Part of the narcissist's game is they expect you to care, but they don't have to care at all... and if you don't act like you care in exactly they way they think you should, that is justification to punish you for not reading their minds. Then you get gaslit to think that you can't do anything right and you should feel bad about yourself.
My ex said you can't leave me. Don't leave. My birthday wouldn't be the same...it was a week before his bday. I'm like bday? So you don't need me everyday? They're completely unreal...selfish, childish and cold ah
@@fuliviacannady7703Mine ghosted me after 1 year of dating… Unlike the many times before, I didn’t chase… he had his sister reach out (Hoover by proxy) to invite me to his bday dinner… I told her no, and that he & I no longer date (he had been telling them I was just a friend 🤦♀️) … 1 week later, I woke up to 4 back to back emails from him stating that I broke his heart, I didn’t reply… 2 days later, he had another sister reach out to me stating that he was crying because I don’t talk to him and he doesn’t know why 😳😂 Despite ghosting me while I was in vacation and it was NYE, his main theme of his email was that I didn’t tell him happy birthday and the reason I didn’t come to his dinner is probably because I didn’t want to buy him gifts. Like really, dude? After 1 year of dating, all you can think about is gifts?! Honestly, good riddance to narcissists and people of their ilk ! 💗
Thank you 🙏 Dave. Silence, deafening silence and render them irrelevant. Respect the dead and take time to grieve for the empty self and empty soul who once stood before you behind a mask. Heal. Rebuild. Evolve from the lessons learned and Armor Up for the… New beginning! New chapter! New YOU! But beware… New levels, new devils! Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
My ex narc was completely against being married , and lord thank you for not letting me jump into that lake of fire. We never had kids together either. So I guess I was blessed enough not to have those hooks sunk into me.
The narcissist reminds me of California: they put on this aire of living like life is all beautiful beaches with Mitch Buchanan running down from his rescue tower to save some beautiful voluptuous blonde with big blue eyes, and fall in love and live happily ever after in their Malibu gatehouse overlooking the beach. But once the mask slips, we see a mind that's corrupted and is as violent and filthy as the armies of tweakers and homeless relieving themselves out in the streets, and recently sat an interstate freeway overpass on fire, with their filthy camp, etc, while doing their drugs. The reality is a thousands of miles different from the image they display.
I’ve had a life tormented by narcissists!! These people were in church! It’s very hard, God removes them from my life. I’m fine at home with my sweet puppy!
Omg the zit!!! Ok my ex female narcissist “best friend” used to do that to me all the time! She named my pimples “garbuncles” she made fun of how big my lips are, how big my butt is, the gap in my teeth, she always threw shade on the sly. And I just laughed it off for 25 years! She was a horrible person, and the biggest floozy I’ve ever seen. I was too codependent to walk away for all of those years. Thank God I’ve been delivered 🙌🔥
I've had narcissists in my life since I started dating. I have an absent father and narcissist mother so the devil used narcissists to break me down. He knew i was searching for the love of a parent desperately. I did not know the devil does this until your videos. I have never been able to get out of this cycle until recently. I finally realized the only way to save myself is to follow God and begin loving myself the way I loved these narcissists. I feel I received the Holy Ghost when I made this decision. Your channel has brought so much knowledge and helped me break away the chains. Thank you!!
Image is everything to them. They come into our lives polished and kind hearted, everything that you want them to be. And you think to yourself, " how did I get so lucky?' When really they were "wolves in sheeps clothing". Behind closed doors and away from their audience, it was the opposite. I was ignored for days, sometimes weeks on end and when the rage fit hit, called some horrible names. Like a fool i stayed, hoping he would change. I cried up to God and prayed...."what's wrong with him?" What am I to do? After years of trying to figure them out, you finally see their true colours and begin to question things....that's your downfall in their eyes "boundaries and questions", how dare you question their "super hero status". I heard God tell me very clearly in my spirit, "you need to identify the enemy" and I knew there and then that I was in a spiritual battle for my life. I look forward to your videos and words of wisdom and the power of hearing you say those words, "go to the throne" - you make such a huge difference in all of our lives, helping us to understand and heal from this brutal experience. God bless you and thank you! 🙏
Narcs do nothing with the heart; great line! If we remember nothing else, that simple truth will help keep you steady! 3+ months, finally out of longterm toxic-ship battle! Finally, I was the one who was done and going to the throne is truly the only way! Love your intense videos, Dave, thank you for continuing to speak God's truth!
You’re doing a fantastic job and I just wanted to thank you David. That evil spirit you speak of is the spirit of Jezebel. Im I’m at the end of a divorce after 10years of Narcissistic behaviors. Pure evil. Attempting to convince my family I was suicidal and then brought guns into the house which I’ve never owed and despise. Your speaking to one of the few that listened to that voice and protected myself best I could. Thank again I learn from every one of your videos. God Bless You.
Good video Dave. God bless you. Yes, the narcissist did not get the memo that says "Love is patient" and true love is. That's the kind of love God gives us. But because the narcissist is wired different, it's sad that in all likelihood they'll never learn that, and because of this, they will suffer their whole lives being unfulfilled, and causing suffering to others.
