19 Simple Psychological Tricks That Actually Work

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  • Have you ever had to use psychological tricks to get what you want? There are a lot of psychological tricks and neuro-linguistic programming tips and there are millions of books and articles written about them. Many of these tricks really help professionals manipulate people and avoid being tricked by others. But are there tips that non-professionals can use on a daily basis?
    Psychology is a science with certain laws one cannot ignore. Modern marketing specialists, entrepreneurs, and even swindlers realize that. Bright Side offers a few psychological tricks you can use in everyday life to make it much easier and more exciting for you to reach your goals.
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    SUMMARY:
    - Never start your request with the words "Could you..." It can cause the other person to subconsciously assume that this is a theoretical question
    - If you ever want someone to feel uncomfortable, look at the middle of their forehead during the conversation.
    - If someone you're talking to is trying to avoid answering a question, just make a pause in the conversation while still keeping eye contact.
    - When asking a question that you want an affirmative answer to, try to nod subtly as you make your request. This trick is often used by restaurants employees to make guests buy more food, and it’s pretty effective!
    - If a person is really concentrated on a task (let's say they're in the middle of a serious phone conversation), you can extend your hand to them and get anything they’re holding at the moment.
    - If you want somebody to do something for you, casually say how they probably wouldn’t even be able to do it. Most people will try really hard to prove someone wrong when it comes to doubting their capabilities.
    - Here’s a good one for negotiations. If you like a person's offer in general but would like to get better conditions, pretend to be a little bit disappointed.
    - As soon as your alarm clock goes off, sit up, make two fists, and yell "Yeah!" as if you’re a soccer player who's just scored a goal. It sounds bizarre, but it really does help you easily get out of bed feeling refreshed.
    - If a person tries to pull you into an argument or some drama, say something nice to them. The ol’ “kill ‘em with kindness” trick really does stop them in their tracks.
    - If you have that one lazy person on your team that slows the whole work process down, don't give them tasks by saying "Do this." It’s better to say "Start with this."
    - If someone is staring at you in the subway (happens all-too often, right?), just look at their shoes. Don't give up, keep gazing! It’ll drive them crazy!
    - If someone has done something wrong, but you don’t wanna sound too accusing, change the way you construct your sentences.
    - If you didn't get a good night's sleep, tell yourself that you did. I know, it sounds like nonsense, but it does work 100% if you say it with meaning!
    - People are better at remembering what happened at the beginning and end of the day. As for anything that went on in between, it gets blurry.
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  • @medievalegg9936
    @medievalegg9936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9733

    Imagine trying these tricks on someone and that person watched the video too.

    • @littlechocchip
      @littlechocchip 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      😂😂😂

    • @mustard9241
      @mustard9241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      I would cry

    • @nashacepcion9187
      @nashacepcion9187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      hahahaa

    • @deng4335
      @deng4335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MrKiesel
      @MrKiesel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +361

      He will watch my shoes, and I watch his Forehead

  • @johnes
    @johnes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2613

    When you are late to something, don’t say sorry I’m late. Say: thank you for your patience. This especially works well for sales jobs and makes the person you say it to feel more respected.

    • @sanafathima9315
      @sanafathima9315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Wow this is helpful thanks

    • @Technotrad3r
      @Technotrad3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thanks for the tip

    • @annamorgan3431
      @annamorgan3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      When people do that sort of thing, I just feel a bit annoyed. It's so manipulative and condescending.

    • @attackhelicopter8312
      @attackhelicopter8312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thx

    • @johnes
      @johnes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @Pallavi Dalvi the thing that I said? I was in sales for a large furniture company like 6 years ago and they told us to tell customers “thank you for your patience” instead of “sorry I’m late. “ also why are you typing in all caps and thirsty for likes? I have no interest in thumbs up or thumbs down. My comment was just to pass along what I was taught.

  • @carriethompson9826
    @carriethompson9826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    “Smile because it makes people wonder what you are up to” is a quote I heard a long time ago!

    • @katieme7165
      @katieme7165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is the quote under my yearbook picture . I used it in 1972, so it is pretty old.

    • @user-xw1tb7hw4o
      @user-xw1tb7hw4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really??
      I feel like they just smilling at you because yes

    • @kamrunnaharlipi2174
      @kamrunnaharlipi2174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Granny this is 2021,😁

    • @SuperLawz
      @SuperLawz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on!

  • @itzllammacornz
    @itzllammacornz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5018

    I was staring at my friends forehead and she said "I know it's big."

  • @alaine2256
    @alaine2256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3396

    When I was younger I knew my mom wouldn’t let me have something so I’d wait till she was on the phone and she’d shake her head yes. That’s how I got stuff I wanted as a kid 😂

    • @celestiac8271
      @celestiac8271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I can relate 😂

    • @apexgaming4065
      @apexgaming4065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I did it but it didn't worked

    • @jackskangaroo7274
      @jackskangaroo7274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thanks for the tip XD I’ll try it out, after quarantine (which will probably take years ;-;)

    • @interstellar9145
      @interstellar9145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      and all of a sudden my life changed

    • @btsforever1811
      @btsforever1811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah i do😂😂👌🏻

  • @Anon16290
    @Anon16290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1125

    who else watches these videos then forgets about them and ends up in an awkward situation

  • @trUth.365
    @trUth.365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    When trying to grab someone's attention who is talking loudly over you...Simply just speak softly to them... continue this no matter how loud they are... Subconsciously they will quiet down their voice and speak more softly as they attempt to listen to your words. It's like when you turn the volume down on the radio in your car when you are trying to find an address or see something important infront of you.
    Try it...It Actually Works!

    • @KEngum1
      @KEngum1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A soft answer turns away wrath

    • @Firstthunder
      @Firstthunder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When my first child was young I found myself raising my voice. It was not effective and scared her. So I switched to talking softly near her so she had to strain to hear.

    • @Cl4rendon
      @Cl4rendon ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A proven technique i have often used arguing with angry customers on the phone - LOL

    • @MangoWifi831
      @MangoWifi831 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not when ur trying to get the attention of 8 screaming 4-year-olds 😭

  • @shadowgamer970
    @shadowgamer970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3282

    When someone is staring at me, it feels so uncomfortable because it feels like they are judging your looks...

    • @rinsenpai5348
      @rinsenpai5348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Ikr!

    • @archaos6563
      @archaos6563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      They could also think you are attractive in most cases.

