Hey google, I can imagine how much frustration you must be carrying constantly. Someone holding such an important role in your life has betrayed your trust. But give this a thought… ‘ is the person you married wrong, or the person you married did a wrong thing?’ If the person you married is not wrong, please try to work it out. Obviously you have to make her realise that what she did was a horrible thing to do. But if you think she has realised it, move passed it. It is going require alot of patients on your part. But evaluate whether she is worth fighting for and act accordingly..
@@SmileWithPrachi can you tell me how can I get in touch with you any email or anything ? I don’t really wanna put up my story here if you could please help me would be really grateful cause I’m literally suffering from so long
Why do MEN always have to sacrifice? If the roles were reversed here then every feminist on the earth would start screaming for the crucifixion of that man. The simple fact is that the girl manipulated and lied to get married and would most probably continue this lying to cheat behind his back and later divorce him and get half if not most of his hard earned money.
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
Actually the reality is.. which goes on most men mind..How I can I give a status of my wife to someone who has slept with other guy.. it is kind of Immoral thing for them. and it affect our dignity and self respect.. can never build a emotional connection. And most importantly girl also knows that she has done wrong and betraying his husband by not telling the truth. So, it is better to tell ur truth before marriage only.
Come on bro , we don't want fuck our money what we spend our marriage , in India every state have they own culture and religion , according to that and our government , if we do divorce her we should settlement to her better than we live to her without emotional love and bond , we will do ensure our baby is ours , rest of life we should live for that baby only when out child turn 22 we have a chance to share to them and don't been like your mom , something
Paternity tests came only couple of decades ago and humans have been here for thousands of years we all are descendants of men who ensured their paternity and tried their best to pass down their resources to their own seed/offspring it is therefore part of brain wiring in all men to seek non promiscuous and virgin women and the men who really dont care are cucks as in olden days would have been cucked On top of all that you as a man would be responsible for some other man's child if she cheats on you after marriage as per indian law The probability of virgin women sticking to their first partner is considerably high due to the fact that a lot of emotion is involved from womans side as per several researches conducted in US Women dont fk until they have emotions for the guy and things are much more serious if its her first If things dont work out a non virgin woman has a high probability of not putting any effort and jumping to next d!ck coz she's used to that, while ruining the man's entire life as courts will loot his life and his amcestors blood and sweat earned wealth all of it and give it to the modern woman for being a hoe What a fantastic cu€k system we have set up na..fk indian courts for being simpy and biased misandrist enslavers
When a girl lie about her past to get married, and the husband after knowing this kills his wife, then no way the husband is at fault. The woman who lost her life is actually the one who destroyed the man's life.
No. It's both. Marriage is about both physical and emotional aspects. No one on earth is loved unconditionally. Virginity is a sign of loyalty. No one wants to marry someone like Mia Khalifa. Virgin men always want virgin women, whether you like it or not. No one wants r*ndiya as a life partner.
Boy Here ...I am Virgin by Choice....and I prefer my Wife to be Virgin. I believe Marriage is Sacred relationship . ...and I will ask her Before Committing....Not matter What she Feels....and I also Want her to ask me Every question Which Is Close and Personal to her before. Commuting..... Please Communicate Before Committing 🙏
@@bachinsanchal1007 Any sexual experiences before your husband is a red flag for a lot of conservative guys, it increases a woman's chance to be alpha widowed.
Google if it is a deal breaker for you then break ducking deal. Life is too short to live with someone who you don't/ can't trust n resentment towards.
To the husband, I am with you. I have the same experience. My wife mentioned different names of her admirers/bf before we got married but they never touched her. She lied because she did not mention one more guy who made penetration on her. He is her sister’s husband. What’s killing me is I see his face all the time during family gatherings. I feel defeated, violated and angry because he already had my wife first. It seems someone stabbed me right through my heart. The worse is every time we have intimacy, I see mentally his body and not mine. It hurts so much, feeling a loser, and I am not proud of myself.
Have you ever said this to your sister in law. Moreover when she mentioned about her past why did you married her. In today's time relationship means physical.
imagine a girl saving herself for that one person and looking for someone who is saving himself for her, girl is happy coz she finally found someone, she discusses everything and the marriage happens. On the wedding night he casually tells her that he lied.
Virginity shouldn't be judge by the presence of hymen or bleeding in first time but virginity means no sexual relationship before marriage. Be it a boy or girl virginity should be preserved for your future husband/wife. Thank you ❤
To All Girls/Sisters ..... Today a lot Of Boys Are REDPILLED and Due to Recent Backlash Of PseudoFeminism....Boys .. Have Lost Hope in Relationship/ Marriage and Sadly Demonise Girls also.....I this Is Very Unfortunate..(.that We are living with Hate Against Each other..) But before Committing in A Relationship please do communicate qith each other 🙏
So his trust and his choice have gone into the garbage, rather than talking about his situation people started justifying her having a relationship. Great.
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life. I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely. It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse. Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste. Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Lying about such a serious issue is not at all desirable. We should honestly convey the truth to future husband or wife. There are many people who have more than one relationship in this lifetime. In such a situation, it's crucial to convey the truth to the second boyfriend or girlfriend. A partner's past relations actually mentally disturbs us if we get to know after marriage. Moreover, if you are going for an arranged marriage, then please don't believe every word of the opposite person in a few meetings. In maximum cases people lie about their past relationships, and serious diseases in arranged marriage meet-up. Our neighbours, and relatives also don't about the family secrets. Please hire a private detective to know about every past detail of the person or about the person's family in an arranged marriage. Spending money on good Private Detectives is far better than inviting lots of guests or arranging the marriage in a lavish way.
I am afraid to burst your bubble women but a man who has never been into any relationship and has been a virgin his whole life while trying to build up his career and provide for a family has expectations, dreams, feelings and emotions too. While I do respect that fact you stressed that one should never lie to his/her partner but I lose respect for you when you keep telling the guys that virginity isn't important. Ask any virgin man and he will tell you otherwise. Clearly your advise doesn't take man's POV into account. If you want to give advice on heterogeneous relationships you need to empathize with man's emotions and feelings as well. Every virgin man has dreams and fantasies of having a virgin female partner once in his lifetime. Some men fulfill this desire before marriage while the remaining wish to get it fulfilled from his life partner. Have you ever stopped and wondered why? I am afraid that you need a lot more homework to do on man's emotions. Lying about your past to enter marriage is a selfish act of deceit, betrayal and manipulation when a man has clearly expressed his expectations from a life partner.
I absolutely agree with you brother. For all those girls, if some man is clearly stating it to you before marriage that he is expecting a virgin girl given that he is virgin, please respect it, you will easily find men who are ready to accept non-virgin girls too especially in today’s society, so please I beg to all ladies out there not to hurt us.
Divorce her and don't pay her any money she lied about the most important crucial part of her life which the guy has previously mentioned when it comes to his life partner's requirements if she can lie to you about this how can you expect her to be loyal in future if she can lie you about this crucial information about her life then dude others lies are just a piece of cake for her this is in general manipulative controlling behaviour of women and she lied to you and marry you cause she knows about the INDIAN COURT MARRIAGE SYSTEM which always favours women counterpart is she is right or not our government is fucked biased so don't let this thing consume you till you're mentally fucked
A virgin guy deserves a virgin girl. No argument on it!!! Why not marry ur own fuckbois to whom you lost ur virginity.its ur fault not ur virgin husband
people who go into marriages with experience in sex have better marriages. Because both partners can please each other and are sexually open to each other.
@@beentherelovedit9150 what? That's your claim to prove pre-marital sex is good?! You think you sound absolute in the comments ?! Huh ?! One can abstain from sex before marriage and still can be good in bed and open with his or her sexual desires with his or her partner.
@@rwik....170 No Both Are Same Just Name Is Different. The only Difference is aftre marriage 99% live together just for two reason . लोग क्या कहेगे And बच्चो का क्या होगा. 😂
@@MySonu17 i mean its very easy to end relationship before marriage. but after marriage, break up becomes expensive also reputation involve and if child involve thoo...jadahee mehenga pargaya.
Yes, and boys of this generation doesn't value ''friendship''. They often start to have feelings towards their girl friends. I have been in such a situation before, so it will be better if Yahoo maintains distance from him. As a serious partner, its obvious that the girlfriend feels insecured with her. If I were someone's girlfriend, I too would get worried if my boy started having girl friends
Not all boys are same ladies... I swear, I have never ever seen a female friend more than a friend! I know my boundaries... I also had my temptations for intimacy in my early ages but now I know how to control them as I meditated....
Wife lied about her virginty Husband asked tons of time as he was a virgin He trusted her ,when lie was over A mam was left with trust issues A women was left alone for her lifetime
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life. I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely. It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse. Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste. Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
To Mr. G, sir you have two options. One Stay with her and enjoy all ur kinky fantasy. Or be a man kick her out, send her where she belong. Remember for her you was an option and not her choice.
Thanks Prachi! the answer to yahoo's letter was highly needed for me. Although its too late and I screwed up my friendship years back, but I never got the clarity who exactly was wrong and right in that situation. today i got to know we both were correct at our own places but majorly it was ME who was wrong. Thank you for clearing me up.
The only Advice For Google is To Get out of the Marriage before it's too Late. Clearly the women is Highly Manipulative and Has No Respect for his Values/Him. If he doesn't have the Strength to move on Now..... may be He never would be able to do it in Future. That's why I am a Huge Proponent of No Fault Divorce/Living Together as well as validation Pre-nup, So that if it's a Choice of women to Sleep around Then be a Choice of Men to Walk Out of the Relationship. (In most Countries except in India The law's are Gender Nutrel).
@@shazanchaudhry I know just implied, if someone is uncomfortable with his/her Body Count let them move on. But in India most people don't give mutual Divorce just to make other Suffer. LongTerm or Short term it doesn't matter, Both Gender Should have the right to walk out any Time without any obligations like Alimony.
@@akhil2024 yes exactly it makes things so much easier. I am Indian but grew up in London and things are so much easier there. Most live in and ones that marry have prenups so when things don't work out or one of them cheats they just go there separate ways and find someone else. Simple.
@@shazanchaudhry See some people choise to have pre-marital sex and some choose to wait for marriage for their special one. Those people who wait have all the right to look for a partner who also waited for marriage and did not have any sought of physical intimacy. We can all agree on that. But the problem here is that the woman lied to her partner about her past which is absolutely unfair. A relationship built on lies and deciet is not worth living in. If she choose to have sex before it was her choice but if he choose to have a virgin wife it was his choice. But she decieved him and manipulated him into believing that she was a virgin which is unethical. She basicalky didn't let him make a choice for himself by tricking him. This is a selfish attitude.
For the first writer, I went through a similar situation, and I was the girlfriend. To add to the situation, my boyfriend had once had a crush on the best friend when we were 11-12. She woud constatly try to enter our video calls at midnight, and then complain when we would refuse. A lot of the things you're doing were actually the same things that happened. Well, do you know what ended up happening? It all resulted in ugly fights, and she just so happened to make a new 'best friend', and me and my boyfriend ended up breaking off with her. What Prachi is saying is actually quite true, please take this as a warning sign before things get too sour. Sometimes, feeeling insecure isn't intrinsic at all, because sometimes, it is coming from some external factors. Just my two cents, having gone through a similar situation. Btw, we are also of your age, us girls are 17, and the guy is 19.
