I can’t believe I’m watching this 4 years post-posting and Marie-Anne’s guidance is as relevant and useful today as ever. Kind of proves the point of timeless French chic?!
I agree completely about the bras, florals and colors. I tend to wear a lot of neutrals, but as a scarf addict, I always brighten or lighten by my face AND scarves really stretch your wardrobe options! As my hair thins, I’ve gone shorter and love it! Thank you for all your practical advice! I love when you sprinkle “les mots français” in your videos!
I love the 1940s look. Even during war time women looked chic and dressed up to go out. Even with rations they made the best of themselves and their clothes. Lipstick was not rationed - all to keep up morale. I also like today, the idea to dress to suit body shape and wearing colours that suit complection. Love the videos!
During the Depression, people had no money, but they always dressed as if they did. They wore their best suit; they wore their best dress - anything to make them look richer. Today, people have more money than ever, but they dress as if they have none. I live close to the largest shopping mall in the USA, and when I walk there for exercise - all four miles - I am so disappointed at how 95 percent of the shoppers dress. We have seemed to have gotten a bit lazy when dressing. Such a shame.
This is perfectly timed for me! I'm 52 and shopping for a dress for my son's wedding. And I've lost almost 20 lbs since Christmas, so definitely need a bra check-up. Thanks, Marie-Anne, for all the spot-on wisdom!
I am in early 30's and all this still makes sense to me ! And applicable even in India, also with the ethnic wear! So I can confidently say, these style tips are globally acceptable!
Glad you are going to keep posting during coronavirus scare--it is wonderful to have something else to think about and you are cheerful and upbeat. Just what we need!
Standing up straight, not shuffling feet or hanging over a shopping cart with elbows resting on the handle makes a huge difference too., And OH MY SHOES make a big difference.
Gait,weight and straight! My mantra at 66! Don't shuffle, keep weight down and stand up straight! Well cut clothing, no slouchy tops, no loud flowers and odd prints. No theatrical makeup! No wire glasses frames! Newer styles of jewelry, jewelry looks dated too.
Being overweight, lack of excercise, wrong clothes, wrong hair style. My top reasons! I'm 63 people think I'm in my 40's I learned early on from my French mother who never even went outside without lipstick. She had so much style!! Thank you! Right on spot💕💕
I feel refreshed just having your tips confirm my gut feeling. These aren't just tips for clothes, but for philosophising life. Accepting these expected, universal changes in our physicality and celebrating them by being the best we can be in the moment is huge. How did Marie-Anne do this? She reminded us to keep at it!! Vote for yourselves ever time you get dressed! Rejuvenate, refresh and be comfortable in yourself; that's what I got from this video!
I agree with your aging style mistakes . I have seen some floral patterns in tops and dresses that remind me. of drapes that were popular 50 years and more ago . We can get into a rut of wearing very dark colours all the time . Past 50 women walk a fine line between being current with our style and choosing fashions that are too young for us . A proper fitting bra and good posture can take 10 years off .
There isn't much addressed to even women over 40. I mean, Vogue, yes, but how much do they have NOT made for 12 year old, starved models irl? I mean, if you follow the editors and such. I've found real estate agents know how to dress. I'm guessing the men get help from gay salespeople. Lol. They have great style.
So right about the 70's florals. Have been eyeing them in shops, even bought one dress, then took it back, wondering all the time what's wrong with it/me. Am really glad you explained!
You can measure yourself if you have a fabric tape measure. You need to do it if you gain or lose 5lbs. And don't hang onto them forever, either. If they lose their shape, they can go.
I wore some lovely Cacharel floral shirts in cotton voile in the Seventies. They were very refined colours and designs and they all went beautifully with a very dark navy, heavy gabardine fold-over skirt. But in those days l wore size 36/38 ! Navy sling backs with kitten heels and ultrafine pale tights completed the look...😊
I am happy that you distinguished between bright florals & the 70’s style, which are aging. I’ve seen bright florals in one colour which I think are flattering.
Thanks Marie-Anne. I agree with your style mistakes over 50. Those "little house on the prairie" high necked flouncy floral dresses are horrible probably for any age! Color is a tricky one. I've always loved colour, but the past couple of years have worn less colour and more neutrals because it seems more chic. I'm changing my mind on that now. I also think midi skirts with flat shoes can look frumpy at our age, with the exception of sandals in the summer. The basics of good skin care, good posture, and fitness go a long way. When you are fit, you are more agile, upright and youthful looking. I honestly think exercise is the magic bullet even before fashion.
I think at 70 now I've used a lot of the principles that you talk about. I try to put things together that make me look young and slender. I'm short so that's important to me. Thank you, very informative! ❤
That is wonderful to hear Connie and I am so glad you have given it a go and found what works for you 👏 I have also made a number of videos for my lovely Petite Ladies which you may find useful even if you are short but not quite classed as Petite 😘
I used to love wearing florals when I was young but at my age,I'm sixty two,I've found them to be very aging and so I stopped wearing florals altogether.I think that one reason florals are aging is that flowers are pretty and so next to the aging skin there is this stark contrast between the floral pattern and mature skin which causes the signs of aging to be even more noticable.When there is harmony whether it is a pattern or a color that suits our skin tone the result is a younger look.I started to wear stripes and your so right when you say that stripes are fresh and young looking because I actually do feel that I look a bit younger when I'm wearing stripes.
I'm 62 too and agree about florals, but I have got some shirts in muted impressionistic Liberty prints which I can wear with a dark t-shirt and jeans without looking like an ' old girl', at least I hope so!
Marie-Anne! you have been hitting it out of the park with the great content! I agree with the droopy bust, definitely aging for sure! I love the 70s silhouettes, just not the patterns or florals. Excellent video!
Great video Marie-Anne! My mother always told me if you wore the style the first time around do not wear it when it comes back! I'm 62 and I see some of my contemporaries wearing these styles and they look very frumpy. Thanks for reminding us to hoist up our bosoms !
I agree. Fashion was always coming back again but with just some details. This time the 80s are here without any change. Some photos of models look like from old photo albums. You know like we are showing them to some friends and laugh how we looked funny that time ago! Young girls buy everything and think they are so trendy.
