I've just started dating a woman that's 41 and im 33 and it's amazing, never had a connection like this with a woman in my entire life. On our second date we were on a rug on the beach watching the sunset, and I remember saying to myself. "I'm so glad my past fell apart" I'm so in love with her now!!
I agree, I'm 32 and my girl is 10 years older than me, we're both the same mentally and enjoy all the same interests and goals. The sex is the best I've had in my entire life, and actually means something to us, I think I've found the one I've been waiting for, and it's an amazing feeling.
I’m 35 with a 25 y.o. guy. Honestly, our maturity levels and mindsets match. We both know what we want out of life. I love him entirely. Wouldn’t change for anything 💯
@@bichpham9917 4 years isn't as bad. My wife is 11 years older and it don't seem that bad but the problem is she use to be my teacher back in school so people who know us easily criticises our age gap just because she use to be my teacher that makes her like way older then 11 years. Thank god we're moving away from this area. Hopefully our new surroundings no one will judge.
I met someone 3 months ago that is 30. I am 43. Both of us had been single for at least 5 years. Neither of us planned to ever date, but when he moved in right next to me something happened. We were both blindsided. Fell completely in love. We get along so well, laugh a lot, stare into each others eyes, hold each other and make plans together. It's the most amazing feeling. I don't think it's so much about age with us. We have a genuine connection that we haven't ever found anywhere else. If you find someone that you love? Then love them.
Amazing. I've been with my wife for 5 years and she's 42 and I'm 31 and we have 4 beautiful babies at that time. I already knew her because she use to be my ex and use to be my teacher back in 2004. I've been with a lot of older women but she made me have strong feelings for her. I mean even though our relationship has always been sexual we slowly start having more feelings then sexual. Some say I married her for the wrong reasons and yes it has been toxic at times but we always pull through during the bad times. We just can't be away from each other and we've been seperated a few times but our connection is extremely strong.
My beautiful, compassionate, loving, kind, creative, ambitious, genuine girlfriend is 55 and I am 24. She is my best friend, I absolutely adore her and we are perfect together. She's the Ying to my yang. We are moving in together in a month. I am so excited to begin my life with her. She is THE most amazing person I have ever met.
I'm 34 and He's only 22 years old.. He always makes me happy and showed his sincerity.. I can't feel the age gap because He's really matured emotionally 😍🥰 I guess sometimes I act like younger than him 😅😂 Love is all about the happiness and commitment 😍😘
I have a beautiful wife I’ve been married to for 12 years so far. I’m 37 and my wife is 47 but many people can’t tell the age difference when they see us. We are so happy. I married my best friend.
Hello I am married to a 30 years younger man! He is amazing in all ways and we connect in almost all ways. I take one day at a time and no worried about future. I live here and now!
Wonderful to hear and great attitude good for you.I'm starting to date younger men,20 + years younger but it's not about age,more about compatibility and attraction.👌💕😉
@melly nelly My husband is much mature and he never care about age! He found me first and he like older women and younger too.We never see eachother like patent/kid!
I'm 13+ years older than my boyfriend. Nobody has ever noticed the big difference. I bring it up for fun but he never does (good boy!). Age gaps are not the problem -- not being on the same page is.
I'm 30 and I really enjoy being with with women 10-20 years older than me. I find older women are way easier to get along with and be yourself with. Younger women in early twenties tend to expect you to jump through hoops to empress them even if it means being someone you aren't just to keep them happy. That doesn't make for a healthy relationship and will likely end badly and even more so the longer it goes on. To the point ... Always be yourself never do something you wouldn't do or want to do on a daily basis just to impress someone. And always be honest of your intentions. Just friends? Then tell them. Friends with possible benefits tell them. If you aren't sure tell them. Stay true to yourself and your significant other and if you work with each other its a good idea to move forward if it doesn't move on. Happy hunting.
I don't see why you'd want to settle down with an older women, they'll age quicker, more used up and you'll be lonely when they die before you. As a 20 year old it doesn't make sense, sure they know what they want and are more serious but why not have a younger girl eho looks good longer and can take care of you when your older.
Not all of us have baggage. I'm tired of people making that assumption. 41 and have been on lots of dates but never got married or had children. No baggage in the relationship sense. Just high standards & values that make it hard to find a match. Willing to go younger if they are mature with good character & common interests.
I love My relationship we have 11 years apart and we get along together very well She is 42 and I’m 32 years old we been together for last 4 years at first she thought this is going to be hard but I prove her wrong we have a lot of chemistry and we like almost everything the same . My point guys out there is don’t be scare to date a older woman they know what they want they don’t play around like young girls and they know how to take care of you if you know how to take care of them too of course , respect, trust, love, sex100%ect ect . I love older them me 😍😍
Mine is 5-6 yrs younger than me. That isn't the problem. The problem is he's 22 and I don't want to be with someone who is still playing games with women. Do I chance it and possibly waste time?
Hello i see you posted this 3 years ago and now I'm in your situation. he is 22 and I'm 27 and have those doubts about us. I mean everything is good but I'm just concerned about the future . Any updates you feel ok to share?
I am 58 and I broke off with a guy that was 43 (15 years younger than me), and that was a mistake! He chased me like crazy and I ignored him. Now I'm with someone 8 years older than me and the passion isn't there. He is cold and undifferent. I should go back to the younger guy if I could.
What about 23 and 21? We actually grew up as childhood friends and he started to like me when he was 15 and I was 17 and I rejected him because 2 years is a huge age gap as teens but now we’re both adults and he still says likes me but I’m scared. There’s so many people around me who can’t stand the idea of an older girl with younger guy and I’m a very sensitive person and get hurt easily. And as someone who’s always been attracted to older men, this is weird for me. I’m really confused. I might say fuck it and go for it but the little sensitive bitch in me can’t get over the 2 yr age gap. 😭
I’m 18 and my girl is 25 we used to be having trouble still some arguing . Everything is good just the fact that I feel like she think I still have to experience like fun. But truth be told. I don’t want to have that experience.i don’t want to have that era that other people have that they go out and see other people and party.
I really needed/ appreciate this video I’m currently dating a man who is younger for the 1st time we have a great relationship but was concerned whether I was making the right decision .Great Video 👍
I'm a woman in my early 30s, divorced with a 5 year old kid and I've just found out that a guy who is 11 years my junior wants to meet me. I will definitely meet up! Always been into younger guys.
The younger man is merely for fun, uncomplicated and exciting. Men above my age are complicated, insecure, and exhausting. The younger man is easy, sexual, and requires zero demands. Men in their late 20's are the perfect bracket for short term fun. I've experienced both, the older men are too much work and intimidated by their shadows. Never let your older man know you strolled the skinny jean aisle ....they can't handle it and will never perform due to rust on the bolts.
13 year age difference with my guy. He’s younger 💞I love him so much. I would say that he tends to overthink a lot but we still love each other. I understand him and have a lot of patience.
I'm dating someone who is going to 28 and I'm 40..I'm not looking at all as 40 but as 30..We have a lot of chemistry but I think that sooner or later we are going to broke up. I want a family and I know that is very difficult for him to want the same..Maybe I should broke up with him..I don't want to get closer to him because i don't want to get hurt..I don't have expectations..My past experiences were in the same age and the last guy was 45 and he was very immature and he lied to me..That's why I decide to go out with a younger man..Too bad because I never had so much chemistry with someone else..I'm so unlucky in love..😣
My girlfriend 40, I'm 29. She talked to me about preganancy, kids and expectations. I struggled with my ex (2 years younger than me, same period of life in certain way) but it was just to much effort to converge plans. Now, with a older lady who's been married bf, different life from my life it works just fine and natural. By being a man all I can say that you women find a really big deal to talk about planning the family or think we're gonna break up later. Her ex also lied to her, at the end was truly indifferent to her. Happened to me in the begining of our relationship...she had the same issues as yours. And I'm no english, neither pakistan. When she came to talk to me she said was +15 days those things were in her mind and had to open up to me. The conversation went on very calm btw...
@@ReneeSlanskyOf course we talked about everything and I didn't expect something serious from him..but all of a sudden after a month he stopped talking to me without reason..But he never forget to watch my insta stories..He was an ****hole.. Period!
