How Your Childhood Affects Your Femininity || FIERCELY FEMININE

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  • @kiberwalise1357
    @kiberwalise1357 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Michelle, when God calls you home one day and you stand before the throne of judgement, when you'll be asked what you did on Earth, just say that you had a TH-cam channel called "Dr Michelle Daf" that alone will be enough. You don't probably know how much your light shines brighter to all of us and how you inspire. May God bless you and keep you. I'm typing this from Rwanda 🇷🇼

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Hi love aww what kind words thank you so much for saying that. My prayer is that you can all shine bright too with the love of Christ. Wow from Rwanda? Incredible! 🩷🤍 God bless you babe 💕✨✨✨

    • @antanicewilliams3690
      @antanicewilliams3690 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Trust me ...She has no idea her reach!!!🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸

    • @ladytodd6407
      @ladytodd6407 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jimj

    • @ladytodd6407
      @ladytodd6407 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drmichelledafI’m j😅 12:26 to

    • @ladytodd6407
      @ladytodd6407 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hhh bb😢

  • @krissykimono
    @krissykimono ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My cousin and I were just speaking about how our childhoods the other day. And I realized how stuck I’ve been for years. There was so much trauma and pain. I am so happy for my recent conversion the Christianity. Nothing has helped me begin to heal more than developing a relationship with god. He placed me in a better place so that I could recover. It’s a long road, but he’ll be there with me along the way.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praise God 🩷 Yes it's true. Nothing else can grant you what God can. I am so thankful that you are born into a new life now. Thank you for sharing 🌊

    • @terrencepeterson9669
      @terrencepeterson9669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is beautifully put. I am going through the exact same. I wish you the best. 💗

  • @tisha9970
    @tisha9970 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As someone who experienced foster care, neglect & abuse this meant the world. Its so nice to be reminded that we are worthy. Our childhood was not our responsibility & that alone is healing. Thank you for your foster care awareness as well! 🤗🥰

    • @DK-eu2op
      @DK-eu2op 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @marissamarlett1346
    @marissamarlett1346 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You really know everything! This his deep. All your videos do. Down to getting a B-, C in school, my car and phone would be taken. Then I had to find a way to school. Usually my dad who then was late for work and didn't live with us. I couldn't do my homework until chores were finished and I had to start working at 16 so coming home from work at 1am and doing homework then being told homework don't take that long in up doing other stuff. And having to leave by 5:30am to make it to school. And not being allowed to sleep in on the weekends, because I was wasting the day and had to clean the house. You are talking about all this and understanding everything! Thank you so much. My mentality has changed so much in the last week or so that I found you. My husband is noticing and really happy for me. I noticed he is more calm as well. ❤

  • @ayushmitachakraborty3414
    @ayushmitachakraborty3414 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My heart is aching. I feel hurt again. It took so much courage to watch the full video. Pray for me.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I prayed for you and you are so brave to have watched it all. May you rest in the Lords healing 💕

  • @ThiaChiammy
    @ThiaChiammy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The therapy/therapist I didn't know I needed 😩.
    Dear God, please help and heal me🥺🙏🏾
    Thank you very much Dr, Daf

  • @tigistwoya2336
    @tigistwoya2336 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is not just a TH-cam channel it’s a ministry!!!! Keep shining God’s love!!!! I love love listening to your videos may God bless you with every blessing!!!!!!

  • @MsWillita8
    @MsWillita8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This message is so timely and goes with the book I am reading, The Body Keeps The Score. I will be having my first child in January and I am really working on being overall healthy to be the best mom I can be ❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ahh how do you like the book? I'm considering it for my book club. Congratulations love. I am praying you can be the most beautiful and healed mother 🩷✨🤍

    • @MsWillita8
      @MsWillita8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@drmichelledaf I don’t know where to start, without giving it away. It’s definitely helping me to understand how trauma physiologically changes the brain, and not in a good way. If you are going to do a book club, I highly recommend it.
      Today’s video gave me more perspective and understanding about things the author mentioned regarding childhood trauma.
      Listening to your video has helped me to understand my mom better. I’m going to send her this video.
      Thanks for being intentional with your topics 😊

    • @torianichole831
      @torianichole831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve been planning on reading that!

