If you had your ffs BBL laser hair removal electrolysis microdermabrasion fat transfer to the breast then you don't need to take those hormones regularly this maybe twice a month not even that Raven a TH-camr only takes her once a month check her out she's gorgeous
As for me I stopped taking the hormones I was taking him to the point milk was squirting out my breast now I have flabby Double D's or triple the women in my family are big I forgot that I'm 53 years old going to be 54 there's only so much feminization tools hormones are going to do so I have to take other treatments that are Surgical like ffs fat transfer to the breast and BBL microdermabrasion laser hair removal electrolysis and hair transplants I'm not taking those blockers or the estrogen anymore now I got normal erections and ejaculation and my strength is back but because I took those hormones everything else comes in like the fat in a female way
Spot-on with all of this! I feel like you said things that you don't normally see in other places. There are so many misconceptions or preconceived notions that are incorrect. Thanks for addressing them!
Thank you Lee, I do not pretend to be very knowledgeable about your life and experiences, it is far different then mine, but I wish you love and happiness. Thank you for allowing me to learn and try to understand, you are a very caring person and I think you are wonderful.
Just stumbled on your video, you come over as a lovely young sensitive women, bright, beautiful, and speak a lot of sense … hope you find true happiness and contentment in your life ….. you have so much time to find the right person and hope that you do 👍
Lee Francis, I think you're very wholesome and lovely. I can tell you're nervous a bit, but also somebody who's open and honest. Hang in there, babe. You're ok.
Bravo!!! i love how you presented this, as well you how you expressed yourself. Kudos, Lee. "Treat people the way you want to be treated. And just because a person doesnt look like us, doesnt give us the right to be superior to them."
Thank you for posting this video Lee. You seem like such a sensitive and intelligent person, on top of being very attractive, I find it heartbreaking to think there's someone who'd be embarrassed to take you out on a date or be seen in public with you. The straight world is so cruel and abusive. You don't deserve that at all. I think you're amazing. Stay strong woman. Thank you again for sharing yourself.
I am a trans. I did some modeling years ago. men were interested and asked me out but when they tried to have sex with me I used to tell them about me, some of them were disappointed and left, but others were fascinated with me. I have a mature man who was very interested since the very beginning and took me just the way I am. I dress like a woman and I am happy.
Hey, love is love. When I was younger, I saw what I believe was a transgender woman in a crosswalk in Hillcrest. Friendliest, most beautiful smile I'd ever seen, very pretty. Given the opportunity, I'd have asked her out in a heartbeat. People are people. Glad you found happiness..
Every trans person I have met has been mean and hateful. Can't approach the person without a lot of money. To bad no real women left if you're not LGBTQ
Miss Francis, thank you for making this video. I feel sad that you have not met someone who will treasure you for who you are. You come across as a very warm, intelligent and thoughtful woman. I wish you the best and hope you do find what you are looking for and the emotional support you deserve
I am a Christian Conservative heterosexual Gen-X male. This was an interesting video and insightful, seeing the world through your eyes. It was also refreshing in that it was NOT political or divisive. I think if more people just listened, it would be a better place to live. I let you know that I was Gen-X for a reason... there was racism and sexism before our generation and after our generation. We were spared many of the problems other generations face. We knew our gay friends were gay before they did. They got married and had kids before they came out and we didn't bat an eye. They were our friend in elementary school, and they are our friend still in our 50's. We don't give a F_ck! Same with black people... they were just our friends, not our black friends. They did not want to be called African American, because they were just Americans who happened to be black. Keep up the good work, I wish you happiness and fulfillment in life.
@@PsychologyFacts-n-Trivia ya that’s all good ,but there is only two genders ,don’t fall for your thoughts being twisted on this scientific fact ,there are gay men and lesbian women and all those that fall in between ,at the end of the day you are a male or a female .
Same. Hetero guy in my mid-40s and this video was interesting and insightful. Lee is intelligent, a great communicator, and a great representative of people in general. Same wishes, to Lee and everyone willing to live peacefully and respectfully.
Way to breakdown the stereotype of a Christian-Conservative hetero Gen-X male. Good on you and thanks for the reminder that even conservative Christians can possess a personality with as much depth and complex nuance as many “liberal-minded” people. Thank you, as your comment reminded me to challenge my unconscious bias and the tendency to revert to primitive tribalism and the two dimensional over-simplification of those we perceive to be in opposition to us.
Extremely interesting. You probably made the most honest, intelligent, educative, understanding and sensitive video about this topic (this word topic here looks ugly… it’s not broad and beautiful enough to name the hole idea and feeling…. My first language is French unfortunately!) You have such an angelic and feminine face… your voice is nice… You’re natural (by this I mean that you’re not overdoing it like a majority of MTF). You may find it funny, but I’m not even able to see a man when I look at your face (I tried 😝)! Beautiful and adorable 😊
Hey, Lee ... I'm a straight cis male in his 60's (who's never watched any tranny porn, by the way), but this video is EXACTLY why I've started following some of the TH-cam trans gals. I'm in a battle against prostate cancer (which has laughed off all the radiation they were willing to throw at it), and discovered that the meds I'm on (to reduce my testosterone to as close to zero as it can get - as the cancer "lives off of" testosterone) are in many cases the same as the hormone treatments for transitioning. For some reason, I've not found any straight guys doing videos about how this effects them. I've been on Lupron for four years now, and have not had an erection since my first shot of that, plus, in the past couple of years, my urologist has also added Abiraterone to the mix - something I've heard some gals mention. It is kind of odd that I have to follow trans gals here to get "compare and contrast" info on what's happening to my body ... but the meds involved (and the effects thereof) certainly come up al lot in these vids. Thanks for this one!
Sorry to hear about your situation. Yes the meds trans girls use are very similar to yours so the effects will be the same. I presume men feel a sense if shame which is why they don't put it out there. Has your body changed? Less hair, breast growth, feminized body shape? And emotional changes?
@@leefrancis007 Yeah, lots of changes ... led, of course by the total non-functioning (well, it still pees) of the equipment, which has also shrunk a good deal. I was never particularly furry, but the body hair (chest, legs, etc.) has become much finer and hardly noticeably. I've always been a chunky guy, so there hasn't been any breast growth per se, but I don't know if that would have been the case had I been lean going into this. Aside from the equipment issue, the worst thing has been the muscle mass loss. I used to have "Brutus" arms and they're looking more like "Olive Oyl" arms these days. I'm also a lot less intimidating than I used to be ... I no longer look like a moving wall that folks had best avoid ... plus my voice has lost its lower registers, so I no longer sound like "the pits of hell" when upset. Not having the dysphoria to bring me to these changes makes all these things more regrettable ... but I guess not dying from the cancer (which seems to be totally controlled at this point) is a plus. The prostate cancer (at least as I have it) isn't even noticeable ... but left untreated it will metastasize to other systems, most notably to bone cancer, and I really would prefer NOT to get there. I have blood tests every couple of months to make sure my numbers look OK, and they did full-body bone scans of me before starting on the drugs to have a "baseline" to compare future scans to. What's bizarre is that I never had any symptoms - just numbers of blood panel results. The only time I've felt sick was towards the end of my first round of radiation (well, if one doesn't count the very painful process of prostate biopsy, etc. ... hope I don't have to go through that again!). As these things go, I guess that's a win (I have friends who are currently going through breast and colon cancer currently, and it sounds like prostate cancer is a better deal than those).
@@John77Doe I've had two urologists who say they "live to cut" (and teach surgery at NMH), each tell me that with all the other physical issues I have, they would make that the last option.
You are a Person who is beautiful on the inside. You are loved because of your Self. It's just a bonus that you are pretty. The right people love you no matter what, because you're You.
Very intelligent video. You are able to articulate these types of things very well. You deserve respect no matter what. If I dated you I would treat you like any Cis girl. There are guys like me out there. No one should be treated as a fetish or fantasy objectified. You are a person like any other. I'd be proud to be seen with you.
I am getting to know more trans people. It seems to be much easier to transition from female to male. Good luck with everything you do, and I hope that you can overcome all the things that vex you.
