I First Met My Fiancé When I Picked Him Up From Prison | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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    THE FIRST TIME Erica and Austin met in person was not your typical first date, in some bar or restaurant. It was outside the gates of a prison in Iowa, on his release day after serving a seven year sentence for his part in an armed robbery. They had been put in touch seven months earlier by a mutual friend, who had suggested that realtor Erica may be able to help Austin find a place to live once he got out. And though romance was the furthest thing from both their minds at the time, the more they talked on the phone, the stronger their feelings for one another grew. Though loved ones questioned why Erica was turning down dates to stay home and talk to a man in prison thousands of miles away, they soon came around once they saw how happy she was. The couple have also faced their fair share of criticism from online trolls - but proved all the haters wrong when they tied the knot days after Christmas 2021. She said: "People judge from a 15 second online clip when they have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. But I'm really excited for this next chapter with Austin. The future is bright."
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ความคิดเห็น • 614

  • @LaTerfaMexicana
    @LaTerfaMexicana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    It pisses me off when these girls minimize the guys crimes too. He wasn't at the wrong place at the wrong time, he was the getaway driver, and she knows damn well too. She deserves the guy, but her kid deserves better.

    • @thegeneral1418
      @thegeneral1418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      *Hella women do that... you would be so surprised. I seen one guy open the trunk of his car and there were hundreds of pictures and cards from different women sent to him while he was in prison.*

    • @talay2005
      @talay2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yea, this relationship isn't going to end well for her I bet

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly he might have even been the mastermind she's making excuses for him smh

    • @d.h4421
      @d.h4421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's insanity.

    • @queen_of_domination
      @queen_of_domination 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You’re right! My mom’s friend did that with a man convicted for raping his daughter and her best friend, getting them both pregnant. My mom’s friend married this scummy man and their whole marriage was messed up, as he was lazy and controlling.
      When the daughters became that he fathered with his daughter and her best friend turned 14, he would take them to a motel and he raped them. The funny thing about it is that my mom’s friend had the audacity to be in denial when the girls told her what he was doing.
      So, I can’t chance it with offenders. That’s a horrible story and I hope that he rots in prison forever.

  • @---CASEY--K---
    @---CASEY--K--- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    Driving the car for a person to rob a woman at gun point is not a wrong time, wrong place situation.
    I hope it works out for the sake of her daughter.

    • @sadalien9049
      @sadalien9049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You must come from a pretty priviledged family if you believe that.

    • @gingerbread2984
      @gingerbread2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sadalien9049 You must come from a hatred racist card taker family.... Good for you😆

    • @s1mplyamb3r
      @s1mplyamb3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol yeah I think that's the definition of 'wrong time, wrong place' situation.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you lol

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@s1mplyamb3r for the victim, definitely. Not for the people who did it.

  • @rg8637
    @rg8637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I wonder if it was her mother being robbed would she then still say “it wasn’t fair” for him to get time 🤔🤔. Let’s not justify his actions now.

    • @jamspaul7180
      @jamspaul7180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a robbet her self

    • @tinadrollinger3487
      @tinadrollinger3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I do get what you're saying but I think she actually said it wasn't fair that he got soo much time.

    • @Bedroomlies666
      @Bedroomlies666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know you are serious but I’m hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Jesussavedme
      @Jesussavedme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She didn't say he shouldn't have gotten any time!! She said less time

    • @tiana2906
      @tiana2906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts but funny at the same time 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @m.roberts1120
    @m.roberts1120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Do we get updates on these "Love Don't Judge" couples? It seems most of them are quite early in their relationships at the time of filming. It would just be interesting to see how things developed.

    • @LatinaStyles1D
      @LatinaStyles1D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agreed

    • @sonalitiwari3361
      @sonalitiwari3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      agreed,

    • @badbunny6572
      @badbunny6572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Would be nice!

    • @hollyj2925
      @hollyj2925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree 💯

    • @Bere1925
      @Bere1925 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This couple just announced their separation today. They were married and everything.

  • @cookinghealthy8049
    @cookinghealthy8049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    I remember my crush went to prison. I broke up immediately. Beautiful girl and she needs to be careful especially cause she has a daughter.

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You made a good decision

    • @bannedmann4469
      @bannedmann4469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      To go to your criminal crush?

    • @cookinghealthy8049
      @cookinghealthy8049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@bannedmann4469 to go away from my crush who wasn’t a criminal until after we met. Dude was wild. Not worth it

    • @talay2005
      @talay2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cookinghealthy8049 Good call

    • @cookinghealthy8049
      @cookinghealthy8049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SylisDaCheesCakeGoat thanks

  • @marilyn8700
    @marilyn8700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Boy did he set himself up right. Come out of jail and had a sugar momma waiting for him.

