But 1st do no harm! These so called "doctors " don't care about health or your well being! They only give a dam about money! This is a crime! They should be in jail! You have to suffer daily and no reversing the damage! God help you! I'm sad and compassionate for you 😢
Its an impossible surgery. And its the only organ they claim they can recreate by mutilating and cobbling together other body parts. Its such an outrageous and huge lie to tell, that people have believed it....cos its hard to believe the establishment...or anyone could tell such an insidious evil and huge lie. But they do it all the time.
I am so grateful in hindsight that decades ago when i applied for treatment the waiting lists were many many years only to start hormones and years after that to have the surgery. This actually have saved me from going that route. Some decades after that i came to terms with my self that this wasn't going to be the way for me and i am now a detransitioner and am glad i got still all my equipment intact. I get sad each time i hear stories of people having bad experiences with bottom surgeries. I hope you do well and sort of can come to terms with it.
I’m a woman in my 30’s and I have a fully functioning natural vagina, and even I don’t want things stuck up there everyday. I can’t imagine having to dilate everyday when there is no pleasure involved in it at all. Sounds horrible. Much love to this person ❤
@@Luminesce07 Depends on the surgeon, a good surgeon and you should be done after about a year if you have a normal sex life. Like any surgery there is always a risk for complications. Sadly Trans is now very profit driven, esp for many surgeons, instead of proper medical care, so we'll likely hear a lot more cases in the future.
@@moonsy-9733 the surgeon only makes a difference as to the degree of 'botched-ness,' . They're ALL failures. Some just worse than others. Stop pretending these insane surgeries carry the same risks as others. Yes there's a risk with all surgeries.... but nothing compared to srs! It's impossible to create a vagina from a penis and vice versa.....it's impossible to create ANY functioning organ by mutilating an existing healthy organ....srs is the only time they claim they can do this....and we now know they can't. People like you pretending failure and regret is only 1% are to blame for what's happening
The other trans girls are LYING about their SRS experience. Mathilda acted like everything was PERFECT for years! Only recently she came out and admitted that she couldn’t PEE consistently for half a year!!!
@@sandramay2222she also said that she had complications at the beginning and she had to get a second surgery to open her new cavity that was narrowing despite rigorous dilation. The urethral stenosis wasn’t the only complication she had. Also the fact that she got her urethra almost closed after ten years since the surgery actually explains the fact that this is very much experimental and doctors don’t know how the body is going to react in the future 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@@danyczer5809When you try to create something that's not natural for the body,this is what happens.Unfortunately this is the price men have to pay to impersonate women.The dangers of taking hormones for life are even worse,those who come on TH-cam and tik tok,lie because they want to promote this agenda,that surgery and hormones will fix everything,and being trans is wonderful.
@@danyczer5809there's different types of surgery for this procedure. A couple are commonly known and practiced and are not really "experimental." What is wrong is medical malpractice which Lee had described in detail. You look like a transphobe tbh.
I don't believe that the trans women you speak of are honest about their complications. Mathilda briefly spoke of a few complications, but it took her years to bring up anything derogatory. I guarantee Mya and Samantha have their own set of issues. It's an imperfect surgery, plain and simple. It's not a one and done and life is great unfortunately.
Lee, most post-op trans women are not honest about everything on the internet. Don't be jealous because you don't know the whole story, just the insta story. A friend of mine who had the surgery in the 80's didn't orgasm until the late 90s! I knew a few girls who choose to go off their estrogen occasionally for a week so the testosterone comes back along with it's libido for a few days. As for dilation, I can't fathom the tediousness of that. Chin up and good on you for your honesty, you chose a hard road but you hopefully find your joy again soon.
Did you mean to say your post-op friends go off estrogen to get back their libido? Interesting. I always heard that post op girls can also lose their libido completely after many years.
I noticed a big change in my orgasm after just an orchiectomy. No one seems to bring that up. Add that to the things I wish I knew before embarking on my transition path.😮💨
I hope you don't mind me saying so Lee, but I think you are suffering from the effects of medical trauma. This isn't just a matter of an incompetent surgeon. He harmed you. You didn't do anything wrong. He did. "Medical trauma² is a specific form of trauma that occurs in a medical setting. This can be a doctor's clinic, hospital, surgical theater, or any other place where medical care is delivered. Medical trauma, like general trauma, is complex." "Post-traumatic stress disorder and medical trauma have similar symptoms since they are both associated with trauma. Symptoms of medical trauma include but are not limited to the following: Anxiety Depression Flashbacks Sleep disturbances Intrusive thoughts Nightmares Intense emotions Emotional numbing Digestive issues Heightened state of alertness Exaggerated startle response Muscle tension Fearfulness" You don't have to be experiencing all of those symptoms to be suffering from medical trauma. I know what I'm talking about. Lots of love, Lee ❤
Hey, very good comment I have all of the symptomes you described after FT severely botched me and manipulated me. I have to leave my house with a mask since August 2022. No social life. No refund.. Threats...
You were sold a lie by the surgeons and "professionals" as well as other trans patients. The sunk cost fallacy has a chokehold on so many and sadly, misery loves company. Other trans patients lie because they don't want to even admit to themselves that they made the wrong choice. Numerous trans TH-camrs have stories of complications. Every patient has a complication, and they are always serious. It is such a delicate area, and I have seen people make light of urinary problems, as if kidney infections don't kill you within days or even hours if bad enough. UTIs can cause permanent kidney damage, so urinary problems in your 20s is not something worth risking. Even Julie Van Vu admitted she loved not having to worry about tucking, but the neovagina itself was useless to her because it didn't feel good to use. You made the best decisions with the informtion you had. I have heard of numerous surgeons and Kamol is a name I recognise, just as someone who browsed Reddit when I am not, and have never identified as trans. Respect to you for warning others.
I haven‘t heard of a single man who had „bottom surgery“ without any complications. None! Some just stay quiet for a while about it, that‘s all. It‘s not the surgeon, the surgery is not possible to turn out well bc the expectations are based on lies. So it‘s not one bad surgeon, it‘s all of them who promote sth that can‘t be successful in any way.😢 So you should all speak out to prevent others from getting these surgeries! Connect w each other and fight against the industry, against the ppl selling lies as truth! Try to focus on your health, get fixed what is possible to fix. Heal, gain energy and fight! Good luck!
As a gay man I have had 5 friends over the years try and do the transition. Even those who just did the hormone surgeries, their lives are just not right. Two of these friends were in their 30's when they started full transitioning. At first we were kind of a supportive group, but when it came time for the big surgery we begged them not to do it. The reason was because we had known them for many years. We knew all the little quirks they would never tell their doctors. For example, one girl was always complaining about everything, her weight, her eating habits, the way people looked at her. But at the same time she was also an attention whore to the extreme. She would mow her yard every Saturday dress in a two piece skimpy bikini doing her rendition of the chiquitta banana girl, even wearing the fruit basket on her head and drinking a huge pina colada as she rode around. Just doing the hormone therapy for some years didn't go well. She became combative and down right almost impossiable to be around for more than a couple of minutes. After the surgery, all we would hear is complaints and crying. Nothing she had been told was coming true. Sex was gone forever. She was constantly having to go to the doctor with infections or she couldn't pee and even tons of UTIs. Being that miserable, she started gaining weight and eventually had bariatric surgery. That just compounded everything. Three years ago her Dad said she passed away from a brain tumor. A few months ago he admitted to me that she died of suicide. My other friend also died from suicide. Surgeons can make you look like a girl, but the medicine is just not there yet to make you a girl. Between now and that time, most people will be nothing more than guinnie pigs for doctors to see what works and what doesn't. That is just how medicine is.
