Spot on. I was 25 she was 41. Direction, confidence, knew who she was .took charge,inner and outer beauty. A woman who knew what she wanted Not a mumsy woman ,a woman who enjoyed life till the utmost. We were together 38 happy years She died three years ago from breat cancer. Just thankful for everything this amazing woman gave me. Miss her terribly.
Ken, I'm 46 and the guy I'm dating is 33, we are 13 yrs apart and I thought surely no man would stick around for the long run. Well sir, you proved it with your story and it gives me hope. I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like you shared a beautiful life together.
@@SweetLiLheart Not always easy,but like any marriage you gotta work at sometimes.But we both got what we wanted out of each other We lived together for 7 years before we married. We both knew neither of us was going anywhere by then ,so comfortable together.
I would say: 1. Sexual maturity. 2. Knows who she is and what she wants. 3. No gossiping. 4. Less insecurities and self doubts. 5. More focus on you, rather on herself. 6. Better understanding of men (they sometimes understand from one look what men want) 7. Deeper and more meaningful conversations.
Very accurate. We were 16 years apart. He was dynamic, courageous, gorgeous. I was patient, nurturing, willing to fill my life with excitement. We were married for 10 years before he died. He left a huge hole in my heart.
I am 66, my wife is 9 years older, she has a younger thinking mind than me, even after 28 years together, she excites me every morning when I open my eyes, she is very slow to judge, she never judges or disagrees with me quickly, but takes her time to ask me to explain my view point, she is close to being near perfect for me ( I said for ME ), I STILL ADORE HER, she would be perfect, if her snoring did not keep me awake ! Lynsie Barbara Cristiano, I so love having you in my life.
@@JoseGonzales-ul9sv his girlfriend has to be pregnant at the age of 12 to give him birth. Their age difference is 13 years. I don't think she can be her mother.
Great video, I was 32 and my wife was 42 when we both married, our marriage lasted 20 years and I have peace in all our years together and I achieve so much great things in life with her love and support. in bless memory she passed away 6 years a ago and I still can't find a woman like her. I really understand what Susan Winter is actually saying.
Rip ... wanted to say something thanks for saying this because ive seen a lot of guys accusing older women for being loser and having been playing all their best years so they finally wanna catch up what they missed ... very sad point of view yet shallow .. im 41 ive never waste my time playing nor i had many relations ...dunno how can they judge someone they don't know
When I was 25, I was in a relationship with a 45 year old woman. She's gorgeous & I felt very lucky to have her. I was with her for 2 years. We ended on good terms & we still communicate with each other.
Thanks for sharing your story, Ninja. I really love hearing from the men and especially a man who has loved an older woman. Great to have you on my channel.
True. And while I long believed being 'needed' was more powerful, I learned that's not the case. Being wanted is a choice, and therefore pure in its intention and focus. Thanks for your comment.
My boyfriend knows that I want him and that I'll never need him, he hates that though, men hate being wanted but not being needed. I'm nearly a decade younger than him though, so I think it must be reminded that there are exceptions to the rules, not all older women are so mature and not all younger women are so immature.
Hello Susan what an astonishing smile you have I hope things change in the states and also within the world as well including the Covid-19 dew to the new Government
I'm 32, my wife is 42. Known her since I was 13 and she was 23. Yea, sounds weird, but we didn't start dating til I was 25. We worked together and ran a successful business for 18 years.
Ok. Ill chime in. 10 year difference is not a problem. Even 15 years!! A generation gap poses problems. Both intimately and socially. (Do not date your daughter or son) If you cant talk and agree on life’s choices then you are not on par with your partners mentality. You are either a teacher-Student. Master-Slave. Parent-Child
I do envy u mate. I was in a rship w an older woman and though we cldnt bd 2gthr i wish everyday we cld hd bn foreva. She didnt hv the typical model sexy body. Infact she was chubby and felt insecure abt that. But id choose her over any kardashian cz she was very smart, thoughtful, had no childish pride.
I'm 30 and she is 56. To be honest, she treat me way better than women my age. I'm talking about taking care of my heart and mean what she mean. She says "I'm not losing an amazing King. I will go to war because you are mine". I tried with my age and they just left me on read. I don't got time for that.
My husband and I were married nearly 34 years when I lost him to a sudden heart attack. I was almost nine years his senior. Age was never a factor in our relationship. Any issues we had were the same as other couples. He said I had a calming effect on him and he treated me as an equal and valued my opinion. I was smitten by his handsome looks and it made me feel very desirable after having been in a marriage that made me feel insecure about myself. He helped me raise my two sons from the previous marriage and we had a daughter together. If you are in love, don't let age stop you from marrying.
From a young man's perspective, the lady in this video is absolutely correct. It's very simple, men desire integrity, dignity, and intellectual rich content from their counterpart.
So its not that they are sexual dynamos at a certain age? I mean this 47yr old lady I used to date would hump my calve as she was performing fellatio on me. Thats freaking hot AF!
I'm 29 and I communicate with an 40 yr old women 9 months straight. Eventhough, we both love each other I can't wait to see her. I love her so very much❤
Eddie what is it that you find beautiful in older women? I feel so bad being 52 I can hardly stand it. I only live now because I want to be there for my dog Dave. After him I'm leaving this existence as well.
A friend of mine who was 20 started a relationship with a 47 yr old woman...She got pregnant and gave my friend a wonderful girl...who is now in her middle 30's...And later my friend had another girl with the same lady when she was 51 years old...The rarest thing is that both girls are normal healthy ladies and My friend lived with that lady until she passed away from a stroke about 3 years ago... A rare case of love and damn lucky genes...
18 and engaged to my 38 year old fiancé. I've dated plenty of my female peers and none of them have been able to fulfill my needs and wants like she has. And I find so much happiness and pleasure in making her as happy as she has made me!
Notes: knows who she is, knows what she wants and she does not play games. Goal oriented.... Susan you are one of the best I have heard on youtube.......thank you for helping people see things in different ways. Ability to connect, and be straightforward, clarity...
For the first time in my life, I'm very attracted to an older woman. She's financially stable, very mature, and she knows what she wants. We also have so much in common. In 37, and she's 45. She has never directly told me that she likes me, but she has told me in other ways. I think she's wonderful. We are just talking as friends right now, but I could see us getting serious in the future. I don't need her, and she doesn't need me, but I want to be with her all the time. She makes me happy. :-)
@J OneLife personally it depends on the man also the age of the man. Also if a lot of younger guys from 25 to 35 knew they had a chance. With older / mature women they will take the chance.
Yes if she can cook then she never need to worry about where man is. Hey you want to hit the strip club tonight? Nope.. I'm good. My Love made some Gumbo, and has cold beer waiting for me at home. After that we are going to play doctor. And that sounds so good after working 8 hours a day.
@The Free one Hold up just one minute... No one said anything about getting married here. At least I didn't. All I'm saying is that an older woman is more in tune to what a man wants and needs ( Most of them ) and that's because of experience. In the Military we always say there no substitute for experience. This is true... train all you want, but the guys that been there & done that clearly has the advantage.
I'm 29 and I can attest that this is 100% accurate. Now, you can also unpack what you've said even more. For me, one can go even further with the elements of appeal: attentiveness, affectionate, and intentional are big turn-ons for me. This is directly linked to an older woman's maturity and knowing herself, and when a woman is fine with herself, she has the energy, willingness, and desire to bond with a younger man in a way that girls still finding themselves cannot. For me, sexuality must be holistic and involve the mental and emotional aspects of arousal and overall connection. So yes, these men are goal-oriented and directive, but they also realize something about the deeper aspects and don't concern themselves with quick selfish desires to get off. When there is an immediate mental/emotional bond with an older woman, I don't notice or care about wrinkles, in fact, sometimes it is more physically appealing. She still has to be taking care of herself, and reasonably attractive, but even the physical looks of an older woman can be more enticing to me than the skinny, the smooth, and the timid young little girls running around. Sometimes when my guy friends are staring at a girl in her 20s, I'm preoccupied with observing the cougars in the room.
This video is on point. Last year I was in a relationship with a 49 year old co-worker. I was 24 at the time. Things didn't work out but we still are friends. We still talk a lot. And every now and then, she still needs me to lay the pipe. Everybody wins.
I met my handsome 30 year old King. Almost a year ago l am 54 we've been going strong a few ups and downs . I moved a way a month ago he feels I left him. I explained I needed to get me right it was not because of him. I asked him to move with me and he agreed to take it to the next level. Yes I'm a lot older but confident enough to know what I want and he is old enough to know what he wants . So yes im ready for our life journey it's so exciting and a blessing. I will keep you posted with our journey.
Interesting video. I’m 32 and realized that before the environment of the last 13 months, I was becoming attracted to a woman in her 40s. What impresses me about her is not only intelligence, but how encouraging she is to me.