Am usually attracted to girls who are confident and have their shit together, they are almost always older than me 2-5 years older than me...I failed to attract them more than 4 times already, I am getting plenty of interest from women/girls younger than me so after all these failed experiences I already lost hope in dating an older woman, it's just too draining to try to get them to like me, and now I just date younger women and am enjoying the experience.
I was married to a 35 year old I’m 33 my I thought he was so immature so I dated a 61 year old guy who was worse I’m with A 25 year old guy who is the best thing that ever happened to me very responsible handsome treats me with love respect etc I’m in love but the age difference does bother me sometimes just because I have always dated older man
My wife is 11 years older I'm 31 and she's 42 and we have 4 kids as well since we've been together exactly 5 years. We got married late 2015. It don't bother us the age gap but it bothers others since she use to be my teacher back in school those fools who know this were always talking and abusing us since we moved away from that place far away we have no problem with the new people around us and it's almost been a year since we moved away.
Mojo K wow 😮 interesting story! Well I’m happy you 2 are happy at the end of the day that’s all that matters ❤️ who cares what the world has to say I wish you the best!
@@zaramorena6694 Thank you. I hope you find happiness no matter age your man will be. I like talking to people who have age gap relationship. Do you chat on google hangouts?
Am older than my boyfriend he’s 29 and am 34 , but funny thing he’s really tall.. first time dating someone younger than me, do I find it bizarre hell No, I just hope he don’t break my heart… he been dating quiet a while now … really love him!!
It depends on the person anything pass 3 years under or over my age would be big and to take into consideration and anything pass 5-7 is unrealistic for me.
I’m 27 and he’s 23 ugh it feels so weird but he’s so reserved and mature! But when I think about turning 28 this year and he barely turned 23 ugh I feel so old and weird. Is this ok? Do you think it’ll be an issue ?
Why do you care so much about who came from a womans womb first?why does it matter?only thing that should matter is his personality, maturity,compassion for you
Hi! I have a problem.. My crush is 18 and I'm 20. The age difference is not that big, but all of my friends say that they would never date a boy who's younger, because that would be weird.. I don't think so, but all those opinions make me feel insecure about this topic. I mean, I fall in love with the person, not with their age🤷♀️ Is there someone who can relate?
My birthday is in April and my boyfriend’s is in November 😂 so I’m months older than him. We’ve been together for 3 years so far and very happy. All my relationships with older guys didn’t work out
I dont mind age gaps but i dont like the whole mid life crisis thing. You know dating young people because you are past your prime and feel bad. I think 10 years 8s the most. Women in their 40s/50s shouldnt be talking to 18-24 years olds.
Trust me In older woman-younger man scenario it is always the younger man doing the chasing. I’m in my 40s and only get approached by much younger men 🤷♀️ Women don’t set out to look for a younger man but men our age or older don’t date women their age.
J Crash I don’t think young men chasing women makes young men sound desperate. On the contrary. Many young women are still emotionally completely unstable. Too self conscious for great sex. They don’t know what they want in bed or are too shy. All that washes away with age. Older women are confident and know exactly what they want. And what they want of a younger man is sex. Not in a million years will they bring a young man to meet the family or worse to a work function. So it’s a win-win scenario for both. Both just want sex. Maybe in some rare cases maybe the idea of more but deep down both know it’s never going to work so you don’t get too distraught when it ends. Yes there is a 0.01% who actually do end up with a successful long term relationship. But for most sex with a younger man in more like a mini break or vacation from real life.
Thank you for making this video. I am contemplating seriously dating an older woman who is likely 10 years older than me. I do not care about the age gap I care about who she is as a person and as a woman. Will she be. Good wife etc.
I'm a 27 yr old woman. Ppl tell me I look i'm 22 or like a teen. I get teenager alot. I want to date for marriage but any guy younger than 23 or possibly 22 is not ideal for me. There are barely any guys my age around me only like 10+ years older. I'm not interested in that kind of age difference. Also I'm looking for a virgin to be my husband.
Im 30 years old and there this women I like and she's 50 i think she's really beautiful and be honest i dnt care how people wld think about it because you can't help who you like. Because every time ive been with someone my age i get my heart broken.
An indian women here , i am 30 and my bf is 20 , and he is such a sweet person and the chemistry 😍😍 which i haven't felt for anyone . I just fell so hard for him .
He is 22, I am 29, but as many others said that before 26, u will meet lots of passers by , I feel like I will be his passers by - after all he has so much to explore at his age ...
I’m 22 and he is 21, is it okay? I know it’s not a big age gap but still a lot people of give me stares when they find out that he is some months younger (literarily 7 months)
I've been into 2 stressful relationships where I was the older one. First relationship was a 3 yr age gap and the second one was a 2 yr age gap. Both break-ups are heartbreaking and I'm even afraid to date younger men now but someone who is 5 yrs younger than me confessed that he likes and I like him as well. We've been friends for sometime. What do i do?
1 year later.... so I'm dating a guy who's 17 n I'm 19.. but for a while I'm like one years older, but I still feel guilty as though people will look at me differently .
@@PriinXo i am also 19 and have crush a medical student girl who is 23.but she doesn't like me because i am younger and far away from her.I told her that i want serious relationship with her and willing to learn and be more mature for her. but it looks like she doesn't like me at all.i lost my spirit to initiate girls again.life is cruel
I'm 24 my fiance just turned 21 and I feel like in these years theres so much new stuff going on for him I already went through and he is very irresponsible but how long do I wait for change? We've been together 3 years
Soooo i found out that a boy lives near me 16 years old (im 19)and looks older but kinda catching feelings for that asshole.... ahahahaha we talk every day even tho he admited that he likes me and doesent look about the age at all i said i do but he still talks to me... should i give him a chance? Any advice
me too, he's 16 and i'm 22, it's legal where we are, but i still don't want to feel like a total creep because of the social stigma that i should wait until he's 18, im just scared of being called a groomer...society can be scary.
Love for me at its best I'm 52 my heart is 35 a twenty yr gap we have a lot in common * we can talk about anything something u mention in yo viedo about communication which I to think is important above anything I've been with my heart only for 2yrs & counting so we still fresh but I'm hoping to with this heart of mine maybe become his wife but for now we have to take one day at a time but I thank u for this viedo it was helpful !!!
I don't think I can do it. I have men much younger than me attracted to me, but I can't bring myself to do it. Sooner or later that difference is going to bite hard. I'm too sensitive.
Same. He is 8 years younger and people think I am younger than him. But I am afraid one day it will make a difference and something inside me is hurting so much because of this.
@@trinityp8575 Well... eight years isn't a whole lot. Don't feel badly. I have some about 20 years younger looking at me and I REFUSE. They're cute, but no way.
@J J Yep. Add Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa, too. Everyone was envious of what they thought they had, but I somehow knew better. Nice in the beginning, but likely not to last.
@@moni1952 Will you rather regret it later? You only live once. In my case, there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's good looking, I admit. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
Okay hi I need advice on something. Say your 19 and he’s 17 but doesn’t turn 18 until next year. Would the age gap be too far if I ever did decide to date him. In appearance wise he looks like a 18 year old because he’s much taller than me which is one my main thing of what I look for in a guy. And then obviously his physique, and personality. In fact, he checks the boxes of all three of them. But the problem is is that he’s 2 years younger than me. Can anyone help me out here 🧐🤦♀️🤣… Also he’s jus starting to open up at work to me when I’m alone and yet it kinda scares me that if I get too close it may destroy the relationship I’m trying to create because of his age.
Question. Pleaseee help. I like this guy and we are both 15 but I turn 16 first.. I know that Its not a big deal but guys mature slower so do you think that we have a chance at a long term relationship if we get together or would he end up changing as he goes through puberty?
Everybody is always changing and evolving , and at that age it's hard to predict a long term relationship when you both are young and have a lot to go and grow through. I would take it slowly and get to know his character ...don't be in a rush to have a commitment from someone you are still getting to know x
I remember thinking i was gonna get married with my girlfriend when I was 15 so here is some words of advice, just enjoy eachothers company and don't focus on titles and external pressure from your peers.
Hi thank you ma’am for your vlog. I actually didn’t like younger men because my previous relationships are older than me for 11-35years. and my boyfriend now is i am a month older. because He was born on November and I was born october. and it bothers me than i am a lil bit older😅 but He is so amazing. He is patient and mature. I think age is just a number. It will always depend on how you manage each other.
