You got this down Girl !!!!! Since 1993 I was with my high quality man until he passed away in 2018 and now I have found another high quality man and am engaged. It took me to 34 years old to learn what I really needed in a man and I am now 62 and very happy!😊😊😊😊
I just wanna command you for being 62 n knowing how YT works. my mom is 20 yrs younger n cant type her whatsapp texts. i completely understand its because of her background but Lady you chose your life n I'm here for that. Thank you
I came out of a toxic relationship 2 yrs ago. I’m excited for the next chapter of my life at the age of 50.. Thank you girl for your wonderful testimony! It has given me new hope ! God bless and congratulations 🎉
1. Responsibility- is he responsible and accountable to their obligations 2. Values and character 3. Emotional maturity and apologize 4. He is an asset -Don't ask for money -Don't ask for you to pay for things -Not expecting you to solve their problems - provide for their family and his immediate family - asset in the community Where to find them 1. They will find you as long as you are a God driven and feminine woman living in your feminine 😊
I remember being shocked when my boyfriend felt immense shame when asking me to pay for gas one time because his card wasn't working, even though *I* was the one asking him to drive me places (he paid me back in cash). You're so right in saying that they only want to give and that taking hurts them. This video makes me appreciate his high quality masculinity more
what you said about cheating is very true I have never cheated or wanted to, FIRST of all because I’m not comfortable sharing myself with another man, I take pride in being loyal. it’s about ME first and then my partner gets to reap the benefits of my loyalty. Second comes the fact that I will obviously love my husband and WANT to be faithful but my sole reason is higher than being about him
This is a great video for those of us who didn't have a masculine influence growing up. My own parents have a dynamic that I've realized for years I don't want for myself. I know it's because my dad lacks many of these masculine traits. Thus, my mother does not get to rest or be in her feminine energy.
Dr. Michelle, I just want to let you know that the Lord blessed me by showing me your videos right before a first date yesterday, and during it I felt so empowered in my femininity! I feel like I turned over a new leaf since watching your content. Thank you 🙏🏻💕
I just sent this video to one of my brothers because one of the traits reminded me exactly of him! And then all my other brothers are so high quality and masculine too! 🥰
I really can’t wait to have you do a video on “red flags” but until then, thank you so much... you’ve been a blessing to my life❤️😍... watching from Nigeria
I’m lucky enough to have found mine at a young age 🥰 we’ve had up’s and downs but we’re really thriving right now. I feel like iv noticed though, since iv sat back into my feminine and im living my authentic life, I seem to run into these men way more often! They still seem rare, but not as much as they used to.. Then I look at some of the masculine women around me and none of them seemed to have ever met a single one, ever. It’s only something iv noticed in the last few months as I was able to socialise again, but it’s so interesting to compare my experiences now vs when I was in my masculine! Love this video and can’t wait for the next one. You look absolutely glowing 💖
Thank you Dr Daf for these insights! I thank the Lord Jesus Christ for allowing me to meet a masculine godly man, I met him during a time in my life when I am not seeking to be more feminine. I am comfortable managing every aspect of my life even in dating, I want to be the one calling the shots because of past hurt and experiences. My attitude affect our relationship and we had some rough times because of it, but he stayed with me and as I saw his commitment, integrity and kindness it allow me to relax and let him lead our relationship. I just know how he takes care of himself and how he takes care of me that I can submit to him. He is different from any man I have dated before, and He is now my fiancee!
Thank you Dr Michelle I love learning from you💛💛 please do a video on how to establish boundaries with respect especially when you’re from a close knit family.
Wow, he is there not to take from you but to give to you. He's here to add to your life. GOLD!! The beauty of the masculine shining at it's full potential! I love this. I also love about surrendering to my feminine. It's the way a true woman needs to embody. And it's the effective way to operate in. Thank you sisterz this is helping melt away the patriarchy's feminism
Hi Dr. Michelle, my name is Diasia and I am 23 years old. I am trying to make the transition to young woman but it isn't easy. I watch your videos a lot and I too am a Christian. My only issue is one day I really want to get married but I feel like it's impossible because I sometimes deal with anxiety and depression. I feel like it takes a whole lot of effort to keep up with your self care, married life and children. That discourages me a lot. Do you have any advice? Thank you for your time, I love your videos. 💖🎀
Hi Diasia! Thank you so much honey 🤍 I'm sorry you're experiencing this. Have you had an opportunity to consult with a therapist for counseling and life strategies to help you?
