I Married A Man On Death Row | LOVE DON’T JUDGE
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THIS woman has moved countries to marry a man on death row. Sigrid, 39, lives in Florida with her nine-month-old son. She is a long way from her native home of France, where she once had a large support system of family and friends. Since moving to the states three years ago to marry a man on death row her life has been turned upside down. Her husband Alan is in a prison a one hour drive away from her, where he has been incarcerated for the past 15 years for first-degree murder and robbery. Sigrid explained how they met: “I started writing to prisoners because I believe in second chances and rehabilitation.” She became Alan’s penpal, only looking to be his companion, however, after conversing for months, their relationship began to evolve. “When I started to realise that I was having feelings for him, and him for me, we both got scared,” she said. “We tried to stop writing to each other, [but] we were both miserable. After six weeks, he wrote back - the first words were, ‘I love you'.”
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Nah we are all allowed to judge on this one.
Agree
Facts 💯!!!!
Absolutely judging this one
His name is Alan Wade, and he bound and buried an elderly couple alive. When they were discovered by police, the couple had broken out of their binds but were only able to hold each other before dying. They died of suffocation. Alan Wade had time to think about what he was doing to this innocent couple while he dropped shovel after shovel full of dirt on them. Truly evil. RIP Carol and Reggie Sumner.
Yeah, I looked up what he did and it's pretty awful.
Yikes
Links? Source?
@@dhamaad Google all 3 of their names... there's news articles
Omg so sad !😢
Nah I’m good I’ll judge them. They are both insane.
I agree cuz wtf
Same! Just looked him up wtf that was a horrible crime, beyond evil.....
Like, yo, what?! This dude burgled and buried an elderly couple alive for money that never existed. There's multiple true crime docs about this. I don't support the death penalty, but he's on death row for a reason. He's had his sentence commuted to life last year, but this dude still did a monstrous thing for no fucking reason. And he doesn't really seem that sorry for it.
Also her description of their romance/relationship sounds so creepy and dysfunctional. "I was miserable and he was miserable, but we made each other happy." Baby, that happiness is just the same chemicals people get from strangers online when they "like" your photos. This was a man you thought wouldn't/couldn't respond to your letters so when he not only responded, but eventually "reciprocated" your feelings you thought this was love. Bottom line. Seek therapy. Get that baby a real step-daddy. Live a better life.
How do you even begin to tell your child his father buried two people alive??
Do they have conjugal visits?
@@margotstamateris3583No, they don't.
@@SomethingSomethinggThey have to have them cuz how did they conceive ?
You don’t tell them
And that then you decided to marry him anyway.
Disgusting and shameful. The man killed an elderly couple.
Omg 😱 wowwwwwww
Have fun telling your baby what the dad did to end up in prison.
And that she refused her son a father ON PURPOSE. Selfish evil people
Exactly
I wonder if someone burried her baby alive would she still think the same! I hope Karma catch up to her.
They say love don’t judge… but I’m judging hard. Why is the channel promoting/ normalizing this?!? He is pure evil and no emotionally stable person would seek him out. She needs a wake up call before she’s his next victim.
He can’t physically get to her in death row.
This channel isn't promoting or normalizing this relationship. They're just trying to show that there are people who marry prisoners and this is a reality for them. I find it fascinating.
Seriously, you can't read about what happened to that poor couple Reggie and Carol Sumners and not feel horrified about what they went through. Those people that did that to that couple are where they need to be. Fancy, calling that man a good person even though he drove the car interstate with the those two innocent people tied up in the back and they just dumped them buried alive and took their money. That man does not derserve a second chance.
It is really sick. It's interesting how she speaks about all of this, though. I know the show is technically about her and her murderer husband, but all I heard was "me me me me me poor me". "People judge my relationship because they don't like me being happy and loved". No girl, they judge your relationship because you decided to be with a cold blooded murderer. If she actually cared about Carol and Reggie, she would've given them they attention they deserve in this story as the victims that they are. You can tell that even though she seems nice, she's pretty narcissistic and all she cares about is herself, so I think maybe they are actually meant for each other.
This man is evil to bury an old couple alive for money. He won’t change. Some people don’t deserve a second chance because they will kill again.
@@myfriendwouldntgivemearaweggit really was a case of “poor me”. Like she didn’t choose to be with a murderer. She can’t complain about how hard everything is when she chose to be with the scum of the earth. What that man did to Carol and Reggie was unfathomably evil.
she looks like a psycho too.
Please, this channel should stop supporting this. He is an eveil person and so is she...
This isn't love...
@happinessdavies8060 I agree. This is wrong!
I don’t think the channel is supporting this,more investigating it.
Wait how is she evil?
@@SomethingSomethinggbecause she's supporting a murderer.