So sad these young peoples lives are destroyed all the while the surgeons and the people pushing this surgery are laughing all the way to the bank. Careful what you wish for kids.
Other trans channels ate lying, or playing down the suffering. They gloss over the pain/ complications and failure of their surgeries:. "This fell off, that healed shut, this got infected....but it was all worth it....and i recommend to everyone!"
Hi Lee, please stop comparing yourself to others. What you see isn’t always the truth. Please turn off the noise and begin to see yourself as special and unique. There is only one you and you are special. Be encouraged, safe travels, and a speedy recovery.❤
To think TH-cam is censoring your personal story is criminal. You're doing a really good thing, getting the message out. I'm extremely sympathetic to your predicament. For what it's worth, you look amazing. Sending love
You can imagine the censorship involved in FACTS about a certain medical procedure a huge percentage of the worlds population took over the last 3 years. And, sadly, they are FACTS.
From watching a lot of detrans regret videos, it seems like ALL the doctors promise more than they can actually deliver. The technology just isn't there to turn one biological sex into the other biological sex. Please don't take that as a negative criticism, but they should have been honest about the limits of what they can do. They did a wonderful job if making you LOOK like a woman, but they told you that you could BE a woman, and that was dishonest. I'm sorry you are struggling, and I hope you find the peace and happiness you deserve. ❤
Is it that this particular surgeon has ruined lives or that the very idea of medical transition has ruined lives? I can't see more surgery fixing this, when the surgeries themselves seem to be the very problem. I doubt that other transwomen and men aren't having the same or similar problems. I think they just don't want to admit it. It must be hard to admit that something you've wanted your whole life and that you believed would bring you happiness turned out to be a mirage, or worse, a scam.
You would have thrived beautifully if you had embraced your original self without undergoing any of these nonsensical surgeries. The core problem was internal, a struggle with self-image. I'm sorry that you had to confront such profound self-hatred, pushing you onto this destructive path. We can't fix what's in the mind by butchering ourselves.
Thank you for sharing this. I'm sorry for all you're going through. Stories like yours are helpful. I'm a transgender woman 13 months on HRT. Stories like yours are helping me be more realistic with my transition goals. I've honestly set the goal of trying to find happiness with zero surgeries. Just social transition, laser hair removal, HRT, voice training, etc.... I've had zero surgeries in my life and want to keep it that way. I'm 36 I may never pass but I'm happy, I have a partner I've been with 10 years and she supports me. I'm happy, I'm grateful. I've always wanted facial surgery but I'm trying to just relax and enjoy the ride and accept where HRT takes me. It seems once you go down the surgery route it becomes all about healing and revisions... I don't want that I just want to live. I hope you find peace soon. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hang in there
Why be jealous when they've all been butchered and all lie about it and glamorize the surgery when it takes immense and continuous suffering to maintain said surgery.
These people are deluded into believing the human body is the equivalent of "plug and play." The amount of people using terms like "nerve hookup" or "urethra lengthing"...it is like they think you can just plug the red cable into the yellow circle, or just customize like a video game character. I can't even imagine the complications that will arise as these people age. UTI's seem constant in these patients as is. UTI's in elderly people can be fatal. They are being sold a lie. An impossible dream and the crab in a bucket mentality runs rampant in the online communities. Lee feels like they are alone with the continuous complications. Like everyone else LOVES their results, has no issues, has all the sensation etc. Misery loves company. Sunk cost fallacy is real. Being silenced, demeaned, erased, exiled from online forums for telling the all too common brutal truth keeps others from admitting any regret they may feel. The whole culture/reality of this medical cult is built on a lie. The fact nobody can openly question anything about it should really be a hint that something is very, very off..
Lee, you are so bright for continuing to have such lucid perspectives on your own life. I love that you are always humble and realistic, it’s a breath of fresh air from mainstream trans content and radical feminist detransitioners. I believe far more trans influencers experience similarities to your situation but they would never reveal it. And those are just the ones with a voice and better resources than average trans women. I truly hope that things will improve for you.
I visited a psychologist at the beginning of the transition, she told me that you first have to find out whether the transition is really what I want or whether I want to escape from something in my life. in germany you have to visit a psychologist first, because otherwise you won't get the operations paid for by your health insurance. I thought about this question for a while before I took any further steps and in the end I left my girlfriend and rebuilt my life. Now I'm fine without transition, even if it still appeals to me, but I would no longer say that I have to have it.
And this is what's severely lacking elsewhere, especially in the anglophone world, where they made it taboo to offer psychological help on this issue, because to offer that help suggests "issues", and we are not allowed to admit the person has "issues", the person is considered completely psychologically sound, full stop, no questions allowed!! So if you were in America, you would almost certainly have never been challenged on your original demands to damage your body, you would have been operated at your request, THAT'S what's so scary, that's what they're doing to people there! Society reached full-blown stuck mode, wedged in and firmly STUCK, with no critical thinking, and no empathy, because selective empathy only for those who never change their minds is NOT real empathy, real empathy doesn't discriminate.
@@motherofallemails Well, by us it's just that such operations are paid for by our social system. Accordingly, a necessity must first be established, for financial reasons alone, so that the social system is not unnecessarily burdened. But there is also a lot of criticism here because those affected often have to justify themselves very strongly and then sometimes have to go to court for a change of name. Basically, I think it's good that you have to see a psychologist first, regardless of whether you're an adult or a child. As long as they are not discriminated - which still happens here.
You should sue that fake docotr, and he should pay for all of that. He shouldn't continue that practice. I hope you'll be better soon. All the love, stay strong!
I don't believe for a second that Maya, Mathilda or Samantha have perfect transition. There is plenty of videos where they mention complications but the rest of it is very explicitly glamorized. At this stage of things, I feel like they are acting out a character and doubling down. Because facing the truth is painful. Lee, I wish you would stop doing surgeries. Maybe it is time to cut the losses and move on to having a life that is not revolving around being trans.
This is the most honest you have ever been with this whole ordeal. I have a feeling that the TH-camrs you’re watching are lieing about having no complications. They are in denial. If everyone started telling the truth these surgeons would be shut down.
You really shouldn’t have done this. It’s impossible to change your sex. But it’s done now, no going back. I hope you’ll be ok. Well done for calling this doctor out, hopefully other people considering this type of surgery will reconsider.