You talking to me. It’s going on two weeks since I went no contact because he wasn’t treating me nice. I love myself way to much for that kind of treatment. The first week I started to feel sad, but week two I became stronger. Praying 🙏🏾 works wonders. God loves you
💯 Dave! You nailed it. 👏'The better you treat the narcissist, the worse they treat you back. Peace and security don't bring them supply; they want reaction'. Yes, you are doing God's work. I am a believer and what you're doing has been such a help and blessing in my healing journey. God bless you!
God bless you Dave, I had just been left by my covert Narc after 10 years, after years of devaluation. I was in the middle of a living hell, and one of your videos was in my TH-cam feed-You are important to the work of Christ-I love you Dave, and all of those who have suffered. Prayers for all victims of these demonic agents-Brandon
These videos seem to be made at the same time with every stage I'm living through. I'm gone for good because I've met another woman who gives me everything she couldn't and the narcissist has gone to level code red extreme. She wants to talk about nothing meaningful just to keep up some level of communication when she knows I'm eating dinner with my girlfriend and children. I told my girlfriend that the narcissist is just like napalm... my body's burning but I can't wash her off. If my daughter's narcissistic mother can't understand why I don't want anything to do with her then she obviously never understood the damage she caused. Thanks Dave.
So glad to see a narcissist TH-camr discussing and bringing in the principalities of this world and god ❤❤❤ That’s what it is and the world labels it narcissism It’s fascinating and I could talk for hours about this subject. I absolutely love helping people to see the nonsense of narcs cause once you see the game you don’t know they’re playing it’s easily beatable like you can easily beat them at there game 😂
Taylor Swift wrote a song called "Anti-Hero" in which she acknowledges her covert narcissism and says, "Hi, it's me. I'm the problem" (kudos to her for admitting it). I guess she lost her superhero status. There is so much narcissism in song lyrics.
Are you really going with Taylor swift lyrics? A 5 year old could write her songs. Go listen to a real writer like Bob Dylan. Go listen to the Blood on the Tracks record. There are lyric books of his songs. "I gave her my heart, but she wanted my soul".
Amen Dave I look forward to your videos! God has placed you in our paths to clean those thoughts the narc stained dirty! Thank you! 😊🙏🏽 currently sitting under Gods protection!
I had a dream when I first met my narcissist partner, I had no idea what a narcissist was at that time, and had no idea of the gravity of that dream message. The dream was as follows. I was in a room with only one window and no door, I was standing in the middle of the room looking out of that window, with my new partner draped over my back, his arms were hanging down over my shoulders and draped loosely down my front. I was able to see that he was fast asleep, the weight of him was making my legs feel like they would crumble, my legs were shaking, it was so difficult to hold that dead weight! After coming out the other side of that relationship, in hindsight, I now fully comprehend what that dream was trying to tell me. Just want to add that you are so accurate with your knowledge about narcissists and their behaviours, thanks Dave!
Love this message. I’m so glad I came across it. I’m free from a narcissistic marriage praise God! My ending from it is ptsd but I claim healing in Jesus name
My ex was the golden child. He smashed my two of my ribs with one powerful punch and went to jail. His parents came IMMEDIATELY to collect his things from my house when I was discharged from hospital. His mother sat on my bed, ignoring the huge amount of pain I was in, and begged me to drop the assault charges! “He’s my son!” She cried. “And I’m someone’s daughter too” I said to her in disbelief. “Now please leave”. When my ex was released from jail three months later he contacted me furious about how I had “treated” his mother, and told me that I had blown my chances with his family and they would never forgive me.
This literally happened to me - weeks after we got married (after being inseperable for almost 8 years), he was gone. He moved 1200 miles away to start a new life with the new supply and her kids (left me and his teenage daughter like we were trash). He used me to get his CDL (I paid all the bills while he went away for the training; this was the only way he would he able to do that). About 3 years after he got his CDL, we got married, and then he was gone. This was 5 years ago. So far, he has not tried coming back. I exposed him to everyone who asked me what happened, and showed them proof. I hope he stays gone, but I'm certain he's a narc, because a normal person would NOT do this to somebody - he has zero empathy, remorse, and blames everyone else for his problems. He will probably try to return in 10-20 years is my guess... let him try, he will be sorely disappointed 😂😂😂
Damn !!!! He really hit the nail on the head about the therapist. My ex narc would go to her councilor and would tell them all these horrible things about me when none of it was true. Actually it was my ex who was guilty of the same things she told the councilor about me. Needless to say , she really turned the councilor against me and upheld her bullshit. That’s another reason , of many , that I’m just done with this woman.
I love that! Not on my watch! I always say that. One of the last things I said to my Narcissist when he was sitting next to me, I said loneliest place on earth is when I am sitting next to you. He really didn’t like that.