  • @lorrainejohnson2425
    @lorrainejohnson2425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Michelle I remember when I came across you 9 years ago when I was in an toxic relationship and God saved me to take me on a journey of healing and transformation I’m so proud of the woman of faith you have become it was the best decision of my life and I’m making that decision to believe I deserve to be happy because of the Jesus we serve. God bless your ministry to help others like me❤

  • @terrencepeterson9669
    @terrencepeterson9669 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your energy is so comforting and light 💗💗💗

  • @micbetancur9131
    @micbetancur9131 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The permission to NOT have to explain yourself really had an impact on me just now

  • @BlessedLPT.
    @BlessedLPT. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please accept this little token. You have been a blessing to me. Thank you so much for your channel. I wish I could get therapy sessions from you as well. I’m currently paying for therapy and felt that the value you give here on YT should be compensated too - as you have played a similar role. ❤

  • @ravironhapi923
    @ravironhapi923 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much for this video Dr Daf 🥰😘😊 thank you for allowing the Lord to use you,l am just halfway through the video and my eyes are being opened to why l sometimes act the way l do,l sincerely hope you continue making videos of this nature ,we really need them in our journey of femininity

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are most welcome honey. That is good! Yes have more to come. 💕

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "We belong in here with the world" love that it's very true

  • @floweryvanilla1064
    @floweryvanilla1064 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i cant waitttttt for the next video alreadyyy we healing healing this season yessssss

  • @KarineAlourde
    @KarineAlourde ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so comforting and beautiful! Wow 🥺 God bless you ❤

  • @marissamarlett1346
    @marissamarlett1346 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 34 and when my mom calls, still, it's a million and one questions. What are you doing, who's all there? I called like 5 times why didn't you answer, etc... over the past years I've become more vague and she's slowed it down. I just can't take being controlled and ultimatums anymore. She interferes with how I parent my kids and I just had to distance myself. Talking to her doesn't help.

  • @iamdominiquealexis
    @iamdominiquealexis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your voice is so therapeutic!!!💚💚💚

  • @ParentingKultur
    @ParentingKultur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thank God for leading me to your channel. You really do speak to my feminine side. Thankyou Michelle.

  • @jemimajanvier4706
    @jemimajanvier4706 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Michelle, I just love your beauty. It is inside and out. I teach Sunday school to the young kids at my church, I recently watched a video of yours ( I can’t remember the name) but it really showed me how I can be more patient with them.

  • @veronicawilliams1957
    @veronicawilliams1957 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @Dr. Daf-God bless you for this content! It is so in depth and you were so gentle in your delivery. Thank you. This level of healing-content is rare. I love you as my sister in Christ ❤💎

  • @officiallyKES
    @officiallyKES ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My first ever comment BUT I have been a huge student of yours for YEARS. Everything said in this video was exactly what I needed. You have no idea how much you have blessed my entire life. I thank God for you. Thank you Dr. Daf

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you so much for commenting. I am blessed to hear this. Thank you for your support over the years 🩷

  • @nmesomaihunna801
    @nmesomaihunna801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    7mins in and I already know it’s going to be so gooddd❤️

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching love 💕

  • @daniellarodriguezperez8079
    @daniellarodriguezperez8079 ปีที่แล้ว

    I listened to this podcast yesterday and it touched me so deeply. I have been reflecting on my childhood and behaviors and deeply ingrained negative thought patterns that have permeated my thinking. As a young Christian, I keep reading the Bible and asking God for forgiveness and real change. I want real peace, real love, and a healthy relationship with myself. This video has encouraged me to keep changing the ''old me'' I want to be the woman God created me to be. Thanks Dr. Michelle

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so happy to hear that it touched you love. If you are born again then you have the Holy Spirit living inside of you. He is the one who empowers you to change. You don't have to do it alone. Just listen to the promptings of God and trust that He will do all that He promised in you. Blessings and love you to 💋

    • @daniellarodriguezperez8079
      @daniellarodriguezperez8079 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drmichelledaf thank you for your words of encouragement

  • @Caroline-vi2ck
    @Caroline-vi2ck 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just listened to this a few days ago & have listened a couple of times since. Such powerful words, so beautiful & so helpful. It’s so, so kind of you to provide such an amazing ‘service’ here on TH-cam & I would like to thank you very much 🙏

  • @SheRahMusic
    @SheRahMusic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thank God for finding this account!✨ I’m very happy and I feel him when you deliver his message and knowledge

  • @Christine-kj3os
    @Christine-kj3os ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an ANGEL. Thank your for your fellowship. You are a blessing to us all. God bless you and your family 🩷🩷🩷

  • @arixelle7859
    @arixelle7859 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girll... Im loving that thumbnail💗💗your curls are always so beautiful

  • @princessm.5989
    @princessm.5989 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful, healing message! God is really using you.