@@svetlanavukolic8242 Well, that's why they call it "Young and dumb." As we all were and thought we knew it all and we'd live forever. Lol. Wasn't 1980 like, last WEEK??
I’m glad you discussed the ‘new’ trend for floaty, floral dresses - I still have a few from the 80’s in my wardrobe! 😉 I have said to myself that even the updated version of these would age me even though in other ways they suit by body type etc. My hunch was correct thank you. If I do wear this style again I will go for a small geometric print maybe in navy and white.
I am lucky to have a very good bra fitter at my local M&S - it does make a huge difference to have a bra that fits properly AND I agree with you about those 70s florals especially those with brown backgrounds!
You are so right about florals making one look older! You must choose very carefully, or not at all. I am Grandmother, but I don't want to look like Great Grandma at this point! I took your advice about stripes last summer, so I am all ready with crisp,flattering looks for spring and summer. Thank you!
I respectfully agree to disagree. It’s probably good advice for ladies who disliked or weren’t flattered by florals when they were younger. I have a very “romantic” personal style. I love (and look attractive) wearing floral prints, flowing fabrics that drape and “flow” along the body, ribbons, lace, ruffles, vintage styles. Most stripes, polka dots, and plaids look very “jarring” on me. I acknowledge my style type isn’t for everyone. Fashion rules are made to be bent. LOL...I’m actually wearing a shirt with vertical pinstripes AND floral print right now!
@@amasion2882 You are correct in saying that florals work well for some ladies. I am not one of them.I am sixty-seven years old, and a former Hippie. I wore plenty of flowing dresses and broom skirts in my younger days. I find that I now need things to be more tailored, and less busy now. I am happy you have found a style that flatters you so well. I like to see women who look romantic and ethereal, but I cannot pull that off..
I bought some stripes b/c of you, but I'm a big girl at 175 lbs at 5'5 and 36DDD. lol. This ought to be good! 😆 They tend to be a small person thing, but we'll see. Thank God for free returns
I have followed you for some time now....it keeps getting better and better. Love your short hair. Could you do a video on hairstyles for face shape for women over 50 please?
I like what you said about the bright scarf when wearing dark colors. When I was younger, black looked amazing on me, but I put my black moto jacket on a few days ago and thought I looked tired and washed out,
Loved these tips. I would add be mindful of our skirt hemline, not too long or too much knees showing can make mature ladies appear much older or looks as though she's unaware she's no longer 30. Thanks for helping us age gracefully & in style.
Fabulous advice from a fabulous lady. My beloved Gran Margaret was adamant that it was really important to get your "foundation garments" right, "hoist your bust" could be a new motto for us all! 😂😍🙈😘💕
Oh wow the Bra support or lack of it for sure ages one, excellent point Marie-Anne! I want to add something I have observed, many women keep applying makeup the way they did in their youth and that can age you a lot. Like you have shown in previous videos when it comes to makeup apply it to refresh your face. Great information all the time in your channel Marie-Anne Lecoeur, thank you!
Thank you for all the great advice! I rely on it daily and It has made a difference in my casual as well as my career wardrobes! I shop my closet daily and always have something to wear!
More excellent advice that helps to keep this 70 year old chic and elegant. A well fitting underwire bra makes me look youthful and lifted. I adore French lingerie. And color, I am transitioning from black near my face to flattering pastels. Scarves are difficult to wear in my hot climate but it is the cooler winter season and will give it a try. And the lovely floral dresses, definitely not for me. I ordered one online and it was appalling when I put it on. The only prints in my wardrobe are, thanks to you, Marie-Anne, stripes and I always feel good in them. I never could have imagined without your suggestions. I now purchase half the clothes I used to and have so much more to wear with my capsule wardrobe. Your advice has been invaluable.
Not sure about stripes yet. I'm a big girl at 175, 5'5 and 36DDD. lol. I've got no real butt, but lots of belly and boobs. Ha. And skinny legs. Lots of walking.
Absolutely agree with al the above. It’s important to identify those things and to avoid them as cheap, tacky and undesirable! Thank you for the fun video!
I agree with you about floral dresses aging a woman. The trick though is to find just the right one, and I didn't think I'd ever find it-but I did. I bought one floral midi dress for summer recently and it is simply beautiful. It is a cream coloured chiffon type dress with lightly scattered pastel flowers. It has spaghetti straps, a cinched in waist, and then flows beautifully from the hips. I think a quiet, subdued floral dress that flatters a person's figure can actually add a very youthful and feminine air. I guess it really helps if your body is in good shape. For me, the carefree days of eating whatever and however much I wanted and still weigh only 98 pounds are over. I now have to work at taking care of myself and keeping my body at a slim 110 pounds. It's definitely worth the effort. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
Excellent video Marie Anne, may be one of my favorites. I believe that investing in a good bra is one of the most important things a woman can do for herself and if a woman is a D cup or more, she simply cannot buy a cheap bra. In the USA herroom .com has an excellent selection of bras and terrific bra fitting guide. As for color, I write often for a color analysis group and one of the most important things a woman must know is if she looks better in bright , clear chroma colors or muted colors. Muted colors will drain a person who needs brighter colors and bright clear colors will shout on a person who needs colors to be a little toned down. I have found that as I grew out my hair to it's natural blonde grey color, I need to go slightly lighter in colors and make up. As for those seventies styles, they never looked that hot on me back then so I don't need a revival.
Oh no! Not my boho floral midi dresses! I love them! Ok, you’ve opened my eyes. I’m reevaluating. I’m 58 and have lost weight, so my wardrobe has needed refreshing to my new size. I’ll try to objectively look at my midi floral boho dresses without emotion to see what works best for me. There are times I do feel some of these dresses don’t feel right on me, too young. Others I really feel good in and enjoy wearing. Thank you for helping me think objectively about how I dress. I am choosing more navy over black. I’m a fair redhead, and blues are much more flattering than blacks and most grays.