    • @woojinniees5959
      @woojinniees5959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Shadow Gamer I know right!
      Sometimes kids always starring at me, I know there young
      But I became so anxious:”

    • @isuddenlywannaowo4391
      @isuddenlywannaowo4391 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Slap them

    • @-snowy980-
      @-snowy980- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same.

  • @DrShaym
    @DrShaym 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14126

    When you get pulled over by a cop and he asks you if you know how fast you were going, tell him, "I don't know, but you must have been going faster if you caught up to me." This will cause him to have an existential crisis, enabling your escape.

    • @GooseCrack
      @GooseCrack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Hehe hello there

    • @omairkhan3641
      @omairkhan3641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      Did it work for you?

    • @Deepak-od6bv
      @Deepak-od6bv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +881

      Dr Shaym gets shot

    • @slenem141
      @slenem141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Dr Shaym!!!

    • @kalifa______
      @kalifa______ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +336

      Dr Shaym lol what don't do this kids you'll end up in jail

  • @lulabmaredilcastones9073
    @lulabmaredilcastones9073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13739

    When someone is staring at me, I also stare at them . In just a milliseconds, they will stop staring at you 😂💯

    • @syedaayesha8075
      @syedaayesha8075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      Samee😂😂

    • @nicole-wf4pe
      @nicole-wf4pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

      FOLLOW ME most of the time they just keep staring back (it’s usually guys) 😅😐 so I have to be the one to look away then I feel so awkward that I start acting even more nervous & feel more uncomfortable than I was before 😬 I find it best to just ignore the looks completely (for me anyways)

    • @lulabmaredilcastones9073
      @lulabmaredilcastones9073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

      Nicole Love In my case they also stare back but I just keep staring at them. Guurl don't feel awkward you should always keep in your mind that they are the one who should feel the embarrassment.

    • @noreal5679
      @noreal5679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      I just pretend to not notice

    • @Lintlenthati
      @Lintlenthati 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Same😂😂😂

  • @goldenpeanuts9
    @goldenpeanuts9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Loudly say “Look Away” always leaves the starer bewildered 😅

    • @eagleeye2300
      @eagleeye2300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That made me laugh because it's so bold. One time I took a bus trip and the guy next to me kept putting his leg on mine. He was very shocked when I finally told him to get his leg off of me. Some people are so weird.

    • @ericarobinson1522
      @ericarobinson1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

    • @goldenpeanuts9
      @goldenpeanuts9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@eagleeye2300 , lol

    • @rattusnorvegicus4380
      @rattusnorvegicus4380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Point into the distance or up in the sky, shielding your eyes as if you`re looking at an object far away. Then give them the thumbs up and wave goodbye, turning on your heels.

  • @HotelCaliforniaRoomU
    @HotelCaliforniaRoomU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    When someone is tailgating you on the road, reach up and slowly pretend to adjust your mirror. Most times, the tailgater will back off. It subconsciously reminds people of police officers adjusting their mirror. I learned that years ago and it really works!

    • @laiferickson3006
      @laiferickson3006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They think your getting plate number too

    • @reubenmanzo2054
      @reubenmanzo2054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I just slowly apply the brake.

    • @rattusnorvegicus4380
      @rattusnorvegicus4380 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reubenmanzo2054 ...then accelerate LF

    • @reubenmanzo2054
      @reubenmanzo2054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rattusnorvegicus4380 No, just watch as their pants change colour.

    • @drachenfeuer5042
      @drachenfeuer5042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@reubenmanzo2054 I slam on brakes hard and fast…..just sayin

  • @shion9203
    @shion9203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5732

    I wanted to avoid a person's conversation so I looked at their forehead and they thought I was cross eyed.

    • @susanharrell416
      @susanharrell416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Soobin is an awkward grandpa that I stan 🤔😀

    • @ameerasharaf1235
      @ameerasharaf1235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      😂😂😂😂

    • @fruity2119
      @fruity2119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey

    • @nik_x3965
      @nik_x3965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Soobin's not awkward grandpa though 😂😅

    • @amisharajbanshi1662
      @amisharajbanshi1662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fruity2119 😜😜😜😜😂😂😂

  • @irend1163
    @irend1163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2441

    The wake up trick is doesn't seems work
    The bed pulled me again, the gravitational power is so strong

    • @lizgonzalez8352
      @lizgonzalez8352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bluenix _Indo oh same happens ALL the time 😔

    • @Nxtn
      @Nxtn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too*

    • @risvan1816
      @risvan1816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here

    • @lupita-mc1oo
      @lupita-mc1oo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IKR

    • @pi_beta7306
      @pi_beta7306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Tried it. Made two fists, tried to say "YEA" but "NO" came out and I overslept for 2 hours

  • @workingmothercatlover6699
    @workingmothercatlover6699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Growing up the youngest in my family, I was often ignored, and sadly still am. Whenever I had something I thought was important, but nobody was paying me attention, I would loudly yell 'fine! I won't say it!'. That always got them begging me to say what it was. I would resist for a minute, enjoying the power I suddenly had over their curiosity, then tell them. Worked every time growing up.

    • @SuperGreenPlants
      @SuperGreenPlants 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have the same problem, unfortunatly the times I tried that, they will listen but make it a point to laugh and discount what I said, listing every reason why what I just said has no value.

    • @louevans1439
      @louevans1439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you know that if you go to an texting app if you put :) or :( it'll make a secret emoji!?

    • @williejay3179
      @williejay3179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SuperGreenPlants This is soo sad. It reminds me of my experience growing up. Because I was much younger and therefore smaller they would pass stuff to each other over my head while discussing it.

    • @user-xw1tb7hw4o
      @user-xw1tb7hw4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't quite get what in the world you said

    • @workingmothercatlover6699
      @workingmothercatlover6699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@user-xw1tb7hw4o for people to listen to me, I had to make them think they wanted to. The thing I found that worked was to make them wonder what I was going to say.

  • @msleah5971
    @msleah5971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When you need someone to do something, especially if you have a complaint, in a polite tone, start the conversation with “I have a problem. Can you help me?” This works wonders at the customer service counter. Those poor people are so accustomed to yelling and demands that a polite request for help makes them inclined to give you more than you are entitled to. I did this at an airline counter and got $50 in drink coupons when the only thing I was entitled to was an apology.

    • @Blessedwriter851
      @Blessedwriter851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like this approach; I’ll have to try it.