😂😂😂 11 12 KI AGE Ma bf gf ma ra age 21 ha aur ma anime dekha ta ho still single and virgin but never felt any need of relationship yar life enjoy karo 11 12 sall ki umar ma kyu adult hona chata 😂😂😂
Career banane ka waqt hai ye Babu Shona ka nhai I'm 18 and still focused on my career rather than gf/bf I personally think that something that you wouldn't tell your parents is wrong so don't ever do it! Your parents has done many struggles in their life... so make them proud & happy 😁
Honestly there are times as a woman I feel bad for SOME men of our society. Changes that have been happening in past few years for women empowerment is great. But some women I feel take advantage of it. I see a few girls on TikTok like " I don't cook whatever my husband MUST know how to cook" "I don't work so what husband MUST earn and take care of me" They're all right but my concern is things r getting misleaded in the name of equality. Feminism is being abused it's almost like we hate men. And we r doing the same thing men did to us. Idk to me it's not equality anymore. And men can't say much. Like you said our law is a bit biased. Again ofcrs there r beautiful couples, men , women who r doing amazing but there r certain of abuse being normalize towards men nowadays
Haha yes, I eventually stopped taking these Tiktok idiots seriously. All these dialogues would do well only in the la la land. Just think, why would a guy who can cook, makes money, would even marry a useless lady? (GOES BOTH WAYS:)
Yahoo, to put it simply: once your best friend starts dating, you are no longer his 'best' friend, there is a more important person in his/her life. A loving relationship is not completely different from friendship, but it is friendship, plus intimacy and commitment. Lovers demands and deserves each other's attention. So it is natural if she is getting irritated at having to share his attention with you. So my personal suggestion to all teenagers would be to enjoy good and thick friendships with kids of your age, of both genders during teenage. Because once u get into a relationship, ur friendships will be limited.
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
Personally, i dont like this concept of Multiple Relationships and Premarital sex before marriage. This is one of the reasons of so many divorces now a days. The point of getting married remains null and void because the person has already enjoyed everything in his/her previous relationships. So after marriage, there is a constant feeling of "something is missing". This leads to an unhappy marriage and eventually, divorce. On the other hand, if people save themselves till marriage, both the partners will enjoy every bit of that marriage, bcs they are enjoying everything for the first time, and statistically these kind of marriages last way longer. The problem is, we are always fascinated by western cultures, history is it's biggest witness. Sometimes, being a bit old fashioned is not bad I guess😇
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life. I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely. It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse. Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste. Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
I am a 18 years old teen age girl with lot of insecurities nd I really learned a lot from you prachi nd understood so many things about life nd I'll have to learn a lot more ♥
this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationship you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
Learn kar liya naa.... Iska mtlb hai ... Ab randi mt banna... Vrna fir sbse chud k, shaddi krne k liye jhoot bolna pdega... Or koi esi randiyo se shaddi nhi krta
Prachi deleted my comment idk why, To google. Brother get a lawyer and divorce her immediately, she does not love nor respect you. move out while you still can, dont be with someone that you can no longer trust. This marriage is based on a lie and always will be.
no seal, no deal how can a person love another one who has already been loved or who has already loved someone in past? those who said past doesn't matter are bullshit Past matters are most irrespective of gender so if cant wait for marriage, you are Pathetic , and if you want to do it, then do it with that person whom you are going to spend rest of your life if you are 200% sure; otherwise, dont expect anyone to accept a used person.
3:42 I wish I had a elder sister like you so that she could tell me this when I was young. I was going through the same thing few years back. Thank you Prachi di❤️
@@chitra19 this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationships you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
In the second case, clearly the man was betrayed and he shouldn't spare her... He should straight away file a divorce case... And nowadays as divorce is extremely difficult to get if it's not mutual, he must destroy her life... He must engage himself in extra marital affair.... And make her feel how it feels....
Just tell him to go on a trip with his friends and have few girls with money💰💰 After few 2-3 months tell her and if she forgive and forget live with her or else leave her
@@earthisbeautiful4560 good solution... Girls are very protective in their own case but when it comes in their court, they become very lenient... Height of Hypocrisy... Once a girl asked me that she had relationship with multiple partners in the past and asked me whether I have any problem with it or not... I said no, but when I said that I visited Red light areas very often in the past and whether she had any problem with that, she never replied and after that never met with me.... 😂
Make More than 10 times the body count of her. And again make her life hell, because at this age she definitely know marriage laws are baised in the end she going to get benefitted with alimony. So it becomes impossible for him to completely get rid of her. So just enjoy extra marital affair. And forget her, don't engaged in any kind of sexual interaction with that girl for a while.
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
You never know what someone thinks. I think a honest person should not make any adjustments for a not so honest person. If there was so much social pressire, why the hell someone will go for premarital sex? Does fathers of such bastards get heartattack only when the person they collectively cheated to marry their child gets to know the reality.
Let me be clear lady you are too much biased you take girls side even if she is wrong and you support premarital sex that's really being very partial . I will never ever support that .
what this defies every study, that literally shows the less partners before marriage the higher the success rate of the marriage.. It's because the limbic system in the brain connects every part of the brain to the nueral center that forms around relationships after sex. when the relationship or bond is broken, these connections break, with each time this happens the ability to reconnect another person becomes less and less, to ability to form those connections lessens with each formation and subsequent break, People who are doing casual sex completely break the brains ability to form deep connection through sex, this is why modern marriage success rate is now like 30% or less.
Statistics: based on a study of married couples of year 2000 which was done by the 'Institute for family studies' 0 partner before marriage → 4% likely to have divorce 1 partner before marriage → 22% likely to have divorce 2 partners before marriage → 30% likely to have divorce 3 partners before marriage → 26% likely to have divorce 4 to 5 partners before marriage → 25% likely to have divorce 6 to 9 partners before marriage → 27% likely to have divorce 10 + partners before marriage → 34% likely to have divorce See! This is not even India! In India, having 0 partners before marriage implies that their are less than 1% chances of divorce.. but for one & more partners, then % of divorce increases significantly! Virginity is worth more than purity! Hope you understand and keep our culture & traditions safe!
The argument that pre marital sex does not impact does not apply in this case as for this particular case virginity was almost a pre-condition for this marraige.Hence this is a breach of trust on the part of the female ..if I would been in this position of the husband I would have given the other half the option of mutual divorce .Also she was not honest ..it was a forced confession and that too after marraige. If nothing works then have a good extra marital affair and take emotional revenge on her.
Such is the condition of Indian men that we have to resort to an affair to gain an ounce of self esteem/self respect back lost from women like these. We can't even escape from them, the law has secured the cash cow for married women regardless of how much they hurt the men who are taking care of them.
This Google guy needs to release himself of all pressure by divorcing her. If she lied about such a big thing and even being casual about it, you can't get more red flags 🚩 than that. Men, please realise your self worth. Guys can't stay virgin... It's so tough (impossible) to get a virgin girl. Just get laid before marriage so that your ego won't take a dent after marriage.
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life. I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely. It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse. Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste. Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Its not about virginity. Its about a guy who instead of getting so much of opportunities, didn't get into physical relationships. He valued his virginity. It was a valuable thing for him. He wanted a lady having same mentality. In today's world many people have pre marital sex, it seemed cool for them but there are people who values their virginity. These people wanted same energy from the partners as well. A person who is responsible enough to protect their virginity, which is so important for him, its okay for him/her to expect the same from their partner. Lying to these people about past wont hurt less than cheating. Their whole purpose is destroyed coz their non virgin partners lied to them. Their whole efforts and energy is destroyed by past. How can that lie be anything less than a cheat? How can that lie be less than infedility?
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life. I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely. It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse. Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste. Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Yahoo I have been in your place when I was in 8th standard. If you don't leave right now then you'll destroy their relationship as well as your friendship with both of them.
Meri khwaish thi virgin wife ki, I talked to girl 6 months ,Agar tmhara koi past hai bta do, nahi hai to ham apke gharpe rishta bhejna chahte hain, but she lied, maine rishta bhej diya, engagement ke baad pta chala she was in relationship and even sexual relationship, mujhe ye gf-bf ka rishta hi nahi pasand hai yrr, boys shadi krenge chahe na krenge par ladki ko sexual relations tak le aate hain jarur. Shadi todne ki koshish ki par wife family ne pressure banaya ki wo suicide kar lenge, hmne shadi kr to li par i have no feelings towards my wife. 😭😭😭😭😭
Tell her you want an open marriage where for few months you will have s*x with other women to open up and she'd be responsible for it and stay faithful to you...after you've healed you can live normal lifestyle...if she doesn't agree...cheat on her then dump her as she doesn't care about you nor your feelings
Google doesn't have any options, he most probably have to compromise at some point, i ain't judging her wife but there are some girls who make others to compromise for their mistakes. Google may be feeling that he ain't special now,he used to believe that both him and his wife are special to each other. Unfortunately he has to be in the marriage because divorce is not a solution for situations like these. I just pray to God for this thing to never happen to me.
@@nirupamasharma4389 If The other woman lied then she will be divorced and I wouldnt be paying any alimony because in my second marriage I will make her sign a prenup agreement with her conditions relating to her prior sexual involvement and any future possiblities (if she cheats on me). I would be no longer paying her any alimony or any maintenance/support. I will be rightful to divorce her immediately under such conditions. But ofc I would have to gather proof before doing that, but that would be the only failsafe thing I could do. There was news that pre nup would be introduced in india, Idk if they already have or not, but if not I would marry someplace where they are a thing.
Plus, how would you know that if she is good at hiding? Many women are not born with hymen. And that can break with other reasons as well? What if she gets a surgery to get hymen back after having numerous sexual encounters with different partners?? There is a lot to think I guess😁
Prachi I Honestly love your work so much! You always make me happy when I see your videos! And you help soooo many people in this world. I am so thankful to you that we have a friend like you on the internet! Keep doing this amazing work!❤️❤️
Brilliant piece of advice, especially for the 1st issue where you gave the perfect example of the family where the husband chooses to hang out with his best friend instead of spending time with family on the only day of the week he gets an off. Everyone, specially the teens need to understand it. A very common issue due to guys and girls end up wasting big time complicating relationships and friendships and goofing up their exams etc. Looking forward to many more such suggestions, Keep'em coming.
Please read my hole comment and reply on it ! I am 21 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development. So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her? I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us. I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach. I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ? Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values. Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past. So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view. their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone. If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for hole family although mistakes was done by only one partner. I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect. After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk. I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in hole life ,she is the only one for me in hole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this ! But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion!
good real-life explanation. I agree completely. And also I didn't like Prachi saying '' sab kar rahe hai, tum bhi karlo'',..''Sab chor hai tum bhi chor ban jao, sab murder kar rahe hai rum bhi karlo, nowadys make it common'' Prachi please do not provoke to become others characterless.
guys never ever marry a girl who had many past relations... cuz of the fact that she had slept around random guys... women who can't even control their sexual urges... are definitely not worth it... it's better to focus on your goals... secure your family first... prioritize self-development over chasing girls which are worth nothing... always remember a girl who committed to premarital relations will also go for extra marital for sure behind your back... chances are very high... marry someone who didn't have any past relation... and was loyal to her family.... she will be loyal to the core. the reality is that a self-made/successful guy who didn't have time for this shit, who remained a virgin... will never accept someone who slept around random guys and got emotionally wasted.. what is left in her now?... this means she never respected marriage... then why marrying her!