Hi, thanks for the extra kiss. Things are really bad for me atm so I appreciate it even when it wasn't specifically directed to me personally. Best wishes from Australia, looking forward to your next vid 🥰💋❤
Well done. I have no issues with anyone's sexuality. I have many friends that I presumed were heterosexual and male only to find out after many years they were trans. Friendship is still just as strong and we still hang out together just as often. You are so correct, at the end of the day in spite of our sexual identity we all have the same feelings and deserve the respect that each of us seek.
I really enjoy Ms Francis' candidness... Her honesty andr relation to Her personal experience is not only refreshing but quite honestly sensual, at least to me... the peterman...
Oh well of course not because people were so hostile towards them that they couldn't talk about it for risk of getting beaten or disowned. There were almost just as many trans people 20 years ago, you're just part of the problem why they weren't out
@@AshleyJoy-nd8ui - WRONG. You CAN'T change your gender. It's physically impossible. You can mutilate your privates, take hormones, etc but your choromosomes never change. 20 years ago most people weren't so easily gaslit, as you are now.
Being a sis guy and listening to you open up about being a person that’s trans is so enriching and rewarding. I have had trans friends that wanted a relationship but I didn’t even give them a chance. I now feel terrible now about that. Thanks for being so open.
God knows how you came into my youtube feed. Glad you did though. Had no experience with trans people asfar as i know. My opinion of trans was what i saw on tv lately, men in beards wanting to dress as a woman and use womens spaces. I watched your video and now feel that maybe i was being bigoted by not being fully informed about trans women . You have my deepest repect Lee and thank you for educating me and being so open about your life.
Hi Lee , I watched you video today, and I was impressed. You presented your topic precisely, and did a fantastic job of explaining a very misunderstood issue. Thank you for your effort in making tis video.
I’ve learned a ton about your community from watching these videos. You’re gorgeous! You are also very intelligent and well spoken. Thank you for educating me, because I never knew any of this. Please keep up the great work!
You helped me so much. I'm just a normal guy attracted to high femininity. My besty is trans female but it's more an online thing. I just wanted to say that not all men want the porn star or are only attracted to the boy part. I see you as highly feminine, emotional, deep and expressive and of course beautiful. That's what attracts me. Function etc doesn't matter. God bless you. Always be safe and happy xoxo
I don't even know where to go with this. You can probably make a new video about this. I am a 53 year old trans girl that has been through PHYSICALLY everything you went through. I understand. I had a couple things you were lucky did not happen. Most of the things you went through I was spared. I have been with Bi women with the exception of the one straight woman that loved me since she was 15. If I had to do it over again I would. 18 years together. I am sad it is over. I know everything that went wrong. It would happen again if we had to do it all over. Just how all of us friends were back then in the days. If I gave her the first kiss today... the entire rest of our lives would be perfect. So... Love the one you have. Do the best you can do... We learned from our experience communication is the most important thing. As soon as it wavers your relation is on the falling away.... As I was watching this right now... For the first time in my life I was thinking I wish I could have just dated you. I think we would have been great... Because of this video I am now going to look for trans dating. You are an amazing woman. I would love to meet you for lunch. I think you just changed my way of thinking. I Think you helped many trans women more than you will ever know... Thank you so much.
As an older straight man who started taking T due to low levels, I can tell you that it changes you physically and mentally. It puts the libido into overdrive to the extent you can't think of anything else which lead to some risky behavior. It also changed my body, I was ripped and lean without even trying. I got off the T because due to the negative impacts and feel much better. My life is now focused on other things and I just have to work out more but will never achieve the look I got while on the T.
Dear girl, live your life as you see it. If you want, find a nice partner, be loving, and get the most out of your life. make sure that you will never later feel that you have not taken opportunities in life
I would like to add that NOT all trans women go on hormones. Some either have a naturally feminine appearance and just grow out their hair and use cosmetics and wardrobe to produce a morphologically feminine persona. Others have a series of procedures done that give them a physical appearance of a woman and so many in both of those categories retain the use of their genitals and their sex drive and I believe that a significant number of people doing porn with functional equipment belong to one of those two categories. Most of the adult entertainment industry though is illusion. In my youth I was frequently mistaken for a girl. Until I was almost 12 I had blond hair which for some reason turned dark as I entered puberty. My hair was very long and everyone thought I was a girl. Even in my twenties people sometimes thought I was just a tall woman and having an unusually (though not abnormally) high pitched voice (for an adult male) that contributed. But I found I could with some practice sound precisely like a teenage girl and so I got a job doing phone sex. I was "little April" for ten years back in the 1980's and when guy's started asking if I was a "shemale" I figured it was a good time to switch over to "Dominique the 'shemale' dominatrix." I did that for about two years and really just got tired of it. #1 fantasy was to be r*ped by a "shemale." #2 fantasy was to s*ck a big hard "shemale"... #3 fantasy was to "do" a "shemale." Every single last client without exception assumed all trans women had one that was big and always hard. I was never gender dysphoric. I simply looked very feminine and was somewhat effeminate in my mannerisms. In fact I have always been somewhat embarrassed by my diminutive endowment. Without making any effort nor having any real interest in doing so I can relate on a number of levels with trans women, especially now that I have a rather extreme case of ED to go alone with it. And despite never having been overweight to the point of obesity (extra 10 lbs in my preteen and teen years and extra 20 lbs for a while in my thirties but now back to a normal healthy weight), I have man boobs that would reasonably fill a B cup, I know because a girl I once dated insisted upon measuring them. For a while I wore a beard but stopped with that one day after a little girl said "Mommy, why does that lady have a beard?" That was more embarrassing than having people routinely call me "Ma'am." Of course now that I am in my sixties and having lost a lot of hair all I have to do to rock a Ben Franklin look is to gain 50 lbs.
Wow, very open and honest. I personally have found myself really into trans women having had several encounters and I must say, I agree with you. I can see this. Sadly, we don’t actually get to see the “real” trans women like yourself. Because honestly, had I met you, I’d have made an effort to definitely gotten to know you. Stay beautiful sweetie.
As an older guy (late 40,s) my sex drive isn't what it used to be . I have to admit I have often thought trans would be the perfect partner. Still the company of a woman without the pressure of sex . I still like sex when I do . But it's not on my priority of things to do anymore . What you described is how I sometimes feel 👍
Two problems...what if they are pre-op...still has penis? Not a true woman right? So when you do WANT sex...you going to help them reach orgasm too? JC
I did happen onto your video and I am glad that I did. I try hard to understand all sides of a subject; as questions of things I don't understand and take something away from each conversation. I must say that in the past several days; I have learned much about this subject and think you touched on the differences beautifully. I do wish you much success and look forward to watching more of your videos.
I think sex is sex and making love is making love trans or not. I really truly believe if you are with someone that you want to be with intimately you should really care about that person. It makes the passion so much better for each other. I trans woman does not want you to focus on her genitals she want you to focus on her mind and beauty. That is my thought anyway.
This ravishing,classy,cute,Anglo girl,teaches much about libido intensity appetite variations,and how these affect trans relations with their mates. My sincere respects from South America.
Hi Lee.Whether you are Transgender or straight, it doesn't matter, as long as the love is strong, then you are able to solve the problems together, because you are two, and in love two become one. that's how it is!😍😉
I so appreciate your presentations. You *actually* discuss sexual interactions and sexual orientation! It is so frustrating to listen to Trans cultists and those who have de-transitioned avoid these subjects. I am a much older gay man who has known and been friends with more than a few M2F Transsexuals' from the 1970's forward. Your honest and frank discussions remind me of their openness and honesty - something that is increasingly rare from younger people.
Hi Lee.. enjoyed this video and TALK so much. .ur such a wonderful young woman.. I was so incredibly in love with a young trans woman y yrs ago who described herself jus like u said..I miss her more than words can say..only woman I've ever truly loved in my life
I was an older trans that never came out. I have good friends and they wouldn't understand. I absolutely being with my men. Now I'm recovering from throat cancer, really got ugly and very sad. I always wanted to have a boyfriend that cared about me. My last wife emasculated me for 18 years. All I wanted was unconditional love. My friends help me out, now. I can relate with what you said about having feelings. I'm alone with my cat still lonely and wanting that love which I know will never happen.
