was walking on eggshells.I had to be careful what I could and shouldn’t say and do around her. Just to make sure she doesn’t get upset. I am naturally a people pleaser. So everything she asked I would do at the expense of my own happiness or relationships that she didn’t want me to be around. I kept trying and trying until my spirit said “enough is enough!” You don’t deserve this! You know what you doing is right. You love them but they don’t love you. They’ve hurt so bad and want to control you and take advantage. So I know she regrets and if she’s doesn’t “Lord have Mercy on her!” She is still allowing her pride to stop her from being a humble person and saying sorry. She never asked for forgiveness because IN HER MIND…she’s the victim, she didn’t do anything wrong! She puts all the blame on me. and I wouldn’t take the blame just so we wouldn’t argue or fight. But everything I did and tried wasn’t good enough. You just can’t force it. It will happen if it was suppose to happen. If it’s meant to be, it will be. But I learned from this! Lesson learned. Know your self worth! Love yourself more! Love your ex from distance. Say I forgive you ans I hope you forgive me if I ever hurt you. Now you said your peace! Now what they say and do…it’s NOT UP TO YOU! It’s not your responsibility! You can’t help someone that don’t wanna get help! They have to want to change on their own. They have to face their own demons and battles on their own! When they get ready…hopefully before it’s too late. God bless you all. I hope we all learn from these relationships. Learn how to be alone and love yourself. Work on yourself and balance yourself. What you likes and don’t likes…good character is better than anything else in the world!
@@SincerelyDanielle974 she projected all of her insecurities unto you she's bitter and miserable because she has not heal from her past emotional injuries. You were an angel to her God place you in her life so she. Could learned how to give and receive LOVE but she rejected you. Her pride is big it is sad. But you need to work on yourself do self-love self healing once you do that give it a couple months you're going to look back and laugh about it. Working getting all the love you once gave to her give it back to you.
Facts 💯 They miss what ever you were supplying them with. All the lies and circus tricks they were doing no longer effect you when you get into that energy and take your power back is what they envy and respext. They miss the control they had over you and the good karma you brought to them. It's all about satisfying them selves and when it's game over they regret losing you as you being Grade A supply. They don't miss YOU they miss the control and what you brought to the table.
They regret because they know it’s hard to find another me 🤣 I really was there for her I really don’t understand who would do that 🤔 go from a good situation to a piss poor situation 🤔smh!!!!
He was able to call me (on a moments notice) (I would drop everything) for anything, and I bailed his ass out of hot water....I saved him.....he said "you saved me"....then he turned around and bit the hand that fed him......once a snake, always a snake....he is a dastardly horrible creature......
Powerful & insightful video! I can testify that they’ll continue missing us and respecting us for letting them go! My ex cannot go a year w/o contacting me. Of course I know he hasn’t really changed and is still extremely toxic. Time for me to go no contact for life..not to hurt him, but to elevate myself even more.
I feel so tranquil and relaxed, because you gave me the truth, it feels so good to know that someone in this world understands what it's like to have had to deal with a demon!
Narcs are ALWAYS living in pain. Their karma is always a bih... I left the one I used to know and now I am free and travel the world 🥰I am now living in a karma full of BLISS
The main problem with a narcissist is they're unable to hold themselves accountable for anyone and literally everything!!!! Don't you dare feel guilty for how they treated you from the start. Let their fake ass go!!! You have a purpose that's more important than their worthless, pointless, and useless existence of theirs. THEY'RE NOT WORTH ANYTHING TO NOBODY!!! just remember that about them
Whoever is w the narc has the blessing blocker in their life. You don't win w a dusty narc in ur life. You win w a genuine person who values u in ur life.
That’s the part that makes me feel so good because I am standing my ground I’m standing in the gap for the others that haven’t made it there yet BUT on top of everything else PUT SOME RESPECT ON MY NAME 🙅🏽♀️😈🔨🔨🔨💯
Yes. You say that they regret what they did to us, all the lieing and cheating, but he never admits that he did anything wrong. He wants to be blameless. And still says he didn't cheat, and he never cheated. 🙄
This was so refreshing & reassuring to watch. It gave me a boost of confidence I need to continue thru with "no contact" with the narcissist I've bn dealing with for sometime now! This spoke VOLUMES to me!
Wow what a reading its exactly what I am going through right now he doesn't even know what to say to me he left me for another narc he has just discovered that her narc was cheating with his best friend for all this years he's been with her and his friend confided to him that even the child he's been supporting is not his I am laughing my lungs out its true when they say Karma does not miss an address
Never take them back! They will destroy you. It will get worst each time you take them back. It took me filing for divorce 4 times before I finally broke free. I just celebrated 13 years free from narcissist abuse, but they will never leave you alone. My ex reached out after 13 years with a new phone number because I’ve had him blocked for 13 years. I blocked the new number immediately. I will never open that door for him to enter my life again!
I don’t believe they regret anything, I believe they’re just mad they no longer have that control over you. It’s all about control .
