My favorite one is when someone is being annoying or rude to you for no reason. Stare at their forehead when you talk to them, it makes them uncomfortable
"Acting like you belong somewhere will have people not question what your doing" how I've gotten away with most things in my life especially ditching class
Me and a friend walked into a concert that way, we just dressed like the local reporters usually do, put on some badges w/ fake ID, and just powerwalked through with a camera and a business notepad (respectively). Got to watch the whole thing for free, and no one even stopped us to check our ID's.
The amount of times people have told hacks and ways of winning rock paper scissors is way greater than the actual amount of times I will play rock paper scissors in my life.
Everyone chooses their option when the word rock is said. Choose your option half a beat after and your subconscious will pick the winning option. Works every time.
Actually, if you ask something about their lives like “what did you eat for breakfast” makes most people throw scissors, I don’t really remember why but works for a great amount of people
I learned this from having a narcissistic father: if you ever want anything at all always make the other person feel like they are winning.(make them feel smarter than you, etc.)
Hi, I have a narcissistic father, can you give me some tips when I need money for school and he's not in a good mood? (he only provides us when he's in a good mood) sometimes his bad mood stays too long he doesn't give me allowance for a month or two, I spend the money I saved up...
shwitzyy BTOB What I use to do when I was kid and needed money was I use to run errands and my mom would give me the money for transportation/ a cab and I would walk and keep the money that was given to me for transport. Hurt my legs but at the end I have 30$ extra in my pockets
shwitzyy BTOB or get a job/ sell stuff at school and if you are really really desperate just steal it. Don’t let him catch you though. Shit can turn bad real fast.
Be confident... When you first meet someone, make note of their eye color. Match body language. Use a person's name right away.. Pretend you feel comfortable.. Notice people's feet... Stay silent and see what else they say.. Choose your seat wisely..
If you want the right answer to a question don't ask it say the wrong answer. People love to correct others as it makes us feel better than them. More effective the more confident you sound
In a way, this is a win-win situation as you will get educated on what the answer is while the people correcting you could strengthen their memory of the answer. This is theoretical, but it does happen a lot and is a good way to learn more.
lmao i use this all the time on my classmates even when i have a hint of what's the right answer partially bc i want them to feel more confident (bc im always assigned the group leader and im tired of them always relying on me just bc they dont feel confident) but mostly bc this make them feel like they always need to watch over me like tell me our schedule all the time or always remind me of our assignments/projects. that way i dont even take notes anymore lol they do it and they just hand it to me by the end of the day
If you see a person gossiping to another through ear whispering, look at the person they're whispering it to, their eyes usually look at the person being gossiped about. So if the one being told the gossip/secret looks at you, you'll know.
Eye contact is key to literally any situation. If eye contact is uncomfortable stare at the skin around there eyes and try to figure what shade it is. Works in almost anything
Plot twist 5: the alien twin is actually a human whos stuck in an alien dimension because an alien swapped his life when he looked into the mirror after laughing
Jokes depend a lot on the way they are told, context, and the sense of humour of the people around you. I would call myself a "Clear situational comedian". That means I make jokes with the situations we are currently in, the objects around us, always in a way that it's clear that I'm joking, by smiling and using an exaggerated tone. Some are great at making self-depreciating jokes, others are great at being sarcastic in a funny way, while keeping a straight face. You just need to practice and find out what type of comedian you are! Once you get that confidence, people will laugh... Or say that they want to kill themselves... It depends on how bad the joke is.
That's what I like to call the husband/boyfriend effect. Its when you want your SO to stop going on a tangent or rant, you just nod and say "yep" throughout the conversation, especially when they end a sentence with "right?"
@@wiijjdog Hm... That's why I have problems with conversations. I always feel like people stop talking to me for no reason during a conversation... Now I see I'm the one who's not letting it flow, since A LOT of my sentences are just that standalone "Yep". Thank you, random TH-cam dude! You unintentionally helped me in a huge part of my life!
Agreeing isn't enough, you need to give them the impression you are genuinely agreeing with them otherwise now they know what you are doing and get defensive wity you if they weren't already. If you genuinely agree with someone it establishes a commonality and that helps to establish trust, from there it is easier to calm someone down or disengage from a conversation. Just saying you agree with them isn't disengaging
Nikkrail Because this guy has been doing it for years and TH-cam doesn't need another channel that just steals people's comments on a reddit thread and paste it in a text to speech bot. I actually have dignity, unlike the creator of this channel.
4:33 not really true. I tried being very calm in arguments with my mom, and she only got more mad and started thinking that I don't care about anything
rehctacria Dafuq. Same thing just happened to me last night. It was my fault so I just shut up and looked down the whole time. She went berserk and start hitting me and stuff. Parents can be crazy at times🤦🏻♂️
@@issackaiser i'm so sorry to hear that. have you talked about this with someone from your family or maybe a teacher? if this wasn't the first time she has hit you, I'd really suggest seeking help
rehctacria I’m 20 years old already and she only could hit as hard as a 7 years old. I’m perfectly fine 🤣 It’s her mad yelling that ticks me off and drives me mad sometimes. 🤷🏻♂️
Also, in High School, I used to ask people to hold my leg. The amount of people that did it without asking why, was astounding. Try it sometime. It's hilarious.
When I was like in 3rd grade I use to sit somewhere and it was high and my feet didn't touch the ground so I would throw my shoes off and ask people to get it for me and everyone I asked gave it to me I was surprised
@@LomiKo I have done it all kinds of ways. My favourite is to interrupt them in a conversation. They really don't have time to think about it, and just do it. Makes it even funnier when they realize what they're doing. Edit: typo
Yeah it really depends! Most people wouldn't say your name that deliberate in a casual conversation, which begs the question of what do they want to talk about then that _isn't_ casual? Different people, different context, different answers.
Same. Whenever I hear one of my parents say, "Hey, (my name), lemme talk to you/come here for a moment" it usually doesn't end with something good. Usually it's because they noticed I did something bad, like one of my grades went down, for example. Basically, they're saying, "Hey, you fucked up."
My girlfriend HATES her name. So... don't use her name lol. Whenever I hear my name... it gives me a bit of an anxiety feeling.. so I imagine people with actual generalised or social anxiety, wouldn't like it very much at all. It makes you feel on the spot and pointed out in a direct way. Also yea it's not casual... so it feels weird.. And it's also not very natural... which for me, instantly makes me question their motives. Also just hearing my own name is kind of irritating. Especially if I don't know the person well.
I did this thing that I learned from The Office. Every time our class started, I would ask my friend if he wanted a stick of gum after the bell rang. Every time, I would offer it until I got to the point where I would just hand it over without saying anything. Then all of a sudden, I got to the point where he would put out his hand after the bell rang. I said "Do you need something?" He then pulled his hand back and said"...no", then started to make chewing motions without anything in his mouth. My friend seating behind me realized what I was doing and she was just laughing her ass off.
I always say "I mean if you don't wanna that's okay, just let me know" when I ask someone a favor, I've been doing it since I was 13, I'm 19 now and I dont think anyone has actually told me that they dont want to.
"Hey milady. Do you want to go on a marvelous date with me? I mean if you don't wanna that's okay, just let me know." "No." "NANI? How can she reject me?"
Yeah, that's a good one. Essentially you're turning their pressure of an upcoming task by asking them for a favor into an opportunity to help someone and bring good feels to both sides.
I mean, it's kinda manipulative. If you tell someone "you don't have to," not only do you give them the illusion of choice, but by acknowledging that they could say no, you're inadvertently giving the impression that you've been rejected before, which will make them think they'd be just another asshole for denying your request. It's a strange phenomenon.