I'm really glad you mentioned the porn part. I watched videos from several transfemale creators, but they all seem to overlook this important part. Also thanks to your recall of your personal experience I got to understand the situation better, and I feel I needed that. Thanks a lot for all of that!
You are SOOO brave! Well done. This was clearly a huge deal for you to talk about this. I can see you are driven to do this, because it is important, and you look like, you would rather be pulling your own teeth out. I empathise with you, because I take antidepressants for major depression, which suppresses my sex drive, I've had a vasectomy which did not help, I use a CPAC breather for sleep apnea, which is about as sexy as a car crash. There is a big part of me that would just love my sexuality to GO AWAY, but if I don't remain sexually active I CANNOT SLEEP. All of the above destroyed my marriage.... so yeah... not happy.
I gotta agree. I’m a straight male with an interest in trans women, and while I do still like cis women, I somewhat prefer trans women over them. I just see it was beauty in another form. Thank you for this educational video. 🙏🏻
I have seen many videos regarding trans-world, sex with trans - woman and I am usually left feeling disappointed. They never really "get to the point". YOU ARE DIFFERENT. I am very satisfied with your commentary, It was open and honest and informative- ALSO- you are 100% lovely. I wish you the best..
I am a cis man who had a minor brain tumor some years ago that gave me an extensive condition of prolactinoma - a condition which pretty much zeroes out the production of testosterone and overwhelms the body with estrogen instead. My medical treatment cured me, of course, but there was a period of time when I had zero sex drive. I was absolutely uninterested in sex. It was a very productive time for me professionally but, as you mention, something was DEFINITLY missing. I was relieved when my testosterone returned but am very aware how the testosterone/estrogen imbalance can make for a very crazy existence.
Thank you for making this video. The amount.of.courage you have is so incredible. I am thinking about transitioning myself and this info was so helpful. I appreciate you for sharing this your amazing.
Erections are a bit your mileage may vary, but there's definitely common occurrences. A lot of trans women don't get as hard as they did before hormones and struggle to maintain an erection. That being said, there's more to it than hormones just negatively impacting function. The way a trans women's brain approaches sex is fundamentally different. With testosterone your body always has desire for sex and arousal can be brought about by acting on desire. Estrogen flips it. The desire isn't there as often without being aroused prior to that and how arousal happens is different as well. Additionally, a penis will atrophy if it doesn't get erect enough. With testosterone, random night erections happen nightly to prevent atrophy and any additional use helps. Without testosterone, the nightly erections stop almost entirely for most trans women. It becomes a very "use it or lose it" situation. There's plenty of trans women who take hormones and maintain sexual function. Things like bottom dysphoria also play into the equation as well. It's a very complicated question due to the many factors going into it. It's true that estrogen and t-blockers will negatively impact sexual function for male sex organs but it isn't as cut and dry as taking hormones will completely stop your ability to get erect/top.
Sadly it's happened to.a few guys I knew. Their gaydar wasn't good enough or they had been drunk. There were either of 2 outcomes..the Trans person was viciously beaten 😔 or the guy got very depressed and hid home for a few weeks. I'm sis blue...and a romantic....I want all the colors of the rainbow 🌈 to find love and be loved. ❤
Dangerous for the woman yes. Still no way you can justify violence because of your hurt feelings. "Because they were trans" isn't a valid legal defense.
@@jaminova_1969 There is no woman. It's a guy deceiving a guy. Guys hit other guys when they get disrespected. Those are the rules we all learn. Fuck around and find out.
How about you don't beat people for wanting to fuck them? Not their fault, you're just weird. Dates aren't about having sex so why would you mention that if you're not planning on it??
Thank you for sharing all of that. I would hope that beyond all the negative things you have experienced that at some point you can gain control over the whole idea of what I consider to be a wonderful uniqueness. You are smart, beautiful and brave and I hope that you can find a great happiness in your future.
Thank you Lee. Really appreciate your openess snd honesty about your experienced emotionally and sexually. My first impression from stumbling onto your youtube post is thst you are a beautiful, 'normal', caring and intelligent human being. Any human being worth their salt would recognise that - & simply be happy to 'hang out' znd share their life with you - including, if and when they care enough to seek to have a loving sexual relationship with you, both they and you discover a passion like no other!!!! I truly hope snd pray there's someone REALLY loving and special out there who will gladly ask you out to dinner and be proud and excited to be able to share and laugh and love you as a fabulous lady ... to be loved, respected and protected. Good luck! ❤❤
I am very happy for your transformation. 65 years old next month. My life has been alot like yours except that I have been married to a wonderful cis-woman with our own four children, now adults for over 40 years. Not years as Woman but perhaps 25 years.
The extra kiss at the end made me chuckle. My introduction to the concept of transgenderism was not through porn but via a TV talk show (remember when watching TV was a thing?) way back in the 1980's. A line of women were on a set with an audience and a TV host. The ladies on the far left of the stage looked like fantasy swimsuit models, then there was a gradient to the far right where they were obviously men in drag, one of them bearded. The audience was set the task of determining where the dividing line lay between the "two genders". It struck me as unnecessarily cruel for the plain looking women just right of centre. So the audience votes were tallied up and the compere stood at the agreed dividing point. To his left were women, to his right were men, according to the vote. Then the kicker - all of the people in the line had been born "male". I was astonished, taken aback, gobsmacked. All the women on the far left were trans, and looked gorgeous. The gradient also included other trans women, some cross dressers, female impersonators and drag queens. One of the cross dressers was nearly in with the gorgeous models. It was the point in my life where I realised that my sexuality may not be simple.
Just wanted to say that you're a gem ,, you might want to try transdermal T patches directly on the "affected area" to keep the best of both... might work..
Lee, I am cis male in my early 60's, This is what I've learned in that time, Cis women and transwomen have one thing in common the word woman and should all be treated as such, you are a well spoken, intelligent woman(and pretty too), Someone i would like to get to know, and I would take you anywhere you would like to go., cis woman or trans woman you all have feeling too, great video.
not wanting to argue.. that's you definition... but how do you justify "Woman", and what to you is a "woman" Biology says clearly that when they have no biological prequicit to get pregnant, even it they are infertile ect... meaning there is no uterus or womb(i believe it's spelled in english?) in the human male, ergo just "(Hu)man", but when there is a womb in the human it decomes wo(mb Hu)man per definition the female(woman).. so no natural way to give life, and a Y chromosome from birth equals Man, XX gives the prefix WO to man single and men plural, that's how words also work.. I mean, just because that, I for instace choose to identify as a mulatto, bi-sexual, bottlenosed Dolphin, doesn't make me able to change my DNA, chromosomes or add melanin, correct? nor does me identifying as a dragomake me able to spit fire or identifying as an Appache helicopter make Me immune to drinking gas and able fly, either?! and before you start susing strawmen, I never said anything being bad about being Dolphins, bi-sexuals, Mulattos or Women... and I never insulted anyone of you, nor belittled you! also, "ad homenims"(I believe you call them) are not taken seriously, please stay true to biological facts and truths, not idiology or trying to change deffinitions of words, thank you.
Gender is a social construct, what is manly or womanly changes over time and from culture to culture. Why do you care in the first place? If someone wants present themselves in a certain way and they aren’t hurting someone, who cares? Go ahead and pretend to be a dolphin if you wish.
Hi, I don't know if you are fully aware of your presence but you are ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!! I'm serious!! YOU make the eyeballs happy to see you! Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤❤
I'm at a loss after hearing this. I am a cis male, mid 30's, and have been sexually active since 15. I find all different types of women, cis or not, attractive. I've enjoyed the company of women who are dominant, submissive, or both and switch those roles depending on mood. I've been "topped" by some of these ladies and I've been the "top" as well. There was respect given both ways, even if the relationship was driven more so by sex than emotional connection. We knew each others boundaries, and if we enjoyed it we indulged. However, based on my interpretation of what you were saying it makes me feel like if I were to be involved with a transwoman, if I were to want to be topped at times this would create an issue, and possibly call into question my respect for her as a person even though I enjoyed the same activities with cis women. I don't get it or perhaps my Asperger's is interfering with my understanding of this. If anyone could shed light on this for me or even point me to resources to help with my understanding I'd be very appreciative.
