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  • @aboriginaleveything
    @aboriginaleveything 3 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    To eveyone who is just getting out from under the abuse of a narcissist! Go no contact and stick to it! Your life and sanity depends on it.🖤💙🙏🏿💪🏾

    • @jonathangrabban912
      @jonathangrabban912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A word is enough for the wise and a Narcissist should not be trusted because they are often toxic with an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism and a sense of entitlement. They also uses future faking and gaslighting as some of their control tactics. Narcissists are also trying to explore the coronavirus as a means of getting back to their victims so it is also important to observe the “NO CONTACT RULE”. I used to think that love could cure anything but it only fed my narc's enormous ego. It is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my wife’s phone. I got access to all her dealings both on phone and social media without touching her phone. I’m here in Nevada USA and able to access my wife’s phone with a cloned app even while she was away in the UK and cheating on me. All I did was share my wife’s phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both her new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch her phone. My wife was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all her secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. My wife also tried to use this coronavirus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid enough to allow someone so toxic back into my life. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against her. I read all her deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram. Hacker Gavin also helped me in checking if my phone number is being hacked and he secured all my numbers from unauthorized access with a very powerful encryption software. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” through his email cyberhackinggenius@gmail. com and WhatsApp: +19256795146 . You can also call and text his Cellular number on +16265152216 and thank me later for this great information.

    • @tommieeguerriero8415
      @tommieeguerriero8415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Grateful for this message thank you 😌

    • @takingbackmypower9859
      @takingbackmypower9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s not working for me I been no contact for 3 months and he has and is doing everything to try and make my life a living hell. He is using the kids and I’m so tired of it all. I don’t understand why he can’t just go with his new wife and live his life and leave me alone

    • @tru3g3mini44
      @tru3g3mini44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@takingbackmypower9859 same

    • @takingbackmypower9859
      @takingbackmypower9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tru3g3mini44 It’s hell and I pray we both get though this mess and they go and be with who they chose to be with and we can live with out looking for something else to happen

  • @BR9900-w5l
    @BR9900-w5l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    You can guarantee they are miserable with their new supply and bored. The cycle of cheating just repeats.

    • @lisabrown6280
      @lisabrown6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      RW I used to think that he left because the new supply was better than I am.

    • @BR9900-w5l
      @BR9900-w5l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      that's what they lead you to believe. It's not true. You'll find they are not as happy as they are making out. 😊

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Life only has so much to offer been there done that has a short lifespan before reality sets in and it always does.

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts only

    • @touchpoint4christministries444
      @touchpoint4christministries444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts

  • @savannahnalls2099
    @savannahnalls2099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    "You cant even get your narcissist to admit to things you caught them in" LMAO true!!!

    • @dvnwifey222
      @dvnwifey222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      facts!!

    • @4crazy1chick2
      @4crazy1chick2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because there’s always a “reason.”

    • @dvnwifey222
      @dvnwifey222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elcee7800 YEP!!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @mattblaircomedy
    @mattblaircomedy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Kill them with kindness, it drives them bonkers when you’re unbothered. Torture them with your success.

  • @FirstnameLastname-nq3oj
    @FirstnameLastname-nq3oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    “Our connection to God told us to cut this off” ❤️ praise God

  • @LadybugPhil413
    @LadybugPhil413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    You are so right! My intuition said he was bad news. I always give people the benefit of doubt and try to see the good....... Life lesson right there.

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes, i knew mine wasnt no good, lol

    • @Shaylaiswear
      @Shaylaiswear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm the same way. Keep giving chances smh

    • @WarriorQueen1962
      @WarriorQueen1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do too sista...I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and see the good in them. I sure learned a hard, life lesson too!

    • @kimberleylee2831
      @kimberleylee2831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too ... women are usually the ones to give them the benefit of doubt...I have been hurt so till I have learned to not give the benefit of doubt when it pertains to my life...maybe at a restaurant when you mess up an order...but not anymore with my life.