I’m 36 dating a man that is 26. He is amazing and we have grown so much. I hope things work out because I am afraid at times. We have been seeing eachother for a year now.
First take a moment and ask around, "Why aren't you younger folk going for one another instead?" If you hear output that suggests something in the department of being mutually selfish, irresponsible, lazy, and entitled - Now, what do you think is going to happen if these "young-uns" get their claws on you? Oh, I'm sure the emotional thrill (and even the sexual experiences) with a "daring young whatever" might be exciting, ditto memorable, but when you have absolutely no more to offer, somebody's definitely getting tossed under the bus, and it sure isn't THEM!
People could be in their 80's and still be selfish, irresponsible, lazy and entitled. Given how the older you get, the more empathy you lose and only tend to look out for yourself. I worry more for the "young-un" who will be thrown under the bus by the older partner.
Thank you for making this "short and sweet" lol, My Goodness I am so tired of those dating "Gurus" that have hour long marathon videos explaining ONE CONCEPT! Lol.
I'm having this situation now he's 23 nearly 24 I'm 32 and nearly 33 is it okay? I do have reservations but like him just as much..he is a Muslim too and I'm a Christian plus I'm in England and he's in Pakistan.
As a Christian myself we aren't suppose to marry non believers God said. We're suppose to raise our children up with the word of God and protect them from the "wolfs" imagine the wolf being your children's father.
There’s a girl who I have a thing for she’s 31 and I’m 28 years some people believe it’s a problem because she’s older a lot of people I know believe that the man has to be older
There's a boy who is 4 years younger than me said he liked me , well he's cute so I like him but my graduation exam is coming soon and I'll study in the university , and he lives in my school so if we date we won't have much time together , now I'm confused and don't know what to do :((((
@@bichpham9917 with my wife she looks good for her age at 41 for a woman who just had four kids within three years and she has a plus size type body. I'll be 31 soon and she still looks like my age. If people don't know us they'll think I'm older because I shave my head. I've been with few older women since I left school at 16. I haven't been with a woman my age since my last girlfriend at school. I've been with older women like 20 years older. Oldest I was with was 50 years old.
Well i am 1st year guy in my college. But i have a huge crush on a 3rd year senior girl. I talk to her often on whatsapp and she is very nice with me but i am scared of revealing my feelings to her. What should i do?
I once dated a girl 3 years older when I was in school. I was 15 and I was in year 9 and she was in her last year of sixthform. In school some find that crazy but reality is a big deal gap isn't as bad as like 20 years old. My wife is 11 years older then me. We've been together for 4 years married for over 3 years and we've had 4 kids at that time. She just turned 42 and I'm 31. She use to be my teacher as well back in school. The attraction came after we both left school.
Well I'm kind of a weirdo (I'd say) because I'm 14 and I was/am attracted to a guy who's 11, almost 12. So, him and I ONLINE dated but broke up 3 months later or 2 weeks ago because either someone told him it's stupid or he thought it's stupid himself... My parents found out about our relationship and told me that it ain't good but... I still sort of like him. Yesterday, he told me how he likes a girl from his school but she doesn't like him back. In my head I was like 'Karma got you, haha.' I think he's soon going to regret breaking up with me but I'm not quite sure.. 🤷🏻♀️ I need help ASAP.
Hey ik this is late but dw ur situation wasn't as bad as you thought. I liked a 13yo guy when i was 16. I'm 17 now and i still might like him. I feel guilty asf.
omg same! He's going to turn 15 but he's a freshman and I'm 16 as a junior, I thought the 2 year age gap was bad but looks like I'm not the only one going thru this!! good luck with them:)
Not at all, I'm 18 about to be 19 and I'm into older women from their 20's to mid 40's. Even if it is wierd then you aren't alone brother. don't seek approval from people on the outside about your personal relationship with someone. Emphasis on PERSONAL.
Personally, I'm looking at women who are older than myself. I've just turned 21, but I have problems with girl's my age group, mostly due to maturity level, not all,but majority. It clashes, bc I'm a more layed back person. I come across as more serious, since I'm not messing around all the time. Don't get it twisted, around the ppl I care about, it's very different. I just think, bc I've been through and learnt alot. Even my mum, who is and has been my mentor in life, especially when I use to get in trouble at school. I eventually took on her advice, and things have changed, and her "foolish advice" as she calls it which changed the way I thought about things. Although I don't like at home, we're like this🤞🏾❤️. Parents just seem like naggers when we're young,but they just have been there and done it. But yeh,abut off topic. I think girl's my age group seem to make assumptions before even getting to talk to me first. I found that older women have no problems coming up and talking to me,and I think the maturity level tends to match mine. Just my experience tho
@@fstorms Nope, life happened we aren’t friends now, only knew her through online classes, still would love to date a girl older than me in the future, though I just like it that way
I'm a woman. When I was 24 I had a little fling with a 18 years old. He was so excitingly energetic all the time 🤯 Everytime he came over he broke something in the house or in my body lol, that was so hot. After a month we said our goodbyes, he went to travel around the world with friends and I moved to another city to start a new job. I have no idea where he is now or what he is doing. I don't care. But he awakened my interest in younger man. 🌡️
That’s false for me. Even if you present me with two attractive, mature, talented, encouraging, kind, honest, caring, and humble men who have the same job and income - I prefer older men. They are more romantic and appealing than younger guys, because I consider them like my brothers and cousins. Not marriage or love material, no matter what they do. Even if I was a widow now, I still am happier being permanently single and in love with my older wiser husband than an equally loving but unappealing boy. I’m blessed that I found the older husband I longed for in my heart. If God forbid, something ever happened to him and I lost him, my heart longs to be with only him beyond death. I gladly will remain single in that case and wait to rejoin with him. Any pervert and especially young guys would get restraining orders.
I guess I got unlucky he left me I am 7 yrs older to him..I am 42 and he is 35 yrs..I really loved him..nd still do..infact of he is divorced with a child..and m still not married..don't knw what went wrong..unlucky in love I guess Feeling good to reading comments..thr are guys who beleive in love and not age which is just a number..grt going💖
I've seen many older women dating younger men with around 20 yrs gap. Here in my country Indinesia a cougar woman is called "tante girang" which means " cheerful aunty".
So um. I'm 16 years old. And she's 20 years old. I'm still nervous but I don't take it seriously though when I'm 20 and that's the time I think I'm good enough. She 24 if I do
@@jckenjill HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously. Age is not important for a good relationship with a woman I.
Somone help. I’m currently dating this guy he’s 1 grade smaller than me. He’s an amazing person only problem is he told me he was the same age as me but only a few months younger..I recently found out when we where on the phone that his brother told him he was a year younger and I heard. So we are 1 year and a few months apart. I’m so stressed out
Not me coming here 3 years later because I’m getting to know a man 10 years my junior 😩 Reading the comments certainly makes me feel better, and less self conscious.
In india it is a very sensitive topic....i m 28 and i am a girl and he is 23....Our families dont want that we marry...We have tensed...plz give me advice what should i do???
