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    THIS 'traditional housewife' lets her husband sleep with other women to keep him happy. Monica Huldt, 37, believes that the secret to a happy relationship is for the man to make the decisions and the woman should always aim to please by adopting an old-school ‘traditional wife’ role. They have been together for six years, and she explained to Truly why she knew that she had finally met her perfect match. “I’ve always had a submissive side.” Adding that: “It's not that I’m a hopeless little girl. He’s assertive and I like that in a man.” From an early age, she had the Stepford wife attitudes instilled in her: “My mum told me, ‘be pretty and in good shape because nobody wants a fat and ugly wife'.” Her subservient nature goes beyond the kitchen and into the bedroom, where John is allowed to sleep with other women. This setup works for John’s values too, “I’m the man and I make the rules around the house”, he explained. “Sleeping with other women is a luxury that most guys wish they had. I think that makes me a better husband." Their relationship dynamic works for them, but has caused rifts with loved ones. “I’ve had childhood friends straight out telling me that I’d lost my dignity as a woman," Monica added.
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  • @theodore23sanchez
    @theodore23sanchez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10119

    A "traditional marriage" does NOT involve the husband being allowed to sleep with other women.

    • @kaylasheppard7746
      @kaylasheppard7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +297

      THANK YOU

    • @epiphany55
      @epiphany55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @M W Surely it's the opposite, her self esteem is high enough that she's not insecure about him sleeping with other women. She's confident he will return home to her. It's the monogamous folk who have low self esteem because they have to claim their partner completely to themselves in order to feel secure in the relationship.

    • @oscarh2744
      @oscarh2744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Lol what tradition John talking about 😂

    • @sanjanamukherjee9540
      @sanjanamukherjee9540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      @@epiphany55 is the bar set so low for these people that they are okay with their partner sharing their bodies, affection and time with other people and as long as they come back to them at night they are fine with it ? Anyone who believes in themselves knows that they can instead get a partner who will spend years and decades immersed in their love, dedicated towards them.a partner to share a life and children with. A unique and sacred bond. Most people would prefer the latter .

    • @epiphany55
      @epiphany55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sanjanamukherjee9540 I'm not saying most people wouldn't prefer that. I'm questioning the low self esteem accusation towards people who are in open/semi-open relationships. People in open relationships just don't see sex as a deal breaker. And why should it be? It's just sex. Just because one partner (or both) has sex with other people, doesn't mean there isn't as much long term love there, or that they're going to run off with the other sexual partner. It also means that cheating is out of the equation if you don't care so much about it. Cheating is a main cause of divorce/breakups. In open relationships there is no cheating, just honesty and consensual freedom.

  • @davidswaray1436
    @davidswaray1436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18375

    For the fact that she finds it difficult to smile or talk about him sleeping with other women, makes it obvious that she's not happy at all.

    • @makrufirsyadi1821
      @makrufirsyadi1821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      You got it right !

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @jessicapace9689
      @jessicapace9689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +323

      @@postit5725 Adults can have trauma , u wouldnt like it if someone exploited ur trauma. Bad is bad. If something happened to u , u wouldnt want someone to be like oh well. I understand men get it harder in certain situations. But that's not an excuse to let morals out the window. Man or or women.

    • @leighalynch3535
      @leighalynch3535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +353

      a lot of men are sticking up for this guy, and im glad to see another man post something that is correct for this situation. so thank u for that

    • @nikkistahr7105
      @nikkistahr7105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Agreed

  • @aasenprivate5199
    @aasenprivate5199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3811

    Adultery is not supposed to be part of a traditional marriage.

    • @insomthegreat
      @insomthegreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      What's traditional marriage?
      Biblical marriage?
      Modern marriage?
      It depends on what you choose.

    • @PrincessAfrica3
      @PrincessAfrica3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly

    • @doctorj6030
      @doctorj6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      One of the 10 Commandments is Thou shalt not commit adultery. So no , it not traditional & he handles the money to make it hard 4 her 2 leave

    • @2crisp63
      @2crisp63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this stuff is fake you can see her Instagram in the desc and I doubt her "husband" would allow it lol

    • @nataliestaheli51602
      @nataliestaheli51602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!

  • @z-vii7776
    @z-vii7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    He doesn’t love you, he loves what you’re willing to do for him.

    • @iranjackheelson
      @iranjackheelson ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You might wanna deny, but those two are actually the same things, practically speaking.

    • @Ricox100
      @Ricox100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea he does. Why wouldn’t the man love what ur willing to do for him? If he loves what u do. He loves u. Simple :)

    • @Pissbaby991
      @Pissbaby991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iranjackheelson not really. If she ever stopped performing the duties he loves then he would discard her.

    • @manny123957
      @manny123957 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pissbaby991 man if she’s ok with it who cares no one is controlling her she’s a grown woman.

    • @Pissbaby991
      @Pissbaby991 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manny123957 I never said I cared, I was just correcting the person I replied to

  • @LaLaKnight
    @LaLaKnight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7761

    Him explaining how he’s an alpha male while the camera zooms in on his toy truck collection 😂😂😂

    • @kris9259
      @kris9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      This is the comment I came to the comment section for! So true.

    • @Facade953
      @Facade953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Even the toughest of individuals have a soft spot.😅

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂

    • @bigb853
      @bigb853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      YES 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-lm4ym1eg9e
      @user-lm4ym1eg9e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣

  • @konjitinashe6703
    @konjitinashe6703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9170

    This makes it clear that an abusive marriage isn't only about the beatings/violence...

    • @aaleyah5380
      @aaleyah5380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +511

      Wow! Very valid point, this is not healthy on any levels. This is co-dependent & toxic, he’s a covert narcissist. And she the main supply.

    • @priscillanavarro2599
      @priscillanavarro2599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@aaleyah5380 yes ! thats the vibes i was getting

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Don't make her a victim, she chose him and she stays with him, don't poke your nose into their tent

    • @TaylorAmelia
      @TaylorAmelia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

      @@postit5725 many victims stay. Which shows you have zero idea what you're talking about because you yourself are an abuser

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@TaylorAmelia she is an adult, she can leave him anytime she wants, law is in her side if she suffers, you're victimising an adult woman

  • @nukaghoula
    @nukaghoula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1917

    The way that not a single one of her smiles reaches her eyes speaks much louder than the words she's speaking

    • @starlight0694
      @starlight0694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      She had botox thats why

    • @brokenremedy7821
      @brokenremedy7821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@starlight0694 😂

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The fact that you assume she is being abused even though she chose him, makes you a not very smart person

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@starlight0694 I've got a few friends with Botox, there's a difference between Botox blank parts and clearly fake smiles

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

  • @piratesfan123
    @piratesfan123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    A Traditional marriage involves BOTH a husband and a wife being devoted and loyal to each other, supporting each other and being fully committed to loving them and forsaking all others, it doesn't involve treating them like dirt and cheating on them

    • @samforeverr2089
      @samforeverr2089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YESSSSS!!!!!!!! This isn’t love, it’s a toxic ‘bond’

  • @aaleyah5380
    @aaleyah5380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6045

    This is not a relationship it’s a co-dependent toxic, trauma bond. He’s a narcissist, & she’s his main supply. 🤢🤮

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Stop victimising an adult woman

    • @amberspeacefulplace5803
      @amberspeacefulplace5803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      🎯🎯🥴 best supply cause she’s down😉! She doesn’t need to be valued just desired! Nothing is sacred these days not Marriage anymore! Sad to see the world and all these egocentric Narcs!

    • @breegilbert943
      @breegilbert943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      EXACTLY! A trauma bond. 💯

    • @zharris1059zh
      @zharris1059zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Your mom DID NOT TEACH you THAT!!!!! / CAN WE CUT? That's the answer to that Question!!!!!!!!!

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

  • @user-iq4jj4ur4y
    @user-iq4jj4ur4y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5246

    The fact that she does everything to make him happy and he STILL can’t be faithful is so sad. She must feel terrible inside.

    • @kingjoker8399
      @kingjoker8399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It seems like it

    • @Ravioliyt
      @Ravioliyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      He's a pos, ngl

    • @mariahyohannes
      @mariahyohannes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      A man can only do what the woman allows. Until she learns to love herself and realize she is deserving of more he will continue to use her as a doormat. See what women don't realize is if we as a collective demand more from these men and don't tolerate the disrespect they have no choice but to treat us with respect and dignity.

    • @supermcfly3103
      @supermcfly3103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mariahyohannes absolutely!!! This!

    • @kleinhocico9915
      @kleinhocico9915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I'm sure that her husband has fathered some of his girls. That's why he doesn't see it as necessary to impregnate her. And why should he impregnant her? She makes the household. Would be difficult with a baby. He is the baby in the house.

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3705

    I don’t care what she says or what he tells her to say, the fact that he sleeps with other women does bother her. And it was completely evident on this video when she could not discuss it before gathering her emotions. This guy is a piece of work and he’s no alpha.