Me daddys dad went out for fishing one day. He got conscripted to RoK Army on the way back and fought for 9 straight years, including a month in the bloody battle of Heartbreak Ridge. So yeah, never go out fishing lads
Not necessarily a trick you can use on someone, but more of something they do to themselves. If someone constantly tries to reassure you of something without being prompted to, they're trying to reassure themselves more than you. Works really well if someone that used to be intrested in someone is constantly saying they do/don't have feelings for someone anymore or something similar.
i have a mate who kind of does this all the time re fitness/weight loss etc. will always ask me if x will do y even though he already knows it does just to have me reassure him it does so it soothes his anxiety.
If you don't want someone to sit next to you on public transport, don't try and avoid eye contact. Look them straight in the eye, smile and pat the seat next you so as to say "sit right here."
Another trick: Use a smaller plate or bowl. Usually, I find most folks pile on food until the dish is full. So, if you have a smaller plate, less is obtained. If more is wanted, one can get a second helping. The time taken to do so will give your body a bit more time to realize 'Oh, I've got food now. I should stop being hungry.' And if not that, there's the mental nagging of 'oh, I've already eaten [n] plates already.' And another: Feeling only slightly hungry? Drink some water, just to fill your belly. I find that it often suppresses that desire to snack, letting me hold off on food until proper meal time.
@@Yamaazaka Some of it iisn't really manipulation in my definition, like the "funny joke" one. More of a thing to do in order to understand a new environment
Tbh so much of what we do is manipulation - consciously or unconsciously. It's just our bodies doing what they've found works for them because we want the best for ourselves naturally. It's funny how we pretty much only name it manipulation though when someone uses it consciously with evil intent, seeing how often it otherwise happens.
For some reason whenever we play Rock Paper Scissors it goes something like this: Rock-scissors Paper-paper Paper-paper Paper-paper Paper-paper Paper-paper Paper-paper Paper-paper Etc.
Psychological trick: If your parents ever tell you that they would punish you once you come back home,Try to get into pointless conversations with them.That would make them forget about it
Mine is less of a trick and more something I've noticed in people but I don't talk a lot as I am somewhat laid back and withdrawn but I am still rather well spoken. Many times when I speak it makes what I say have more weight because people assume that when I don't talk I think and thus it makes what I say appear analytical and smart. Generally it's dumb but it can be nice many times because my vote can weigh more than others.
I think people are rather wont to rely on archetypes/stereotypes. You're quiet, _ergo_ you're thoughtful. If you have glasses, then you must be smart/nerdy. That sorta thing
6:50 - 7:27 This technique has the exact opposite effect on me. If a total stranger suddenly starts addressing me by my first name, I instantly know they're up to something and it angers me to no end that customer service people everywhere think that gaining my goodwill is so simple. Besides which, it is simply rude to assume you are on a first-name basis with somebody who has not explicitly said, "Hello, let me introduce myself, my name is..."
See, I expect this kind of thing on the internet. There is almost no incentive to be courteous online. But dealing face-to-face with customers that you would like to be repeat customers should be plenty of incentive to show people basic respect.
Worked at Dillard's awhile. Found it's hard to go wrong with a deferential ma'am or sir. Deferential enough and they might even forgive you if you were just helping another customer and get the gender wrong, provided you catch it immediately and apologize profusely.
*walks in a hallway *sees someone walking the opposite direction on their phone **AGGRESSIVELY POWER WALKS TOWARDS THEM* *they move out of the way *continues walking normally
When I'm walking behind someone and they are in the way walking quite slow, I tend to scrape the heel of my shoes against the pavement, it's a bit unnatural, sure, but tends to work.
Psychological trick to alleviate insomnia: When you can't fall asleep, turn off the lights, spin around for 30 seconds, then stop spinning and try to find the light switch. You'll hit your head on something and you'll fall asleep!
@@maha.1655 Oof, I know exactly what you mean. I knew at least one or two people who do that. It's hard to be around them because I can't have a normal conversation without them turning anything I say into something negative or whatever. Meh
Same here. Someone saying my name as much as they can in a conversations is not music to my ears. It is more like “hmm what do they want from me?” Mixed in with suspicions of them being condescending...the sort of condescension that adults do to kids. “Wow Billy thay was great. I think that we should move on to something else Billy. What do you think about that Billy?”. Some people actually talk like that and I never knew why. I guess it’s cause they think saying someone’s name will make them more favorable. Not to me.
If someone is eating a food you want, just say "I've never had (food) before" I've found it results in them giving food I mean at first it was true until I said the same thing to another person
This is so annoying when other people do that! I don't like sharing food and I hate people who always stare at my food, expecting me to give some of it to them. I usually bite my food ( I mean it's something that I can hold, not eat with a fork or spoon), so it's very disgusting. I just say "Oh really? Cool.". It's honestly annoying :/
bRO....when it first said what are some tricks you know my wifi cut out and it was a loading screen and I just watched it like “Oh come on I know it’s not ACTUALLY loading” for a good 3 minutes before I realized that i staring at a blank screen by myself in the dark doing nothing but smirking weirdly
It really does. Especially if you are tiny like me and trying to get from one end of the building to the other, you have to walk with purpose, look past the people around you and don't ever swerve your path because then you will get trampled
Unfortunately, I can say from experience that 2:01 - 2:07 is not necessarily true. Some people love to tear down good people for no reason other than to hurt them.
Yes John, I agree! While I also feel these tricks are all crammed into this one video, making it a bit hard to learn in one go, I believe you should either watch it a couple more times, or just ignore it and go on with life as you already do. Have a good one John!
That may work up until the point where people realize you're just a loudmouth idiot. Good luck convincing anyone to ever take your word on something after that
And even if you're wrong, the confidence to be sure enough to say it with conviction usually gets you a pass.... to a point. You can only be wrong so many times before discrediting yourself. "Better to ask forgiveness than permission." Comes from this.
Haha ive seen people do this before, its hilarious I was in Colorado one time about to ride some horses on a field trip Everybody was looking for helmets that fit them and one of the people i was talking to turned to someone who was picking up a helmet and declared that helmet was his, they handed him the helmet even though it was clearly to small for him XD
I like messing with people who I suspect are lying to me. What I will do is I will ask them or comment to them something that is believable, but I know is untrue. If someone is lying, and what you say further promotes their lie, they will more often than not buy into it and agree with what you said, thus revealing to you that they are lying. The really smart ones won't buy into it and stick to their guns...or maybe they aren't lying to you to begin with. But most people don't think that deeply and don't commit that heavily to their lie, so when they see an out or a way to make their lie stronger, they take it. Or another one is when you're trying to find out how much someone likes you, all you need is a bench. I was once out walking with a friend who I suspected was interested in me but I wasn't sure how much. So as we were walking, I saw a bench coming up and commented how I wanted to take a break at the bench (I was fine, but it gave me a chance to test my theory). I made sure I reached the bench first, and sat down in the middle of one end of the bench. I then observed where she sat. If she sat at the far end of the bench, it meant that she was only interested in me platonically. If she sat in the same position as I but on the other end of the bench, it would mean she was comfortable around me, and possibly interested at most, but unlikely. But if she say right in the middle of the bench, closer to me, it meant she was more than likely interested in me b/c you like being near those you are interested in. Essentially, you use the bench and yourself as a likeness meter. The more of a gap between where she would sit and the end of the bench, the more she was into me. And vice versa for where she sat vs where I was sitting. Where did she sit? Right in the middle of the bench, so closer to me, further from the edge of the bench. It turned out she was indeed interested in me.