@@mojok7070 you are a good man and your wife is fortunate to marry you. am 45yr he is 33yr but he doesn't know if he could commit so we broke off but he insisted us to be friend until recently, he decided he is good enough to move on and already found someone younger
@@happygal1974 That's unfair. I also struggled to commit before. When was 20 and I was with a Italian woman who was 45. I loved her dearly but she wanted me to meet her family because she wanted us to get married which was weird because even before thinking about marriage she just wanted to get married and move back to Italy with her. Even though I loved her I wasn't ready for marriage at 20 years old. Her age wasn't but it was she got me off guard and ask to much to leave my life in UK for her. With my wife me and her was together a few months even though it was more sexual our relationship I still wanted to marry her. Our marriage wasn't those big weddings it was cheap in a chapel like those vegas style ones. Our chemistry is really powerful both sexual and romantic. I've always prefered older women I haven't dated a woman my age or younger since my ex girlfriend from school. Our marriage hasn't been that great. There's been fighting and seperations at times it has been very toxic but we make it work for the kids. When we were seperated I was missing my wife so badly it made go crazy
@@mojok7070 wow, you and your wife had made it through thick and thin, it proven you both are for each other.. truly happy for you and i hope you and your family stay close and happy forever ☺️ mine was really a complicated one. He is a foreign celebrity of which we were in LDR. Perhaps, in my believe due to his sickness, he broke off with me as he couldn't promise me a future. In my understanding, he too codepedent on me too much thus requested me to stay by him perhaps we could patch thing back one day he said. I stayed and financially supported him for 3yrs, but our rs was a difficult one as we have communication problem since he don't share with me alot of things and i believe as a celebrity, he cannot trust me good enough, thus, i felt very hurt over it but i couldn't leave him due to his sickness, things became toxic that i was drained by his problems to an extend i started to be harsh on him with words. Fast forward, 3mths ago, when i started to hint on him if he could pay a portion of the money in a form of helping me to pay my loan, we started to quarrel over it and he cursed me for spreading news about him borrowing money (which he did and it was my friend who spread it perhaps to protect me from being used by him) I was so disappointed how ungrateful he can be worrying his image as celebrity will be tarnished. without giving me a conclusion on the money, he politely told me he wanted to be alone as he wasn't feeling good over the incident blar blar, so i left him alone. Few days later, when i texted him again, his manager accused me of disturbing and brainwashed him over all that had happened and cut my contact with him. It was via social media that i realised he got hooked up with a young actress from his same native and living life as if he is happy that he can leave behind his dark past. I was so angry and felt betrayed considering to expose him to the public, but my friend warned his company will protect him for good and I may land myself with a law sue.. etc etc.. I prayed everyday for healing and forgiveness so that i can let this go.. right now, am in a healing process of forgetting him and at least i know that i had done what i could for him in order for me to release him without any hates
@@happygal1974 Wow. I feel sorry for you. You went through a lot of drama with him. Healing from breakup is one of the hardest thing you could do. I know the same feeling with my ex girlfriend from school. Probably the most painful breakup I ever had. I would go into more details but it's too long. Do you use google hangouts? I would like to discuss this more on google hangouts. It would be easier to chat on hangouts
I’m turning 24 soon but I’m only really interested in 18-22 yr old girls. I feel like a lot of the girls who I have seen over 22 kind of go downhill or are not as attractive as the younger girls in general. Like I said I’m 23 but I look young and I take care of myself. A lot of girls assume I’m like 18-20 yr olds which definitely has its negatives but, I can’t see my age preference changing going forward.
Question please help me.. In my life I have never dated a girl but the I saw her I fell in love because of her kindness and the beauty unexpectedly I didn't know that she's elder than me for 2 years. Still we chat as friends but I'm really scared to propose her whether she will reject me. Cuz she doesn't know my age she keeping asking me the age I was refusing by changing the subject but if she rejects I'm a person who cannot bare the sadness cuz I'm really dying for her. Can you please advise me about it. I love her alot.
Ok so you are infatuated with her , you aren't involve because you haven't gotten to know her that well. Bring value to her and focus on being confident , making her feel safe and at ease and that should make her warm to you.
Married to a beautiful woman who is 20 years older than me, been together for 11 years and going strong. I never been so happy in my life.
Awesome to hear!
Whats your age tho
@melly nelly 🤮🤮🤮🤮
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 What's wrong with that the man is probably in his 30s and his wife is probably in her 50s now
Into a girl who's 8-9 years older than me
Jesus bless my soul.. god noooo
I've just started dating a woman that's 41 and im 33 and it's amazing, never had a connection like this with a woman in my entire life. On our second date we were on a rug on the beach watching the sunset, and I remember saying to myself. "I'm so glad my past fell apart" I'm so in love with her now!!
Aww I love hearing love stories!
Beautiful ..good luck
I agree, I'm 32 and my girl is 10 years older than me, we're both the same mentally and enjoy all the same interests and goals. The sex is the best I've had in my entire life, and actually means something to us, I think I've found the one I've been waiting for, and it's an amazing feeling.
I’m 35 with a 25 y.o. guy. Honestly, our maturity levels and mindsets match. We both know what we want out of life. I love him entirely. Wouldn’t change for anything 💯
I'm here, making a 4 year age gap a big deal. But reading these comments makes me feel a bit better
4 year age gap is nothing ;)
I'm married my wife who is 11 years older then me and we have 4 kids. She's 43 and I'm 32
Me too , the boy who like me is 4 years younger than me , and I'm confused
@@bichpham9917 4 years isn't as bad. My wife is 11 years older and it don't seem that bad but the problem is she use to be my teacher back in school so people who know us easily criticises our age gap just because she use to be my teacher that makes her like way older then 11 years. Thank god we're moving away from this area. Hopefully our new surroundings no one will judge.
Literally me, and it’s only 2 years. Well this has made my mind up on what to do 🤷🏼♀️
Im 28 and my wife is 41.im really happy with her and we both have children that we share good times together
I met someone 3 months ago that is 30. I am 43. Both of us had been single for at least 5 years. Neither of us planned to ever date, but when he moved in right next to me something happened. We were both blindsided. Fell completely in love. We get along so well, laugh a lot, stare into each others eyes, hold each other and make plans together. It's the most amazing feeling. I don't think it's so much about age with us. We have a genuine connection that we haven't ever found anywhere else. If you find someone that you love? Then love them.
Amazing. I've been with my wife for 5 years and she's 42 and I'm 31 and we have 4 beautiful babies at that time. I already knew her because she use to be my ex and use to be my teacher back in 2004. I've been with a lot of older women but she made me have strong feelings for her. I mean even though our relationship has always been sexual we slowly start having more feelings then sexual. Some say I married her for the wrong reasons and yes it has been toxic at times but we always pull through during the bad times. We just can't be away from each other and we've been seperated a few times but our connection is extremely strong.
Christienah hi how you today we are open minded and I am Ibrahim from Egypt 🇪🇬 and i looking for know for ferindship as you like
Same. I’m 36 he’s 24 😀
My beautiful, compassionate, loving, kind, creative, ambitious, genuine girlfriend is 55 and I am 24. She is my best friend, I absolutely adore her and we are perfect together. She's the Ying to my yang. We are moving in together in a month. I am so excited to begin my life with her. She is THE most amazing person I have ever met.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
I'm 35 and am intersted in a woman who's 45 and above i love older woman because they can be trusted
Understandable you can find love however you want
I'm 34 and He's only 22 years old.. He always makes me happy and showed his sincerity.. I can't feel the age gap because He's really matured emotionally 😍🥰 I guess sometimes I act like younger than him 😅😂 Love is all about the happiness and commitment 😍😘
Good for you ! Sounds like you are happy :) x
@@ReneeSlansky yes 🥰😘 hopefully it will last forever 🤗
Wow 🥰🥰 I am so happy for you both!!
He got money 💰
@@tylerdecker6994 "job done without violation" LMAOOO probs he does have money
I have a beautiful wife I’ve been married to for 12 years so far. I’m 37 and my wife is 47 but many people can’t tell the age difference when they see us. We are so happy. I married my best friend.
Hello I am married to a 30 years younger man! He is amazing in all ways and we connect in almost all ways. I take one day at a time and no worried about future. I live here and now!
Thanka for sharing
Wow. I wish I can that confidence and was that relaxed about it. ❤️
Wonderful to hear and great attitude good for you.I'm starting to date younger men,20 + years younger but it's not about age,more about compatibility and attraction.👌💕😉
@melly nelly My husband is much mature and he never care about age! He found me first and he like older women and younger too.We never see eachother like patent/kid!
I'm 13+ years older than my boyfriend. Nobody has ever noticed the big difference. I bring it up for fun but he never does (good boy!). Age gaps are not the problem -- not being on the same page is.
How young are you?
@@vivaeuropa in my 40s, everyone's legal here.
Absolutely, Madam!
“Age gaps are not the problem-not being the in the same page is the problem!” This by far is the best comment and advice I have seen all week.
@@TheRougefish a boyfriend at 40?? Lol you modern women never learns right :) maybe a 50 you will get it, you sure will
I'm here worrying over a 3 year gap but these comments and this video makes me feel much better...
Going on 9 years
I'm 30 and I really enjoy being with with women 10-20 years older than me. I find older women are way easier to get along with and be yourself with. Younger women in early twenties tend to expect you to jump through hoops to empress them even if it means being someone you aren't just to keep them happy. That doesn't make for a healthy relationship and will likely end badly and even more so the longer it goes on. To the point ... Always be yourself never do something you wouldn't do or want to do on a daily basis just to impress someone. And always be honest of your intentions. Just friends? Then tell them. Friends with possible benefits tell them. If you aren't sure tell them. Stay true to yourself and your significant other and if you work with each other its a good idea to move forward if it doesn't move on. Happy hunting.