Yup evil as mf
Exactly
True all they want is control and power over you.
yea it's all about their image. when you are silent they know that you know and don't care if they're dead or alive
He didn't regret. I found the 3 pages motion he filled during the first divorce. He wrote lies. Later come back. Left again and this is how I found it. I confronted him and I told him to get the hell out of my apartment. Just evil!
“Most of us are good looking.” 😭 They usually cheat with people who are ugly.😂
But why????
Shannon, Your Crazy Girl I Love the way you think. You are Correct we are good looking and my Ex knows that on top of knowing I was very good to her. And Healed $$$. Go be with your New Supply she will never find me in Him. Good Post. Stay Well.
@@angellenamay I don’t know but you’ve never noticed? So many times it happens. Maybe they aren’t “ugly” but the one being cheated on always looks better. Remember Halle Berry being cheated on? They never “trade up.’ 😂
@@davidcoppotelli3957 Thank you! You too! 😘
@@shannon.fields Thanks Shannon, Be Good....Its A Crazy Life.
They regret not being able to destroy you when they had the chance.
Precisely!!!!! Well said. I'm sorry ,so sorry that you had to go through this.
Yep. KK W PAT. MY NARC BEFORE HE DIED. He and his narc family All had their part. My Marc was at the bottom of it al. Esp his kids. TRYED TO DESTROY ME ROB FROM ME ect. AND this narc even MAN HANDELed ME EVEN WHEN I WAS ASLEEP. The drs helped me. They believed me. ITS HARD FOR ME TO BELIVE THIS ~~~~~~~~~ THAT “ I am free. I am free. I am free indeed !!!! free to be me. Free to come and go. Free to have fun ect.
@@sweetpeaqueen1788 🙏🏽 amen.
Right.. that's all..that's it
The murderous psychopath only regret was that he didn't kill me.
They regret because they now realize that you were the super supply.
The lost the big fish!!!
As someone says, Giving a Narcissist a second chance is like giving them another bullet, because the first one jammed and didn't fire.
😂🤣,so Tru, Norco's are on a set computer program!
Great analogy.
WOW what a way of looking at it!!🤔😊
Wow!
Oh that is a great quote!
Honestly, I don't believe that these types of people EVER regret what they do to ppl! How can they when they NEVER take accountability for THEIR actions?!
They have fake regrets. The just want to destroy you again
I agree with you
If they regret anything in my opinion it would be for selfish reasons. Like I regret I screwed that person over because they did xy and z for me and now they won't do it for me anymore.
I think their only regret is that you survived and flourished after their insane evil abuse!
@@mlmarsico I didn't even think that far down the line, but yes for sure. She painted this picture of me of how much of a screw up I was. Now that she has been out of the picture for 3 years, everything is better!!! When I say everything I mean everything. I have the same job make the same amount of money roughly and Financially I am way better off even though I am paying the same mortgage we were paying together but now paying alone, on top of the mortgage and normal bills I am paying her $1,000 a month for child support for 2 kids. Just life in general is way way better! I don't have to deal with any of the daily drama or the arguments they start about the dumbest thing. All the things I love doing. I am an outdoorsman. The beginning of the relationship that was the coolest thing ever. Towards the end it if I wanted to go fishing that I hated her and my kids ect... or wanted to go golfing for 5 hours it was the same thing I hate my family and put golfing twice a month was putting golf above my family ect.... crazy then I remember during the discard she asked if we couldn't just be friends? Like Hello you were clearly never a friend of mine. So great point!!! Sorry for the rant! Your point made my brain go there lol! Merry Christmas!!!
They are never really happy. They pretend to be. They are miserable!
Don't ever move in with one...hardest thing is getting rid of them
They only regret losing supply.
We empaths are good, God fearing, kind hearted souls. And we are rare breeds.💯
I am an empath without fake God to help. 100% atheist.
NOway, the Narcissist definitely does not regret doing you wrong.
They feed off it. Hurt people hurt people, period.They choose the dark way.
When you get to an place you don't want anything to do with the Narc and start working on yourself they come back!! Trust me the wicked will not prosper Proverbs 11:22! Trust and lean on God's unchanging hand🙌🙏🛐🔥
Amen
Getting to that place is the obstacle
Triple Amen....the father, the son, the holy spirit. Thank you sister, well said. Keep Christ first, and foremost.
Even after they cheat on you and I exposed him and told his and my family they still try to come back??
Biggg Amen 🙏🏾
Narcs get off on hurting people. Then they cheated and paraded their backburner supply in front of you, seeing that it hurts you, was done on purpose. Now that the narc *"misses"* you, its not the way a normal person misses someone. They only miss the benefits of being with you. They miss the supply you gave, the energy you exude. The narc is a parasite, an energy vampire, that only misses that life blood you gave. Dont willingly go back, please. Let them suffer in their own perpetual hell alone...
That is the part that is so hurtful- on purpose trying to hurt me. I would never do that in a million years to a million enemies.
Love what you wrote here. I read it more than once.
@@marysarianides8150 So keep note that a narc will do it a million times more to you. Everyone is an enemy to the narc. When it hurts you and they see it, its narc fuel for them. Keep your distance and keep no contact. Under no circumstances answer to the narcissist.
@@lisabrown6280 Thank you so much 💓.