    • @nadiadavis7844
      @nadiadavis7844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same ... huge lesson learned

  • @F.L.S.M.
    @F.L.S.M. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    The more you love them the more drama they cause/ And everything they say they Don't do, they do it all...

    • @kateclemons5921
      @kateclemons5921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How is it us empaths attract these savages.

    • @WarriorQueen1962
      @WarriorQueen1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nothing but the truth!

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kateclemons5921 for me...as an empath a part of me wanted to heal him and help him break patterns. I think we see their brokenness and want to make them whole.

    • @kateclemons5921
      @kateclemons5921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@EButta71 mine was evil first love took him back after prison. Picked up more bad habits. Blessings to you.

    • @shacoraparamole4309
      @shacoraparamole4309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @shakiraallison9114
    @shakiraallison9114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    I didn’t realize I was dealing with a narcissist. I just felt like, everything I did was wrong. In his eyes, I married the wrong man. I busted my butt trying to be a good wife

    • @veda1306
      @veda1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Look on tbe bright side your strength level doubled up.

    • @denalangdon590
      @denalangdon590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I've lived that life as well. There are so many of us! Slowly I am beginning to know my self worth.

    • @aprildickson3963
      @aprildickson3963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here

    • @gracerios1342
      @gracerios1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah your focus was him and not you.

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, same here. All these years trying to fit the square block into the round circle.

  • @26sajdah
    @26sajdah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This man tried to ruin my life in so many ways but to sum everything up, THE GOOD ALWAYS PREVAIL!!!!!

  • @nailazion2600
    @nailazion2600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    When narcs cause some kind of damage.... they want you to be miserable or angry ... when it doesn't have the effect on you like they thought...here comes the smear campaigns...it gets old....they know they can't come back...they played themselves.... thanks for the video...Be The Light 💕💞

    • @JemLifeMinistries
      @JemLifeMinistries ปีที่แล้ว

      So true.

    • @alir78teddy
      @alir78teddy ปีที่แล้ว

      This is exactly what has just happened to me .. thankgod during the end i had videos like this and my faith to keep me sane... to change my reaction completely and I actually said calm that i would pray for him the abuse and vindictiveness took to a new level .. he new I was finally done .. I told him I had a strong spirit and I will always walk in the sunlight of the spirit and he will continue to live in darkness... however it hurts like hell and am sad .. angry because as an empath i don't wanna really see the truth I no it but it hurts x shout out from uk

  • @Surfsup448
    @Surfsup448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    They blame everything on you!! The will drain you and you can never get through to them! They destroy happiness!

  • @keirwilson5691
    @keirwilson5691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I used to feel my husband hated me from the vibes his spirit would release....thank GOD I got out of that house!

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Might have, they are jealous of their own spouse and kids.

    • @sewingwithlexy4817
      @sewingwithlexy4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I felt the same way. I am divorcing him now and he is giving me pure hell!

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sewingwithlexy4817 it's amazing how many of us are going through this foolishness

    • @BrittaniMeShay
      @BrittaniMeShay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Definitely jealous! Certain things my ex husband said let me know he was jealous of how much my daughters love me and the fact that I made more money than him at the time. Like… who gets jealous of a teammate! What man wouldn’t want to see his children love on his wife? What man wouldn’t be proud of his wife for not being a financial burden but being an actual helper? Chile let’s just celebrate our freedom🎉
      Good luck and blessings to all of us!💕

    • @BrittaniMeShay
      @BrittaniMeShay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @mz. white absolutely ridiculous. I’ve stopped trying to understand why regarding the jealousy girl.
      And I’m so sorry to hear such a nasty person attached himself to you. Was he saying those things when you guys first met?

  • @bryanovalasiti4461
    @bryanovalasiti4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Its miserable for a faithful person to be constantly accused by a tricky narc. Every time you are doing something healthy or wholesome they rage inside. A narcissist is a devil who can't stand seeing anyone walking in the light

  • @toothlessdragon644
    @toothlessdragon644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Sin is a very heavy burden to carry

    • @davespark10
      @davespark10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "For the wages of sin, is death..." yes indeed

    • @WarriorQueen1962
      @WarriorQueen1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN!!!