That a little to young to be honest
If it pleases you go for it nothing can stop unless its illegal
Older women despite having baggage r calm know wat they want in life don't play games n treat u right
I don't see why you'd want to settle down with an older women, they'll age quicker, more used up and you'll be lonely when they die before you. As a 20 year old it doesn't make sense, sure they know what they want and are more serious but why not have a younger girl eho looks good longer and can take care of you when your older.
Not all of us have baggage. I'm tired of people making that assumption. 41 and have been on lots of dates but never got married or had children. No baggage in the relationship sense. Just high standards & values that make it hard to find a match. Willing to go younger if they are mature with good character & common interests.
I love My relationship we have 11 years apart and we get along together very well She is 42 and I’m 32 years old we been together for last 4 years at first she thought this is going to be hard but I prove her wrong we have a lot of chemistry and we like almost everything the same . My point guys out there is don’t be scare to date a older woman they know what they want they don’t play around like young girls and they know how to take care of you if you know how to take care of them too of course , respect, trust, love, sex100%ect ect . I love older them me 😍😍
@@xw6475 well if you both were in twenties,it wouldn't matter at all.
man i have a girl thats like 6 years gap i love her to death like jesus shes more matureeeee
I'm crushing on a guy 6 years my junior, but he's pretty mature... seeing how it goes :)
@@a.p5079 good luck
@@a.p5079 i like a girl 4 year older than me.i have promised to keep her happy and loved her.but she has only one problem.my age
Mine is 5-6 yrs younger than me. That isn't the problem. The problem is he's 22 and I don't want to be with someone who is still playing games with women. Do I chance it and possibly waste time?
Hello i see you posted this 3 years ago and now I'm in your situation. he is 22 and I'm 27 and have those doubts about us. I mean everything is good but I'm just concerned about the future . Any updates you feel ok to share?
I am 58 and I broke off with a guy that was 43 (15 years younger than me), and that was a mistake! He chased me like crazy and I ignored him. Now I'm with someone 8 years older than me and the passion isn't there. He is cold and undifferent. I should go back to the younger guy if I could.
Nerdygirl So sorry for you but go and live your life find a younger man again if the passion is there it means a lot!
That's right you should date a guy who's younger
Hey , are you in Germany ?
@@samkobby3567 No. Why do you ask?
@@foureyedchick want know you, send me your WhatsApp
What about 23 and 21? We actually grew up as childhood friends and he started to like me when he was 15 and I was 17 and I rejected him because 2 years is a huge age gap as teens but now we’re both adults and he still says likes me but I’m scared. There’s so many people around me who can’t stand the idea of an older girl with younger guy and I’m a very sensitive person and get hurt easily. And as someone who’s always been attracted to older men, this is weird for me. I’m really confused. I might say fuck it and go for it but the little sensitive bitch in me can’t get over the 2 yr age gap. 😭
Just go for it if you want to. The people who would judge you do not belong in your life.
I think you should go for it 💯
That's not a gap. Imagine being 41 and 43..
Anyone who tells you negative things about a gap under 3 years is definitely not your friend and jealous of you.
Just wait n watch,,,girl mature faster than boy
I’m 18 and my girl is 25 we used to be having trouble still some arguing . Everything is good just the fact that I feel like she think I still have to experience like fun. But truth be told. I don’t want to have that experience.i don’t want to have that era that other people have that they go out and see other people and party.
I really needed/ appreciate this video I’m currently dating a man who is younger for the 1st time we have a great relationship but was concerned whether I was making the right decision .Great Video 👍
Glad it was helpful!
I'm a woman in my early 30s, divorced with a 5 year old kid and I've just found out that a guy who is 11 years my junior wants to meet me. I will definitely meet up! Always been into younger guys.
Did he pump and dump you or you still together?
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 Still having fun and mutual respect for each other👍🏼
@melly nelly You are disgusting😘
@@snowwhitebeautyful stop lying for your own good
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 😂 it's your misfortune that I'm choosing to tell the truth. Yep, it worked out for me😉
The younger man is merely for fun, uncomplicated and exciting. Men above my age are complicated, insecure, and exhausting. The younger man is easy, sexual, and requires zero demands. Men in their late 20's are the perfect bracket for short term fun. I've experienced both, the older men are too much work and intimidated by their shadows. Never let your older man know you strolled the skinny jean aisle ....they can't handle it and will never perform due to rust on the bolts.
👅wen
Hello you sound like a fun person to be around with
Cheri' BlacKoiUpstreem. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The skinny jeans aisle 🏆😅🤣🤣
13 year age difference with my guy. He’s younger 💞I love him so much. I would say that he tends to overthink a lot but we still love each other. I understand him and have a lot of patience.
I guess I shouldn't worry about him being almost 2 years younger than me xd
I'm dating someone who is going to 28 and I'm 40..I'm not looking at all as 40 but as 30..We have a lot of chemistry but I think that sooner or later we are going to broke up. I want a family and I know that is very difficult for him to want the same..Maybe I should broke up with him..I don't want to get closer to him because i don't want to get hurt..I don't have expectations..My past experiences were in the same age and the last guy
was 45 and he was very immature and he lied to me..That's why I decide to go out with a younger man..Too bad because I never had so much chemistry with someone else..I'm so unlucky in love..😣
Have you both talked about what you both want? Communicate your expectations to him first before you break up x
My girlfriend 40, I'm 29. She talked to me about preganancy, kids and expectations. I struggled with my ex (2 years younger than me, same period of life in certain way) but it was just to much effort to converge plans. Now, with a older lady who's been married bf, different life from my life it works just fine and natural.
By being a man all I can say that you women find a really big deal to talk about planning the family or think we're gonna break up later. Her ex also lied to her, at the end was truly indifferent to her. Happened to me in the begining of our relationship...she had the same issues as yours. And I'm no english, neither pakistan. When she came to talk to me she said was +15 days those things were in her mind and had to open up to me. The conversation went on very calm btw...
@@ReneeSlanskyOf course we talked about everything and I didn't expect something serious from him..but all of a sudden after a month he stopped talking to me without reason..But he never forget to watch my insta stories..He was an ****hole.. Period!
@@happinesspat1 Hey , are you in Germany ?
I am 30 i like a guy who is 25 i was scared that i am elder than him but this video made be felt better
go for it , that isn't too much of a gap :)
Sadaf Nawaz That’s like chump change, bro. Lol. My last ex was 35 and I’m 26.
Hello looking for a lady to be with am 36 of age
Am usually attracted to girls who are confident and have their shit together, they are almost always older than me 2-5 years older than me...I failed to attract them more than 4 times already, I am getting plenty of interest from women/girls younger than me so after all these failed experiences I already lost hope in dating an older woman, it's just too draining to try to get them to like me, and now I just date younger women and am enjoying the experience.
I was married to a 35 year old I’m 33 my I thought he was so immature so I dated a 61 year old guy who was worse I’m with A 25 year old guy who is the best thing that ever happened to me very responsible handsome treats me with love respect etc I’m in love but the age difference does bother me sometimes just because I have always dated older man
My wife is 11 years older I'm 31 and she's 42 and we have 4 kids as well since we've been together exactly 5 years. We got married late 2015. It don't bother us the age gap but it bothers others since she use to be my teacher back in school those fools who know this were always talking and abusing us since we moved away from that place far away we have no problem with the new people around us and it's almost been a year since we moved away.
Mojo K wow 😮 interesting story! Well I’m happy you 2 are happy at the end of the day that’s all that matters ❤️ who cares what the world has to say I wish you the best!
@@zaramorena6694 Thank you. I hope you find happiness no matter age your man will be. I like talking to people who have age gap relationship. Do you chat on google hangouts?
@@mojok7070 do you have Instagram?
@@williamhendricks3935 sorry. I only use hangouts or facebook messenger. You can add me if you want
Am older than my boyfriend he’s 29 and am 34 , but funny thing he’s really tall.. first time dating someone younger than me, do I find it bizarre hell
No, I just hope he don’t break my heart… he been dating quiet a while now … really love him!!