    • @xAeshax
      @xAeshax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      He is a virgo

    • @sashaboo72
      @sashaboo72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      I agree with you and what is so appealing about him anyway?🤔

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Don't victimize an adult woman

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      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

  • @dakotalegros4966
    @dakotalegros4966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    I honestly feel sad for this girl, like she genuinely thinks that this is love. You can tell how hurt she is by the question “why is it he can sleep with other women” you can see she wasn’t expecting that. You can tell her heart is big and he uses it against her.

    • @thatpersiandude7386
      @thatpersiandude7386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well she does onlyfans, both of them are trash 🗑

    • @Mike_61610
      @Mike_61610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If that’s what she likes then who cares🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @halikay640
    @halikay640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3094

    He is DEFINITELY the type of dude to leave his wife as soon as any kind of misfortune befalls her. God forbid she got cancer and all her hair fell out or her body didn't look the same, he'd be out of there. I get the feeling it's not even her he loves, but what she does for him.

    • @theidealneal
      @theidealneal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And you are DEFINITELY the type of person that instantly believes a video without doing further research. She has Only Fans. She's on the hub. She fucks other women and men on there. So could it makes sense that both of them do their own thing, but still love each other? Could it make sense to you that people will only provide one side of the story to achieve a false narrative that will generate lots of controversy and engagement so they will make money? Just a thought. :)

    • @checynhadi2815
      @checynhadi2815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yeah Ryan because that’s what love is 💀🙄🤣🤣🤣

    • @theidealneal
      @theidealneal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@checynhadi2815 You're naive to think that every human on earth experiences love the same way as you do.

    • @theidealneal
      @theidealneal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@love4rightreasons60 I don't believe in a god. lol

    • @morbidgirl6808
      @morbidgirl6808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@love4rightreasons60 I disagree with this kind of relationship. I feel bad for wife and she deserves better. Yet, i don't believe in god.
      You don't need god to know what's a true love.

  • @UserName-vv1ws
    @UserName-vv1ws 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4277

    I’m a guy who loves his girl and couldn’t imagine sleeping with someone else. The thought makes me feel nauseous, years and years and I still feel the same as the day we met. Couldn’t imagine doing that to her.

    • @kirstymeddings3440
      @kirstymeddings3440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +309

      Me too .. I've only ever been with my partner and the thought of sleeping with someone else makes me feel sick!

    • @IRGhost0
      @IRGhost0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Yeah but you’re just not that kind of guy. He’s more the type who’s meant to bang a lot of women (maybe even yours lol).

    • @originalyou4069
      @originalyou4069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +343

      You sound like a good guy... don't ever change! Men as loyal as you are a rare breed these days, and deserve the utmost respect. I'm so glad you honour your precious Lady...💜

    • @johnblah1040
      @johnblah1040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      @@IRGhost0 you’re not funny.

    • @originalyou4069
      @originalyou4069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Dasistrite absobloominlootley!...I should have added that ... you're so correct there. 👏💜

  • @60scinema
    @60scinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2571

    “There’s nothing in my life that I decided that I can’t have.” I find that disgusting. Sounds like something that a sociopath or a narcissist would say.

    • @OtterUnderwater
      @OtterUnderwater 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Not much better, but he said desire, not decide. If it weren't for the cheating bit, it would make a difference. But alas, he cheats.

    • @shecat1964
      @shecat1964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Malignant narcissist 100%. She has no clue he can not even love her. She is just an appliance to him. A robot maid.

    • @yuibkys3522
      @yuibkys3522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@OtterUnderwater hes not cheating when hes allowed to

    • @munira5672
      @munira5672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I was feeling narc vibes from him too. Seems like she's only there to serve his needs. Just the way he said "There's nothing that I can't have" made it seem like it was his world and everyone else is just living in it.

    • @isy5208
      @isy5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i totally agree to what you mean to say but do you actually know that people with narcissistic personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder or other cluster b personality disorders (yes, they are disorders that are btw most commonly caused by trauma) don't necessarily are abusive? like there is no such thing as narcisstic abuse, abuse is abuse and periodt. so be careful when using these terms while wanting to talk about abusive people!

  • @keyahmae3148
    @keyahmae3148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    It’s really disgusting to hear that her mother put her through this mindset to make her not know her worth and what she deserves

    • @ashleyray2727
      @ashleyray2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My dad told me the same thing my entire life. It's hard to deprogram after a dysfunctional childhood. Her parents were narcissistic and she tried to please them, probably not possible so here she is bc she can make him happy at least.

    • @OtterUnderwater
      @OtterUnderwater 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyray2727 she can make him happy as long as he's allowed to sleep with other women. I wonder how he'd be if he weren't allowed. He probably would cheat anyway, just without her knowing.

    • @33Chapter
      @33Chapter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyray2727 so what did you do about it?

    • @ifykyk679
      @ifykyk679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She literally said that she was into alpha males

    • @ph4kiew
      @ph4kiew 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ifykyk679 Alpha males are cringe

  • @slickboyist
    @slickboyist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6786

    “Monica was cool with it”
    Translation: “I told her that the only way we can be in a relationship is if I sleep with other women, and since she wants to submissively please me and not lose me she said yes, while dying on the inside”

    • @_Zeshii_
      @_Zeshii_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      So what's the issue there exactly? If you want a job do you not need to fulfill the requirements? If you want to be with someone do you not need to fulfill their requirements of you? He gave his stipulation, she is free to decline it and find someone else if she so wishes. Relationships all come with a manner of compromise.

    • @Sillygoosebonk
      @Sillygoosebonk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      @@_Zeshii_ it’s not so easy to leave a relationship that is emotionally toxic like that, you can’t just say oh yeah I’m leaving, she clearly has some trauma from her childhood from her mom that lead to her growing up and thinking this is alright, she clearly doesn’t like that her husband sleeps with other women but she allows it because she’s never had that support in her life to tell her that her self worth is more important that having to please someone who doesn’t even care about you, and yes I’ve gone through a toxic relationship so I know what I’m talking about here

    • @narcissistlovepolygamy6221
      @narcissistlovepolygamy6221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Narcissist men destroying women as you can see in the video!.

    • @Hellfire...
      @Hellfire... 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You're daughters are converting to Islam and these narcissist men prey on you're new Muslim convert into polygamy marriages!... please teach you're daughters to hate married men because most are covert narcissist nowadays!. I'm Muslim

    • @ky015
      @ky015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sounds like a grown adult made a discussion. You know a lot of marriages are just like this with one partner stepping out, the only difference here is he is being honest.

  • @kaasmarcus
    @kaasmarcus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1402

    He is like a kid who wants anything he points at

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @largointheforrest8748
      @largointheforrest8748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@glowblank17 in your dreams! Good luck finding a wife or husband

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@largointheforrest8748,
      *Which makes you say this 🤔? Why can’t an ALPHA have his cake AND eat it too 🤨?*

    • @largointheforrest8748
      @largointheforrest8748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@glowblank17 I just realised your joking lol my bad I thought u were serious

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@largointheforrest8748,
      *I was NOT joking... 🤫 👀.*

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    The "can we cut?" tells us EVERYTHING we need to know.

  • @nazumiverse
    @nazumiverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Am I the only person that sees His head is smaller than his body 💀

    • @sp4cegrl27
      @sp4cegrl27 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      all those steroids are shrinking his head

    • @peytonweb
      @peytonweb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No! 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Nodonttalk29
      @Nodonttalk29 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rip! I’m dead! 😂

  • @williamsweeney3215
    @williamsweeney3215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1367

    She’s not his wife but a “maid” he bangs. The fact that she wants to be a good wife is amazing but he can’t return the love.

    • @elizabethfw2655
      @elizabethfw2655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I am a maid and even I don't do this for the people I clean for. I can't stand him

    • @thegoodsisjas
      @thegoodsisjas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A maid he bangs? 😂😂😂⚰️

    • @madonnamanpower7204
      @madonnamanpower7204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pffth. You can tell from how he expresses himself it's just an act cause he is extremely insecure over how gender queer he is. In his personal life away from the cameras he is probably such a woman with how he expresses effection.

    • @AS-ri1mb
      @AS-ri1mb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A bang maid, one may say

    • @melonie_peppers
      @melonie_peppers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Im glad a man is saying this

  • @KandiKid757
    @KandiKid757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    A traditional marriage is NOT having the man sleep with other women, they don't know what a traditional marriage is. He's taking advantage of her and she doesn't see that. How does she do all this for him and he still needs to sleep around? Is she not enough? Open your eyes lady!

    • @melissahowell1012
      @melissahowell1012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      She’s insecure & isn’t being her authentic self.. poor thing

    • @Nami-hd9yv
      @Nami-hd9yv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah seem to me he don’t love her at all he only love her for what she did for him

    • @SNEEDerino
      @SNEEDerino 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Actually that's about as traditional as marriage gets. Men have had multiple wives for millenia

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He's literally providing _everything_ she has in their relationship, with the caveat he gets to sleep with other women. Clearly they're not hurting for much either.
      Plus traditional also depends on their belief system anyway.
      They'll be fine.