@@drmichelledaf Yes I have, I just started back with it. I think the initial goal is to try and be whole for myself so that I can put 100% into my marriage. Sometimes I think depression gets in the way and make you feel like the goal is so hard to reach. Your videos help me a whole lot though. Thank you so much ❤🎀
@@diasiacherese8079 Hi Diasia, I can absolutely relate to you. I’m close to your age and I also experience anxiety. I’ve been seeing a therapist for the past 3 months and I’ve developed a lot of coping mechanisms for when I feel anxious. I wish you all the best in your feminine journey, God bless ❤️✨
@@mayadere Wow you are so sweet, thank you sm for taking time out of your day to write me. Therapy helps a lot. I hope everything is working out for you also. God bless you. We should be friends 😁😂
I just subbed because of your femininity-rehab series, I found it very valuable content. I’m already in a relationship but this video is still helpful and conducive to help me focus on the things I still have a tendency to overpower him in, so I can not do that and become more feminine. Thank you. That said, I know it’s a personal flaw that my “flinch” reaction to m4sk comments is to “throw the baby out with the bath water” and not think about the content again. I know I need to have a lot more love, and at the same time I feel very strongly about my wish/hope that people would love God and the truth in His word more… especially coming from His flock. Many blessings.
Very informative video. I always come back to your video because I feel like we are not being taught these things enough. Sometimes it's not a topic well-taught in households and we end up hurt. Thank you for dropping this insightful. I have been having trouble finding people like this and think there are none out there. But like you said, there are, we just need to ask the Lord for discernment.
God bless you from Jamaica for this video, it's funny that the Lord allowed me to see this video at age 41 to let me know that I should always keep these standards even if I never get married again. Let me tell you if I had kept all these standards when I was dating in my teens, I would have still been a virgin. I love my son but I wouldn't have married his dad if I had kept these standards but glory to God, He uses my son to keep me alive on more than one occasion. Thank you so very much Dr. Daf, even though I'm old enough to be your mom, I've been learning a lot from your videos for the last 1.5 years & I'm now walking in my feminine energy again which has drawn these high quality men but sadly, they are not saved & as you know we are not allowed to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Thank you so much again & God bless you, your husband & baby exceedingly, abundantly above ♥️🙏🏽
Thank you Simone! God is so good and always helps us even in trying situations to see the light. I'm so happy you're doing this now and keeping your standards no matter what. The Lord sees you and will honor that because you honor Him. Blessings and love 💋
You are looking so beautiful in this video!! Do you mind sharing the details on your hair? Would really appreciate it!... Thanks always for sharing your immaculate knowledge to us women on our feminine journey! xoxo
I am curious… do you think you can teach an average man how to be a high quality man? I recently ended a relationship with an average man and towards the end of our relationship he told me can I teach him…. I had no desire to do so after many years of dating.
Great question. It's preference but in my opinion, some women don't mind teaching, but find it exhausting and usually met with resentment. I would rather be with a person who knows these things rather than teach because it typically does not work. The best way to teach a man is by how you treat yourself and what you do and do not allow/accept from them. They will either get on board or leave. The kind of men I wish for you to meet are top shelf, brand new, assembled with batteries included...and if you implement everything I teach, you will.
@@drmichelledaf Very well said! Do you think some men have these values but don't always implement them because they've never been pushed back against for not giving 100%? That's why I am learning how to communicate my standards clearly and gracefully... I feel like men are used to having women not expect their best, because a lot of women (at least at my age, mid 20s) are quite desperate for attention and love.
Thank you so much for the quality information ❤️ I myself a high quality man, but he doesn't have a real relationship with Jesus. Now I don't know what to do 😔
what if he had all these characteristics of a high-quality man and then he changed? He started to treat me in some ways that were not high quality.. was he pretending the whole time? Or was he willingly making the choice to treat me badly to "teach me a lesson"... I'm just so confused and hurt :(
That's okay. If you read some comments under this video you'll see there are some ladies who are not young and are on their feminine journey. Femininity doesn't have a age.
@@randomchannel83838 🙂 Don't listen to those *dusties* saying that women hit the wall at 30. They just want the women who are mentally still young so that they can manipulate them and take their v card and ruin their life. They're scared of the wise ladies who won't take their bs. So take pride in whatever wisdom you have and take pride in learning. Edit: I can understand a woman's fertility drops at 30 but men's fertility drops as they age too but clearly that don't stop them from playing games with women so I don't see why a woman can't continue to grow in herself at 30+ when the red pill men continue to grow in their trashy ways at 30+.