My bf is 7 years younger to me but feels like he is older than me
Youre not old. you can date whoever. Wow 7 years that is nothing
It depends on the person anything pass 3 years under or over my age would be big and to take into consideration and anything pass 5-7 is unrealistic for me.
I’m 27 and he’s 23 ugh it feels so weird but he’s so reserved and mature! But when I think about turning 28 this year and he barely turned 23 ugh I feel so old and weird. Is this ok? Do you think it’ll be an issue ?
I don't think so as long as you are compatible where it counts
Why do you care so much about who came from a womans womb first?why does it matter?only thing that should matter is his personality, maturity,compassion for you
Hi! I have a problem.. My crush is 18 and I'm 20. The age difference is not that big, but all of my friends say that they would never date a boy who's younger, because that would be weird.. I don't think so, but all those opinions make me feel insecure about this topic. I mean, I fall in love with the person, not with their age🤷♀️ Is there someone who can relate?
I think there is nothing wrong with your age gap , do what feels right for you not to please others x
Same
Nothing wrong about it
My birthday is in April and my boyfriend’s is in November 😂 so I’m months older than him. We’ve been together for 3 years so far and very happy. All my relationships with older guys didn’t work out
What day in April? Mine is the 13th of April!
I dont mind age gaps but i dont like the whole mid life crisis thing. You know dating young people because you are past your prime and feel bad. I think 10 years 8s the most. Women in their 40s/50s shouldnt be talking to 18-24 years olds.
Trust me In older woman-younger man scenario it is always the younger man doing the chasing. I’m in my 40s and only get approached by much younger men 🤷♀️
Women don’t set out to look for a younger man but men our age or older don’t date women their age.
J Crash I think it’s VERY dependant on country and culture. I can only speak from the point of view from Nordic countries.
Same with man
@@laraking804 i am 28 and older woman always want something with me lol, i am in the usa.
J Crash I don’t think young men chasing women makes young men sound desperate. On the contrary.
Many young women are still emotionally completely unstable. Too self conscious for great sex. They don’t know what they want in bed or are too shy. All that washes away with age. Older women are confident and know exactly what they want. And what they want of a younger man is sex.
Not in a million years will they bring a young man to meet the family or worse to a work function. So it’s a win-win scenario for both. Both just want sex.
Maybe in some rare cases maybe the idea of more but deep down both know it’s never going to work so you don’t get too distraught when it ends.
Yes there is a 0.01% who actually do end up with a successful long term relationship. But for most sex with a younger man in more like a mini break or vacation from real life.
Thank you for making this video. I am contemplating seriously dating an older woman who is likely 10 years older than me. I do not care about the age gap I care about who she is as a person and as a woman. Will she be. Good wife etc.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I'm a 27 yr old woman. Ppl tell me I look i'm 22 or like a teen. I get teenager alot. I want to date for marriage but any guy younger than 23 or possibly 22 is not ideal for me. There are barely any guys my age around me only like 10+ years older. I'm not interested in that kind of age difference. Also I'm looking for a virgin to be my husband.
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously. 24 years old
Im 30 years old and there this women I like and she's 50 i think she's really beautiful and be honest i dnt care how people wld think about it because you can't help who you like. Because every time ive been with someone my age i get my heart broken.
How did it turn out?
An indian women here , i am 30 and my bf is 20 , and he is such a sweet person and the chemistry 😍😍 which i haven't felt for anyone . I just fell so hard for him .
Wow a lucky boy do you know anyone for me??
@@abhishekgoyal9769 Me, but you don't have a picture
@@xtrm2009 are you female?
@@abhishekgoyal9769 both
He is 22, I am 29, but as many others said that before 26, u will meet lots of passers by , I feel like I will be his passers by - after all he has so much to explore at his age ...
Hey , are you in Germany ?
I’m 22 and he is 21, is it okay? I know it’s not a big age gap but still a lot people of give me stares when they find out that he is some months younger (literarily 7 months)
They stare on you because you are different.he is adult,No one can stop you.
I've been into 2 stressful relationships where I was the older one. First relationship was a 3 yr age gap and the second one was a 2 yr age gap. Both break-ups are heartbreaking and I'm even afraid to date younger men now but someone who is 5 yrs younger than me confessed that he likes and I like him as well. We've been friends for sometime. What do i do?
Hey , are you in Germany ?
Not everyone is same.2,3 year age gap is not a big deal
Throw him off,,,when 2 mature guy couldn't make you happy then how this immature kid will help you
Am in love with someone 13yrs younger and I am so happy but I no in my heart it will never work out I have to let him go .
If you are compatible and truly love each other it will last. Just enjoy the moment.
Hey , are you in Germany ?
I'm 23 and been interested in a guy who's 18..
Great! Go for it !
Ha ha you guys are in the 18-24 young adult category. There is barely a difference between you too. Enjoy
What about almost 29 and an almost 18 year old (waiting till he's 18)
Exactly the same for me. Feeling weird lol
Omg wow same here!
1 year later.... so I'm dating a guy who's 17 n I'm 19.. but for a while I'm like one years older, but I still feel guilty as though people will look at me differently .
Nothing to feel guilty about.they are jelous thats it.he is legal to you with his parents approval.
@@proudexmuslim2354 smile yes
@@PriinXo i am also 19 and have crush a medical student girl who is 23.but she doesn't like me because i am younger and far away from her.I told her that i want serious relationship with her and willing to learn and be more mature for her. but it looks like she doesn't like me at all.i lost my spirit to initiate girls again.life is cruel
@@proudexmuslim2354 sigh you will find someone soon who will love and appreciate you don't give up just yet
@@PriinXo ok
is 25 yrs apart a bigage gap..i am 25 yrs old men and i fall for a 50 yrs old women.
Good go for it
Its legal isn't it?
It’s a bit too much. I mean for a short while ok, but I’m a long run…
I'm 24 my fiance just turned 21 and I feel like in these years theres so much new stuff going on for him I already went through and he is very irresponsible but how long do I wait for change? We've been together 3 years
Hey , are you in Germany ?
I want a cougar woman :(.i will love her and try to be mature as possible.
"age is just a number" you want to know what else is just a number? 911
20 year old girl is dating a 15 year old boy , 911 ??'
@@xmoreno3366 actually it’s legal in Sweden
Soooo i found out that a boy lives near me 16 years old (im 19)and looks older but kinda catching feelings for that asshole.... ahahahaha we talk every day even tho he admited that he likes me and doesent look about the age at all i said i do but he still talks to me... should i give him a chance? Any advice
Sure why not? Maybe start off with a friendship or a few dates and see how you feel .
me too, he's 16 and i'm 22, it's legal where we are, but i still don't want to feel like a total creep because of the social stigma that i should wait until he's 18, im just scared of being called a groomer...society can be scary.
Hello
@@mirilovely7351 go for it
@@mirilovely7351 Date him, I'm 19 & my GF is 24... Society is judgement. We won't stop enjoying our life for them?
Love for me at its best I'm 52 my heart is 35 a twenty yr gap we have a lot in common * we can talk about anything something u mention in yo viedo about communication which I to think is important above anything I've been with my heart only for 2yrs & counting so we still fresh but I'm hoping to with this heart of mine
maybe become his wife but for now we have to take one day at a time but I thank u for this viedo it was helpful !!!
I don't think I can do it. I have men much younger than me attracted to me, but I can't bring myself to do it. Sooner or later that difference is going to bite hard. I'm too sensitive.
Same. He is 8 years younger and people think I am younger than him. But I am afraid one day it will make a difference and something inside me is hurting so much because of this.
@@trinityp8575 Well... eight years isn't a whole lot. Don't feel badly. I have some about 20 years younger looking at me and I REFUSE. They're cute, but no way.
@J J Yep. Add Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa, too. Everyone was envious of what they thought they had, but I somehow knew better. Nice in the beginning, but likely not to last.
@@moni1952 Will you rather regret it later? You only live once. In my case, there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's good looking, I admit. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.
I can think of seven reasons why is nice to date a younger man.
That's really nice, you sound like a fun person to be with
@@rufaiawode1338 xxx
@@bettyprice6316 awwn!!