Hey Dave I’ve just had a phone call from one of my wife’s friends asking me to go round and fix the water pressure on the heating system as our child is cold !! I haven’t spoke to my wife for 10 weeks and moved out 14 weeks ago is this a Hoover?? I haven’t went round I’ve told her friend to google how you do it as it’s not my problem anymore and if she can’t get it working I will pick our child up and take her to mine where it’s warm
I finally ended our friendship and walked away. Then I was asked to forgive her, she offered to have a responsible adult conversation 😂 I told her that she is forgiven and that she must stay away from me. I also told her exactly who she is and it made her panic. I just forgave her for my sake because God forgave me. However, this woman’s character is is in the toilet and it blew me away. Good riddance
Somtimes there are no words Dave.... Just the need to listen. Listening to you is like reading a page out of my book of life and its not an easy read sometimes. Faithfull are the wounds of a friend. Im taking the medicine brother, but it tastes horrible 😅
You hit the nail right on 16 years and she needed some time to get herself together.. lol find out she was talking to her first boyfriend..he is married and he gave her a car and she just told me it was a gift from her friend..lol what a joke ..now why I’m I suffering.trauma bonded ..it’s real
Hi Dave, I want to thank you for your ministry. Your messages have given me the courage and understanding to escape my life with the narcissist. We had been married 19 years and have 7 children together. He was removed from the home last February and will be facing a court hearing in 3 months. I want ti share one experience that stands out to me. About a year ago, we were in a restaurant and I was quite taken in with a painting on the wall and a young couple who was enjoying a romantic meal. My narcissistic ex had glanced over at me and I could see almost disbelief in his eyes that I was filled with hope and awe of wonderful things. He had me so beaten down that I was hardly living anymore. I have He is a religious covert narcissist. The Lord has now set me free. Praise God!
I watch your video for the very first time. First time ever I knew anything about narcissist, but your video brought so much peace and understanding. It freed me from all the illusion, that this individual was my person.
5:55 I started therapy, then realized my now ex-wife was a big part of the problem- though I had no idea at the time about narcissism or personality disorders. I brought the narc in, the therapist bonded with the narc and the two of them took turns attacking me - they beat me down like tag-team wrestling. This went on for months, I think the therapist enjoyed it but I also thought I was the bad one- even when the ex wouldn't come home at night. I had a pretty good idea where she was and I didn't care in the slightest that she was having an affair. I was happy when she wasn't home. The only helpful thing the therapist did was ask a simple question, "Are you willing to fix this relationship?" I took a long pause, narc was sitting right beside me... It was like a lightbulb went off. I said, "No. This can't be fixed if she thinks I'm the only one at fault." We stopped therapy that day, stayed together for another year or so. Narc was unbearable, it got to the point if I asked if she wanted vanilla or chocolate she'd fly into a RAGE.. always screaming with her high-pitched shrill voice. Worst therapist ever- she should have had her license revoked. Totally unprofessional.
I think about it like this Dave. If you think about it. How can you leave a relationship that you were currently in with looking for someone else behind your partner's back leaving in a heartless way and believe that your in love with someone else? Just doesn't make any sense too me. If you leave someone like that very high chances are that they will do the same thing to the next person. Once they get bored or offended. That's why it's good to be alone and heal and process things. That's where God wants you for the time being so you can slam the door in that narc's face! Goodbye! Nice try!!!
Thank you so much for making these videos. I feel you are definitely talking to me. God Bless you! I read the comments and you are helping so many people.
I was slow to perceive that marriage meant nothing to my narrcisist. It took me 15 years to realize that our marriage was to her a business arrangement where I was to generate the bulk of the revenue, and she was to be in control of it. The discard phase of three years ended when I said I was taking over the finances. She'd found new supply and was obviously cheating. But she stuck around with me for the money. Once I took control of that away, she filed for divorce.
14 Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch. "Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man." Matthew 15 KJV
God Lord Jesus is the ultimate detox from the venom a narcissist puts in you. Thank the Lord! Everyday for setting me free! Not scared to say it! If not for Jesus I would be still blinded getting cheated on used and abused! God said no longer! He didn't want the narcissist to partake in the blessing's he had for me. Things are going so well for me now that I repented for putting her over him. You see you really can make someone a idol and don't even know it. Thank you Jesus! 🙏🏾❤️
When we separated I heard through a mutual friends he was having nightmares and I was having dreams too but more like revelation I trully believe God's angels were fighting his deamons. The 3rd party was in shock as she head both our deams the same day she knw something was happening in the sprit realm. Yeras before The Father sent me a messengers who told me i had a lot of light and to be careful he didn't quenche that light i didn't understand it and the messenger seemed concerned but I left agitated bcs i couldn't understand anything around me. Years later reading Isahia 60 i finally understand it. God is SO good 😭😭😭😭 eventhough we don't deserve it even whilst we doing wrong HE is protecting us and doing everything to wake us up ❤❤❤
Thank you Dave! You reallllly spoke to me in this one. Ex threatened suicide on the 11th after I told him I was repairing my relationship with God. I have a lot of praying to do because he is an atheist and thought I had denounced God. I'd told him years ago that I was spiritual; not into church but believed Jesus died for us. God bless all of us
5:46 therapy makes them worse, and not in a normal way, they become worse by being better able to mimick and fake. Taking a narcissist to therapy is worse than all the Mrs B traits combined would do to a Mrs B
You said rages are demons. Rages are not always demons. An empath can rage, and rage often, because of the sheer pain they have been in for far too long; and prolonged injustice can cause a rage. We are all just humans, after all. Anger can come from right premises as well as evil premises. God gets angry. The difference is, the empath or Christian will repent and ask God for forgiveness. The narc or psycho has no compunction. God looks at the motivation behind the rage. Thanks for your videos, though. I do really appreciate them. :)
Dave a read a book called the Muslim narcissist! And wow is it eye opening! The narc I dealt with is Muslim and they are sooo bad because they are ok with the having several covenants , wife’s and girlfriends A B AND C’s all in the same house. SMH! They are definitely cursed
Ugh once the weeds in their crops start to uncover them , it's disgusting 🫣 to see the truth. It's almost like a slug in human form, empty from the neck down , they are only brain aware for any type of emotions or thinking their next move to try to destroy the next victim , even in families their is no limit to these slugs, I pray for them and I forgive them this is for ME, they have the choice to make the right choice , I have made a one way ride to Arizona 🎉 in fact I will arrive there tomorrow!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 going to God country and I made that big leap ! The walking dead and slugs ( narcs) stand no chance I made the correct CHOICE!! FREEDOM!
