A whs is always a whrs rather making virgin men marry whrs you should of point that a female with past experiences should be honest about it and look according to her taste.
And purity is assocuated with virginity?? This "virginity" crap is stench of the past, that needs to be dumped in dustbin. Our society should evolve and let go of antediluvian concept of conventional morality.
قرآن مجید میں جو کچھ بھی ہے ، سچ ہے ۔ مگر مسئلہ آتا ہے آیت کی تفسیر میں ۔ اب لکھا ہوا تو ہے کہ پاک دامن عورت کے لئے پاک دامن مرد ہے۔۔۔۔ مگر ایسا کئی بار دیکھا گیا ہے کہ اس کا بالکل الٹا ہوا ہے لوگوں کے ساتھ ۔۔۔ اِس لئے بھیا قرآن کی تفسیر بھی پڑھنا اور پڑھ کے سمجھنا انتہائی اہم ہے ۔
@@syedhaider2165 علاج 72 فرقے چھوڑ کر ایک جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے ملت/امت میں شامل ہوجاو خلیفہ وقت کے ہاتھ پہ بیعت ہی پاکستان/اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے علماء صو سے بچیئے / نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی اسلام = امن و سلامتی مسلم فلاحی ریاست اللھم لبیک پاکستان زندہ باد
if I'm a virgin (which I am) then I deserve a virgin wife too! I'm not gonna marry a woman who had slept with multiple men and had past relationships, that is the rule!
You deserve it? Really? Dude... God decides what "you deserve" and get. Also, there is NO such rule. It is just your ego and your insecurities that makes up such a "rule". Insecurity because you know that being inexperienced you will not be very good at it and if she is more experienced then she will realize that.
Virginity= purity Period For both gender And those who are not Remember Quran says: For pious male there are pious female And for pious female there are pious male So don't worry at all Allah is not unjust never ever
اس آیت کا مفہوم ہے کہ نیک مرد نیک عورت ہی چاہے گا، اور نیک عورت بھی نیک مرد ہی چاہے گی، ورنہ فرعون کی بیوی ایک مومن عورت اور حضرت لوط علیہ السلام کی بیوی جہنم جانے والی نہ ہوتیں اور ان پیغمبروں کی خبر بھی اللہ رب العزت نے اپنے نبی علیہ السلام کے ذریعے قرآن میں بتائی ہے جیسے آپ نے جو آیت کوٹ کی.
@@DANNYBOIL8-h5h اس آیت کا مفہوم ہے کہ نیک مرد نیک عورت ہی چاہے گا، اور نیک عورت بھی نیک مرد ہی چاہے گی، ورنہ فرعون کی بیوی ایک مومن عورت اور حضرت لوط علیہ السلام کی بیوی جہنم جانے والی نہ ہوتیں اور ان پیغمبروں کی خبر بھی اللہ رب العزت نے اپنے نبی علیہ السلام کے ذریعے قرآن میں بتائی ہے جیسے آپ نے جو آیت کوٹ کی.
Being a girl who follows deen and stays away from non mehrums/doesn't even talk to them even when I have full opportunities to indulge in such acts. I deserve a similar husband. How in this case I can say " past is past" aisy tu sab sab kuch karlu aur past is past kah mar move on karlo. " corrupt men are for corrupt women" and vice versa!
Zabardast 🗿 🔥 ❤️ Finally a woman's comment that makes me again proud of Muslims girls. Waran aur comments mein ladkiya bohat supportive hein is takle which means they have done everything
If there's a boy who saved himself from premarital sex, he deserves a girl who has done the same. That's basic morality. There could be exceptions, obviously forgiveness is there. We all have a past. But still, that cannot change the general fact.
@@SattickDas2001 a female who has indulge in past experiences should look for someone whos done same. I don't get it why you want whrs to marry virgin guys. You want guy to be virgin but not girl.
@@youngcoder4721 when did I say that. too much mindless sex is bad for anyone, man or woman, probably the consequences are worse for women due to the fact that they are more emotionally susceptible.
If the girl lost her virginity due to her previous marriage then of course, it doesn't matter. However, if her relationship was illicit, then not possible at all. At least men with Geerah will straight up reject such girl.
(24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter.[22] There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
What rubbish is this. I think it is necessary for a girl and a guy to be a virgin until they get married/do nikah. This is how I perceive it and what I was told all my life. Even if you don’t find a suitable partner all your life and stay single, you should never engage in sex. Self control koi cheez hoti hai. I hate when ppl say “sex is need.” No it’s not. When Allah has told us clearly that this is “zinah” (sex without being in a nikah) then self control should be easy. Again saying, if you have to stay a virgin all your life till you die because you couldn’t get married, stay a virgin. Please don’t promote rubbish by saying “ghaltiyaan ho jaati hain.” Nai hoti na honi chahiyein. This way everyone will be tempted at a young age and start and then repent when they get married. Sorry I DO NOT AGREE. If some things are forbidden, they are forbidden. I WILL JUDGE A GIRL OR A BOY WHO HAS HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. This is not primitive thinking. This is our religion and culture. Open to debate!
Good answer swag Bhai......but u shud have told him Bhai anal and rough rider Ka dowr he Kahan papita tarbooz Ka pani laga kr sorakh chota krney me lagay ho
Actually thinking like that might be harmful too. If a guy is virgin and saved himself from sex all his life, he would look these things in his partner too. And, thinking like "Ap aisa soch hi kiun rahey ho" could be harmful in future too, if these things will come up as toxicity or bad habits in future, what a guy and even in the case of girl, will happen?? Same goes for girl too, if she saved herself for sex all her life than she would look same in her partner too. Not agree with him this time.
Let me clear your thought with just one line...Allah ne promise kia hai k "pak mardo ko pak aurten aur napaak mardo ko napaak aurten milen gi" so if a guy is virjin all his life, so Allah will give him reward as he promised 😊
I find it quite disturbing and alarming that mostly Muslim influencers don't talk about Islam and Shari'a laws! In Islam there's no concept of bf/gf so getting physical is out of question! If you like someone just commit nikaah (registered) it's way better than getting involved without any guarantee and that way you'll oblige ALLAH S.W.T so He'll help you guys! I agree what junaid Bhai said but that shouldn't be out priority! The priority should be to be pious in first place whether boy or girl! And ofcourse if you're a sinner without regrets don't expect any piousness from your partner!
Bhai is ka karobar band o jy ga agr yeh islam aur sharia ki batyn kray ga. Yeh baray unique tareekay s baat ko gol kr k jawab deta hai aur is tarah ki badkaario ko endorse krta hai. Is jese TH-camrs kbi b ghalat ko ghalt aur sahi ko sahi ni kaheyn gy q k inki audience m lakho log hoty en aur sb ka sahi aur ghalat alag hota hai aur in k audience e inki kamai hai aur in k lye kamai s barh k inka deen aur mazhab ni hai. Yehi haqiqat hai is jese sb so-called 'Influencers' ki.
Arey har koi islam practice nahin karta and physical hona shadi se pehle ghalat hai but agar koi hogaya to yeh uske baad ke discussion and nikkah aap 16 saal ke umar main nahin kar sakte what if someone get physical in his early teen life
Yes, exactly. This guy has some interesting topics but here he is just wrong to say that mistakes ho gai and no problem. If we call ourselves Muslims then we should have a higher bar in regards to physical relationships outside marriage. Non Muslims have gone too far and have no limits or religion to follow or stop them from this thing but we have our limitations and we just cannot say it's ok for this......... Cannot agree with him on this.....
Bodycount matters Junaid bhai. If she was married divorced thats fine but if a girl was in known for her extramarital relationships i would advise to refrain from such a lady. Men and women are different in their sexuality .If someone is least concerned about his wife loyalty later after marriage then go for it. I totally agree with what you said about how to test if someone is virgin . But here the issue is a lady with well known relationships in the past not virginity test.
Guy is literally imposing western culture here and playing with mindset of young generation! Put the same rule on your wife or sister and then answer yourself through your logic if thay was okay or not, if you feel okay then I'm sorry you've fall below the limits and you might not stand up again! There are millions of sisters here in our country who don't follow western culture what you're trying to impose, no one has ever seen them and for sure they will get same sort of past less man!
“Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity” - Ayah 26 of Surah an-Nur I think a boy and a girl should meet once before marriage and tell each other about thier past clearly ! If nooo than zindagi bhar aik dusre ke lie dil mein burai hi rahe gi and in the end aisa relationship ziada arse nahi chalta ! Jab dier se baatein khul khul ker samne ati hain !
@@AbdulHannan-uv6ym a boy who sees everygirl on the road and rubbing his BURJ KHALEEFA can't be with pure mind ! Same goes for a girl !!! Come one dude ! Just believe in the ayat of Quran ! Life will be easy and Peaceful
@@AbdulHannan-uv6ym on what basis you are declaring this ayat in the context of purity of mind Do you know Arabic linguistic? Do you know background of this ayah? Do you know how many ahadith are in connection with this ayat? Do you know how many decisions of companions R.A were made on the basis of this ayah or what decisions were made? In short who are you to tell someone ky bukhar hy to 2 chamach brufen ly lo, you ain't not a doctor, same goes for the Islamic doctrine how you can add up your thoughts without knowing any of the ILM which is required to declare the context of ayah?
If a girl has a promiscuous past and didn't protect chastity then she has no right to demand a guy who can protect and provide for her. Men have preferences and expectations like virginity, youthfulness, femininity etc just as women have expectations from men to protect and provide for them.
Why woman needs protection and money from man.. I am a woman.. I am independent woman. I don't need protection and money from man as protection is providing by the Government and earnings are making by me.
yeah pak government provide protection to you 😂😂😂😂 if you are independent it means you slept with multiple guys this is todays educated women.@@sadafali377
@@sadafali377good for you..... But if you think that just because you are earning and you can have sex with men before marriage than you are nothing but characterless and same goes with men too..... Financial independence doesn't make someone a slut/playboy.....being slut/playboy is a choice and choices have consequences.....
Virginity matters bruh. If I as a Muslim stopped myself from doing s*x before marriage even tho I was in able too , then I expect the same from a Muslim girl . Ofc if she's non Muslim then that's not the case but if she's a Muslim but not virgin then what was the point of restraining myself from it knowing that option of repentance is their . Even if we put aside the religion still its not fair for a virgin man to get at the first women at age of 25+ and not virgin
Bro theirs a Hadis that there’re pious women for pious men and characterless for characterless one. So if you think you’re a man of steadfastness then your girl will be alike.
Brother if there is a suspicion that she might not be a virgin then simply deny to marry,however staying a virgin till marriage is your personal iman and you will surely get reward for it in hereafter.
Just in case... He has a daughter & she had a relationship & been physical during her school time & university ( as the guy in the vedio said) ... Thn it was okay for him as a father watching all the stuff done by his daughter & will he proud of her daughter tht she learnt something from her past relation & became bit mature compared to past... NO, NEITHER FATHER DON'T WANNA SEE THIS HAPPEN NOR HER FUTURE HUSBAND.. ALL THESE THINGS R VERY EASY TO SAY WHEN SOMEONE ASKED U A SUGGESTION... BUT ITS NOT GOING TO BE OKAY WHN IT HAPPENING TO UR DAUGHTER OR A GIRL THT U R GOING TO SHARE A LIFE WITH.. BE REALISTIC MAN😏😏
being a doctor, per vaginal examination u can not evaluate the viginity by the basis of hymen intact/rupture. Hymen has around 10 types, which bleeds or donot bleed differently, also hymen can be ruptured by any slight activity unrelated to sexual intercourse.
Yes it is impossible to be sure of someone’s virginity and the society’s hypocrisy of having double standards should also be called out. However, please do NOT downplay a major sin like fornication which is punishable by a 100 lashes. In fact, you should refrain from advising or commenting on issues of such serious nature, as you are not an expert, a scholar or a counsellor, for that matter. This could be highly misleading for young, impressionable minds. These are very sensitive matters and the gravity of the situation cannot be overlooked by being so casual about it.
Yes, 100 lashes in a 11th century backwards idiotic country, he talk about intercourse all he wants as long as he doesn't spread harmful misinformation, sexual intercourse is very normal subject/should be a normal subject to talk about, parents in this backwards country don't teach there kids about it, nor many people can afford to get education so they have to learn from somewhere, please stop gatekeeping every topic, makes you look dumb
@@haidersyed6554 Not just that, He's a radical feminist, a liberal and a secular minded individual. But is extremely clever too. Says 9 good things and pushes his agenda in 1 last thing so that his audience doesn't even question his integrity because he has been saying mostly good things. His method is slowly poisoning the minds of his audience. Never ever will you hear him call a spade a spade, he will always keep going in circles around the core issue like in this video and always put sins like extra-marital affairs, sex before marriage, homosexuality, anti-islamic practices on a silver platter.
if person decides to focus on career and stays by choice single for that. after becoming successful, at the time of marriage/relationship if that person demands that his/her partner also should be same like them who doesn’t have romantic past. is there anything wrong ? If she is going to be my first love then is it wrong to expect me to be her first love too ? What's wrong with expecting that we should be each other’s first love ? (Virginity / hymen / bleeding at first time is unscientific and judging by this is wrong !)
According to Junaid Bhi , there is no problem having sex before marriage with any, that's you immaturity and move one I am thinking on which basis Junaid bhi is judging if a man is demanding virginity from his future wife then he will definitely not be a Virgin and have a very dark past.
everything else being equal a man irrespective of his background or religion will always choose a virgin girl over a no virgin...its just a male mind always work...its no dirt or shade on the girl , exclusivity in relationships matters a lot to males
Sorry to say but dha Clifton Karachi Lahore Islamabad girls are cheap present and sell their selves so cheap yes when it comes Virginity these unfaithful can't be trusted
Actually a husband can not ask about a his wife’s past even islam says that if he or she has asked forgiveness from Allah and never went to that haram thing then husband or wife has no right to ask about his or her past
Then man should search for the same and confirm everything before the marriage only. He simply should not expect everything to be good and then ruin the marriage and that girl's life
@@idrisahmed5550 I Agree. Confirming Everything is better than expecting. BUT the problem is: Asking about her "EXPERIENCE" or "BOYFRIENDS" is inappropriate in our society. Even if asked, can you expect honest answers? (Fear of judgement will overpower Honesty). An indirect way is to ask whether she is Engaged/Married before (but this will not confirm "Virginity"). So the Question is: How can a Man (Who is saving himself for his wife) confirm BEFORE MARRIAGE?
@@moazamqureshi there is no indirect way of asking, talk to the girl to whom you are going to get marry, tell her the only condition for the marriage is virginity, give her assurance that whatever her answer is that will kept secret. Based on this you can decide but it should be asked in a direct way. No other party involved.
@@idrisahmed5550 Easier in LOVE marriage than in an ARRANGED one (where 3rd party is Always involved). But i got your point i.e Always be STRAIGHT with your partner (If only everyone was that honest) Thanks btw.
@@moazamqureshi what i am saying is atleast guy should spit it out what his condition is, if a girl is honest then she is will give honest answer, if a girl is not honest then there will be consequences for her after marriage.
Junaid bhai ramzan me zaban khrab krwao ge. Har topic me ap achay nai ho jis baat ka ilm na ho us me seedha bol dia karo k is sawal ka jawab nai de skta
If guy /girl is simple gentleman than your ex, you must tell him truth .your ex can later blackmail you and also laugh at your spouse....Your ex can later damage you marriage life.your ex is not toilet paper mind always remember everything It is not machine chip just erase it.sometimes even after marriage romantic communication is going between ex and your spouse .it is disturbs minpeace,trust, loyalty too.
Committing sex is NOT a mistake it is a choice Secondly If u had sex with other girl/boy better marry that person U won't have same emotions for ur spouse which u had for the earlier person I'm a Virgin I deserve a Virgin
It a mistake, people at young age don't know any better, will you say drinking for the first time in your life is also a choice? Offcoarse it is, but it's also a mistake, basically trying to say you did make a dicision consciously but made a bad one
0:40 "How would you do that ?" By asking her straightforwardly if she had physical relationship before or not. You're one of those who slept around like pigs before marriage; just don't think we're one of them.
I'm wonder that how he can says it so easily and in a comfortable way that it's happens it's not a big deal in the age of 16 17 even in uni life everyone makes that kind of mistakes due to sexual desires ...near to we should need to stop it except to promote it me after listening that kinda words feeling somehow weirdly ...
@@billybro1403 he married a single mom, so he doesnt have much choice on the matter. not that theres anything wrong with it but i mean his opinion regarding the topic is a bit biased and clouded bcs of his life.