@@bettyprice6316 I would love to know you better
@@rufaiawode1338 It's a pity we can't talk in private xxx
Okay hi I need advice on something. Say your 19 and he’s 17 but doesn’t turn 18 until next year. Would the age gap be too far if I ever did decide to date him. In appearance wise he looks like a 18 year old because he’s much taller than me which is one my main thing of what I look for in a guy. And then obviously his physique, and personality. In fact, he checks the boxes of all three of them. But the problem is is that he’s 2 years younger than me. Can anyone help me out here 🧐🤦♀️🤣… Also he’s jus starting to open up at work to me when I’m alone and yet it kinda scares me that if I get too close it may destroy the relationship I’m trying to create because of his age.
Question. Pleaseee help. I like this guy and we are both 15 but I turn 16 first.. I know that Its not a big deal but guys mature slower so do you think that we have a chance at a long term relationship if we get together or would he end up changing as he goes through puberty?
Everybody is always changing and evolving , and at that age it's hard to predict a long term relationship when you both are young and have a lot to go and grow through. I would take it slowly and get to know his character ...don't be in a rush to have a commitment from someone you are still getting to know
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Renee Slansky thank you SO much!!
cant tell if you are trolling
I remember thinking i was gonna get married with my girlfriend when I was 15 so here is some words of advice, just enjoy eachothers company and don't focus on titles and external pressure from your peers.
Hi thank you ma’am for your vlog. I actually didn’t like younger men because my previous relationships are older than me for 11-35years. and my boyfriend now is i am a month older. because He was born on November and I was born october. and it bothers me than i am a lil bit older😅 but He is so amazing. He is patient and mature. I think age is just a number. It will always depend on how you manage each other.
Hey , are you in Germany ?
I’m 36 dating a man that is 26. He is amazing and we have grown so much. I hope things work out because I am afraid at times. We have been seeing eachother for a year now.
First take a moment and ask around, "Why aren't you younger folk going for one another instead?" If you hear output that suggests something in the department of being mutually selfish, irresponsible, lazy, and entitled - Now, what do you think is going to happen if these "young-uns" get their claws on you? Oh, I'm sure the emotional thrill (and even the sexual experiences) with a "daring young whatever" might be exciting, ditto memorable, but when you have absolutely no more to offer, somebody's definitely getting tossed under the bus, and it sure isn't THEM!
Free world who are you to tell people what to do,mind your own shit,wish good to others and goodness will follow your 😏😏😏
People could be in their 80's and still be selfish, irresponsible, lazy and entitled. Given how the older you get, the more empathy you lose and only tend to look out for yourself. I worry more for the "young-un" who will be thrown under the bus by the older partner.
Thank you for making this "short and sweet" lol, My Goodness I am so tired of those dating "Gurus" that have hour long marathon videos explaining ONE CONCEPT! Lol.
Im 53 and alot of young men pursue me.. but i cant seem to move past their age
What about their age makes you hold back?
@@ReneeSlansky i feel younger men are not serious but curious and I don't want to get emotionally invested in a fling or a fetish
2 years isn’t a lot right😅
Nope it isnt
That is nothing if you're talking alot then maybe 10 years and more but i advise find the right person not just the looks
Nope 👎
I'm having this situation now he's 23 nearly 24 I'm 32 and nearly 33 is it okay? I do have reservations but like him just as much..he is a Muslim too and I'm a Christian plus I'm in England and he's in Pakistan.
1 year age gap shouldn't make much of a difference . I think the religious difference and distance would add more stress than anything else .
great confusion
how you met him
Of course it's ok you're both adults
As a Christian myself we aren't suppose to marry non believers God said. We're suppose to raise our children up with the word of God and protect them from the "wolfs" imagine the wolf being your children's father.
Thank you so much I would love to chat with you and get your advices and tell you my story
no a younger person will break your heart everytime!!!!
What if I’m 20 and he’s 17
Wait 1 year more.let him be fully mature man.after he turns adult,he is a man.and then age will not matter
Yes. Thank you. I am so confused over 17 years age difference...it is giving me headaches
You got this!
There’s a girl who I have a thing for she’s 31 and I’m 28 years some people believe it’s a problem because she’s older a lot of people I know believe that the man has to be older
how about he is 22 and Im 29
Olesya Solgier seven years is not a big deal.
There's a boy who is 4 years younger than me said he liked me , well he's cute so I like him but my graduation exam is coming soon and I'll study in the university , and he lives in my school so if we date we won't have much time together , now I'm confused and don't know what to do :((((
4 years is not that bad. I mean I doubt people could tell the difference of your ages
Mojo Khan yeah , he looks older compare to his age bc he's really tall
@@bichpham9917 with my wife she looks good for her age at 41 for a woman who just had four kids within three years and she has a plus size type body. I'll be 31 soon and she still looks like my age. If people don't know us they'll think I'm older because I shave my head. I've been with few older women since I left school at 16. I haven't been with a woman my age since my last girlfriend at school. I've been with older women like 20 years older. Oldest I was with was 50 years old.
Mojo Khan wow :))))
Mojo Khan wow :))))
Well i am 1st year guy in my college. But i have a huge crush on a 3rd year senior girl. I talk to her often on whatsapp and she is very nice with me but i am scared of revealing my feelings to her. What should i do?
so i’m 19 and i’m kinda falling for a 16 year old
I once dated a girl 3 years older when I was in school. I was 15 and I was in year 9 and she was in her last year of sixthform. In school some find that crazy but reality is a big deal gap isn't as bad as like 20 years old. My wife is 11 years older then me. We've been together for 4 years married for over 3 years and we've had 4 kids at that time. She just turned 42 and I'm 31. She use to be my teacher as well back in school. The attraction came after we both left school.
Technically that's illegal so be careful.
You’ll go to jail. Wait 2 more years when that person becomes 18
@@MsDee-iw7cf I think there's the within 3 years acception. Plus if the kids and parents don't care then nothing will happen.
Hello that's not really bad!!
Dating a man 3years younger than me and everyone is hateful and judgemental. The shaming is too overwhelming .I wonder how people manage this.
Well I'm kind of a weirdo (I'd say) because I'm 14 and I was/am attracted to a guy who's 11, almost 12. So, him and I ONLINE dated but broke up 3 months later or 2 weeks ago because either someone told him it's stupid or he thought it's stupid himself... My parents found out about our relationship and told me that it ain't good but... I still sort of like him. Yesterday, he told me how he likes a girl from his school but she doesn't like him back. In my head I was like 'Karma got you, haha.' I think he's soon going to regret breaking up with me but I'm not quite sure.. 🤷🏻♀️ I need help ASAP.
I think that you should focus on other things and people that make you happy. Love isn't about trying to convince someone of it.
Hey ik this is late but dw ur situation wasn't as bad as you thought. I liked a 13yo guy when i was 16. I'm 17 now and i still might like him. I feel guilty asf.
I love it when the lady is a little more mature! Change things up a bit
I am 16, a high school junior and the person I like is 14, an 8th grader. He’s old for his grade and I’m young for mine. Kinda freaking out ahh
That’s ok 2 years age gap isn’t bad at all☺️😍
omg same! He's going to turn 15 but he's a freshman and I'm 16 as a junior, I thought the 2 year age gap was bad but looks like I'm not the only one going thru this!! good luck with them:)
I’m 19 years old and I’m a virgin but I like older women around to 25 but I’ve never been I a relationship is that weird or nah
Not at all, I'm 18 about to be 19 and I'm into older women from their 20's to mid 40's. Even if it is wierd then you aren't alone brother. don't seek approval from people on the outside about your personal relationship with someone. Emphasis on PERSONAL.
Personally, I'm looking at women who are older than myself. I've just turned 21, but I have problems with girl's my age group, mostly due to maturity level, not all,but majority. It clashes, bc I'm a more layed back person. I come across as more serious, since I'm not messing around all the time. Don't get it twisted, around the ppl I care about, it's very different.
I just think, bc I've been through and learnt alot. Even my mum, who is and has been my mentor in life, especially when I use to get in trouble at school. I eventually took on her advice, and things have changed, and her "foolish advice" as she calls it which changed the way I thought about things. Although I don't like at home, we're like this🤞🏾❤️.
Parents just seem like naggers when we're young,but they just have been there and done it.
But yeh,abut off topic. I think girl's my age group seem to make assumptions before even getting to talk to me first. I found that older women have no problems coming up and talking to me,and I think the maturity level tends to match mine.