    • @fluminesesoc
      @fluminesesoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Forreal lol

    • @Skylarrro
      @Skylarrro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right 🤣

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @RobinFlysHigh
      @RobinFlysHigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can clearly see in one of their FaceTimes since he got out that he has some kind of job

  • @TNGURL08
    @TNGURL08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    "Love After Lock-Up" is an entire TV show dedicated to people who are dating inmates.

    • @eveeartistry
      @eveeartistry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I forgot about that show! Thanks for the reminder!!

    • @royaldiamonds1
      @royaldiamonds1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Imma watch it

    • @audraarndt1824
      @audraarndt1824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or pickin up trash?

    • @redtaylor4936
      @redtaylor4936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now they have love while locked up too lol

    • @greekvampy3690
      @greekvampy3690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She probably use Tobe a modern day feminist found out she was lied to disagreed with the wage gap & the modern day feminist probably beat her up broke her down menetily & possibly Phisicl abuse too witch led to dating a guy in jail

  • @mashakalinkina7207
    @mashakalinkina7207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Sweet girl, have you ever had a stranger man jump out of a car, pull a gun on you & rob you? Talk about unfair. That trauma stays with you for life.
    He could & should have driven off, locked the car, reported it. He didn't get 7 years for being in the wrong place wrong time, puhLeaze.
    Date whoever, but dont act shocked that people are concerned for you, no one cares about your relationship-they As Strangers care for your welfare. And dont like seeing sweet folks suckered. Or seeing violent criminals behaviour minimized & enabled.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed

    • @LAVirgo67
      @LAVirgo67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He did not rob. He was a dumb kid that drove the car. He seems to be a good person that made a mistake. If she was dating a guy w/ a violent past (domestic abuse, etc.), yes I would be concerned.

    • @Skylarrro
      @Skylarrro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@LAVirgo67 any man capable of affiliating with an incident of robbing an innocent woman at gun point is messed up💀 what are you on??

  • @JanaVanana
    @JanaVanana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    7 years for stealing a phone? I don't think so.

    • @MaiMai-ys4yg
      @MaiMai-ys4yg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Right!

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kmallll lol lol exactly

    • @mallorytaylor6203
      @mallorytaylor6203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree BUT he could’ve had time added onto his sentence for say assault behind bars. MANY inmates catch more time this way..

    • @wasongabeatrice
      @wasongabeatrice ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And he is white? If he were black then.. You know,🤷

  • @whispermcgaughy7251
    @whispermcgaughy7251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I'm not buying his story that he had no idea what was about to happen and just drove away out of fear..She needs to really look into the details of his case..If I heard right,he was 18 when he went in,so you can best believe he got tried while he was in there and probably got done too,so I hope she's smart enough to make him get tested before they engage in any activities..The thing that bothers me is her introducing this man into her daughter's life,she has no idea what he's truly capable of and she shouldn't have him around her or communicating with her in any way,, until she gets to a point where she understands him better outside prison walls..

    • @tinadrollinger3487
      @tinadrollinger3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can see what you're saying but they didn't actually say how long he's been out of prison so maybe it's been some time. Also it's really good that he's with his fam and had they l there support bc it's more diff alone.

    • @Skylarrro
      @Skylarrro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I completely agree !!

    • @RaisingOurArrows05
      @RaisingOurArrows05 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tinadrollinger3487 it’s not some time. He just got out this past year. I’ve watched a bunch of their videos on TikTok!

  • @AGreyAlien
    @AGreyAlien 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Armed robbery is attempted murder in my eyes. She deserves better. I know bad boys can be fun but this is a no. How do you know he won’t do it again?

    • @videowatcher398
      @videowatcher398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh he will.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And i bet he will do it again and this time she will be the driver when you are in love you are most likely willing to do anything to please them

    • @AGreyAlien
      @AGreyAlien 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eve9287 that’s a good point tbh. I didn’t think of that.

    • @tinadrollinger3487
      @tinadrollinger3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That man was only 18 yrs old when he committed that crime, which def seemed like a lapse in judgement bc he wasn't dumb enough to do it himself, non of us are the same ppl we were at 18.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tinadrollinger3487 this is true at eighteen you just follow the flow of others but then again some ppl are mature than others

  • @nightsky3981
    @nightsky3981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Men in prison know how to charm and talk to women to get what they want. I am talking from experience.... they have a sense of manipulation. I don't want to rain on her parade, but I hope it ends well and he learned his lesson. Women should stop making excuses for men. Period!