  • @pemmylewis2861
    @pemmylewis2861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I was his special gift from God. He did not know this. Now i am gone...he knows. Biggest mistake of his life!

  • @willowwhite7196
    @willowwhite7196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    You are helping a lot of us to understand this crazy making.

    • @WesHoe
      @WesHoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right

    • @crystalrobinson6349
      @crystalrobinson6349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crazy making..yes

    • @kanatapaw
      @kanatapaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this community. 👍

  • @lisabrown6280
    @lisabrown6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I hit the "override button" too many times with my ex narcissist boyfriend. He always laughed and smiled when I cried.

    • @onlymeasha6422
      @onlymeasha6422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Id never seen such a sadistic smile in my life. He literally found JOY in my Pain

    • @triciasimone7
      @triciasimone7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same😡

    • @tru3g3mini44
      @tru3g3mini44 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh yeah oh yeah they LUV when you cry. It turns them on.

    • @beemonique8466
      @beemonique8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just wicked.

  • @JessicaRamirez91622
    @JessicaRamirez91622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm a damn good woman. He lost out on an amazing family. Im so blessed I have all that I want and need. He is out of my life and it has gotten so much better with him gone

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN,,SISTER, I'm A #GODLY woman And #Good woman🎉

  • @judycopeland1995
    @judycopeland1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He blamed it on his childhood trauma. I don't think professional help would even change him. I do not feel sorry for him anymore. Thank God for saving me. And thank you Hario ! Beautiful smile 💕

  • @angelabattle1148
    @angelabattle1148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I left the Narc a month now God has gave me dreams and visions about him and I didn't fully understand until I came across your video

    • @royalbohemian9757
      @royalbohemian9757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I had a profound dream...and also saw a demonic presence in my bedroom one night. I know for sure what I've been dealing with.

    • @face-in-the-crowd
      @face-in-the-crowd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out Dr Ramani

  • @dorothydonaldson288
    @dorothydonaldson288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Or why they don't like good hearted people that has their best interest in heart..

  • @anthonyjohnson5647
    @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This video speaks the truth. Trust me, I understand, narcs are so broken, they have so many issues. They are so broken, one day they will have a mental breakdown.

  • @wmhhealth2018
    @wmhhealth2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When my female narc came to my house every weekend it was like she was carrying a black cloud around with her. I walked on egg shells all weekend and was always relieved when she left at the end of the weekend.

  • @aleciamoten6867
    @aleciamoten6867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those narcissist are demon possessed!

  • @valeriebuford6171
    @valeriebuford6171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's hard to believe that a person can be like this, but we have to accept the truth

  • @tootseug
    @tootseug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A true narcissist has no empathy. They have no ABILITY to. They are quite literally, empty inside. Because their is no empathy, it is NO burden.

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    People they want the worst for you . They thrive on you to fail that’s like a steak dinner to them . They want the worst for you at all times . So they can tell there friends they was right about you .

  • @MaChula14
    @MaChula14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Facts I kept pressing override until one day I was done...

  • @oviedalunsford3495
    @oviedalunsford3495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The narcissist never gets over you. They spend a life time trying to recapture a person or relationship with someone that looks just like you? I know it sounds crazy but they do sometimes go marry someone that looks like you.

    • @Kishanrrr
      @Kishanrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True

    • @JJ-dk1lr
      @JJ-dk1lr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is very true!

    • @joinahmukanangana2993
      @joinahmukanangana2993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are on point ,I came across one who was looking for someone who look like his ex and it was me soon I found out about him I had to run with my life

    • @joleishahouse4404
      @joleishahouse4404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is very true

    • @lovelyone2031
      @lovelyone2031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He tried to find someone like me but the new supply took him for his money and didn't bother with him after about six months!!