Just my experience tho
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@@ReneeSlansky Thank you for your response, brilliant video Topic, keep it up 🙌🏾
Is it weird that I want a relationship where the woman is older and dominant? Does that make me a soyboy or something?
Not at all , perhaps you are attracted to lots of confidence in a woman. It is probably a byproduct of your upbringing
Im into a girl that’s almost 4 years older than me im 19 and she’s 22 but her birthday’s later in the year
Did it work out for you ?
@@fstorms Nope, life happened we aren’t friends now, only knew her through online classes, still would love to date a girl older than me in the future, though I just like it that way
I'm a woman. When I was 24 I had a little fling with a 18 years old. He was so excitingly energetic all the time 🤯 Everytime he came over he broke something in the house or in my body lol, that was so hot. After a month we said our goodbyes, he went to travel around the world with friends and I moved to another city to start a new job. I have no idea where he is now or what he is doing. I don't care. But he awakened my interest in younger man. 🌡️
I’m older than him but is a 10 month age gap bad?
That’s false for me. Even if you present me with two attractive, mature, talented, encouraging, kind, honest, caring, and humble men who have the same job and income - I prefer older men. They are more romantic and appealing than younger guys, because I consider them like my brothers and cousins. Not marriage or love material, no matter what they do. Even if I was a widow now, I still am happier being permanently single and in love with my older wiser husband than an equally loving but unappealing boy. I’m blessed that I found the older husband I longed for in my heart. If God forbid, something ever happened to him and I lost him, my heart longs to be with only him beyond death. I gladly will remain single in that case and wait to rejoin with him. Any pervert and especially young guys would get restraining orders.
well this is your problem, I'm sorry to hear that
Hey , are you in Germany ?
Can you explain whats so special in older guys that young guys can't have in any coast which attracts you?
And why don't young girls view old guys as elder brother or father?
Age is just an number
Nope
TRUE Story !!we love older woman bcz they are caring,attractive&sexy
I guess I got unlucky he left me I am 7 yrs older to him..I am 42 and he is 35 yrs..I really loved him..nd still do..infact of he is divorced with a child..and m still not married..don't knw what went wrong..unlucky in love I guess
Feeling good to reading comments..thr are guys who beleive in love and not age which is just a number..grt going💖
He pumped and dumped you. Stop fooling yourself.
I've seen many older women dating younger men with around 20 yrs gap.
Here in my country Indinesia a cougar woman is called "tante girang" which means " cheerful aunty".
So um. I'm 16 years old. And she's 20 years old. I'm still nervous but I don't take it seriously though when I'm 20 and that's the time I think I'm good enough. She 24 if I do
Dating a man who is 9 years younger than me
Hey , are you in Germany ?
@@samkobby3567 uhh no
@@jckenjill send me your email we keep in touch
@@jckenjill HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously. Age is not important for a good relationship with a woman I.
Close friends with a single mum that was a model born in the 70s , she looks 30 tho .
Somone help.
I’m currently dating this guy he’s 1 grade smaller than me. He’s an amazing person only problem is he told me he was the same age as me but only a few months younger..I recently found out when we where on the phone that his brother told him he was a year younger and I heard. So we are 1 year and a few months apart. I’m so stressed out
That's not a very big age gap , so I would relax and focus on what makes you compatible and enjoy his company :)
Not me coming here 3 years later because I’m getting to know a man 10 years my junior 😩
Reading the comments certainly makes me feel better, and less self conscious.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
In india it is a very sensitive topic....i m 28 and i am a girl and he is 23....Our families dont want that we marry...We have tensed...plz give me advice what should i do???
dated someone 12yrs younger, too drama and heart breaking for me
My wife is 11 years older and we married and have had 4 kids since 2015. She's 42 and I'm 31
@@mojok7070 you are a good man and your wife is fortunate to marry you. am 45yr he is 33yr but he doesn't know if he could commit so we broke off but he insisted us to be friend until recently, he decided he is good enough to move on and already found someone younger
@@happygal1974 That's unfair. I also struggled to commit before. When was 20 and I was with a Italian woman who was 45. I loved her dearly but she wanted me to meet her family because she wanted us to get married which was weird because even before thinking about marriage she just wanted to get married and move back to Italy with her. Even though I loved her I wasn't ready for marriage at 20 years old. Her age wasn't but it was she got me off guard and ask to much to leave my life in UK for her. With my wife me and her was together a few months even though it was more sexual our relationship I still wanted to marry her. Our marriage wasn't those big weddings it was cheap in a chapel like those vegas style ones. Our chemistry is really powerful both sexual and romantic. I've always prefered older women I haven't dated a woman my age or younger since my ex girlfriend from school. Our marriage hasn't been that great. There's been fighting and seperations at times it has been very toxic but we make it work for the kids. When we were seperated I was missing my wife so badly it made go crazy
@@mojok7070 wow, you and your wife had made it through thick and thin, it proven you both are for each other.. truly happy for you and i hope you and your family stay close and happy forever ☺️ mine was really a complicated one. He is a foreign celebrity of which we were in LDR. Perhaps, in my believe due to his sickness, he broke off with me as he couldn't promise me a future. In my understanding, he too codepedent on me too much thus requested me to stay by him perhaps we could patch thing back one day he said. I stayed and financially supported him for 3yrs, but our rs was a difficult one as we have communication problem since he don't share with me alot of things and i believe as a celebrity, he cannot trust me good enough, thus, i felt very hurt over it but i couldn't leave him due to his sickness, things became toxic that i was drained by his problems to an extend i started to be harsh on him with words. Fast forward, 3mths ago, when i started to hint on him if he could pay a portion of the money in a form of helping me to pay my loan, we started to quarrel over it and he cursed me for spreading news about him borrowing money (which he did and it was my friend who spread it perhaps to protect me from being used by him) I was so disappointed how ungrateful he can be worrying his image as celebrity will be tarnished. without giving me a conclusion on the money, he politely told me he wanted to be alone as he wasn't feeling good over the incident blar blar, so i left him alone. Few days later, when i texted him again, his manager accused me of disturbing and brainwashed him over all that had happened and cut my contact with him. It was via social media that i realised he got hooked up with a young actress from his same native and living life as if he is happy that he can leave behind his dark past. I was so angry and felt betrayed considering to expose him to the public, but my friend warned his company will protect him for good and I may land myself with a law sue.. etc etc.. I prayed everyday for healing and forgiveness so that i can let this go.. right now, am in a healing process of forgetting him and at least i know that i had done what i could for him in order for me to release him without any hates
@@happygal1974 Wow. I feel sorry for you. You went through a lot of drama with him. Healing from breakup is one of the hardest thing you could do. I know the same feeling with my ex girlfriend from school. Probably the most painful breakup I ever had. I would go into more details but it's too long. Do you use google hangouts? I would like to discuss this more on google hangouts. It would be easier to chat on hangouts
The age gap is 2 years. I dont people always say it's not ok...
2 years is not a huge age gap so should be ok , but of course everything comes down to the person not the age
Age is just a number and chemistry is chemistry.
Get lost bitch
@@booni5114 ok I will if you say so.
@@nannar8217 HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
My friends parents are 10 years apart. But anyways thanks for this video this helped me feel better the person I like it's just a four year age gap
Is it weird to date a girl if she 1 year older
I’m turning 24 soon but I’m only really interested in 18-22 yr old girls. I feel like a lot of the girls who I have seen over 22 kind of go downhill or are not as attractive as the younger girls in general. Like I said I’m 23 but I look young and I take care of myself. A lot of girls assume I’m like 18-20 yr olds which definitely has its negatives but, I can’t see my age preference changing going forward.
Question please help me.. In my life I have never dated a girl but the I saw her I fell in love because of her kindness and the beauty unexpectedly I didn't know that she's elder than me for 2 years. Still we chat as friends but I'm really scared to propose her whether she will reject me. Cuz she doesn't know my age she keeping asking me the age I was refusing by changing the subject but if she rejects I'm a person who cannot bare the sadness cuz I'm really dying for her. Can you please advise me about it. I love her alot.
Ok so you are infatuated with her , you aren't involve because you haven't gotten to know her that well. Bring value to her and focus on being confident , making her feel safe and at ease and that should make her warm to you.
What about the guy is 24 and the women like she is 30