I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-
1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation 2. Sarcasm requires a "tell" 3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself 4. You should not try to win every moment of banter 5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly
It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.
It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.
It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense
The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered. Thank you for the video!
I was taught to be kind and understanding but my parents weren't social persons themselves so I kinda get lost along the way. So right now I'm a kind, understanding introvert.😢
Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.
Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.
@@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.
I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^
@@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.
@@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.
@@wtfmario I don't know mate : to each its own ... I would run. The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao ! She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life. edit: Stay away from crazy !!!
I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.
I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.
It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.
She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles. Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...
I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem
Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.
Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.
Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand. You can’t exactly convert a TH-cam comment to Braille lol
So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.
@@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?
Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful
The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!
Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((
@@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that
I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.
@@AlphaLuna Great way to cast assumptions and judgment without knowing anything at all. For all we know she was assaulted and it unnerved her forever, or she lost someone that was her rock or she began having mental health problems due to people making grandstanding statements about her. Who knows? That's why we shouldn't speculate and say things about people we don't know.
It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm
I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.
@@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.
She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.
She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.
Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.
@@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response. It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.
Yeah Hemsworth is the most easygoing guy to hang out with and if he feels uncomfortable then things are really not ok right there. But Brie was great back time, I wonder what changed her of being so offensive about every statement toward to her. It’s really cringy to watch her talking😕
@@iw6957 the sjw rhetoric I'd guess. I have experienced some of my formerly lovely ex aquaintances flip their personality after being exposed to the talking points and identifying with the ideology I'm guessing? Then it becomes a game of gaining acceptance from the, erm, "community", and by the time you realize you're in the race for the oppression Olympics well, it's already too late
I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.
Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)
I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it
Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.
Thats great to hear, i used to have severe aspergers as well, but i like to believe the internet, my therapy and smoking dope (yeah... Not recommended though i got addicted) made me able to understand how others feel alot better and i am now able to show empathy to people in a manner i could never have before, probably because of the way people can express themselves with freedom on the internet. I _almost_ feel normal.
The avengers cast have perfected that friendly, jokie banter they do with each other when they’re in interviews and you can tell Brie just doesn’t get it.
@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 While I agree that may factor in it, very few have been doing it the whole 10 years. The cast has grown and grown with every year and this is the only time I've seen someone just not mesh well.
Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her
I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted. But yeah, she is definitely different.
That last of course he pulled off real cynically, as if he’s getting ready to pull a knive out of his back at any time when Quill ain’t lookin lol that’s where Thor claims leadership
@The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】
@@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?
I have found (being an introvert that's pretty good at playing at extroversion/ being sociable) that being good at and willing to listen to other people is far and away the best and most vital social skill you'll ever need. Most of the time, people (who talk) just want/need to talk about their problems and interests anyway, and even providing them just a few crumbs of acknowledgment is enough to let them continue on and feel engaged. People who don't talk a lot might see or sense you have a willingness to listen and may open up to you in the right time & place. If you're a talker/ extrovert, you'll probably get along with other extroverts naturally unless you're _rude_ and *never listen* to others. Always provide others with time to voice their own thoughts and try not to dominate the conversation. If speaking to an introvert - asking them questions can give them opportunity to speak (we have lots of thoughts but often lack the courage or social timing to voice them, esp in large groups) but never single an introvert out to ask anything really 'big' or divisive in front of a large group - that's the fastest way to stress out and shut down an introvert, and they're likely to try and escape the situation asap.
This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.
this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this TH-cam video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍
Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.
This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood. Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action. Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught. These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them. They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left. ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids. ✅No friends. ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them. ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them. ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control. They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age. They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.
The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive. This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.
@@ArtemisRayne94 yes I have..😂 Compared with Karen Gillan, as the female and a newbie in Chris Evans and Mark Ruffalo's interview team, I think Karen is much better in "blending" with the other Avengers than Brie.
he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any
Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.
@@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack. But not this video though.
I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".
Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!
This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.
I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.
Well, maybe he read comics and is scared thinking he will have to play love interest to Captain Marvel in upcoming movies, and that might be awkward if they didn't get along, lol.
Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.
@@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.
Yeah that’s the beauty of constructive criticism, it doesn’t feel like criticism really, more like guidance. It’s the best way to do these types of videos.
Yes, he did this amazingly well! Very well thought out criticism, with also room for praise. Too bad that a lot of the commenters on this video didn't see it like that and are dead-set on hating her. Praise to CoC for not cherry picking, and praise to you for noticing!
@@pascalvanbeek6394 Yeah. Shame to see the responses because I actually like her humor. I like dry humor and when things aren't in-your-face. Unfortunately, American media lacks subtlety and I feel like people assuming she's so serious about everything shows why that's the case.
"if people don't like you when you're yourself" then you're living in wrong society, have enough self esteem and self respect to like yourself, clearly it's not always have to be you whose wrong all the time!!
Watch some situational comedies, note why you find some stuff funny and that will stick with you in the future you may find something like that funny or even crack a joke! Be chill you can be a lot of things you don’t need to be funny too find your strength
i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.
I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied
Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over
You can tell from the way she's responding that she's thinking "I have to appear strong in this room full of men! I have to appear as a strong empowered woman and I can't let them have even one inch on me!" Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do. Yet for some reason Brie thinks differently.
@@G102Y5568 "Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do." Can I share this quote on my facebook? If you want credits you can give me your name, although I don't think you would want that
One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.
Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.