The golden rule Dave , we can obey it or we can break it , dismiss it discard it dont be so easily decieved ! As , thats choosing delusion , This hit me Dave ; He that letteth , will let , until taken out of the way ? 🤔 Hmmmm ? God is letting them throw it away ! We had Rememberance day this past weekend , guess what , no prayers at rememberance day services , but now its a official long weekend? Self interest , though its in our best self imterest to serve , of their own volition they chose to serve .self ! To honor men not God , He they refise to serve , those two witness the old and new testament , have been cast out to die in the street ! We do not hope in vain , and putting our trust, and confidence in Him He is showing us if isnt in vain ! Amen God Bless and huide you Dave all of us as these are some real dark days ! Agape ! Unfair , as though my world came to a cruel end , that was them , mot He , and what they meant for evil , He is using for good ! They that demand theor right , ate only looking to fight , chaos destruction, they can't get enough of it !
Please Dave tell me how do you go to the throne? Do you mean early morning prayer and devotions? Please do a video on how to go to the throne. Thank you.
As someone that’s gone out and dated non stop for almost 40 years i can tell you this. It’s all about expectations. Women these days are good for 1 thing. If you expect anything other than that I don’t care how much time you spend alone with your one eyed trouser dragon. You’re going to be severely disappointed and let down. Accept reality pump em n dump em n be happy
Part of the narcissist's game is they expect you to care, but they don't have to care at all... and if you don't act like you care in exactly they way they think you should, that is justification to punish you for not reading their minds. Then you get gaslit to think that you can't do anything right and you should feel bad about yourself.
Excellent observation 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Amen this is true
So true!!
True
Sorry to make a joke here. But it just sounds like you’re describing a woman going through her period or menopause.
My Narc hoovered and told me he missed me on his arm. Shallow words...what about my heart and soul? Superficial ppl. Subhuman.
i miss you! lol but hello sorry ur going thru this.
they're a.i.'s legit
Amen, thank you in Jesus name!!!
My ex said you can't leave me. Don't leave. My birthday wouldn't be the same...it was a week before his bday. I'm like bday? So you don't need me everyday? They're completely unreal...selfish, childish and cold ah
@@fuliviacannady7703Mine ghosted me after 1 year of dating… Unlike the many times before, I didn’t chase… he had his sister reach out (Hoover by proxy) to invite me to his bday dinner… I told her no, and that he & I no longer date (he had been telling them I was just a friend 🤦♀️) … 1 week later, I woke up to 4 back to back emails from him stating that I broke his heart, I didn’t reply… 2 days later, he had another sister reach out to me stating that he was crying because I don’t talk to him and he doesn’t know why 😳😂
Despite ghosting me while I was in vacation and it was NYE, his main theme of his email was that I didn’t tell him happy birthday and the reason I didn’t come to his dinner is probably because I didn’t want to buy him gifts.
Like really, dude? After 1 year of dating, all you can think about is gifts?! Honestly, good riddance to narcissists and people of their ilk ! 💗
Thank you 🙏 Dave.
Silence, deafening silence and render them irrelevant.
Respect the dead and take time to grieve for the empty self and empty soul who once stood before you behind a mask.
Heal. Rebuild. Evolve from the lessons learned and Armor Up for the…
New beginning!
New chapter!
New YOU!
But beware…
New levels, new devils!
Stay alert!
Stay alive!
Stay strong!
Peace ✌️
Yes!!!!!! I’m screenshotting these words!!!!
Humans are terrible regardless of narcissism or not
@@CitiesOfAsh not all!
Choosing your pain, sometimes you gotta let your heart break so your soul can heal❤
Thank you Dave!
