How Abandonment Affects Your Femininity || FIERCELY FEMININE
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Today in our new series "Fiercely Feminine" we discuss how abandonment wounds may be impacting your femininity and how to heal. Enjoy!
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Dr. Daf.. just one request to you. Don't ever stop creating content about femininity. I need you. We all need you. Thank you so much💗
Aww love you 🩷🤍✨✨
Agreed. Please don't 🙏🏽
Exactly 🤍. Even if/when no one speaks about it anymore, please never get tired. You have awakened a wave of women who are soft and free, especially black women.
We grew up wanting to be hard, independent, strong and everything a man is. While some of these traits we won't bury completely, like independence, but we know now to be independent but also be receptive to receiving help and that it's okay to not do everything alone.
I have blossomed so much such that I speak about Femininity to every woman who I feel needs to hear about it. It has really changed my life as a young black woman.
I have come home to my true self.
BIBLICAL femininity! This channel is so refreshing and answering questions to prayers specifically related to femininity! So thankful for Dr. Daf!!
Childhood trauma can really impact generations if not recognized and healed properly.
It sure can! It has to stop here! ✨
What a beautiful, healing teaching. Abandonment and betrayal from my family has affected every area of my life. Thank you, Dr. Michelle!🌸✨🫶🏻
Thank you beautiful 🩷🌸 I am sorry to hear that but I am so thankful to God for His healing grace 🤍✨🌊
God has been calling me lately to really do the work to release the Abandonment I experienced in my Childhood & Teenager years. It has been a huge baggage on myself & my Femininity. I already feel lighter that I am done being delusional & finally accepting it now!! Gosh this wound is AWFUL. May God continue to bless us on our journeys & thank you so much Michelle, I appreciate you. God bless you! ✨🕊🤍🙏🏾
I thankful that God has been calling you to this. I am so happy to know that you feel lighter already! There is nothing more beautiful than facing the hurt and allowing God to heal you 🤍✨💕 Thank you for watching ✨
Right now I’m trying to overcome my biggest fear which is dating. Due to the way I was brought up and all my childhood baggage I used to always feel guilty when someone (especially men) would offer me help or something material for free. I thought I didn’t deserve it and wanted to pay back immediately. As you can imagine that caused a lot of tension and anxiety in me. Many people would tell me I am very feminine but something in my psychological state really impedes this femininity to shine. I’m 24 and after a 1,5 year therapy I’m finally ready to start dating even though I still cry when I imagine it😂
I'd encourage you NOT to date. It's not even biblical. Men in those days courted a woman. Got to know her with the intention to marry. Things weren't so casual. Even in my mother's day. Dating leaves you at risk for premarital sex which will lead to heartbreak. Most modern men just want sex or a conquest. FR. If you love Christ, leave the desire for commitment & love in God's capable hands. Just be friends with men. Men with a good character. I believe the Lord will bring a great spouse to you in due season.
It's wonderful that you faced this fear and got the assistance of a therapist. It sounds like dating is still overwhelming for you. I would practice this skill with male friends, male co workers and male family members before making yourself available for something romantic. What you feel about receiving is actually a very common feeling amongst most women. But over time with prayer you will notice a change. Thank you for watching love 🤍✨
I was abandoned by my mom.. out of her five kids… let me tell you… to this day almost 1/2 a century… still affects me daily 😢
Please keep the series going. I am looking back on my childhood and seeing connections with my behavior and personality. Thank God we have HIM and He is able to heal us cuz He loves us. Blessings to you
That is so wonderful! Yes I will 🩷 thank you for watching love
God really speaks to me through your videos. I always feel alone in experiencing anxiety about losing my loved ones. I’ve experienced so much loss in my childhood and grew up in a single parent home. I didn’t realize how much that would manifest and affect me in my adulthood. So thank you Dr. Michelle, I truly appreciate this content ❤
I am thankful that you hear the Lords voice through my content. I can only imagine what you have been through. May God strengthen you and give you His peace forever. You are so welcome. Thank you for watching honey 🩷✨✨✨
Thank you for pouring into me. I receive healing in Jesus name
Amen 🩷 You are so welcome love
you don’t realize how it affects you 😭 I had a dream about someone I dated in the past that I consciously feel I am over but in the dream he was rejecting me and I was telling my mom I didn’t care and my mom was upset with him for using me - it was such an icky feeling. I woke up feeling so odd because it’s an old relationship that I decided to leave but I guess the emotions are still there subconsciously
Ok wait I had a dream about an ex last night and I swore I was over him too. I think he was getting married or something it was fuzzy. So something is in the air 😂
I’m so excited to be in a safe space where I’m being pored into! God has told me since 2022 that femininity should be my priority but everything I found wasn’t based on Biblical principles. Dr. Daf, you are an answered prayer. Thank you 💚
I am so happy to hear that honey! So much beauty comes out of it. Thank you for watching!