I will. That douchebag called me several times and I look at the phone and messages like hell naw. 😳. Loathe him. Won't suck the life outta me ever again.
I didn't know a narc had regrets. If they have regrets...it's a lie for you to allow them to destroy you again.
Correct spot on
THIS.
Exactly! Narcs are "always right!' No regrets, right? Until they get left behind or are not chased after like they hoped after discarding me. Yet like you say, they have "no regrets." But they have to deal with the consequences of another friendship or romantic relationship DESTROYED BY THEM on their own watch
They have regrets only because of karma and a unstable lifestyle after us.
Yes! It's not actually about love. They just regret messing up another person as cool as you. They no longer have a gullible but awesome fool to control! They are upset they can't behave normally sometimes. Either way, its all coming to and end. They usually regret it when they can not get new supply as quickly or at all.
We are ONLY a business transaction to them.
That is something to think about. It has to take me to think this way to break the spell. No love involved, and business can be cutthroat.
I just got discarded like trash after a 14 month relationship, but I walked with dignity, and blocked all communication. Of course my heart hurts and I’m still in shock as my life has been completely rerouted, but what I won’t do is abandon myself and ever take this type of devaluation and disrespect. We got this- and it’s nice to know I’m not alone. 💜🙏🏾
Denita, self-care, self love, you will be just fine.
ME TOO...IM HURTING BUT MY SPIRIT IS SAFE AN I HAVE PEACE, NOT ON HIGH ALERT EVERYDAY ⚔️❤️🔥
Same here!
@denitarae I went through the same thing in a 14-month relationship as well. Self love and your self-worth is the key to peace.
i went thru this a year ago. just take it day by day. IT WILL GET BETTER!!!
20 Months.... No contact!!
Not a problem
Not a sentence
Not a regret
Not a diddly SQAT
Hallelujah and Amen!! I'm four months narc free and no contact. Moving forward 🦾🦾🦾👏🦾💯💯💯
10 1/2 months. No regrets.
1 year 12/26/21 ✔💯💯💯💯😍🎈🎈🎈😁😁😁. I NEVER thought I could do it.
2 1/2 years for me
I'm 1 yr 4 months narc Free 🥂🎉🤸🏾♀️🦸🏿♀️💃🏾After 20 yrs with them cold turkey no contact blocked on everything and the blessings keep coming & coming.. SHOUT OUT TO EVERYBODY ON HERE FREE& LOVING THE NEW FOUND YOU!!! YOUR STRENGTH IS GODSENT!
I am sincerely convinced that narcissists have absolutely no remorse/regrets at all.
None zero 0000000
My ex denies he ever physically abused me! I was with him for 14 years and be gone away from him for 9 years now. He still won’t give me an apology to this day🤷🏿♀️!!!
Exactly that’s why the will live a lonely life
The only regrets they have is losing supply and not being able to damage you more.
They are not in love with the new supply, it’s all about feeding their fragile sense of self, once you see them for who they are you can’t Un see them,they destroy your hopes your dreams and everything else that was good in your life.
Their Karma definitely comes from the moment we walk away and go no contact for good.
Thank you for the videos Hario 🙏
YES..think the same thing.
They like to make you think your crazy when you see right through them
He thought the grass would be greener on the other side. I will never take my ex husband back. ✌🏾
I'd rather be single and confident than be with a narcissist that treats me badly. Thank you. I love all your videos 🤩.
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Yup bcz all the narcs do is cause stress
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True !!
I didn’t know they regret anything. Because they have no conscience. Evil to the bone
He doesn’t regret what he did to me, he regrets that he wasn’t more abusive to me.
Big Bro Hario!! They really loved us but their sprit cannot harness love, they turn it into hate bc they always hated themselves!!
they got that Jezebel Spirit.
Yes I believe you 🙏
@@mstyles2667 Yes I believe you 🙏
I disagree ...No love ,no love at all
Whatever you have to say to make yourself feel better,they just wasn't that into us,sorry.
Yes they can't replace the love we gave them
Believe it.
Unconditional....
Because they never realized the love we gave them.
Never will either if you did it right.
Narcissists don't regret what they do. They regret you either found out or you set up boundaries. They don't think they do anything wrong anyway. Its always deflected or projected.
Absolutely they don't regret NOTHING
This/their abuse is evil inhuman as they are the lowest humanity sees. To intentionally , continually taktically and wantingly destroy a good loving person - is evil. I am still healing, every day , every minute 🙏
I 👻 my narcissists. He will never be happy with anyone because he has issues himself.
It’s a blessing he’s gone! 🎉 My life has been filled with peace. It’s a joy to watch his calls go to voicemail & to just read his texts w/o responding 😊😊Oh he done messed up now… it’s a done deal on my end. 🗑
I block 🚫 em all
Block him don’t entertain you will be sucked back in
@@shannonthetherapist exactly, I changed both my phone numbers and moved. I have no desire to even see his texts or emails. You will never truly heal if they are still on your mind.
😂😂😂😂
Yass 💃 they hate to sweat and keep calling and being aggy…
The only time they want you is when you know they're not worth it anymore!! The thrill is gone! How sad for them.