  • @yamiletsoler3464
    @yamiletsoler3464 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Dr. Michelle, I needed this so much and this is such a beautiful gift . Thank you, thank you, thank you.
    I receive Jesus healing! Amen.

  • @angelmarshall2076
    @angelmarshall2076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking stunning as always. Please make videos about dating for us young women.❤

  • @esona6660
    @esona6660 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are god sent sisi i needed this 😢God bless you and your family

  • @elianeaziza954
    @elianeaziza954 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U just a blessing ❤

  • @mariavelasquez4775
    @mariavelasquez4775 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful message. Great articulation and passion toward everything you teach us. Amazing. Thank you!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching love 🩷

  • @khadeeshasingh-mccollin7352
    @khadeeshasingh-mccollin7352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look beautiful Michelle

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much love!

  • @MechelleTube80
    @MechelleTube80 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just found your page and you are so beautiful inside & out❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome love 💕 And thank you so much! I hope it blesses you greatly ✨✨✨

  • @ghazalrad5554
    @ghazalrad5554 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you thank you so much❤🥹

  • @Itssofiz.
    @Itssofiz. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow very informative and eye opening

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @roniil4589
    @roniil4589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sis for this video ❤😊

  • @fanielleahouansou2973
    @fanielleahouansou2973 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video on your makeup . It's just so pretty

  • @chidinwabueze
    @chidinwabueze ปีที่แล้ว

    So good and so on time! ❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching darling 💕💕

  • @ohyeah2269
    @ohyeah2269 ปีที่แล้ว

    Michelle you're gorgeous my girl❤

  • @alycia_t
    @alycia_t 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you. god bless you

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so welcome 💕 God bless you too babe ✨

  • @laurenwilliams8302
    @laurenwilliams8302 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜 Thankyou

  • @katherine_art05
    @katherine_art05 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ thank you! 🙏🏽

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome honey thanks for watching 🤍

  • @bavaayin9574
    @bavaayin9574 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I say yes to healing 😊 in Jesus name

  • @kiariataylor
    @kiariataylor ปีที่แล้ว

    You better do an altar call in the middle of the video!!!! Com in invitation to Jesus. 16:13 I named my Krown of Beauty partially because of that verse Isaiah 61:3, but also Isaiah 62:3. This video must be for me!!!!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you love!

  • @theglowynista7272
    @theglowynista7272 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are most welcome love. Thank you so much sweetie! God bless you!

  • @sylviaarekula8373
    @sylviaarekula8373 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I receive in Jesus Name

  • @SC-trix
    @SC-trix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Thatgeekedchick
    @Thatgeekedchick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kkkk😊

  • @nicolinekumwenda2558
    @nicolinekumwenda2558 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😭😭😭

  • @akuaaddo4809
    @akuaaddo4809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great message! I’ve always wondered how does one confidently and fully know if they’ve been healed? I thought I had fully healed from childhood trauma but as I get older, the feeling of rejection and abandonment ever so often show up 🥹 I just want to move on with my life 😅

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you honey. It's tough when that happens and it can happen for a variety of reasons. Have you ever sought therapy to give you tools on how to handle those feelings when they happen so they don't fester? Have you given your life to Jesus? Sometimes there may need to be deliverance that needs to take place. It all depends but I do pray you receive freedom from those thoughts trying to hold you back.

  • @msmarisadenise
    @msmarisadenise ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome love 🩷

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your super thanks beautiful! God bless you 💋

    • @msmarisadenise
      @msmarisadenise ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drmichelledaf God continue to Bless you in all you do, I’m so grateful for all you share with us here💖