@@coolish3481 if sex is so casual for you u shouldn't be bothered about yours partners extra marital sex..right?? which side of coin you choose has its own advantage & consequences.. men & women have different perspective , expectations, & preference in choosing partner.. & everyone be it man & women has right to do so.. for the last no one is stopping you from having premarital sex its completely your choice but don't impose it on others .. men aren't carry luggage of ur failed relationship with fuckbois
I know where this is coming from but choices of ur words & tone isn't right bro.. its more of judgy & anguished u could have written your point in better way to avoid misjudgement..🙏
If someone lied to you about something which mattered alot to you and that too for one of the most important decisions in life. It clearly means that they don't care about you. How can you expect them to be 100% honest when you talk to them about what prompted them to lie. They will just try to convince you even if they have to cook 100 more lies.
A sacred relationship like a marriage can never stand the test of time with a bunch of lies. The most important factor in a marriage or any relationship per se is trust. It is the very foundation. Personally I believe, to take a relationship to the next level involves a lot of trust, and I suggest the trust should be developed strong enough like say Ambuja Cement in order to make a relationship last.
@@debanikgoswami4834 bhai agar ak ladki ki choice hai o kuch bhi kare kisi she bhi sex kare to hum boys ka bhi choice hai hum bhi kuch bhi kare virgin girl ke sath rahe ya non virgin girl ke sath ye log kon hote hai hum boys ko judge karne bale to bhai aap ashi ghatiya video ke bato main kabhi mat aana hum boys bhi en saan hai or jine ka hak hum boys ko bhi hai
Your comment is a very good example of 'people hear what they want to hear'. I mentioned multiple times that she was wrong, empathised, even suggested divorce as the last resort. but well....'preception can be more powerful than reality'. Gonna pin your comment to the top for a while...because it teaches a very important lesson about 'communication' :)
@@SmileWithPrachi exactly what I was thinking like where this comment came from! You even told several times that it is not a justification. You clearly mentioned it but still some people !! Oh God.
@@olivamodak1724 there was no need for that sentence cause , the man had already said he wants a virgin so why the hell she needs to say so many people are doing it , it doesn't applies to that particular guy
Hi dee...your work is amazing... Please keep this up and one day you will have a million people who will have a the same thinking and thought process as yours. 😊😊
how kind of you Shruti! though quite honestly, the aim is not to make people think like 'me'... just encourage people to ask questions to this society, and think logically before taking any actions :)
this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationships you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
And for Google, i respect your choices.. but here is a glitch you should know about in case you're opting for a new marriage. There are still a lot of "virgin" girls who had gone very far in their physical relationship without even doing that 'act'. Like of course a virgin girl might have possibly engaged herself in other form of intimacy like oral or the unnatural A-sex. (I've known many girls who did this). and she can still lie about it and maybe this time you would never know. Find yourself a girl whom you can trust.. who won't lie to you no matter what. You're a mature man and a wise one, make a decision wisely.
Virginity ≠ hymen ..its state of having sexual experience with consent..hymen breakage,rape doesn't take away someone's Virginity..also evolutionary scientific pov "oxytocin burnout" is a real thing..ppl with multiple parteners aren't statically loyal to committed monogamous relationship ..so men & female brain evolved in such way..men brain think of premarital sex same as female think of post marital sex ...so Google has either need to compromise with similar expection from his wife, divorse, or use it as a card which i see many men doing nowadays in personal experience i.e. making extra marital affair in hookups as men having little advantages in that in compare to directly seeking devorse..
@@maggieenjoyer2141 Oh finally someone who understands the infamous "Oxytocin burnout". It has been proven scientifically, but still people engage in it. I ain't against premarital sex, but against casual hookups or ons.
The girl is lier which is very bad Virginity is not about hymen only 40% have hymen intact till their first time if she is engaged in sexual activity then she isn't virgin
Second letter :- somehow I agree with Prachi Di's each and every word 100% but Because society and parents do pressurise girls on some things ! I can tell you my perspective! I'm 29 ( still a virgin no problem there ) never been into proper relationship as well but I have cut marks on my hand anyone will think and people do think that it could be because of guys or relationships or these kinda stuff nobody thinks that it could be due to my mother due to my terrible childhood abuse which is still going on bdw ... it is due to that because according to Indian society parents can't be wrong right ? My male friends usually tell me " apni Ram kahaniya na sunane baith jaiyo don't tell guys about your past because later on they will taunt you when there will be fights nobody usually understands and trust me telling from my own personal experience nobody actually understands! I myself was talking to a guy for marriage and I told him about my past and earlier he was like oh why are you not taking stand for yourself it is abuse blah blah blah ... and later on he said something really disgusting ( double meaning thing objectifying me honestly) which was not at all acceptable he taunted me on my family issues !! Trust me if I'll get married I do want to share everything with my future husband but the question is how would I ? I don't have any choice but hiding it ... my male friend told me everyone will think you are wrong unless you spend time with the guy and later on he can judge you that you are not a bad person ! But people can think I am mad since I had cut marks ! Every single day I think about it how will I hide what should I do and blah blah I am even undergoing laser treatments and trust me it is extremely painful still the marks are not going what should I do ? Is it my fault that I have been abused will people actually understand very very less chances specially in arrange marriages Please talk to you wife about this in detail without judging her once if she has no regrets or she actually wanted to tell you things talk it out and then take proper decisions! I can also sound wrong to you I know ! I also crave for a partner and a loving family and I don't want my past to ruin it too ! ( a girl can also thinks like that at least I think like that ) please have a detail conversation with her and then decide and follow what Prachi Di has mentioned! 🙏🏻 wishing you all the best ! 🙏🏻
Hey can I ask how long your cut marks lasted for? When was the last time you self -harmed? Is laser treatment working? How costly? Cause my friend has cuts
Didi Shen I started doing it when I was 17 .. around 2010,2011,2012 ... and once or twice in 2017 .. half of my left hand is filled with scars .. and they are still there When you talk about scars it can't be removed permanently not even pitted acne scars and they are cut marks ! They can get reduced not removed completely! I have took 7 sessions till date and still haven't seen a visible result Since in my area the doctor is new so he is charging me 1000 per sitting But I went to dermats earlier also so one dermat told 2500 per sitting and then after few months same doc told me 6000 per session .. it even depends the depth of the cuts and how many are there .. the area of the skin ... since my doc is charging 1000 only so I have no problem in continuing the treatment I'll take 5-6 more Even Prachi Di once asked me to share pics of my hand once the treatment will be fully done . But then also it won't be possible for other people because one can't undergo so many sittings practically it does cost huge amount but still I'll share .. other thing the dermat I went earlier he just want to make more money because his wife was telling him to do without numbing cream and charge 4000 per session from me but he was like no no it is very imp to apply numbing cream and charging 2k extra for it but in reality the numbing cream just costs 650rs and can be used upto 6 sittings again depending upon the area of scars !! You can do this as well if your doctor says something like this .. I did first 4 sittings without numbing cream it was bearable for me ! Again saying after 7 sittings still I have not seen prominent results ! Depends scars to scars and healing of person's body ! Hope it helps sorry for such long one but explain everything in detail so !
So sorry to know this. Have you considered tattoos? Something with a beautiful meaning? Also please sign up for therapy, you have been through a lot. Self harm marks seldom go away entirely, and will always be viewed with a lot of judgement. Tattoo can cover them up entirely ::)
Smile With Prachi I guess now I can't go for tattoo the area is large and my friend had a tattoo and then she can't go for laser over her tattoo area and I already have undergone 7 sittings of CO2 ... but I am not getting prominent results honestly ! They are still the same even after 7 sessions !
Dear Yahoo the last line of your letter sounds a bit off... "How could she do this to me, all for a guy".. what if it goes like, " How could you do that to her all for a guy?". Maintain a certain distance sweetie.. things change after a duo comes in relationship.. you need to respect their boundaries. ngl but "I'll come and watch over you again in 10 minutes" sounds a bit controlling.
Thank you so much, Prachi. I always thought I was wrong and blamed my boyfriend for spoiling my friendship with my best friend. But she did and said things very mean and told my mom about my relationship and much more and then my boyfriend was the one who was with me throughout and didn't leave. I moved on and accepted the fact that my boyfriend will actually move mountains to be with me and make me happy and on the other hand there is my best friend who tried her level best to ruin my relationship. Still, there were times I missed her and messaged her on her birthday and her parent's birthday and all and there was no response from her end or a very bland response I used to feel that I ruined this friendship and when we were fighting I even told her that "ek baar bolti usse problem hai tere liye usko (BF) ko chod deti" After seeing this video I am actually relieved and kind off feel good that I let go of a toxic friend and that friendship is important but not equal to relationships and things change after being in a relationship Also, I've been in a relationship for 5 and a half years now, and hopefully, we're going to get married soon!
Hindi tho aati nahi hai And you should marry a virgin girl in context of a boy and a girl should marry a virgin boy Because in my family a happy couple life is destroyed because of this reason So guys don't go for a broad minded thing and make your future hell
Prachi di, I really want to thank you for making such beautiful videos. Your videos helped me to come in terms with my past and work for the future. I wish, u always stay the same, as u r now, and guide us in finding solution to our problems. Lots of love, di🤗❤️
Be it girl or boy who were in relationship I suppose they were fully conscious of what they were doing. Now after break up they suddenly go for arrange marraige and see the financial prospects. Think logically if a person was busy building career he/ she cannot have time for relationship. Office, work out, study , hobby etc. In totality making 24 hrs a day . So career oriented people avoid relationships and start looking for arrange marraige. Now problem arises when these love marraige believers start doing arrange marraige. Why? U have to do love so don't have the right to spoil someone other's emotions who was working ass off. You wanted to love marraige it failed go for another but don't come for arrange...
*I have proudly rejected five non-virgin girls on their face in front of their whole family.* Now, I'm going to marry a most beautiful girl who is also virgin like me. *Yes, a virgin guy has every right to choose a virgin wife only.*
Asking anything you want from a potential partner can't be declared wrong. It's your prerogative. But can you clarify what you meant by "rejecting in front of family"??