It's frustrating, because when she wasn't made into a symbol and was just doing her own thing, she came across as the nicest person. But now it feels like she's taking being the first female lead in the MCU super seriously and has alowed herself to become defensive and irritable. It must have been difficult with all the attention, I just hope she adapts and looses the chip on her shoulder.
She probably doesn't believe it herself. everyone else has had years to adapt and now she's having to consistently justify being one of the biggest names in the mcu to everyone. I could see how she'd get defensive. looked really anxious in a lot of those recent clips.
George Birkin Now that you mention it, Brie did mention that she liked being out of the spotlight better than being in the spotlight. Perhaps, she is feeling the pressure and thinks that she is now a superhero, and that she thinks she has to meet certain expectations. I feel this might just be a situation where Brie needs to get used to her new surrounding, because she might just be overwhelmed by it.
@Gi Gi Marvel fans did not attack her as soon as she become Marvel. Being a part of Marvel Universe means she has to know the Universe. Pretty much everyone in the Marvel has funny, humble and great person thing in real life too. People are not gonna be contend with your on screen performance. Marvel us more than that. Her condescending nature and floating above everyone else isn't a great way to introduce yourself especially since everyone in Marvel gets along well and never try to upstage one another and the newer actors have been very respectful of the guys who have been there longer
@@geethsan1567 I'm not sure myself (it seemed true ac ouple of weeks ago, but somehow a lot of info on that topic vanished), but apparently she doesn't have the backside for her costume...
😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.
What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.
Its like she always comes off as a bit angry and passive agressive. She wasn't like that earlier in her career. I think she feels bad or something, when she smiles it just comes off as wrong and a bit fakeish. Even her face is all stern like.
@@lukadubak7476 Not sure if it was before or after Marvel but Im guessing before, she made a fool of herself during a speech kinda thing for the movie "Wrinkle in time". It's painful to watch seriously.
@Miss reign I feel like with a cast that big, there's definitely going to be a lot of tensions we won't even see. She clearly has a hard time faking being happy, which is understandable. I hope she figures out whatever she needs to in order to find happiness.
Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling. The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward. To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.
I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.
One or two of these are still risk zones for me, the rest, I've... gotten better with, I think, but would _really_ have benefitted from learning about at a younger age. Just... all of the things, y'know? A lot of them come naturally until we realize they aren't helpful, give a bad impression, don't convey what we want to. Good food for thought.
I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?
DerpASherpa117 That’s pretty much all commonwealth countries, I’ve noticed Americans really struggle with banter though, they take it personally when obviously it’s a joke.
@@ScouserLegend Scouser - I think your quite right on this point, that many Americans don’t take the banter as a joke. I do find though that many supposed jokes, in these situations, are often jabs to see if the other person “ can take it “. A sort of test if you will. And a regular “banter” of pokes/jabs to see if you can take it, can get old and tedious very quickly. In fact I think that many people would really rather skip it all together, and would truly enjoy just meeting a really nice/enjoyable bloke. Rather than be tested so that the jabber will feel comfortable ( or accepted or whatever ) for being willing to Play (joke) along. Wouldn’t it make sense to think that a person who was comfortable “ in their own skin “, wouldn’t need to poke/prod other people to test them or put them through that ? ( truely wondering,.. not trolling. Thanks )
It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious
This is why I adjust my personality to who I’m around. It’s a subconscious thing I do but I definitely read the room and act accordingly. I’m still myself just different versions of myself cause that won’t work in every situation
Divaliciousbeauty123, what you're doing is very much what Abed Nadir on Community (greatest TV show ever!!) said he does. It's in Season 1 (I think; the "Jeff Plays Pool" episode) where the study group wants him to talk to a girl they think likes him. He gives this awesome speech about being so secure in who he is as a person that he's willing to change a bit to make other more comfortable. *"When you know who you are, it's okay to change a bit for others."* I love that.
Literally “LOL” so hard at that clip! The softness of the answer in contrast with the crudeness of the sarcasm AND the balance of factual validity to both... FLAWLESS EXECUTION!
Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.
You can always tell someone who is insecure when they attempt to overcompensate for it. One piece of advice, a person who is truly confident and strong will never talk about how confident and strong they are...
I usually run into trouble when I am specifically asked about things like that though, so it's been requested to talk about yourself, but always get into trouble when I make a lazily worded response (or at best just spoken without regard to the word choice) in an attempt at modesty, but coming across as meaning that it was easy, then it's inferred as taking little effort, arriving at how great I must think I am lol But you're right, confidence and strength has no need to be recognized or applauded, just like how "cool people don't have to tell anyone how cool they are"
@@3therea11 yeah, it's different when you're specially asked, but then even though you're just answering the question, people still act like you're being cocky.
IF DON CHEADLE HADN'T STARTED ALL THE PROBLEMS FOR BRIE LARSON BY SAYING DON'T TOUCH ME FOR NO REASON .....brie larson wouldn't have snapped back at Chris hemsworth after he attacked her and called her the next tom cruise ..... don cheadle put brie larson in a bad mood ..he embarrassed her in front of billions by saying don't touch me FOR NO REASON he just snapped at her out of the blue..... DON CHEADLE DID THE SAME THING TO Letitia wright the black panther where he embarrassed her Sio bad she LEFT SOCIAL MEDIA FOR A FEW YEARS ...don cheadle is a bully ....he would never attack Scarlett Johansson because she isn't new in the mcu and has too much power with disney marvel
I wish people would point out that Don cheadle was very hostile and Chris hemsworth was interrupting her and insulting her while she was trying to explain what she meant. Maybe she can be abrasive but honestly in this moment, it felt to me like Don and Chris were just ganging up on her and it felt very immature, like school-yard bullying immature. I feel the hate she gets is way too much, the MCU fans are VERY toxic and mean.