Dear Susan. Thank you for your video and for your reply to my comment. I will watch the others as soon as I can. When I was 26, a 39-year-old woman and I fell into deep love. Very sudden. Un coup de foudre, as the French say. It was wonderful. She was so mature and wise. It took her three months to cajole me into bed, and that side of our relationship lasted a couple of years. The love remains.There were misunderstandings and communication failures aplenty. I was young, and didn't know much about love. Now, I'm 66 and she's 79. We still love each other deeply. We are kindred spirits. It is still wonderful. Thank you. (You are magnificent, wise, very beautiful and brave.) (I have loved mature women all my life, never really cared for young ones. I was very shy, and found them scary. They returned the sentiment, and didn't have the time of day for me.) Keep up the good work. Love and admiration, jack
Hi Jack. What a lovely letter and beautiful story. I do understand the closeness that exists long beyond the love affair and relationship. My ex has been by my side for over 12 years. Though we've made different romantic choices in our lives, the connection remains just as strong and with deep admiration and love. Thank your for your note and sharing your story.
Dear Mr Housman; what a wonderful testimonial! I'm in relationship with a man 13 years my junior. We first met when he was 26 and I 39 - just like you and your Missus! I consider your story a "lucky omen". Best wishes and kind regards.
I didn't tell the whole story, I guess. The lady depicted (J) is not my Mrs.. I was in relationship with another woman, about my age (C), at the time of the lightning strike. We had been a couple for about five years at the time. She got very upset, of course, and took years to get over it. After we got married in "79, and my relationship with J. continued (non-sexually) C. came to know J and her family and quickly came to love them all. C. who is three years younger than I, met in college in 1970. We are now happily married 37 years. I am very lucky, having had two great loves in my life. May I ask, Ms. Sarissa, how old you and your partner are, now? All the best. Take are, and thank you, for your very nice comment.
@Cindy Lou we dudes have no problems. Ee men know that women past their mid 30s hit the wall and drastically drop in attraction. Their tits are hanging and their asses are frightening. All their bodies are nothing but a regret. Their faces are scary, like as if biology that she is past child bearing and worn out. Women are in truth a nightmare and terror in the flesh. Women past 35 are frankly not attractive. Yet, we men love our women even though they are terrinly unattractive to us because we love women with all our hearts for who they are. Women however are like you. Women don't love men unconditionally like how we men love our women. This is why 65% of all marriages are divorced and 80% of all divorces are initiated by women. Women deserve our disgust, yet they get our unconditional love. And you whine sbout bellies and hair. You superficial low value woman...
@@jannieschluter9670 Lets get the measuring tape. How far down are the balls hanging? The size of the waist is over 32 and the length is 30? Lets not mention the balding. lol
@@cr4228 balding is matter of taste. Certain women love that, it's showing masculinity. Yet, we don't want to talk about balding women, which is gross. Hanging balls are dope. Imagine him banging you doggy and his balls slapping against your clit. It's dope. A pretty man is gross. You want that man be tossing and spinning you and be a rough beast of a rock, add a scar or two, with hanging balls, is dope. It's a go.
Some of us do need....im vulnerable thanks to my older nuts ex who will not move on...and lives just down the road...is not good, trying to move away but it takes time and money, and we live on the one income, my young partner has saved me from hell....literally..
Yeah. You're right. Most cases, we just love and want the man. The "need" come as a consequence. Our fear is just the childbearing issue and maybe hurt your feelings, but that depends on the age and money situation of the couple.
As a woman in my mid 30s I seem to attract men that are in their 20. However, I feel reluctant to reciprocate even when I want to because I know that right now it's probably my maturity that attracts them but in 10 years when I'll be approaching my menopause and having all kinds of struggles related to aging, they will be at their physical peak and will probably simply leave me for someone younger or even same age who doesn't have to deal with it yet. I can't help thinking about it every time a younger man shows interest in me.
How was your experience been and how can you tell when they show you interest? Just out of curiosity because many young men like myself are always and have always been attracted to older women, we can not explain it.
You are absolutely right. This world is totally insane, believe me. Everyone is selfish. But always remember they will never get the peace of mind after leaving you. They will suffer everlastingly. That's the law of the nature
I'm 22 and I find older women are starting to attract me like never before. A lot of older women possess this confident authentic raw aura that eminates a pure sense of self that isn't altered by the opinions of others causing their actions and words and decisions to be purely their own from an internal point of view because they have simply realized themselves and embraced it. A woman that radiates pure individuality, that can stimulate my intellect and give me raw uncut knowledge and wisdom is just a MASSIVE fetish like turn-on. whew. she just has a clear sense of self that is less altered if not unaltered all together. Women my age just don't really catch my attention like that of a women with some longevity in her life
Good for you both. He is obviously more intelligent than some of the men commenting here. I need an intellectual equal irrespective of age. My man is 43 while I'm 53. It's lovely for both of us.
I am 22, i have dated a woman who was 42 when I was 20-21. It was amazing experience, unfortunatly we had to go our separate ways, But I would love to fall in love with another older woman some day
SweetLiLheart omg I totally understand what you mean my fella is 25 I’m not but I’m younger than his mother I push him away I think because 1 I’ve never fell for a younger man 2 now I feel like I have met a man who gets me so well and he still has my full attention after 2years But I am anxious in case I get hurt Right person wrong time 😕 I know he loves kids and wants them but he’s missed the boat with me He appears to have no issues with age gap I know that it’s more my issue I just don’t know if I have the courage to just let it happen instead of being in conflict with myself and not truly committing myself and be vulnerable I don’t think I could hurt anymore than I do now So sorry for rambling this was going to be a short reply but I actually think like you said I should go for it and enjoy it for what it is as I would with a man more my age F it you only live once
Because nature is built that way. A man can be fertile in old age an looks don't matter One thing no one mentioned is MENOPAUSE. It is the main reason. Men and women are meant to age differently
I’ve been with several older women and its nice to feel appreciated. No games, no bs, sex is amazing, and I think older women are flattered when younger Men are attracted to them. If us Men could wrap our heads around the age gap mental dilemma we would be better off in the long run.
GalacticWoman bcz u really beautiful and nice n sensitive hot m really needed a good life mature lady like u for secret relationship with long time secret relationship m always ready to sex m love mature lonley lady
Exactly ..I'm 62..he is 52. OMG he is mesmerizing..and he is sooo excited to be here..praise..compliments..sexy and a gentleman...one that is truly present for the 1st time I believe ever ...truly truly i happy happy to be where I am..Lovely lovely!
My list: Confidence, yet welcoming warm energy Are not afraid of the idea of intimacy More knowledge and experience -> deeper conversations -> deeper connection Straight forward, honest (with themselves especially) and able to communicate when there is a problem Do not use insults as “flirting” strategy
I was always smarter and more intuitive than my peer-group growing up. Older women appealed to me because I could relate to them better. I was bored and un-enthralled with girls my own age. Older women were challenging, dynamic and wonderfully seasoned. - I loved them with all my heart. Or maybe it was a mommy thing, I don't know, lol...
When I was 18 I had a summer long romance with a woman who then was 42. I’m sorry to say that at the time I was embarrassed. She was very pretty but at 18 I worried too much what people would think. I know that I’m in my mid 40’s now and I have not had a relationship like the one with her. I’ve been married twice and every relationship has failed. I know I hold my responsibilities for the failures but not completely. The older woman when I was 18 taught me so much. To be honest I’ve never had better sex since. I now only date women 10 years older than me. I’m done with all the games and drama. I wish now I had stuck with older women from the start.
I’m one of those younger men. Mental connection is a major priority like you said you just don’t find that in younger women who still think every guy wants them.
You are spot on. I am 19 years younger than my wife and I agree with everything you said. I was 31 and she was 50. I was not embarrassed by dating a woman who could be my mother, I was proud to have this 50 year old bombshell on my arm. That is the outer. Her inner self was even more beautiful than her outer physical beauty. Her personality and wonderful female traits was something I could not resist. We have been together for 30 years and married for 24.
Mr badgerman. Right.i was 23 and my lover was 46 .she had great sex angles in bed with me.and i was more energetic person.we both satisfied to each other.more pleasure.
A Older women is like a diamond. A diamond which is result of all (about life matters) cutting , sharpening, polishing. She can teach you the real way of life. She teach a lot more then sex. Many people thinks she wants just sex or like that. But it’s very different then this. It’s on younger man what he want to learn from her. 🙏
The reason I prefer older women. She hit the nail right on the head. Older women know who they are. They know what they want. They don't play games. They are mentally more mature.
A man marries after acquring a carrier. A girl marries upon getting some education but in full bloom of her looks, somewhere between 19 to 23. There is nearly always a difference in the ages between a man and the girl he marries with the girl being 4 to 6 years younger. Sometimes the age gap is more sometimes the man being 8 or 9 years older. I am talking about financially secure marriages mostly from the middle class. Also about educated families.
I should like to add that in middle class educated families, and man financially almost secure , marriage is a one time life matter for both. The couple are sincere to their marrage and bring up their children with loving care.