Same thing happen to me , I was talking to this girl and suddenly after sometime she confessed that she isn’t virgin and also have taken contraception pills 😂😂.. when I stopped talking to her , she was raging over me that how can I be reject one just about her past😂😂.. I am a virgin and I want virgin woman that’s it . End of conversation
I want to add for teenagers , that choose whats temporary first i feel the freedom for frenship BEING single is different and temporary , Married life is longer comparitivly and permenant ., Njoy it ❣
I feel bad for guys like Google 😢😢😢 Our laws don't protect our ordinary innocent men. Suggestion for Google, even if you like her the relationship that you have with her is based on a lie. End it and you will find the peace of your mind 😌😌
First writer- Maybe I am thinking too deep but looks like you don't really like this, I mean your two best friends coming together thus making each other their priorities must not feel very nice and no one can really help you with that and I will suggest to just suck it up I mean you are only 15 yr olds, relationships are very short lived in that age. Try distracting yourself with other friends or talk to them and maybe you all can work out some time arrangements like at night, only the couple will talk and in the evening the guy and you can. Also, I think the girlfriend needs to grow up too but you can always be the bigger person. Also, you can do this lil thing that you pass comments to the girlfriend like " no matter what you will be his no.1 girl" which might make her feel secure.
@@vishakha38 I disagree, I actually knows girls who are completely fine with this type of setting, if anyone has to do so little to make you insecure then there's something wrong with your relationship too.
@@vishakha38 Prachi actually never said the girlfriend is right, she could be. But she could be jealous in some areas, we don't know. Also, they are 15 so I highly doubt anyone is being reasonable here you can't expect maturity from kids.
@@vishakha38 I wanna make one thing clear to, I am not supporting the writer, I do think she's more at wrong here by borderline flirting but I know that if I were in the girlfriend's place, I would be a lil more chill that's all.
@@vishakha38 Kids do adult things nowadays but that doesn't mean they are mature about it, I think you are reading too deep into it. Everyone is right from their own pov, even the writer thinks she's right.
It's not about virginity It's about paying for a car that others have driven for free. Ask yourself do you really want to pay full for a used car? It's not just about virginity. It's about the experience. If a man is a virgin why not want a virgin wife? Would you be ok with a used pen that has lost half of the ink? Remember the first touch is something that you remember forever. Will you be okay knowing that the other guy has drenched her emotionally. And a woman loses the ability to give emotions to her new man. Every time she gets with a new man she only has half of what she had given to her previous man. Chose wisely. Remember it's okay to want a virgin wife. Cutaway from these pseudo feminists who do their deeds and want the moral high ground and call a virgin man wanting a virgin wife as a Misogynistic pig.
It's ok if someone wants a virgin...but in that case even the man should be a virgin...he should not be sleeping around and asking for a virgin wife...isn't it hypocrisy
@@akshitasinha4594 A short woman can ask for tall man and a broke / stay at home woman can ask for a wealthy husband so a non-virgin man asking for virgin man isn't that much hypo-critic is it ?
Spoken like a true alpha brother. A man who has stood by his moral code & reserved sexual intimacy for his wife & her alone deserves a chaste girl....Guys like us do exist... it's a choice we make & it definitely isn't a hypocritical stand.
Yahoo... they say that a boy and a guy cannot be best friends. I think this is somewhat true except if you are truly like brother and sister. Also, the girl wants her boyfriend to be there for her but instead he is "protecting" you by telling his male friends to stay away. Why do you have to tell him to sleep? His is supposed to talk to his girlfriend at night. If my boyfriend had a female friend, I would feel really insecure. I don't think I would have been able to continue the relationahip.
Lol very funny There is nothing to feel insecure,it is very very common for a best friend to say all these and if the girlfriend has a problem with this,then it's her problem not his And in which book is it written that a guy is supposed to talk to his girlfriend at night and not his best friend? Don't you tell your besties to sleep on time at night? Or you make a gender discrimination and choose your friends based on their gender? If your man has good intentions,he will be yours forever no matter what happens
What a pathetic thinking you have...a boy and a girl can't be friends.. seriously..yeah one can say that they are too young and immature to handle everything..
@@proozie9183 haven't you heard what Prachi didi said? Didn't you listen to her examples? Moreover, in another video, she had also said that the thing about a boy and a girl not being able to be best friends and that one of them will always catch feelings is somewhat true.
@@aprajitamishra5082, Haven't you listened to what Prachi said? I also remember her saying in another video that when they say a girl and a boy cannot be best friends, they are somewhat right.
Disha..no I haven't heard her saying tbh .and if she said that then..I literally doesn't agree with her opinion..coz she is approving that 3rd class bollywood mentality..
😍tq prachi didi❤❤importantly that first letter.. Last month.. A girl who had crush on my bf called him (they were clsmates in past) and they spoke one hour.. And then he called me and said that she had called.. And also he mentioned one line that girl said "Don't forget me" My emotions started going out of control and I said him "I did not like this" and after a while things sorted out.. But till today I was thinking that I was worng.. But didi.. You gave amazing advice.. Its natural of me to feel that way.. Thank you soo much❤❤
Prachi di I was a good student everyone use to praise me but now I am unable to study and now no one thinks I am a not good studies and praise me this is depression 😞😞😞😞😞
Being a student, let me tell you STUDY FOR YOURSELF. Don't study for people's praises. I assume you are very young and I understand you have a lot of pressure from family friends relatives etc. Dont let that bother you. Study for yourself because in the end no matter you do people are gonna talk abt u( if u r studious they say padhaku nerd etc if not then they think you r dumb)
Google, I was in a long distance relation and my bf has cheated on me. He confronted me after few months and apologized all by himself. I was angry and felt cheated at first. But I know he was the one I loved so much and he was never into relationships except me. We are married for 3 years. I sometimes think about it whenever I am very angry but I also forget about all those. I never asked him anything about that other than what was his intentions and he said, he did it because of friend's pressure. And I knew how his friends were. Now he doesn't talk to those set of friends because he know it costed our relationship. So all I want to say is, Let her know what you have felt and gone through and if she is worth, keep her.
if she was honest before marriage I will think if I can accept or not because I don't want to be in a doubt full , insecure, getting emotionally broken when I knew her past after marriage , as a strong men I will devource and marry who another that's it I don't give a fuck
Whatever you said this can't acceptable and tolerate , if girl doesn't been a virgin , there is no wrong a Virgin boy expect a virgin girl , her virginity determine her character , ok i accept some your words but she should be say all the truth before her marriage , if groom accepted then doesn't matter , she get cheated by her ex or whoever but she should not cheat her future husband , some men's are open minded minded but not all , she will did lie and marry him after he will know this then she will be get pinch better she should said her all past truth to her future hubby , And this is mine and my expectations al, anyway thank you your video's helps me a lot to know the peoples and too there is nothing groom get dowry from bride ...
Hey google,
I can imagine how much frustration you must be carrying constantly. Someone holding such an important role in your life has betrayed your trust. But give this a thought… ‘ is the person you married wrong, or the person you married did a wrong thing?’
If the person you married is not wrong, please try to work it out. Obviously you have to make her realise that what she did was a horrible thing to do. But if you think she has realised it, move passed it. It is going require alot of patients on your part. But evaluate whether she is worth fighting for and act accordingly..
Very intelligent advice.
That's a good question to ask.
She don't deserve him
Better divorce her
Sometimes holding on is much more painfull
@@SmileWithPrachi can you tell me how can I get in touch with you any email or anything ? I don’t really wanna put up my story here if you could please help me would be really grateful cause I’m literally suffering from so long
@@gleefafarrier3762 hey!!
Check out the description box..it is there
Why do MEN always have to sacrifice?
If the roles were reversed here then every feminist on the earth would start screaming for the crucifixion of that man.
The simple fact is that the girl manipulated and lied to get married and would most probably continue this lying to cheat behind his back and later divorce him and get half if not most of his hard earned money.
If she lied she didn't respect you. End of story. It's not about virginity anymore it's about honesty and respect
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
Right
Actually the reality is.. which goes on most men mind..How I can I give a status of my wife to someone who has slept with other guy.. it is kind of Immoral thing for them. and it affect our dignity and self respect.. can never build a emotional connection.
And most importantly girl also knows that she has done wrong and betraying his husband by not telling the truth. So, it is better to tell ur truth before marriage only.
In the Bible such a woman was stoned to death as it says for doing exact that lying about being a virgin in order to be in marriage
@@mdsalahuddinansari8522 How can i give place to woman who is lying to me ... is more important to most men in this world now
Tell your wife to not expect loyalty and tell her "she will get used to it"
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She doesn't deserve you if she lies from the beginning 💔, return her and Let her go to her family to explain what she did. Simple.
Come on bro , we don't want fuck our money what we spend our marriage , in India every state have they own culture and religion , according to that and our government , if we do divorce her we should settlement to her better than we live to her without emotional love and bond , we will do ensure our baby is ours , rest of life we should live for that baby only when out child turn 22 we have a chance to share to them and don't been like your mom , something
Correct
Correct
Paternity tests came only couple of decades ago and humans have been here for thousands of years we all are descendants of men who ensured their paternity and tried their best to pass down their resources to their own seed/offspring it is therefore part of brain wiring in all men to seek non promiscuous and virgin women and the men who really dont care are cucks as in olden days would have been cucked
On top of all that you as a man would be responsible for some other man's child if she cheats on you after marriage as per indian law
The probability of virgin women sticking to their first partner is considerably high due to the fact that a lot of emotion is involved from womans side as per several researches conducted in US
Women dont fk until they have emotions for the guy and things are much more serious if its her first
If things dont work out a non virgin woman has a high probability of not putting any effort and jumping to next d!ck coz she's used to that, while ruining the man's entire life as courts will loot his life and his amcestors blood and sweat earned wealth all of it and give it to the modern woman for being a hoe
What a fantastic cu€k system we have set up na..fk indian courts for being simpy and biased misandrist enslavers
10000% correct!!
If virginity doesn’t matter, then there is no need to lie about it. But if someone resorts to lie about it then it shows that virginity does matter.
Thank you dor your advice
When a girl lie about her past to get married, and the husband after knowing this kills his wife, then no way the husband is at fault.
The woman who lost her life is actually the one who destroyed the man's life.
Same with woman.
*As a man i can say, it's not about virginity its about honesty , if u lie then ur man will never trust u again*
I agree!!!
It's both.
No. It's both. Marriage is about both physical and emotional aspects. No one on earth is loved unconditionally. Virginity is a sign of loyalty. No one wants to marry someone like Mia Khalifa. Virgin men always want virgin women, whether you like it or not. No one wants r*ndiya as a life partner.
Same with woman. If he's not a virgin and he lies, he will।never b loyal to you.
Its also about virginity if you can't accept one lie of your wife then how can you accept the fact that she has fucked other man before marriage
Boy Here ...I am Virgin by Choice....and I prefer my Wife to be Virgin. I believe Marriage is Sacred relationship . ...and I will ask her Before Committing....Not matter What she Feels....and I also Want her to ask me Every question Which Is Close and Personal to her before. Commuting.....
Please Communicate Before Committing 🙏
Keep it up man, same here.
But here the girl lied .. tell me the solution for lying 😅 what is the guarantee that both will tell the truth .?!? 😅
@@thephoenix8244 solution is make her life hell
@@thephoenix8244 if found out that she was a non virgin then divorce her that's it.
@@ayanokoji5594 Or maybe cheat on her and settle the scores.........
It’s not about insecurity. Women who has slept with a lot of men can’t pair bond with her husband. It’s a scientific fact. Get yourself educated.