The ones that made you feel like you're the only one and your dr. was the worst of the worst, and they had it all good.. I am sure after a year or two there will be many of them coming out with a story like yours. You're definetly not alone with these problems. Much love and strength to you
I am so sorry, Lee. I hope your luck with surgery(ies) turn(s) around. I agree that many folks on social media do not tell the truth about many things, especially "controversial" topics. Hopefully, your videos will help those coming behind you. They get to see an alternate view of surgery, and they can factor your story into their decision-making process. Again, I'm sorry for your pain and I hope 2024 brings greater and brighter days!
you have a beautiful soul, don't let the bullshit get you down, you are wonderful and you deserve to be happy! remember it's not what happens that counts, it's what you do with happens that counts. thank you for sharing and vent as is necessary, i hope everything gets better
So much love to this person for speaking out. I’m so sorry you’ve been going through this. We’re here for you. I know it might not mean much, but there are so many people going through the exact same thing. Sending lots of love. Myself im so insecure and hold-off-ish with sex and my vagina. I have nothing to compare, but I’m just so sorry.
Im so sorry you’re going through this hun you deserve to be happy and im sorry u had to go through all of this just to still not be satisfied you’re gorgeous i hate u find happiness soon🥺💗
Trans people lie about their results and say everything is great. When tney are really suffering because they know they will be attacked by other trans people for telling the truth. You are brave for being honest. I hope you can find a surgeon to help.
Theres an old saying at the drag strip , Run what you Brung . It means , use what you have ! You people quit cutting off working body parts , and then wonder why your not happy ? WTF ?
It's probably hormones, your lacking the energy. Since you've had surgery your body is missing the hormones it needs to function. I think you will have to dilate for the rest of your life. I appreciate your video so much. I'm sending you healing and love. ❤
It's actually not a thought, anyone who gets srs dilates for the rest of their life, unless they want that wound to close and for them to be unable to pee
I am so incredibly sorry that you’re going through this! I cannot imagine what it is like … I am a woman (born and raised haha) and therefore I have no idea what hardships and struggles a trans person experiences especially those in your position, who have had major & irreversible surgeries only to eventually regret it all! Your strength and BEAUTY cannot be overstated! You are smart, you are beautiful, and you are in my Prayers! God bless!!!! ❤️🌺🙏🌸🌷
Thank you for this video! I believe other trans people hide the downside of this stage so they don't give transphobes ammunition, but unfortunaly it ends up harming people inside the community. It is bittersweet knowing you from a sad moment in your life; I hope it all gets better from here, it was a releaf you saying how strong you are and that you will get through this. You are beautiful and I hope to see the good moments your future holds to you. My heart is with you, be brave!
When we read testimonies from trans people we must keep in mind that it is very negative and difficult for them to admit that the result is bad, that they have problems. This contributes to generally presenting positive testimonies, sometimes even very exaggerated.
I use to have no problem with someone transitioning until I started watching videos of people that had complications. I saw how much was involved in transitioning, like taking hormones and having surgeries, and then and all the negative side effects afterwards. It is just not safe to do. I agree that the trans influencers make you think that transitioning is easy as pie. They won’t disclose all the negative experiences they had with transitioning. This is why I tell people not to transition. Just accept yourself as a feminine man or masculine woman. I know they get angry, but they really don’t know what they are getting into. Anyone thinking about transitioning should really reconsider.
It may not be immediately apparent to you, but the "success examples" you’ve mentioned also experience the same challenges with dilation as you do. Any perceived lack of frustration is likely due to them choosing to maintain a glamorous image. They're not going to record themself complaining about their complications to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Sadly, many have been sold a lie regarding surgery. You're not the only one. Unfortunately, this is the consequences. I sincerely hope you find happiness in your life.
You should be congratulated for speaking the honest truth. Every person with a gender disphoria issue (ie a mental health condition) should watch your video, and so should the parents of the poor children who could end up butchered in the name of trans. You said the words yourself - you are happy that you "pass" as a woman, but the whole transition thing "was not worth the effort". And a real woman would have told you things do not always go perfectly with our woman parts, even for us! Be careful what you wish for
I'm sorry to hear this Lee I'm glad your sharing your story with everyone so they might avoid the issues your dealing with. I can't imagine what you are going through. Remember your never alone you have a lot of people here that hope all the best for you. Of you ever need to vent were here. Your a beautiful woman i really think your amazing stay strong
Have you considered keeping your estrogen in the young womens range but increase your T a bit.? A healthy young woman has a significant amount of T in her system. I tried this and found mood and fitness increased a lot. I also dropped progesterone because it was bad for my disposition.
@@Kira-zm7vy If youre 3 months in and youre feeling fine then it should be ok - it works for some but not for others. Im also curious what she meant though
@@Kira-zm7vy For me I found Prometrium very good for sleep in the evening, breast growth did increase, so did overall plumpness. In the end the inner bitch made a few appearances also a slightly depressed mood. I found Estrodiol & Testosterone in the female range did the trick in the end.
It is just the doctor tho most trans woman are happy with just HRT these invasive surgeries do tend to cause regret a lot tho it’s arrogant to act like you know what their problem is
Hi Lee, really sorry to hear you so terribly injured by such a crook. You are remarkably lucid. A class action would be good if you could get all the people together. You are incredibly beautiful, coming from someone who will not pass. I hope you're able to see beyond the bullshit perpetuated by the Internet and have real people to support you. You are strong, anyone would feel the anxiety you feel. Take care, big hugs.x
Also Kamol IS PAYING SOME GIRLS TO PROMOTE HIS SHITTY JOB!! Several trans girls in my country in France are promoting but he's buying them. He's very good at marketing just like Facial Team.
I do so much empathise with you. I wish I could support you, but alas I can't. I do hope so much that your video helps young people who may be considering having the surgery. The risks to having the surgery are very real and should not be thought of as rare. I myself had penile inversion and it's not perfect. parts of me around the area are still numb over 3 years after surgery. it was 2 and a half years after surgery that I had my first orgasm with myself, but after a couple more times I haven't now for over 6 months because my libido is non existent. For me as an older transexual it doesn't matter, but for those who are younger I always advise caution but I do know, as you do yourself how gender dysphoria can influence us to make decisions regardless of cautionary advice. I do hope that one day you will find peace, with best wishes for your future, luv Caroline. xx
Sending you hugs and prayers. You’re a beautiful woman and it will all work out and be okay. Just stay positive and remember the best is yet to come. Many cis women get incarcerated hernias and they have to have mesh in the tummy. I’m a cis woman and had to have mesh put in my tummy years ago. I developed an incarcerated hernia from C- Sections and heavy lifting. I did fine and had zero complications. ♥️✝️🙏🏻
When you get the hate from other trans people for making this honest video you will understand why everyone else is lying about how transition is the best thing ever🙄 thank you for being honest
The vagina is an incredibly complex organ. The surgical capabilities we have today are a JOKE compared to the complexity of the natural vagina. The surgeons are lying about the odds of a great outcome.
I’m so sorry the pain you are going through. Please know you are an amazing person and I hope you will surround yourself with people who genuinely care and want what’s best for you. These doctors lied to you to make a quick buck and it makes me weep for you.
Oh my goodness! How did you get talked into that? It’s like the lobotomy scandal all over again. People will look back (hopefully) and say, what were they thinking? Is insurance money driving this madness?
thanks for talking about this! Yes, such surgical operations are very complex and it is true that everything can go wrong. Any operation can go wrong and it is important to talk about it
It’s time to start advocating for better research and standards of care. The Cass review into pediatric transition took 4 years and found no evidence of benefits to child transition and many detrimental effects.