A Real Narcissist Never Regrets Anything
Hario speaking facts, don’t wait for the narc to come back, because they are waiting for you to ask them back because they miss the things you did for them, and if you ask them back, then they know they don’t have to apologize for all the wrongs they did to you.
If you take them back, they'll know that they can treat you 10X worse. I
4yrs apart & no contact
Even got me fired after I discarded her😒💯WOW💯
I know he will miss my cooking lol
I was the new supply and I remember how bad he talked about his ex she was the problem he said she cheated on him all the time and he was completely innocent! I believed him until his mask fell on me and he’s with a new supply now I was apart of his movie for 10 long years! I was loyal and good to him and got treated worst than the ex he claimed was so horrible
⭐⭐⭐ If he or she regrets they are not a True Narcissist.... A narcissist is only here for his own gain...
Just remember... they may be regretting leaving you, they may want to be back with you....but it WILL NOT be for the right reasons. There is no happy ending with people like that so keep moving forward. Don't look back.
Loving these fresh takes! I know he misses me. I was good to him. Despite all the things he said to make me second guess myself, I know I’m capable of being a wonderful partner and any man who meets me is blessed to even speak to me. I’m so happy I’m free of that!
Same here cook for her free dom it to her ..rub her feet after work...supportive
And she still run off with a guy she meet online
@@gayricardo6463 because it’s not about us!! That’s what I had to realize. He beat me up so bad that I continued to do it to myself. No more! I wasn’t the problem!
She did they to come back after a week saying she wanted to be friends I block her delete her number and change mind..now she Hoover me on Facebook..crazy.
@@gayricardo6463 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just had my ex Narc talking of his regret yesterday, 2 years after I left him, I gave him 18 years and he caused me so much pain. He said that Christmas was family time so we should meet together with our son, he made every Christmas miserable for everyone so why would we ever want to entertain him on that day particularly, he’s deluded!!
Dear God please don't do it.
He wants to ruin it for everyone and in turn make it all about HIM.
Count your blessings and don't let him back in. Stay strong!
Don’t go back. It may go well for a lil bit but it’s going to go right back to how it used to be they don’t change it’s hard to accept but I just can’t see a narc being good
Me
Stay strong girl ❤
Omg that is exaktly like my ex. He always destroid birthdays and christmas. And He wants to do it this year again. He is deluded Who thinks i would put me and my son thru that again.
A narcissist regrets cause he/she has loser type of mentality and character. Plain simple! God bless 🙏🏼
Narcissists do NOT regret. That's an emotion that requires self reflection looking within. Which they cannot
I was asleep with my narcissistic woman and I fasted for a few days , in my deep sleep eyes closed I saw a green light go through my body and soul out of my back and inside her chest and her left arm raised up and held me and she woke up super charged, I woke up feeling peaceful, she was stealing my energy and love bomb me in the morning I was confused all day , I’m ok now I’m far away from her and blocked her i feel free and peaceful thank you Brother
😜THE "ONLY" THING MY "EX-HUSBAND NARC" REGRETS IS THAT HE COULDN'T "FINISH ME OFF"!! (ME) 13 YEARS "NO CONTACT"!!
Damn do you have children with him??
@@chantehowe7798 😥"NOPE" THANK GOD!! BUT HE "SURE" DID A NUMBER ON ME AND MY 3 for The "20" YEARS!! HE DID "MUCH" DAMAGE!!😣
I needed that message!! We win!!!!
Amen🙏🙌
Amen that yes we win because there no longer here with us we are the real winners!!🙏🏻
The best victory was leaving after 15 years of torturing! The hope for the situation would change didn't exist! His love, caring, and protecting me DIDN'T EXIST!
It's been 5 months and I am enjoying every peaceful time, joy, having the bed all to myself, get up and leave and work late make that money any time I want. Thank you the most high for delivering me from from hell fire DEVIL. I love youR video. THANKS!
Cut them OFF big time! I changed my number, moved where she can't find me, blocked on all SM.....THEY can have her!!! Good luck! Bye!
Imagine being down and bad over a person who treats you like you’re a fool... Smfh.
Some of y’all need to wake tf up.
Good video.
Taylor love your words here. I wrote it down. Thanks!!
Yes
@@lisabrown6280 You’re welcome, Lisa.
Yep!👏👏👏
Exactly I don't agree with anything he's saying on this one he's just trying to make us feel better lol 😭😭
My ex narc thought he was gonna spend the block with the same BS.
Not, I shut that all the way down.