You got this down Girl !!!!! Since 1993 I was with my high quality man until he passed away in 2018 and now I have found another high quality man and am engaged. It took me to 34 years old to learn what I really needed in a man and I am now 62 and very happy!😊😊😊😊
💗
I just wanna command you for being 62 n knowing how YT works. my mom is 20 yrs younger n cant type her whatsapp texts. i completely understand its because of her background but Lady you chose your life n I'm here for that. Thank you
I came out of a toxic relationship 2 yrs ago. I’m excited for the next chapter of my life at the age of 50.. Thank you girl for your wonderful testimony! It has given me new hope ! God bless and congratulations 🎉
That is a blessing it's never ever too late. Keep shining love! Thank you for sharing 🤍✨✨✨
Thank you for sharing. My condolences 💐 on the loss of your husband. My best wishes on your engagement and future marriage.
1. Responsibility- is he responsible and accountable to their obligations
2. Values and character
3. Emotional maturity and apologize
4. He is an asset
-Don't ask for money
-Don't ask for you to pay for things
-Not expecting you to solve their problems
- provide for their family and his immediate family
- asset in the community
Where to find them
1. They will find you as long as you are a God driven and feminine woman living in your feminine 😊
I remember being shocked when my boyfriend felt immense shame when asking me to pay for gas one time because his card wasn't working, even though *I* was the one asking him to drive me places (he paid me back in cash). You're so right in saying that they only want to give and that taking hurts them. This video makes me appreciate his high quality masculinity more
You are amazing, eloquent, beautiful, gracious, classy. You make me so proud.
Wow, thank you!
Yes, exactly!
what you said about cheating is very true I have never cheated or wanted to, FIRST of all because I’m not comfortable sharing myself with another man, I take pride in being loyal. it’s about ME first and then my partner gets to reap the benefits of my loyalty. Second comes the fact that I will obviously love my husband and WANT to be faithful but my sole reason is higher than being about him
This is a great video for those of us who didn't have a masculine influence growing up. My own parents have a dynamic that I've realized for years I don't want for myself. I know it's because my dad lacks many of these masculine traits. Thus, my mother does not get to rest or be in her feminine energy.
Dr. Michelle, I just want to let you know that the Lord blessed me by showing me your videos right before a first date yesterday, and during it I felt so empowered in my femininity! I feel like I turned over a new leaf since watching your content. Thank you 🙏🏻💕
I just sent this video to one of my brothers because one of the traits reminded me exactly of him! And then all my other brothers are so high quality and masculine too! 🥰
That's wonderful!
Now I know that my husband is a high value man coz he matches almost all the qualities you've listed.
This is why I love you... You're God's daughter and unashamed. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and you look gorgeous!
Thank you honey!
I really can’t wait to have you do a video on “red flags” but until then, thank you so much... you’ve been a blessing to my life❤️😍... watching from Nigeria
You are so welcome!
Watching from Nigeria too. Michelle you're the best.
I’m lucky enough to have found mine at a young age 🥰 we’ve had up’s and downs but we’re really thriving right now. I feel like iv noticed though, since iv sat back into my feminine and im living my authentic life, I seem to run into these men way more often! They still seem rare, but not as much as they used to..
Then I look at some of the masculine women around me and none of them seemed to have ever met a single one, ever.
It’s only something iv noticed in the last few months as I was able to socialise again, but it’s so interesting to compare my experiences now vs when I was in my masculine!
Love this video and can’t wait for the next one.
You look absolutely glowing 💖
Ppp
when your boyfriend checks all the boxes🥰🤗 thank youuuu Michelle!! Gotta call him and tell him he’s amazing
I'm the only man here who watch her videos ? 🥰💕
1:00 (Dating) to 1:08 (Your Life)
1:19 (The Man) to 1:30 (Or Worse)
4:32 (There are Men) to 4:51 (Nickle)
8:46 (High Quality Men) to 9:08 (Things)
Thank you Dr Daf for these insights!
I thank the Lord Jesus Christ for allowing me to meet a masculine godly man, I met him during a time in my life when I am not seeking to be more feminine. I am comfortable managing every aspect of my life even in dating, I want to be the one calling the shots because of past hurt and experiences. My attitude affect our relationship and we had some rough times because of it, but he stayed with me and as I saw his commitment, integrity and kindness it allow me to relax and let him lead our relationship.