In the first one, another trick is to keep pressing the dude and see if he either flinches or contradicts himself. For example, let's say your friend didn't show up to help you at something. Ask him why. Usually, lying people will take a bit longer to answer than usual. If he says something believable, ask him if he just couldn't have showed up later, or at least notified you. Keep pressing. If he takes way too long to answer, he's probably lying.
um cara qualquer this! because coming up with details out of the bat is difficult so when a story measures up to its arguments it’s believable. but if the person hesitates a lot or takes too much time replying to it, then it’s a lie most of the time
Coming from an experienced liar, the difference between the good liars and the bad liars is ironically how much you actually lie. Good liars will mix truths or previous experiences/explanations with slight fabrications to suit the new situation, whereas bad liars will reinvent scenes altogether. It's like Photoshop; the more you use it, the faker it looks and the more you know it's fake. But there's at least one technique that usually makes me start to crack (which rarely anyone uses btw): diverting attention by switching subjects. For example, if someone is calling in sick to work, when they just want the day off, and they're fibbing their sickness, ask them about how much work they've gotten done in the past few days or week or about how their partner is doing; something unrelated to their current topic. If they're lying, they'll likely keep reminding you of the lie (Oh, yea, I guess I did pretty good. It's a shame this cold is keeping me from getting back to it.) or working in a similar-sounding response. Since lies, no matter how fake, require attention and focus, distracting them from it can at best, make them stutter and pause more, which give hints of their lie or at worst, make them inflate it and keep adding more fake details, further revealing the fakeness. As a great man once said: "You don't need to think to tell the truth."
inviso87 What if you give them the bench test and they sit on you? Again you can't really tell if they are into you or not, they could just be Canadian and are being polite.
When I first read this I thought it said instead of studying with the goal of getting a bad grade instead of instead of studying with the goal of not getting a bad grade lol
This is most likely a form of manipulation and why I only use it on people that I think were unreasonably rude to me, so please don't get any ideas and be direct in communicating with people that you know and love. After someone I feel like is being unreasonable and rude to me in a way, I wait a few days or so when we're back to normal and they seem to forget about it. Then, I bring up the conversation to them, but in a way where it makes it like I was arguing with a random friend of mine (flipping genders and making up a random setting (party, club, work, etc.) instead of where the actual argument came from is recommended, at least from my experience). Example: Me: Ugh I got into this argument with a friend of mine at a party. Every time I seem to talk to them about something, they just drop it quickly and ignore me all of the time. It pisses me off! Coworker: Oh I hate those kind of people! The best thing you can do is just to ignore them and try to do the problems yourself, and see what they think about that. I do it just to see the sort of irony in their reactions. Sometimes, they don't realize and give me advice on how I treat that rando (when in reality, they're giving me advice on how I should treat them). Sometimes, they do a little bit of introspection and bring it up to me later. But I only did this with strangers and acquaintances, not really to my friends/loved ones unless they really are closed-minded and don't take criticism well. Direct communication is better!
That technique can also be helpful in showing you how they want to be treated. I've met people who when you act nice to them they think you are being fake and trying to manipulate them. For them, they gain trust in others when they agree with their misery.
I used my psychological tricks to be voted mayor for a city I moved into for a couple months. I then blew all the bridges leading into the city and held it for ransom.
4:17 I learned this trick on my own over the years. I try it all the time. Works like a charm. It’s simply because people want you to recognize and react to their emotions, which is a controlling action. However, counter with apathy and you’ll disarm them. It’s great especially if you work around manipulating/controlling people. :3 (family, coworkers, etc.)
I once stumbled upon a large group of politicians who were opening some kind of anniversary. I was 17 and had no right to walk in there, but I saw they had lots of food and drinks. So I went around the corner, brushed my hair and all and walked right back and past their security. I walked so fast without even looking at anyone, nobody questioned it. I ate a lot of food that day, went from table to table to avoid conversation, and even took some snacks with me. Confidence is key.
@@kyoranger fake it and you'll make it. Seriously, think about it, the way you speak and talk. Your posture. Get one of those things for your shoulders and start to even when you're alone eat in a very elegant way, put books under your arms and stuff. it's super uncomfortalbe at first but over time your posture will get very nice and you'll feel much more confident. :)
@@kruzvaughan I usually add "right?" at the end of a sentence without realising, so sometimes when I add "right?" to the end of a sentence, one of my friends will say "No, left." I've recently adopted doing that to other people.
That “give something to someone while they’re talking” tactic doesn’t work as well as everyone thinks. A guy tried it in my workplace and everyone ended up thinking it was just weird and annoying.
I am fucking your waifu and there's nothing you can do about it Oh yeah that would have made everyone thoroughly upset. But no one even took the pen in the first place.
What color is your shoe trick, Engage in conversation while giving someone an item, Nodding while stating a fact to convince someone your telling them what’s right, I always play rock in rock paper scissors, Turning down in arguments when people yell, To make someone to like you more, ask them a very small favor, to create cognitive dissonance, Say people’s name, it’s sweet,
The one that I liked the most was the "your thoughts arent facts" because recently I've realized this too. My thoughts are just a collection of all experiences I've had and how I choose to percieve the world. It really does change everything when you REALLY grasp that idea. Not just hearing it but sitting on it and really understanding what that means.
That last one I learned from my dad at the movies when he'd just walk in like he already had tickets and was returning to his seat from outside or something
The one about accepting things handed to you while you're in the middle of a conversation is SO TRUE. More than once at a preschool I once worked at, I'll be talking to a kid or a teacher and another child will talk up to me and hand me something. A few minutes later after I'm done talking with whoever, I'll be all like "Why the heck am I holding this???" I'll literally have no recollection of having taken possession of it lol.
If you want to look more friendly while a chat and probably make new friends faster, try to copy their manners. I mean, if they have crossed arms do the same, not instantly but when they are talking, it makes you look that you truly care and that you are understanding them. Also, always smile when you talk to someone if you wanna look friendly
Anybody remember that one episode from 'two and a half men' where Charlie makes a joke somewhere along the lines of "just nod your head and say 'uh huh' even if you aren't paying attention'..... I tried it in a conversation once, where I literally phased out and had no idea what was going on, and the other person genuinely thought I was just being attentive because they just kept on talking.... Tbh I still don't even know what the entire one-sided five minute conversation was about...
I tend to forget about my math homework because of how easy it is to me. When my teacher comes, desk by desk, to check who doesn't have it, I always rest my head on my hand while facing the opposite side of where she is. She totally overlooks me, checks my desk partner's homework and doesn't realize my distracted ass forgot to do it.
So next time I talk to my professor I'll just say Here is my essay Andre instead of Here is my essay Dr.Dre . Yeah! That will make everything sound way more professional!
when i’m walking up behind someone and they’re having a conversation and i don’t feel like saying “excuse me,” i subtly make my footsteps louder and every single time they instinctively move out of the way
My brother once went to a concert for one of our favorite bands. After the show was done, he walked backstage and was stopped by security. He acted confident, and when security asked if he was a lighting crew member, he said yes and was allowed to pass. He just kinda casually walked around a bit and then found an actual lighting crew dude, thanked him for the work the crew does at concerts, and then left. Confidence can get you anywhere.
Also if u wanna win at rock, paper, scissors before you start playing ask your opponent what color their shirt is, and when the game starts they will usually pick scissors Idk how this works but it does
It's recognized as a personal question so they will feel "uneasy" kinda I guess. So then their brain will resort to their hand in the most comfortable and easy position which is scissors
I’ve definitely noticed the name-calling one at 7:20... I’m a teacher and always tell my kids’ parents to address me by my first name. But no one ever does. On the rare occasions it DOES happen, though, it feels special. It gets my endorphins going.
Mom: Do the Dishes and the Laundry
Me: What colour are your shoes
And then run away while she's distracted XD
Omg r u Canadian
What if she is wearing feet? According to my calculations, It is relatively hyper impossible.
@@phillipnuesca4008 "wearing feet"
@@immima5219 lol
My favorite one is when someone is being annoying or rude to you for no reason.
Stare at their forehead when you talk to them, it makes them uncomfortable
I stare at there mouths, they tend to close it rather quickly...works 100% of the time.