What about women who had 2 boyfriends in past
@@bachinsanchal1007 Any sexual experiences before your husband is a red flag for a lot of conservative guys, it increases a woman's chance to be alpha widowed.
Same with Men
Google if it is a deal breaker for you then break ducking deal. Life is too short to live with someone who you don't/ can't trust n resentment towards.
*@I hate you all* How can you trust a liar? It's impossible.
To the husband, I am with you. I have the same experience. My wife mentioned different names of her admirers/bf before we got married but they never touched her. She lied because she did not mention one more guy who made penetration on her. He is her sister’s husband. What’s killing me is I see his face all the time during family gatherings. I feel defeated, violated and angry because he already had my wife first. It seems someone stabbed me right through my heart. The worse is every time we have intimacy, I see mentally his body and not mine. It hurts so much, feeling a loser, and I am not proud of myself.
Divorce her gather evidence
Divorce her man … u don’t deserve this ..
don't live your life like that. you better do something now or regret later
File a divorce live alone
Have you ever said this to your sister in law. Moreover when she mentioned about her past why did you married her. In today's time relationship means physical.
imagine a girl saving herself for that one person and looking for someone who is saving himself for her, girl is happy coz she finally found someone, she discusses everything and the marriage happens. On the wedding night he casually tells her that he lied.
Exactly..than everyone of the faminazis including the video maker will advocate to crucify the man … hahahah… same situation two different solutions 😂
@bot 1 🤦🏻♀️he is talking about the girl who lied to that men...he also have felt like that!
I am virgin boy
@@evildgirl7559She is talking about the Man, who lied.
Virginity shouldn't be judge by the presence of hymen or bleeding in first time but virginity means no sexual relationship before marriage.
Be it a boy or girl virginity should be preserved for your future husband/wife.
Thank you ❤
No virginity NO RING.
as a virgin boy i cant marry a slut. no ceal no deal
Indeed perfect
Very true. Another way this has been translated that I've seen from other comments is "No hymen, no diamond!"
To All Girls/Sisters ..... Today a lot Of Boys Are REDPILLED and Due to Recent Backlash Of PseudoFeminism....Boys .. Have Lost Hope in Relationship/ Marriage and Sadly Demonise Girls also.....I this Is Very Unfortunate..(.that We are living with Hate Against Each other..)
But before Committing in A Relationship please do communicate qith each other 🙏
I'm red pilled and migtow
So his trust and his choice have gone into the garbage, rather than talking about his situation people started justifying her having a relationship. Great.
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life.
I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely.
It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse.
Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste.
Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Lying about such a serious issue is not at all desirable. We should honestly convey the truth to future husband or wife. There are many people who have more than one relationship in this lifetime. In such a situation, it's crucial to convey the truth to the second boyfriend or girlfriend. A partner's past relations actually mentally disturbs us if we get to know after marriage. Moreover, if you are going for an arranged marriage, then please don't believe every word of the opposite person in a few meetings. In maximum cases people lie about their past relationships, and serious diseases in arranged marriage meet-up. Our neighbours, and relatives also don't about the family secrets. Please hire a private detective to know about every past detail of the person or about the person's family in an arranged marriage. Spending money on good Private Detectives is far better than inviting lots of guests or arranging the marriage in a lavish way.
Jhoot bolke rishta banne se accha sach bolke shadi na ho
This was a non negotiable for him and she lied precisely on that.
Basically she is justifying that woman who lied
Where on earth did you see that!
@@olivamodak1724 in the very beginning itself
@@Gaminfystar haha ok
I know she is also a biased women.
Yes bro. Google should divorce that selfish manipulative woman
Yes lies are the end to a relationship. And being disloyal too.
Its soo wrong to assume everyone has a past lol we are not like that prachie ✨👀 some people are career oriented also
😂well said
I am afraid to burst your bubble women but a man who has never been into any relationship and has been a virgin his whole life while trying to build up his career and provide for a family has expectations, dreams, feelings and emotions too.
While I do respect that fact you stressed that one should never lie to his/her partner but I lose respect for you when you keep telling the guys that virginity isn't important. Ask any virgin man and he will tell you otherwise. Clearly your advise doesn't take man's POV into account. If you want to give advice on heterogeneous relationships you need to empathize with man's emotions and feelings as well. Every virgin man has dreams and fantasies of having a virgin female partner once in his lifetime. Some men fulfill this desire before marriage while the remaining wish to get it fulfilled from his life partner. Have you ever stopped and wondered why? I am afraid that you need a lot more homework to do on man's emotions.
Lying about your past to enter marriage is a selfish act of deceit, betrayal and manipulation when a man has clearly expressed his expectations from a life partner.
I absolutely agree with you brother. For all those girls, if some man is clearly stating it to you before marriage that he is expecting a virgin girl given that he is virgin, please respect it, you will easily find men who are ready to accept non-virgin girls too especially in today’s society, so please I beg to all ladies out there not to hurt us.
Divorce her and don't pay her any money she lied about the most important crucial part of her life which the guy has previously mentioned when it comes to his life partner's requirements if she can lie to you about this how can you expect her to be loyal in future if she can lie you about this crucial information about her life then dude others lies are just a piece of cake for her this is in general manipulative controlling behaviour of women and she lied to you and marry you cause she knows about the INDIAN COURT MARRIAGE SYSTEM which always favours women counterpart is she is right or not our government is fucked biased so don't let this thing consume you till you're mentally fucked
A virgin guy deserves a virgin girl.
No argument on it!!!
Why not marry ur own fuckbois to whom you lost ur virginity.its ur fault not ur virgin husband
I agree with you 👍
@@Vinay_Reddy_Sudini 👍👍
There are people who are ",Virgin", didn't have premarital sex. Let's normalise that. Its almost viewed as something unusual and strange.
Good Point.
U right ✅
people who go into marriages with experience in sex have better marriages. Because both partners can please each other and are sexually open to each other.
@@beentherelovedit9150 what? That's your claim to prove pre-marital sex is good?!
You think you sound absolute in the comments ?! Huh ?!
One can abstain from sex before marriage and still can be good in bed and open with his or her sexual desires with his or her partner.
@@Ritik_Nandan right
You can't compare Husband- Wife relationship with teenage couple relationships. Both are way too different.
No both are same
@@MySonu17 after marriage its completely different from dating..
@@rwik....170 No Both Are Same Just Name Is Different. The only Difference is aftre marriage 99% live together just for two reason . लोग क्या कहेगे And बच्चो का क्या होगा. 😂
@@MySonu17 i mean its very easy to end relationship before marriage. but after marriage, break up becomes expensive also reputation involve and if child involve thoo...jadahee mehenga pargaya.
@@MySonu17 so yeah don't marriage after only dating for a week or month. i say 1 year needed if time available.
Yahoo, u should maintain some distance...even if would be jealous of u if I'll be his girlfriend!
Yes, and boys of this generation doesn't value ''friendship''. They often start to have feelings towards their girl friends. I have been in such a situation before, so it will be better if Yahoo maintains distance from him. As a serious partner, its obvious that the girlfriend feels insecured with her. If I were someone's girlfriend, I too would get worried if my boy started having girl friends
@@sriparnaroy4758 💯🙌
Not all boys are same ladies...
I swear, I have never ever seen a female friend more than a friend!
I know my boundaries...
I also had my temptations for intimacy in my early ages but now I know how to control them as I meditated....
Wife lied about her virginty
Husband asked tons of time as he was a virgin
He trusted her ,when lie was over
A mam was left with trust issues
A women was left alone for her lifetime
The lonely person will get someone again but the one with trust issues is scarred forever.
@@abhishekpodder7594 it not trust problem its choice
Those who lie , deserves to suffer nd die......bt before they die ,they make others suffer with them
Old Testament Bible such women were stoned to death for lying and getting to marriage
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life.
I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely.
It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse.
Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste.
Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Divorce is the best solution here
To Mr. G, sir you have two options. One Stay with her and enjoy all ur kinky fantasy. Or be a man kick her out, send her where she belong. Remember for her you was an option and not her choice.
Thanks Prachi! the answer to yahoo's letter was highly needed for me. Although its too late and I screwed up my friendship years back, but I never got the clarity who exactly was wrong and right in that situation. today i got to know we both were correct at our own places but majorly it was ME who was wrong. Thank you for clearing me up.
The only Advice For Google is To Get out of the Marriage before it's too Late. Clearly the women is Highly Manipulative and Has No Respect for his Values/Him.
If he doesn't have the Strength to move on Now..... may be He never would be able to do it in Future.
That's why I am a Huge Proponent of No Fault Divorce/Living Together as well as validation Pre-nup, So that if it's a Choice of women to Sleep around Then be a Choice of Men to Walk Out of the Relationship. (In most Countries except in India The law's are Gender Nutrel).
You are absolutely right........
There is a difference between sleeping around and have a long term relationship where you might have got intimate with someone.
@@shazanchaudhry I know just implied, if someone is uncomfortable with his/her Body Count let them move on. But in India most people don't give mutual Divorce just to make other Suffer.
LongTerm or Short term it doesn't matter, Both Gender Should have the right to walk out any Time without any obligations like Alimony.
@@akhil2024 yes exactly it makes things so much easier. I am Indian but grew up in London and things are so much easier there. Most live in and ones that marry have prenups so when things don't work out or one of them cheats they just go there separate ways and find someone else. Simple.
@@shazanchaudhry See some people choise to have pre-marital sex and some choose to wait for marriage for their special one. Those people who wait have all the right to look for a partner who also waited for marriage and did not have any sought of physical intimacy. We can all agree on that.
But the problem here is that the woman lied to her partner about her past which is absolutely unfair. A relationship built on lies and deciet is not worth living in. If she choose to have sex before it was her choice but if he choose to have a virgin wife it was his choice. But she decieved him and manipulated him into believing that she was a virgin which is unethical. She basicalky didn't let him make a choice for himself by tricking him. This is a selfish attitude.
For the first writer, I went through a similar situation, and I was the girlfriend. To add to the situation, my boyfriend had once had a crush on the best friend when we were 11-12. She woud constatly try to enter our video calls at midnight, and then complain when we would refuse. A lot of the things you're doing were actually the same things that happened. Well, do you know what ended up happening? It all resulted in ugly fights, and she just so happened to make a new 'best friend', and me and my boyfriend ended up breaking off with her. What Prachi is saying is actually quite true, please take this as a warning sign before things get too sour. Sometimes, feeeling insecure isn't intrinsic at all, because sometimes, it is coming from some external factors. Just my two cents, having gone through a similar situation. Btw, we are also of your age, us girls are 17, and the guy is 19.
😂😂😂 11 12 KI AGE Ma bf gf ma ra age 21 ha aur ma anime dekha ta ho still single and virgin but never felt any need of relationship yar life enjoy karo 11 12 sall ki umar ma kyu adult hona chata 😂😂😂
@@goku-ki2to after reading 11 12, I stopped reading😂😂
Career banane ka waqt hai ye Babu Shona ka nhai
I'm 18 and still focused on my career rather than gf/bf
I personally think that something that you wouldn't tell your parents is wrong so don't ever do it!