  • @ipettynote
    @ipettynote 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5126

    *alarm goes off*
    YEEEEEAAAAH!
    *Silently cries back to sleep*

  • @pheihafwen8330
    @pheihafwen8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3992

    As soon as I turned off my alarm, I yelled *"Yeah"* and went back to sleep

  • @ericsmith-sx8xi
    @ericsmith-sx8xi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    I stare at my boss ,when he is talking to me. Makes for a short conversation

  • @dbergerac9632
    @dbergerac9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    I'd get my bosses to approve my requests for parts, vacation time, or pretty much anything by just saying " I don't think that you can approve this, would you tell me who I should go to with my request?" They'd do ANYTHING to prove that they had the authority to approve it.

    • @carriethompson9826
      @carriethompson9826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So, what do you do if they are that person?

    • @dbergerac9632
      @dbergerac9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@carriethompson9826 It only works BECAUSE they are that person and will flip the world to prove it.

    • @amberb.5160
      @amberb.5160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Genius!!

    • @user-xw1tb7hw4o
      @user-xw1tb7hw4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Uh WHAT?

    • @phil4863
      @phil4863 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did it work?

  • @rohanp6604
    @rohanp6604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2768

    Alarm clock rings...
    Me: Yeeaaaahhh!
    *Goes back to sleep

    • @AverageDiscordMod
      @AverageDiscordMod 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      It really doesn't work!

    • @darkshadow3622
      @darkshadow3622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Nope instead i got hit wth a pillow😧

    • @NotSoCrazyNinja
      @NotSoCrazyNinja 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Alarm clock rings...
      Me: Fukin ell *throws alarm clock across the room*

    • @abhishekvarshney7695
      @abhishekvarshney7695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rohan Patel u deserves a comment like ❤️

    • @ily.ss4
      @ily.ss4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @sHaRiNgAn1011
    @sHaRiNgAn1011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    If someone is looking at you, look slightly above their head with the expression of something scary being behind them. People love it.

    • @fastfoxblox
      @fastfoxblox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol

    • @danielnystrom8440
      @danielnystrom8440 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @AquaroseSupahgirl
      @AquaroseSupahgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Alternatively, act like something really funny is behind them. Look like you're trying to stifle a laugh and maybe pretend to send a text to a friend. They'll seem confused and maybe even embarrassed.

    • @supermexicanroboninja3116
      @supermexicanroboninja3116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Or stare right back and don't move a muscle, and continue staring even when they start walking away. Making yourself seem like even more of a creep than they are were works pretty well.

    • @rohinrudra
      @rohinrudra 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @brokenwing2005
    @brokenwing2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When interviewing for a job, try to be the last candidate interviewed. 1st candidate interviewed has a 33% chance of being hired. Last candidate has a 66% chance of being hired. Try to schedule your interview late in the day @ the end of the week.

  • @Josuperhero
    @Josuperhero 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If someone’s body language is closed off to you, mirror their body language. After a minute or so of them talking, uncross your body (arms or legs). Often they will mirror you and become more open to what you have to say.

  • @Lulu-xl5cm
    @Lulu-xl5cm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3187

    In a crowded place, like a subway. Keep watching straight ahead and make confident steps, people will automaticly step out of your way.

    • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
      @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      Oh, that's a good one! I use it all the time! 👍

    • @josediazasmr6014
      @josediazasmr6014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      What if the one on the other side is doing the same walking your way

    • @hisdarksecret
      @hisdarksecret 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I do this all the time! It's very effective.

    • @keepitdicey
      @keepitdicey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@josediazasmr6014 Normally you will just shift your gaze by a few degree to say you're moving left around them. They automatically notice the shift and accommodate.

    • @FunkyFemboy
      @FunkyFemboy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@josediazasmr6014 a black hole

  • @jaywellington6504
    @jaywellington6504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16380

    I have a tip for getting through a crowd at the end of a concert fast ! Just say, in a somewhat loud voice to your friend, "oh god, i think i gotta throw up!' The people within earshot will part in a nanosecond. Get a few steps ahead, aaannndd say it again! 😄 keep doing this til you reach your destination. Works every time 😉

    • @robbyritter4245
      @robbyritter4245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +871

      I usually just scream FIRE!!!

    • @ananunez8331
      @ananunez8331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1478

      8 8 i think its not about them moving because they want to help you, they move because they dont want to be infected with puke

    • @checkeredpenguin
      @checkeredpenguin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      I just scream EXCUSE ME!!! Really loud. It works so well. I guess when they look at you, you have time to escape while they are unaware of their surroundings, or they think that you have to get somewhere urgent.

    • @vedikalalla9108
      @vedikalalla9108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @Fuzion Shot 🤣

    • @KaylahDemi
      @KaylahDemi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      On a random note, I had the flu and puked out a car window on a 6 lane highway. They let us over :)

  • @citrusbitrus
    @citrusbitrus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    18 is absolutely correct. After a late night, I REFUSE to check the time I went to bed. Thinking I had more sleep has a positive effect.

  • @werthechange369
    @werthechange369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    One of my biggest issues is initiating a conversion with a boss or people that have made me feel uncomfortable in the past. If they come to me...I have no problem talking and usually we both feel better like, why was I even hesitant to talk in the first place. Still working on getting better at this but one thing is for sure... I know I have to keep pushing myself towards those "uncomfortable situations" for me to really grow past this irrational fear many of us have.

  • @azu3118
    @azu3118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1850

    I sat up. Yelled "yeah" then layed down and went back to sleep.

  • @user-jn8px4yy3w
    @user-jn8px4yy3w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7912

    2020: When someone stares at you *cough at them*

  • @playerofgameworld5811
    @playerofgameworld5811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    When a child get little hurt and if they think no one notice them then they don't cry but if you say what happened then they will start crying 😭

    • @abiroe6177
      @abiroe6177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this happened to me when i was little i guess i fell on my forehead cuz there was gravel stuck on there after but i didn't cry or say anything so my mom just didn't say anything😂😂

    • @user-yj5jd9rf6x
      @user-yj5jd9rf6x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This one is so true

  • @rockmotovlogsjp
    @rockmotovlogsjp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    To me when someone criticizes you and scolded you never say a word, but instead keep your mouth shut. Coz it makes them puzzled because you aren't easy to manipulate try it!

    • @rogerhegemier8491
      @rogerhegemier8491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's the Perfect thing to do !!!!!