Older women are financially stable and can keep a conversation going. You can tell them anything without coming out as a creep, perverted, or whatever.
yes you are so right . I am 50 he is 26 he is like old man I am like young teen who will never grow up. I still listen to heavy metal. We both LOVE metellica. I am using my partners email if their is any confusion do have my own could not get off the couch to go get it haha I love this comment so to the point
I was raised on Texas cattle ranches working hard and learning the meaning of life. 42 now! At 16 I was already missing the 80's and appreciated the country life back in the 1800's as I was there doing the very work those folks did. Yeah, I was born in the wrong era! Damn sure. And for that matter had I been born then I'd have been a damn fine Texas Ranger and cattle rancher. But here I am. Now. Surrounded by snowflakes! And appreciating older women in their 50's because they are about the only women left that haven't gotten screwed up in the head too badly from the 60's and went full potato with the liberal bullshit! P.S. liberalism is a mental disorder! That from a real cowboy! All American and patriotic!
I like older women only. I won't waste time on a younger girl who has confusions about her self-esteem (which most of them have). I won't drain my energy just to teach her small things how this world works. Older women already know everything as they've been through the rollercoaster. They know what man really wants and they mostly always initiate sex!
I am turning 25 this October, my girlfriend turned 47 back in April. I met her not by chance but because of faith and God's will. I don't mind if she can give me a baby in the future, because I made a promise that I'll marry her regardless of the risks of not having a baby. I truly love her and it's not just by words, but by actions. Thank you for this wonderful video.
Dont waste ur life. Upto dating is ok but making ur wife to a 47 yr old n u r jus 25. Oh pls u wil regrt whn u reach 30 she wl be above 50. Age is not jus a number.
I’m 22, and I like older women because I have an “old soul”. I embrace being an old-school gentleman, and I’m not a smartphone addict. I feel like older women tend to show me more appreciation. And I am always flattered when an older woman compliments my looks and who I am.
This was totally my experience when online dating. I had way more younger guys messaging me than older ones. Maybe the older guys were looking for 20 & 30 year olds. I’m not dating right now because I had to actually break it off with a few guys who got a bit overzealous. I probably won’t go back to online dating for that reason. I’m fine with being single too if the right person never comes along.
Very very true. I was 22 and first real girlfriend was 56. (I'm 45 now) We sync'ed very well in so many arenas. To be fair.. even from young-young, I've always been attracted to mature women and not girls my age. I value a woman who's feminine in every sense, lady like, dressed, and carried herself accordingly. That's just my preference. We were mutually appreciative to each other. She treated me with a respect most men never encountered. It was reciprocal. What ultimately happened between us was personal. My belief is in this day where everyone is only out for themselves and what they can get out of someone.. A woman whom is out of a divorce or just been playing the field so long just to come out empty handed would probably be best opening their options to younger men. Despite younger men still being in their journey of finding their place.
yes but there are practical considerations. A young bloke must be sure he don't want kids, as old woman will not be able to give him any. She might get arthritis, osteoporosis, etc. He has to be sure he will be happy to be a full time carer. Only sayin................................Personally, as an oldish woman I cannot imagine being anywhere near younger guys, as I am finished, no energy, no drive and don't want to be bothered puttin a face on it, even the thought of plastering make up on is exhausting mate
Havaseet2 your response isnt nice to say and me I found my soulmate we were together before he went to prison he gets out in 2 years were getting married after he gets out we talk every day by phone him and I have a great connection which is scary at times but I'm slowly learning how to accept it and open my heart to him and as far as what you said yes it may be true what you say the divorce rate is high but they been together for 12 years that's a long time in this day and age we live in if it wouldn't have lasted it would've been only a year or maybe two years or five years they would've already been broken up but they lasted 12 years so it's highly likely that it'll will work since they got this far and yes people do cheat out there but you have to be a really strong person not to let that moment of weakness get to you ,if you really love someone you wouldn't hurt them you would go up to them and talk to them explain to them that feeling like you're having a moment of weakness so before I act on that weakness let's do X Y Z to fix this so I won't have thoughts of ever cheating on you and sometimes two people can work that issue out or spice up their marriage an older couple once told me to never let it get boring always be the way you were when you first met always complement them always make each other feel beautiful and if it's your soulmate that your truly madly in love with so in love that you would jump off the titanic to rescue them, that kind of love is easier cause that fire 🔥 is hard to burn out when you are so in love with that person that's why you work through the little problems because you know it's too important you know you want to lose them because you know it's hard to find that kind of connection they may never find in their lifetime
Yes it's true what you have said definitely my wife is 13years older than me I'm 27 and she is 40when we got married it's about 23 years now we been together
@@texan4548 when she is 40 I'm 27 that's the time I meet her and at 44 she gave me only one child now my daughter is 20 my wife is 63 and I'm 50 years old that's cool isn't it
@@sanchosantana8151 It is. I fell for quite a few older women myself. I can't even tell you how beautiful some of them were, and how turned on I was! In bed they are wild, and very grateful.
I'm 29 and my girl is 40 and yes I've always preferred older women. They have their shit together and since most girls my age are just well blaah and play games. I like my women straight forward and honest...
Susan you are right, am 29 years old and I've always been attracted to older women, they've been there done it all, and they are honest, they do not play games, they are great conversationalists, they give great suggestions, advice, kind and they are experienced lovers.
I'm 62 and dating a 44 yr old. It's been 5yrs now. There are definitely sparks Between us! He calls me his queen and our relationship is simple, with no demands....... It works for me & it works for him. I'm taking it one day at a time and enjoying the moments we spend together.
I'm 25 and my queen is 41 you just explained everything of how she is and that's what's made me want to be with her it's hard to find a young a woman that knows what she wants
I agree with your 3 reasons. I will add another: older women are often better, more enjoyable conversationalists and for a man who likes to chat about different things, different topics, this can work in his favor. Your reasons will apply to men who already have their affairs in order. My recommendation for older women who are interested in dating younger men is they find one who has his house in order, has a good solid life, knows who and what he is, where he wants to go in his life. He may be further along in his career than most men his age, be more informed on current events, social, political issues than most men his age, have a stronger sense of responsibility, purpose, duty, greater interest in serving his community. Also, selecting a man who doesn't place a high priority on starting a family (at least not right now) can also be advantageous as he will be less likely to focus on a woman's reproductive potential, opening the door for him to date a significantly older woman. It takes a special kind of man who is willing to date women older than himself, he needs to have a strong healthy positive self-confidence, a healthy inner strength. This is the kind of man an older woman should look for in a younger man.
Scott, this is a wonderful series of observations. Thank you! I love all that you've written and agree wholeheartedly. The younger men that find themselves attracted to an older woman are quite special. They're advanced, as you've stated, for their age. They require dynamic content in their mate to match their won level of awareness. Truly a lovey commentary you've left here. I appreciate your watching the video and your wise words.
I’m 20 and female I’ve preferred slightly younger for a few years now. I can make my own money (I’m about to start an official teaching qualification), I’m quite mature for my age and I don’t need a guy for nada. Younger guys are more attractive and offer a different perspective. I also find it quite interesting they initiate the conversation.
Hello, Susan. Thank you for the advice. I told my grandmother last year that I was attracted to older women, and she understood and is very supportive of me. Now that I look at it, my celebrity crushes are older than me. Unfortunately, most of them are married and/or already dating someone, which I am happy for them. I wish them nothing but the best and I am hopeful that I'll find happiness myself one day.
Even though I'm in love with an older woman but the reason for me that I fell in love with my GF was the first reason is that she's sexually attractive for a woman in her 60's and second because she has a good heart by being trustworthy,honest and willing to sacrifice for me for her mercy to me by truly being in love with me and I'm in my 30's by the way. Before I met,I was against this type if relationship but when I met my GF, it all changed.
It's telling that you speak of the quality of her love. Beyond the physical, it's the depth of emotion that stirs our heart. Thank you for sharing your story, Jason. Many happy wishes to you both.
Thank you for making that beautiful comment and I do really love her so much and she loves me too and we're almost 4 years in our relationship. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you.
I feel you my brother. When I'm in my 30's my girl will be in her 60's. Cheers to you guys! And a toast to all the sexy women 50+ and to the lucky gentlemen with them.
I am so happy that I found your channel Susan! We both have watched all your videos on this topic and bought your eBook. And in the 10 months together we realize that we both made so many mistakes that you discuss in your videos and warn against so now we are better and stronger and I'm not afraid anymore. I am 39 years and my amazing boyfriend is 26 (he already told me by day 2 that he is going to marry me). He had to be so persistent to get me to believe that his can work out even though I am ashamed to say I've been among the majority of people out there who did not like the idea of the reverse age gap. But now I embrace it and recommend it to everyone I know who is still looking for MR Right because I see all the beautiful benefits and experiences and YES I see myself through his eyes now.... Thanks Susan!
I so agree Susan. Absolutely have experienced this. Thank you for posting this. Men like stability and reassurance. Older women provide this - it just makes things so much simpler for the man and the woman. Love and blessings to you!
This is not always the case. Some of my toughest heart aches have come from older women. It truly depends on the person, their mindset, and if they have the capacity to love unconditionally. Lots of older women are stuck in their ways. It truly depends on the person.