  • @mallorytaylor6203
    @mallorytaylor6203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I’ve dated several guys who went to prison and I’ll keep it 100, EVERY.SINGLE.ONE had issues! I’m talking each had undiagnosed mental health issues (some genetic, some triggered by abuse or other factors as children or teens that exacerbated as young men in prison) ranging from anxiety to depression to bipolar disorder, with that came hot tempered outbursts (I’m talking 0-100 over the most minute issues), which triggered them to engage in domestic violence be it physical, mental and emotional abuse, all struggled w/ some sort of addictions be it alcohol or other drugs, inability to remain monogamous, extreme jealousy, unable to keep a job and/or find employment, those who were fathers experienced strained relationships w/ their children, their families and the list goes on. NOT saying that every man or woman who’s done time and could check off a few or many of the boxes just mentioned hasn’t been able to overcome adversity bc of course it’s always possible. I’ve had friends return home completely new and improved! They used that time wisely to right their wrongs and accomplish goals.
    W/ all that being said, chick lives in a dream world it seems. This is one of the most downplayed, cookie cutter versions of a prison relationship that I’ve ever seen! Both in person and through media. She’s downplayed his crime and the time as if dude stole a candy bar and in turn his parents sent him away to summer camp or military school. This relationship and the way it’s depicted is soo unrealistic! Majority of prison relationships DO NOT transition this smoothly/peacefully! Period. Maybe they’re the exception. The 1 in a 1,000,000! If so, I wish them well! However, I foresee problems ahead. Did anyone else notice how a comment on her TikTok mentioned they saw the bf talking to another girl? 🤔

    • @dora_the_dstroya8424
      @dora_the_dstroya8424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You are keeping it 100% saying these things. Your being truthful and that's refreshing to see. Ppl like their fantasy worlds and do NOT like being told the hard truth. I'm very blunt and truthful with ppl and when your truthful, ppl don't want to be around you long🤣 your also right about the comment of him talking to other woman. Strange huh??👀

    • @ceatrabanks4894
      @ceatrabanks4894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are absolutely right. He said that he went to Prison at 18, which means that Prison Raised him. And as for his crime, there is more to that. Austin is a good looking guy and while in Prison he picked the Woman that can support him most & kept her after he got out. Then talked about all she's done for him.🤔

    • @LaTerfaMexicana
      @LaTerfaMexicana ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup, he actually just left her too.

    • @mallorytaylor6203
      @mallorytaylor6203 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LaTerfaMexicana Where did you learn/hear this from??

  • @dinajones2761
    @dinajones2761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    People can change - I did notice that he hesitated when his fiancé said “I love you”

    • @samariam3043
      @samariam3043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thought I was the only one!

    • @gabriellebraboy8143
      @gabriellebraboy8143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly I was shocked asl and confused like did the phone freeze or sum then he said " I love you too" back sounded kinda forced. But I hope this relationship ends out well for her sake and their child fr.

    • @jusdef07
      @jusdef07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah that was crazy !!!!

    • @wasongabeatrice
      @wasongabeatrice ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Sorry, but seven years is within the standard for armed robbery, and it’s a fair sentence. He was in the car. There’s absolutely no way to prove that he wasn’t involved, or that he didn’t know what was going to happen. I’m glad he’s out and hopefully he’s changed and not hanging around those types of people anymore.

    • @NotAnotherKuromi
      @NotAnotherKuromi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah the worse crimes deserve longer sentences.

  • @mikeg8276
    @mikeg8276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I’m glad he has the opportunity to turn over a new leaf. He committed a crime and did the time, and now he has a right to re-enter society. I just hope they both understand the need to put her daughter first and make decisions that are best for her and any future children.

  • @tomaszwyszkowski2253
    @tomaszwyszkowski2253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have a friend who married a guy who was in prison for robbery for 7 years, he was very young at that time. They have great marrige, 2 sons and baby on the way.
    EVERYBODY DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE

  • @maggiecase5984
    @maggiecase5984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I've been around the block a time or two and I know sometimes people do dumb stuff (myself included) that years after they would never do. Lots of people don't realize how quickly you can get mixed up with the wrong people.
    Good luck to them both

    • @ChassityNOubre_88
      @ChassityNOubre_88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True. But we all have free will to do/know right from wrong. He definitely didn't have to drive the car and stay. He could've drove off once he seen what happened and go straight to the cops.

    • @CLB134
      @CLB134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ChassityNOubre_88 not everyone is raised with the same knowledge. For example, narcissistic abuse from the primary caregivers: a common abuse tactic is to withhold vital information & education from their children. Jealous parents do this. Survivors of abusive and/or narcissistic parents often have to raise themselves & learn things thru making many mistakes. Additionally, there are mental illnesses that cause people to be easily manipulated, easily influenced, easily taken advantage of, etc. Essentially what I’m saying is, not everyone is born and matures on an even playing field, and I agree with the OP.

    • @harikrishnanr1971
      @harikrishnanr1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Warlock 😂

    • @JoJo-zx9sc
      @JoJo-zx9sc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Life with pets without being rude what has you having a load of animals and being a veterinarian have to do with the video?

