Dude this is total crap. Accountability matters. She lied to him straight up. She did all the wrong things and still had the audacity to play the victim. The topic of nudes comes way later. She chose to indulge in that activity. This happens when girls don't have any fatherly figures in their life. Men are equally to be blamed.
Why only girl has to prove their credibility? Wasn't the boy involved ? And she was not able to convince her parents for their marriage . And u are blaming her for lying ? Had she straight up said that would guy had accepted her ?
@@garimaarya4665 This is why it matters to keep your virginity for that special spouse in your life. This goes for both men and women. In this case the woman and her ex knew very will what they did, but unfortunately Brown Communities are the best in raising the worst twisted people with the twisted moral compass---- thus most women have no brains and most men have no spine.
That is a lie. White lie. On paper, adultery is not allowed but, be honest to yourself and answer this question honestly, are people not doing it? They hide it, that is another matter but, they still do it. Do they not? Stop lying to yourself please. Our society keeps lying to themselves. This is the biggest issue why we are what we are. I am living outside Pakistan for 8 years and I swear I have never seen more hypocrite people than Pakistanis and the root cause is that, we keep lying to ourselves
Never accept the girl who has the compromised past, you will regret your whole life and this bull shit ex can come at any point and black mail you and her.
So what are you saying is that having sex with boyfriend is a norm nowadays and future husbands shouw know that his wife must have sex with someone else. Otherwise she is not from this world. What the hell are you promoting? Hamari society ko Western society banane mein in jaise content creators ka bht bara hath hai
When in our society guys are sexually active then why not women? Staying celibate all your life is not natural. Its one thing if you got married early enough, thats fine. But if you wait until marriage when you are in your 40s chances are guys have had fun already. Then why not girls. Expecting a vestial virigin is naive. At least in the west people are open about everything.
Having a past or past experience isn't a bad thing. It makes you wiser, empathetic, and broader in your outlook. Whether we let it make us these things or just wounded and burdened is something we choose down the line. Experience isn't about sexuality. It is more than that. Having said all this, I'll never marry while I'm still yet to heal and burdened by my past. Likewise, wont accept an wounded soul because that'll be a raw deal for me. But having a past should be okay is my opinion.
junaid bhai abhi last video main aap bol rhay the k hamari awam ka sb se bara maska yeah hai k jgha nahi milti.... likn yahan aap bolrhay han k dabba pack available nahi market main... tou jgha na milnay k bawajood b yeah dabbay khul kahan rhay han
That ex saved him. Run away from these women tbh. She isn't afraid to lose you she just doesn't have another option. He was clear from the start.also adultery isn't good, if a women isn't a virgin on the night of marriage the chances of a happy marriage goes from 80 percent to a 20 percent.
you are just playing one side, what if it was opposite scenario, like if men betray his fiance, we all know that the whole video would be completely different in the seek of gender equality, we have gone too far that we are crushing basic rights of men now. ultimately, these thing will continue to happen then and might will become even more worst
@@nabeelmunir1491 let me explain you a real recent incident of my uncle, after 40 years of marraige, his wife forcefully took divorced from him after constantly torturing him (mentally and physically) and threw him off from his house (as he made his wife the owner of house at the time of merraige and now he has nothing left and no body cares and he is now abondand, court also gave decision in the favour of his wife and he has nowhere left to go now read it and there are many more examples where where men also face many many difficulties but because they are 'men' so they don't tell, express and obviously don't get fair trail
must must and must accept the girl, give her honor and respect....pass few months with her, and judge her honestly then decide ----- you have the option to divorce ---may be at this critical time she needs you
Agreed if the guy fully accepts her, she will always stand by him, respect him and have his back for life. This means fully moving on and forgetting about it.