Yess because of your suggestion i will wear from now on, i will wear a bright scarf, before i was wearing very soft colors but i wasn’t sure now i know wy. Have a good day, i will follow you, because you inspire me a lot.
I totally agree here, Marie Anne. No matter how well cur or expensive you top is, if you don't have a good bra underneath, it's a waste.I think it's better to spend the money on the bra . Also I work with color so I know how unflattering colors can make someone look like they blend into the walls. And the loose flowing clothes, while comfortable , unless someone is tall and skinny , has very elongated arms and legs and little bust look like tent city. They murder a curvy hourglass shape. This is one of your most helpful videos. Thank you for helping so many women. I've learned so much from your videos.
I think what might age us about the 70's dresses is that we could have worn them the first time around, so maybe it looks less intentionally retro on us old ladies. Maybe it just looks like we held on to our clothes from the 70's!
Joan Rivers used to do a bit called “Knockers Up” as part of her show. Not at all chic, or even ladylike, but accurate for the over-50 crowd! I’m thankful that scarves are still a favored accessory. I have tried wearing lighter colors, but am so uncomfortable in them that I end up back in black, charcoal, or navy. I make it up with a really nice scarf in a lighter, flattering color.
I am loving the 70's! Not long floral dresses mind.... I like flare jeans with a chunkier shoe, gauzy floral blouse tucked in, square cut suede jacket. Next purchase will be an eyelet blouse :) I was a bit too young for 'fashion' in the 70's so I love it!
Be very careful. What not To Wear did a thing about not looking like crazy vintage lady (she had a good eye, but they wanted her to update it from head-to-toe 1940s and do a piece. Not the whole thing.
Love your top, Marie Anne! So right about having the bust in the right place. I fight wth that often and with broad shoulders, look even worse when I allow gravity to win.The right colours next to the face are so important. If you look good, you will feel better.
Of course we enjoy every video from you, always open our minds into what is really french chic. Thank you! First thing that came into my mind regarding aging things for one person is the colour of hair and after that the wrong makeup. Fortunately today we have many way to get useful information, so we can go more easy into the right direction. A big hug for you, greetings!
Thank you so much :) I learned a long time ago to wear color on top and around the face. It really makes a difference does not cost a lot of money. True about the bra fit. Though it is difficult when one is large busted.
I absolutely love some floral. I must admit I did purchase a beautiful silk halter dress in deep pink with big cream lilac and a hint of earth reds. The silk is nice. I was thinking of wearing a nice cream colored captains blazer with it or even some type of shawl or cream scarf. I bought the same style in baduc black because it was so flattering, slimming, held things together and could be easily altered. A keeper for years to come.
Bonjour Marie-Anne. Love this video. I am sixty at the end of the year and very aware that I dress like I have always done. i need to update my look, I think. I really can't bring myself to wear any of those mumsy floral dresses you get on catalogue clothing websites aimed at middle aged women. If anything makes you look older, they do.
Just discovered you. Fabulous. I kinda knew I had given up but didn’t realize how many mistakes I was making and how bad I looked. Will be watching more of you.
Excellent advice, Marie-Anne. It was just this morning that I told myself, "Gloria, you need a new bra." I love your channel. I've told you this before, I know, but you give such great "conseils". Keep it coming!
I love stripes and I am a child of the 60's. There is an entire section devoted to stripes in my closet; it might have something to do with me living in France in my youth.
Agree completely with everything here! In addition, noticed that too loose, too long, too relaxed clothes are not as serving me at all. And, yes, black used to be great but not anymore. I think your reminder to have a look at the mirror is important while it seems obvious. I personally, do not look at myself long enough, just put some clothes and go. If I had stopped, and looked, and tried the alternatives, I could have seen my style mistakes sooner. CHEERS and thank you!!!
I have only one floral blouse in my entire wardrobe. It's a lovely floral on a gray background and looks especially good with my gray straight leg trousers with a pale blue pinstripe.If it's slightly chilly out I add a blazer or a cardigan.
I thought the first thing you'll mention is about hair style then I realised you're talking about the clothes. Thanks for the tips. You're right about them.
I’ve really noticed that I can’t wear dark colours anymore... they draw attention to the areas in my face that have more shadows than before, like the eyes, marionette lines and so on...whereas light, bright and the right colours brighten the skin. I also couldn’t agree more about the 70s style florals too, I loved wearing them the first time round (in the 70s!j and suited them then. In those days we called them ‘granny dresses’ and that says it all doesn’t it? 👵🏻
Thank you for reminding us about bra straps loosening up in the wash- an instant fix and one so easy to overlook. Guilty as charged! I'm still trying to get used to the scarf thing, being the owner of a very short neck. You're right, color near the face makes such a difference. 😬
@@MarieAnneLecoeur It's one of my favorites of yours, and I'm going to watch it again right now. 😃 I think the problem for me is that most scarves are so big, so even folding them several times makes too much bulk. I think I need to find another short neck creature and we can cut them in half and share them! 😜
@@b.p.4250 Are you very short? Because I bought an Armani suit with one huge, extremely large, diaphanous pink scarf. They told me I can leave it poof out the bottom of the jacket where it will. Tail at the bottom and all. I could probably put a large scarf ring on it, too...I really loved the one in Mad Men that the wife wore.
No stripes (ew), no scarves (not a scarf person). Lots of bright, happy colours (including some florals). At 62, I am all for wearing what makes you happy. If you are happy in your clothing, it will reflect in how you walk and how you present yourself.
I’m the exact opposite of you. I love stripes (true classic ) love scarves (beautiful accessory) and absolutely hate prints (ew) so old ladyish but at 61 totally agree with wearing what makes you happy and carrying yourself properly.
I vote try them and see. I bought a shaper and it smooths things out and isn't too hot... I haven't found a stripe that likes me yet. But I'm not tiny like the French. So...we'll see. I ordered some. Free returns. Lol banana republic has lots of classic clothes. Including NORMAL mid-rise pants! Not the awful high rise which cuts you in half! Lol
Tonight I wore black leggings, black skirt (just at the knee), black short boot, and a black and white polka dot long sleeve top. I topped off this all black ensemble with a bright fuschia scarf and silver earrings. I felt like a million dollars. 😊
I agree with you. These longer floral skirts make us over 50's look older, and frumpy. I also think it has to do with the midi length that is so unflattering. I found a company here in Europe that sells the classic, above the knee style, that I think is more flattering on me. The shop is Dika, and I think they are out of Bulgaria.