I wouldnt be insulted if a guy wanted me to be the top, it's how he asks that matters, just showing respect 😊 there is nothing wrong with being a top and trans. X
For me, personal preference and experiences, I couldn't be a top but also wouldn't think any less of a man if that's what he wants and I'ld expect the same courtesy in return. There's someone for everyone. ✌🙂❤
I am just starting my transition and I gotta be honest, this is probably the only thing that I'm honestly really worried about because I am currently in a relationship. I'm glad I know what is likely to happen so that I won't be too shocked and I'll be able to adjust accordingly, but I do hope that we will be able to maintain our sex lives at least somewhat.
I implore and truly hope you and others doing this will sincerely repent and turn back to Jesus Christ. Time is very short. Eternity is real and changing your gender is very costly for your eternity. This is something that isn't okay with God almighty. Dark spirits influence us from a young age constantly to do many things. Many of our impulses, mind, ways, inclinations. It is really demons influencing and whispering in the mind to go against the Almighty God and they have a variety of ways to do it. Changing the gender is one of them. If we die in this state of having unrepentant sin, we are taken to the place nobody wants to talk about and many don't know is real. Please repent, He can change you and make you feel good in your skin naturally, take away the desire to think you need to mutilate yourself, take artificial hormones that are very unhealthy, and make you think you need this to feel whole. It's an illusion. Cry out to Jesus Christ while there's still time and you still have breath in your lungs. Changing your gender can lead to hell if you don't repent and turn back. Others that were transgender have experienced total change in the most holistic and beautiful way and are so grateful. They are in best place of their lives bc of turning to Jesus Christ and going back to their God given gender.
I suspect this comment will not go over well at all on your channel but the intent is to give you some light. We get it you are in the trans community. In my view that is fine. If I knew you here is what it would be like. We would not be having a sex relationship. I would not mind being seen with you because we would be friends. As my friend I would treat you as a morally decent human being with value and feelings. The view from my social view is that I sometimes will be in an active relationship and will only have a sex relationship with my partner. It's just the view that in the event that we have children we will go and have a family to give them what they need to get a good start in life. So in summary. Not everybody has this set of values and views. But the belief is that diversity is a good thing and life itself is a creative sort of thing and it is interesting to see how our friends are doing with their life and how they make it today. I sympathize with your feelings of being used. And the message I would offer is this. Be more selective who you bed with and make friends with people that have respect and love as an integral and important part of the relationship. As always I wish you continue to make your life as you wish it to be and that you find the people in your life that truly are your friends and support group.
I admit. I have always watched Trans porn. However when I started to medically transition I could no longer watch it. It just did not feel right. I watch cis adult content now, because I really like cis men, but I'm terrified of them. They are the ones who bullied me my whole life. I want to date, but I'm afraid they are going to set me up to beat me or worse. So yeah, I live a lonely life.🙁
TRANS community crossed the line when they allowed schools to push young kids to transition who normally would not of. My oldest sibling was suicidal depressed for years before starting to transition. I would say therapy was probably a better route. Be who you want to be but one don't mess with kids and two make sure your doing it for you and not from community pressure.
If you were born a biological male you will remain male for your entire life. It doesn’t matter how many surgeries you get or how many hormones you take or how much you try and convince yourself or others, you are a man! I don’t care if a person is gay, secretly or out. But sex is not fluid. You are are either a male XY or female XX, and this fact you can NEVER CHANGE THAT FACT! Doesn’t mean we hate you, it just means God created man and woman and He loves you!
I'm a straight male and I'm really enjoying your videos you're very intelligent and any guy that can't be with you before dinner isn't really doing what you should do maybe I'm old school I like to date first before ever getting sexual
A straight male is not attracted to other biological males. That’s called gay which is perfectly fine but distinctly different from straight. Straight and gay are mutually exclusive.
Very cool. I am kind of going through that now. Well, at least the contemplation of it all. Just had my labs completed and hormones are doing super. That makes me feel good because, as you say,... I'm not thinking about sex 24/7. I haven't been intimate with anyone in a long time. It's taken a few years to see where my orientation would lie (no pun intended, ha!). And I know the realities of stopping HRT. No thanks. And while my face is much more rounded and the massive brow bone is much less, still without FFS an intimate partnership is probably going to be tough. We'll see. But I'm very curious about how to go about this in the working world. I'm between jobs, but I would really like my next job to begin with them knowing my intentions toward FFS. How do I do that? And what are the differences of being a gay guy and a trans woman in the workplace? Great thing's for you to talk about in your next video! Looking forward to it. Another question, if it's not too over the top.... So say by some miracle I find a guy out there. After awhile things start getting a little more heated. We inevitably end up going to the bedroom. But before then, at some point, I tell him about my "stuff" not seeming so excited, but that inside I'm very turned on. What is that like from the male perspective? I mean, as a functioning hetero male, it was always a goal to make the woman come. How does it effect the male physche if there are no indications of that (i.e I have no erection and I don't come as I did prior to HRT). How is that discussed so that it prevents problems in a budding relationship? Sorry, if that's to serious. Just curious. Thanks for the awesome vid. Very enjoyable. Love and Hugs from across the pond, Jackie 🌺💃
You can see more of me on my Instagram @leefrancis007
I love your change❤
Very informative and eye opening
If you had your ffs BBL laser hair removal electrolysis microdermabrasion fat transfer to the breast then you don't need to take those hormones regularly this maybe twice a month not even that Raven a TH-camr only takes her once a month check her out she's gorgeous
As for me I stopped taking the hormones I was taking him to the point milk was squirting out my breast now I have flabby Double D's or triple the women in my family are big I forgot that I'm 53 years old going to be 54 there's only so much feminization tools hormones are going to do so I have to take other treatments that are Surgical like ffs fat transfer to the breast and BBL microdermabrasion laser hair removal electrolysis and hair transplants I'm not taking those blockers or the estrogen anymore now I got normal erections and ejaculation and my strength is back but because I took those hormones everything else comes in like the fat in a female way
you're gorgeous, and i love your attitude! too bad i can't see you in person 😞
Lee, you do a great job covering what is a very sensitive and generally misunderstood subject.
Spot-on with all of this! I feel like you said things that you don't normally see in other places. There are so many misconceptions or preconceived notions that are incorrect. Thanks for addressing them!
Thank you Lee, I do not pretend to be very knowledgeable about your life and experiences, it is far different then mine, but I wish you love and happiness. Thank you for allowing me to learn and try to understand, you are a very caring person and I think you are wonderful.
Pegging is not exactly common with straight people. I think most straight women would find it weird, off putting even.
But prostate massage is more commonly accepted . You just dont use a willy ( real or otherwise )
@@MrTimjm009 women don't have a prostate
@@hllyenaylleth9576 not the brightest tool in the shed are you.
Just stumbled on your video, you come over as a lovely young sensitive women, bright, beautiful, and speak a lot of sense … hope you find true happiness and contentment in your life ….. you have so much time to find the right person and hope that you do 👍
Lee Francis, I think you're very wholesome and lovely. I can tell you're nervous a bit, but also somebody who's open and honest. Hang in there, babe. You're ok.
You’re really nice. If you haven’t found someone nice yet, just have patience and the right person will come along.
Bravo!!! i love how you presented this, as well you how you expressed yourself. Kudos, Lee. "Treat people the way you want to be treated. And just because a person doesnt look like us, doesnt give us the right to be superior to them."
Thank you for posting this video Lee. You seem like such a sensitive and intelligent person, on top of being very attractive, I find it heartbreaking to think there's someone who'd be embarrassed to take you out on a date or be seen in public with you. The straight world is so cruel and abusive. You don't deserve that at all. I think you're amazing. Stay strong woman. Thank you again for sharing yourself.
Lee, you are just fine the way you are and you're beautiful. Keep doing what you're doing, girl! You go girl!!!
I am a trans. I did some modeling years ago. men were interested and asked me out but when they tried to have sex with me I used to tell them about me, some of them were disappointed and left, but others were fascinated with me. I have a mature man who was very interested since the very beginning and took me just the way I am. I dress like a woman and I am happy.