My ex narc was completely against being married , and lord thank you for not letting me jump into that lake of fire. We never had kids together either. So I guess I was blessed enough not to have those hooks sunk into me.
When you answered you're calling.. you started SAVING people. Amen 🙏🏾 many are called few are chosen.
The narcissist reminds me of California: they put on this aire of living like life is all beautiful beaches with Mitch Buchanan running down from his rescue tower to save some beautiful voluptuous blonde with big blue eyes, and fall in love and live happily ever after in their Malibu gatehouse overlooking the beach.
But once the mask slips, we see a mind that's corrupted and is as violent and filthy as the armies of tweakers and homeless relieving themselves out in the streets, and recently sat an interstate freeway overpass on fire, with their filthy camp, etc, while doing their drugs.
The reality is a thousands of miles different from the image they display.
I’ve had a life tormented by narcissists!! These people were in church! It’s very hard, God removes them from my life. I’m fine at home with my sweet puppy!
I am getting it now...finally. please don't stop ever doing these podcasts they have helped me more than you will ever know thank you Dave
Yes ma'am
Dave it always gives me goosebumps when you say “You have to go to The Throne”! I know the goose bumps are The Holy Ghost!
Amen!
Amen!
Omg the zit!!! Ok my ex female narcissist “best friend” used to do that to me all the time! She named my pimples “garbuncles” she made fun of how big my lips are, how big my butt is, the gap in my teeth, she always threw shade on the sly. And I just laughed it off for 25 years! She was a horrible person, and the biggest floozy I’ve ever seen. I was too codependent to walk away for all of those years. Thank God I’ve been delivered 🙌🔥
I've had narcissists in my life since I started dating. I have an absent father and narcissist mother so the devil used narcissists to break me down. He knew i was searching for the love of a parent desperately. I did not know the devil does this until your videos. I have never been able to get out of this cycle until recently. I finally realized the only way to save myself is to follow God and begin loving myself the way I loved these narcissists. I feel I received the Holy Ghost when I made this decision. Your channel has brought so much knowledge and helped me break away the chains. Thank you!!
Image is everything to them. They come into our lives polished and kind hearted, everything that you want them to be. And you think to yourself, " how did I get so lucky?' When really they were "wolves in sheeps clothing". Behind closed doors and away from their audience, it was the opposite. I was ignored for days, sometimes weeks on end and when the rage fit hit, called some horrible names. Like a fool i stayed, hoping he would change. I cried up to God and prayed...."what's wrong with him?" What am I to do? After years of trying to figure them out, you finally see their true colours and begin to question things....that's your downfall in their eyes "boundaries and questions", how dare you question their "super hero status". I heard God tell me very clearly in my spirit, "you need to identify the enemy" and I knew there and then that I was in a spiritual battle for my life. I look forward to your videos and words of wisdom and the power of hearing you say those words, "go to the throne" - you make such a huge difference in all of our lives, helping us to understand and heal from this brutal experience. God bless you and thank you! 🙏
Narcs do nothing with the heart; great line! If we remember nothing else, that simple truth will help keep you steady! 3+ months, finally out of longterm toxic-ship battle! Finally, I was the one who was done and going to the throne is truly the only way! Love your intense videos, Dave, thank you for continuing to speak God's truth!
you lose everything with a narcissist
I'm a living witness
Yes. All the mind games
Praying for those struggling with blind sided court issues
This domestic violence, abuse, is totally out in the world now due to social media 🎉🎉
And people like Dave!❤
There is also an Abuse Awareness Day!🎉🎉🎉
You’re doing a fantastic job and I just wanted to thank you David. That evil spirit you speak of is the spirit of Jezebel. Im I’m at the end of a divorce after 10years of Narcissistic behaviors. Pure evil. Attempting to convince my family I was suicidal and then brought guns into the house which I’ve never owed and despise. Your speaking to one of the few that listened to that voice and protected myself best I could. Thank again I learn from every one of your videos. God Bless You.
I told IT, "Boy, the devil's got you but good!"
IT screamed at me:
"YOU ARE THE DEVIL!!!!!!!"" 😂😂
I got it … you have a wonderful way to explain with your examples. God did pull me away from my ex and everything you say is true
Good video Dave. God bless you. Yes, the narcissist did not get the memo that says "Love is patient" and true love is. That's the kind of love God gives us. But because the narcissist is wired different, it's sad that in all likelihood they'll never learn that, and because of this, they will suffer their whole lives being unfulfilled, and causing suffering to others.
You talking to me. It’s going on two weeks since I went no contact because he wasn’t treating me nice. I love myself way to much for that kind of treatment. The first week I started to feel sad, but week two I became stronger. Praying 🙏🏾 works wonders. God loves you
Going through the same. Good for you.
💯 Dave! You nailed it. 👏'The better you treat the narcissist, the worse they treat you back. Peace and security don't bring them supply; they want reaction'. Yes, you are doing God's work. I am a believer and what you're doing has been such a help and blessing in my healing journey. God bless you!