Your parents has done many struggles in their life... so make them proud & happy 😁
Honestly there are times as a woman I feel bad for SOME men of our society. Changes that have been happening in past few years for women empowerment is great. But some women I feel take advantage of it.
I see a few girls on TikTok like " I don't cook whatever my husband MUST know how to cook" "I don't work so what husband MUST earn and take care of me"
They're all right but my concern is things r getting misleaded in the name of equality. Feminism is being abused it's almost like we hate men. And we r doing the same thing men did to us. Idk to me it's not equality anymore. And men can't say much. Like you said our law is a bit biased.
Again ofcrs there r beautiful couples, men , women who r doing amazing but there r certain of abuse being normalize towards men nowadays
Totally agree.
Also false cases are increasing
Thank you acknowledging this, most people brush off any topics that are related to men's wellbeing.
Haha yes, I eventually stopped taking these Tiktok idiots seriously. All these dialogues would do well only in the la la land. Just think, why would a guy who can cook, makes money, would even marry a useless lady? (GOES BOTH WAYS:)
@@maalinihema_ well tiktokbis banned sweetheart go see boycott China right
Yahoo, to put it simply: once your best friend starts dating, you are no longer his 'best' friend, there is a more important person in his/her life. A loving relationship is not completely different from friendship, but it is friendship, plus intimacy and commitment. Lovers demands and deserves each other's attention. So it is natural if she is getting irritated at having to share his attention with you. So my personal suggestion to all teenagers would be to enjoy good and thick friendships with kids of your age, of both genders during teenage. Because once u get into a relationship, ur friendships will be limited.
This was so true
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
Personally, i dont like this concept of Multiple Relationships and Premarital sex before marriage. This is one of the reasons of so many divorces now a days. The point of getting married remains null and void because the person has already enjoyed everything in his/her previous relationships. So after marriage, there is a constant feeling of "something is missing". This leads to an unhappy marriage and eventually, divorce.
On the other hand, if people save themselves till marriage, both the partners will enjoy every bit of that marriage, bcs they are enjoying everything for the first time, and statistically these kind of marriages last way longer. The problem is, we are always fascinated by western cultures, history is it's biggest witness. Sometimes, being a bit old fashioned is not bad I guess😇
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life.
I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely.
It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse.
Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste.
Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Why are you supporting a liar?
Is this what your feminism is? To support a liar?
I am a 18 years old teen age girl with lot of insecurities nd I really learned a lot from you prachi nd understood so many things about life nd I'll have to learn a lot more ♥
Experience will teach you remaining stuff..
Iam also 18 years🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationship you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
Remember just one thing.... No one will keep a past thief as a security guard of his house
Learn kar liya naa.... Iska mtlb hai ...
Ab randi mt banna... Vrna fir sbse chud k, shaddi krne k liye jhoot bolna pdega... Or koi esi randiyo se shaddi nhi krta
Simply don't marry , lot of problems even can't come close to you.
Prachi deleted my comment idk why, To google. Brother get a lawyer and divorce her immediately, she does not love nor respect you. move out while you still can, dont be with someone that you can no longer trust. This marriage is based on a lie and always will be.
lagta hai mera bhi kar degi thodi der mein🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
no seal, no deal
how can a person love another one who has already been loved or who has already loved someone in past?
those who said past doesn't matter are bullshit Past matters are most irrespective of gender
so if cant wait for marriage, you are Pathetic , and if you want to do it, then do it with that person whom you are going to spend rest of your life if you are 200% sure; otherwise, dont expect anyone to accept a used person.
One person past karma affect other person when they come contact with them and it can seen in our surroundings.
3:42 I wish I had a elder sister like you so that she could tell me this when I was young. I was going through the same thing few years back. Thank you Prachi di❤️
I was thinking the same.
@@chitra19 this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationships you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
I m feeling sad for google. No problem if it's his personal choice.
Lying is very big red flag. You don't LIE in relationship!!
In the second case, clearly the man was betrayed and he shouldn't spare her... He should straight away file a divorce case... And nowadays as divorce is extremely difficult to get if it's not mutual, he must destroy her life... He must engage himself in extra marital affair.... And make her feel how it feels....
Just tell him to go on a trip with his friends and have few girls with money💰💰
After few 2-3 months tell her and if she forgive and forget live with her or else leave her
@@earthisbeautiful4560 good solution... Girls are very protective in their own case but when it comes in their court, they become very lenient... Height of Hypocrisy... Once a girl asked me that she had relationship with multiple partners in the past and asked me whether I have any problem with it or not... I said no, but when I said that I visited Red light areas very often in the past and whether she had any problem with that, she never replied and after that never met with me.... 😂
Make More than 10 times the body count of her. And again make her life hell, because at this age she definitely know marriage laws are baised in the end she going to get benefitted with alimony. So it becomes impossible for him to completely get rid of her. So just enjoy extra marital affair. And forget her, don't engaged in any kind of sexual interaction with that girl for a while.
Look Prachi this sounds sickness 🤮 putting blood pouch in vagina just to lie his male partner stop giving your subscriber indirectly so stupid idea just say to them be honest
Well said bhai
Huding facts in marriage counts as fraud and is legal ground for making the marriage null and void.
You never know what someone thinks. I think a honest person should not make any adjustments for a not so honest person. If there was so much social pressire, why the hell someone will go for premarital sex? Does fathers of such bastards get heartattack only when the person they collectively cheated to marry their child gets to know the reality.
Let me be clear lady you are too much biased you take girls side even if she is wrong and you support premarital sex that's really being very partial . I will never ever support that .
what this defies every study, that literally shows the less partners before marriage the higher the success rate of the marriage.. It's because the limbic system in the brain connects every part of the brain to the nueral center that forms around relationships after sex. when the relationship or bond is broken, these connections break, with each time this happens the ability to reconnect another person becomes less and less, to ability to form those connections lessens with each formation and subsequent break, People who are doing casual sex completely break the brains ability to form deep connection through sex, this is why modern marriage success rate is now like 30% or less.
Statistics: based on a study of married couples of year 2000 which was done by the 'Institute for family studies'
0 partner before marriage → 4% likely to have divorce
1 partner before marriage → 22% likely to have divorce
2 partners before marriage → 30% likely to have divorce
3 partners before marriage → 26% likely to have divorce
4 to 5 partners before marriage → 25% likely to have divorce
6 to 9 partners before marriage → 27% likely to have divorce
10 + partners before marriage → 34% likely to have divorce
See! This is not even India! In India, having 0 partners before marriage implies that their are less than 1% chances of divorce.. but for one & more partners, then % of divorce increases significantly! Virginity is worth more than purity! Hope you understand and keep our culture & traditions safe!
The argument that pre marital sex does not impact does not apply in this case as for this particular case virginity was almost a pre-condition for this marraige.Hence this is a breach of trust on the part of the female ..if I would been in this position of the husband I would have given the other half the option of mutual divorce .Also she was not honest ..it was a forced confession and that too after marraige.
If nothing works then have a good extra marital affair and take emotional revenge on her.
Such is the condition of Indian men that we have to resort to an affair to gain an ounce of self esteem/self respect back lost from women like these. We can't even escape from them, the law has secured the cash cow for married women regardless of how much they hurt the men who are taking care of them.
This Google guy needs to release himself of all pressure by divorcing her.
If she lied about such a big thing and even being casual about it, you can't get more red flags 🚩 than that.
Men, please realise your self worth.
Guys can't stay virgin... It's so tough (impossible) to get a virgin girl. Just get laid before marriage so that your ego won't take a dent after marriage.
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life.
I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely.
It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse.
Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste.
Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
Its not about virginity. Its about a guy who instead of getting so much of opportunities, didn't get into physical relationships. He valued his virginity. It was a valuable thing for him. He wanted a lady having same mentality. In today's world many people have pre marital sex, it seemed cool for them but there are people who values their virginity. These people wanted same energy from the partners as well. A person who is responsible enough to protect their virginity, which is so important for him, its okay for him/her to expect the same from their partner. Lying to these people about past wont hurt less than cheating. Their whole purpose is destroyed coz their non virgin partners lied to them. Their whole efforts and energy is destroyed by past. How can that lie be anything less than a cheat? How can that lie be less than infedility?
I feel bad for india nowadays. Vast majority of the girls have premarital sex and that too with mens who are deceptive to begin with. Then they try to settle with virgin guy with well settled life.
I am very lucky with my Moroccan fiance, at least in their country it is very shameful for women not to be virgin and they value virginity immensely.
It's extremely saddening that non virgin girls in India are so entitled yet they never care to show any respect toward actual marital relationship. They tend to have no remorse.
Indian womens were once known to be very loyal and had a lot of dignity. Luckily there are still countries where wome value virginity and respect their future husband by remaining chaste.
Lots of love to my dear indian brothers.
It's so frustrating and depressing as hell to experience I hate my life
Yahoo I have been in your place when I was in 8th standard. If you don't leave right now then you'll destroy their relationship as well as your friendship with both of them.
Meri khwaish thi virgin wife ki, I talked to girl 6 months ,Agar tmhara koi past hai bta do, nahi hai to ham apke gharpe rishta bhejna chahte hain, but she lied, maine rishta bhej diya, engagement ke baad pta chala she was in relationship and even sexual relationship, mujhe ye gf-bf ka rishta hi nahi pasand hai yrr, boys shadi krenge chahe na krenge par ladki ko sexual relations tak le aate hain jarur.
Shadi todne ki koshish ki par wife family ne pressure banaya ki wo suicide kar lenge, hmne shadi kr to li par i have no feelings towards my wife. 😭😭😭😭😭
Pagal insaan karne de na suicide, tune kyu apni life ruin kardi
Tell her you want an open marriage where for few months you will have s*x with other women to open up and she'd be responsible for it and stay faithful to you...after you've healed you can live normal lifestyle...if she doesn't agree...cheat on her then dump her as she doesn't care about you nor your feelings
@@earthisbeautiful4560 exactly bro
Bataya kisne uske affair ke bare mein aapko
@@ssdftddrt1540 kam se kam 1 year wait karna chahiye koi bhi decision lene se pahle.
Google doesn't have any options, he most probably have to compromise at some point, i ain't judging her wife but there are some girls who make others to compromise for their mistakes.
Google may be feeling that he ain't special now,he used to believe that both him and his wife are special to each other.
Unfortunately he has to be in the marriage because divorce is not a solution for situations like these.
I just pray to God for this thing to never happen to me.
He has a solution that is to divorce her and move ahead with those exact same preference in life.
@@sumedhk4148 and what if other women lies the same way?
@@nirupamasharma4389 If The other woman lied then she will be divorced and I wouldnt be paying any alimony because in my second marriage I will make her sign a prenup agreement with her conditions relating to her prior sexual involvement and any future possiblities (if she cheats on me). I would be no longer paying her any alimony or any maintenance/support. I will be rightful to divorce her immediately under such conditions. But ofc I would have to gather proof before doing that, but that would be the only failsafe thing I could do. There was news that pre nup would be introduced in india, Idk if they already have or not, but if not I would marry someplace where they are a thing.