So that sounds like givi9ng up to me, my guy didn't and he found me, young girls' are still worse see it enough when I'm out, maybe the fault lies with you...he found me after going through HUNDREDS OF PROFILES FOR MONTHS....
I started kissing a mature woman this week. Met her from work. I'm 26, she's 52 and it feels amazing. Fireworks are around us whenever we kiss. I'm happy this is happening.
Let's be real here. Men like older hot woman, compared to younger girls. The average 45+ year old woman isn't going to turn a young guys head. Most younger girls are part of the "selfie generation" and have little to bring to a relationship other than looks.
Very straighforward explanation. I am 45. I struggled all my life to get guys and especially guys I wanted. I have come to this age where I have stopped giving a damn and I think I understand why I keep being hitted on for the past year or so. I've dated younger guys, some of them gorgeous. It is an interesting time of my life because I have never felt so ugly and unattractive and yet so confident and laid-back at the same time.
Lol such a easy question,older woman a way better and more exciting in bed simple,and for really young guys they want the experience that older woman have,plus they are more chilled out not annoying as young girls,
I love laugh lines, softened curves, and the way older women carry themselves. Well maintained older women are mesmerizing it's pure attraction to me none of the stuff about money, not playing games(plenty do), or anything. I just melt for them. You're absolutely stunning miss Susan.
I just GET older people. When I'm around people my age, I'm always "weird" or "dumbfounded" or just plain misunderstood. Back home when I'm around older people, I can oddly relate to them on some levels I'm very spiritual and it's very rare for me to meet piers who are attracted to a certain lifestyle. I've also been told by a few im an old soul, and so I never really feel like I belong with my piers. Older women I've met are also straightforward
I have the same experience. I've always hung out with and felt more comfortable with the "older folks" rather than my piers. I shared their interests in cars and music as well.
I understand what you mean. I'm 43 and meet people my own age and have nothing in common. They are imature and talk a bunch of nonsense. I can relate to older people a lot more
+Frank Daley Thank you Frank. So true. And regardless of age, the clarity of that information allows us to gain traction in our romantic lives. Thanks for watching this video. I really enjoy your work on dating and praetorship selection. Truly brilliant.
@@jojo-ir9rj Depends on the man and what he wants. Most men want children one day, and for that they want a woman that is A) as beautiful as he can get her B) sane, kind, and nurturing and C) obviously, fertile and as young as possible However, if children aren't a concern, men will gladly have sex and even relationships with older women. But don't think for a second that if children were to ever be a concern, that he wouldn't leave an older woman for a younger one who is still fertile. It's just basic biology and you can't change it. We all grow old and aging isn't exactly too kind on either of the genders.
I was in a relationship with 7 yrs younger guy. At 1st everything was great bcoz attraction, fun and sex were amazing but in time we both realized we dont have future bcoz we were not on the same level in mind, life experience. I felt he had "nothing" to offer to me and he felt he wasnt ready for all the things i wanted and needed and was prepared for. It was a good experience though for both. Valuable life lesson.
Spot on. I was 25 she was 41. Direction, confidence, knew who she was .took charge,inner and outer beauty. A woman who knew what she wanted Not a mumsy woman ,a woman who enjoyed life till the utmost.
We were together 38 happy years
She died three years ago from breat cancer.
Just thankful for everything this amazing woman gave me.
Miss her terribly.
oh so so sorry to hear about your loss...hope you are well
Been a very difficult three years,but slowly finding my feet again. Thanks.
😢so sorry for your loss
Ken, I'm 46 and the guy I'm dating is 33, we are 13 yrs apart and I thought surely no man would stick around for the long run. Well sir, you proved it with your story and it gives me hope. I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like you shared a beautiful life together.
@@SweetLiLheart Not always easy,but like any marriage you gotta work at sometimes.But we both got what we wanted out of each other
We lived together for 7 years before we married.
We both knew neither of us was going anywhere by then ,so comfortable together.
I would say:
1. Sexual maturity.
2. Knows who she is and what she wants.
3. No gossiping.
4. Less insecurities and self doubts.
5. More focus on you, rather on herself.
6. Better understanding of men (they sometimes understand from one look what men want)
7. Deeper and more meaningful conversations.
Agreed.
FaKe
@Frost u lie u can't find any that's why u talk like age have anything to do with maturity
@@kallasshhhnikofffrustiko5881 stfu
@@hagi3983 you to you found a old one? am not surprised this generation is lost, you scared of young woman
Very accurate. We were 16 years apart. He was dynamic, courageous, gorgeous. I was patient, nurturing, willing to fill my life with excitement. We were married for 10 years before he died. He left a huge hole in my heart.
I am 66, my wife is 9 years older, she has a younger thinking mind than me, even after 28 years together, she excites me every morning when I open my eyes, she is very slow to judge, she never judges or disagrees with me quickly, but takes her time to ask me to explain my view point, she is close to being near perfect for me ( I said for ME ), I STILL ADORE HER, she would be perfect, if her snoring did not keep me awake ! Lynsie Barbara Cristiano, I so love having you in my life.
Love this
I could never find myself liking a younger man.Not even a day younger than me.
I’m 35 years old and my girlfriend for two years now is 48 , and she is the best thing that’s ever happened to me! I love her so much
Normal you couldnt find better and young LOOL
@@kallasshhhnikofffrustiko5881 what
She could be your mother
@@JoseGonzales-ul9sv his girlfriend has to be pregnant at the age of 12 to give him birth. Their age difference is 13 years. I don't think she can be her mother.
@@alokbaluni8760 you must be dating someone younger than your son
Great video, I was 32 and my wife was 42 when we both married, our marriage lasted 20 years and I have peace in all our years together and I achieve so much great things in life with her love and support. in bless memory she passed away 6 years a ago and I still can't find a woman like her.
I really understand what Susan Winter is actually saying.
Beautiful life together. That was a pure blessing. Congratulations. ♥️
Actually a ten years age gap shouldn't be that much of a topic. . There's still or even more than ever so much misogyny around.
I'm happy for you!🌻
Bless you. You had true love. That's stuff is rare now.
Thats so lovely to hear. Bless your heart.
Rip ... wanted to say something thanks for saying this because ive seen a lot of guys accusing older women for being loser and having been playing all their best years so they finally wanna catch up what they missed ... very sad point of view yet shallow .. im 41 ive never waste my time playing nor i had many relations ...dunno how can they judge someone they don't know
When I was 25, I was in a relationship with a 45 year old woman. She's gorgeous & I felt very lucky to have her. I was with her for 2 years. We ended on good terms & we still communicate with each other.
Thanks for sharing your story, Ninja. I really love hearing from the men and especially a man who has loved an older woman. Great to have you on my channel.
Thanks.
Susan Winter please send me your number
@ G G - I think she's already taken. No point in asking her for her number.
Damn you were pounding some older cheeks.
Older women don't need you they just want to be with you. Very simple,
True. And while I long believed being 'needed' was more powerful, I learned that's not the case. Being wanted is a choice, and therefore pure in its intention and focus. Thanks for your comment.
Smart answer.
+Susan Winter hi dear if possible i want talking with you little? ?
Maxwell Oakes damn and that's why I love them if they don't need anything but my attention then that makes me feel special
My boyfriend knows that I want him and that I'll never need him, he hates that though, men hate being wanted but not being needed. I'm nearly a decade younger than him though, so I think it must be reminded that there are exceptions to the rules, not all older women are so mature and not all younger women are so immature.
I’m 50 my fiancé is 31. We’ve been together happily for years! Age isn’t an issue....
Hello Susan what an astonishing smile you have I hope things change in the states and also within the world as well including the Covid-19 dew to the new Government
I have a girlfriend in such a young man from the Arab Republic of Egypt 33 years looking for a mature woman like your age
Yet.
Lovely
@Blunt Blonde , Правдолюбивая Блондинка Hi
I'm 32, my wife is 42. Known her since I was 13 and she was 23. Yea, sounds weird, but we didn't start dating til I was 25. We worked together and ran a successful business for 18 years.
@Rockford John why?
HAHAHAHA
@NPC #34254334 Response: Right lol 10 years which will be like nothing in 10 more years. Good on you, my last GF was 20 years older.
Ok. Ill chime in.
10 year difference is not a problem. Even 15 years!! A generation gap poses problems. Both intimately and socially. (Do not date your daughter or son) If you cant talk and agree on life’s choices then you are not on par with your partners mentality. You are either a teacher-Student. Master-Slave. Parent-Child
I love it!!
I've been with my wife for over 13 years. I am 39 and she is 55. I have never been this happy.
Incredible share. I wish you both many more years of happiness. Thank you James!
Whoa
James Wilson great
James Wilson gross
I do envy u mate. I was in a rship w an older woman and though we cldnt bd 2gthr i wish everyday we cld hd bn foreva. She didnt hv the typical model sexy body. Infact she was chubby and felt insecure abt that. But id choose her over any kardashian cz she was very smart, thoughtful, had no childish pride.