God bless you Dave, I had just been left by my covert Narc after 10 years, after years of devaluation. I was in the middle of a living hell, and one of your videos was in my TH-cam feed-You are important to the work of Christ-I love you Dave, and all of those who have suffered. Prayers for all victims of these demonic agents-Brandon
Good afternoon Dave and survivors cheers happy Monday got my ginger tea 😊
Love when you preach the power of the Holy Spirit - there is a difference between the before and the after of the outpouring for sure
These videos seem to be made at the same time with every stage I'm living through. I'm gone for good because I've met another woman who gives me everything she couldn't and the narcissist has gone to level code red extreme. She wants to talk about nothing meaningful just to keep up some level of communication when she knows I'm eating dinner with my girlfriend and children. I told my girlfriend that the narcissist is just like napalm... my body's burning but I can't wash her off. If my daughter's narcissistic mother can't understand why I don't want anything to do with her then she obviously never understood the damage she caused. Thanks Dave.
CONGRATULATIONS ON MEETING A GOOD WOMAN WHO TREATS YOU RIGHT.
So glad to see a narcissist TH-camr discussing and bringing in the principalities of this world and god ❤❤❤
That’s what it is and the world labels it narcissism It’s fascinating and I could talk for hours about this subject. I absolutely love helping people to see the nonsense of narcs cause once you see the game you don’t know they’re playing it’s easily beatable like you can easily beat them at there game 😂
Taylor Swift wrote a song called "Anti-Hero" in which she acknowledges her covert narcissism and says, "Hi, it's me. I'm the problem" (kudos to her for admitting it). I guess she lost her superhero status. There is so much narcissism in song lyrics.
Are you really going with Taylor swift lyrics? A 5 year old could write her songs.
Go listen to a real writer like Bob Dylan. Go listen to the Blood on the Tracks record.
There are lyric books of his songs.
"I gave her my heart, but she wanted my soul".
My narc was meeting people on those videogames.😢
Thank you for listening to your calling from Him! You have brought so much healing! I Love you brother! Praise God
Amen Dave I look forward to your videos! God has placed you in our paths to clean those thoughts the narc stained dirty! Thank you! 😊🙏🏽 currently sitting under Gods protection!
Amen
I had a dream when I first met my narcissist partner, I had no idea what a narcissist was at that time, and had no idea of the gravity of that dream message.
The dream was as follows.
I was in a room with only one window and no door, I was standing in the middle of the room looking out of that window, with my new partner draped over my back, his arms were hanging down over my shoulders and draped loosely down my front.
I was able to see that he was fast asleep, the weight of him was making my legs feel like they would crumble, my legs were shaking, it was so difficult to hold that dead weight!
After coming out the other side of that relationship, in hindsight, I now fully comprehend what that dream was trying to tell me.
Just want to add that you are so accurate with your knowledge about narcissists and their behaviours, thanks Dave!
Love this message. I’m so glad I came across it. I’m free from a narcissistic marriage praise God! My ending from it is ptsd but I claim healing in Jesus name
LOVE THE SOUND OF THAT COFFEE POUR DAVE.
Thank the Lord for opening my eyes and ears. I am married to a narc but the Lord is working out this situation. In the name of Jesus Christ
My ex was the golden child. He smashed my two of my ribs with one powerful punch and went to jail.
His parents came IMMEDIATELY to collect his things from my house when I was discharged from hospital. His mother sat on my bed, ignoring the huge amount of pain I was in, and begged me to drop the assault charges! “He’s my son!” She cried. “And I’m someone’s daughter too” I said to her in disbelief. “Now please leave”.
When my ex was released from jail three months later he contacted me furious about how I had “treated” his mother, and told me that I had blown my chances with his family and they would never forgive me.
I am so sorry for what you went through 💕 I also went through something similar but not the physical violence to that level.
Yes my narcissist out of the blue would say in a mini rage fit “ I will not beg for your love “
Go cold turkey this Thanksgiving!
I love you Jesus❤
God bless this channel.
Dave highlight this!!!!
This literally happened to me - weeks after we got married (after being inseperable for almost 8 years), he was gone. He moved 1200 miles away to start a new life with the new supply and her kids (left me and his teenage daughter like we were trash). He used me to get his CDL (I paid all the bills while he went away for the training; this was the only way he would he able to do that). About 3 years after he got his CDL, we got married, and then he was gone. This was 5 years ago. So far, he has not tried coming back. I exposed him to everyone who asked me what happened, and showed them proof. I hope he stays gone, but I'm certain he's a narc, because a normal person would NOT do this to somebody - he has zero empathy, remorse, and blames everyone else for his problems. He will probably try to return in 10-20 years is my guess... let him try, he will be sorely disappointed 😂😂😂
Damn !!!! He really hit the nail on the head about the therapist. My ex narc would go to her councilor and would tell them all these horrible things about me when none of it was true. Actually it was my ex who was guilty of the same things she told the councilor about me. Needless to say , she really turned the councilor against me and upheld her bullshit.
That’s another reason , of many , that I’m just done with this woman.
I love that! Not on my watch! I always say that. One of the last things I said to my Narcissist when he was sitting next to me, I said loneliest place on earth is when I am sitting next to you. He really didn’t like that.