@@sumedhk4148 okay great, and if 3rd woman also lies?😂😂😂😂
Plus, how would you know that if she is good at hiding? Many women are not born with hymen. And that can break with other reasons as well? What if she gets a surgery to get hymen back after having numerous sexual encounters with different partners?? There is a lot to think I guess😁
Prachi I Honestly love your work so much! You always make me happy when I see your videos! And you help soooo many people in this world. I am so thankful to you that we have a friend like you on the internet! Keep doing this amazing work!❤️❤️
Brilliant piece of advice, especially for the 1st issue where you gave the perfect example of the family where the husband chooses to hang out with his best friend instead of spending time with family on the only day of the week he gets an off. Everyone, specially the teens need to understand it. A very common issue due to guys and girls end up wasting big time complicating relationships and friendships and goofing up their exams etc. Looking forward to many more such suggestions, Keep'em coming.
Please read my hole comment and reply on it !
I am 21 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development.
So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her?
I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us.
I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach.
I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ?
Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values.
Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past.
So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view.
their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone.
If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for hole family although mistakes was done by only one partner.
I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect.
After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk.
I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in hole life ,she is the only one for me in hole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this !
But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion!
True
@@ncnc3927 thanks
This is the only correct opinion. I repeat " the only correct ".
Hey just try to love marriage
Their is hardly no fhance of getting this type of pattner in arrange marriage
good real-life explanation. I agree completely. And also I didn't like Prachi saying '' sab kar rahe hai, tum bhi karlo'',..''Sab chor hai tum bhi chor ban jao, sab murder kar rahe hai rum bhi karlo, nowadys make it common'' Prachi please do not provoke to become others characterless.
guys never ever marry a girl who had many past relations... cuz of the fact that she had slept around random guys...
women who can't even control their sexual urges... are definitely not worth it...
it's better to focus on your goals... secure your family first... prioritize self-development over chasing girls which are worth nothing...
always remember a girl who committed to premarital relations will also go for extra marital for sure behind your back... chances are very high...
marry someone who didn't have any past relation... and was loyal to her family.... she will be loyal to the core.
the reality is that a self-made/successful guy who didn't have time for this shit, who remained a virgin... will never accept someone who slept around random guys and got emotionally wasted..
what is left in her now?... this means she never respected marriage... then why marrying her!
There are so many things wrong in this comment 😑😑
@@nupurinamdar6544 For real!
WOWW..SLOW CLAPS PLZ..UR FRAGILE MALE EGO HURTED..ACHA MTLB SHADI SE PEHELE KOI SEX NA KRE?..WOWW
@@coolish3481 if sex is so casual for you u shouldn't be bothered about yours partners extra marital sex..right?? which side of coin you choose has its own advantage & consequences.. men & women have different perspective , expectations, & preference in choosing partner.. & everyone be it man & women has right to do so.. for the last no one is stopping you from having premarital sex its completely your choice but don't impose it on others .. men aren't carry luggage of ur failed relationship with fuckbois
I know where this is coming from but choices of ur words & tone isn't right bro.. its more of judgy & anguished u could have written your point in better way to avoid misjudgement..🙏
Your eyes and eyeball are looking so nice.😍
If someone lied to you about something which mattered alot to you and that too for one of the most important decisions in life. It clearly means that they don't care about you. How can you expect them to be 100% honest when you talk to them about what prompted them to lie. They will just try to convince you even if they have to cook 100 more lies.
A sacred relationship like a marriage can never stand the test of time with a bunch of lies. The most important factor in a marriage or any relationship per se is trust. It is the very foundation. Personally I believe, to take a relationship to the next level involves a lot of trust, and I suggest the trust should be developed strong enough like say Ambuja Cement in order to make a relationship last.
Hum virgin hai esliye hum main virgin girls chahiye
Bhai ladki patao aur maje lo. Virgin ladki dhundhne se to aasan hi hain. Mein bhi pehle tumhari tarah soch ta tha.
@@debanikgoswami4834 bhai agar ak ladki ki choice hai o kuch bhi kare kisi she bhi sex kare to hum boys ka bhi choice hai hum bhi kuch bhi kare virgin girl ke sath rahe ya non virgin girl ke sath ye log kon hote hai hum boys ko judge karne bale to bhai aap ashi ghatiya video ke bato main kabhi mat aana hum boys bhi en saan hai or jine ka hak hum boys ko bhi hai
@@debanikgoswami4834No way. Never. I'm not giving my virginity to someone that belongs to streets. It's not for sale. 😂
@@Bkkji
I and you deserve Virgin.
"A lot of people had premarital sex" is not a justification for the betrayal she have done . Moreover she destroyed the trust that he had in her
Your comment is a very good example of 'people hear what they want to hear'.
I mentioned multiple times that she was wrong, empathised, even suggested divorce as the last resort. but well....'preception can be more powerful than reality'.
Gonna pin your comment to the top for a while...because it teaches a very important lesson about 'communication' :)
@@SmileWithPrachi exactly what I was thinking like where this comment came from! You even told several times that it is not a justification. You clearly mentioned it but still some people !! Oh God.
@@olivamodak1724 in the very beginning itself she said that .. watch the video properly.
@@Gaminfystar I didn't say she didn't say that sentence. She didn't say ONLY that sentence. And she didn't even make that an excuse.
@@olivamodak1724 there was no need for that sentence cause , the man had already said he wants a virgin so why the hell she needs to say so many people are doing it , it doesn't applies to that particular guy
Hi dee...your work is amazing... Please keep this up and one day you will have a million people who will have a the same thinking and thought process as yours. 😊😊
how kind of you Shruti!
though quite honestly, the aim is not to make people think like 'me'... just encourage people to ask questions to this society, and think logically before taking any actions :)
@@SmileWithPrachi Yes true🤗🤗
this girl is stupid. but she will learn once she hit the age of 35 - if you really want to learn about relationships you should listen to - Louise Perry or Mary Harrington or Jordan Peterson the best you can do is to develop critical thinking and no one able to fool you.
And for Google, i respect your choices.. but here is a glitch you should know about in case you're opting for a new marriage. There are still a lot of "virgin" girls who had gone very far in their physical relationship without even doing that 'act'. Like of course a virgin girl might have possibly engaged herself in other form of intimacy like oral or the unnatural A-sex. (I've known many girls who did this). and she can still lie about it and maybe this time you would never know. Find yourself a girl whom you can trust.. who won't lie to you no matter what. You're a mature man and a wise one, make a decision wisely.
Virginity ≠ hymen ..its state of having sexual experience with consent..hymen breakage,rape doesn't take away someone's Virginity..also evolutionary scientific pov "oxytocin burnout" is a real thing..ppl with multiple parteners aren't statically loyal to committed monogamous relationship ..so men & female brain evolved in such way..men brain think of premarital sex same as female think of post marital sex ...so Google has either need to compromise with similar expection from his wife, divorse, or use it as a card which i see many men doing nowadays in personal experience i.e. making extra marital affair in hookups as men having little advantages in that in compare to directly seeking devorse..
@@maggieenjoyer2141 Oh finally someone who understands the infamous "Oxytocin burnout". It has been proven scientifically, but still people engage in it. I ain't against premarital sex, but against casual hookups or ons.
Then those aren't virgin girls. They had sex.
The girl is lier which is very bad
Virginity is not about hymen only 40% have hymen intact till their first time if she is engaged in sexual activity then she isn't virgin
There are private premarital detectives...
Second letter :- somehow I agree with Prachi Di's each and every word 100% but Because society and parents do pressurise girls on some things ! I can tell you my perspective! I'm 29 ( still a virgin no problem there ) never been into proper relationship as well but I have cut marks on my hand anyone will think and people do think that it could be because of guys or relationships or these kinda stuff nobody thinks that it could be due to my mother due to my terrible childhood abuse which is still going on bdw ... it is due to that because according to Indian society parents can't be wrong right ?
My male friends usually tell me " apni Ram kahaniya na sunane baith jaiyo don't tell guys about your past because later on they will taunt you when there will be fights nobody usually understands and trust me telling from my own personal experience nobody actually understands! I myself was talking to a guy for marriage and I told him about my past and earlier he was like oh why are you not taking stand for yourself it is abuse blah blah blah ... and later on he said something really disgusting ( double meaning thing objectifying me honestly) which was not at all acceptable he taunted me on my family issues !! Trust me if I'll get married I do want to share everything with my future husband but the question is how would I ? I don't have any choice but hiding it ... my male friend told me everyone will think you are wrong unless you spend time with the guy and later on he can judge you that you are not a bad person ! But people can think I am mad since I had cut marks ! Every single day I think about it how will I hide what should I do and blah blah I am even undergoing laser treatments and trust me it is extremely painful still the marks are not going what should I do ? Is it my fault that I have been abused will people actually understand very very less chances specially in arrange marriages
Please talk to you wife about this in detail without judging her once if she has no regrets or she actually wanted to tell you things talk it out and then take proper decisions!
I can also sound wrong to you I know !
I also crave for a partner and a loving family and I don't want my past to ruin it too ! ( a girl can also thinks like that at least I think like that ) please have a detail conversation with her and then decide and follow what Prachi Di has mentioned! 🙏🏻 wishing you all the best ! 🙏🏻
Hey can I ask how long your cut marks lasted for? When was the last time you self -harmed? Is laser treatment working? How costly? Cause my friend has cuts
Didi Shen I started doing it when I was 17 .. around 2010,2011,2012 ... and once or twice in 2017 .. half of my left hand is filled with scars .. and they are still there
When you talk about scars it can't be removed permanently not even pitted acne scars and they are cut marks !
They can get reduced not removed completely!
I have took 7 sessions till date and still haven't seen a visible result
Since in my area the doctor is new so he is charging me 1000 per sitting
But I went to dermats earlier also so one dermat told 2500 per sitting and then after few months same doc told me 6000 per session .. it even depends the depth of the cuts and how many are there .. the area of the skin ... since my doc is charging 1000 only so I have no problem in continuing the treatment
I'll take 5-6 more
Even Prachi Di once asked me to share pics of my hand once the treatment will be fully done .
But then also it won't be possible for other people because one can't undergo so many sittings practically it does cost huge amount but still I'll share ..
other thing the dermat I went earlier he just want to make more money because his wife was telling him to do without numbing cream and charge 4000 per session from me but he was like no no it is very imp to apply numbing cream and charging 2k extra for it but in reality the numbing cream just costs 650rs and can be used upto 6 sittings again depending upon the area of scars !! You can do this as well if your doctor says something like this .. I did first 4 sittings without numbing cream it was bearable for me ! Again saying after 7 sittings still I have not seen prominent results ! Depends scars to scars and healing of person's body ! Hope it helps sorry for such long one but explain everything in detail so !
So sorry to know this.
Have you considered tattoos? Something with a beautiful meaning?
Also please sign up for therapy, you have been through a lot.
Self harm marks seldom go away entirely, and will always be viewed with a lot of judgement. Tattoo can cover them up entirely ::)
Smile With Prachi I guess now I can't go for tattoo the area is large and my friend had a tattoo and then she can't go for laser over her tattoo area and I already have undergone 7 sittings of CO2 ... but I am not getting prominent results honestly ! They are still the same even after 7 sessions !