@@billybro1403 he sounds completely logical to me but it has nothing to do with making the same mistake or being biased, his opinions are kind of progresive same as me, I am very progressive, it's just difference in people you hangout with, you have mind of savages and we want country and people to progress
@Zuhaib Rustamani mere bhai ek mazab ka manne wala agr koi galat kaam krta hai iska matlab yeh nhi k wo mazab galat hai. Car k accident meh driver ki galti hoti hai car ki nhi. Agr koi aurat ya mard bura hai tho woh thuba kr ke acha ban sakta hai. Iska matlab yeh nhi ko woh amesha k liye bura hai. Agr tum QURAN padte tho samjte. Lagta hai tumne kbi koshish he nhi ki QURAN ke padne or samjne meh.
@Zuhaib Rustamani nhi bhai meh andeh Muslim meh seh nhi hon meh isliye Muslim hun Q k meh ne islam ko pada hai. Meh pehle non-Muslim tha.Q k islam haq hai isliye yeh fastest growing religion hai tum ne musalman ho kr bhi islam ko nhi pechana.
@Zuhaib Rustamani Palestine,syria,Afghanistan,Iraq, Libya, amarica, Israel ne barbad kedye lakho crodo ko mardala or islam kis tarah pehel raha hai talwaar se WAH kia soch hai. Jo sindh meh ho raha hai wo galat hai ISLAM meh koi zabardasti nhi hai pr aapki talwaar ki baat galat hai sara sar.
a simple solution is to ask the person before hand. of course easier said than done but it can potentially save you from a lot of heartache and headache later on, if it bothers you that much.
Comes from Sahih Al-Bukhari 5079. Muhammad tells his followers to marry virgins. So why do you blame thr society and not the man who cannot do any wrongs?
Simple jawab ye tha iska, k Allah ka hokum hai k jese ap hogy wese ye apko apka life partner diya jaega. Agar apne zina kia hua hoga tou apko apki biwi bhi khuli wali dega Allah
It depends on context. If a man/woman used to be a playboy or playgirl and sleeping around for fun and cheated on their bf or gf then it is hard to expect loyalty. That is the issue. But if the partner was truly in love and lost their virginity but the relationship didn't work out than love is in accepting them with understanding. Determining a person's character based on their virginity might make you lose a good person who have the ability to become a great partner for life. My current bf lost his virginity to his gf who cheated on him. And thanks to that girl I have this amazing man who doesn't love me because of my ability to cook, clean or becoming a possible maid Or because I'll give birth to a baby. His love is pure because he loves me despite it all. (I can't cook. I'm learning. He can cook full meals.) He loves me because I'm a generally happy, optimistic and loving person and he loves seeing and making me happy. I hope this helps someone who is feeling regret and demotivation by the comment section.
Let me clear everyone thought with just one line...Allah ne promise kia hai k "pak mardo ko pak aurten aur napaak mardo ko napaak aurten milen gi" so if a guy or a girl is virjin all his life, so Allah will give him reward as he promised 😊
@@youngcoder4721 everything mentioned in quran is promised. Promise means that if you do good deeds in your all life, Allah will give you that what he promised to you.
@@TheAbdullahVibe Allah does not make any way. It man himself that decides. Sometimes when man decides Allah also helps naturally that is not true overall.
Good answer swag Bhai......but u shud have told him Bhai anal and rough rider Ka dowr he Kahan papita tarbooz Ka pani laga kr sorakh chota krney me lagay ho
The issue from all this is not her open/closed hymen, the actual issue is her being known to your close/family people as a lady with past physical involvement and the UNNECESSARY burden of facing their taunts that couldv’e been avoided if you married a lady with no such past history, or atleast is not known to anyone else. Qk baat sirf allah aur husband wife ke bech rahe tu itna masla nahin hota bnda seh leta hai maaf krdeta hai lekn agar beech mein aur log bhi ho tu masla zaroor hota hai- ab ye na kahein ke don’t worry what people say about it- ofcourse you can’t defend such things.
Larka bhi agar yay kaam karay toh 100 koray aur agar larki bhi yay kaam karay toh bhi 100 koray . Baas sab ko iss gunah say bachna chahyay . Baat khatmm paisa hazm
Just my opinion = Junaid is one of the most sensible people in Pakistan . He really is a great guy . The only thing I literally hate about him is he talks like a typical feminist . The way he's saying that men do this and that . All men are not equal . All men don't run after sex . Just like all women are not equal . All women don't run after sex too . If some guy is a virgin before marriage , it's his right to demand a virgin girl and the point he makes that pre marital relationships mai larki apney baby shona ko apna future husband smjhti hai to that doesn't mean kay usko apni virginity de dey . Talking about vpn and stuff , watching porn is a bad thing but you can't compare it to having sex . Men only demand love , respect , obedience , loyalty and care which is our right and it is women's right that men provides them with love , respect , loyalty , all basic needs and stuff . Lekin itna sub kuch krney kay baad bhi if a wife is trying to compete with her husband that she wants to be the dominant one in a relationship , then there will be problems . Biwi bano Amma bnnay ki zaroorat nhi hai . Chill .
yar i think being honest with each other is most important in this case... you can simply ask each other about their sexual history...whatever your preference is just tell each other if it matches well and good otherwise khali wali.
I was a very conservative person then i fell in a live with a girl who was in a previous relationship which i know of, not for a second it bothers me even once that it could be that she had slept with her ex
I won't be comfortable with a woman with high body count. But at the same time sexual compatibility is important. Having partners in the past is okay. But, too high of a body count is not favourable.
Ladki ek larko ko hazaro sawal pooch sakta hai jaise kaise dikhta hai kya karta hai kitna kamata hai lekin ek ladka bas ek sawal pooch le unka choot phat jati hai To all my brothers u have one life never compromise with what u want If she had past that u don't want leave her let her live her own life and find someone who meets ur demand and love her with ur life Stay strong brothers and don't get brainwashed with youtuber like him. Her body her choice ur life ur choice.
Everyone complaining about the video but missing the main point. Plz tell me how can you tell that a man or women is virgin. It's practically impossible, if u ask them then they can easily lie and even in Islam it says not to expose your sins in public. If you hear somehing from someone then what's the garunteed that it's true or just a bad rumor or bad gosip, again islam says to avoid making and hearing back bitting. Only way virgin I see is some girl from the pind, but even now a days it's sus 😂
Simple answer is you can't tell if a woman is a virgin or not but far from the point he is also making young virgin men feel guilty for wanting a chaste partner, someone who is modest and holds her honor and religion in the highest regards. His statement " 16,17 bachay hi toh hotay hain kya atom bomb bana kar dein." Is laughable because at this age they most young people (both boys and girls) know the difference between right and wrong and still choose to engage in immorality. Islam holds you accountable after puberty 16 and 17 year olds are not exactly children according to our deen.
Apne sins ko public me expose nhi kersakte ok lekin jab do bande apas men Zindagi sath guzarne ki bat horhi ho to wo public nhi he wo 2 bando ki personal life dono bato ko mix mat kro or dusri bat ye ke jab ladki apko Degree, Salary, House, Car ki demand karsakti he to fir on the other hand Ladke virginity ki demand bhi rakhsakte hen or is par medical checkup bhi karwaya jasakta he.
@@ahmedraza7749 lerkion ka khud jhut nae bolna chaye. Medical check aik virgin ka essa he hai jessa ussy zina kar buna dena khudi se. Koi bhi virgin aurat itni giri hoi nae hoti ka woh ye test krwai. Ager hoti tuh Virgin na hoti.
@@youngcoder4721 jab Man ka med checkup kerwaya jasakta he ke wo virgin he drugs to use nhi karta impotent to nhi so definitely females ka virginity test bhi hona chaiey.
Chalo aapke arguments un ladko k liye hain jo khud virgin nahi hain par virgin ladki dhundte hain.. What about those guys who are virgin?? Preserved themselves from filth for their future wife? Do they deserve to marry someone or have kids with someone who has slept with other men before marriage? Fir bacho ki kya tarbiyat hogi? Kya wo maa apne bacho ko adultery se rok payegi? Junaid bhai aapke bohot se philosophy sahi hote hain lekin extreme lib-left banke aap kabhi kabhi one sided argument dete ho wo nahi pasand. This is not a hate comment. But you need to research both side of a debate, you can't make one sided arguments.