I'm so sorry to hear this.. I'm really saddened to hear your experience. I've seen 2-3 post-op vaginas up close from other transwomen and they all were pretty satisfied. They had it done in The Netherlands and Turkey I believe. I honestly thought Dr. Kamol was great. I did every surgery there is except the vagina. Face, breast, hips, ass, voice, castration, hormones since 18 but not the full sex change because stories like this scare me. Please try to stay optimistic even though you feel horrible at the moment. You will get through this. Maybe this was meant to happen in your life. Maybe everything was written out beforehand, before it actually happened. Don't blame yourself too much, you can't predict the outcome of any surgery. You'll get through this, you're strong and doing everything to fix it. Stay strong dear, I wish you all the best. Don't lose hope. Hugs x
Well done for being honest. I think you a not alone but most will not say anything negative. I know you are overwhelmed with medical issues and bills but please get some therapy. You need professional support. You are dealing with a massive life crisis.
This is so heartbreaking 😢I couldn’t imagine never having an orgasm again. And having to dilate daily, must be not only time consuming but painful ! Hopefully everything gets better for you 🙏🏻
Reality check. Stop blaming others for your poor decision making. It’s not the doctor’s fault. It was your decision to go under his knife. I’m sure you understood the risk involved. He may be a bad doctor, but I bet no one made you go through with the mtf surgery. It was your poor choice, therefore, your fault.
This has been so difficult for you, and I'm sorry. I have a feeling that more people have had a similar experience but just aren't as honest as you are.
Some are likely lying about not having problems. They don't want to fathom the horror of having made a mistake or having to accept complications forever.
I approve of your voice training, hrt and electrolysis. Those are always good to do. They always help. It's just the bottom surgery that isn't strictly always 100% successful with just great results. I'm sorry chica.
Sweetheart, I'm very sorry to hear the pain in your voice. I completely understand your thoughts regarding the other youtubers. I'm insanely jealous of these girls also, and before this video, of your life too. Having started my transition far too late in life, I will never be even 10% as desireable as you. So, chin up, you'll get through this and have many wonderful things ahead for you.
I am deeply sorry to hear about your situation. While I may never fully grasp the depth of your desire to undergo such a radical procedure, I can see that you are a brave and caring person willing to speak out and help others to better understand just how things can go sideways. I wonder about the person you were before taking this step, and it saddens me to think of the challenges you have faced. I am an old guy, nearing 70, in a “trad” life: married for 30 years with four wonderful grown children. I want you to know that there are many people, even those you might not expect, who care about you. Although I may not fully understand, I do empathize with your journey. I sincerely wish you peace and happiness, Lee.
I'm genuinely sorry to hear about this. Nobody deserves what you've gone through. Having said that, loss of sex drive post surgery is a big problem but they won't talk about it. I've encountered similar reports from girls who had a bilateral orchi as well as those who had vaginoplasty, but there are no proper follow-up studies. I'll do a video in more depth but for those reading, in the first place, do not be persuaded to have this surgery. Consider it a last resort. If you're really concerned about masculinisation, consider a unilateral orchidectomy, ie one testicle removed. This will cut your T to about half and help avoid MPB etc, but still leave you a libido. I know one Thai surgeon at least used to leave one testicle inside the abdomen for this reason; Kevin Balot had this op. I'm sceptical but it is a thing.
Damn…what a tragedy…I am so sorry…. You know,not too long ago,if a person wanted to get that surgery,they would have to go to see psychologists to screen the people….this definitely wasn’t a quick process….now,anyone can go into a doctors office that deals with this subject,and after a 1/2 hour meeting ,they are already walking out with a prescription for hormones…. The actual surgery is almost always accepted by insurance companies and the patient actually gets fast tracked so they can get the operation asap! Unfortunately,many people DO regret it….they procedure isn’t as foolproof as these doctors like to pretend they are either! As long as they get plenty of $$$,they don’t seem to care whose lives they ruin . It’s a sad state of affairs.
Firstly 👏👏 for speaking out about your surgery… There are loads of trans women who say their surgery was and is perfect, but, I bet that there’s lots are in the same boat as you, but are not going to tell us that… You are HONEST and that’s why I watch your channel… I hear a lot of trans women are not having this surgery as there are to many complications… Stay strong, you will get there in the end… I wish I could just cuddle you and tell you everything is ok… ❤
It is a long painful, complicated, expensive journey that I admire those who have the strength of their convictions to travel along. To be botched in the process is truly sad to hear. Hope things improve 👌
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But 1st do no harm! These so called "doctors " don't care about health or your well being! They only give a dam about money! This is a crime! They should be in jail! You have to suffer daily and no reversing the damage! God help you! I'm sad and compassionate for you 😢
Its an impossible surgery. And its the only organ they claim they can recreate by mutilating and cobbling together other body parts. Its such an outrageous and huge lie to tell, that people have believed it....cos its hard to believe the establishment...or anyone could tell such an insidious evil and huge lie. But they do it all the time.
I am so grateful in hindsight that decades ago when i applied for treatment the waiting lists were many many years only to start hormones and years after that to have the surgery. This actually have saved me from going that route. Some decades after that i came to terms with my self that this wasn't going to be the way for me and i am now a detransitioner and am glad i got still all my equipment intact. I get sad each time i hear stories of people having bad experiences with bottom surgeries. I hope you do well and sort of can come to terms with it.
That because the doctors know it is a bad and stupid thing to do but they are not allowed to tell you that.
I’m a woman in my 30’s and I have a fully functioning natural vagina, and even I don’t want things stuck up there everyday. I can’t imagine having to dilate everyday when there is no pleasure involved in it at all. Sounds horrible. Much love to this person ❤
Not to mention that you have to dilate for the rest of your life when you get bottom surgery.
And the loss of org@sms . Lifetime aftercare.
You’re so beautiful. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Put everything in God’s hands and take one step at the time. Everything will be fine.
@@Luminesce07 Depends on the surgeon, a good surgeon and you should be done after about a year if you have a normal sex life. Like any surgery there is always a risk for complications. Sadly Trans is now very profit driven, esp for many surgeons, instead of proper medical care, so we'll likely hear a lot more cases in the future.
@@moonsy-9733 the surgeon only makes a difference as to the degree of 'botched-ness,' . They're ALL failures. Some just worse than others.
Stop pretending these insane surgeries carry the same risks as others. Yes there's a risk with all surgeries.... but nothing compared to srs!
It's impossible to create a vagina from a penis and vice versa.....it's impossible to create ANY functioning organ by mutilating an existing healthy organ....srs is the only time they claim they can do this....and we now know they can't.
People like you pretending failure and regret is only 1% are to blame for what's happening
The other trans girls are LYING about their SRS experience.
Mathilda acted like everything was PERFECT for years! Only recently she came out and admitted that she couldn’t PEE consistently for half a year!!!