I'm definitely going to go for some brighter colours, now I realise what a rut I'm stuck in wearing darker shades, can't wait to get to the stores and go brighter in my choices, thanks to you ❤,from Frances uk
I didn't like the colors that were so popular as florals in the 70's and I haven't changed my mind. They tended to be loud and large. I'm not fond of prints as a rule, but those especially.
Loved the first two tips , which I will action . But having just brought a selection of dresses Some of which are floral I’m slightly perturbed . Ha ho you live and learn as they say . Thank you for your content always cheerful and valuable x
Re: the bustline... might I recommend lifting weights above your head... start with 5 lbs - do 30 reps, work your way up... it will lift the bustline after a couple months you will notice a difference
@@susanemoldvan2644 - What she is describing is a Shoulder Press exercise... which will do nothing for your chest. Although Chest exercises will increase the mass of your chest, there is no exercise to lift your bust. Buying a good bra is the answer short of going under the knife. 😊
I know women with floral patterns, volants, midi and maxi dresses or skirts and they look amazing, wearing those blouses and dresses . They wear what young women does and they look 10 or 20 years younger. I think it depends on the type. If a woman suits very long hair and if she is a dreamy, romantic type, romantic, young dresses looks very feminin , elegant and soft on her.
It depends on the typ of woman. A romantic typ can wear always romantic clothes. Some women look old with classical clothes, some look amazing. One of my friends could never wear your clothes, for you it is great 👍but on my friends it doesn't suit anyway she is a girlish type with very long hair.
As a busty women my whole life, even in my teens, I hoist those babies up, to a point where my shoulders actually have indentations. I am self concious about my bust and have always worn blazers or added a sweaters to help hide them I try hard to wear nice clothes that are put together nicely . Can you give us big bosumy ladies some hints on how to dress chic and stylish while minimizing our fronts? Help!
Victoria Secret makes some nice bras but fitting rooms are closed right now. They’re not cheap but they’re not that expensive. I’ve had two that are 20 years old. My everyday bras don’t help. And I’ve readjusted and hoisted but it’s a lost cause lol. Over the shoulder bolder holders. That’s what they are
Thanks for your advice, dear Marie-Anne. I'm going upstairs to my dressing room NOW and kick out, what ages me...even more, since I transitioned to my natural white hair with a stunning bob. Flowers are more than no go now, I will keep it simpler and more classic than ever, now I go back to my moderator/museum job after the total lock down - as a Phoenix out of the ashes, 73.
Nothing makes one look older than trying desperately to look younger... 🤦🏻♀️
So true !!
Andreia Bergamaschi Yes. Hollywood hasn’t gotten that message yet. 😀
You are so right! Not to forget to have a pessimistic view on life in general ;)
Absolutely! No one wants to be mutton dressed as lamb!
Absolutely you are correct. Why fight it so hard? Make do, add some color that flatters the face and complexion. Enjoy life :)
I can’t believe I’m watching this 4 years post-posting and Marie-Anne’s guidance is as relevant and useful today as ever. Kind of proves the point of timeless French chic?!
Yes indeed 😃👍
I agree completely about the bras, florals and colors. I tend to wear a lot of neutrals, but as a scarf addict, I always brighten or lighten by my face AND scarves really stretch your wardrobe options! As my hair thins, I’ve gone shorter and love it! Thank you for all your practical advice! I love when you sprinkle “les mots français” in your videos!
I love the 1940s look. Even during war time women looked chic and dressed up to go out. Even with rations they made the best of themselves and their clothes. Lipstick was not rationed - all to keep up morale. I also like today, the idea to dress to suit body shape and wearing colours that suit complection. Love the videos!
So true. And hats. They all wore hats! I also like 1930s clothing also.
Me too. I love the 30s, 40s and 50s.
During the Depression, people had no money, but they always dressed as if they did. They wore their best suit; they wore their best dress - anything to make them look richer. Today, people have more money than ever, but they dress as if they have none. I live close to the largest shopping mall in the USA, and when I walk there for exercise - all four miles - I am so disappointed at how 95 percent of the shoppers dress. We have seemed to have gotten a bit lazy when dressing. Such a shame.
@@heleneg525 So agree with you!
@@heleneg525 not just in USA, New Zealand is just as bad.
This is perfectly timed for me! I'm 52 and shopping for a dress for my son's wedding. And I've lost almost 20 lbs since Christmas, so definitely need a bra check-up. Thanks, Marie-Anne, for all the spot-on wisdom!
Congratulations on attaining your weight-loss goal! You will look fabulous for the wedding.
I am 60 and lost 10 ( about 5 kg)pounds for my own wedding:) I ‘ve got a goal 59kg:)) and looked pretty damn good:)
I am in early 30's and all this still makes sense to me ! And applicable even in India, also with the ethnic wear! So I can confidently say, these style tips are globally acceptable!
Glad you are going to keep posting during coronavirus scare--it is wonderful to have something else to think about and you are cheerful and upbeat. Just what we need!
Standing up straight, not shuffling feet or hanging over a shopping cart with elbows resting on the handle makes a huge difference too., And OH MY SHOES make a big difference.
Linda Weddle my mantra at 66 is "gait,weight and straight", don't shuffle, keep weight down and good posture are key!
Shopping cart shuffle😆😆
That is funny. My husband once told me not to hang over the shopping cart. I passed it to him to push. I was tired.😅
Gait,weight and straight! My mantra at 66! Don't shuffle, keep weight down and stand up straight! Well cut clothing, no slouchy tops, no loud flowers and odd prints. No theatrical makeup! No wire glasses frames! Newer styles of jewelry, jewelry looks dated too.
Glasses vary & some new wires have colors so not a hard & fast rule. Otherwise, yes!