Pagal wagal ho Gaya Hai Kia? Zinakaron ki saza Allah ne rakhi Hai ya ghalati keh ker muaf ker diya Hai? Achchi zameen se achchi fasl milti hai. Paak nasl chahiye tou miyan bivi ka kirdaar bhi Paak hona chahiye.
If you are afraid this affecting your future life then live a clear life and don't tell others to accept your stupidity, no one is bound to accept someone coming out of a sexual relationship Neglecting someone's past affects your future.
It is never a good idea to ask someone a question about a topic they have no knowledge of. If a girl tells a guy that she is not a virgin, he may never trust her, leading to problems in their future marriage. Girls should not disclose their past to their future husbands, even after marriage, as this could cause their partner to lose interest or the marriage to fail. The difference between a non-virgin girl and boy is significant. Even if someone claims to be open-minded about it, it can still cause problems in the long run. Trust issues can arise before the marriage even begins, making it difficult to navigate the future. If a girl makes a mistake and has sexual relations, she can still ask for forgiveness from Allah, but shouldn't open her mouth of this matter. It is best to avoid asking open-minded people for their opinions on how to live your life, as this could potentially ruin it. Ask them how to make money, not how to live your life.
Virgin hona chahiye mera opinion hai mtlb main koi sakhti se nai keh raha q k Allah ka farman k jese ap khud hongy apko hamsafar bhi wesa hi mile ga achi aurten ache mardo k liye or buri bure mardo k liye
@@holidayplatform2570 Tera pathar ka bana hua begairat bhagwaan to apni uper bethi hui makkhhi ko bhi nhi hata sakta. tu hamare Alam e jahan Nabi k baare mein baat karraha. Bhens ka pishaab peene wali begairat nasal hindu
Whatever the reason but adultery cannot be justified either they are men or women If men doing adultery it doesn’t mean it is justified and women will start to do Remember on the day of judgement everyone will be responsible for their action Allah will not say Jane do auraton ko q k mard ne bhi aisa hi kiya but Allah will punish both of them because sin is sin and haram is haram even everyone in the world start to do
Apki ammi jaan bhi past rakhi thi kya, aapke abbu jaan ko manzoor tha ye baat jaante hue ki unko gair mardo k saath sambhandh the, kesa rah aapke ammi jaan aur abbu jaan ka sambhandh aur uska aapke upar kya asar pada ?
Yes Virginity matter or ye shak me,na rehna k is se farq ne prta bht parta hai koi normal baat hogi pakistan me ISLAM me,nhi hai humne pakistan ko ne dekhna ISLAM ki talimaat ko dekhna hai k DEEN e ISLAM me kiya btaya jarha hai.. Or agr kisi larki/Larkase galti b hojati hai to ALLAH se toba krlo Sachi wo muaf krne wala hai lekin toba sachi honi chaye Usky bgair guzara ne.
Bhai iss ke kheyal mein hum jahil hein iss liye virginity ka pochte hein junaid aik educated admi hai iss ki biwi har raat koi naye mard ke sath soti hai yeh mana nahi karta keyun ke yeh educated hai🙂🙂
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why you mutilate mens genital if you want mens virginity.
A whs is always a whrs rather making virgin men marry whrs you should of point that a female with past experiences should be honest about it and look according to her taste.
“Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity” - Ayah 26 of Surah an-Nur
And purity is assocuated with virginity??
This "virginity" crap is stench of the past, that needs to be dumped in dustbin. Our society should evolve and let go of antediluvian concept of conventional morality.
قرآن مجید میں جو کچھ بھی ہے ، سچ ہے ۔ مگر مسئلہ آتا ہے آیت کی تفسیر میں ۔ اب لکھا ہوا تو ہے کہ پاک دامن عورت کے لئے پاک دامن مرد ہے۔۔۔۔ مگر ایسا کئی بار دیکھا گیا ہے کہ اس کا بالکل الٹا ہوا ہے لوگوں کے ساتھ ۔۔۔ اِس لئے بھیا قرآن کی تفسیر بھی پڑھنا اور پڑھ کے سمجھنا انتہائی اہم ہے ۔
@@syedhaider2165 bilkul bhai. Aap dekhey Loot AS ki wife. Woh bhi baqi qaum ke saat azab ki lapet mein aa gai kyun ke woh bhi in mein se thi...
@@syedhaider2165 علاج
72 فرقے چھوڑ کر ایک جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
ملت/امت میں شامل ہوجاو
خلیفہ وقت کے ہاتھ پہ بیعت ہی پاکستان/اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
علماء صو سے بچیئے / نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
اسلام = امن و سلامتی
مسلم فلاحی ریاست
اللھم لبیک
پاکستان زندہ باد
@@syedhaider2165 پاک دامن کا مطلب نیک ہوتا ہے بیوہ بھی شامل ہے۔ جنکی سوچ گندی ہوتی ہے انکو فحش مرد/عورت پرکشش لگتے ہیں۔
if I'm a virgin (which I am) then I deserve a virgin wife too! I'm not gonna marry a woman who had slept with multiple men and had past relationships, that is the rule!
Agreed 💯
W Comment❤
Chad 🗿
Because u didn't got any Pussy😂😂😂😂.....
Penis check kaise hoga k usne Fuddi nahi maari
You deserve it? Really? Dude... God decides what "you deserve" and get.
Also, there is NO such rule. It is just your ego and your insecurities that makes up such a "rule".
Insecurity because you know that being inexperienced you will not be very good at it and if she is more experienced then she will realize that.
Virginity= purity
Period
For both gender
And those who are not
Remember Quran says:
For pious male there are pious female
And for pious female there are pious male
So don't worry at all
Allah is not unjust never ever
Yeah that's bullshit logic right there. Prophet Lut as had not so pious wife
@@DANNYBOIL8-h5h
She was not zania
She was morally corrupt
@@a.bmin-ki3946 i said she wasn't pious. That doesn't equate to being a zania. Your intellect tells me your parents were siblings
اس آیت کا مفہوم ہے کہ نیک مرد نیک عورت ہی چاہے گا، اور نیک عورت بھی نیک مرد ہی چاہے گی، ورنہ فرعون کی بیوی ایک مومن عورت اور حضرت لوط علیہ السلام کی بیوی جہنم جانے والی نہ ہوتیں اور ان پیغمبروں کی خبر بھی اللہ رب العزت نے اپنے نبی علیہ السلام کے ذریعے قرآن میں بتائی ہے جیسے آپ نے جو آیت کوٹ کی.
@@DANNYBOIL8-h5h اس آیت کا مفہوم ہے کہ نیک مرد نیک عورت ہی چاہے گا، اور نیک عورت بھی نیک مرد ہی چاہے گی، ورنہ فرعون کی بیوی ایک مومن عورت اور حضرت لوط علیہ السلام کی بیوی جہنم جانے والی نہ ہوتیں اور ان پیغمبروں کی خبر بھی اللہ رب العزت نے اپنے نبی علیہ السلام کے ذریعے قرآن میں بتائی ہے جیسے آپ نے جو آیت کوٹ کی.
Being a girl who follows deen and stays away from non mehrums/doesn't even talk to them even when I have full opportunities to indulge in such acts. I deserve a similar husband. How in this case I can say " past is past" aisy tu sab sab kuch karlu aur past is past kah mar move on karlo. " corrupt men are for corrupt women" and vice versa!
Zabardast 🗿 🔥 ❤️
Finally a woman's comment that makes me again proud of Muslims girls.
Waran aur comments mein ladkiya bohat supportive hein is takle which means they have done everything
Right some say past doesn't matter mistake happen so murderer should also re
Agree
If there's a boy who saved himself from premarital sex, he deserves a girl who has done the same. That's basic morality.
There could be exceptions, obviously forgiveness is there. We all have a past. But still, that cannot change the general fact.
typical paksitani sex sex sex 😂bas
No one deserves anything bro.
All things are simply a result of consequence.
Everything else is just things we make up.
Bhai ko daba pack chahiye ...
@@SattickDas2001 a female who has indulge in past experiences should look for someone whos done same. I don't get it why you want whrs to marry virgin guys. You want guy to be virgin but not girl.
@@youngcoder4721 when did I say that.
too much mindless sex is bad for anyone, man or woman, probably the consequences are worse for women due to the fact that they are more emotionally susceptible.
If the girl lost her virginity due to her previous marriage then of course, it doesn't matter.