I’m 5 foot tall man, my sight doesn’t reach foreheads 😂😂
@@shadycat_1935 Stare at their mouths Monica...I swear it works, you'll see them head straight to the bathroom to check their teeth.. :)
2008MrsKim hahaha, thanks for tip mate, I’ll be sure to put it to good use 😂😂
What if the person doesn't look at you while talking?
I feel like I need to memorise all of these
Me too but I just can't
Phew..
I thought I was the only one. I even saved it to my "watch later" playlist.
@@swishtv2046 same
U just got 30 seconds for that. Hurry up
i listed it down print it and put on my wall haha
My mom: Do the dishes and wash the laundry
life pro tip: no u!
@@ManomiiFox real life pro tip: invest in heelys
ARMYYYY!!☺️
greatest psychological trick is to be a mother
I'll give joonie a high five ayyye armys represent 💓
I am now ready to manipulate everyone
Zntx ahahahaga
i actually laughed so hard bc of this comment HAHAHAHAHA
Me to everyone:
*_Illusion:100_*
*_Destruction:100_*
Laughed so damn hard man. 😂😂.
Honestly i Feel like thats the case for most people
"Acting like you belong somewhere will have people not question what your doing" how I've gotten away with most things in my life especially ditching class
Hayley Ann Marie Exactly 😂 same here
Me and a friend walked into a concert that way, we just dressed like the local reporters usually do, put on some badges w/ fake ID, and just powerwalked through with a camera and a business notepad (respectively). Got to watch the whole thing for free, and no one even stopped us to check our ID's.
@@thesocialistsarecoming8565 Lmao nice dude. Thank you for giving me a couple of idea's...
@@vminisfuckingreal998 no problem, good luck lol
I can imagine a 9 year old acting like he belongs at someplace >18 and nobody cares lol
The amount of times people have told hacks and ways of winning rock paper scissors is way greater than the actual amount of times I will play rock paper scissors in my life.
Lol we do it quite a lot when it comes to food. My friends never compromise when it comes to choosing where to eat so rps it is
Everyone chooses their option when the word rock is said. Choose your option half a beat after and your subconscious will pick the winning option. Works every time.
I won an ice cream playing Rock paper scissors
Actually, if you ask something about their lives like “what did you eat for breakfast” makes most people throw scissors, I don’t really remember why but works for a great amount of people
I've seen it in depth in hunter x hunter
Government: Do you want to vote for this party or this party?
The ol bamboozle
That’s interesting. Inherently I don’t want to vote for any of the parties 🤔
Yes, because a 2 party system works best.
Kelly Bertei hahaha!
@@SamStarrs wait are you for real?
I learned this from having a narcissistic father: if you ever want anything at all always make the other person feel like they are winning.(make them feel smarter than you, etc.)
Yup same
Hi, I have a narcissistic father, can you give me some tips when I need money for school and he's not in a good mood? (he only provides us when he's in a good mood) sometimes his bad mood stays too long he doesn't give me allowance for a month or two, I spend the money I saved up...
shwitzyy BTOB What I use to do when I was kid and needed money was I use to run errands and my mom would give me the money for transportation/ a cab and I would walk and keep the money that was given to me for transport. Hurt my legs but at the end I have 30$ extra in my pockets
shwitzyy BTOB or get a job/ sell stuff at school and if you are really really desperate just steal it. Don’t let him catch you though. Shit can turn bad real fast.
I hear this narrator on so many channels he must be famous
r/woosh
milkbox I know I was joking
Mur phy 🧢
this was the funniest comment i have ever seen
what does woosh means
Be confident...
When you first meet someone, make note of their eye color.
Match body language.
Use a person's name right away..
Pretend you feel comfortable..
Notice people's feet...
Stay silent and see what else they say.. Choose your seat wisely..
Basically be a sociopath usually helps you to get away with murder.
I bet you use a lot of chloroform, don't you?
Chloroform doesnt actually knock you out fast
April fools?
@@Jonnio But at least you have a good time getting there 😉
If you want the right answer to a question don't ask it say the wrong answer. People love to correct others as it makes us feel better than them. More effective the more confident you sound
Tried this on my exams
Got a 0% and failed the term
In a way, this is a win-win situation as you will get educated on what the answer is while the people correcting you could strengthen their memory of the answer. This is theoretical, but it does happen a lot and is a good way to learn more.
I do that in maths for fun, so if I tried it I doubt it'll work lmao
that always happens in my class lolol
lmao i use this all the time on my classmates even when i have a hint of what's the right answer partially bc i want them to feel more confident (bc im always assigned the group leader and im tired of them always relying on me just bc they dont feel confident) but mostly bc this make them feel like they always need to watch over me like tell me our schedule all the time or always remind me of our assignments/projects. that way i dont even take notes anymore lol they do it and they just hand it to me by the end of the day
Ok, time to troll unsuspecting plebians psychological style
666 th like
Why are you the new Justin Y?
Your pfp is scary
plebeians* ((dont attack me))
Pleb
If you see a person gossiping to another through ear whispering, look at the person they're whispering it to, their eyes usually look at the person being gossiped about. So if the one being told the gossip/secret looks at you, you'll know.
r/woooosh
@@Daniel-km9jw ?
CommanderLeo lmao
taeyong's teddy bear jellies
just ignore them they’re an idiot aha
(also double lele!)
Eye contact is key to literally any situation. If eye contact is uncomfortable stare at the skin around there eyes and try to figure what shade it is. Works in almost anything
Dylan Jackson or stare at their nose or between their eyes if you're close to the person, no one will notice
When someone says a joke, I laugh and look at my own reflection in a mirror...
Then what do you do if there's no mirror around?
@@edgarcardiffscpreadermemes366 Don't you always carry a mirror with you?
Plot twist: the one that makes the joke is also himself.
Plot twist 2: the reflection is the one telling the joke.
Plot twist 5: the alien twin is actually a human whos stuck in an alien dimension because an alien swapped his life when he looked into the mirror after laughing
0:37 I would use this, but nobody laughs at my jokes...
Don't worry, same here.
Then make a joke about how nobody laughs at your jokes. Self-deprecation can be pretty funny.
It's all about practice and being a funny person!
hahahaha
Jokes depend a lot on the way they are told, context, and the sense of humour of the people around you.
I would call myself a "Clear situational comedian". That means I make jokes with the situations we are currently in, the objects around us, always in a way that it's clear that I'm joking, by smiling and using an exaggerated tone.
Some are great at making self-depreciating jokes, others are great at being sarcastic in a funny way, while keeping a straight face.
You just need to practice and find out what type of comedian you are!
Once you get that confidence, people will laugh... Or say that they want to kill themselves... It depends on how bad the joke is.
Agree with someone to get them to stop talking
Unless you're Ben Shapiro.
That's what I like to call the husband/boyfriend effect. Its when you want your SO to stop going on a tangent or rant, you just nod and say "yep" throughout the conversation, especially when they end a sentence with "right?"
@@wiijjdog Hm... That's why I have problems with conversations.
I always feel like people stop talking to me for no reason during a conversation... Now I see I'm the one who's not letting it flow, since A LOT of my sentences are just that standalone "Yep".
Thank you, random TH-cam dude! You unintentionally helped me in a huge part of my life!
Doesn't work for me. Because usually people think it means I'm interested in whatever they are saying therefore they keep talking and talking.
Agreeing isn't enough, you need to give them the impression you are genuinely agreeing with them otherwise now they know what you are doing and get defensive wity you if they weren't already. If you genuinely agree with someone it establishes a commonality and that helps to establish trust, from there it is easier to calm someone down or disengage from a conversation. Just saying you agree with them isn't disengaging
Did this dude just get million views off a askreddit thread?
That's the real trick
Yeah, seriously. All of his videos are like this. 300k subs for picking a reddit thread and taking screenshots.
It’s ridiculous.
Nikkrail Because this guy has been doing it for years and TH-cam doesn't need another channel that just steals people's comments on a reddit thread and paste it in a text to speech bot. I actually have dignity, unlike the creator of this channel.