I'm 30 and she is 56. To be honest, she treat me way better than women my age. I'm talking about taking care of my heart and mean what she mean. She says "I'm not losing an amazing King. I will go to war because you are mine". I tried with my age and they just left me on read. I don't got time for that.
Update?
Man that's awesome!
please work on ur looks too. Make yourself attractive for her.
Give us an update bro. Hope all is well. She said she would fight for you hope that worked out. Nicer than younger women that just want to play games
@@ceeb107 We are not together anymore.
My husband and I were married nearly 34 years when I lost him to a sudden heart attack. I was almost nine years his senior. Age was never a factor in our relationship. Any issues we had were the same as other couples. He said I had a calming effect on him and he treated me as an equal and valued my opinion. I was smitten by his handsome looks and it made me feel very desirable after having been in a marriage that made me feel insecure about myself. He helped me raise my two sons from the previous marriage and we had a daughter together. If you are in love, don't let age stop you from marrying.
Sorry about your husband miss
From a young man's perspective, the lady in this video is absolutely correct. It's very simple, men desire integrity, dignity, and intellectual rich content from their counterpart.
true but not all the men.
So its not that they are sexual dynamos at a certain age? I mean this 47yr old lady I used to date would hump my calve as she was performing fellatio on me. Thats freaking hot AF!
I'm 29 and I communicate with an 40 yr old women 9 months straight. Eventhough, we both love each other I can't wait to see her. I love her so very much❤
Did you meet her?
@@skittle-chan3577 no but I should next year when they have full visitation at her facility
@@zayajames51 wish the best 😊
The most important reason is older women are just simply beautiful.
Hi Eddie. That's wonderful. Thanks for that comment.
Eddie what is it that you find beautiful in older women? I feel so bad being 52 I can hardly stand it. I only live now because I want to be there for my dog Dave. After him I'm leaving this existence as well.
Nicki LovesDogs I hope you go find support for your depression
Thank you.
I agree.
A friend of mine who was 20 started a relationship with a 47 yr old woman...She got pregnant and gave my friend a wonderful girl...who is now in her middle 30's...And later my friend had another girl with the same lady when she was 51 years old...The rarest thing is that both girls are normal healthy ladies and My friend lived with that lady until she passed away from a stroke about 3 years ago... A rare case of love and damn lucky genes...
Wow!
Great to hear and more on the exceptional side. They had healthy kids and they had a long relationship that’s all we can ask for
That's it, the 3 points you stated. My partner is 18 years older and we have been together and intensely in love for 30 years.
I was 18 and was with 37 year old for 5 years. Bloody amazing
This is strange world
Shubham Parab 👍🏻👍🏻
ഗുണ്ട്
Ummm okay weird flex but ok
And time stood still 😍
18 and engaged to my 38 year old fiancé. I've dated plenty of my female peers and none of them have been able to fulfill my needs and wants like she has. And I find so much happiness and pleasure in making her as happy as she has made me!
Congratulations!!!
Bruhhh that’s your mom
Very cool
Man, I'm jealous
you are not surely 18. Because 18 years old kid can't speak like that lol
Notes:
knows who she is, knows what she wants and she does not play games.
Goal oriented....
Susan you are one of the best I have heard on youtube.......thank you for helping people see things in different ways.
Ability to connect, and be straightforward, clarity...
Why young men like older women? One answer. MATURITY
Why thank you we older woman appreciate everything you young men do for us in the bedroom😊
EXACTLY!
Agreed.
@@liliantepaea6441 bless
One real answer. SEX.
Young men are at their sexual peak. Old women have experience to handle all that sexual energy.
Also older women are more caring.
Depends
Not in my case.
More devious than their younger counterparts.
i wood lik
@@entitykeeper8869 i wood
For the first time in my life, I'm very attracted to an older woman. She's financially stable, very mature, and she knows what she wants. We also have so much in common. In 37, and she's 45. She has never directly told me that she likes me, but she has told me in other ways. I think she's wonderful. We are just talking as friends right now, but I could see us getting serious in the future. I don't need her, and she doesn't need me, but I want to be with her all the time. She makes me happy. :-)
Make a move on her ask her out on a date
4 years later comment, how did it go?
I love older women no games and they are mentally more stable. If she can cook that's a massive turn on.
@J OneLife personally it depends on the man also the age of the man. Also if a lot of younger guys from 25 to 35 knew they had a chance. With older / mature women they will take the chance.
I hate to disappoint you dear, but some older women are anything but stable and terrible cooks.
Yes if she can cook then she never need to worry about where man is. Hey you want to hit the strip club tonight? Nope.. I'm good. My Love made some Gumbo, and has cold beer waiting for me at home. After that we are going to play doctor. And that sounds so good after working 8 hours a day.
@The Free one I wholeheartedly agree.
@The Free one Hold up just one minute... No one said anything about getting married here. At least I didn't. All I'm saying is that an older woman is more in tune to what a man wants and needs ( Most of them ) and that's because of experience. In the Military we always say there no substitute for experience. This is true... train all you want, but the guys that been there & done that clearly has the advantage.
I love older woman because they respect themselves as woman. They stay on their grind.
thanks for watching.
I feel the same way
Hi.
grind or ground ? ;D*
1besieged that’s Black for they have money or are making lots of it. 😂
I'm 29 and I can attest that this is 100% accurate. Now, you can also unpack what you've said even more. For me, one can go even further with the elements of appeal: attentiveness, affectionate, and intentional are big turn-ons for me. This is directly linked to an older woman's maturity and knowing herself, and when a woman is fine with herself, she has the energy, willingness, and desire to bond with a younger man in a way that girls still finding themselves cannot. For me, sexuality must be holistic and involve the mental and emotional aspects of arousal and overall connection. So yes, these men are goal-oriented and directive, but they also realize something about the deeper aspects and don't concern themselves with quick selfish desires to get off. When there is an immediate mental/emotional bond with an older woman, I don't notice or care about wrinkles, in fact, sometimes it is more physically appealing. She still has to be taking care of herself, and reasonably attractive, but even the physical looks of an older woman can be more enticing to me than the skinny, the smooth, and the timid young little girls running around. Sometimes when my guy friends are staring at a girl in her 20s, I'm preoccupied with observing the cougars in the room.
You are a very smart man. :)
This video is on point. Last year I was in a relationship with a 49 year old co-worker. I was 24 at the time. Things didn't work out but we still are friends. We still talk a lot. And every now and then, she still needs me to lay the pipe. Everybody wins.
You're an animal
@@Nnnnn636 I know. lol
Hats off to you, brah. Make sure u lay the pipe on behalf of all the bros who are still out there putting their life on the line hunting for a cougar.
SuperVince93 nah son 49 is too old I know she got saggy tits and a weird body you weird for that one homie
You naughty devil you!
I met my handsome 30 year old King. Almost a year ago l am 54 we've been going strong a few ups and downs . I moved a way a month ago he feels I left him. I explained I needed to get me right it was not because of him. I asked him to move with me and he agreed to take it to the next level. Yes I'm a lot older but confident enough to know what I want and he is old enough to know what he wants . So yes im ready for our life journey it's so exciting and a blessing. I will keep you posted with our journey.
Hi
Interesting video. I’m 32 and realized that before the environment of the last 13 months, I was becoming attracted to a woman in her 40s. What impresses me about her is not only intelligence, but how encouraging she is to me.
Dear Susan. Thank you for your video and for your reply to my comment. I will watch the others as soon as I can. When I was 26, a 39-year-old woman and I fell into deep love. Very sudden. Un coup de foudre, as the French say. It was wonderful. She was so mature and wise. It took her three months to cajole me into bed, and that side of our relationship lasted a couple of years. The love remains.There were misunderstandings and communication failures aplenty. I was young, and didn't know much about love. Now, I'm 66 and she's 79. We still love each other deeply. We are kindred spirits. It is still wonderful. Thank you. (You are magnificent, wise, very beautiful and brave.) (I have loved mature women all my life, never really cared for young ones. I was very shy, and found them scary. They returned the sentiment, and didn't have the time of day for me.) Keep up the good work. Love and admiration, jack
Hi Jack. What a lovely letter and beautiful story. I do understand the closeness that exists long beyond the love affair and relationship. My ex has been by my side for over 12 years. Though we've made different romantic choices in our lives, the connection remains just as strong and with deep admiration and love. Thank your for your note and sharing your story.
Dear Mr Housman; what a wonderful testimonial! I'm in relationship with a man 13 years my junior. We first met when he was 26 and I 39 - just like you and your Missus! I consider your story a "lucky omen".
Best wishes and kind regards.
Great comment, Sarissa. Thanks for sharing your story. I wish you both great happiness!
I didn't tell the whole story, I guess. The lady depicted (J) is not my Mrs.. I was in relationship with another woman, about my age (C), at the time of the lightning strike. We had been a couple for about five years at the time. She got very upset, of course, and took years to get over it. After we got married in "79, and my relationship with J. continued (non-sexually) C. came to know J and her family and quickly came to love them all. C. who is three years younger than I, met in college in 1970. We are now happily married 37 years. I am very lucky, having had two great loves in my life.