However, if her relationship was illicit, then not possible at all. At least men with Geerah will straight up reject such girl.
Sensible
If a guy's future matters, then a girls past matters too a girl can't be from the street's and expect a pure man
Chad
Hamza W 😂
Totally agree with you bro🎉
agree
Boy laid FACTS. TRUUUUUUEEEEEEEE
"U say the past is the past, always remember, the past is where you came from and it determines who you were, are and what ull be"
Exactly
Not true. People changes. That's what tawbah is for. The one who asked Allah for forgiveness is like the one that never sinned
@muhammadzohair I2897 in sexual matters never change
@@muhammadzohair2897but thats a 50 50 chance .
They may or may not.
There are health risks too.
Thats why past matters.
Virginity matters for both girls and boys equally. No one should be allowed to make premarital affairs
Agreed 💯 bro 😮
A virgin man should marry a virgin women that's it. If i am virgin and saved myself from Haram then i expect the same to my future wife ❤.
Bhai check kaise krega😅
@@pewish1372 Hindu ke naseeb ma ni hain 😉
@@Nauman1998 🤷♂️
@@Nauman1998 btw Im muslim
@@pewish1372 You are Muslim and you are talking like this 👏
(24:26) Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter.[22] There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.
guy with a bad past : junaid akram be like : red flags hen, drugs test karwao
girls with bad past: mitti pao
This Ganja is the biggest hypocrite on TH-cam and he's brainwashing all the youths.
😢
karwao drugs test
95% MALES are vergin u liberals
Feminist hai sala yeh
@@phantom22381 radical feminist
What rubbish is this. I think it is necessary for a girl and a guy to be a virgin until they get married/do nikah. This is how I perceive it and what I was told all my life. Even if you don’t find a suitable partner all your life and stay single, you should never engage in sex. Self control koi cheez hoti hai. I hate when ppl say “sex is need.” No it’s not. When Allah has told us clearly that this is “zinah” (sex without being in a nikah) then self control should be easy. Again saying, if you have to stay a virgin all your life till you die because you couldn’t get married, stay a virgin. Please don’t promote rubbish by saying “ghaltiyaan ho jaati hain.” Nai hoti na honi chahiyein. This way everyone will be tempted at a young age and start and then repent when they get married. Sorry I DO NOT AGREE. If some things are forbidden, they are forbidden. I WILL JUDGE A GIRL OR A BOY WHO HAS HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. This is not primitive thinking. This is our religion and culture. Open to debate!
Beautifully explained. Totally agreed
Good answer swag Bhai......but u shud have told him Bhai anal and rough rider Ka dowr he Kahan papita tarbooz Ka pani laga kr sorakh chota krney me lagay ho
Kitni bar muth marte ho?
Beautiful!
Totally agree with you brother
Actually thinking like that might be harmful too. If a guy is virgin and saved himself from sex all his life, he would look these things in his partner too. And, thinking like "Ap aisa soch hi kiun rahey ho" could be harmful in future too, if these things will come up as toxicity or bad habits in future, what a guy and even in the case of girl, will happen?? Same goes for girl too, if she saved herself for sex all her life than she would look same in her partner too. Not agree with him this time.
I think he's trying to say that no doubts one should guard his/her chasity, but if he/she fails to do so, then one should not make a fuss abt this....
how will you check someone's virginity you just have to trust your partner
پاک دامن کا مطلب نیک ہوتا ہے بیوہ بھی شامل ہے۔ جنکی سوچ گندی ہوتی ہے انکو فحش مرد/عورت پرکشش لگتے ہیں۔
Let me clear your thought with just one line...Allah ne promise kia hai k "pak mardo ko pak aurten aur napaak mardo ko napaak aurten milen gi" so if a guy is virjin all his life, so Allah will give him reward as he promised 😊
I find it quite disturbing and alarming that mostly Muslim influencers don't talk about Islam and Shari'a laws!
In Islam there's no concept of bf/gf so getting physical is out of question!
If you like someone just commit nikaah (registered) it's way better than getting involved without any guarantee and that way you'll oblige ALLAH S.W.T so He'll help you guys!
I agree what junaid Bhai said but that shouldn't be out priority! The priority should be to be pious in first place whether boy or girl!
And ofcourse if you're a sinner without regrets don't expect any piousness from your partner!
Is ko ya kehna chayeha tha ka is cheez sa bacho .shadi sa pehla physical na ho ya galat ha
Bhai is ka karobar band o jy ga agr yeh islam aur sharia ki batyn kray ga. Yeh baray unique tareekay s baat ko gol kr k jawab deta hai aur is tarah ki badkaario ko endorse krta hai. Is jese TH-camrs kbi b ghalat ko ghalt aur sahi ko sahi ni kaheyn gy q k inki audience m lakho log hoty en aur sb ka sahi aur ghalat alag hota hai aur in k audience e inki kamai hai aur in k lye kamai s barh k inka deen aur mazhab ni hai. Yehi haqiqat hai is jese sb so-called 'Influencers' ki.
Arey har koi islam practice nahin karta and physical hona shadi se pehle ghalat hai but agar koi hogaya to yeh uske baad ke discussion and nikkah aap 16 saal ke umar main nahin kar sakte what if someone get physical in his early teen life
If I saved myself for my partner (vargin) in my whole life... then I deserve a virgin wife❤ that's true
Have you heard of something called “Zinaa”? It just got promoted and advertised in this video.
Yes bruhh
pretty sure he is a paid loser with an agenda. Anyone who pays him heed is an equal loser
Yes, exactly. This guy has some interesting topics but here he is just wrong to say that mistakes ho gai and no problem.
If we call ourselves Muslims then we should have a higher bar in regards to physical relationships outside marriage. Non Muslims have gone too far and have no limits or religion to follow or stop them from this thing but we have our limitations and we just cannot say it's ok for this.........
Cannot agree with him on this.....
Bodycount matters Junaid bhai. If she was married divorced thats fine but if a girl was in known for her extramarital relationships i would advise to refrain from such a lady. Men and women are different in their sexuality .If someone is least concerned about his wife loyalty later after marriage then go for it.
I totally agree with what you said about how to test if someone is virgin . But here the issue is a lady with well known relationships in the past not virginity test.
Seriousness apart, but "panni pack" and "dabba pack" was literally funny Junaid Bhai 🤣😂🤣
Guy is literally imposing western culture here and playing with mindset of young generation! Put the same rule on your wife or sister and then answer yourself through your logic if thay was okay or not, if you feel okay then I'm sorry you've fall below the limits and you might not stand up again! There are millions of sisters here in our country who don't follow western culture what you're trying to impose, no one has ever seen them and for sure they will get same sort of past less man!
“Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity” - Ayah 26 of Surah an-Nur
I think a boy and a girl should meet once before marriage and tell each other about thier past clearly !
If nooo than zindagi bhar aik dusre ke lie dil mein burai hi rahe gi and in the end aisa relationship ziada arse nahi chalta ! Jab dier se baatein khul khul ker samne ati hain !
Purity of mind.
@@AbdulHannan-uv6ym a boy who sees everygirl on the road and rubbing his BURJ KHALEEFA can't be with pure mind !
Same goes for a girl !!!
Come one dude ! Just believe in the ayat of Quran ! Life will be easy and Peaceful
@@shahrukhkhan6365 brother same name.
Allah forgave many non Muslim prostitute woman and sahabas married them after when they converted to Islam.
@@AbdulHannan-uv6ym on what basis you are declaring this ayat in the context of purity of mind
Do you know Arabic linguistic?
Do you know background of this ayah?
Do you know how many ahadith are in connection with this ayat?
Do you know how many decisions of companions R.A were made on the basis of this ayah or what decisions were made?
In short who are you to tell someone ky bukhar hy to 2 chamach brufen ly lo, you ain't not a doctor, same goes for the Islamic doctrine how you can add up your thoughts without knowing any of the ILM which is required to declare the context of ayah?
If a girl has a promiscuous past and didn't protect chastity then she has no right to demand a guy who can protect and provide for her. Men have preferences and expectations like virginity, youthfulness, femininity etc just as women have expectations from men to protect and provide for them.
What if you marry someone and later found out that you aren't sexual compatible. What will you do in that case?
Why woman needs protection and money from man.. I am a woman.. I am independent woman. I don't need protection and money from man as protection is providing by the Government and earnings are making by me.