She came from Indie work and critically acclaimed work, so maybe she's a little insecure in a big franchise? Maybe that's it. She seemed so playful in the older interviews.
Rude is still rude. Don't try to sugar coat it. She keeps trying to come out on top of each conversation. It is okay to be defensive but what's up with trying to win everything?
@@Saicofake Well trying to win everything is essentially being defensive, it doesn't necessarily mean she's rude. People can come off as rude and aggressive when they feel uncomfortable and threatened.
I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.
Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking
@@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.
The last one is true but seems almost counterintuitive. In order to be liked, you have to stop wanting to be liked by everybody. Pretty confusing but powerful if used correctly
@@freeman7297 maybe that's just how she is, she doesn't want to be liked by everybody, otherwise she could play the sweet charismatic woman who everyone enjoys to watch, instead she's herself and that gets people mad. I've seen several male actors act the same way as her, but people encourage their attitude.
@@thegreatest9173 But there is! If you want everyone to like you and to fit into everyones tastes you end up being a shapeless dull bulb of boredom and fake - that's bad if I have to tell you :)
As an autistic person, this video is a freakin goldmine! Thank you! I love joking around, but sometimes I feel like my jokes are taken the wrong way. I'm definitely going to reflect on this video.
@@bleachdeliver Sadly, that's pretty much our deal: We don't quite use the same body language etc, so it's sometimes hard to interpret what we mean, whether we're being sarcastic or not, and all that stuff. If it's any consolation, other people confuse us too. xD My autism is actually relatively mild, but I still feel its consequences quite heavily.
Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING! As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all. Great video! Subscribed thanks.
hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."
Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.
he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.
Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?
@@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.
@@br9760 not for me
A point break?
I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this
Hahahahahahahah RT
That is literally me
I’m dead !!!!!
Most relatable comment
Bro--- gotta use hacks next time
I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it
edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-
Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'
Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan
bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D
What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..
@@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened
1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation
2. Sarcasm requires a "tell"
3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself
4. You should not try to win every moment of banter
5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly
Thank you
Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅
It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.
Thanks saved me time
In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.
I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.
it is, they need help
What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?
It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.
Yeah, feminism does that to people.
It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense
Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.
I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.
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I want this quote as wall decor at my house
i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is
OMG THISS
Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?
LOL
Or an AI trying to understand human kind
So you become a likeable alien
It's to understand psychology in x context
Hello fellow humanoid’s
The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered.
Thank you for the video!
I was taught to be kind and understanding but my parents weren't social persons themselves so I kinda get lost along the way.
So right now I'm a kind, understanding introvert.😢
I'm really glad I grew up to not be thin skinned and able to appreciate dry humor.
Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph:
Do you want to fake my signature or something?
Jajajaja
Omg😂😂
😂
Laura Durango hahaha nice one
Haha
*Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had
Then you're such a mess.
(sorry, I had to)
a mess 😂
Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂
I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me.
(I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)
@Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)
The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people
He's such a good man
God of Thunder
Brie wasn't attacking Chris lol. Do you Americans not know what banter is?
@@lindai6988 most don't, they get offended over everything
Darth Vader it seems so
I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.
Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.
@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡
Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.
@@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.
did Brie Larson hurt u with her words too.... let mama kiss the boo boo
"Be like Chris"
"Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?"
"Yes."
Or Pine;)
"Chan"
@@megadeth1818 No... Please no. One is enough
Redfield. The biggest Chris.
Benoit?
The whole interaction with Chris Hemsworth about stunts and strength is so cringey.
Feminism ruins women
I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^
@@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.
@@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.
B 27
Emoji man bad.
It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.
Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself
me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !
krix pop I would still smash though
@@wtfmario
I don't know mate : to each its own ...
I would run.
The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao !
She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life.
edit: Stay away from crazy !!!
BeChickaboom YESSS
I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.
leave, far away
I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.
this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention
It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.
She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles.
Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...
I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.
Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE
I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem
I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.
Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.
Especially since everyone always is attacking her
When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain
I really felt that it wasn't the situation to bring up that context.
I think anybody's reaction would be like ' jeeez okay there lady'
Uh she doesn't do her own stunts.
I would like your comment but you currently have 666 likes. Hail Satan...
5:44
Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.
That is really good input
Sabrina Zarogoza wow.. this is the first time I’ve ever encountered a blind person in the TH-cam comment section!
If you don't mind me asking, how did you type this as a blind person?
Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand.
You can’t exactly convert a TH-cam comment to Braille lol
How’d you watch this
So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.
Sadly, that's true.
this is only true when everyone is in the same social class
I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?
@@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?
Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful
The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t
What sorcery is this
Carazy123 m a g i c
This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers
That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!
I know right haha
"is that like a personal attack or something?"
The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!
Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((
Shes just self absorbed
@@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that
Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.
Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?
The way Chris Hemsworth moves his head around in disagreement was honestly the funniest thing I’ll see all week
That is an bold statment. Its only monday
i know right. That was so funny. He honestly is my favorite lmao
He’s naturally funny as hell.
Always timestamp!
@@tjw937 @7:35
I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.
Good point.