    • @Creativeminds055
      @Creativeminds055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg is that u in your pfp you look so pretty!

  • @MsClaudiaDuran
    @MsClaudiaDuran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6406

    Please don't insult traditional marriages by calling this a "traditional" marriage.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      Right???? I'm in a traditional marriage. But this right here, is not one.

    • @Venus-gn5oi
      @Venus-gn5oi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Exactly, there's nothing traditional about it.

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What is the difference?

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@cicin9313 Yes. Explain why this is NOT your idea of a traditional marriage.

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cicin9313 Yes, please.

  • @ann5986
    @ann5986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    That someone has the atrocity to put this under the motto "love doesn't judge" is a universal disgrace. That is not love, let alone true love, this is a woman of weak character subdued by a stinker whose mother did not know how to put the hammer on him and apply education to teach him about respecting the reason of his birth, respecting women.

    • @hyui5096
      @hyui5096 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i mean i don't think he doesn't respect women just because of this relationship. I agree that this may not be healthy but i don't get why people insult people who choose to have a certain kind of lifestyle. He definitely could be that kind of guy but i find it super cringe when people assume that when they also have no way to know that.

    • @soggybanana
      @soggybanana ปีที่แล้ว

      yesssss

  • @sassialane
    @sassialane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2142

    If everything she does is what he wants, desires, and he’s satisfied with her, he wouldn’t need to go to other women. Everything she does for him, still isn’t enough

    • @souijaboi3198
      @souijaboi3198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      she has only fans account too. she aint no saint either ..

    • @britbrit8058
      @britbrit8058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Right n she will never be good enough for him

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Men are never satisfied

    • @urloudandwrong
      @urloudandwrong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @male leader leader being a sw precludes her from having a faithful partner? y'all doing mental gymnastics in these comments

    • @susang1107
      @susang1107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EXACTLY

  • @404jules
    @404jules 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3761

    Lord give this woman the strength to get out of this relationship. She’s stuck with a sneaky narcissist

    • @Neil-Aspinall
      @Neil-Aspinall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      But she likes it. Not all women are born to be Feminists?

    • @404jules
      @404jules 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      @@Neil-Aspinall she’s doing anything he wants to please him… so he’s convinced her she’s okay with him sleeping with other people. I’d be less concerned for her if she was also sleeping with others/ allowed to, and if her FRIENDS, not us, her FRIENDS weren’t concerned

    • @Neil-Aspinall
      @Neil-Aspinall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@404jules Her sleeping with other men, R U crazy?

    • @404jules
      @404jules 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@Neil-Aspinall yes because then it would mean she has the same views on sex… in the video she even said that she doesn’t. Not rocket science there. Not sure if you know what an unhappy woman looks like either - watch the video again

    • @sumitkumarroy8645
      @sumitkumarroy8645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@404jules dumbest thing i have ever heard. Sleeping around will not make her happy.

  • @Ghosted676
    @Ghosted676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2867

    He un-ironically uses the term "alpha male" which tells you everything you need to know about that guy

    • @4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944
      @4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      he is an alpha male, just like me.

    • @heybeach2693
      @heybeach2693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944 having sex with multiple women doesn't make you an alpha male

    • @4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944
      @4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@heybeach2693 I've had sex with no women.

    • @Basic190
      @Basic190 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944 If you need to tell the world that you are an ‘alpha male’, you’re not🥳

    • @lumpyspace9073
      @lumpyspace9073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@4_vaccuum_salesman_of_marr944 if you have to say it to people..it ain't u sis🤣 keep thinking its muscle and income that makes an alpha..🍿😛🤡

  • @tennyo120
    @tennyo120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    she is not his wife she is his mommy 💀

  • @ezra3015
    @ezra3015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7294

    I love how they try to mask their toxic relationship by calling it “traditional” please don’t have kids we need this to end with y’all

    • @siline7893
      @siline7893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      Very important point! Bringing kids into a toxic situation like this will only bring harm to them. She will teach her daughters to do the same thing her mother taught her and the toxic trauma cycle will just continue! I'm not saying it's the mothers fault because that was the time she was probably living in and it was indoctrinated in her, but its now Monica's duty to recognise that we as women are no longer living in such a society! Wake up!!

    • @whatthehell7975
      @whatthehell7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      @@natoslayer2907 nope

    • @saiyadavilli2883
      @saiyadavilli2883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @Anti-amelia lmao u think ppl are jealous and want that hideous man?

    • @TheFrostyMan21
      @TheFrostyMan21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We need this to be the case with everyone that these videos include.

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @SaphiraSeraphina,
      *Oh look, a feminist 🤠.*

  • @baxterbunch
    @baxterbunch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4716

    I have a traditional marriage and I still get to run my own life, this is not traditional this is abuse there’s a big difference…

    • @nickih2130
      @nickih2130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      This is not abuse. She a weak woman, not abused. She can leave anytime.

    • @Lemoncakelover678
      @Lemoncakelover678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

      @@nickih2130 Its not easy leaving abusive relationships, quit victim blaming

    • @nickih2130
      @nickih2130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Lemoncakelover678 Shut up girl. I had been in a DVA before, no it wasn't easy for me because of the circumstances I was in. However, when the time came, l left. I was with him for 4 years and finally left. No, it not easy, but there are many places people can go to get help, especially when this woman has good friends to help her. I didn't.

    • @manhgotyourback
      @manhgotyourback 2 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      @@nickih2130 you know that not everyone is the same right ? 😄

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not all traditional marriages are cut fr/precisely the same cookie cutter. She likes being told what to wear.

  • @ChampagneGars
    @ChampagneGars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3410

    This shouldn’t be promoted on “Love Don’t Judge” when literally anyone has the right to judge this on all levels…

    • @kalenmcclain6267
      @kalenmcclain6267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      THIS

    • @yuibkys3522
      @yuibkys3522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You have the right to judge and voice your opinion but that shouldn't mean this shouldn't be on the show. Typical communist

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right!!!

    • @Bambim8
      @Bambim8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your way is the way, we get it.

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This should be promoted as it's how classic relationship worked before stupid feminism came

  • @AlexaBellaMuerte
    @AlexaBellaMuerte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    She needs a dog. And hobbies. And self love. And self worth. And friends. And a life.

    • @ayec101
      @ayec101 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And therapy.

  • @michellegordon3319
    @michellegordon3319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4123

    Stop normalizing toxic, abusive relationships 🛑 ✋

    • @Onepieceistheworstfuckinganime
      @Onepieceistheworstfuckinganime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Meh!

    • @angelnicolemorrison3126
      @angelnicolemorrison3126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Who said this was the norm?

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @JICC2SIKK,
      This is how it SHOULD be 🤠. Correct ✅. THIS woman is a WIFE 👱🏻‍♀️. You know - Wash, Iron, F***, Etc.
      *Men are simple: Sx, Sandwich 🥪, and Silence 🤫.*

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @JICC2SIKK,
      Q: How many men does it take to open a beer 🍺?
      *A: None. It should be opened by the time she brings it 👱🏻‍♀️ 🤠.*

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stop putting your nose into normal relationships

  • @leighalynch3535
    @leighalynch3535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3377

    my boyfriend overheard when he said "guys watching this will be jealous I can sleep with other women" he goes no...we enjoy healthy relationships and are very worried about your wife's safety

    • @saintchocolate_actual
      @saintchocolate_actual 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      C o p e

    • @enishalihoward8119
      @enishalihoward8119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Awwww girl I’m jealous 😩 your man sounds perfect, keep him 🥰

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Monogamy isn't natural for humans of either sex. Many women like sleeping around.

    • @missdaydreamss
      @missdaydreamss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      @@denisenoe1534 😂😂😂😂 not many

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@missdaydreamss Many. Women adopt monogamy as a discipline and even celibacy. But we are biologically programmed to want variety.

  • @joem2130
    @joem2130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1941

    "Nobody wants a fat and ugly wife." Wow. I wish she would experience true love in her lifetime. Someone who loves her AND her weight and looks no matter the situation. If she gets cancer, her hair could fall out and if he loved her he would find her beautiful. If she struggled with an eating disorder she could gain/lose weight and her love would find her gorgeous. It hurts my heart to imagine that there are people in relationships that feel that they have to be a certain way physically to be loved.

    • @insomthegreat
      @insomthegreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Who wants a fat and ugly wife??????
      I don't know anyone who does, never heard of it.

    • @justin01144
      @justin01144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@insomthegreat but the dudes that be saying this are usually fat and or ugly themselves. Obviously most people look for attractiveness when looking for a partner and especially when looking for a hook up. But if I'm in love with someone and they gained weight or lost a lot of weight i would still love them, I would just maybe say we should do the gym together or maybe find someone who has the same hobbies and goals like the gym for instance.

    • @justbecausethatswhy.3450
      @justbecausethatswhy.3450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@justin01144 You are a true gentleman 😘

    • @fuwakamiya9842
      @fuwakamiya9842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@insomthegreat there's plenty of married fat women...