@Vrinda Sharma thank you 🙂. I hope you have a happy life and are free from your past troubles 😃
Dear Yahoo the last line of your letter sounds a bit off... "How could she do this to me, all for a guy".. what if it goes like, " How could you do that to her all for a guy?". Maintain a certain distance sweetie.. things change after a duo comes in relationship.. you need to respect their boundaries. ngl but "I'll come and watch over you again in 10 minutes" sounds a bit controlling.
I was waiting so happy to see you and listen your voice 😊
Yahoo, Remember the Sis Code ❤️✨
Thank you so much, Prachi. I always thought I was wrong and blamed my boyfriend for spoiling my friendship with my best friend. But she did and said things very mean and told my mom about my relationship and much more and then my boyfriend was the one who was with me throughout and didn't leave. I moved on and accepted the fact that my boyfriend will actually move mountains to be with me and make me happy and on the other hand there is my best friend who tried her level best to ruin my relationship.
Still, there were times I missed her and messaged her on her birthday and her parent's birthday and all and there was no response from her end or a very bland response I used to feel that I ruined this friendship and when we were fighting I even told her that "ek baar bolti usse problem hai tere liye usko (BF) ko chod deti"
After seeing this video I am actually relieved and kind off feel good that I let go of a toxic friend and that friendship is important but not equal to relationships and things change after being in a relationship
Also, I've been in a relationship for 5 and a half years now, and hopefully, we're going to get married soon!
Ho gai shaadi usse 2 saal baad ya breakfast 😅
Your examples are truly amazing! You opened up a whole new perspective of analyzing situations.
She lied. End of story.
She built her marriage on a lie. She must face consequences.
Hindi tho aati nahi hai
And you should marry a virgin girl in context of a boy and a girl should marry a virgin boy
Because in my family a happy couple life is destroyed because of this reason
So guys don't go for a broad minded thing and make your future hell
Prachi di, I really want to thank you for making such beautiful videos. Your videos helped me to come in terms with my past and work for the future. I wish, u always stay the same, as u r now, and guide us in finding solution to our problems. Lots of love, di🤗❤️
Hey google, just divorce this woman. She belongs to the streets. From the streets she has come and to the streets she will return.
Be it girl or boy who were in relationship I suppose they were fully conscious of what they were doing. Now after break up they suddenly go for arrange marraige and see the financial prospects. Think logically if a person was busy building career he/ she cannot have time for relationship. Office, work out, study , hobby etc. In totality making 24 hrs a day . So career oriented people avoid relationships and start looking for arrange marraige. Now problem arises when these love marraige believers start doing arrange marraige. Why? U have to do love so don't have the right to spoil someone other's emotions who was working ass off. You wanted to love marraige it failed go for another but don't come for arrange...
*I have proudly rejected five non-virgin girls on their face in front of their whole family.* Now, I'm going to marry a most beautiful girl who is also virgin like me.
*Yes, a virgin guy has every right to choose a virgin wife only.*
Asking anything you want from a potential partner can't be declared wrong. It's your prerogative. But can you clarify what you meant by "rejecting in front of family"??
👏🏻 hope I also get a virgin wife like yours as I'm also saving myself for marriage!
Same thing happen to me , I was talking to this girl and suddenly after sometime she confessed that she isn’t virgin and also have taken contraception pills 😂😂.. when I stopped talking to her , she was raging over me that how can I be reject one just about her past😂😂.. I am a virgin and I want virgin woman that’s it . End of conversation
I want to add for teenagers , that choose whats temporary first i feel the freedom for frenship BEING single is different and temporary , Married life is longer comparitivly and permenant ., Njoy it ❣
I feel bad for guys like Google 😢😢😢 Our laws don't protect our ordinary innocent men.
Suggestion for Google, even if you like her the relationship that you have with her is based on a lie.
End it and you will find the peace of your mind 😌😌
First writer- Maybe I am thinking too deep but looks like you don't really like this, I mean your two best friends coming together thus making each other their priorities must not feel very nice and no one can really help you with that and I will suggest to just suck it up I mean you are only 15 yr olds, relationships are very short lived in that age. Try distracting yourself with other friends or talk to them and maybe you all can work out some time arrangements like at night, only the couple will talk and in the evening the guy and you can. Also, I think the girlfriend needs to grow up too but you can always be the bigger person. Also, you can do this lil thing that you pass comments to the girlfriend like " no matter what you will be his no.1 girl" which might make her feel secure.
@@vishakha38 I disagree, I actually knows girls who are completely fine with this type of setting, if anyone has to do so little to make you insecure then there's something wrong with your relationship too.
@@vishakha38 Prachi actually never said the girlfriend is right, she could be. But she could be jealous in some areas, we don't know. Also, they are 15 so I highly doubt anyone is being reasonable here you can't expect maturity from kids.
@@vishakha38 I wanna make one thing clear to, I am not supporting the writer, I do think she's more at wrong here by borderline flirting but I know that if I were in the girlfriend's place, I would be a lil more chill that's all.
@@vishakha38 Kids do adult things nowadays but that doesn't mean they are mature about it, I think you are reading too deep into it. Everyone is right from their own pov, even the writer thinks she's right.
Notification made me realize today is Saturday
haha!
What Ms Prachi is extremely right, Indian laws are extremely biased in case of Divorce...
She belongs to street... Just throw her out of the house that u built with your hard earned money
NO SEAL
NO DEAL
Just so beautiful..!! Each and every word said has deep meaning ❤
It's not about virginity It's about paying for a car that others have driven for free.
Ask yourself do you really want to pay full for a used car?
It's not just about virginity. It's about the experience.
If a man is a virgin why not want a virgin wife?
Would you be ok with a used pen that has lost half of the ink?
Remember the first touch is something that you remember forever. Will you be okay knowing that the other guy has drenched her emotionally.
And a woman loses the ability to give emotions to her new man. Every time she gets with a new man she only has half of what she had given to her previous man.
Chose wisely.
Remember it's okay to want a virgin wife.
Cutaway from these pseudo feminists who do their deeds and want the moral high ground and call a virgin man wanting a virgin wife as a Misogynistic pig.
Word brother
It's ok if someone wants a virgin...but in that case even the man should be a virgin...he should not be sleeping around and asking for a virgin wife...isn't it hypocrisy
@@akshitasinha4594 exactly very well said!
@@akshitasinha4594 A short woman can ask for tall man and a broke / stay at home woman can ask for a wealthy husband
so a non-virgin man asking for virgin man isn't that much hypo-critic is it ?
Spoken like a true alpha brother. A man who has stood by his moral code & reserved sexual intimacy for his wife & her alone deserves a chaste girl....Guys like us do exist... it's a choice we make & it definitely isn't a hypocritical stand.
Yahoo... they say that a boy and a guy cannot be best friends. I think this is somewhat true except if you are truly like brother and sister.
Also, the girl wants her boyfriend to be there for her but instead he is "protecting" you by telling his male friends to stay away.
Why do you have to tell him to sleep? His is supposed to talk to his girlfriend at night.
If my boyfriend had a female friend, I would feel really insecure. I don't think I would have been able to continue the relationahip.
Lol very funny
There is nothing to feel insecure,it is very very common for a best friend to say all these and if the girlfriend has a problem with this,then it's her problem not his
And in which book is it written that a guy is supposed to talk to his girlfriend at night and not his best friend?
Don't you tell your besties to sleep on time at night?
Or you make a gender discrimination and choose your friends based on their gender?
If your man has good intentions,he will be yours forever no matter what happens
What a pathetic thinking you have...a boy and a girl can't be friends.. seriously..yeah one can say that they are too young and immature to handle everything..
@@proozie9183 haven't you heard what Prachi didi said? Didn't you listen to her examples?
Moreover, in another video, she had also said that the thing about a boy and a girl not being able to be best friends and that one of them will always catch feelings is somewhat true.
@@aprajitamishra5082, Haven't you listened to what Prachi said?
I also remember her saying in another video that when they say a girl and a boy cannot be best friends, they are somewhat right.
Disha..no I haven't heard her saying tbh .and if she said that then..I literally doesn't agree with her opinion..coz she is approving that 3rd class bollywood mentality..
If she lie to boy , she doesn’t deserve the boy, you teach wrong mam that boy have to compromise with his feelings
Divorced......end of story.
😍tq prachi didi❤❤importantly that first letter.. Last month.. A girl who had crush on my bf called him (they were clsmates in past) and they spoke one hour.. And then he called me and said that she had called.. And also he mentioned one line that girl said "Don't forget me" My emotions started going out of control and I said him "I did not like this" and after a while things sorted out.. But till today I was thinking that I was worng.. But didi.. You gave amazing advice.. Its natural of me to feel that way.. Thank you soo much❤❤
Prachi di I was a good student everyone use to praise me but now I am unable to study and now no one thinks I am a not good studies and praise me this is depression 😞😞😞😞😞
Being a student, let me tell you STUDY FOR YOURSELF. Don't study for people's praises. I assume you are very young and I understand you have a lot of pressure from family friends relatives etc. Dont let that bother you. Study for yourself because in the end no matter you do people are gonna talk abt u( if u r studious they say padhaku nerd etc if not then they think you r dumb)
@@nsp8712 soo true
@@nsp8712 Thankyou so much sister 👍
Idk why but ur videos provide me a sense of relief..
Take divorce. Ask her the definition of marriage form her point of view. She doesn't respect you. She is even dangerous for you in future.
Divorce is the only option to get rid off such wives.
Google, I was in a long distance relation and my bf has cheated on me. He confronted me after few months and apologized all by himself.
I was angry and felt cheated at first. But I know he was the one I loved so much and he was never into relationships except me.
We are married for 3 years. I sometimes think about it whenever I am very angry but I also forget about all those. I never asked him anything about that other than what was his intentions and he said, he did it because of friend's pressure. And I knew how his friends were. Now he doesn't talk to those set of friends because he know it costed our relationship.
So all I want to say is, Let her know what you have felt and gone through and if she is worth, keep her.
I kicked out those snakes a long time back. Nothing is more important to me than my fiancée and my relationship with her.
I disagree.
Male and female have different take on sex with other people.
Thank you for all these learnings!❤️
if she was honest before marriage I will think if I can accept or not because I don't want to be in a doubt full , insecure, getting emotionally broken when I knew her past after marriage , as a strong men I will devource and marry who another that's it I don't give a fuck
Divorce is a very good decision.
Whatever you said this can't acceptable and tolerate , if girl doesn't been a virgin , there is no wrong a Virgin boy expect a virgin girl , her virginity determine her character , ok i accept some your words but she should be say all the truth before her marriage , if groom accepted then doesn't matter , she get cheated by her ex or whoever but she should not cheat her future husband , some men's are open minded minded but not all , she will did lie and marry him after he will know this then she will be get pinch better she should said her all past truth to her future hubby , And this is mine and my expectations al, anyway thank you your video's helps me a lot to know the peoples and too there is nothing groom get dowry from bride ...
I really respect you prachi
Because you are being a real human being rather than being a toxic feminist.
You understand story of both sides
Prachi what is this location in the introduction. Awesome view ❤️will soon watch the video . Thank you