Hey, love is love. When I was younger, I saw what I believe was a transgender woman in a crosswalk in Hillcrest. Friendliest, most beautiful smile I'd ever seen, very pretty. Given the opportunity, I'd have asked her out in a heartbeat. People are people. Glad you found happiness..
Chick with a dong cute
I am happy you found someone you loved
Every trans person I have met has been mean and hateful. Can't approach the person without a lot of money. To bad no real women left if you're not LGBTQ
congratulations!
Miss Francis, thank you for making this video. I feel sad that you have not met someone who will treasure you for who you are. You come across as a very warm, intelligent and thoughtful woman. I wish you the best and hope you do find what you are looking for and the emotional support you deserve
I am a Christian Conservative heterosexual Gen-X male. This was an interesting video and insightful, seeing the world through your eyes.
It was also refreshing in that it was NOT political or divisive. I think if more people just listened, it would be a better place to live.
I let you know that I was Gen-X for a reason... there was racism and sexism before our generation and after our generation. We were spared many of the problems other generations face.
We knew our gay friends were gay before they did. They got married and had kids before they came out and we didn't bat an eye. They were our friend in elementary school, and they are our friend still in our 50's. We don't give a F_ck!
Same with black people... they were just our friends, not our black friends. They did not want to be called African American, because they were just Americans who happened to be black.
Keep up the good work, I wish you happiness and fulfillment in life.
In other words you’re gay
@@PsychologyFacts-n-Trivia ya that’s all good ,but there is only two genders ,don’t fall for your thoughts being twisted on this scientific fact ,there are gay men and lesbian women and all those that fall in between ,at the end of the day you are a male or a female .
Same. Hetero guy in my mid-40s and this video was interesting and insightful. Lee is intelligent, a great communicator, and a great representative of people in general. Same wishes, to Lee and everyone willing to live peacefully and respectfully.
Way to breakdown the stereotype of a Christian-Conservative hetero Gen-X male. Good on you and thanks for the reminder that even conservative Christians can possess a personality with as much depth and complex nuance as many “liberal-minded” people. Thank you, as your comment reminded me to challenge my unconscious bias and the tendency to revert to primitive tribalism and the two dimensional over-simplification of those we perceive to be in opposition to us.
Christian?????
Extremely interesting. You probably made the most honest, intelligent, educative, understanding and sensitive video about this topic (this word topic here looks ugly… it’s not broad and beautiful enough to name the hole idea and feeling…. My first language is French unfortunately!)
You have such an angelic and feminine face… your voice is nice… You’re natural (by this I mean that you’re not overdoing it like a majority of MTF). You may find it funny, but I’m not even able to see a man when I look at your face (I tried 😝)! Beautiful and adorable 😊
Awwww thank you. Appreciate your comment x
Hey, Lee ... I'm a straight cis male in his 60's (who's never watched any tranny porn, by the way), but this video is EXACTLY why I've started following some of the TH-cam trans gals. I'm in a battle against prostate cancer (which has laughed off all the radiation they were willing to throw at it), and discovered that the meds I'm on (to reduce my testosterone to as close to zero as it can get - as the cancer "lives off of" testosterone) are in many cases the same as the hormone treatments for transitioning. For some reason, I've not found any straight guys doing videos about how this effects them. I've been on Lupron for four years now, and have not had an erection since my first shot of that, plus, in the past couple of years, my urologist has also added Abiraterone to the mix - something I've heard some gals mention. It is kind of odd that I have to follow trans gals here to get "compare and contrast" info on what's happening to my body ... but the meds involved (and the effects thereof) certainly come up al lot in these vids. Thanks for this one!
Sorry to hear about your situation. Yes the meds trans girls use are very similar to yours so the effects will be the same. I presume men feel a sense if shame which is why they don't put it out there. Has your body changed? Less hair, breast growth, feminized body shape? And emotional changes?
@@leefrancis007 Yeah, lots of changes ... led, of course by the total non-functioning (well, it still pees) of the equipment, which has also shrunk a good deal. I was never particularly furry, but the body hair (chest, legs, etc.) has become much finer and hardly noticeably. I've always been a chunky guy, so there hasn't been any breast growth per se, but I don't know if that would have been the case had I been lean going into this. Aside from the equipment issue, the worst thing has been the muscle mass loss. I used to have "Brutus" arms and they're looking more like "Olive Oyl" arms these days. I'm also a lot less intimidating than I used to be ... I no longer look like a moving wall that folks had best avoid ... plus my voice has lost its lower registers, so I no longer sound like "the pits of hell" when upset.
Not having the dysphoria to bring me to these changes makes all these things more regrettable ... but I guess not dying from the cancer (which seems to be totally controlled at this point) is a plus. The prostate cancer (at least as I have it) isn't even noticeable ... but left untreated it will metastasize to other systems, most notably to bone cancer, and I really would prefer NOT to get there. I have blood tests every couple of months to make sure my numbers look OK, and they did full-body bone scans of me before starting on the drugs to have a "baseline" to compare future scans to.
What's bizarre is that I never had any symptoms - just numbers of blood panel results. The only time I've felt sick was towards the end of my first round of radiation (well, if one doesn't count the very painful process of prostate biopsy, etc. ... hope I don't have to go through that again!). As these things go, I guess that's a win (I have friends who are currently going through breast and colon cancer currently, and it sounds like prostate cancer is a better deal than those).
Complete removal by surgery is not an option?? 😐😐😐😐😐
@@BrendanTripp I hope all is going very well for you.
@@John77Doe I've had two urologists who say they "live to cut" (and teach surgery at NMH), each tell me that with all the other physical issues I have, they would make that the last option.
Has a regular heterosexual male, Lee looks amazing in this video, and this is very insightful and educational. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much for the openness and honesty.
You are a Person who is beautiful on the inside. You are loved because of your Self. It's just a bonus that you are pretty. The right people love you no matter what, because you're You.
Amen i agree
Lee is gorgeous, isn't she? :)
He*
@@thrillhovanhouten253it’s only fake feminism looks
@@DREAMCRAFTMOVIES K.
Yes she is beautiful
You deserve someone that doesn't even want to do anything sexual with you .. A guy must appreciate you
Very intelligent video. You are able to articulate these types of things very well. You deserve respect no matter what. If I dated you I would treat you like any Cis girl. There are guys like me out there. No one should be treated as a fetish or fantasy objectified. You are a person like any other. I'd be proud to be seen with you.
Same here.
Thank you that’s appreciate
Thank you for a wonderful very informative and well done video on a very tough subject!
I am getting to know more trans people. It seems to be much easier to transition from female to male. Good luck with everything you do, and I hope that you can overcome all the things that vex you.
Hi, thanks for the extra kiss. Things are really bad for me atm so I appreciate it even when it wasn't specifically directed to me personally.
Best wishes from Australia, looking forward to your next vid 🥰💋❤
Well done. I have no issues with anyone's sexuality. I have many friends that I presumed were heterosexual and male only to find out after many years they were trans. Friendship is still just as strong and we still hang out together just as often. You are so correct, at the end of the day in spite of our sexual identity we all have the same feelings and deserve the respect that each of us seek.
This is so informative and eye opening, thank you for putting it out there.
I really enjoy Ms Francis' candidness... Her honesty andr relation to Her personal experience is not only refreshing but quite honestly sensual, at least to me... the peterman...
People over 20- can you remember even ONE "trans" kid growing up?? Me neither.
That's because they just made it up a few years ago.
@@Shadowman-1960 - Exactly.
Oh well of course not because people were so hostile towards them that they couldn't talk about it for risk of getting beaten or disowned. There were almost just as many trans people 20 years ago, you're just part of the problem why they weren't out
@@AshleyJoy-nd8ui - WRONG. You CAN'T change your gender. It's physically impossible. You can mutilate your privates, take hormones, etc but your choromosomes never change. 20 years ago most people weren't so easily gaslit, as you are now.
I agree with what you're saying. You are a brave person. You have done a wonderful with your life.