    • @insomthegreat
      @insomthegreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@fuwakamiya9842
      You can get away with being fat or ugly but both?????
      A man isn't happy with both he just taking it one day at a time.

  • @kitkatwoman3753
    @kitkatwoman3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This couple needs to get on the show “wife swap”. Switch with a woman who totally controls her husband

    • @waluigi5848
      @waluigi5848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd watch that

  • @sheismyheroiamherkeeper
    @sheismyheroiamherkeeper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    So he's insecure about that big body and little head, so he's controlling and manipulative over his woman. Alright, good to know.🙄

    • @Iamsoul00
      @Iamsoul00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Lol! Yah he’s weird looking.

    • @Mznikkiminajtwin
      @Mznikkiminajtwin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I thought I was the only one who noticed this lol. I kept staring at his upper half and finally realized his neck length is throwing me off 💀

    • @lauraann7027
      @lauraann7027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He does have a small head LOL

    • @DJSherinee
      @DJSherinee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      first thing I noticed when the video played was the small head lol

    • @1indefinitetruth
      @1indefinitetruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      thank goodness its not just me😂😂

  • @kingRichardSteve
    @kingRichardSteve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6333

    I feel for her. She clearly is hurt when they talk about him sleeping with other women... He even has the guts to say it so calmly that he can have everything he desires. What a disgusting and toxic man.

    • @2crisp63
      @2crisp63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      check her insta in the desc this stuff is staged the husband wouldn't allow that insta page if we keep in character here

    • @96Logan
      @96Logan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@2crisp63 yeah, she also has an only fans and is on the Hub.

    • @96Logan
      @96Logan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Bloody Kisses I know, right lol

    • @vonneal1
      @vonneal1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And unattractive! Ewwww

    • @ryantoledocosta
      @ryantoledocosta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      The husband has such a narcissistic demeanor.

  • @louisa3928
    @louisa3928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3053

    There is a difference between being a loving wife and a doormat

    • @Enochulate88
      @Enochulate88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      If shes happy being a doormat why do you care

    • @blueissome5714
      @blueissome5714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@Enochulate88 Just because she's not open about her feelings that doesn't mean she likes they way she's being treated. Serving him is her whole life. She doesn't enjoy anything, she doesn't live for herself, she lives to please HIM. And ON TOP of that, he sleeps with every woman he wants, taking away her pride and dignity even more. The audacity. Someone has to wake her up.

    • @halfvolley11
      @halfvolley11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Polygamy is actually traditional. You should know that Christianity, Judaism and Islam actually permits Polygamy for the man. Instead of sleeping with other women, John should follow the Bible and marry more ladies. Sex before marriage is punishable by hellfire. Abraham, Moses and David had multiple wives.

    • @blueissome5714
      @blueissome5714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@halfvolley11 LOL. I am a Christian and in Christianity marriage is founded on a couple of *ONE* man and *ONE* woman. Even though some of the men you mentioned had many wives, God never allowed it. In Islam and Judaism it is only allowed for men because these religions exist for the benefit of men in the first place. Who cares if that was the case in the past? First of all, the maintenance of a tradition over time is not a proof of its effectiveness, because tradition is something inherited from generation to generation as a legacy that must be preserved, so everyone embraces it indiscriminately in honor of the ancestors. Second, you can not use tradition to justify your actions. "I cheat on my wife because tradition allows it" So you are a content sex addict who does not care about his wife's feelings and you take advantage of an unfair tradition. Why should we perpetuate the injustice? Because it is a tradition? Both the man and the woman should remain loyal to one another. ~The end~.

    • @vive335
      @vive335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@blueissome5714 agreed

  • @sandrasalinas9787
    @sandrasalinas9787 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She doesn’t like to please, she wants approval. This steams from childhood neglect or trauma.

    • @ab-jc8nv
      @ab-jc8nv ปีที่แล้ว

      How r u

  • @prettymamacita9586
    @prettymamacita9586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3893

    It was very telling when she said “can we cut.” I can see the trajectory of this relationship already.

    • @tisayoung8546
      @tisayoung8546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +333

      Absolutely telling...She is hurting. I can't stand him.

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @mirianadimitrova2112
      @mirianadimitrova2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @A H Where did I say you need to?! You're brainwashed and unfortunately there's no help for that

    • @prettymamacita9586
      @prettymamacita9586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @@mirianadimitrova2112 been married for 30 talk to me when u get where I am … oh wait.. never mind.

    • @mirianadimitrova2112
      @mirianadimitrova2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@prettymamacita9586 yeah right, 30 my as*

  • @annadickey5752
    @annadickey5752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1756

    The biggest clue to this being an abusive relationship is when she was asked of she chose it or it "just happened"...she did NOT choose this. I've been there, I didn't realize how much the man in my life took over and controlled till I left him. LEAVE HIM.

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @robertgreen8131
      @robertgreen8131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Anna
      How are you doing today?

    • @Sunny-dw6xe
      @Sunny-dw6xe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@glowblank17 ew. No

    • @CR-wk2re
      @CR-wk2re 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Even if she did choose it, it's not uncommon for women with low self esteem to consent to being abused. They just call it BDSM.

    • @dalerobinson3184
      @dalerobinson3184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      BLESS YOUR HEART. FOR GETTING AWAY FROM HIM. I AM PROUD OF YOU. I SEEN THIS KIND OF THING GROWING UP THRU MY LIFE TIME.

  • @Venus-gn5oi
    @Venus-gn5oi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5840

    Everything he does is for himself. And everything she does is for him. That's not "traditional marriage" or "alpha male". That's being in a toxic relationship with an AH.

    • @pedosgotovegas
      @pedosgotovegas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Shut up let this man be happy

    • @Venus-gn5oi
      @Venus-gn5oi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@pedosgotovegas Who do you think you are that you can tell me to shut up 😂 He's never going to be happy because he's a selfish b****

    • @YFL.111
      @YFL.111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      What is AH?

    • @mistymushka768
      @mistymushka768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Exactly. He didn't even smile when she said she lives for him. He is absolutely disgusting and I would absolutely love to meet his parents. Because damn they failed raising a good man.

    • @devinowens2166
      @devinowens2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@YFL.111 which is true he is clearly in the wrong…adultery come on at least fantasize about it

  • @daughteroftheking3220
    @daughteroftheking3220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ewww I’m disgusted she took submissive to another level of degrading her worth. This ain’t no traditional marriage. This isn’t what the Bible calls submissive this is just deeming her God-given beauty and worth. I pray she leaves this man and seeks help before something happens to her. I can’t believe he acts like this toward her. He is pathetic and actually thinks he is winning. He is hurting someone who would give her life for him. Can’t believe this is how some psycho ppl actually live. How could she be okay with him sleeping another women she deserves more than that. My heart aches!

  • @emmm_4465
    @emmm_4465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1739

    I'd be really interested to know what her childhood was like, whoever were her guardians and taught her this failed her big time. Her life isn't for her, it's for him.

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      If she sees this as normal and acceptable she most definitely came from an abusive family environment herself

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @May M yes!

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thisss

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ljounieh yup

    • @RosyCheeksBoutiq
      @RosyCheeksBoutiq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Honestly I think she’s got the right mindset of what it is to be a wife.. I do think she should stand up for how she feels about him sleeping with other women because that is absolutely not okay.. but living your life to please your husband makes for a very happy life and marriage. We were literally created to be a helper to our husbands, that is our number 1 job as a wife. If he was leading her in Christ and not his own selfishness they would have a very beautiful marriage.

  • @DawnDiggetyNoDoubt
    @DawnDiggetyNoDoubt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2933

    “Why is it that John can sleep with other women?”
    Her: “can we cut “
    Tells me everything I need to know

    • @marcos-ll2yr
      @marcos-ll2yr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      exactly

    • @aliaziz1145
      @aliaziz1145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because men are polygamous by nature

    • @marcos-ll2yr
      @marcos-ll2yr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      @@aliaziz1145 woman too, humans are like that. No only men.

    • @aliaziz1145
      @aliaziz1145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@marcos-ll2yr women are “hypergamous”, meaning they want one partner who’s higher than them in wealth, height, and status (quality over quantity).
      Men are polygamous and don’t care much about status, we only care about youth and basic beauty, but we want many of them (QUANTITY over quality)

    • @marcos-ll2yr
      @marcos-ll2yr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@aliaziz1145 ''women are “hypergamous”, meaning they want one partner who’s higher than them in wealth, height, and status (quality over quantity).'' WRONG, have many scientific articles, that women in the past, have a lot of children from multiple partner, not only one.

  • @loricastrodrkkqqk3982
    @loricastrodrkkqqk3982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1799

    It's a thin line between this and abuse. I left my abusive ex husband and didn't realize how bad it was until I got away from him.

    • @tiffanyrussotto
      @tiffanyrussotto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts

    • @tigaputradeta4351
      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 💜 NUDE.SNAPGIRLS.TODAY/oliv13ra 💜 PRIVATE S*X
      #ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!1#万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!#今後は気を付けないとね5). .
      !💖🖤❤#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#1万人を超える人が見ていたも ん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!( #笑)#垃圾

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @carriehilton5099
      @carriehilton5099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Isn't that the truth! Once I got away from my ex, I realized just how much worse it was than I ever thought while sitting in the middle of it.