    • @louisaklimentos7583
      @louisaklimentos7583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was only 18 and did not think of the consequences of the crime . I feel sorry for the victim and I hope she is ok . I believe that now he has done time in prison , he can learn from his mistakes and become a better version of himself .

  • @rallaico100
    @rallaico100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Yeah I’m getting this energy from him that he really doesn’t feel so strong about her. It’s something about him or they way he talks that gives off not interested vibes

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I understand it though. It’s overwhelming having your whole entire life change, even if it’s what you want and you’re happy! Plus he went from hardly even being around any females to being thrust into a whole entire relationship full time so his head is probably still spinning!

  • @AO-hk7dj
    @AO-hk7dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If her daughter’s father had any love for his child he would ask for full custody and get her the Hell out of that house

    • @qmr0n
      @qmr0n ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. I feel scared for her.

  • @itheuserfirst3186
    @itheuserfirst3186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    "You tried selling me a house, and ended up buying my heart." Gee, what a poet. I wonder what his asking price was, and did she pay in installments?

  • @novahittingthegroundrunnin9933
    @novahittingthegroundrunnin9933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She should not have that man around that child. I don't care what she does on the side. But she should NOT expose that child to this

  • @MDobri-sy1ce
    @MDobri-sy1ce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The series instead of “Love Don’t Judge “ should be called “Click Or Not To Click.”

  • @LaTerfaMexicana
    @LaTerfaMexicana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    "She's helped me out alot" I'm sure she has 🙄 he doesn't seem very into her either. Imagine telling the whole world you got engaged to a stranger in prison before you're poor child even met him? Her desperation and selfishness is something else, she's the type of mother that chooses men before her children. 👎

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Of course! It’s overwhelming to have your whole entire life change! Even if it’s what you want and you’re happy

    • @marys3738
      @marys3738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree!

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's in love

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m glad I’m not the only one who felt that he’s not into her. Also him saying I love you in a letter instead of on the phone or during the visit is a red flag to me. “He was nervous”, girl no, he just didn’t mean it. It’s easier to write a lie than it is to lie to someone’s face.

  • @ellan-rosecaulfield855
    @ellan-rosecaulfield855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    This isn't the worst of them
    I'm fine with this relationship

  • @susanchapman760
    @susanchapman760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would understand if it was just her choosing to be with a man from prison but she has a child.

  • @Carolina_Berean
    @Carolina_Berean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I have a family member that did this. She’s been in a living Hell for 20 years.

    • @mikealan1984
      @mikealan1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      20 year's REALLY

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Probably just so she can say she has a man.

    • @mizzhllywd
      @mizzhllywd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh wow lol.

    • @bannedmann4469
      @bannedmann4469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally? She dead?

    • @AmaliaLondon
      @AmaliaLondon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My friend is the only person I know who did this and she’s been very lucky. It’s a little different as they’ve been friends in their high school days. Both went into different directions, married and had kids with other people and reconnected in their late 30s. My friends daughter was already in high school when he got out and they married within the same week. 15 years later and they are still very happy.
      Before his arrest he was in drug distribution and after his release he put his energy into legal business and created a small, successful construction and renovation company. It’s definitely a gamble and luck was on my friends side.

  • @sassygirl340
    @sassygirl340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    OMG So u have a daughter who's developing into a young lady and u decide it's a great idea to have a felon/criminal/stranger with no job come live in your house with your daughter?!!!! HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!! ARE WOMEN THAT DESPERATE

    • @Mrs.TJ516
      @Mrs.TJ516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very desperate 🙄

    • @LaSweetdremz
      @LaSweetdremz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤦‍♀️I know she jumped head in

    • @amberholland5561
      @amberholland5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Obviously. It’s sickening. So so sad on so many levels! His eyes are empty and she clearly is much more into him, than him ger. I agree he looks weak minded. I pray things work out for the best but how and why would you take that risk when you have a child.

  • @meg5898
    @meg5898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This usually doesn’t end well…

  • @andreamaria85
    @andreamaria85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ewww at the end with the tongue. Calm down…

  • @daisybootz3607
    @daisybootz3607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Question: how was he trying to buy a house from jail? Where did he get the money to buy a house? That's the real question... did he make that much in jail making license plates to afford a house?

  • @kayisehadebe1790
    @kayisehadebe1790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Watching them, I get the sense that she's more into him than he's into her🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @billyjack873
    @billyjack873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I hope the little girl doesn't get molested. Her mother is setting a bad example. The mom is in lust with a convict and he is going to use her for everything he can. This dysfunctional circus of a relationship will not last. I feel sorry for the little girl.

    • @r.r911
      @r.r911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree.