Agree with everything you say, in my case no prints, women over 50 and especially over 60 tend to wear flowery print tops and dresses
Omg who are you? what fabulous advice Gait weight straight Ill never forget
Leslie Craven 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
d jamail Totally agree with all
I am impressed at how well stripes of the sleeves of your jersey match the bodice. A sign of a quality garment.
Being overweight, lack of excercise, wrong clothes, wrong hair style. My top reasons! I'm 63 people think I'm in my 40's I learned early on from my French mother who never even went outside without lipstick. She had so much style!! Thank you! Right on spot💕💕
Having a flat chest finally has a benefit! LOL! My bra doesn't even support me; it just covers them! LOL!
Diane DeBernardo actually, you probably look terrific in clothing!!!! 😃
Or as in my case accentuates them!
Diane DeBernardo You save a lot of budget- good bras are expensive!
Had reconstruction following double mastectomy - the one benefit of breast cancer - permanently perky!!!
Diane DeBernardo me too
Merci Marie-Anne! I think too much makeup also ages women. By the way you look stunning in that striped shirt!.
As a woman from the UK from Caribbean heritage bright colours is part of our culture;)
I feel refreshed just having your tips confirm my gut feeling. These aren't just tips for clothes, but for philosophising life. Accepting these expected, universal changes in our physicality and celebrating them by being the best we can be in the moment is huge. How did Marie-Anne do this? She reminded us to keep at it!! Vote for yourselves ever time you get dressed! Rejuvenate, refresh and be comfortable in yourself; that's what I got from this video!
I learned how to wear a bra at 60! from a fabulous bra store in Los Angeles. Love my French bras from Empreinte, expensive but so worth it!
Did you try Natori? They run about 70. Sometimes they have sales.
They embroider the straps, which is nice if they might pop out.
I agree with your aging style mistakes . I have seen some floral patterns in tops and dresses that remind me. of drapes that were popular 50 years and more ago . We can get into a rut of wearing very dark colours all the time . Past 50 women walk a fine line between being current with our style and choosing fashions that are too young for us . A proper fitting bra and good posture can take 10 years off .
There isn't much addressed to even women over 40. I mean, Vogue, yes, but how much do they have NOT made for 12 year old, starved models irl?
I mean, if you follow the editors and such.
I've found real estate agents know how to dress. I'm guessing the men get help from gay salespeople. Lol. They have great style.
So right about the 70's florals. Have been eyeing them in shops, even bought one dress, then took it back, wondering all the time what's wrong with it/me. Am really glad you explained!
I have never been fitted for a bra and I appreciate this advice very much. You give us all great ideas. Thank you Marie-Anne.
You can measure yourself if you have a fabric tape measure. You need to do it if you gain or lose 5lbs.
And don't hang onto them forever, either. If they lose their shape, they can go.
Yes, a proper bra is critical!! You make many good points on this video!
I wore some lovely Cacharel floral shirts in cotton voile in the Seventies. They were very refined colours and designs and they all went beautifully with a very dark navy, heavy gabardine fold-over skirt. But in those days l wore size 36/38 ! Navy sling backs with kitten heels and ultrafine pale tights completed the look...😊
Sounds lovely Veronica x
I am happy that you distinguished between bright florals & the 70’s style, which are aging. I’ve seen bright florals in one colour which I think are flattering.
Thanks Marie-Anne. I agree with your style mistakes over 50. Those "little house on the prairie" high necked flouncy floral dresses are horrible probably for any age! Color is a tricky one. I've always loved colour, but the past couple of years have worn less colour and more neutrals because it seems more chic. I'm changing my mind on that now. I also think midi skirts with flat shoes can look frumpy at our age, with the exception of sandals in the summer. The basics of good skin care, good posture, and fitness go a long way. When you are fit, you are more agile, upright and youthful looking. I honestly think exercise is the magic bullet even before fashion.
Thank you for keeping these short and fun; easy to remember tips without the pressure that we must follow them.
I think at 70 now I've used a lot of the principles that you talk about. I try to put things together that make me look young and slender. I'm short so that's important to me. Thank you, very informative! ❤
That is wonderful to hear Connie and I am so glad you have given it a go and found what works for you 👏 I have also made a number of videos for my lovely Petite Ladies which you may find useful even if you are short but not quite classed as Petite 😘
I used to love wearing florals when I was young but at my age,I'm sixty two,I've found them to be very aging and so I stopped wearing florals altogether.I think that one reason florals are aging is that flowers are pretty and so next to the aging skin there is this stark contrast between the floral pattern and mature skin which causes the signs of aging to be even more noticable.When there is harmony whether it is a pattern or a color that suits our skin tone the result is a younger look.I started to wear stripes and your so right when you say that stripes are fresh and young looking because I actually do feel that I look a bit younger when I'm wearing stripes.
Actually floral is nice if it is delicate and on the small size.
I'm 62 too and agree about florals, but I have got some shirts in muted impressionistic Liberty prints which I can wear with a dark t-shirt and jeans without looking like an ' old girl', at least I hope so!
I’d love to see more! There are likely more than 3 things that age us... as well as makeup and hair as you mentioned🌸
I have been to a salon once in 2 years of pandemic, lol. I've been cutting it with huge kitchen scissors when I gets caught in zippers and such! Ha
Marie-Anne! you have been hitting it out of the park with the great content! I agree with the droopy bust, definitely aging for sure! I love the 70s silhouettes, just not the patterns or florals. Excellent video!
Great video Marie-Anne! My mother always told me if you wore the style the first time around do not wear it when it comes back!
I'm 62 and I see some of my contemporaries wearing these styles and they look very frumpy. Thanks for reminding us to hoist up our bosoms !
I agree. Fashion was always coming back again but with just some details. This time the 80s are here without any change. Some photos of models look like from old photo albums. You know like we are showing them to some friends and laugh how we looked funny that time ago! Young girls buy everything and think they are so trendy.
@@svetlanavukolic8242 Well, that's why they call it "Young and dumb." As we all were and thought we knew it all and we'd live forever. Lol.
Wasn't 1980 like, last WEEK??