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And that line is just whether or not people are observing them. I would bet actual money that in private he is FAR from kind to her

  • @Bhavya_2000
    @Bhavya_2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She really said "my mom says noone would like an ugly and fat women" bodyshaming at peak 😀

  • @bbqsaucelover
    @bbqsaucelover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1686

    being an “alpha” doesn’t include needing a woman to make you food like she’s your mom

    • @aristokrat91
      @aristokrat91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @Winter Wyvern wrong

    • @isabelkillian3686
      @isabelkillian3686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @Winter Wyvern he has full control of the money. She’s not treating him like an atm, but she will need money to live? She does all the housework/cooking! and in some circumstances that works well, with one partner making money and the other maintaining the house. What doesn’t work, is his utter control over everything she does, her own purpose being to please her husband. While he also is allowed to see other women. Ridiculous!

    • @maxdashen
      @maxdashen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Split responsibility. He works and she maintains the house. If he worked, cooked, cleaned then what is she doing?

    • @Loctician
      @Loctician 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The good part is not as bad bruh because he does cover the finances so cooking ain’t that bad what’s weird is everything else like outfits and other women

    • @tonneblack5168
      @tonneblack5168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Everything about that guy lets the world know that he has not matured into an adult. He plays with toys, video games, guitars, has to have his "mom" take care of him. She really needs to kick him to the curb and get a real man.

  • @marishasveganworld2240
    @marishasveganworld2240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2162

    Let’s try not to normalize toxic relationships like this…

    • @fendiprincess7766
      @fendiprincess7766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes, THANK YOU

    • @isheeppol8761
      @isheeppol8761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Every episode in this series is about toxic relationships.

    • @BrazilianImperialist
      @BrazilianImperialist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are not trying to normalize, she likes it

    • @zhisu2665
      @zhisu2665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@BrazilianImperialist no one enjoys it. they're groomed and manipulated into staying in these abusive relationships.

    • @marishasveganworld2240
      @marishasveganworld2240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@WolverineXOXO
      Why not what?

  • @z3r0Co0l84
    @z3r0Co0l84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Why does this relationship feel like a future Murder Suicide😳

    • @rizzybone964
      @rizzybone964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THAT PART!

    • @cjo4210
      @cjo4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      He doesnt smile at all!

  • @KrisB82
    @KrisB82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    These two are meant for each other, they’re both using the other one. John needs a mom and Monica needs a dad.

  • @allisonstafford8224
    @allisonstafford8224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    This is what happens when you never tell someone “no”.

    • @monharris28
      @monharris28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      exactly, shes a people pleasure to the 10th degree--TOXIC

    • @philima
      @philima 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No, this is what happens if you're in a bad place and someone manipulates you, you're not used to have your boundaries respected (people in toxic situations say no but often the only way to enforce your no is to leave and that's tricky) and your finally eroded enough to lie to yourself in order to endure and have a tiny amount of peace.

    • @DemiYourGoddess
      @DemiYourGoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@philima i think it's both. As someone who managed to end up in an abusive relationship twice , different person both times ofc, it can be hard to leave yes. But no one can do that for us. She clearly has friends who worry and look out for her , going as far as to confront her "man" about their relationship. I had a huge support system, too. First time it took me three years to leave cuz I thought that was the relationship dynamic i deserved. Otherworldly punishment and emotional distress, you name it. But there was no peace. Ever. The second time it took me three months. And it only took me that long because that is how long it took them to show their true colors in blatant red flags and i said no. No to all of it. And ran. I knew the signs by then and still had a great support system for rebuilding afterwards (financially mostly due to me having to take said ex to court to get my stolen dog back 🙃)

    • @mishi144
      @mishi144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was raised in an environment where if you said no, there would be consequences. Never saying no and never standing up for yourself becomes subconscious and an automatic response because you have been deeply indoctrinated and programmed to be that way. You think it's your natural personality and temperament to be highly agreeable, fearful, and submissive and your real self (the one that feels angry and wants to stand up for themselves) is deeply buried and repressed. You have no sense of self or identity.

    • @roxasbuddy
      @roxasbuddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I promise you she rejected thousands of dudes especially "nice guys" in her inbox. Dude just got game

  • @Estrellitawilliams
    @Estrellitawilliams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1000

    Run girl, runnnnnnn! She’s not happy that he’s sleeping around. She literally didn’t want to talk about it.

    • @jus2cute09
      @jus2cute09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      She can have him! Otherwise he’ll abuse someone else, I don’t feel sympathy for women like her.

    • @ebenezerkittoe9115
      @ebenezerkittoe9115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She says she loves it. She has the right to happiness. . The world is getting so twisted and people accommodate anything all in the name of rights.
      I am not the least bit surprised at her. Honestly.
      After all they are 2 consenting adults.
      Wish her godspeed in all her endeavors...

    • @tigaputradeta4351
      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 💜 NUDE.SNAPGIRLS.TODAY/oliv13ra 💜 PRIVATE S*X
      #ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!1#万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!#今後は気を付けないとね5). .
      !💖🖤❤#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#1万人を超える人が見ていたも ん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!( #笑)#垃圾

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @sammietulip7948
      @sammietulip7948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well, she chose this lifestyle. If that’s what she wants, then let her have it.

  • @70s_arabella
    @70s_arabella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2367

    ”Love don't judge" but honey, this isn’t love. This is TOXICITY.

    • @susang1107
      @susang1107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes exactly!

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nope, that's how relationships should be, man is the boss, woman is his assistant

    • @robi1885
      @robi1885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@postit5725 Amen

    • @O_Rei
      @O_Rei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Oh, shut up you hypocrites: if the roles were inverted, I BET you’d be fawning at how “brave and empowered she is!” and “how open-minded and deconstructed he is!”

    • @disnut5557
      @disnut5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lmao I love the fact that you're judging her

  • @evilangel2918
    @evilangel2918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how they pan to all his toy trucks after he compares himself to "alpha males" in the animal kingdom 😂😂😂

  • @jonathanburks7291
    @jonathanburks7291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3103

    She’s gonna need years and years of therapy if she ever runs away from this psychopath. You can tell he doesn’t even love her😭

    • @bible4truth
      @bible4truth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Simping is not a virtue.

    • @voooptechnical6368
      @voooptechnical6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cry this guy got a good loving wife
      And you are sleeping in dumpster every night touching yourself 😆😆😆😆

    • @commonbeing9359
      @commonbeing9359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bible4truth ha.. Another phycopath

    • @crystalyn2855
      @crystalyn2855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Yeah. He is just using her and she is so broken she is easy to manipulate.

    • @aquamarinedream8304
      @aquamarinedream8304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Yep! I love D/s, but he doesn't love her or treat her with the kindness, consideration & respect that a good Dom would. You can be in control but still respect your partner.

  • @Lu-ii8he
    @Lu-ii8he 2 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    That's sad: She always cares about him and his happiness, but doesn't do that for her own one

    • @tigaputradeta4351
      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 💜 NUDE.SNAPGIRLS.TODAY/oliv13ra 💜 PRIVATE S*X
      #ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!1#万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!#今後は気を付けないとね5). .
      !💖🖤❤#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#1万人を超える人が見ていたも ん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!( #笑)#垃圾

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@glowblank17 - Why?

    • @alvaroakatico9188
      @alvaroakatico9188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Obviously this is not what anyone in their right mind considers normal. But hey, six years together and they seem happy. Good for them!

    • @IamCarrieNotBranshaw
      @IamCarrieNotBranshaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo!!!!!

  • @geegee_509
    @geegee_509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    When being submissive still doesn’t get you a good man. 😂😂😂😂

    • @christianpreston9176
      @christianpreston9176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Best comment yet!

    • @geegee_509
      @geegee_509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@keiosha0592 did you read my comment? I definitely suggested he’s not a good man. And pointed out that submission isn’t the be all end all to getting a good man. All this talk from the manosphere about submission and y’all still act a whole fool

    • @victorsoto4821
      @victorsoto4821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ​@@geegee_509 You women choosing to be submissive to the wrong guys is you're problem. The fact is most women will choose the hyper masculine/alpha dude over the more quiet and reserved dude who is just looking for a good woman but he's not "exciting" enough. At the end of the day you women get to choose who you want to be with. Think about how many guys you have in your "Friendzone".

    • @leeroysaenz1774
      @leeroysaenz1774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She has an onlyfans

    • @geegee_509
      @geegee_509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@leeroysaenz1774 😂😂😂💀💀 that’s golden. So basically they are married for no reason. 👌🏻

  • @smikebacts
    @smikebacts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The biggest concern to me for any person who is fully supported by another adult is that your financial security is entirely in their hands. If John decided he was done and moving on. She really would be at square one and totally reliant on spousal support.
    Great home making skills are great but I also hope she has a plan for retirement. That she has skills she can use to support herself if John didn't.