Brie seems like a COMPLETELY different person in that older interview than in everything post-Marvel.
Something must have happened to her between those two interviews
Some people change for the worse when they get rich and famous.
@@AlphaLuna Great way to cast assumptions and judgment without knowing anything at all. For all we know she was assaulted and it unnerved her forever, or she lost someone that was her rock or she began having mental health problems due to people making grandstanding statements about her. Who knows? That's why we shouldn't speculate and say things about people we don't know.
@@AlphaLuna Sometimes the internet attacks you like a pack of wild dogs
@@free22 Feminism happened
The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them
It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm
@@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact
It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.
Agreed. It was very noticeable.
@@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?
i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.
Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.
I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.
@@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.
@@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?
@@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂
I hate how complicated human interaction is.
SAME HERE! I have always been so lost interacting with people.
Life would be kind of boring if it was simple.
@@HankTheTank23 True, it would feel like talking to robots.
@@HankTheTank23 maybe to you but to other people who arent as fortunate as you seem to be it would make gor less painful social interactions.
@@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.
Distinguishing sarcasm and seriousness as a brit
You just gotta add “mate” in the sentence
Worse advice ever 😂
if you talk to a Brit and they use really strong slang they are mostly joking
Greg The Fishburger hypothetically speaking that is
I'm a brit with international colleagues, they just say they assume everything being said has a double meaning.
Plenty of times I use mate when I'm being serious to someone
damn im gonna come out of quarantine with a whole new personality
LOL
@@feedstacker lol you been binge watching Charisma on Command?
as you should
and a pshycology degree
@@liii3622 INDEED HSHHS
Don Cheadle is just sitting there like "please end this I just wanna go home"
Priyank Bhatia lmao and their characters are supposed to get all lovey dovey pretty soon
Lol
@@issykali_inc ifkr😂
Imagine when they have to kiss? Imagine the passion that will go into it 😂
After doing like 62362783624 interviews, of course he is, who wouldn't?
She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.
She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.
@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L
@@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.
@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅
@@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic
when you're taking negative intent from a question as simple as "are you left-handed" then you need to reassess how you perceive people's intent.
Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.
@@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response.
It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.
The point was she was being sarcastic at that part and joking
@@theheavenlyfb4071 see how well that sort of thing would work now?
@@OfftoShambala my stance on the matter hasn't changed
I always felt like people were overblowing things a bit, but that interview with Hemsworth is... wow.
He's a pretty chill guy too, if he doesn't like her something is definitely up..
The one with Jeremy Renner is even worse. He really looks like he can't stand Brie.
Yeah Hemsworth is the most easygoing guy to hang out with and if he feels uncomfortable then things are really not ok right there. But Brie was great back time, I wonder what changed her of being so offensive about every statement toward to her. It’s really cringy to watch her talking😕
Neo L Probably once she got her Oscar
@@iw6957 the sjw rhetoric I'd guess. I have experienced some of my formerly lovely ex aquaintances flip their personality after being exposed to the talking points and identifying with the ideology I'm guessing? Then it becomes a game of gaining acceptance from the, erm, "community", and by the time you realize you're in the race for the oppression Olympics well, it's already too late
She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth
lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her
I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.
Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)
Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...
I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it
Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.
It's called passive aggression .
@@JimDandy-rn4vd thnx man didn't know that, vocab updated
@@jollypoco2899 You be welcome
As a person with asperger, this channel is really helping me a lot to understand people
I was thinking similarly.
I Dino was gonna look for aspie comment and its right at second
Thats great to hear, i used to have severe aspergers as well, but i like to believe the internet, my therapy and smoking dope (yeah... Not recommended though i got addicted) made me able to understand how others feel alot better and i am now able to show empathy to people in a manner i could never have before, probably because of the way people can express themselves with freedom on the internet. I _almost_ feel normal.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I... THIS. I just IMMEDIATELY tagged this as "FOR MY FELLOW AUTISTIC FOLK"
same here lol
The avengers cast have perfected that friendly, jokie banter they do with each other when they’re in interviews and you can tell Brie just doesn’t get it.
They've also been doing it for 10 years and this is her first time - they have history and she was thrust in there.
@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 Lol it has little to do with how long one has been cast in Avengers for.
@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 While I agree that may factor in it, very few have been doing it the whole 10 years. The cast has grown and grown with every year and this is the only time I've seen someone just not mesh well.
@Sav Drako he's British, banters part of our culture. Best friend ? A shall call him a nonce. That's how we work. She wouldnae last 1 min over here
brie reminds me of a feminist always having to wear the pants wherever she goes and nobody can stand being around her for more than 30 seconds
The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.
Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her
@@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.
rotaryfreak3 fame can do that
it's almost as if people change as they age.
I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted.
But yeah, she is definitely different.
"If a literal interpretation of your sarcasm would make you look like a jerk, try again" is great advise
Brie: I'm in charge.
Chris: *puts on character* Of course you are! Yes! Of course. It's you. Of cooouurrse!
Brie: is that a personal attack?
Chris: *Asks Marvel to give THOR's Stormbreaker to him that's made out of real metal to show Brie who's the real GOD*
Lmao
That last of course he pulled off real cynically, as if he’s getting ready to pull a knive out of his back at any time when Quill ain’t lookin lol that’s where Thor claims leadership
This comment is genius
She protecc
She attacc
But most importantly
She thinks it's a personal attacc
😂
I appreciate this XD
@The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】
@@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?
