Absolutely yes this is the case for me. I used to identify as an empath- I don’t want to now. I have realised it is my childhood trauma and adult trauma that would classify me as an ‘empath’ being Hyper vigilant, people pleasing, codependency, not enough wound, tuning into everyone else and not that of my own and contorting my feelings to ‘help’ the other and not myself. (My true self) , lots of layers unravel with all these realisations! It’s been an awakeNing journey. I never learned boundaries, a true sense of self, protection, safety, it is all very merged… etc etc… I want to change… I don’t want to be an ‘empath’ anymore.. I want to live my life with more self conviction and love ❤️ it’s not an easy ride (change is very uncomfortable) ☺️
OMG YES! I really needed your video. Im much older than you, Im in my early 40s. I work as a night auditor in a 5 star hotel. My coworker had a negative reaction to me talking about my previous job at the same hotel before the pandemic last night... I was just telling her how we did things there before the pandemic. I started to think my energy is terrible and a lot of other things. It makes a lot more sense now. I love my job and I love working with public even though guests sometimes can be very rude and challenging. It is worth it for me for the ones that have a great experience staying with us. And Im glad to be part of it. Thanks for putting your thoughts online. I appreciate it a lot. Cheers!
It varies. Im an empath. When I was young I was a bouncey happy lad. Went through childhood trauma and my emotions are still numbed from masking/fitting in. Now im almost a mute. My parents wouldn't let me interact with other kids because they were worried about what i might say. It is very difficult to relate to people because their happy and casual attitudes feels so artificial to me. I isolated myself into books to escape a lot and do online research. The more I do, the more i feel my inital impression of the world since I started school was correct. We live in a dystopia camouflaged by rich people.
I’m sorry to hear that man. Some of the most beautiful people I’ve known have faced similar (but different) challenges. And they also have some deep hearts and wisdom that they bring to this dystopian world 🙌🏻
I was a waiter the last 15 years of my working life... It was one of the MOST interesting times in my life... It was like the last information I needed to grasp how crazy people really are... BUT I got in on the last of the WW2 generation...I LOVED every one of THEM.
I used to identify as an empath until I realized that is a trauma response. Childhood trauma often activates psychic gifts to help the child navigate difficult environments. Being in the body is scary when a child is being abused, so the soul pulls out of the bottom three chakras, not grounded, and activates the top four chakras included the third eye. Then, normally "empaths" attune to the unhealed people in their space, so they can get information on who to be wary of which helps them navigate the space with less trauma. However, this way of interacting with people is not balanced. The soul is leading by picking up data oon someone before there is a physical interaction. I really understood the difference between grounded, healthy connections and co-dependent, soul leading connections. It is like the soul leads, establishes the connection before any physical connection as a defense mechanism to send data back to the person for defensive planning purposes. When I healed my childhood trauma, I was finally able to "meet" people with my body and soul in alignment. My mind and heart align and then I interact with someone. I trust myself to handle any situation, so I do not need my soul to collect data on people before I meet them.
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Absolutely yes this is the case for me. I used to identify as an empath- I don’t want to now. I have realised it is my childhood trauma and adult trauma that would classify me as an ‘empath’ being Hyper vigilant, people pleasing, codependency, not enough wound, tuning into everyone else and not that of my own and contorting my feelings to ‘help’ the other and not myself. (My true self) , lots of layers unravel with all these realisations! It’s been an awakeNing journey. I never learned boundaries, a true sense of self, protection, safety, it is all very merged… etc etc… I want to change… I don’t want to be an ‘empath’ anymore.. I want to live my life with more self conviction and love ❤️ it’s not an easy ride (change is very uncomfortable) ☺️
Same i feel ya
OMG YES! I really needed your video. Im much older than you, Im in my early 40s. I work as a night auditor in a 5 star hotel. My coworker had a negative reaction to me talking about my previous job at the same hotel before the pandemic last night... I was just telling her how we did things there before the pandemic. I started to think my energy is terrible and a lot of other things. It makes a lot more sense now. I love my job and I love working with public even though guests sometimes can be very rude and challenging. It is worth it for me for the ones that have a great experience staying with us. And Im glad to be part of it. Thanks for putting your thoughts online. I appreciate it a lot. Cheers!
That’s amazing to hear, thank you! 🙏🏻
It varies. Im an empath. When I was young I was a bouncey happy lad. Went through childhood trauma and my emotions are still numbed from masking/fitting in. Now im almost a mute. My parents wouldn't let me interact with other kids because they were worried about what i might say. It is very difficult to relate to people because their happy and casual attitudes feels so artificial to me. I isolated myself into books to escape a lot and do online research. The more I do, the more i feel my inital impression of the world since I started school was correct. We live in a dystopia camouflaged by rich people.
sorry you went through that. Know you are not alone....
I’m sorry to hear that man. Some of the most beautiful people I’ve known have faced similar (but different) challenges. And they also have some deep hearts and wisdom that they bring to this dystopian world 🙌🏻
I was a waiter the last 15 years of my working life...
It was one of the MOST interesting times in my life...
It was like the last information I needed to grasp how crazy people really are...
BUT I got in on the last of the WW2 generation...I LOVED every one of THEM.
Absolutely - people are crazy, and there are so many gems out there too! 🙌🏻✨
I used to identify as an empath until I realized that is a trauma response. Childhood trauma often activates psychic gifts to help the child navigate difficult environments. Being in the body is scary when a child is being abused, so the soul pulls out of the bottom three chakras, not grounded, and activates the top four chakras included the third eye. Then, normally "empaths" attune to the unhealed people in their space, so they can get information on who to be wary of which helps them navigate the space with less trauma. However, this way of interacting with people is not balanced. The soul is leading by picking up data oon someone before there is a physical interaction. I really understood the difference between grounded, healthy connections and co-dependent, soul leading connections. It is like the soul leads, establishes the connection before any physical connection as a defense mechanism to send data back to the person for defensive planning purposes. When I healed my childhood trauma, I was finally able to "meet" people with my body and soul in alignment. My mind and heart align and then I interact with someone. I trust myself to handle any situation, so I do not need my soul to collect data on people before I meet them.
I have definitely had similar insights - that’s a great articulation of your experience! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
You have such a soothing voice. I need to learn how to exude this chill.
Thank you! 🙏🏻☺️
so hungry they get angry. "Hanger" is a thing:-)
Truly! 😂
New to your channel. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you! 🙏🏻☺️