I’m glad you discussed the ‘new’ trend for floaty, floral dresses - I still have a few from the 80’s in my wardrobe! 😉 I have said to myself that even the updated version of these would age me even though in other ways they suit by body type etc. My hunch was correct thank you. If I do wear this style again I will go for a small geometric print maybe in navy and white.
Oh, yes, actual 80s clothes can be worn ironically by the kids, but with us, it just looks silly. Lol
I am lucky to have a very good bra fitter at my local M&S - it does make a huge difference to have a bra that fits properly AND I agree with you about those 70s florals especially those with brown backgrounds!
You are so right about florals making one look older! You must choose very carefully, or not at all. I am Grandmother, but I don't want to look like Great Grandma at this point! I took your advice about stripes last summer, so I am all ready with crisp,flattering looks for spring and summer. Thank you!
I respectfully agree to disagree. It’s probably good advice for ladies who disliked or weren’t flattered by florals when they were younger. I have a very “romantic” personal style. I love (and look attractive) wearing floral prints, flowing fabrics that drape and “flow” along the body, ribbons, lace, ruffles, vintage styles. Most stripes, polka dots, and plaids look very “jarring” on me. I acknowledge my style type isn’t for everyone. Fashion rules are made to be bent.
LOL...I’m actually wearing a shirt with vertical pinstripes AND floral print right now!
@@amasion2882 You are correct in saying that florals work well for some ladies. I am not one of them.I am sixty-seven years old, and a former Hippie. I wore plenty of flowing dresses and broom skirts in my younger days. I find that I now need things to be more tailored, and less busy now. I am happy you have found a style that flatters you so well. I like to see women who look romantic and ethereal, but I cannot pull that off..
I bought some stripes b/c of you, but I'm a big girl at 175 lbs at 5'5 and 36DDD. lol.
This ought to be good! 😆
They tend to be a small person thing, but we'll see. Thank God for free returns
Book, "Color me Beautiful" from the 80s is still helpful today :-)
I have followed you for some time now....it keeps getting better and better. Love your short hair. Could you do a video on hairstyles for face shape for women over 50 please?
I love scarves! My mother always wore them and looked fabulous : )
I also love stripes and have a few striped tops. Thanks for these tips!
I like what you said about the bright scarf when wearing dark colors. When I was younger, black looked amazing on me, but I put my black moto jacket on a few days ago and thought I looked tired and washed out,
Yes, I did try a type camisole top! It had more fabric ( purple color) as it came to the clavicle bone. So much better! Definitely brightened me up!
Loved these tips. I would add be mindful of our skirt hemline, not too long or too much knees showing can make mature ladies appear much older or looks as though she's unaware she's no longer 30. Thanks for helping us age gracefully & in style.
Fabulous advice from a fabulous lady. My beloved Gran Margaret was adamant that it was really important to get your "foundation garments" right, "hoist your bust" could be a new motto for us all! 😂😍🙈😘💕
Oh wow the Bra support or lack of it for sure ages one, excellent point Marie-Anne! I want to add something I have observed, many women keep applying makeup the way they did in their youth and that can age you a lot. Like you have shown in previous videos when it comes to makeup apply it to refresh your face. Great information all the time in your channel Marie-Anne Lecoeur, thank you!
The makeup journey after 60 is real Primers do work and less is more
Thank you for all the great advice! I rely on it daily and It has made a difference in my casual as well as my career wardrobes! I shop my closet daily and always have something to wear!
More excellent advice that helps to keep this 70 year old chic and elegant. A well fitting underwire bra makes me look youthful and lifted. I adore French lingerie. And color, I am transitioning from black near my face to flattering pastels. Scarves are difficult to wear in my hot climate but it is the cooler winter season and will give it a try. And the lovely floral dresses, definitely not for me. I ordered one online and it was appalling when I put it on. The only prints in my wardrobe are, thanks to you, Marie-Anne, stripes and I always feel good in them. I never could have imagined without your suggestions. I now purchase half the clothes I used to and have so much more to wear with my capsule wardrobe. Your advice has been invaluable.
Not sure about stripes yet. I'm a big girl at 175, 5'5 and 36DDD. lol. I've got no real butt, but lots of belly and boobs. Ha.
And skinny legs. Lots of walking.
Absolutely agree with al the above. It’s important to identify those things and to avoid them as cheap, tacky and undesirable! Thank you for the fun video!
I do agree with you. The best is your foundation. This was taught when I received my first brassiere at 13.
I agree with you about floral dresses aging a woman. The trick though is to find just the right one, and I didn't think I'd ever find it-but I did. I bought one floral midi dress for summer recently and it is simply beautiful. It is a cream coloured chiffon type dress with lightly scattered pastel flowers. It has spaghetti straps, a cinched in waist, and then flows beautifully from the hips. I think a quiet, subdued floral dress that flatters a person's figure can actually add a very youthful and feminine air. I guess it really helps if your body is in good shape. For me, the carefree days of eating whatever and however much I wanted and still weigh only 98 pounds are over. I now have to work at taking care of myself and keeping my body at a slim 110 pounds. It's definitely worth the effort. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
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Excellent video Marie Anne, may be one of my favorites. I believe that investing in a good bra is one of the most important things a woman can do for herself and if a woman is a D cup or more, she simply cannot buy a cheap bra. In the USA herroom .com has an excellent selection of bras and terrific bra fitting guide. As for color, I write often for a color analysis group and one of the most important things a woman must know is if she looks better in bright , clear chroma colors or muted colors. Muted colors will drain a person who needs brighter colors and bright clear colors will shout on a person who needs colors to be a little toned down. I have found that as I grew out my hair to it's natural blonde grey color, I need to go slightly lighter in colors and make up. As for those seventies styles, they never looked that hot on me back then so I don't need a revival.
Oh no! Not my boho floral midi dresses! I love them!
Ok, you’ve opened my eyes. I’m reevaluating. I’m 58 and have lost weight, so my wardrobe has needed refreshing to my new size. I’ll try to objectively look at my midi floral boho dresses without emotion to see what works best for me. There are times I do feel some of these dresses don’t feel right on me, too young. Others I really feel good in and enjoy wearing. Thank you for helping me think objectively about how I dress. I am choosing more navy over black. I’m a fair redhead, and blues are much more flattering than blacks and most grays.