You said it yourself, She said it recently because the complications happened to her recently! 😑
@@sandramay2222she also said that she had complications at the beginning and she had to get a second surgery to open her new cavity that was narrowing despite rigorous dilation. The urethral stenosis wasn’t the only complication she had. Also the fact that she got her urethra almost closed after ten years since the surgery actually explains the fact that this is very much experimental and doctors don’t know how the body is going to react in the future 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@@danyczer5809When you try to create something that's not natural for the body,this is what happens.Unfortunately this is the price men have to pay to impersonate women.The dangers of taking hormones for life are even worse,those who come on TH-cam and tik tok,lie because they want to promote this agenda,that surgery and hormones will fix everything,and being trans is wonderful.
@@danyczer5809there's different types of surgery for this procedure. A couple are commonly known and practiced and are not really "experimental." What is wrong is medical malpractice which Lee had described in detail. You look like a transphobe tbh.
@@danyczer5809I mean it depends on the surgeons and technique also. With Dr Bank for example you won't risk that.
I don't believe that the trans women you speak of are honest about their complications. Mathilda briefly spoke of a few complications, but it took her years to bring up anything derogatory. I guarantee Mya and Samantha have their own set of issues. It's an imperfect surgery, plain and simple. It's not a one and done and life is great unfortunately.
Lee, most post-op trans women are not honest about everything on the internet. Don't be jealous because you don't know the whole story, just the insta story. A friend of mine who had the surgery in the 80's didn't orgasm until the late 90s! I knew a few girls who choose to go off their estrogen occasionally for a week so the testosterone comes back along with it's libido for a few days. As for dilation, I can't fathom the tediousness of that. Chin up and good on you for your honesty, you chose a hard road but you hopefully find your joy again soon.
i legit think most if not all trans women that went thru the operation are not honest about the side effects etc...
Did you mean to say your post-op friends go off estrogen to get back their libido? Interesting. I always heard that post op girls can also lose their libido completely after many years.
Well without testicles there is negligible testosterone coming back along. She’d have to get a prescription for artificial testosterone.
I noticed a big change in my orgasm after just an orchiectomy. No one seems to bring that up. Add that to the things I wish I knew before embarking on my transition path.😮💨
@valeria_zau Yes, exactly, it's YOUR belief. Why should we believe you, if your belief is not based on actual facts?
Thank you for being so vulnerable and transparent. We need people to speak up about the negative side effects and consequences of these surgeries.
I hope you don't mind me saying so Lee, but I think you are suffering from the effects of medical trauma. This isn't just a matter of an incompetent surgeon. He harmed you. You didn't do anything wrong. He did.
"Medical trauma² is a specific form of trauma that occurs in a medical setting. This can be a doctor's clinic, hospital, surgical theater, or any other place where medical care is delivered. Medical trauma, like general trauma, is complex."
"Post-traumatic stress disorder and medical trauma have similar symptoms since they are both associated with trauma. Symptoms of medical trauma include but are not limited to the following:
Anxiety
Depression
Flashbacks
Sleep disturbances
Intrusive thoughts
Nightmares
Intense emotions
Emotional numbing
Digestive issues
Heightened state of alertness
Exaggerated startle response
Muscle tension
Fearfulness"
You don't have to be experiencing all of those symptoms to be suffering from medical trauma.
I know what I'm talking about.
Lots of love, Lee ❤
💯 % truth..sadly- we find out the hard way..will be talking with my Phycologist- for a very long time
I was thinking that too 😢
Hey, very good comment
I have all of the symptomes you described after FT severely botched me and manipulated me. I have to leave my house with a mask since August 2022. No social life. No refund.. Threats...
@@Aurora146 Lots of Love ❤️
Yes
Lee, you come across as a truly lovely person and I am sorry this has been such a tough road for you. Hope things get better.
You were sold a lie by the surgeons and "professionals" as well as other trans patients. The sunk cost fallacy has a chokehold on so many and sadly, misery loves company.
Other trans patients lie because they don't want to even admit to themselves that they made the wrong choice.
Numerous trans TH-camrs have stories of complications. Every patient has a complication, and they are always serious. It is such a delicate area, and I have seen people make light of urinary problems, as if kidney infections don't kill you within days or even hours if bad enough. UTIs can cause permanent kidney damage, so urinary problems in your 20s is not something worth risking.
Even Julie Van Vu admitted she loved not having to worry about tucking, but the neovagina itself was useless to her because it didn't feel good to use.
You made the best decisions with the informtion you had.
I have heard of numerous surgeons and Kamol is a name I recognise, just as someone who browsed Reddit when I am not, and have never identified as trans.
Respect to you for warning others.
I haven‘t heard of a single man who had „bottom surgery“ without any complications. None! Some just stay quiet for a while about it, that‘s all. It‘s not the surgeon, the surgery is not possible to turn out well bc the expectations are based on lies. So it‘s not one bad surgeon, it‘s all of them who promote sth that can‘t be successful in any way.😢 So you should all speak out to prevent others from getting these surgeries! Connect w each other and fight against the industry, against the ppl selling lies as truth!
Try to focus on your health, get fixed what is possible to fix. Heal, gain energy and fight! Good luck!
Not a man, trans woman
As a gay man I have had 5 friends over the years try and do the transition. Even those who just did the hormone surgeries, their lives are just not right. Two of these friends were in their 30's when they started full transitioning. At first we were kind of a supportive group, but when it came time for the big surgery we begged them not to do it. The reason was because we had known them for many years. We knew all the little quirks they would never tell their doctors. For example, one girl was always complaining about everything, her weight, her eating habits, the way people looked at her. But at the same time she was also an attention whore to the extreme. She would mow her yard every Saturday dress in a two piece skimpy bikini doing her rendition of the chiquitta banana girl, even wearing the fruit basket on her head and drinking a huge pina colada as she rode around. Just doing the hormone therapy for some years didn't go well. She became combative and down right almost impossiable to be around for more than a couple of minutes. After the surgery, all we would hear is complaints and crying. Nothing she had been told was coming true. Sex was gone forever. She was constantly having to go to the doctor with infections or she couldn't pee and even tons of UTIs. Being that miserable, she started gaining weight and eventually had bariatric surgery. That just compounded everything. Three years ago her Dad said she passed away from a brain tumor. A few months ago he admitted to me that she died of suicide. My other friend also died from suicide.
Surgeons can make you look like a girl, but the medicine is just not there yet to make you a girl. Between now and that time, most people will be nothing more than guinnie pigs for doctors to see what works and what doesn't. That is just how medicine is.
Mental health care is crucial both before and after.
You can't change chromosomes.
How did the other one die??
It's people are being controlled by bad thoughts that aren't right
So sad these young peoples lives are destroyed all the while the surgeons and the people pushing this surgery are laughing all the way to the bank. Careful what you wish for kids.
Other trans channels ate lying, or playing down the suffering. They gloss over the pain/ complications and failure of their surgeries:.
"This fell off, that healed shut, this got infected....but it was all worth it....and i recommend to everyone!"
Yep, the lies AMAZE ME
One by one the truth is being exposed, all at the cost of these poor victims. The cost of the truth.
@@maemae1752 yes, and I don't believe there has ever been a successful surgery.