This is the case when someone doesn't deserve neither second chance nor love. He buried alive two elderly people. How can you even find peace knowing your parents died in such terrible way. My condolences for victims family. She is as evil as him. This video should be reported, this shouldn't be normalized!!!!
But he’s attractive so she doesn’t care
@@bloopy6166 there’s a lot of cases where people seem to find murderers more attractive than they would find them if they were normal people. Like the murder itself is attractive. Case in point: Ted Bundy, Chris Watts, Richard Ramirez, even Jeffrey Dahmer has a lot of female fans which is extra weird since he’s gay, but of course none of this attraction makes sense. It’s gross
She asked why people are so upset about her being in this relationship. It’s because they worry what he will do to you if he would ever get out of prison after knowing what he did to end up where he is.
He said people who judge you are a waste of skin anyway. Frightening!
Burying two frail 61 year olds in failing health crouching down is unforgivable. How dare she create a human with this MONSTER. Disgusting, evil person. 💔
he buried two elderly people ALIVE . there is a difference between killing someone on accident , but this is just pure evilll and thought out !!! buried alive !!!!! wait till the child finds out. but i dont believe its his child though.... this french woman is crazy. if you choose this life, fine, but why go around telling people on tv ??? poor child will be bullied in school. Also what if the two elderly people were her parents - would that change her mind ?? the guys name is Alan Wade and the two people killed are Reggie and Carol Sumner. rip... awful way to die...
Agree. This wasn't some dumb mistake. It was cruel, calculated and despicable. I think the wife finds that very fact exciting.
What Is Wrong With Women Talking And Dating Random Men On Death Row Lol! How Miserable
Then to bring a baby into like wtf smh
It's called being **desperate**
Not being able to find love on the outside.
Women like this arw maybe the same people who say "but i can fix him"
How can someone marry someone they can’t see on a daily basis I feel like people like this are very desperate for love how I’m the hell you be with a man who is never getting out, and he is a murderer
That to me isn’t even the weirdest part (though yes it is weird). But the weirdest part to me is how you could possibly love someone who brutally murdered two innocent people. It would be one thing if they had a relationship before this happened, but she didn’t know him until he was already in prison. How could you fall in love with someone knowing they did something like this?
He should have never been allowed to have a sexual relaationship. Its ridiculous. How do tell your child your father is a murderer? These relationships should never be allowed.
I would worry that the son has his dads DNA
Poor kid will grow up being bullied because of the dad
@@arceiah Shame hey😢. Kids can be so cruel, I was bullied ..probably lots of people were.. in my younger years. It broke my heart and actually took many years to deal with it. I don't even know why I was bullied..
And someone claim that the guy turned out the way he did due to lack of a father...and then they go and have a son who is also going to lack a father...how fucking brilliant
He doesn't get conjugal visits. If you heard what she said he is in prison and she is not. She slept with someone else but tells the kid that's his dad. So sad..
@@nearlynursenerd oh ok, I didn't hear that. It is such a silly thing of that woman to do. She seems to make one bad decision after the next.
I don't like to judge but this is a bit crazy. That guy is a freaking serial killer. Yikes!
Waste of skin....🤔🙃🥺. He is pure evil.
Exactly the words that got me a chill. He is just as evil as he was 20 years ago ..And Sigrid or whatever her name is, is delusional out of her mind...
I feel so bad for the kid. Why would you bring a child into this world with such a horrible man? This poor child is going to struggle when he learns what his father did. And the line “this is something I never would have wanted with anyone else” makes me want to throw up. Really? You wouldn’t rather have a marriage and baby with a man who never killed anyone? Something is seriously wrong with this woman. Maybe she has a sick attraction to evil.
RIP Carol and Reggie Sumner, the beautiful couple he buried ALIVE. Motivation? Money.
I know the name of the channel is "Love Don't Judge", but I do. This woman is bored, fantasizing about a more exciting life. It's like those women who sent letters to Ted Bundy. She has hybristophilia, a type of paraphilia that affects women, causing them to feel attracted to delinquent and murderous men. The only sensible people in this video are her family who she pretends not to understand their rejection. This man is where he is because HE chose to be. Second chances are in other contexts like theft, I don't know. But, I'm in favor of the death penalty because: If you took someone's life, it's fair that you lose yours too. How crazy. Poor this child. And you who's defend him: imagine the victim's family seeing this video, this guy laughing and happy. Imagine the victim being someone you love. I say this because I had a very good friend who was murdered and where I'm from, unfortunately there is no death penalty. I wouldn't want to see her killer get a second chance, because she didn't. It's a lack of empathy
I would tell you why it "bothers people so much," but I have a feeling it wouldn't matter. Dense and ridiculous, and in need of a good therapist , not a convict.
Oh I’m judging alright
Well at least he can’t hurt her. Yea I think her and the baby deserve better.