I just know how he takes care of himself and how he takes care of me that I can submit to him.
He is different from any man I have dated before, and He is now my fiancee!
Congratulations on your engagement! Glory to the Lord for His blessings 💜💜
Congrats!!
I can’t wait to find my high quality husband.
You are absolutely correct! High value doesn’t mean high quality
Thank you Dr Michelle I love learning from you💛💛 please do a video on how to establish boundaries with respect especially when you’re from a close knit family.
I second this!! 🌺
You're welcome love. I have a series on boundaries coming soon!
Wow, he is there not to take from you but to give to you. He's here to add to your life. GOLD!! The beauty of the masculine shining at it's full potential! I love this. I also love about surrendering to my feminine. It's the way a true woman needs to embody. And it's the effective way to operate in. Thank you sisterz this is helping melt away the patriarchy's feminism
Hi Dr. Michelle, my name is Diasia and I am 23 years old. I am trying to make the transition to young woman but it isn't easy. I watch your videos a lot and I too am a Christian. My only issue is one day I really want to get married but I feel like it's impossible because I sometimes deal with anxiety and depression. I feel like it takes a whole lot of effort to keep up with your self care, married life and children. That discourages me a lot. Do you have any advice? Thank you for your time, I love your videos. 💖🎀
Hi Diasia! Thank you so much honey 🤍 I'm sorry you're experiencing this. Have you had an opportunity to consult with a therapist for counseling and life strategies to help you?
@@drmichelledaf Yes I have, I just started back with it. I think the initial goal is to try and be whole for myself so that I can put 100% into my marriage. Sometimes I think depression gets in the way and make you feel like the goal is so hard to reach. Your videos help me a whole lot though. Thank you so much ❤🎀
@@diasiacherese8079 Hi Diasia, I can absolutely relate to you. I’m close to your age and I also experience anxiety. I’ve been seeing a therapist for the past 3 months and I’ve developed a lot of coping mechanisms for when I feel anxious. I wish you all the best in your feminine journey, God bless ❤️✨
@@mayadere Wow you are so sweet, thank you sm for taking time out of your day to write me. Therapy helps a lot. I hope everything is working out for you also. God bless you. We should be friends 😁😂
I thank God for me meeting a beautiful soul like you. 🥰
You're so sweet, thank you love!
Ladies! Hear those words! Once I married one completely 'not to marry man'... It's really important...
I didn’t expect him, but he’s here. God bless!
Omg you are glowing 😍😍
This video is so helpful. Thank you! We would really appreciate a video on “red flags”.
I just subbed because of your femininity-rehab series, I found it very valuable content. I’m already in a relationship but this video is still helpful and conducive to help me focus on the things I still have a tendency to overpower him in, so I can not do that and become more feminine. Thank you.
That said, I know it’s a personal flaw that my “flinch” reaction to m4sk comments is to “throw the baby out with the bath water” and not think about the content again. I know I need to have a lot more love, and at the same time I feel very strongly about my wish/hope that people would love God and the truth in His word more… especially coming from His flock.
Many blessings.
I thank God for allowing me to even see this video. It’s confirmed to me that I do have a high quality man 💛💛 I’m grateful to God
This was life changing!
So happy to hear that babe!
You are such an amazing mentor!! ☺️💖
Great tips. Be careful ladies.
Very informative video. I always come back to your video because I feel like we are not being taught these things enough. Sometimes it's not a topic well-taught in households and we end up hurt. Thank you for dropping this insightful. I have been having trouble finding people like this and think there are none out there. But like you said, there are, we just need to ask the Lord for discernment.
Thank you so much for this video. You’re beautiful both inside and outside. God bless you.💕
God bless you from Jamaica for this video, it's funny that the Lord allowed me to see this video at age 41 to let me know that I should always keep these standards even if I never get married again. Let me tell you if I had kept all these standards when I was dating in my teens, I would have still been a virgin. I love my son but I wouldn't have married his dad if I had kept these standards but glory to God, He uses my son to keep me alive on more than one occasion. Thank you so very much Dr. Daf, even though I'm old enough to be your mom, I've been learning a lot from your videos for the last 1.5 years & I'm now walking in my feminine energy again which has drawn these high quality men but sadly, they are not saved & as you know we are not allowed to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Thank you so much again & God bless you, your husband & baby exceedingly, abundantly above ♥️🙏🏽
Thank you Simone! God is so good and always helps us even in trying situations to see the light. I'm so happy you're doing this now and keeping your standards no matter what. The Lord sees you and will honor that because you honor Him. Blessings and love 💋
@@drmichelledaf Thank you beloved!!