    • @---CASEY--K---
      @---CASEY--K--- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep I agree. She should be putting her daughters safety first.

    • @amberholland5561
      @amberholland5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @veroniquecastel9582
      @veroniquecastel9582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My thoughts exactly. Put your child’s safety and well-being first.

  • @jupiter1114
    @jupiter1114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    wait this isn't adding up. first of all, how is he reaching out to real estate agents if he doesn't have money? and really she's going to defend him for his crime? girl you wilding

  • @dannietalley4668
    @dannietalley4668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Initially it’s pent up sexual frustration. Please be mindful of your relationship.

  • @Jasmineabby5159
    @Jasmineabby5159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He look like the crazy guy in the lifetime movies, always smiling, lmaooooo

  • @AssistantofReginalManager
    @AssistantofReginalManager 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I see a sinister look in his eyes, hope that little one will be safe.

    • @LaSweetdremz
      @LaSweetdremz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly As much I didn't want to see it,I keep seeing something is there he hiding

    • @flower_7890
      @flower_7890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same, I hate to say that but something seems off about him, hopefully I'm wrong 😒

    • @amberholland5561
      @amberholland5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree completely! This woman upsets me! If you can’t protect yourself, think of your daughter!

    • @Raven24444
      @Raven24444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do too
      Was hoping someone else did too

    • @jeshurunhazelton7789
      @jeshurunhazelton7789 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a guy yes I don't trust him I wanna believe the best but I don't trust him

  • @robinsonpapo5806
    @robinsonpapo5806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yall know how this ends, and the funny part is that she is gonna act victim when it happens.

  • @ceatrabanks4894
    @ceatrabanks4894 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When Austin first got out he looked clean cut and shaven. After being out he looks Rough. When Austin spoke about why he likes her He Only spoke about all that She did for him. She'd better be Careful.

  • @angeljohnson234
    @angeljohnson234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I hope they work but lawd have mercy. I didn't realize there was a whole community devoted to dating convicts. Things have changed since I was younger.

    • @victorsoto4821
      @victorsoto4821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yep, it's pretty common. The whole bad boy thing and the fact he's attractive, makes it easy.

    • @clarke4400
      @clarke4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @jr1252
    @jr1252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    she would probably find more loyalty in a stray puppy at the shelter than a prison guy.

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I hope he don’t hurt her or her daughter! Hopefully he change his life!

    • @ClearwaterKB
      @ClearwaterKB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He was 18 and in the wrong place, at the wrong time. He hasn't been able to live a life yet that needs any change.

    • @nildaluzrodriguez
      @nildaluzrodriguez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      More religious people have hurt children than convicts. I don't have proof but you don't have proof that dude would hurt a child simply because he committed a crime. Love doesn't operate in suspicions. If this couple is meant to operate in the love of God, your opinions are INVALID.

    • @junecovington2008
      @junecovington2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ClearwaterKB where in her comment did she said he going to hurt her child?? She said she HOPES he doesn't... and any reasonable person would think or say the same thing 🙄.

    • @ClearwaterKB
      @ClearwaterKB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@junecovington2008 um, I didn't say anything about him hurting a child, as it was an ignorant comment. My comment was in response to her saying she hopes he changes his life. Guess you have a problem with reading comprehension...

  • @letstalkctnwitheverette9203
    @letstalkctnwitheverette9203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This relationship is a potentially high risk situation for your daughter. Remember- kids don’t have a choice. Whatever you bring in the house they have to be stuck with it until you choose to do something different. You don’t know this man.. PLEASE don’t let your feelings lead… Go to family therapy and continue even if things feel fine. A trained professional will help you to sort through this process so that everyone has a chance to be safe. If he refuses therapy or tells even the smallest lies- RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!

  • @andreamaria85
    @andreamaria85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I guess she paid for her ring too…

  • @johnfernandez2060
    @johnfernandez2060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just goes to show women don’t want good hard working men, they want CHAD

    • @amberholland5561
      @amberholland5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol! 😂 True! Even if it’s Chad in prison. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @alexisarrizon6083
    @alexisarrizon6083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This poor woman just screams desperate to me. Why would you let a convicted felon around your child? When the hell is the father at? Clearly this woman thinks with her another regions and not her brain. Something strikes me is very off with the so-called boyfriend.

  • @samanthav563
    @samanthav563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He did choose to drive away in the car, so it's not wrong place wrong time. He made a choice.
    Edit_But it is worth asking him if he changed since then

    • @bigman4407
      @bigman4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There got to be more to it than just driving to get 7 years in prison.