Lmao brother your advice is all twisted. The fact that you are not even talking about the root cause while subtly accepting that having sex out of marriage is okay, don't accept the guy taking pictures or send nudes without your face You have a platform where you can influence people and as a Muslim some responsibility falls upon you to send the right message. Kids listen to you and you should take that into your equation while sending a message
@@Awal-l3e brother what if the guy is not muslim and what if he /she is from different religion or sect ,so thats y he's giving a total worldview perception please keep your islamic agenda with u
What type of advice is this. I would never trust anyone who lied to me about such things let alone getting married to him. Not sure what are you trying to say here. Plus saying that almost everyone has had sex before marriage and not being Dubba pack is a lie. Please do not play with youngsters and their minds. There are still good people and it’s only a minority who is ok with this behaviour
cyber crime kuch nain karta. Even UK police does nothing. Its worst form of blackmail ever. DONT go to police, action fraud or anyone. Even banks wont help. Pakistani cyber crime never reply back and blackmail continues. Badmaashi mahool hai UK aur Pakistan mein
Typical feministic answer from him. The girl lied from the beginning. Marriages started on lies could never be successful. Also, I can bet the girl is still mentally attached to her ex. She's just using him to escape the situation. It's the saying. Nice guy always finishes last.
He is not talking about adultery. He is talking about one's own past and the partner's past. And how to come to terms with it. In fact, he clarified that having a past is not the same as adultery in a (current) relationship. 🌺 🌿
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Dude this is total crap. Accountability matters. She lied to him straight up. She did all the wrong things and still had the audacity to play the victim. The topic of nudes comes way later. She chose to indulge in that activity.
This happens when girls don't have any fatherly figures in their life. Men are equally to be blamed.
Why only girl has to prove their credibility? Wasn't the boy involved ? And she was not able to convince her parents for their marriage . And u are blaming her for lying ? Had she straight up said that would guy had accepted her ?
@@garimaarya4665 This is why it matters to keep your virginity for that special spouse in your life. This goes for both men and women. In this case the woman and her ex knew very will what they did, but unfortunately Brown Communities are the best in raising the worst twisted people with the twisted moral compass---- thus most women have no brains and most men have no spine.
If someone lied once, then in future also he/she will. Remember that always.
Iam an introvert men I never heard that these things happens in our society I just focus on my career never want trow these foolish things
Alhamdulillah,we live in a society where adultery is ❌
That is a lie. White lie. On paper, adultery is not allowed but, be honest to yourself and answer this question honestly, are people not doing it? They hide it, that is another matter but, they still do it. Do they not? Stop lying to yourself please. Our society keeps lying to themselves. This is the biggest issue why we are what we are. I am living outside Pakistan for 8 years and I swear I have never seen more hypocrite people than Pakistanis and the root cause is that, we keep lying to ourselves
Never accept the girl who has the compromised past, you will regret your whole life and this bull shit ex can come at any point and black mail you and her.
What abt boys with a past ? Is that totally fine?
You’re right dear brother. Talha bhai.
Uzii
Lol toxic much. Both genders can have a past. Its all about being open and letting future partner know about it.
So what are you saying is that having sex with boyfriend is a norm nowadays and future husbands shouw know that his wife must have sex with someone else. Otherwise she is not from this world.
What the hell are you promoting? Hamari society ko Western society banane mein in jaise content creators ka bht bara hath hai
When in our society guys are sexually active then why not women? Staying celibate all your life is not natural. Its one thing if you got married early enough, thats fine. But if you wait until marriage when you are in your 40s chances are guys have had fun already. Then why not girls. Expecting a vestial virigin is naive.
At least in the west people are open about everything.
Having a past or past experience isn't a bad thing. It makes you wiser, empathetic, and broader in your outlook. Whether we let it make us these things or just wounded and burdened is something we choose down the line. Experience isn't about sexuality. It is more than that. Having said all this, I'll never marry while I'm still yet to heal and burdened by my past. Likewise, wont accept an wounded soul because that'll be a raw deal for me. But having a past should be okay is my opinion.
junaid bhai abhi last video main aap bol rhay the k hamari awam ka sb se bara maska yeah hai k jgha nahi milti.... likn yahan aap bolrhay han k dabba pack available nahi market main... tou jgha na milnay k bawajood b yeah dabbay khul kahan rhay han
That ex saved him. Run away from these women tbh. She isn't afraid to lose you she just doesn't have another option. He was clear from the start.also adultery isn't good, if a women isn't a virgin on the night of marriage the chances of a happy marriage goes from 80 percent to a 20 percent.
you are just playing one side, what if it was opposite scenario, like if men betray his fiance, we all know that the whole video would be completely different
in the seek of gender equality, we have gone too far that we are crushing basic rights of men now. ultimately, these thing will continue to happen then and might will become even more worst
How are the men right violated here? What rights of men are violated?