Amie Rikke I adore my boho floral dresses. If you feel good in it that’s all that matters. We must be true to ourselves too!
Yess because of your suggestion i will wear from now on, i will wear a bright scarf, before i was wearing very soft colors but i wasn’t sure now i know wy. Have a good day, i will follow you, because you inspire me a lot.
I totally agree here, Marie Anne. No matter how well cur or expensive you top is, if you don't have a good bra underneath, it's a waste.I think it's better to spend the money on the bra . Also I work with color so I know how unflattering colors can make someone look like they blend into the walls. And the loose flowing clothes, while comfortable , unless someone is tall and skinny , has very elongated arms and legs and little bust look like tent city. They murder a curvy hourglass shape. This is one of your most helpful videos. Thank you for helping so many women. I've learned so much from your videos.
Je suis d’accord. 😊I love black, but I always add a pink or off white or beige scarf .
Yes I agree with a droopy bust aging us. Thank you for the wonderful tips.
Please don't jump rope.
I think what might age us about the 70's dresses is that we could have worn them the first time around, so maybe it looks less intentionally retro on us old ladies. Maybe it just looks like we held on to our clothes from the 70's!
My closet is mostly black, with lots of grey, some white, about 4 bright tops and a few bright scarves. Oh dear! I think I need to go shopping!
Joan Rivers used to do a bit called “Knockers Up” as part of her show. Not at all chic, or even ladylike, but accurate for the over-50 crowd!
I’m thankful that scarves are still a favored accessory. I have tried wearing lighter colors, but am so uncomfortable in them that I end up back in black, charcoal, or navy. I make it up with a really nice scarf in a lighter, flattering color.
I think that bulky, boxy and also shapeless clothing is unflattering and will age you.
hello Eileen fisher I just dont get it
I am loving the 70's! Not long floral dresses mind.... I like flare jeans with a chunkier shoe, gauzy floral blouse tucked in, square cut suede jacket. Next purchase will be an eyelet blouse :) I was a bit too young for 'fashion' in the 70's so I love it!
Be very careful. What not To Wear did a thing about not looking like crazy vintage lady (she had a good eye, but they wanted her to update it from head-to-toe 1940s and do a piece. Not the whole thing.
Love your top, Marie Anne! So right about having the bust in the right place. I fight wth that often and with broad shoulders, look even worse when I allow gravity to win.The right colours next to the face are so important. If you look good, you will feel better.
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Of course we enjoy every video from you, always open our minds into what is really french chic. Thank you! First thing that came into my mind regarding aging things for one person is the colour of hair and after that the wrong makeup. Fortunately today we have many way to get useful information, so we can go more easy into the right direction.
A big hug for you, greetings!
Thank you so much :) I learned a long time ago to wear color on top and around the face. It really makes a difference does not cost a lot of money. True about the bra fit. Though it is difficult when one is large busted.
What's large? I'm 36DDD. Natori or nothing, imo.
I love wearing black...it's my go-to colour...need to add a bit of colour to my black outfits!!!😁
@@MarieAnneLecoeur I'll have to experiment 🥰😊
I absolutely love some floral. I must admit I did purchase a beautiful silk halter dress in deep pink with big cream lilac and a hint of earth reds. The silk is nice. I was thinking of wearing a nice cream colored captains blazer with it or even some type of shawl or cream scarf. I bought the same style in baduc black because it was so flattering, slimming, held things together and could be easily altered. A keeper for years to come.
Bonjour Marie-Anne. Love this video. I am sixty at the end of the year and very aware that I dress like I have always done. i need to update my look, I think. I really can't bring myself to wear any of those mumsy floral dresses you get on catalogue clothing websites aimed at middle aged women. If anything makes you look older, they do.
Like the idea of adding the colorful scarves.
Just discovered you. Fabulous. I kinda knew I had given up but didn’t realize how many mistakes I was making and how bad I looked. Will be watching more of you.
Excellent advice, Marie-Anne. It was just this morning that I told myself, "Gloria, you need a new bra." I love your channel. I've told you this before, I know, but you give such great "conseils". Keep it coming!
I love stripes and I am a child of the 60's. There is an entire section devoted to stripes in my closet; it might have something to do with me living in France in my youth.
Your videos are great I’ve been binge watching them and have picked up so many tips already ❤️
Agree completely with everything here!
In addition, noticed that too loose, too long, too relaxed clothes are not as serving me at all.
And, yes, black used to be great but not anymore.
I think your reminder to have a look at the mirror is important while it seems obvious. I personally, do not look at myself long enough, just put some clothes and go. If I had stopped, and looked, and tried the alternatives, I could have seen my style mistakes sooner. CHEERS and thank you!!!
Why not consider darkening your hair color some? I think it will bring depth. Like a rich, light brown...?
I totally agree and began to notice this about 12 years ago in other women.
I resent bought a Juicy Coutor scarf. Bright pink and true purple block design. Enjoy your tips.
I have only just discovered this channel, but I love it! Thank you Marie-Anne!
I have only one floral blouse in my entire wardrobe. It's a lovely floral on a gray background and looks especially good with my gray straight leg trousers with a pale blue pinstripe.If it's slightly chilly out I add a blazer or a cardigan.
I haven’t watched this video in awhile but so glad I watched it today! Thank you for the reminders
I thought the first thing you'll mention is about hair style then I realised you're talking about the clothes.
Thanks for the tips. You're right about them.
I’ve really noticed that I can’t wear dark colours anymore... they draw attention to the areas in my face that have more shadows than before, like the eyes, marionette lines and so on...whereas light, bright and the right colours brighten the skin. I also couldn’t agree more about the 70s style florals too, I loved wearing them the first time round (in the 70s!j and suited them then. In those days we called them ‘granny dresses’ and that says it all doesn’t it? 👵🏻
Thank you for reminding us about bra straps loosening up in the wash- an instant fix and one so easy to overlook. Guilty as charged! I'm still trying to get used to the scarf thing, being the owner of a very short neck. You're right, color near the face makes such a difference. 😬
@@MarieAnneLecoeur It's one of my favorites of yours, and I'm going to watch it again right now. 😃 I think the problem for me is that most scarves are so big, so even folding them several times makes too much bulk. I think I need to find another short neck creature and we can cut them in half and share them! 😜
@@b.p.4250 Are you very short?