    • @janlaag
      @janlaag 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Home making skills are indeed skills, people work in restaurants, hotels, nurseries, psychological support, consultancies, beauty industries... The only thing that makes all that seem different from Monica's skills is the education and certification market that is quite literally destroying the economy for the sake of bad teachers... Still, her skills are marketable.

  • @morgan7112
    @morgan7112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3713

    This isn’t a “love don’t judge” moment. This is abuse. She has been so manipulated & gaslighted that she no longer belongs to herself. Also, it’s not that she would be a horrible mom, but this is a horrible relationship to bring children into. If he is this abusive & controlling with his wife, I’m sure he will do the same to children.

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      If he ever had daughters it would be just awful! They'd be raised with BOTH parents drilling into their little minds that their value is limited to what their husband thinks of them. Heartbreaking.

    • @katiebunny3396
      @katiebunny3396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      And sleep with the kids too because "he can have whatever he wants" and in nature sometimes that happens too, doesn't mean it's right so the whole "in the wild" thing he said is a bad example

    • @morgan7112
      @morgan7112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@MeganVictoriaKearns yea he really should never be a father.

    • @MompreneurDiary
      @MompreneurDiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wait until he decided he wants to sleep with one of their children. Cause he can have anything he wants right

    • @bryangillie3679
      @bryangillie3679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cheers Ladies!!! I wish you all the best!!!

  • @picon63
    @picon63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +826

    Her mother taught her to cook, clean, be a good wife, keep her husband happy and to look pretty and not get fat because God forbid who would want her. But her mom never taught her to have self respect, be independent, be strong, or be self-reliant, she basically taught her to be a freakin doormat. And he's crazy if he thinks he's all that. And his big contribution is to make sure all the bills are paid. Hell it doesn't take a genius to do that.

    • @monharris28
      @monharris28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      agree, he acting like bringing home a paycheck is such a big deal, i know successful women who can run circles around him

    • @dissolve3925
      @dissolve3925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So be an airhead and not think for herself is essentially what she wants to be.

    • @kinkydaddy3147
      @kinkydaddy3147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Cooking and cleaning are basic life skills which everyone should know. He's so stupid that he can't cook and clean for himself or perform basic tasks when she's not there. This guy needs therapy and to get help

    • @TheFrostyMan21
      @TheFrostyMan21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Doesn’t take a genius but it’s still work and time. Bad take there. But I somewhat agree. She needs to stand up for herself in the case of his cheating but why is cooking seen as such a bad thing to you modern day feminist. There are women that genuinely get pleasure from serving their man. Plus it’s pretty nice to try and look your best for your partner, that goes both ways. Fat people can go off themselves.

    • @Stupidassho
      @Stupidassho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They live in a huge house with food and clothes

  • @amandak3198
    @amandak3198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1436

    THIS is NOT "traditional housewife". This is an abusive relationship and she is telling herself that to justify the abuse because she is stuck in the relationship.

    • @2crisp63
      @2crisp63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dw its staged

    • @tombogaert1015
      @tombogaert1015 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @YoungCilantro
      @YoungCilantro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What they don’t tell you is she’s an amateur pronz star and she shoots with other men.

    • @spartak9425
      @spartak9425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      islamophobe

    • @spartak9425
      @spartak9425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Adam A. wrong about "sleeping around" - furthermore, you assume he doesn't value his health and is so ignorant he wouldn't take measures to protect his health
      why are you so judgmental about different relationship models?

  • @bxby_cat
    @bxby_cat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He basically made his wife be his mom 💀

  • @pamgessler5923
    @pamgessler5923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1586

    A "traditional marriage" NEVER contains infidelity. A Biblically submissive simply means that she leaves room for her husband to make the final decisions for the family when they can't decide what to do. It does NOT mean being a slave or a doormat or the victim of sexual abuse.

    • @hazyspirits3177
      @hazyspirits3177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes! Thank you!!

    • @RapperGeek
      @RapperGeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Look up biblical polygyny then revisit your statement

    • @AJManol
      @AJManol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      But- biblically, she is his property.

    • @kagenohikari8
      @kagenohikari8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@RapperGeek there's a difference between infidelity and polygamy.

    • @RapperGeek
      @RapperGeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kagenohikari8 Are you saying this is infidelity? If so, how? She knows what he does

  • @Anchoringthelight
    @Anchoringthelight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    This isn’t a kink. This man is controlling and abusive. I can see her fear in her eyes. I hope she can get the help she needs to get out of this situation

    • @kingjoker8399
      @kingjoker8399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @karankickboxingchamp
      @karankickboxingchamp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol Right

    • @funkymothman6579
      @funkymothman6579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is literally staged. She is an onlyfans creator and sleeps with other dudes all the time. You can't see any "fear" in her eyes

  • @Ang_Nicole
    @Ang_Nicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    My parents are in a traditional marriage, 35 years still going strong… this is NOT traditional 😂

    • @kaykutcher2103
      @kaykutcher2103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Irrational yes traditional no.

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There are different traditions and different ways of being a housewife. Not every traditional woman is OK with her husband sleeping around nor is every traditional housewife craving being bossed around.

    • @donnarohoman2816
      @donnarohoman2816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@denisenoe1534 Sleeping around when you’re married is not traditional. Please stop

    • @denisenoe1534
      @denisenoe1534 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@donnarohoman2816 I just made the point that SOME traditional women wouldn't be OK with it. Heck, SOME would divorce the man for it!

    • @aristokrat91
      @aristokrat91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Winter Wyvern just say you hate women and move on, it’s much easier

  • @Noturmumma
    @Noturmumma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Just goes to show no matter how beautiful you are and how much you try to please your partner it won’t stop them wanting others. She’s attractive. She can find someone who will worship the ground she walks on. And I’m sure she can find someone with this kink but will still respect her

    • @luna1r
      @luna1r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right. she could do anything for him, it would never be enough. it's a reflection of how she thinks about herself. i feel deeply for her, hope she realizes her worth soon.

  • @amm-xn6nr
    @amm-xn6nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2083

    This video is making me proud of leaving my recent toxic relationship and I'm sending all the strength to this woman to do the same

    • @gingin4471
      @gingin4471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Glad you're out of the relationship! 💕

    • @lauraann7027
      @lauraann7027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Glad you left!! Sending love your way 💕

    • @josephwhigham3490
      @josephwhigham3490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen

    • @LarissaMarie92
      @LarissaMarie92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      For real!!!!

    • @newsystem420
      @newsystem420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I recently did the same. Proud of you.

  • @phish2947
    @phish2947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    In Monica’s words “females have a different way of viewing sex” so she’s implying women can only view sex as a intimate thing , so that begs to ask - is her husband having sex with men? Because if females are so incapable of casual sex who the hell is he sleeping with? Using the “men are meant to have sex with lots of women” card is so ridiculous considering they are having sex with women who are clearly okay with casual sex , you’re trying to find a reason to justify your husband humiliating you and not respecting you enough to try to not put his wiener in everything that breathes. You deserve better .

    • @Hellakiddie
      @Hellakiddie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I was getting that vibe I’m glad you mentioned this

    • @breerivera8865
      @breerivera8865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Omg yes finally someone mentions this !

    • @MelaniaRose
      @MelaniaRose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      She’s going to resent him sooner or later

    • @breerivera8865
      @breerivera8865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@MelaniaRose she already does she doesn't really care and probably feels stuck.

    • @tigaputradeta4351
      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 💜 NUDE.SNAPGIRLS.TODAY/oliv13ra 💜 PRIVATE S*X
      #ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!1#万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!#今後は気を付けないとね5). .
      !💖🖤❤#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#1万人を超える人が見ていたも ん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!( #笑)#垃圾

  • @user-mo3ue1to2o
    @user-mo3ue1to2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    "Anyone who's been with a woman knows woman don't know what to wear" yeahhh, nooo, there's a bunch of us who know exactly what we want to wear

    • @insomthegreat
      @insomthegreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He doesn't like the ones who "know" it all.

    • @beccac6812
      @beccac6812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As if he’s a fashionista 😆

    • @Leandro-X.2024.Alkebulan
      @Leandro-X.2024.Alkebulan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I always tell men: “ if you want to know how to attract women, listen to what type of dudes they complain about and you’ll have your answer”

    • @wildchild1427
      @wildchild1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beccac6812 LMAo.....he probably is😉

    • @moonaalei9488
      @moonaalei9488 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes like bro 🥴 & I love how the interviewer jumped str8 into the “openness” of their relationship smh

  • @War-child_
    @War-child_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nah, I'm judging this one, low self esteem or child hood trauma

  • @MRush-ei9ms
    @MRush-ei9ms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    He can sleep with others but I'm wondering who in their right mind would want to sleep with him? He is not even attractive. She needs to leave him, this is not love.

    • @KimmieSan97
      @KimmieSan97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂 young foolish girls

    • @aliseesfandiar4912
      @aliseesfandiar4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He’s so dorky and unattractive..