Being a sis guy and listening to you open up about being a person that’s trans is so enriching and rewarding. I have had trans friends that wanted a relationship but I didn’t even give them a chance. I now feel terrible now about that. Thanks for being so open.
the manmade vag is an open wound they have to keep open artificially and is prone to constant infection. Good luck
@@RocknRollDina Says the sex offender
A trans girl will never give you a child. Why have a relationship with he/she.
@@mbnyc5401Why not!!!??
@@mbnyc5401 maybe dont kids 😂
Thank you for your sincerity and keeping it real. Integrity is worthy of respect.
As a trans woman I can say most men are very rough with me and not always so gentle or caring about how I'm feeling.
The hard fast slamming & pounding you get from Most Men will Teash your Body & Internal Organs... Drag!!!
I would love to kiss you all over
It's better to be alone, than surrounded by those who don't see you
God knows how you came into my youtube feed. Glad you did though. Had no experience with trans people asfar as i know. My opinion of trans was what i saw on tv lately, men in beards wanting to dress as a woman and use womens spaces. I watched your video and now feel that maybe i was being bigoted by not being fully informed about trans women . You have my deepest repect Lee and thank you for educating me and being so open about your life.
Hi Lee , I watched you video today, and I was impressed. You presented your topic precisely, and did a fantastic job of explaining a very misunderstood issue. Thank you for your effort in making tis video.
I’ve learned a ton about your community from watching these videos. You’re gorgeous! You are also very intelligent and well spoken. Thank you for educating me, because I never knew any of this. Please keep up the great work!
You are very brave to talk about this!
I like your videos! They are so honest and always pointing the reality of transgender woman .
You helped me so much. I'm just a normal guy attracted to high femininity. My besty is trans female but it's more an online thing. I just wanted to say that not all men want the porn star or are only attracted to the boy part. I see you as highly feminine, emotional, deep and expressive and of course beautiful. That's what attracts me. Function etc doesn't matter. God bless you. Always be safe and happy xoxo
Strong, beautiful, and brave!!! Thank you for you woman 💖
I don't even know where to go with this. You can probably make a new video about this. I am a 53 year old trans girl that has been through PHYSICALLY everything you went through. I understand. I had a couple things you were lucky did not happen. Most of the things you went through I was spared. I have been with Bi women with the exception of the one straight woman that loved me since she was 15. If I had to do it over again I would. 18 years together. I am sad it is over. I know everything that went wrong. It would happen again if we had to do it all over. Just how all of us friends were back then in the days. If I gave her the first kiss today... the entire rest of our lives would be perfect.
So... Love the one you have. Do the best you can do... We learned from our experience communication is the most important thing. As soon as it wavers your relation is on the falling away.... As I was watching this right now... For the first time in my life I was thinking I wish I could have just dated you. I think we would have been great...
Because of this video I am now going to look for trans dating.
You are an amazing woman. I would love to meet you for lunch. I think you just changed my way of thinking.
I Think you helped many trans women more than you will ever know... Thank you so much.
As an older straight man who started taking T due to low levels, I can tell you that it changes you physically and mentally. It puts the libido into overdrive to the extent you can't think of anything else which lead to some risky behavior. It also changed my body, I was ripped and lean without even trying. I got off the T because due to the negative impacts and feel much better. My life is now focused on other things and I just have to work out more but will never achieve the look I got while on the T.
Very helpful and insightful. Very tough subject that you helped shed a lot of light on for me. Thanks for your great content!
Dear girl, live your life as you see it. If you want, find a nice partner, be loving, and get the most out of your life. make sure that you will never later feel that you have not taken opportunities in life
I would like to add that NOT all trans women go on hormones. Some either have a naturally feminine appearance and just grow out their hair and use cosmetics and wardrobe to produce a morphologically feminine persona. Others have a series of procedures done that give them a physical appearance of a woman and so many in both of those categories retain the use of their genitals and their sex drive and I believe that a significant number of people doing porn with functional equipment belong to one of those two categories. Most of the adult entertainment industry though is illusion. In my youth I was frequently mistaken for a girl. Until I was almost 12 I had blond hair which for some reason turned dark as I entered puberty. My hair was very long and everyone thought I was a girl. Even in my twenties people sometimes thought I was just a tall woman and having an unusually (though not abnormally) high pitched voice (for an adult male) that contributed. But I found I could with some practice sound precisely like a teenage girl and so I got a job doing phone sex. I was "little April" for ten years back in the 1980's and when guy's started asking if I was a "shemale" I figured it was a good time to switch over to "Dominique the 'shemale' dominatrix." I did that for about two years and really just got tired of it. #1 fantasy was to be r*ped by a "shemale." #2 fantasy was to s*ck a big hard "shemale"... #3 fantasy was to "do" a "shemale." Every single last client without exception assumed all trans women had one that was big and always hard. I was never gender dysphoric. I simply looked very feminine and was somewhat effeminate in my mannerisms. In fact I have always been somewhat embarrassed by my diminutive endowment. Without making any effort nor having any real interest in doing so I can relate on a number of levels with trans women, especially now that I have a rather extreme case of ED to go alone with it. And despite never having been overweight to the point of obesity (extra 10 lbs in my preteen and teen years and extra 20 lbs for a while in my thirties but now back to a normal healthy weight), I have man boobs that would reasonably fill a B cup, I know because a girl I once dated insisted upon measuring them. For a while I wore a beard but stopped with that one day after a little girl said "Mommy, why does that lady have a beard?" That was more embarrassing than having people routinely call me "Ma'am." Of course now that I am in my sixties and having lost a lot of hair all I have to do to rock a Ben Franklin look is to gain 50 lbs.
Wow, very open and honest. I personally have found myself really into trans women having had several encounters and I must say, I agree with you. I can see this. Sadly, we don’t actually get to see the “real” trans women like yourself. Because honestly, had I met you, I’d have made an effort to definitely gotten to know you. Stay beautiful sweetie.
As an older guy (late 40,s) my sex drive isn't what it used to be . I have to admit I have often thought trans would be the perfect partner. Still the company of a woman without the pressure of sex . I still like sex when I do . But it's not on my priority of things to do anymore . What you described is how I sometimes feel 👍
Two problems...what if they are
pre-op...still has penis? Not a true woman right? So when you do WANT sex...you going to help them reach orgasm too? JC
I did happen onto your video and I am glad that I did. I try hard to understand all sides of a subject; as questions of things I don't understand and take something away from each conversation. I must say that in the past several days; I have learned much about this subject and think you touched on the differences beautifully. I do wish you much success and look forward to watching more of your videos.
I think sex is sex and making love is making love trans or not. I really truly believe if you are with someone that you want to be with intimately you should really care about that person. It makes the passion so much better for each other. I trans woman does not want you to focus on her genitals she want you to focus on her mind and beauty. That is my thought anyway.
This ravishing,classy,cute,Anglo girl,teaches much about libido intensity appetite variations,and how these affect trans relations with their mates. My sincere respects from South America.
Hi Lee.Whether you are Transgender or straight, it doesn't matter, as long as the love is strong, then you are able to solve the problems together, because you are two, and in love two become one. that's how it is!😍😉
I love this. Thank you.
@@sylviaesparza3122 😍😘
DUH
I so appreciate your presentations. You *actually* discuss sexual interactions and sexual orientation! It is so frustrating to listen to Trans cultists and those who have de-transitioned avoid these subjects. I am a much older gay man who has known and been friends with more than a few M2F Transsexuals' from the 1970's forward. Your honest and frank discussions remind me of their openness and honesty - something that is increasingly rare from younger people.
Hi Lee.. enjoyed this video and TALK so much. .ur such a wonderful young woman.. I was so incredibly in love with a young trans woman y yrs ago who described herself jus like u said..I miss her more than words can say..only woman I've ever truly loved in my life
I was an older trans that never came out. I have good friends and they wouldn't understand. I absolutely being with my men. Now I'm recovering from throat cancer, really got ugly and very sad. I always wanted to have a boyfriend that cared about me. My last wife emasculated me for 18 years. All I wanted was unconditional love. My friends help me out, now. I can relate with what you said about having feelings. I'm alone with my cat still lonely and wanting that love which I know will never happen.