Another great one! Spot on! ❤❤❤
Thank you Dr Michelle I love learning from you everyday. I’m also in love with your lip liner and lip color can you share what you use?
Thanks love. MAC Chestnut liner an NARS Bad Guy Liquid Lipstick
@@drmichelledaf ironic lipstick name
I love you Dr.Daf! You’re so humble and beautiful from the inside out. I cannot wait to purchase your perfume soon :)
So much gems in this video, thank you! I really value a man that is honest, stays true to his word, and demonstrates consistency through his actions.
Ouu this hair so pretty I love your content !❤😊
You are looking so beautiful in this video!! Do you mind sharing the details on your hair? Would really appreciate it!... Thanks always for sharing your immaculate knowledge to us women on our feminine journey! xoxo
Wow. This is amazing
Is the part 2 out yet
Love this 💕 Thank you Dr Michelle
Love this, thank you Doc your lessons have been life transforming ❤
You are so welcome, I am happy to heart that love!
Thank you so much Doc 💓 I have learnt a lot from this video ❤
My pleasure! So happy to hear that!
Please do a video on high quality feminine women.💖
I have a video on that love
Great video Dr Michelle! Thank you ❤️
Thank you Dr, your podcast for me is like divine help. God bless you🥰
👌👌👌 you are amazing Michelle
Aww thank you love!
Waiting for Part 2 sis👏
Yess!!❤️🦋🌷great video, thank you!
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching love!
This was very useful, these are things that I can help teach my son
gold! thank you
You're welcome babe!
Thats a dream come true 😍🥰
I am curious… do you think you can teach an average man how to be a high quality man? I recently ended a relationship with an average man and towards the end of our relationship he told me can I teach him…. I had no desire to do so after many years of dating.
Great question. It's preference but in my opinion, some women don't mind teaching, but find it exhausting and usually met with resentment. I would rather be with a person who knows these things rather than teach because it typically does not work. The best way to teach a man is by how you treat yourself and what you do and do not allow/accept from them. They will either get on board or leave. The kind of men I wish for you to meet are top shelf, brand new, assembled with batteries included...and if you implement everything I teach, you will.
@@drmichelledaf Very well said! Do you think some men have these values but don't always implement them because they've never been pushed back against for not giving 100%? That's why I am learning how to communicate my standards clearly and gracefully... I feel like men are used to having women not expect their best, because a lot of women (at least at my age, mid 20s) are quite desperate for attention and love.
Thank you so much for the quality information ❤️
I myself a high quality man, but he doesn't have a real relationship with Jesus. Now I don't know what to do 😔
So they will Not borrow money from a lady.
what if he had all these characteristics of a high-quality man and then he changed? He started to treat me in some ways that were not high quality.. was he pretending the whole time? Or was he willingly making the choice to treat me badly to "teach me a lesson"... I'm just so confused and hurt :(
❤
This guys told me hes emotional, and do I understand what it is to be a black man. His reasoning😭🥴😮💨. Let that hurt go
Please I wanted to know your opinion on dating a guy who already has a female bestfriend
💛💛💛💛
❤️❤️❤️
😍😍
I am not a young age :/
That's okay. If you read some comments under this video you'll see there are some ladies who are not young and are on their feminine journey. Femininity doesn't have a age.
@@jiliciar.1423 thank you I’m looking at them now and it is cheering me up xxx
@@randomchannel83838 🙂 Don't listen to those *dusties* saying that women hit the wall at 30. They just want the women who are mentally still young so that they can manipulate them and take their v card and ruin their life. They're scared of the wise ladies who won't take their bs. So take pride in whatever wisdom you have and take pride in learning.
Edit: I can understand a woman's fertility drops at 30 but men's fertility drops as they age too but clearly that don't stop them from playing games with women so I don't see why a woman can't continue to grow in herself at 30+ when the red pill men continue to grow in their trashy ways at 30+.
This video does really treat men like commodities like vehicles to facilitate women's lives kind of gross actually