  • @marlonious7650
    @marlonious7650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She tried to brake me but my positivity was just too strong. My spirit wouldnt let me give up. My spirit wouldn't let me stop questioning what I knew was bull ^$$ t. She left with baby to her parent's and it was the first time I slept through the entire night. I kept my business, kept my place, kept all my money separate and I'm so I glad I did. So glad I stayed true to myself.. So glad I didn't marry this devil. Thanks for all the positive reinforcement.

    • @terribryant7699
      @terribryant7699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BOOM 💥 same here!!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praise the Lord 🎉

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@terribryant7699✅️✅️✅️

  • @PERCUNIA-DE-VIE
    @PERCUNIA-DE-VIE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Mines dished it out, but when I dished it back he couldn't take it,, it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Narcissist or Not you go around harming people who done no harm to you will then get what the Universe calls Karma, and when Karma gets ahold of you she will put a whooping on you, you will never forget, which is why he will never forget me..He's so use to dumping, when I dumped him,,He wanna cry like a kid and say he ain't never had a woman like me. I served him his Karma for all the other women he hurt.

  • @DivinesDoor222
    @DivinesDoor222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Amazing what happened to me dealing with a Narc! I was pushed into a spiritual awakening and it changed my life forever GOD IS NOT DEAD AND WE NEED TO EXPOSE THEM NOWWW AND FOR GOOD!!!!!! Ihope I catch your live

  • @anthonyjohnson5647
    @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Funny enough, my ex confessed she was wrong for some stuff to someone I know, but she never confessed to me. When the person told me, I could not belive it. That's when I realize this person was seriously playing games with me.

  • @GinjaNinja01
    @GinjaNinja01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After 23+ years of being 'gone'...and going through 5 kinds of Hell, now recovering on all fronts. I flatly could NOT care less about 'what' 'if' or anything else that they may think of me...they were HAUNTED before I turned up!! Karma WORKS!!!

  • @starclouds1536
    @starclouds1536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    You've changed my life! I wasent sure I was going to make it through until I found you. Blessings!!
    I know he was already a wrecked soul before...that won't change and its not my job to save his soul!!

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WE are they prize, they lost souls!!

  • @esthervidale7537
    @esthervidale7537 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Listen I am still in this situation and been in it or years. Trying to get out. Pray for me everyone.

  • @elcee7800
    @elcee7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was too honest by confessing my failures to him. He would NEVER EVER sympathize toward me. He would either tell me why it went wrong or use my failure as something learned for his benefit.

  • @naegarner
    @naegarner ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drop em & BLOCK EM 🚫 dead weight anchors ⚓🙄

  • @neicypickens3264
    @neicypickens3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I prayed and asked God to show me if my ex wasn't meant for me... Mann, I WAS NOT READY..... make sure you're ready to receive confirmation when you wanna know something, be safe my. People ❤️

    • @anthonyjohnson5647
      @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honey, glad did you a favor. Be strong hun.

    • @anthonyjohnson5647
      @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissist are horcrux for the devil.

    • @anthonyjohnson5647
      @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful video and audio quality. Thank you very much, your channel have helped me so much.

    • @neicypickens3264
      @neicypickens3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anthonyjohnson5647 you too❤️

    • @tru3g3mini44
      @tru3g3mini44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes.. I asked the same thing and days later I called his phone only for him to mistakenly answer and heard another women in the background.. OH BABY THEY WAS HAVING A GREAT TIME FROM WHAT I COULD HEAR!! I just thank God for it!! Yes!! I WAS READY FOR CONFIRMATION!!🙏🏾

  • @JJ-dk1lr
    @JJ-dk1lr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Spirit energy doesn't lie.

  • @carmella6330
    @carmella6330 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so right a narcissist even when caught red handed, showing proof of their deception will never acknowledge. My ex narcissist when I confronted him simply replied by saying he’s not going to talk about that .