Praise God!
My ex narcissist ghosted me for 3 months then got married
God bless and thank you. I need to remember that the most high should be my highest priority.
Hey Dave I’ve just had a phone call from one of my wife’s friends asking me to go round and fix the water pressure on the heating system as our child is cold !! I haven’t spoke to my wife for 10 weeks and moved out 14 weeks ago is this a Hoover?? I haven’t went round I’ve told her friend to google how you do it as it’s not my problem anymore and if she can’t get it working I will pick our child up and take her to mine where it’s warm
Stay strong
I finally ended our friendship and walked away. Then I was asked to forgive her, she offered to have a responsible adult conversation 😂 I told her that she is forgiven and that she must stay away from me. I also told her exactly who she is and it made her panic. I just forgave her for my sake because God forgave me. However, this woman’s character is is in the toilet and it blew me away. Good riddance
GOOD TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM HER.
Somtimes there are no words Dave.... Just the need to listen. Listening to you is like reading a page out of my book of life and its not an easy read sometimes.
Faithfull are the wounds of a friend. Im taking the medicine brother, but it tastes horrible 😅
You hit the nail right on 16 years and she needed some time to get herself together.. lol find out she was talking to her first boyfriend..he is married and he gave her a car and she just told me it was a gift from her friend..lol what a joke ..now why I’m I suffering.trauma bonded ..it’s real
Bless you. You are Loved and You are Worthy. I pray you find the strength to Leave. ❤❤❤
Hi Dave, I want to thank you for your ministry. Your messages have given me the courage and understanding to escape my life with the narcissist. We had been married 19 years and have 7 children together. He was removed from the home last February and will be facing a court hearing in 3 months. I want ti share one experience that stands out to me. About a year ago, we were in a restaurant and I was quite taken in with a painting on the wall and a young couple who was enjoying a romantic meal. My narcissistic ex had glanced over at me and I could see almost disbelief in his eyes that I was filled with hope and awe of wonderful things. He had me so beaten down that I was hardly living anymore. I have He is a religious covert narcissist. The Lord has now set me free. Praise God!
Thank you Happy Thanksgiving Jesus love you, Amen
I watch your video for the very first time. First time ever I knew anything about narcissist, but your video brought so much peace and understanding. It freed me from all the illusion, that this individual was my person.
5:55 I started therapy, then realized my now ex-wife was a big part of the problem- though I had no idea at the time about narcissism or personality disorders. I brought the narc in, the therapist bonded with the narc and the two of them took turns attacking me - they beat me down like tag-team wrestling. This went on for months, I think the therapist enjoyed it but I also thought I was the bad one- even when the ex wouldn't come home at night. I had a pretty good idea where she was and I didn't care in the slightest that she was having an affair. I was happy when she wasn't home. The only helpful thing the therapist did was ask a simple question, "Are you willing to fix this relationship?" I took a long pause, narc was sitting right beside me... It was like a lightbulb went off. I said, "No. This can't be fixed if she thinks I'm the only one at fault." We stopped therapy that day, stayed together for another year or so. Narc was unbearable, it got to the point if I asked if she wanted vanilla or chocolate she'd fly into a RAGE.. always screaming with her high-pitched shrill voice. Worst therapist ever- she should have had her license revoked. Totally unprofessional.
If a therapist doesn't know about cluster b then they are cluster b
I think about it like this Dave. If you think about it. How can you leave a relationship that you were currently in with looking for someone else behind your partner's back leaving in a heartless way and believe that your in love with someone else? Just doesn't make any sense too me. If you leave someone like that very high chances are that they will do the same thing to the next person. Once they get bored or offended. That's why it's good to be alone and heal and process things. That's where God wants you for the time being so you can slam the door in that narc's face! Goodbye! Nice try!!!
Thank you so much for making these videos. I feel you are definitely talking to me. God Bless you! I read the comments and you are helping so many people.
Wow, thank you
Hey Dave hope your well 👑
Thanks for your spiritual advice!
I was slow to perceive that marriage meant nothing to my narrcisist. It took me 15 years to realize that our marriage was to her a business arrangement where I was to generate the bulk of the revenue, and she was to be in control of it.
The discard phase of three years ended when I said I was taking over the finances. She'd found new supply and was obviously cheating. But she stuck around with me for the money. Once I took control of that away, she filed for divorce.
14 Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch. "Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man." Matthew 15 KJV
Dave your 💯 on point 🙌👑
God bless you Dave. Great video!
Just subscribed - your videos resonate highly, with me. I love authenticity, that’s all that matters to me. Thank you
Welcome aboard!
That was a really good pour Dave A++++
God Lord Jesus is the ultimate detox from the venom a narcissist puts in you. Thank the Lord! Everyday for setting me free! Not scared to say it! If not for Jesus I would be still blinded getting cheated on used and abused! God said no longer! He didn't want the narcissist to partake in the blessing's he had for me. Things are going so well for me now that I repented for putting her over him. You see you really can make someone a idol and don't even know it. Thank you Jesus! 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you, Dave for a speaking the truth!!