@@prajwalsharma5877bro they are not like mutual lindus who do muthing 5 times a day and become incompatible,
yeah pak government provide protection to you 😂😂😂😂 if you are independent it means you slept with multiple guys this is todays educated women.@@sadafali377
@@sadafali377good for you..... But if you think that just because you are earning and you can have sex with men before marriage than you are nothing but characterless and same goes with men too..... Financial independence doesn't make someone a slut/playboy.....being slut/playboy is a choice and choices have consequences.....
Virginity matters bruh. If I as a Muslim stopped myself from doing s*x before marriage even tho I was in able too , then I expect the same from a Muslim girl . Ofc if she's non Muslim then that's not the case but if she's a Muslim but not virgin then what was the point of restraining myself from it knowing that option of repentance is their . Even if we put aside the religion still its not fair for a virgin man to get at the first women at age of 25+ and not virgin
Bro theirs a Hadis that there’re pious women for pious men and characterless for characterless one.
So if you think you’re a man of steadfastness then your girl will be alike.
With your logic none of the divorced women will be able to get married with a virgin men.
@@AbdulHannan-uv6ym why would a divorcee marry a virgin dude . Not everyone is mufti tariq masood , and btw that's really rare bro
You are a good boy Abdullah bhai
Brother if there is a suspicion that she might not be a virgin then simply deny to marry,however staying a virgin till marriage is your personal iman and you will surely get reward for it in hereafter.
Real answer lies in comment section 😂😂😂
Junaid bhai is not like other clout chasing influencers, he talks about issue in our society that no one talks about
One problem can occur if the past boyfriend has her pictures and blackmail.
Why is this even a question? Of course it matters, i will never ever marry a used girl who had an relation with a guy in her past. BIG NO!
Then u should also be virgin yourself
Just in case... He has a daughter & she had a relationship & been physical during her school time & university ( as the guy in the vedio said) ... Thn it was okay for him as a father watching all the stuff done by his daughter & will he proud of her daughter tht she learnt something from her past relation & became bit mature compared to past...
NO, NEITHER FATHER DON'T WANNA SEE THIS HAPPEN NOR HER FUTURE HUSBAND..
ALL THESE THINGS R VERY EASY TO SAY WHEN SOMEONE ASKED U A SUGGESTION...
BUT ITS NOT GOING TO BE OKAY WHN IT HAPPENING TO UR DAUGHTER OR A GIRL THT U R GOING TO SHARE A LIFE WITH..
BE REALISTIC MAN😏😏
being a doctor, per vaginal examination u can not evaluate the viginity by the basis of hymen intact/rupture.
Hymen has around 10 types, which bleeds or donot bleed differently, also hymen can be ruptured by any slight activity unrelated to sexual intercourse.
Yes it is impossible to be sure of someone’s virginity and the society’s hypocrisy of having double standards should also be called out. However, please do NOT downplay a major sin like fornication which is punishable by a 100 lashes. In fact, you should refrain from advising or commenting on issues of such serious nature, as you are not an expert, a scholar or a counsellor, for that matter. This could be highly misleading for young, impressionable minds. These are very sensitive matters and the gravity of the situation cannot be overlooked by being so casual about it.
Finally, someone else who can else see through his utter hypocrisy and dishonesty.
Yes, 100 lashes in a 11th century backwards idiotic country, he talk about intercourse all he wants as long as he doesn't spread harmful misinformation, sexual intercourse is very normal subject/should be a normal subject to talk about, parents in this backwards country don't teach there kids about it, nor many people can afford to get education so they have to learn from somewhere, please stop gatekeeping every topic, makes you look dumb
He promotes LGBT
@@haidersyed6554 Not just that, He's a radical feminist, a liberal and a secular minded individual. But is extremely clever too. Says 9 good things and pushes his agenda in 1 last thing so that his audience doesn't even question his integrity because he has been saying mostly good things. His method is slowly poisoning the minds of his audience. Never ever will you hear him call a spade a spade, he will always keep going in circles around the core issue like in this video and always put sins like extra-marital affairs, sex before marriage, homosexuality, anti-islamic practices on a silver platter.
Tumhari seal pack he madiha
if person decides to focus on career and stays by choice single for that. after becoming successful, at the time of marriage/relationship if that person demands that his/her partner also should be same like them who doesn’t have romantic past. is there anything wrong ? If she is going to be my first love then is it wrong to expect me to be her first love too ? What's wrong with expecting that we should be each other’s first love ? (Virginity / hymen / bleeding at first time is unscientific and judging by this is wrong !)
Let the past remain in past everyone . Hats off to u Junaid bhai for talking about these issues in such a positive way
Others: how much desperate can u be?
Bro: i don't care about a girls past 🤡
whether it should be the past or it should matter now is up to the man/woman.
Yes doesn't matter if she has jumped on several 🍌 s,
Past should be past
Nice, very islamic 😊
past matter if she again sleep with multiple guys characterless women.
I think the majority of ppl dont change, we should take into account a persons past else you’re just asking for trouble…
"Majority of people don't change" I smell someone projecting alot
@@FiveEight58 Yeah maybe i'm projecting, it's just my anecdotal example so doesn't necessarily make it true for everyone...
According to Junaid Bhi , there is no problem having sex before marriage with any, that's you immaturity and move one
I am thinking on which basis Junaid bhi is judging if a man is demanding virginity from his future wife then he will definitely not be a Virgin and have a very dark past.
U missed the whole point bruhhh, and don't even try to understand it now
everything else being equal a man irrespective of his background or religion will always choose a virgin girl over a no virgin...its just a male mind always work...its no dirt or shade on the girl , exclusivity in relationships matters a lot to males
پاک دامن کا مطلب نیک ہوتا ہے بیوہ بھی شامل ہے۔ جنکی سوچ گندی ہوتی ہے انکو فحش مرد/عورت پرکشش لگتے ہیں۔
No, thats just you. And youre a walking red flag
Sorry to say but dha Clifton Karachi Lahore Islamabad girls are cheap present and sell their selves so cheap yes when it comes Virginity these unfaithful can't be trusted
Actually a husband can not ask about a his wife’s past even islam says that if he or she has asked forgiveness from Allah and never went to that haram thing then husband or wife has no right to ask about his or her past
Lol what...
Yeah, repentence cannot make STDs go away.
@@beinline2278 bro go search about it
Junaid bhai aj lagta ha comments main cancel hogaye ap
Disagree.
NOT all men "Enjoy" before marriage.
If one saves himself then he deserves the same.
Then man should search for the same and confirm everything before the marriage only. He simply should not expect everything to be good and then ruin the marriage and that girl's life
@@idrisahmed5550 I Agree. Confirming Everything is better than expecting. BUT the problem is:
Asking about her "EXPERIENCE" or "BOYFRIENDS" is inappropriate in our society. Even if asked, can you expect honest answers? (Fear of judgement will overpower Honesty).
An indirect way is to ask whether she is Engaged/Married before (but this will not confirm "Virginity").
So the Question is:
How can a Man (Who is saving himself for his wife) confirm BEFORE MARRIAGE?
@@moazamqureshi there is no indirect way of asking, talk to the girl to whom you are going to get marry, tell her the only condition for the marriage is virginity, give her assurance that whatever her answer is that will kept secret. Based on this you can decide but it should be asked in a direct way. No other party involved.
@@idrisahmed5550 Easier in LOVE marriage than in an ARRANGED one (where 3rd party is Always involved). But i got your point i.e Always be STRAIGHT with your partner (If only everyone was that honest) Thanks btw.
@@moazamqureshi what i am saying is atleast guy should spit it out what his condition is, if a girl is honest then she is will give honest answer, if a girl is not honest then there will be consequences for her after marriage.
Love u man what a great message 👍
Junaid bhai ramzan me zaban khrab krwao ge. Har topic me ap achay nai ho jis baat ka ilm na ho us me seedha bol dia karo k is sawal ka jawab nai de skta
Past is past that's it....
not an issue to worry about
If guy /girl is simple gentleman than your ex, you must tell him truth .your ex can later blackmail you and also laugh at your spouse....Your ex can later damage you marriage life.your ex is not toilet paper mind always remember everything It is not machine chip just erase it.sometimes even after marriage romantic communication is going between ex and your spouse .it is disturbs minpeace,trust, loyalty too.
Virginity matters, it absolutely does...if it doesn't matter to you, that's fine too. I respect your opinion
Being a Muslim he is saying such insanity.