May I ask, Ms. Sarissa, how old you and your partner are, now? All the best. Take are, and thank you, for your very nice comment.
Yeah I think it's a type of guy that likes older women, just as there are types of guys who like certain women.
Older woman r so much nicer than young women. And many women age like a fine wine.
Women all age like milk. Men age like wine...
@Cindy Lou don't ask us men what we put up with women...lol
@Cindy Lou we dudes have no problems. Ee men know that women past their mid 30s hit the wall and drastically drop in attraction. Their tits are hanging and their asses are frightening. All their bodies are nothing but a regret. Their faces are scary, like as if biology that she is past child bearing and worn out.
Women are in truth a nightmare and terror in the flesh. Women past 35 are frankly not attractive.
Yet, we men love our women even though they are terrinly unattractive to us because we love women with all our hearts for who they are.
Women however are like you. Women don't love men unconditionally like how we men love our women.
This is why 65% of all marriages are divorced and 80% of all divorces are initiated by women.
Women deserve our disgust, yet they get our unconditional love.
And you whine sbout bellies and hair.
You superficial low value woman...
@@jannieschluter9670 Lets get the measuring tape. How far down are the balls hanging? The size of the waist is over 32 and the length is 30? Lets not mention the balding. lol
@@cr4228 balding is matter of taste. Certain women love that, it's showing masculinity. Yet, we don't want to talk about balding women, which is gross. Hanging balls are dope. Imagine him banging you doggy and his balls slapping against your clit. It's dope.
A pretty man is gross. You want that man be tossing and spinning you and be a rough beast of a rock, add a scar or two, with hanging balls, is dope. It's a go.
I was 18, she was 37...it was intense
I think Ur mom
@@marcopolo6418 It ws somebody elses mom...my classmates thought twice before inviting me over.
@@satishsati6217 that's fucked up you need therapy
i dont think 18yo should be dating someone around that age. You were not adult yet at that age.
I m 19 and she is 39....she is my friends mom....lol
Emotionally mature older women don’t “need” a man in their lives, they “want” a man their lives.
Truly!
Just f....cut the bs...they are easier to get lay
Some of us do need....im vulnerable thanks to my older nuts ex who will not move on...and lives just down the road...is not good, trying to move away but it takes time and money, and we live on the one income, my young partner has saved me from hell....literally..
Yeah. You're right. Most cases, we just love and want the man. The "need" come as a consequence. Our fear is just the childbearing issue and maybe hurt your feelings, but that depends on the age and money situation of the couple.
As a woman in my mid 30s I seem to attract men that are in their 20. However, I feel reluctant to reciprocate even when I want to because I know that right now it's probably my maturity that attracts them but in 10 years when I'll be approaching my menopause and having all kinds of struggles related to aging, they will be at their physical peak and will probably simply leave me for someone younger or even same age who doesn't have to deal with it yet. I can't help thinking about it every time a younger man shows interest in me.
How was your experience been and how can you tell when they show you interest? Just out of curiosity because many young men like myself are always and have always been attracted to older women, we can not explain it.
You are absolutely right. This world is totally insane, believe me. Everyone is selfish. But always remember they will never get the peace of mind after leaving you. They will suffer everlastingly. That's the law of the nature
I'm 22 and I find older women are starting to attract me like never before. A lot of older women possess this confident authentic raw aura that eminates a pure sense of self that isn't altered by the opinions of others causing their actions and words and decisions to be purely their own from an internal point of view because they have simply realized themselves and embraced it. A woman that radiates pure individuality, that can stimulate my intellect and give me raw uncut knowledge and wisdom is just a MASSIVE fetish like turn-on. whew.
she just has a clear sense of self that is less altered if not unaltered all together. Women my age just don't really catch my attention like that of a women with some longevity in her life
There are some women who are younger and emotionally mature than women who is older it's just finding the right person
you are exaggerating too much poor soul
@@onesolejeanius3498 see age is just a number. It's not true that all the Older woman are really mature in nature.
I have see many older woman who are actually just piece of 💩. Don't know anything about life. So it's all about personality not about the age
Im 52 he is 33. Together since 2017. Love 💕 is magic.
Aww that is so sweet.!So happy for you!He sounds fab!!
Gratitude was your family okay with you dating a younger man?
So happy for you ❤
Good for you both. He is obviously more intelligent than some of the men commenting here. I need an intellectual equal irrespective of age. My man is 43 while I'm 53. It's lovely for both of us.
Our age gap is similar My wife is 50
I’m 33. Got together in 2014 engaged in 2016 married in 2018.
I am 22, i have dated a woman who was 42 when I was 20-21. It was amazing experience, unfortunatly we had to go our separate ways, But I would love to fall in love with another older woman some day
She beat you for your meat bro
When I turned 18 and graduated from high school. I dated my 27 yr old pe teacher and were still together
Facts! I'm 33 and the woman I talk to is 46. I Never met someone like her.
I'm 46 and the guy that adores me is 33. He won't go away. Maybe I should give him a chance.
@@SweetLiLheart gimme a chance too sweetie
SweetLiLheart omg I totally understand what you mean my fella is 25 I’m not but I’m younger than his mother
I push him away I think because
1 I’ve never fell for a younger man
2 now I feel like I have met a man who gets me so well and he still has my full attention after 2years
But I am anxious in case I get hurt
Right person wrong time
😕
I know he loves kids and wants them but he’s missed the boat with me
He appears to have no issues with age gap I know that it’s more my issue
I just don’t know if I have the courage to just let it happen instead of being in conflict with myself and not truly committing myself and be vulnerable
I don’t think I could hurt anymore than I do now
So sorry for rambling this was going to be a short reply but I actually think like you said I should go for it and enjoy it for what it is as I would with a man more my age
F it you only live once
Why do people have a problem with men dating older women but they are fine when it's the other way around? Women dating older men
Excellent question.
Because nature is built that way. A man can be fertile in old age an looks don't matter
One thing no one mentioned is MENOPAUSE. It is the main reason. Men and women are meant to age differently
Because it's a dead end. No kids there. Nature.
How old we talking?
@@Gera1713 "looks don't matter" . They do matter, as they do for men with women, at least in the beginning.
I’ve been with several older women and its nice to feel appreciated. No games, no bs, sex is amazing, and I think older women are flattered when younger Men are attracted to them. If us Men could wrap our heads around the age gap mental dilemma we would be better off in the long run.
Older women are loving caring
I ve been told exactly same reasons why younger men find me attractive and I feel they too have much to offer me back.
Wonderful. Thanks for your note, GalaticWoman.
you are right miss galactic woman , Aran from nyc
Your absolutely stunning @galacticwoman
GalacticWoman bcz u really beautiful and nice n sensitive hot m really needed a good life mature lady like u for secret relationship with long time secret relationship m always ready to sex m love mature lonley lady
deepak sharma You are disgusting. Sharpen up your game, or you will NEVER get anyone
Exactly ..I'm 62..he is 52. OMG he is mesmerizing..and he is sooo excited to be here..praise..compliments..sexy and a gentleman...one that is truly present for the 1st time I believe ever ...truly truly i happy happy to be where I am..Lovely lovely!
Hi
My list:
Confidence, yet welcoming warm energy
Are not afraid of the idea of intimacy
More knowledge and experience -> deeper conversations -> deeper connection
Straight forward, honest (with themselves especially) and able to communicate when there is a problem
Do not use insults as “flirting” strategy
I was always smarter and more intuitive than my peer-group growing up. Older women appealed to me because I could relate to them better. I was bored and un-enthralled with girls my own age. Older women were challenging, dynamic and wonderfully seasoned. - I loved them with all my heart.
Or maybe it was a mommy thing, I don't know, lol...
Great way of explaining it. I think im in the same boat.
Believe it or not, everything you mentioned AND the fact that a lot of us actually do find older women MORE physically attractive.
When I was 18 I had a summer long romance with a woman who then was 42. I’m sorry to say that at the time I was embarrassed. She was very pretty but at 18 I worried too much what people would think. I know that I’m in my mid 40’s now and I have not had a relationship like the one with her. I’ve been married twice and every relationship has failed. I know I hold my responsibilities for the failures but not completely. The older woman when I was 18 taught me so much. To be honest I’ve never had better sex since. I now only date women 10 years older than me. I’m done with all the games and drama. I wish now I had stuck with older women from the start.
I’m one of those younger men. Mental connection is a major priority like you said you just don’t find that in younger women who still think every guy wants them.
You are spot on. I am 19 years younger than my wife and I agree with everything you said. I was 31 and she was 50. I was not embarrassed by dating a woman who could be my mother, I was proud to have this 50 year old bombshell on my arm. That is the outer. Her inner self was even more beautiful than her outer physical beauty. Her personality and wonderful female traits was something I could not resist. We have been together for 30 years and married for 24.
Younger man also have tons of sexual energy, and older women have tons of experience
Accurate asf !
100 percent
@@ktg5713 Amen
Mr badgerman.