    • @jfaustin1742
      @jfaustin1742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His friend could’ve turned the gun on him

    • @samanthav563
      @samanthav563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jfaustin1742 yeah it's possible but they didn't mention that, making me think it was probably just a bad choice. He was only 18 so I get that for sure but in a lot of these prison wife/gf clips they never discuss the crime or repentance the convict may or may not have went through... It's relevant

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle
    @alchemyofcolorandstyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have to say, Im curious about this because his smile does touch his eyes and that’s not what Im expecting from a criminal.

    • @mashakalinkina7207
      @mashakalinkina7207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It weirds me out. He could be sincere, but That charismatic streak freaks me Out!
      But she seems sweet so if only for her & her baby, i hope he behaves well & honorably, forever. And redeems himself. But i am skeptical

    • @grassfedcharlie
      @grassfedcharlie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ARE YOU SERIOUS?! Where are y’all from?! Because in NYC there are literally friendly scam artists and murderers smiling in your face all the time. Y’all can’t be THIS damn naive as ADULTS

    • @vegetablepimps
      @vegetablepimps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@grassfedcharlie We are on the same page. "Smile meets his eyes" so he's "good". Lol 😆 I'm from southern California, and Vegas. That smooth smile is what I see. I wish them the best don't get the wrong idea...but you don't know this man at all by his smile.

    • @LaSweetdremz
      @LaSweetdremz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur right there no Glow in his eyes like hers

  • @9738386903
    @9738386903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As long as your a good looking man like this guy you can be a criminal and still have women choose you to create family despite being a complete bum. Brutal, looks are the only thing that matter

  • @beanj580
    @beanj580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Of course it wasn't at all his fault and ironically he was just innocently driving the car. Cut me a break! Listen we all make mistakes, but atleast accept responsibility!

  • @Jasmineabby5159
    @Jasmineabby5159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He looks snaking tho..... Be safe dear 🤣

    • @bigman4407
      @bigman4407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey i got that vibe too. And no way he did 7 years just because his "friend" robbed a person of their phone even at gunpoint and he was just driving the car. There's more to it to get 7 years.

  • @samariam3043
    @samariam3043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The moment she mentioned a daughter I started judging...

  • @ALB6969
    @ALB6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Imagine being so desperate for a man that you pick a dude that served in prison for robbery 😂

  • @agt_24
    @agt_24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Her daughter seems like the coolest little girl ❤️

  • @dontlikewhatisaydontreadmy847
    @dontlikewhatisaydontreadmy847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She she really thinks he loves her she's a free ride for him she's got money she's got a house she's got a car she wants to buy him things of course he would end up with somebody who's loaded she is completely allowing herself to be used and abused by a attempted murderer this is beyond disgusting.

  • @queenwizzard1853
    @queenwizzard1853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    If she wants to get involved with a man in prison herself then fine even though it is potentially dangerous… BUT THE FACT THAT SHE HAS A CHILD IS UNACCEPTABLE. Absolutely not.

  • @Connect_with_Yourself
    @Connect_with_Yourself 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She couldn't find a man in the free world? 😂😂

  • @tamiyaharrison9774
    @tamiyaharrison9774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hopefully this prison relationship lasts

  • @Kshipss
    @Kshipss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *"I first met my Fiancé when he dropped me off the graveyard"*

  • @thatssomething1
    @thatssomething1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Austin, hustler from jail 🤣

  • @Lasirenagirl
    @Lasirenagirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just want to see people happy and in love, that's all i want
    and they look like they are so kudos to them

  • @BlueBabyAkaAj
    @BlueBabyAkaAj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmmm dont trust him alone with your daughter please idc if yall together for 50 years.

  • @dollsNcats
    @dollsNcats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I won’t judge because people change as long as he’s true to her and honest

  • @Toucan11
    @Toucan11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These women are sick and delusional. Disregarding what he put someone else through. Acting like their crime was just a normal day. Talk about minimizing. Wake up. I deal with people like this everyday, they return back because they continue committing crimes. 🤦🏼‍♀️. They are lonely, you are just filling their current void

    • @Falcon19643
      @Falcon19643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It made me sick how she was minimizing his crimes too, and not thinking about her child. He already left her for someone else.

  • @Diabbie
    @Diabbie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don't really think it's a wrong place, wrong time situation. They seem happy together and there's been worst couples on these series. I wouldn't personally start a relationship with anyone in prison... if my current partner went to prison, well that's a grey area to think about. Honestly, if the person is trying to live a straight life once he's out, then let him correct his life. It was her choice to even start dating him. I hope their relationship works out and continues to grow for the sake of her daughter as well.

  • @jaclynshorter2509
    @jaclynshorter2509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He doesn't seem like a bad guy at all. I am happy for them.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is true but also looks can be deceiving

  • @Imom4Him
    @Imom4Him 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He looks weak minded let’s see if it lasts 🙄🙄🙄

  • @AllDolldUp69
    @AllDolldUp69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    He honestly seems like a genuine person and she seems happy!