AMEN!!
When we separated I heard through a mutual friends he was having nightmares and I was having dreams too but more like revelation
I trully believe God's angels were fighting his deamons. The 3rd party was in shock as she head both our deams the same day she knw something was happening in the sprit realm.
Yeras before The Father sent me a messengers who told me i had a lot of light and to be careful he didn't quenche that light i didn't understand it and the messenger seemed concerned but I left agitated bcs i couldn't understand anything around me.
Years later reading Isahia 60 i finally understand it. God is SO good 😭😭😭😭 eventhough we don't deserve it even whilst we doing wrong HE is protecting us and doing everything to wake us up ❤❤❤
Well sir , you definitely earned my sub. Thanks for the straight forward information.
You are talking to someone. ty. Your faith in right on the money. I wont sit with the world but we must be in the world.
Happy Monday Dave. Love your cup!
Thank you! Cheers!
Thank you always for a good word that always keeping you or putting you back in the right direction Dave...
Nice. 🙏
Thank you Dave! You reallllly spoke to me in this one. Ex threatened suicide on the 11th after I told him I was repairing my relationship with God. I have a lot of praying to do because he is an atheist and thought I had denounced God. I'd told him years ago that I was spiritual; not into church but believed Jesus died for us. God bless all of us
Wow, my soon to be ex treathened with suicide on the 11th of last month as well.
Thank you again as always for this reminder and little by little I’m healing thanks be to God!!♥️♥️
You are right brother! God talked to me yesterday and said the exact same thing!
This is more truth!
5:46 therapy makes them worse, and not in a normal way, they become worse by being better able to mimick and fake. Taking a narcissist to therapy is worse than all the Mrs B traits combined would do to a Mrs B
You said rages are demons. Rages are not always demons. An empath can rage, and rage often, because of the sheer pain they have been in for far too long; and prolonged injustice can cause a rage. We are all just humans, after all. Anger can come from right premises as well as evil premises. God gets angry. The difference is, the empath or Christian will repent and ask God for forgiveness. The narc or psycho has no compunction. God looks at the motivation behind the rage. Thanks for your videos, though. I do really appreciate them. :)
Dave a read a book called the Muslim narcissist! And wow is it eye opening! The narc I dealt with is Muslim and they are sooo bad because they are ok with the having several covenants , wife’s and girlfriends A B AND C’s all in the same house. SMH! They are definitely cursed
Ugh once the weeds in their crops start to uncover them , it's disgusting 🫣 to see the truth. It's almost like a slug in human form, empty from the neck down , they are only brain aware for any type of emotions or thinking their next move to try to destroy the next victim , even in families their is no limit to these slugs, I pray for them and I forgive them this is for ME, they have the choice to make the right choice , I have made a one way ride to Arizona 🎉 in fact I will arrive there tomorrow!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 going to God country and I made that big leap ! The walking dead and slugs ( narcs) stand no chance I made the correct CHOICE!! FREEDOM!
Sounds so familiar
God bless you🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thank you.😢😔
I don't wanna be a "black toe". 😂😂
So 🙏🏽 Thank You
God Bless
Amen
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"they SAY I WALK AROUND LIKE I GOTTA 'S' ON MY CHEST"-50CENT, Look Close You CAN SEE IT😊
AA ROCKS!!! ❤❤❤
Yes you do need to date !!
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The golden rule Dave , we can obey it or we can break it , dismiss it discard it dont be so easily decieved ! As , thats choosing delusion , This hit me Dave ; He that letteth , will let , until taken out of the way ? 🤔 Hmmmm ? God is letting them throw it away ! We had Rememberance day this past weekend , guess what , no prayers at rememberance day services , but now its a official long weekend? Self interest , though its in our best self imterest to serve , of their own volition they chose to serve .self ! To honor men not God , He they refise to serve , those two witness the old and new testament , have been cast out to die in the street ! We do not hope in vain , and putting our trust, and confidence in Him He is showing us if isnt in vain ! Amen God Bless and huide you Dave all of us as these are some real dark days ! Agape ! Unfair , as though my world came to a cruel end , that was them , mot He , and what they meant for evil , He is using for good ! They that demand theor right , ate only looking to fight , chaos destruction, they can't get enough of it !
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Omg that narc would only eat sweets!!
Probably ruined their teeth
Sweets, pastries and alcohol.
Drug addicts do that
Please Dave tell me how do you go to the throne?
Do you mean early morning prayer and devotions?
Please do a video on how to go to the throne.
Thank you.
I want some cake now 😅
Hi Dave, would you please do a video on how to go to the throne of God?
Thank you.
Yesss please❤❤❤
As someone that’s gone out and dated non stop for almost 40 years i can tell you this. It’s all about expectations. Women these days are good for 1 thing. If you expect anything other than that I don’t care how much time you spend alone with your one eyed trouser dragon. You’re going to be severely disappointed and let down. Accept reality pump em n dump em n be happy
My ex narcissist ghosted me for 3 months then got married