  • @mellissaprice63
    @mellissaprice63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I definitely can relate to this, never knew people could be this evil to the person that they came to love. So GLAD JESUS had me wrapped in his arms cause going through this almost gave me a NERVOUS BREAKDOWN, THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR GRACE AND MERCIES 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN,,SISTER, Me 2, U r #Not the only one 🎉

  • @SaturatedInLoveTarot
    @SaturatedInLoveTarot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Just saw your ex wife’s interview and as an empath - I just have to say CONGRATULATIONS Brother, for making out and helping educate so many. 🌹 *sending love*

    • @ssj4dap
      @ssj4dap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. Personally, it was disturbing to watch.

    • @srodz924
      @srodz924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where can I view the interview?

    • @audriiiiroberts3030
      @audriiiiroberts3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@msdeivory so his wife was being abused, or that’s what she says happened? Wtf.

    • @the5thdim763
      @the5thdim763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@audriiiiroberts3030 link?

    • @4669Mikehines
      @4669Mikehines 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wheres the link

  • @tammiedixon6788
    @tammiedixon6788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I discovered as the Narcissist gets older they go back to the exact way they used to be when their Narcissism 1st kicked all the way in. They are violent full tilt with their so called significant other.

    • @diamondsstatefinancialsolu6198
      @diamondsstatefinancialsolu6198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Liikkkeeeee WWHHYYY?????????

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They seem to get angrier

    • @mildredwilkins5781
      @mildredwilkins5781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@diamondsstatefinancialsolu6198 wouldn't you be angry if you realized you had thrown away you whole life? Lying? hiding? decreasing? They're in continual turmoil. I can't imagine.

  • @MrNikhilgherwar
    @MrNikhilgherwar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are waste of time!

  • @awakened2bme761
    @awakened2bme761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Funny thing is I wasn't even in a relationship with them🤔

  • @meshleesimpsoncool
    @meshleesimpsoncool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    wow never would have seen this perspective. thanks. makes sense why most of them die alone from heart attacks

  • @nellyalier-pina3444
    @nellyalier-pina3444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This video helped me so much.. specially today when I got that infamous text “ I still love you .. I always will” ... it threw me out of balance.. I was asking myself.. why? Why can’t he forget about us and keep living? But here’s my answer.. thank you.

  • @TheMoonGlitters
    @TheMoonGlitters 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wait what, they confess what them did to us to Someone Else? Ouch :/

  • @lotuswarrior8843
    @lotuswarrior8843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    NARCS never seen none like you CHAMP ! ^^

  • @hannahforsyth5551
    @hannahforsyth5551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don'y believe they walk around with any burdens because they really DON'T care. They use you, they are deceitful and move on as though you never existed.

  • @brittanygrady7371
    @brittanygrady7371 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Narc's have no boundaries. No cut card.

  • @randiallen5652
    @randiallen5652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you again Hario for EVERYTHING YOU DO! You literally save lives! WE ARE WINNING❤

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Good Video Harieo. When us empaths come clean about our faults, we don't have to continue to suffer, becase we've come clean. But narcissists, are full of pride, and other evil spirits.👺 They would go to there graves not acknowledging, or admitting to us their cruelitys they've done to us empaths.💞🕊

  • @deniseharris1194
    @deniseharris1194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They don't want to live right and the enjoy hurting others

  • @maryhiggins8978
    @maryhiggins8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You’re more than absolutely right. I figured out my situation out on my own by just watching and listening to him talk his words were a lot different than his actions so I told him not to call me again ever and I met it💃🏿💃🏿💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @davidjthayer7417
    @davidjthayer7417 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look for the ambiguity ......
    It reveals their Ambivalence !!!

  • @sylvialuna6791
    @sylvialuna6791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I failed.. 😔 I replied to a hoover and there I was in the middle of reuniting with my ex narc. After 2 wks.He suddenly did a 180 and started to be ugly,mean to me.Worse than before.I felt as if he was punishing me for being apart for 3 months. I started to feel confusion and self doubt, worthless. 😥💔How could I be so blinded 😓I then immediately ended it.I changed my number.Im so angry at myself for falling for his lies
    😠 Don't make my mistake.do not reply.They will never change..God sees and knows everything.✝️ You are 💯 .I pressed the override.. 😞Thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏 💯💯💯💯💯.