Boy GOODBYE!! ✌
Hello that’s a no go you won’t be waiting for them with open doors however we all know they actually gonna spend the block lol 😝 we just can’t fall back into the bs actually it’s better when they tryna get back in.. mine always got blocked then new numbers calling and texting xyz then I get sauced first I hold off going to their house or coming to mine then surely it start… and they you know the rest this time he’ll no
Anyone who wants a Narc to come back or looking for the Narc to come back,,,They haven’t suffered enough Abuse Yet. THEY HAVE TO LEARN For Themselves.I had no clue of why my daughter was like this untill i watched And Learned about Narcissis ,,EVEN WENT THROUGH THE FORGIVING STAGES TAKING HER BACK JUST, so many different stages after another,,BUT NOW IM AT ENOUGH & I Don’t want it back in my life, I CHOOSED TO LOVE HER FROM A DISTANCE,& IM HEALED AND WALKING IN WHOLENESS , STRESS FREE,, I GOT MY LIFE BACK & IM ON THE TOP OF MY GAME & IM GROWING DAY BY DAY BY KEEPING UP WITH YOUR VIDEOS & MESSAGES ,,THERES ALWAYS MORE TO LEARN ABOUT THEM.THE MORE WE LEARN THE STRONGER WE GET .WHEN I LAY MY HEAD AT NIGHT I SLEEP IN PEACE AND ITS A BEAUTIFUL THING !!!! THANK YOU 😊
You right! My ex is a narcissist he TIRED to come back around 7 times.
Each time I rejected him. Didn't want him because he's that person! You right
If they regret mistreating their former love one, that should have made the proper changes. At any rate its irrelevant because I'm not interested in getting back into that folly.
He will never find Another Me. He pre planned this pain for me. I was good to him!
Narcissist clone each other. Sounds like my narc. No more TUBBS 🦾🙏💯
I was the closest thing to an angel he will ever know.......how someone can just through away the oracle, I'll never know.....
@@louiseboyd8896 Unfortunately, we fell in love with someone who has a dark spirit 😢😢😢😢
Jesus I never thought I would get over someone who left me for another woman like really left me ghosted me I went through so much. You know you’re over someone when you don’t even want them to have karma you just pray that they live a good life 💕
Amen 🙌🙏
🙏🏽 amen
I agree 1,000%! They do regret and look back! People have to realize that they are still human beings with a conscience that they completely trained their minds to ignore because they've done some things in their lives that they wish they could forget but deep down they feel and they hurt. They lack a spiritual connection in which they take on demonic spirits through creating soul ties with multiple sex partners. Trust they do have feelings to love and regret they just avoid those feelings by entertaining others in hopes to forget!
You spoke the gospel on this subject. Demons have control over them. It is like deviation deviate. Kinda like a thief that crosses through the window. He don't feel good until that demon helps him thru the window. Then he becomes very excited feels good big rush. That devil inside of him helps him. He needs that rush. That is the only reason he does it. To feel good overjoyed. So I do understand. Until these kind of people excepts Jesus Christ as their lord and savior. Their is no help for them. I would say run with all your life like a big tiger is after you. God has your blessing. Ty
Deep
Narcissists don't regret a thing. That would be an emotion and they're not capable of that. It's all apart of the narc facade. But I bet they do miss the specific way we treated them. Much like everything else decent & good, the narc will forever chase it with new supply but will never be able to catch it ever again.
Spot on! To them losing us is like they've lost a limb, something that does something for them, there's no emotion whatsoever
This!!!
@@Yoshibelle615 bvvv 70's
Hario you are on it today. I know hes regretting what he did to me without a doubt. 2 unknown numbers today. I know it’s him. He never thought I would go no contact. He wanted to be just friends after an intimate relationship so he can do what he want. Thinking I would hang around. We use to have a blast. I took care of him like I was his wife. Even my friends said you treat him like y’all married. Ain’t nobody going to do for him like I did. Even after he did me wrong I took him back . He thought I was gone for good then. So he tried it again. No no not this time. NO CONTACT so yup he is regretting it. I don’t know who he thought he was messing with. I am a nice person but please don’t make
Me look like a fool. I got something for that NO CONTACT!! Boy bye. Silence is golden., living drama and Narc free
My story exactly. Evil or not, when you treated them like a king, they regret it 💯💯
I’m Definitely loving the NO CONTACT, I’ve Deleted AND BLOCKED all our Mutual friends from all Social MEDIA and My PHONE 📱 PEACE IS SO BEAUTIFUL 😍
The narc that I have been in a relationship with off and on for just over a year has damn near destroyed my soul until this very day. I pray for anyone going through the same. Be strong and wake up to their bullshit, they're very dangerous beings. Thank you brother for your kind words of wisdom and God bless you and everyone who has and is going through it.
Thank you
It's getting worse the closer to the end times
You were so spot on! My ex did exactly what you JUST described. I was so extremely heartbroken, humiliated, betrayed and disappointed in his behavior because he presented himself to be a totally different person in the beginning of our relationship. He pulled my mother and son into his lies. I found out he is a serial cheater and when I caught him redhanded with the other woman, he denied being in a relationship with me in front of her proceeded to hit me after I slapped him for lying. I could not believe he actually put his hands on me. It’s hard to forgive him
Once an abuser always an abuser. Do not ever go back. It will get worse. I am a first hand witness.
Damn they are ruthless
I mean I agree with everything else you said but you did put your hands on him first.
@@TheBaseballstar98 he’s still absolutely wrong in more ways than one… so now he’s trying to circle back around but it’s too late and he went too far
@@IsisAdgerWasHere21stC. please stop falling for it. He hasn’t changed
Narcisssist regret nothing. They don’t have the emotional bandwidth to have regrets because that would mean self reflection and growth. They do not self reflect and they do not grow.