    • @ericarobinson1522
      @ericarobinson1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When you come across unbothered and remain silent while being belittled, some people dont know what to do next with that because they're bracing for a fight or argument not to be ignored or their anger not acknowledged. Now they're just standing there alone huffing and puffing with no outlet and probably embarrassed

  • @malvinaedith7704
    @malvinaedith7704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3763

    When someone stares at me, I stare back until they turn away. It works every time, though you will seem like a creep😂

    • @thewolf-cp9pq
      @thewolf-cp9pq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      same here😂😂😂😂

    • @sneshadimple1453
      @sneshadimple1453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      😂😂 mee toooooo

    • @lungelodoncabe253
      @lungelodoncabe253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂

    • @harlequinsnap
      @harlequinsnap 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Why would you seem like a creep when it's the other person who started staring at you?

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You know some psychopaths would smash your face in right ! You ever lived in NZ ? You walk down the street there staring at people especially gang members they won’t hesitate in slapping you silly until you get a clue

  • @octaviussludberry9016
    @octaviussludberry9016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1328

    Another basic psychological technique is, not using the word forget, when asking someone to do something. Instead, say 'remember' to hit that like and subscribe button.
    The same technique is applied when someone is carrying something with liquid in. They say 'don't spill it'. The word spill is now in their mind. Instead, say, keep it steady, this makes them focus on the steady part.

    • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
      @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      🤔 Does it really work?

    • @hime7173
      @hime7173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I dunno about the "forget" part but I kinda agree with the "spill" thing, if someone told me not to spill something I directly imagine myself spilling it and thus get shaky nerves like I might spill it anytime eventho I have a good grip in it, which sometimes ends up in me taking longer to do something which has a chance of me actually spilling the thing, with the keep "steady" part, I never experienced getting told that when I handle liquids but I have been instructed so for other stuff, and yes, there's still the pressure of actually being steady but I was able to focus on the task more than imagining other stuff

    • @shab3315
      @shab3315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree. Commands are more effective than prohibition

    • @lindenpeters2601
      @lindenpeters2601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      A positive command is often more effective than a negative one.

    • @staticklingon2182
      @staticklingon2182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      There's a similar principle in training. Don't tell employees what not to do, tell them what to do. We avoid saying "no" words. So instead of saying "Don't put the cables on the side of the truck" we say "put the cables on the wall hook."
      This is also, of course, so they know what TO DO as well. If you were to say "*Don't* put the brushes in the sink" you really haven't told them what to do with the brushes. So they'll probably end up on top of the cabinet. Lol. Similar principle I imagine, though. Maybe.

  • @CliftonPhotographer
    @CliftonPhotographer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you arguing back and forth with someone I found that being silent really does work!
    When I worked in sales people would ask for a discount for no reason, usually repetitively. After saying no twice I would simply stop answering and not say a word. They usually would start up the conversation again by talking about the product themselves without asking for a discount again.

  • @lesliegurule6287
    @lesliegurule6287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    When someone stares at me, I just asked them if I owe them money believe me they will quit looking at you

    • @dimensionte777
      @dimensionte777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In Colombia we say 'did you lose someone same looking'?

    • @psychicviking
      @psychicviking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They might say yes, you owe them money.

    • @nin0nn
      @nin0nn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In Dutch: am I wearing something that belongs to you!? Actual phrase: "Heb ik iets van je aan ofzo!?"

  • @valerielaurence
    @valerielaurence 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1425

    Instead of saying "sorry", say "thank you" (ex: "sorry for being late" would be "thanks for your patience")
    The other person feels less angry and more flattered , so they tend to forgive you more easily.

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Good Point.

    • @Sunset553
      @Sunset553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’ve been doing that since I read about it and it doesn’t seem to help. Now I wonder if I should have been apologizing lol

    • @unboundtv001
      @unboundtv001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      instead of saying sorry i cheated on you_ say. Thanks for the opportunity to cheat :
      (i will let you know what my gal will say)

    • @bdemaree
      @bdemaree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Worked in restaurants for 20 yrs. I always told new servers that's the #1 rule to getting better tips. Never say I'm sorry, say I'm on it. Example, I know your food is late. I'm headed back to the kitchen now. If they don't have it ready I'll cook it myself.

    • @NIGHTWULF
      @NIGHTWULF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I don't agree with that, by saying "sorry" it acknowledges that you are in the wrong, which is what people want to hear when they're tirelessly waiting for you. Saying "thank you" feels like you are taking and profiting something from them, like their time.

  • @SantiYounger
    @SantiYounger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1473

    Great video! here's a short index I hope you find useful:
    #1… 0:29 … Never start a question with "could you".
    #2… 0:58 … Look at the middle of the forehead to make someone uncomfortable.
    #3… 1:18 … If someone is avoiding an answer, make a pause while keeping eye contact.
    #4… 1:46 … If you want someone to like you, ask them to explain something.
    #5… 2:03 …When asking a question you want an affirmative answer to, nod your head.
    #6… 2:17 …During a phone call, you can make anyone hold stuff or take it away, without them noticing.
    #7… 2:40 … If you want someone to do something for you, doubt they can do it
    .
    #8 … 3:06 … Start nodding in the middle of a conversation, for better attention
    .
    #9 … 3:21 …For negotiation, be disappointed with the offer
    .
    #10 … 3:36 …To wake up, sit up, lift up your hands in a fist and yell "Yeah"
    .
    #11 … 3:55 …Say weird phrases while doing tasks you often forget.
    #12 … 4:20 …If someone tries to argue, say something nice to them, put yourself in their shoes.
    #13 … 4:49 …Tasks for lazy team member say: Start with this
    .
    #14 … 5:19 …For public speaking, bring water, use the moment of drinking it for a pause to remember.
    #15 … 5:51 …If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
    #16 … 6:04 …If you act worried when you see someone, they'll be worried when they see you
    .
    #17 … 6:19 …Instead of accusing, state the facts.
    #18 … 6:38 …If you didn't sleep well, pretend you did.
    #19 … 7:04 …It's easy to remember the start of the day or the end of the day, a good tip for job interviews.

    • @rai-ul-ainkhalid6354
      @rai-ul-ainkhalid6354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thanks for this...its really very helpful👌

    • @SantiYounger
      @SantiYounger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rai-ul-ainkhalid6354 nice! Really glad it helps, I found this tips really cool and wanted to take notes on it

    • @janeye4796
      @janeye4796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SantiProjects I ok

    • @control4017
      @control4017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Was looking for this, thanks.

    • @SantiYounger
      @SantiYounger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@control4017 awesome!! Which tip is your favourite?