Maybe some people prefer listening to these videos rather than scrolling through Reddit threads.
TH-cam has everything these days, what did you expect, and why are you here :/
King of Bad Usernames Exactly
4:33 not really true. I tried being very calm in arguments with my mom, and she only got more mad and started thinking that I don't care about anything
rehctacria Dafuq. Same thing just happened to me last night. It was my fault so I just shut up and looked down the whole time. She went berserk and start hitting me and stuff. Parents can be crazy at times🤦🏻♂️
@@issackaiser i'm so sorry to hear that. have you talked about this with someone from your family or maybe a teacher? if this wasn't the first time she has hit you, I'd really suggest seeking help
rehctacria I’m 20 years old already and she only could hit as hard as a 7 years old. I’m perfectly fine 🤣 It’s her mad yelling that ticks me off and drives me mad sometimes. 🤷🏻♂️
@@issackaiser oh well, that's good to hear then. u got me worried for a second there
rehctacria You know, this world could really use more of people like you. Heck, filling the entire planet would be great. Thank you. 👍🏻
Also, in High School, I used to ask people to hold my leg. The amount of people that did it without asking why, was astounding. Try it sometime. It's hilarious.
?????? u just randomly tell someone to hold your leg or in the middle of the conversation you sneask it in?
When I was like in 3rd grade I use to sit somewhere and it was high and my feet didn't touch the ground so I would throw my shoes off and ask people to get it for me and everyone I asked gave it to me I was surprised
JoKer ikr? I want to know the specifics too.
I like asking people to hold my leg and then I walk over them dragging my balls across their face. Good prank at the office!
@@LomiKo I have done it all kinds of ways. My favourite is to interrupt them in a conversation. They really don't have time to think about it, and just do it. Makes it even funnier when they realize what they're doing.
Edit: typo
6:55 Mostly.
I, for example, have a heart attack while thinking about what I fucked up this time, everytime I hear my name being said.
That's what I was thinking about when I saw this...
@@aliyahortega6548 LMAO... SO TRUE...
Yeah it really depends!
Most people wouldn't say your name that deliberate in a casual conversation, which begs the question of what do they want to talk about then that _isn't_ casual?
Different people, different context, different answers.
Same. Whenever I hear one of my parents say, "Hey, (my name), lemme talk to you/come here for a moment" it usually doesn't end with something good. Usually it's because they noticed I did something bad, like one of my grades went down, for example. Basically, they're saying, "Hey, you fucked up."
My girlfriend HATES her name. So... don't use her name lol.
Whenever I hear my name... it gives me a bit of an anxiety feeling.. so I imagine people with actual generalised or social anxiety, wouldn't like it very much at all. It makes you feel on the spot and pointed out in a direct way.
Also yea it's not casual... so it feels weird..
And it's also not very natural... which for me, instantly makes me question their motives.
Also just hearing my own name is kind of irritating. Especially if I don't know the person well.
I tried introducing myself as "Dr Big Black" but it tends not to have the desired effect
Yikes
Hmm....showing them what the effect it'll have on them?
Try Dr Darken Schwartz. I think that's how it's spelled anyway. Dr Dark Black
@@skippy2987 dark is dunkel in german
Skippy does that mean arnold swarzenegger’s last name mean dark nigger😶
the only trick that you wanna use is being *confident.* The more confident you are, the more intimidated they are to you.
I did this thing that I learned from The Office. Every time our class started, I would ask my friend if he wanted a stick of gum after the bell rang. Every time, I would offer it until I got to the point where I would just hand it over without saying anything. Then all of a sudden, I got to the point where he would put out his hand after the bell rang. I said "Do you need something?" He then pulled his hand back and said"...no", then started to make chewing motions without anything in his mouth. My friend seating behind me realized what I was doing and she was just laughing her ass off.
“My mouth tastes so horrible all of a sudden!..”
Insert cliché Jim moment here
@@thedonster926 LMAO
Fun fact, this is called conditional behavior, founded by russian scientist ivan pavlov. Super interesting dude
Eduardo Quintero I don’t share my gum. >:(
Nice fake story
I always say "I mean if you don't wanna that's okay, just let me know" when I ask someone a favor, I've been doing it since I was 13, I'm 19 now and I dont think anyone has actually told me that they dont want to.
I do get told no sometimes, but it's so rare that I forget that people actually have the choice to reject me
"Hey milady. Do you want to go on a marvelous date with me? I mean if you don't wanna that's okay, just let me know."
"No."
"NANI? How can she reject me?"
Yeah, that's a good one. Essentially you're turning their pressure of an upcoming task by asking them for a favor into an opportunity to help someone and bring good feels to both sides.
I mean, it's kinda manipulative. If you tell someone "you don't have to," not only do you give them the illusion of choice, but by acknowledging that they could say no, you're inadvertently giving the impression that you've been rejected before, which will make them think they'd be just another asshole for denying your request. It's a strange phenomenon.
I’ve been doing this for so long, it’s like instinct now when I ask for favors xD
I’ve been doing half of these without the slightest idea they’re actual techniques
Or broccoli your choice
Or do the cooking or clean the dishes
Do all
That's very nice rocko!
Weird flex but ok lol
*I have a certain mind trick of my own I often like to use...*
Obi-Wan Kenobi Does your trick make people ask questions?
Crimson Cheetah you fell for it
What is it?
I was looking for some droids. I don't see them. Carry on, sir.
April D. r/woooosh
Psychological trick:Tell someone to shut up and they won't....They just start talking more
Works everytime with my classmates.
Works particularly well with younger siblings
Hypocritical but ok...
I mean, being polite to people does have a near 100% chance of increasing their disposition towards you.
Works with my annoying old brother. I dunno if he broke some nerves in his brain or smethin.
Kristine Kim Why do younger siblings always do the opposite of whatever their older sibling tells them to do?
My dad went out to get some milk and then he ended up in a mental asylum for 10 years
@@alexandrine1558, he was smarter than vsauce
Really? Mine went for milk too...Except mine never came back.
Me daddys dad went out for fishing one day.
He got conscripted to RoK Army on the way back and fought for 9 straight years, including a month in the bloody battle of Heartbreak Ridge.
So yeah, never go out fishing lads
Why is that a fat mood
Why tf
Not necessarily a trick you can use on someone, but more of something they do to themselves. If someone constantly tries to reassure you of something without being prompted to, they're trying to reassure themselves more than you. Works really well if someone that used to be intrested in someone is constantly saying they do/don't have feelings for someone anymore or something similar.
i have a mate who kind of does this all the time re fitness/weight loss etc. will always ask me if x will do y even though he already knows it does just to have me reassure him it does so it soothes his anxiety.
Damn I do that too
So how should someone from the receiving end handle the talk then? Like should you just listen or make little comments?
If you don't want someone to sit next to you on public transport, don't try and avoid eye contact. Look them straight in the eye, smile and pat the seat next you so as to say "sit right here."
I will use this tomorrow.
This is a 50/50 chance I’m assuming?
Well if someone would do that to me I would probably do so and start a conversation. But that's either because I like talking or because I'm a psycho
its nice if its works, but in case it doesnt...hell this can go creepy XD
@Epoika txt100 then both of us are crazy
“to form a triangle adding them to the circle”
Cristiana Claudio lol
Yeah that should _square_ them
Thank you Stephen Hawking for reading these out.
Lol
He had an American accent
Hehehe
Apparently, Stephen has been on many channels reading these out from what i experienced 🤔
Not cool dude
I like how peoples names in the last one are all from The Office.
69th like. nifty
Bears. Beets. Battlestar Galactica.
SaveTheHumans What kind of Bear is best?
False. Black bear.
Kacper Naruszko I was searching for someone who’d notice.
If you cut up your food into smaller pieces, your brain will think your eating more than you're actually eating.