    • @crystalrichardson1627
      @crystalrichardson1627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      After 8 years off and on with my narc ex I did the same thing. He just started a new relationship after I last spoke with him 4 weeks ago. He's started hoovering on my business fb the last 2 weeks. I've been preparing myself to receive a call. I will be no contact. Don't feel bad, you know now he won't change.

  • @kerrymetcalfe2737
    @kerrymetcalfe2737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah he's in hospital alone right now!! New supply gone & I got rid 18 months ago

  • @kekewalker5776
    @kekewalker5776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wowwwwwwwwwww... this hits hommmmeeee for meeeee!!!! I needed this tonight. God bless 🙌🏽

  • @veda1306
    @veda1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All of our spirits and gut instinct was kicking off but we all hanging in on hope of happiness.

  • @aboriginaleveything
    @aboriginaleveything 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you hario! Mine eyes have been opened to the abuse I suffered at the hands of my ex narc. I'm going on six months no contact, I took her back once but never again! When I took her back it was three years of hell and torment. She literally came back to destroy me and I almost didn't make it. She took pleasure watching me suffer from the abuse she was dishing out. Now I'm dealing with the rumination and I also feel like I'm being watched by her.

    • @Kishanrrr
      @Kishanrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same problems happening here no going back 😭😭

    • @marcusmitchell2364
      @marcusmitchell2364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same thing happened to me... you will heal and you will move on bro... stay positive... stay productive!!!

    • @ssj4dap
      @ssj4dap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same story my friend. Glad to see you in this space, gaining some clarity. 7 months, no contact. The best place I've been, in the 20 years of knowing this narc

    • @anthonyjohnson5647
      @anthonyjohnson5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Run, if you have to run to the edge of the universe, please do. Get away from a narcissist.

  • @delphicmemories5722
    @delphicmemories5722 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I listen to your videos I feel like I'm talking to my Big Brother.❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @donnasmith2436
    @donnasmith2436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea the only time mines were happy when he calls with bad news about somebody.

  • @KM-oy5yh
    @KM-oy5yh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r talking #DIRECTLY about my #VERY wicked #VOODOO PRIESTESS Mother🎉

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes they can be notorious for fakeness

  • @ghettoparadiseproductionsl8294
    @ghettoparadiseproductionsl8294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when a narc receives their karma most will get sick from burden and thats gonna make people believe the pandemic is true

  • @reginahohman750
    @reginahohman750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The worst part is some of your peers will side with the narcissist they play the poor little wayward person who had it so hard.

  • @oldwhitedude69
    @oldwhitedude69 ปีที่แล้ว

    They never get over anyone. All the people the narc did nasty things with behind your back will always have access to them. You need to get out of that nasty box they put you in and stay out.

  • @laurasanders266
    @laurasanders266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are right. He would never be truthful and the evidence is in their face

  • @MadeInTheStruggleProgram
    @MadeInTheStruggleProgram 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is his best video of all time… THe og is just wit id - SPeaking the Gods language

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know this for a fact the spirit told me to leave it Surely did ; but I didn’t listen n why did i do that . They stole money , cheated even more , and the lies was unstoppable. I went back n prayed to GOD n asked him for another chance with the spirit within me to let him speak again and I promise to GOD I will listen . GOD answered my prayers n I got out n didn’t look back n when I tell you my life has done a 360 turn for the better I’m telling you . If I had 10,000 tongues GOD I couldn’t thank you enough for what you have n continue to do for me . Glory to you GOD n the name of JESUS Christ hallelujah .

  • @oneliveoaks2185
    @oneliveoaks2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My narcs devalue and smear campaigns for me backfire on him and he lost his flying monkeys because his mask come off after I turned him down and refused entertain him after I found out he cheated.

  • @chilo597
    @chilo597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is happy...im in utter despare. His life is always Lucky.