    • @personne980
      @personne980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Something is just off about his head idfk what it is but gurl 😭

    • @alextogo8367
      @alextogo8367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He has money it seems. Money will make even the ugliest attractive. Facts.

    • @wsrtwetr
      @wsrtwetr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He has a tiny thumb head lol and looks like he wouldn't shut up about how popular he was in high school...

  • @mizzysparrots4874
    @mizzysparrots4874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4331

    Its totally one thing to have a dom/sub relationship. Its another for a woman to openly say her purpose in life is to please her husband. No. You are a person too and being a sub doesn't mean you don't matter.

    • @mugclub3971
      @mugclub3971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That is true

    • @mizzysparrots4874
      @mizzysparrots4874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      @@XH6 thats not what I got out of it. She was asked if she wanted this type of relationship or just ended up that way. She admitted it just ended up that way. That doesn't mean she wants it. Many women are afraid to contradict their man and will agree to things they don't really like

    • @inabel.24
      @inabel.24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yaazz. I do not judge people indulging in BDSM behind doors but its another story if they carry the dom/sub on their daily life. I would feel so suffocated and run the hills🙂🙂. Maybe its just me being a flighty bird and cant stay put in one place or just grew up in a society where women are very much empowered. Anyway, if she really is happy then I respect that.

    • @BrazilianImperialist
      @BrazilianImperialist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's what she wants

    • @BrazilianImperialist
      @BrazilianImperialist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@inabel.24 Once you hit 18 your opinions will be slightly different

  • @codename495
    @codename495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +895

    Yeah, this is abuse. She’s consenting to be treated like property and her husband is disgusting.

    • @postit5725
      @postit5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You're brainwashed, this is how relationships should be as always have been through histroy

    • @kellysalinas7478
      @kellysalinas7478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I pray no kids are added. Kids require a lot of attention that will not go to him and he will not be happy about it.

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Living a sub/Dom lifestyle is absolutely valid and fine... But this situation smacks of a manipulative abuser and an insecure woman thats being taken advantage of

    • @amberrodriguez851
      @amberrodriguez851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is not abuse. This is how it’s been throughout history. It’s just recent that people have been “equal” in gender rules.

    • @ToReal4sucaz
      @ToReal4sucaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok strong 💪 woman go be happy🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Amber_rose009
    @Amber_rose009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Be good shaped and look pretty because nobody want ugly and fat wife” come on silicon what you talking about

  • @alexsttham3156
    @alexsttham3156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1990

    Her friend Victoria just straight up questioning her friends 'Traditional' rules is what I'm living for.

    • @baxterbunch
      @baxterbunch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      I’m so glad someone is honest with her, I have traditional marriage but this isn’t that, this is abuse…

    • @sharnice4366
      @sharnice4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Whilst Audrey was silently judging with her eyes

    • @ieshacarter7986
      @ieshacarter7986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hands down to Victoria being the real one in this!

    • @xoxoxoxoxoxo3776
      @xoxoxoxoxoxo3776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      When I hear him say that how mammals were born with too being able to bang a bunch of females. WELL JOHN REMEMBER YOURE A HUMAN AND IT MEANS “CONTROL” if you can’t “CONTROL” then I guess you’re choosing to be an animal. She deserves way better. Also this is why most people have religion is to Hope control your temptations!

    • @pinkforeverlove1
      @pinkforeverlove1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As a fellow Victoria - I’m glad she was a G about it.

  • @KirstiStephenson
    @KirstiStephenson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1286

    There's a big difference between being "Submissive' and being "Subservient" This is not a traditional marriage this is a very narcissistic egotistical man taking advantage of a woman who was raised by a mother who taught her to put her husband first always, and not to have hopes and dreams of her own which I find extremely sad. It's also NOT just "Being a housewife"! Housewives still share duties and responsibilities with their husband. It just means that she's not working.....she may be at home taking care of the children, or taking care of the house, but she's not getting the respect she deserves as a the Head of their Household, Wife, or as a Partner from her husband especially when he goes and sleeps with other women! That's the ultimate form of abuse manipulation and control. She is definitely In too deep at this point to extricate herself from this situation unfortunately, but she's a grown woman and she chose this lifestyle and no one has the right to judge, however what she preaches versus what she practices is not aligned at all in Reality or by Definition of a Healthy, Loving, Traditional Relationship. Peace and Love Sister!....

  • @lilkaymarie
    @lilkaymarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1576

    her eyes say it all. you can tell she's deeply sad and hurt by how her eyes look everywhere but the camera. you can tell she's JUST doing it to please him. i hope she gets out of that toxic relationship, she deserves better 💕
    Edit: Y'all still arguing in the comments?? It's been 2 months!! 😭

    • @lilkaymarie
      @lilkaymarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @Adam A. Uh, honestly these situations aren't related. There is CLEARLY abuse happening here on the dudes behalf and she's so obviously hurt and not okay. She can't even explain why she lets him sleep with other women. Not once did I say "men don't go through it", any gender can experience this, but please don't sit there and try to convince any one in the comment section that these two scenarios are in any way related. They aren't.

    • @lilkaymarie
      @lilkaymarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Adam A. You act like Stockholm syndrome doesn't exist, or past traumas don't play into your relationships. With that logic, your buddy Matt could just crap out a couple grand, and leave her since it's so easy to leave toxic relationships. Get a grip.

    • @ashutoshm407
      @ashutoshm407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's dead inside it's all fake

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Adam A. Adam , yes regrettably men get into horrible situations , too .

    • @vortexlight8387
      @vortexlight8387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why u shaming her? Why u shaming her femininity? To be feminine is to please ur husband, why u shaming her femininity??

  • @denizkandaz4082
    @denizkandaz4082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just wanna cry my heart out for this lady

  • @sarah9044
    @sarah9044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1213

    "Anyone who calls themself an alpha is a beta. Lions don't have to tell anyone that they are a lion" - Iliza S. comedian 🦁

    • @Outlawgirl63
      @Outlawgirl63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Illiza S. Is a funny comedian I like her dog Blanche rip she had her own dating show she knows her stuff

    • @Afrocreolebombshelle
      @Afrocreolebombshelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen 😂

    • @lucypearl7827
      @lucypearl7827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True!

    • @deborahhanks2232
      @deborahhanks2232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can we know each other

    • @justinnaarden9290
      @justinnaarden9290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thats exactly how a beta would explain it.

  • @solbutton1611
    @solbutton1611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1426

    When she talked about her mom, that was all I needed to hear to know why she settled for this

    • @wildchild1427
      @wildchild1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      where is her mom now...I'd like to know. I'd like to see the woman who raised her daughter to be a doormat!!

    • @LeeFromAsia
      @LeeFromAsia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You people are gullible. This video is fake. They even keep removing my comments. I'm on to you censor.

    • @joi6002
      @joi6002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is true. Women back in the day were taught to settle for what man you already have.

    • @JB-hb7fd
      @JB-hb7fd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!! Everything made sense in that moment 🤔

    • @doraluffy
      @doraluffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@LeeFromAsia eventhough it's fake, couple like them is still exist.

  • @puck6080
    @puck6080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1531

    3:40 just turns my stomach "there is nothing in my life that I've decided I can't have" yes there are. There are plenty of things that's what life is. He's literally the perfect example of a kid never being told no or having to do something he doesn't like

    • @mugshotmarley
      @mugshotmarley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thats an ambitious attitude. Go out an get it. Do and pursue things that make you happy in life. Hopefully he has morals and doesn't want anything illegal, but other than that. Its a great mindset.

    • @puck6080
      @puck6080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@mugshotmarley It's a great mindset when applied to goals sure. Get any job, car, or house you want. But applying that mindset to justify you sleeping with numerous women when your wife doesn't like it is gross. He's genuinely convinced himself that having a go-getter attitude justifies his actions

    • @TheHarshestTruth
      @TheHarshestTruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@puck6080 She does no have to be his wife, she can leave whenever she wants, he has made it clear how he wants to live his life and he has every right to do what makes him happy and so does she, he should not have to sacrifice his happiness to make her happy and vice versa, if she does not like it then she should leave and find a man who is more in tune with herself.

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mugshotmarley yes a great mindset when you're not using it as an excuse for being unfaithful

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TheHarshestTruth this true but leaving a unhealthy realtionship is not as easy as it sounds for some, especially if she has issues and is dependent on him because of this

  • @nayshkamariel
    @nayshkamariel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LMAOOOOOOOOO HIS LITTLE HEAD ON HIS HUGE BODY IM CRYING 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he thinks hes a prize or something lmaooo

  • @gongoozleriam9783
    @gongoozleriam9783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    She looked like she was about to cry when they asked about his infidelity. It's impossible to put forth all the effort she does and still not be enough for him and not feel horrible feelings. What he's doing to her is wrong. She seems to be deep down be afraid of him and toning it down with delusion as to appear normal.

    • @aliseesfandiar4912
      @aliseesfandiar4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Damn, that is crazy she does everything and 98% of her daily life revolves around him and he still doesn’t get enough and still cheats on her that’s sad.. he’s a psychopath.