I’m sorry, I don’t believe they regret anything except when u expose them. They have no remorse or empathy
Tamala T,You look stunning 🌹,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
I agree, they don't care. 🤦🏾♀️
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Naw they have regrets.... diff from us normal ppl but they have them cuz everybody do
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It's been a little over a year since I left the narc. Everytime a relationship dosen't work out she reaches out to me. No contact from me. I don't think she will ever change. She has a whole cheer squad that encourages her. Right on down to her parents. Smh. It was a mistake to ever give a female like that a chance.
Same thing happened to me! Married the person that begged me to stay. Future faked me bad, her mom was so jealous of me! I’m a nurse and mom wOrks at a Amazon call center! Family completely helped destroy the marriage … I provided, protected and honored a person who had no idea what true … they all encourage her to abandon her marriage and my kid who is really heartbroken by this! She told me she wanted to me a role model for my kids.. I was asking her to grow up and level up… she called me crazy, disrespected me and let family snd friends mentally and physically abuse me …. I’m so with good bc I started to lose everything when I was with her! My career my money and all’ like I was with the end of my ropes! Losing weight amd my usual appearance was off! It was the most hurtful thing I ever bern thru! Discarded me like o was trash 3 times and left me with no money, no job or any …. I’m glad I moved away snd it hurts …. I’m gonna divorce soon bc no man will put his bad intentions on me and my love was pure! I know she wanted my money, the life I provided! Promised me she would get a career, she wanted to take care of me…,all lies … when my money got funny and I asked her to level. Up … she stated to hate me
Narcissist either woman or a man won’t change they get worse when they get older but grateful the toxic narcissist is out of your life I am!
WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE . 😉 I KNOW IWAS GOOD TO HIM ,AND I KNOW I DID HIM RIGHT. AND I KNOW HE THINKS OF ME ALL THE TIME , AND REMEMBERS ALL OF THAT !!! FACTS 🎯💯💯
MINE TOO. IM STILL TRYING TO GUAGE IF HE IS FULL NARC OR HIGH TENDENCY BECAUSE HE HAS APOLOGIZED B4, WENT TO COUNSELING ON HIS OWN, AND DONE A LOT OF SELF REFLECTION. HE STILL IS PETTY AND HOT HEADED ARIES BUT HE PROB IS A COMBO...SMH
Those narcissists think they are SO SMART. I've been no contact for 1 year. Last year I figured out her pattern. Love bomb in the winter cause it's her birthday time, and then the discard comes a few months later. I made the final discard last November. She had no choice but to say to me, Wow you never talked to me like that. Lol. Told her I'm greater now that we don't speak and that I'm glad to know we won't speak again in the future. Surprised her bird brain ass. To all the survivors out there, take control of your life and your mind. The narc will definitely regret losing your supply. Hario is right saying their karma is losing you. Thanks Hario for saying the truth. I know my ex narc still wants to call, but her pride won't let her. Lol. I'm too strong for the delusion. Make the final discard yourself. And don't worry about looking back.
Yes ! Discarded in the Summer and then he came begging back . I’ve heard it all ! They do have patterns . N the lies we find out are horrible!
Narcissists DO NOT HAVE REGRETS, PERIOD!!
No contact! ....( Get Out and Stay Out)...Trust And Believe Me!.... It will only get worst staying or going back to a NARCISSISTIC partner. GOING BACK ONCE YOU HAVE GOTTEN OUT....Will ONLY PUT U AS A GLORIFIED SIDE Piece! LET THEM REGRET LOSING YOU! Thank you for this message my brother! Be Blessed!
I was breakfast lunch dinner a nurse with a purse and he still was empty inside I’m so glad he’s gone you don’t have to clean me out no more God is good all the time
Elliott????
I hollered Yes !! All the way home from work! He is going to miss my touch, smile, smell, team player, love, support! But, when he see I will have peace and love in my next relationship, it will be priceless! Will God do it! Yes he will!!
I never thought narcissist felt regret. However, I do agree karma is inevitable.
They LEVERAGE your emotions against you in order to control you...stay stoic...gray rock...ignore...keep it moving.
God, I hope NOT! I'm NOT being bothered. Please Go get married, go " be happy", go live in your New home 🏡. You freed me! Thank you for the. Blessing.
This video is golden.
May the narc enjoy their new supply and never darken my doorstep ever again.
Keep they fake future planning for the next idiot...
Oh trust and believe it! Karma is very real. My ex narc got exactly what he had coming and paid the ultimate payback! He passed away just a few short months after I broke it off with him! During the time leading up to his death he tried to get me to take him back on a few different occasions. I told him I can't do it anymore.
NC for 3-6 Months! Thank You God, for Delivering Me, from that Narc! He hoovered from Different Numbers, so I Changed my Number, quite a few Times! He tried 2 Apologize! Nope, There is No Excuse, for Treating me bad; When I only Cooked, Cleaned, & Had Great intentions towards him! Unjust Won't Prosper! He Shouldve treated me properly the 1st time Around! #Karma, is No Joke!!! I Gave him at Least 3 Chances, Now I'm Not trying to Hear, I'm Sorry!