  • @missromiea
    @missromiea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    They were just too cute. I wish them all happiness and blessings.❤🙏

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank u for your positive comment, I'm a man that's in prison and it means alot to see passive response when these people with these negative comments don't know anything

    • @berniemcbgood7674
      @berniemcbgood7674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You cute too "MissRomie A"

    • @calebriggins5628
      @calebriggins5628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JohnWilliams-dz9uw what we forget over time is that people in prisons r still people

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Em-wr1rx I don't need your empathy I'm in a good space in life and I'm happy 😁 what about you?? How is your life??

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Em-wr1rx 😆😆😆u have a terrible life, who has time in a busy world to sit down and argue with some one they don't know, and u in the world 🤔 second I wasn't even talking to u, you think it on yourself tho acknowledge my post, so that tells me you got some type of insecurity in your life that you ashamed of cause clearly it rubbed u the wrong way😆😆😆 I wonder how many skeletons u got in that closet of yours👀

  • @lc6636
    @lc6636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She will regret it.

  • @kerigirl711
    @kerigirl711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So these women are meeting men in prison via an app?

    • @LaTerfaMexicana
      @LaTerfaMexicana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm still shocked that these inmates have access to the internet apparently 🤯 times have changed!

  • @dovegoddess1100
    @dovegoddess1100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Where is the father of that little girl?? How can he be okay with her being around a newly sprung convicted felon?? Someone needs to step in and protect that child.

  • @brandyyolidio4213
    @brandyyolidio4213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder if he would have still dated her if he never went to jail. She is very pretty, he got lucky, please be careful Erica 🙏 for yourself and your baby

  • @rebeccabolyard139
    @rebeccabolyard139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I can't judge them and I do understand her mothers genuine concern when she told her that she was dating a man from prison, but they do seem genuinely happy and he does really seem to care about her daughter and enjoys spending time with her as well which is an added bonus. I wish them the best and hope they have a bright and happy future. He is so lucky to have her on his side.😊

  • @daisym21
    @daisym21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This is so sweet. Im glad the relationship is healthy and I wish the best for both of them.

    • @alexiahumada1109
      @alexiahumada1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We all do …but you can’t forget his pass sorry no whit a Daughter he will need a lot of help before star any healthy relationship but all the best

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Healthy?!

  • @spreadpositivityandlove.9849
    @spreadpositivityandlove.9849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wish them the best.

  • @missjasmine3366
    @missjasmine3366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sorry, y'all. I don't trust him. She's a cute woman and I wouldn't be surprised if this guy hurts her in the near future. Women with children should really be carefuI with new relationships. know that I can be wrong....but..I can see things going left. Look what happened with 'Prison Bae'. This man is attractive and might leave for someone slimmer once he gets what he needs from his fiance. Yes. I said it. He is now free to roam around. I am judging because I am only human. I hope that I am wrong. I am seeing too many nightmare stories about nice women with men who have a criminal record.

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She’s too pretty for him

    • @missjasmine3366
      @missjasmine3366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Pizza Rolls I think that she's too nice for him. He might take advantage of her kindness. It's sad because she has a sweet daughter.

  • @aprilleerose
    @aprilleerose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’ve watched every season of Love After Lockup, I know how this ends lol

  • @ChemicalXII
    @ChemicalXII 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Divest. Get on 'my level'. - Literally dates a gang member, jailed for assisting a robbery. No standards for zaddy.".

    • @ChemicalXII
      @ChemicalXII 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tmc1373 , "My prior comment is not hating...or as you say, 'hatin'. I'm not your '...BRUH...'.".

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm not judging. It works for them and I wish them nothing but happiness.

  • @sheilacirioni4676
    @sheilacirioni4676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two seem to be really sweet together.You have to enjoy your life,you both are given a new chance at a new life.Go for it! He's really handsome& you are beautiful..🧚‍♀️🧞‍♀️💞♥️☮

  • @ADetailedHouse
    @ADetailedHouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She begs for money on all of her social media accts, saying how she needs to get him a car, needs money to get to him, etc. It's ridiculous.

  • @EscapeReality94
    @EscapeReality94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I love you! Uhhhhh i like you….” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @moxnix74
    @moxnix74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    She's not too bright. She has a daughter!!!

    • @Kshipss
      @Kshipss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ???

    • @nildaluzrodriguez
      @nildaluzrodriguez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your point?

    • @bbghoul_x
      @bbghoul_x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@nildaluzrodriguez she means she should think of her daughters safety, DUH 🤦‍♀️😂

    • @crystalfrancis5977
      @crystalfrancis5977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haters gonna Hate BIACH!!!!!