She protecc
She atacc
But most importantly
She catch lots of flacc
Watching these videos always reminds me how hard social life is
i can barely talk to other people
@@prostatitiscpps7962 at least we can analyse others with this knowledge......
I have found (being an introvert that's pretty good at playing at extroversion/ being sociable) that being good at and willing to listen to other people is far and away the best and most vital social skill you'll ever need. Most of the time, people (who talk) just want/need to talk about their problems and interests anyway, and even providing them just a few crumbs of acknowledgment is enough to let them continue on and feel engaged. People who don't talk a lot might see or sense you have a willingness to listen and may open up to you in the right time & place. If you're a talker/ extrovert, you'll probably get along with other extroverts naturally unless you're _rude_ and *never listen* to others. Always provide others with time to voice their own thoughts and try not to dominate the conversation. If speaking to an introvert - asking them questions can give them opportunity to speak (we have lots of thoughts but often lack the courage or social timing to voice them, esp in large groups) but never single an introvert out to ask anything really 'big' or divisive in front of a large group - that's the fastest way to stress out and shut down an introvert, and they're likely to try and escape the situation asap.
only of you're a douche
I remember that everytime I go outside...
This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.
this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this TH-cam video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍
Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.
This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood.
Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action.
Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught.
These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them.
They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left.
✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids.
✅No friends.
✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them.
✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them.
✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control.
They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age.
They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.
The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive.
This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.
Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.
Hemsworth and Cheadle looked uncomfortable the whole interview. So different with his old interviews with Evans or other casts
Everyone looks uncomfortable when paired with Brie... Have you seen the interview with her and Jeremy Renner? Soooo cringy and awkward
i ruined the 69 likes, heHe.
What is that an attack or something?
Nobody: ...
Literally no one: ...
Not a single soul: ...
Brie: iS tHiS A pErsOnAl aTtAcK?!? 🙄😒😂
@@ArtemisRayne94 yes I have..😂
Compared with Karen Gillan, as the female and a newbie in Chris Evans and Mark Ruffalo's interview team, I think Karen is much better in "blending" with the other Avengers than Brie.
Don Cheadle looks so uncomfortable during the Brie and Chris exchanges.
You need to look trough Jeremy Renner's interview. The poor guy could barely stay alive trough the interview
he literally tweeted to defend her
he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any
Don Cheadle always looks uncomfortable
Is that a personal attack or something?
*Brie Larson watches this video*
"Is this like a personal attack or something?"
Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.
Anders Moe Billington
“Yes... yes it is Brie. Everyone doesn’t like you.”
@@marcoglara2012 That's badly worded, "Nobody likes you" works better, just helping
Marco lara “Is this like a personal attack or something?”
@@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack.
But not this video though.
I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".
Yeah to me it’s juvenile
Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more
balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳
just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways
@@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.
no need for that
Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures
Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition
Samuel F Exactly what I thought
which Chris?
@@NewG_JL yes
Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/
@@NewG_JL maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk
Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.
Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all
True
TRUE
@@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER
Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!
This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.
I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.
Those who did not get those instructions grown up to be those who hurt those whom did get the right instructions.
Don Cheadle’s face during the interview is hilarious. He just looks like he’s had enough of it all.
He did! I was laughing when he said “I told you not to touch it”.
Well, maybe he read comics and is scared thinking he will have to play love interest to Captain Marvel in upcoming movies, and that might be awkward if they didn't get along, lol.
YES PLEASE BREAK DOWN RUSSEL BRAND
He always looks like that.
Or maybe ... hear me out ... he was going along with the meme and pretending to hate her . So that way bored shit talkers and trolls watch the video .
I never understood why people didn’t like her until seeing how she behaved in these interviews. It’s really uncomfortable to watch.
Definitely
Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.
@@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.
@@melonytoni9016 Everyone has flaws. Get over it.
@@brynbrew Yes we all have flaws. being entitled and dismissive to negative traits makes you toxic.
I like how you used both "do this" and "don't do this" examples from Brie. I thought it was gonna be more of a hate video.
Same...turned out to be just a somewhat funny video on how to avoid being like Brie haha yikes
Yeah that’s the beauty of constructive criticism, it doesn’t feel like criticism really, more like guidance. It’s the best way to do these types of videos.
Unrelated, but I like your tree peace symbol picture. It was supposed to be that way long ago
Yes, he did this amazingly well! Very well thought out criticism, with also room for praise. Too bad that a lot of the commenters on this video didn't see it like that and are dead-set on hating her. Praise to CoC for not cherry picking, and praise to you for noticing!
@@pascalvanbeek6394 Yeah. Shame to see the responses because I actually like her humor. I like dry humor and when things aren't in-your-face. Unfortunately, American media lacks subtlety and I feel like people assuming she's so serious about everything shows why that's the case.
be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.
How if people don’t like you when you are yourself
"if people don't like you when you're yourself" then you're living in wrong society, have enough self esteem and self respect to like yourself, clearly it's not always have to be you whose wrong all the time!!
As a person with Aspergers who doesn't know how to converse. I think this channel is really helpful.
Watch some situational comedies, note why you find some stuff funny and that will stick with you in the future you may find something like that funny or even crack a joke! Be chill you can be a lot of things you don’t need to be funny too find your strength
ayy my brother has aspergers too, gonna send this to him
My husband has Aspergers and I have BPD see a lot of these traits in both of us, I'm going to show him this video as well.
Alex Haven Blackburn “conversate” is not actually a word....