Committing sex is NOT a mistake it is a choice
Secondly If u had sex with other girl/boy better marry that person
U won't have same emotions for ur spouse which u had for the earlier person
I'm a Virgin I deserve a Virgin
It a mistake, people at young age don't know any better, will you say drinking for the first time in your life is also a choice? Offcoarse it is, but it's also a mistake, basically trying to say you did make a dicision consciously but made a bad one
@@FiveEight58 Its not a mistake they knows they get pregnant bu that .
So its not and stop ur bs
0:40
"How would you do that ?"
By asking her straightforwardly if she had physical relationship before or not.
You're one of those who slept around like pigs before marriage; just don't think we're one of them.
I'm wonder that how he can says it so easily and in a comfortable way that it's happens it's not a big deal in the age of 16 17 even in uni life everyone makes that kind of mistakes due to sexual desires ...near to we should need to stop it except to promote it me after listening that kinda words feeling somehow weirdly ...
he probably made that 'mistake' and thinks we're all like him lol
@@billybro1403 he married a single mom, so he doesnt have much choice on the matter. not that theres anything wrong with it but i mean his opinion regarding the topic is a bit biased and clouded bcs of his life.
@@billybro1403 he sounds completely logical to me but it has nothing to do with making the same mistake or being biased, his opinions are kind of progresive same as me, I am very progressive, it's just difference in people you hangout with, you have mind of savages and we want country and people to progress
@@FiveEight58progress means characterless rand ko biwi bana lo
Important topic 👌
Thanks Junaid bro! Practical & honest message!
"Nek mardo ke liye nek aurat e or buri mardo ke liye buri aurat e" QURAN❤
@Zuhaib Rustamani indian or hindu ? Just checking cause of hate speech.
@Zuhaib Rustamani bro if u hindu dont say bad words he commented for muslims
@Zuhaib Rustamani mere bhai ek mazab ka manne wala agr koi galat kaam krta hai iska matlab yeh nhi k wo mazab galat hai. Car k accident meh driver ki galti hoti hai car ki nhi.
Agr koi aurat ya mard bura hai tho woh thuba kr ke acha ban sakta hai.
Iska matlab yeh nhi ko woh amesha k liye bura hai.
Agr tum QURAN padte tho samjte.
Lagta hai tumne kbi koshish he nhi ki QURAN ke padne or samjne meh.
@Zuhaib Rustamani nhi bhai meh andeh Muslim meh seh nhi hon meh isliye Muslim hun Q k meh ne islam ko pada hai. Meh pehle non-Muslim tha.Q k islam haq hai isliye yeh fastest growing religion hai tum ne musalman ho kr bhi islam ko nhi pechana.
@Zuhaib Rustamani Palestine,syria,Afghanistan,Iraq, Libya, amarica, Israel ne barbad kedye lakho crodo ko mardala or islam kis tarah pehel raha hai talwaar se WAH kia soch hai. Jo sindh meh ho raha hai wo galat hai ISLAM meh koi zabardasti nhi hai pr aapki talwaar ki baat galat hai sara sar.
What a man you are ❤❤❤❤
I have my only opinion if a man is virgin he doesn't deserve india gate,,,,
"No Seal No deal"
Abe Bhai lindu ladkiyan nahi hoti virgin
Tu toh bhul hi jaa
a simple solution is to ask the person before hand. of course easier said than done but it can potentially save you from a lot of heartache and headache later on, if it bothers you that much.
It depends on weather she has left behind the past or not
Comes from Sahih Al-Bukhari 5079. Muhammad tells his followers to marry virgins. So why do you blame thr society and not the man who cannot do any wrongs?
Simple jawab ye tha iska, k Allah ka hokum hai k jese ap hogy wese ye apko apka life partner diya jaega. Agar apne zina kia hua hoga tou apko apki biwi bhi khuli wali dega Allah
It depends on context. If a man/woman used to be a playboy or playgirl and sleeping around for fun and cheated on their bf or gf then it is hard to expect loyalty. That is the issue.
But if the partner was truly in love and lost their virginity but the relationship didn't work out than love is in accepting them with understanding.
Determining a person's character based on their virginity might make you lose a good person who have the ability to become a great partner for life.
My current bf lost his virginity to his gf who cheated on him. And thanks to that girl I have this amazing man who doesn't love me because of my ability to cook, clean or becoming a possible maid Or because I'll give birth to a baby. His love is pure because he loves me despite it all. (I can't cook. I'm learning. He can cook full meals.) He loves me because I'm a generally happy, optimistic and loving person and he loves seeing and making me happy.
I hope this helps someone who is feeling regret and demotivation by the comment section.
Your wife would be v3ry happy brotha 🥸
Let me clear everyone thought with just one line...Allah ne promise kia hai k "pak mardo ko pak aurten aur napaak mardo ko napaak aurten milen gi" so if a guy or a girl is virjin all his life, so Allah will give him reward as he promised 😊
that is not promised that is what should be practiced.
@@youngcoder4721 everything mentioned in quran is promised. Promise means that if you do good deeds in your all life, Allah will give you that what he promised to you.
@@TheAbdullahVibe no not promise it is how you should do. Remember their is free will Allah does not decide who you are going to marry.
@@youngcoder4721 no. Allah make the ways jis k through apko woe mily ga jo ap deserve krty ho.
@@TheAbdullahVibe Allah does not make any way. It man himself that decides. Sometimes when man decides Allah also helps naturally that is not true overall.
if a girl follows junaid akram. She's a red flag.
Good answer swag Bhai......but u shud have told him Bhai anal and rough rider Ka dowr he Kahan papita tarbooz Ka pani laga kr sorakh chota krney me lagay ho
Indeed
Nope, If any girl likes Junaid Akram, then she is confirmed to be RED FLAG.
I follow Junaid but disagree with him more than agree.
The issue from all this is not her open/closed hymen, the actual issue is her being known to your close/family people as a lady with past physical involvement and the UNNECESSARY burden of facing their taunts that couldv’e been avoided if you married a lady with no such past history, or atleast is not known to anyone else. Qk baat sirf allah aur husband wife ke bech rahe tu itna masla nahin hota bnda seh leta hai maaf krdeta hai lekn agar beech mein aur log bhi ho tu masla zaroor hota hai- ab ye na kahein ke don’t worry what people say about it- ofcourse you can’t defend such things.
If you are a perfect man than you will get a perfect woman.
People watch and listen to you
Think carefully before saying anything recklessly
Larka bhi agar yay kaam karay toh 100 koray aur agar larki bhi yay kaam karay toh bhi 100 koray . Baas sab ko iss gunah say bachna chahyay . Baat khatmm paisa hazm
Just my opinion = Junaid is one of the most sensible people in Pakistan . He really is a great guy . The only thing I literally hate about him is he talks like a typical feminist . The way he's saying that men do this and that . All men are not equal . All men don't run after sex . Just like all women are not equal . All women don't run after sex too . If some guy is a virgin before marriage , it's his right to demand a virgin girl and the point he makes that pre marital relationships mai larki apney baby shona ko apna future husband smjhti hai to that doesn't mean kay usko apni virginity de dey . Talking about vpn and stuff , watching porn is a bad thing but you can't compare it to having sex . Men only demand love , respect , obedience , loyalty and care which is our right and it is women's right that men provides them with love , respect , loyalty , all basic needs and stuff . Lekin itna sub kuch krney kay baad bhi if a wife is trying to compete with her husband that she wants to be the dominant one in a relationship , then there will be problems . Biwi bano Amma bnnay ki zaroorat nhi hai .
Chill .
yar i think being honest with each other is most important in this case... you can simply ask each other about their sexual history...whatever your preference is just tell each other if it matches well and good otherwise khali wali.
Aapko kya lagta h honest h log aajkal? Koi nai sach bateyga woh wo bhi sexual history never especially girls...
I was a very conservative person then i fell in a live with a girl who was in a previous relationship which i know of, not for a second it bothers me even once that it could be that she had slept with her ex
Lost virginity means infinite no. Of past bf. She may move on to her Ex anytime in life. Then Husband clap on your Foolishness.
I won't be comfortable with a woman with high body count. But at the same time sexual compatibility is important. Having partners in the past is okay. But, too high of a body count is not favourable.
I really don't care, if a woman is a virgin or not. Just look for character and no baggage.