BasicBod when I was a kid I would eat spam and cut it into tiny cubes with a knife
That might just be the physiological response to making your food hard to eat. There's a delay between eating something and feeling full from it.
Another trick: Use a smaller plate or bowl. Usually, I find most folks pile on food until the dish is full. So, if you have a smaller plate, less is obtained. If more is wanted, one can get a second helping. The time taken to do so will give your body a bit more time to realize 'Oh, I've got food now. I should stop being hungry.' And if not that, there's the mental nagging of 'oh, I've already eaten [n] plates already.'
And another: Feeling only slightly hungry? Drink some water, just to fill your belly. I find that it often suppresses that desire to snack, letting me hold off on food until proper meal time.
jesus, these food tips make me think of ehen i took it to the extreme and possibly developed an ed
I'd like to believe that, but then again - I've eaten rice before and I'm not sure how much smaller I can make the pieces
One word "manipulation"
Ye, what about it?
Yep
@@Yamaazaka Some of it iisn't really manipulation in my definition, like the "funny joke" one. More of a thing to do in order to understand a new environment
Tbh so much of what we do is manipulation - consciously or unconsciously. It's just our bodies doing what they've found works for them because we want the best for ourselves naturally.
It's funny how we pretty much only name it manipulation though when someone uses it consciously with evil intent, seeing how often it otherwise happens.
Lol basically every social interaction has manipulation in it, the peeps in the video are just more aware of it than most
For some reason whenever we play Rock Paper Scissors it goes something like this:
Rock-scissors
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Paper-paper
Etc.
Jacks Bunker Ultimate game of Chicken
Lmao
Psychological trick:
If your parents ever tell you that they would punish you once you come back home,Try to get into pointless conversations with them.That would make them forget about it
oof can't talk to Dad
Soft Dreamer Lol what? Don’t know how stupid the parents have to be in order to not know what the kid is trying to do.
What kind of absent-minded parent.... Must be nice. Can't relate
I always do this trick , it worked everytimes xD
Soft Dreamer
You're lucky, most of us just have our parents waiting for us with the belt in their hands behind the door.
Mine is less of a trick and more something I've noticed in people but I don't talk a lot as I am somewhat laid back and withdrawn but I am still rather well spoken. Many times when I speak it makes what I say have more weight because people assume that when I don't talk I think and thus it makes what I say appear analytical and smart. Generally it's dumb but it can be nice many times because my vote can weigh more than others.
I think people are rather wont to rely on archetypes/stereotypes. You're quiet, _ergo_ you're thoughtful. If you have glasses, then you must be smart/nerdy. That sorta thing
i hated when people thought that about me, it made me feel like i have to stay quiet to seem smart, not that anyone thinks am smart anymore
Grover Cleveland yeah, I naturally provide evidence of my own stupidity whenever I open my mouth.
I can approve of this, along with being praised like heck by my teachers, puts a lot more power into my speech
6:50 - 7:27
This technique has the exact opposite effect on me. If a total stranger suddenly starts addressing me by my first name, I instantly know they're up to something and it angers me to no end that customer service people everywhere think that gaining my goodwill is so simple.
Besides which, it is simply rude to assume you are on a first-name basis with somebody who has not explicitly said, "Hello, let me introduce myself, my name is..."
I'm sorry it makes you feel that way Matt
See, I expect this kind of thing on the internet. There is almost no incentive to be courteous online.
But dealing face-to-face with customers that you would like to be repeat customers should be plenty of incentive to show people basic respect.
It's kinda the same for me although it doesn't really anger me.I just get suspicious as to how they know my name etc.
Worked at Dillard's awhile. Found it's hard to go wrong with a deferential ma'am or sir. Deferential enough and they might even forgive you if you were just helping another customer and get the gender wrong, provided you catch it immediately and apologize profusely.
Sucks to be so sensitive Matt
*saves to "useful video" playlist*
Eh, mine's "Interesting"
I just throw it in my watch later and hopefully I remember to watch it or if I don’t get lazy.(and yes I get lazy to even watch a video..... )
Lil Bank i do that too, big lazy ass am i right?
Mine is "favoritos" which means favorite xd
I also do this with some videos, other playlists I have include unfinished videos, and favorite videos.
I use the "Saying the name" when asking a favour, it works everytime. They are more willing to accomodate you if you mention their names.
7:28 I used to use this trick while playing Card-Jitsu in Club Penguin.
I still do
Sameee. I guess that is common sense.
I miss those days
Peter The Cactus same lmao i still use it
I slapped at card jitsu I read those mfers like a book and I was like 10
Sometimes when people are in my way and don’t know I’m there I just take loud steps so they move out of the way...
Works every time
*walks in a hallway
*sees someone walking the opposite direction on their phone
**AGGRESSIVELY POWER WALKS TOWARDS THEM*
*they move out of the way
*continues walking normally
I just step quietly sneak up on them and yell “Move!” Loudly and forcefully, bonus points if they drop what they’re carrying.
When I'm walking behind someone and they are in the way walking quite slow, I tend to scrape the heel of my shoes against the pavement, it's a bit unnatural, sure, but tends to work.
Psychological trick to alleviate insomnia:
When you can't fall asleep, turn off the lights, spin around for 30 seconds, then stop spinning and try to find the light switch. You'll hit your head on something and you'll fall asleep!
🤣
* Reads title *
*Time to go back to Ancient Rome and trick sum poor plebs*
My speech skill upgraded to 100 after watching this video
“Being genuinely nice to people will make them like you and be more friendly”
This one is FALSE. IT DOESN’T WORK. I’ve tried it a million times :3
For me it works perfectly, but i'm nice 7/24
and szul you’re lucky. I’m nice 24/7 but some people always take my positive things and make them negative somehow.
@@maha.1655 Oof, I know exactly what you mean. I knew at least one or two people who do that. It's hard to be around them because I can't have a normal conversation without them turning anything I say into something negative or whatever. Meh
Lilian Lucera stay strong ❤️
Some people just don't get a clue, but at that point it's easy enough to just move on in most situations.
This made me realize that I'm always getting tricked.
Lol
6:52 I'm the opposite, using my name makes me nervous/paranoid that I'm in trouble/etc
Draconic Duelist same
Same, I feel odd and suspicious when someone uses my name when we are talking. It makes me wonder if they’re being low key condescending.
Same here. Someone saying my name as much as they can in a conversations is not music to my ears. It is more like “hmm what do they want from me?” Mixed in with suspicions of them being condescending...the sort of condescension that adults do to kids. “Wow Billy thay was great. I think that we should move on to something else Billy. What do you think about that Billy?”. Some people actually talk like that and I never knew why. I guess it’s cause they think saying someone’s name will make them more favorable. Not to me.
Sum1 say my name on da street den niggaz gettin capped
Especially at the guidance office.
I'm 22 and still nervous about using an older person's first name when speaking to them because I was raised to believe that it's always unacceptable.
What country/ethnic group did you grow up in?
James Sales this!
You are an older person 😂
I usually say Mr. Or Ms. Then their first name. Formal and casual at the same time, can't go wrong 😂
@@jinsalami Here we use first names even for teachers (unless the teacher has a nickname)
If someone is eating a food you want, just say "I've never had (food) before"
I've found it results in them giving food
I mean at first it was true until I said the same thing to another person
INFINITYY I just go and buy the food.
Then they say u been livin underarock
@@wintershock
I would do that
except I'm a broke high schooler
This is so annoying when other people do that! I don't like sharing food and I hate people who always stare at my food, expecting me to give some of it to them. I usually bite my food ( I mean it's something that I can hold, not eat with a fork or spoon), so it's very disgusting. I just say "Oh really? Cool.". It's honestly annoying :/
LenaDesu omg so true
LMAO. The best parts are "Make it happen design slave!" And "sonnawabih"
This video taught me more than my psychology professor ever did.
bRO....when it first said what are some tricks you know my wifi cut out and it was a loading screen and I just watched it like “Oh come on I know it’s not ACTUALLY loading” for a good 3 minutes before I realized that i staring at a blank screen by myself in the dark doing nothing but smirking weirdly
Played yaself
If you are looking the way you're walking, then people are very likely to go out of you way
I do this all the time. The trick is to not look at them, but over their shoulder or an object that's behind them.