Nothing wrong with having an inmate pen pal service but this is that gone wayy too far does she ever think about what will she do whenever he is executed? How would she tell her child?
His sentence has already been commuted to life imprisonment.
They don’t understand how you could love someone who could do such evil acts. Plus thinking about what would happen if he got out today? What if he went back to murdering and Robbing? Would you go along with him?
A lot of people who commit crimes are overall good people. If it were almost anyone else I wouldn't judge, but the type of crime he committed was horrendous. He buried 2 people alive. He's an awful human being.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo yea if he stole something from a store that I could understand but killing someone not self defense just cuz u feel like it nahhh
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo he is pure evil filth and will never change.... that poor couple... they were found clutching onto each other when they were DUG OUT and they died from inhaling dirt..... can you imagine the slow painful death..... the lady in this video disgusts me.....
That’s probably why she’s so comfortable.. she knows he’ll never get out and she probably thinks she’s the only one he’s talking to 🙄
Rehab after committing a planned murder? Come on! Those people had every opportunity to change their minds and not kill Reggie and Carol Sumner. Alan, you don't need another opportunity to take another innocent life.
This woman is very naive. Someone who kills the elderly and buries them alive isn’t a good person. To do that they have to be pure evil. He wanted them to suffer as they were dying.
she looks like a psycho and seems very unstable.
How did she get a son with him?
That’s not HIS biological son.
@@NiNiD80you just came to that conclusion. That’s contradictory to what she said. Most likely they bribed a guard.
Absolutely disgusting you would post such a "love story" in such good light about a monster who buried a couple alive. Deplorable really. Un-subscribed and I hope more people follow. Just disgusting.
That woman who married him is a monster as well. And to have a baby? We all need to watch out for that DNA being a serial killer in the future. I hope not, but god help us. And she snuck his sperm out? WTF? This is not forgivable
Enchanted Tarot Girl, I couldn't agree more utterly disgusting.
She should be charged with child abuse just for getting pregnant with him. The guy lacked a father growing up, and now she is forcing her kid to do the same, utterly disgusting and vile
Disgusting comment about the baby - children shouldn't be judged for their parents actions.
Two Words: CRAY CRAY!!! 😜🤪🤪😜
Lol
How do you just step over the elderly couple he buried alive? Severe Denial and desperation. The child they had may have some of those sociopathic traits as well. How do you explain who your Father is, what he has done, and you just decide its a good plan?
Insane woman
Waste of skin?
I've never commented on these but for her to purposely have his baby lile that is just wrong. Think how he feels when he gets older. I would never want to do that to my child.
Wowwww this would story truly disturbs me to my core!!!!😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 😱😱All these 🆓men in the real world and this woman chose a death row inmate is so wild and terrifying at the same time because of what he’s actually in prison for!!
Whilst I'm not totally on board with the dealth penalty, he shouldn't be allowed to marry or have kids (despite him not likley being his biologically). Thats a kick in the teeth to his victims, he should be living a much harsher life
Talk about low self esteem!!
Desperation will make you do some insane things. What he did was disgusting and unforgivable.
She’s hurting herself and that child. She should have gone to a therapy instead of looking for an own pal on a dead row. She’s living in a fantasty that will never happen, he’s feeding her compliments and stupid meaningless lies of how much he loves her would love to be with her knowing it will never happen so she will never leave him - she’s can’t see that and that’s sad and I’m also angry e cause what kind of mother she is ….wow
Stupid question, How did she get pregnant??
Conjugal visit I’m assuming
@@AlexisAW There are no conjugal visits on death row-also they don't allow for artificial insemination. She got pregnant by someone other than her husband.
She dropped the soap 😂
They probably paid a guard for a 5 minute closet session. Seriously, that stuff happens.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo That’s how Ted Bundy got his wife pregnant. It’s entirely possible they were able to do the same thing.
Now this one doesn't deserve to get out ever.
They are not bothered because someone is loving her right they are bothered because she would fall in love with someone who killed two innocent people and the way that they killed them
Poor Baby,a sick evil father and mother..Not a good mix of DNA for the baby
Never again
She had been writing to different men on deathrow before she met him on there. If you listen to her carefully ,its all me, me, me...tatoo full sleeve, a dead giveaway.
By hearing about this I don’t want but you married death row inmate that’s never getting released from prison
Smh, here i am age 29. Trying to better myself and never had a gf.. but this monster gets her.
self-esteem issue
well maybe it helps her feel better about herself and she knows he won't ever cheat on her or reject her and she's 100% in control in the relationship. those things can be crucial to some insecure/traumatised people..
@4:36 We're the waste of skin but not him for burying an elderly couple alive? Ok then! They deserve each other but it's the child I pity. That's going to be a seriously dysfunctional kid. How selfish of her.
The ultimate blackpill
I don’t want anyone to tell me looks don’t matter
noooooooooooo how can this happen??????????????