Hi Lee, please stop comparing yourself to others. What you see isn’t always the truth. Please turn off the noise and begin to see yourself as special and unique. There is only one you and you are special. Be encouraged, safe travels, and a speedy recovery.❤
To think TH-cam is censoring your personal story is criminal. You're doing a really good thing, getting the message out. I'm extremely sympathetic to your predicament. For what it's worth, you look amazing. Sending love
Shape shifter got censored and she was on Blaire white podcast .
You can imagine the censorship involved in FACTS about a certain medical procedure a huge percentage of the worlds population took over the last 3 years. And, sadly, they are FACTS.
TH-cam has started censoring everything i keep getting 24hr bans for just defending England
From watching a lot of detrans regret videos, it seems like ALL the doctors promise more than they can actually deliver. The technology just isn't there to turn one biological sex into the other biological sex. Please don't take that as a negative criticism, but they should have been honest about the limits of what they can do. They did a wonderful job if making you LOOK like a woman, but they told you that you could BE a woman, and that was dishonest. I'm sorry you are struggling, and I hope you find the peace and happiness you deserve. ❤
Is it that this particular surgeon has ruined lives or that the very idea of medical transition has ruined lives? I can't see more surgery fixing this, when the surgeries themselves seem to be the very problem. I doubt that other transwomen and men aren't having the same or similar problems. I think they just don't want to admit it. It must be hard to admit that something you've wanted your whole life and that you believed would bring you happiness turned out to be a mirage, or worse, a scam.
You would have thrived beautifully if you had embraced your original self without undergoing any of these nonsensical surgeries. The core problem was internal, a struggle with self-image. I'm sorry that you had to confront such profound self-hatred, pushing you onto this destructive path.
We can't fix what's in the mind by butchering ourselves.
Thank you for sharing this. I'm sorry for all you're going through.
Stories like yours are helpful. I'm a transgender woman 13 months on HRT. Stories like yours are helping me be more realistic with my transition goals. I've honestly set the goal of trying to find happiness with zero surgeries. Just social transition, laser hair removal, HRT, voice training, etc.... I've had zero surgeries in my life and want to keep it that way. I'm 36 I may never pass but I'm happy, I have a partner I've been with 10 years and she supports me. I'm happy, I'm grateful.
I've always wanted facial surgery but I'm trying to just relax and enjoy the ride and accept where HRT takes me. It seems once you go down the surgery route it becomes all about healing and revisions... I don't want that I just want to live.
I hope you find peace soon. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hang in there
My feelings as well. These surgeries are just too risky
Can you imagine how happy parents were when they had their beautiful baby boy born , with so much dreams and yearning for days ahead
Why be jealous when they've all been butchered and all lie about it and glamorize the surgery when it takes immense and continuous suffering to maintain said surgery.
These people are deluded into believing the human body is the equivalent of "plug and play." The amount of people using terms like "nerve hookup" or "urethra lengthing"...it is like they think you can just plug the red cable into the yellow circle, or just customize like a video game character.
I can't even imagine the complications that will arise as these people age. UTI's seem constant in these patients as is. UTI's in elderly people can be fatal.
They are being sold a lie. An impossible dream and the crab in a bucket mentality runs rampant in the online communities.
Lee feels like they are alone with the continuous complications. Like everyone else LOVES their results, has no issues, has all the sensation etc. Misery loves company. Sunk cost fallacy is real. Being silenced, demeaned, erased, exiled from online forums for telling the all too common brutal truth keeps others from admitting any regret they may feel. The whole culture/reality of this medical cult is built on a lie. The fact nobody can openly question anything about it should really be a hint that something is very, very off..
Sending love I'm so sorry you going through this😢 ❤
Thank you Lee for being so honest and looking after others who follow behind you. I hope u find some answers to make u feel whole.
Lee, you are so bright for continuing to have such lucid perspectives on your own life. I love that you are always humble and realistic, it’s a breath of fresh air from mainstream trans content and radical feminist detransitioners. I believe far more trans influencers experience similarities to your situation but they would never reveal it. And those are just the ones with a voice and better resources than average trans women. I truly hope that things will improve for you.
After scanning through the previous responses . There seems nothing I can add to it. Constant prayers for you , Huggs dear woman.
Thats a man. We need to stop lying about this. This man was lied to about the surgery and look how that turned out. Stop the lies!
I visited a psychologist at the beginning of the transition, she told me that you first have to find out whether the transition is really what I want or whether I want to escape from something in my life. in germany you have to visit a psychologist first, because otherwise you won't get the operations paid for by your health insurance. I thought about this question for a while before I took any further steps and in the end I left my girlfriend and rebuilt my life. Now I'm fine without transition, even if it still appeals to me, but I would no longer say that I have to have it.
And this is what's severely lacking elsewhere, especially in the anglophone world, where they made it taboo to offer psychological help on this issue, because to offer that help suggests "issues", and we are not allowed to admit the person has "issues", the person is considered completely psychologically sound, full stop, no questions allowed!!
So if you were in America, you would almost certainly have never been challenged on your original demands to damage your body, you would have been operated at your request, THAT'S what's so scary, that's what they're doing to people there!
Society reached full-blown stuck mode, wedged in and firmly STUCK, with no critical thinking, and no empathy, because selective empathy only for those who never change their minds is NOT real empathy, real empathy doesn't discriminate.
@@motherofallemails Well, by us it's just that such operations are paid for by our social system. Accordingly, a necessity must first be established, for financial reasons alone, so that the social system is not unnecessarily burdened. But there is also a lot of criticism here because those affected often have to justify themselves very strongly and then sometimes have to go to court for a change of name. Basically, I think it's good that you have to see a psychologist first, regardless of whether you're an adult or a child. As long as they are not discriminated - which still happens here.
You should sue that fake docotr, and he should pay for all of that. He shouldn't continue that practice. I hope you'll be better soon. All the love, stay strong!
I don't believe for a second that Maya, Mathilda or Samantha have perfect transition. There is plenty of videos where they mention complications but the rest of it is very explicitly glamorized. At this stage of things, I feel like they are acting out a character and doubling down. Because facing the truth is painful. Lee, I wish you would stop doing surgeries. Maybe it is time to cut the losses and move on to having a life that is not revolving around being trans.
Thank you for your honesty and bravery. Sorry to hear you are suffering. Much love.
I’m so sorry. TH-cam suggested this to me, I’m happy they did. I wish I could give you a hug 😢 literally nothing I can say 😞
This is the most honest you have ever been with this whole ordeal. I have a feeling that the TH-camrs you’re watching are lieing about having no complications. They are in denial. If everyone started telling the truth these surgeons would be shut down.
I'm so very sorry. You seem like such a lovely person.
You really shouldn’t have done this. It’s impossible to change your sex. But it’s done now, no going back. I hope you’ll be ok.
Well done for calling this doctor out, hopefully other people considering this type of surgery will reconsider.