@@calisongbird True. It's "Converse", but everyone hates the grammar police, so...
i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.
Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem
Yea, so why hate her
I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied
yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable
Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over
oh my god, I can barely watch the clips of that interview with Brie, Chris, and Don.. makes my skin crawl, so awkward and tense
CZ It’s the cringiest thing I’ve seen in years, I can’t stand her
You can tell from the way she's responding that she's thinking "I have to appear strong in this room full of men! I have to appear as a strong empowered woman and I can't let them have even one inch on me!"
Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do. Yet for some reason Brie thinks differently.
@@G102Y5568 "Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do." Can I share this quote on my facebook? If you want credits you can give me your name, although I don't think you would want that
@@MarianadeOliveiraSaitu you should not have said him "although i don't think you would want that"
I just scrolled down to the comments cuz I couldn't take it- I'm almost hyperventilating.
One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.
Yep!
This hits different 💀
Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.
Or simply put, she's just insecure and always on defensive!
It's frustrating, because when she wasn't made into a symbol and was just doing her own thing, she came across as the nicest person. But now it feels like she's taking being the first female lead in the MCU super seriously and has alowed herself to become defensive and irritable. It must have been difficult with all the attention, I just hope she adapts and looses the chip on her shoulder.
She probably doesn't believe it herself. everyone else has had years to adapt and now she's having to consistently justify being one of the biggest names in the mcu to everyone. I could see how she'd get defensive. looked really anxious in a lot of those recent clips.
George Birkin Now that you mention it, Brie did mention that she liked being out of the spotlight better than being in the spotlight. Perhaps, she is feeling the pressure and thinks that she is now a superhero, and that she thinks she has to meet certain expectations. I feel this might just be a situation where Brie needs to get used to her new surrounding, because she might just be overwhelmed by it.
@Gi Gi Marvel fans did not attack her as soon as she become Marvel. Being a part of Marvel Universe means she has to know the Universe. Pretty much everyone in the Marvel has funny, humble and great person thing in real life too. People are not gonna be contend with your on screen performance. Marvel us more than that. Her condescending nature and floating above everyone else isn't a great way to introduce yourself especially since everyone in Marvel gets along well and never try to upstage one another and the newer actors have been very respectful of the guys who have been there longer
@Gi Gi Well, being defensive is the worst way to react to hate and criticism as you seem like you're threatened
What further hurt her in that interview, is that she has stunt doubles and she just chose to not acknowledge them.
I know she had a butt double, but did she have any other functionality out of any double(s)?
She even have a butt double.. lying biatch..
@@MrAnonymous650 a Butt Double?! Seriously?
@@geethsan1567 I'm not sure myself (it seemed true ac ouple of weeks ago, but somehow a lot of info on that topic vanished), but apparently she doesn't have the backside for her costume...
Yup, she has 2 actually...
*gets this in my recommendations*
Me: Is this like, a personal attack or something?
@decembrist Yes!!! 😂😂
😄
I got this video & one almost identical under it😂 I felt kinda attacked but with my yt history...I understand 😭.
"Karen thinks you'd like this"
that made me actually lol
I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.
Thor Odinson: I like this one
Chris Hemsworth: I don't like this one
I was thinking the same 😂
Sid Patil he was?
Damn shit just got real.
Noobmaster69 no
So literally in point 😆 I mean I feel bad fir her in a way but so on point 😁
Brie after watching this video: "Learned a lot from this, thank you vEeeERry much."
More like "is this video a personal attack?"
also "I don't see MEN getting similar treatment!"
@Amon Ra is your assumption of my comment being a personal attack or something an actual personal attack?
1000 like
😂
Google: Would Brie Larson workout?
Brie : *So you have chosen death*
😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.
@@lizipearlvlogs I'm pretty sure she was
What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.
Its like she always comes off as a bit angry and passive agressive. She wasn't like that earlier in her career. I think she feels bad or something, when she smiles it just comes off as wrong and a bit fakeish. Even her face is all stern like.
Something may have happened to her
between then and now.
@@free22 marvel? 😅
@@lukadubak7476 Not sure if it was before or after Marvel but Im guessing before, she made a fool of herself during a speech kinda thing for the movie "Wrinkle in time". It's painful to watch seriously.
@@salladinthegreat im guessing she has had some family issues or something
@Miss reign I feel like with a cast that big, there's definitely going to be a lot of tensions we won't even see. She clearly has a hard time faking being happy, which is understandable. I hope she figures out whatever she needs to in order to find happiness.
Russell Brand's response, while funny and charismatic, wasn't necessarily trying to win over his opposition, he was subtly calling the dude a dingus
That guy was in fact a dingus
@Gary Abbott It's just a cultural thing like he said. It's all subjective :)
@Gary Abbott I love both flat and over the top deliveries, he was just talking about how it is in the US.
The positive intent part instantly reminded me of Jack sparrow when he gets called the worst pirate and comes back with but you've heard of me
One of the most memorable moments of the franchise.
Oh my God. That's actually a perfect example
"Burr, you disgust me--"
"Ah so you've discussed me."
Same vibes honestly
"I've got a jar of dirt,I've got a jar of dirt can't guess what's inside it."
Legendary but at the end actually not that good since a pirate doesn't want to be famous. That's like wanting to be a famous mugger
Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling.
The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward.
To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.
What a great way to explain it.