@@nabeelmunir1491 let me explain you a real recent incident of my uncle, after 40 years of marraige, his wife forcefully took divorced from him after constantly torturing him (mentally and physically) and threw him off from his house (as he made his wife the owner of house at the time of merraige and now he has nothing left and no body cares and he is now abondand, court also gave decision in the favour of his wife and he has nowhere left to go
now read it and there are many more examples where where men also face many many difficulties but because they are 'men' so they don't tell, express and obviously don't get fair trail
must must and must accept the girl, give her honor and respect....pass few months with her, and judge her honestly then decide ----- you have the option to divorce ---may be at this critical time she needs you
Agreed if the guy fully accepts her, she will always stand by him, respect him and have his back for life. This means fully moving on and forgetting about it.
Lmao brother your advice is all twisted. The fact that you are not even talking about the root cause while subtly accepting that having sex out of marriage is okay, don't accept the guy taking pictures or send nudes without your face
You have a platform where you can influence people and as a Muslim some responsibility falls upon you to send the right message. Kids listen to you and you should take that into your equation while sending a message
He's not here to talk about religion. You have scholars for that. He's here to give a world view. Religion and worldview isn't the same thing
Why does he need to be a scholar to hold someone accountable for sending the wrong message? Islam has a worldview, it's not just namaz and rozay
@@Awal-l3e brother what if the guy is not muslim and what if he /she is from different religion or sect ,so thats y he's giving a total worldview perception please keep your islamic agenda with u
What type of advice is this. I would never trust anyone who lied to me about such things let alone getting married to him. Not sure what are you trying to say here. Plus saying that almost everyone has had sex before marriage and not being Dubba pack is a lie. Please do not play with youngsters and their minds. There are still good people and it’s only a minority who is ok with this behaviour
I would appreciate your optimistic mindset.
How to contact junaid akram?
cyber crime kuch nain karta. Even UK police does nothing. Its worst form of blackmail ever. DONT go to police, action fraud or anyone. Even banks wont help. Pakistani cyber crime never reply back and blackmail continues. Badmaashi mahool hai UK aur Pakistan mein
*Thumbnail mein message ki timeline 2003 likha hai, even the WhatsApp wasn't launched at that time* 😂
My honest opinion virgins go with virgins period. A divorced goes with a divorced. A widow goes with a widow
Ye ghatya shakhs ye bhool jata ha ke khuda bi kisi zumre he, is trah ke relations rkhne waqt khuda ka khoof kyun nahi aata
great Junaid Bhai
Hya emaan k hissa hey
Deen sey bohet doori hochuki hey
Opposite gender sey k sey koi rishta hoskta hey
Not boyfriend girl friend
I WOULD SAY the Ex is a Big Simp
he still saved a brother. W ex
@@arty7673 A win is a win
Totally poor advice.
Chorh dy bndi bhai wrna ye scene chlta rahega
Hypocritical answer
Jab larkiya batatin hain to husband baad main taane deta hay
Krne k zarorat hi kya ha
When I will go to junet and marry virgen woman
1st comment
you are play one side . you are wrong
ok he plays one side and could be wrong as well but urdu mein likh le bhai nahi ho raha agar 😌
@@wa5ayy😂
Marry her …
Typical feministic answer from him. The girl lied from the beginning. Marriages started on lies could never be successful. Also, I can bet the girl is still mentally attached to her ex. She's just using him to escape the situation. It's the saying. Nice guy always finishes last.
You are normalizing adultery mr ganji swag and which is very wrong
How, he doesn't say anything like that to commit adultry
He is not talking about adultery. He is talking about one's own past and the partner's past. And how to come to terms with it. In fact, he clarified that having a past is not the same as adultery in a (current) relationship. 🌺 🌿