    • @nildaluzrodriguez
      @nildaluzrodriguez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bbghoul_x Safety? What makes you feel she didn't think about it though? Assuming much??? D U H.....

  • @vegetablepimps
    @vegetablepimps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok I am totally seeing this and cringing at how bleehh sweet/bubbly excited she is...blowing him up at work to talk about nothing. He's not feeling it. 4:45 Go to the timestamp. I swear he is saying "leave me alone" like to his coworker about her....for her to leave him alone at work 😒. Let me know if you hear it. 👂 The uuuhhh lu u too after she is annoying with the I looove you. He's obviously at work. I know you probably had to get shots for the camera but he was annoyed. It felt so forced and icky. Best wishes and if the signs are there..run don't walk.

    • @LaTerfaMexicana
      @LaTerfaMexicana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Uh huh, top tier cringe right there. He doesn't love her.

    • @LaSweetdremz
      @LaSweetdremz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ur absolutely right I noticed that too!she `way into Him more than he is for her! It's to forced he looks overwhelmed by her

  • @xoangelicaf0523
    @xoangelicaf0523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Girl you’re brave as heck lol

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly I’m not letting a felony into my house 🤣🤣🤣

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SylisDaCheesCakeGoat why not

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SylisDaCheesCakeGoat it's people standing in your face that done worst..

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Josh Williams- BECAUSE I SAID SO THATS WHY I MAKE THE RULES IN MY HOUSE!!

    • @JohnWilliams-dz9uw
      @JohnWilliams-dz9uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SylisDaCheesCakeGoat I wonder how many skeletons u got in your closet that hasn't been let out yet 🤔 on the day of resurrection, I bet u gon why someone to forgive you🤔🖤🖤🖤 think bout that.. It's all love🖤🖤🖤

  • @TrangNguyen-xq5of
    @TrangNguyen-xq5of 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Shouldn’t she be in the show love after lock up?

  • @JM-sm8ir
    @JM-sm8ir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    5:22 His eyes scared me. There something ELSE in his eyes. That glint...gave me a chill. Because the smile doesn't quite reach his eyes like hers does. I think he's got some dark secrets. God Bless.

  • @MixolydianMode
    @MixolydianMode 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women pair up with men in prison but never the other way around. Why?

    • @ieshaanderson1317
      @ieshaanderson1317 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm in several fb groups that have men like you mentioned

  • @ohh_manda
    @ohh_manda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She was put in touch with him to sell a house while he was in prison?! There's not many people who can buy a house out of prison. If you went on a prison pen pal site, just be honest. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @ctilly5859
      @ctilly5859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right! Especially if they live in different states. Did I miss something??

    • @JoshuaGuada
      @JoshuaGuada 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She didn’t. What she said is 100% true on how they met.

  • @micheledavidswife4336
    @micheledavidswife4336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God Bless them . Everyone deserves happiness.

    • @micheledavidswife4336
      @micheledavidswife4336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Warlock and you know this how ?

    • @micheledavidswife4336
      @micheledavidswife4336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Warlock
      Do you know them ?
      Everyone deserves love in this evil world .
      I don’t care who you are .

  • @kaylachipman4083
    @kaylachipman4083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He not that bad he never put his hands on no one just young and stupid and took someone phone he's done is time every one deserves a second chance

  • @Arriex16
    @Arriex16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is more to the story !
    His friend robbed a lady for her cell phone and he got 7 years . I don’t believe it!
    Guys like this in jail who is serving a long sentence like this pray on girls to get ahead.

  • @angelicdazzle
    @angelicdazzle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They are a beautiful couple! I love love… so as long as they treat each other well and are happy and have a healthy relationship… I wish them nothing but the best!

  • @tiffanyhudnell466
    @tiffanyhudnell466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They look good & Happy Together ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rpplngwtrs
    @rpplngwtrs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those last scenes look like they're in Eagle Point park in Dubuque, IA!

  • @saraicalderon48
    @saraicalderon48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh wow. I used to follow them on Tiktok. They got married on December 27

  • @thesandrabebe7478
    @thesandrabebe7478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's desperate but if she likes it I love it !!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @tinadrollinger3487
    @tinadrollinger3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok so I don't usually speak up on these but this one got me! Ik we have to be extremely careful when dating a man after prison but there are men who do worse things and never get caught, that never go to prison, so either way it can be a gamble. I hope for the best for this couple. My bro was actually in prison for like 8 yrs. He's been out for over 20yrs, never committed another crime, got his mastery in electrical, married to the same women, has gotten pardoned after 20yrs, and is now working for the city as the city electrician.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every case is different. Blessings for you and him.

  • @Yolanda_Ortiz
    @Yolanda_Ortiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's different for everyone my brother met his daughters mother while in prison. When he came out it lasted 2 years. In those 2 years they had two girls back to back. And they broke up