Oo Bhai kiya faltu ka influence krr rha hai Muslim society ko, Matlb 17,18 saaal ka baxha the hai tu usko shaadi se pehle zina krna allow hai???
no one buys expired items
Ladki ek larko ko hazaro sawal pooch sakta hai jaise kaise dikhta hai kya karta hai kitna kamata hai lekin ek ladka bas ek sawal pooch le unka choot phat jati hai
To all my brothers u have one life never compromise with what u want
If she had past that u don't want leave her let her live her own life and find someone who meets ur demand and love her with ur life
Stay strong brothers and don't get brainwashed with youtuber like him.
Her body her choice ur life ur choice.
1:54😂😂😂. Love your content
Hope ganji swag finds such girl 😅!!! He has a huge female following so uthana banta hai
he is saying that its normal for teenagers to have sex ???????????
bcz they are confused ????
Everyone complaining about the video but missing the main point. Plz tell me how can you tell that a man or women is virgin. It's practically impossible, if u ask them then they can easily lie and even in Islam it says not to expose your sins in public. If you hear somehing from someone then what's the garunteed that it's true or just a bad rumor or bad gosip, again islam says to avoid making and hearing back bitting. Only way virgin I see is some girl from the pind, but even now a days it's sus 😂
Simple answer is you can't tell if a woman is a virgin or not but far from the point he is also making young virgin men feel guilty for wanting a chaste partner, someone who is modest and holds her honor and religion in the highest regards. His statement " 16,17 bachay hi toh hotay hain kya atom bomb bana kar dein." Is laughable because at this age they most young people (both boys and girls) know the difference between right and wrong and still choose to engage in immorality. Islam holds you accountable after puberty 16 and 17 year olds are not exactly children according to our deen.
They do ask before marriage contract that you are virgin or not.
Apne sins ko public me expose nhi kersakte ok lekin jab do bande apas men Zindagi sath guzarne ki bat horhi ho to wo public nhi he wo 2 bando ki personal life dono bato ko mix mat kro or dusri bat ye ke jab ladki apko Degree, Salary, House, Car ki demand karsakti he to fir on the other hand Ladke virginity ki demand bhi rakhsakte hen or is par medical checkup bhi karwaya jasakta he.
@@ahmedraza7749 lerkion ka khud jhut nae bolna chaye. Medical check aik virgin ka essa he hai jessa ussy zina kar buna dena khudi se. Koi bhi virgin aurat itni giri hoi nae hoti ka woh ye test krwai. Ager hoti tuh Virgin na hoti.
@@youngcoder4721 jab Man ka med checkup kerwaya jasakta he ke wo virgin he drugs to use nhi karta impotent to nhi so definitely females ka virginity test bhi hona chaiey.
Chalo aapke arguments un ladko k liye hain jo khud virgin nahi hain par virgin ladki dhundte hain..
What about those guys who are virgin?? Preserved themselves from filth for their future wife? Do they deserve to marry someone or have kids with someone who has slept with other men before marriage? Fir bacho ki kya tarbiyat hogi? Kya wo maa apne bacho ko adultery se rok payegi?
Junaid bhai aapke bohot se philosophy sahi hote hain lekin extreme lib-left banke aap kabhi kabhi one sided argument dete ho wo nahi pasand. This is not a hate comment. But you need to research both side of a debate, you can't make one sided arguments.
Such things also happens here in Balochistan area, where I live.
The fact is some man just won't accept that everyone wants to touch their girlfriend but want an untouched wife (munafiqat at it's peak)
not every men wants gf
Imo . I don't want a gf . I will remain a virgin and pure until my marriage. I expect the same from my future wife .
You changed my my style of thinking. Thanks for this great message ☺️
Quran aur Sunnat se concept lo TH-camrs se nahin
Pagal wagal ho Gaya Hai Kia? Zinakaron ki saza Allah ne rakhi Hai ya ghalati keh ker muaf ker diya Hai?
Achchi zameen se achchi fasl milti hai.
Paak nasl chahiye tou miyan bivi ka kirdaar bhi Paak hona chahiye.
@@happy2much medication la la Bhai apni, time ho giya ha
@@AliHassan-wc6nb choop launda, religion ko har jaga naa ghoosa
@@happy2muchto tu kyun dekh Raha hai video ?😂😂
I guess your wife was not virgin 😂
If you are afraid this affecting your future life then live a clear life and don't tell others to accept your stupidity, no one is bound to accept someone coming out of a sexual relationship
Neglecting someone's past affects your future.
Sabb timepass hai kuch loyalty nahi
There is no guarantee that a woman would stay loyal , if she find someone better she will move on.
whether she is virgin or not
It is never a good idea to ask someone a question about a topic they have no knowledge of. If a girl tells a guy that she is not a virgin, he may never trust her, leading to problems in their future marriage. Girls should not disclose their past to their future husbands, even after marriage, as this could cause their partner to lose interest or the marriage to fail. The difference between a non-virgin girl and boy is significant. Even if someone claims to be open-minded about it, it can still cause problems in the long run. Trust issues can arise before the marriage even begins, making it difficult to navigate the future. If a girl makes a mistake and has sexual relations, she can still ask for forgiveness from Allah, but shouldn't open her mouth of this matter. It is best to avoid asking open-minded people for their opinions on how to live your life, as this could potentially ruin it. Ask them how to make money, not how to live your life.
Virgin hona chahiye mera opinion hai mtlb main koi sakhti se nai keh raha q k Allah ka farman k jese ap khud hongy apko hamsafar bhi wesa hi mile ga achi aurten ache mardo k liye or buri bure mardo k liye
muhammad ko bachi mil jatte thi ab ham kia kren ...
@@holidayplatform2570 🤣
@@holidayplatform2570 Tera pathar ka bana hua begairat bhagwaan to apni uper bethi hui makkhhi ko bhi nhi hata sakta. tu hamare Alam e jahan Nabi k baare mein baat karraha. Bhens ka pishaab peene wali begairat nasal hindu
Firon ko hi dekh lo wo kaisa tha or uski biwi kitni pak daman thi
Apki beti brri ho gi to kindly mry chotay Bhai sy set krwa DNA Yar bachy Hain thorri moj masti book kr letay Hain UN k liye🙂
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Sir Kamal hogaya! Qasam se shukar hai esi baatain samjhanay waala koi aya! Virginity se nikalo sab!!
Whatever the reason but adultery cannot be justified either they are men or women
If men doing adultery it doesn’t mean it is justified and women will start to do
Remember on the day of judgement everyone will be responsible for their action
Allah will not say Jane do auraton ko q k mard ne bhi aisa hi kiya but Allah will punish both of them because sin is sin and haram is haram even everyone in the world start to do
Bhai jaan baqi sab tou theek hai is clip ka title jisne bhi likha hai usay meri taraf se shabashi zaroor dena😊
Kisi s gunnah hujae phir wo touba karlae, naek bunjaee....tu kisko ijazat h k uspar ungli uthaeee.
اگر پہلی رات میں خون خراب نہیں تو سمجھ جاو کے ملک پہلے سے آزاد ہے
Zaroori ni
Imagine a situation where after getting married suddenly your wife video viral on internet having sex with different persons,
WELL SAID🐐💗
Apki ammi jaan bhi past rakhi thi kya, aapke abbu jaan ko manzoor tha ye baat jaante hue ki unko gair mardo k saath sambhandh the, kesa rah aapke ammi jaan aur abbu jaan ka sambhandh aur uska aapke upar kya asar pada ?
Aaj kal Fuckbois ko bhi Virgin ldki chahiye😂
Yes Virginity matter or ye shak me,na rehna k is se farq ne prta bht parta hai koi normal baat hogi pakistan me ISLAM me,nhi hai humne pakistan ko ne dekhna ISLAM ki talimaat ko dekhna hai k DEEN e ISLAM me kiya btaya jarha hai..
Or agr kisi larki/Larkase galti b hojati hai to ALLAH se toba krlo Sachi wo muaf krne wala hai lekin toba sachi honi chaye
Usky bgair guzara ne.
Bhai iss ke kheyal mein hum jahil hein iss liye virginity ka pochte hein junaid aik educated admi hai iss ki biwi har raat koi naye mard ke sath soti hai yeh mana nahi karta keyun ke yeh educated hai🙂🙂
Completely disagree with this video and I'm an American Pakistani. Immorality doesn't mean progress. Women HAVE to be pure.