Right.i was 23 and my lover was 46 .she had great sex angles in bed with me.and i was more energetic person.we both satisfied to each other.more pleasure.
YES MAYBE!!!!
A Older women is like a diamond. A diamond which is result of all (about life matters) cutting , sharpening, polishing. She can teach you the real way of life. She teach a lot more then sex. Many people thinks she wants just sex or like that. But it’s very different then this. It’s on younger man what he want to learn from her. 🙏
This is very true.
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@@b3at2 You have a lot of growing up to do.
@@DruidsCalling You have no sense of humor.
Is this nigga Ghandi???
The reason I prefer older women. She hit the nail right on the head. Older women know who they are. They know what they want. They don't play games. They are mentally more mature.
A man marries after acquring a carrier. A girl marries upon getting some education but in full bloom of her looks,
somewhere between 19 to 23. There is nearly always a difference in the ages between a man and the girl he marries with the girl being 4 to 6 years younger. Sometimes the age gap is more sometimes the man being 8 or 9 years older. I am talking about financially secure marriages mostly from the middle class. Also about educated families.
I should like to add that in middle class educated families, and man financially almost secure , marriage is a one time life matter for both. The couple are sincere to their marrage and bring up their children with loving care.
Older women are financially stable and can keep a conversation going.
You can tell them anything without coming out as a creep, perverted, or whatever.
Some men are older than their years. They were born in the wrong era. When you can have a meeting of minds, everything else will just click.
That's how my son is, you raised a great point!! @dragoncult666
yes you are so right . I am 50 he is 26 he is like old man I am like young teen who will never grow up. I still listen to heavy metal. We both LOVE metellica. I am using my partners email if their is any confusion do have my own could not get off the couch to go get it haha I love this comment so to the point
THIS IS SO SO TRUE I LOVE YOUR COMMENT thanks you make older woman like me feel good about ourselves
I was raised on Texas cattle ranches working hard and learning the meaning of life. 42 now! At 16 I was already missing the 80's and appreciated the country life back in the 1800's as I was there doing the very work those folks did. Yeah, I was born in the wrong era! Damn sure. And for that matter had I been born then I'd have been a damn fine Texas Ranger and cattle rancher. But here I am. Now. Surrounded by snowflakes! And appreciating older women in their 50's because they are about the only women left that haven't gotten screwed up in the head too badly from the 60's and went full potato with the liberal bullshit!
P.S. liberalism is a mental disorder! That from a real cowboy! All American and patriotic!
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we love older woman bcz they are caring,attractive&sexy.
I AGREE .. MORE LOVING. and sensual
@@KARILAGALENTERTAINMENT Yeah just like you! How old are you?
I love their nurturing and cuddling
I like older women only. I won't waste time on a younger girl who has confusions about her self-esteem (which most of them have). I won't drain my energy just to teach her small things how this world works. Older women already know everything as they've been through the rollercoaster. They know what man really wants and they mostly always initiate sex!
@Lilman Yellow he knows what he's talking about
@Lilman Yellow No, he's right on the Money!
What do you mean confusions about her self esteem?
Think he meant carousel 🎠
Awesome @Technophiliac
100% FACTS!!! EXACTLY WHY I LOVE OLDER WOMEN.
I am turning 25 this October, my girlfriend turned 47 back in April. I met her not by chance but because of faith and God's will. I don't mind if she can give me a baby in the future, because I made a promise that I'll marry her regardless of the risks of not having a baby. I truly love her and it's not just by words, but by actions.
Thank you for this wonderful video.
And thank you for your wonderful note, PauGarcia69. You've shared a lovely story!! Best wishes to you both!
U r great man,God will shower all blessings u
@maverickM249 😀
Dont waste ur life. Upto dating is ok but making ur wife to a 47 yr old n u r jus 25. Oh pls u wil regrt whn u reach 30 she wl be above 50. Age is not jus a number.
My wife is older than me.I love it.Shes smart ,sweet ,confident woman who just happens to be beautiful.
I’m 22, and I like older women because I have an “old soul”. I embrace being an old-school gentleman, and I’m not a smartphone addict. I feel like older women tend to show me more appreciation. And I am always flattered when an older woman compliments my looks and who I am.
This was totally my experience when online dating. I had way more younger guys messaging me than older ones. Maybe the older guys were looking for 20 & 30 year olds. I’m not dating right now because I had to actually break it off with a few guys who got a bit overzealous. I probably won’t go back to online dating for that reason. I’m fine with being single too if the right person never comes along.
Hello Melissa
Melissa,you are so beautiful.I will be glad to date you.
Hi
Not true. You're fine with it for a while, later you secretly start yearning for a man.
Hi dear....I want to say i wanted to be with you truly....i love older women and marry a older women.... Will you be mine? I am serious
I've redefined the word COUGAR to be a Confident, Older, Unique, Genuine, Assertive & Racy Women = COUGAR
KarenLee Poter Dammn woman ¡!!!!!!!!!!
KarenLee Poter Pretty creative acronym. Pretty and creative woman, too, I'm guessing.
KarenLee Poter impressive 👍
Your on point
KarenLee Love Tumhey kesa sex acha lagta hau
Very very true.
I was 22 and first real girlfriend was 56. (I'm 45 now) We sync'ed very well in so many arenas.
To be fair.. even from young-young, I've always been attracted to mature women and not girls my age. I value a woman who's feminine in every sense, lady like, dressed, and carried herself accordingly. That's just my preference. We were mutually appreciative to each other. She treated me with a respect most men never encountered. It was reciprocal. What ultimately happened between us was personal. My belief is in this day where everyone is only out for themselves and what they can get out of someone.. A woman whom is out of a divorce or just been playing the field so long just to come out empty handed would probably be best opening their options to younger men. Despite younger men still being in their journey of finding their place.
Wow, you were dating grandma
In love, age barrier doesn't matter. Humanity is most important
Agreed, Ebrima. Thanks for that.
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yes but there are practical considerations. A young bloke must be sure he don't want kids, as old woman will not be able to give him any. She might get arthritis, osteoporosis, etc. He has to be sure he will be happy to be a full time carer. Only sayin................................Personally, as an oldish woman I cannot imagine being anywhere near younger guys, as I am finished, no energy, no drive and don't want to be bothered puttin a face on it, even the thought of plastering make up on is exhausting mate
Hi
i married a man 9 years my junior and we are soul mates and madly in love still together and growing strong after 12 years. lifes good
I'm happy to read this comment. Thank you for sharing this with all of us.
Havaseet2 your response isnt nice to say and me I found my soulmate we were together before he went to prison he gets out in 2 years were getting married after he gets out we talk every day by phone him and I have a great connection which is scary at times but I'm slowly learning how to accept it and open my heart to him and as far as what you said yes it may be true what you say the divorce rate is high but they been together for 12 years that's a long time in this day and age we live in if it wouldn't have lasted it would've been only a year or maybe two years or five years they would've already been broken up but they lasted 12 years so it's highly likely that it'll will work since they got this far and yes people do cheat out there but you have to be a really strong person not to let that moment of weakness get to you ,if you really love someone you wouldn't hurt them you would go up to them and talk to them explain to them that feeling like you're having a moment of weakness so before I act on that weakness let's do X Y Z to fix this so I won't have thoughts of ever cheating on you and sometimes two people can work that issue out or spice up their marriage an older couple once told me to never let it get boring always be the way you were when you first met always complement them always make each other feel beautiful and if it's your soulmate that your truly madly in love with so in love that you would jump off the titanic to rescue them, that kind of love is easier cause that fire 🔥 is hard to burn out when you are so in love with that person that's why you work through the little problems because you know it's too important you know you want to lose them because you know it's hard to find that kind of connection they may never find in their lifetime
You married a year old?
Yes it's true what you have said definitely my wife is 13years older than me I'm 27 and she is 40when we got married it's about 23 years now we been together
So you started seeing her when you were four?
@@texan4548 when she is 40 I'm 27 that's the time I meet her and at 44 she gave me only one child now my daughter is 20 my wife is 63 and I'm 50 years old that's cool isn't it
@@sanchosantana8151 It is. I fell for quite a few older women myself. I can't even tell you how beautiful some of them were, and how turned on I was!
In bed they are wild, and very grateful.
its crazy how 27+13 is 40
I'm 29 and my girl is 40 and yes I've always preferred older women. They have their shit together and since most girls my age are just well blaah and play games. I like my women straight forward and honest...
Mickey Dotson
I will be curious to see what your mid-life crisis will look like?!?!
40 is good
I was skeptical clicking on this but I honestly agree with what you said. You definitely have done your research.
I love older women cause they actually care for you and arent confused like the younger girls who are still growing up.
I love older women they don't play no games they keep real
for real, no games and no filters (winked)
Truly!
thats right
@@I_sha88 hello dear can we be friends
Susan you are right, am 29 years old and I've always been attracted to older women, they've been there done it all, and they are honest, they do not play games, they are great conversationalists, they give great suggestions, advice, kind and they are experienced lovers.