Thanks. Very informative. I can hear your nervousness in your voice. Takes a brave person to speak out . Your adorable and thanks 😊
I'm really glad you mentioned the porn part. I watched videos from several transfemale creators, but they all seem to overlook this important part. Also thanks to your recall of your personal experience I got to understand the situation better, and I feel I needed that. Thanks a lot for all of that!
You are SOOO brave! Well done. This was clearly a huge deal for you to talk about this. I can see you are driven to do this, because it is important, and you look like, you would rather be pulling your own teeth out.
I empathise with you, because I take antidepressants for major depression, which suppresses my sex drive, I've had a vasectomy which did not help, I use a CPAC breather for sleep apnea, which is about as sexy as a car crash.
There is a big part of me that would just love my sexuality to GO AWAY, but if I don't remain sexually active I CANNOT SLEEP. All of the above destroyed my marriage.... so yeah... not happy.
yep i feel you
I'm starting to understand what you are saying, thank you for your information ❤🎉😊
I gotta agree. I’m a straight male with an interest in trans women, and while I do still like cis women, I somewhat prefer trans women over them. I just see it was beauty in another form. Thank you for this educational video. 🙏🏻
I have seen many videos regarding trans-world, sex with trans - woman and I am usually left feeling disappointed. They never really "get to the point". YOU ARE DIFFERENT. I am very satisfied with your commentary, It was open and honest and informative- ALSO- you are 100% lovely. I wish you the best..
I love her! Am I bisexual!?
You could be lesbian if you are a cisgender girl. And if you are a cisgender boy then you could be straight.
I am a cis man who had a minor brain tumor some years ago that gave me an extensive condition of prolactinoma - a condition which pretty much zeroes out the production of testosterone and overwhelms the body with estrogen instead.
My medical treatment cured me, of course, but there was a period of time when I had zero sex drive. I was absolutely uninterested in sex. It was a very productive time for me professionally but, as you mention, something was DEFINITLY missing. I was relieved when my testosterone returned but am very aware how the testosterone/estrogen imbalance can make for a very crazy existence.
Thank you for making this video. The amount.of.courage you have is so incredible. I am thinking about transitioning myself and this info was so helpful. I appreciate you for sharing this your amazing.
I totally concur. An inciteful video. As a translesbian who is pre-op and 56 its kinda out of my hands 😆
Erections are a bit your mileage may vary, but there's definitely common occurrences. A lot of trans women don't get as hard as they did before hormones and struggle to maintain an erection. That being said, there's more to it than hormones just negatively impacting function. The way a trans women's brain approaches sex is fundamentally different. With testosterone your body always has desire for sex and arousal can be brought about by acting on desire. Estrogen flips it. The desire isn't there as often without being aroused prior to that and how arousal happens is different as well.
Additionally, a penis will atrophy if it doesn't get erect enough. With testosterone, random night erections happen nightly to prevent atrophy and any additional use helps. Without testosterone, the nightly erections stop almost entirely for most trans women. It becomes a very "use it or lose it" situation. There's plenty of trans women who take hormones and maintain sexual function.
Things like bottom dysphoria also play into the equation as well. It's a very complicated question due to the many factors going into it. It's true that estrogen and t-blockers will negatively impact sexual function for male sex organs but it isn't as cut and dry as taking hormones will completely stop your ability to get erect/top.
what a wonderful lady, very informative ,lots of love to you lee .keep up the goodwork xxxxxx
Its a bloke not a girl born a man
Going on a “stealth” date with a hetero guy is both deceptive and extremely dangerous. Humiliating a guy in any sexual way could end in violence.
You are right, it's an extremely bad idea. I would be enraged if I was tricked, as would many men.
Sadly it's happened to.a few guys I knew. Their gaydar wasn't good enough or they had been drunk. There were either of 2 outcomes..the Trans person was viciously beaten 😔 or the guy got very depressed and hid home for a few weeks. I'm sis blue...and a romantic....I want all the colors of the rainbow 🌈 to find love and be loved. ❤
Dangerous for the woman yes. Still no way you can justify violence because of your hurt feelings. "Because they were trans" isn't a valid legal defense.
@@jaminova_1969 There is no woman. It's a guy deceiving a guy. Guys hit other guys when they get disrespected. Those are the rules we all learn. Fuck around and find out.
How about you don't beat people for wanting to fuck them? Not their fault, you're just weird. Dates aren't about having sex so why would you mention that if you're not planning on it??
Hey Lee, Good for you, telling people like it is. You're a sweetie. Have a good day.
Thank you for sharing all of that. I would hope that beyond all the negative things you have experienced that at some point you can gain control over the whole idea of what I consider to be a wonderful uniqueness. You are smart, beautiful and brave and I hope that you can find a great happiness in your future.
So many things I'm learning but still want to finally transition.
Thank you so much. Confidence booster!!!
Thank you Lee. Really appreciate your openess snd honesty about your experienced emotionally and sexually. My first impression from stumbling onto your youtube post is thst you are a beautiful, 'normal', caring and intelligent human being.
Any human being worth their salt would recognise that - & simply be happy to 'hang out' znd share their life with you - including, if and when they care enough to seek to have a loving sexual relationship with you, both they and you discover a passion like no other!!!!
I truly hope snd pray there's someone REALLY loving and special out there who will gladly ask you out to dinner and be proud and excited to be able to share and laugh and love you as a fabulous lady ... to be loved, respected and protected. Good luck! ❤❤
Can u talk about how porn industry looks a trans girl like only an sexual toy just for have fun, and not for love as a girlfriend please
I am very happy for your transformation. 65 years old next month. My life has been alot like yours except that I have been married to a wonderful cis-woman with our own four children, now adults for over 40 years. Not years as Woman but perhaps 25 years.
The extra kiss at the end made me chuckle.
My introduction to the concept of transgenderism was not through porn but via a TV talk show (remember when watching TV was a thing?) way back in the 1980's. A line of women were on a set with an audience and a TV host. The ladies on the far left of the stage looked like fantasy swimsuit models, then there was a gradient to the far right where they were obviously men in drag, one of them bearded.
The audience was set the task of determining where the dividing line lay between the "two genders". It struck me as unnecessarily cruel for the plain looking women just right of centre.
So the audience votes were tallied up and the compere stood at the agreed dividing point. To his left were women, to his right were men, according to the vote. Then the kicker - all of the people in the line had been born "male". I was astonished, taken aback, gobsmacked. All the women on the far left were trans, and looked gorgeous. The gradient also included other trans women, some cross dressers, female impersonators and drag queens. One of the cross dressers was nearly in with the gorgeous models.
It was the point in my life where I realised that my sexuality may not be simple.
Wooow that's fascinating! Only in the 80s huh? Hehe x
Just wanted to say that you're a gem ,, you might want to try transdermal T patches directly on the "affected area" to keep the best of both... might work..
They dont do those in my country unfortunately
Lee, I am cis male in my early 60's, This is what I've learned in that time, Cis women and transwomen have one thing in common the word woman and should all be treated as such, you are a well spoken, intelligent woman(and pretty too), Someone i would like to get to know, and I would take you anywhere you would like to go., cis woman or trans woman you all have feeling too, great video.
@@transwomenaresexistmen Ok ogre.
I'm a CIS male approaching 70 and I couldn't have said it better myself. Lee, It would be my honor to know you.
not wanting to argue.. that's you definition... but how do you justify "Woman", and what to you is a "woman"
Biology says clearly that when they have no biological prequicit to get pregnant, even it they are infertile ect... meaning there is no uterus or womb(i believe it's spelled in english?) in the human male, ergo just "(Hu)man", but when there is a womb in the human it decomes wo(mb Hu)man per definition the female(woman).. so no natural way to give life, and a Y chromosome from birth equals Man, XX gives the prefix WO to man single and men plural, that's how words also work..