Know your value. It's taken time but I know now the magnitude of goodness I can shower on someone I care for. And that pure light isn't found just anywhere. No sir, everyone after us will be a significant downgrade. And it isn't coming from a place of being conceited it's just knowing the nature of my heart. Keep healing fam!!
Beautifully spoken
Damn Hario everything you said is exactly true it really helps me, to know I'm not crazy
Never you were never crazy just this type of people is the One who are sick in the head
I thank God for you Hario that snake tried to Krazy make me smh!!
@@deitrichwright3574 that's just what he is a snake 🐍🐍🐍
This made me cry. Im a disabled vet three tours in Iraq 2003 I gave my life to her and she destroyed me. I thought war was bad. I though loosing my friends was hard. She attacked my son Semper. She said I don’t love him. She made me feel worthless. I gave her all my money and let her live with me. I cooked I loved her all day everyday. I’m so sad I let her ruin me. Thank you sir for helping all of us. Semper fi!
Yeah mine downgraded big time. The supply he tried to triangulate me with is a 50+ year old woman who can’t keep her own place for long periods. He slipped and said, she don’t have no where to go basically a pity pick and now he stuck 😂. He been trying to Hoover for the last 3months, Nah I’m good! My life has elevated in so many ways since! He know now, he done fucked up.💁🏽♀️ he can keep that bird but if she had any sense, she’d hurry and get her shit together cuz when he get real tired of her, that discard is gonna cut deep ass hell! I have a feeling she a Narc just like him.
Honestly I don’t wish them any bad karma at all. All I can do Is move on and pray for everyone. Even the people that hurt me. Getting caught up in this mentality is also bad. Just let go and forget. Move on and learn to love again. Just this time around look at the 🚩’s. ✌🏽❤️
well said. thank you
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I pray for their next victims. That’s more people who feel a terrible as we do :(
You got it. "Vengeance is mine saith the Lord"
man please god handle that demon forgive and pray they get worst lol
Thank you!! What a wonderful video and such a truthful honest message!! ❤️🥳🎉 to my fellow empaths!! Moving on is such a breath of fresh air! No matter what part of the journey your on, it is better then being with a narc! 🥰
I concur!
Try being an EMPATH & They Want Your Strength & Happiness & GIFTS
From the CREATOR To Be SHUTDOWN!
They don't regret what they've done..they regret getting caught at it
We were in a near decade long relationship with a family then he's suddenly seen in town with a new girl young enough to be our daughter.. when I go to town cafe owners, shop keepers, friends - even strangers - all run out to tell me they can't believe how he treated me, they want to wish me well.. they can't believe the low hanging fruit he's with, she's not well liked in our small town. No his life is not the same. We had a beautiful life filled with fun, beauty, friendship and love. And now, he has no job, no friends and he stays at home day and night. He's seen in town an hour once a week. He looks dirty, paranoid and unhappy.
regret....no remorse though
Yes it's true my ex narcissist does not have the ability to call me anymore after he broke my heart he's full of shame full of regret and full of guilt. But because of his big eagle he sacrificed his happiness for his pride now he has to live with it for the rest of his life I just hope that his ego won't kill him like he killed our relationship we used to have. 🦋
My ex was the same so prideful and egotistical and heartless and cruel. Mean with words. I just kept coming back with love. But she would provoke me to the point I would snap and black out and say mean things back to her then she would flip it on me saying “oh you called me the B word. She would play victim after provoking me to get out character then use it against me later on…I’m like wow really? And even if she did say I hurt her. I would immediately apologize and say sorry I didn’t mean it…I wanted her to stop screaming at me. But I messed up by stopping down to her level. That’s what she wanted. I would cuss and get angry JUST like her because she wouldn’t stop yelling at me and cussing at me. But even BEFOFE it would get to that point, I’ll try to say calm the situation down and comfort and communicate effectively and have a better approach…I would say “am I cussing and screaming at you?” Am I being rude and nasty towards and saying hurtful things?” And then she would flip it on me saying “stop playing victim” she would literally project herself and Accuse me of things I wasn’t doing. She would believe other people over me. I would have proof that I was innocent and it still wasn’t enough. She flipped everything on me. She was hot and cold. One minute she loved me so Much. Then the next she hated me so bad! She would spread lies to her family and friends…about me that wasn’t true. She was harsh with her words. Very hurtful and made me feel like shit. I use to have great sense of humor but I couldnt joke cause she’ll take things the wrong way. I felt like I was walking on eggshells.I had to be careful what I could and shouldn’t say and do around her. Just to make sure she doesn’t get upset. I am naturally a people pleaser. So everything she asked I would do at the expense of my own happiness or relationships that she didn’t want me to be around. I kept trying and trying until my spirit said “enough is enough!” You don’t deserve this! You know what you doing is right. You love them but they don’t love you. They’ve hurt so bad and want to control you and take advantage. So I know she regrets and if she’s doesn’t “Lord have Mercy on her!” She is still allowing her pride to stop her from being a humble person and saying sorry. She never asked for forgiveness because IN HER MIND…she’s the victim, she didn’t do anything wrong! She puts all the blame on me. and I wouldn’t take the blame just so we wouldn’t argue or fight. But everything I did and tried wasn’t good enough. You just can’t force it. It will happen if it was suppose to happen. If it’s meant to be, it will be. But I learned from this! Lesson learned. Know your self worth! Love yourself more! Love your ex from distance. Say I forgive you ans I hope you forgive me if I ever hurt you. Now you said your peace! Now what they say and do…it’s NOT UP TO YOU! It’s not your responsibility! You can’t help someone that don’t wanna get help! They have to want to change on their own. They have to face their own demons and battles on their own! When they get ready…hopefully before it’s too late. God bless you all. I hope we all learn from these relationships. Learn how to be alone and love yourself. Work on yourself and balance yourself. What you likes and don’t likes…good character is better than anything else in the world!