You should get on Blair White's podcast
The ones that made you feel like you're the only one and your dr. was the worst of the worst, and they had it all good.. I am sure after a year or two there will be many of them coming out with a story like yours. You're definetly not alone with these problems. Much love and strength to you
I am so sorry, Lee. I hope your luck with surgery(ies) turn(s) around. I agree that many folks on social media do not tell the truth about many things, especially "controversial" topics. Hopefully, your videos will help those coming behind you. They get to see an alternate view of surgery, and they can factor your story into their decision-making process. Again, I'm sorry for your pain and I hope 2024 brings greater and brighter days!
I’m just so sorry you’re going through all of this 😢
sending all the hugs your way
He did it to himself
you have a beautiful soul, don't let the bullshit get you down, you are wonderful and you deserve to be happy! remember it's not what happens that counts, it's what you do with happens that counts. thank you for sharing and vent as is necessary, i hope everything gets better
So much love to this person for speaking out. I’m so sorry you’ve been going through this. We’re here for you. I know it might not mean much, but there are so many people going through the exact same thing. Sending lots of love. Myself im so insecure and hold-off-ish with sex and my vagina. I have nothing to compare, but I’m just so sorry.
Im so sorry you’re going through this hun you deserve to be happy and im sorry u had to go through all of this just to still not be satisfied you’re gorgeous i hate u find happiness soon🥺💗
Hope you have sued that surgeon for malpractice, and get the other people that got issues with him, to do the same
Trans people lie about their results and say everything is great. When tney are really suffering because they know they will be attacked by other trans people for telling the truth. You are brave for being honest. I hope you can find a surgeon to help.
I'm so sorry you're struggling this much. Hope you're able to pull through one day and be alright
Theres an old saying at the drag strip , Run what you Brung . It means , use what you have ! You people quit cutting off working body parts , and then wonder why your not happy ? WTF ?
It's probably hormones, your lacking the energy. Since you've had surgery your body is missing the hormones it needs to function. I think you will have to dilate for the rest of your life. I appreciate your video so much. I'm sending you healing and love. ❤
It's actually not a thought, anyone who gets srs dilates for the rest of their life, unless they want that wound to close and for them to be unable to pee
I am so incredibly sorry that you’re going through this! I cannot imagine what it is like …
I am a woman (born and raised haha) and therefore I have no idea what hardships and struggles a trans person experiences especially those in your position, who have had major & irreversible surgeries only to eventually regret it all!
Your strength and BEAUTY cannot be overstated! You are smart, you are beautiful, and you are in my Prayers!
God bless!!!!
❤️🌺🙏🌸🌷
I’m sorry that this happened to you I pray you find peace
Thank you for this video! I believe other trans people hide the downside of this stage so they don't give transphobes ammunition, but unfortunaly it ends up harming people inside the community. It is bittersweet knowing you from a sad moment in your life; I hope it all gets better from here, it was a releaf you saying how strong you are and that you will get through this. You are beautiful and I hope to see the good moments your future holds to you. My heart is with you, be brave!
When we read testimonies from trans people we must keep in mind that it is very negative and difficult for them to admit that the result is bad, that they have problems.
This contributes to generally presenting positive testimonies, sometimes even very exaggerated.
I use to have no problem with someone transitioning until I started watching videos of people that had complications. I saw how much was involved in transitioning, like taking hormones and having surgeries, and then and all the negative side effects afterwards. It is just not safe to do. I agree that the trans influencers make you think that transitioning is easy as pie. They won’t disclose all the negative experiences they had with transitioning. This is why I tell people not to transition. Just accept yourself as a feminine man or masculine woman. I know they get angry, but they really don’t know what they are getting into. Anyone thinking about transitioning should really reconsider.
I am so sorry for what you have been through, It's not right that it's being encouraged 😔
You seem like a great person, thank you so much for sharing
It may not be immediately apparent to you, but the "success examples" you’ve mentioned also experience the same challenges with dilation as you do. Any perceived lack of frustration is likely due to them choosing to maintain a glamorous image. They're not going to record themself complaining about their complications to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Sadly, many have been sold a lie regarding surgery. You're not the only one. Unfortunately, this is the consequences. I sincerely hope you find happiness in your life.
You should be congratulated for speaking the honest truth. Every person with a gender disphoria issue (ie a mental health condition) should watch your video, and so should the parents of the poor children who could end up butchered in the name of trans. You said the words yourself - you are happy that you "pass" as a woman, but the whole transition thing "was not worth the effort". And a real woman would have told you things do not always go perfectly with our woman parts, even for us! Be careful what you wish for
I live in NZ. Is there anything I can do to cheer you up? I hope your future improves immensely.
I'm sorry to hear this Lee I'm glad your sharing your story with everyone so they might avoid the issues your dealing with. I can't imagine what you are going through. Remember your never alone you have a lot of people here that hope all the best for you. Of you ever need to vent were here. Your a beautiful woman i really think your amazing stay strong
Kamal is a name of Muslim origin...
Lol no
Wrong
So desperate to show Muslims in bad light at any opportunity, speaks volumes of how spineless you are and have no real argument
Have you considered keeping your estrogen in the young womens range but increase your T a bit.? A healthy young woman has a significant amount of T in her system.
I tried this and found mood and fitness increased a lot. I also dropped progesterone because it was bad for my disposition.
@@Kira-zm7vy If youre 3 months in and youre feeling fine then it should be ok - it works for some but not for others.
Im also curious what she meant though
@@Kira-zm7vy For me I found Prometrium very good for sleep in the evening, breast growth did increase, so did overall plumpness. In the end the inner bitch made a few appearances also a slightly depressed mood. I found Estrodiol & Testosterone in the female range did the trick in the end.
@@kirsteneklund2509 hey do you take progesterone orally?
I think you shouldn't have any more surgerys
I applaud your bravery for sharing your truth.
I hope you recover
You still do not see the real problem. It is not just the doctor.
That's surgery should be banned, it is like lobotomy back in the days... it is not okay to take functioning organs.
This surgery should be banned, they are butchering people
Nah its literally just the surgery that gets regretted most trans women do not regret estrogen like like how trans men regret taking testosterone
Can't even care to elaborate???
It is just the doctor tho most trans woman are happy with just HRT these invasive surgeries do tend to cause regret a lot tho it’s arrogant to act like you know what their problem is
This was very brave of you to post. I wish you all the best and a full recovery and happiness.
Time now to aggressively take care of yourself. Remember you are wonderful, strong, and loved. A unique and special person. ❤❤
I am so sorry. And tbh, imho, all the other transgirls are lying.
my heart go's out to you.. think you a truly strong person just hope you get put right very soon i wish you can get through this cock up
Hi Lee, really sorry to hear you so terribly injured by such a crook. You are remarkably lucid. A class action would be good if you could get all the people together.
You are incredibly beautiful, coming from someone who will not pass. I hope you're able to see beyond the bullshit perpetuated by the Internet and have real people to support you. You are strong, anyone would feel the anxiety you feel. Take care, big hugs.x
Also Kamol IS PAYING SOME GIRLS TO PROMOTE HIS SHITTY JOB!! Several trans girls in my country in France are promoting but he's buying them. He's very good at marketing just like Facial Team.