    • @jayrose4748
      @jayrose4748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can't imagine him not getting violent with her at some point

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope she doesn’t get any stds or crazy side chicks harassing her.

  • @nicky8385
    @nicky8385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Does anyone else think that John's body is so weird he has a tiny head on a wide body.. he looks like a odd looking lolly pop 😆

    • @theL0VERS
      @theL0VERS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he's got the peanut sized head and a large body. And not an attractive face. Way too much going on for him to be acting that way

    • @olivelasco5587
      @olivelasco5587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahahahaha omfg😂💀💀

    • @AA-yc9dq
      @AA-yc9dq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He’s not attractive. It’s giving pinhead

    • @charlotteru4634
      @charlotteru4634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LMAOOOOO

    • @user-bf1xj6nh4s
      @user-bf1xj6nh4s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Johns head said 🕹

  • @shukk5613
    @shukk5613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1343

    At the beginning, i was like “ okay.. to each their own when it comes it a relationship” .. but the fact that only HE can sleep with other women , and not vice versa … i pray this woman can get out asap!!

    • @kalel2183
      @kalel2183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This is all scripted. she is OF creator and very well known for xxx videos

    • @drainoman35
      @drainoman35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kalel2183 What's her OF name?

    • @emmanuelgxlden7170
      @emmanuelgxlden7170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kalel2183 what ?

    • @yourvenparianen5390
      @yourvenparianen5390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men and women are different. A guy who sleeps with a lot of women is not the same a woman who sleeps with a lot of guys

    • @Motivation._Master
      @Motivation._Master 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BubbaMaraj7241 men want different rates. Do you think the athletes, actors, CEO's and musicians are really only with 1 girl. Of course not you see it all the Time

  • @nicolelang3109
    @nicolelang3109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s called gas lighting and sexual coercion she’s so manipulated this is abuse

  • @christinedockler9380
    @christinedockler9380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    You lost me at sleeping with other women. It's Obvious she is not okay with it.

    • @Charlotte66666
      @Charlotte66666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Right,did you see her reaction?

    • @Kc-dq7zj
      @Kc-dq7zj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yeah, she's definitely not ok with that.

    • @tigaputradeta4351
      @tigaputradeta4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 💜 NUDE.SNAPGIRLS.TODAY/oliv13ra 💜 PRIVATE S*X
      #ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!1#万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!#今後は気を付けないとね5). .
      !💖🖤❤#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#1万人を超える人が見ていたも ん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!( #笑)#垃圾

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @cedarspirit
      @cedarspirit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @sugar yeah, talk about a double standard.
      Not to say she should cheat, but I just hate that he does.

  • @tellis3811
    @tellis3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Husband: Mentions "Alpha Male"
    Cameraman: Cuts to Tonka trucks in the office
    🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I can't

    • @pastpresentfuture3599
      @pastpresentfuture3599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂 he has such a tiny head I thought the thumbnail was photoshopped…

    • @meeks1201
      @meeks1201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂 I died at that

    • @susangibson9123
      @susangibson9123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That really made me laugh !!! 😂😂😂

    • @abigailcosta1716
      @abigailcosta1716 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man understood the assignment 😂😂😂

  • @ronjakh
    @ronjakh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1126

    She’s basically a 50s housewife and does everything for her husband whilst he’s out sleeping with whomever he wants. Congrats.

    • @ErinDeBuitleir
      @ErinDeBuitleir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Girlllllll... It just goes to show that you can LITERALLY be "The Picture Perfect Woman" practically perfect in every way.....and a muthaphacka STILL wouldn't be worth sh!t to you. I feel so sorry for her 😢😢

    • @ke6264
      @ke6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      My grandparents got married in the 50s and I know this wasn't going on in their home.

    • @Nyufly
      @Nyufly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's all he's doing? Looks like they have a pretty cushy lifestyle thanks to him.

    • @dionned.6176
      @dionned.6176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@ke6264 girl don’t get too confident some old people got secrets they took to the grave.

    • @judywalter9412
      @judywalter9412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That is not how a 50s housewife is like

  • @hutosix62
    @hutosix62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is not an Alpha . 16 yrs old gang members from my neighborhood will bash him up in single combat

  • @kaylawarner5487
    @kaylawarner5487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    My best friend had this same type of relationship with her now ex-husband. He was also able to sleep with multiple women but she wasn’t allowed to sleep with anyone except him but she finally opened her eyes and learned about self-love and and the meaning of true love that has respectful boundaries. She left him and never looked back

    • @GandalftheWise
      @GandalftheWise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think this setup just works for some people. Including me and you. From here on check with me before you want to comment on TH-cam and I will perhaps give you my approval

    • @kaylawarner5487
      @kaylawarner5487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@GandalftheWise go to hell, I can comment on anything and on anyone that I can well please & LIKE I SAID… BEST FRIEND HAD THIS SAME TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP BUT SHE LEARNED HOW TO LOVE HERSELF AND GOT OUT OF IT. I can transcript it out too. NOW WHAT?

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kaylawarner5487 😂 I think Ole Gandalf is a troll account.

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats good ending!!
      We need woman to have a backbone and stand up for ourselves.

    • @nigerjenkins6372
      @nigerjenkins6372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to her iam glad she left

  • @chrissyBird1984
    @chrissyBird1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    You can see in her eyes she's afraid of him and the way he looks down at her with force...he's a total dumpster fire 🔥

    • @IRGhost0
      @IRGhost0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s good, a little fear is healthy in a relationship.

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@IRGhost0 Tell me you've never been in a relationship without telling me you've never been in a relationship.

    • @TheFrostyMan21
      @TheFrostyMan21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly this one is a dumb take. I genuinely see two people that like eachother. Only time I can tell she is bothered is when it came to the cheating

    • @IamCarrieNotBranshaw
      @IamCarrieNotBranshaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When she does decide to leave the marriage. I hope she go in ref middle of the night and never look back!!

    • @jeannettebustos6161
      @jeannettebustos6161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @anniwillen5015
    @anniwillen5015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    How he talks about that he is an alpha male and then showing his Lego in the same moment 😂

    • @rl4195
      @rl4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      He's an insecure child.

    • @claireneriah7877
      @claireneriah7877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣ikr. So dumb of hin

    • @robertgreen8131
      @robertgreen8131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Anni
      How are you doing today?

    • @shywhispers1
      @shywhispers1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know 😂 😂 😂

    • @arianna654
      @arianna654 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaooo i didn’t even catch that until i read the comments

  • @rachaelraymond71
    @rachaelraymond71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Girl doesn’t know what she’s missing, being able to decide what happens in your own life is the best joy a person can experience 😒 and clearly she struggles to pretend she’s ok here

  • @TruckieLooks4Aliens
    @TruckieLooks4Aliens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    She doesn’t like pleasing him, she’s afraid to make him upset. No most guys who love their wives don’t want to imagine having sex with another woman.

    • @_Zeshii_
      @_Zeshii_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Some of you women are hilarious. Speak as a collective as if you represent all women. Then proceed to speak for men lmao

    • @schucky-vk3sg
      @schucky-vk3sg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@_Zeshii_ forreal they try to speak for men all the time like gtfo

    • @dontewalker4104
      @dontewalker4104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Very false most married men I know would love to have sex with other women

    • @narcissistlovepolygamy6221
      @narcissistlovepolygamy6221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      A narcissist satanic man!.

    • @dontewalker4104
      @dontewalker4104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s funny how people who lack intelligence always resort to name calling when they hear something they don’t like

  • @janieoak9920
    @janieoak9920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    She doesn't love it, you can see that when asked about the other women. She's TOLD she's happy and she is in an abusive relationship. One day she'll wake up and have nothing because he'll just trade her in. He's not an alpha male, he's an abuser.

    • @62.81
      @62.81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂 it’s literally staged

    • @stephanieann1213
      @stephanieann1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The only difference between him and 95% of every other man is that he tells the truth.

    • @amandanichole8648
      @amandanichole8648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@62.81 How do you know that? And why is this funny? It's not.

    • @jeonjunggukseomma_2.097
      @jeonjunggukseomma_2.097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amandanichole8648 Idk how but apparently it is 👀🤷

    • @alienc2xy74
      @alienc2xy74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@62.81 I hope it is lol

  • @Summer-fb7gb
    @Summer-fb7gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    This is horrific. I hope she sees the reality of it one day.

    • @tinyard2024
      @tinyard2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dont put deep idea into it. Its just fake show

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *This is how it SHOULD be 👀 🤦🏼‍♂️!*

    • @Summer-fb7gb
      @Summer-fb7gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@glowblank17 Sounds exactly like something a misogynistic, toxic man would say.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Horrific? No there are real things that are horrific in this world and this isn’t it. This is just 2 consenting adults

    • @Neil-Aspinall
      @Neil-Aspinall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She seems happy enough S666 ? Life is hard and if she thinks this makes it easier so what?

  • @keyahmae3148
    @keyahmae3148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I 100% agree with her friends this woman does not know what’s right for her and doesn’t know what she deserves