Because I bought an Armani suit with one huge, extremely large, diaphanous pink scarf. They told me I can leave it poof out the bottom of the jacket where it will. Tail at the bottom and all.
I could probably put a large scarf ring on it, too...I really loved the one in Mad Men that the wife wore.
No stripes (ew), no scarves (not a scarf person). Lots of bright, happy colours (including some florals). At 62, I am all for wearing what makes you happy. If you are happy in your clothing, it will reflect in how you walk and how you present yourself.
I’m the exact opposite of you.
I love stripes (true classic ) love scarves (beautiful accessory) and absolutely hate prints (ew) so old ladyish but at 61 totally agree with wearing what makes you happy and carrying yourself properly.
I vote try them and see. I bought a shaper and it smooths things out and isn't too hot...
I haven't found a stripe that likes me yet. But I'm not tiny like the French. So...we'll see. I ordered some. Free returns. Lol banana republic has lots of classic clothes.
Including NORMAL mid-rise pants! Not the awful high rise which cuts you in half! Lol
I think stripes or plain black white navy black together love it
I can’t get enough of your videos !
Merci beaucoup 🙏
Lovely video Anne Marie...really appreciate your advice...great!!!thank youxxx
Tonight I wore black leggings, black skirt (just at the knee), black short boot, and a black and white polka dot long sleeve top. I topped off this all black ensemble with a bright fuschia scarf and silver earrings. I felt like a million dollars. 😊
I agree with you. These longer floral skirts make us over 50's look older, and frumpy. I also think it has to do with the midi length that is so unflattering. I found a company here in Europe that sells the classic, above the knee style, that I think is more flattering on me. The shop is Dika, and I think they are out of Bulgaria.
Will be 50 in 3 years!!! Yay looking forward to it!!! 🥳🥳🥳
I'm definitely going to go for some brighter colours, now I realise what a rut I'm stuck in wearing darker shades, can't wait to get to the stores and go brighter in my choices, thanks to you ❤,from Frances uk
You are very welcome Frances 😘
I have a couple of Breton tops on order thanks to you! 😉
You give excellent French style chic advice!! Thank you! Love your presentations!
Glad you like them Avery 😃
I didn't like the colors that were so popular as florals in the 70's and I haven't changed my mind. They tended to be loud and large. I'm not fond of prints as a rule, but those especially.
Louise Shepherd There are some gorgeous florals- generally they are small to medium scale, in silk or cotton - avoid polyester.
Hoist those puppies (that used to be pebbles when we used to be very young and skinny)!
MsBackstager I wish I could say mine are boulders, but they’re more like water balloons. *sigh*
The girls, the tatas, whatever. Over the shoulder boulder holder- breasts are breasts.
mine are like "flapjacks" now...
Thanks so much for your always welcome tips.
I don't wear red lipstick as it makes me look like a clown.
Loved the first two tips , which I will action . But having just brought a selection of dresses Some of which are floral I’m slightly perturbed . Ha ho you live and learn as they say . Thank you for your content always cheerful and valuable x
You look great Marie. Thank you for the tips.
Re: the bustline... might I recommend lifting weights above your head... start with 5 lbs - do 30 reps, work your way up... it will lift the bustline after a couple months you will notice a difference
what do you mean? just lift straight up?
@@susanemoldvan2644 - What she is describing is a Shoulder Press exercise... which will do nothing for your chest. Although Chest exercises will increase the mass of your chest, there is no exercise to lift your bust. Buying a good bra is the answer short of going under the knife. 😊
Good video Marie-Anne thanks for the tips 😀
I know women with floral patterns, volants, midi and maxi dresses or skirts and they look amazing, wearing those blouses and dresses . They wear what young women does and they look 10 or 20 years younger. I think it depends on the type. If a woman suits very long hair and if she is a dreamy, romantic type, romantic, young dresses looks very feminin , elegant and soft on her.
It depends on the typ of woman. A romantic typ can wear always romantic clothes. Some women look old with classical clothes, some look amazing. One of my friends could never wear your clothes, for you it is great 👍but on my friends it doesn't suit anyway she is a girlish type with very long hair.
Thank you, Marie Anne, the bra advice was just what I needed! It worked❣️
I used to wear scarfs and haven't for a long time, I think will try them again.
Thanks for the bra strap reminder. OMG, mine are way too loose! ❤️😘
Switching to brown from black is a good idea. I was a child of the 70s so I have a certain affection for brown and everybody tells me it suits me.
As a busty women my whole life, even in my teens, I hoist those babies up, to a point where my shoulders actually have indentations. I am self concious about my bust and have always worn blazers or added a sweaters to help hide them I try hard to wear nice clothes that are put together nicely . Can you give us big bosumy ladies some hints on how to dress chic and stylish while minimizing our fronts? Help!
I have the same problem.
I have the same problem, if a shirt fits *there*, it becomes too big in the shoulders...
@@japankasasagi Yes! I have to buy shirts (pullover knit) that I take in on the shoulders and sides by sewing.
Get a breast reduction. I did and I love my looks!
Victoria Secret makes some nice bras but fitting rooms are closed right now. They’re not cheap but they’re not that expensive. I’ve had two that are 20 years old. My everyday bras don’t help. And I’ve readjusted and hoisted but it’s a lost cause lol. Over the shoulder bolder holders. That’s what they are
Thanks for your advice, dear Marie-Anne. I'm going upstairs to my dressing room NOW and kick out, what ages me...even more, since I transitioned to my natural white hair with a stunning bob. Flowers are more than no go now, I will keep it simpler and more classic than ever, now I go back to my moderator/museum job after the total lock down - as a Phoenix out of the ashes, 73.
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