I do so much empathise with you. I wish I could support you, but alas I can't. I do hope so much that your video helps young people who may be considering having the surgery. The risks to having the surgery are very real and should not be thought of as rare. I myself had penile inversion and it's not perfect. parts of me around the area are still numb over 3 years after surgery. it was 2 and a half years after surgery that I had my first orgasm with myself, but after a couple more times I haven't now for over 6 months because my libido is non existent. For me as an older transexual it doesn't matter, but for those who are younger I always advise caution but I do know, as you do yourself how gender dysphoria can influence us to make decisions regardless of cautionary advice.
I do hope that one day you will find peace, with best wishes for your future, luv Caroline. xx
Sending you hugs and prayers. You’re a beautiful woman and it will all work out and be okay. Just stay positive and remember the best is yet to come. Many cis women get incarcerated hernias and they have to have mesh in the tummy. I’m a cis woman and had to have mesh put in my tummy years ago. I developed an incarcerated hernia from C- Sections and heavy lifting. I did fine and had zero complications. ♥️✝️🙏🏻
please stop having any more surgeries.
😢
When you get the hate from other trans people for making this honest video you will understand why everyone else is lying about how transition is the best thing ever🙄 thank you for being honest
I'm so sorry, girl! I understand and I am sending you so much love. I think about you! Please know we are thinking about you!!
Welcome to the real world.
I'm so sorry to see you suffering like this. Thank you for being real.
The vagina is an incredibly complex organ. The surgical capabilities we have today are a JOKE compared to the complexity of the natural vagina. The surgeons are lying about the odds of a great outcome.
I’m so sorry the pain you are going through. Please know you are an amazing person and I hope you will surround yourself with people who genuinely care and want what’s best for you. These doctors lied to you to make a quick buck and it makes me weep for you.
Dont feel bad for him. He did it to himself.
Oh my goodness! How did you get talked into that? It’s like the lobotomy scandal all over again. People will look back (hopefully) and say, what were they thinking? Is insurance money driving this madness?
thanks for talking about this! Yes, such surgical operations are very complex and it is true that everything can go wrong. Any operation can go wrong and it is important to talk about it
It’s time to start advocating for better research and standards of care. The Cass review into pediatric transition took 4 years and found no evidence of benefits to child transition and many detrimental effects.
I'm so sorry to hear this.. I'm really saddened to hear your experience. I've seen 2-3 post-op vaginas up close from other transwomen and they all were pretty satisfied. They had it done in The Netherlands and Turkey I believe. I honestly thought Dr. Kamol was great. I did every surgery there is except the vagina. Face, breast, hips, ass, voice, castration, hormones since 18 but not the full sex change because stories like this scare me. Please try to stay optimistic even though you feel horrible at the moment. You will get through this. Maybe this was meant to happen in your life. Maybe everything was written out beforehand, before it actually happened. Don't blame yourself too much, you can't predict the outcome of any surgery. You'll get through this, you're strong and doing everything to fix it. Stay strong dear, I wish you all the best. Don't lose hope. Hugs x
Well done for being honest. I think you a not alone but most will not say anything negative. I know you are overwhelmed with medical issues and bills but please get some therapy. You need professional support. You are dealing with a massive life crisis.
This is so heartbreaking 😢I couldn’t imagine never having an orgasm again. And having to dilate daily, must be not only time consuming but painful ! Hopefully everything gets better for you 🙏🏻
Reality check. Stop blaming others for your poor decision making. It’s not the doctor’s fault. It was your decision to go under his knife. I’m sure you understood the risk involved. He may be a bad doctor, but I bet no one made you go through with the mtf surgery. It was your poor choice, therefore, your fault.
I do have to say I had mesh surgery without any complaints. I don't know if it's the same but please try not to worry.
Was yours for hernia
Yes. I don't know if it's the same
This has been so difficult for you, and I'm sorry. I have a feeling that more people have had a similar experience but just aren't as honest as you are.
Some are likely lying about not having problems. They don't want to fathom the horror of having made a mistake or having to accept complications forever.
Get through it stay strong
Maya Henry got botched too, he's just saving face.
I remember she talked about it, but now I think she feel better
@@ciano5475 he's saving face
I approve of your voice training, hrt and electrolysis. Those are always good to do. They always help. It's just the bottom surgery that isn't strictly always 100% successful with just great results. I'm sorry chica.
What happened to you is criminal. The Drs know you can't change sex. I feel really bad for you. These evil bastards should be in prison.
Sweetheart, I'm very sorry to hear the pain in your voice. I completely understand your thoughts regarding the other youtubers. I'm insanely jealous of these girls also, and before this video, of your life too. Having started my transition far too late in life, I will never be even 10% as desireable as you. So, chin up, you'll get through this and have many wonderful things ahead for you.
I am deeply sorry to hear about your situation. While I may never fully grasp the depth of your desire to undergo such a radical procedure, I can see that you are a brave and caring person willing to speak out and help others to better understand just how things can go sideways. I wonder about the person you were before taking this step, and it saddens me to think of the challenges you have faced. I am an old guy, nearing 70, in a “trad” life: married for 30 years with four wonderful grown children. I want you to know that there are many people, even those you might not expect, who care about you. Although I may not fully understand, I do empathize with your journey. I sincerely wish you peace and happiness, Lee.
I'm genuinely sorry to hear about this. Nobody deserves what you've gone through. Having said that, loss of sex drive post surgery is a big problem but they won't talk about it. I've encountered similar reports from girls who had a bilateral orchi as well as those who had vaginoplasty, but there are no proper follow-up studies. I'll do a video in more depth but for those reading, in the first place, do not be persuaded to have this surgery. Consider it a last resort. If you're really concerned about masculinisation, consider a unilateral orchidectomy, ie one testicle removed. This will cut your T to about half and help avoid MPB etc, but still leave you a libido. I know one Thai surgeon at least used to leave one testicle inside the abdomen for this reason; Kevin Balot had this op. I'm sceptical but it is a thing.
Damn…what a tragedy…I am so sorry….
You know,not too long ago,if a person wanted to get that surgery,they would have to go to see psychologists to screen the people….this definitely wasn’t a quick process….now,anyone can go into a doctors office that deals with this subject,and after a 1/2 hour meeting ,they are already walking out with a prescription for hormones….
The actual surgery is almost always accepted by insurance companies and the patient actually gets fast tracked so they can get the operation asap!
Unfortunately,many people DO regret it….they procedure isn’t as foolproof as these doctors like to pretend they are either! As long as they get plenty of $$$,they don’t seem to care whose lives they ruin .
It’s a sad state of affairs.
Firstly 👏👏 for speaking out about your surgery… There are loads of trans women who say their surgery was and is perfect, but, I bet that there’s lots are in the same boat as you, but are not going to tell us that… You are HONEST and that’s why I watch your channel… I hear a lot of trans women are not having this surgery as there are to many complications… Stay strong, you will get there in the end… I wish I could just cuddle you and tell you everything is ok… ❤
You can always skip the bottom surgery and instead do the following. Hrt, voice training and electrolysis for your transition.
It is a long painful, complicated, expensive journey that I admire those who have the strength of their convictions to travel along. To be botched in the process is truly sad to hear. Hope things improve 👌
Shame on these doctors. 💔😭🙏🙏🙏