Walk quickly and scowl slightly. Those who see you coming will often move.
Bend backwards to anyone taller than u your chin is looking at them showing they are beneath u and are inferior
@@BrievelIt really does.
It really does. Especially if you are tiny like me and trying to get from one end of the building to the other, you have to walk with purpose, look past the people around you and don't ever swerve your path because then you will get trampled
Unfortunately, I can say from experience that 2:01 - 2:07 is not necessarily true. Some people love to tear down good people for no reason other than to hurt them.
Story of my life... I'm nice to everyone... but its often pointless...
My brain is too small to remember even one of these
*of
Just Daniel thank you
@@johnthechamp4208 personally I'd of left it. It reiterate's you're initial comment
Just Daniel lol true
Yes John, I agree! While I also feel these tricks are all crammed into this one video, making it a bit hard to learn in one go, I believe you should either watch it a couple more times, or just ignore it and go on with life as you already do. Have a good one John!
*Now I can escape the tricks of all the therapists I go to*
Don’t do it! That’ll only make them more powerful and effective.
Trust me, I’m a shepherd.
Thats such a mood
If you say something confidently enough, most people will believe you.
That explains why we have crazy people running the country.
Not really. Sometimes you just seem stupid and people will agree because who would disagree with an idiot?
That may work up until the point where people realize you're just a loudmouth idiot. Good luck convincing anyone to ever take your word on something after that
And even if you're wrong, the confidence to be sure enough to say it with conviction usually gets you a pass.... to a point. You can only be wrong so many times before discrediting yourself.
"Better to ask forgiveness than permission." Comes from this.
Haha ive seen people do this before, its hilarious
I was in Colorado one time about to ride some horses on a field trip
Everybody was looking for helmets that fit them and one of the people i was talking to turned to someone who was picking up a helmet and declared that helmet was his, they handed him the helmet even though it was clearly to small for him XD
I like messing with people who I suspect are lying to me. What I will do is I will ask them or comment to them something that is believable, but I know is untrue. If someone is lying, and what you say further promotes their lie, they will more often than not buy into it and agree with what you said, thus revealing to you that they are lying. The really smart ones won't buy into it and stick to their guns...or maybe they aren't lying to you to begin with. But most people don't think that deeply and don't commit that heavily to their lie, so when they see an out or a way to make their lie stronger, they take it.
Or another one is when you're trying to find out how much someone likes you, all you need is a bench. I was once out walking with a friend who I suspected was interested in me but I wasn't sure how much. So as we were walking, I saw a bench coming up and commented how I wanted to take a break at the bench (I was fine, but it gave me a chance to test my theory). I made sure I reached the bench first, and sat down in the middle of one end of the bench. I then observed where she sat. If she sat at the far end of the bench, it meant that she was only interested in me platonically. If she sat in the same position as I but on the other end of the bench, it would mean she was comfortable around me, and possibly interested at most, but unlikely. But if she say right in the middle of the bench, closer to me, it meant she was more than likely interested in me b/c you like being near those you are interested in. Essentially, you use the bench and yourself as a likeness meter. The more of a gap between where she would sit and the end of the bench, the more she was into me. And vice versa for where she sat vs where I was sitting. Where did she sit? Right in the middle of the bench, so closer to me, further from the edge of the bench. It turned out she was indeed interested in me.
In the first one, another trick is to keep pressing the dude and see if he either flinches or contradicts himself.
For example, let's say your friend didn't show up to help you at something. Ask him why. Usually, lying people will take a bit longer to answer than usual.
If he says something believable, ask him if he just couldn't have showed up later, or at least notified you.
Keep pressing. If he takes way too long to answer, he's probably lying.
um cara qualquer this! because coming up with details out of the bat is difficult so when a story measures up to its arguments it’s believable. but if the person hesitates a lot or takes too much time replying to it, then it’s a lie most of the time
Coming from an experienced liar, the difference between the good liars and the bad liars is ironically how much you actually lie. Good liars will mix truths or previous experiences/explanations with slight fabrications to suit the new situation, whereas bad liars will reinvent scenes altogether. It's like Photoshop; the more you use it, the faker it looks and the more you know it's fake. But there's at least one technique that usually makes me start to crack (which rarely anyone uses btw): diverting attention by switching subjects.
For example, if someone is calling in sick to work, when they just want the day off, and they're fibbing their sickness, ask them about how much work they've gotten done in the past few days or week or about how their partner is doing; something unrelated to their current topic. If they're lying, they'll likely keep reminding you of the lie (Oh, yea, I guess I did pretty good. It's a shame this cold is keeping me from getting back to it.) or working in a similar-sounding response. Since lies, no matter how fake, require attention and focus, distracting them from it can at best, make them stutter and pause more, which give hints of their lie or at worst, make them inflate it and keep adding more fake details, further revealing the fakeness. As a great man once said: "You don't need to think to tell the truth."
The second trick wouldn't work on me because I'm too insecure to get close to a person I'm interested it.
inviso87 What if you give them the bench test and they sit on you?
Again you can't really tell if they are into you or not, they could just be Canadian and are being polite.
Tip: instead of studying with the goal of not getting a bad grade, study with the goal of getting a good grade. Makes it harder to procrastinate
When I first read this I thought it said instead of studying with the goal of getting a bad grade instead of instead of studying with the goal of not getting a bad grade lol
This is most likely a form of manipulation and why I only use it on people that I think were unreasonably rude to me, so please don't get any ideas and be direct in communicating with people that you know and love.
After someone I feel like is being unreasonable and rude to me in a way, I wait a few days or so when we're back to normal and they seem to forget about it. Then, I bring up the conversation to them, but in a way where it makes it like I was arguing with a random friend of mine (flipping genders and making up a random setting (party, club, work, etc.) instead of where the actual argument came from is recommended, at least from my experience).
Example:
Me: Ugh I got into this argument with a friend of mine at a party. Every time I seem to talk to them about something, they just drop it quickly and ignore me all of the time. It pisses me off!
Coworker: Oh I hate those kind of people! The best thing you can do is just to ignore them and try to do the problems yourself, and see what they think about that.
I do it just to see the sort of irony in their reactions. Sometimes, they don't realize and give me advice on how I treat that rando (when in reality, they're giving me advice on how I should treat them). Sometimes, they do a little bit of introspection and bring it up to me later.
But I only did this with strangers and acquaintances, not really to my friends/loved ones unless they really are closed-minded and don't take criticism well. Direct communication is better!
When you act like you don't know, and they give you pointless advice, but it helps the conversation so it's ok
Wat twat gonna read that
That technique can also be helpful in showing you how they want to be treated. I've met people who when you act nice to them they think you are being fake and trying to manipulate them. For them, they gain trust in others when they agree with their misery.
@@DoomFinger511 Basically me.
“make it happen design slave”
sounds like something dwight schrute would say
I used my psychological tricks to be voted mayor for a city I moved into for a couple months.
I then blew all the bridges leading into the city and held it for ransom.
No one would even care who you are EVEN with a mask on.
Best con of all time
*north Korea noises*
10/10 would do it again
Punching people so they won't bully you
Killing people so you dont have to pay for rent or food anymore for 25 years
10:40 wow this story has names like jim, pam, and Michael
I wonder what its referencing
HMMM
*Coughs in Dunder Mifflin*
Hahahahaha the officeee
//.exe.// no the Stanford branch
Ryan started the fire
4:17
I learned this trick on my own over the years. I try it all the time. Works like a charm. It’s simply because people want you to recognize and react to their emotions, which is a controlling action. However, counter with apathy and you’ll disarm them.