I am so curious about how they had a son because I don't believe they have ever had sex together
Also that they have a child.
It’s crazy how this demon took a wife from her husband and a husband from his wife. However, he gets a wife and a son?! Make it make sense!
That child isn't his. Thank goodness.
I worked with really wrong people but did connect ( not love but human) and nobody got it. I would not do what she did but still who am i to judge, she is in ❤ and he is on deathrow so not a danger, so we cant get it but just let them…when se starts doing wrong things for him them we can talk
Nobody gives a crap about her and him. We are more worried about the poor child
Not me getting my stamps and stationary ready for Wade Wilson. 🥵
Why bring a baby ? 😔😔😔
He gave me harmony!
When I was a little girl of age, something bad was done to me, that caused so much damage, as that little girl's heart broke into sadness, by some adult's madness!
The abuse gave me many years of agony, until I surrendered my life to the Lord, and found myself in harmony.
Finally I understood that He always had loved me, and He had felt the pain I felt ; that made my heart melt.
He helped me to forgive the abusers, as His love for me changed my heart for real, and He little by little the wounds would heal.
Today, my heart aches for those who have gone through the same, and thought it was some adult's game.
I pray for them with deep compassion and sorrow, as I hope for them a better tomorrow ; and that they will turn to the Lord with all their agony, as He is the only One who can give them harmony!
25.12.2020.
Nah, she is crazy and dumb for this. Of course he is “in love with you”. He has no other woman around him or “in” his life. So you decided to become a single parent to a person who will never be released. So he will never be able to support you and this poor child. You pour so much into these inmates, you could’ve pour into your child and yourself. Lack of self love, plenty of good men around and you chose to make you and your child’a life harder for some attention and validation from a man IN PRISON. Soon, that boy wouldn’t want to be dragged to that prison every weekend just to see his dad. 🤦🏽♀️ Mental illness and lack of self love is crazy.
Oh dear cute baby though
Future criminal
@@vickinutter5733 yep probably
If it’s from his seed it will probably be another psychopath
@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 bad seed. DNA
They're loves probs gonna die out soon💀💀💀💀
For anyone wondering: That is NOT his biological son. Florida doesn’t allow conjugal visits.
That's his son. After rewatching it and doing some research, the implication is that a guard was paid off to turn a blind eye - which is why she refuses to divulge how the child was conceived.
Yeah she made it pretty clear it was his and she wouldn’t divulge how it happened. I’m sure they bribed a guard
@@caitroseco6752 That's the most likeliest scenario. There's endless stories about guards being bribed to enable prisoners in countless immoral or illegal ways.
She s not living in the real wiorld. He locked up in a controlled environment, desth row. Can never have a proper relationship or getcto know him properly. His true personality. I m not talking about him committing murder, but knowing his other part of his personlity. She doesnt know him, only as a muderder. Strange!
Look at the awful place she’s living in. She could’ve chosen someone who could have provided so much more to life. No travel, no nice house, no love making. She’s ruined her chance of a beautiful life. What will she do in 20 years?. Sad.
oh
Love knows no bounds. Wolves kill and it doesn’t mean he is a bad lover. Good for her
Aww aren’t they crazy in love
Either way- good for her for making a difference in these broken & often abandoned inmates lives by offering a pen pal service...
Maybe they should have thought twice before committing a crime, so they wouldn't be broken and abandoned.....
@@alenkabkkAmen 🙏🏾✨♥️
Would you think the same if it were your grandparents he buried alive?
Ridiculous comment ..he is evil for what he did and allowing her to waste her life …this man is broken and never will be fixed
Its her life, and if she wants to marry a murderer she can. But the moment she decided to give that shitstain a kid, she lost all support and sympathy
I believe in change & rehabilitation too- he was 18 & in need of a father figure at the time of the crime...he wasn't the ring leader & has expressed extreme remorse.
This is a remarkable story- whether you agree w/ it or not, thanks for sharing
This guy only shows remorse because he got caught. Him and the other perpetrators literally took pictures in a limo just hours after the murder. Why didn't he go to the cops and confess before he got caught? I'm sorry but this guy doesn't even have an ounce of remorse
Please, never have children... This planet is already dumb enough.
Shame victims can't come back to life??
IN NEED OF A FATHER FIGURE? A lack of a father made him do this, and now she is giving the dude a son who is NOT GOING TO HAVE A FATHER! Jeezes fucking christ
shame on you.
Condolences for victims family also she loves him everyone deserve second chance! Love is blind Absolutely !!!!!
Yet people he killed don't get second chance do they?
Not when you bury two elderly people alive
He deserves no second chance and she's no better than him.
Bull!
@@Maria.9094She's a lot better than him. Are you crazy? Lol When did she bury people alive?
Disgusting and shameful. The man killed an elderly couple.