  • @sandralindsay9739
    @sandralindsay9739 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so right..How often did I press that over ride button when my spirit said ro leave that mess alone! I did not pray for discernment when entering the relationship..it wasn't until I asked God ro reveal things & I wanted out that I saw that narc mask slip!! It was horrible...a nightmare!!

  • @latoyahodges4962
    @latoyahodges4962 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex is a narcissist. He asked me to drive him to the mall to buy his mother some shoes for Christmas. Once we arrived. He gave me the money to buy them at Dillard's. Later I found out by his cousin that the shoes were for another woman that he was cheating with on me. I confronted him about it and he lied right in my face. I told him he was low down and dirty. Karma is going to eat you up. I left him. He moved in with the female. Now she's telling ppl he's a bomb and a trick roommate that pays her bills.

  • @lisabrown6280
    @lisabrown6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hario, this video topic was meant for me today. Thank God. Thank you. Peace to whomever reads this and has been heartbroken by a narcissist. I am praying for you all. Hang in there.

  • @rockets4life701
    @rockets4life701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    New here.. this dude is the real deal.. he keeps it real and simple.. this is his calling, to help ppl in need of answers and ppl who needs to hear things in a different perspective to get them through their day, month year.. we appreciate u

  • @genievefrancis2110
    @genievefrancis2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are right he cross the way I pass and look at me head to toe but never speak ...

  • @kay-leepanda3732
    @kay-leepanda3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So powerful!!! I thought he couldn't let me go because he loved me...Silly me, I know better now xx thank you

  • @nissmone9598
    @nissmone9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We have the peace that transcends all understanding

  • @Adam____________________
    @Adam____________________ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How is so many people not liking these videos? Hario is putting in mad work and a like is so simple, think about it, it’s the least we can do!! 🧡

    • @seedofisrael1356
      @seedofisrael1356 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always say this when I click the video that’s the first thing I do, so I don’t forget.

  • @dawncemberwillis3766
    @dawncemberwillis3766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank You for these videos, very helpful. I finally let my narcissist go. Haven't been with him since 2016. Basically, I started talking crazy to him, going into character on him and guy got turned off. This man will wait a year or two and tries to reconnect again with me and I repeat my cycle with him, talk crazy, act crazy. This actually helps me to perfect my craft of acting.

  • @brittanigay89
    @brittanigay89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me ex-narcissist husband told the new supply EVERYTHING about me! But never confessed anything to me ever!!! I’m running and never looking back!!!

  • @indiairby7732
    @indiairby7732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never write comments but I Believe everything in life happens for a reason and in this moment it was meant for me to hear this message putting a Narc behind me for good. This was such good advice thank you

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you could be right. i literally watched 2 family members catch cancer. 1 passed away from it. Narcs get sick faster when they get older. Stress and anger affects you physically.

  • @markmarine9453
    @markmarine9453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was with a narcissist for 14 years and have kids with her. I realized the more I would bring up trying to resolve the things done to me it got worse and literally tried destroying my life from every angle. I'm in recovery stage rebuilding

  • @Chosenaire
    @Chosenaire ปีที่แล้ว

    My intuition told me twice not to marry him but unhealed me didn’t listen. I have repented since and I asked God to help me break that unGodly soul tie.

  • @kathleenkirby2904
    @kathleenkirby2904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'M ALSO NOT GOING TO BE USED AS SUPPLY. AND .. THEN PUT ON A SHELF .. FOR HIS NEEDS .. WHEN HE DECIDES TO COME BACK! I THINK HIS LIFESTYLE .. IS SICK & CRAZY! I CAN'T BELIEVE PEOPLE LIVE LIKE THAT! I FIND HIM REPULSIVE .. DISGUSTING & OUT OF CONTROL! WHATEVER BAD COMES TO HIM .. HE DESERVES! IT'S PAYBACK FROM THE UNIVERSE .. FOR THE WAY HE TREATED ME! IF HE'S NOT GOING TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY & RESPONSIBILITY .. FOR HIS ACTIONS .. KARMA WILL MAKE HIM! GOOD RIDDANCE .. TO HIM!!!