@@SincerelyDanielle974 she projected all of her insecurities unto you she's bitter and miserable because she has not heal from her past emotional injuries. You were an angel to her God place you in her life so she. Could learned how to give and receive LOVE but she rejected you. Her pride is big it is sad. But you need to work on yourself do self-love self healing once you do that give it a couple months you're going to look back and laugh about it. Working getting all the love you once gave to her give it back to you.
They don't regret nothing they hate they got exposed.for the true demons they're .
Facts 💯 They miss what ever you were supplying them with. All the lies and circus tricks they were doing no longer effect you when you get into that energy and take your power back is what they envy and respext. They miss the control they had over you and the good karma you brought to them. It's all about satisfying them selves and when it's game over they regret losing you as you being Grade A supply. They don't miss YOU they miss the control and what you brought to the table.
They regret because they know it’s hard to find another me 🤣 I really was there for her I really don’t understand who would do that 🤔 go from a good situation to a piss poor situation 🤔smh!!!!
It is not just hard, it is IMPOSSIBLE to find another you.
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piss poor is all they deserve.
¡Exactly!
He was able to call me (on a moments notice) (I would drop everything) for anything, and I bailed his ass out of hot water....I saved him.....he said "you saved me"....then he turned around and bit the hand that fed him......once a snake, always a snake....he is a dastardly horrible creature......
What Hario said at the start most important msg - be thankful your free away from that Toxic Human!!!! Think Will Smiths wife etc
Powerful & insightful video! I can testify that they’ll continue missing us and respecting us for letting them go! My ex cannot go a year w/o contacting me. Of course I know he hasn’t really changed and is still extremely toxic. Time for me to go no contact for life..not to hurt him, but to elevate myself even more.
I feel so tranquil and relaxed, because you gave me the truth, it feels so good to know that someone in this world understands what it's like to have had to deal with a demon!
Yes, i have experienced it over 33 years
Narcs are ALWAYS living in pain. Their karma is always a bih... I left the one I used to know and now I am free and travel the world 🥰I am now living in a karma full of BLISS
The main problem with a narcissist is they're unable to hold themselves accountable for anyone and literally everything!!!! Don't you dare feel guilty for how they treated you from the start. Let their fake ass go!!! You have a purpose that's more important than their worthless, pointless, and useless existence of theirs. THEY'RE NOT WORTH ANYTHING TO NOBODY!!! just remember that about them
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Whoever is w the narc has the blessing blocker in their life. You don't win w a dusty narc in ur life. You win w a genuine person who values u in ur life.
Yes, so true...😂 blessing blocker. I had one.
“Anyone with ANY sense knows better.” PREACH bruh!!!!
That’s the part that makes me feel so good because I am standing my ground I’m standing in the gap for the others that haven’t made it there yet BUT on top of everything else PUT SOME RESPECT ON MY NAME 🙅🏽♀️😈🔨🔨🔨💯
Same.. 💯💯💪
my Narc thought he messed me up but not a chance.
Yes. You say that they regret what they did to us, all the lieing and cheating, but he never admits that he did anything wrong. He wants to be blameless. And still says he didn't cheat, and he never cheated. 🙄
Hmmmmm,
This was so refreshing & reassuring to watch. It gave me a boost of confidence I need to continue thru with "no contact" with the narcissist I've bn dealing with for sometime now! This spoke VOLUMES to me!
Man this was a powerful message. This really hit home.
Wow what a reading its exactly what I am going through right now he doesn't even know what to say to me he left me for another narc he has just discovered that her narc was cheating with his best friend for all this years he's been with her and his friend confided to him that even the child he's been supporting is not his I am laughing my lungs out its true when they say Karma does not miss an address
Never take them back! They will destroy you. It will get worst each time you take them back. It took me filing for divorce 4 times before I finally broke free. I just celebrated 13 years free from narcissist abuse, but they will never leave you alone. My ex reached out after 13 years with a new phone number because I’ve had him blocked for 13 years. I blocked the new number immediately. I will never open that door for him to enter my life again!
Basically they want you to override their karma by cashing in some of your good karma so that when karma hits the blow isn't so devastating.
BINGO!! they must understand karma to some degree 0:01