Yes Doctor Daf! Please share more about our basic wounds - this is very enlightening! ❤
Stay connected there are more coming 🤍✨
This was wholesome. Sometimes we know these but having it reminded in such a manner is refreshing. Thank you!
Thank you Michelle for creating this series. I have found myself hitting a brick wall in my growth and this series is helping me evolve again. Thank you!
This was amazing. You are so loving …and compassionate, thank you so much
Dr. Daf, thank you so much for this. I resonate with a lot of this and I’m reflecting on how far I’ve came in my feminine journey. I’ve been following you over a year now and you have been so helpful with the information you deliver and I show gratitude to you. 😊
I'm thankful that you have come this far and you will only continue to grow. God bless you 🩷💕✨
Sending you Congrats in advance of your 300K subscriber count! 🎉🍾🎊
Well deserved My Lady!!🫶🏾
Thank you so much honey 🤍💋
Thank you so much for this much needed video! God Bless You 🙏🏾💕
You are most welcome darling 🩷
You’re like the big sister I’ve always wanted. Thank you for blessing us with this content and always including God in every bit of it. 💖
I'm so grateful that i found and watched this video.
This is so well explained. Thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!
Oh wow, thank you so much for this video❤🎉😊 sometimes we know these things but it is always good to review😊😊😊
You're so welcome babe. Yes so true!
Perfect timing . Thank you for this video .
So glad! Thank you for watching sweetie 💕
Appreciate this video so much! May it impact many 💗
Thank you for watching honey 🤍✨
This was a much needed word, can’t wait for the rejection video ❤
Thank you for watching. Yesss coming soon! 🩷✨
This was very helpful. Thank you ❤
You're so welcome! Thank you for watching!
This is a life changing video ❤
Dr M, even if/when no one speaks about Femininity anymore, please never get tired of speaking and teaching about it. You have awakened a wave of women who are soft and free, especially black women.
We grew up wanting to be hard, independent, strong and everything a man is. While some of these traits we won't bury completely, like independence, but we know now to be independent but also be receptive to receiving help and that it's okay to not do everything alone.
I have blossomed so much such that I speak about Femininity to every woman who I feel needs to hear about it. It has really changed my life as a young black woman.
I have come home to my true self. 🤍
Very important episode thank you....❤
I absolutely LOVE your lipstick and how it enhances your features. Kisses from a lipstick lover
You put me under the microscope today😅♥️🙏🏽Thank you.
Heli Dr. Daf I will need more videos of past healing and feminine energy. I'm not sure of what it means but I know that it's a part of my woman hood.
I was in the foster care system and all of what you said is what i experienced.
I am sorry to hear that and pray that you experience the healing from God in your heart and can know your identity in Christ 🤍
Thanks alot for talking about this ❤😢 love from Kenya
You are so welcome 💋 blessings and love to you beautiful
Thank you, wonderful ❤
Thank you for watching babe 🩷
Thank you Sis, may God bless you too
Thank you for watching. God bless you too 🩷🤍
Thank you!
You are so welcome love. Thank you for watching 🩷
Thank you Dr. Michelle ♥️♥️ do you recommend any channel here on yt about gospel music? I need something uplifting 🙏
This is exactly how I feel. Do you know of any therapist or femininity coaches I can look talk with?