It’s great especially if you work around manipulating/controlling people. :3 (family, coworkers, etc.)
maybe u should ask yourself why everyone is yelling at you
nope @1:30. kids will eat that "do you want to" right up. gotta phrase it "would you RATHER"
Don't say that they'll just say no, instead say DO IT SLAVE at gun point with a flip flop works 99% of the time the 1% they actually get shot
Maybe it's not the words, but in the context that you say them.
I LOVE YOU DOG!!!!!!!
more effectively, *I LOVE YOU DOG!!!*
*rip dog's ears*
*_I LOVE YOU DOG!!!_*
Galaxy Girl yes.
Love u too homie
0:33 That would require people actually laughing at my jokes...
I once stumbled upon a large group of politicians who were opening some kind of anniversary. I was 17 and had no right to walk in there, but I saw they had lots of food and drinks. So I went around the corner, brushed my hair and all and walked right back and past their security. I walked so fast without even looking at anyone, nobody questioned it. I ate a lot of food that day, went from table to table to avoid conversation, and even took some snacks with me. Confidence is key.
Wow, that sounds amazing! I hope to be able to gain this much confidence sometime soon.
@@kyoranger fake it and you'll make it. Seriously, think about it, the way you speak and talk. Your posture. Get one of those things for your shoulders and start to even when you're alone eat in a very elegant way, put books under your arms and stuff. it's super uncomfortalbe at first but over time your posture will get very nice and you'll feel much more confident. :)
My friends does not trust me now
Me to my class : how is everybody today ?
They: what kind of trick is that ?
Sounds like you ended up being a tryhard without wanting
Most people will naturally agree with you if you add: right? or correct? To the end of a sentence
I hate people who say “right” after every sentence. I don’t know why it bothers me but usually I like to mess with them and say “no not right”.
@@kruzvaughan I usually add "right?" at the end of a sentence without realising, so sometimes when I add "right?" to the end of a sentence, one of my friends will say "No, left." I've recently adopted doing that to other people.
August Wubs that’s good I’m gunna use that thanks
@@kruzvaughan sameee i'm bothered everytime my friend adds "right" in his sentences. I'm okay with it sometimes, but he overuses it, so that's why
Teachers love that
That “give something to someone while they’re talking” tactic doesn’t work as well as everyone thinks. A guy tried it in my workplace and everyone ended up thinking it was just weird and annoying.
It's probably because he didn't take a big sniff of the pen after someone handed it to him.
I am fucking your waifu and there's nothing you can do about it Oh yeah that would have made everyone thoroughly upset. But no one even took the pen in the first place.
@@iamfuckingyourwaifuandther2743 that name won't stop me because I can't waifuism
What color is your shoe trick,
Engage in conversation while giving someone an item,
Nodding while stating a fact to convince someone your telling them what’s right,
I always play rock in rock paper scissors,
Turning down in arguments when people yell,
To make someone to like you more, ask them a very small favor, to create cognitive dissonance,
Say people’s name, it’s sweet,
Zachary Battles thanks
Watches video once.
*These Plebs are not ready for my hypnomentalist superpowers*
*The plebs* : "I have seen the videos the hypnomentalist super beings watched and I am immune to their power!"
@@wakeup9357 hahahaha
The one that I liked the most was the "your thoughts arent facts" because recently I've realized this too. My thoughts are just a collection of all experiences I've had and how I choose to percieve the world. It really does change everything when you REALLY grasp that idea. Not just hearing it but sitting on it and really understanding what that means.
Those heccin plebs won’t know what’s coming hehe
Yes we do
@Areatrance wait till you get a cat that likes to play with it. Then these door stoppers aren't fun anymore lol.
Mentalist Mode? I'd rather go *_sicko mode._*
*you*
Christopher Moon lmfao I am done 🤣
-In Sid The Science Kid voice- yall wanna listen to sicko mode or mobamba
why do i see you everywhere
Bc you have eyes *default dances ferociously*
That last one I learned from my dad at the movies when he'd just walk in like he already had tickets and was returning to his seat from outside or something
The one about accepting things handed to you while you're in the middle of a conversation is SO TRUE. More than once at a preschool I once worked at, I'll be talking to a kid or a teacher and another child will talk up to me and hand me something. A few minutes later after I'm done talking with whoever, I'll be all like "Why the heck am I holding this???" I'll literally have no recollection of having taken possession of it lol.
If you want to look more friendly while a chat and probably make new friends faster, try to copy their manners. I mean, if they have crossed arms do the same, not instantly but when they are talking, it makes you look that you truly care and that you are understanding them. Also, always smile when you talk to someone if you wanna look friendly
Yellow safety vest and confidence will get you anywhere
Damian Bisha
That explains what's been happening in france
that last one should help when im walking around in the white house
I knew someone didn't like me. I asked them for a pen knowing they had a spare and they said no
Anybody remember that one episode from 'two and a half men' where Charlie makes a joke somewhere along the lines of "just nod your head and say 'uh huh' even if you aren't paying attention'..... I tried it in a conversation once, where I literally phased out and had no idea what was going on, and the other person genuinely thought I was just being attentive because they just kept on talking....
Tbh I still don't even know what the entire one-sided five minute conversation was about...
I tend to forget about my math homework because of how easy it is to me. When my teacher comes, desk by desk, to check who doesn't have it, I always rest my head on my hand while facing the opposite side of where she is. She totally overlooks me, checks my desk partner's homework and doesn't realize my distracted ass forgot to do it.
*mAkE iT hApPeN dEsIgN sLaVe*
So next time I talk to my professor I'll just say Here is my essay Andre instead of Here is my essay Dr.Dre . Yeah! That will make everything sound way more professional!
I wouldn't try that tho, teachers feel superior to everyone so they absolutely hate it when you use their first name
@@xXVickerdXx The person's comment was sarcastic. He meant the same thing you said.
3:19 can’t just be me who thinks this would never work if someone did it to myself?
I tried this with my fiance and instead of her giving me what she holding she just put her head in my hand
@@kaiceecrane3884 thats amazing
@@kaiceecrane3884 aw cute!
Yeah, my reaction is to gently place my hand in theirs.. I'm not afraid of intimacy 😅
I have done it a few times and usually works, of course, some people dont fall for it, but it definetly works
when i’m walking up behind someone and they’re having a conversation and i don’t feel like saying “excuse me,” i subtly make my footsteps louder and every single time they instinctively move out of the way
My brother once went to a concert for one of our favorite bands. After the show was done, he walked backstage and was stopped by security. He acted confident, and when security asked if he was a lighting crew member, he said yes and was allowed to pass. He just kinda casually walked around a bit and then found an actual lighting crew dude, thanked him for the work the crew does at concerts, and then left. Confidence can get you anywhere.
Life hack for free alcohol: Tell them you've never been drunk.
High vis vest or coat can get you anywhere pretty much, hell people think im security if im standing around in certain places.
Also if u wanna win at rock, paper, scissors before you start playing ask your opponent what color their shirt is, and when the game starts they will usually pick scissors
Idk how this works but it does
Clever
They think of cutting their shirt with the scissors?😂
It's recognized as a personal question so they will feel "uneasy" kinda I guess. So then their brain will resort to their hand in the most comfortable and easy position which is scissors
Yess I just used that trick on two different people and it worked
it works
I’ve definitely noticed the name-calling one at 7:20... I’m a teacher and always tell my kids’ parents to address me by my first name. But no one ever does. On the rare occasions it DOES happen, though, it feels special. It gets my endorphins going.
*me nodding my head as i'm saying 'you should hire me' at a job interview*
Nice bit of an exchange from Dunder Mifflin’s Scranton Branch at the end there.