What I learnt from that video :
Chris Hemsworth is an amazing and humble human being ❤️
That is one of the reasons why I am a Thor fan
@@nimisha6584 Thought you were his enemy? You turned out to be the secret admirer
What I learnt from that comment:
Chris Hemsworth is a humain beimg.
@@Shadows-RC what's the problem ?(thats a real question x))
yea cause he's an Aussie
Literally Chris carried that interview. Even when she was being overly deadpan and serious, he hits back with humour.
In his arms or in a container?
She's not funny. In fact, very very few pretty women are funny.
@@johnglennmercury7 ok john
@@DJLiz2009 no? Disagree?
@@johnglennmercury7 In your opinion?
she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl
either that or americans don't understand sarcasm
@@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂
Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate
@@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥
@@jkad1363
"I'm american and understand sarcasm"
"No you don't"
Sounds like a meme lmbo
I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.
Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.
One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it
@@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..
re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior
Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah
yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.
As someone who tries to keep all conversation light, this video physically hurt me to watch
when you are with savages, its hard i know
Bruh same
Bro it really do be like that and tbh it’s annoying sometimes
wat
She's so rude 🤨
This was actually really insightful, and made me recognize why some social interactions I've been in felt off or awkward
CalsZonee Yes! Undeniably, we’ve committed a lot of these ‘don’ts’ so we should all aim to do better
Truuuuuuueeee
CalsZonee Tienes razón...
Big words
One or two of these are still risk zones for me, the rest, I've... gotten better with, I think, but would _really_ have benefitted from learning about at a younger age. Just... all of the things, y'know? A lot of them come naturally until we realize they aren't helpful, give a bad impression, don't convey what we want to. Good food for thought.
I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?
Slow your role, Cap't Save-a-Hoe.
Stop simping, nerd. You might just save yourself a beating.
Chris Hemsworth is the ultimate paragon of an Australian: everything he says is a shitpost, yet he's a good dude you want to have a beer with.
DerpASherpa117 That’s pretty much all commonwealth countries, I’ve noticed Americans really struggle with banter though, they take it personally when obviously it’s a joke.
Soviet Sans Of the Holy Britannian Empire _i n i t_
@@ScouserLegend Scouser - I think your quite right on this point, that many Americans don’t take the banter as a joke. I do find though that many supposed jokes, in these situations, are often jabs to see if the other person “ can take it “. A sort of test if you will. And a regular “banter” of pokes/jabs to see if you can take it, can get old and tedious very quickly. In fact I think that many people would really rather skip it all together, and would truly enjoy just meeting a really nice/enjoyable bloke. Rather than be tested so that the jabber will feel comfortable ( or accepted or whatever ) for being willing to Play (joke) along. Wouldn’t it make sense to think that a person who was comfortable “ in their own skin “, wouldn’t need to poke/prod other people to test them or put them through that ? ( truely wondering,.. not trolling. Thanks )
At McDonalds: Would you like a free size up?
Brie: I'm not fat.
😂
I loled
😂😂
then she calls the manager
JUST LIKE THAT
Random guy: You're breathtaking!
Keanu Reeves: No, YOU are breathtaking!
Brie Larson: "No I'm breathtaking."
@@legg8866 Lol that killed me
@@legg8866 Me: "No you're not! 🙃"
@@legg8866 The Senate will decide your fate
I like how this is barely related to the vid and still manages to get 1k likes lol
Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂
It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious
This is why I adjust my personality to who I’m around. It’s a subconscious thing I do but I definitely read the room and act accordingly. I’m still myself just different versions of myself cause that won’t work in every situation
I feel like that’s so exhausting fake. At the end of your day your changing yourself to suit the other person.just be your wonderful self
You’re not adjusting your personality, you’re adjusting your behavior
dont be a simp
Divaliciousbeauty123, what you're doing is very much what Abed Nadir on Community (greatest TV show ever!!) said he does. It's in Season 1 (I think; the "Jeff Plays Pool" episode) where the study group wants him to talk to a girl they think likes him. He gives this awesome speech about being so secure in who he is as a person that he's willing to change a bit to make other more comfortable. *"When you know who you are, it's okay to change a bit for others."* I love that.
@@CG-kr4he it’s actually something a lot of people with ADHD (like myself) do subconsciously
Reading negative intent is the most off-putting characteristic there is. It really kills any energy in the room.
I used to do this often. Thank God I changed a couple years back.
So true. I didn't know there was a term for this but I've met several people who followed this approach and it is just so tiring.
All SJWS
Is that, like, a personal attack or something
I always feel like I have to please these people, it's really frustrating
Shout out to Aubrey Plaza. The queen of sarcasm.
Aubrey is Daria in real life
Literally “LOL” so hard at that clip! The softness of the answer in contrast with the crudeness of the sarcasm AND the balance of factual validity to both... FLAWLESS EXECUTION!
Queen of interviews in general.
Stevie & The Masquerades lol yes. She’s so refreshingly authentic...from what i can tell
dude, since dirty grandpa I loved her the moment she spoke. Amazing comic and naturally funny
These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss
How to make yourself more likable: sit down, be humble
True, except there are a lot of people that like arrogant assholes.
nobody will like you then. They can’t like you if they don’t know you exist.
Be humble. But don’t sit down.
Being humble might be a showing a fake personality
Everybody at work.... Cannot be humble or no bonus...
Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.
“Do not punish people when they give you compliments.”
That reminds me of: “you’re really pretty”
“You’re really short”
That is just mean spirited also. She should learn that complements do not always have strings attached. She is a very cynical person.