  • @_metal.queen_
    @_metal.queen_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Regarding #12, putting myself in others’ shoes to understand their perspectives is something that I do every day, as that is something that has always come so naturally for me. Being a deeply empathic person is what allows that to happen.😁 And that’s how people know that I do not judge others without knowing and understanding a story/situation.🥰💛🕊️

  • @bruh58
    @bruh58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I tried sitting up and say "yeah", but as I was about to stretch my arms up, I woke up instantly because my back hurt

  • @galaxymountain6076
    @galaxymountain6076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3009

    I was busy reading the comments i didnt know the video ended already 😂😂😂

    • @thebabyshork7101
      @thebabyshork7101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh my gosh me too

    • @artbylema5058
      @artbylema5058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Galaxy Mountain oh my god me too

    • @rinsenpai5348
      @rinsenpai5348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol I wasn't even watching the video

    • @katrinalee5810
      @katrinalee5810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stares at your forehead 😋😜😝

    • @khuramali2179
      @khuramali2179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😍😍😍😍😍💖💖💖💖❄❄❄❄❄❄❄❄❄❄

  • @cosmichour8374
    @cosmichour8374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6041

    *alarm goes off
    *me sitting up : "YEAAHHHH naahh..."
    *proceed to go back to sleep

    • @thehookedmonkeys5576
      @thehookedmonkeys5576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Me to

    • @blue_ya_spoon9531
      @blue_ya_spoon9531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Doesn’t everybody although my alarm is my small dog who won’t leave you alone till your up and out of the bed if you get back in she does it again and again till your not in the bed sad

    • @ankitpandey7205
      @ankitpandey7205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣😂

    • @TheDestroyer73
      @TheDestroyer73 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      especially now that is getting colder :p

    • @junebug2205
      @junebug2205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

  • @Blessedwriter851
    @Blessedwriter851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When I’m calling a business, I first introduce myself, then ask, “How are you today?” I normally get a slight pause like, “Did she really just ask me that?” Then, they ask the same in return. I also say their name before I get to the business of the call. It normally makes the rest of the conversation go well. People in customer service deal with rudeness regularly; I like to remind them that they are important and appreciated.
    This also works in public, especially in places where they wear name tags and you can greet them by their name.

    • @rattusnorvegicus4380
      @rattusnorvegicus4380 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That Americanised overly -friendly-from-a-stranger intro, always gets my back up. No stranger on the phone EVER asks how you are today, without wanting something in return. I usually answer "Same as yesterday" or "Never been better". If they reply "That`s great", then I reply, "Why is it great that I remain ill?" All my calls are recorded and the ones with scammers can be hilarious.

    • @Cathy7167
      @Cathy7167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like to say hello or thank you and their name…. If it is a name I can pronounce 😀

  • @Klover_pearl
    @Klover_pearl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    1:43 very accurate, I didn't tend to be close to one of my classmate but since she is my seatmate and I ask her what did our teacher says. We eventually became friends and always talk to each other at school. I miss uu fe

  • @archerwarden2274
    @archerwarden2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2150

    -Someone stares at me
    Me: Looks at his shoes
    -Not wearing shoes
    Me: *Breathing Intensifies*

    • @bwizalisa241
      @bwizalisa241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Loll gurrl😂😂

    • @TamiresRobertaloltami
      @TamiresRobertaloltami 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Ok, now I'm scared IAMDDJAKSIDJ

    • @multifandomkpopperz1970
      @multifandomkpopperz1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      This make me laugh🤣

    • @ilovebts7360
      @ilovebts7360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      I will tell the person to where shoes, come back and stare at me so I can stare at the shoes. Lol😂😂

    • @nicolemadjo6610
      @nicolemadjo6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@ilovebts7360 Imao

  • @stefanbezema
    @stefanbezema 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1861

    If you want something from someone else, start bargaining with more then what you want. For example: you need one day off from your job. You ask your boss two days off. He might refuse. You then ask 'how about one day then'? He will be more likely to accept. This is due to the tendency in humans to give something back in return when they are given something. You 'give' your boss one day and he feels like he should give something back., in this case one day off instead of two.

    • @lungelodoncabe253
      @lungelodoncabe253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Wow. This comment is too matured brah!

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stefan Bezema I would look for workers who actually don’t play games as is said in the apprentice “your fired “

    • @lungelodoncabe253
      @lungelodoncabe253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even if it's from boss baby, it's still matured. Stop being jealous🙂If u ddnt knw what to say...you shoul've stayed silent!

    • @kuro1596
      @kuro1596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's called the "door to the face" technique

    • @stefanbezema
      @stefanbezema 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @anastasia kuznetsova It is? I did see the movie but don't remember this being mentioned. I've got it from an article about manipulation, don't remember the source but this advice stuck. I used it sometimes and it actually works

  • @pankajkumar12
    @pankajkumar12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    The greatest Psychological master is our mom😂.
    She knows all the tricks of psychology.......

    • @jaqelhunter6833
      @jaqelhunter6833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No cap

    • @mangeshjadhav1290
      @mangeshjadhav1290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because the only man she tries her tricks is our Dad and us😂😂

    • @christinayoung9820
      @christinayoung9820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes because its a mothers instinct we where once a kid to

  • @fivefiveqt214
    @fivefiveqt214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I know one ☝🏽: when talking to someone start mirroring their movements without being too noticeable if you can. This will make them like you more.

    • @madeleinejoane73
      @madeleinejoane73 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it can also be really irritating and the person will think you're copying them or something if they notice you doing it all

  • @ayrtonpurdy8261
    @ayrtonpurdy8261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +942

    I jumped out of bed at 6:00am and yelled “yeah” *with my fists up* but the next thing I knew, I woke up at 8:30am and was late to school

    • @ALivingFlame
      @ALivingFlame 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ME... 😥

    • @user-hq4tn2hz2c
      @user-hq4tn2hz2c 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayrton Purdy story of my life

    • @guandongmai3832
      @guandongmai3832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Set up a alarm, sound is just like the class start. When I was in middle school, it work very well, I some time even can't sleep, too worries it will Ring.

    • @yangchengli9286
      @yangchengli9286 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ME TOO OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @voqzi5296
      @voqzi5296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you shout YEAH on the second wake up though? 🤔

  • @davisgetwambu7988
    @davisgetwambu7988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1361

    Screamed YEAH today and I realized I have nowhere to go so I went back to sleep

    • @aishiteru-od4im
      @aishiteru-od4im 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lol with a hahahahha.. you really made me laugh

    • @Tiffxit
      @Tiffxit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You made me giggle

    • @areejanjum1038
      @areejanjum1038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahaha

    • @smorgastarta4205
      @smorgastarta4205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Davis Samwels
      Did the neighbours call the cops for disturbance?