I'm 62 and dating a 44 yr old. It's been 5yrs now. There are definitely sparks Between us! He calls me his queen and our relationship is simple, with no demands....... It works for me & it works for him. I'm taking it one day at a time and enjoying the moments we spend together.
Best wishes
I'm 25 and my queen is 41 you just explained everything of how she is and that's what's made me want to be with her it's hard to find a young a woman that knows what she wants
Great to hear from you Greaser Boy. I wish you both much happiness.
What about in 10 years? Call me than, i bet you will be looking those of 30 years.
I agree with your 3 reasons. I will add another: older women are often better, more enjoyable conversationalists and for a man who likes to chat about different things, different topics, this can work in his favor. Your reasons will apply to men who already have their affairs in order. My recommendation for older women who are interested in dating younger men is they find one who has his house in order, has a good solid life, knows who and what he is, where he wants to go in his life. He may be further along in his career than most men his age, be more informed on current events, social, political issues than most men his age, have a stronger sense of responsibility, purpose, duty, greater interest in serving his community. Also, selecting a man who doesn't place a high priority on starting a family (at least not right now) can also be advantageous as he will be less likely to focus on a woman's reproductive potential, opening the door for him to date a significantly older woman. It takes a special kind of man who is willing to date women older than himself, he needs to have a strong healthy positive self-confidence, a healthy inner strength. This is the kind of man an older woman should look for in a younger man.
Scott, this is a wonderful series of observations. Thank you! I love all that you've written and agree wholeheartedly. The younger men that find themselves attracted to an older woman are quite special. They're advanced, as you've stated, for their age. They require dynamic content in their mate to match their won level of awareness. Truly a lovey commentary you've left here. I appreciate your watching the video and your wise words.
I’m 20 and female I’ve preferred slightly younger for a few years now. I can make my own money (I’m about to start an official teaching qualification), I’m quite mature for my age and I don’t need a guy for nada. Younger guys are more attractive and offer a different perspective. I also find it quite interesting they initiate the conversation.
Hello, Susan. Thank you for the advice. I told my grandmother last year that I was attracted to older women, and she understood and is very supportive of me. Now that I look at it, my celebrity crushes are older than me. Unfortunately, most of them are married and/or already dating someone, which I am happy for them. I wish them nothing but the best and I am hopeful that I'll find happiness myself one day.
HI Chris. You've got a very progressive grandmother. Thanks for your note.
+Susan Winter You're welcome.
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Even though I'm in love with an older woman but the reason for me that I fell in love with my GF was the first reason is that she's sexually attractive for a woman in her 60's and second because she has a good heart by being trustworthy,honest and willing to sacrifice for me for her mercy to me by truly being in love with me and I'm in my 30's by the way. Before I met,I was against this type if relationship but when I met my GF, it all changed.
It's telling that you speak of the quality of her love. Beyond the physical, it's the depth of emotion that stirs our heart. Thank you for sharing your story, Jason. Many happy wishes to you both.
Thank you for making that beautiful comment and I do really love her so much and she loves me too and we're almost 4 years in our relationship. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you.
Merry Christmas to you as well Jason. Wising you a world of happiness.
This is so beautiful to read, Jason. I'm thrilled for you both. Thank you for sharing your story.
I feel you my brother. When I'm in my 30's my girl will be in her 60's. Cheers to you guys! And a toast to all the sexy women 50+ and to the lucky gentlemen with them.
With age, comes greatness... this is true for women. I promise.
I am so happy that I found your channel Susan! We both have watched all your videos on this topic and bought your eBook. And in the 10 months together we realize that we both made so many mistakes that you discuss in your videos and warn against so now we are better and stronger and I'm not afraid anymore. I am 39 years and my amazing boyfriend is 26 (he already told me by day 2 that he is going to marry me). He had to be so persistent to get me to believe that his can work out even though I am ashamed to say I've been among the majority of people out there who did not like the idea of the reverse age gap. But now I embrace it and recommend it to everyone I know who is still looking for MR Right because I see all the beautiful benefits and experiences and YES I see myself through his eyes now.... Thanks Susan!
I so agree Susan. Absolutely have experienced this. Thank you for posting this. Men like stability and reassurance. Older women provide this - it just makes things so much simpler for the man and the woman. Love and blessings to you!
Very nice
Hi mary
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I sooo agree
@@janialiasylvester2458Hi
This is not always the case. Some of my toughest heart aches have come from older women. It truly depends on the person, their mindset, and if they have the capacity to love unconditionally. Lots of older women are stuck in their ways. It truly depends on the person.
Exactly! She tryna put older women on a pedestal. Straight stupid
So that sounds like givi9ng up to me, my guy didn't and he found me, young girls' are still worse see it enough when I'm out, maybe the fault lies with you...he found me after going through HUNDREDS OF PROFILES FOR MONTHS....
I started kissing a mature woman this week. Met her from work. I'm 26, she's 52 and it feels amazing. Fireworks are around us whenever we kiss. I'm happy this is happening.
Let's be real here. Men like older hot woman, compared to younger girls. The average 45+ year old woman isn't going to turn a young guys head.
Most younger girls are part of the "selfie generation" and have little to bring to a relationship other than looks.
Very well said.. Feeling is mutual..
Very valid and true point
Loose Change9 45 year old women is still hot.. even 60 can still be hot if she takes care of herself.
@@b3at2 Exactly, look at Jennifer Aniston
Agreed 100%
Very straighforward explanation. I am 45. I struggled all my life to get guys and especially guys I wanted. I have come to this age where I have stopped giving a damn and I think I understand why I keep being hitted on for the past year or so. I've dated younger guys, some of them gorgeous. It is an interesting time of my life because I have never felt so ugly and unattractive and yet so confident and laid-back at the same time.
Lol such a easy question,older woman a way better and more exciting in bed simple,and for really young guys they want the experience that older woman have,plus they are more chilled out not annoying as young girls,
I am one of the guys who likes older women
I love laugh lines, softened curves, and the way older women carry themselves. Well maintained older women are mesmerizing it's pure attraction to me none of the stuff about money, not playing games(plenty do), or anything. I just melt for them. You're absolutely stunning miss Susan.
I just GET older people. When I'm around people my age, I'm always "weird" or "dumbfounded" or just plain misunderstood. Back home when I'm around older people, I can oddly relate to them on some levels
I'm very spiritual and it's very rare for me to meet piers who are attracted to a certain lifestyle. I've also been told by a few im an old soul, and so I never really feel like I belong with my piers.
Older women I've met are also straightforward
I have the same experience. I've always hung out with and felt more comfortable with the "older folks" rather than my piers. I shared their interests in cars and music as well.
Peers not piers
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@@LovingAtlanta
Thanks, LA. I must have my mind on fishing (lol)!
I understand what you mean. I'm 43 and meet people my own age and have nothing in common. They are imature and talk a bunch of nonsense. I can relate to older people a lot more
Knowing who you are and what you want is compelling to people and it sets you on the right track for life.
+Frank Daley Thank you Frank. So true. And regardless of age, the clarity of that information allows us to gain traction in our romantic lives. Thanks for watching this video. I really enjoy your work on dating and praetorship selection. Truly brilliant.
Mostly safe and secure with older women and enjoy everything!
Because if we see a sexy woman we don't care how old is she,if she is older so she is older,who cares?
lmao yeah of course... dude age is one of the most important things to men. If it's not to you you're either in denial or too young to realize it.
@@iWillWakeYouUp so do men care if the woman is older and is it actually a bad thing to them?
@@jojo-ir9rj Depends on the man and what he wants. Most men want children one day, and for that they want a woman that is A) as beautiful as he can get her B) sane, kind, and nurturing and C) obviously, fertile and as young as possible
However, if children aren't a concern, men will gladly have sex and even relationships with older women. But don't think for a second that if children were to ever be a concern, that he wouldn't leave an older woman for a younger one who is still fertile. It's just basic biology and you can't change it. We all grow old and aging isn't exactly too kind on either of the genders.
oren flotech I mean not grandmas cause that’s to Far and weird in MY OPINION.
@@iWillWakeYouUp true, I could sleep with an older woman but I wouldn't be seen with one in broad daylight. Never. God forbid.
Older ladies are the best
I was in a relationship with 7 yrs younger guy. At 1st everything was great bcoz attraction, fun and sex were amazing but in time we both realized we dont have future bcoz we were not on the same level in mind, life experience. I felt he had "nothing" to offer to me and he felt he wasnt ready for all the things i wanted and needed and was prepared for. It was a good experience though for both. Valuable life lesson.
Thanks Dear for sharing your experience with us! Agreed! And Looking me too same nature older woman!
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you
Weren’t you in love? I find it very hard letting go if I am in love…
The way older woman take care of you is so attractive
I love older women. I young man single 32 year live alone looking for love I am very respectful, affectionate and kindhearted
I am old man
I’m female 49 haaa
@@maribelwilson7215 welkom how are you where are you from
Heee van de jonge I’m here ccalifornis
California
No matter what, but i have always felt myself attracted towards older women. I just dont know why but they seem more mature and mentally stable!
If you haven't dated an older women, you never lived life...