Underrated comment 😂😂😂
- you're gorgeous
- is that a personal attack or something...???
Gany Meade cynical people are smarter than overly optimistic people.
@@theodorefrazier8179 I’m too cynical... and not smart. 😋✌🏼
You can always tell someone who is insecure when they attempt to overcompensate for it. One piece of advice, a person who is truly confident and strong will never talk about how confident and strong they are...
Unless they’re joking how confident and strong they are
I usually run into trouble when I am specifically asked about things like that though, so it's been requested to talk about yourself, but always get into trouble when I make a lazily worded response (or at best just spoken without regard to the word choice) in an attempt at modesty, but coming across as meaning that it was easy, then it's inferred as taking little effort, arriving at how great I must think I am lol
But you're right, confidence and strength has no need to be recognized or applauded, just like how "cool people don't have to tell anyone how cool they are"
Actions speak louder than words
My arms are bigger than most peoples heads and I have a hot girlfriend so I can say this
@@3therea11 yeah, it's different when you're specially asked, but then even though you're just answering the question, people still act like you're being cocky.
Not reading negative intend into ambivalent situations has served me very well and is a mini revolution in my life, thank you!
IF DON CHEADLE HADN'T STARTED ALL THE PROBLEMS FOR BRIE LARSON BY SAYING DON'T TOUCH ME FOR NO REASON .....brie larson wouldn't have snapped back at Chris hemsworth after he attacked her and called her the next tom cruise ..... don cheadle put brie larson in a bad mood ..he embarrassed her in front of billions by saying don't touch me FOR NO REASON he just snapped at her out of the blue..... DON CHEADLE DID THE SAME THING TO Letitia wright the black panther where he embarrassed her Sio bad she LEFT SOCIAL MEDIA FOR A FEW YEARS ...don cheadle is a bully ....he would never attack Scarlett Johansson because she isn't new in the mcu and has too much power with disney marvel
I wish people would point out that Don cheadle was very hostile and Chris hemsworth was interrupting her and insulting her while she was trying to explain what she meant. Maybe she can be abrasive but honestly in this moment, it felt to me like Don and Chris were just ganging up on her and it felt very immature, like school-yard bullying immature. I feel the hate she gets is way too much, the MCU fans are VERY toxic and mean.
@@gobkurrI wish you weren't such a joke 😂
She doesn’t seem rude but very very defensive, constantly uncomfortable in these scenes. I wonder if there’s any event in her personal life happened.
She came from Indie work and critically acclaimed work, so maybe she's a little insecure in a big franchise? Maybe that's it. She seemed so playful in the older interviews.
Rude is still rude. Don't try to sugar coat it.
She keeps trying to come out on top of each conversation.
It is okay to be defensive but what's up with trying to win everything?
@@lauraberg6272 Yes she seemed like a different person in recent interviews, I do wonder what changed.
@@Saicofake Well trying to win everything is essentially being defensive, it doesn't necessarily mean she's rude. People can come off as rude and aggressive when they feel uncomfortable and threatened.
@Xiyu Yang Yeah. Autism happened.
I think she’s a bit insecure which makes her defensive
@@asimhussain8716 yeah, I mean I couldn't believe she is the same person
I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.
Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking
@@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.
I don't think she's insecure. 😏
*My TOP 3*
- Arrogant
- Talk about themselves and their problems all the time
- Want to be liked by everybody
That's what 99% of people do really.
The last one is true but seems almost counterintuitive. In order to be liked, you have to stop wanting to be liked by everybody. Pretty confusing but powerful if used correctly
There is nothing wrong with 3
@@freeman7297 maybe that's just how she is, she doesn't want to be liked by everybody, otherwise she could play the sweet charismatic woman who everyone enjoys to watch, instead she's herself and that gets people mad. I've seen several male actors act the same way as her, but people encourage their attitude.
@@thegreatest9173 But there is! If you want everyone to like you and to fit into everyones tastes you end up being a shapeless dull bulb of boredom and fake - that's bad if I have to tell you :)
This is EXCELLENT. Wow I love this. Such a powerful analysis and clever. And not over judgy, just good.
Thanos has more supporters than Captain Marvel.
Thanos has actual charisma
Thanos probably has more supporters than most characters in the MCU, honestly. He's hard not to love.
I actually was supporting Thanos during her fight with him
Razib Baral JOY I hated captain marvel tbh
Because society loves whether you are good or evil. They hate awkward.
As an autistic person, this video is a freakin goldmine! Thank you!
I love joking around, but sometimes I feel like my jokes are taken the wrong way. I'm definitely going to reflect on this video.
Autistic people confuse me
You guys are the best
@@bleachdeliver Sadly, that's pretty much our deal: We don't quite use the same body language etc, so it's sometimes hard to interpret what we mean, whether we're being sarcastic or not, and all that stuff.
If it's any consolation, other people confuse us too. xD My autism is actually relatively mild, but I still feel its consequences quite heavily.
@apachewarrior7 definitely not interesting when you have it but I don't think he meant that in a way to hurt your feelings but I see how it could
@apachewarrior7 Gotcha, my bad!
Brie and chris in that interview look like a couple on the verge of breaking up
omg exactly! or a couple who divorced but still has to see each other for the sake of their kid or smth. she's such a unlikable person
Oof, that hit the nail right on the head. I've witnessed a situation like this happen with my friend and his ex. It was really uncomfortable.
Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING!
As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all.
Great video! Subscribed thanks.
hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."