    • @sexywhale9053
      @sexywhale9053 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YEAH to that!

  • @jgirl345
    @jgirl345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I just stare right back at them in the eyes, they get all nervous

  • @Brokenwing20051
    @Brokenwing20051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When interviewing for a job, you should try to arrange to be the LAST person interviewed. An Executive search firm did a study & found that the 1st person interviewed has a 20% chance of being hired, while the LAST person interviewed has a whopping 60% chance of being hired!

  • @chantrierii7832
    @chantrierii7832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1576

    That moment when you make eye contact with someone unintentionally, but you both keep looking back every so often to check if they're still staring...

  • @AngelMartinez-hk9ec
    @AngelMartinez-hk9ec 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5881

    I screamed yah and my mom came in and slapped me 🤦‍♂️

    • @babz527
      @babz527 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      BULLSHIY

    • @jescajohn5034
      @jescajohn5034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Angel Martinez hahaha

    • @timothymosgov467
      @timothymosgov467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Angel Martinez 😂😂😂

    • @cindycolosio3532
      @cindycolosio3532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +336

      But now you are fully awake 🤷‍♀️

    • @ahuman2411
      @ahuman2411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@cindycolosio3532 lol

  • @laceymonroe4718
    @laceymonroe4718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember when I was younger, my little brother used to have a sign on his bedroom door that said, “no sisters allowed”. I always still went into his bedroom for this reason or that but before I did, I would take a sharpie marker and either make “no” into “noW” adding the W, or I could add a comma onto the end of the no making it a “no, sisters allowed” agreeing with the apposing statement. Even though I got in trouble for it, I knew my parents loved it!

  • @qiuwbr091
    @qiuwbr091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If someone is staring at you look away. If they continue, look away again in a more dramatic fashion. You can tell the level of a person’s sensitivity by observing their reaction or lack of it. (IMO) If they are really callous, maybe, you should find a way to move as far away from them as possible. Also, in subways I would find the largest most dependable person to stand near. Sometimes people will think you are together, and leave you alone or be more cautious. Much of this really can thwart stranger danger.

  • @oOinsertusernameOo
    @oOinsertusernameOo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1117

    If you’re trying to get what you want, bring a baseball bat to the conversation, and lightly tap it in the opposite hand while asking the question... People rarely say no to someone with a baseball bat.

    • @baybora95
      @baybora95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Is it because you look so muscular manly and sporty so that you become irresistable

    • @candicenicolson257
      @candicenicolson257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂 Lol good one !

    • @breadstick8623
      @breadstick8623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NRL Sledging Immortals 😅 you’re uh kidding... right?...

    • @ashleigh9756
      @ashleigh9756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah lookin like you gonna beat someone up

    • @draxx1017
      @draxx1017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ashleigh Fitzhugh wooosh

  • @phillN
    @phillN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2813

    Thumbnail: If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
    Me: *stares back at them*

    • @Mimi-jm7mu
      @Mimi-jm7mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Roanne Iman L0L!!!! SAMEEEEEE

    • @Mimi-jm7mu
      @Mimi-jm7mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YEEEEEEEEEEEEE

    • @Mimi-jm7mu
      @Mimi-jm7mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol I have mental problems...
      Edit:
      Literally tho...

    • @ShadowValleys
      @ShadowValleys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me:twirl my eyes

    • @moumitamondal7686
      @moumitamondal7686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here😃😃

  • @deserriesalvador9710
    @deserriesalvador9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Everytime you answer a phone call or call someone , try to smile while talking so you will sound pleasant and not boring..

  • @knightinwhite19
    @knightinwhite19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
    Me: looks at their shoes for a moment and then at the crotch area for a larger amount of time.🤣🤣🤣

    • @sewingmachine_depot
      @sewingmachine_depot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂

    • @someonewhomakesedits2080
      @someonewhomakesedits2080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...

    • @EEE-ij8lv
      @EEE-ij8lv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If they are wearing gray sweatpants...tehehehe....

    • @DestineyAmerie
      @DestineyAmerie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME!! But I squint my eyes!! The feel so weird they slowly turn away😂😂😂😂

  • @xBlueUnicorn15
    @xBlueUnicorn15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    For me, if someone is staring, I’ll stare back intently and see who breaks away first. Works every time

  • @ReesSorby22
    @ReesSorby22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2589

    has 9am lecture
    *wakes up at 2pm*
    *fists in the air*
    ‘YEAH’

    • @InlineSkateReality
      @InlineSkateReality 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      then goes to a meeting in middle of the day

    • @SakinaAhmadi
      @SakinaAhmadi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And misses the next lecture too

    • @shravani5286
      @shravani5286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      soo me. i've been missing lectures all week because of that.

    • @ReesSorby22
      @ReesSorby22 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly hahaha@@SakinaAhmadi

    • @thephage1544
      @thephage1544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then you believe that you got a good night's sleep

  • @kathleenlajeunesse1694
    @kathleenlajeunesse1694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    If you want someone to like you, offer them a piece of their favorite candy whenever you see them
    Eventually, they’ll get excited about seeing you

    • @mrsixx1306
      @mrsixx1306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just make sure they aren't a diabetic first lol

    • @katiebradshaw154
      @katiebradshaw154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then they will use you for the candy

    • @nooraarashid3353
      @nooraarashid3353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially children

    • @normie9787
      @normie9787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can attest to this as being offered candy as a child made me excited to see them everytime, it was nice.
      Just make sure its someone you know or at least trustable. But children prolly dunno that XD

    • @toohottohandle0_0
      @toohottohandle0_0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I assume you usually deal with children LOL

  • @liammurphy2725
    @liammurphy2725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I worked out that not looking at someone's face as you draw near in a crowded space avoids the little dance as you both try to pass on left or right. I learned that when I was homeless and spending too much time walking along busy city streets. It works.

  • @galvanizedcorpse
    @galvanizedcorpse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1351

    I'm feeling more manipulative, hypocrite and passive aggressive already, thanks!

    • @carnellabobbie948
      @carnellabobbie948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      *makes two fist, raise them in the air and yells "yeah"*

    • @hipwave
      @hipwave 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ain't that great ?