I mean, just because that, I for instace choose to identify as a mulatto, bi-sexual, bottlenosed Dolphin, doesn't make me able to change my DNA, chromosomes or add melanin, correct?
nor does me identifying as a dragomake me able to spit fire or identifying as an Appache helicopter make Me immune to drinking gas and able fly, either?!
and before you start susing strawmen, I never said anything being bad about being Dolphins, bi-sexuals, Mulattos or Women... and I never insulted anyone of you, nor belittled you!
also, "ad homenims"(I believe you call them) are not taken seriously, please stay true to biological facts and truths, not idiology or trying to change deffinitions of words, thank you.
Can't be cis male, only one meaning for the word male, don't need the cis bullshit.
Gender is a social construct, what is manly or womanly changes over time and from culture to culture.
Why do you care in the first place?
If someone wants present themselves in a certain way and they aren’t hurting someone, who cares?
Go ahead and pretend to be a dolphin if you wish.
Hi, I don't know if you are fully aware of your presence but you are ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!! I'm serious!! YOU make the eyeballs happy to see you! Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤❤
I’m a trans woman myself as I’m brave to live my new life.
Sex is always best when both parties understand and agree to an intimate connection. Whatever form that takes. ❤
I'm at a loss after hearing this. I am a cis male, mid 30's, and have been sexually active since 15. I find all different types of women, cis or not, attractive. I've enjoyed the company of women who are dominant, submissive, or both and switch those roles depending on mood. I've been "topped" by some of these ladies and I've been the "top" as well. There was respect given both ways, even if the relationship was driven more so by sex than emotional connection. We knew each others boundaries, and if we enjoyed it we indulged. However, based on my interpretation of what you were saying it makes me feel like if I were to be involved with a transwoman, if I were to want to be topped at times this would create an issue, and possibly call into question my respect for her as a person even though I enjoyed the same activities with cis women. I don't get it or perhaps my Asperger's is interfering with my understanding of this. If anyone could shed light on this for me or even point me to resources to help with my understanding I'd be very appreciative.
I wouldnt be insulted if a guy wanted me to be the top, it's how he asks that matters, just showing respect 😊 there is nothing wrong with being a top and trans. X
@@leefrancis007 I follow ya, it all comes down to respect & that's never been an issue for me. Thanks for replying 😊
For me, personal preference and experiences, I couldn't be a top but also wouldn't think any less of a man if that's what he wants and I'ld expect the same courtesy in return.
There's someone for everyone.
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This was quite interesting and enlightening. Thank you for sharing your truth.
I am just starting my transition and I gotta be honest, this is probably the only thing that I'm honestly really worried about because I am currently in a relationship. I'm glad I know what is likely to happen so that I won't be too shocked and I'll be able to adjust accordingly, but I do hope that we will be able to maintain our sex lives at least somewhat.
I implore and truly hope you and others doing this will sincerely repent and turn back to Jesus Christ. Time is very short. Eternity is real and changing your gender is very costly for your eternity. This is something that isn't okay with God almighty. Dark spirits influence us from a young age constantly to do many things. Many of our impulses, mind, ways, inclinations. It is really demons influencing and whispering in the mind to go against the Almighty God and they have a variety of ways to do it. Changing the gender is one of them.
If we die in this state of having unrepentant sin, we are taken to the place nobody wants to talk about and many don't know is real. Please repent, He can change you and make you feel good in your skin naturally, take away the desire to think you need to mutilate yourself, take artificial hormones that are very unhealthy, and make you think you need this to feel whole. It's an illusion. Cry out to Jesus Christ while there's still time and you still have breath in your lungs. Changing your gender can lead to hell if you don't repent and turn back. Others that were transgender have experienced total change in the most holistic and beautiful way and are so grateful. They are in best place of their lives bc of turning to Jesus Christ and going back to their God given gender.
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@@souldesire5932 I serve the devil.
Nice to meet other transitioning girls 💕
There are not only young transgirls. I'm transitioned since 35 years. So i'm an adult Transwoman.
I suspect this comment will not go over well at all on your channel but the intent is to give you some light.
We get it you are in the trans community. In my view that is fine.
If I knew you here is what it would be like.
We would not be having a sex relationship.
I would not mind being seen with you because we would be friends.
As my friend I would treat you as a morally decent human being with value and feelings.
The view from my social view is that I sometimes will be in an active relationship and will only have a sex relationship with my partner. It's just the view that in the event that we have children we will go and have a family to give them what they need to get a good start in life.
So in summary. Not everybody has this set of values and views. But the belief is that diversity is a good thing and life itself is a creative sort of thing and it is interesting to see how our friends are doing with their life and how they make it today.
I sympathize with your feelings of being used. And the message I would offer is this. Be more selective who you bed with and make friends with people that have respect and love as an integral and important part of the relationship.
As always I wish you continue to make your life as you wish it to be and that you find the people in your life that truly are your friends and support group.
from what we hear your transition is a real success
I admit. I have always watched Trans porn. However when I started to medically transition I could no longer watch it. It just did not feel right. I watch cis adult content now, because I really like cis men, but I'm terrified of them. They are the ones who bullied me my whole life. I want to date, but I'm afraid they are going to set me up to beat me or worse. So yeah, I live a lonely life.🙁
I hear you sista, same.
Sorry to hear ☹
You can only be yourself. It takes most people a very long time to figure that out. Good on you and I wish you all the success in the world.
TRANS community crossed the line when they allowed schools to push young kids to transition who normally would not of.
My oldest sibling was suicidal depressed for years before starting to transition. I would say therapy was probably a better route.
Be who you want to be but one don't mess with kids and two make sure your doing it for you and not from community pressure.
Very true👍💪 don't mess us with our kids
I am bi but way more attracted to trans, I am married so a bi trans would hugely be considered for a poly with us
You're a beauty, I have a crush 😍
You are to pretty. Hmu
You're an absolutely beautiful trance woman and very brave to make this informative an educational video.
If you were born a biological male you will remain male for your entire life. It doesn’t matter how many surgeries you get or how many hormones you take or how much you try and convince yourself or others, you are a man! I don’t care if a person is gay, secretly or out. But sex is not fluid. You are are either a male XY or female XX, and this fact you can NEVER CHANGE THAT FACT! Doesn’t mean we hate you, it just means God created man and woman and He loves you!
My heart ❤️ goes out to you Lee. Here's to hoping for a better tomorrow.
This is absolutely sickening
lol
I'm a straight male and I'm really enjoying your videos you're very intelligent and any guy that can't be with you before dinner isn't really doing what you should do maybe I'm old school I like to date first before ever getting sexual
A straight male is not attracted to other biological males. That’s called gay which is perfectly fine but distinctly different from straight. Straight and gay are mutually exclusive.
@@prerunning6086 yeah I kind of know that I've been married for 22 years
She is smart
I admire you for being so honest. You are a beautiful women. It does sound confusing. I wish you happiness
Very cool. I am kind of going through that now. Well, at least the contemplation of it all. Just had my labs completed and hormones are doing super. That makes me feel good because, as you say,... I'm not thinking about sex 24/7. I haven't been intimate with anyone in a long time. It's taken a few years to see where my orientation would lie (no pun intended, ha!). And I know the realities of stopping HRT. No thanks. And while my face is much more rounded and the massive brow bone is much less, still without FFS an intimate partnership is probably going to be tough. We'll see.
But I'm very curious about how to go about this in the working world.
I'm between jobs, but I would really like my next job to begin with them knowing my intentions toward FFS.
How do I do that? And what are the differences of being a gay guy and a trans woman in the workplace?
Great thing's for you to talk about in your next video! Looking forward to it.
Another question, if it's not too over the top.... So say by some miracle I find a guy out there. After awhile things start getting a little more heated. We inevitably end up going to the bedroom. But before then, at some point, I tell him about my "stuff" not seeming so excited, but that inside I'm very turned on. What is that like from the male perspective? I mean, as a functioning hetero male, it was always a goal to make the woman come. How does it effect the male physche if there are no indications of that (i.e I have no erection and I don't come as I did prior to HRT). How is that discussed so that it prevents problems in a budding relationship?
Sorry, if that's to serious. Just curious. Thanks for the awesome vid. Very enjoyable. Love and Hugs from across the pond, Jackie 🌺💃
Wow ur honesty is outstanding. Continued success and happiness
Great advice. You're amazing.
Beautiful Lee. Thank you for your candidness.