  • @terribryant7699
    @terribryant7699 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yup hit override 😢never again cut cut cut!! Go TOTAL Blackout ladies! No contact he can’t find me and Ive never been happier 😊

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤You are helping me on my healing journey after 12 years of this abuse

  • @AkosuaBoateng2290
    @AkosuaBoateng2290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thank God for giving me the courage to get rid of my burden. After going no contact for 6 years, I graduated this year from college which he had prevented me from going. What great revenge! The no contact really works, it's a matter of time and you will be fine.

  • @celene2016
    @celene2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amen to this I'll always win in front of my enemies 😇

  • @bekind7913
    @bekind7913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was difficult to listen to because every word you said was exactly what I went through with my narc. I kept hitting the reset button for years before something just clicked and I made the decision that I had enough. You are correct in the brutal truth that they never change.

    • @SilentFigure1
      @SilentFigure1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was told sharing too much but this man triggers me to feel like sharing. He is for real.

  • @stasiacollins8285
    @stasiacollins8285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Has anyone else been bombarded with the question: "See what you made me do?" ???
    I remember being yelled at like a stray dog taking a pee on Christmas dinner for spilling a bit of coffee. When I went to get a paper towel to wipe up the mess, I was yelled at for "wasting his supplies and money". He fully justified this hour long tirade of berating me because "I made him mad" by spilling some coffee. This is an extremely minor example of what happened almost daily. But wondering, has anyone else experienced this complete lack of accountability and actually blamed for the abuse?

  • @christinekisso8358
    @christinekisso8358 ปีที่แล้ว

    it is what it is some people never want peace

  • @bigmetal...6877
    @bigmetal...6877 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    SO, so true.. amen and, amen... thank you for your share you blessed us/ me with...

  • @mariajacobs7512
    @mariajacobs7512 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex narc found out that I was thinking he is a narcissist and first he admitted it "oh i know i have my narcissistic tendencies" in order to get me back, and later on he was like "I can't believe you think I'm a narcissist. Would a narc do this and that.." he NEVER would admit he is a narcissist even tho that was clear as day. He started going to therapy and I don't think that has helped a bit. Sometimes I question my own judgement, what if I was wrong about him. But then again I go back to those moments when he treated me with absolutely no empathy at all. He'd just watch me collapse and cry and go crazy and I could see from his face that he was enjoying it. After that he'd cry I'm sorry I'm sorry

  • @King_prodz476
    @King_prodz476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am two weeks out of my 4 year relationship with my Narcissist. He did a number on me. We went three days no contact he showed up at my place at 230am walks in walks in my room. Tells me he loves me baby I love you. Started ripping my pants off and beating the crap
    Out of me. Why? Because I started telling people who he is. I pressed charges we now have a restraining order and he is facing 3 felonies. He has destroyed me who
    I am as a person. I was belittled everyday we were together. Told I was fat. Nothing. For 3 yrs of our relationship I endured this from him. He wouldn’t let me leave him. But he would tell people I won’t let him leave. I have told him go walk out the door I don’t care. He never would. He cheated on me so much. Lied even when I caught him. He ended up knocking a girl up. While we were together he just found out it was in fact his as she had 3 other guys besides him. She’s due anytime. He is now with her was trying to be with her and still acting like we were together. He told
    Me she doesn’t love me??! What! It was a one night stand basically why would she. I need advice on what why. He hasn’t reached out because of the restraining order. I don’t want him too. I’m done. We had so much chemistry and a strong attraction to each other. But he had that with every woman who showed his a bit of attention. But I was his main supply. He owned me, he would say. Everyday. If he sees me with anyone else he will kill me and them. I am his. I am recovering and starting counseling tomorrow actually. I need to find who I really am because he took her from me.

  • @kuduyudu
    @kuduyudu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    39 years- terrible- she eventually convinced me I was/am a mistake.The mother of my 4 children. But I’m out now - running