    • @DS-uc2cq
      @DS-uc2cq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol same here!

    • @zixter4756
      @zixter4756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I don't want to be that guy but, the adjective of hypocrite is hypocritical.

    • @nadiamaresca7676
      @nadiamaresca7676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zixter4756 thank you for being that guy, English is not my mother tongue and now I learned something new

  • @tomw665
    @tomw665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +913

    I tried shouting YEAH when waking up but my cellmate says he'll break my head open if I do it again.

    • @Gelayverse
      @Gelayverse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😅😅😅

    • @Riley-lm1fx
      @Riley-lm1fx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You had me in the first half not gonna lie

    • @nylahbaez7779
      @nylahbaez7779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      uh cell?

    • @ItsZiincx
      @ItsZiincx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This comment should be at 10k likes😂 underrated comment

    • @XoXo_Dezi123
      @XoXo_Dezi123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂 😂 😂 😂

  • @mysteradio
    @mysteradio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you're talking to someone and they bring up a subject you'd rather not get into, you can say, at a well-timed cadence, "Decisions like to make themselves sometimes." It doesn't really make sense but it usually makes enough sense to get them thinking and you'll have bought yourself a moment to find your footing for an exit--restroom, phone call, etc.

  • @mattcernjavic9999
    @mattcernjavic9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    In some cultures it is considered rude to look them in the eyes, so you need to look at their foreheads. As for me I do not want people looking in my eyes, if they do that they will see the cold empty darkness within.

  • @yarafayroz3535
    @yarafayroz3535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2471

    if someone looked at my forehead I will feel uncomfortable cuz of my acne 😂😂👀

    • @lovesheart6824
      @lovesheart6824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same!!!!

    • @yuri-chan1112
      @yuri-chan1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      yara fayroz well I felt like I was getting teased behind my back so now I’m getting really rid of my pimples but they are now getting them, whos laughing now? (I’m not actually laughing , I’m not really mean)

    • @sappy.3xe
      @sappy.3xe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I have a big forehead and oily skin so I’d be so self conscious....

    • @marlenalittle6369
      @marlenalittle6369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      MEEE TOOO. You wanna know something horrible? I WAS TALKING TO MY CRUSH AND HE JUST SAT THERE STARRING AT MY FOREHEAD!😔

    • @Daniel-ym4wo
      @Daniel-ym4wo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im 14 and i don't have acne

  • @prayineveryday
    @prayineveryday 5 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    I have tried #12 and it works. My neighbor was ranting at me, and instead of arguing back or defending myself verbally, i quietly said, "You did a good job mowing your yard." They stopped yelling (like someone had thrown on the brakes to their mouth!) and walked off. This principle is also found in the writings of King Solomon; Proverbs 15:1 - "A soft answer turns away wrath."

    • @stephanies3246
      @stephanies3246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💛

    • @HALEY-os8jf
      @HALEY-os8jf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      prayineveryday that's so funny

    • @headpump
      @headpump 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Just goes to show how little humans have changed emotionally all these thousands of years in spite of all the knowledge and tech advancement..

    • @jabezfajardo4517
      @jabezfajardo4517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      woahhh thas a good one

    • @noel4519
      @noel4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Next you should look at his wife and say you look beautiful today

  • @nicky8782
    @nicky8782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I catch someone looking at me I stare back and inorder to avoid chickening out and breaking eye contact I solve maths equations in my head whilst staring blankly at them so that I don't have to focus on the intense staring competition which would make me feel nervous .
    They usually look away

  • @ZiggaZilla024
    @ZiggaZilla024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now, I don’t necessarily think this is proven but when I start to feel sick, I tell myself I’m not and I focus on other things. I start feeling better immediately. The power of the mind is amazing.

  • @wendyw4487
    @wendyw4487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2518

    when I was young woman, I worked in an all male environment....loved it and most of these guys were so smart, funny that I looked forward to going to work every single day. However, two of them could never speak to me without staring directly at my chest, which would rattle me. One guy was bald and the other had a big belly. My much older and wiser girlfriend told me to stare directly at the bald head or the big belly whenever either of these guys talked to me. It worked!!!!! I rattled THEM.......soon they would shift their eyes to mine and within a week or two I had trained them to look at my face and not my chest while speaking to me. It was so liberating and it also resolved this issue without firing a shot.

    • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
      @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      😄 Oh, your friend is really smart!

    • @josediazasmr6014
      @josediazasmr6014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Wow the nerve 🤦‍♂️

    • @shab3315
      @shab3315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      The trick is brilliant

    • @SofiaClocker
      @SofiaClocker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Noted xD

    • @cacklegag3284
      @cacklegag3284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oooh, I'll do that method!

  • @keiranlowers7274
    @keiranlowers7274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1557

    Here’s how to avoid somebody sitting next to you on the bus or train: if you see someone about eyeing up the seat next to you, tap the seat and smile at them intensely.

    • @petrlock
      @petrlock 5 ปีที่แล้ว +528

      I did that and he's now following me home :'(

    • @ponk6187
      @ponk6187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Petr Lockenbauer wowza

    • @dragontoma
      @dragontoma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      😂😂😂😂

    • @dude-zd4mn
      @dude-zd4mn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💀💀💀

    • @blacbeuti
      @blacbeuti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lool

  • @bikashtanti2950
    @bikashtanti2950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most of these tricks I already knew by my own... My fav is the sleeping technique... Making yourself fool by believing that i slept perfect

  • @Leonard1977ful
    @Leonard1977ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've seen many of these techniques work. I'll have to try the one with staying awake after my alarm clock goes. I have lots of problems with going back to sleep afterwords, then getting up and starting my day.

  • @ilybaker6208
    @ilybaker6208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    "Did you lock the door?"
    *OPPRESSIVE CRAB*

    • @cc_tw
      @cc_tw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      EJACULATING ANTELOPE

    • @marcosramirez3850
      @marcosramirez3850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this comment

    • @ilybaker6208
      @ilybaker6208 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you guys for the likes ❤

  • @DJKHOTTA
    @DJKHOTTA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3160

    If someone is staring at you, look at its shoes..... And then yell WHAT ARE THOOOOOOOOOSE!
    That person will be too embarrassed to look back at you again.