You can look at psychology today for a therapist near you. Better Help also has therapists that can see you virtually. The only femininity coach I feel comfortable recommending at this time is Black Swan Academy. I hope this helps love 🤍💕✨
Praise Jesus! Thank you Michelle ❤️
He is so wonderful! Thank you for watching love
Thank you. 👏🏾👏🏾
You are most welcome. Thank you for watching love 🩷
Thank you🙏
You're welcome baby 💕
Dr.Daf you have no idea how important this video is to me (actually you do,that's why you made it😅).
I never experienced in my childhood but in my adult romantic relationships,so i have to get the full info in this video.
I appreciate you and you look beautiful in white❤
I'm thankful this was helpful to you love. You're so welcome. And thank you 🤍✨✨
@drmichelledaf
My mother left my brother and I when we were one and two years old. I later found out that her mother died sometime after she was born.
I am now a grandmother of two beautiful little girls.
I love them so much.
I have two children, a handsome son and a beautiful daughter who won Miss Congeniality and is a model she graduated from a Christian college.
I’m so proud of both of them .
just like you said in the video, I picked the wrong guy and got pregnant and became a single mother with her.
let me tell you they both know nothing but unconditional love ❤️ they were both spoiled much!😮
I just regret, not having these kinds of talks or relationships with my grandparents who raised me.
My grandfather, my mother's dad was a wonderful minister and pastor he talked about the love of Jesus Christ. Saved and baptized many he was So beloved they he Had three funerals... In different states, But Jesus loved him so much that he died in the pulpit in front of the whole congregation. On a communion Sunday which everyone will never forget.
I was young, and it was very traumatic and shocking for me to see how everyone experienced that.
As grew older, I figured God loved him so much that he took him straight from the pulpit to heaven instantly of a heart attack.
I was mad at God however as I got older, I understood how much God loved him more and he took him Home. So thank you for your videos.
They are more impactful than you will ever know.😊 may God continue to bless and use you to heal others like 💕 myself
I will never be the same after all the times my blood sister betrayed me and my family 💔
Living for the rejection video to come 😢
God willing it will be live this Sunday 🩷
How about parents who show you the love you that much
And they also show you they don’t love you just as much
Everything is confusing
They would fight for you and next time they could abandon you
How are you supposed to feel
What kind of person do you grow into
In some cases this could be a sign of emotional abuse. Parents who suffer with substance abuse, narcissism or mental illness are usually prone to this behavior. This can cause many different issues in a child. Especially lack of trust in others and low self esteem. I recommend speaking to a licensed therapist to help you understand your unique situation 🤍
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Thanks so much
I hate hearing things like god loves me when all evidence points to the contrary and false hope doesn't do it for me either because there's no guarantee that I have a purpose and things will be ok
I wish for you to meet God within yourself 💝
Hi Dr.michelle recently I went to an event and when I came home I started crying I had to sit with myself and ask myself why I was so emotional .
But something small had happened that triggerd my rejection wound .
How do I start working on this ?
Hi love I would recommend looking for a therapist to help you explore your feelings and give you tools to help 🤍🤍
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it might be an inappropriate question to ask but i really wondered how do you apply theraphy on people who don't believe in god or have different religions?
A therapist will adjust their method to the patient. If people want their beliefs incorporated then they will seek a therapist who can meet that need. Be advised many therapists use Buddhist rooted therapy methods without explicitly saying so, so just make sure you ask all of the questions before beginning with someone.
@@drmichelledaf thank you for your kind answer 🙏❤
I need a Christian therapist. Do you take Medicare?
I'm not a therapist love. But I recommend looking at psychology today and using the filters to search for Christian therapist near you 🤍
@@drmichelledaf Thank you. Because of 2 narc parents, endless abuse and alcoholism in family, relationships have been hard. I finally have a great boyfriend and subconsciously sabotaged it. He was so good to me and I loved him. I ran him off. Can u help me?
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these videos are truly blessing me; we must heal within before radiating outwardly. I thank God for the wisdom he’s placed in you. 🩷
Amen 🩷✨ You are most welcome beautiful ✨
This is a life changing video ❤
Thank God ✨🤍 Thank you for watching love ✨