  • @dersimerdal1537
    @dersimerdal1537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bright side! Worked amazingly :)

  • @patienceburke6107
    @patienceburke6107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I used to get embarrassed when I could see someone staring at me out of my peripheral. I eventually got to the point of where I would stare back and not back down, even if minutes go by, I would stare. Whenever they’d break, I’d continue to stare for a few moments longer, non verbally letting them know that two can play at that game. Sometimes they’ll eventually get a puzzled look on their face and ask me why I’m staring at them, and I’ll normally respond with “You started staring at me first, I assume you have a reason for that.”

  • @nea415
    @nea415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3350

    Warning ⚠️ DO NOT wake up and yell “YEAH” while someone else is in the bed 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @zhelobinpaidd
      @zhelobinpaidd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Why not

    • @user-zc3os8ye2f
      @user-zc3os8ye2f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Hahahhahaha

    • @rlanore82
      @rlanore82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Probably gonna punch them in the face or knock them of the bed

    • @ShadowValleys
      @ShadowValleys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Cuz it's my cat sis who is on the bed,I can knock her down cuz she's only a little kitten

    • @cristinaaguirre51
      @cristinaaguirre51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@RageQuitter. That doesnt matter.

  • @eleazarmoraru6532
    @eleazarmoraru6532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1615

    Can't wait to stare at everyone's forehead tomorrow on my way to work😂

    • @Smashy1994
      @Smashy1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      Try that with me bud and you'll regret it.
      I'll stare at your shoes.

    • @pessimistkai5569
      @pessimistkai5569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      And I will yell "the window was left open all night!"

    • @braayan03
      @braayan03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Does it work?

    • @alrodx39
      @alrodx39 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can to me

    • @eleazarmoraru6532
      @eleazarmoraru6532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@braayan03 imma head to work in like 4 hours. Will keep u updated 😂😂

  • @andrewt6802
    @andrewt6802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One time I did something wrong and this guy said “let’s not have that happen again”
    That works a lot better than “don’t do that again”

  • @GachaClub360
    @GachaClub360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If someone is trying to start an argument, keep agreeing with whatever they say👍🏽

  • @imaginelosing2689
    @imaginelosing2689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    I don’t know why, but when I forget something I look in my fridge and remember it

  • @malyndahsexotics1543
    @malyndahsexotics1543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16456

    How many ppl clicked on this because they have really bad social skills

    • @Sesshoumaru-Sama
      @Sesshoumaru-Sama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      got me.

    • @Flexy59
      @Flexy59 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Same

    • @landonruiz
      @landonruiz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I came here to check the meaning of staring (english learner inside 🤣🤣🤣)

    • @Flexy59
      @Flexy59 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@landonruiz do you know now? :D

    • @tpbriplahey7384
      @tpbriplahey7384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Atleast 1...

  • @kamilapl1979
    @kamilapl1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you ask for more than what you actually want, they will give a bit less but that will be what you want. I tried it on my mom and boy, it works like magic.

    • @Lone-Lee
      @Lone-Lee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw a comic on this. Probably "Dennis the Menace".

  • @polly1017
    @polly1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If someone's putting you down and you want to feel better about yourself. ..say "I'm sorry YOU feel that way" ! It makes it their problem not yours and makes you feel better.

  • @FilipinoScalper
    @FilipinoScalper 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2501

    Thumbnail be like
    *look at their shoes*
    Me: AND SAY WHAT AREEEEE THOOOOSE

    • @ayaelsawy3884
      @ayaelsawy3884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Bleach omg hello shuri

    • @ryanfiguracion6826
      @ryanfiguracion6826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,*,,,,,,,,,,.,,,,,,,,,, Zachary's,,z,,,,,,,,,,,,,m,,,,,,,,,,

    • @LoyD-rt8sm
      @LoyD-rt8sm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bleach my god i miss BP so mch

    • @djdash23
      @djdash23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I think you're stuck in 2016

    • @abdullahhamza3130
      @abdullahhamza3130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WAKANDA FORAVAAAAAAAA

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2990

    TIMESTAMPS:
    #1 0:29
    #2 0:58
    #3 1:18
    #4 1:46
    #5 2:03
    #6 2:17
    #7 2:40
    #8 3:06
    #9 3:21
    #10 3:36
    #11 3:55
    #12 4:20
    #13 4:49
    #14 5:19
    #15 5:51
    #16 6:04
    #17 6:19
    #18 6:38
    #19 7:04

  • @kumudsingh6550
    @kumudsingh6550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    04:07 i always do this😅😁

  • @dhan_na6783
    @dhan_na6783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bright side really helped me especially the survival hacks, because one day I someone was following me, and I just did what they said in One of your contents,Idk what to say but thank you..

  • @geesecommander4009
    @geesecommander4009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3438

    Why not say “Oppressive Crab” in an interview so that they remember you...

  • @Versalty
    @Versalty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25725

    If I scream "yeah", I'll wake up the neighbors as well.

    • @heidifoss6788
      @heidifoss6788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      Lol right

    • @waso-suwi
      @waso-suwi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +475

      Then yell-whisper it.

    • @hollycooper1405
      @hollycooper1405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Me to

    • @nerinablais6623
      @nerinablais6623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Same. Besides, some of our neighbors could have night shifts and just got home from work, so we could get them angry for disturbing them.

    • @JynxShimada
      @JynxShimada 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not me

  • @exeterjedi6730
    @exeterjedi6730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If I'm outside, and talking to someone who is sat down and I am stood up, I'll put the shadow of my head across their face, so the sun is shining in their eyes.

  • @waftsofpetrichor
    @waftsofpetrichor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay, I just realized that my principal stared at me while saying nothing, made me uncomfortable, and forced me to answer why I was arriving at school late. And he did this several times, lol.

  • @sorryimshy5412
    @sorryimshy5412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    As a crab I find this oppressive

    • @mentality7820
      @mentality7820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #Hermitsquad
      #Goalsssssss

    • @love2fight205
      @love2fight205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I sexually identify as an Apache Helicopter. This video is sexist and offensive to me.

    • @cewkie
      @cewkie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tom Andrew Cancer? ♋️

    • @louisphilippe1100
      @louisphilippe1100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go cry about your oppression to feminists boi.

    • @liraven7676
      @liraven7676 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My pet hermits agree👍

  • @oliveb9007
    @oliveb9007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2882

    I woke up, said YEYY.. and slept again

  • @hayleebrimhall2933
    @hayleebrimhall2933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When I wake up I take a drink of water then turn my alarm off it truly works wonders for me

  • @TheAngiepangie424
    @TheAngiepangie424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahh yes, reverse psychology using the paradoxical intervention technique is an oldie but a goodie!
    I am going to try some of these for sure!